Bridal Guide May June 2021

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Bridal Guide May/June 2021

FASHION & BEAUTY 14 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

16 STYLE FILE: BRIDES

Beyond basic black-tie chic; plus, the sunniest celebratory shades.

20 ALL THAT GLITTERS

Petal-perfect, garden-inspired rings.

24 BEAUTY FILE

Eco-chic makeup and skincare.

30 BODY FILE

Hunker down in style with these healthy-at-home finds.

52 A DOSE OF DRAMA

Steal the spotlight in one of these all-eyes-on-you wedding looks.

60 RUNWAY REPORT

Bows, boleros, mix-and-match ensembles and more.

52 ON THE COVER • 491 Stylish Ideas: Tons of real weddings to kick start your planning

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• Feel the Love: From ring to reception we’ve got you covered, p 20, 32 • Our Fave New Dresses: Chic styles for any budget, p 14, 51 • Picture Perfect! Get the shots, keep the memories, p 38 • 75 Easy Ways to Save: Secrets from the pros, p 44

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Bridal Guide May/June 2021

WEDDING PLANNING 31 ASK DAVID TUTERA

How to plan the wedding you really want.

38 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

Pro tips on finding and working with your wedding photographer.

26 PARTY PLANNER

A San Jose del Cabo wedding celebrates Mexican culture and design.

32 WEDDINGS TO LOVE

The best flowers, cakes, decor and more culled from our real-wedding archives.

40 ENGAGED AND

UNEMPLOYED. NOW WHAT? Yes, you can plan your wedding and look for a job at the same time.

by Terri Huggins Hart

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62 WEDDING ALBUM

An outdoor wedding held on the banks of the Delaware River.

NEWS & FEATURES 12 WEDDING Q&A

Etiquette questions and answers.

44 75 BEST BUDGET TIPS

Keep your bottom line in check with these smart strategies. by Kristen Finello

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TRAVEL NEWS 68 RESORT ROUNDUP

Stay happily ever after at these rustic-luxe properties with intimate accommodations.

70 TRAVEL INSIDER

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A giant thank you to the Caribbean’s biggest romantic—Gordon “Butch” Stewart, the founder of Sandals Resorts.

74 REAL DESTINATION WEDDING Tuscany’s cinematic scenery and superb cuisine played major roles at this event.

78 REAL DESTINATION WEDDING This couple sailed away to say “I do.”

88 FIRST LOOK

The cosmopolitan Conrad Punta de Mita debuts in Mexico.

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We’ve reduced the capacity of all our venues, indoors and out,putting more physical distance between wedding guests.

Rather than tables set for eight people, the same sized tables will only seat six guests. We’ve eliminated buffets and specialty food stations to reduce the risk of cross-contamination. Plated dinners and all hors d’ouvres will be served by Beaches staff.

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Straight talk, smart solutions

by Diane Forden

Q

We’ve decided to have a very small wedding. What should we say if someone who is not on our guest list asks if they’re invited?

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Springfield, Massachusetts

Just be gracious. Let them know you’re flattered they would like to attend but that you’ve planned an intimate celebration and unfortunately cannot ask as many guests as you would like.

Especially now as more couples are choosing to have smaller gatherings they shouldn’t be surprised about your decision.

You can elaborate further—the importance of following safety guidelines, limited space, budget constraints—or simply leave it at that. Most people are aware of how costly big weddings are, too, and will understand.

BELATED THANKS

Q

It’s been five months since I attended a friend’s wedding and I haven’t received a thank-you note yet for my gift. Is this amount of time acceptable? As a bride-to-be when should I send out my thankAnn Arbor, Michigan yous?

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Thank-you notes should be sent within three months after the wedding.

It may be an oversight on your friend’s part or perhaps she’s simply overwhelmed by the task. If you find yourself in the same position, you should still send your notes no matter how many months have passed.

But to avoid falling behind it’s best to write the thank-yous as soon as gifts start arriving. Keep a list of what you’ve received and which notes you’ve sent. Get your fiancé involved as well. Suggest that he write to his family members and friends.

And as tempting as it may be, don’t use email for this task. Only handwritten notes are acceptable.

WHO PAYS?

Q

We’re on a budget and don’t want to pay for everyone’s dinner and drinks at our restaurant reception.

How do we inform our guests on the invitation? Akron, Ohio

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Simple: You don’t.

A wedding invitation—no matter where the reception is or how small the guest list—means that the hosts (you) are responsible for the costs. The only way for you not to incur expenses is if some other family member or friend offers to host the reception in your honor. Another option: If budget is a major concern you and your fiancé might want to marry at a venue that offers an elopement package—no guests, but the savings can be considerable.

MAKING MUSIC

Q

Our reception site manager recommended a DJ for our wedding. Should we give him a playlist of our favorite songs or just let him do his thing?

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Wilmington, Delaware

It’s always better to inform your DJ of the type of music you and your fiancé would like him to play. You should visit the DJ’s website, listen to a demo and get recommendations from other couples. If you choose to hire him, provide a playlist of your favorite tunes especially if yours is a dancing crowd. You’ll want to make sure he spins lots of get-up-on-your feet music.

Work out the list in advance with your

fiancé and don’t forget to include a few slower-paced tunes for guests who prefer less-energetic dancing. Also, ask your DJ how many breaks he usually takes (and for how long) and be sure to provide him with a meal.

GIVE A GIFT?

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Our neighbor is hosting a pre-wedding party for us. We’re planning to get gifts for our attendants; should we also purchase something for her? Flagstaff, Arizona

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Definitely: Anyone who goes above and beyond to assist in any way or host a party for you should be acknowledged. The gift needn’t be super-expensive but it should be thoughtful: a gift card for a mani/pedi or one to her favorite restaurant. Wine, champagne, flowers, a small potted plant or a gift basket filled with tasty treats will also be appreciated. ››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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Velvet and pearl choker necklace by Mateo Fine Jewelry; mateonewyork.com

Emerald-cut stud earrings by Nancy Newberg Jewelry; nancynewberg.com

by Kayla Hayes Onyx and diamond necklace

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Gold bubble heart by Rush Jewelry Design; rushjewelrydesign.com

Gold and black enamel ring by State Property Fine Jewellery; thisisstateproperty.com

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Black and gold-foil speckled invite by Ceci New York; cecinewyork.com

Gold and black pointed heel by Le Clique by Kat Maconie; katmaconie.com

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“Cultured Pearl” wedding invite by Erin Deegan for Minted; minted.com

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Fuchsia satin braided headband

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Satin shoulder bag with long tassel by Galvan; neimanmarcus.com

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Floral crystal gold-plated earrings

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Ombré crystalembellished slingback

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Oregon Sunstone pendant

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all that glitters

RINGS Round center stone in a blossom of 14k whitegold petal-like prongs with rose-gold flower accents,

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Princess-cut diamond set in white gold with peekaboo 14k rose-gold rose by Enchanted Disney Fine Jewelry Collection; zales.com.

Floral-inspired halo of pearand round-cut diamonds on platinum band by Lauren Addison Jewelry; laurenaddison.com.

BELLE

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Diamond solitaire surrounded by sanded gold-finished band and clustered rose- and full-cut diamonds by Ananya; ananya.com.

Rose-cut diamond with halo set in 18k recycled rose gold and recycled white-gold shank

by Anna Sheffield; annasheffield.com.

Elongated halo of diamonds with pavé diamond band by Hayley Paige for Hearts on Fire; heartsonfire.com.

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Celebrations and wedding expert David Tutera tells you how to tune out the noise and unsolicited opinions that come with planning your big day.

his is your day! How many times have you heard that phrase? Yet I’ve noticed that somehow when a girlfriend becomes a fiancé, she seems to lose all confidence in both the smallest and largest big-day decisions. And this is not a good place to find yourself when you’re in the midst of wedding planning.

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Everybody is going to have an opinion, whether helpful or not. Isn’t it amazing how everyone wants to weigh in?

That’s why I always suggest my brides keep the size of their advice entourage to a minimum.

DAVID’S RULE OF THUMB: SURROUND YOURSELF WITH A SMALL This is my number-one rule. Too many GROUP OF POSITIVE PEOPLE. TRUST YOUR GUT AND LISTEN voices can make you lose sight of your TO YOUR HEART. THEY WILL NEVER STEER YOU WRONG. vision. This is your day. Think about decision you’re making is not only the right one, but one that will what the phrase really means, and make it your mantra. give you one of the most beautiful and special days of your life.

Here, some ways to stay focused.

KNOW THYSELF

PUT IT DOWN ON PAPER

There are hundreds of truths you know for sure about yourself.

Start by free-associating the things that bring you joy. What’s your favorite color? What are some of your favorite foods? As for me, I love the color blue, and I could eat desserts (anything sweet) every day from now until forever. Now it’s your turn—and your wedding: When you close your eyes, what do you see? Elegant touches like red roses and crystal? Or do you see yourself dancing under the stars to a bluegrass band in a field of wildflowers?

What is your heart saying? Listen to it, trust it and know that every

Now that your creative bridal juices are flowing, write everything down, and start compiling a planning binder. As the process unfolds, you can start filing vendor contracts and timelines as well. Once you have your ideas, plans and inspiration in one place, you’ll discover that this organization has given you the luxury of feeling cool, calm and collected—literally! Bonus confidence-building points: having hard-copy notes, images and plans you can point to will go a long way toward keeping everyone else’s opinions to a minimum: You already know what you want, so others will be less likely to rush in with conflicting ideas.

A BFF with Benefits Enlist a friend or bridesmaid to act as a buffer throughout the planning process. Let her be the one to keep you above the fray when it comes to navigating potential landmines such as dress-shopping and catering decisions. Consider the same strategy for the big day itself, when you might need help smoothing out awkward situations: a guest whom you’d rather avoid; the mother-in-law who swoops in at inopportune moments.

YES YOU CAN Trust your instincts. You automatically reach for the perfect accessories for that little black dress. Why should it be any different when it comes to the big white gown? Did you love your hair during your trial run? Not so much? Bring in a few more pictures of what you had in mind and try, try again. Your stylist wants you to feel amazing, so don’t settle until you feel like the princess you are. Be straightforward, stay organized and think positive thoughts. I always say a calm bride is a happy bride— and what is more beautiful than a happy, confident woman? 

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A mix of succulents and protea for a desert wedding.

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A custom lace overlay complements the blue and white dinnerware.

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A pale blush invitation suite with a custom wax seal.

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An artful invitation suite for a wedding in Cabo.

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A tawny mix of copper and rose tones for a fall wedding in the South.

Dusty-pink protea is both tropical and desert-like.

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A sundrenched greenhouse alive with ferns and pampas grass.

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An ombré arch at a Montauk wedding.

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Fruity cocktails spiked with mint, sugar and citrus.

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A custom-designed wooden ceremony backdrop.

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Lilys of the valley, here realized in sugar, adorn this cake.

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A cake inspired by traditional Chinese cheongsam dresses.

A handpainted cake trimmed with feathers.

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A naked drip cake embellished with flowers and macarons.

A cake garnished with edible metallic leaf and fresh figs.

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ADVICE One of the best ways to tell if you click with someone you might hire is by contrast. Plan to meet with at least five photographers. Don’t worry about the details—albums, timelines, deposits. Save them for later. Schedule a series of digital meetings, using Skype or FaceTime to save time and eliminate unnecessary travel. When you meet, there are only two key things you need to know. First, “is this person able and willing to give me what I want?” And second, “do I sense that, as people, we click?” Once you’ve met with enough photographers, those who feel right will be clear. Use these opportunities to see how well you communicate with each other as you narrow the field.

Ask your potential photograHaving phers to show you images photographers from an entire wedding show you images from they’ve shot. It helps clarify an entire wedding their ability and gives a more helps clarify their ability complete sense of their style. and gives you a more complete sense But just seeing isn’t enough. of their style.

You should discuss the photographs.

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Top pro William Petruzzo shares the best ways to focus in on finding your perfect wedding photographer.

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oogling “questions to ask a wedding photographer” produces the same advice again and again: questions like “How long have you been in business?” “What’s your style?” or “What happens if you become ill?”

These are all good questions, and you should plan on asking them.

But in today’s world, with so many photographers to choose from, it’s more important than ever that you click with the photographer you choose. Here, some guidelines.

Clicking with your photographer means you like their style of photography. This is important because you don’t want to have to ask them to emulate someone else’s style. It also means you feel safe—confident he or she will give you great results—you like talking to each other, you understand each other and neither of you will need constant clarification. Clicking means that you sense that your photographer wants to do a good job on your wedding day and if something goes wrong, you’ll feel confident that he will make it right.

Be aware there are two categories of photographer: art-oriented and customer-service oriented. There are incredible photographers in both categories and the two categories are not mutually exclusive. What matters is what resonates with you. An art-oriented photographer might take longer on your wedding day and cause schedule delays in order to get the perfect shot or the right light. But couples that click with them will treasure the results. A customer-service oriented photographer, on the other hand, will be prompt and have a streamlined process that helps your big day run smoothly. There is a chance, however, that a truly outstanding photo can be missed for the greater good. There is no right or wrong here, there is only what feels right to you. As you review potential photographers’ wedding portfolios, asking about the logistics and backstories behind select shots will reveal which way your photographer leans.

Ask yourself: Which would be better on your wedding day?

Once you’ve met with enough photographers, the one who feels right should be a clear standout: You like his or her photo style, the photographer makes you feel comfortable and confident and you’re communicating with ease in anticipation of your beautiful day. Congratulations—you’re clicking!

Photographer William Petruzzo is based in the Washington, D.C. area and is a member of PPA, Professional Photographers of America. He serves as owner and creative director for Petruzzo Photography, LLC, petruzzo.com.

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Ask each pro to talk about some images and to explain the context, the choices they made, and what they like and don’t like. Express your opinion and weigh each response. Does it feel right?

If you felt eager for the meeting to end, you probably weren’t clicking and it probably doesn’t matter how good their photography was for another couple.

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While there’s never an optimum time to experience loss of income, dealing with a contracted cash flow just when you’re putting together a wedding budget can seem like an almost insurmountable challenge. But this budget shortfall need not signal the end of the wedding of your dreams. With some organization, creativity and small adjustments, your wedding can still go on with nary a hitch. Help is at hand, ahead.

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START AT THE BOTTOM LINE Those once-in-a-lifetime wedding memories may be priceless, but every single wedding line item comes with a price tag. Unfortunately, loss of income means having to take a fresh look at the budget. Big-day elements may have to be downsized, become DIY projects or jettisoned.

• SIT DOWN WITH YOUR FIANCÉ and analyze your finances. “It’s unromantic, but you need to take emotions out of it,” says Cindy Shanholtz, owner and creative director of Effortless Events in Chicago. “Then, get down to business and make it work.”

• TAKE A CLOSE LOOK AT THE COST of your needs, likes and wants and determine what money will be coming in from sources such as unemployment benefits or even help from your parents.

• SHANHOLTZ SUGGESTS TAKING your projected wedding budget and dividing by the number of guests. She says people are often surprised by the results once they realize the cost per person. Catering typically takes the largest chunk of the budget, making slicing

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ANALYZE YOUR CONTRACTS So you’ve revised your budget and have some cost-cutting ideas in mind.

Where do you go from here? The next step is to analyze contracts you’ve already signed to look for wiggle room.

• WHEN NEGOTIATING contracts, you want to sign off on the minimum number of guests possible, Shanholtz says. “It’s much easier to add guests to a contract than it is to subtract.”

• BOOKING VENDORS far enough in advance should allow you to make changes as your planning timeline unfolds. But once the contract is signed your negotiating power will be diminished to a great extent. That said, explaining your financial situation to your vendors can lead to price adjustments even on contracts that have been signed. Take for example Anne S., a recent bride who

was able to work out a deal with her photographer to get a lower rate by paying for his services in cash. Some vendors may be willing to renegotiate contracted prices if you agree to pay in full at an earlier date than originally agreed upon.

• IF A CONTRACT IS ALREADY signed, speak with your vendor about making adjustments as needed: be it working with a lower head count, shifting the wedding date or tweaking the food and beverage offerings. “Most people are understanding and want repeat business,” Shanholtz says, adding, “The majority of vendors are going to work with you.”

and dicing your guest list the number-one way to cut costs. Says Shanholtz: “Invitations shouldn’t go out until you are six to eight weeks out from your wedding so if the job loss happens earlier on in the planning, trimming your guest list is the first and best place to start.”

• NEXT, LOOK AT ADDITIONAL cost-saving measures. An easy one is to nix the favors.

“Unless you can eat it or drink it, I don’t recommend favors,” Shanholtz says.

Hosting your wedding at less traditional dates and times can reduce budgets as well.

Weekday weddings will be less expensive as will weddings held earlier in the day for brunch.

“An omelet will always be cheaper than a filet,” says Shanholtz. (For more budget-saving ideas, see “75 Best Budget Tips” in this issue.)

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As you reach out to prospective vendors, keep in mind there will be additional costs that aren’t spelled out in your contract. Whatever price you are quoted from a vendor is always ‘plus plus,’ meaning plus gratuity and plus tax.

You don’t want to go over budget because you forgot to figure those extra costs.

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Employed or not, the months leading up to your wedding will provide much excitement and delight. So instead of focusing on the problems inherent in juggling finances, job hunting, and, yes, wedding planning, remember the memories you’ll be creating together that will last a lifetime.

MANAGE YOUR TIME

• “MY JOB HUNT WAS PRIORITY NUMBER ONE,” says recent bride Jennifer G. Yet she was able to put the upside of being jobless to good use. “In between resume edits, internet searches, job boards, LinkedIn connections and applications, there was time to call vendors or go to the craft store so I could execute that Pinterest-perfect centerpiece.”

Jennifer, who threw a surprise wedding while unemployed, created her own centerpieces, ceremony pillars, easels, and marquee lights. Her husband even got involved by assisting with decorating invitations.

• “INTERVIEWING IS LIKE GOING ON A BAD DATE, so wedding-planning activities kept me sane and helped break up the stress,” explains Anne, who was unemployed at start of her engagement, only to find the roles reversed when she found a job and her fiancé lost his. He used some of his new-found free time to refresh skills by completing a coding boot camp while Anne immersed herself in the upcoming big-day details.

• GETTING TOGETHER WITH FRIENDS for an evening of wedding DIY can help keep the mood light and costs down. Before you invite your crew over for a night of crafting surprise-ball favors and fun escort cards, “Keep in mind that just because you have time on your hands that doesn’t mean your family, friends and bridal party will be available to hang out with you,” reminds Shanholtz.

MAKE CONNECTIONS AS YOU PLAN In being open with people you meet on the wedding-planning front, you’ll find cost-cutting tips, advice and emotional support. You might even find a job!

Think about it. Planning a wedding requires multiple meetings and loads of collaboration. That means lots of networking opportunities and a lot of people who may know about job openings in your area of expertise.

• “OPPORTUNITY IS EVERYWHERE. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT,” says Dara Lynn Smith, who was unemployed during the final months of her wedding planning. Dara didn’t hold back when it came to discussing her job loss. By being very vocal about her situation she was able to score a few side gigs to supplement her income such as dog walking and reviewing local restaurants while searching for a new position. While the side gigs weren’t a career, they helped Dara fill financial holes and eventually made her realize her career calling was actually in….. weddings!

“I bounced ideas off vendors and kept in touch with my wedding planner after the big day,” Dara explains. With the blessing of her husband and wedding planner, she decided to create and make the operation of her wedding blog—The First Look (TheFirstLookBlog.com)—her career focus. While every vendor may not inspire a new career, your openness and honesty may help you fi nd a familiar story.

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PRACTICE SELF CARE Job loss can trigger feelings of inadequacy, emptiness and confusion. Be kind to yourself. If you are the one who’s without a job, don’t neglect your own self-care. If it’s your partner, take care to underscore that he still adds much value to the relationship—with or without a job. Pamper yourself in between planning seating charts, designing decor and updating LinkedIn profiles. Anne found serenity in getting in shape for the wedding. “Working out consistently was key to my mental and physical well-being.”

And of course, pay attention to the health of your relationship. Think of this hiccup as practice for issues to come, says Vikki Ziegler, relationship expert and author of The Pre-Marital Planner. Ziegler suggests taking a moment to remember why you fell in love: “This is the perfect time to look to your upcoming marriage vows—whether you’ve already written them or have yet to create them. Let them serve as a reminder of why you love each other and the promise you’re making to each other to sustain that love,” Ziegler says.

• KEEP THE FOCUS on all the good t hat comes with weddings. Employed or not, getting married is such an exciting time.

Instead of zoning in on the problems of juggling wedding plans, budget management and job hunting, remember the memories you’ll be creating together that will last a lifetime. 

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Career experts emphasize the importance of maintaining a regular routine when you’re job-hunting, whether it be waking up at the same time every day or dedicating your afternoons to sending out resumes. Add in wedding planning and your days, evenings and weekends will fill up fast.

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Reasons to Shop at Your Local Bridal Salon

The YES Moment

You,ve probably been dreaming of this day for a long time—with good reason! There is no greater feeling than trying on a wedding gown and seeing yourself as a bride for the very first time. Surrounded by friends and loved ones makes the YES moment that much sweeter!

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Make the Dress Your Own

Bridal salons offer the largest selection of reputable designers, styles, and colors.Your consultant will work directly with the designer to ensure everything from the color, to the fabric and the fit, are exactly what you envision.

The dress you try on in the store is just a starting point.

Want to add a sleeve? Lower the back? Elongate the train?

At a traditional bridal salon, you can work with a seamstress to customize your gown and turn your dream into a reality.

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When you buy from a trusted, local bridal salon, you not only support your community, but also small businesses mostly owned by women!

No Surprises You get what you pay for. A designer dress may be pricier than similar versions online, but counterfeit gowns can be poorly constructed, ill-fitting, and made out of cheap fabrics, if you receive your gown at all.

If budget is a concern, there are many ways to shop smart at a local salon. Many brick-and-mortar stores offer discounts at designer trunk shows, and host sample sales annually.

So Much More Than Just the Gown Your trained consultant will take precise measurements, assist with alterations, and put you at ease throughout the entire process. The salon will even steam your gown and store it safely until your wedding day!

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BEST BUDGET TIPS

1 To get a lavish look on a modest decor budget, choose a venue with a lot

of character of its own. Some possibilities: an aquarium, zoo, museum, gallery, botanical garden or historical site.

2 Rent a vacation home or private estate for a small, intimate affair. “They may charge a week’s worth in rent but it may still be equal to or less than renting a traditional reception venue,” says Maryrose Griffith of Maryrose Griffith Event Design and Coordination in San Diego, California.

3 Choose a theme or motif and carry it through the event for a stylish look,

says the creative marketing and events team at Bonnell’s Restaurant Group in Fort Worth, Texas. For example, start with a pattern on your invitation, perhaps

elegant scrollwork, and incorporate it into other elements like programs, favors, escort cards or even gobo lights for the dance floor.

4 Use color to posh effect, says Griffith. Using a rich hue such as chocolate brown or deep eggplant can give any color palette a stylish look without costing you any extra green stuff. They work with a variety of shades like apple green, light blue, orange, pink or red.

5 Kick off your celebration in high style with a glamorous invite. “Invitations set the mood for the wedding, so go beyond the standard white card,” says Griffith.

You’ll get a much more impressive look by incorporating color in your design.

6 Griffith’s savvy stationery tip: Invest

the money to have your invitations designed professionally, but then print your own save-the-dates, programs, menus and escort cards using the same fonts, colors and style as your custom invites.

7 Say ciao to costly hand-done calligraphy. Either print the envelopes on your computer, using a calligraphy font, or have them printed at your local print/copy shop for just pennies each.

8 Have a cocktail reception, but be cost-conscious by focusing on a beautiful display rather than tons and tons of food.

“Butlers in tuxedos passing trays of a few kinds of stylish hors d’oeuvres seems more high-end than chafing dishes on a buffet table, but the cost is roughly the same,” says the team at Bonnell’s.

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KICK OFF YOUR CELEBRATION IN HIGH STYLE WITH EYECATCHING INVITATIONS. THEY SET THE MOOD FOR THE BIG DAY, SO GO BEYOND THE STANDARD WHITE CARD. your tables. It makes a dazzling effect and

9 Ask your venue’s wait staff to don white gloves while they’re serving. “You

can buy gloves for under $1 a pair,” says Samantha Goldberg of Samantha Goldberg & Co. in Summit, New Jersey.

10 Upgrade your linens. Griffith suggests pintuck, shantung or another glamorous fabric. “For just $15 to $30 per table, they’re the biggest bang for your buck you can get,” she says.

11 While you’re at it, you can rent

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napkins in a color or pattern for about $1 each, adding a pop of vibrant color and a

more custom look at the same time.

12 Go a little longer than floor length with your table linens. “Pooling linens makes for a much more luxurious, opulent look,” notes Goldberg.

13 Another option: Rent a gauzy overlay, for $9 to $25 apiece, to dress up your table. Or buy sheer organza by the yard at a fabric store and have overlays made for just $5 to $8 apiece.

14 Another table topper: If you (or someone else you know) is handy, create your own table runners. You can go for something extra luxe in your fabric because you won’t need a great deal of it.

15 Accent your table with pretty napkin rings. “You can rent them in different styles and colors for a few dollars each or buy them on sale for as little as 99 cents apiece,” says Goldberg.

16 Top each napkin with a single bloom and tie with a coordinating ribbon,

recommends New York City-based event planner Leslie Price of In Any Event.

17 Fold it fancy. “A unique napkin fold can make a statement and most venues won’t charge for the service,” says Price.

One option: Fold the napkin to create a pocket to hold a menu.

18 Attach a small bouquet or floral garland to the backs of the bride’s and groom’s chairs to give them a special look.

19 Change up your chairs. Try white suede for the lead table and regular white chairs for the rest of the guests.

20 Use ribbon to upgrade candleholders. Hold the ribbon in place with sticky dots, says Laura Clare, owner of Laura Clare Floral Design and Event Decor in Hoboken, New Jersey.

21 Place a colored or textured charger ($3 to $5 each) underneath the dinner plates.

22 Instead of using clear glass votive holders, try colored or etched ones, suggests Price. Try your local crafts store or candles4less.com, where you can get a box of 12 for $11.99.

23 Out: standard banquet chairs. In: elegant chiavari chairs (in gold or silver) at about $9 each to rent, or clear “ghost” chairs at about $12 each to rent.

24 Use mirrors or frosted glass to cover

saves you the cost of providing linens.

25 Shake up the table shapes. Try a long rectangular table. These come at the same price as typical round shapes but bring a more sophisticated look.

26 Invest in a little lighting—for a huge impact. Get a wash of color on walls with uplights, suggests Griffith. “Even two or three lights accentuating a focal point will change the feel of the room,” she says.

Costs for the light rentals run from $12 to $35 each, including color gels.

27 Another bright idea: Use pin spotlights, at $25 to $50 each, to give extra presence to your tables.

28 To make flower arrangements seem grander and more stylish for just a few dollars, wrap inexpensive glass containers

in handmade paper, wallpaper or fabric and add a ribbon, suggests Griffith.

29 In place of pricey flowers for centerpieces, consider romantic candelabras draped in crystals. Tabletop candelabras can be rented for $25 to $75 at websites like simplyelegantwed.com.

30 Griffith likes to splurge on wellplaced, plush lounge furniture. “Lounge furniture is more affordable than you might think,” she says. “A set of curved benches, for example, might run you about $400.

And your guests will feel spoiled!” ➺

31 Bring on the bling. “Faux crystals— on bouquets, the cake, invitations, place cards and menus—are eye-catching and give an expensive feel,” says Griffith.

You can purchase glass beads inexpensively at local crafts stores.

32 Place a beautiful menu at each guest’s place. Many venues will print them for you for free, or you can make them yourself without spending much.

33 Go for chic and simple centerpieces.

Instead of paying $75 to $125 each for elaborate table arrangements, purchase tall, clear cylinders from the local dollar store to use as containers for single orchids or rose petals in water with floating candles on top, suggests Goldberg.

34 Or use colored water in your centerpieces to coordinate with your decor.

The effect is magical in candlelight.

35 Set reception tables with colored or patterned china instead of standard white. The cost will be about $3-$7 per

setting.

36 Hire out-of-the-ordinary entertainment for a high-impact cocktail hour. To save costs, opt for a three-piece ensemble instead of a five-piece. Or use standout musicians for the cocktail hour and switch to a DJ for dancing later on in the evening.

37 Instead of hiring a group for the cocktail hour, have a solo musician, like a classical guitarist, add something different and delightful.

38 Consider a musical group that combines a DJ and musicians who perform along with the recorded music. It’ll get

49 Want to double the impact of your flower arrangements without adding a dime to your florist bill? Place your

the crowd dancing, and provide the upscale feel of a live band at less expense.

39 If you’re hiring a DJ, consider a live bongo player or sax player to accompany your mix master.

40 Glow on! “Use candlelight to give your room a rich, romantic look,” says Goldberg. “It’s highly affordable.”

41 Get creative with escort cards and/ or place cards. In some cases you can do a different—and more interesting—shape or color for less than you’d pay for the typical tented fold-over cards, says Clare.

42 Instead of just lining up escort cards on a table, string them from branches or nestle them in a bed of grass, sand, rocks or flower petals.

43 Splurge on hand calligraphy for your escort cards, place cards or table numbers.

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blooms in front of a mirror—the reflection will create an ultralush look.

50 Order window clings (perfect for personalizing glass doors at your venue) at websites like orientaltrading.com or Etsy.

Prices for the clings start at around $15, depending on size.

51 Small wrought-iron trees, available at specialty stores or online, make a chic backdrop or centerpiece. Take them up a notch by hanging votives or glittering ornaments from the branches.

52 A fresh centerpiece idea: Fill clear containers with sliced limes, lemons or oranges. In the center of the fruit, place a tall glass with a votive to illuminate the arrangement.

table numbers by choosing paper with

a metallic sheen rather than a flat card stock, says Price. If you were to purchase card stock yourself, you’d pay about $40 per 100 sheets for metallic and about $27 per 100 sheets of flat. The difference would be about 13 cents a sheet.

45 For an elegant look, ask the calligrapher to spell out table numbers (“six” instead of “6”), says Price.

46 Make it metallic. “Metallic items look extravagant but don’t cost any more than their counterparts,” says Griffith, who suggests presenting favors in little gold boxes and choosing a shimmery champagne color for linens.

47 Vary the height, size or shape of centerpieces. “This is a design trick often used by pros,” explains Griffith.

“By doing this you create dimension, which keeps the eye flowing throughout the room, It’s a really nice effect.”

48 Play around with centerpiece containers for a more custom look. One of Bonner’s Texas brides is filling specialty cowboy boots with wildflowers for a casually elegant air.

53 Use natural elements that hold an earthy, upscale appeal. Goldberg sug-

gests filling a two- to three-foot-high vase with a base of river rocks and adding dramatic branches of curly willow or manzanita branches. Place these arrangements at the entrance to your cocktail hour and/or reception.

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FOR A CHIC IMPRESSION, CATERERS CAN CREATE UNIQUE DISPLAYS WITH ITEMS ALREADY ON HAND SUCH AS SHOT GLASSES AND CERAMIC TEASPOONS AT NO ADDITIONAL COST TO YOU.

54 When selecting butler-passed foods, go for visually pleasing nibbles. Red gaz-

pacho shooters with a green garnish look great lined up on a tray.

55 Start your meal with an amusebouche, a tasty pre-dinner bite. Try an espresso cup of soup, a mini crab cake or a single scallop. Dropping the salad course and replacing it with an amusebouche is usually done at no extra cost.

56 Presenting food in eye-catching ways creates a chic impression but doesn’t have to add costs. “Most chefs

serving tray. Guests will really enjoy the naturally creative touch!”

60 Add an unexpected accent to dishes with pretty herbs or edible flowers, such as pansies or squash blossoms, says Clare.

61 Classic cocktails—an old-fashioned, anyone?—are making a comeback. Offer one or two kinds of mixed drinks, and you’ll imbue your reception with a sophisticated, vintage feel that guests will be sure to remember fondly.

62 Have waiters work the room. “Passing specialty drinks can upgrade your

decorate dessert plates with a swirl or drizzle of chocolate or fruit-flavored sauce.

68 Make coffee extra special by serving each cup with a rock-candy swizzle stick.

69 Ask your baker to cover your confection in a soft gold fondant rather than white. “Fondant airbrushed in gold

looks rich and extravagant,” says Goldberg.

70 Display your favorite goodies—cookies, candy, potato chips—whatever you’re known for noshing—in containers or even vases of different heights, shapes and sizes.

71 Take your goodie bag up a notch by providing customized “to go” bags or boxes with a stamp or sticker with your names or logo, says Griffith.

72 An elaborate wedding cake can be super pricey. Instead, offer your guests miniature pies, petit fours or individual servings of crème brûlée.

73 A cupcake or doughnut tower is another fun and budget-friendly change from a traditional cake. A five-tier tower

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INSTEAD OF JUST LINING UP ESCORT CARDS ON A TABLE, STRING THEM FROM BRANCHES OR NESTLE THEM IN A BED OF GRASS, SAND, ROCKS OR FLOWER PETALS. enjoy creating unique presentations,” says Goldberg. “If they have items available—like shot glasses, ceramic teaspoons and so on—they can use these at no further cost to you.”

57 Plan your menu around such inexpensive ethnic cuisines as Mexican, Indian or Greek.

58 Treat your guests to an appetizer duo or dessert trio. Price’s insider secret: If your venue offers four courses, negotiate down to three and use the “credit” to pay for the duo or trio. For a fabulous dessert trio, for example, you might serve a mini flourless chocolate cake, a berry tartlet and a shortbread cookie.

59 Adopt a leaf motif. For a summery look, serve appetizers on petite tropical leaves and use a leaf as a charger under the dinner plate, says Clare. “You can even use a long pod or a sturdy leaf as a

look, and most venues will include it in their package,” says Price.

63 The champagne tower is back in style, says Clare. Create one by stacking glasses in a pyramid shape. There may be a small setup cost. Drop single raspberries into glasses for extra effect.

64 Float a slice of lemon, orange, lime or a strawberry or raspberry in each guest’s water glass.

65 Instead of a budget-busting full, open bar, offer your guests a signature cocktail, chosen to complement your wedding colors, suggests Griffith.

66 Decorate your wedding cake with fresh flowers to match your decor (less expensive than sugarpaste!). “Most florists will provide this for you at a minimal charge if they’re already providing other elements of your wedding,” says Price.

67 Sweet and simple: Have your caterer

may cost as little as $60.

74 Or steal an idea from one bride, and have an outrageously rich brownie tower.

75 Choose favors that do double duty as escort card holders. Clare suggests writing each guest’s name on a pot with a keepsake plant tucked inside. 

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Beaded sheer topper with statement sleeves by BHLDN; bhldn.com. Rhinestone earrings by Bel Aire Bridal; belairebridal.com. Pavé ring by Eva Fehren; evafehren.com.

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Jamie Litke and Jared Schreiber host an ethereal early-summer wedding on the banks of the Delaware River.

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1. The blush invitation suite and other paper goods, all designed by Steph B. and Co. 2. Ceremony flowers included garden roses, peonies, and ranunculus mixed with dusty greens.

“If I had to describe our theme it would be ethereal, romantic, rustic chic,” Jamie says. 3. The bride in her Maria Fabrini gown; the bridesmaids in Jenny Yoo. 4. The venue, the Glen Foerd Delaware River estate, is on the National Register of Historic Places. The couple aimed for a setting that was “romantic and outdoors, not traditional looking.”

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1. “When we turned around to face our guests and take in the moment, you can see in the photo how special this was,” Jamie says.

2. The couple wanted their sweetheart table to feel “superspecial but not too distanced from our guests.” 3. Captured here, a joyful reception moment.

4. Jamie and Jared worked with floral and event designer Cynthia of Oleander Curated to come up with tablescapes based on their visions for the day, mixing elevated florals with low vases so guests could communicate with ease.

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3. Says Jamie, “We almost didn't have a cake since they never seem to taste as good as they look, and we already had a ton of dessert options. But we wanted a cake-cutting moment.

The cake (by Cake Life Bakery) turned out to be so delicious and gorgeous!” 4. A sweet welcome sign. 5. Crystal bud vases serve as escort cards and guest favors. 6. The bride and her bouquet by Oleander Curated.

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Personal Touches • Following Jewish tradition, “Jared met me halfway down the aisle to greet me and uncover my veil. This was a really special moment,” Jamie says.

• “I wore a necklace that features the oval-shaped diamond my dad used when he proposed to my mom, along with my mother-in-law’s tennis bracelet.”

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From barefoot to formal, we’ve got the goods on the best places to swap vows, celebrate love and watch the sunset.

With flourishes and fine details, one New York couple hosted the ultimate wedding celebration at an ancient Florentine estate, while another bride and groom sailed away to tie the knot. We tour Mexico’s hottest new boutique hotel and we share a love letter to the world’s most romantic resorts group—Sandals. Plus, we’ve got the best way to distance while getting close at these resorts with private villas, cottages and bungalows.

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Sebasco Harbor Resort in Maine.

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Intimate Escapes Experience your own personal paradise when you book into an individual accommodation at one of these stellar resorts.

THE COTTAGES AT THE BOAT BASIN

Nantucket’s Cottages at the Boat Basin.

Nantucket, an island off the coast of Cape Cod, was once the capital of the whaling industry. Today the salt-airswept, golden island retains its historic charm with cobblestone streets, rambling mansions, clapboard cottages and numerous lighthouses. And in many of those outposts luxe accommodations are housed. Among the offerings, The Cottages at the Boat Basin are the most recognizable; many sit on stilts at the main harbor. Each comes equipped with all the necessary equipment for a day at the beach, as well as access to bicycles, the preferred mode of local transport (room rates start at $160 a night; thecottagesnantucket.com).

The Preserve Sporting Club & Residences

The Preserve Sporting Club & Residences.

This new Rhode Island resort that sprawls over 3,500 acres, including a golf course, 10 fly-fishing ponds and 100 miles of hiking trails, and boasts an activity menu that’s robust with adventures and accommodations housed in rustic luxe cabins, timber homes, tents and more, is a property that was conceived with social distancing in mind. Stays are spent in the great outdoors horseback riding, cycling, kayaking and rock climbing, plus snowshoeing and cross country skiing in season. The excellent spa and impressive locavore cuisine round out the impressive offerings. Book into the treehouse suite for an amazing upscale camping experience (room rates start at $740 a night; preservesportingclub.com).

FUN FACT: The word ‘cottage’ is English and refers to a cozy house. Some say its origins date to the Middle Ages. The term is commonly used for vintage homes.

Belmond El Encanto in California.

BELMOND EL ENCANTO At the foot of the Santa Ynez Mountains on the coast of the Pacific Ocean and just two hours from Los Angeles is an artsy surf enclave settled into white-stucco Spanish-style low-rise buildings with red tile roofs and charming gardens.

Santa Barbara, which was founded in 1786 and was built around a Franciscan mission, has long welcomed visitors in search of serious R&R. This aptly named hideaway is equally historic and restorative. It opened its doors in 1918 with an exquisite eye to service, exclusive amenities and privacy. Today there are an intimate 92 suites, guest rooms and bungalows (room rates start at $434 a night; belmond.com). 

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by Jenna Mahoney

In a coastal pocket of southern Maine sits this classic and quaint family-owned resort. A collection of 22 individually appointed cottages, historic main lodges, a lighthouse and photogenic cabins for gatherings (think: restaurants, a game room and a heavenly spa), this throw-back sea-facing hotel, complete with a golf course, is the quintessential New England summer getaway. There are sailing excursions and an enormous saltwater pool. Guests love the lobster dinners, on-site ice cream parlor and blueberry pancake breakfasts on the lawn (rates for the one-bedroom Pebble cottage start at $299 a night; sebasco.com).

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Sandals: A Love Letter HAPPY TOGETHER Adam and Butch Stewart.

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Gordon “Butch” Stewart was the ultimate romance getaway game-changer. Here, a look back— and ahead. by Jenna Mahoney

ALL IN The beachfront sky-pool suite with butler service at Sandals Royal Barbados.

n 1981, on the tropical island of Jamaica, a local businessman with a gracious personality, eye to customer service and the best smile in the Caribbean, opened a beachfront, all-inclusive resort for vacationing couples. The 99-room hideaway on the “best beach in all of Montego Bay” was the first Sandals, a resort name that’s synonymous with romance, weddings, and happily-ever-after vacations for people in love. That business man was the charismatic and visionary Gordon “Butch” Stewart, who spearheaded the development of the laid-back Caribbean islands CARIBBEAN TIME into the daydream destinations that are so revered across the Adam (left) on his favorite excursion— globe. The world recently said goodbye to the magnanimous figure bamboo river rafting. who kept inventing and reinventing the concept of luxury-included vacations. Following Stewart’s memorial, his son Adam, executive chairman of the romance tourism powerhouse, shared his thoughts on his father’s impact on Caribbean travel, his favorite and not ALWAYS SUNNY so favorite parts of Sandals and the company’s vision for the future.

The founder of Sandals and Beaches Resorts.

Bridal Guide: Your dad famously said “I didn’t invent the concept, I perfected it.” What are some ways in which he did that?

Adam Stewart: He created an all-inclusive experience that was more than a party. He brought luxury quality to all of our hotels. Innovation was a centerpiece of his vision. He was the first to introduce à la ON THE WATER The sea carte dining. And Sandals created the first swim-up was a constant for inspiration bar. My dad brought European luxury to the hotels and entertainment. of the Caribbean. With that he also inspired the staff. When he introduced Sandals University, it was a first training program of its kind. He always said: “we live the attitude and we train the skill.” He also empowered travel partners and got them to believe in the Caribbean islands. And he made the CaribTHE CLASSICS bean a world-class destination. ➺ Sandals Montego Bay.

“There are dreamers and there are doers. My dad was both. He was always looking forward to the next concept and its implementation.”

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ONE LOVE The romantic overwater bungalows at the private island Sandals Royal Caribbean off of Jamaica.

TRAVEL INSIDER I DO! The overwater chapel is a newer addition to some properties.

BG: Why did he create resorts for couples? Was he a hopeless romantic?

AS: My dad loved life. He loved to laugh and he wanted to celebrate people in love.

That was the mission that drove the details.

There are the hammocks and all the little quiet alcoves around each property. Later, we added fire pits—the embodiment of two people keeping their flame alive.

BG: Did he have a favorite resort?

AS: He loved them all. Of course, he was fond of the first one, Sandals Montego Bay; he grew up fishing at that beach.

Each property he created has the best beach in its location. That was his superpower—discovering the SUN IS SHINING The first resort in most romantic beach. Our beaches Montego Bay. face west, which is where you can WELCOME WAGON see the sunset. That’s a necessity The Sandals brand for romance. In many ways Antigua opened the Caribbean to the world. was a favorite for him. It was the first hotel outside of Jamaica. Its opening made us an international company. And the success of that property showcased his pioneering vision across the Caribbean.

BG: What was his favorite resort restaurant?

AS: There is a seafood restaurant overlooking the water at Beaches Turks & Caicos called Schooners.

The casual setting and the excellent seafood is a reflection of him.

He loved to gather there with friends and family and enjoyed eating on Caribbean time.

BG: Do you have a favorite eatery?

AS: Oh I love the sushi. My dad wasn’t convinced about the concept at first. Then he tried it. He saw that we had the IN THE ROUND Sandals Grande highest quality seafood and the best service, he knew it St. Lucian beachfront butler-serviced was a winner. We are proudly Jamaican, and the Jerk Rondoval suite.

Shacks are true Jamaican. The simplicity is what makes it so special. I eat Jerk three times a week.

Sandals Curacao are going to be so special. The setting BG: What’s your favorite Island Routes (the tour operator is romantic and remote. It is undiscovered and the beach

by Sandals) excursion? has calm waters.

AS: That’s easy—the bamboo river raft. Here on Jamaica, BG: In addition to the new Curacao property, what are we have crystal clear, beautiful rivers that flow under trees and it is so peaceful. Together with friends and family, I love you looking forward to?

AS: The new Beaches in St. Vincent will be set on 50 acres to float down the river, jump in the water and enjoy a cold of land, with a west-facing beach and a river on the property. beer and some music.

Wellness offerings and the undiscovered nature of the BG: What’s your favorite room? private island are the core of the experience here. That’s AS: The overwater bungalows and the Rondoval suites the future of Sandals—we will continue the legacy of my dad are the pinnacle of romance. These two room categories are to bring the most innovative concepts across rooms, food, symbolic of Sandals and the idea of Sandals—a romantic service and, of course, the best beaches to our guests.  luxury vacation with no worries. The suites at the new

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“My dad’s motto was ‘Find out what the customer wants and exceed their expectations.’

That is the core of our business. He was a great listener and was all about elevated service.”

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THIS FORMAL FÊTE WAS AS BIG AND BOLD AS IT WAS BELLISSIMO! HERE’S AN INTIMATE LOOK AT AN AMAZING BIG DAY IN FLORENCE.

BY JENNA MAHONEY LA DOLCE VITA—IT’S A ROMANTIC FANTASY COMPOSED OF GOOD FOOD, GOOD WINE AND GOOD FUN ALL ENJOYED ON A sun-drenched terrace set in a landscape dotted with gnarled olive trees and parallel lines of growing grapes. Any trip to Italy captures the essence of sweet living in a photogenic locale that’s robust with historic attractions and bordered by sparkling waters. And that’s just what Oksana and Matthew Barbey wanted to experience during their spectacular wedding celebration. “The classic appeal of Italy and the beautiful embrace of life was exactly what we were looking for in a destination to have our wedding,” they say. The Tuscan-chic hideaway Il Salviatino ensconced in the picturesque Florentine hills promised this—and more. “The elegance of a historical villa on a Fiesole

Oksana and Matt said “I do” on the terrace in the garden at Il Salviatino.

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hillside along with the impeccable staff and service at the hotel was what really sealed the deal in our decision to have our wedding in Italy.”

The gorgeous formal gardens.

Il Salviatino’s main villa dates to the 15th century.

there is a castle

Most of the weekend events—welcome party, farewell brunch, ceremony and PHOTOGRAPHY: (OPPOSITE PAGE) GIANNI DI NATALE PHOTOGRAPHERS; (THIS PAGE) GIANNI DI NATALE PHOTOGRAPHERS; IL SALVIATINO; GIANNI DI NATALE PHOTOGRAPHERS (3)

reception—were hosted at the impressive

The famed Arno River in Florence.

Il Salviatino property. The rehearsal dinner, however, saw the group of revelers on a memorable excursion to the heart of Tuscany’s Chianti region. The couple, along with their international guests, savored a 15 (“yes literally a 15 course!”) dinner at the jaw-droppingly gorgeous Castello di Verrazzano, an Etruscan era castle and vineyard. The gorgeous estate, which was once the home of explorer Giovanni da Verrazzano (namesake of the famous New York City bridge), offers excursions for visitors. Each guided tour of the organic wine-, oil- and honey-producing expanse includes wine tasting; some also offer meals. Visitors may also opt to enjoy a meal (“made by Italian grandmothers,” says Matt) at the farm restaurant.

All the flowers were locally sourced.

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Matt says, “Rent a Fiat 500 Cabriolet—everyone needs to experience speeding down a winding road through the hillside vineyards of Tuscany in a little Italian convertible!” Oksana suggests checking out Scuola del Cuoio, a historic custom leather workshop that’s hidden away in a former Franciscan monastery in Florence.

“Our favorite piece is a bespoke leather wedding album made here,” says the couple.

“The pool and spa at Il Salviatino is nestled into the hillside overlooking a pristine, lush Fiesole canyon.

All of our guests who stayed with us here took advantage of the wonderful pool and spa services.” ➺

Picture perfect.

REAL DESTINATION WEDDING Fresh Baked Pastry artist Melanie Secciani of Tuscan Wedding Cakes crafted the most magnificent cake for the wedding. And it was a chance encounter: “We discovered our baker when we were walking near the Boboli Gardens and passed her storefront a year before our wedding,” they say. “When we went for our tasting, we tried all the traditional flavors (vanilla, chocolate, etc.) but ultimately settled on an unexpected choice—apricot.” The fruit was sourced from the baker’s orchard at her family

home.

Spectacularly set for the celebratory dinner.

Olive branches accented the decor.

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Sealed with a kiss.

THE COUPLE ADOPTED SOME DELIGHTFUL NEW DAILY HABITS DURING THEIR stay at the idyllic Il Salviatino. “We never missed a chance to have an affogato

(vanilla gelato or ice cream topped with a shot of espresso), they say. Oksana and Matt also savored the sunset view from one of the property’s stone terraces every evening. “The aperitivo service on the patio in the evening was something we never missed,” and the couple also reminisces about the excellent melon gelato.

Dinner on the Terrace followed a traditional Italian apertivi.

Florence has a rich paper-making history.

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The requirements for non-residents to marry in Italy are extensive, and all documents must be officially translated and apostilled.

Marriage licenses are required and should be obtained before traveling to Italy (law requires the license be issued two weeks before the ceremony). Passports, birth certificates and, if applicable, divorce decrees and death certificates must be translated into Italian and authenticated by an Italian Consulate. An Atto Notto (appointment with Italian officials to ask permission to marry) must be requested before arrival in Italy. At that session, the couple along with two witnesses and the interpreter must show proof of entry to Italy or, if applicable, a visa. The Nulla Osta (document stating there are no impediments to marry) is to be completed at this time, as should an intention to marry.

PHOTOGRAPHY: GIANNI DI NATALE PHOTOGRAPHERS

“The food at Il Salviatino cannot be overstated, it was phenomenal.

They use local ingredients to create a truly exceptional seasonal menu.”

Il Salviatino’s hillside position overlooking Florence.

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Its simplicity is stunning. Its scenic expanse is pure and cinematic. Italy’s storied region FLOWERS: Tuscany Flowers of Tuscany is synonymous with CAKE: Melanie Secciani, romance. And the robust daydream-realized quality Tuscan Wedding Cakes is further enhanced by the region’s most memoraBAND: Pop Party Band ble cuisine. It’s equally as revered as the landscape WEDDING DRESS: from which it is born. Visitors here are welcomed Peter Langner; Shoes: Miu Miu to this vibrant life with a homey embrace and the JEWELER: Nicole Wegman, Ring Concierge simplest in gracious hospitality, all of which is exquisitely detailed. Add ancient castles and vintage farm estates revamped to be high-end resorts and there’s no doubt why this is one of the most desired destinations on earth. The haute Il Salviatino, a 41-room boutique hideaway tucked into a 15th century villa set in the Tuscan hills with peek-a-boo views of the imposing Duomo of Florence, is the embodiment of all of the region’s rich offerings.

Each of the guest rooms at this pastoral retreat is individually appointed. Favorites include the Ojette suite, a sumptuous space that sprawls over two floors and includes a private rooftop terrace with Jacuzzi. True to their name, the greenhouse suites have glass-enveloped living rooms that open to the lush gardens and property’s park.

Activities are equally bespoke. There are private tours with local makers—perfumers, paper makers, olive-oil and wine producers—and only-in-Italy experiences like gondola rides and grappa tastings. On-property amenities are, of course, high-end and uber luxe, like the new spa and the pool house, while much of the food is gathered from the same surroundings that beckoned guests (room rates start at about $480 a night and include breakfast; salviatino.com).  PHOTOGRAPHER: Gianni di Natale Photographers

PHOTOGRAPHY: IL SALVIATINO

A frescoed guest retreat.

The pool is a guest favorite.

The grand Tuscan villa.

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Swapping vows aboard the 55-foot Hinckley yacht.

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PHOTOGRAPHY: HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY.IVC

THIS COUPLE LITERALLY TIED THE KNOT AT THEIR CELEBRATION HELD AT A HISTORIC INN ON THE CHARMING SOUTHERN COAST. BY JENNA MAHONEY

“LET’S JUST GET MARRIED ON A BOAT,” SUGGESTED WIL HAMORY when the pandemic upended his and now wife Marissa Mash’s planned wedding. Her siblings took the offhand comment seriously and crafted a vision board, and her mom called The Inn at Perry Cabin. Set on Maryland’s Eastern Shore, the hideaway showcases the area’s nautical traditions. The couple was joined by a few family members to their literal tying of the knot aboard one of the estate’s vintage boats. The property’s setting is as serene as the surrounding waters. Here, the service and amenities are superlative: “There are few places that meet expectations, and go far beyond those like the Inn at Perry Cabin,” says Marissa.

The entire celebration was outdoors.

so crabby Cuisine is a standout at this storybook water-facing property that

Romance ready—intimate dining outposts.

stretches over 26 pastoral acres. Executive chef Gregory James sources food from the inn’s garden, neighboring farms and the catch of the day. And since this is Maryland, crab is a center point of all menus.

Crab was featured at the intimate celebratory dinner of just 15 guests, all of it sourced from J.M. Clayton Seafood, a local seafood purveyor that’s been serving up regional blue crabs for five generations. Preparations at Wil and Marissa’s meal were haute takes on Maryland classics, including crab imperial, traditionally crafted with mayonnaise and Fresh caught.

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Marissa and Wil post-ceremony.

Old Bay seasoning, and the wildly popular hometown dish—crabcakes.

Snappy Happy The Inn at Perry Cabin is fantastically photogenic. In fact, Wil and Marissa had two days of photos to capture many of the property’s most Insta-perfect settings. The couple took pictures in front of the estate’s boats, at the entrance to the Inn, in the spectacular gardens and by the pretty pool. They also posed on a bicycle—Wil steering; Marissa on the handlebars—positioned on the property’s long driveway lined with gorgeous trees and riots of flowers. For the second session, the couple went to the “charming town of St. Michaels to explore the ‘mom and pop’ shops,” says the bride. Another favorite—“the view of the Inn at Perry Cabin from the water is breathtaking!” she notes. ➺

The Inn recently introduced private glass houses, where guests can dine on the water in a cozy, intimate setting.

They are perfect for romantic celebrations.

Sail away on the Miles River by the Chesapeake Bay.

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Images of weddings from the couple’s family.

A variety of cruises are on the activities menu.

“All of the little touches are timeless and amazing!” says Marissa.

Tying the Knot “Together, we tied the fisherman knot and did a blessing of the rings in water,” says Marissa. “Our families brought water from Bethany Beach, Delaware where Wil and I met; from Maine where we reconnected; from our hometown and from Hoboken where we live together now,” she explains. “We poured water from each place and pieces of our lives together in a bowl—combining them was a symbol of our love story.”

Table for two.

Sailin’

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The flowers were DYI.

“A most romantic spot is sitting in the Adirondack chairs or a swing by the fire, overlooking the water while the sun goes down.

Preferably with a cocktail in hand—it’s such a relaxing way to end the day and start the evening.”

old bay

The couple planned their wedding in five weeks.

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Marriage licenses are required in Maryland. They may be obtained at the local County Clerk’s office or via a non-resident marriage license application-affidavit. Couples should apply in person (unless using the non-resident affidavit) and must furnish proof of age, address, social security numbers and, if applicable, divorce decree or death certificate. Fees vary by county.

There is a 48-hour waiting period; licenses are valid for six months. Note: Only a judge, the clerk of the circuit court or a specialized appointed deputy clerk of the circuit court may perform civil unions in the state of Maryland.

Gift bags curated by Marissa for guests were entirely locally sourced.

Canvas bags with a map of the Chesapeake revealed crab mallets, crab bushels and bespoke sugar cookies that echoed the ceremony aboard the 55-foot Hinckley yacht.

PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY; JAY FLEMING; HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY; JAY FLEMING; HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY (2)

MARITIME TRADITIONS OF MARYLAND DATE TO THE REVOLUTIONARY WAR. And shipbuilding has been an industrial mainstay in the state. In addition, crabbing, oystering and recreational boating have long been celebrated in Maryland. In fact, there are more than two dozen maritime museums and historical points of interest (including lighthouses, canal-adjacent parks and shipbuilding facilities) here. The Annapolis Maritime Museum, positioned on the banks of the Chesapeake, offers an interactive look at the storied traditions. The Chesapeake Bay Maritime Museum, set on a wharf that once housed seafood packing outfits and work boats, is just minutes from The Inn at Perry Cabin in St. Michaels. The resort property, with its picturesque boat basin, offers myriad nautical experiences including sailing classes, endless boat excursions and yacht transfers from Annapolis. The Inn hosts special occasions aboard its fleet, which is what sold the couple to celebrate at the resort made famous in Wedding Crashers

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It’s almost as if you’ve stepped into a time when life was quiet and pleasures were simple when you check into the secluded Inn at Perry Cabin on the Miles River by the storied Chesapeake Bay. The pastoral property, after all, was first founded just after the War of 1812. A grand driveway edged in meticulously manicured flowers will greet you upon arrival. Or you may choose to begin your stay at the hideaway with a butler-attended yacht ride from Annapolis to the 26-acre water-facing property. Whichever you choose, you’ll immediately feel that lounging is the priority. And there are plenty of options to do so—by the pool, on the lawn or on the balcony or terrace of your room.

Accommodations are divided into individual cottages and sumptuous guest rooms. All are decorated with nautical touches and flaunt gorgeous garden or water views. Activities—of course—celebrate the sea with a sailing academy, yachting excursions and an extensive fleet as well as kayaks. Golf, tennis and spa-ing are also on the robust amenity menu (room rates start $425 a night; innatperrycabin.com). 

Land Ho! The Inn at Perry Cabin from the water.

The spa complex.

Repose in the ultimate restorative setting.

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PHOTOGRAPHER: Hoffer Photography

Just the two of us.

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Local ingredients are featured on all the menus here.

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6. Travel can be taken through December 24, 2022. No extension will be given after the prize has expired. Package inclusions may be subject to change. Accommodations are based on availability at time of booking and are subject to blackout dates which include but may not be limited to: October 29-30, 2021, November 12-13, 2021, December 25-31, 2021, JanuaryMarch, 2022, October 28-29, 2022.

7. Entrants agree that by entering the Promotion, they agree to add their contact information to the Bridal Guide and the W Fort Lauderdale mailing lists, subject to Entrant’s right to thereafter opt out or unsubscribe to such lists at any time.

8. The name of the winner may be obtained by sending a stamped, self-addressed envelope after June 7, 2021 to Bridal Guide, ATT: MJ21 LWB Winner, 1333A North Avenue #706, New Rochelle, NY 10804. Requests for winner must be received

by August 31, 2021.

FIRST LOOK

PHOTOGRAPHY: CONRAD PUNTA DE MITA

Picture-perfect in Pacific Coast, Mexico.

Conrad Punta de Mita Sneak a peek at one of the hottest new hotels where romantic amenities are always on offer.

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ilton’s Conrad brand is all hip, sleek and sophisticated.

Hotels in this group are the ultimate in luxury, offering stellar service and excellent amenities idyllically positioned in daydream destinations. The brand new 324-room-andsuite Conrad Punta de Mita is the embodiment of the brand’s ethos with a honeymoon-perfect setting on two golden miles of Mexico’s sleepy west coast.

The chic property, which debuted in September, also showcases the magic of this region of Mexico. Design is influenced by the local Huichol traditions and the natural surroundings; decor is influenced by the beach. The main pool is most spectacularly decorated with artistic tiles reminiscent of regional beading and art traditions. Rooms are awash in neutral tones, blue accents and high-tech amenities.

And all guest rooms are ocean-facing. Villa-like casas are the ultimate luxury escape, comprisLOCAL FAVORITES ing a collection of guest rooms around a main gathering space. Each has a private pool, SAN PANCHO This remote spot is a charming town of low-slung buildings and oversized soaking tubs, outdoor shower and sandy streets wandering to a peaceful ocean-front positions with extra-large terraces. beach. Occupying the majority of the The property’s spa is sprawling and magnificent storefronts are galleries, small foundations (including a Jaguar conservation organization with lush foliage, seven treatment cabanas and and a welcoming community center) and a menu that’s as enchanting as it is restorative. family-run restaurants.

At the center point is the traditional Tezmecal, a SAYULITA This expats’ favorite has sweat lodge used in purification rituals. In a place become especially popular in the past where quality is superlative yet the approach is decade or so thanks to its consistent surprisingly simple, the food and beverage beginner surf break, welcoming vibe and excellent arts scene. program is another standout. The contemporary MARIETAS ISLANDS It’s been called dining fare is prepared with bright flavors and the Galapagos of Mexico. The collection robust spices. The seasonal full moon experiof islets in the Bay of Banderas is a natural ence, with mezcal pairings and farmer and chef sanctuary chock-a-block with wildlife, sea chats, is a must-try (room rates start at $279 a creatures and birds. night; conradpuntamita.com). —Jenna Mahoney

Tezmecal rituals are restorative.

Spa for two.

A serene spot.

WHERE FOREVER BEGINS With beautiful scenery and settings, South Walton is ideal for bringing family and friends together to celebrate.

VISIT SOUTH WALTON. COM / WEDDINGS

MIRAMAR BEACH • SEASCAPE • SANDESTIN • DUNE ALLEN • GULF PLACE • SANTA ROSA BEACH • BLUE MOUNTAIN BEACH GRAYTON BEACH • WATERCOLOR • SEASIDE • SEAGROVE • WATERSOUND • SEACREST • ALYS BEACH • ROSEMARY BEACH • INLET BEACH

A ONE-OF-A-KIND ALL -INCLUSIVE HOTEL