Meet Parishioners Betty And John Gdovin

Though they have only been parishioners at St. Timothy for five years, parishioners Betty and John Gdovin have quickly become true exemplars of stewardship within our faith community. Betty is perpetually using her creativity for others — baking sweet treats, sewing with Creative Hands, and creating beautiful cards for the elderly — while John shines forth as an example of quiet fortitude through his commitment to prayer and faith formation.

Both born to Czechoslovakian families who immigrated to America through Ellis Island, New York, Betty and John each grew up in devout Catholic households.

“They were very humble, hardworking, and had a great love for God,” Betty says. “John came from a family of 11 children, though he and his sister Helen are the only two left living. Helen celebrated her 100th birthday on Feb. 29 and is so amazing.”

John and Betty were married 65 years ago on Feb. 19, 1955. They have been blessed with three daughters and two grandchildren. Over the course of their marriage they’ve experienced their fair share of trials, most notably the sudden death of their daughter, Debra, in 2006. This was a particularly trying time for Betty and John, causing them to question their faith. Yet, they persevered, describing faith and their activism in the Church today as a bedrock in their lives.

“We worked hard to find our faith again with prayer after Debbie’s unexpected passing and now we are very strong,” Betty says. “Stewardship has played a big part in this, making us feel stronger towards God and each other.”

The couple has chosen to live out stewardship in a wide variety of ways over the years, both here in Florida and previously at their parish in Meriden, Conn. They have served as Eucharistic Ministers, helped prepare dinners, been committed Eucharistic adorers, and have served in the Hospitality ministry. John has been an usher and, until recently, a faithful Bible study participant, while Betty joyfully pitches in whenever she can, be it helping with children and teen projects, making clothes for children in need, or attending a Women’s Club meeting. Each of these offerings has helped the couple draw closer to God, each other, and their faith community.

“Stewardship has made me feel closer to God,” Betty says. “Being at St. Tim’s, in particular, has been a wonderful experience, providing us with a sense of closeness and making us feel part of a larger family.”

“It’s just a great feeling to help others and serve God,” John adds. “Not being able to be as involved recently due to health issues has left me feeling a bit lost.”

Though the journey hasn’t always been easy, the couple remains thankful for God’s many blessings. They look forward to continuing to serve in whatever ways they can and inviting others to join them in the vineyard.

“We’ve been through 65 years of ups and downs, and God keeps blessing us in many ways,” Betty says. “I would extend an invitation to others to please join us by getting involved in the church. It truly enriches your lives in so many ways.”