Bridal Guide Magazine March April 2025

MARCH/APRIL 2025

Our Favorite Planners Share their Secrets

DRESSES, DECOR, FLOWERS & MORE!

Wedding Venue Pros and Cons

Easy Ways to Keep the Budget on Track

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CONTENTS MAR/APR 2025

FASHION & BEAUTY

GAME OF LOVE

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12 COVER STYLE

How to get that beautiful look.

14 MOOD BOARD

Pistachio, mint, moss and more—it’s all about fresh picks in shades of green.

15 OUR FRIENDS...

Meet jewelry designer Donna Distefano.

16 ALL THAT GLITTERS

Engagement rings that are a cut above.

18 BEAUTY FILE

Mushroom-based products are sprouting up everywhere.

45 GAME OF LOVE

Be your own knight in shining armor.

• The Perfect Dress for Your Body, p. 187 • 10 Gorgeous Hairstyles for Night, p. 202 • 101 Best Budget Tips, p. 166 • Make It Personal: Reception Ideas To Suit Your Theme, p. 68 • Aisle Style: Fabulous Ceremony, p. 207 • Celeb Rings! Get the Look, p. 92 • Cheers! Ways to Trim the Bar Bill, p. 164 000 BRIDALGUIDE.COM month/month 2010

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WEDDING PLANNING 20 PARTY PLANNER

A winter wedding at Grandmother’s house.

24 PLANNERS WE LOVE

We’re putting our favorite wedding pros in the spotlight. by Carol Straley

28 SETTING YOUR SITES

Barn, ballroom or (fill in the blank)?

Venue pros and cons. by Valerie Berrios Get more online at bridalguide.com

33 PLANNING NOTEBOOK

Two dance instructors explain how to put together a show-stopping First Dance.

& DE DESTINATION DESTINATI STINATIO STINATI ON WEDDING GUIDE

38 WEDDING ALBUM

daydreams realized

Laura and Chris’s Baltimore wedding.

NEWS & FEATURES 10 WEDDING Q&A

Etiquette questions and answers.

• STAY AT A WINERY IN ARGENTINA • SOAK IN HOT SPRINGS IN ARIZONA • SUN-KISSED IN COSTA RICA

34 IMPRESS FOR LESS Money-saving strategies from top wedding 00 geniuses. by Elaine Stuart

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Florida’s best choices for weddings & honeymoons

SPECIAL SECTION IN BACK

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Island delights CARIBBEAN 101

PLUS: AN A-LIST WEDDING IN LOS CABOS

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etiquette ADVICE

A Q Wedding

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Straight talk, smart solutions

by Mary Clarke, Editor in Chief

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My partner and I would like to marry at a beach resort next summer. Any tips on colors and flower choices, as well as what we need to consider for our guests?

Summer weddings offer a great opportunity to select gorgeous inseason flowers like roses, sunflowers, hydrangeas, daisies, dahlias and zinnias to name a few. There are also fantastic colors and fun decor details to choose from. A nautical theme using navy blue and white is a classic for seaside celebrations, while sunny yellow and coral shades will brighten up any summer reception. Other popular colors include a mix of vivid tropical hues or shades of blue from aqua and sea-foam to turquoise. And all-white weddings with heaps of greenery work any time of the year. Most beach resorts have dedicated wedding coordinators who will help you with your decision making. You’ll be able to choose the colors, table decor and flowers that best suit your style via the wedding packages offered by many resorts.

When it comes to your guests, always keep them well-informed. Send out savethe-dates once you know the location and date, look into group rates, create a wedding website and prepare welcome bags that include an itinerary of events and any treats indigenous to the location.

If you’re marrying outdoors and the weather will be hot and steamy, be sure to provide guests with cool drinks, bottled water, fans or paper parasols, and always, always have a Plan B—an indoor location — in case there’s bad weather. And don’t forget to pack your own day-of emergency kit that includes blotting tissues, sunscreen and makeup for touch-ups.

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TUXEDO TUTORIAL

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I’m confused. What’s the difference between tuxedo, black tie and formal?

Good question. Let’s start with “formal,” which dictates a more dressed-up look for both men and women. In other words, men wear tuxedos and women wear a cocktail or longer-length dress. The traditional “tuxedo” is a single- or doublebreasted jacket with satin lapels that’s paired with formal trousers (those with a satin side stripe on the pant legs). You’ll find tuxedos available in a range of colors from white and ivory to navy, grey and black. “Black tie,” used for occasions that start after 6 p.m., dictates that men wear a tuxedo and women a cocktail-style or longer-length dress appropriate for a more formal celebration.

RAISE THE BAR

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We’ve heard you can request different types of bar options from your caterer.

How many types are there, is there a price difference and what do they offer?

The most common bar type is the open bar, which offers a variety of liquor, wine, beer and champagne and is paid for at a flat rate. This would be the most costly. You could save by having a consumption bar: Instead of paying a flat rate you would pay per drink at the end of the festivities. With a soft bar you definitely cut costs since no hard liquor is offered but guests can imbibe on red and white wine, champagne and beer. Another type to consider is the white bar, which features only pale beverages such as white wine, rum, gin and vodka. Costs can vary with this type of bar, depending on your crowd size and the amount of liquor you’d

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need to provide. A dry bar is for nondrinkers and consists of sodas, juices, tea, etc.—anything non-alcoholic—but we’re guessing your guests will expect some libations. Be sure to cover all the details with your caterer. The service fee/gratuity is usually included in the contract but if not, tip your bartenders 15-20 percent of the final bar bill.

SEND THANKS

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How much time do we have to send out thank-you notes? My fiancé thinks it’s six months.

Thank-you notes should be sent within three months of the wedding date, so be sure to acknowledge any gifts you receive before then immediately. That way, you won’t be overwhelmed after the wedding. Plus, your guests will appreciate receiving a thank-you in a timely manner and not six months later. So be sure to put pen to paper soon after you return from the honeymoon and share the writing duties with your partner. You’ll have the task completed in no time!

››› Go to bridalguide.com/QA for more etiquette advice. And send your planning questions to us at mail@bridalguide.com.

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profile DONNA DISTEFANO Join us in conversation with some of our favorite people in the wedding biz. We’re so inspired by these incredible talents and their unique vision as they bring you the very best of all things bridal (and beyond). Because our friends are your friends too, please welcome DONNA DISTEFANO.

OUR FRIENDS

ARE YOUR FRIENDS MEET JEWELER & MASTER GOLDSMITH, DONNA DISTEFANO

Hello Donna. We are totally obsessed with your jewelry!

How did you find your particular design style?

Rubies and diamonds of course! I love the way

DD: I think I was eight years old

they come to life against the warmth of deep

when I started flipping through

yellow gold. It’s visually intoxicating to me.

books on the Vatican treasures and

You recently launched a sterling silver-centric

anything Renaissance inspired. So, when

men’s/unisex collab with Johnny Depp’s rock

I started metalsmithing in high school, it was the

band, The Hollywood Vampires. How did this

medieval and gothic motifs that I created with.

come to be? The Hollywood Vampires co-brand

What’s your philosophy on wedding jewelry?

happened through my friend Joe Perry, the

I like to create a ring as a decorative art. First,

legendary Aerosmith guitarist. It was actually

because historically engagement rings were

Joe’s and my idea to do a collaboration and

colorful—and second, rubies, emeralds, sapphires,

because of that Johnny started wearing the

and diamonds mixed together make for a beautiful

pieces. I designed the collection with Joe’s

bouquet of celebration.

influence and my own vibe— but it was with the

How do you guide couples shopping for their

entire band in mind. Alice (Cooper) wears a large

rings? It’s a ring for life so you want a strong gem

bat on his hat, Tommy (Henrikson) wears layers

like a diamond, ruby, or sapphire because of their

of bracelets and neck chains. The look is very

durability. It’s also about personal style and

classic rock while speaking to my design

symbols. My advice is stay away from trends,

sensibility that is steeped in jewelry history. And

status symbols, and peer pressure.

we are currently exhibiting within Johnny’s

What are your favorite wedding pieces for

exhibition “A Bunch Of Stuff,” that happens to be

brides? Diadems! Diadems are a celebration of

in our atelier building, The Starrett Lehigh. It was

being victorious and by that I’d like to think

synchro-destiny, so we thought why not?

victorious in love. Also, they are a symbol of dignity:

Do you have any other exciting projects or

A wreath of gold, white flowers, silk or pearls neatly

collaborations coming up that we should have

wraps the part of you that’s closest to heaven.

on our radar? I will be the official goldsmith to

And grooms? Lapel pins. Lapel pins are

the Frick Collection when they reopen this spring!

announcements of how you feel. To see a man

My life passion of creating jewels “off the canvas”

wearing a rose for example on his lapel is intriguing

has come to a beautiful fruition through the Frick

and makes me think he’s very lovable and confident.

Collection. I will present a display of 22 karat

If he’s wearing a lion with a diamond sword for

gold pieces that I’ve crafted from the inspiration

example… well, that’s a very exciting announcement!

I get from my favorite paintings. Shining the light

You’re partial to 22 karat gold, which a lot of

on Holbein paintings, for example, is a way to

jewelers in the US avoid. Why are you drawn

honor ancient goldsmiths. Holbein was a jewelry

to it? Besides its value for being nearly 92% pure

designer with a heightened talent for painting

gold (18k is 75% pure & 14k is 58% pure), it’s the

jewelry and etchings in miniature. There will be

hue that I respond to. The depth of color is so rich,

rings for men and women, and also a selection of

like the color of the sun.

Betrothal rings, and handmade chains. More on

What are your favorite stones to work with?

that soon!

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LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. Reverse Water Drop Emerald Tennis Necklace by LOGAN HOLLOWELL.

mood board BRIDES RING RING. Emerald and diamond Revive Ring with platinum band

by YUTAI.

GREENLIGHT. Emerald Pavé Baguette drop earrings

by SHAY.

MILLIA

HEIRLOOM. Dark Green Sapphire and Diamond Fern Ring by CLAIRE PETTIBONE + THE NORTH WAY STUDIO.

sweet greens BAG OF TRICKS. Acrylic Florence vase clutch with calla lillies

by CULT GAIA.

DANIELLE FRANKEL

CHOSEN BY KYHA

INES DI SANTO

DRAW THE LINE. Matte Green On Stage Liquid Eye Liner

by DIOR.

GREEN JUICE. Aire Sutileza floral fragrance with jasmine, pear, and muguet notes

by LOEWE.

Move over something blue, there’s a new hue that’s captured our hearts.

Mint, sage, moss, lime, and emerald tones feel like a breath of fresh air blowing a super-natural vibe our way.

GREEN FOOTPRINT. Metallic leather Portofino Sandal by GIANVITO ROSSI.

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all that glitters RINGS MOCIUN

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Like a pristine sheet of glass, the Portrait Cut diamond dates back to 17th century Mughal-ruled India. A minimalist’s dream, this thin slice is perfectly flat with facets on its outer edges and comes in a variety of shapes. Uniquely sophisticated.

THE PORTRAIT

This 18th century creation was inspired by King Louis XV's lover, the Marquise de Pompadour.

The Marquise Cut is rumored to have the shape of his mistress’ lips with definitive points at each end and a multitude of sparkly facets.

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THE MARQUISE

LIZZ IE M AN DL ER

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Engagement rings come in all shapes and sizes, so how do you decide what makes the cut? Inarguably this is one of the most consequential style choices you can make. We’re highlighting four exceptional diamond cuts and shapes that cut (ahem) through the noise from influencers, celebs, and short-lived trends. The Rose, Marquise, Portrait, and Asscher all have storied histories, rooted in innovation, sentimentality, and beauty. Turns out the shape of things to come have been right here all along.

A CUT ABOVE

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Named after it’s creator, Joseph Asscher, who crafted his first Asscher Cut diamond in 1902. This square-shaped stone has large cut corners and boasts 58 facets for a crazy amount of sparkle that gives off modern, vintage-chic vibes.

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THE ROSE

The Rose Cut diamond originates from 15th century India as an ode to the rose blossom. Its dome shaped top and triangular facets give off a glowy, romantic light that radiates from its flat, transparent bottom.

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beauty file SKINCARE PSYCHEDELIC

Sculpt, tone, and stimulate with this Unakite stone mushroom shaped tool. The Gua-Shroom Face Massager by HERBAR.

BELOW THE SURFACE

A unique liquid exfoliator infused with AHA & BHA complex, glycolic, lactic, and salicylic acids and Reishi mushrooms.

Resurfaces skin and stimulates collagen growth. Acid Potion

by MOON JUICE.

DOWN TO EARTH

A super hydrating daily cream infused with natural actives and Tremella Mushroom Extract, which boosts moisture retention, skin elasticity, and plumpness.

Reparative Facial Moisturizer by NATURE OF THINGS.

FLUID

Heals and soothes skin while promoting a healthy, ageless glow with vitamin E, adaptogens and a combination of Tremella and Reishi mushrooms.

The Face Oil by HERBAR.

DREAM CREAM

An anti-aging moisturizer formulated with bioferments, Thiotaine (mushroom antioxidants) and pre, pro, and postbiotics for a healthy, youthful microbiome. Biotic Radiance-Boosting Hydrator by NUEBIOME.

the beauty benefits SHIITAKE Contains kojic acid, a natural skin brightener.

Decreases irritation and inflamed skin.

REISHI Gives skin a radiant, healthy glow. Calms hyperpigmentation and inflammation.

Antioxidant-rich.

TREMELLA Gives a super-boost of hydration, heals, plumps and restores radiance to skin. Also referred to as SNOW mushrooms.

ON THE BRIGHT SIDE. Brighten and

hydrate your skin with this intense daily moisturizer packed with vitamin C, cacao, CoQ10 and Shiitake mushrooms.

Deep Blue C Cream by FOILE.

CHAGA Filled with antioxidants and polysaccharides.

A moisture retainer, reduces signs of aging, improves skin barrier, protects against UV rays.

BEAUTY SLEEP

This overnight, antiinflammatory serum nourishes and restores skin with Chaga and Snow mushrooms.

Leaves skin hydrated and renewed.

After Dark Restorative Night Serum by HOUSE OF GRŌ.

IN THE WILD

shrooms

This lightweight liquid moisturizer hydrates and soothes sensitive, irritated skin with Reishi and Fermented Chaga mushrooms.

Mega Mushroom Fortifying Emulsion

by ORIGINS.

Mushrooms are spouting up everywhere we look. They’re food, coffee, supplements, an eco-leather substitute, and an exciting, new category of natural beauty and wellness products. There are anywhere from 150,000 to 4,000,000 types of mushrooms on Planet Earth - some are fabulous food sources, others like functional and adaptogenic mushrooms provide extraordinary health and brain benefits, and of course, the “drop-dead” gorgeous specimens that are meant to be admired from afar.

It was only a matter of time before beauty brands began to harvest fungi for flawless complexions, anti-inflammatory properties, and combatting acne, rosacea, and sensitivity. These wonderfully wild organisms promote an earthy, holistic sensibility to our healthcare, self-care, and skincare with benefits that literally put the ‘magic’ in magic mushrooms.

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party planner RECEPTION

in season

BACKYARD CHARM MEETS UPSCALE ELEGANCE AT CHRISTINA AND REID’S WINTER WEDDING IN FLORIDA. PHOTOGRAPHY BY @WOODLANDFIELDS

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Sometimes there’s no place like home—unless it’s the home of your beloved grandmother, a home filled with countless memories. What better place to create even more joy, was the thinking behind choosing Christina’s abuelita’s waterfront property the wedding venue. The couple and the team at Events by Lindsay J curated the day to include warmth, sophistication, and a touch of holiday glamour (the wedding was held in early December, after all). The jumping-off point: a winter white and forest green color palette.

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party planner RECEPTION

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Setting up took a full week. The pool was covered with a platform to create a dance floor, and a gazebo was converted into a stage for the band. Upon arrival to the cocktail hour, guests were greeted with a glass of holiday champagne with cranberry—for a subtle pop of red. The color made a surprise appearance when the cakes were cut: one cake was cinnamon, the other a vivid red velvet. Rain had originally been forecast for that day, so tents were standing by. With 48 hours to go, the chance of rain had lessened, so Christina and Lindsay threw the dice and made the decision to ditch the 3 tents. The weather gods smiled on the couple, who were able to dance under the stars with their friends and family.

3 Planning: Lindsay Jimison @ventsbylindsayj Florals: @carmen_southtampaflorals Catering: @puffnstuffcatering Cake designer: @handsonsweets Bride’s dress: @moniquelhuillier Band: @thehitfactoryband Linens: @bbjlatavola; @stradleydavidson Rentals: A Chair Affair; @treasuryrentals; @kateryaneventrentals; @tampabaystagingandevents Design: @artistic_spaces_inc Decor: @matteo_woodworking; @ktjanes

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Planners We L ve Take inspiration from these creative forces as we spotlight the best in the business. by Carol Straley MORGAN PINE & FRANKIE PODRAT

co-owners, Cluster Events, Los Angeles, CA

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Sealed with a kiss.

WHO WE ARE

• “We think the most consistent attribute noted in feedback is our ‘calm, cool, collected,’ dare I say, VIBE. Our couples seem to really appreciate our lack of anxiety on event days and our ability to thrive in any situation.”

A chic suite.

OUR INSPIRATION

• “Honestly, our couples inspire us! We help them create the wedding they imagined or didn’t quite yet imagine. We bring their vision to life by getting to know them as both individuals and as a couple. We want to know what makes them ‘them’.”

IT TAKES TWO

• “Morgan had a background in theater and office coordination prior to launching into planning full time. The stage was where she shined, and she often likens the experience to planning, as the rules of improvisation are similar. You have to be ready, for any changes at any given moment. We can find a solution for anything!”

• “I have a background in architecture, which has taught me to look at a project from every single angle. We can quickly go into any space and understand flow, layout, etc.

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PHOTOGRAPHY: CLOCCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) HEADSHOT TK; JENNY SMITH & CO; WE ARE MATT AND JESSI; WANDERLUST CREATIVES

an a beautiful friendship blossom into a lasting, thriving business partnership? Just ask wedding planners Frankie & Morgan extraordinaire Morgan Pine and Frankie Podrat, co-owners of LA-based Cluster Events. “It was kismet!” exclaims Frankie. “Morgan and I had actually been friends for over a decade. We were alongside each other for years as we both ran our respective planning companies, helping each other along the way. We often chatted about coming together as a team, but the timing never really felt right.” That changed with the pandemic. “During COVID we began to explore combining our efforts,” says Frankie. “I need to thrive in a company that is an official ‘We,’ and Morgan agreed (phew!), and we have never looked back!” Here, Frankie takes the lead in sharing the team’s stellar success story.

Flower power.

PHOTOGRAPHY: CLOCCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT); JENNY SMITH & CO; WANDERLUST CREATIVES (2);JENNY SMITH & CO; WE ARE MATT AND JESSI; WANDERLUST CREATIVES

Take your place.

Feeling the love.

Down the aisle.

Tiers of joy.

Our combined strengths cover all the bases for clients!”

OUR FAVORITE PART OF WEDDING PLANING

• “Morgan LOVES the logistics and seeing things come together on the day.

We describe this to our couples as ‘the puzzle pieces.’ They hand them over and we put them together. I love that element, too, but also LOVE aesthetics.”

• “I love putting together the items that are going to sing on the tables, in the decor and choosing the vendors to execute the vision. ‘Form over Function’ for me!”

A WORD TO COUPLES

• “Don’t make a huge financial commitment with a vendor before assessing your budget! Take a look at your wedding as a whole, and make sure the priorities level out and are evenly balanced.”

THE TRADITION WE LOVE

• “Getting ready together! Why not spend more time with your favorite person during those early morning hours? Give yourselves time together to settle in for the day ahead.”

An airy setting

FAMILY AFFAIRS

• “We’ve seen a major uptick in backyard weddings in 2024. Couples are using family properties for their events.”

BIGGEST LEARNINGs • “There is no way to place a value on managing expectations. Couples appreciate the transparency.”

EXCITEMENT AHEAD

Yes!!!

• “We are excited to expand our team! We’ve been working toward putting our company out there in different ways, letting couples and those watching see who we are and putting faces to the company.”

• “We are now dipping (reluctantly) into the world of social media reels and videos that are a little more camera-facing for us. Even though Frankie is going in kicking and screaming, Morgan is pulling her in, and the benefits are showing! Our followers are enjoying seeing ‘us.’” ➺ 25

Planners We L ve MICHELLE DURPETTI,

founder, Michelle Durpetti Events, Chicago, IL

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PHOTOGRAPHY: (CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT) HEADSHOT CR TK; CHRISINA G; STUDIO THIS; EMILY PRADA

oming from a close-knit family steeped in beloved traditions of hospitality has made Michelle Durpetti a natural for the non-stop whirl of the wedding planning business. Wearing multiple hats has also sharpened Michelle’s skill set. “I am so lucky because I am a third-generation entrepreneur,” says Michelle. “I had so many opportunities to learn from my father and grandfather throughout my life.” Founded originally in 2007 as McGowan, Durpetti + Associates, upon the departure of Michelle’s business partner, the Chicago-based company was rebranded as Michelle Durpetti Events in 2009. “I think more than anything, I carry with me this mindset my dad had that comes from the Italian conjugation for ‘Let’s go’ which is ‘Andiamo,’ meaning ‘Let’s move forward, let’s stay focused.

Let’s keep going. On to the next.’”

OUR REP

• “We’re known and loved for creating meticulously planned, luxurious weddings that are a true reflection of each couple’s unique love story. A blend of creativity, precision, and heartfelt service is what makes Michelle Durpetti Events stand out in the world of luxury weddings.”

OUR SIGNATURE STYLE

• “Sophisticated, with a mindful dedication to quality, craftsmanship and being timeless. We don’t really work with clients who love trends; rather, our clients always look to create a lasting feeling of joy and love in the hearts of all who attend.”

The two of us.

WHY I LOVE WEDDINGS

• “I love being part of people’s stories and their lives, and that not only includes weddings, but also all moments—even memorials and celebrations of life. Knowing we can pull from the comfort of ritual and provide guidance and support or joy—I find this profession to truly be my calling.”

INSPIRATION

• “I am so deeply rooted in my Tuscan Italian heritage.

As a planner who specializes in planning and producing weddings and celebrations in Italy, I am always drawing Field of dreams. inspiration from Italian culture, history and hospitality, and the rich traditions that I grew up with. The more places I go and the more people I meet, the more I learn how to leave the world better than I found it by helping people celebrate the moments in life that are so important to them.”

• “I find inspiration in my clients too, and the personal stories that they share with me.”

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A bevy of blooms.

A stylish set-up.

A moment alone.

Autumnal vibes.

Both rustic and romantic.

MY MANTRA

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• “I like ‘Prior preparation prevents poor performance’ and I also really love ‘The harder I work, the luckier I get.’ My grandfather Gene loved that one.”

GLOBAL EVENTS

• “We try to produce 6 to 8 weddings a year, but this year I produced 12 celebrations (weddings and events) throughout three countries. For 2025 we have two very special weddings on the books, including a villa right outside of Florence that I am so looking forward to.”

LIFE LESSONS

• “2024 was my year to push myself creatively. I sent in submissions to speak at a few conferences that I love, and I worked with clients who were looking to create really interesting and intricate events and weddings.”

A sun-dappled situation.

• “This year I also learned that a great team is truly the best recipe for success.

When I’m surrounded by like-minded, hardworking people like me who want to knock a wedding or celebration out of the park, that means everything.”

LEARNING THROUGH LOSS

• “When I lost my dad very recently, I was able to lean on and trust fellow industry colleagues who have become friends, who worked on my own wedding and at our family restaurant. So there was this comforting feeling knowing they knew us, and that together we would create a really beautiful celebration of life for my dad.”

LEGACY OF LOVE

Colorific.

• “I am the managing partner of my family’s multigenerational restaurant that was started by my grandfather in 1941, and then operated by my father from 1989 until a few years ago, when my husband and I began to manage it. It is our intention to continue to evolve that brand while we both grow our businesses (my husband is a photographer).”

• “I want to continue to create events that celebrate important moments for people and really just honor all that my dad and family have given me over the years.” ¢ 27

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SETTING YOUR

SITES

DO YOU SEE YOUR WEDDING IN A SUNNY GARDEN OR A GRAND BALLROOM? HOMETOWN OR DESTINATION? HERE, EXPERTS WEIGH IN ON PROS, CONS AND EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE YOU BOOK. by Valerie Berrios

Outdoors

A wedding outdoors—whether it’s on the beach, in a garden, or at a vineyard—can literally be picture perfect.

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PROS

NATURE-MADE DECOR Let’s face it, who needs lavish decorations when an amber sunset, blooming wildflowers or acres of rolling kelly-green hills can serve as your backdrop?

“Outdoor and tent weddings are among my favorite,” says Allison Sargent, of Allison Sargent Events in New Jersey, whose own daughter, Carly, was married in a custom-built tent overlooking two fairways on a golf course. “Everyone loves being outdoors on a glorious day,” she says.

A BLANK CANVAS “Tented receptions are fantastic because they are blank canvases,” says Julie Pryor, of Pryor Events in Los Angeles. “You can add dramatic lighting, carpeting, and draping. And clear tents bring the outdoors in.”

CONS

UNPREDICTABLE WEATHER “I am a big fan of outdoor events, but you need to be flexible and realize you do not have control of the weather, which has a mind of its own,” says Pryor. “I always have a backup for outdoor events, even in Southern California. This may be an indoor space that an event can be moved into or a gorgeous tent.”

TENTS ARE COSTLY While the cost of tents can vary widely, based on size, type and structural design, Marcy Blum of Marcy Blum Events and Weddings in New York City says you should “absolutely” expect to pay more for a tented wedding because you’re shelling out for “not only the tent, but also for the tables, chairs, and other peripherals that are rarely included in site fees.”

TEMPERATURE CONTROL “When you host your wedding outdoors you are always vulnerable to weather and change in temperature,” says Colin Cowie, of Colin Cowie Events and Celebrations, in New York and Los Angeles. What to do? “Make sure to shield guests from the sun during the day and provide heaters in the evening,” advises Pryor. Handing out paper fans and parasols can go a long way toward making your guests feel as comfortable as possible. ➺ 29

Getting married at a hotel or resort is a popular choice. The number-one draw? Convenience for you and your guests.

PROS

EXPERIENCED STAFF “Hotels are accustomed to entertaining and hosting large groups of people,” says Cowie. “Here, you have a full infrastructure and team you can rely on.”

RENTALS INCLUDED Because hotels typically provide everything you need to host your wedding, you won’t have to worry about bringing in lots of tables, chairs, linens, dishes, silverware, and stemware.

BUILT-IN ACCOMMODATIONS You will often be able to reserve a block of rooms for your out-oftown guests at a discounted rate. And many hotels offer wedding packages that include free honeymoon stays.

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CONS

LACK OF FLEXIBILITY Depending on the hotel, your ability to rearrange the tables to suit your preferences may be limited. “Some banquet managers can be set in their ways and make it difficult to change things up,” says Blum.

HIDDEN COSTS It’s important to find out exactly what’s included in your wedding—and what’s not. “For a hotel wedding, inquire about cake-cutting fees, valet costs, and overtime charges before signing a contract,” advises Pryor.

OTHER RESTRICTIONS You may have to use the hotel’s vendors, such as the florist and/or lighting designer.

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Hotel

Restaurant

If exceptional food and service is a top priority for your wedding, consider saying your “I dos” at a fine-dining establishment.

PROS

GREAT FOOD Jessica M. held her September wedding reception for 95 guests at a high-end restaurant in Chicago. Jessica calls herself an amateur foodie, so good food and drinks were a must for her wedding. “After touring a few banquet hall and hotel ballroom venues, my husband and I realized we either had to book a restaurant that served the type of food we wanted or a raw space that would allow us to bring in our own caterer. But the cost of turning the raw space into something appealing would have blown our budget.”

WELL-TRAINED SERVICE STAFF “Restaurants are in the business of making good food and providing good service,” says Jessica. Regardless, Pryor stresses the importance of booking eateries that

Destination PROS

CHANGE OF SCENERY “Destination weddings are always beautiful and a favorite of many brides,” says Sargent. “Each far-flung location has its own wonderful attributes.”

FEWER GUESTS SAVES MONEY The upside to a smaller guest list is that your catering costs go down significantly. “We went on a three-week-long trip of a lifetime, stayed in the best places, ate wonderful food, and had the wedding of our dreams with only our nearest and dearest,” says New Yorker Beata S., of her wedding in Italy. “We didn’t skimp and still wound up spending less than most people in New York City pay for just the flowers or dresses.” Fewer guests also allows you to focus

are experienced in handling large parties.

MINIMAL RENTALS REQUIRED Because restaurants already have tables, chairs, linens and other service items on hand, your rental costs will be much lower for a restaurant wedding than for a banquet wedding.

CONS

RESTRICTED SPACE If you want to dance

the night away on your big day, a restaurant might not be right for you. “Restaurants are usually not designed with dancing, grand entrances, live bands or bouquet tossing in mind,” admits Jessica.

BUYOUT MAY BE NECESSARY “Restaurants can end up being super expensive if you have to do a buyout,” says Blum.

“They will charge what they would have made on à la carte seating.”

Getting married away from home is exciting, glamorous, and a bit unexpected. And no doubt many of your guests will be happy to go along for the ride. more attention on those who made the trip.

Which leads to…

QUALITY TIME WITH GUESTS “What I love most about a destination wedding is that you get to take a smaller group of friends and family away and spend 72 or more quality hours with them in a remote and romantic setting rather than have a single bash in your hometown for 250 people that is all over in five hours,” says Cowie.

CONS

GUESTS’ EXPENSES GO UP Airfare alone can be a hefty cost for a wedding guest.

Then there are accommodations, car rental fees, a wedding gift, and more.

YOU’RE IN TOUR-GUIDE MODE Because

you’re taking guests to unfamiliar territory, it’s essential that you make them feel at ease. “As guests respond that they will be attending, let them know that you cannot wait to celebrate with them,” suggests Pryor. “It is also considerate to plan weekend activities for your guests,” she says.

LOCAL CUSTOMS AND RESOURCES With a destination wedding, you will often have to put your trust in vendors located many miles away and with whom you may not be very familiar. “You have to rely on local resources or pay big dollars to ship it all in,” says Cowie. “Getting married in a different country is a challenge because each country has its own set of laws when it comes to marriage,” he says. ➺

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At Home

Having your wedding at home (or at a friend or family member’s home) is a great way to capture a sense of warmth and privacy on your big day.

parents offered their home for our wedding,” Dawn recounts.

“It’s like a second home to me and it’s always been filled with tons of love and laughter.”

ROOM FOR FLEXIBILITY When getting married at home, you have full rein over things like your wedding date, timeline, and more. Dawn’s ceremony took place in a wooded area of the backyard, which complemented her fall garden-party theme.

“The chairs were arranged in a horseshoe, so we could be literally surrounded by our family and friends,” she says.

REDUCED LIQUOR BUDGET Buying your own wines, beers and spirits (especially at reduced bulk rates) can be a huge cost saver.

CONS

PROS

SENTIMENTAL VALUE “The best part about having your wedding at home is that it is so personal. There’s nothing like getting married under the big sugar maple tree you used to climb as a child,” says Cowie. Dawn P., who got married near Austin, Texas, says she always had her heart set on holding her wedding outdoors and in a setting that had special meaning. “A good friend’s

PROS

CONVENIENCE OF ONE SITE Sticking with a single venue keeps the logistics simple for everyone involved. Arrive at one place, then relax and enjoy.

NO TRANSPORTATION WORRIES Hiring a shuttle, traffic that could delay your party, and guests getting lost on the way from the ceremony to the reception are all nonissues when you have one venue.

PRICE IS RIGHT In terms of overall cost, one site means one site fee.

“I would rate a one-stop venue as inexpensive to moderately expensive because you are only decorating and putting all of your efforts into one

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You can have your ceremony and reception in the same place: a catering hall or a church or synagogue that has an event space.

venue,” says Sargent. “As with some of your other choices, catering costs can vary but typically this is one of the most cost-effective options around.”

CONS

DECOR BUDGET GOES UP You have the space. Now you need to work some magic to make it look like what you envisioned your wedding to be. As Blum explains, “One-stop venues are not usually the prettiest locations and may require a lot of decor dollars.”

BOUND BY THE RULES The house may want you to stick to a particular setup or have limitations on the use of candles or lighting equipment and sound. Also, says Pryor, “Be sure to check on which ven-

dors can be brought in. You do not want to be locked into the venue’s referrals.”

POTENTIAL “WEDDING FACTORY” FEEL With venues that rely on weddings for their bread and butter, you risk feeling like you’re just one in a long line of brides waiting for their turn to use the space. This is especially true if you happen to bump into another bride getting married in an adjoining room. Talk about buzz kill. Furthermore, says Cowie, “The problem with one-stop venues is most weddings tend to look the same unless you are bringing in big decor elements and have the time to set them up.” So the way to ensure that this is your day is to transform the space as best you can to suit your vision. 

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One-Stop Venue

RENTAL COSTS GO UP Although you save money on the venue itself, a wedding for a large group can get expensive simply because of all the rentals you’ll need. “Remember that you will have to bring everything in, from tables and chairs to bars, glasses and even cooking equipment,” says Pryor.

VALET PARKING Another important task is to assess the parking situation. Consider arranging for valet parking—and let your neighbors know ahead of time.

CLEANUP REQUIRED At the end of the wedding, someone has to do the potentially massive job of cleaning up. This can either be an added expense (hiring a cleaner) or a task bestowed on a few very generous volunteers.

planning notebook Choosing your music “Maybe it’s

a track that reminds you of a significant moment together. It should be comfortable to move to and have a rhythm you both feel connected with, whether slow and intimate or upbeat and lively.”

At home “Aim for 15 to 20 minutes of practice a few times a week. Consistency matters more than duration. Practicing regularly builds muscle memory.”

Common challenges “Nerves! Many couples feel pressure to make it perfect, but we remind them it’s about enjoying each other and the experience, not about perfection. Timing and footwork can also be tricky at first, but that’s why we’re here to break it down step by step.”

Choreography on call “We often Planning/design by Tyler Speier Events. Photo by Dear Lovers.

Let’s Dance

When it comes to taking those first turns out on the floor, practice makes perfect—as do a few lessons to add flair and polish. But where to begin?

Gian and Diana Difranco, co-founders and lead dance instructors at Starpoint DanceSport in Wellington, Florida, break down the basics by Mary Clarke First steps “Ideally, inexperienced couples should begin

choreograph dances. We like to know about the song you have in mind, if any. We ask about your dance experience, the vibe you’re aiming for, wedding venue details and what is important to you for your dance.”

Feet first “Choose shoes similar to what

you’ll wear on your wedding day for your lessons, so you get used to their feel. Avoid rubber soles as they can stick to the floor!”

Practice gear “Wear comfortable

clothes. If the wedding dress itself is fitted or has a long train, do let the instructor know.

We can adjust choreography if need be.”

lessons 3 to 4 months before the wedding,” say Diana and Gian. “Once a week is common, though some couples opt for more frequent lessons closer to the big day. Weekly sessions give you enough time to practice in between.”

Good to know “You’ll hear terms like: frame—how you

Taking your time “Typically, two to three minutes

Happening now “We’re seeing more couples opt for nontraditional songs, and some are including choreographed entrances or exits with their wedding party. Group dances like a fun flash mob or a family dance are also becoming popular.”

is a good length for a first dance—long enough to create a memorable big-day moment without overwhelming you or your guests. Bringing others onto the floor partway through can create a warm and inclusive feeling, though it’s totally optional.”

Choosing your dance “Many couples are drawn to

classic ballroom, like a romantic waltz fortheir first dance, but others are opting for playful unexpected dances like swing or salsa. We work with couples to find a style that reflects their personalities and the energy they want for their wedding.”

hold your body; connection—how you interact with your partner; dips, turns and lifts—different moves you may do. We introduce these gradually to make them easier to understand.”

Words of wisdom “We’ll tell you to breathe, relax your shoulders, and enjoy the moment. Smiling naturally and making eye contact can go a long way. Posture is key, and it’s all about finding that sweet spot between looking poised and feeling comfortable.”

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IMPRESS FOR LESS

PROS REVEAL CLEVER MONEY-SAVING STRATEGIES FOR EVERY ELEMENT OF YOUR WEDDING.

Elegant options abound but costs vary significantly, so take this expert advice into account before you start scouting locations.

GETTING MORE FOR YOUR MONEY

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he venues that offer the best value are dedicated event spaces, like hotels and banquet halls (generally speaking, sites with prescribed wedding packages). This is because many services you would otherwise need to hire come included, and bundling them together makes your dollar go farther. When shopping around for a venue, “the number one thing is to make sure you’re comparing apples to apples,” says planner Claudia Hanlin of @weddinglibrary in New York City.

“Bringing-in always costs more because you have pick-up and delivery charges for every single thing.” Many brides make the mistake of thinking an outdoor wedding at a family member’s home will result in a big savings. There’s no site fee, but the cost of transforming a backyard into a full-service reception space (tents, lighting, dance floor, portable toilets) can exceed even the most lavish pre-set wedding package.

PAYING LESS FOR PLACES

Another way to save, says Hanlin, is by holding your ceremony, cocktail hour and reception in the same venue—such as a church or synagogue with an attached hall, or a restaurant with multiple party rooms. The cost of a few extra hours on property is considerably less than renting an entirely separate space, and you won’t have to pay to transport guests between locales.

Religious and charitable organizations tend to rent for nominal fees, as do government-run sites like cultural institutions and state parks. Plus, what you do pay to rent these places benefits the community. Parks, in particular, can be great bargains, considering they often include scenic backdrops.

Naturally picturesque outdoor locales—a stand of towering redwoods, for example—don’t need much adornment, which reduces your decor budget. The key is working with what you’ve got: “In California there are a lot of missions that rent for very little,” says Sasha Souza, the Napa-based event designer, “and they often already have benches in place so you save on furnishings.” Similarly, if your site features a stone patio, consider using that as the dance floor rather than renting one.

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At first glance, the fee for renting an empty loft may seem like a steal compared to a ballroom. But as soon as you factor in all the vendors (caterer, servers, bartenders) and rentals (tables, chairs, china, glassware, linens), you’ll see the price tag go way, way up.

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stationery

COMPARING PRINT PRICES

Because offset and digital printing are cheaper to produce, stationers recommend using them for all your day-of needs, like ceremony programs, escort or place cards and menus. “These pieces are often left behind,” says Karen Bartolomei, founder of Grapevine Paperie in Boston and NYC. “Splurge on items that will be mailed to your guests’ homes.”

significant factor in stationery costs is your choice of printing method. At the most expensive end are engraving and letterpress techniques, where the script is artfully raised off the page. If you like this formal feel but don’t want to pay top dollar, consider thermography—it’s much less costly. Offset printing comes next on the price scale, while digital printing is very economical—especially if you’re incorporating multiple colors.

The more elements there are in a wedding invitation, the higher the price.

One insert that’s easy to eliminate is the reception card. “If you’re getting married in a church and having your reception at a loft, print ‘Dinner and dancing to follow at Tribeca Rooftop’ on the invite itself,” says Cheree Berry of Cheree Berry Paper in St. Louis, MO. Rather than printing and sending out guest logistics in early mailings, statio-

There’s so much info to share with your guests before and on your big day. But all those printed pieces can add up fast.

Here’s how to get pretty paperie without paying a pretty penny.

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SAVING BY CONSOLIDATING

ners now recommend putting travel and lodging details on your wedding website.

Day-of items can be scaled back, too.

Rather than calligraphed escort cards, print names and table assignments in a nice font on fine paper and display them in frames, or write them on a chalkboard.

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When booking a band for your reception, size matters. A five-member group will almost always cost less than a nine-piece orchestra (not to mention individual tips and the number of mouths you will have to feed).

entertainment From the melody that plays as you walk down the aisle to the band or DJ that gets guests out on the dance floor, memorable music is a must. Follow these tips to save on the soundtrack to your soirée.

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usicians are almost always more expensive than DJs, so hiring instrumentalists to perform at your ceremony and cocktail hour, plus a band as the main act, will cost top dollar. But cash-strapped couples don’t necessarily have to forfeit live entertainment. If you’re having a religious service, check your venue contract before booking anyone, says Deanna Jones, of NYC’s The Deanna Jones Orchestra. “Often you are already paying for a musician at your church or synagogue and just don’t know it.”

If that’s not the case, look into nearby civic organizations and

music conservatories. “In some areas, you can book an excellent jazz group or classical trio from a community theater or symphony for a donation or nominal fee,” Jones says, and music students may charge even less. For reception music leads, explore your city’s nightlife scene. A group that performs in local bars or clubs tends to be more cost-effective than a traditional wedding band.

As with venues, you may get a bargain rate by holding your wedding on a weekday or a weekend in slow season. Saturday events incur the most competition for services, so they yield the highest price tags.

THINKING OUTSIDE THE BAND

DJs typically cost less than bands, and some couples prefer them because of the greater variety of songs they can play. Although smartphones and services like Spotify let individuals create a playlist and “spin” their own tunes, DJs double as emcees—introducing the bridal party and announcing special dances and toasts. They also provide speakers, which you may have to otherwise rent.

Lastly, don’t overlook talented friends and family members.

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fine side. And if you must have a fancy food like lobster on your menu, you can cut costs by offering a small portion as an appetizer rather than an entrée.

NIXING EXCESS EXPENSES

Refreshments are an important part of every party, but feeding all your friends and family can eat up a good chunk of your wedding change. Here’s how to get more bite for your buck.

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ou can reduce almost every wedding expense by editing your guest list, but nowhere does that tactic have more impact than in catering costs. Think about it: Food and drink may run hundreds of dollars per head, meaning that 10 or 20 fewer chairs will result in significant savings. If you can’t get your guest head count down, a buffet may come in as a budget-friendly option because you don’t have to pay for waiters.

If you go this route, however, it’s important to serve less expensive fare that can be easily prepared in bulk.

If you prefer sit-down service, request that guests make their dinner choices in advance. “Taking an order at the table means the kitchen has to have eighty percent of every option available, which costs a lot more,” says Seattle-based caterer Lisa Dupar. She recommends including an entrée selection line or insert with your invitations so the chef can plan ahead. Also, giving guests fewer choices to begin with (filet mignon or wild mushroom risotto, for example, instead of a meat, fish and vegetarian dish), or the same sides with each alternative, is less work for the cooks.

Barely noticeable omissions or substitutions can have a profound effect on your final bill, too, says Brian Kiefer, a senior sales consultant at the Chicago-based caterer Food for Thought. “If you’re serving a beautiful salad with seasonal veggies and simply leave off the cheese, you’ll save one dollar per person,” he says.

Whipped potatoes cost less than fingerlings but make an equally

flowers & decor Nothing says “wedding” like bountiful blossoms—but bouquets, centerpieces and other floral arrangements can make your budget grow out of control. Here’s how to nip overspending in the bud.

CHOOSING THE BLOOMS

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lowers can be as dramatically different in price as they are in appearance. The best way to get more for your money is by selecting seasonal blooms that can be purchased locally rather than shipped in. As soon as you set your date and location, ask your florist to suggest flowers that will be available in that place and time of year. You can also save by using a less expensive flower en masse. It makes a striking statement but requires less effort for your florist than arranging multiple blooms, says Hanlin. Alternatively, by using cheaper blooms like carnations at the base of your arrangements, you can get away with fewer, more prominently placed pricey blossoms. Chicagobased event designer Marina Birch boosts centerpieces with inex-

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Don’t get talked into splurging on top-shelf liquors. Go with one or two signature drinks in addition to red and white wine and two types of brews. And if the drinks are passed on trays as guests enter the room, most won’t even realize the bar has been scaled back.

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catering

If your catering budget is tight, don’t fall into the common trap of overestimating how much your guests will consume.

Do you really need assorted passed hors d’oeuvres, a made-to-order sushi station and a mammoth crudité platter at your cocktail hour? “Pick one hearty, filling display—like a local artisan cheese table with fruits, breads and crackers—and have that be it!” says Dupar.

Another way to cut back is by shortening the event. “Costs are driven by length of time, so stick to an hour or less for cocktails,” says Kiefer—noting that, on average, people consume one canapé every ten minutes—and consider trimming an hour off the reception. For even deeper savings, skip the full-on dinner altogether, and opt for a brunch, afternoon tea and dessert, or late-night cocktail reception. If you stay flexible and open to creative new ideas, you’ll find lots of innovative approaches to throwing a great party that will also save money.

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“One trick I love is going with the house china from your venue, but adding colored napkins and gorgeous wine goblets from a rental company,” says Claudia Hanlin.

“It looks as if you’ve done a custom table, but you haven't.”

NONFLORAL LOOKS

pensive greenery, like ferns and ivy. “Any kind of leafy filler adds a lush, organic touch and volume, so arrangements don’t appear skimpy,” she says. For ceremony decor, Souza counsels couples marrying in a large church to skip the flowers because they’ll be overwhelmed by the space; just place wreaths on the entry doors.

Souza loves using hardy perennials like succulents and chicks-andhens plants in reception displays instead of fussy, fragile blooms; they aren’t pricey and can be replanted and enjoyed long after the event. Branches, topiaries and tree-trunk slices make great nonfloral centerpiece elements, too, while embellishing tablescapes with fruits and vegetables adds texture for far less than a flowers-only arrangement.

Purchasing decorative items like candelabra or vintage vessels is often cheaper than renting them, says Hanlin, and you can always sell them after the wedding. If your floral budget is really limited, stick to adorning the center of the room (no one will notice if the perimeter is a bit sparse) and find other ways to spruce up the tables and chairs. Many venues offer basic linens in an array of shades besides white, and a profusion of one color looks purposeful rather than penny-pinching. Similarly, standard ballroom seats can be dressed up by tying ribbon or narrow lengths of lace into bows and placing them on the chair backs.

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wedding cake A decadent confection makes a fitting grand finale, but that fancy finish may not come cheap. Here’s how to sweeten your deal and score a cost-conscious cake.

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ome brides are surprised to learn how expensive wedding cakes run. But they have to look as good as they taste, and that takes effort. “The cake is a dessert, but it also plays a decorative role in the reception—similar to the flowers,” says pastry chef Cheryl Kleinman of Betty Bakery in Brooklyn, NY. When a couple’s eyes are bigger than their budget, a baker might suggest preparing a “fake” cake, made of iced tiers of cardboard or foam except for the tier that’s sliced during the cakecutting ceremony. The guests are then served pieces of an inexpensive cake that’s cut in the kitchen.

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presented on a pedestal stand on the escort card table; this way guests notice it when getting their seat assignments but later eat slices of an unseen sheet cake.

SCALING BACK ON SUGAR Although cakes are priced by the slice, it’s not likely that every single person will indulge—so you can usually get away with ordering a confection that feeds just 75 percent of attendees. Square cakes yield more slices than round ones, and rich flavors like chocolate make people feel full faster, meaning you can order less and cut thinner slices.

To further cut costs, have your cake divided into very small pieces to be passed on trays during the dancing; this way, you may only need to budget for 25

percent of the guest count.

Finally, while it’s fun to work with a pastry chef, it isn’t absolutely necessary.

If your venue has an in-house caterer, consider booking their baker to save on delivery fees. And consider offering a number of single-layer cakes in a variety of flavors displayed on a collection of pretty cake stands. 

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A stately museum setting and the bride’s captivating floral gown set the stage for a unequivocally artful affair.

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e was just her high school friend Michelle’s “nerdy little brother,” says Laura Hart of her earliest encounter with husband Chris Rodriguez. “He didn’t even speak the first time we met!” Some years later, post high school, they reconnected when they found themselves working for the same company and began dating. “Chris is the funniest, most generous person I know,” says Laura, “though I have to admit I fell in love with his chicken paprikash first, winning personality second.”

Chris proposed about five years in.

“I’d always dreamed of a scenic woodland proposal after a long hike,“ Laura continues. “But my mom was killed in an accident just before the proposal. I was completely overwhelmed and not much in the mood for adventure, so Chris pivoted. Instead, we took a short hike into a park that backs our neighborhood.

He found the only spot of color in the grey-brown November woods, a shrub with bright red berries, and asked me to marry him. I wish I could remember specifically what he said, but I felt so lucky, I barely listened.”

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wedding album REAL COUPLES The ceremony: The couple were wed at Sts. Philip and James Catholic Church in Baltimore. Laura looked to her favorite book of the Bible, Ruth, for their first reading. “It’s about a woman’s loyalty and devotion to her mother-in-law, even in a time of bereavement. It was so meaningful to me because it speaks to the relationship I had with my mom, the relationship I have with my husband and the relationships we’re building as we weave our families together. My dad died when I was two, my stepdad when I was 10 and my mom when I was 28, just a month before Chris asked me to marry him. Not having my parents there brought an unavoidable heaviness to the day, as beautiful and meaningful as it was. We listed their names in our Mass program, remembered them during the Prayers of the Faithful and included them in a display of family wedding photos. I would encourage every couple to trust their gut when it comes to incorporating absent loved ones on their wedding day. You don’t need to save a chair, have a photo display or play your special song if it will make you miss them more than you already do. Remember, they love you and want you to be happy!”

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“I loved getting ready with my friends—and cats!—the day of.

Instead of feeling totally frazzled, it felt like the morning after a slumber party with my besties, which, technically, it was.”

Support system: “I initially didn’t want a wedding party at all,” Laura tells us. “It seemed like it would be a burden on my friends’ busy lives, and that it would be more fun for them to just show up and enjoy. Even with incredible wedding planners, I really felt the absence of my mom’s advice and support during the wedding-planning process.”

Laura ended up enlisting five friends who’d accompanied her dress shopping and to fittings to be her bridesmaids. “I’m so thankful that I had the formal support that came built in with the role of bridesmaid.”

About that dress Laura’s original wedding color palette was white, green and gold, “but everything changed when I found my dress. I tried on lots of beautiful white dresses, but ultimately, the colorful florals felt so much more fun and ‘me.’ The designer actually constructed a custom bodice so the dress fit me just right.

I felt so confident, beautiful and playful in it. Post-dress, we entirely switched up the palette for florals, tablescapes and my bridesmaids’ dresses.”

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Budget breakdown: Food was the biggest splurge “for sure,” says Laura. That said, “We’re not really cake people, so we didn’t have one.

We skipped the cake, favors, bridesmaids’ bouquets, groomsmens’ boutonnieres and videographer, and went with a DJ instead of a band. We also reused the florals from the ceremony for the reception, particularly to surround the sweetheart table. We were so glad we could offer both alcoholic and nonalcoholic versions of our favorite cocktails. Many of our friends don’t drink, and it’s nice to have a fun-but-safe cocktail option if you’re driving.”

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Fave moments: “In retrospect, the goofs are some of the best parts. I forgot the bouquet and had to send someone back for it.

Chris forgot his shirt and tie, so he had to take family formals in his undershirt while he waited for them to arrive. I got horribly carsick in the limo, and didn’t have time for cold feet because I was too busy trying not to throw up all over my dress. Heck, after changing venues and pushing our wedding back, we ended up getting married on April Fools’ Day! All of those little hiccups made the day feel real and human. Our wedding was playful, earnest, and abundant with the people we love.”

The reception “We initially chose the Peabody Library,” Laura says.

“I’m an English teacher and it smells like old books and happiness! However, it was closed over stretches of time for COVID and as those closures inched up, we decided to pivot to the Baltimore Museum of Art. Chris’s sister Michelle, and her husband, Jordan, had had their wedding reception at the BMA, so we knew just how elegant and inspirational the space was.

We were a little worried about family friends feeling like they’d gone to the same wedding twice but a different lighting installation had given the main room a more playful vibe, and the switch from my initial palette of green, white and gold to the colors of my dress ensured that our wedding felt distinct.”

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Adapted from Bridal Guide’s How to Plan the Perfect Wedding…Without Going Broke

by Diane Forden (Grand Central Publishing)

12 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Announce your engagement ◌ Gather ideas for your wedding

theme and style ◌ Work out a basic budget; research wedding/reception venues ◌ Determine number of guests ◌ Get started on attire ideas ◌ If you’ll be working with a planner, review potential candidates ◌ Research photographers, videographers, reception bands or DJs; set up consultations; review portfolios, reels, recordings 11 MONTHS

11 MONTHS TO GO ◌ If you’re working with a planner,

make your selection and set up a meeting ◌ Select and reserve your ceremony venue; schedule rehearsal time ◌ Choose reception venue; negotiate contract; leave a deposit to hold the time ◌ Determine theme/decor for your reception ◌ Meet with potential caterers; arrange for tastings ◌ Select and book caterer ◌ Reserve musicians/DJ ◌ Determine ceremony musicians and make musical selections ◌ Book videographer and photographer; put together a shot list ◌ Research floral designers ◌ Secure venue parking and/or guest transportation ◌ Visit local bridal salons and start looking/trying-on ◌ Choose your wedding-party members; invite them to take part in your celebration

◌ Meet with your officiant to discuss

the ceremony ◌ Determine your honeymoon budget ◌ Start creating a wedding website as soon as your wedding date and venue are set

◌ Research wedding rings for you and your partner

◌ Determine your floral designer;

discuss wedding theme/style/pal-

7 MONTHS TO GO

10 MONTHS TO GO

◌ Review and finalize wedding details

◌ Select and order your wedding gown ◌ If your ceremony or reception will be

◌ Coordinate any fittings/alterations

held in a special setting such as a park, obtain any necessary permits ◌ Go over attendants’ duties with your maid of honor and bridesmaids ◌ Send out save-the-dates if yours is a destination wedding (include your wedding website URL)

9 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Register for gifts (and update your website accordingly)

◌ Work closely with vendors to ensure your theme/style/palette will be woven into all aspects of your day ◌ Decide on the food and drink to be served ◌ Prepare a playlist of reception music ideas for your DJ (include any Do Not Play titles if need be) ◌ Select and order your headpiece, veil, shoes ◌ Confirm order of delivery dates for your wedding attire ◌ Research air, hotel and car-rental options for guests

with your partner and/or planner with your bridesmaids

◌ Consider groomsmen attire; make

recommendations for formalwear shop or rental house ◌ Select attire for flower girl and/or ring bearer ◌ Scout stationers: Determine the design, wording and paper stock for your invitation suite, table cards, thank-you notepaper (you may include your website URL on a small insert, not on your formal invitation); finalize order ◌ Hire a calligrapher (if needed) for table and escort cards ◌ Determine order of ceremony events and choose appropriate wording for your programs ◌ Book hotel-room blocks for your guests; negotiate rates; post info to your website ◌ Select and order your wedding rings ◌ Purchase bridal accessories: jewelry, lingerie, etc. ◌ Choose and order something fun for guests to toss after your cer-

8 MONTHS TO GO

6 MONTHS TO GO

◌ Go for your first gown fitting: invite

◌ Now’s the time to start thinking

your maid of honor to join you ◌ Choose and order bridesmaid dresses and accessories

about honeymoon ideas ◌ Review and approve proofs of invitations and stationery

5 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Order table cards; place print order for programs

◌ Final choice of honeymoon destination

◌ Taste-test a variety of wedding

cakes and select a baker; place cake order and arrange for delivery ◌ Make reservations for rehearsal dinner and select your menu

4 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Determine method of addressing

invitations and hire a calligrapher, if applicable ◌ Hand address—or have a calligrapher address—invitations ◌ Create your wedding vows ◌ Have groom try on tuxedo ◌ Purchase or rent groom’s wedding accessories ◌ Make honeymoon travel reservations and place all deposits

3 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Review and approve wedding an-

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nouncement and printed program proofs ◌ Book venue or secure reservations for post-wedding brunch ◌ Discuss any bachelorette party plans with your attendants ◌ Plan a bridesmaids luncheon or dinner, if desired ◌ Book an appointment for a hair trial

2 MONTHS TO GO ◌ Weigh, purchase postage for and mail invitations ◌ Secure a wedding-day dressing room for your bridesmaids ◌ Go to final gown fitting; arrange for pickup or delivery ◌ Have groom’s formalwear fitted ◌ Purchase attendants’ gifts ◌ Arrange transportation for bride and groom from ceremony site to reception ◌ Update wedding website as needed

6 WEEKS TO GO ◌ Send rehearsal dinner invitations ◌ Write thank-you notes as you

receive gifts ◌ Confirm music selections with musicians and/or DJ ◌ Select menu for post-wedding brunch ◌ Shop for/create wedding favors ◌ Plan and/or purchase honeymoon apparel essentials/luggage ◌ Go for a dry run with your hairstylist and schedule a day-of-wedding appointment

4 WEEKS TO GO ◌ Confirm floral order and arrange

for delivery times ◌ Meet with ushers and assign duties ◌ Discuss ceremony details with your officiant ◌ Determine placement or distribution of programs at the ceremony venue ◌ Arrange for preparation, storage and break areas for musicians/DJ at the reception venue ◌ Determine seating arrangements for guests ◌ Go in for a makeup trial with a makeup artist and schedule a day-of-wedding appointment

◌ Book a mani-pedi for the day before the wedding

◌ Finalize details with photographer and videographer

◌ Finalize honeymoon plans and confirm all reservations

◌ Arrange for transportation to and from the airport

◌ Arrange for escort-card setup at your reception

3 WEEKS TO GO ◌ Call anyone who has not yet responded to their invitation

◌ Finalize guest list ◌ Give final head count to caterer and review details

◌ Arrange for deliveries: flowers, decor, rentals

1 WEEK TO GO ◌ Reconfirm honeymoon travel arrangements

◌ Start packing for honeymoon ◌ Pick up your wedding dress

WEDDING DAY ◌ Eat a healthy, energizing breakfast ◌ Allow plenty of prep time for you and your ’maids

◌ Relax and feel the love!

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Hostal de La Gavina.

In every issue, we scout a spot that’s perfect for tying the knot away from home.

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he Costa Brava, a sun-drenched expanse that hugs 75 Mediterranean miles from the French border toward Barcelona, has welcomed discerning travelers in search of exquisite cuisine served alongside even more spectacular scenery for nearly a century.

A true grande dame, the 76-room Hostal de La Gavina, which is perched on a rocky The gorgeous sea. promontory above the beach and tony town of S’Agaró, is one of Spain’s first luxury hotels. Family-owned and operated to this day—it’s currently helmed by the fourth generation—guests here feel like they’ve been welcomed to a private home with one of the world’s most spectacular chefs. The literal heart of the hotel is Candlelight Restaurant, with a celebrated multi-course menu that harkens to its founding in 1960 (there are also seasonal variations available). Housed in an imposing white manor-like building, guest rooms are appointed with antiques and artwork as well as heirloom linens, and they open onto the rolling, garden-latticed grounds.

It is here by the grand lawn on a stone terrace that wedding ceremonies are hosted.

(Or you can opt to swap vows in the village church, something that can be arranged by the on-site coordinator). The terrace is classic Spain overlooking the sparkling Mediterranean and the whitewashed The capital of the region, Barcelona tile-roofed buildings. Dancing following dazzles with cosmopolitan appeal. dinner can also be enjoyed here or The Nobu Hotel—not surprisingly—has in the adjacent salon, which also has unparalleled cuisine served in spaces spectacular sea views (ceremonies start that overlook the peerless city. at about $1,600. Wedding menus start at about $215 per person. There The boutique Hotel Castell d’Empordà is a 60 guest minimum; lagavina.com). •

A grand and bespoke guest room.

The property twinkles.

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Their barefoot ceremony perfectly captured their nine years of love, flowing effortlessly.

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American Jay and Argentine Rocío have lived in Los Cabos for 12 years.

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t the tip of the Baja Peninsula on the Pacific Coast of Mexico beckon the twin towns of San Jose del Cabo and Cabo San Lucas, collectively known as ‘Los Cabos.’ Here, where an arid landscape meets the restless ocean, there’s something in the air.

Truly a star-studded destination, the area attracts not only the bold-faced but also the most discerning travelers in search of exquisite cuisine, elevated accommodations and cool cultural happenings set against unparalleled landscapes. Beyond the area’s appeal to American groom Jay Beckman and his Argentine bride Rocío Miguel, it’s also “where we live! In receiving so much love from our loved ones traveling to celebrate with us,” the pair also showcased the best of Los Cabos.

Working with a coordinator helped streamline planning.

Yachting and fishing are marquee excursions in Los Cabo. Trips to El Arco–a stone arch formation in the sea—is on the must-do list for all visitors’ itineraries, including a sunset sail hosted

by Rocío and Jay. Many details were local.

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classic attractions Much like the clientele of Los Cabos, the guest list for Rocío and Jay’s wedding was global, sophisticated and brimming with star power.

And the couple shared the best of the destination with all of them. “The design for the wedding decorations included colorful otomi (a prehistoric embroidery and textile art), and we had mariachis playing.” Cuisine is another Los Cabos calling card that was reflected in the celebration. The couple offered margaritas and palomas—“traditional Mexican drinks as our signature cocktails”—and welcomed guests with a taco bar. The reception menu was “light and fresh,” served family-style with local veggies, fish and a variety of dietary options.➺

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What were the most appealing local attractions for Rocío and Jay’s guests? “The beach was the numberone activity. There are also great golf options, with different views, challenges, and budgets.” Surfing, scuba diving and fishing are all favorites for visitors and locals alike. The couple also loves the Thursday evening art walk in San Jose.

Unexpected touches included a glitter bar and tarot card reading.

Salud!

“The plan was to have fun.”

baila baila Rocío and Jay wanted guests to “have a great time.”

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Sun-kissed and sophisticated is a Los Cabos vibe.

In keeping with their curated and personalized celebration, Rocío and Jay had two ceremonies to seal their happily-ever-after. The first was the day before the main event. “We had a spiritual union at the beach, which was very intimate and meaningful,” shares Rocío.

They followed that event with dinner at one of their favorite taco spots, The Hangman.

At Acre, the site of their wedding and reception celebration, their planner helped them arrange their ceremony “under a beautiful tree at the entrance to the venue, making it so romantic and special.”

legally The requirements wed for saying “I do” in Mexico are quite involved. All couples must be 18 or older and not currently married. You’ll need to present a valid passport, tourist card (issued upon arrival), birth certificate, blood test results (done in Mexico), completed marriage application forms from the local registry and four witnesses.

All foreign documents, with the exception of your passport, will need to be translated, apostilled and notarized. The couple and their witnesses must arrive in Mexico four business days before the wedding day for legal ceremonies.

While hotly debated to their origin story in Los Cabos proper, fish tacos are a marquee offering in the area. The hand-held delights are corn tortillas topped with crispy-battered fish, cabbage, pico de gallo, guacamole and a cream sauce.

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To assist those who aren’t multilingual, signage and songs (!) were available in both English and Spanish. In fact, the couple had two DJs play a set each, so friends could dance to their favorite—and familiar—music. They also had moments that spoke across languages, most notably live music from The Gipsy Chico Castillo AKA the Gipsy Kings. Says Rocío: “The Gipsy Kings opening the dance floor was incredible. All our guests from different cultures and ages knew their songs and really enjoyed them. It was magical!”

travel notes IN THE SUN-STREAKED FOOTHILLS OF SAN JOSE DEL Cabo, rolling over 25 verdant acres ripe with green cacti, fringed palms, mango, orange and papaya trees, Acre is a true sanctuary that centers on elevated experiences and sustainability. Here, organic A romantic room. isn’t a trend, it’s a promise. While the hideaway, with its secret garden vibe, certainly excels in farm-fresh food that is mostly harvested on-site, it also boasts a robust mixology program, sustainable design ethos and activities.

The former includes a house mezcal. The small-batch, handcrafted spirit is offered in four flavor profiles—Espadín, Cenizo, Tobalá, Tepeztate—each with its own taste and finish.

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On Costa Rica’s lush Nicoya Peninsula, a sprawling organic permaculture farm called Tierra de Yu is maintained by and feeds a local community of families. With 75 plant species, the selfsustaining garden also serves the 45-room, seven-villa Punta Islita, Autograph Collection. In addition to the fresh produce, the intimate hotel’s Alma Restaurant and Aura Beach Club also feature local seafood and other menu items that encapsulate the Blue Zone in which it is located. The individually appointed accommodations reflect the local aesthetic and feature sustainably sourced materials (room rates start at $545 a night; hotelpuntaislita.com).

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restaurant movement first launched in the late 1970s in Northern California when folks became disenchanted with processed foods.

Brasada Ranch A collection of rustic-chic cabins, bungalows, guest rooms and mainhouse accommodations stands on this expansive working ranch that stretches over Oregon’s high desert with stunning vistas of the towering Cascade Mountains. On-property activities are quintessentially cowboy-inspired with a menu that includes axe throwing, wagon rides, archery, stellar stargazing, hiking, biking and horseback riding across the 900 scrub-brush latticed acres. There’s also an award-winning golf course, multiple pools and an excellent spa. Meals are adventures in farm-fresh abundance. The Wild Rye experience changes seasonally as do the accompanying mixology offerings (room rates start at $209 a night; brasada.com).

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Farm forward in Costa Rica.

At this hideaway, guests repose in 24 ultramodern accommodations overlooking 20 vineyard-laced acres in Argentina’s Malbec-making region framed by the snowcapped Andes Mountains. Among the standout amenities, which include a spectacular display of hyperlocal gastronomy, the restorative retreat truly excels in spa offerings. Vinotheraphy, featuring grapes and ingredients sourced from the vineyards, and a six-stage circuit hammam (traditional steam experience) top the innovative treatment menu. Activities like horseback riding, trekking and hot air ballooning also embrace the farm-fresh surroundings (room rates start at $679 a night; entrecielos.com).

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There are hotels that know food and then there’s this 29-room, 9-suite hideaway near the Landing Beaches. Set on 62 acres of gardens and parklands, the Normandy hotel excels at farm-fresh cuisine, sourced from its own grounds.

In addition to the stellar produce, there is exquisite organic cider that’s renowned throughout the region, honey from the chateau’s bees, and a variety of dairy. Milk, butter and cream are sourced from the Normandy cattle, as are Pont-l’Evêque cheese and Livarot, a soft pungent cheese that is the oldest variety in area (room rates start at about $422 a night; chateaudaudrieu.com).

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On Jamaica, the Caribbean island known for its rum punch, reggae and really photogenic beaches, the land is rich with tropical vegetation, farmlands and coffee production. At Half Moon, a beachside retreat positioned on two miles of private coastline, sustainability is at the heart of its approach to hospitality. There are five colonies of bees who create honey for on-property food and drink, an on-site garden is home to nearly 30 kinds of fruits and vegetables and the spa utilizes herbs from an adjacent herb garden. The Jamaican Bush Bath treatment is a must-try (room rates start at $425 a night halfmoon.com).

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Chic accommodations.

The evening show.

Local Favorites THE RINGLING MUSEUM Although named for the circus, the bulk of the collection is fine art. There is, however, a collection dedicated to the circus, which is a comprehensive and exciting look at the Greatest Show on Earth.

SARASOTA BALLET The internationally renowned company performs classical choreography of celebrated ballets and welcomes innovative artistic interpretations of newer works.

A sleek eatery.

The sea-facing spa pool.

MYAKKA RIVER STATE PARK One of the largest protected expanses in the state, this park is known for its canopy walk suspended 25 feet above the ground in the treetops.

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tunning beaches with powdered sands, consistent surf and a sophisticated arts scene are marquee attractions of Sarasota, Florida, an enclave on the state’s Gulf of Mexico coastline. Thanks to its amenities, the stellar, sun-drenched expanse is home to many luxurious hideaways. The latest to join the offerings is St. Regis Longboat Key Resort, a spectacular collection of 194 breezy yet modern accommodations set on 18 pristine acres on one of Sarasota’s barrier islands.

Book into the new resort and experience haute beach-inspired design done up in textural sand tones in each water-view room along with the peerless service that is a standout of the elevated hotel brand. Notable amenities include a private lagoon teeming with sea life, a river-like pool complete with waterfalls that meanders through the property, a serenity pool as well as a main pool, and the spectacular beach. Additional water features including an outdoor vitality pool that overlooks the Gulf of Mexico can be found at the spa. PS: Don’t miss out on the marquee La Mer facial while in the sanctuary. The cuisine program is anchored by a classic steakhouse, haute Italian and sophisticated Latin fusion outpost (room rates start at $1,140 a night; marriott.com).

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Amelia Island THIS FLORIDA COUPLE STAYED CLOSE TO HOME WHEN THEY INVITED FRIENDS AND FAMILY TO EXPERIENCE A FULL-RESORT CELEBRATION AT ONE LUXURY SEASIDE PROPERTY.

Diane and Sean sealed it with a kiss in their enchanted garden setting.

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or some, finding the one perfect wedding location can be (almost) as much of a journey as it was finding the one happily-after partner with whom you’re about to make that public promise.

Such was the case for Diane née Comstock and Sean Hastings. “My husband and I are both from Jacksonville, Florida so we wanted to get married close to our hometown,” explains the bride. They toured many local sites, but none worked. Then they discovered Omni Amelia Island Resort & Spa. “The overall feeling we had when we toured it—we knew it was the one as soon as we got there.” The property amenities, the attention to details, and the ability to host all their events in a single spot with various sites added to that perfect pairing. “Being able to hold our wedding at such a gorgeous resort was truly amazing.”

The couple enhanced the reception space with bespoke decor.

enchanted garden Sean’s mom suggested the couple

tour the Omni Amelia Island. With views of the water, the dunes and its gorgeous tree canopy, the initial approach impressed Diane, who was at first hesitant to celebrate at a seaside resort. But then, “we checked out Walker’s Landing and I could see us getting married under the beautiful trees with Spanish moss.”

Next, they saw the reception area: “I loved how high the ceiling was, the view of the marsh, the fireplace. It was the perfect canvas to bring my ‘enchanted garden’ vibe to life.” Sold on the setting, Diane and Sean worked with the accommodating staff and local planners The Eventful Gals to curate their vision. ➺

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Hosting their wedding at a resort meant each event had its own “moment.”

“The most romantic spot was our ceremony site. The canopy trees with hanging Spanish moss were pure magic.

The birds chirping and the way the sun shone through the trees—it was one of those feelings where you knew you were right where you’re supposed to be.”

The cookies and cream cake contained chocolate buttercream.

Diane and Sean said “I do” on the 13th anniversary of their dating .

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Among their favorite

offerings on property, Diane and Sean particularly love the breakfast buffet at Sunrise Cafe. With a spectacular array of amazing garden-fresh options, “it felt like walking into a farmer’s market/bakery,” says Diane, adding, “And the view from the breakfast area is stunning.”

Diane called her ceremony site “pure magic.”

To the bride!

Wedding planners helped with all the details.

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While on property, a morning ritual for the couple included ordering coffee to savor while on their suite’s balcony.

“The day after the wedding, my husband woke me to watch the sunrise on our balcony. The view from the presidential suite was unmatched!”

The flowers were locally sourced.

Invitations set the vibe for the celebration.

The state of Florida

legally requires marriage licenses. They are wed issued at the county clerk’s office and cost $93.50. There is a waiting period of three days. The price may be reduced by two-thirds, and the waiting period waived if the couple completes a premarital course. In addition to the fee, the couple must present photo IDs and Social Security numbers.

Licenses are valid for 60 days.

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In homage to their Filipino heritage, the couple hosted a lechon (full-pig display with buffet) rehearsal dinner. In keeping with the bride’s enchanted vision, the space for the event was romantically lit with candles and decorated with white roses. During the reception, Sean and Diane had a money dance. “The Filipino wedding tradition sees guests pin money on the bride and groom’s clothing.”

The symbolic gesture of abundance and prosperity helps the couple start their financial future together with blessings from all of their guests.

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A money dance was one of the traditions performed.

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Not only did it make for a spectacular setting for celebrating, the Omni Amelia Island is robust with amenities that appealed to the couple’s guests, most of whom traveled for the event. Many checked in early to enjoy the offerings—favorites included golf, kayaking and the adults-only infinity pool with a spectacular ocean view. “Our guests enjoyed walking on the beach from the property.” says Diane. The pool bars also made a splash, as did the hot tub area. “We spent a lot of time at the hot tub, catching up with our guests. It was a really good hangout spot.”

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LOCATED JUST OFF THE COAST OF NORTHWEST FLORIDA, Amelia Island is a charming enclave ringed with pristine white-sand beaches and chockablock with luxurious accommodations. Omni Resort & Spa Amelia Island is an emblematic hideaway on the breezy out island. Home to 3.5 miles of beaches, a photogenic pool deck with a view, an adults only pool, a spectacular spa, and 402 guest rooms, the full-service resort is truly a destination unto itself.

Sure, your days are spent lounging by the sea and pool, but they are also filled with loads of active options. There is a 36-hole golf course—the hotel has been named one of top golf destinations in the country. Activities also include clay tennis courts and more for pickle, stand-up paddleboarding and kayaking in the island’s preserved marshlands, fishing and crabbing in the resort’s lake and touring the historic district, among other offerings. The property’s cuisine program is robust VENUE & CATERING: Omni Amelia Island Resort & Spa with a chop house, casual marsh-side PHOTOGRAPHY: She Exposure eatery, and elevated cocktail lounge among the outposts. A standout and WEDDING PLANNING AND DESIGN: Francesca Cooper, The Eventful Gals must-try is The Sprouting Project Dinners: FLORAL DESIGN & CUSTOM SIGNAGE: The five-course hyper-local celebrations Revel. of food served on the hotel’s stunning VIDEOGRAPHY: Harvest Wedding Films beach begin with tours of the aquaOFFICIANT: ponic greenhouse and organic gardens Pastor Bob, First Coast Ceremonies (room rates start at $200 a night; CEREMONY MUSIC: Jacksonville Strings omnihotels.com). 

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tretching from the Greater Antilles—Cuba, Hispaniola, Puerto Rico, and Jamaica—in the north, Mexico to the west and nearly to Venezuela on the southern end, the Caribbean is, yes, paradise found, but it is also one one of the world’s most diverse regions. The area, which encompasses 16 independent island nations, 770 islands and seemingly limitless sun-streaked islets, sugar-sand cays and beaches, perennially tops our honeymooners’ wish lists.

And while every destination within the region promises amazing adventures, excellent accommodations and loads of pool and beach time, the best of fun in the sun, and how you—and they—define it may vary. Hot tip: Even the color of the sand varies from island to island.

Does your daydream include cultural excursions and innovative cuisine? Are you more about heart-pumping mountain adventures and thrilling deep water exploration? Or do you want to chase waterfalls? All these questions and more can determine your ideal spot in the sun. Peep this three-point guide on how to find the perfect Caribbean destination for you.

Have a rockin’ time on Jamaica.

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One key to a successful marriage is compromise. And that’s true for travel too. Make a list of your five honeymoon musthaves. They can be as general—organic food programming—or specific—experience swimming with the pigs in Exumas—as you like. Have your partner make their list, too. Anything that appears on both automatically rises to priority level. Use the top three preferences—non-stop flights; organic cuisine; adults only hotels, for example, to start your search.

Define your vibe

What feels like happily ever after to the two of you? If you prefer a party and a more-the-merrier pool scene, check out the Dominican Republic, Jamaica, and the Bahamas. Maybe your idea of escaping includes an ultra-luxurious resort located in a natural reserve so it imparts the sensation of being off-the-grid.

If so, check out Puerto Rico, St. Lucia and St. John, U.S.V.I. Or perhaps you’re all about the private-island experience: You can find them in Turks & Caicos, across the Bahamas, and St. Vincent and the Grenadines. And for those who can’t vacation without a side of cultural attractions, Jamaica and Cuba are tops.

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Assess the action levels

While this step may feel like a combo of the previous two, it serves as the final refinement of your vision. At this point you and your partner have set your priorities—Top Chef experiences (which can be found in Grand Cayman, St. Barths and Puerto Rico); unexpected colors of sand (black—Grenada, Vieques, St. Lucia; pink—Harbor Island, Barbados, Eleuthera) and access to gaming (Aruba, St. Kitts, Dominican Republic), now it is time to define what an active vacation means to you. Along with swimming, boating, and snorkeling, most destinations offer standup paddleboarding, kayaking and fishing excursions. A select few are more renowned for certain experiences. Abacos Island, for example, is celebrated for its bone fishing; Bonaire has among the best diving spots in the world. Other islands promise heart-pumping excursions deep into their interiors, such as summiting Gros Piton on St. Lucia or climbing the challenging Bordeaux Mountain Trail on St. Croix, U.S.V.I. No matter how you define it, you’re more than likely to have access to amazing spa treatments at your honeymoon-perfect stay.

How’s that for daydreams realized? 

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