2022 Carolynisms

The World is Expecting You; Your Spot has Been Reserved

By: Carolyn McLaughlin – Albany County Legislator – District 1 Capital Region, New York

As I approach my “Third Age” I am ever mindful of the many roads I have traveled and the road(s) that are in front of me. I accept that all are winding roads. With every twist and turn I seek to discern the lesson intended by each experience. I continue to offer the following as “Carolynisms”; words to live by as you seek your place in the world.

The road to your destiny is not a

straight line - There will be stops and turns along the way to your final destination. You may even turn some corners. As long as you are prepared and stay focused on the prize, there will be no need to be afraid of the detours.

Appreciate similarities, and respect

the differences - In this new world version of diversity, equity and inclusion, find value in everyone you meet. This may be difficult at times, but never miss the opportunity to level-up.

Know yourself and deliver the authentic you at all times;

You and those you interact with will be the better for it.

Practice self-ownership - Learn how to take self-ownership over your vocational lives and your future. Own the importance of identifying your professional strengths, interests and values. Leave nothing to chance, except what you choose for dessert.

Life is about relationships - No woman/ man is an island. Good relationship skills will allow you to effectively advocate for yourself and for those you care about. How you manage relationships should make life easier, not a struggle.

Keep your distance - Sometimes for the sake of your peace and your destiny, you must distance yourself from people and their expectations of you. You choose the lens through which you see yourself. Let it be a clear lens.

Have the audacity to believe it will

happen - Believe in yourself and your dreams before you share them with someone else. Others may or may not see the same thing for you. Make sure you have control of your own vision before sharing it. Celebrate your achievements.

Tell your story - Everyone has a story.

Become your own best storyteller - You control your own narrative.