Abby Riggs - Make A Wish & Florida Vacation

10/15/2009 4:30:00 AM

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Day 1 - Abby's Make A Wish Trip

By Brent

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Day One is in the archives. We made the flight with no problems although hauling 7 people through airports is quite an adventure.

We got our first taste of the VIP treatment that Make A Wish kids receive, getting to go to the front of the security line, boarding first and having someone waiting for us at the airport.

We are at the "Give Kids the World" Village now in a perfect cottage in the perfect location as the pics below show. Some of our life long best friends came from the Cocoa area (east coast by the Space Center) to visit us last night. We hope to see them several times while here. And, we are lining up several occasions to visit other friends who are either in the Disney area vacationing, or actually on a Make a Wish trip too.

On the one hand, it's kind of sad that this trip was brought to fruition because of a year of suffering by Abby, standing on death's door at least four times. On the other hand, we count our blessings, that God and some very gracious people have made this dream trip come true (a trip that we could not possibly afford otherwise). Some thanks go to... (and I know I'll forget someone, so please forgive me): 

Make a Wish - for the countless special dreams they have made true for kids who have suffered more than they should

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Tracy - for spending the last year volunteering at Make A Wish and making sure our trip was all planned out and taken care of Lux Air - the wonderful gracious local company who donated the funds to Make A Wish for our trip. We have not met them personally yet, but we PLAN to... so if anyone out there from Lux is reading this, please email me. (brent@brentriggs.com). When we get back we want to come see you, bring you a photo album and give you a big hug (we're huggers, so you'll just have to deal with it! :) Frank and Judy - my parents who do so many nice things for the kids and slipped them some "souvenir money" behind my back before we left!

Betty & Missy & Family - Michelle's family, for house sitting and taking care of things back home for us while we are gone.

Dodo & Mr Johnny - our wonderful elderly neighbors who watch over us and love our kids like their own. At 90 years old and terminal with lung cancer, Mr Johnny will still be out there killing the mushrooms that pop up in the yard, taking our trash cans to the curb, and picking up any trash that dares come into our yard or his (this is one of our "mowing ministry' families to; they have become surrogate great grandparents to our kids).

Wildwood - our incredible church family who love us and do so much to help us with our special needs for Abby so she can still be part of the church activities.

The Baumans - who never miss an opportunity to be kind to our family and love our kids.

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Darron & Tracy - who have spent 20 years being unwavering best friends and have gone out of their way to do special things for us on this trip.

I know I missed someone I should have put on this list, never fails.

Anyone who knows us, has no doubt that if we are anything, we are GRATEFUL people. They know we love them and are authentically grateful for each and every kindness and act of love that we have been blessed with.

Okay, here's Day One in pics (I wish I had my good camera but it was too much to bring, and I'm doing the photo work on my laptop, so I won't get to have as much fun making the pics come to life... but we'll try to put up some each day):

This is what we've been most used to this last year...

But now it's FUN TIME! Abby is on the plane, and can't even hide a smile behind mask. She is so excited to finally be going to Disney

Joe and Helen, meeting us at the airport. They have been greeting kids for over 10 years for Make A Wish and Give Kids the World.

... a blue and orange house that just had the kids amazed (& us too!)

This is our street, and we have this incredible fun park right across the street. The kids couldn't wait a second to get over there and check it out.

This is our welcome sign outside our cottage...

Pictures do this no justice. It is a huge playground with all sorts of fun stuff for the kids.

I was wondering how we would haul everything and Make A Wish thought of everything. They rented us this fantastic huge van! Makes me wish we had one at home!

SpideyLandis on the tire swing in the playground.

We finally found a place where there is enough to do that will actually wear him out and leave him tired.

Sami is having a blast. She is being so wonderful with Abby and Landis... the best big sister they could ever ask for.

"Trains" take us everywhere in the village.

Just riding to dinner is FUN!

Here's one of the ares where we eat dinner.

Everywhere you look, it's like this!

SpideyLandis gives Mom the thumbs up... ride approved! He is having the time of his life.

Giddy up chicken! SpidelyLandis tames the carousel poultry!

Abby just runs from ride to ride, toy to toy, fun to fun!

There is so much for her to do, she's sets a dizzying pace trying to pack it all in. I don't think she realizes she has all week to enjoy it.

Well, that was amazing Day One, just a nibble actually. I could post 50 pictures of all they enjoyed JUST GETTING HERE and settling in!

Sami was astonished at "Disney World", overwhelmed at all there was to do and see. Then... we TRIED to explain to her that this was NOT Disney World yet. We unsuccessfully described the difference but could tell she has no comprehension of how big and wonderful Disney is going to be. Abby and Landis could care less... they are living in the moment, extracting every ounce of fun and wonder from each minute and each new sight (what a lesson we adults should learn from the eyes of babes...)!

Abby and Sami ("Dad, it's HANNAH! Quit calling me Sami...") on the carousel. All the rides, games and at the Village are free for the families. Most of the families here (dozens) appear to be Make A Wish.

As for Abby... she has one agenda at this point: meeting Jasmine and Mickey at Disney tomorrow. Should be a magnificent day. See you tomorrow morning.... ~ Brent Comments kristin said: I grew up in Orlando and spent many years serving and volunteering at give kids the world. It is such an amzing place and I have so many happy memories of being there and also collecting the stuffed animals that friends of outs would take to give to the kids they would meet at the airport. I actually think I know your greeters you had. I am so happy for your family. Enjoy this amazing time.

Lynnette Kraft said: Oh Riggs Family - this post blessed my heart and made me remember. Anna had the same wish 5 years ago. I know what you mean about being so grateful yet wishing you hadn't had to go through all that you did to get to that fun place.

I remember Give Kids the World like it was yesterday. It was such a wonderful time away from real life.

Right after Anna died I didn't like to think about it because she died 10 days after we got home and I associated that trip with her death - but 5 years later I don't feel that way - I'm grateful for that gift.

I'm looking forward to going to look at the next couple of days of your trip. The pictures are just awesome and seeing the joy on all of your faces is just priceless.

So glad for Make-A-Wish.

Lynnette Dancing Barefoot on Weathered Ground Debbie said: Wow; I never realized they had a whole village like this. What a wonderful organization this is. I'm so thrilled to hear what they've done for Abby. Enjoy this trip and take lots of photos to share.

Rhonda said: How awesome. I so loved seeing the pictures and what a terrific "make a wish" come true environment. LOVED the house and train and well, everything!

Corn said: How wonderful! Love the Make a Wish Foundation.

You are right its unfortunate that that is what got you there, BUT you are making such special memories for Abby in the moment.

Love that street you are on, so good to be a kid again. Enjoy, God Bless, and I pray for Abby everyday.

Are These Kids All Yours? said: Blessings on your vacation!!!!

How wonderful :) I pray for so many smiles- Abby deserves it as well as the rest of you too! Praying for continued health and loads and loads of fun!!!! bobbiebailey said: God is so, so, good!!!

What a wonderful first day! The Lord just blew you away!

The photos were great!!! As well as was your post!

Will be looking out for more posts!

I'd be as if I am "experiencing the experience" with you! :) Thank you Jesus for doing this for our precious little Abby and her equally precious family!!!

Prayers & blessings!

Bobbie Anonymous said: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for making "your" trip a trip that we all can share with you. Seeing the pictures of Abby with such a wonderful and exciting smile touches my heart so much.

Many prayers have preceeded this trip for all of you and the prayers will continue for a week of a family just having the time of their life and making memories.

maddie/cadesmimi said: Brent, I am so happy to hear that you and your family are at Disney World. What an experience for Abby. She will never forget it! I hope you all have a fantastic and fun-filled week. If ever anyone deserved it, your family does.

Blessings, Kathy

Yes... it would have been better to have gone to Disney under normal circumstances w/o Abby ever being sick. But God had a plan for this whole past year and still has His plan for the future.

Part of His plan was for people like me to get to know and love your family.

Shawna&Co. said: WOW! I have never gotten to see first hand how Make-a-wish affects kids. How terrific they are able to give her a wish like this. Here is to praying for many more trips like this one. Except without the make-a-wish program or the cancer.

God is good!

Keep the pictures coming. love and prayers Ann Stegall, Wake Forest, NC

Michelle said: What a GREAT picture of Abby on the plane. And oh my goodness, the place you guys are staying looks AMAZING! We are so happy for you all. We are praying daily for your continued protection against germs!

Have fun! Thanks for blogging while on a vacation!

The Mann Family day by day said: Oh, I can't think of anyone more deserving of such a fun trip, than your precious daughter!!!!

May she have the best time ever!!!!

The Reyes Family said: So glad everyone is having a blast!!!! enjoy your trip.... Love looking at all the phots Kara Nicholson said: What a great place to stay, these pics brought me to tears, so touching because you all deserve something as great as this, Make A Wish is such a great thing!

Anonymous said: I can't stop smiling! I'm SO very happy to see this!! I'm sure I'll be back a few more times just so I can smile some more! kristi.guillory Lafayette, LA auntrene said: Thank you for the wonderful post.. HOw fantastic to see your kiddos living in the moment and just having so much fun..

Pure JOy!!!!

Can you imagine when she does meet Jasmine... The smile will be amazing as always I am sure.

I never realized how great Make a Wish is... now I know.. I will be donating to them in the future..

Thanks Enjoy!

Rachel Boldman said: I wish I still lived in Orlando still, so I could maybe meet you guys while you're on your trip! Looks like GKTW has changed a lot since I was last there. Ironically, I just moved to Southwest Missouri two months ago, which I think, is close to where you actually live?! Anyway... I am praying for a great trip for you guys! Your whole family is going to love the experience.

LaVon Baker said: This is wonderful! I'm so happy that your family got to take this trip... memories forever. Looking forward to a week of happy pictures!

Andrea said: Oh my goodness! That brings back so many wonderful memories! ;o) My boys still talk about. We even stayed on that circle... do you just LOVE the Candy Land play ground right outside of your door?! ;o) Prayers for fun and dreams come true! Can't wait to see more pics from your trip!

Julia said: i'm in tears reading this! that place looks AWESOME and it's so cool to see Abby smiling and having fun!! what an amazing trip!!

Anonymous said: THANKS BE TO GOD for the magical time these precious children are having!!!

I know it takes many people doing many things to prepare for a trip like this but to them all of the hours are paid in full by only one smile from a child !!!!! And that smile to a parent is worth everything it took to get there.

My prayer today is for every second of this day and all others to be healthy and happy for the RIGGS family!!!! God Bless you all, Ellen/GA Meade family adoption said: I'm so glad you all are having a wonderful time. You all deserve every second of it... enjoy it to the max!!!! Sending you much love, Kami Sunday said: Looks like you guys are having a great time! Make sure to take the boat ride at Downtown Disney...it is so much fun!

Praying you all are safe and sound and HAVING FUN! Faith said: Have fun on your trip! It's so wonderful to see Abby (and everyone else) so happy! Much love!

Michele Williams said: Such a blessing you all have been provided. Such a great "ministry" Make A Wish.... You will remember those smiles for eternity! God bless you all.

Leslie said: we just got back a few days ago...florida and disney rocked despite the heat.!!!

Wow this place looks amaazing you you'll deserve it!! ENJOY!

Marielle said: Love the pictures, so good to see how good God is and that Abby is able to make this trip.

Vonda and John said: The photos are beautiful. I pray for your trip to be healthy and happy! Many blessings!

Vonda One Crazy Mommy said: Glad Abby is having fun. Why does Sami want to be called Hannah? Just curious, both are pretty names.

Best wishes at Disney, hope Abby has a blast!!

Thankfulmom said: I hope you have a wonderful trip! Seeing your pictures of Give Kids the World brings back so many good memories. The volunteers make that place tick - they are amazing. Blessings on your family!

Lisa whenpigsfly said: I have tears streaming down my face for Abby, and for you her family !What an indescribable blessing it has to be to see Abby running and playing in that "magical place" as if nothing had ever , or could ever again, slow her down. The wonderful way in which Make -A-Wish takes care of its family is beyond an adjective. The girls and I are just so excited for all of you to be able to share this adventure! Can't wait to see photos of Abby and Princesss Jasmine!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love Linda Rachel (wish her a Disney Happy birthday?? She turns 10 today!!) Leah, and Naomi

So excited to see their complete joy and wonder!

Oh how we need to slow down and live in the moment more often!

Love to you all and prayers remain for a healthy time!

Jill jldustan said: We have been following your blog for a while, our 10 yr old also has AML. I cried when I saw your pictures from the village, you are staying in the exact same villa we did in May!!

Enjoy your trip, you are in our prayers.

Love, Jaime www.caringbridge.org/visit/iandustan Kayce said: Wonderful!!!!!! Enjoy all the smiles, laughter and ooohhs and ahhhhs!! God bless!

Vic said: What an awesome trip and to think, it's only day one! :) She deserves every ounce of happiness and goodness that comes her way! God Bless!

Erica said: Amazing! Enjoy Disney!

Jo Whitehurst said: So, excited to see the family having such a wonderful time! Blessings!

I look forward to more photos!!

Anonymous said: Oh my! I'm so happy for you all! You are at an amazing place--wish I could jump into the pictures with you.

LADYHIGHTOWER said: Even the angels are smiling!

Abby have fun meeting Jasmine and Mickey tomorrow!

Alex and Sam said: have a great time.... the kids look soooo happy. safe travels

Have a GREAT week together.

alex

Blessings, Nora

Kathy said: Brent, this is awesome!!!! Enjoy!!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Brent and Michelle - what a wonderful post to read!!!!

I'm thrilled for all of you!

10/16/2009 5:38:00 AM

Day 2 - Abby's Make A Wish Trip From Brent

Day two is part of history now, and wow, am I tired.

We woke up and went to meet a bunch of Disney characters who came to visit at the Village (Give Kids the World). Then we went to Disney all day where even though it was "only" ninety degrees, the 99.99999999% humidity made it pretty miserably hot. But, neither sun, nor heat, nor dehydration, nor 3rd degree sunburn, nor scorched and parched skin, swollen tongues, sweltering misery or a slow painful death by solar rays can deter kids who are in total awe of the Magic Kingdom and all it's glories.

After 8-9 hours at Disney, we came back to the Village for dinner, and a huge Christmas celebration with Santa and parade.

Christmas? Yep, every week. Why? you might ask. It doesn't dawn on everyone that many of the kids here will never see another Christmas, so every week Santa comes bringing mountains of gifts, and a big parade with dancing, snow cones, cotton candy, all sorts of Disney characters and SNOW (even in the summer)... bringing Christmas alive for all the kids.

I'm telling you folks, it would melt the heart of the coldest Grinch to see these kids... some can hardly walk, many are in wheelchairs, others have tubes, wires and medical devices attached in every way imaginable... a fair amount of them are bald and funny looking (in the sweetest ways)... and yet, no one here is uncomfortable or shy away from them. These kids are so loving, soaking up the attention and affection.

One little boy who couldn't talk and didn't seem to really "know" what was going on would just walk up to you, put his head against

your leg or arm and accept a big hug from you. Then he would give a little crooked smile and move on to the next person for another hug.

I watched him go from family to family just getting hugs and wished my own life could be so simple some times.

We finally got back to our cottage about 9pm just in time to have "the Mayor" come and tuck the kids into bed which was a THRILL for them. We laughed because the Mayor is a giant mouse (of course) and just that morning, Landis had been TERRIFIED of him. The first few Disney characters, especially Pluto, had Landis knocking his knees in fear. I finally had to take him aside and share "the secret" with him: they were just pretend characters, people inside of costumes.

So all day long, Landis would remind me and Michelle that he knew "the secret". That cured him and for the rest of the day he couldn't wait to snuggle up and take pics with any character that dared venture near him. He wanted The Mayor to stay and spend the night with him! A giant mouse doing a sleep over with him... when earlier that day he had just about wet his pants at the prospect of having to take a picture with him! Kids!

Abby and Landis with the first characters of the day.

Landis was scared spitless of the giant mice at first.

Abby gets a hug from Goofy.

Hangin' out with Pluto...

All the kids with Mickey and Minnie.

Can you tell Landis is still terrified of the giant animals?

Shortly after this, I told him "the secret" and then he was fine the rest of the day.

Abby loved Donald... she couldn't quit smiling.

At Disney finally...

Once Landis figured it out "the truth", he was huggin' and kissin' the characters.

Abby gets her wish... a private meet and greet with Princess Jasmine.

Jasmine was very sweet, talking with Abby and asking her questions, and telling stories.

Landis wasn't going to miss out on talking to Jasmine.

Sami (Hannah... I can't quit calling her Sami) with Jasmine.

Landis gets a smooch from Jasmine.

He left grinning ear to ear

Abby gets a final hug from Jasmine.

Landis hides behind Sami-Hannah as a giant python looks into our safari river boat.

Abby sat in front of me in our rocket as she flies over Disney World. She said "higher Daddy!"

Mom and Hannah are in the front rocket, with Garrett and Landis hot on their heels.

All the kids with Santa.... Christmas in September!

The kids all got great presents and hugs from Santa.

They were very excited and thankful for all the wonderful things the Village does for the kids.

Landis finishes off a snow cone. Guess what flavor?

SpideyLandis looked up and what do you know....

Spiderman was up in the ceiling looking down on him.

Landis jumped up and down and said, "Dad! What's Spiderman doing up there??? Tell him to come down!"

Abby and Anna, another Make A Wish Kid who is here at the Village with us. They are a great family.

We were so happy to get to see them in person (rather than just on the blogs).

Abby with Patches and his buddy.

Abby and Landis get a tuck-in visit from The Mayor.

And finally, good night. The kids are all tucked in by The Mayor of Give Kids the World.

Comments Christina said: I stopped by to check out some fun Disney pictures of little Abby and your family enjoying yourself & got a bonus.

Christina momsbabypooh@msn.com BobbieBailey said: Riggs family, what a blessing it is to share your vacation with you!

Dad does such an outstanding job of keeping "us" folks "in the loop!"

Sami had just as much fun as the little kids!

Gosh, from Mickey & Minnie to what appears a rather lengthy visit with Jasmine and even Santa! How long did you say this vacation was? A month??? :) Pictures do speak a thousand words, don't they?

Enjoyed your parenting advice! I understand that when there is a great teaching moment, do it!

Was your daughter the only one missing in the photos? Let's see there are two older sons, Sami (Hannah), Abby and Landis, right?

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Brent - where do I begin!?

Second, seeing Abby get her wish - OH MY is AWESOME! Thank You God for bringing the desires of her heart to life!

Jasmine is so sweet - we met her this Spring too!

What happy moments to last a life-time for all!

God bless, Bobbie Bailey Kimmie said: Thanks for sharing your trip with us...Abby looks like she was blessed...YEAH God!

Oh I love seeing all the photos and Landis looking up at Spiderman is priceless!

Blessings and we are praying for continued health, joy and laughter!

The rest of you ;-) look blessed too btw.

You can get on that soapbox anytime you like - truth SETS us free!!!!

Kimmie mama to 7 one homemade and 6 adopted

Love and grace, Jill

Debbie said: What a fun trip for all! I loved how the Mayor tucked the children in for bed. They really do things right.

nicole_dib said: Wow... looks like everyone is having a fantastic time! I'm soo happy to see Abby getting her wish! She and Landis both look soo excited!

Anonymous said: Am loving the pictures of the kids at Disney.

The look in Abby's eyes is amazing. She is showing sheer joy and belief in a way I wish we adults could. The "Make A Wish" foundation is doing tremendous work for the kids that are sick and for the families. For just a short while you can forget about hospitals, bills, upheavals of family, etc. Just continue to have a great time.

Will continue to pray for good health and pretty weather as you continue to enjoy a much deserved time as a family at "DISNEY" !!

Aluci said: I am so happy that Abby is healthy enough for her special trip. It looks like everyone is having a great time! Thank you for your "teaching moment." I totally agree! Thank you for sharing your family.

Cindy said: Thank you so much for sharing Abby's trip with us. I was smiling almost as big as she was. I am so thrilled she feels well enough to enjoy her special trip. Praise God for His wonderful blessing.

Cindy

Ann Stegall Wake Forest, NC Melissa said: Ohhhhhh....Magic Kingdom-the BEST of all four parks (not including water parks) in Disney World (in my opinion anyway LOL). Soooooo glad to see you guys having a good time!!!

MP said: yep...I'm blubbering! Beautiful

nikki said: Seeing these pictures brought tears to my eyes!!!!

To just think of how sick Abby was this past year and now she is at disney just "being a kid", makes me remember how awesome God really is!!!!

Love the pics, keep them coming!!

Most importantly, I'm so thrilled for all of you to have this incredible experience. What awesome memories for everyone.

Praise God for His blessings.

In Jesus, Amy Via said: The pictures look like so much fun! Is this Florida or Cali Disney?

And I think I missed this, but did Sami just decide she's wants to be be called Hannah from now on?

Natalie said: What a truly beautiful post. I LOVED IT!!!!!

Bethany said: Great post about your happy family in the "Land of Magic". Enjoy the rest of your trip.

Kara Nicholson said: Absolutely beautiful, love the pictures and the great time they are all having!!!

Are These Kids All Yours? said: What a HUGE special trip. So many memories & fun! Praise God for all of those beautiful children and for those willing to make a difference!

Pam, mom, honey, said: thank you so much for sharing this special time with us. i am so glad you were able to go and spend time relaxing as family waitingarms said: Oh what joy to see Abby well enough to enjoy her trip and also all the other precious pictures of the kids discovering the magic of Disney. Disney is indeed a magical place - and it is even more magical seeing it through the eyes of children.

God bless you for being fearless in your teaching and also for balancing it with genuine love.

Rhonda said: Oh my goodness, what awesome pictures. Such a fun time and just love their big smiles and bet there were tons and tons of giggles!!! So cute!!! My youngest daughter is sitting here and she sooo loved your pictures too!

Holly said: I am just in tears. Praise God for this MUCH deserved kid paradise. Praying for everyone's good health during this retreat. I am so touched by the generosity of others to make such a dream come true.

Heather, aka Jake's Mommy said: It is so wonderful to see Abby and your family to get this special wish fulfilled after that kind of year that you all have experienced. I pray that all of the children make special memories at Disney that they carry for a lifetime.

Anonymous said: Thanks for sharing. Brought tears to my eyes to see Abby. She is so beautiful and precious. Your whole family is beautiful. Praying you will continue to have a wonderful trip and good health.

Debbie The Adoption Journey of Baby King said: Brent, Just an FYI, you have your Goofy and Pluto mixed up. Pluto is the yellow dog. How cute, the Mayor tucks them in.

We just returned from the Magical Land of Disney on Oct. 9. Luca, who is 2, amazed me at how fearless he was of the characters. I'll be posting pics later today on our blog of our trip.

I am so happy Abby was able to make the trip. Praying for continued good health. Those days at the parks are so long.

Anonymous said: The mayor looks like a bunny, not a mouse.

LOL! Glad you are having the time of your lives! whenpigsfly said: DISNEY..................I cried and cried and laughed and laughed!!!! Your shots of Landis "pre-secret_ and "postsecret" knowledge are priceless..A picture IS worth a thousand words!! And Abby with Jasmine. simply WOW! Christmas every week: that is compassion at work for sure.

We are loving your posts and photos and DO NOT STOP sharing wisdom if some gem stirs you up, even if you are in the "Magic Kingdom"!!

WE love you all and continue to pray for sustained health and strength and FUN! Love Linda and crew Kerri said: Ummm, youv'e got Pluto and Goofy confused with each other.

Missew said: What an awesome trip. So nice to see you all out and about and having such an amazing time! Jasmine really did a great job with the kids too!

Tracey's Life said: Oh how sweet. I am so glad that Abby got her wish to meet Princess Jasmine. I am so thrilled for your family that Abby is doing well enough to have made her trip and I will keep her in my prayers that she continues to do well. Enjoy Disney and if you go to Epcot, be sure to try out Soaring!

"the secret" because Curious George sent him straight into an anxiety attack. He's so funny. Early in the day, the giant characters terrify him. By that evening, he can't get enough of them.

auntrene said: Beautiful...

The picture of Abby and Jasmine brought tears to my eye.. The Awe of meeting Jasmine on her little face..

Thanks for sharing the pictures..

Give the Kids the World has thought of everything.. Christmas what a wonderful surprise..

Amazing!

Enjoy!

Then it was off to Universal Studios where we found out Sami is a daredevil maniac!

Stacie said: i love seeing abby's beautiful smile in every picture. what a blessing "make a wish" is for children and young adults who have been fighting illnesses. i hope you continue to enjoy your stay.

Courtney Kay said: thank you for sharing this with us.... what a blessing it is to see how beautiful and joyful abby is!

Meredith said: Oh my goodness... seeing Abby get her wish was wonderful, made me cry to just thank God for allowing her wish to come true. Thanks for all the pictures; praying you all will continue to have fun and good health :) Thanks for the teaching moments too - can never have enough reminders ;)

10/17/2009 3:50:00 AM

Day 3 - Abby's Make A Wish

Note: Hannah, Sami... whatever. Here's the deal for those who don't know: Samrawit is her Ethiopian name. When she first came home, we chose "Sami" as her nickname. Once she learned English, she decided she wanted to go by her American/Bible name "Hannah".

But Dad has a hard time breaking habits, so I still call her Sami although publicly she goes my Hannah. So if you're not already confused, let's see if this does it: Michelle is Michelle to everyone else but me and I call her Maria (Maria is not a secret girlfriend, promise). Sami is Sami to our immediate family but Hannah to the world. Christian has a dozen nicknames, currently it's "best buddy" to the little ones. Timothy is Garrett. Carlos is Landis. Jacqueline is Abby. Jordan is JoJo. Brent is still "bonehead" or "opinionated jerk".

That hasn't changed.

Anyhoo, Sami had never seen a roller coaster or scary ride before yesterday and became instantly addicted. She wanted to ride them ALL, over and over. No matter how scary. She thought they were "fun". It didn't cross her mind that they were designed to give her a heart attack and make her wet her pants. They were "fun".

From Brent Day THREE of the Make A Wish blessing is eternal history.

We started the day with meet and greet. Landis evidently forgot

We went spent the entire day at Adventure Island doing rides, meeting Super Heroes and picking Landis up off the concrete every time another dinosaur scared the stew out of him. Poor Abby jumped with joy because she was tall enough to go on the

SpiderMan ride... then she screamed in terrified panic the entire time she was on it.

Speaking of Spiderman, that was probably the highlight of the day.

SpideyLandis finally got to meet the "real" Spiderman. It was truly a golden moment....

Moment of the Day: SpideyLandis meets the guy who is running around dressed up like him... the "real" Spiderman. You may not know that Abby's original WISH was actually for "Baby to meet Spiderman". "Baby" is what she calls Landis. Isn't that sweet? After all the torture she endured, she got to do her Make A Wish, and the first thing she wished was for Landis to meet Spiderman, not something for herself.

If that doesn't melt your heart, you better go get it checked, it has probably stopped beating.

Michelle, Hannah and Garrett on the Hulk Puke-O-Matic Michelle is in the pink shirt, Sami and Garrett to her right.

"Fun!" was Sami's description after her first roller coaster ride.

We didn't bother with warm up rides on small coasters... we sent her straight to the Big Leagues!

Much to Hannah and Garrett's delight, and despite Mom's efforts, SpideyLandis cowered at the awesome spectacle that is "Curious George"

Boy, if only I wouldn't have had to watch the babies and take pics...

I could have rode this barf fest. Maybe next time.

Landis hasn't quite warmed up to Cyclops, I mean c'mon... he's not Spiderman.

Hannah, Abby and Landis break out their best superhero stances for a shot with Captain America.

Garrett flexes his guns next to the King of Cool, Captain America.

Super kids with Rogue and Storm of X-Men fame.

Landis was thrilled to see Spidey leap up on this stand and invite them for a pic. Nope, that's not a statue. That's live dude.

This Spiderman was quite the acrobat jumping around all over things.

We walked by a "pound the sledge hammer and ring the bell" contest and of course with Maria's egging them on, all the kids hounded me to do it. I really didn't want to at first... think about it.

How disappointed and embarrassed was I going to be if "big strong Dad" couldn't ring the bell? And this thing was no joke. It really was set up where there were few winners (the gal working it said one other guy had won that day). I've chopped a LOT OF wood, so I knew the technique. I pounded the stew out of that thing twice and fell way short. The attendant came over and whispered "you're plenty strong enough, you're just hitting the wrong spot. Hit it right there...." She saved my bacon. I got my bell rung... er, uh.... I rung the bell, and won Abby a big Dora doll. She was thrilled and my manhood remained intact.

Abby skipped the webslinging poses and went straight for the heart melting hug.

Landis and Sami flying the Ptera... terra dac.... ptearadactul... terrydacktill... whatever, the big dinosaur bird dude.

Abby LOVED this ride!

Landis, still terrified from a scary dinosaur about 2 minutes previous, won't even approach this fossil for a picture.

Hannah with a Dr. Suess character.

Okay, I don't know the name, alright. I admit it.

Green eggs and ham? Cat in the bag? Something like that?

This was Abby right BEFORE the Spiderman ride began.

She insisted on going, "I'm not scared Daddy!"

... this was Abby right AFTER the Spiderman ride.

She decided she didn't like the "big kid" rides so much after all.

The restaurant "cave" we ate lunch in.

Mom, Sami and Garrett were off riding some barf machine again, so me and the babies had some popcorn and relaxed for a bit.

We got Landis a Spiderman stuffed figure (not a doll! he's a boy).

He was so thrilled to get it. He wouldn't let it out of his sight.

Despite all the wonders and marvels that surrounded them, Abby and Landis were still fascinated by a simple duck.

Landis had a blast being a pirate running around "aaarrrrggggggh"ing everyone.

Garrett strikes a cool guy pose next to the eagle statue thingy.

Abby a year ago near death... Abby today.

Is there anything you need to have a pity party about today?

I didn't think so.

families like the Riggs family out there!

I super identified with you when you referred to the FAST rides as barf rides!!! Who likes to barf anyway? :( Michelle, is one BRAVE mom! (What a parent will do for her children!) :) You are a big guy! And, you had to prove to your kids that dad is a STRONG dad, too! Soooo, you just had to ring that bell! Good for you Muscle Dad! Wouldn't want to disappoint your "watching" kids! :) Afterall, you, not even the real Spiderman must be your kids hero!

Great Pictures camera guy!

Keep enjoying God's goodness!

Bobbie Bailey laura p said: I love your parenting advise! We are also a no three D family. What I was wondering is what are the consequences when they have this behavior. We are always trying to better our parenting skills and would love to hear how you do it in your house.

Laurel said: LOVE all the pics and fun narration ... but also love the parenting stuff. Keep preaching it. The D D D = D is perfect.

End of the day at the Pirate and Princess party.

Still having fun but can you see how tired they are?

Lynnette Kraft said: "Barf Machine" huh? HA! At Universal, I almost barfed going on the Back to the Future simulator. I can go on almost anything but simulators are torture!

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So glad you aren't where you were a year ago.

BobbieBailey said: Brent, Brent, Brent, what can I say?

You are "right on" on the parenting thing!!! I say BRAVO!!!

Parents listen to Brent's advice. It is FREE and worth doing!

Keep on having fun!

And, I must add that you had me LOL while I read your remarks!!!

You are a FUNNY guy, Brent! Your family must be way too much fun!!! :) What great kids! What a great mom & dad! Wish there were more

Now onto fun stuff - those photos are amazing! The time you are having will last all of you a lifetime! What a great experience for your family! I'm thrilled for all of yoU! Hugs and much love!

Jill

Lindsey said: Abby looks so happy. Her hair has grown a lot since I was last here. I hope everything is well and stays that way.

Kathy said: My daughter and her family were just at Disneyworld two weeks ago. My granddaughter was also scared of the characters at first!

When they returned home, my daughter kept talking about how the children and parents acted at Disneyworld. She basically described the same thing that you did, about the children ruling the parents and being wild.

the characters and then I just "lost it" when you tried to spell that dinosaur thing. (I won't even try to spell that one).

The picture of sweet Abby a year ago and the pictures now are so unbelievable, but represent God's miracle and grace. I can't believe that I have been following your site for so long. Praying for Abby (and all of you) has opened my heart and eyes to the many needs of kids and newborns in the hospitals. Because of you all, I now use my time for these kids.

Can't wait until tomorrow for another update !!

I am so glad that you wrote what you did in your last two posts. I agree 100%! Good old, Bible based child rearing advice! Amen!

love and prayers...

Enjoy the rest of your vacation! Kathy

Ann Stegall Wake Forest, NC

Peggy said: So happy that you all are having a fantastic time Anonymous said: My eight year old asks to see your updates from Disney everyday. The pictures are great and it's so enjoyable to see your family, especially Abby, Landis and Hannah, having such a great time. Praying everyone stays healthy.

Thanks for the parenting tips. When you have a chance could you share some of your disciplinary consequences for 5 to 8 year old range.

Nora Anna said: I'm so glad your family can share this. Thank you for sharing it with us, too!

Mary said: I loved the pictures. It is good to see Abby and the family having a good time. Thank you for sharing these moments.

Marie said: Great to see you having so much fun at Disney!

Anonymous said: You are "Right On Target" with the parenting. I am so glad I chose to parent this way and that my sons are now parenting the same way (if not better).

Loved all the pictures, but I have to say that your commentary is priceless !! I found myself laughing each time you tried to name

Courtney Kay said: in amazement at Abby's transformation Annie said: I have been following your blog for a while and have been so touched by your beautiful family. I am so glad that you all are having such a great time and I LOVE that Abby's first wish was for Landis to see Spiderman!!! So incredibly sweet!!

Are These Kids All Yours? said: Loved your post!!! Love the advice and the pics. We totally agree with the advice by the waythat is why we have 8 children (1 to come home yet :) Love the pics- they make me smile!!!! I have to admit when I saw that last one- Abby a year ago and today.....I was struck to the core. Live each day with grace and love. Because life is sooo precious- every day of it!!!!! Thank you, and praying for continued fun and Blessings on your family time!!!!

Becky said: It does my heart good to see how happy Abby is on her trip! I'm so glad that you're having a wonderful time together.

Can't wait to see more of your adventures...enjoy!!!

Anonymous said: Hey Bonehead - Looks like the trip is everything Abby could dream of! I usually don't comment but wanted to point out a technique that is similar to your parenting style. Go to www.loveandlogic.com if you're interested. I learned about it as a teacher but use it to parent with too. Basically, kids

have a choice and choices they make determine outcomes...You chose to whine so you will not receive dessert.

GREAT day... can't wait to see Day 4! oh.. and thanks for the reassurance about parenting... :)

Tote, Debby, Sammy and Caleb Jimenez said: I don't comment often. This may even be my first?? But I was brought to tears with this post. What a blessing!! We went to Disney for the 1st time 2 years ago and it was such a blast! I think it's just awesome to see how God has protected and blessed your family and that you are enjoying such a fun place together! The last 2 pictures are just awesome. To see Abby last year and now having the time of her life is crazy cool!! What a sweet girl! What an amazing family!

What an AWESOME God! Have an incredible time! =)

Phyllis said: Oh, that brings me to tears just seeing how happy Abby is. We love her so much. Disney is the best and we're so glad you all got to go.

Phyllis & Kristen

Sandy said: Thank you so much for sharing this trip with us. I have enjoyed so much the pictures and the commentary going along with it. You have such a special, loving family. I am so glad Abby got her wish, and it really touched my heart that her wish was for her brother. Such a sweet, sweet, child.

Vic said: These pictures and stories have just been a huge blessing and reminder to me that we still have so much to be thankful for. As a young adult that has been sick most of my teen years and recipent of a "dream" similar to Make A Wish Foundation... I have found myself so blessed and thankful of my "good" days. Your story continues to touch my heart and soul.

God Bless! I will continue to pray the trip is all you wished it to be.

Jennifer said: LOVE the updates. I am sooooo glad that ALL of you are getting to experience all of these wonderful things. As you mentioned, it is not the way you would want to get such a trip; but God works in marvelous ways.

Thanks again for sharing!!!

The Gobble's (Lanetta) said: ok.. Brent.. the crying started when I read about Abby making the wish so, "Baby can meet Spiderman!" melted my heart into... then as I continued to read and look at the pics... well, my tears continued. Please, know that we are continuing to pray for your family and lift Abby up to our Lord... Thanking him for the COMPLETE healing in her little body!

You entire family is being wrapped in prayers today... Have a

Peggi said: Hi. So glad you all are having a great time. How exciting for Spidey Landis to meet the real Spiderman. Abby is just too cute. les/spring hill fl said: So happy you got to visit us in fl, enjoy the weather but most of all the magic Disney does for kids and adults.

They are pros in all areas and manage to transport you to a very special clean safe awesome enviornment. Enjoy the rest of your trip!

Holly said: The name game at your house is confusing but it keeps things interesting! What's up with Maria?

Well anyway...love that things are going well and that you are keeping everyone in stitches, as always. I hope ya'll make an album for Abby so she will always remember this amazing time together! :) Live to love and laugh said: Brent, Around our house it has always been "boys have action figures. girls have dolls."

Spiderman has never been or EVER will be a doll. If you really want to have fun tell Marvin to pick up his dolls and he has a fit.

They are his action figures or guys.

Glad you are having such a great time. It is so nice to see everyone with BIG smiles.

Lund7 said: What a blessing for your family to spend this time just having fun and not having to think about being sick and being in the hospital! Abby is such a beautiful little lady!

I LOVE your house rule about whining...if you whine, the answer is always "NO"! I'm implementing that in our house immediately!!

Great parenting advice you always offer.

Blessings for a wonderful conclusion to this family vacation!

Anonymous said: Abby melts my heart. So wonderful that she and the other kids are getting such a fabulous experience. I love it. And will be a Make-A-Wish supporter from here on ~ what great things they do! Enjoy!!

Debbie said: I loved these fabulous photos. You are so good with getting just the right angles. I learn much from you on posting photos on Heart Choices. I'm going to experiment more.

Everyone looked like they had such a grea time. And btw, I agree with your attitude on discipline. I wish more parents knew a few of those secrets.

something that is known in the heavenlies as “waffle gluttony”. It’s too theological for me, so I’ll let them duke it out.

After breakfast we headed over for banana splits at the ice cream shack… just kidding (they weren’t open yet and we checked... all the doors and windows were locked). We headed for the Kids Koral so the kids could ride horses. Actually, it was sitting on a horse being led around in a circle, but that’s one “secret” we didn’t let Landis in on.

Patt said: Yaaaay Abby!!!So happy for you all. auntrene said: Your Abby melts my heart always.. I love that she wanted the baby to meet Spiderman and she looked as happy as he did to meet him..

Beautiful pictures, Thanks for sharing.. So thankful you all are having such a great time!

Enjoy!

10/18/2009 4:26:00 AM

Day 4 - Abby's Make a Wish Trip From Brent Day Four wandered away in the cool night air without a protest as everyone of us happily collapsed into bed, even Landis.

We started "Sea World Day" with breakfast at Give Kids the World Village. Unfortunately for my diet efforts, the Ginger Bread House (where we eat every day) makes Belgium waffles that can only be classified as sinful. It’s about 4am as I write this and the Good Angel on my right shoulder is warring with the Evil Angel on my left over

The temperature had dropped from the 90’s to the 70’s in one day.

It was heaven. The first day we roasted but yesterday, especially by evening time, we were actually shivering. Felt GREAT! I love the cold weather much to my beautiful Bride’s chagrin. I won’t wear a coat unless it’s under 40 degrees with a gale force wind whereas my devoted wife gets frostbite if the temperature drops below “heating pad”. This morning when I was outside just before 4am, in shorts, Tshirt and flip flops, it was about 50 degrees... aaaahhhh, heaven on earth. I was tempted to jump in the pool but I needed to get this post done.

After horsey back circles we loaded up for Sea World. Since the weather was cool and it was Saturday, the place was PACKED. We didn’t get to do nearly as many different rides/shows as the last two days, but it was still a day of non-stop adventure. We saw penguins and Shamu. We went through a magnificent Aquarium. Michelle, Garrett and Sami rode some outrageous roller coaster called the Manta, where you dangle in mid air being sped around at mach 1.5 while trying to stuff your intestines back down your throat.

Somebody had to sacrifice and watch the babies, so I gave up my own personal desire to throw up on the crowds below and stayed

behind with Spidey and Abby.

On the airplane when we were flying over, Michelle, Abby and I were on one side of the aisle. Christian, Landis and Sami were on the other. The airline attendant does her thing about oxygen masks and cabin pressure. The kids are clueless, busy discovering the wonders of the barf bags in the seat pockets in front of them.

Abby got her biggest wish too for the day: a kids roller coaster. She wanted SO BAD to ride a "roh-luh coh-ser" like the big kids. This was no little joke ride either. While it was a “kids” version, it was still a real coaster that went fast and was “kid scary”. I volunteered to brave the ride with Abby because I didn’t want Michelle to endure The airline gal walks up the aisle informing parents on each row with such a fearsome experience. I’m the Dad, I have to do what I have to children, “be sure to put your own mask on first before putting on do no matter the personal price I pay. the child’s mask.” She gets to our row, and looks over at Christian.

We got back to the Village in time for a nice dinner at the Ginger Bread House and what do you know… the ice cream shack was unlocked. In fact, I need you to pray for Michelle. She has contracted a dangerous disease for which there is no known cure: icecreamitus musthavetwicedailyolus. Again, being the sacrificial husband that I am, I don’t leave her to suffer alone. I lovingly accompany her into the heart of the dairy beast to show her she is not alone in her struggle.

After ice cream, the Village was throwing a birthday party for the Mayor (the giant RABBIT, yes Rabbit, not MOUSE… I know the difference now thanks to your comments). We went down to the town square and danced the HoDown ThrowDown, played with some beautiful dogs, rode on the electric car and elephant, and ate ice cream. Okay, we didn’t eat more ice cream but that was only because they weren’t serving any.

Before I get to the pics today, here’s a few things funzy I wanted to share: In the Event of the Loss of Cabin Pressure

At this stage of teen life, Christian has an embedded hearing loss device (it loses his perfectly good hearing whenever it suits him) that keeps him oblivious unless it receives a signal about girls, what’s for dinner or permission to watch TV. As this airline attendant is explaining the cabin-pressure-oxygen-mask to him we can see him slip conveniently into a self imposed coma. As she walks away, Michelle leans over to me and says, “in the event of a loss of cabin pressure, they don’t stand a chance. She just explained the procedure for getting oxygen to a teenager who isn’t listening, who is then supposed to help the 10 year old Ethiopian who just learned English, who then is supposed to assist the Guatemalan 3 year old who probably would take loss of cabin pressure as a really cool game.”

In the Event of the Loss of Personal Inhibitions We are eating lunch yesterday at Sea World outside on a deck by a deli. It’s a beautiful day and Landis is especially wound up. He’s standing up by our table dancing. “Look Mom, I’m shaking my

booty!” he says. So half kidding, I said, “hey Landis, run over there in the middle of the lunch crowd where everyone can see you and dance for them.” I assumed I would get the shy “no way Dad” look from him. I was wrong. Very wrong.

He takes off about running about 20 feet away right smack in the center of this entire lunch area, slides to a stop in his best Spidey pose and scans the surroundings to make sure he has everyone’s attention. Then he launches into his premier Landis Dance Booty Shake which, I have to tell you friends, rivals the best swivel Elvis ever got banned for. Landis finishes the show and dashes back to the table in time for another bite of turkey sandwich.

Just One of the Girls Abby had a costume on that was covered in glitter. Garrett was carrying her around for a little bit and some of the glitter got off on his cool-guy, black T-shirt. So we are sitting there at dinner and Abby looks over at him and declares confidently for all to hear: “you look like a girl!” Poor Garrett couldn’t get back to our cottage fast enough to change shirts.

Day Four in Photos

SpideyLandis kept saying "YEEE-HAAWWWW!" He was so thrilled to be a cowboy.

Abby loved riding the horse.

A motley crew of cowboy and cowgirls.

Sami wanted to jump the fence and take off on a real ride.

There's Maria, Sami and Garrett on the Mantra... (yes, MANTRA. I chanted over and over: "I hope they don't die, I hope they don't die"). The MANTA ride starts you upside down, hanging in mid air...

A 10 ft tall sea horse greets us at Sea World.

... then takes you up again, upside down, hanging in mid air...

... then drops you a 100 feet, still upside down, hanging in mid air...

... and loops around, upside down, hanging in mid air....

A manta comes to the glass to flash us a smile.

... after plummeting to the ground, it rushes back into the sky, yep, upside down, hanging in mid air... Man, I wish I could have done that too! But I put my family first.

Hannah and SpideyLandis inside the aquarium looking out at us.

Isn't it amazing that Hannah can hold her breath and still smile?

Abby and Landis were fascinated by the little sea dragons.

A year ago Abby could barely stand up... and didn't very much...

Garrett and Abby up in the aquarium.

Sami starts jumping and immediately decides a few flips will make it more fun.

The Penguin adventure...

The penguins are Abby's favorite. Her and Mom were really looking forward to seeing them.

... yesterday Abby walked for miles and was jumping to the clouds.

An interesting by product of all the pain and unknown she's endured is that she is pretty fearless about trying new things.

Not even the wonders of Shamu could keep Abby from enjoying her favorite snack. This kids were awed by the killer whales (me too).

Landis seems to have conquered his fear of giant animals and 9 foot characters.

Garret chases Abby, much to her delight, down a tube in a HUGE playground area.

Sami, about 40 ft in the air, climbing up a net.

"It hurts my feet Daddy!" she yelled down to me.

Sami, ever shy around the camera (not!), strikes a pose with the babies and Shamu.

Proof that I braved this dangerous roller coaster just so Abby could have bragging rights.

Landis played on the "beach" while Sami and Abby climbed through the playground directly above him.

This time last year, the only ride Abby got was on a hospital bed to and from painful procedures.

Now's she's riding roller coasters with Dad... no tubes, no I.V's, no shots needed.

The perfect smile to end a perfect day living the perfect wish made possible by the most perfect friends!

God is good. Can I get an 'amen'?

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Marina said: AMEN!!! I am so in awe with the way God is moving in your family...He is so faithful...praise God for this awesome trip.....just realized I didn't leave comments on the 1st 3 posts....am still just praising God....hugs to your family...youll are special!! God bless!

Anonymous said: Oh yeah! You got it! AMEN!!!

What a great, great, picture of you and Abby on the big scary roller coaster that you braved for your little cutie!!!

Anonymous said: I randomly found your site! I just thought id leave you a comment about the give kids the world village! My little cousin is diabetic and they won a trip to go to FL where you guys are! isn't it jus amazing?! my other aunt and uncle went along on the trip and stayed in a hotel near by and i went with them! i had so much fun i cried on the day they checked out! if you have facebook you can add me my name is Jessica Lynn, (to see our pics from there [not all pics are uploaded]) or email me if you would like! jesslynn2@cox.net :) miss~nance said: Amen....................

And, I love Michelle's humor, too! It must be a constant riot living with the Riggs! :) Again, pictures, comments, all "PRICELESS!" Thanks for the blessings!

Bobbie Bailey Marie said: What a fun post Brent!! You are so brave, going on that kiddie coaster just for Abby! I love that last photo best, you both look so happy.

Precious 3 said: I have SO enjoyed reading about your Make a Wish adventures! Praise God Abby has been well enough to travel and get her wish! The "before" and "now" pictures really tug at my heart. We are still praying, and I can't wait until next years "before" and "now" pictures!

Kelli said: I'm so happy for Abby! What a wonderful time...I know she'll never forget it! Going to Disney is on my Bucket List...only 10 hours away but I've never been!

Laurel said: GREAT to see you all having so much FUN! Hugs!

Laurel & the gang maddie/cadesmimi said: Amen! I'm with you on the cold weather! Love it. My hubby is with your wife--he wears flannel in the summer! Too funny! Great pics and post!

Cindy said: AMEN! Thanks for the chuckles. I loved the airplane story.

I love seeing these awesome pictures and seeing how far Abby has come.

Thank you God for Abby's continued progress and for the Make A Wish Foundation and the wonderful things they do for kids.

Are These Kids All Yours? said: AMEN!!!!!!! Several times over!

We love Sea World!!! We got to ride on the Manta earlier this year- and really loved it! Of course since only our oldest is able to ride that we have to ride other rides too- like the Shamu ride, they love that too. Of course I usually get booted since most of our kids can now ride by themselves... they don't want me to come. I think I have that same ice cream disease....too bad there is no cure????

Jennifer said: AMEN!!!!!

Kristine said: LOVED your update!! Thanks for all of the photos.

I'm so happy that everyone was healthy and happy for your well earned trip.

Masto Mama said: Amen! It's so awesome to see you guys having such a great time!

Anonymous said: Amen. I can't believe you're afraid of rollercoasters! You should add chicken to your list of nicknames...

Marianne said: Amen!!!!

That perfect smile has made my day. So happy you all are enjoying your trip.

Anonymous said: Again.... your commentary is so great !! I am with you on the roller coasters as I will give my seat up to ANYBODY that wants to ride. I can go "round and round", but not "up and down." (and definitely not upside down) Abby has come so far in her journey. I am glad you posted a couple of pictures just so we all can see the difference. I hope people know that Abby still has a ways to go,but that for now she is having a dream come true. I am so glad that "Make A Wish" includes all the family.

I love the story of Landis dancing at the restaurant (where was your video?) The picture of Garret chasing Abby in the tube is my favorite and then the one of Sami on the bungee. The way her hair braids were all flying out was great.

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: AMEN!!!!!!!!!!

Awesome photos Brent! Love seeing all the smiles!

Blessings, Jill Courtney Kay said: AMEN AMEN AMEN Kris said: Amen!

May this adventure be the first in a long line of Abby Adventures wringing the joy out of absolutely every moment of her life. Her life has certainly been front loaded with the challenges. Here's to blue skies from here on in!

Kayce said: Amen! Again and again!! Amen!!!

Looking forward to next update. love and prayers...

auntrene said: AMEN!!!!

Ann Stegall Wake Forest, NC

Oh thank you for the Sunday Morning Chuckle about the Airplane ride.. I love the whole teenager in a coma... oh.. the giggles..

Thanks!

Enjoy! Marielle said: Amen

day by day said: Oh, Amen!!!!! God is so good! What a blessing to see such a radiant smile on that sweet face of hers....she so deserves it!

Yay, God!!! Go Abby!!!!!

Lynnette Kraft said: Abby braved that roller coaster!!! Oh my goodness! Kyle and I rode that one - it was awesome - but we couldn't get our kids to ride it. ha!

Anna would have ridden coasters if it wouldn't have been dangerous for her heart. She wanted to so bad!

Abby is just a doll and that smile... I just can't get over it. :) It makes me want to go back to Sea World. Isn't Shamu awesome!

I loved that show.

More great pics. I'm sorry the trip can't go on forever for you. But just think of what we have waiting in Heaven!

Becky said: Amen!

There really are no better words for it!

I only came across your blog a few weeks ago but I'm up to speed already. It's amazing how far Abby has come, long may it continue.

Hope you have a fabulous rest of the week. God bless the whole family!

Phyllis said: AMEN!!

10/18/2009 10:45:00 PM

Day 5 - Abby's Make A Wish Fantabulous Spectacle

Day Five Pics & More About half of these are from earlier days because we didn't have as much opportunity to take photos today.

From Brent Day Five was much slower paced. We were TIRED. We went to Animal Kingdom and Hollywood Studios.

We saw dinosaurs, a fantastic 3D bug show, rode some fun rides and just enjoyed a nice cool day. We went back to the Village about dinner time, played with the kids for a little while then got the kids to bed about 9:30pm.

I started messing with photos and here I am at 2am putting up this post... partly because I can't quit thinking about it, and partly because I don't want to get up at 4am to do it. I love getting up early but I'm going on a week straight of 3-5 hours a night sleep after walking all day long. Getting a little weary. We are getting up at 7am today for our last full day of theme parks. I'll be tired, but it's the last day we'll be pushing hard. Next week will be much more relaxed.

Abby has discovered the "magic phrase that pays"... she picked up on us saying stuff about wishes coming true ("Make a Wish") and has decided during her wish trip this week, anytime she says "I WISH for..." that of course, it MUST come true. Tonight she WISHED for a big bowl of chocolate ice cream (I think Michelle kind of planted that one subliminally). So below, you'll see the chocolate ice cream wish pics.

At Animal Kingdom... the caves and sides of the "mountains" had animals and bugs carved in them. The detail is amazing.

At the Village, Abby gets a hug from the Mayor's wife.

Sami has been wonderful. She is the best big sister in the world, always caring for the babies and caring for them.

She's going to be a fantastic mother some day.

Getting ready to ride the flying dinosaurs at Animal Kingdom.

Mt Everest on the Florida horizon. Amazing how that snow doesn't melt even in 90 degree heat.

Landis looks up to see a giant Brontosaurus overhead.

He never quite got used to it all and several times got really scared.

The picture doesn't do this justice. It's about a 50 feet drop at 70-80 miles an hour.

I might have to get my lawyer involved because I did not sign any releases for them to use a statue of me on the monkey island. (whatever you immediately assumed I was talking about says alot about your opinion of me, huh?)

Another psycho ride Maria, Sami and Garrett went on.

Once again I sacrificed my own fun to stay behind and watch the babies.

A few minutes later Ms. Narcoleptic was doing one of her world famous "I can sleep anywhere" siestas.

The day before, she fell asleep on a flatbed stroller with her head between her knees, no lie.

Walking into Hollywood Studios...

Abby exercised her magic "I wish..." spell and wished for "all the ice cream I can eat." We had to grant the wish, that's the RULE on our Make A Wish Trip. :)

Oh baby, that's good. On Make A Wish trips, the wish kid even gets a pass on proper table manners once in a while.

Abby knew she should take advantage of the opportunity... a mountain mouthful of ANYthing wouldn't happen at home.

And now the cleanup...

Landis does his best Tiger Woods and really studies his upcoming putt from every angle.

The babies on the big yellow Stegodude...

Hannah gets in on the action.

We were playing putt putt golf on the Dino-Course. Walking down the 2nd hole, this innocent looking dino-decoration let's out a roar and spits (water) on you! Hannah SCREEEEEAAAAMMED!!!!

Some big galoot pushing Spidey and Wish Kid around.

The kids have to ride the carousel every day. It's right outside where we eat, so we have carousel for dessert.

Princess Jasmine dubbed Landis "little monkey" and he lived up to his tag on the playground across from our cottage.

Abby loves the carousel and wants to ride it over and over.

SpideyLandis rocks the bear boat. These are all FREE ride-toys at the Village.

Give Mickey a ride... make sure Mickey is safe... give Mickey a kiss.

Sami too... isn't she beautiful?

See the apprehension in Landis' eyes? At this point (2nd day) he still was not completely sure the giant dogs, mice and rabbits were "pretend".

Landis was in hog heaven on the playground. So many things to climb, slide down and run across.

Jasmine was so sweet and attentive to Abby.

It really was a wish come true.

"Hmm... I thought girls were gross but I could get used to hangin' out with this princess chick."

Comments Court said: I'm so glad I stumbled on this site, it's adorable. Man it looks like y'all are having fun. I can't wait to go with my little ones!

Nicki said: It looks like you are all having a amazing time, we also stayed at GKTW in May 08 and can't say enough wonderful things about the place.........our memories will be treasured forever.

Abby looks so happy......bless her darling heart.

Here is our trip: MAW an GKTW are the best. http://mummatomany.blogspot.com/2008_05_01_archive.html

One last hug for Abby from Princess Jasmine.

Have a blast and remember to photograph everything LOL, Hugs Nicki Anonymous said: Abby is absolutely beautiful!! It touches me to see her having such a good time, thank you for sharing it with us Brent. May God bless your family and give you all safe travels home. Memories are forever with us..... thank you Lord for

providing this family with this journey to enjoy with their children.

Candy said: See ya real soon... Can not wait our Disney fever is HIGH!!! Abby looks awesome and I can't wait to hug on her! Not sure who is the most excited bout next week kya or my step mom Christie who we call Granie!!! Love u guys Corn said: I love all the pictures. It looks like wonderful fun. "I wish" I could be there too on the psycho rollercoaster ride :) Cant blame Abby for the chocolate ice cream request, good move. Just seeing her enjoying it from her tippy toes is a real blessing and puts a smile on my face. God bless you and I hope you get much needed rest when you get back home.

Peggy said: Thanks for making me a part of her wonderful trip!!

You're the best!!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Brent and Michelle - I'm lovin' the updates! We are having so much fun seeing all of you laughing!!!!

I love the shot of Hannah screaming - LOL! Disney says: A wish is a dream your heart makes...

God says when we delight ourselves in Him, He will give us the desires of our heart!

How wonderful to see His word in action day after day after day!

Lots of love and blessings, Jill Gina Carlson said: So nice to see Abby enjoying her Make A Wish trip to Disney!! I am a volunteer wish granter with MAW and I just love seeing the photos of much fun the kids are having! Did you know that the Give Kids The World Village was founded by a Jewish Holocaust survivor? Yep, He provided the whole property to MAW for FREE. How incredibly wonderful is that! We learned that in our orientation class at MAW training.

Keep having a blast!! lots of fun memories to last a lifetime for sure!

10/20/2009 12:52:00 AM

Day 6 - Abby's Make A Wish Come True From Brent Day Six flew by faster than the Incredible Hulk roller coaster.

Speaking of which, here’s a story...

We were at Universal Studios for the first half of the day. FUN! We hit six or eight rides and shows. Mid afternoon we decided to hustle over to Islands of Adventure. So I took a load of stuff all the way back out to the parking lot while Maria and the kids walked to the other park. I was supposed to catch up to them.

Out at the car I get a phone call from my wife: “Hurry… we are at Poseidon’s Fury and it’s the last show of the day. You have 10 minutes to get here.” So I start speed walking for a couple of miles all the way across to the far side of the park. A LONG walk. My feet and shins were killing me when I got there. I made it just before they closed the doors.

After that show we had about 40 minutes before the park closed.

The kids had been begging me to ride the Incredible Hulk roller coaster. I didn’t do it the day we had come before – NOT BECAUSE I WAS CHICKEN, COMMENTERS – but because I knew Maria would have much more fun and really loved to ride the coasters (that's my story and I'm stickin' to it). This time, she wanted me to ride. She said, “I’ll take the babies to Dr. Suess and you guys go ride the Hulk.

I’ll meet you at the gate when the park closes.”

So Sami, Garrett and myself boogied off to the roller coaster. I was

admittedly scared the first quarter of the ride, not even opening my eyes. As I slowly pried them loose by sheer force of will, I pretended to love it. Actually it scared the water out of me. However, I’m the type that once I know what’s coming, it doesn’t bother me. “Lets’ go again” I shouted to the surprise of my two turdlings.

We RAN down the exit ramps (three stories high), got back in line, ran back up to loading dock and went for 2nd ride. This time, eyes open, no problems. FUN!!! “Let’s do it again” I hollered much to Garrett and Sami’s delight.

We ended up riding it FOUR times in 20 minutes and just missed a 5th by a minute or so… gate was closed, the Hulk was off the clock for the day.

The babies start out the day with a cheerful Mary Poppins.

In summary, I walked a couple miles as fast as possible to the car and even further back to make the Poseidon show. Then scrambled all the way to the opposite side of the park for a quadruple loop of ride/exit/enter up and down three stories to ride on the Hulk coaster.

The moral of the story: I’m an IDIOT. My feet, neck and back are killing me. But it sure was fun.

Still morning time... can you tell by Landis' reaction?

Day Six Pics

Riggs Family with Mickey...

(Christian was visiting some family in Florida. He came back this evening)

Nascar Abby flashes a winning smile.

Thing 1 and Thing 2 - GuateTot style!

Hey, do I have to put up with HER???

Landis in the stroller buried beneath a giant gorilla, Hulk and puppy.

We walked by a "ring the bell with the sledge hammer" contest, you know, where you pound the post on the ground with the sledge hammer and it sends a metal thing up a pole. If you are strong enough, you go all the way to the top and ring the bell.

Several big muscular guys were giving it a go, and left it well short, whining the whole time about the contraption being rigged for failure.

Well, 20 years of chopping wood gave me the advantage of knowing it was all technique, not brawn, even though I'm not exactly a weakling. I paid for three consecutive rounds of three swings each and "ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding!" rang the bell nine straight times and got a round of applause from about 40 people who had gathered around to watch.

Abby, Landis and Sami were so proud. I felt bad (just a little) for a couple of other Dads whose kids were saying "how come you can't ring it Daddy?"

The mummy dude stalks Spidey and Wish Girl.

Scooby Dooby Doo!!!

The Garrett that stole Christmas.

Notice Landis doing his best Cat in the Hat face?

I had told Abby and Landis "act scared for the picture" because we had just left the Poseidon's Fury. Landis resumed the look he had inside the show the whole time, while Abby hasn't really figured out the whole acting thing quite yet.

Garett holds Poseidon's 70 ft tall Trident.

SpideyLandis kisses the carousel in appreciation for how much fun he is having. Actually, truth be known, Landis is a kissing bandit. You just never know. He'll kiss your feet if you're not paying attention. Kiss you on the behind if that happens to be the direction he's coming from. Yesterday we caught him kissing the side view mirror of the car next to us in the parking lot. No sure what's up with that...

noahandlylasmommi said: Love all the pictures Especially the one with mary Poppins. looks like the kids had a blast! Thanks for sharing :) missy said: i have commented for a long time, but have followed your families journey. we traveled to ET with the lentz's so, along with reading the blog, i feel like we know you! i've loved all these wish trip posts and pictures. so striking to see the pictures from a year ago and the pictures of abby now, with the twinkle in her eye that says hope, joy, and love.

Just wanted to end with a precious picture that says it all...

i wanted to tell you that even though i know she was distraught about her self-inflicted hair cut, i think it looks darling and super fashionable.

Comments

your whole family is an inspiration. and one last thing...i'm sorry you have to even put that note above about the nasty commenters. grrrrrrrrrr....

Anonymous said: I have enjoyed reading all about your trip. So glad that Abby and the gang are having a wonderful time. I have loved looking at all of the pictures and seeing the beautiful smile on Abby's face. The rest of the family looks like they are having a ball also. So happy that this was possible for you all. Enjoy the rest of your trip.

Hugs, Missy, Molly & Mattie

Anonymous said: You look like a happy crew! So glad the week has been a wonderful wish come true...

Really now, four times on the coaster...do you know a good physical therapist? : ) Praying for a safe trip home with all your STUFF...ding!

Nora

BobbieBailey said: Brent, the last photo of Abby you posted speaks volumnes! Just volumnes! You need to blow that picture up as soon as you get home! It's priceless, really! It would be the perfect photo to share with Make a Wish Foundation, too! It may be edged in my memory forever!

Vonda and John said: I have been running to my computer every day for Riggs family Make a wish updates. What a wonderful time - and the kids look like they are having a blast! Blessings to you!

Cannot express what a joy it has been to experience this experience with your precious family. Thank you. It is a gift.

Charlotte said: brent, I can't seem to load the blog correctly. Same thing happened yesterday. Unable to see any pictures at all.

Bobbie

jag said: Oh wow! It looks like a spectacular day! The pictures really do say it all!

Anonymous said: I take my chicken comment back...your manhood has been restored ;-)

Anonymous said: So glad Abby got her wish!! I enjoyed seeing her smile in all the pictures.... so happy !!! Thank you Jesus!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Awesome post once again! The photos are so much fun to look at! You are one brave Dad getting on the Hulk! You go with your bad self ringing that bell!!! He he he!

It is wonderful to see Abby having so much fun!

10/20/2009 10:08:00 PM

Day 7 - Make Wish Trip for Abby From Brent First, I'm just bone weary tired getting only 3-4 hours of sleep almost every night this week. So I'm not going to do a lot photos tonight.

Thanks for sharing it with all of us!

Blessings and love, Jill

We finished our last morning at Give Kids the World Village and checked out. We took the two older boys to the airport and they flew back to Oklahoma. They'll be staying with grandmother at our house until we get back.

Our gracious life-long friends, Darron & Tracy, who live near Cocoa Florida, graciously invited us to stay the 2nd week at their home.

What a blessing!

So today was a transition from theme park insanity to lazy beach relaxing and hopefully lots of tennis. I've played competitive tennis for 20+ years, and Michelle played in college too. We rarely get on the court now because of work, kids and distance but hope to get in several matches this week.

We've got some other things planned this week, and we'll keep you updated.

Fun Story of the Day We stopped by GatorLand on the way to the airport. The trainer was giving kids a chance to "wrestle" a real gator (come sit on him and hold his mouth). A REAL gator, and not some baby one either.

Landis was terrified. Sami came out of the shoot full of false bravado but chickened out. The teens conveniently disappeared... and Abby marched right over and sat right down on the gator without a hint of hesitation!

The master gator wrestler coaches Abby on how to handle the reptile..

... in fact, Abby is so good at it, the she places her head inside a giant gator's mouth. Landis and Sami jump on his neck to try to save her!

Lots of pics tomorrow. I need some sleep. Looking at maybe 7 hours tonight which is double what I've been getting.

Comments wvamom said: Good job, Abby! Taking on an alligator is nuthin' compared to kickin' cancer!

Corn said: Look at Abby go she could be the next Gator Hunter on TV. God bless her. She looks so calm and like a true pro. I think the gator felt her blessed presence and behaved :) Thanks for sharing your week of wonderment with us, it's been a real treat.

Abby is now an honorary gator wrestler.

She's not afraid of the beast...

Sandy at God Speaks Today said: I am so glad Abby feels well enough to be on her special trip. She looks fantastic. Bangs and all.

Love, Sandy

Elaine said: You go girl! Abby, you are so very brave. I am not sure I could even get close to one, let alone sit on it. I am so glad you are enjoying your Disney dream vacation, You definitely deserve it. Although I am not there to see you having fun, the smile on your face tells all. You take care of yourself and make sure your Dad gets some sleep when you all get home. Although he sure sounds tired, I know he wouldn't trade any amount of sleep to make his precious little girl happy. Abby, your parent's rock!

Elaine in MT Courtney Kay said: That's our Abby! whenpigsfly said: What an awesome week, albeit exhausting for the grown-ups whose emotions had to be going on as much over drive asthier bodies!!

Enjoy the next week of real vacation, bask in your wonderful dream-come-true memories, rest, relax, play as much tennis as your knees and elbows will allow, have a great next week!!

Thanks so much for "bringing us all along" with your updates and photos. The kids, Charlie and I have all so enjoyed it! hugs to all1 Linda Erica in PA said: I LOVE YOUR BLOG!!! WHAT A GIFT U GUYS ARE to ABBY and YOUR WHOLE FAMILY. I found this blog from Kayleigh Anne Freeman's blog and am I ever GLAD I "CLICKED" where it said to. I have just been diagnosed with Follicular Lympohoma, and God steered me to your blog I believe to make me smile and to have HOPE and FAITH! Abby is inspiring me already. I start Chemo on Thurs. and watching her "wrestle gators" and having so much fun at MY PERSONAL FAVORITE PLACE ON EARTH, has made me smile all week! Thank YOU and GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!! I can't wait to learn more about Abby and read moire of YOUR amazing words!

Pattie said: Sounds like you all had fun at Gator land. Now enjoy your week of relaxing. Brevards a great place to just chill out. oh yeah have fun playing some tennis this week.

Charlotte said: ok, it's working now. just slow to load.

Charlotte said: Brent, I still can't get the full page to load so I am not seeing the pictures or your tweets.

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: BIG BIG BIG SMILES over here!

I did that when I was 13 yrs old and it was FUN! Thank you GOD for all the wonderful memories made all for Your glory this week through the Riggs!

Brent and Michelle enjoy some down time now! Praying you all home safe next week!

Hugs and much love, Jill BobbieBailey said: Such a brave little girl! No doubt all she has been through is in part the reason she is so courageous! The picture you took of her sitting on it will be a trophy photo for her in the future!

Whew, what a week you all have been treated to! And, so deserved! God is gracious, good and generous!

Now you all need to get some much needed R&R! (Including plenty of z's!)

Blessings to all, Bobbie Anonymous said: I have so enjoyed your posts this week=Your family feels like family to us and we are so blessed to get the updates. Get some rest and remember we'll keep the prayers lifting you up. Kathy Clements, Newbern, TN. Carolyn said: Hey, since y'all are in the Cocoa area, you should hop in a car and come down to Sebastian to watch some skydivers!!

10/22/2009 1:27:00 PM

Day 8 MORE PICS Make A Wish Trip From Brent Below are more pics from Day Seven, the last day at Give Kids the World. But first…

I had an interesting thing happen yesterday. We stopped by a restaurant on the way to Darron and Tracy’s house. It was me, Michelle, Darron (our friend from Florida whose home we are staying in), and the kids. We sit down to eat and after a few minutes, Landis decides to act up. He wanted something and Mom told him no. When she got on to him he decided he was going break out into an “I’m not getting my way so I’m going to act like the world is coming to an end ” alternating pout and cry.

Mom and Dad don’t roll like that… you feel me?

He got one warning look from me and I could tell he was still drawing up battle plans so I took Landis by the hand and started to head for the men’s woodshed bathroom.

Landis decided to alert the entire restaurant he was in trouble by howling even louder so I bent down right there in the aisle, put my hand over his mouth to muffle his loudspeaker and whispered in his ear to “s-t-o-p t-h-a-t c-r-y-i-n-g NOW” or else his next character "meet and greet" was going to be the Four Horseman of the Apocalypse. I stood there for a couple seconds until he stopped the wailing (he could see the signs of the times and took heed) and then

removed my hand from his mouth to continue to the bathroom.

After a couple of steps, I hear clearly from behind me “well that was ugly!”. I stopped and looked back to my left at this older couple sitting at a table. They were probably in their mid-seventies. I wasn’t sure who said it or even what they meant but when I made eye contact with the grandmotherly lady she said “that was a horrible ugly thing to do” out loud for everyone to hear.

At first, I thought she was talking about Landis’ fussing though it struck me as odd that she would describe it that way. I mean surely she wasn’t describing me disciplining him. Grandparents complain and lament about the permissiveness of parents today, so she must have been talking about Landis, right? Since she decided to make her announcement publicly and, being the reserved person that I am, I decided to respond publicly but with respect (I can’t disrespect the elderly, no matter how obnoxious the situation). Here was the conversation that both the restaurant staff and the other diners witnessed: “Well that was a horrible ugly thing to do!” she said.

“Pardon me” I replied. “Are you speaking to me? What was horrible and ugly, Ma’am?”

“What you did to that child.”

“Ma’am, I’m not sure I understand. What do you mean ‘what I did to that child’? You mean getting on to him for fussing?”

She explained with quite the indignant tone and expression, “Putting

your hand over that child’s mouth. What a horrible thing to do to a child.”

“Ma’am, what would YOU have me do? Would you rather I allow him to cry and fuss and disturb everyone else trying to eat their dinner? Would you like me to let him throw a fit and just ignore him like most parents do today?”

Maybe you should put your hand over HER mouth”.

Okay, he didn’t say that, but it was funny wasn’t it? I warned Landis that he better behave and we walked out of the bathroom. The blue-haired woman was standing at the front door of the fine dining establishment (Steak and Shake), glaring at her husband who was still sitting at the table. She had a “would you get a move on or you’re next” look on her face.

“Yes" she replied and by golly, she meant it.

“Yes, that was a mean and awful thing to do.”

As I walked by the old feller, I fought the raging temptation to offer him marriage sympathies but instead said, “Sir, normally you expect folks of your generation to applaud people who actually parent their children and don’t allow them to throw temper tantrums in public. I was shocked to be called ‘horrible and ugly’ for simply putting my hand over his mouth for a couple of seconds to get his attention.”

“Ma’am, I think the mean and awful thing is parents who let their kids behave like spoiled monsters and make everyone around them suffer while their child throws a temper tantrum. There is nothing horrible or ugly about putting my hand over his mouth and asking him to quiet down.” In my mind I also thought “you’ve GOT to be kidding me… now I can see why parenting skills have all but disappeared in the general population.”.

He gave me a sheepish look, kind of smiled and very softly said something about “it’s okay” or "I won't have to deal with her in heaven"... something like that. He seemed pretty frail, so I didn’t pursue the conversation. I patted him on the shoulder and wished him a great day. I looked back over at Broomhilda who was GLARING at me for talking to her husband (he obviously had not filled out the proper forms to get her permission to speak).

I was somewhat surprised that a seasoned citizen not only had this opinion but actually called me on the carpet in front of the entire restaurant. Her husband never said a word. I’ll let you figure out the probable dynamics of their relationship.

After we sat down, several smiles and nods came from other diners.

The waitress came over and apologized, “I’m sorry about that. I can’t believe she did that. I hope it didn’t embarrass you…”

“So you think that crying, fussing and throwing a fit is okay, but putting my hand over his mouth and telling him to stop is ‘horrible and ugly’?” I asked.

Hah! Little did she know I can’t wait for an opportunity to make a I took Landis to the bathroom but by then he had totally quieted point to publicly about parenting. Have we really got to a point in down. He looked up and me said, “can you believe that woman Dad? this culture where putting your hand over a child’s mouth is

considered “horrible and ugly” but letting them throw a tantrum, cry and ruin the atmosphere for everyone is perfectly acceptable?

More Day Seven Pics – Last Day at Give Kids The World

Recovered from his early morning fear of giant rodents and dinosaurs, Landis lounges with Abby on the big stuffed bear.

Abby wanted to see Dora so bad, and she finally showed up on the last day at GKTW.

Delighted Abby and Cool Spidey... smooth.

Queen Abby.... Make A Wish Princess.

Er... King Landis... King of... something.

I don't know. You figure it out.

This is the roof of the castle. Look closely.... each star represents a child that has stayed at GKTW.

Abby put her star in the wish trunk...

SpideyLandis plays in front of the magic pillow machine that spits out bubbles.

... and the star fairy takes it away and finds a place for it on the ceiling.

Abby checks out her pillow from the magic pillow machine.

Abby and Sami are in the castle forrest.

Sami, Landis and a big ol' stuffed bear.

The gators at Gatorland. It was amazing to see them. The photos don't really show how big they were.

Not just gators at Gatorland...

Not just animals either...

Normally, Abby cannot be around farm animals much less touch them, But we let her anyway because she said "I WISH to feed a goat..." Then we WISHED to wash her hands about two minutes later.

Landis LOVED the goats. He feed them and got licked and nibbled more than once.

Abby saves Sami from a sure and gruesome death in the jaws of the great beast.

This fellow was my own personal buddy.

I think he saw a family resemblance in me... look at him... looks like he found is long lost twin brother doesn't it?

Ferocious Sami

Landis REALLY wanted to do this pic, can't you tell?

Abby is fascinated by the dolphin statues at Darron and Tracy's house.

Comments Laurel said: I wrote a little blog post today, and linked to this parenting story.

BobbieBailey said: Brent, that lady that thought you were a pretty horrible guy sure wouldn't have liked me either!

I would do the very same thing with my children. There was never a reason or excuse to be loud, demanding nor disobedient in public. (Oh, yeah, nor at home, but esp. when we were out.)

This was just not ever going to be "overlooked," or "okay!"

After a long day, Landis finally crashes.

And, like you, I am not too shy to have spoken up. Probably would do and say something similar like you did. And, with no apologies whatsoever!

And like you, I am surprised that a 70 some year old wouldn't applaud parenting like yours. What's with that???

By the way, lucky for Landis that he didn't get a spanking (a little of discipline in the "woodshed," the bathroom. Smart little one.

He knew that dad might have to follow up with some discipline that might hurt a little. (Landis, will be a great daddy one day. He would have learned from a really good daddy!)

So much better for all when they are repentant and a spanking isn't necessary. :) You guys have had a vacation of a lifetime! Couldn't wish it more for anyone else!

God bless your friends, too, for inviting you to stay with them for some fun, fun, fun, in the sun!

Let's hear it for parents who are not afraid to parent!

Landis is terrified of the Knight statue‌ poor kid.

P.S. Love your humor! I actually laugh out loud when I read your blog! Who wouldn't?

Bobbie

Holly said: Well we live in a fallen world. What else is there to say?

I am still distracting by the butt wanting to suck a lemon comment. Not that it makes a lot of sense, but it sure is funny! tripntwinmom said: It warmed my heart to see your pics.

Especially the inside ceiling of the castle. My son Tobey has a star up there from our visit in 2005. Thank you for bringing back such wonderful memories! darci said: I am loving catching up on all these pics and posts. It is such a blessing to see sweet little Abby with her family, looking so healthy and loving every minute of your holidays!

Great parenting post..it's funny how you're kind of 'd##ned if you do and d##ned if you don't'. The general public wants to be around nice, polite, respectful kids, but watch out if we try to train them up that way! It's amazing how people fail to remember that discipline is not a dirty word--it's actually a huge blessing in the life of the one being disciplined. I discipline my kids BECAUSE I love them, because I want life to hold so much more for them than just the instant gratification of getting their way every moment. I know alot of people probably consider us pretty strict parents, but our kids are very connected to us, very loved, and very safe. Even our toddler (2) is learning that it's not ok to just freak out when life doesn't go quite according to her desires.

I could ramble on, but I'll stop. :) Shelby said: I do not thnk I have smiled so big in a long time. After reading the way you handled Landis and the elderly "lady" I applaud you. I even called my Mom and read it to her. Parenting skills are sadly lacking these days and kids are very quick to take over. Even if this post helps just one parent it was all worth it. It opened my eyes a little more.. Thank you. ashleyjnc said: Why are you never at the restaurants where I go out to eat at?? I have often said I wish that now that smoking had been banned, they would make that section instead for parents with children!! I know there are some sweet and properly parented children left, it just seemst hat when I go to have my dinner, they aren't sitting next to me! About four months ago, I was making a dinner run at KFC (Don't judge me ;) ) and they were out of extra crispy and I had 20 minutes to wait, which was fine. There was a family with about six or seven kids, and I guess

the oldest might have been 10 or 11. I was people watching (okay you might have slapped me and told me not to stare!)and could not believe how well these kids behaved, it was AWESOME, they were laughing and enjoying themselves, but they were not loud, they were in their seats, and so well behaved. I too, am like you, and have never been accused of being shy. So, I walked over to the table to tell the mom and dad "I just wanted to say, you have the most WELL BEHAVED children I have seen out in public in a long time, way to go guys, you kids are great!" Mom and Dad seemed genuinely pleased with my comments, and the kids responded with "Thank you, ma'am" as soon as mom said, "What do you say guys?" I think it is sad that this situation has become a rarity, to the point that it is noticed and appreciated. I know you can't avoid meltdowns altogether with a little one, but, you sure can take them out and make them mind, and at least make an effort to teach them... Despite what people may think it is NOT cute for your toddler to crawl under my table, plunge their hand into my breadbasket and take a roll (yes, it happened!) or run back and forth screaming like forlorn hellhounds. , I think a generation got skipped and need advise on how to be a good and effective parent. I know one thing... I am only 24 (25 in feb) but I surely would have been sent to get a switch off the landscaping if I acted like some of the kiddos today. You are not horrible OR UGLY!!! Way to go.

DavidCorbly said: I submitted this blog entry to Dr. John Rosemond (http://rosemond.com) as a story he might want to reference in his talks--he has a similar parenting philosophy. You could do his kind of talks too--but you'd be much more of a hoot to watch and listen to! kate said: Well, I happen to LOVE your teaching moments.

Because I totally agree with all of them. And it is good to hear from other parents who feel the same way. It makes your life (and your child's life) so much happier to actually make an effort to discipline. And I LOVE Abby's hair. I think it actually looks really cute. It looks like a little cute trendy haircut. She might have some talent there! So happy to see you guys having a great time after so much suffering. I know there is still a long road ahead, but so glad you get to do something fun along the way!

Enjoy the rest of your time!

kelliebean said: Loving the pictures from your trip! Disney World is our favorite vacation ever, and we love seeing it (and everything else) through y'all's eyes.

and submit everything to God so that He can help you how to do it. ;)Luisa

*wild applause* for you, DAD. Maybe if more parents chose to exercise their right to teach their children how to be responsible and accountable, our country wouldn't be going the direction it is now (financially, morally, etc.).

Mary in MN said: In the eyes of that older lady I guess I'm mean and ugly too. I have a 19 month old and when she wines and cries for no reason other than to get her way I put one finger up to her mouth and tell her it's not okay to scream. I think your parenting skills are right on track and love reading about them.

Thank you for all the updates and pictures of your vacation. It has been a joy to see how your whole family is enjoying the vacation!!

Mary Mary@Holy Mackerel said: I am so glad you brought up this topic, Brent. I've seen with my own eyes how awful people's parenting skills are nowadays. Kids rule the roost, and are allowed to do as they please, and then they grow up and are disrespectful, getting into trouble with the law, their parents, etc.

I'm also very glad you didn't allow that woman to get away with her nasty comment without speaking to her.

Good for you.

Mike Carey and Luisa Mercado said: Children give us happiness most of the time. It's great to know that you are doing good job in raising them up and have the opportunity to do so. A lot of parents failed because of so many reasons. Many of them we don't like to hear. But, sometimes the parents have to work to hard just to bring meager food on the table. In doing so, they forgot the binding relationship between parents and children.

This particularly happens in third world countries like mine. I know because I see it everyday.

So, parents, just take care of your children the best that you can

Anonymous said: My sons call your type of parenting... "Attitude Adjustments". And it isn't the attitude of the parent that will be adjusted. Because of the way my 11 grands have been raised they all know how to behave in a restaurant, fast food place, musical events, church and in the home.

I will never forget a neighbor of mine who couldn't get her son to do what she told him. She said, 'I am going to count to 10 three more times and you...." I almost fainted !! (By the way, her son grew up to have problems with teachers and eventually the law) I am one of the 'seasoned" adults and agree with the way you handled the situation with your son the way you did. More power to you and all parents who won't put up with screaming, demanding, unruly and dishonoring kids.

Wish your trip wasn't coming to an end. I have loved going on it with you. Abby has the most beautiful smile in the picture of her w/ Landis (doing his spider move). I love the "Story of the Star Fairy" and just wish there weren't so many stars to hang.

Oh... and are you sure you and your brother weren't triplets?? I can definitely see the resemblances. love and prayers...

Ann Stegall Wake Forest, NC Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Could you hear me laughing and cheering all the way from PA to FL? That was a brilliant post and I couldn't agree more!

I'm horrible and ugly too! And you know what?

God is proud of us!

So there general American parents who don't want to do what is their job regardless of whether or NOT they want to or like it!

I think we could make a fortune selling some backbones - want to join me?

10/22/2009 4:47:00 PM

Day 8 - Abby's Magical Trip To Florida

Love and blessings, Jill

From Brent

Tracey's Life said: Yes parents need to parent, and it is my personal opinion that you handled your situation in a manner that YOU the parent felt would work for YOU and YOUR child.

None of us knows what works with other people's children, so who are we to cast stones at someone else's parenting skills.

(Note: our official Make a Wish Trip was seven days. We are now entering out 2nd week which extended our vacation when invited by our friends, Darron and Tracy, to stay with them at their home. We want to make sure for all the families reading this that Make A Wish, for liability reasons, will not and cannot extend your one week official trip. Darron and Tracy graciously purchased airline tickets for us to stay a week longer. It's important that we be very clear about this so that no one has misconception about this when they do their Make a Wish trip with the Oklahoma chapter.)

I still remember dragging a screaming four year old through the mall to get to Lens Crafters on December 23rd. He asked to go to EB Toys and I said NO. How horrible I was to refuse my child a trip to a Toy Store on that date? I certainly did not think so and my line then and now is "And just what part of No do you not understand? The N or the O?" They hate it, but they get it.

Kids need limits and boundaries and it is our job to determine what the limits are and to enforce them and modify them as they grow. Kids are not running the asylum over here!

Naomi said: Hi. I was happy to see your post today! Selfishly I wanted you to stay longer just so I could see more pictures!

Disney world is my most favorite place ever. And I am working in Guatemala so I love little brown babies too! The two together make a good combo. :) I have been to Disney World Disneyland land about 6 times and never with a child. The wonder and fun they have in their faces is priceless.

Enjoy the more relaxing part of your trip!

We are having a great time. The kids are playing, swimming and living it up. We had a little break today from any big scheduled family activity and will fire up again tomorrow (Friday) with a trip to Orlando. Michelle is planning some get-togethers for us with blog friends. It's going to be another action packed week.

Hurt So Good After walking theme parks for five days, I played three sets of tennis on Tuesday, golf Wednesday morning and then another 3 sets of competitive tennis Wednesday night. For those of you who play, it's genuine 4.0 men's doubles. One match was with Tracy (Darron's wife), filling in for one of the "men". She is a great player and fits in even with the men because she does NOT care how hard we hit. In fact, she gets mad if you let up on her at all. So I'm pounding 125

mph serves at her (literally, 125 mph) and she asking me if that's all I've got.

I was REALLY sore this morning. Darron told me about this place down the road that teaches sports stretching and massage. It's really cheap since it's a school. I scheduled an appointment and limped in.

After I told the manager how sore I was, she called in the "heavy hitter" to work on me. In walked Bertha...

Evidently Bertha's last occupation was "East German weight lifter", and who from the look of things, had her twin brothers in headlocks under her arms. She walked in, cracked her knuckles, and said "All aboard... the pain train's leaving the station."

Brave Boy We were making the rounds at Universal riding some kid rides and meeting characters. Landis still wasn't sure if he was having fun or terrified out of his mind.

He is sitting in Michelle's lap and she says to him, "Landis is a very very brave little boy."

Without skipping a beat he proclaims, "Landis is a very very scared little boy..."

Go Play in the Corner

Okay, I made that up but I'm not making up the fact that she was a very a "sturdy" gal and it felt like I was put through a sausage grinder. Hurt so good! I feel great now.

Butt Ups We were goofing off at Darron and Tracy's house and I told Abby to do some pushups. All the kids know how to do them and think it's great fun, so I haven't been able to use them as a punishment yet...

YET. So Abby drops down and does a couple of pushups. I turned back to my laptop to continue writing. A couple seconds later, Abby says "Hey Dad, look at me..."

Sometimes our parenting backfires on us. Being the impulsive, hyper-energetic little Guat-Tot that he is, Landis finds himself with his nose stuck in the corner several times a day for various offenses like being too rough with the girls, pouting, or doing something he knows he's not supposed to do.

We were in the Ginger Bread House on the last day at Give Kids the World eating lunch. When Landis got done, he asked to be excused to go play.

"Can I get down Mommy? I'm all done..." he asked.

"Yes" Mom answered.

"Can I go play Mommy?" he inquired with a big smile on his face.

I look over at her and nothing but her rear end is going up and down "Yes. Go over there in the corner until we are done..." Mom and she proudly proclaims "butt ups Dad!"

instructed. We were instantly puzzled as Landis got a truly dejected and hurt look on his face but before we could ask him, like a puppy with his tail stuck between his legs, he marched over and stuck his nose in the corner.

mean?"

We didn't know whether to laugh or cry as we tried to explain to him we meant "go PLAY over in that area by the corner."

Don't ask. We have no idea either.

Landis chimed in with the answer: "It means sit down while the big bunny does the magic trick."

(For new readers, Sami is our 10 yr old from Ethiopia. She's only been here a year and didn't know a word of English when she got here. While her English is now incredible, she is still learning new On the last day at Give Kids the World, we walked into the ice cream phrases and words.) shop. When Michelle ordered her usual Butter Pecan, pandemonium broke loose. Bells rang, lights flashed, confetti fell Day Eight Pics and a parade of people streamed through the door.

Ice Cream Record Broken

The previous record for most visits to the ice cream shack was held

by Gerald Cellulitis, a 621 pound Swede, whose record had gone unthreatened for nearly 20 years.

Michelle shattered the marks for most visits in a week, most visits in a day and most days started AND ended with ice cream during one child's wish week.

Apparently, it wasn't Michelle's fault though. She says she was just tagging along with Abby who used the magic wish formula, "I WISH for lots of ice cream" on the first day. After that, it was just a matter of time before Mr. Cellulitis' record was sure to fall.

Bunny Tricks Sami asked Michelle, "Momma, what does 'Ladies and Gentleman'

We didn't do a whole lot of pics today, so here's a few from today and some others you haven't seen from the past week.

The kids had a lot of fun rescuing each other from the mouth of the beast.

Abby see herself in the magic mirror.

Christian and Garrett enjoyed the animals too.

Drama Queen was doing her best fake "scared" because Sami was going to take her into the haunted forest dungeon.

We saw a lifetime of smiles this week.

It's such a blessing to see Abby feeling good and full of energy. It's hard to tell she's still doing chemo every day.

Landis is dwarfed by the Pillow Factory.

The Grinch sizes up a possible snack.

Doesn't a picture like this make you wish you could feel such unhindered happiness, free from the baggage of loss, sickness, betrayal or failure?

This is a visual of what awaits us in heaven: pure unencumbered joy.

Supah- stah...

Mom preps Landis for his fear-filled encounter with the giant doggie.

Sami has been a delight and the very best big sister to Abby we could ever hope for.

We turned our back, and Landis had climbed onto the monkey tower and was hanging out with the primates.

Evidently he mistook the large fat gorilla for his father.

Not sure how he could have confused the two.

Sami with the bird ladies.

Michelle, Sami and Garrett hanging upside down about 60 ft in the air.

Dad is getting the evil eye from the prizes as he dings the bell nine times in a row.

Abby on the Spiderman ride unaware thatshe would be scared out of her wits about 30 seconds later.

Sounds like daddy really enjoyed the tennis! So glad. That too was a gift...soreness and all! :) Bobbie Marie said: Oh darn Brent I wish you would publish the mean comments so we can all argue with them!! I'm a big believer in firm discipline although I have never found the need to spank and have managed to get good behavior without it. Your kids seem happy and well adjusted from what we see of them here.

Becky and Joe said: Hi Brent and family, I have so enjoyed seeing your family have such a great time in Florida. I have been checking in on your blog for some months now, but have never commented til now. I agree with your parenting advice 100%. My children are far from perfect, but we often get comments from strangers when we are out in public about how well behaved they are. It's not just about the public behavior, but their character. I will not raise spoiled brats. I am trying to raise them to be SELf disciplined, considerate adults some day. I would have sent dessert to your family at that restaurant :).

SpideyLandis schools Captain American on proper super hero poses.

Comments BobbieBailey said: Unbelievable, how can people be so mean and critical? Well, I guess they don't know and love Jesus, that's how!

What a difference knowing and and loving the Savior makes in people's hearts and lives!

Cannot wait to read your blog day after day! It gives me a "warm fuzzy feeling." :) Love the kids and the parents letting their hair down and enjoying to the fullest God's blessings!

Others are being blessed to see you blessed!!! Isn't that terrific!

Give our little "princess" hugs and that goes for "princess Hannah" too!

Shari U said: I've got to say, even after Abby cut her own hair, it looks absolutely adorable. It's wonderful to see that hair growing in. I'm glad to see you're having such a great time.

Alleen said: Looks like you've had an awesome trip!! I am excited because I think we will get to meet you all on Monday. We will be there for the meet-up!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: I'm so glad you are all having such a good time Brent and Michelle! I have been laughing out loud each day with your posts. Thanks for the giggles I need them! Big hugs and lots of love! Enjoy your final days away!

Jill Rachel said: Thank you so for sharing your family with all of us. I look forward to your posts everyday. You are a bright spot in my life. Take care, *wish* you all the best!

10/24/2009 9:52:00 AM

Day 9 - The Dream Trip Continues From Brent Day 9! The time is flying by...

Quick note from today: Michelle, Sami and Abby left for a girls day out, and their car broke down about 15 miles into the trip to Disney (we are about an hour away). Darron and Tracy are going to get them and we are trying to rent a car. So they are stuck on the highway, broke down, and I have no way of getting to them. No worries... Darron will be there shortly.

Yesterday we had planned to go to Orlando but the kids conspired to mutiny against us and change it to a "beach" day. So off to the beach we went.

We had a great time. Poor Michelle... her skin is a beautiful alabaster white which is WHITE WHITE for those who don't know. I lathered her up thick with sunscreen but missed a strip on her back right where her bra strap would end up digging in, and today she is suffering. Sunburn on her looks cherry red and is PAINFUL. The tops of her feet got burned up too.

The kids had the time of their life digging in the sand, splashing in the waves and finding treasure (shells). We stayed for 2-3 hours and then ventured off for our one planned seafood dinner. We love seafood but it's too expensive out here in tourist land. So we saved up our pennies and got to have shrimp, lobster, crab, scallops and

fish. Landis ignored it all and ate about 15 corn fritter hush puppies with powdered sugar. Normally we wouldn't allow a kid to eat like that, but for this meal, that's what he loved, so we just let him chow down on them (and Sami got to eat his shrimp; so we go two happy kids for the price of one).

After dinner, we headed back to Darron and Tracy's because I had a tennis match scheduled. We played four sets of doubles... after a big seafood meal... after a long day in the sun at the beach... after a week of continual walking, sports and activity. I was actually feeling pretty good thanks to my little blue buddies and my darling orange friends (Naproxen and Ibuprofen).

But, I hurt my wrist. Getting injured was my biggest concern this week since I went from hitting a few balls maybe 2-3 times a month to playing matches almost every day this week. I wound up to pound a backhand return and the guy serving jammed me with shot straight at my gut. So I was at a weird wrist-y inside out angle and something popped in my wrist. I played two more sets after that but it hurt every time I hit a backhand hard, and I found that I couldn't put more than minimal topspin on my forehands (I hit very heavy topspin forehands). This morning, the wrist is sore and swollen. I'm praying it will be okay after a day or two of rest because I still have one round of golf and three tennis matches scheduled (and 2 more days at theme parks, and 2 more beach outings... other than that, we aren't doing much).

Every day has been filled with activity, full of joy and a mountain of memories. Today is "girls day out" with Michelle, Sami and Abby doing a marathon day at Disney until 11pm tonight. I have some work that must be done today and since Landis can't ride most of

the rides, we stayed home. I need a little rest too. The girls couldn't wait to kidnap Mommy and get away from the stinky boys for a while!

Day Nine Pics

I've been to this beach many times, and the waves were as big as I've ever seen except during storms or hurricanes. The babies sat on the edge and waited for "the big one" when I captured in this sequence. Most of the waves were not even coming close to them. The bigger ones would wash all the way up to them.

Abby had great fun burying Sami.

This was Sami's first trip to the beach.

Mom gets in on the action covering Sami with sand. We took about 4 pounds of sand home with us, hidden in various "areas".

We stayed for several hours and the kids just loved it.

Abby was so happy. She loves the beach.

Dad and SpideyLandis out in the waves which were really strong for this beach. The undertow was significant and the little kids couldn't go out more than 5-10 feet in the water without losing their feet in the backwash.

Abby and Landis get a horsey ride from Darron.

They are having great fun with him every night as he spends an hour of pandemonium with them.

Abby couldn't walk a year ago, and couldn't hold a drink in her hand. Now she's swinging from the playground bars. God is good.

Welcome to my world. C'mon on in...

Look Mom, I'm cuter than the concrete shrimp girl with too much lipstick.

Little Monkey and the Princess

Landis was only slightly scared of this ferocious character.

The kids outside of the seafood restaurant. We planned one seafood dinner for the kids (okay, for us too) while we were here that was not in the price range we would consider at home.

Sometimes when I look at her pictures like this, I'm just amazed at how beautiful she is. I know you guys get sick of hearing me say it all the time!

Landis wasn't scared of the pecking pigeons at all. He stuck his hand out, and they ate the food right off his fingers.

Sami has been a delight this whole week. I coudn't sit down and write out a description and get a more wonderful daughter. She has fit it to our family as if she has always been with us.

Two hours later, after TWO showers, Abby still has sand on her face, falling out of her hair.

Here is Abby a year ago, barely walking in the hospital most of the time, near death several times.

Here is Abby, in 2008, a few months before her diagnosis the last time we visited the same beach we were on yesterday.

Here is Abby yesterday. What precious gift.

Comments Anonymous said: Oh, the pictures of Abby bring back so many memories of our journey through AML with our daughter Lana!

She, too, had a time five years ago when she could barely walk and had such skinny little wasted legs and arms. Then, a year later, she looked so similar to the way Abby does now, healthy and happy with the same hairstyle! December will mark five years off treatment - praise God! Christine www.caringbridge.org/in/lana Anonymous said: How did I overlook this post?

The pictures of the children sitting on the beach with the water splashing on them are WONDERFUL! And, ouch, poor Michelle. I bet she wouldn't mind having Abby's, Landis, and Hannah's coloring at a time like this! :) Brent, thank you for being the humorous guy that you are.

Sometimes I badly need a laugh, and you always come through for me!t Anna said: What an amazing God we serve! I have to second the vinegar comment. I used white vinegar on a cotton ball, and it has always prevented peeling if done early! I shower, then use vinegar, then facial moisturizer, and aloe as needed for topical relief. I share the fair skin troubles, Michelle! Hang in there. :) Melissa said: You went to one my all time favorite places to eat!

My dad lives in the area, but sadly, we're not heading down there until November. I do hope the people down there (besides you friends) are showing you a wonderful time! I'm sure the food was delicious and you're having a great time! Blessings!

Holly said: What an amazing difference a year makes! Praying that next year finds Abby totally healthy with long hair and a bald baby brother :) love, Holly Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Brent, Praying Michelle and the kids made it back OK!

Sorry about your wrist. I will say a prayer for healing!

Love all the photos! I understand how you feel about Sami (Hannah). She really is remarkable looking and seems to be such a doll! What a blessing!

Hugs and love to you all!

Jill pendy said: It's been delightful following your week and especially seeing the smiles on Abby's face. Also, I agree that Sami is gorgeous and very photogenic. If modeling weren't such a gruesome career, I'd say she needed to go for it! The best part is that she seems to have a very sweet spirit to go with that beauty.

Anonymous said: What a precious time to have with your family.

God is good . . . !!

Thank you for taking the time to share all of this with your readers.

So sorry that the "nasty commenters" are rearing their ugly heads again. We will pray for them!

Enjoy, Sioux Tracey's Life said: How wonderful that you are able to continue enjoying your time in Florida and HOW FABULOUS that Abby is doing well and able to experience her wish trip. I love Make a Wish Foundation and I am so thrilled for your family that you are on this trip with a Healthy Abby!!! I pray that she remains healthy and cancer free!

Anonymous said: Put Apple Cider Vinegar on that sunburn Michelle and it'll feel better in a snap. Glad to see you are all having a great time! God is GOOD. The Kunards in Kansas City.

10/25/2009 2:59:00 AM

Day 10 - The Fun Gets Derailed For A Bit From Brent Holy Photoshop Batman! Thank you to a couple of readers who pointed out the need for some airbrushing on one of the photos. It's seems that SpideyLandis was webslinging a little too freely in one of the action shots. At first I couldn't figure out what the comments were about, and I'm still not 100% sure it was what it APPEARED to be... but if it was what it appeared to be (and it certainly appeared that it could have been an appearance of something that didn't need to appear) then the appearance of what it appeared to be did not need to be making an appearance and appearing what it appeared to be apparently appearing. Make sense?

getting into the park). We are excited about meeting new friends and fellow bloggers.

Darron taught Sami how to cast a fly rod off his dock in their back yard. Then Landis had a coronary when an alligator swam up to the back yard to look for a tasty Guatemalan for dinner.

Yesterday, after a coveted nap, we jumped in the car and went down to walk on the beach at night. We ate dinner out on the pier in Cocoa Beach. Even at night, the kids loved the beach. They played a game where they would creep up to the water's edge then run and scream when a big waved chased them back up the sand. We warned them not to get wet or head-to-toe-sandy (fully expecting that to be a miserable failure) and they actually stayed pretty dry, even Landis.

It's 4am now, and I love the peaceful quietness of this time of the Everything got derailed yesterday because of the car breaking down. morning. (Darron just walked into the room where I'm writing.

Apparently, the light I turned on at 3:50am also turns on a light that Michelle got about 20 miles down the road on "Girls Disney Day" shines right on them in their room! I saw the light through the cracks and the Jeep just quit. By the time we got all that rescued and under their door and figured they must have fallen asleep with it on. figured out a different car plan, it was too late for them to go. So Little did I know it was ME who just lit up their whole room when I they came back to Darron and Tracy's house. flipped the switch a few minutes ago. Annoying houseguests!!!)

We shuffled the week's schedule around, and Girl's Day will be Monday now. Our "Meet and reet" with several families at Disney (originally Monday) got moved to Sunday as of yesterday afternoon (Saturday). We'll all be going to Disney today (Sunday) and enjoying our ekklessia (assembly, fellowship) with 8-9 other families who are getting together. It's seems amazing to me that so many families can get together at the same time in a place that takes so much effort (Disney is a chore when it comes to driving there, parking and

Day Ten Pics

Little Monkey flashes his trademark dimples on Cocoa Beach at night.

Sami gives Dad a hug. She is so loving and sweet. We are amazed at how quickly and fully she has bonded with every single family member.

Abby is still having the time of her life.

Mom and the little ones on the beach.

Abby is running from a "monster wave"...

Abby wearing her Spiderman bow.

Doesn't she look especially good in black and red with her beautiful brown Guatemalan skin and silky black hair? (Abby has hair again!!!)

"Hmmm.... Dad said don't get wet or get down in the sand. Is it worth a spankin' to go for it anyway?" There's no doubt what SpideyLandis is contemplating.

Abby on Darron and Tracy's dock.

Darron taught Sami how to cast a rod.

She thinks it is great fun. Wait until she actually catches a fish.

Abby eyes the alligator. Do you see it?

are taking this trip with a thousand families which makes it all the more wonderful. I'm even thankful for the handful of obnoxious haters out there leaving rude anonymous (oh, the bravery) comments... they make us realize how precious and priceless the rest of you are!

Comments Anonymous said: A few comments...

The alligator came up right the dock then started to swim away.

Can you spot it?

Abby is beautiful no matter what color she wears! However, she has my skin coloring, therefore, I believe she looks best in RED!!!

(And, red also happens to be my all-time favorite color!) :) And, hey Brent, after seeing a picture of your "Maria" taken with the three children, you are one great big BLESSED (fortunate) guy to have a beauty like her for a wife! :) (Michelle, you can thank me later! But, I am dead serious!) :) Gosh, the whole family is beautiful!!!

Oh yeah, I saw the gator! But, unlike the rest of you, I'd be scared silly to accidentally fall in the water only to discover one waiting for me to fall in and have for supper!

What GREAT, GREAT, pictures!

I feel like I'm on vacation! Thanks, Brent, I have needed one!

Sami got her hair braided yesterday.

Rhonda said: What gorgeous pictures. The kids are sooo incredibly adorable and I'm with Landis, see an alligator, OUT of there! So glad to see you all are having such a wonderful time. So sorry to hear about the jeep. Blessings, Rhonda Susan (5 Minutes For Mom) said: What beautiful photos!!!

It's 5am now. I'm off for a couple of hours of sleep before getting up to do about 12 hours at Disney.

And I'm soooo scared of alligators that would freak me out. Yes, I see him in the picture.

Thanks for all your wonderful emails and comments. We feel like we

fmattso said: Hey Brent since you have more beach trips planned stop and get some baby powder. It takes the sand off and you

may end up taking a little less home. Just shake it onto little legs and arms and brush the sand off. Glad you are having fun! The pictures are great! whenpigsfly said: Well ididn't "See" what other s thought they "saw" so I have no clue what you needed to airbrush even though I saw all your photos. hmmmmmmmmmm, not so observant , or somebody is nit-picky?

The kdis and I have loved reading your updates every day and we continue to rejoice that Abby is having her dream time at Disney with all of you!!! She IS beautiful in black.her skin tones are so similar to our Rachel's even thoug Rachel is Khmer and we lover her in black too!

We will be praying for all of you tomorrow for an awesome day.

YAY Landis for self-control above and beyond the expectations put upon most 3 year olds!!

Hannah is so beautiful , I agree. LOVED the photo of Michelle with the 3 younger kiddos. GREAT PHOTO!!!

Big across-cyber-space - HUGS Linda and crew Nancy and Isaac McGee said: Abby looks absolutly beautiful. so glad your family gets to enjoy this time together Kim & Dave said: Abby is simply gorgeous with her hair back!

(She was gorgeous w/ out it, too, though!)

COntinuing to pray for your family!!!

Nora Leslie said: The guate mom gang sound like they had soo much fun with you today at downtown disney!!! love it!

Linda @ My Trendy Tykes said: Ok, the first comment had me cracking up! lol Sorry to hear about the car breaking down.

Have a nice time @ Disney!

4 vs 1 said: What beautiful photos! I am SO glad that Abbey is looking so good! You continue to be in my prayers!

I gave you a blog award today! Go grab it!!

Pattie said: Well Darn it. I wish I would of known of the switch of days beforejust now. Well I still HOPE to run into you guys before you go if not sorry to miss you.

If your planning anymore trips to CB Beach night day morning whatever can you email me at plongwell@cfl.rr.com or 321-3922515 if you don't mind us coming out to visit you all.

Everyone looks great and enjoying their trip to FL. Abby looks so happy and glowing. oh yes she looks GREAT in red and black :0)

Anonymous said: Hi Riggs Family, Everyone is looking so healthy and happy. The beach is such a great place to relax day and night. You all do keep an intense schedule! Enjoy, enjoy!

Nora

How is your wrist doing? are you going to make your tennis matches?

Laurel said: Sorry yesterday didn't work out; but am so glad that "the girls" could schedule another day. While I LOVE all of my boys and girls, there is something sweet about Mama & Daughter days.

Anonymous said: Hi Riggs Family, Love the pic of Landis. Yep ... that's gotta be what he is thinking.

Everyone is looking so healthy and happy. The beach is such a great place to relax day and night. You all do keep an intense schedule! Enjoy, enjoy!

Glad you get to meet some Bloggy Friends. We sure enjoyed meeting Michelle and the kids last month, and all of the other Bloggy Friends that we met on our trip.

Blessings on the rest of your trip!

Laurel mama of 13 Nancy said: The pictures of Abby are absolutely priceless. She certainly has a million dollar smile. Continue to have a wonderful time.

Blessings, Nancy Meade family adoption said: I look at Abby and am amazed at God's great work. She looks so wonderful. And, oh yes, your other children are just as beautiful. Praying the rest of your trip is full of fun and there are no other unexpected delimas.

Courtney Kay said: abby looks so healthy! I wish I could give her a BIG hug!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Goodness sorry to hear about the car but I guess God just wants you all there today!

I'll pray over the trip to Disney and your meeting new friends.

How I long to meet you all too!

Abby is absolutely gorgeous! Yes and that hair is beautiful! I agree black and red looks really pretty on all of our Guat tots.

I'm amazed at Landis for not getting all wet and dirty - good job!

Sami gets more beautiful every day! She is such a special young lady. Every time I look at her I long to meet our daughter waiting for us in Ethiopia!!! I know you understand!

Have a blessed day and watch out for those gators!

Love, Jill

10/26/2009 4:35:00 PM

Day 11 - Abby's Ultimate Wish From Brent Day Eleven (I... we went to Magic Kingdom for a hot day of fun. Then after lunch we hustled over to Downtown Disney to meet several families with Guat-Tots (Guatemalan adoptions).

Our pals Candy and Shawn were there with their young'uns, Kya Blu and Jagger Jet (both of whom our kids just adore). We always enjoy seeing them, never a dull moment. Abby has decided her newest best boyfriend is Jagger. He should run NOW while he has the chance. Abby is a "love 'em and leave 'em" type of four year old.

There are a bunch of pics down below showing the kids and families and I won't even attempt to correctly name or label everyone. I probably didn't even get a picture up of every person that attended.

It was hard to tell who was who with all the other people in the park too.

We had a GREAT time with all the families meeting some new folks who will no doubt become lifelong friends now. Here are some pics, and then we'll tell you about Abby's Ultimate "Make A Wish" Wish.

Day Eleven Pics

Abby the Pirate at the hospital, very sick but still having fun.

Abby gets a hug from Lilo.

Momma and the kids ride the magic carpets.

Landis is rescued by Lilo as Sami and Abby pose with Stitch.

Abby doing her pirate yesterday after Pirates of the Caribbean.

One of the shows at the Disney castle.

Kya Blu and Abby playing at Lego Land.

Landis is about to get surprised by Stitch, which won't do much for his oscillating fear of giant colorful rodents.

Abby hugs new best boyfriend Jagger Jett whether he likes is or not. Looks like he's enjoying this one from the "older woman".

A group of the Guat-Tots.

The entire army of Guat-Tots hijacked this train. The whole thing is filled with the kids from our group.

The kids had a great time.

After they released the train conductor unharmed, the kids swarmed the carousel for a double ride that Shawn and Candy blessed them with.

Jagger Jett with his grandmother on the carousel.

More carousel...

It was so much fun for the adults getting to watch the kids have so much fun.

And still more carousel...

Landis thinking "I wonder if Jasmine would be jealous of her little monkey now sitting by this beautiful Guatemalan Princess...."

Kya Blu flashing her trademark smile...

We met some wonderful families... this is Amy and Joe's daughter, one of two Guat-Tots for them.

Some of the mom's flashing me a smile as I rode around the carousel getting pics.

Sami and Kya, probably the two LEAST camera shy kids in the group.

Kya Blu gets my attention again with that smile....

Makes me sad to see all these precious kids and know that thousands more wait in Guatemala but they've closed the adoption doors there.

This was how the kids looked all day.

It's so fun to watch them enjoy life and laugh.

It was like herding cats trying to get all of them together for one shot.

The rugged, handsome, almost scary good lookin' Dads... (okay, I got the SCARY part right).

This is not ALL of them but we got close.

The mom's pose for a shot.

Candy and Sami with their dazzling beauty and smiles.

Abby got to meet Kya Blu's Grandmother who has followed Abby's story closely on our blog.

On the way out of the park... Abby gets a head start on bed time with her own personal walking pillow.

Abby's Ultimate "Make A Wish" Wish Before Abby got sick we were already planning another adoption.

Sami had come home from Ethiopia and the gears were in motion for another Ethiopian effort. Then our friend "Leukemia" came to visit and everything that was "life" before that became a distant memory.

The entire time Abby has been sick, even REALLY (deathly) sick, she has been relentless in her wishes for another baby brother or sister.

We had always encouraged it because we knew we wanted to adopt again. But with her sick, we couldn't be sure we would be able to do it again. At times Abby's condition was horrendous and we knew it could go on for years (not to mention the strain the expenses put on us, especially after my income got cut in half).

We began talking to Abby, and the other kids, about another possible adoption a couple of months ago. Abby has been giddy at the prospect. It is her Ultimate "Make A Wish" to say "I WISH for a new baby brother or sister". If she could make her "wish" a reality right NOW on this trip (and have another baby go home with us), there's no doubt she would (and we'd probably let her!).

We've been talking about it for the couple of months leading up this trip, and we've decided that we are going to go ahead and grant Abby's wish. We are going to begin the process of another Ethiopian adoption, a baby boy or girl.

That's her ultimate WISH and being able to tell her during this trip that we are going to do it has been the perfect grand finale to her magical, dream come true, Make A Wish trip.

Ahhhhhh.... but there's more. We have some wonderful and exciting news to share with you about this adoption. More on that in the next couple of Make A Wish updates.

Comments BobbieBailey said: Wow! Praise the Lord!!! What happy, magical, wonderful news! If anyone should have kids it is definitely you, Brent and Michelle! Abby, Hannah, Landis, Christian, Garret(?) and .... I'm so happy for all of you! In fact, absolutely THRILLED!!!

Your family is growing according to God's plan! Abby dear, that's the best "Make a Wish," wish, ever! Your mommy and daddy must love you very, very, much to want to grant you your sweet wish! :) What a precious bunch of Guat-Tot children! What great moms & dads! (And, sblings!) Your cup must be overflowing continually!

There is a very fortunate little boy or girl out there in Ethopia somewhere that will become the newest member of the Riggs Family! I say kudos for folks who adopt! You are an extra special breed! :) Blessings upon blessings... And, thanks for sharing the wonderful news! Love in Jesus, Bobbie P.S. I'm hooked on reading your Make a Wish blog! You are just way too funny!

Missy said: WHAT!!!!!! I am so excited for you guys. Hurry up and post the news. Tears of joy for you! Michelle, now we really do have to get together. I want details! :) Hugs to you all, Missy, Molly & Mattie Marielle said: Great news! Congrats to all of you, waiting to adopt.

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Precious photos and Kya Blue is truly beautiful - as is your Sami! Can I get whoo whoo!!!??

YEAH GOD! I'm so excited for your family and can't wait to hear more about the newest Riggs blessing! Love and hugs, Jill Tracey's Life said: I have followed your blog for quite a while now, and I remember when you posted the Abby Pirate on morphine. It is sooo striking when you post pictures and videos like that next to pictures of where she is today.

I am thrilled for Abby and your family that you are enjoying this wonderful trip to Florida and all in good health. She truly is a beautiful little girl and I am glad she had a chance to "Wish her Wish" and have it come true. I look forward to hearing about your newest adoption story.

Kimmie said: Kimmie I think my favorite part was the walking pillow part. Too sweet.

Isn't it wonderful that they trust us enough to fall asleep in our arms. As I rocked my daughter, after our conversation, she fell asleep in my arms...I prayed over her and thanked God that He slowed me down enough to enjoy the moment. Such moments don't come too often, and sometimes we miss them altogether.

Adoption...yeah! Ethiopia!...I'm listening! Bless your hearts as you wait this next part of the adventure that He has for you! Kimmie mama to 7 one homemade and 6 adopted

picture caption mentioning the adopted guatamalan kids...now I find it AMAZING that people can provide such wonderful things to these children, but what about the ones here at home in the United States who don't know what it's like to have a family? I'm curious to know why everyone wants to adopt out of the country? Why not help the children already here??? Just curious!

By all means I don't intend it to sound insulting or mean!

Kristi.Guillory Lafayette, LA Tamara said: oh my goodness that is so so exciting! and the suspense of the rest of the story is nearly killing me! :) ok, not really, but i am anxious to hear more about this adoption journey...we kind of have a soft spot in our hearts for adoption stuff... :) blessings to your family, tamara fladung Kara Nicholson said: soooooo exciting, so happy for all of you!!!

Elaine said: Geez Brent, could you post twice in one day and let us in on the adoption surprise? The suspense is killing me..

So glad to see Abby and everyone having the time of their lives.

Elaine in MT Sabrina said: How wonderful! You are such a blessing to all of your children, and I wish you the best on your newest adoption!

Alleen said: It was so nice to meet you and your beautiful family on Sunday!! Exciting news about adding to your family. I know Abby must be over-the moon with excitement that her wish is going to come true!

Erin said: You are awful leaving us hanging like that, but we are ridiculously happy to hear Abby's wish is FINALLY going to happen. Congratulations!

Erin, Christian and Ashi

Aggie said: So VERY excited that you will be adopting again! Can't wait to hear more!!!!

Anonymous said: What a wonderful wish :) Oh but that's such a tease lol . I want to know more!

Congratulations Riggs family.

Linda

Anonymous said: Another child will be blessed with you and Michelle as parents and fantastic siblings too!!! Enjoy the great weather you're having--we're drowning in rain here in the northeast. Everyone is looking fantastic--especially all those little ones. Nora Anonymous said: I have been absolutely beyond thrilled following your blog these past few days!! I'm SO pumped to see all the wonderful things your family is experiencing!! I have only one comment to make though, it made me kind of sad to see the

Nancy said: OMG!!! What an awesome wish from sweet, sweet Abby. And so glad you can grant it to her.

Elaine said: Once again and as always,, Great Pics of the vacation to Disney. I'm jealous of the fun you all are having. Can't wait to hear the exciting news about the new adoption.

Tee said: What wonderful news! I'm sure Abby and all of her brothers and sisters are excited! Looking forward to hearing the rest of the story.

Angie said: Yay!!!! So happy to hear about a new baby coming to the family! Great pics of an awesome day, too! Please be in prayer for Stellan as he is not doing well at all!

libby @ ninesandquines said: congratulations!!!!! that is wonderful! a few years ago my husband and i were looking into adoption from guatamala and were SO saddened to hear of the circumstances there that shut down foreign adoptions....when i was looking at the pictures of the guat-tots, i thought the same thing and then saw your comment....

James 1:27 Family said: YAHOOO! Hooray for a growing Riggs Family! We are leaving in a couple weeks to meet a baby girl in Uganda. We might be bringing home babies at the same time.

Adoption rocks!

enjoy the rest of your time and congrats again on the process of the newest family member!!!!!

Anonymous said: I have been following your blog for quite some time and hesitated to send a message this time because since I am not a blogger it will come up "Anonymous"! So glad that Abby is feeling better and got her "Wish" down in Disney World" but especially since she is getting her wish for a new brother or sister!! Our daughter/son-in-law just announced they are starting on their second foreign adoption. We are over the moon happy! I guess you know how to keep us coming back for more info by dangling us off the cliff with more news about the adoption!!! So happy for all of you and especially the little one who will be joining your family! In Christian Love, Grandma to 4 (soon to be 5) The Gobble's (Lanetta) said: incrediable, awesome... wonderful!!!

Made me CRY!!! so thrilled!!! :) Anonymous said: I'm going to take a guess... You guys are PREGNANT!!!!

Amy said: Sure...it's just like you to leave us hanging!!!! Just wanted to tell you that we had so much fun meeting you and your family!!! Sorry we didn't get to catch up with you again last night, but we had a blast and hope you did, too! Keep in touch!!!

We are facebook friends, you know!!! Amy Moleski (wife to the stud Joe and mom to 3 awesome kids...Benjamin, Hannah and Tessie Bug)

Love and Blessings! Amy whenpigsfly said: Oh your photos are so wonderful!!

How super to have that Guat -Tot reunion...we call ours the "Asian Persuasion" and they too are a blast. I KNEW that adoption announcement was coming, coz Michelle told me, but didn't know when to expect it.

A baby could not be much more blessed than to be Abby's baby brother or sister, for sure!

That said, your lst paragraph was cruel...I say laughingingly.

NEED MORE INFORMATION!!!!!

And we are prayingthat the rest of your week is as amamzing as it cna possibly be!

Heather said: Brent- I really hate the suspense that you leave. I guess that is a good way to get up to keep reading.

First thing, Abby's drunkeness pirate is pretty funny and sad at the same time. It is funny for what it is and made me laugh out loud but sad that she is in the hospital on morphine and THAT made my eyes well up with tears.

Secondly, the Guat-Tots are so sweet and have the prettiest complexions ever. Miss Sami is so BEAUTIFUL. I love her braids.

Lastly-I am so excited that you are able to grant Abby's real true wish. That is awesome news and I am happy for your whole family.

10/28/2009 5:50:00 PM

Day 12 - A Night of Disney Fun From Brent Day Twelve... wow, the time has gone by so fast. These pictures are from our nighttime fun at Disney doing "Mickey's Not So Scary Halloween". I'm not a big Halloween fan at all, but we had an absolute blast with the kids.

We met up with some friends, Shawn and Candy, Amy, Katie and her husband and some visitors from Guatemala. We watched parades, fireworks, rode the rides, and took a lot of pictures with characters.

Poor Jagger Jett... doesn't realized he'll get kicked to the curb for the next cute boy that comes along.

It was our last visit to Disney for this dream-come-true trip so we stayed until they threatened to call the police and have us hauled off. These are all night time pics, that is why they all appear kind of dark.

We will do the "last day" post tomorrow, and tell you about the other exciting news concerning Abby's Ultimate "Make A Wish" Wish for us to adopt a baby brother or sister.

Cany, Michelle and Amy... we had such a great time with the other families.

Kya Blu and Sami too...

Abby had the time of her life last night.

She was bouncing around grinning all night long.

All these characters passed right by us. They had a big parade and many of the Disney personalities came right up to our kids and interacted with them.

I have no clue which character this is, but Landis loved him.

Abby and SpideyLandis were captivated by the parade.

Some dancing dead folks had the kids trying to figure out what the deal was.

A pirate captain eyeballs the kids.... arrrgggghhhh!!!!

The Bears dancing and singing....

The Lion King hyenas were dancing by...

This was hilarious (for the adults)... she came right up to the kids and just STARED at them for about 30 seconds without moving. The kids fidgeted, looked at us, and really thought they were in for big trouble. I hated to have such a big laugh at their expense but the kids were as nervous as Thanksgiving turkeys.

We had fun at a Dance Party with Daisy Duck.

Dad does a Conga line with SpideyLandis and Abby.

No telling what SpideyLandis is cooking up...

Abby looked so pretty tonight, having so much fun.

Giving the thumbs up for the 99.9% humidity.

Even though it was cool, everyone was sweating.

Sami inside Minnies Kitchen.

The babies get a squeeze from Pooh.

The kids look inside to see what Minnie has cooking.

Candy and the kids look in Minnie's frig...

Cinderella? I can't keep track of them all.

Nope, I think this one is Cinderella.

Tinkerbell? Did I get this one right? Our kids with the Murnan kids, Kya and Jagger.

Abby hugs a fairy princess...

SpideyLandis has got that look again...

We rode this kid coaster five or six times at the end of the night. Don't be fooled... it was a real rollercoaster. The kids were thrilled.

Abby just hugged anyone and everyone.

Abby and Sami at the end of the ride turn around for a photo.

Sami wanted to drive the race cars all week...

Mom and Abby followed close behind in their race car.

Sami, SpideyLandis and Abby waving goodbye to Disney World as we were leaving for the last time (this time!).

Comments

The photos say a thousand words!!!!!

BobbieBailey said: I feel like I'm old friends with you guys through this Make A Wish journey! (What fun!)

Hugs and blessings - Jill

Weren't you suppose to reveal the other part of the adoption story on this day?

Hannah said: I've LOVED all your pics. I grew up on Merritt Island, where the Kennedy Space Center is, so I've loved seeing all the beautiful Florida pics.

You have us sitting at the edge of our seats, Brent! Is that your intention? Hummmm.... :)

Oh, and the mystery character is one of the tweedles (dee or dum).

You mentioned that Abby was hugging anybody and everybody.

She has totally won my heart, and I would welcome a hug from Abby! :)

I am so excited that Abby is having such a joyful time. Can't wait to hear more about the big wish. :) Blessings!

Abby I am sending you a "Bobbie Hug," just for YOU! (Did you get it?) :) Until tomorrow then. Whatever you do, Brent, don't stop writing now!

Bobbie

Hannah Jess and Krissy said: It is so wonderful to see her looking so healthy! Praise God she got to enjoy her trip. She is so beautiful, and it warms my heart to see her happy smiles.

Via said: It's Tweedledee! Or...Tweedledum. One or the other :)

kay fredricks said: As always loved all the pictures of the kids having fun! I can guarantee they will be talking about this trip for months and months to come!

Are These Kids All Yours? said: I want to hear more about her other "make a wish" :) Looks like you have had such a Blessed time! Yeah & Praise God!!!!!

Now have a safe trip home!

Anonymous said: Pictures are worth a thousand words--the children look so happy--you...look a little hot : ) What great memories you have made!

Nora Holly said: Tweedle Dee or Dum from Alice in Wonderland.

What a blessed trip! Can't wait to hear about bald baby brother...to come!! :) Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Another awesome adventure!

Glad you are having such a great time!

Angela said: I love to see all the pictures of beautiful Abby looking so healthy.

Oh and the first "Cinderella" is Aurora, otherwise known as Sleeping Beauty. :-)

10/29/2009 2:43:00 AM

Day 13 - Abby's Fantabulous Florida Vacation Last Full Day From Brent Day Thirteen... our last full day. Hard to believe the trip is almost over. When we first got here it seemed like two weeks was such a long time. It just blew past us in a blur.

So Michelle reaches over and scratches him and he clarified "No Mom... the other side". Michelle obliged the opposite cheek and Landis proclaimed with a very satisfied look, "ahhh... thanks Mom. That was great." Yep, he's only three. Keeps us laughing all the time when he's not getting into trouble.

We got home from dinner about 10:30pm then sat around and talked until about 1am. It's 3:45am now but like usual, my internal clock woke me up and here I am writing. I'll definitely go back to bed for a little bit when I'm done with this post.

Darron and Tracy have been MORE than wonderful to us. We have been friends with them for over 20 years. When they found out our Make A Wish Trip was going to be to Disney, they immediately bought airline tickets for us to double our one week trip. They picked us up from the airport and provided us with a car all week long. We stayed at their home on the water enjoying their pool and dock. They fed us, took care of us and planned their whole week We finally got moving around 3pm and still had a great day at Cocoa around what we wanted to do. Darron paid for he and I to play two Beach Pier. The kids LOVE, and I mean LOVE, the beach. Some new rounds of golf. blog friends, Amy, Isaac, and their son came out to visit with us.

They live in the area. We had a wonderful time talking with them We returned the favor by burning up the engine in his Jeep (not on about blogging, adoption and living in Florida. They spent the last purpose, we had no way of knowing), and when we had to rent a car couple of hours with us and we enjoyed every minute of our time for a couple of days, they "went behind our backs" and paid for it. with them.

Then to REALLY show our appreciation, we melted several crayons in their clothes dryer (not on purpose either but we should have When it got dark we packed up and left our final family activity and known about that one!) and broke not one but TWO family heirloom went to dinner with Darron and Tracy. It was sad to know it was our coffee cups (just kidding, not heirlooms but we joked they were). last "event" for the trip. On the way Landis provided the Instead of kicking us out, they took us to dinner! What a deal! entertainment. He announced very innocently, "Momma my butt itches".

Note: I realize we just killed the possibility of ever getting invited to Yesterday we had a "beach day" planned which got a late start because we were so tired. I am still really really sore from over doing it playing tennis and I fell asleep around lunch time without realizing it. Michelle just let me sleep even though she was wanting to get to the beach.

anyone's house again.

All in all, they went far beyond just inviting us to stay an extra week.

The whole "2nd half" of our Make A Wish vacation was made possible by them, and we could not be more thankful. We hardly deserve such an incredible blessing. We are trying our best not to burn down or break anything today before we leave.

We would love it if you would help us say "thank you" to them on our behalf. Would you shoot them an email or e-card and say "thank you for making Abby's Make A Wish trip DOUBLE the dream come true for the Riggs family"? It would be a lot of fun to see them get dozens of thank you notes from you, on our behalf. Their email address is: darrontracyking@bellsouth.net

Darron and I were out driving and had a great view of this Ares rocket launch from Cape Canaveral. I worked 29 launches on the Space Shuttle program. This launch was not nearly as dramatic as a shuttle but ANY rocket launch is really cool especially if you've never seen one.

Well folks, with a bit of sadness, here are pics from our last full day.

We'll do a final day post late tonight or tomorrow, then I'll do one last WRAP UP post with a bunch of pictures and memories from trip.

Oh, and later today I will let you know about that exciting news concerning Abby's Ultimate "Make a Wish" Wish for a baby brother (or sister). She talks about a brother mostly, but will take either!

Day Thirteen Pics

I called Maria and the kids and told them about the launch. They stepped outside Darron's house and got this picture of the Ares rocket going up.

The girls finally get to the beach and dig in.

The left over trail from the launch.

Abby takes her sand work very seriously.

Sami loves the water. She had a great time.

SpideyLandis in his spidey swim suit.

Mom and the kids on a beautiful day.

We set up right next to the Cocoa Beach pier.

Sadly, we could have written the names of many, many children in the sand. Here are a couple of them.... this is for Will.

And this one for Anika.

This was our second beach day and the babies were much braver in the waves.

Landis wasn't scared ENOUGH of the tides and just went straight in (with Dad close behind).

First thing this morning, big sister teaches little sister the finer art of posing.

The babies run from another "monster" wave...

So much fun!

We turned around to see Landis just staring at us. Kayden was digging and accidentally flipped a shovel full of sand all over Landis. Landis just had this stare like "um... is this supposed to work this way?"

Abby and Landis play with Kayden, the son of our friends that came to visit us on the beach.

Landis was shivering as the sun went down.

Getting dark, getting ready to call it quits.

Comments 4 Little Men and Girly Twins said: you have such a beautiful family! and Abby's hair is so adorable! love it! britt Pattie said: We had an amazing time with you all on the beach.

We do hope to get up that way for more fellowship with your family.

Kayden has asked all day if he can play with Abby and LanIS :o) Hugs to all jag said: Oh, it just looks splendid! The pic of Landis with the sand all over him was beyond cute! You have a beautiful family!

Kimmie said: So glad you've had such a nice time. Hope you all feel refreshed and blessed.

Thanks for sharing your blessing with us...your family is beautiful. The pictures are outstanding btw.

Kimmie mama to 7 one homemade and 6 adopted Nancy said: You have certainly made memories to last a lifetime.

Abby looks so healthy and happy. Loved the pix.

Anonymous said: Wonderful to see a family who knows how to enjoy God's gift of life to the fullest!

Isaac, Kayden and Patty... they read our blog and came to see us at the beach.

We really enjoyed meeting them and hope to see them again next time we visit.

Good friends beget good friends. Darron and Tracy have proven to be the best of friends. Thank you Darron and Tracy for lavishing such love and generousity to some really great & deserving folks! The Lord is well pleased! auntrene said: HOw Wonderful that Abby's Make a Wish was something for the entire family. So glad you were able to go and enjoy your family and your friends.. What a blessing!!!

Enjoy!

10/31/2009 3:36:00 AM

Last Day - Abby's Dreamsical Magitastic Funderlicious Trip Comes to a Close From Brent The last day of Abby's dream-come-true trip finally arrived. It seemed like two weeks passed in a few seconds.

the airports surrounded by tired and disgruntled travelers, all of whom had seen their day stretched into the black hole of flight delays. It would be 1am that night before we would walk through our front door.

That evening, we finally boarded the plane in Orlando only to find, joy of joys, we had been packed into the first row of the bulkhead... you know, those tiny little 16" wide seats where the arm rests are otherwise known as "hip vices" which do not raise up, move or give way AT ALL.

Let's do a math story problem together: If Johnny gets on the airplane after eating ice cream every day for two weeks, and finds A lot of future Make A Wish families read our blog and we need to that his seat is only 16" inches wide, what percentage of butt cheek be VERY clear that our Make A Wish trip was only the first 7 days. should Johnny expect to permanently disfigure? What is the total For liability reasons, Make A Wish can not and WILL NOT extend the dollar amount Johnny will spend on Ibuprofen divided by the trip. We extended our trip on our own at our own expense (or more number of passenger snickers? What geometric shape will Johnny's accurately, at Darron and Tracy's expense who graciously made it all butt be formed in to during the three hour flight? Finally, how many possible). The Oklahoma chapter of Make A Wish provided only the pounds per square inch will the Jaws of Life have to be set at in first 7 days only of our trip. order to dislodge Johnny from the seat upon arrival?

Okay, the business is out of the way, back to the fun stuff. On the final day we got up and decided to go to the beach one last time.

We had great fun there and hustled back to Darron and Tracy's to begin our travel day from the pits of Hades.

And you thought math was not useful subject....

My dreams of sitting next to Abby or Landis, thereby gaining another half a seat width for my ample sized nether region was dashed. Now I would endure 2.5 hours of torture as my pelvic joints were Evidently, back in our beloved Tornado Alley, storms were pounding dislocated upon take off. Oh well, that's what I get for giving into Texas and Oklahoma. We were flying American Airlines which goes that woman's enticing temptation of nightly ice cream (that woman? to the Dallas hub. We beat it back from the beach in plenty of time, Sorry, the dreadful memory of it all makes me say things that will packed up early and got ready to go only to be notified of the first of result in even more punishment). I think I gained about 125 lbs in many delays. Over the course of the day we would sit and wait in two weeks which will now take me 10.8 dog years to work off.

Paw Paw's Birthday We arrived in Dallas thinking we had 10 minutes to make our next flight but God was merciful and it was delayed an hour too. This was a good thing since, as you know, our connection was on the total opposite end of the airport. I've never figured out the physics behind this phenomenon. No matter what gate you come in to, somehow it's always the FARTHEST possible distance from the next gate you need to be at.

Eventually we boarded and wouldn't you know where are seats were... the bulkhead row. Only three though, so I graciously gave up those seats to Maria, Abby and Sami. SpideyLandis and I headed back to seats 17D and E. Once a beautiful college girl bound for Oklahoma University sat down next to Landis, I was free to do whatever I wanted. How quickly he forgot the memories of Jasmine's love.

SpideyLandis immediately befriended her and to the young lady's credit, she sat and talked with him the entire flight apparently enjoying his tales of Spiderman, pirates and roller coasters. Her parents and sister were in the row behind us and soon SpideyLandis had them all roped into his little world of adventure. Landis was captivated by the attention so the short flight was all fun for him.

Paw Paw's (my dad) birthday came during our trip so the kids wanted to call him and sing happy birthday. When I asked them what we should get him as a gift, without hesitation, Landis confidently declared "a Transformers costume!".

If we could find one his size, that's exactly what he would be getting!

White Girl Landis again, and don't ask where he got this one because we have NO IDEA. We were sitting at a restaurant eating dinner at the Cocoa Beach Pier. Landis was getting a little distracted, goofing off and not eating his meal.

Maria gives him a snap of her fingers and says "Landis, eat your dinner!"

To which Landis, three years old, replies, "say what, white girl?"

After we picked up our jaws, we had a good laugh over it. Of course, kids being kids, he tried the same response again a few minutes later and was met with a threat instead of a laugh. It's a tough lesson to As for me, I was so tired and uncomfortable that nothing mattered. I learn for a 3 year old: certain things get a laugh the first time, and just wanted to get home. I so completely over did it with the tennis, trouble the second. golf and theme parks, that even now I'm still in a stupid amount of aches and pain. But it was worth it.

I remember one time when Christian was little. He did something he knew was wrong, so he walked into the room spanking himself. We Here's a few more little tidbits, then some pics from the last day... got a big laugh out of that and he escaped the real deal. Of course, it wasn't long before he tried it again and much to his confused

dismay, he just ended up getting two spankings: one from him, one from me.

Ice Cream Sicko In Orlando while waiting at the airport, Maria decided that we had to have one last ice cream. It was of course the perfect symbolic ending to a trip that was built around the consumption of ice cream (a choice that would result in my soon to be dislocated hips on the airplane).

We all get a cone or cup and sit down at the table. Sami and I are sitting one side of the table together and after a few minutes I feel this tap on my arm. I look look over at a wide-eyed, slack-jawed Sami who is pointing at Mom. I turn to see Maria pouring her coffee into her ice cream cone. Now, I was already well aware of the fact that she has a serious case of F.D.D (Frozen Dairy Disorder) but this was bizarre even by her ice cream standards.

"What in the world are you doing?" I asked.

"Coffee flavored ice cream" she explained as if pouring coffee into an ice cream was perfectly normal. I guess in her little ice cream Bizzaro universe it is.

"What a nut job," I thought to myself as I went back to eating my chocolate ice cream with chocolate chunks covered with chocolate syrup in a chocolate cone washed down with some rich chocolate milk finished up with some chocolate dinner mints (just kidding...

what? do you think I have F.D.D. too? I was eating peanut-butter-fudge-nutsReese's-everything-but-the-kitchensink-waffle-cone-ice cream - NO COFFEE TOPPING. That's perfectly normal ice cream behavior).

Hot Stuff We are sitting at dinner at a Mexican restaurant. Sami is eating HOT salsa like it's ice cream with coffee poured on it (a family illness, I know...). Just looking at it is making me want a drink of water.

Being the sissy I am about hot food, I'm sort of wetting the tip of my tortilla chip with salsa while Sami is scooping it up by the spoonful.

I find this big old chunk of Jalepeno in my salsa, a piece so big it was obviously missed in the dicing process. It's about the size of a quarter. I thought, "I'll teach Sami a lesson since she's so proud of herself, bragging about the hot sauce not bothering her".

She pops it in her mouth, chews it, chews it, and chews it some more. I'm looking for tears. I'm looking for sweat. I'm waiting for her to grab the water. I'm anticipating her getting mad at me for tricking her.

I would be disappointed.

She chews it up, swallows it down, reaches for another chip, loads it "Hey Sami, want this 'big piece of salsa'?" I asked. Okay, it's a little evil not telling her it's a pepper but hey, I'm not the one showing off. up with more salsa, looks over at me, and coolly proclaims, "now that's what I'm talking about..."

"Ooooo, yummy" she declared seeking our admiration at her complete fearlessness of the hot commodity. I handed over the Jalapeno preparing for the satisfaction of my inevitable revenge.

Yep, she's only known English for one year. She's learned all the really important phrases.

Last Day Pics Sunrise on our final day. I love the early morning.

This is the view from Darron and Tracy's back yard.

Tough life, I know.

The kids enjoyed one last romp at the beach.

Even with all the "bigness" of Disney the kids had just as much fun in the simple sand.

Tracy and Darron say goodbye to the little ones.

Abby gets her face painted.

Once we home, did we rest? Did we stay home? Of course not.

Princess Abby.

Baby Halina (Lentz). She came home from Ethopia a few months ago. We are so excited to be adopting again. Seeing Halina just makes us wish it was tomorrow.

Sami with a butterfly face painting.

SpideyLandis gets a Spidey Mohawk.

Abby petting the kitty. They were giving this cat away... not to us though. I can guarantee you that.

Abby and Taylor get ready to slide down this huge slide.

What you don't see is the next photo that my wife would kill me for putting up. Abby is half way down the slide, her Princess dress hiked up to her ears, with her little brown Guatemalan legs straight up in the air... hot pink Dora undies on full display.

SpideyLandis jumps from a skyscraper....

Comments

Are These Kids All Yours? said: YEAH!!! So much fun....and I am with you on the ice cream disease- I suffer severely from that same thing. Problem is- I don't want a cure :) I am soooooo HAPPY for you all to be adopting again too!!!!!!!!!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another orphan- has a family- an incredible family!!!

such a long year of heartache! Best of prayers for your next adoption :-)

sarah bess said: Wow, Brent, you are on a roll with the hilarity today!! The Jaws of Life had me rolling. Then each of the stories that followed it cracked me up just as much! That vacation must have been just wonderful for you--you sound so joyful. What a blessing!!! Praise God!

Anonymous said: I have so enjoyed your trip to Disney. I could not wait each day to see what was happening each day. You are an awesome family and now; you get some rest, Dad. My name is Kathy Clements from Newbern, Tn. but I will sign as anon. because I don't have an account. God Bless your family and you new arrival.

Anonymous said: Okay, Brent, I would pay good money to see you doing your thing as a stand up comedian! You get sillier, and funnier with each passing day!

(You and your family!)

I'm surprised you couldn't hear me laughing all the way from Southern California when you told about Landis saying to Michelle, "Say what? White woman!" You are definitely rubbing off on your kids!

Blessings to ALL of You :-) With Love thru Jesus, ~Joni Lee

Anonymous said: Still more fun at home...it's always good to have something exciting to do once home after a whirlwind vacation. I bet that 2nd slide picture is priceless!

Keep the Advil going for the 16" seat pain. You should feel better in about...2 weeks??? : ) Nora

And, your son spanking himself! Too funny!!!

Mom to 9 Blessings! said: Brent, that does NOT sound like a fun way to end your amazing vacation!

I think I figured out why I haven't been able to stop reading your blog. I could use a laugh these days! Thanks Brent for putting a smile on my face!

I'm so excited about your newest adoption! Awesome photos and glad to see Abby smiling at the fallfest!

Glad you're all home happy and safe! Bobbie

Love and blessings to you all!

Jill

Courtney Kay said: what a happy last day!

Carrie said: Your family is beautiful- I'm so glad I found your blog.

Glad you had a good trip! I'll be praying for you guys.

Sweet Joni said: WOW! Absolutely amazing FUN & JOY coming from ALL the photos & blogging you've done thru out your "Make A Wish trip" & the week following with true friends/hosts then coming home to the church festivities!!! (Ok, the plane ride in bulkhead wouldn't be fun; but luckly it wasn't the whole way!) ;-) Thank You so very much for sharing your trip with blogland followers that may not come close to a trip like this!!! God IS Great! I'm tickled pink & so Thankful you all got to ENJOY after

Shelley said: Awesome sunset picture!

Alleen said: This entire post had me cracking up, all the way to the hot pink Dora undies on display!

So glad you are home safe and sound. Sounds like an ice cream intervention might be in order.

10/31/2009 6:51:00 AM

Final Wrap for Abby's Wish Trip From Brent

The bad part about doing "thank you's" is knowing you are going to miss someone. So I'll just extend that apology now.

Thank first of course to Make A Wish, the Oklahoma chapter for making it all possible. Thank you to Tracy Culwell for taking the time to make sure we did everything we needed with Make A Wish.

Thank you to Betty Kay and all the wonderful folks at Make Wish.

Thank you to the Bauman's for their unending love and encourging us to apply to Make A Wish. Thank you to Darron and Tracy for generously extending our Florida vacation at their expense. Thank you to MeeMaw and PawPaw for all you do and the souvenir money for the kids. Thank you to Grandmother and Aunt Missy for taking care of things back home. Thank you to Dodo and Mr. Johnny for loving the kids and watching our house while we were gone.

Wow... this is the last post about Abby's Make A Wish & Florida Vacation trip. We waited for a year with great anticipation, and it seemed like it was over in just a few moments.

Abby's Ultimate Wish to beat cancer and have us adopt a new baby brother or sister will help us to continue to live her WISH for a while longer. I've created an "Abby's Wish" badge. You can get the code over there in the right column, at the top. We would be incredibly grateful if you would add it to your blog and pass it on to everyone you know. Here is Abby's Wish page...

Thank You's

Thank you to Give Kids the World Village for an incredible week. All the volunteers were loving, kind and obviously passionate about ministering to hurting families.

Thank you to Jasmine and all the Disney characters who seemed to have an extra hug for the Make A Wish Kids. Thank you to the Disney and theme park staffs who graciously allow the Make A Wish Kids to go the front of every line without question or hesitation.

Thank you to Southwest Airlines and American Airlines whose staff and attendants gave Abby special attention and preferential treatment.

A Few More Photos

Thank you most of all to God Our Heavenly Father who not only numbers the individual hairs on our head, but saw each one fall out Abby was basically quarantined for a couple of weeks before leaving on the trip. David Corbly came over to do Abby's Awana lessons with of Abby's beautiful brown skin. After God held Abby safe from her so that she could still participate. death's sting four times last year, He then re-numbered each and every strand that grew back on her head, eyebrows and lashes announcing to all that cancer is not yet the final chapter of her story.

God and God alone determines our days and it was His providential care and irrevocable Will established in eternity past that brought Abby into our home and loving arms. It was God's plan that Abby survive to be blessed with this Make A Wish Trip. Everyone else involved, including Michelle and I, are just instruments of God's providence and the fulfillment of His design for the life of a four year old orphan girl from Guatemala.

Miss that, and you miss the whole point of Abby's struggle to live.

From the first moment, Abby had the time of her life.

Abby got hugs from her favorite characters every day.

Spiderman is about to meet SpideyLandis. That is NOT a statue looking down on the babies. This Spiderman must have been an acrobat or something because he ran around jumping up on things like this kiosk. It was pretty amazing to watch.

Another big hug.

As nighttime fell each day, the kids were tired but never willing to give up.

Michelle met up with another blog family who had two sets of twins.

The beach was a huge hit. The kids had the best, best, best time there.

Landis loved the water and the waves.

The view from our cottage at Give Kids the World.

Our street and the playground.

You can see the wonderful van they provided us over on the right.

The kids got to ride the carousel every day after breakfast.

SpideyLandis honing his skills.

Abby's wish to meet Jasmine was very special.

Roller coasters...

...and more roller coasters.

Abby was captivated by the whales at Sea World.

Abby the Brave. The audience actually applauded her for getting on this live alligator.

Sami is the very best big sister.

Joy was the definition of every single day.

Photo Album

We loved meeting all the Guat-Tots and their families.

Darron and Tracy doubled our dream vacation by extending it another week at their expense. It' such a blessing to have such kind and wonderful friends.

~ THE END ~