Kappa Phi Eta Memory Book

Memories

kappa phi eta 50th Reunion | 1965-2015

Christina (Kile) Allen – Class of 1980 5959 Windy Knoll Court Loves Park, IL 61111 (815) 222-6247

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Teacher, tumbling and trampoline judge What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Screw your roommate party If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Powder-puff football game against the Kappa Chi’s.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I am retiring after 35 years of teaching and looking forward to what the future brings! I have an amazing son, Kile, who is a stunt man at Disney.

Lee Ann (Lambrecht) Banks - Class of 1976 1614 Armistead Drive Kernersville, NC 27284 (336) 972-2703 Llambr6614@cs.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Administrative assistant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Wife, mom, nana What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

When I became a pledge.

Camille (Camie) (Brynjulfson) Bland – Class of 1995 1841 Stageline Circle Rocklin, CA 95765 (916) 253-9828 ericcamiebland@hotmail.com

Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Stay at home mom, and school and church volunteer Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Karla Krupka Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Kris Pachal What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-lines If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

‘70’s disco walkout Personal Message for the Memory Book: Eric and I moved to northern California in late 2012 and have found much happiness here. We have two children, Tabitha who is 13, and Evan who will be turning 9 this month. We enjoy the beautiful weather, the ocean, the mountains and the California lifestyle, but are still, and will always be, Midwesterners at heart. I was so hoping to fly back for the 50th anniversary, but family life and end of the school year schedules made that not possible. I want to send my love to all of my sisters from 1992-1995 and all the K-Phis. Have a fabulous time in celebrating together girls. See you all at the 60th. Many blessings.

In K-Phi love and mine.

Kathy (Sawtell) Bliven – Class of 1977 8311 Solar Avenue Schofield, WI 54476 (715) 359-4814 tkbliv@frontier.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): International claims processor - Footlocker Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Wife, mom, nana Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Sherry Johnson Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Mardi (Schuenlce) Freeman, and Judy (Smucker) Haseman What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Weekend away with the pledges If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

When I learned I would be accepted as a pledge Personal Message for the Memory Book: We are looking forward to retirement and enjoying our granddaughters. Ella (5) Quinn (2)

Diana Booth – Class of 1979 11589 West 11th Street Zion, IL 60099 (847) 903-3308 Boothbunch1224@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Associate registrar Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Director of the Booth Household and Kitchen Services What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The special ceremonies If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

The ceremony when we were accepted into the K-phi sisterhood.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Attending Carthage College, being a member of Kappa Phi Eta, and all the special friendships influenced who I am today. It was a safe place that prepared me for adulthood and a wonderful experience that provided blessings beyond measure. After all, that’s where I met my husband!

Diana Sahagian (mom) and Nancy Ries (daughter)

K-phi Girls

Diana Sahagian, Nancy, Lisa Foster, and Betsy Bond

Donna, Diana, and Cheryl

Diana Sahagian, Nancy, Lisa Foster, Betsy Bond, Karen, Nancy, Sue, Barb, Sue, and Jeanine

Michelle (Shelly) Bremer – Class of 1980 1103 Stratford Court Apt. D Elgin, IL 60120 (847) 997-5380 shellybremer@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Demo manager for NEC Display Solutions What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kappa Kapers If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

1980 rose banquet

Rev. Kathleen (Rowe) Bruns – Class of 1968 516 N. Union Avenue Fergus Falls, MN 56537 (218) 736-4630 pastorkate@prtel.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Pastor Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

I was one of the founding sisters.

What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Meeting in the Denhart lounge, discussing what Greek letters meant and what we wanted our new sorority to exemplify—we chose well.

Peggy Buehler – Class of 2003 12033 E. Center Street, Apt. B Rochester, MN 55904 (507) 208-8558 peggybuehler@hotmail

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Project management assistant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): World’s best auntie Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Tonya Davison Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Wendy Given What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Mom ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

I would choose them all; our sisterhood was formed over many memories and moments. I wouldn’t want to miss any.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I have two beautiful nieces and two handsome nephews. When I’m not working or hanging out with them, I love cheering for the Cleveland Indians!

Laurie (Osprom) Byrge – Class of 1972 1206 Willowgate Lane Saint Charles, IL 60174 (630) 945-3280 lbygre@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Pharmacy assistant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do any way): We lovingly care for my mother who has dementia.

What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The yellow rose ceremony after pledging If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

1969 K-phi summer pool retreat as my house.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I treasure the good memories and the close bond from my fellow K-phi Sisters. I met my loving husband, Ken, at Carthage in 1968, and he is the joy of my life. In 1971 we were married and Debbie (Knowlan) Worthington, was one of my beautiful bridesmaids. Debbie and I have enjoyed keeping in touch. Our life is blessed with two amazing daughters and one grandson. Our oldest daughter, Lisa, just graduated with her PhD from Indiana University. Our youngest daughter, Amy, is an architect in Minneapolis. Our grandson, Elliot, just turned two and he has stolen our hearts. We try to find every opportunity to spend time with our family. I have many interests that keep me busy besides care giving. I am a member of a neighborhood book club. I love photography, gardening, traveling, baking, and knitting.

Jessica Collins – Class of 2001 1709 W. Crescent Avenue Park Ridge, IL 60068 (847) 732-9030 jcollins@havedreams.org

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Special education consultant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Advocate for education What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Hayride!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: K-phi has meant so much to me over the years. We may have left the school but we never leave our sisters.

Kelsey Lauren Crocker - Class of 2014 4902 Pine Meadow Parkway, Apt 2 Loves Park, IL 61111 kcrocker@carthage.edu

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Medical Scribe, EMT Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Paley Nordlof Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Pamela Costis What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose banquet If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Initiating all 16 pledges into Kappa Phi Eta in spring 2014. It made me feel like I had been a successful pledge mistress.

Jesse Daniel – Class of 2014 5829 Suffolk Road Madison, WI 53711 (608) 577-8356 Jdaniel2790@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Telesales specialist Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Drawing What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose banquet If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Pledging and initiation because it was a time where I was able to bond with my sisters and build memories.

Janice (Ryden) Deaton – Class of 1974 3017 94th Place Pleasant Prairie, WI 53158 (262) 652-1947 deaton-janice@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Doting grandmother Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Becky Diemer Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Marva Oechler Tetting What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Ceremonies

Katie (Reider) Deinken – Class of 2003 418 Jennifer Lane Grayslake, IL 60030 (847) 668-6276 katierieder@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Communications at Allstate

Kristine Leigh Dietrich – Class of 1983 N84W14582 Menomonee Avenue Menomonee Falls, WI 53051 (262) 313-7330

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Professional clown, direct support professional Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Water color, oil paint, clowning, and travel Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Diane Shurk Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Due Dahl What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Running around singing K-phi song and Kappa Kappers Personal Message for the Memory Book: I’ve traveled to over a dozen countries and visited all except nine states of the United States of America. It is a wonderful experience to learn about and appreciate different cultures.

Patricia (Pat) Dunn – Class of 1987 2215 Greenbriar Road Springfield, IL 62704 (217) 787-5324 jpkdunn@aol.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Pediatric physical therapist Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): International Bible Study Fellowship (BSF) What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Dances and formals If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Hanging out with Kappa Phi Eta friends on the floor, usually in Linda Kohl’s room with her guitar and singing amazing folk songs in our two or three part harmony several nights per week.

Now, some of us get together every other year to celebrate our friendships, thanks to the organization skills of a former president, Anne (Crane) Morgan. “And the Best Part is the Singing”.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: There continue to be so many blessings from my four years at Carthage College. I am so pleased that my husband, Jim and daughter, Katherine know so many of my alumni friends, traditions and joys from Carthage days. There was nothing better on earth than the friends, the Kappa Phi Eta sisters and traditions, the professors, worship & chapels, Pastor Riggle, the lake and the parkland, the snow, the J terms, and the readiness for post-graduate studies. As I told my parents many times over the years, I will be forever grateful for my four years at Carthage.

Penny (Peterson) Durban – Class of 1968 13955 Marygold Court Chesterfield, MO 63017 Durban383@aol.com (314) 878-2443

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Psychotherapist Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Tutoring What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Probably the rose banquet If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Living daily with my close friends who were K-phis.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Each person you meet has the chance to help you along life’s journey either by being someone you help or someone who is helping you. My Carthage experience was full of both!

Pamela (Tsuchiya) Durkin – Class of 1983 344 Streamview Way Winter Springs, FL 32708 (321) 947-1704 pytdurkin@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Marketing specialist and business operations manager Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Gardener, caretaker, housekeeper, pet sitter, and pooper scooper What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Pledging, rose banquet, the formals, Kappa Kapers, KICK-LINE ď Š If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Powder-puff football!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: May the road rise to meet you.

May the wind be always at your back.

May the sun shine warm upon your face.

And rains fall soft upon your fields.

And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.

Wish I could be there!

Michelle Federschmidt – Class of 2008 2637 West Crystal Street #3 Chicago, IL 60622 (630) 217-6655 michellemary86@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Restaurant manager What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Definitely rose banquet!

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Activation was on my birthday freshman year and such an amazing memory I would love to experience again.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: 10 years after I pledged and I'm thankful all the time for the fun and friends I experienced through Kappa Phi Eta. K-PHI or DIE!!

After Mr. $1.98

Hayride Kick-line

Activation Spring ‘04

Carly Fier – Class of 2014 3 W. Orchard Place Mount Prospect, IL 60056 (847) 818- 8613 carlyfier@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Benefits verification representative at CVS Caremark Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Justine Kennedy Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Samantha Fournier What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Pledge activation If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

The day I was activated into K-phi, I was so excited of what was to come and all the fun I would have!

Susan Ann (Ahlstrand) Fischer – Class of 1968 4204 Marsh Avenue Rockford, IL 61114 (815) 877-8412 fgramba@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired (University of Illinois) Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Volunteer at Midway Village Museum Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Charter member What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

I enjoyed them all.

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

When I became a K-phi.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I met my husband, Bob, of 47 years at Carthage. He was a member of Delta Omega Nu. We love to cruise and have visited more than 36 countries. We have a daughter, Heather (husband Don), four grandchildren: Tabitha (husband Dave), Malachi, Bailey and Laila, and a great grandson, Raiden. I enjoy gardening, scrapbooking, quilting, genealogy and tole/oil painting. I wish all my K-phi sisters continued success as you carry on our traditions

Carol (Ketter) Gattolin – Class of 1967 6554 Foxworth Lane Gurnee, IL 60031 (847) 814-2677 Cjg771@aol.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired science teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Try to be a blessing because I have been so blessed.

What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kappa Phi Eta kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Activation of the first pledge class.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Thank our gracious God for all his blessings to us including the privilege and joy of our Kappa Phi Eta sisterhood experience.

Holly (Anderson) Gansz- Class of 1967 909 South Prospect Avenue Park Ridge, IL 60068 (847) 698-3610 hgansz@sbcglobal.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired physical education specialist retired Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Following my dreams What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

I am most impressed by the fact the all the traditions created by charter members, (thanks to Myra Hawkinson) and the next few classes remain with the K-phi's today. Some are updated and jazzed up but survive as the basis of all things Kappa Phi Eta. If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

I always shed a tear for every yellow rose I see. The symbol is so striking, meaningful, and memory laden that I stop and reflect on Kappa Phi Eta, my friendships and sisters. It brings great joy to my heart. I also planted a garden full of yellow roses several years ago, which bloom with great energy all summer.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I believe that Kappa Phi Eta lives on today because of the dedication of sisters hard work, friendships, sharing, and love that continue to link us together over time. I also believe that I have had the opportunity to meet every one of our sisters over the last 50 years- quite an impressive group of women.

To those sisters yet to come- carry on the K-phi tenets and rose torches to eternity.

Cindy (Resh) Harper – Class of 1977 3747 Hunt Club Road Jackosnville, FL 32224 (904) 821-9291 harp711@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired secretary at the University of North Florida Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do any way): Taking care of my family What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

A kegger with the guys, of course Personal Message for the Memory Book: Call me if you come to Northeast Florida!! I would have loved to come to the reunion! Someday I’ll get back up to Illinois and Wisconsin!

Samantha Hendren - Class of 2012 7A77 Lookout Drive Apple River, IL 61001 (815) 299-3686 shendren@carthage.edu

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): High school English teacher What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Eats in the Caf If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Senior rose banquet

Joyce (Tanck) Herolt – Class of 1968 263 Spanton Crescent Pooler, GA 31322 (912) 748-7408 jherolt@att.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do any way): Wife, mom, grandma, volunteer What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Greek sing If you had a chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment which one would you choose?

Being invited to join the “new sorority,” Kappa Phi Eta. Personal Message for the Memory Book: Congratulations to all the members of Kappa Phi Eta on continuing this sorority, begun 50 years ago by Holly Anderson, Carol Ketter, and Dean Hogan.

Mandy Jansen- Class of 2014 823 North 2nd Street #711 Milwaukee, WI 53203 (920) 209-1769 mjansen@carthage.edu

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Accountant What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Formal- a weekend of fun with your best friends!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I will always remember the lock-ins we had during pledging. So many laughs and stories, getting to know your pledge sisters, who ultimately become your best friends, you just didn’t know it yet.

Carrie (Louthan) Jaruseski – Class of 1983 1107 Michelle Lane Lombard, IL 60148 (630) 240-0928 carriemom3@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Pediatric nurse Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Diana Thompson Whiteside What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Carrying the rose book during pledging Personal Message for the Memory Book: I have been married almost 30 years to Joe. Three children- Kate, Betsy, and Joey. I love to walk, do yoga, watch sports or attend sporting events, do anything with my family, and keep busy. I’m never home ~ always on the go! Happy 50th Kappa Phi Eta! Enjoy the Celebration!

Shannon (Monte) Johnson – Class of 2010 129 Oak Lane Twin Lakes, WI 53181 (815) 291-9629 Smonte25@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Social worker What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Cocktail If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Activation day and toga party from freshman year Personal Message for the Memory Book: Kappa Phi Eta has given me lifelong friendships and memories that I will cherish forever.

Susan Kazlo – Class of 1969 1132 Carlyle Court Arlington Heights, IL 60004 (847) 577-8329 Mrskaz19@hotmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Librarian (retired) Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Volunteer work; travel; cooking and trying new restaurants What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose banquet, and formals If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Pledge walkout

Kristin Kott – Class of 2010 107 S Highland Avenue Apt A Lombard, IL 60148 (630) 731-1191 Wbhs_98@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Student Finance Analysis Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Mom What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose books, hayride, and mom ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Pledging lock-ins

Mother and daughter at formal

Formal

Homecoming float

Spring 1999 pledges “Everyone Under the Sun

Bid day!

Ashley Lang – Class of 2014 10330 W. Montana Avenue Apt. 3 West Allis, WI 53227 (618) 214-7375 langashley3@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Student Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do any way): Reading What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Singing the rose song at rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

I would relive senior year formal.

Barbara Lange – Class of 1969 S45W22680 Georgetown Place Waukesha, WI 53189 (262) 542-4010 Sleepyb196@aol.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired educator Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Church and community volunteer What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Candle lighting ceremony, singing the rose song If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

College and the K-phi experience were only four years of my life, but it has provided me with a lifetime of great memories.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Husband – Phil Three sons – Scott (Kasee), Mark (Nicole), and Tim Four grandchildren – Georgia, Adelyn, James, Eloise

Jan (Linduska) Langford - Class of 1977 278 North Forest Avenue Glen Ellyn, IL 60137 (630) 790-3605 Janlangford1@sbcglobal.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Volunteer animal keeper at wildlife preserve and church What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The kick-line, we still do this when we get together, even though we are in our 60’s.

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Singing and playing guitar in the dorm on Friday nights.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Thank you to all of the wonderful women I have known and loved for the past 42 years. I am so happy that I still have you in my life, and that our husbands, significant others, and kids enjoy getting together almost as much as we do.

Lorrie (Oechler) Laurin – Class of 1979 4902 2817 Wood Trails Burnsville, MN 55306 (952) 220-7717 lorrielaurin@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Higher education administration Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Jolie Harris What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rush, Kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Too many to list Personal Message for the Memory Book: I cherish my memories of my time with Kappa Phi Eta.

Gina (Stauffacher) Les – Class of 2000 7434 Bayfield Drive Tinley Park, IL 60487 (708) 699-8331 ginales@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): CPA/ Accountant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Mother of three boys  Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Amy Lavery Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Jennifer Garber What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose necklaces and pillows If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Definitely one of the spring formals.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Although I don’t keep in touch with many former sisters, the memories of that time and lessons learned are forever a part of me.

Nichole (Ragla) Martin – Class of 2004 1332 Chartwell Carriage Way S East Lansing, MI 48823 (508) 274-4771 Martinn2@michigan.gov

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Social worker Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Lots of board work for non-profit organizations What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

There are too many moments to choose!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Kappa Phi Eta holds a very deep place in my heart and who I became as an adult. I owe thank you‘s to all my sorority sisters for teaching me about endless laughter and selfless love!

Julie (Nelson) Merilatt - Class of 1996 336 Pembroke Court #8 Schaumburg, IL 60193 (847) 985-1812 julzddm@aol.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Bank administrator Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Book blogger What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Mom ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Formal Personal Message for the Memory Book: Love my pledge class, Baker’s Dozen.

Reunion

Homecoming 2011

Terry (Dembinsky) Moe – Class of 1977 38738 N. Oakcrest Lane Wadsworth, IL 60083 (847) 244-0419

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Garden, sew, and knit What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony Personal Message for the Memory Book: Thankful for my husband Rick and three great children, Jonathon (29) a computer expert, Britteny (26) head director of dorms in Pullman, Washington, and Ricky (13) entering 8th and a N.J.H. students involved in show choir, plays the baritone saxophone, and a member of the National Thespian Honor Society. Love traveling, just rehabbed three houses in Mt. Pleasant for income property.

Anne (Crane) Morgan – Class of 1978 3525 Great Oaks Place Eagan MN 55123 (612) 723-1532 annebruce@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Jan Linduska Langford Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Karen What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The kick-line

Jolene Morris 141 N. Hale Street Palatine, IL 60067 (847) 370-8184 morris645@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Social worker What was your favorite Kappi Phi Eta tradition?

There were the celebrations of our sisterhood with rose banquets, formals, and pledge parties/ activations, but what had the most meaning was the laughter, singing, crying, working together, being creative, and celebrating our bond of friendship on a day to day basis.

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Working together with Jane Spencer on the 10th anniversary rose banquet. In 1975, we were so intent on making the banquet perfect as the co-chairs. If there was a chance to relive it, we would have laughed more and been satisfied with joyful imperfection!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: My address will be changing as of July 1, 2015 to our home in Door County, Wis. Jolene Morris 8584 Cty. Road. F Fish Creek, WI 54212 Michael and I are looking forward to this new chapter in our life. We treasure our family - and love our times with our four granddaughters! Our friendships we hold close to our hearts, too.

God has gone with us in each place that we have called home!

Natalie Murray 2848 Breckenridge Circle Aurora, IL 60504 (630) 618-1130 natalie.murray91@gmail.com

Meghann O’Malley – Class of 2002 720 Fontana Place Mundelein, IL 60060 (773) 680-0477 meghannkenna@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Attorney What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Hayride

Nancy Suzanne (Marti) Otto – Class of 1990 705 S. Clifton Park Ridge, IL 60068 (847) 698-4241 nancyotto@comcast.net

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Wife/ mother Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Holly (Zenger) Waak Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Christy LaBlanc and J. Johnson What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Winning the canoe race during Greek Olympics Personal Message for the Memory Book: Object, Janet, Fishin’ in the Dark, P.T’s, Elmer’s, The View, Happy Birthday La La La La!

Donna (Sahgian) Palmieri – Class of 1979 1479 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Unit 107 Libertyville, IL 60048 (435) 817-8101 donnapalmieri@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): College purchasing administration What was your favorite Kappa Chi Omega tradition?

Singing the Elton John song- Making “Friends” For the World to See If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Walkout for our “Spice of Life” pledge class. I believe we went to Lake Geneva, played in a fun indoor pool and had a great time together.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: The friendships and memories that we created with our K-phi sisters were some of the best moments in our lives. It will be so wonderful to visit with everyone at the reunion and catch up on the last thirty years. Cheers to all of you beautiful women!

Barbara (Anger) Penington- Class of 1973 N7394 West Grand View Whitewater, WI 53190 (262) 473-4128

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Professor (retired) UW-Whitewater Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Joyce Wendorf Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter (s)?

Kris Fox What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Lavaliere-ing ceremonies If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

When (for fun) the sorority compiled all of our heights, weights, measurements, and I was found to be “Miss Average K-phi!�

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I am thankful for my K-phi experience. It taught me a lot about people and skills I used in my professional life.

Laurie Perser – Class of 1979 2050 Walnut Circle Northbrook, IL 60062 (847) 732-0661 lperser@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Administrative assistant Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Artist Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Kim Pougher What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Activation

Jody (Oechler) Petersen – Class of 1982 9081 Country View Lane Loveland, OH 45140 (513) 677-8144 jody.petersen@chca-oh.org

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Mom Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Judy Smucker Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Julie Kilver What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Walkout If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Junior year formal Personal Message for the Memory Book: I have such great memories of my years at Carthage and with the K-phis.

Sara Piethe – Class of 1978 2744 Lansford Ave San Jose, CA 95125-4148 (408) 623-8590 srboud@aol.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired (YAY) Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Quilter/Gardener/Lover of crafts What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Carrying around that crazy plastic yellow rose!

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

The Pinning ceremony where I announced my engagement to Ron! (hubby of 37+ years!! Woohoo!)

Getting up at the crack of dawn to go to swim practice with the other K-phi sisters…Were we crazy or what!!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I have such wonderful memories of being a K-phi. And I am so very blessed to have the special friends I made still in my life!! My family have gotten to see how important these ‘sisters’ are to me as I travel as often as I can to see them! Some personal info…I married that nice Ron Piethe and we are celebrating 38 years of marriage this August! Where has the time gone!! He and I are both retired from the semiconductor industry and are enjoying our current project of planning and building a farm house in Sonoma County. We have three children; Brian, 30, Mark, 27, and Kristie, 24. Both sons are married and live in WA and Kristie is engaged to be married next year and lives in San Jose. We have one grandson and another one due in July. On a personal note, I love quilting, gardening, and keeping in touch with old friends from work, bible study, and Los Madres. I belong to a stock investment club where like minded women meet monthly to analyze stocks to buy and sell. We have a rescue pit bull, Kipa, who is the sweetest dog and a golden retriever, Chloe, who quite honestly is not all there sometimes…but we love her…

I wish I could be there with you all but I know you will have a blast connecting with the NICE GIRLS OF KAPPA PHI ETA WHO ARE HARD TO BEAT!!

Sending you all a big hug!!

Cindy (Babb) Powell – Class of 1976 25 Oregon Street Morton, Il 61550 (309) 266- 5415 cindy@dirpro.com

Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Needlework judge Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Karen Kaeppler Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Denise Tuscany

Jolie (Harris) Prasser – Class of 1978 7441 Pinehurst Drive Cincinnati, OH 45244 (513) 474-0530 jolieprasser@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Third grade teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Church volunteer Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Sue Terhark Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Lorrie Dechler Laurin What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Candlelight ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

My favorite moment was the rose ceremony when I became engaged to my wonderful husband of 36 years!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I have fond memories of carrying my yellow rose and singing songs as a pledge. I am happy to have stayed in touch with some of my K-phi sisters!

Julie Rhodes – Class of 1989 22W221 71st Street Naperville, IL 60540 (630) 960-4217 Julie.rhodes23@icloud.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Assistant superintendent of recreation/ safety coordinator Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Lee Stenzel Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Marilyn Pondel and Risa Christy What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-lines, we did kick-lines all over campus.

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Formals—they were all so much fun.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I love to travel and have visited all seven continents. I have been a volunteer usher at the Paramount Theatre in Aurora, IL for the past 15 years. Carthage College and Kappa Phi Eta will always have a special place in my heart and fond memories experienced

Aquelah Robinson – Class of 2011 1532 Grove Avenue North Chicago, IL 60064 (224) 717-9505 Aquelahrobinson@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Hotel sales manager What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The K-phi kick-line and the rose book If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

It's so hard to pick just one moment! It would have to be the excitement of when I first received my bid and the moment I realized my sorority sisters had become my family.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I’m so grateful for K-phi and the friendships I made that have lasted long after college ended.

Graduation!

Hayride!

Myself, Mama Tracy and Daughter Alex

Life as a K-phi after college

K-phi takes over in Nashville

Sandy (Wolf) Schroederus – Class of 1969 1007 Glenview Avenue Wauwatosa, WI 53213 (414) 839-6288 s.schroederus@yahoo.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Microbiologist - retired Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Take care of grandchildren What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Including roses in events If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Living all together on the K-phi floor of the dorm Personal Message for the Memory Book: My husband, David, and I have three grown daughters, two granddaughters, and one grandson. I like to tell the grandkids about the flag football game we played against Pi Theta. We won, right?

Charlotte, Eddie, Sophie and me

Lori (Hugglund) Seefeldt – Class of 1981 1223 Ashbury Lane Libertyville, IL 60048 (847) 918-1194 Sportsmom51020@aol.com

Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Wife and mom- I do it all!

What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Walkout and singing the K-phi song in the courtyard If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

My sophomore year living on the floor was the best with so many funny moments, and living with Nancy Ries!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I am married to Jim Seefeldt (also Carthage Grad) for the past 27 years. We have three children, Michael 25, Lauren 21, and Alyssa 17. We spend two weeks every summer in Newport Beach California which I love, love to read, walk, bike, and this year did something on my bucket list; I swam with the dolphins in the Cayman Islands.

K-phi was a great experience with great friends, and many "pee your pants" moments, I will always cherish. Ask Nancy Ries about "having her loops in." Rush was always fun, and the frat-sorority parties and Rose Banquet were a highlight!

Kristen (Baudo) Sellers – Class of 2010 6043 W. 128th Place Palos Heights, IL 60463 (708) 985-6622 Kabaudo22@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Youth development specialist Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Vacation What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Hayride If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Pledging Personal Message for the Memory Book: I’m so grateful for the friends and memories that K-phi was able to give me. If I could I would go back to college and do it all over again.

Myra (Hawkins) Slifka – Class of 1968 369 Old Overton Drive Madison, AL 35756 mlslifka@knology.net (256) 325-3826

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired 7th and 8th grade science teacher Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Volunteer at Huntsville Botanical Garden What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose banquet If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

To be with sisters between 1965 and 1968.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Joe and I are enjoying our family and retirement in Madison, AL. We have been blessed with three children, Lynn (a Carthage alumni), David, and Mary. Their families are our pride and joy including seven grandchildren.

Joe keeps busy with the North AL Railroad Museum, and I with the Huntsville Botanical Garden and a local chapter of the National Society Daughters of the American Revolution.

Jennifer (Hunsader) Socnell - Class of 2005 725 Sylviawood Avenue Park Ridge, IL 60068 (847) 269-3699 jhunsader@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Optometrist Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Tennis, sailing, and waterskiing Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Amanda Wilberg Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Kathryn Fechner What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-line If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Living together on the K-phi floor Personal Message for the Memory Book: So many great memories with all of my K-phi sisters. Such wonderful friends!

Laurel (Meiser) Soler – Class of 1977 966 Prairie Lawn Glennview, IL 60025 (847) 657-6413 laurelsoler@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired teacher

Jillian Stonewall – Class of 2003 307 Fairmont Court Saint Charles, IL 60175 (847) 638-1253 Jmeyers1081@hotmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Human Resources executive assistant/ generalist What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Kick-lines and all dancing to “These are Days” at every function.

If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

I loved pledging! It was such a wonderful bonding experience and one of the highlights of my college career.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I am sorry to miss the reunion! I hope everyone is doing fantastic. Life is good – I have been married for two and a half years and happily settled in St. Charles, IL. No children of my own yet, but my Cavalier King Charles pup, Punkin, is the love of my life.  I work in the Human Resources department for a wonderful company called Vi, which keeps me very busy. I have such fond memories of Kappa Phi Eta, and cherish the life-long friendships I made.

Love and hugs to all! In K-phi love and mine.

Rachel Sullivan – Class of 2000 1200 Caton Avenue Joliet, IL 60435 (630) 215-6832 nemethr@hotmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): IT project manager Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Mom What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Mr. $1.98 If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Honestly - just about every day in South hall. Just living with my friends and getting to spend every day with all of them was my favorite part.

Personal Message for the Memory Book: To all my sisters - you have made me the friend, wife, sister, daughter, and mother that I am today. While time may pass and miles may separate us, you are all my sisters forever. Thanks for all the memories.

Mary (Sahagian) Taylor – Class of 1982 407 Haywood Drive Round Lake, IL 60073 (847) 514-7326 marytaylor532@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Chief school business official Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Christine Franks What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

The K-phi kick-lines If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

There are too many to choose!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: Every April/ May I think about all of us girls sun tanning in the Denhart courtyard.

Marva Lea (Oechler) Tetting – Class of 1975 3403 13th place Kenosha, WI 53144 (262) 553-9001 Marvatetting@rocketmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Retired teacher of 30 years (preschool and kindergarten) Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Golf, take care of grandkids, and sing in the church chior Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Jan Deaton (Ryden) Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Cheryal Larson What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Ceremonies when someone got pinned or engaged If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Rush parties Personal Message for the Memory Book: I am now a retired kindergarten teacher with three married children and nine beautiful grandchildren. We live in a 55 and over community that reminds us of our days at Carthage. Lots of fun, but without any studying or school loans.

Judith (Lutter) Vietzke – Class of 1977 309 E. Oneida Street Elmhurst, IL 60126 (630) 833-9337

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Project/ program manager – AT&T (retired 2007) Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Church volunteer Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Cheryl Larson What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose banquet; formal

Norah (Belmonte) Walrod – Class of 1997 7785 Lanham Court Dublin, OH 43016 (262) 945-1847 norah4275@gmail.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Stay at home mom What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Mom ceremony and walkout If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Lock-ins for sure! They never fell at a convenient time with regard to homework, etc. but looking back I miss those times with my pledge sisters. Who wouldn't miss Brian serenading Rena on her answering machine?!

Personal Message for the Memory Book: I was lucky enough to not only be a K-phi but also be their adviser years later. Watching the girls carry on traditions and embrace our sisterhood was a blessing I will cherish forever. Since I graduated I realize that life brings many ups and downs, new jobs, new cities, and new families, but my K-phi sisters have always been by my side. Time has made my heart grow fonder for my sisterhood and I hope that it does for future generations as well.

Rena (Benn) Weyrauch – Class of 1997 7008 145th Avenue Kenosha, WI 53142 rweyrauch@deloitte.com

Occupation (what someone pays you to do): Firm director at Deloitte Occupation (what no one pays you to do, but you do anyway): Mother of three kids Who is your Kappa Phi Eta mom?

Kaytle Rich Who is your Kappa Phi Eta daughter(s)?

Carrie Mills What was your favorite Kappa Phi Eta tradition?

Rose ceremony If you had the chance to relive a single Kappa Phi Eta moment, which one would you choose?

Activation