Letters from CAMP Rehoboth, Vol. 34, No.7

When August Comes Can SUNFESTIVAL Be Far Behind? (Nope!)

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August 16, 2024 Volume 34, Number 7 camprehoboth.com

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THIS ISSUE

VOLUME 34, NUMBER 7 • AUGUST 16, 2024

32 Words Matter

94 Milton Theatre

CLARENCE FLUKER

NANCY SAKADUSKI

Our Paths Are Our Own

Kick Back Quayside

KIM LEISEY, PHD

36 CAMP Stories

108 The Real Dirt

8 President’s View

RICH BARNETT

ERIC WAHL

10 Vice President’s View 12 CAMP News 14 SUNFESTIVAL 2024 NANCY SAKADUSKI

18 It’s My Life

Affairs of the Heart

MICHAEL THOMAS FORD

20 CAMP Library Chronicles 20 Volunteer Spotlight

Best in Show

What’s in Your Backyard?

38 OUTlook

110 Talking Trash (and Recycling)

Getting Well-er BETH SHOCKLEY

Growing Green, South of the Border

40 Straight Talk

JEFFREY DANNIS

“Oh, Ye of Little Faith” DAVID GARRETT

Chad-Alan Carr at the Shades of Blue Pool Party. See page 4.

44 AIDS Walk Delaware

50 The Writing Life

Walk for a Cause

48 View Point

No Such Thing as a One-Off MARIBETH FISCHER

Then They Came for the Cat Ladies RICHARD ROSENDALL

22 Out & About

A Midwinter Night’s Scream ERIC PETERSON

24 Health & Wellness Go Ask Alice

SHARON MORGAN

28 Reflections

Letting Go of the R-Word PATTIE CINELLI

30 Community News

52 Not Just a Condiment Cut the Mustard

CHRISTOPHER MOORE

56 Historical Headliners

Royal Romantic: King James ANN APTAKER

62 Sea Salt Table

76 Deep Inside Hollywood ROMEO SAN VICENTE

80 The Life You Save…

May Be Your Own

STEPHEN RASKAUSKAS

84 It’s a Dog’s Life Called from the Wild

TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER

88 Meet the ALLIANCE BILL FUCHS

Southern Egg Salad

90 CAMP Arts

64 CAMPshots

92 Booked Solid

ED CASTELLI

Midsummer Madness!

114 We Remember

ON THE COVER

SUNFESTIVAL 2024

LESLIE SINCLAIR & JOE GFALLER

TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER

68 Celebrity Interview Angeria Paris VanMicheals MICHAEL COOK

Corey Andrew See page 14.

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EDITOR Marj Shannon EDITORIAL ASSOCIATE Matty Brown DESIGN AND LAYOUT Mary Beth Ramsey ADVERTISING SALES MANAGER Tricia Massella DISTRIBUTION Mark Wolf CONTRIBUTORS: Ann Aptaker, Rich Barnett, Matty Brown, Ed Castelli, Pattie Cinelli, Wes Combs, Michael Cook, Jeffrey Dannis, Maribeth Fischer, Clarence Fluker, Michael Thomas Ford, Bill Fuchs, David Garrett, Joe Gfaller, Glenn Lash, Leslie Ledogar, Kim Leisey, Tricia Massella, Marce McCollum-Martin, Christopher Moore, Sharon Morgan, Eric Peterson, Mary Beth Ramsey, Stephen Raskauskas, Richard Rosendall, Nancy Sakaduski, Romeo San Vicente, Terri Schlichenmeyer, Marj Shannon, Beth Shockley, Leslie Sinclair, Eric Wahl

Letters from CAMP Rehoboth is published 11 times per year, between February and December, as a program of CAMP Rehoboth Inc., a non-profit community service organization.

CAMP Rehoboth seeks to create a more positive environment of cooperation and understanding among all people. Revenue generated by advertisements supports CAMP Rehoboth’s purpose as outlined in our mission statement.

The inclusion or mention of any person, group, or business in Letters from CAMP Rehoboth does not, nor is it intended in any way, to imply sexual orientation or gender identity. The content of the columns are the views and opinions of the writers and may not indicate the position of CAMP Rehoboth, Inc. © 2024 by CAMP Rehoboth, Inc. All rights reserved by CAMP Rehoboth. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in any form without the prior written permission of the editor.

CAMP REHOBOTH

MISSION STATEMENT AND PURPOSE

From the Editor

BY MARJ SHANNON, EDITOR

MISSION

CAMP Rehoboth is an LGBTQ+ community center determined to Create A More Positive (CAMP) environment that is inclusive of all sexual orientations and gender identities in southern Delaware and beyond. We seek to promote cooperation, understanding among all people, and well-being, as we continue our to work to build a safer community with room for all.

August?! Already? Yes, indeed. We have arrived at summer’s almost-end way too fast—don’t we always?

VISION

But there are compensations. For one, we get to see out the season in fine style with SUNFESTIVAL—what better way to celebrate all-things-summer? This big, joyous party offers laughs, music, dancing, and a fabulous auction—in short, a very good time awaits. See page 14 for the details.

PURPOSE

There’s lots else in this issue, too. Sure, the Olympics had its gold medalists, but Letters has a Judge’s Choice Award winner among its contributors—see Rich Barnett’s tale of his big win at Delaware’s State Fair.

CAMP Rehoboth envisions communities in Southern Delaware and beyond where all LGBTQ+ people thrive.

Promoting the health and wellness of our community through a variety of programs including HIV testing and counseling, mental health support, fitness classes, mindfulness classes, support for LGBTQ youth, and building community and support.

Promoting artistic expressions and creative thinking, and giving aid to artists and craftspeople with an emphasis on the works of LGBTQ people.

Advocating for our community to build a safe and inclusive community through voter information, education, and registration; and analysis of issues and candidates.

Education and outreach to the larger community, including sensitivity training seminars, and printed materials to promote positive images of LGBTQ people and our allies.

Networking resources and information by publishing a magazine, and functioning as an alternative tourist bureau and information center.

PRESIDENT Wesley Combs VICE PRESIDENT Leslie Ledogar SECRETARY Pat Catanzariti TREASURER Polly Donaldson

Speaking of fairs, Christopher Moore pays tribute to a fair staple—mustard— in his column. Hotdogs and pretzels just would not be the same without it—but pizza?! Meanwhile, Ed Castelli’s all-in with the mustard: see his recipe for Southern Egg Salad.

We are celebrating things other than Rich’s award in this issue, too. For one, there’s Maribeth Fischer’s about-to-launch new novel, A Season of Perfect Happiness. (Would that we all enjoy at least one of those seasons….) And for another, Michael Thomas Ford has made a (second) return-from-the-dead—yikes!

Cue the applause, for sure.

Maybe you’re looking for ways to celebrate what remains of summer? We’re here for you! The CAMP Rehoboth Gallery is hosting the Delaware Division of the Arts Fellowship Winners XXIV exhibit—stop by and enjoy. And Clear Space Theatre, CAMP Rehoboth, and LHW Productions are partnering to workshop a new musical, Psyche, debuting in Rehoboth at the end of August. Joe Gfaller interviewed the show’s ace lyricist/librettist; see CAMP Arts for more.

Of course, we cover weightier topics, too. With Overdose Awareness Day (August 31) and Suicide Prevention Month (September) approaching, Sharon Morgan and Stephen Raskauskas, respectively, tackle those scourges. Both, sadly, have a disproportionate impact on our community. Learn something about how we all can help.

Finally, perhaps you spied something different at the bottom of this page?

That’s the “Opportunity Box,” which will appear in many upcoming issues. Each time, it will contain an invitation to contribute to Letters. Maybe you remember that we invited submissions of six-word memoirs back in March? The Box will contain similar invitations. We wanted invitations to appear in a designated, easy-to-find space. Opportunity #1 appears below­—get writing!

AT-LARGE DIRECTORS Amanda Mahony Albanese, Lewis Dawley, Mike DeFlavia, David Garrett, Jenn Harpel, Kim Leisey (non-voting), Michelle Manfredi, and Teri Seaton EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Kim Leisey

CAMP REHOBOTH 37 Baltimore Avenue, Rehoboth Beach, DE 19971 tel 302-227-5620 | email editor@camprehoboth.com www.camprehoboth.com

CAMP Rehoboth, Inc. is tax-exempt under section 501(c)(3) of the United States Internal Revenue Code. Contributions to CAMP Rehoboth are considered charitable contributions for federal income tax purposes and may be deducted to the fullest extent of the law.

A copy of our exemption document is available for public inspection.

2024 Bulwer-Lytton contest winners will be OPPORTUNITY The announced any day now! While it’s too late for you to BOX enter the 2024 contest, we at Letters would love to see your (awful) sentences. Never heard of the B-L? Visit bulwer-lytton.com/submit (for guidance).

Please send to editor@camprehoboth.org and await the September issue….

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Thank you, Partners!

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AMP Rehoboth extends its gratitude to the many businesses (and one sports league!) that have supported its mission to create a more positive environment for all sexual orientations and gender identities in Rehoboth Beach and beyond. A total of $4,492 was donated across the entities pictured: DiFebo’s Restaurants and DiFebo’s Market ($2,150), Bin 66 ($937), Taco Reho ($655), and the DC Gay Flag Football League ($750).

Pictured below, clockwise: Laurie Thompson, Matt Castrina, Caroline Graefe, Matthew Merrill, Mark McDaniels, Megan Lundergan, Matt Castrina, Derrick Kelley, Laurie Thompson, Riley Quinn, Mark McDaniels, Billy Lucas, Laurie Thompson, Wes Combs, Paul Whitney.

Partnering with Pridepower

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AMP Rehoboth is proud to announce its partnership with Pridepower, a part of the online learning center known as Kidpower. Pridepower is a course made by and for people who face greater risks of discrimination because of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. It is also by and for people who support the LGBTQ+ community.

Navigating conversations around LGBTQ+ identities can sometimes be a challenge. Tips and written instructions are helpful, but Pridepower allows users to see and hear these conversations play out. Video examples include: “speaking up about a careless comment,” “helping a friend prepare to come out,” and “setting boundaries on invasive questions.”

Learn more and check out Pridepower’s videos at camprehoboth.org/camp-programs/ education-and-advocacy/. ▼

Shades of Blue Pool Party Breaks Records (Again!)

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AMP Rehoboth thanks Mike DeFlavia, Tony Sowers, the 6 Futcher Pool Party Hosts, and all who attended the Shades of Blue fundraiser on July 5. This year, the pool party raised a total of $16,648, breaking last year’s record of $14,625.

Now in its 12th year of raising funds for CAMP Rehoboth, this event keeps getting bigger and better—this year, there were more than 650 guests! ▼

CAMP Rehoboth Awarded Grants

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n July, CAMP Rehoboth was awarded grant funds from both the Delaware Grant-In-Aid program and the Delaware Division the Arts. These grants fund CAMP Rehoboth’s arts, wellness, and community building programs.

Through the Grant-In-Aid program, CAMP Rehoboth was awarded $38,000 for the fiscal year 2025. These funds will support programs like yoga, tai chi, and discussion groups, and will aid development of strategic priorities like supporting LGBTQ+ seniors and youth.

The Delaware Division of the Arts awarded CAMP Rehoboth $37,030 for the next fiscal year. This award marks an increase from $19,000 last year.

These funds help to support the CAMP Rehoboth Chorus, visual arts and gallery exhibits, performing arts, and the monthly publication of Letters.

“We are deeply appreciative of our elected officials who advocated for us. CAMP Rehoboth’s arts, wellness, and community programs are an important part of our culture and community at CAMP Rehoboth,” said Kim Leisey, PhD, Executive Director at CAMP Rehoboth. ▼ Letters 4

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Pictured: Scott Sarver, Mike DeFlavia, Marc Latulippe, Cristian Becker, Patrick Bosak, Dennis Konzelman, Mike Reimer, Noah Cohen, Tony Sowers, Lynden Armstrong, and Jeff Wilson.

SPEAKOut Bear Weekend Fun Ahead

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ehoboth Beach Bear Weekend is almost here! From Thursday, September 12, through Sunday, September 15, many activities are planned. Among them is the CAMP Rehoboth Grin and Bear It art exhibit, with a reception and happy hour planned for September 14, 3:00-5:00 p.m., at CAMP Rehoboth.

Check out rehobothbeachbears.com for more information. ▼ August 31 and SepCELEBRATE SUNFESTIVAL On tember 1, celebrate SUNLABOR DAY WEEKEND FESTIVAL with headlin-

ing entertainment and globally renowned DJs. Comedian Joe Dombrowski will bring the laughs and tickle your funny bone, while DJs Robbie Leslie and Joe Gauthreaux will set the dance floor ablaze with disco and electronic favorites. Plus, a live auction is set to be one for the books. Check out page 14 to learn more—and visit camprehoboth.org/sunfestival to get your tickets before it’s too late. ▼

History Book Festival

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he History Book Festival will be held in Lewes September 27-29. This year’s line-up of more than 20 authors includes two books that CAMP Rehoboth is proud to partner in presenting: Radiant: The Life and Line of Keith Haring by Brad Gooch, and Shadow Men: The Tangled Story of Murder, Media and Privilege That Scandalized Jazz Age America by James Polchin.

“CAMP Rehoboth is excited to once again partner with the History Book Festival. Tracking queer history from 1920s Jazz Age America to sharing the story of iconic American artist Keith Haring illustrates that the LGBTQ+ community has always been a fabric of American history. We hope you join us,” said Kim Leisey, PhD, CAMP Rehoboth Executive Director.

For more information about the festival and this year’s lineup, visit historybookfestival.org/. ▼

I’ve proudly served as 14th District state representative for 22 years, truly appreciating the support I’ve received for bringing projects and services to the area. I loved being your state representative, and I care deeply about which candidate will succeed me.

I have endorsed Kathy McGuiness.

However, recently, a paid advertisement appeared in the Cape Gazette and Letters from CAMP Rehoboth praising my service and suggesting Claire Snyder-Hall as the ideal successor. While it seemed like a gesture of appreciation, it was not. It was a somewhat unethical political tactic to mislead voters and try to gain backing from my supporters.

More recently, Claire posted a years-old picture of us together on social media under the guise of congratulating me on my retirement. Many people contacted me, claiming that Claire was giving the false impression I supported her. While out and about I’ve been stopped by many voters claiming Claire is insinuating my support to Democratic primary voters. I find this behavior disingenuous.

I do not support Claire Snyder-Hall in this primary.

She and I are not friends, and in fact she has spent years criticizing me, questioning my motives, and even writing a book where she attacks me. I don’t think voters want to elect someone who misleads them to get their vote.

So let me be clear. I’ve endorsed Kathy McGuiness to fill my seat when I retire Nov. 5. Kathy was born and raised here, knows the district, its people and issues. She has a lifetime of public service, having served 16 years as a Rehoboth Beach commissioner. Her constituent service is outstanding.

I would feel very comfortable with Kathy succeeding me in Dover.

If you are a registered Democrat, please join me on Sept.

10, in voting for Kathy McGuiness. It would mean a lot to me.

Thank you.

– Rep. Pete Schwartzkopf Speaker Emeritus, 14th Representative District Send letters to the editor to editor@camprehoboth.com

TRAVELS WITH LETTERS That’s Life!

LAVENDER FIELDS OUTSIDE AVIGNON FRANCE Candice Zientek and Marilyn Miller

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AMP Rehoboth Chorus ALLIANCE, formerly known as the CAMP Rehoboth Chorus Ensemble, is preparing for its September showcase, “That’s Life,” on Friday, September 27 and Saturday, September 28 at 7:00 p.m., and September 29 at 3:00 p.m.

The concerts will celebrate the milestones of life, tracking the stages of love, fun, inspiration, nostalgia, and navigating life’s ups and downs. For the full scoop, visit page 88. ▼ AUGUST 16, 2024

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BY KIM LEISEY, PHD

Savor the Moment; Secure the Future

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AMP Rehoboth is buzzing with pre-SUNFESTIVAL preparations. Now more than ever we must take advantage of this opportunity to gather, laugh, and dance together—no matter your gender identity or sexual orientation. SUNFESTIVAL gives the queer community, our allies, and sponsors the opportunity to have a good time and raise funds for CAMP Rehoboth. The live auction items are fabulous, and we are deeply appreciative of those businesses and individuals who support our work and community.

CAMP Rehoboth is home to many members, friends, and visitors. We are a home that is safe and affirming. CAMP Rehoboth helped to change the culture of Rehoboth Beach from a town that scorned our community to one that affirms and lifts our community.

Over the past 13 months, I have observed many ways in which CAMP Rehoboth has helped to ensure that individuals’ lives are met with dignity and opportunity in southern Delaware. This past month we’ve been available to help people struggling with housing and food insecurity, support a family who moved to Delaware to ensure their nonbinary child is raised without shame and bullying, facilitate access to bereavement services, and consult with health care systems about the needs of the LGBTQ+ community.

Each month CAMP Rehoboth offers programs that promote well-being, learning, appreciation of the arts, and opportu-

nities to socialize. Our partnerships with over 30 organizations have ensured that CAMP Rehoboth has a solid reputation and the trust of many throughout Delaware and the Mid-Atlantic region. Elected officials and those who are running for office often reach out to CAMP Rehoboth

We are one heart—the heart of the LGBTQ+ community. for education and consultation related to the needs of the LGBTQ+ community in southern Delaware. Our work with Rehoboth Beach and Dewey Police Departments, and the Department of Natural Resources and Environmental Control, creates opportunities for enhanced understanding and safety.

I’m moving through my 13th month at CAMP Rehoboth. My intentions the first year included time and space to assess, listen, appreciate, and become familiar with the unfamiliar. I’ve tried to make those intentions reality and we all know that the first year in any new job is unpredictable as we learn what we don’t know. The recalibration of some systems and structures is preparing us for what’s to come as we work our mission, vision, and strategic plan.

In the meantime, we’ve also been “making it happen.” The staff at CAMP Rehoboth, small and mighty as we are, works with integrity and in the very best interest of our community every single

day. Our Board of Directors has been working to become the best asset it can be to the staff of CAMP Rehoboth. The finance and development committees have work plans, and the governance committee is reviewing and retooling policies. Our Board of Directors is active, engaged, and setting the north star for our future.

We are pleased that recent grant awards include state funding for continuing renovations at 37 and 39 Baltimore Avenue, Delaware Division of the Arts support for our arts programs (including Letters), and state funds to support our popular well-being programs. Additional applications for funding are in process.

As we plan, we must ensure that our infrastructure can support our future work as we reach out to those who are silent and struggling outside of Rehoboth Beach.

Thirteen months ago, I felt this place and the people in my heart. I still do.

Fighting for your individual and collective dignity is what drives us. The freedom to be unapologetically you is what makes our staff and volunteers show up and work every single day. We appreciate all that you do to help us help others. We are one heart—the heart of the LGBTQ+ community. We have more to do. Please join us, now. ▼ Kim Leisey, PhD, is Executive Director of CAMP Rehoboth.

CAMP REHOBOTH THANKS OUR 2024 ANNUAL SPONSORS

For information on how to become a CAMP Rehoboth Annual Sponsor, email development@camprehoboth.com or call 302-227-5620.

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THANK YOU TO OUR

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We are grateful for the businesses that partnered with us during Pride Month!

We raised more than $26,000!

We partnered with: Amazon Bin 66 DiFebo’s Restaurants DiFebo’s Market DirtyApples Salon Dogfish Head in Rehoboth Dogfish Head Brewery Downtown Blues Good Vibes Tiki Cruise Spark’d at the Hotel Du Pont Taco Reho

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President’s View

BY WESLEY COMBS

Giving Back Fuels the Soul

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eople I have not seen in a while routinely ask, “Are you retired?” I respond, “No, I am a Social Impact Coach for people seeking to create an intentional approach to giving back in the world.”

They often reply, “I just assumed you had retired based on your social media posts featuring the nonprofits you support. What motivates you to get involved?” For years, my response has been, “It’s just how I am wired.”

As long as I can remember, helping others in need has been a priority in my life. I am particularly drawn to support causes that have a personal connection.

For example, fighting for LGBTQ equality stems from discrimination I faced in college and in the workplace because of my sexual orientation. Ensuring there is a trusted source for news and information is why I donate to WAMU, Washington, DC’s NPR station.

Simply put, contributing my time, talent, and treasure to help others not only gives me purpose, it also fuels my soul. Whether it is volunteering to serve on the CAMP Rehoboth Board, donating to causes dear to my heart, or being a mentor for college graduates who are recipients of a Posse Foundation scholarship, they all have one thing in common: their missions align with my values and interests.

Spoiler alert: It took me more than 10 years to create my philanthropic roadmap. At first, choosing to get involved was not a methodical process; it was more like finding a shiny penny and picking it up. If a friend asked me to donate to a cause or join them when volunteering, I often agreed.

Over time, I realized it was not sustainable to always say “yes”—my financial resources and spare time were limited. Focusing on what really mattered to me meant saying “no” sometimes. Eventually, this trial-anderror approach helped inform my decision-making process, but the lack of a clear social impact “strategy” meant Letters 8

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some of those early “yeses” lead to engagements I did not find fulfilling. As the old saying goes, “life is too short to do the things you don’t love doing.”

As the old saying goes, “life is too short to do the things you don’t love doing.”

I hear too many stories about how people retire, have no clear purpose, and end up driving their other half crazy.

On the flip side, there are many success stories all around us—people with a passion for public service who find a nonprofit match that is right for them.

Speaking with many of the volunteers at CAMP Rehoboth, this is a common theme motivating them to donate their time. Whether they are CAMPcierges, help with our landscaping needs as part of the Rainbow Thumb Club, offer testing or counseling services, or join the Women’s FEST and SUNFESTIVAL committees, they say, “I wanted to give back to my community

and spending a few hours a week at CAMP is a perfect way to do it.”

My friend Gary Seiden is a retired dentist and is one of the biggest golden retriever lovers anywhere on this earth.

When looking for a way to give back in the Rehoboth area, he wanted to align the affection for his dog, Max, with volunteer work. So, he got Max certified as a therapy animal. Together they visit senior living facilities, bringing joy and comfort to the residents. “It warms my heart to see someone’s eyes light up when Max comes into the room. I can tell his presence makes a positive impact on them.”

Village Volunteers (VV) is a local organization doing great work to support seniors in our community. Their mission is simple: helping older adults live independently. With more than 160 volunteers, VV provides a member up to 25 hours of support per week. “Support” ranges widely, from driving people to doctors’ appointments to running errands for those unable to leave the house.

Board President Steuart Martens shared why he loves being a part of VV: “I can only play so much golf.” Last week his assignment was to take a 99-year-old member to the hairdresser. “Being with her was like spending time with my mom.

We had a wonderful time and it feels good if I can help someone else for at least a few minutes a day.“ I recently started reading Michael Clinton’s book Roar: into the second half of your life (before it’s too late). It’s described as “an inspiring guidebook that will help you achieve your dreams and get more out of life—whether or not retirement is in your future plans.”

The book is a quick read and presents an approachable perspective on ways to get the most out of life. I highly recommend it. ▼ Wesley Combs is CAMP Rehoboth Board President.

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Vice President’s View

BY LESLIE LEDOGAR

Priorities & Progress & YOU

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his column is a sort of public service announcement about Delaware bills that have recently passed or have recently been implemented. Readers may not yet be familiar with them, but the bills may have a direct impact on them and their families. Initiatives like the ones described below demonstrate that it is incumbent upon each of us to get out and vote for Congresspeople and representatives who will help us help ourselves and our families every day.

Paying for Reproductive Health Care Take, for instance, access to reproductive health care. Last year, Delaware became one of many states that made abortion legal and safeguarded physicians who perform this health care procedure. But what was not included in that legislation was the all-important response to the question, how does one pay for such a procedure?

This year, with just days left in the legislative session, the Delaware General Assembly reduced financial barriers for people covered by Medicaid, private insurance, and state insurance plans, thereby helping to break down socioeconomic barriers and racial disparities in reproductive care across our state.

Helping Curb Hunger in School-aged Children Contrary to the adage “there is no free lunch,” the Delaware Legislature passed a bill that extends free lunch to children and families who qualify for reducedprice meals. Any parent, regardless of sexual identity or orientation, wants to be able to put food in their children’s stomachs. We all know the negative effects that hunger has on a child’s ability to concentrate and learn.

This bill is a great first step toward ensuring that all Delaware students have a learning environment in which they are fed and cared for. It is part of a larger initiative towards guaranteeing universal Letters 10

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free lunch for all students, which is a fight that is ongoing in Delaware.

Getting a Second Chance—Mandatory, No-cost Expungement As of August 1, 2024, the Clean Slate website is up and running. The Clean Slate initiative implements a 2021 law that applies to all Delaware records eligible for mandatory expungement—regardless

It’s not by chance that these pieces of legislation…have been enacted in Delaware.

Rather, it’s because of a purposeful and concerted effort by voters like you. of a person's race or wealth—by providing greater equity, consistency, and cost-effectiveness through a streamlined, automated process.

According to our friends at the ACLU, of the nearly 400,000 people living with a record in Delaware, 290,000 are eligible for mandatory expungement. Having one’s record expunged (wiped clean) can help break down barriers to employment, housing, and other opportunities, enabling individuals to participate fully in social and civic community life.

So, what does the mandatory expungement process look like? Here's a quick overview: • Identify eligible records: Beginning on August 1, the Delaware Criminal Justice Information System (DELJIS) identifies records in the Delaware Criminal Records database that fit the mandatory expungement eligibility criteria.

• Process eligible records: DELJIS sends batches of records that meet the mandatory expungement eligibility requirements to the Delaware State Bureau of Investigation (SBI).

• Expungement process: SBI manually reviews each record identified by DELJIS to confirm eligibility and then expunges eligible records. Once expunged, the record will still exist for law enforcement agencies, but the state will no longer provide the record in response to public background checks.

Folks may learn if their record is eligible or has been expunged by visiting a court prothonotary office and using the public access terminal to view any remaining records. Public access terminals will only provide information about adult records. Folks can also request a certified criminal history from SBI to view any remaining records— though this option requires payment of a $72 fingerprinting fee.

For consolidated, accessible, and accurate information about the implementation process, visit CleanSlateDe. org—a comprehensive digital tool for expungement-related information, events, and resources.

It’s not by chance that these pieces of legislation and others like them have been enacted in Delaware. Rather, it’s because of a purposeful and concerted effort by voters like you. This year’s primary is September 10, and early, in-person voting runs from August 28 through September 9. ▼ Leslie Ledogar is CAMP Rehoboth Board Vice President.

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or the second year, two teams of CAMP Rehoboth Outreach Program (CROP) volunteers participated as docents for the annual two-day Rehoboth Art League Cottage Tour. CROP’s assigned home was the lovely townhome of Martin Thaler and Stephen Schmidt—a true “New England coastal cottage.” The home featured antiques, artwork by local and (and non-local) artists, and an entire wall of Martin’s sketches and drawings of his costume designs in various mediums—one of which won a Tony in 2023!

Rehoboth Art League appreciated CAMP Rehoboth's support. CROP’s participation also helped meet CAMP Rehoboth’s goal to provide outreach to the community at large, as a total of 723 patrons visited the home. ▼ Pictured: CROP Tuesday Team.

Thank You, Josh!

Join CAMP Rehoboth’s AIDS Walk Team

CAMPsafe Program Coordinator Josh Sheets is embarking on a new and exciting journey and will leave his role on September 1. Josh’s dedication, compassion, and expertise have touched many lives and made a significant impact on the well-being of the community. CAMP Rehoboth celebrates his contributions and wishes him great success in his future endeavors. Join us in thanking Josh for his unwavering commitment to HIV care and to our community! ▼

n Saturday, September 21, CAMP Rehoboth will be a participating team at the annual AIDS Walk in Grove Park in Rehoboth Beach. AIDS Delaware and the Delaware HIV Consortium organize and jointly present the event. This year’s Walk—the 38th annual AIDS Walk—coincides with the International Day of Peace.

The Walk is the state’s oldest and largest HIV/ AIDS fundraising and awareness event. Funds raised help provide free, rapid HIV testing, medical case management services, HIV-specific mental health counseling, HIV/PrEP education and prevention programs, housing assistance, and transportation services. As of June 2024, there were 3,993 people in Delaware with HIV, with 60 new cases reported so far this year.

As a partner HIV service organization, CAMP Rehoboth will benefit from funds raised for its team. Visit camprehoboth.org to join CAMP Rehoboth’s team. Participants who raise more than $35 will receive a t-shirt.

Besides fundraising, there are plenty of opportunities to volunteer for the Walk and make the event a big success. Visit camprehoboth.org/ volunteers to view and sign up for the walk’s volunteer needs. ▼

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AMP Rehoboth is partnering with the Blood Bank of Delmarva for another blood drive on Friday, September 20, from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. This partnership follows last year’s news of the FDA lifting its ban on the ability for men who have sex with men (MSMs) to donate blood, and two prior blood drives (November 2023 and February 2024). For more information on updates to the donor questionnaire, visit delmarvablood.org/ida/.

CAMP Rehoboth encourages all community members to help respond to the Blood Emergency, as defined by the Blood Bank of Delmarva as an urgent need for donors due to dangerously low levels of O+, O-, B-, and platelets. Register online at camprehoboth.org. ▼ Letters 12

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AMP Rehoboth has established community agreements to help create safe, welcoming, and affirming spaces for the LGBTQ+ and ally community across all of its programs, services, activities, and events— this is how all are asked to show up!

Guidelines cover topics such as setting boundaries, respecting pronouns, fostering inclusivity, and protecting privacy. These agreements help support CAMP Rehoboth’s mission to Create A More Positive (CAMP) environment inclusive of all sexual orientations and gender identities in southern Delaware and beyond.

You can read the full agreements at camprehoboth.org/about-us. ▼

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SUNFESTIVAL 2024

BY NANCY SAKADUSKI

The Action Packed Nights of

Buckle Up, Buttercup: A Night of Comedy SATURDAY, AUGUST 31

An elementary school teacher, a newlywed, and a SUNFESTIVAL headliner walk into a bar. The bartender says, “Nice to meet you, Joe Dombrowski.”

Joe Dombrowski’s rise to fame was triggered by his class clown hijinks. One April Fool’s Day he gave his students a bogus spelling test, doling out the words and sentences with appropriate gravitas: “The next word is ‘speekoo.’ Look! There’s a ‘speekoo’!”

And then providing the “correct” spelling: “S-p-e-e-k-u-z-s-l-m-n.” Answering the students’ groans with the explanation, “There’s silent letters at the end of that one.”

Now, Joe Dombrowski drills into his g-g-g-GAY family dynamics for comic gold, and through his popular Social Studies podcast, he has addressed bad dates, glitter bombs, and TikTok cults, all while managing a jam-packed tour schedule. Now he’s looking forward to visiting one place he’s never been: Rehoboth Beach.

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A Grab Your Passport, Excite Your Tastebuds, Hit the Road Kind of Live Auction*

Corey Andrew will provide a musical interlude to kick-off Saturday’s events. Corey has made it his trademark to deliver soulful vocals, heartfelt lyrics, and a distinct musical presence since the release of his debut, soul-influenced rock album, We’re All Stars.

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JUST SAY “OUI” TO GAY PARIS (7-Night Stay + Two Business-Class Airfare Tickets)

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 1

The SUNFESTIVAL Night of Dance will feature two world-class DJ/ Producers, in a NY club-style atmosphere, right here in the transformed Rehoboth Beach Convention Center. First up will be a bona fide legend in the music industry, DJ/Remixer/ Producer Robbie Leslie. Robbie has been performing on the international circuit for 40 years.

Second up is another legend and returning favorite, Joe Gauthreaux.

Recognized by the circuit industry with awards, Joe Gauthreaux has performed at clubs and parties for over 25 years, headlining major events and circuit weekends. All this and some surprises that will take the dance party to a new level. Don’t miss it! ▼

aturday night will also feature auctioneer Lorne Crawford, who will oversee the exciting SUNFESTIVAL live auction and keep the evening moving in style. Get ready to check something off your bucket list.

Experience the City of Love with this once-in-a-lifetime trip to Gay Pa-ree. You and a guest will soak up the Parisian atmosphere at The Westin Paris - Vendôme, a historic 4-star hotel ideally located in the heart of Paris. Includes United Airlines Polaris-Business Class service to Paris from any United Airlines gateway on the East Coast. Donated by Danny Sebright.

DINE AROUND THE WORLD (without Leaving Rehoboth Beach) Restaurant Gift Certificates You don’t have to leave Rehoboth to enjoy some of the best food in the world.

SUNFESTIVAL 2024

This exceptional package features gift cards from some of Rehoboth’s best restaurants. Donors include 1776 Steakhouse, Ava’s Hospitality Group, Cultured Pearl, DiFebo’s Restaurants & Market, Eden Restaurant, Henlopen City Oyster House, Indigo Indian Cuisine, Mariachi Restaurant, Sirocco, and SoDel Concepts.

2025 PRAGUE AND DANUBE RIVER CRUISE FOR TWO (September 3-12, 2025)

Be pampered on the brand-new Amadeus Nova (154 guests) for an LGBTQ+, all-inclusive, guaranteed full-ship charter adventure. After two deluxe days in Prague, you and your guest will cruise the Danube from picturesque Passau to Melk, Vienna, and Bratislava, culminating in the vibrant Hungarian city of Budapest, one of Europe’s hottest destinations. Donated by Brand g Vacations.

CHOOSE YOUR OWN CRUISE FOR 2 ON AVALON WATERWAYS

Bask in the sun, explore historic cities, or enjoy top-notch service while sipping a glass of wine on deck, surrounded by amazing vistas. Choose from a variety of

itineraries in Europe, Asia, or Southeast Asia on the award-winning river cruise line, Avalon Waterways, through our presenting sponsor, Accent on Travel.

Donated by Accent on Travel.

ORIGINAL ARTWORK

by Murray Archibald With a working title of Set Love Free, this 36”x36” museum profile canvas (to be unveiled closer to the event) is sure to make Murray Archibald a bold and beautiful statement wherever you hang it—so start looking now for that perfect place.

Donated by artist and CAMP Rehoboth co-founder Murray Archibald.

DREAMS ONYX PUNTA CANA RESORT & SPA, OLIVIA VACATION FOR TWO (October 25-November 1, 2025)

Relax in your spacious suite (with private hot tub), enjoy the Unlimited Luxury® experience at 12 restaurants and 11 bars, exciting land and water sports (including a water park with water slides), five pools and lazy rivers, a world-class spa, Olivia’s signature programming, and Camp-O, the joy of camp with a luxurious twist. Donated by Olivia Travel.

7- DAY 2025 PUERTO VALLARTA LGBTQ+ EXPERIENCE FOR 2 (High Season Stay)

view room at Almar Resort, the premier adults-only, LGBTQ+-friendly resort in Puerto Vallarta’s Romantic Zone, with top-tier amenities, including beach club and sky bars, an Olympic-sized infinity pool, oceanfront cabanas, top-notch DJ parties, gay shows, and a first-class spa. Donated by Andy Staton & Patrick Saparito.

ANCHEER SUNSHINE 26” ELECTRIC BIKE FOR ADULTS Explore new trails, expand your routes, and have more cycling fun.

The ANCHEER Sunshine is a perfect blend of trail performance and power. Kick in one of five levels of pedal assist to meet your needs. With a removable 48V/374Wh battery, you can pedal assist to 40-50 miles per charge using the low pedal assist level. Donated

by Jon Kaplan. ▼ Special thanks to presenting sponsor Accent on Travel. *See complete descriptions with limitations and exclusions at camprehoboth.org.

CAMP Rehoboth is committed to creating and maintaining an inclusive environment for all participants. If you plan on attending SUNFESTIVAL and have needs related to accessibility, please contact accessibility@camprehoboth.com.

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camp rehoboth thanks our sponsors for their generous support of sunfestival* presenting sponsor

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Greg Albright & Wes Combs

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Edward Chrzanowski & Rick Perry Jon Dauphine & Marc Charon

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Danny Sebright

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Joseph Bennett & Corey Andrew Carolyn Billinghurst & Carol Bresler Charlie, Rod, Brian & Carlos Lewis Dawley & Greg Becker John Hackett & Tom Newton Lynn Johnson

Jamie Kotcheck & Craig Schwartz Chris Lay & Mari Blackburn Michael Linardi & Dr. Dean Tyson Evelyn Maurmeyer In Memory of Natalie Moss Fran O’Brien, David Gifford,

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Chris Hughes & Ken Swarts Robert Patlan & Gordon Tanner Porter & Gordon Family Debbie & Leslie and Diane & Jen Gary Seiden & Bashir Amanat

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SAVE THE DATE! SUNDAY, OCTOBER 20 11 AM-4 PM

2024 PRESENTING SPONSOR

On the 2nd block of Baltimore Avenue

Vendor/Sponsor information available at CAMP Rehoboth.

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17 Letters

It’s My Life

BY MICHAEL THOMAS FORD

Affairs of the Heart

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died the other day.

Because this was a repeat occurrence, I was a little casual about it all. As Shirley Jackson famously said, regarding being pregnant with her third child, “It's the easiest because it's the funniest, because you've been there twice, and you know.”

Admittedly, this was only my second time dying. But the point stands.

The first time I died was about 18 months ago. That time, things were a little more dramatic. I didn’t know what to expect, and the doctor overseeing the event said, “It’s going to feel a little weird.”

This time, a different doctor said, “At some point during this, you might start to panic. Just focus on your breathing, okay? I’ll talk you through it.”

“I’m fine,” I told him. “Can I watch myself flatline on the monitor?”

I didn’t get to watch the first time. For obvious reasons, they turn the monitor away from you right before they kill you.

Apparently, it’s upsetting to the patient.

They did let me watch this time. It was a slow night, and I think everyone was a little bored. Also, I had walked into the ER and very calmly told the young lady at the front desk, “I’m having an SVT. It’s been going on for about four hours. They’re going to need to use adenosine on me.”

Which is exactly what they did. After injecting it into my IV port, we all waited while the drug made its way to my heart, which took about 15 seconds. Then the heart monitor on the telemetry unit stopped beating, the line on the screen went flat, and a few seconds later the “It’s going to feel a little weird” thing happened.

It’s hard to describe the sensation.

Everything gets kind of shimmery for a short time and you get a tickle in your nose. Mostly I was watching the monitor to see if, now stopped, my heart would switch back on. It did. The machine chirped. A nurse high-fived me and said, “Good job.”

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The whole thing took less than a minute. And it could have gone differently. But it didn’t.

I know I didn’t actually die. I mean, I did. Technically. But I was awake through the whole thing. And that’s really the only part that kind of freaks me out about these incidents. My heart was stopped. But there I was, thinking about how my heart was stopped, talking to a doctor about how my heart was stopped, and watching a monitor to see when my stopped heart started up again and I wouldn’t be technically dead anymore.

The first time I died was about 18 months ago. That time, things were a little more dramatic.

And that’s really weird. I remember, as a kid, hearing that after being separated from the body (say, by a guillotine in France circa 1794) a head could still see and think and be very much aware that it was perhaps rolling across the grass or staring up at a crowd of cheering faces. And every fall when we turned some of the chickens we raised into residents of Freezer City, I saw fowl flop around for a while after my father played executioner, their heads watching, bemused, from the stump.

I know from CPR training that human brain cells start to die after about 5 minutes without oxygenated blood. And a little poking around online tells me that there is “no measurable, meaningful brain activity” within 2 to 20 seconds following the stopping of the heart.

That doesn’t seem like much time. But I suspect that it’s long enough to think, “This is not really how I wanted to end my day.”

As I mentioned, it was slow in the ER the night I went in, and I had to stay for

a few hours while they did bloodwork to see if my heart sustained any damage.

The doctor on duty, thrilled to have someone to talk to, came in and out a lot. He remarked several times how unusually calm I’d been about the whole thing. I asked him how people usually responded.

“There’s often a lot of crying,” he said. “They think they’re dying. Adding the whole ‘I’m going to stop and restart your heart’ aspect to it usually doesn’t help.”

I asked him about the guillotine thing.

“What?” he said. “Why would you even think about that?”

“Marie Antoinette,” I said. “Chickens.

Oh, and when I was a kid one of our neighbors accidentally cut off his own head with a chainsaw. It hit a nail in a log and bounced up. One of the older kids on the bus said the guy’s head probably sat on the ground wondering what had happened. If my heart hadn’t started up again, how long would it have been until I stopped thinking about it?”

“I’m going to go do your discharge paperwork,” he said.

Anyway, I’ve died twice now. Next month I see a cardiologist to find out why this keeps happening. My primary care doctor warned me that they might deliberately try to induce an SVT (officially a supraventricular tachycardia, which I have come to describe to people as “a heart attack if you ordered it from Wish”) to see what’s going on, and that they might need to do the adenosine trick again.

“That’s fine,” I told him. “It will be the third time, and the third time is the easiest because it's the funniest, because you've been there twice, and you know.”

“That’s a good line,” he said. “No wonder you’re a writer.” ▼ Michael Thomas Ford is a much-published Lambda Literary award-winning author. Visit Michael at michaelthomasford.com.

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Do you sometimes just can’t get to the bathroom quick enough?

Is your worry starting to take over your daily life?

Brandywine Urology Consultant’s Dr. Alice Y. Wang, MD, is Fellowship trained in Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery who, depending on your symptoms, can provide a variety of treatment options ranging from lifestyle changes, minimally invasive treatments or surgical operations. Dr. Wang is accepting male and female patients in all three offices. Please contact the office today to schedule your conversation with Dr. Wang.

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AUGUST 16, 2024

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CAMP Library Chronicles

BY GLENN LASH

Famous Firsts “Kamala, you may be the first to do many things, but make sure you’re not the last.” – SHYAMALA GOPALAN HARRIS

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ast week Barbara Ralph graciously donated books from her collection to CAMP Rehoboth’s Library. What to my wondering eyes did appear but a treasure (see photo). Aha! A topic for this month’s article: “Firsts.”

The “first” that I am most proud of originated at 212 Laurel Street in Rehoboth: Naiad Press. Allow Rehoboth Beach’s First Lady of Comedy, Fay Jacobs, to elaborate: “Naiad Press was specifically the first to be founded as a press for lesbian/feminist literature.” The Latecomer (1974) was their first offering. Sarah Aldridge (pen name of Anyda Marchant) and Muriel Crawford, life partners of 57 years, co-founded Naiad Press along with partners Barbara Grier and Donna McBride. Their home “…is still standing pretty much as it was. The front porch was where they held their Saturday Salons.” First rate—thanks Fay!

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Michael Fishman: SUNFESTIVAL Volunteer

BY MARCE MCCOLLUM-MARTIN CR: So,

Michael, tell us… How long have you been experiencing Rehoboth Beach?

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L Certainly, Radclyffe Hall’s The Well of Loneliness (1928) is known to all. How about the first lesbian detective: A Reason to Kill (1978) by Eve Zaremba. Katherine V. Forrest’s Curious Wine (1983) broke ground in terms of understanding lesbian partnerships.

G Acknowledged as America’s first gay novel is Joseph and His Friend (1870) by Bayard Taylor. The first to feature a happy conclusion was Imre: A Memorandum (1906) by Edward Prime-Stevenson. For an unabashedly, full-throttle-gay-life one had to wait for Gordon Merrick’s The Lord Won’t Mind (1970).

B In 1948, Gore Vidal wrote The Pillar and the City, in which he described bisexuality as the “natural” human state. Yet 29 years prior, the first bisexual character appeared in Bertram Cope’s Year by Henry Fuller. The protagonist ends up being the love interest of both a male and a female well-meaning objector.

T 1928 saw the publication of Virginia Woolf’s Orlando.

Consider though, Stone Butch Blues (1993) by Leslie Feinberg.

Supremely showing just how intricate a transgender life is.

Q There is a myriad of titles considered queer and I encourage you, dear reader, to explore every title CAMP Rehoboth’s Library has to offer! ▼ Glenn Lash is Library Coordinator at CAMP Rehoboth.

terrible investment!). That purchase made me realize how much I needed an escape from everyday life, even if only for long weekends. In other words, Rehoboth Beach became my happy place.

CR: When did you start volunteering with CAMP Rehoboth?

MF: I finally got involved post-pandemic after being asked by Chris Beagle for years to jump on board. (He’s persistent!)

We currently work on the SUNFESTIVAL guest experience from an audio-visual perspective. Given that so many people close out their summer here, much of the focus is on the six-hour dance to create a different vibe from other venues at the beach. It’s a special night, where Murray created so many unforgettable visual experiences over many years.

Now, Chris and I are trying to mix it up a little each year with an energetic space to create one last memory of summer ‘CAMP’ in Rehoboth Beach. This year is going to be a blast and fun for everyone!

CR: What’s your favorite season and why?

MF: Summer! Being outside in fresh air with a bright sky at 9:00 p.m. is the best.

Super long days of sunshine. Cocktails and dinner outside. Friends with pools.

Sunrise sitting in the sand at ocean’s edge. And of course, the energy that summer brings to Rehoboth Beach with friends from all over.

CR: What do you most value in friendship?

MF: Without a doubt, laughter! It’s a mood-lifter and a memory maker for me.

I admit there are times I need to lighten up a bit (forever a terribly misunderstood introvert)…and my friends with a sense of humor can make that happen in a matter of seconds. A very close second trait would be kindness. ▼ Marce McCollum-Martin is a member of the CAMP Rehoboth Volunteer Development Committee (VDC).

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Out & About

BY ERIC C. PETERSON

A Midwinter Night’s Scream

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nless you’ve been living under a rock, the fact that it’s an election year likely has not escaped you. Every four years, it seems that every other ad is for a political candidate, especially if you’re “lucky” enough to live in one of a handful of swing states.

(I’m being both sarcastic and sincere— on the one hand, I’m sure the political season can be really annoying for those folks, but on the other, having your vote actually count must be nice.) Every day brings new sound bites, polls, and talking heads willing to dissect them all. Living in Washington, DC, politics are our home team sports, and I will confess that I used to enjoy the intrigue of it all. That was before Project 2025 and credible threats to democracy itself gave me stress rashes and insomnia. And still, I can’t seem to stop following the news.

And there’s a lot of news to follow.

Between an assassination attempt, the President withdrawing from the race, the Democrats miraculously coalescing around a new candidate in a matter of days, and the largest single-day fundraising haul ever, July 2024 was one for the history books. And the unprecedented nature of this campaign seems to show no signs of slowing down.

Often, when I can pull myself away from the news alerts that blow up my phone on an hourly basis, I like to reflect on simpler times. Many times this past month, I’ve been reflecting on the election that took place 20 years ago, back in 2004.

It was America’s 55th presidential election, and George W. Bush was the incumbent Republican President.

Though he had lost the popular vote to Al Gore in 2000, the country had rallied around him in an unusual display of unity after the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001. Since then, he had invaded both Afghanistan and Iraq, based on claims that both Democrats and most of the United Nations found a little suspicious (and no, we never found those WMDs).

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So, despite his 90 percent approval ratings in late 2001, there was a real chance to unseat the Bush/Cheney administration in 2004. Our eventual nominee, John Kerry, wasn’t quite able to close the deal. On election night, he won 251 electoral votes, but had to concede to Bush, who took 286.

John Kerry was, to put it mildly, not the most exciting political figure.

Vaguely reminiscent of Ichabod Crane without the tricornered hat, he touted his service during the Vietnam War as a contrast to Bush’s time hanging out

Over the next four days, the “Dean scream” was played 633 times on national news networks and cable news channels. in the Texas Air National Guard, 9,200 miles from active combat. But the Republicans were just getting good at turning their opponent’s chief strengths into their primary weaknesses, and assembled a group ironically called the Swift Boat Veterans for Truth, who proceeded to tell a bunch of lies about Kerry’s record, which was truly heroic, and painted him as a coward under fire.

But as outrageous as that tactic was, it pales in my memory to the much bigger scandal of the 2004 election. I’m talking, of course, about the scream.

The Democrats might have won in 2004 if their candidate had possessed the kind of charisma needed to withstand one disgraceful lie after another, present a compelling counter-narrative, and prosecute the case against the liars. That candidate might have been Howard Dean, former governor of Vermont and early front-runner in the 2004 primaries. He was charming, articulate,

and possessed of a fighting spirit while still being the guy you’d like to share the proverbial beer with.

That all ended on January 19, 2004.

He had placed a surprise third in the Iowa caucuses, and his supporters were jubilant at his strong showing. At a rally in West Des Moines, the crowd was so noisy that Dean couldn’t hear his own voice coming out of the speakers.

Clearly riding the wave of euphoria, he emitted what can only be called a wall of noise into the microphone. I’ve never heard a sperm whale in childbirth, but it probably sounds something like the infamous Dean scream. Over the next four days, the “Dean scream” was played 633 times on national news networks and cable news channels.

The scream itself was about three seconds long. And maybe he wouldn’t have won anyway (most historians agree on this point), but at the time, it felt like an accidental gaffe that ended a presidential campaign overnight.

It seems pretty mild compared to a guy who began his political career with racist attacks on the nation’s first Black president, and who has since been convicted of sexual assault and 34 felony counts of fraud, accused his opponent of “turning Black” a few years ago for political gain, openly mocked a reporter with disabilities, repeatedly invoked Hannibal Lecter on the campaign trail, proposed injecting bleach to end a global pandemic, referred to fellow Americans as “vermin,” and lest we forget, led a treasonous insurrection to reverse the results of the last election he lost.

But who knows? Perhaps 20 years from now, it will all seem slightly quaint. I sure hope not. (Psst…are you registered to vote?) ▼ Eric Peterson is Interim Managing Editor of Amble Press, a novelist (Loyalty, Love & Vermouth), and a diversity, equity, and inclusion practitioner. Follow Eric on Threads at @ red7eric.

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23 Letters

health+wellness

BY SHARON MORGAN

Go Ask Alice …when she’s ten feet tall…

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n 1971, the book Go Ask Alice was published, a supposed first-hand account of a 15-year-old who develops a drug addiction and embarks on a tragic journey of self-discovery.

Although later acknowledged as fiction, the book remains a hallmark on teen angst and the slippery slope from experimentation and escapism into addiction.

According to the National Institutes for Health (NIH), addiction is a complex, chronic brain disease. Those suffering from addiction lose control over their actions, trying to feed an ever-increasing hunger with drugs, alcohol, or other substances. Sometimes the need is action-oriented, like those who suffer from a gambling or sex addiction. People will damage friendships, ruin families, and lose jobs, all to feed the beast. A common misconception is that addictive behavior is a choice, but NIH researchers have shown the addicted brain has hijacked and even destroyed key brain regions that help humans survive.

A healthy brain rewards behaviors to encourage repeat actions. Conversely, a healthy brain pushes the body to quickly get out of harm’s way. When the brain is introduced to addictive substances, that normal pleasure/reward circuit can be commandeered, so that the body seeks to have more of what is ultimately destructive. With continued exposure, substances also can destroy the prefrontal cortex, which helps distinguish healthy from harmful.

Scientists are unsure why some people develop addictions and others don’t. Addictive behaviors tend to run in families and specific genes have been linked to certain addictions. Social factors also play a part.

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dictive household, early physical, sexual, or emotional abuse, and high stress environments can all contribute to addiction.

Abuse, addiction, and overdoses are not a 21st century problem. Evidence of grape growing for wine has existed since 7000 BCE and the poppy—the source of opium—was cultivated as early as 3400 BCE. By the first century BCE, literature was dotted with cautionary tales of excess and abuse. As exploration, trade, and colonial expansionism occurred worldwide, governments throughout the 15th-19th centuries viewed addictive substances as both a source of revenue through taxation and a societal challenge to be limited or prohibited.

Drug policies not only were used to address health concerns but were also used as a means of targeting certain ethnic groups. One of the earliest US drug laws, the San Francisco Opium Den Ordinance of 1875, targeted traditional Chinese communities. Late 19th century African immigrants were also vilified as the source of the cocaine influx into the Americas. By the beginning of the 20th century, the societal roots for addiction and general research to better understand the effects of substances on the body began to take hold.

While the scientific community was interested in overall chemical effects on the body, they were also looking for synthetic versions of morphine to meet legitimate pain issues. Legislatively, the 1914 Harrison Narcotic Act mandated increased record-keeping for physicians and pharmacists who dispense narcotics.

Up through the early 1960s, however, overall research on narcotic and substance abuse languished.

The political and social upheaval of the 1960s saw a commensurate rise in the use of illicit

drugs. Under the Nixon Administration, the war on drugs began. In 1970, the Controlled Substances Act was signed into law, classifying drugs into five

Naloxone, the opioid reversal drug, has proven indispensable in reducing overdose deaths. “schedules,” rated by medical benefits and potential for abuse. The classifications, however, were based more on stigma and fear than science. The Drug Enforcement Administration was created, and overall federal policing control was bolstered. The following decade saw the Reagan Administration’s “just say no” policy efforts and increased federal and state incarcerations.

Despite legal efforts to stem drug abuse, overdose deaths have increased steadily since the 1950s. No one event, however, has had a bigger impact on drug access and misuse than the 1995 approval of the semi-synthetic opioid OxyContin®. Because it is time released, the Food and Drug Administration granted approval for use, believing the drug to be a safer alternative to narcotics for pain relief.

However, over the next decade, evidence mounted that its maker, Purdue Pharma, used misleading or fraudulent data to aggressively market the drug.

By then, the first wave of opioid related deaths was well entrenched, followed by the renewal of heroin and the proliferation of synthetic narcotics, such as fentanyl. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, in 1999, just under 20,000 people died from an opioid-related overdose. By 2022, that number had ballooned to over 107,000 annually. Delaware does not fare well in state statistics at 55 deaths per 100,000 population: only two states and DC rank higher in overdose deaths.

According to the Commonwealth Fund, the US leads industrialized nations

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related to all overdose deaths, with the US overdose death rate 22 percent higher than the next ranked country, Scotland. Many of these countries have instituted risk reduction strategies that are limited or non-existent in the US. In most countries highlighted in the Commonwealth Fund study, over 50 percent of those needing substance use disorder (SUD) treatments had access to them, as opposed to 11 percent of Americans. The US incarcerates individuals at a much higher rate than peer countries, with a disproportionate number of people of color affected. Although many of those incarcerated have a SUD, they receive no treatment while in prison.

Moreover, the US invests less in mental health and other social services which can reduce the incidence of SUD. Naloxone, the opioid reversal drug, has proven indispensable in reducing overdose deaths. While access to this

drug has improved, barriers still exist.

These include cost, differing state laws, and inadequate funding for community organizations that distribute naloxone.

Clean needle exchange programs have been proven to reduce infections associated with shared needle use, and the programs through which they operate also can provide access to other harm reduction avenues. Unfortunately, congressional restrictions do not allow the federal government to directly fund these activities, and six states still have no syringe exchange programs.

According to the CDC, Delaware has received about five million dollars to help with harm reduction strategies. As part of the state’s Overdose Response Strategy (ORS) program, the Delaware Division of Public Health—along with other state agencies—has engaged state law enforcement leadership to participate in the First Responder Naloxone Leave-Behind

Program. As a result, 15 of Delaware’s 47 police departments are currently part of the program. Delaware also has expanded education for providers on non-opioid pain management strategies. Finally, several mental health state and non-profit organizations participate in clean needle exchanges.

Over the last four decades the US war on drugs has cost over one trillion dollars and by all estimates, has failed miserably.

Substance misuse and addiction are not criminal issues but complex, biological, chronic health conditions. It’s time to put the US taxpayers’ dollars to better use. ▼ Sharon A. Morgan is a retired advanced practice nurse with over 30 years of clinical and healthcare policy background.

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Online lists, searches, and links helpisherede.com Delaware Hope Line: 833-9-HOPEDE Naloxone (Narcan) Access Training Offered by Delaware Department of Health & Social Services; Division of Substance Abuse & Mental Health.

OPEN TO: All members of the community WHERE: Lewes Public Library (and other

locations throughout the state)

WHEN: Monthly; next training: Septem-

ber 14, 2024; 12:00-2:00 p.m. (Additional trainings will be offered the second Saturday of each month, through December, at the same place and time.)

Each training has two sessions:

an informative presentation and time for practice and questions.

• SECOND SESSION: A Point of Distribution (POD) training, best for returning trainees, or those who have used a naloxone kit previously. The POD session is open for one hour, but participants should plan only for a 15-minute window to complete the training during this hour.

Participants do NOT need to attend for the full hour of the POD session.

At the completion of both training sessions, each participant is eligible to receive an Opioid Rescue Kit.

Youth Crisis Support: Crisis intervention services for children under 18. Parents and caregivers are connected to a crisis clinician. Available 24/7. Call 800-9694357 or text DE to 741-741.

988: Free, confidential support and resources for anyone in distress. Available 24/7. Call 988.

Delaware Hope Line: Free coaching and support. Links to mental health, addiction, and crisis services. Available 24/7. Call 833-9-HOPEDE (833-946-7333).

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Reflections

BY PATTIE CINELLI

Letting Go of the R-Word

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on’t do it! You’ll be sorry. You’ll never be able to retire.” Those were just a few of the comments I got when I decided to leave my career in public relations. As I approached living a half-century, I sensed there had to be more to life than devoting most of my waking hours, talent, and focus to a job that had become meaningless to me. My side gig was my health/fitness column, personal training, and teaching fitness classes. I wanted to make money doing what I loved doing. I started my own fitness business.

I realize that what I did at 50, many do when they retire—a concept that always seemed alien to me.

Merriam-Webster’s definition of retire includes the phrases, “to withdraw from action, from circulation, from one’s occupation.” When I left public relations, and again, when I reconfigured my fitness career, I did none of those things.

My squeamishness for the “R-word” began years ago when I was media relations director at Gallaudet University.

I questioned the common concept of retiring when a colleague announced she had only 10 years, 24 days and 2.5 hours until she could retire. It left me puzzled.

How could anyone stay someplace where they were counting the years until they can leave?

Quitting a full-time job or deciding you are finished with the career you’ve held for decades doesn’t mean you are giving up. Even though much of our identity in life is tied to our work, resigning from our career gives us an opportunity to rethink our purpose and to rediscover who we are. But some, like a beach house friend, hang onto a career long after it was over because they have no idea what to do without their job.

Even if people know what makes them happy, many—unfortunately—wait until they retire to focus on who and what is most important to them.

Sometimes they wait too long and the opportunity passes them by—like my dad, who was excited about moving to Florida where he bought land for retirement. He didn’t live long enough to realize his dream.

My friend Art, who retired from the IRS, didn’t give up his profession as an accountant. He now heads up his condominium’s board, is chief judge for his neighborhood polling location, and is chairman of the annual conference of the Advanced Tax Institute. In his spare time, he does tax returns.

I’ve declared a new goal: have fun. I wish I had thought of it a lot earlier in my life…

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When asked, “What do you do?” you can bet he doesn’t answer, “I’m retired.”

For some, quitting an all-consuming job may mean being able to learn something new or taking on a position about which you are passionate.

After leaving 30 years of nursing, my friend Debi Jo created an interior design business—a job that leverages her significant talents, and one she enjoys.

Retiring could also mean you can now devote time to checking stuff off your bucket list, caretaking the grandkids, or volunteering. It certainly doesn’t mean you’ve checked out and are doing nothing. A pickleball buddy told me now that he’s retired, he feels he has less time to do everything he wants to do than when he was working. He has no idea how he got everything done and held a full-time position.

Retirement in America can mean different things to different people. It can be a time to reinvent yourself. It can also signal a time in your life when you can relax and have fun. When I ask someone what they do, telling me they are retired isn’t answering my question.

When I moved to Lewes four years ago, everyone I met asked me what I did. Not once did I say “retired,” even though I was no longer operating my fitness business. To me, retirement is for people who identify themselves as old, and who have little desire to do anything much.

I see old as an attitude, not an age. I’m excited about the possibilities that await me. Not reestablishing my fitness career when I moved here freed me to explore other interests. Once realized, a few I found I needed to let go; others have surprised me and are manifesting into what may be my next career.

Shifting goals and changing focus may be scary for some but for me it’s invigorating. I find routine mundane and predictable, and the unknown thrilling and hopeful. I’ve declared a new goal: have fun.

I wish I had thought of it a lot earlier in my life because I’ve discovered what you think about, you get. And I’m getting to have lots of fun.

The next time someone asks what you do, what will you answer? ▼ Pattie Cinelli is a journalist who focuses on non-traditional ways to stay healthy and get well. Email Pattie Cinelli at fitmiss44@aol.com.

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CommunityNews Delaware State Parks Claims Gold at RBP Lifeguard Olympics

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aris wasn’t the only place where fierce Olympic competition took place. Just a few weeks ago, some 200 lifeguards representing a dozen beach patrols from Sussex County and Ocean City, Maryland, competed in the 47th Annual Rehoboth Beach Patrol Lifeguard Olympics. Lifeguards from Delaware State Parks dominated, claiming the gold and bragging rights.

Lt. Rawley FLorax, Rehoboth Beach Patrol On July 25, lifeguards competed in 10 events on Rehoboth Beach. Events included runs and swims as well as paddle rescue, iron man medley, beach flags, and tug-of-war.

Rehoboth Beach Patrol’s Lt. Bryan Bowles notes of this year’s event, “The total team effort demonstrated by all those competing was inspiring. And the competition was intense with a hard-fought win by Delaware State Parks.”

Following Delaware State Parks, the top finishing beach patrols were: Bethany Beach (second), Ocean City (third), Rehoboth Beach (fourth) and Middlesex (fifth). ▼

Calling All Needleworkers!

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eedleworkers of all ages are encouraged to enter their work for an upcoming exhibit at the Rehoboth Beach Museum. Entries will be accepted at the Museum between August 26 and September 4. Details (and a downloadable application form) are available at rehobothbeachmuseum.org; application forms are also available at the front desk of the Museum, or call (302) 227-7310 to have a copy mailed.

The Rehoboth Beach Historical Society’s Annual Needlework Exhibition will open at the Rehoboth Beach Museum on September 14, 2024. Typically, more than 80 regional needle artists participate, submitting nearly 100 entries each year. The works are judged by a certified judge, and awards are given in 11 categories. A Best in Show and a Judge’s Choice Award are also given.

The exhibit is open to the public and visitors can vote for their favorite piece for the People’s Choice Award. The exhibit will continue through November 10, 2024. There will be at least one special event during the exhibit. Details will be announced closer to the exhibit dates. All award winners will be listed on the Society’s website.

“This is my favorite annual event and I’m thrilled that it continues to grow each year. The creativity and talent of our local and not-so-local needleworkers is phenomenal,” said Museum Collections Manager and Needlework Exhibit Curator Michele Wilt.

The museum is located at 511 Rehoboth Avenue. Museum hours are Monday and Friday 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., and Saturdays and Sundays from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.

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Words Matter

BY CLARENCE FLUKER

Our Paths Are Our Own

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ongratulations! That is what I shouted twice within a 30-minute window. I was so excited to hear the good news from my friends: the stork was making visits to two homes.

First, I got a call from a friend who I’d just seen the day before. I went to church and brunch with him and his wife. Typically, we all order mimosas, but this Sunday she passed on drinking. I didn’t read much into it. Now, it was clear. She’s pregnant. They didn’t tell me that day because they wanted to wait until they could also share the ultrasound. A beautiful young couple with big hearts. I know they are going to be great parents.

After I’d gotten off the phone with them, I threw my shoes on so that I could meet my neighbor for a walk. The last couple of years, a ‘walk & talk’ has become our way of connecting with each other. It’s a perfect avenue for us to spend quality time together, bounce ideas off each other, and get in our steps.

A little over a year ago, she mentioned that she felt her window for becoming a mother was narrowing and that there was no Prince Charming in sight. She’d always imagined that she would grow up, graduate college, begin her career, fall in love, get married, have children, and live happily ever after. Some of those things had happened already. She’s matured into womanhood, earned two degrees, and has an awesome career that she loves.

Becoming a mother is very important to her but understanding and accepting that finding a life partner or getting married wasn’t something definite at her age, she decided that she would use the resources available to her to become a mom on her own. This wasn’t at all the way she’d envisioned taking this step in life, but it was the step she was committed to taking.

As we walked that evening, she told me that after creating a plan and navigating the long journey, she’s now three months pregnant. I was ecstatic to hear her news and the thrill in her voice.

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It takes courage to decide to do the unconventional, to try a different approach to doing things, and to move at your own pace… and her child will be loved deeply by her village.

It was an action-packed and joy-filled 30 minutes. It was also a wonderful reminder that we can have similar destinations and goals, but we don’t have to get there or achieve them the same way.

Our paths are our own.

When someone asks me where I graduated college, that answer is simple: Morgan State University. When asked where I earned my college credits, that’s a longer answer. I took classes at Cuyahoga Community College and the University of Cincinnati before heading to Morgan. It wasn’t the traditional path that many of my peers took to earning their degrees. They chose one school and stayed there for four years.

My matriculation was different and involved multiple schools that aligned with stages of my personal development. Sometimes it was challenging, but it was the best path for me to become a college graduate and the man that I am today. And even though I had setbacks and took a more winding road, I still graduated the same semester that all

my friends did at their respective colleges across the country.

Famed artist Henri Matisse said that “creativity takes courage.” The scientist and philosopher Aristotle once offered, “You will never do anything in this world without courage. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor.”

It takes courage to decide to do the unconventional, to try a different approach to doing things, and to move at your own pace when the world tells you to always move faster or sets arbitrary timelines. I was able to share in the excitement of my friends because each of them decided to be courageous and move in the direction of creating the life they want to live in a way that makes sense for them. We should all do the same. ▼ Clarence J. Fluker is a public affairs and social impact strategist. Follow him on X (formerly known as Twitter): @CJFluker or Instagram: @Mr_CJFluker.

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CAMPsafe Serves Our Community

Look Up, Get CAMPsafe

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AMP Rehoboth is excited to work with the Delaware Department of Health and Social Services to present new billboards throughout Southern Delaware.

The campaign promotes CAMPsafe, CAMP Rehoboth’s HIV Prevention program that hosts daily walk-in testing opportunities at CAMP Rehoboth and remote locations in Seaford, Laurel, and Georgetown.

The billboards feature a testing locator that not only lists testing locations available through CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, but also provides listings for other testing sites based on location. Simply provide a ZIP code, and options to get an HIV test through partner organizations will populate.

Let’s stop the spread of HIV together.

The only way to combat the rise of HIV is to know one’s status. Take advantage of testing opportunities and get tested regularly. Stay on the lookout for the billboards on routes 13, 113, 9, and Coastal Highway in both Sussex and Kent Counties. ▼

PREVENT HIV & Mpox FREE WALK-IN HIV TESTING Free, rapid, walk-in HIV testing and counseling is available at CAMP Rehoboth and in western Sussex County. Testing days/times are subject to change; please call ahead to verify the current testing schedule.

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CAMPStories

BY RICH BARNETT

Best in Show

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he blazing midday sun shone relentlessly on the fairgrounds and upon the throng of visitors meandering about looking at prize winning livestock and queueing up for classic fair food like funnel cakes, Cheeto-dusted corn dogs, and fried Oreos. I too was meandering, but unlike everyone else yours truly was inside his air-conditioned car and driving very slowly in search of the Dover Building.

I was pretty sure I shouldn’t have been motoring into the heart of the fair, dodging families, motorized wheelchairs, and farm kids leading goats around by leashes. Three different parking attendants, however, had given me three conflicting and confusing sets of directions to the exhibitor parking lot and time was running out for me to drop off my entry in the “best fern frond contest,” one of 25 specimen contests in the cut flower category at this year’s Delaware State Fair in Harrington.

“Dude, just drive right up to the front door,” one sunburned attendant with multiple piercings on his nose, ears, and lips said. He had an official-looking badge, so I did just that. And I felt a swell of relief as I turned a tight corner, almost clipping a French fry stall, and spotted my destination ahead. Per the parking guy’s instructions, I pulled up in front, grabbed the glass vase with my fern frond, and ran inside to the contest check-in desk where I handed it over to an officious older woman. She looked at her wristwatch to confirm I wasn’t late.

“Never seen one like this,” she clucked as she dutifully registered my entry.

The cutting I entered came from a soft shield fern, an evergreen native to southern Europe. Its feathery, dark green fronds look very tropical but are in fact quite hardy. Each frond has a central stem that is densely covered with a mat of soft, reddish-brown hairs that make a striking contrast with the green of the leaflets. It’s quite butch for a fern.

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she just laughed and answered with one word: “Nope.”

Now don’t you laugh, but I wavered for days between butch and femme when considering which fern frond to enter. It had nothing to do with the actual sex of the fern, rather with its appearance. I have

I wavered for days between butch and femme when considering which fern frond to enter. a delicate Japanese autumn fern that I thought might appeal to the judges. In the end, I went butch at the recommendation of several friends who found the hirsute soft shield fern very handsome and unusual. I rolled up my sleeves and thoughtfully cut the biggest, badass fern frond I could find.

Some (most?) of you are probably wondering what on Earth compelled me to enter a fern competition at the State Fair. It’s not like I’m a committed pteridophile (fern lover). In fact, I have never ever purchased a fern. The multiple fern plants growing in my garden today were all rescued from neighborhood properties where houses were being torn down and/ or lots were being clear cut. I entered it because the old-timey flower, fruit, and

vegetable competitions are my favorite part of the Fair. One almost expects to see Aunt Bee and Clara tut-tutting over their prized roses. (Older readers—ahem—will understand this reference.) And admittedly, I’ve always been curious how I stack up against other Delaware gardeners. Isn’t this what retirees do?

As I strolled about the exhibition hall, I couldn’t help but notice certain contests drew more entries than others. Among the flowers, dahlias and marigolds were quite popular while peaches, tomatoes, and watermelons dominated the fruits and vegetables. There were quite a few pumpkins, which puzzled me because I always thought they ripened in the fall. The ferns were represented well. Looking over the competition, I was pleased with my entry because all the others were look-alike femme ferns.

I didn’t stay for the judging because my car was illegally parked, and I needed to get back to Rehoboth for a cocktail engagement. As I drove through the crowded fairgrounds, I could feel victory in my bones. It might have been my sciatica acting up. Nevertheless, if I didn’t win, well, I’d just go ahead and claim the win because obviously the election—I mean, the competition—would have been rigged.

Fortunately, I didn’t have to compromise my morals because the judges awarded my fern frond the blue ribbon.

The scores—perfect fives in each category for uniformity, color, condition, and maturity—also merited a fancy rosette ribbon as the Judges Choice Award for the best specimen in the entire cut flower category.

A few days later, as I drove out of the Fair with my ribbons and now-dead fern frond, I couldn’t help but wonder if the judges knew that a fern frond isn’t technically a flower. I’m not telling if you won’t. I’ve got my eyes on a repeat championship. ▼ Rich Barnett is the author of The Discreet Charms of a Bourgeois Beach Town, and Fun with Dick and James.

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OUTlook

BY BETH SHOCKLEY

Getting Well-er

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Like with most things that are good for me, I come kicking and yelling into wellness, or my version of it, anyway.

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t’s National Wellness Month! I know, it slipped my mind, too, but wait a second and I’ll go grab the confetti.

Clearly, my attitude toward wellness needs work, although surprisingly, it’s been getting quite a workout lately. Having determined after nearly two years that I’m not willingly, or even magically, going to lose those extra pandemic pounds (and too much before that), I have joined Noom, an online weight reduction program. It’s based on cognitive behavioral therapy, and that approach has worked for me in the past for quitting smoking. So, I reasoned, why wouldn’t it work to help to stop eating all the processed, addictive foods I’ve been unwisely consuming?

The Noom program gives me tools, and tools are very helpful. They’re not too onerous. The program’s not too strict—the weight comes off slow and steady while the behavior changes stay embedded for the duration and after. I won’t meet my goal until April 2025. So tools, like logging meals and weighing every day, and doing the little readings, are helping me a good deal.

But for any addiction, the desire to stop doing it has to be there or else it just doesn’t stick, in my experience. So, the first step I had to take: I had to find the willingness to stop drinking my beloved Dr. Pepper. RIP, dear Dr. Pepper. It’s been a tough separation. Seriously. I love Dr. Pepper—the real thing, with hundreds of calories of pure useless sugar and caffeine! Loved that little jolt in each slug!

But, as with all things, they say, comes a time. My time with Dr. Pepper, sadly but necessarily, is over. I miss it terribly. I now drink Cherry Coke Zero. Baby steps, you know. And just seltzer in the morning.

I also eat different whole foods and substitute healthier things for snacks. It’s not all that difficult.

It’s finally starting to work; my body, I think, is catching on, and I’ve lost a few pounds after a few weeks. I’ll keep at it. I need to lose a pretty good chunk of change to meet my goal. Of course, as soon as my body figures out that the weight is dropping, it will then start to

cling desperately to every ounce, every molecule, to keep hanging on…. Ah, now that’s a classic case of what’s known elsewhere as “stinkin’ thinkin.” See—I have tools to identify thoughts like those.

Paying attention to my food intake is not all that difficult, thankfully. But the other half of the wellness equation is to move more.

This one, for some reason, is really vexing me. I began yoga as soon as I retired and kept it up until recently, when I had to have physical therapy for a bad hip joint. OMG, I really AM talking about ailments. I’ll be back in yoga in two weeks. I already talked to the instructor (accountability is another one of those tools I’m learning).

But the big change that I need to make is the one I’m not making at all—getting outside for simple walking. It’s so bad it’s become a thing, and I can’t see past it yet.

I figured out that some of it has to do with losing both our dogs in 2023, and the fond memories of walking in the neighborhood with them. Now I’ll be walking without them, and I—apparently—really don’t want to do that. However, I also don’t like walking when it’s hot/raining/you name it. But come on, before I moved to Delaware, I was a New York City girl who walked everywhere, all the time. So, stay tuned—I’ll get past this eventually, I know.

Like with most things that are good for me, I come kicking and yelling into wellness, or my version of it, anyway. The struggle is real, but doable, and for that, I am thankful.

I recently celebrated my birthday, and as trite or corny as it may seem, I think the best gift I can give myself is that of wellness, of being healthy enough as I age to do so comfortably (as much as possible).

Considering some of the damage I heaped on this poor body in my younger days, I’m fortunate indeed to have my health for now.

I’d like to keep it that way.

Grapes, anyone? ▼ Beth Shockley is a retired senior writer/editor living in Dover with her wife and furbabies.

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Straight Talk

BY DAVID GARRETT

“Oh, Ye of Little Faith!”

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here are six instances of this phrase being delivered in the Christian Bible, five of which are found in the Gospel of Matthew. Jesus spoke those words to his disciples. One would expect them to have the faith necessary to follow and understand the message Jesus was bringing to the world. For those who read the Christian New Testament, it is clear that on numerous occasions, the disciples just didn’t get it.

The institutional church today, having undergone numerous splits and partisan mergers over the centuries, has yet to define itself in a coherent, cohesive way. There are fewer flavors of Baskin-Robbins ice cream than there are religious bodies that debate, rather than define, their faith. Across the United States today, certain faith communities are attempting to make their “flavor” the one that supersedes all the others.

The formerly “United” Methodist Church has undergone a radical and outright ugly split over the past few years. In light of growing acceptance of—and demand for—inclusivity and equality in the pews of their churches, those who are less than welcoming to the rainbow spectrum have been fleeing the Mother Church. In fact, most of these congregations have voted to leave the church while keeping possession of the building and grounds.

In these instances, those who worship a loving and accepting deity are the ones who must leave that particular congregation. To the ones rejecting the call to love and accept others, we say, “Oh, ye of little faith.”

There are actions and reactions taken by state legislatures that have life-changing consequences for innumerable persons in the US. The lives of women who live in Iowa will change for the (much) worse, as this state has put a complete abortion ban at six weeks into force. Over in Minnesota, death threats and false accusations Letters 40 AUGUST 16, 2024

are being directed to State Rep. Leigh Finke. She is trans, elected to represent a predominantly queer constituency.

She has been working to change the language of a bill that calls transpersons groomers and pedophiles. The vitriol and hostility she has endured in light of her efforts would test any person’s well-being.

Not one, not two, but three anti-transgender laws were recently signed into law on the same day.

And then, Governor Chris Sununu of New Hampshire is leaving his discriminating thumbprint on trans life in his state. Not one, not two, but three anti-transgender laws were recently signed into law on the same day. Even though its occurrence is rare, one law prohibits performing gender-affirming surgeries on minors. The second new law prevents trans girls in grades five through 12 from participating in team sports that do not match their birth gender. The third law passed expands a law already in place that classifies referrals or direct involvement of medical professionals in genderaffirming care as unprofessional. It also subjects them to disciplinary action.

“Oh, ye of little faith.”

The common theme lying dormant within these laws and public misbehavior is that their Christian faith leads—yes, even demands—that they pursue their hateful agenda. The slightest contradiction or contested opinion of their understanding of holy scriptures elicits a most vehement condemnation.

It was quite amusing to see this in action during the Paris Olympics. The whole misinterpretation of the Feast of Bacchus dramatic portrayal as a

secular attack on the Last Supper was enlightening. If clutching pearls were an Olympic event, the right-wing Christians would have taken home the gold. “Oh, ye of little faith.”

Rep. Cory Booker, even though not a theologian, has this to share: “Don’t speak to me about your religion; first show it to me in how you treat other people. Don’t tell me how much you love your God; show me in how much you love all God’s children. Don’t preach to me your passion for your faith; teach me through your compassion for your neighbors.”

The crux of this exploration of one’s faith in the public marketplace is that we must all live our lives of faith in such a manner that others watching us will stand in amazement because we are so generous, caring, accepting, and focused on helping others. Devoted to nonviolence, Mahatma Ghandi was once asked by a reporter what he thought about Jesus Christ. He replied, “I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians.

Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”

“Oh, ye of little faith.” Those who claim to be people of faith must not only proclaim such with their lips, they must also show it with their lives and their hearts. There’s a lot of work left to be done. ▼ David Garrett, a CAMP Rehoboth Board member, is a straight advocate for equality and inclusion. He is also the proud father of an adult trans daughter. Email David Garrett at davidg@camprehoboth.com.

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AIDS WALK DELAWARE

Walk for a Cause

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IDS Delaware and the Delaware HIV Consortium jointly will present the 38th annual AIDS Walk Delaware on Saturday, September 21, 2024, with walkers stepping off at 10:00 a.m.

The Walk takes place in Wilmington (Brandywine Park) and Rehoboth Beach (Grove Park) and is the state’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS fundraising and awareness event. Funds raised help provide free, rapid HIV testing, medical case management services, HIV-specific mental health counseling, HIV/PrEP education and prevention programs, housing assistance, and transportation services.

This year’s Walk coincides with the International Day of Peace (aka World Peace Day), established by the United Nations. One of the Day’s foundational pillars is Good Health and Well-Being. To honor this, people will walk and raise funds to support those with HIV, ensuring they receive the medication and treatment necessary for their physical and mental well-being. Additionally, the Walk provides education on HIV and PrEP to prevent further cases, empowering people with the knowledge to protect themselves and others. As of June 2024, there are 3,993 people in Delaware with HIV, with 60 new cases reported so far this year.

“Our best chance of eliminating HIV is assuring people get tested, know their status, and—if they are HIV positive—to get them into care and on a structured medical regimen. This helps them stay healthy and reduces the spread of HIV,” says Frank Hawkins, Director of Prevention Services at AIDS Delaware. “People with HIV who get to and maintain an undetectable viral load have virtually no risk of spreading HIV to another person.”

Creating more community awareness of PrEP is another critical goal of the Walk. PrEP is a prevention medication that is 99 percent effective at reducing the risk of contracting HIV, but too few people are aware of it.

Funds raised from the Walk also benefit other HIV service organizations, including the Ministry of Caring, Beautiful Gate Outreach Center, the William J. Holloway Community Program, and CAMP Rehoboth.

Walk check-in begins at 9:00 a.m. in Wilmington, Brandywine Park, 1080 North Park Drive, and Rehoboth Beach, Grove Park at Columbia Avenue and Grove Street. Walkers are encouraged to visit the Knowledge Neighborhood at their respective parks before and after walking. Dogs are welcome at both locations.

Walkers and anyone who wants to donate are invited to visit AIDSWalkDelaware.org to register. The walk is free; walkers who raise at least $35 receive a commemorative t-shirt.

For more information or to sponsor the Walk, visit AIDSWalkDelaware.org or contact John Beckley (jbeckley@aidsdelaware.org; 302.652.6776, x221). ▼

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View Point

BY RICHARD J. ROSENDALL

Then They Came for the Cat Ladies J.D. Vance’s Hostility Toward Childfree Women

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think it is better to treat animals like people than to treat people like animals.

Republican vice presidential candidate J.D. Vance said in 2021, “We are effectively run in this country... by a bunch of childless cat ladies who are miserable at their own lives and the choices that they’ve made, and so they want to make the rest of the country miserable, too.”

My reaction when I read that was to ask, “What is the Latin for government by cat ladies?” My answer was to coin the term felefeminocracy.

I was not aware that America was run by cat ladies. Since we’re making things up, I suspect Sen. Vance is one of the people from Men in Black who are controlled by tiny aliens inside their heads.

Vance, to put it mildly, has a problem with women. He thinks they should stay home and raise children, and be forced to stay with abusive husbands. Never mind that his wife Usha is an attorney with a JD from Yale who served as a law clerk for Brett Kavanaugh and John Roberts.

The busybodies of the far right think that rules—as Leona Helmsley said about taxes—are for the little people.

Paleoconservative and anti-feminist Phyllis Schlafly went around the country for years saying women should stay at home. Evidently, she felt at home on the lecture circuit.

Vance also suggested that people’s children should be given the vote, to be managed by their parents. His reasoning is that people without children have no stake in the future of the country. He favors the nuclear family over the extended family prevalent in many cultures. He wants to eliminate diverse families (I’m looking at you, Pete and Chasten) and trap everyone in the 1950s sitcom Father Knows Best.

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that I have no biological children. I do have lots of nephews and nieces whose futures I very much care about, and my partner has a wonderful son who calls me Daddy Rick. There are also a few

“What is the Latin for government by cat ladies?” My answer: felefeminocracy.

LGBTQ refugees in Kenya who call me Daddy for helping them after they were forced to flee their homes and countries to avoid honor killings.

Some of those refugees have already been resettled to the United States. No doubt the man at the top of Vance’s ticket, Donald Trump, considers them vermin who are poisoning white American blood, even if they are here legally. When the ICE police are rounding up people next year in the promised mass deportation that was cheered by delegates at the Republican National Convention, don’t count on them to care who is documented and who is not. If you look like one of “those people,” out you go.

To be honest, I think I have more and better family values in my pinky finger than J.D. Vance has in his entire body.

There is no doubt in my mind that my cat lady friends would do a far better job of running this country than the likes of Sen. Vance. As for people being miserable, he seems pretty unhappy himself.

As shown by their demonization of diversity, equity, and inclusion, Trump, Vance, and their diehards think the only sensibilities that deserve respect are their own. Anything they don’t like should be mocked, vilified, and possibly banned. It’s like going to a restaurant and insisting on ordering for the strangers at the next table.

Why don’t these people mind their own business? For that matter, what do they have against cats? Since wild speculation has apparently replaced evidence and science in this country, let me venture to guess that the answer lies in the aloofness cats are often known for, in contrast to the adoration exhibited by dogs. Cats probably remind Vance of the girls who ignored him in school.

Unlike Mrs. Vance, I do not have a degree from Yale. But my own alma mater, Villanova University, has a page on its website titled “LGBTQIA+ Resources.”

This is in happy contrast with the time I risked expulsion by organizing a debate on gay rights at the Villanova Political Union in 1978.

Times change. We don’t have to let kitty-hating authoritarians turn back the clock.

The MAGA concept of liberty is that they are entitled to do whatever they like, and the rest of us must offer abject deference. Let’s give them a purrfectly dreadful time on Election Day. ▼ Richard J. Rosendall is a writer and activist at rrosendall@me.com.

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49 Letters

The Writing Life

BY MARIBETH FISCHER

No Such Thing as a One-Off On Writing a Novel

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wo years ago, in my first phone call with the editor at Dutton Books, who would soon acquire my novel, A Season of Perfect Happiness, she asked, “Is this novel just a one-off for you?”

I understood why she was asking. At the time of our conversation, it had been 14 years since I’d published a novel.

Fourteen. Still, her question startled me.

And the polite deferential tone I’d been using until that moment disappeared.

“What? A one-off? No!” True, I explained, I hadn’t published a book in over a decade. But I wrote every day. I’d written two other (unpublished) novels, given numerous readings, published essays. I was a writer in my bones.

It’s who I was, how I spent my days. My whole life was about writing: I taught writers, advocated for writers, hosted literary events, and read constantly—read as if it were my job.

So, a one-off? It was a fair question, but I hated it.

I mention all this because although Dutton is releasing A Season of Perfect Happiness on August 20, a novel I am so proud of, a novel that has already garnered praise from writers I admire, I don’t view this accomplishment as my most significant. It’s what people will pay attention to, and I’m grateful for and humbled by every bit of that attention, but the important part of my story is the part about how I never stopped writing even when I wasn’t publishing.

I wrote during the years of piling up rejections, years when my writing couldn’t live up to the enormous dreams I had for it. An idea would come, and I’d envision what the finished product would be, but the results were never as beautiful or intricate as I’d imagined. Still, I kept trying because I believe our stories matter—and I will always believe this. When I feel doubt about writing (and I do—even now) I consider all the joy that has entered my life through books, and I’m so thankful for those writers who didn’t give up. Mostly, I continued to write because nothing in my Letters 50 AUGUST 16, 2024

life—except marrying my husband—has ever made as much sense to me as that act of arranging words, casting for the perfect image or the surprising verb, the glimmering net of sentences that would capture exactly what I longed to say.

It was one thing to believe stories mattered, but another thing entirely to believe my story mattered.

For a long time, though—nearly fourteen years—I lost sight of what I wanted to say.

It was one thing to believe stories mattered, but another thing entirely to believe my story mattered.

I still remember the January afternoon when I decided to print out the novel I’d spent the last three years writing. I’d revised nearly 400 pages, but still, I was struggling: What was this book about?

It was snowing, the house quiet.

Periodically, I’d glance from my writing to the flakes falling over the cornfield just beyond our yard. I was on page 71.

I remember this so clearly. In the next room, the printer was softly churning out more pages.

But I wouldn’t read them. I knew in my heart the novel wasn’t working, and I didn’t have the energy or desire—or maybe the know-how—to fix what needed fixing.

And so, I gave up on that book. But I didn’t give up on writing. I wanted to. I was tired, frustrated, and dispirited. But I wanted to write. I wanted to write a novel I cared about, a novel that would make a difference—however small—to the people who read it. Maybe this was arrogant; maybe it was too idealistic, but I couldn’t not want this. It’s what I want for all writers.

Sometimes finding the story is harder than writing it.

I started again, hesitantly, tentatively, afraid to invest more years in a project that might fail.

But the next project was the novel about to be published: A Season of Perfect Happiness. I wish it hadn’t taken me so long, but I also know that so much of what is good about this novel comes from the ghosts of the books that failed.

I needed to write the “wrong” story in order to find the right one.

In that sense, there’s no such thing as a one-off. There can’t be. There’s just the daily work and the enormous hope.

Holding onto that is the best accomplishment there is. ▼ A Season of Perfect Happiness is available at Browseabout Books in Rehoboth and on Amazon.

Maribeth Fischer is founder and Executive Director of the Rehoboth Beach Writers Guild, where she teaches classes in novel writing and creative nonfiction. A Season of Perfect Happiness is her third novel.

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NOT JUST A CONDIMENT

BY CHRISTOPHER MOORE

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ustard, the taste bud tickler which adds bite to everything from hot dogs to Sookhi Baji, has a spicy history all its own. It exists as both an ancient seed and a modern kitchen standard. It also functions in ways other condiments do not, often camouflaged with other ingredients. Whether it’s sweet, bright yellow, or hot as hell, its name speaks for itself; and, with National Mustard Day on August 3, it’s (past) time to celebrate its squirted, spreadable glory.

To contextualize mustard’s place in society, it’s necessary to first explore its origin story. Mustard seed may be as old as Methuselah and features prominently in biblical literature. It is used as a device to show that one only needs a seed’s worth of faith for beliefs to grow. Similarly, in India, the mustard seed was used to illustrate the commonality of loss, told through the story of Gautama Buddha.

In the more recent past, some 4,000 years ago, mustard plant harvesting was common in Egyptian, Grecian, and Roman cultures. The seeds were used for both food and medicine. During the Middle Ages, mustard enjoyed a golden age.

No banquet table was complete without a jar strategically placed within arm’s reach. Knights would dip their swords in it before battle, believing it strengthened their strikes with extra sizzle.

As the Renaissance dawned, mustard took on a new role as a symbol of sophistication and intrigue. Nobles—the influencers of their day—would host lavish feasts where the centerpiece was the assortment of exotic mustards imported from distant lands.

With the age of exploration came the spread of mustard across the globe.

New settlers carried mustard seeds with them to North America, where it quickly became a staple in those early kitchens.

Mustard found itself at home among the early colonial cornucopia, adding twists to dishes which previously lacked a certain je ne sais quoi.

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space includes grocery store shelves, state fair food booths, and plastic-covered tables at summertime barbeques.

It also makes the odd appearance as a stain on t-shirts, swimming trunks, and often, the most expensive item one owns, which is also impossible to clean.

Personally, when I think of mustard, I think about the pizza which was served at the Milford Skating Rink when I was a kid.

While Canada and Nepal hold the honors for largest production of mustard in the world, countries like France and Germany tout their expertise, even though their respective brands might be more steeped in folklore than fact. It turns out France’s Dijon varieties can be made anywhere in the world, and there are so many similar variations of German mustard that expertly defining it is no longer possible.

This type of mustard market saturation has caused it to lose some gravitas.

It now shares duties with other condiments like ketchup, relish, and mayo.

In addition, it may exist in alphabetical order in the spice aisle among less intriguing options like lemon pepper and Monterey steak seasoning.

Still, mustard persists. It is the third and fourth most popular condiment at McDonalds (honey and hot, respectively).

It remains a popular dusting on pretzels, ranging from Dot’s to Snyder’s. It also provides flavor on potato chips, pork rinds, and croutons. French’s, a popular American brand, even released mustard flavored Skittles.

Personally, when I think of mustard, I think about the pizza which was served at the Milford Skating Rink when I was a kid. The big move among my peers was to spread yellow mustard on top of the melted cheese. While this may not sound lovely, I assure you, it was perfection. As adults, my brother and I still talk about that pizza—and the mustard.

Perhaps it’s nostalgia, where the memory of taste activates memories of a different place and time. Moments like that provide comfort and enjoyment. This might explain the grip mustard has on our world. Hot dogs seem less exciting without it. Sandwiches are missing that zing. Pretzel options in Wawa at 2:00 a.m. after a rowdy night out seem less compelling. The job of mustard, as intense as it might be, is to enhance the instance one takes their first bite, closes their eyes, and basks in the flavor. In those moments, it’s a job well done.

From seed to shop shelves, mustard has left its beautiful, bright stain on the fabric of popular culture. It has inspired everything from museums to festivals to fashion. Chefs swear by it, artists paint its golden hues, and kids still bop their bottle on the bottom to ensure the first squirt isn’t all yellow water. Simply put: mustard isn't just a condiment; it's a cultural tradition—a symbol of heritage, history, rebellion, flavor, and the audacity to think outside the spice rack. ▼ Christopher Moore is Interim Executive Director of AIDS Delaware. He loves NPR, naughty jokes, and a man who lives in Toronto.

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BY ANN APTAKER

Royal Romantic: King James of Scotland

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here isn’t much—well, nothing, actually—that I find amusing about Donald Trump, with one exception: Trump as Bible salesman. Really, of all the people one might expect to shill Bibles, a multiple adulterer, sexual predator, and serial liar doesn’t spring to mind.

According to news accounts, the customers for Trump’s Bible are, ironically, the sort of folks whose religious beliefs frown on such behavior, with a particular loathing of same sex relationships, an activity they scorn as a guaranteed doomed-to-hell sin.

Hah! If they only knew. Those King James versions of the Bible found in hotel rooms and hawked by wannabe King Donald, were commissioned by a real king who found the love of men quite delightful.

Meet King James, whose official title was James I of England and Ireland, and James VI of Scotland.

He was the son of the tragic queen Mary Queen of Scots, who was imprisoned and eventually beheaded in 1587 for her independence from English sovereignty and maintaining her Catholic faith despite the official adoption of Protestantism by Mary’s cousin, Queen Elizabeth of England. Upon Mary’s death, James, a mere one year old, was now king of Scotland.

At the age of 17, in 1583, James was no longer subject to governing regents and was able to take full control of the Scottish government. In 1603, upon the death of Queen Elizabeth, who produced no heir, James, cousin to Elizabeth, was named King of England in addition to his kingship of Scotland.

He married Anne of Denmark in 1589, and by all accounts it was a very happy marriage. In fact, at a time when royal marriages were arranged to cement political alliances, the marriage of James and Anne appeared to be a true love match, and a passionate one. The couple produced seven children, though as sadly typical of the time, four died in infancy.

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marriage, James indulged in extramarital affairs, as was the privilege of powerful men at the time. But unlike other kings and the privileged men of the nobility and aristocracy, James did not take mistresses. He took male lovers.

But unlike other kings and the privileged men of the nobility and aristocracy, James did not take mistresses. He took male lovers.

James indulged in same sex affairs despite the prevailing attitudes of the Catholic church of his mother’s lineage and the Protestant Church of England.

In England, especially, James, as king, was considered Defender of the Faith, a title he fully embraced. He agreed with a group of English biblical scholars that a new English language version of the Bible was needed. In 1611, under James’s imprimatur, the King James Bible was published. It remains the dominant English language Christian Bible still today.

How odd, then, that James would enthusiastically pursue a religious proj-

ect while engaging in a sexual practice the church condemned. Were he not a king, just a mere citizen, punishment for homosexual sex was imprisonment and sometimes even death by hanging.

James, though, as king, was free to do whatever he wanted.

For a while, his favorite lover was Esme Stewart, the Duke of Lennox, followed by Robert Carr, the Earl of Somerset. The Carr affair ended in 1614 when James met the handsome George Villiers, the Duke of Buckingham. According to the biography of Villiers in the Encyclopedia Britannica, the affair was certainly sexual, and Villiers “retained the king’s passionate support to the end of (James’s) life.”

Meanwhile, James and his wife Anne maintained their tight bond of marriage, including in the marriage bed. Evidently, Anne looked the other way when her husband indulged in his homosexual affairs.

In today’s definitions of sexual preferences, James would likely be identified as bisexual. Though almost all of his lovers were male, there is evidence that he took a female lover now and then, including Anne Murray Lyon, the Countess of Kinghorne. His long and fruitful marriage to Anne of Denmark is another indication of James’s comfort with heterosexual sex.

It's James’s male lovers, though, who dominated the king’s extramarital activities. Surely, the biblical scholars James commissioned to produce a Bible under the king’s name knew of James’s love life, or at least strongly suspected.

Perhaps the Archbishop of Canterbury knew, too. But as long as James championed the church’s endeavors, it was happy to embrace him, despite what the church considered his repeated sins.

Sound familiar? ▼ Ann Aptaker is the author of short stories and the Lambda & three-time Goldie award winning Cantor Gold series. Her latest book, A Crime of Secrets, was released in July 2023.

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CAMP REHOBOTH BEACH GUIDE BEACH AREA LODGING Atlantic Sands Hotel, Boardwalk & Baltimore Ave.........................302-227-2511 Atlantic View Hotel, Ocean Front 2 Clayton St, Dewey.................302-227-3878 Atlantis Inn, 154 Rehoboth Ave.....................................................302-227-9446 Beach View Hotel, 6 Wilmington Ave.............................................302-227-2999 Breakers Hotel, 105 2nd St & Baltimore Ave.................................302-227-6688 Canalside Inn, 34 6th St.................................................................302-226-2006 Rehoboth Guest House, 40 Maryland Ave.....................................302-227-4117 Sea ‘n Stars Guest Suites, 44 Delaware Ave.................................302-226-2742 Summer Place Hotel, 1st St & Olive Ave........................................302-226-0766 The Avenue Inn & Spa, 33 Wilmington Ave....................................302-226-2900

LEWES FOOD & DRINK

Visit the Beach Guide Directory on the CAMP Rehoboth website to find links to these area businesses in BOLD. The Guide includes: Food and Wine, Shopping, Lodging, and Services—all at camprehoboth.com.

REHOBOTH RETAIL SHOPS Atlantic Jewelry, 313 South Boardwalk.........................................302-226-0675 New Wave Spas, 20660 Coastal Hwy............................................302-227-8484 Stuart Kingston Gallery, 19470 Coastal Hwy.................................302-227-2524 Unfinished Business, 18389 Olde Coach Rd.................................302-645-8700

ART GALLERIES | MUSEUMS Biggs Museum of American Art, thebiggsmuseum.org Gallery 50, 50 Wilmington Ave......................................................302-227-2050 Peninsula Gallery, 502 E Savannah Rd..........................................302-645-0551 Rehoboth Art League, 12 Dodds Ln...............................................302-227-8408 Rehoboth Beach Museum, 511 Rehoboth Ave..............................302-227-7310

REHOBOTH FOOD & DRINK 1776 Steakhouse, Midway Shopping Center................................302-645-9355 Aqua, 57 Baltimore Ave................................................................ 302-226-9001 Back Porch Café, 59 Rehoboth Ave...............................................302-227-3674 Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave........................................................302-227-6515 Café Azafrán, 18 Baltimore Ave.....................................................302-227-8100 Chesapeake & Maine, 316 Rehoboth Ave.....................................302-226-3600 Coho’s Market & Grill, 305 Rehoboth Ave......................................302-227-2646 Diego’s Bar Nightclub, 37298 Rehoboth Ave................................302-227-1023 Dogfish Head Brewings & Eats 320 Rehoboth Ave.......................302-226-2739 Dos Locos, 208 Rehoboth Ave.......................................................302-227-3353 Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant, 3 South First St.......................302-527-1400 Go Fish, 24 Rehoboth Ave..............................................................302-226-1044 Goolee’s Grille, 11 South 1st St.....................................................302-227-7653 Just In Thyme, 38163 Robinsons Dr..............................................302-227-3100 Lori’s Café, 39 Baltimore Ave.........................................................302-226-3066 Loves Liquors, LLC, 305c Rehoboth Ave........................................302-227-6966 Lupo Italian Kitchen, 247 Rehoboth Ave.......................................302-226-2240 Purple Parrot Grill, 134 Rehoboth Ave...........................................302-226-1139 Rigby’s, 404 Rehoboth Ave............................................................302-227-6080 Shorebreak Lodge, 10 Wilmington Ave.........................................302-227-1007 The Pines, 56 Baltimore Avenue....................................................302-567-2726

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Go Brit, 18388 Coastal Hwy...........................................................302-644-2250 Harbour Waterfront Dining, 134 West Market St...........................302-200-9522 Matt’s Fish Camp, 34401 Tenley Ct...............................................302-644-2267

OTHER AREA FOOD & DRINK Bluecoast Seafood, 30904 Coastal Hwy, Bethany........................302-539-7111 Catch 54, 38931 Madison Ave, Selbyville.....................................302-436-8600 Matt’s Fish Camp, 28635 Coastal Hwy, Bethany...........................302-539-2267

SERVICES AT THE BEACH BUILDING/CLEANING/REMODELING/LANDSCAPING

A.G. Renovations ...........................................................................302-947-4096 bsd, 35603 South St............................................................ 302-684-8588

CHURCHES/SYNAGOGUES

All Saints’ Episcopal, 18 Olive Ave.................................................302-227-7202 Epworth UMC, 19285 Holland Glade Rd.......................................302-227-7743 Grace of God Lutheran, ELCA, 26089 Shoppes at Long Neck.......302-947-1044 M.C.C. of Rehoboth, 19369 Plantation Rd.....................................302-645-4945 Seaside Jewish Community, 18970 Holland Glade Rd..................302-226-8977 St. George’s Episcopal, 20271 Beaver Dam Rd, Harbeson..............302-227-7202 St. Peter’s Episcopal, 2nd & Market Sts, Lewes.............................302-645-8479 Unitarian Universalist, 30486 Lewes-G’Town Hwy........................302-313-5838 Unity of Rehoboth, 98 Rudder Rd, Millsboro.................................302-945-5253 Westminster Presbyterian, 301 King Charles Ave.........................302-227-2109

COMMUNITY RESOURCES

AARP of Delaware (age 50+)..........................................................866-227-7441 ACLU of DE—Lesbian & Gay Civil Rights Project............................302-654-5326 CAMP Rehoboth Chorus—Program of CAMP Rehoboth................302-227-5620 CAMP Rehoboth—LGBTQ Community Service Org........................302-227-5620 CAMP Rehoboth Families—LGBTQ parents connect......................302-227-5620 Cape Henlopen Senior Center—Rehoboth (age 50+)....................302-227-2055 CHEER Centers of Sussex County (age 50+)..................................302-515-3040 Delaware Aging & Disability Resource Center...............................800-223-9074 Delaware Human Relations Commission Housing & public accommodation............................................877-544-8626 Delaware Information Line.....2-1-1Delaware Pride—Community events, annual Pride Festival..................................................................................302-265-3020 Lewes Senior Activity Center (age 50+).........................................302-645-9293 Meals on Wheels Lewes-Rehoboth................................................302-645-7449 PFLAG-Rehoboth—3rd Tuesdays, Public Library, 111 Adams Ave, Lewes Social Security Administration—Georgetown office......................800-772-1213

COUNSELING/THERAPY/LIFE COACH

Jewish Family Services........................................................ 302-478-9411 Kevin J. Bliss, Personal/Professional Coaching.............................302-754-1954 Nancy Commisso, LCSW, Therapeutic Services.............................703-598-2938 Time to Heal Counseling & Consulting, Lewes ............................302-574-6954

ELECTRICIANS

Silver Electric..................................................................................302-227-1107

FINANCIAL SERVICES

County Bank, 19927 Shuttle Rd.......................................... 302-226-9800 Jenn Harpel, Morgan Stanley.........................................................302-644-6620

FLORISTS

Windsor’s Florist, 20326 Coastal Hwy...........................................302-227-9481

FUNERAL SERVICES

Parsell Funeral Homes & Crematorium................................ 302-645-9520

HAIR SALONS/TATTOO & PIERCING

Beach Cuts, 214 Rehoboth Ave...........................................302-226-ROBB Gregory Meyers Hair Studio, 20245 Bay Vista Rd & Rt 1..............302-727-5331 Stephan & Co Salon & Spa, 19266 Coastal Hwy................... 302-260-9478

HEALTH-RELATED

AIDS Delaware – Kent & Sussex Counties.....................................302-226-3519 AIDS Delaware – New Castle County............................................302-652-6776 AIDS Hotline – Delaware statewide...............................................800-422-0429 Brandywine Urology Consultants...................................................302-824-7039 Beebe Healthcare, 26744 J.J. Williams Hwy.................................302-645-3300 CAMPsafe AIDS education & prevention program of CAMP Rehoboth........................................................................302-227-5620 Christiana Care HIV Wellness Clinic ..............................................302-933-3420 Christiana Care LGBTQ+ Health Initiatives.....................................302-733-3113 Delaware HIV Consortium - Statewide..........................................302-654-5471 Delaware Hospice..........................................................................800-838-9800 Delaware Total Foot & Ankle Center.................................... 302-297-8431 National Alliance on Mental Illness of DE (NAMI)...........................302-427-0787 Rehoboth Beach Dental, 19643 Blue Bird Ln....................... 302-226-7960 Maplewood Dental Associates, 18912 J.J. Williams Hwy..... 302-645-6671

REAL ESTATE

Allen Jarmon, NextHome Tomorrow Realty...................................302-745-5122 Chris Beagle, Compass..................................................................302-273-4998 Donna Whiteside, Berkshire Hathaway, 16712 Kings Hwy...........302-381-4871 Hugh Fuller, Realtor........................................................................302-745-1866 John Black, Patterson Schwartz, 18958 Coastal Hwy...................302-703-6987 Lana Warfield, Berkshire Hathaway, 37230 Rehoboth Ave...........302-236-2430 Lee Ann Wilkinson Group, 16698 Kings Hwy....................... 302-645-6664 Lingo Realty, 246 Rehoboth Ave....................................................302-227-3883 McWilliams Ballard, Kevin McDuffie.................................. kmcduffie@mcwb.com McWilliams Ballard, Justin Orr.....................................................jorr@mcwb.com Randy Mason/Shirley Kalvinsky, Lingo Realty................................302-227-3883 Sea Bova Associates, 20250 Coastal Hwy........................... 302-227-1222 The Joe Maggio Group, 37169 Rehoboth Ave Ext., #11....... 302-226-3770 Troy Roberts, Mann & Sons, 414 Rehoboth Ave............................302-228-7422

RETIREMENT LIVING/SENIOR CARE FACILITIES

Springpoint Choice, 17028 Cadbury Cir, Lewes............................302-313-6658 The Lodge at Truitt Homestead, 36233 Farm Ln.................. 302-232-6372

TRAVEL & TRANSPORTATION

Accent On Travel, 37156 Rehoboth Ave.............................. 302-278-6100 CHEER Transportation (age 50+)....................................................302-856-4909 Jolly Trolley Shuttle from Rehoboth Ave & Boardwalk...................302-644-0400 Olivia Travel...........................................................800-631-6277 ext. 696

POPULAR LGBTQ BEACHES

Poodle Beach, south end of the Rehoboth Boardwalk Cape Henlopen State Park, Ocean Dr north to Cape Henlopen State Park. Daily parking rate in effect March-November.

INSURANCE

Eric Blondin, State Farm...................................................... 302-645-7283 Jeanine O’Donnell, State Farm............................................ 302-644-3276

LEGAL/ACCOUNTING/TRUST SERVICES

PWW Law LLC, 1519 Savannah Rd, Lewes................................... 302-628-4140 Steven Falcone CPA, Taxes & Planning..........................................302-644-8634

MASSAGE THERAPY/FITNESS

Midway Fitness & Racquetball, Midway Center.............................302-645-0407 One Spirit Massage, 169 Rehoboth Ave........................................302-226-3552 Reiki CENTRAL, thecentralfirm.com...............................................302-408-0878

PEST CONTROL

Activ Pest Solutions, 16803 New Rd, Lewes................................ 302-645-1502

PET RETAIL

Critter Beach, 156 Rehoboth Ave..................................................302-226-2690 Pet Portraits by Monique................................................................717-650-4626

PET SERVICES

Brandywine Valley SPCA, 22918 Dupont Blvd, G’twn.......... 302-856-6361 Humane Animal Partners (formerly Delaware Humane Association & Delaware SPCA).......................................................... 302-200-7159 Little Landmines Pet Waste Removal. littlelandmines.com.......... 302-521-3983 Parsell Pet Crematorium, 16961 Kings Hwy, Lewes............ 302-645-7445

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The Sea Salt Table

BY ED CASTELLI

Southern Egg Salad STEPS

 Mix the following in a medium size bowl: • scant ½ cup mayonnaise • ¼ cup drained and chopped bread & butter pickles • 2 Tbl drained and chopped pimentos • ½ Tbl Dijon mustard • 1 Tsp apple cider vinegar • 1 Tbl dried parsley • Salt & pepper to taste

 Add eight chopped extra-large eggs, smashing the yokes a bit.

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ummer tomatoes pulled ripe off the vine are a fantabulous, albeit fleeting, treat. Their cousins prefaced with “hot house” or “imported from Florida” can’t compare. Every summer I feel an urgency to enjoy these tasty red orbs as often as possible.

I grew up on the ultimate summer sammies, BLTs. Fresh-picked tomatoes and leaf lettuce, still warm from the sun.

Crisp bacon. Toasted stick-to-the-roofof-your-mouth Wonder Bread. Slathered with mayonnaise, or occasionally *clutch pearls* Miracle Whip. Well, now my mouth is watering. Suffice it to say, those lunches rocked!

Beyond BLTs, my husband and I enjoy tomatoes in a variety of ways from salads to tomato pie. Even just simple slices with salt and pepper. And of course, there’s always caprese.

But one of our favorite ways is with egg salad. Top a generous slice between two halves of a croissant, and you’ll guarantee I’m going back for seconds.

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• I highly recommend Dukes mayonnaise. Shy of homemade, it’s simply the best. of a manchild when it comes to certain kitchen chores. Even slicing green onions peeves me. I think it’s the way they tend to stick to my knife. Silly, I know. People want my cushy problems.

I’ve learned the best way to prepare hardboiled eggs for easy peeling is to steam them instead of boiling. Google it.

It works every time. Air frying at a very low temperature also works, although not as consistently. I’ve heard Instant Pots work well in this regard too. I don’t own one, so I can’t vouch for them.

I love the plain ol’ egg salad we’re all familiar with. Mayonnaise, some vinegar, maybe even a pinch of sugar. Delicious.

But I recently stumbled on a southern recipe that I’ve tweaked and want to share with you. It’s laden with pickles and is a bit more mustard forward. And it features pimentos, a southern staple found in everything from mac-andcheese to BBQ sauces.

Give this a try. It’s different but I think you’ll enjoy it. And let’s face it, you really can’t go wrong if it’s on top of a fresh tomato.

Let’s get started, shall we?

• Don’t let the salad get too wet.

I dry my pickles and pimentos on paper towels before chopping them.

• Sometimes I’ll use jumbo eggs and get lucky with double yokes.

They make for an extra rich taste.

• For crunch, add some finely diced celery. ▼ Ed and his husband Jerry split their time between homes near Harrisburg Pennsylvania and Bethany Beach. Ed builds websites to pay the bills but loves to cook, garden, hike, and dote on their dog Atticus.

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SCENES FROM REHOBOTH BEACH

Midsummer Madness!

Shades of Blue Pool Party, Rehoboth Pride, Pride Pool Party, Pie Ladies and More!

THIS PAGE (left to right) 1 ) at Rehoboth Beach Pie

Ladies 2024: Magnolia Applebottom, Miss France (Jonathan Lockerby), Miss Greece (Derek Luday), Miss Great Britain (Dirk Smith), Miss Australia (Alex Acres), Miss Ireland (George Southworth), Miss Sweden (Leon Vignes), Miss USA (Grant Oines), and Miss Philippines (Dennis Shine), Josh Levic, Scott Lusk, Will Tuttle, Josh Good; 2) RB Pride at Convention Center: Tony Burns, Tony Zacchei, Kristine Reed, David Mariner, Samantha Maloney-Gracie, David Smith, Kenn Williams, Ramona Dobbs, Debbie Lipton, Tina Snapp, Mary Ann Trueheart, Randy Jordan, Sean Younker, Rich Custer, Matthew McLeod.

OPPOSITE PAGE 3) at Goolees Pride Drag Brunch:

Regina Cox, Denise Page, Lisa Soens, Chris Bowers, Amethyst Diamond, Regina Cox, George Stakias, Staci Maxwell, Cee Cee Alexander, Bobby Grigorov, Bill Quinn, Brett Svensson, 4) at Clear Space Theatre: Terry Kistler, Chris Berg, Tracy Rossetto, Curt Leciejewski, Lenny Stumpf, Jadine Pilotti.

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OPPOSITE PAGE: 2 at Pride Pool Party: Tom Rohe, Aidan Bruno, Blake Gault, Tony Zacchei, Bryan Velek, Albert Sanchez, Steve Betts, Michael Sweeney, Dan Kiefer, Kenney Sanchez, Michael Petterson, Chuck McSweeney, Michael Clay, Jay Kottoff, Jennifer Saulino, Mark Matey; 3) Making the Cut Art Reception at CAMP Rehoboth: Cindy Bailey, Rick Weingarten, Debra Dircks, Pat Sharkey; 4) at Blue Moon: Nate Mucceri, Randy Haney, Kat Phills, Charles Esham, Meghan Murphy, Tim Ragan, A.J. D’Orta, Mary Rose D’Orta, Cubby D’Orta, Jim D'Orta.

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Celebrity Interview

BY MICHAEL COOK

Angeria Paris VanMicheals

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hile she might have cracked the top four on RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 14, Angeria Paris VanMicheals came into All Stars 9 with a manifested intent: to win. At the end of the competition, it was pageant queen VanMicheals who rose to the top, snagging the crown and $200,000 for the National Black Justice Coalition.

After Season 14, I told myself that I wanted to return and have at it again; I wanted to win. They have all been so supportive of me; I’ve been in touch with all of them either by phone or text.

MICHAEL COOK: Con-drag-ulations on

winning the crown on RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars 9! Your crowning video was absolutely wonderful and you looked completely stunned. Would you say that is the correct word to use?

ANGERIA PARIS VANMICHEALS: That is the perfect word to use—I was stunned! Just shocked hearing my name.

Not doubting myself at all, but when you want something so bad, that moment of hearing RuPaul actually say it, there were so many thoughts and emotions in one moment.

MC: During our initial conversation this season, I mentioned to you that the first lip sync of the season that you did to Whitney Houston's "Million Dollar Bill" (Freemasons Radio Mix) was one of the best remixes in Drag Race herstory. When was the moment that you thought you actually could win the whole competition?

APVM: I think I started to feel that way when I won my third challenge—it was my second one in a row. I remember feeling like the front-runner and thinking that I could really win this time, and I was like, "Okay, let's go."

MC: After your win, we got to see so much love online towards you, particularly from your Season 14 sisters. Also, you and Lady Camden both spoke about a conversation the four Season 14 finalists had about goals and you said you wanted to win Drag Race—talk about manifestation!

APVM: Yes, we all sat down in Australia over dinner and we went around the table, “What do you want to accomplish, what do you want to do?” I said, “I want to go back to Drag Race and I want to win.”

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Someone once told me, “You know you’re loved when you don’t have to say a word because everyone else will.”

MC: Does having such tremendous sup-

port make it a bit easier when you see the mindless trolls online?

APVM: Oh, it really cushions every single piece of hate that I see. I am going to be honest—I have had my blockers on all week. I saw one or two negative comments and said, "Nope!" I am not doing a lot of social media; I need this moment, I worked hard for it, I deserve to enjoy it. I have seen more posts of people defending me than actual hate. Someone once told me, "You know you're loved when you don't have to say a word because everyone else will."

MC: I usually ask what the winner is going

to do with the prize money, but this year, you get to give money to the National Black Justice Coalition. What does that feel like?

APVM: It feels great. I chose the National Black Justice Coalition because it is an amazing organization that cares about something that I care about. I kept saying "I'm gonna win it for you," and that was my attitude the whole time. I've spoken to the founders of the organization since winning, and they are so happy and so proud.

MC: We truly got to see you all giving back to organizations this year that meant a lot to you, and it seems that post-All Stars 9, you all have emerged as close friends from your experience.

APVM: Oh, yes. There were only two people that I was not as close to, and that was Plastique (Tiara) and Shannel. I hadn't really even met them before we walked into that workroom together; maybe I had met them once. Now, those are two of the people that I am the closest to. Especially Shannel.

MC: Since manifestation was crucial to your All Stars 9 success, where do you want to be a year from now?

APVM: I would love to be in a movie—either a movie or a show. I want more TV for my career. Manifesting a major role in either a hit sitcom or preferably something with comedy since that is my thing, or maybe even a movie. That is what we are manifesting—a major role! ▼ Follow Angeria Paris VanMicheals on Instagram: instagram.com/angeriavm/?hl=en Michael Cook has been a part-time resident of Rehoboth Beach for over a decade. He is currently a contributor to Instinct Magazine, World of Wonder’s WOW Report, and South Florida Gay News.

Photo: courtesy Angeria Paris VanMicheals’ Facebook.

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Deep Inside Hollywood Jonathan Bennett and Luke MacFarlane Keep on Hallmarking

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n these trying times, it’s always nice to have a source of 24/7 coziness, and Hallmark Channel is stepping in to fill that void with Hallmark+, a new streaming service launching in September. This new platform will feature not just your favorite fake-snow Christmas movies but also original content, including two new reality shows featuring the network’s most popular gay leading men. Jonathan Bennett hosts Finding Mr. Christmas, a competition show in which 10 hunky actors compete to become the next Hallmark Christmas leading man; he’ll be aided by the very funny Melissa Peterman as they put these would-be Hallstars through their paces.

Meanwhile, Bros star Luke Macfarlane—an accomplished woodworker in his off hours—will help people renovate their homes on Home Is Where the Heart Is, and in each episode, he’ll handcraft a signature piece for the family he’s helping. Comfort viewing ahead; boozy hot cocoa sold separately. ▼

Was Abraham Lincoln a Lover of Men?

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he Abraham Lincoln documentary Lover of Men is coming soon to ask the question, “Was Abraham Lincoln queer?” Now, some historians are sure he wasn’t in spite of the historical closet keeping queer public figures under deep cover until the latter part of the 20th century. In fact, until not very long ago, it was considered bad taste to even ask the question. But in the past few decades a new wave of historical thought has prompted everyone to look a little more deeply at the private life of one of America’s most historically significant presidents. Based on a wide variety of source material, including never before seen photos and letters, and including experts like historian Hugh Ryan (When Brooklyn Was Queer), this film from Shaun Peterson will delve into the details as they’re known today, and why Lincoln’s sexuality might be relevant to history. It hits theaters in September, so take yourself back to school ▼

BY ROMEO SAN VICENTE

Oh. What. Fun. With Devery Jacobs.

For the Holidays.

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ince her breakout appearances in Reservation Dogs and Rutherford Falls, queer Mohawk actress Devery Jacobs has been popping up everywhere, from the LGBTQ+ cheerleading drama Backspot to Disney+’s Marvel show Echo. Now she’s part of Oh. What. Fun., an ensemble Christmas comedy from director Michael Showalter (The Idea of You). Michelle Pfeiffer stars as a woman who gets, essentially, Home Alone–d by her adult children when she’s left behind from a holiday excursion she organized.

They then scramble to find her since she’s the person who makes everyone’s holidays magical. Jacobs co-stars in the film alongside a bevy of faves, including Chloë Grace Moretz, Eva Longoria, Felicity Jones, Jason Schwartzman, Havana Rose Liu (Bottoms), Denis Leary, Joan Chen, Danielle Brooks and Dominic Sessa (who you know from his debut in The Holdovers). It drops later this year on Prime Video, so you’ve got time to plan an LED-light-covered sweater viewing ensemble. ▼

Michelle Yeoh and Hunter Schafer join Blade Runner 2099

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ou knew it wasn’t going to end with Blade Runner 2049 and your gut instinct was correct. Ridley Scott has more to say and in Blade Runner 2099, a new limited series for Prime created by Silka Luisa (Shining Girls), the stories of replicants and their souls will move forward into the future. It’s a sequel, of course, to 2049, but no significant plot details are public, yet the cast roster already has a legend in Academy Award-winner Michelle Yeoh and a rising star in trans actress Hunter Schafer (Kinds of Kindness, Euphoria). One detail we know: Yeoh will play a replicant near the end of her life. And that’s it. Intrigued as to whether the series will answer the question of androids dreaming of electric sheep (bookish types: IYKYK)? Tune in… well, sometime before 2099 when it finally comes together and streams itself into your life. ▼ Photo: Hunter Schafer; credit Starfrenzy.

Romeo San Vicente recommends A People’s History of The United States.

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20 Start of a quote of Mary Kate Morrissey, of Wicked 22 Taking care of business 23 Long, in Hawaii 24 Uey from WSW 25 Responds like welcoming thighs 26 More of the quote 30 Swank, but not Hilary 31 Nemesis of Tinkerbell 32 Heston in a chariot 33 Rubber stamps 36 Gomer’s mail service 39 Roomy vehicle 42 Avoid premature ejaculation 43 Uncommon, to Nero 44 Shaft worker 46 Stated openly 48 More of the quote 52 Part of a Madonna bra 53 Show and tell 54 End of the quote

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57 Straights on the Kinsey Scale 58 Guiding beliefs 60 Drop ___ (moon) 61 Lois portrayer of Lois and Clark 62 Top priorities 63 Wolfson of Freedom to Marry 64 Finland’s queer rights org.

65 More like the Family Stone?

66 Sanford portrayer Foxx DOWN 1 Half of Mork’s good-bye 2 Perfect serves from Billie Jean 3 Pittsburgh work area 4 Skin decorations 5 Masseuse’s target 6 Rubbed the wrong way 7 Express discontent 8 Contents of tiny cups 9 Lid problem 10 Cheer for Goldberg?

11 Charlotte cager 12 Like a white whale 13 Sail supports 21 Dwelling, to the von Trapps 25 Crude material 26 Newspaper publisher Adolph

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THE LIFE YOU SAVE…

BY STEPHEN RASKAUSKAS

…May Be Your Own

We Can All Help Prevent Death by Suicide in the LGBTQ+ Community TRIGGER WARNING: This article discusses suicide and self-harm. If you or someone you know may be experiencing suicidal ideation or intent, you can reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

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n the United States, September is National Suicide Prevention Month.

Tuesday, September 10, is World Suicide Prevention Day. Death by suicide is an issue that, unfortunately, affects LGBTQ+ people disproportionately compared to their non-LGBTQ+ peers. Discussing the causes and paths towards prevention is essential.

First, a quick note on terminology: saying "death by suicide" instead of just "suicide" is considered more sensitive, compassionate, and humanizing. This emphasizes that death by suicide is a result of a complex mental health condition, similar to how we describe other causes of death. This phrasing reduces stigma, acknowledges the suffering involved, and respects the person’s experience and the feelings of those affected by the loss.

STARTLING STATISTICS

Some of the most recent, comprehensive statistics about death by suicide in the LGBTQ+ community come from the Trevor Project’s 2024 US National Survey on the Mental Health of LGBTQ+ Young People. Here are a few of their startling findings: • LGBTQ+ young people are more than four times as likely to attempt death by suicide than their non-LGBTQ+ peers • 12 percent of LGBTQ+ young people have attempted death by suicide • 39 percent of LGBTQ+ young people considered death by suicide in the past year • 46 percent of transgender and nonbinary youth have considered death by suicide in the past year These numbers should be a call to action for all of us.

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MINORITY STRESS AND MENTAL HEALTH

While being LGBTQ+ does not inherently raise the risk of suicidal ideation or intent, the minority stress that LGBTQ+ people experience, does. Minority stress is the chronic stress faced by people from any stigmatized or marginalized groups, due to social prejudice, discrimination, and internalized negative societal attitudes.

Death by suicide is an issue that, unfortunately, affects LGBTQ+ people disproportionately compared to their nonLGBTQ+ peers.

For LGBTQ+ people, this stress can manifest in various forms such as harassment, rejection, and violence, both in personal and institutional contexts.

The constant experience of such stress can lead to mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, significantly increasing the risk of suicidal thoughts and behaviors. The Trevor Project found that 49 percent of LGBTQ+ people age 13-17 experienced bullying in the past year.

The lack of supportive environments and resources exacerbates these effects, contributing to higher suicide rates in these communities. And, in spite of an increased need for mental health care, 50 percent of LGBTQ+ young people who wanted mental health care in the past year couldn’t access it, according to the Trevor Project.

Society is getting more and more inclusive all the time, but we have a long way to go. Today, LGBTQ+ people do not enjoy full equality under the law, and as of this writing, there are 527 anti-LGBTQ+ pieces of legislation that have been

introduced, advanced, passed into law, or defeated. Even if some have been defeated, that’s 527 bills too many trying to restrict our rights.

GETTING PERSONAL

Growing up as a closeted queer kid in the 80s and 90s, I frequently experienced suicidal ideation and intent.

Growing up in Sussex County did not make things any easier. Both in the home and outside of it, I frequently was made to feel “less than” to the point that I would rather not have been alive.

When Matthew Shephard was killed because of his sexuality in 1998, I was just days away from my 12th birthday.

Already, I was scared to express myself because of bullying. But the fear of being “found out” and the risk of violence or even murder made me even more fearful.

I’m grateful that I value myself enough now not to have had suicidal intent for about 25 years. But it’s taken a lot of work. And I’m frustrated that I was born into a world that has made me feel that I don’t deserve to have the same happiness as others.

Things are a little better in Sussex County than when I was growing up.

But, especially for trans youth, things are just that—only a little better. We still face everything from micro-aggressions to violence in conservative environments.

I’m surprised that in recent years, even as a middle-aged adult, I’ve experienced homophobic behavior in Sussex County from family, acquaintances, coworkers, and even complete strangers.

(I can’t include “friends” on the list, because I don’t consider anyone who has treated me less than to be a friend.) It’s disappointing that sometimes I still cannot feel welcome, even in my own home.

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communities that are more at risk like LGBTQ+ populations.

The Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 988, offers six quick tips to help us help each other.

Ask: Checking in with someone can reduce the risk of suicidal ideation or intent when done in a caring way.

Be there: Be supportive in non-judgmental ways.

Keep them safe: Protect others from scenarios and means that can facilitate self-harm.

Help them stay connected: Provide resources for support, knowing nothing is a cure-all.

Follow up: Ongoing support and check-ins can help reduce risk.

Learn more: Access resources so you can be a good support system.

While the Lifeline’s suggestions can help prevent and support those experiencing suicidal ideation and intent, we also need to address the causes. For LGBTQ+ people, those causes are often queerphobia and discrimination.

We need to work at the legislative level, and locally within our networks of family, friends, and coworkers. Raising awareness creates change.

When we make minority stress and discrimination against LGBTQ+ people a thing of the past, and increase access to essential services like mental health care, we can decrease the risk of death by suicide within our community. ▼ Stephen Raskauskas is a Sussex County native who has produced content for radio, TV, digital, and print.

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IT’S A DOG’S LIFE

BY TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER

Called from the Wild

Let’s Party: August 26 is National Dog Day!

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f you've ever watched footage of a wolf researcher, you know that they caution viewers to never, ever, ever turn their backs on any of the wolves in a wild wolf pack. Turns out that Little Red Riding Hood wasn't far off: a wolf may not wolf you down for a snack, but they're not one bit afraid to kill you. Fun times.

Which quickly brings us to this: dogs are no longer considered to be little wolves who've come to Grandma's bedroom to demand the blankets. Let's deconstruct that….

Research suggests that dogs became our companions when wolves joined early homo sapiens at mealtime around the campfire, and that's still the main, most acceptable thought. But aside from the obvious free eats, why did fierce canines give up their wild packs in favor of human packs, long-term?

Surely, they could march in and take what they wanted, right?

Yes, but it's complicated. Let's dig further....

Generally speaking, modern dogs and people are more alike than you might think.

Because of evolution, we share nearly 85 percent of our DNA and we have more than 17,000 of the same genes. How did that happen? Mostly, we learned to cooperate between species, which led to the mutual changes in us and in dogs. The good news is, science believes that dogs are still evolving in their efforts to live with us.

The cooperation, for instance, is still key in both species. Studies show that being with a dog lowers human stress levels and makes us happy; other studies show that shelter dogs thrive better when they're given human attention. That high voice we use with cute dogs? Yeah, researchers say that it just makes dogs want us more. And get this: you don't even have to teach a puppy to love humans; it's simply a part of a dog, now.

More comparisons, dog to wolf: many dogs are omnivores now (check the ingredients list for your dog's food; you'll find all kinds of veggies), which is something their wolfish cousins would generally never consider. Dog lovers won't be surprised to know that dogs have an eerie way of knowing what we're thinking and feeling, which is another Letters 84 AUGUST 16, 2024

Generally speaking, modern dogs and people are more alike than you might think.

part of dog evolution that wolves lack.

Dogs are excellent readers of human body language and their little faces, according to science, have evolved to show emotion. Savvy dogs have even learned to communicate their wants and needs with a willing human who'll listen. Science suggests that dogs understand that words stand for objects and that the round object is a "BALL." The average dog knows more than 140 words and can act upon them; smarter dogs have been equated to a two-year-old toddler (although the dogs' social skills are better).

Feeling like Dr. Doolittle yet? Because if you love a dog, you should.

You're undoubtedly familiar with service dogs for the disabled, you've seen search and rescue dogs at disaster scenes, and you've seen scent hounds at work on TV dramas. Our pooches are also capable of many more amazing, human-helpful things: some dogs have taught themselves to sniff out diseases (a talent that can be human-taught, too) and alert their humans to a problem, e.g., rising blood sugar levels.

Other dogs are naturals at calming their partners, keeping them out of danger, and bringing life-saving medicines.

Dogs are, indeed, our best friends—but sometimes, the opposite is not true. Historically speaking, we were not always kind to dogs. Still today, more than six in 10 American dogs suffer from anxiety. There's a lot of misinformation about the proper food for a dog's health. Anti-vaxxers put their dogs at risk because they refuse life-saving vaccines.

We can do better.

In the meantime, dogs will forgive us.

They always do.

And those wolves? At this time in evolution, wolves are wild animals and are, as such, dangerous in the wrong, inexperienced hands. You don't want to invite them in to cuddle in Grandma's bedsheets.

Surely, when they get together, dogs just laugh about that. ▼ Terri Schlichenmeyer’s second book, The Book of Facts and Trivia: American History, came out in January 2024.

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MINNIE Fabulous feline companion of proud childless cat lady Carla (and her partner), Minnie lounges here in her basket.

FUN (ISH) FACT: Minnie has a mild form of cerebellar hypoplasia (wobbly cat syndrome—congenital; not painful; not progressive). She uses a ramp to gain access to the bird viewing station (aka bay window) and to her basket. Kind-of upsides (in her pawrents’ view): she cannot access the tops of tables or plant stands. Or climb drapes.

Interested in having your critter(s) featured in Letters from CAMP Rehoboth? Send a high resolution picture (300 dpi) along with their name(s) and one fun fact to editor@ camprehoboth.com. Our roaming photographer will also take photos in the courtyard all year long.

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SING OUT!

BY BILL FUCHS

Meet the ALLIANCE

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e sang for the Rehoboth Christmas Tree Lighting four times—including the year there was no bandstand and we sang on a flatbed in front of the fire station downtown.” Artistic Director Doug Yetter recalls the early years of what was known as “the Ensemble” of CAMP Rehoboth Chorus. Before there was ALLIANCE, there was the Ensemble.

Before the Ensemble, there was CAMP Rehoboth Chorus.

CAMP Rehoboth Chorus, then consisting of 24 members, sang their first concert in 2010. The Chorus continued to grow in size, and shortly after he assumed the baton as Artistic Director a few years later, Doug Yetter assembled an outreach group. This smaller group of singers could respond to requests for performances at public and private events in lieu of the entire chorus and had enough flexibility in scheduling to be available for daytime events. The original group consisted of four singers from each section—alto, bass, tenor, soprano—and four alternates.

The Ensemble’s earliest events in 2014 were an armed forces medley, sung with the Rehoboth Community Band, and a “flashmob” at the Freeman Foundation annual fundraiser, with chorus members mingling in the crowd, then coming together to sing the memorable “Happy” by Pharrell Williams. This was 2014, remember! Other events in which the Ensemble performed included the CAMP Rehoboth Block Party, Senator Carper’s Toys for Tots Christmas Event, Christmas tree lightings at Beebe and at country clubs, Dover Pride, many flashmob events, Barks on the Boardwalk, and most assisted living facilities and adult day centers in the area.

Then came the pandemic. Time to reflect and take stock on where the Chorus was and where the Ensemble was. The Chorus had grown in size and quality, and the Chorus (including the Ensemble) season expanded from one concert per year to three, beginning in 2023. The full Chorus, now with 116 active singers, performs two concerts, one each in February and June, and the newly formed Letters 88 AUGUST 16, 2024

“All worries are chased away when the ALLIANCE singers mount the stage and start taking us off to a land of music and melody…”

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ALLIANCE performs a September concert.

ALLIANCE was so named to reflect its composition: a diverse group of allies dedicated to the mission of CAMP Rehoboth—to Create A More Positive environment inclusive of all sexual orientations and gender identities—and the Chorus’s mission to reach out to all, celebrate LGBTQ+ diversity, and to bring the community together through the power of song. The new group has 18 singers: five sopranos, five altos, four tenors, and four basses. ALLIANCE is an auditioned group, the majority of whom have been longtime choral singers; many have received professional training.

ALLIANCE performs at various special events, concerts, and community outreach programs throughout the year.

Recent events include ones organized by the Southern Delaware Alliance for Racial Justice and the Rehoboth Art League, a World AIDS Day service, and performances at assisted living facilities and nursing homes. Their repertoire includes a broad range of styles, including music from classic to contemporary—spirituals, sacred music, holiday tunes, love ballads, comic pieces, pop and rock songs, Broadway and Hollywood tunes, opera choruses, folk songs from around the world, and LGBTQ+ empowerment music. For information about booking, contact chorus@ camprehoboth.org.

After singing recently at The Moorings, ALLIANCE received the following letter of

appreciation: “Our residents are mostly in their eighties and nineties, so they have long musical memories, and often painful joints. All worries are chased away when the ALLIANCE singers mount the stage and start taking us off to a land of music and melody: the transition is almost instant. We love your musicality and your enthusiasm for your programs; the voices are so good, and the solos pass so seamlessly from singer to singer: no fuss, no big deal…just fun and harmony…. This is the best program we’ve ever had!”

At its upcoming concert, ALLIANCE Singers of CAMP Rehoboth Chorus will take listeners on a journey celebrating the milestones of life. There will be songs of love, “I Will Always Love You” and “Greatest Love of All”; fun, “Ob-La-Di Ob-La-Da” and “Mercedes Benz”; inspiration, “Bridge Over Troubled Water”; nostalgia, “Sunrise/ Sunset”; and life’s ups and downs, “That’s Life!”

Dates for the concert are Friday and Saturday, September 27 and 28, at 7:00 p.m., and Sunday, September 29, at 3:00 p.m. All performances are at Epworth United Methodist Church, 19285 Holland Glade Road, Rehoboth Beach, Delaware 19971. Tickets are available at camprehoboth.org. ▼ Bill Fuchs has been with the Chorus since 2016. He loves music, theater, travel, and his long-haired Chihuahua.

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he 2024 Delaware Division of the Arts Award Winners XXIV exhibition is currently on display at CAMP Rehoboth and it is truly an inspiring showcase. The August 8 reception offered attendees a unique opportunity to meet the artists, celebrate their accomplishments, view their exceptional works, and enjoy live demonstrations, performances, and readings by the award-winning artists.

Don’t miss the chance to experience this remarkable exhibition before it closes on September 9.

Trebs Thompson embarked on her artistic journey without a formal arts background, initially expressing her stories through glass. Following a diagnosis of parafoveal (or macular) telangiectasia, a rare condition resulting in decreased vision, Thompson nearly abandoned her art. However, a latenight epiphany inspired her to adapt her approach, leading her to create large-scale works that are as impactful as they are innovative.

Brandan Henry’s art is a dynamic interplay of observation, imagination, and lived experience. His deliberate use of white space animates the areas around his subjects, highlighting their forms and exploring the concept of invisibility, challenging viewers to consider who and what becomes unseen.

Shakira Hunt’s photography, inspired by the works of Tyler Mitchell and Gordon Parks, delves into themes of identity, gender, trauma, joy, and culture. Her visual storytelling creates a platform for dialogue and healing, offering both universal and deeply personal insights. ▼

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This program is supported, in part, by a grant from the Delaware Division of the Arts, a state agency, in partnership with the National Endowment for the Arts. The Division promotes Delaware arts events on DelawareScene.com.

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BY JOE GFALLER

Psyche: Centering the Asexual Experience in the LGBTIA+ Spectrum

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lear Space Theatre is partnering with CAMP Rehoboth and LHW Productions in a unique collaboration, developing a new Emily Garber musical based on the Greek myth of Psyche with artists from Clear Space, Broadway, and the Metropolitan Opera. At three concert readings August 23-25, audiences will be the very first in the world to experience Psyche.

The musical is written by the queer writing team of Jake Landau (composer) and Emily Garber (lyricist/librettist). I chatted with Garber to learn a little more about her journey and how it led her to tell one of the earliest stories of asexuality in literature as a musical.

Emily identifies as both aromantic and asexual; she does not experience either romantic or sexual attraction.

JOE GFALLER: How has your lived

experience as a member of the queer community influenced your work as a writer?

EMILY GARBER: It’s interesting because although I have always been queer, I spent most of my formative years unaware that I was. I’d spent my whole life watching movies and reading books where the main characters had never experienced any interest in romance or

UPCOMING EXHIBITIONS Grin and Bear It in the CAMP Rehoboth Gallery | Solo Show by Keith David Trievel September 14 - October 7, 2024 Opening Reception: September 14, 2024, 3:00 to 5:00 p.m.

relationships until their “right” person came along—so I figured that I just hadn’t met that person, yet. It was only halfway through college that I started to question why pursuing those kinds of relationships felt more like I was following an accepted script than something I actually wanted.

The more I began to unpack my own very complicated relationship with intimacy and relationships, the more I was able to bring my own experience into my writing in a way that could never be as simple as “and they lived happily ever after.”

JG: Why does the myth of Psyche appeal to you?

EG: Cupid and Psyche has always been one of my favorite myths. I’ve always been drawn in by the eeriness of it and the romance. Looking back, I also think it appealed to me because in many ways it is an allegory for the ace experience. Psyche falls in love with someone she can’t see. Attraction isn’t a piece of her story. It’s also rare to see a woman in mythology have as much agency in her story as Psyche does. She is her own hero.

JG: Why do you think representation for asexual members of the queer community is important?

EG: There are so many ace people I’ve talked to who have had experiences just like mine—who didn’t even realize that it was an option to be ace and spent years feeling as though they were uniquely

alone. A word you hear over and over and over again is “broken.” Like you’re missing something crucial. And, given that most asexual representation we currently have in media is in characters who are actual aliens and robots, it only reinforces the idea that sexual and romantic attraction are the two things that make us fundamentally human.

That you are missing something without them. So having ace characters who are deeply human, and flawed, and who have relationships that are just as deep and meaningful as romantic ones, is so important.

JG: What do you hope audiences in Rehoboth Beach will take away from seeing Psyche?

EG: I hope that they feel transported into a world of myth and magic, and find something in this show that makes them either question or understand more deeply their own relationships to the people they love. ▼

This September, CAMP Rehoboth proudly presents Grin and Bear It, a juried art exhibition held in conjunction with the Rehoboth Beach Bear Weekend. This year’s exhibition celebrates the strength, resilience, and positivity of the bear community, expanding to include not only bear-themed art but also works of any theme by artists who identify as part of the bear community.

Artists are encouraged to submit their works for consideration by August 25. More information and submission details can be accessed by scanning the QR code provided.

Concurrent with Grin and Bear It, Keith David Trievel is featured in a solo show in the Elkins-Archibald Atrium.

Trievel’s mixed media works, combining acrylic paint on recycled canvas, bonded tissue paper, and ink drawing, were born from a fortunate accident while repairing a drawing error. His art has been showcased in numerous group and solo exhibitions nationwide and is part of private and corporate collections across the country. ▼

Psyche plays August 23 at 10:30 p.m. and August 24 & 25 at 2:00 p.m. Visit clearspacetheatre.org for information.

Leslie Sinclair is a member of the Delaware State Arts Council and a passionate leader of CAMP Rehoboth’s visual arts program.

Joe Gfaller is Managing Director of Clear Space Theatre Company.

Exhibitions can be viewed at the CAMP Rehoboth Gallery, Monday through Friday, 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.

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BOOKED SOLID The Guncle Abroad

by Steven Rowley © 2024, Putnam, $29.00, 307 pages The cake's going to be magnificent.

You must've tasted 15 different samples and a dozen frostings, and considered five unique looks before settling on a showstopper. Next, you have to get invitations addressed and in the mail. You have to confirm the tuxes.

You have to get flowers and centerpieces ordered. As in The Guncle Abroad, by Steven Rowley, you have to get everyone on board.

Patrick O'Hara couldn't believe how his life had changed.

A few short years ago, he was living in Palm Springs, having "retired" from making films. He was in love, happy, and he had temporary custody of his niece, Maisie, and his nephew, Grant. Life was good.

Now...oh boy. Patrick and Emory had split-ish (Emory was still living in Patrick's California home), Patrick was living in Manhattan, making a movie in London, looking for another role soon, and the kids were four years older. Maisie was an attitudinal teen now; Grant was nine and too wise for his age.

They weren't the cuddly kids Patrick once knew—especially since their dad, Patrick's brother, Greg, was getting married again and the kids didn't like Livia, their wealthy socialite stepmom-to-be. Patrick suspected it was because Grant and Maisie still missed their mom. It hadn't been all

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Patrick didn't think so, and he'd prove it. While Greg and Livia were last-minute wedding-planning, he bought three Eurail passes, one for him and one each for the kids. He'd give them some culture and some new Guncle rules about love. Maybe—was it possible?—he'd even become their favorite GUP again.

But Maisie and Grant had other ideas. They agreed to go on the stupid trip around Europe with their GUP, if Patrick agreed to talk to Greg about calling off the entire wedding.

Something old (memories), something new (stepmother), something borrowed (trouble), and something blue (two kids) just had to be undone, and soon.

There's an old saying, to paraphrase, that if the wedding is perfectly smooth, the marriage won't be. With this in mind, The Guncle Abroad is covered: add a snarky lesbian with an entourage, a tipsy sister on a manhunt, a Lothario who doesn't speak English, and lost love, all at a lakeside hotel, and yeah, we're good.

But here's the thing: author Steven Rowley doesn't just make readers laugh. We're covered on that part—the whole pre-wedding scene in this book is pure chaos and LOL funny.

Long before that, though, you'll be charmed by Rowley's main character and his desperation to stay relevant, to avoidnot-avoid love, and by his efforts to connect with his brother's kids. And as for the not-so-storybook wedding, well, you know how those things are.

Bring tissues, that's all you need to know.

If you're in need of a rom-com this summer, just bring the bubbly, pop a cork, and make it this one. Reading The Guncle Abroad is best for beach, bench, or back yard.

Loving it? Piece of cake. ▼

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AUG 22 (6PM) - MAMA’S BLACK SHEEP: Quayside@Nite AUG 22 (8PM) - GET POISON’D - Tribute To Poison AUG 23 - FLYING IVORIES: Dueling Pianos AUG 29 - BARRELHOUSE: Quayside@Nite AUG 30 - BELL BOTTOM BLUES: Live Clapton Experience AUG 31 - UNFORGETTABLE FIRE: America’s U2 Tribute SEPT 1 - GREGGIE & THE JETS: Tribute To Elton John SEPT 4 - HIGH NOON: Tribute To Lynyrd Skynyrd SEPT 5 (6PM) - LOWER CASE BLUES: Quayside@Nite SEPT 5 (8PM) - GREEN RIVER: CCR & John Fogerty Tribute

SEPT 6 - SEPTEMBER SHENANIGANS: Stand-Up Comedy Special SEPT 8 - 7 BRIDGES: Ultimate Eagles Experience SEPT 12 - CHRISTINE HAVRILLA DUO: Quayside@Nite SEPT 13 - THUNDERSTRUCK: America’s AC/DC Tribute SEPT 14 - WHO ARE YOU: Tribute To The Who SEPT 15 (1PM) - PRINCESS TEA: Interactive Live Show For Kids SEPT 15 (7PM) - DEANNA FITZPATRICK: Psychic Medium SEPT 19 - MAMA’S BLACK SHEEP: Quayside@Nite SEPT 21 - DELMARVA BIG BAND: 18-Piece Big Band Ensemble SEPT 22 - ONE DAME FUNNY NIGHT: Scott Mason as Dame Edna

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Another Opening, Another Show!

BY NANCY SAKADUSKI

From Live Entertainment to Undead Fun: Milton Theatre

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o the relatively short list of good things that came out of the pandemic, you can add Milton Theatre’s Quayside@Nite, a delightful outdoor happy hour and live music concert series that runs throughout the warm-weather months. It’s one of many unusual and crowd-pleasing offerings from Milton Theatre in downtown Milton, Delaware.

With what seems like remarkable timing, Milton Theatre bought an adjoining lot along the Broadkill River and converted it into an outdoor venue just months before the pandemic hit.

Then in 2020, with the pandemic in full swing, Quayside (pronounced “key side”) became a full-fledged venue where people could gather in an outdoor setting, and Milton Theatre could continue to bring quality entertainment to the region. They named it Quayside@Nite (perhaps

because “Kick Back by the Broadkill River with a Glass of Wine and Listen to Great Music While the Sun Sets” was too long).

“It’s an incredibly picturesque and scenic outdoor venue for us,” says Milton Theatre Marketing Director J.P. Lacap. “The experience is more intimate.” Every Thursday, Quayside hosts a performance that fits the casual outdoor venue. The vibe is less formal than the indoor theater performances, and there’s an outdoor bar and a different food truck each week. Pizza, hot dogs, popcorn, pretzels, and other foods are available as well (no outside food or beverages are allowed).

Did I mention that admission and parking are free? Just bring your own lawn chair (you must reserve a space online). Or you can make a donation of $10 for an Adirondack chair or $40 for a picnic table that seats eight.

“It’s kind of our thank-you to the

town for supporting us,” says J.P. “It has a community picnic feel…some of the people set up their chairs across from the parking lot by the water and at the bridge. [We decided to] make it free so the community can come and enjoy.”

And Milton Theatre uses the space for outdoor festivals as well.

Milton Theatre’s mission statement includes a commitment to diversity of programming…

Quayside@Nite features some great performers. We’re talking the likes of Christine Havrilla and Lower Case Blues.

But check out the calendar now—the last show at Quayside this year is September 19 (shows continue yearround indoors).

A RAINBOW OF ENTERTAINMENT

Milton Theatre’s mission statement includes a commitment to diversity of programming, and with more than 350 events annually, it delivers on that promise. Among the types of entertainment to be found are live music, comedy, musicals, theater, films, and tributes, as well as programming for children. And speaking of kids, Milton Theatre offers summer camps and a children’s theater program with fun and engaging classes that focus on voice, dance, and acting.

That diversity pledge extends to LGBTQ+ programming as well. Milton Theatre started the Milton Pride celebration in 2019, which initially was just a few activities inside the theater. This year they partnered with Sussex Pride and turned it into a major street festival.

Performers included Mama’s Black Sheep and the Delaware Rainbow Chorale.

“We had an amazing turnout,” says J.P. He figured if 500-800 people Letters 94

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showed up, it would be a great event.

The festival was scheduled to open at 4:00 p.m., but by 3:30 people were already shoulder-to-shoulder in downtown Milton. He estimates 2,500 people participated. “The whole day it was absolutely packed—all ages were there, families were there; it was pretty incredible.”

A scroll through upcoming shows brings in Branden & James, an Elton John tribute, drag legend Miss Richfield, as well as other drag shows—Magnolia Applebottom is a regular.

CUE THE ZOMBIE ATTACK

There’s diversity, and then there’s… zombies. Zombie Fest, another event that began with Milton Theatre, also

And in one of the more brilliant marketing strategies of all time, one of the major sponsors for Zombie Fest is the Blood Bank of Delmarva. started small—initially it was just a zombie-themed party. “It snowballed into the big event it is now,” says J.P. “Last year, one of the radio stations

commented that the whole of Sussex County was in downtown Milton. I think we had about 6,000 people.” The event includes live (or perhaps undead) music acts, vendors, food trucks, kids’ activities, freak shows, zombie makeup stations, costume contests, eerie-themed treats, a laser light show, and the not-tobe-missed zombie walk.

With “Haunted Mardi Gras” as this year’s theme, Zombie Fest 2024 (October 19) will be even bigger and better, with more vendors, more food trucks, more closed-street space, and something for everyone, live or undead. And in one of the more brilliant marketing strategies of all time, one of the major sponsors for Zombie Fest is the Blood Bank of Delmarva.

EXPANDING ON SUCCESS

The first phase of Milton Theatre’s capital campaign, restoration of the historic balcony, was completed last year. The second phase is an education wing, in response to the enormous demand for theater education.

“Our education program is sold out year-round,” explains J.P. “Our summer camps this year were put on sale on Black Friday (November 24, 2023) and in minutes they were sold out.”

The construction will add bathrooms, rehearsal space, and green rooms for the theater, as well as state-of-the-art classrooms. The idea is to provide even

more opportunities for aspiring artists and enthusiasts. “With the expanded space, we hope that we can also expand our offerings to the community to not just kids, but all ages,” he says. Target for completion is winter, 2025.

SERVING AS THE HUB IN DOWNTOWN MILTON

The entertainment is modern, but the Milton Theatre building is over 100 years old. The structure has at one time or another been a movie theater, basketball hall, fire station, social center, and community stage. It has housed retail businesses and restaurants and survived three major fires and countless nor’easters. Now, through strong vision, community support, and thoughtful renovation, Milton Theatre has become (as its mission statement says), “a thriving and dynamic cultural hub that enriches and inspires the community of Milton and beyond.”

Celebrating 10 years in its current form, Milton Theatre seems poised to take it up another notch. To volunteer, become a member, donate, (or audition!), go to miltontheatre.com. ▼ Nancy Sakaduski is an award-winning writer and editor who owns Cat & Mouse Press in Lewes, Delaware.

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was recently relaxing at a friend’s pool, that backs up to a nature preserve. We were discussing trees, of course, and how I thought he had a water oak on his property, considered rare in our region. The conversation turned to another tree just off his property. It happens to be Delaware’s largest Atlantic white cedar coming in at 38 inches in diameter. Truly a stunning find.

The Atlantic white cedar (Chamaecyparis thyoides), a unique and valuable conifer, is an integral component of the ecosystem along the eastern seaboard of the United States.

This tree, also known as the swamp cedar or southern white cedar, inhabits freshwater wetlands from Maine to Florida, playing a crucial role in these delicate environments.

Atlantic white cedar is a slender, evergreen tree that can reach heights of up to 80 feet, with a trunk diameter of about two to three feet. Its scale-like leaves are bluish-green, and it produces small, rounded cones. The bark is thin, fibrous, and reddish-brown, and can be peeled off in long strips. The tree’s growth pattern is distinctive, with branches that extend horizontally, forming a narrow, conical shape.

This species thrives in acidic, water-saturated soils found in coastal plains and swampy areas. It is most commonly found in freshwater wetlands, such as bogs and swamps, where it forms dense stands. These stands, known as cedar swamps, are ecologically significant as they support a variety of wildlife, including birds, mammals, and insects. A local example can be found among the boardwalk trails at Abbot’s Mill outside Milford.

Atlantic white cedar swamps are biodiversity hotspots. They provide habitat for numerous species, some of which are rare or endangered. The tree's dense foliage offers shelter for birds like the black-throated green warbler and mammals such as the river otter. The swampy conditions also support unique plant communities, including carnivorous plants like the pitcher plant and sundew.

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The tree also plays a critical role in carbon sequestration. The wetland soils in which it grows store large amounts of organic carbon, helping to mitigate climate change. These ecosystems also act as natural water filters, improving water quality by trapping sediments and absorbing pollutants.

These stands, known as cedar swamps, are ecologically significant as they support a variety of wildlife, including birds, mammals, and insects.

Historically, Atlantic white cedar has been highly valued for its wood. The wood is lightweight, yet durable and resistant to decay, making it ideal for constructing boats, shingles, and fencing.

Native American tribes utilized the wood for various purposes, including building canoes and crafting tools.

During the colonial period and well into the 19th century, extensive logging of Atlantic white cedar occurred, driven by the demand for its wood. This overharvesting led to significant declines in cedar populations, particularly in the northern part of its range.

Conservation of Atlantic white cedar

involves both protecting existing stands and restoring degraded habitats. Many states within its range have recognized the importance of these ecosystems and have initiated conservation programs.

One of the challenges in cedar restoration is the competition from invasive species, such as the common reed (Phragmites australis). Invasive plants can alter the hydrology and soil chemistry of wetlands, making it difficult for Atlantic white cedar to re-establish.

Effective management strategies are required to control these invasives and support cedar regeneration.

Climate change poses a significant threat to Atlantic white cedar populations. Rising temperatures and changes in precipitation patterns can alter the hydrology of wetland habitats, affecting cedar growth and survival. Sea level rise is another concern, particularly for populations in coastal areas, as increased saltwater intrusion can make conditions unsuitable for cedar swamps.

To address these challenges, conservationists are studying the tree’s genetic diversity and resilience. Efforts are being made to identify and protect populations that may be more tolerant of changing conditions.

The Atlantic white cedar is more than just a tree; it is a keystone species within its ecosystem, providing numerous ecological benefits and supporting a wide range of biodiversity. Its historical significance and the beauty of its dense, green swamps make it a cherished part of the eastern United States's natural heritage. Conservation efforts, though challenging, are crucial to ensuring that this species and its unique habitat continue to thrive for future generations.

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But in our sister city, south of the Maryland line, Ocean Compost and its partner, GoGreenOC, collects and composts restaurant food scraps from 24 restaurants in Ocean City, Maryland.

This 501(c)(3) environmental organization has the mission to make Ocean City the first zero waste resort town in the United States. In a contract with Ocean City, the organization collects food scraps two to three times per week from area restaurants. Last year they recycled 170 tons of food scrap. Yes, TONS! The city finds value in working with Ocean Compost because it diverts a waste stream that otherwise would be shipped to Pennsylvania for incineration.

The city pays (the same amount that it pays for waste transport and incineration) to this volunteer-run recycling team to make a state-registered soil amendment: it does not pay more for green work.

Twenty-four restaurants, including The Hobbit Restaurant and the Hilton Garden Inn in Ocean City, sort out the food scraps from preparation and leftovers and put them in their compost bins. An employee from GoGreenOC stops by and picks up their carts—along with carts from other restaurants in town—and drives them out to Ocean Compost in Bishopville, Maryland.

There, she meets volunteers ready for delivery. These volunteers spread the scraps, screen them for contaminants such as silverware, plastic bottles, or plastic bags, wet them down, and mix in wood chips and some processed compost.

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When I was there in July, it was interesting to see that there were lots of orange rinds from a bar known for its fresh orange crushes. The volunteers add water to the wood chips and food scrap to facilitate composting. The blended mix is traditionally called “feedstock.” Microbes naturally there from

This 501(c)(3) environmental organization has the mission to make Ocean City the first zero waste resort town in the United States. the environment and from the reused compost start breaking down the food scrap almost immediately.

Unlike my home compost bin, this facility uses a network of pipes and forced air to keep the piles of composting feedstocks well aerated and from getting too hot. Operators keep the piles “cooking” for a few months before allowing the material to cure. The aeration system and pile design reduce odors and vectors. As with most forced air composting facilities, the temperatures in the piles get hot—almost 160° F. This is good, as it kills pathogens and plant seeds in the feedstock.

When I spoke with the volunteers, I asked them why they come week after week, sorting through waste food and pulling out trash, despite heat, cold temperatures, and bad weather. They said that it was worth it to do something good for the environment and to return carbon and nutrients back to the soil.

Volunteering one or two days per week made them feel good.

Garvey Heiderman of Ocean Compost treats composting seriously. He gets the finished product tested to assure it meets the US Composting Council’s quality standards. The product is registered with the Maryland Department of Agriculture as a soil amendment and he advocates returning the compost back to local farmers.

If you want to support Ocean Compost, they take donations, and use volunteers on Mondays and Fridays.

Another way is to identify the participating restaurants and thank them for their extra effort to make Ocean City greener.

The list of restaurants can be found at gogreenwithoc.org/composting-in-ocmd.

Why there and not here? Maryland has a food scrap law that requires large producers of food waste to recycle their waste if they are near a composter or recycler. Not so here in Delaware—yet— but they are showing us that it can work, even at a small scale.

I was excited to see their facility and see that a small commercial composter can make it happen. It made me feel good to see them succeeding and kept me motivated to push for more Delaware composting. ▼ Jeffrey Dannis is a Delaware professional engineer, nutrient consultant, and certified composter. He can be reached at FitnessEngineering.net or at Jeff.Dannis.FE@ outlook.com.

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lvin Terry Smith, 71, of Millsboro, passed away Sunday, July 14, 2024, at his home.

Alvin was born in Washington, DC, on August 30, 1952, son of the late Irvin Smith and Vivian (Minor) Smith. He worked as an information services specialist with the Defense Intelligence Agency, retiring in 2004 after 32 years of service.

Alvin enjoyed gardening and was an amazing cook. During his high school years he worked at an established restaurant in Alexandria, Virginia, as assistant to the chef. He also loved shopping.

He is survived by his husband and companion of 46 years, Wayne Edward Perkins; two daughters, Tina Marie Haynes and Amanda Ellen Perkins; three grandchildren, Jessica Rose (Arzell) Norwood, Jacqueline Oliver, and Megan Pomar; two great-grandchildren, Isaac Norwood and Scarlette Norwood; his special needs nephew who lived with him, James Smith; sister, Tiajuana Smith; brother, Irving Smith; and nephew, Kenneth Smith.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, August 30, at the Long Neck Chapel of Melson Funeral Services, 32013 Long Neck Road, Millsboro. Friends and family may gather after 10:30 a.m.

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Bill was born in Berkeley, California, and later moved to the Washington, DC area. He attended George Washington University, earning his PhD. There, he met Richie, his partner and husband of 42 years; together they bought their first home in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, in 1994.

Bill was a member of the Rehoboth Art League. After retiring in 2009, he became very devoted to his painting and was invited to become a member of the Salmagundi (Art) Club in New York City. Never one to stay idle, he also believed in giving back to his community and became an English as a second language (ESL) instructor at the Lutheran Church of Our Savior in Rehoboth Beach.

Bill will be deeply and genuinely missed by all the lives he touched. Bill is survived by his nephew, Ken Hagist; his sisterin-law, Lin Pagnotta; and some close cousins.

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Coho’s Market & Grill..............................................78 Collins Podiatry......................................................49 County Bank...........................................................39 Debbie Reed Team, Realty Group..........................42 Delaware Community Foundation...................... 115 Delaware Hospice..................................................81 Delaware Stonewall PAC........................................41 Diego’s Bar Nightclub.. 69, 70, 71, 72,73,74,75, 77 Dogfish Head.........................................................82 Donna Whiteside, Realtor......................................30 Ethan Allen, Joseph Panzer....................................57 Evergreene Homes at Atlantic East........................83 Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant...................... 119 go fish go brit.........................................................26 Hugh Fuller, Realtor................................................58 Humane Animal Partners Delaware.................... 118 Jack Lingo, Real Estate..........................................85 Jenn Harpel, Morgan Stanley.................................23 John Black, Realtor................................................97 Jolly Trolley......................................................... 116 Lana Warfield.........................................................57 Lee Ann Wilkinson Group, Realtors..................... 101 Lewes Artists Studio...............................................82 Lori’s Café..............................................................86 Loves Liquors.........................................................47 Maplewood Dental Associates...............................57 MCC of Rehoboth................................................ 112 McWillams Ballard Real Estate...............................99

Meals On Wheels Delaware...................................46 Milton Theatre........................................................93 New Wave Spas......................................................42 Olivia Travel............................................................11 Purple Parrot..........................................................59 PWW Law............................................................. 113 Randy Mason/Shirley Kalvinsky, Realtors........... 109 Rehoboth Beach Bears........................................ 111 Rehoboth Beach Dental.........................................26 Rehoboth Beach Museum Beach Ball......................9 Rehoboth Guest House..........................................87 Rigby’s Bar & Grill...................................................53 Saved Souls Animal Rescue................................ 114 Sea Bova Associates, Realtors............................ 120 Seaboard Hospitality..............................................26 State Farm - Jeanine O’Donnell/Eric Blondin.........49 Stuart Kingston Gallery..........................................27 Sussex Family YMCA........................................... 113 The Joe Maggio Group, Realtors........................ 116 The Lodge at Truitt Homestead..............................37 Troy Roberts, Realtor..............................................49 True Blue Jazz........................................................79 Volunteer Opportunities...................................... 117 Volunteer Thank You........................................... 117 Vote Kathy McGuiness...........................................33 Vote Marty Rendon.................................................39 Walk 4 Prostrate Cancer........................................81 Windsor’s Flowers............................................... 114

AUGUST 16, 2024

119 Letters

LINDA BOVA

BRIDGET BAUER

BROKER-ABR®

ASSOC. BROKER-REALTOR®

CELL

CELL

302-542-4197

LONG NECK SHORES Millsboro. 2008 3BR/2BA w/all 1st-floor bedrooms. 2nd-floor bonus room. Community pool & clubhouse. Fenced corner lot. HOA $113/mt. 14 miles to beach. $415,000 (2067144)

S W E E T B R I A R - Lewes.

Your own private dock on Redmill Pond. 1974 2BR/1BA modified singlewide. Big shed.

Community pool. 8 miles to beach. $130,000 (2065720)

Lot Rent $838/mt.

302-245-0577

ANGOLA BEACH - Lewes.

1978 3BR/1.5BA home has 10’x30’ sunroom. Fenced yard. Furnished. Community pools, marina. 10 miles to bch. $115,000 (2056560) Lot Rent $715/mt. includes water & sewer.

+ $1,000 SELLER CREDIT

REHOBOTH BAY - Rehoboth.

1989 2BR/2BA w/screened porch overlooking the pond.

Stainless steel appliances.

Furnished. Pool. Marina. 6.5 miles to beach. $145,000 (2066238) Lot Rent $705/mt.

+ $1,000 SELLER CREDIT

REHOBOTH BAY - Rehoboth.

Water views of White Oak Creek out to the Bay. 1986 3BR/2BA w/VinylTech porch.

Pool. Marina. 6.5 miles to beach. $209,000 (2064280)

ANGOLA BEACH - Lewes.

Remodeled 1973 4BR/2BA. Water views from front deck.

Shed. Marina/pool community is 10 miles to the beach. $178,900 (2055630) Lot Rent

POT-NETS COVESIDE - Long Neck. Water views of the Bay. Remodeled 1984 3BR/2BA - 1,300 sq. ft. 3 decks & VinylTech porch. So many amenities! $199,900

Lot Rent $819/mt.

$734/mt. includes water & sewer

(2065910) Lot Rent $1,105/mt.

(2061456) Lot Rent $699/mt. includes water & sewer.

CAMELOT MEADOWS - Rehoboth. 1979 2BR/2BA w/10’x20’ 4-season room.

Fenced yard. Covered porch & deck. 2 Sheds. Community pool.

4 miles to beach. $120,000

COLONIAL EAST - Rehoboth Beach. Remodeled 2005 3BR/2BA doublewide. Shed w/elec. Community pool. 4 miles to Rehoboth & Lewes beaches. $150,000 (2052192)

CAMELOT MEADOWS Rehoboth. 1980 2BR/1.5BA with 4-season sunroom for 1,300 sq. ft. Storage shed.

Community pool & just 3.5 miles to beach. $99,900

(2061230) Lot Rent $848/mt.

Lot Rent $903/mt.

SEA AIR - Rehoboth.

1982 3BR/2BA. Parking for 3 vehicles. Porch, patio, shed & outdoor shower.

Community pool & 3 miles to beach. $139,000 (2058494)

Lot Rent $644/mt includes water.

(2063384) Lot Rent $716/mt.

SUSSEX EAST - Lewes.

1988 2BR/2BA. Split bedroom plan. Enclosed porch + open deck. Shed.

Indoor community pool & 6 miles to beach. $99,900

SEA AIR - Rehoboth.

2005 2BR/2BA. Split BR plan.

Furnished. Hardscaping for low maintenance. Community pool & 3 miles to beach. $120,000 (2067310) Lot

CAMELOT MEADOWS - Rehoboth. 2003 3BR/2BA Champion doublewide w/ screened porch. Furnished • Turnkey. Community pool.

4 miles to beach. $165,000

CAMELOT MEADOWS Rehoboth. Carport. Furnished.

Remodeled 1978 2BR/2BA. 1,150 sq. ft. Shed. Community pool & just 3.5 miles to beach. $155,000 (2065160)

(2065874) Lot Rent $605/mt.

Rent $644/mt includes water.

(2063618) Lot Rent $677/mt.

ANGOLA BEACH - Lewes.

Remodeled 1985 3BR/2BA. Pretty kitchen w/SS & quartz counters. 10 miles to beach.

Marina & pools. $159,000

Lot Rent $825/mt.

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