Wed Magazine Devon Issue 46

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brighter horizons Get celebration-ready with the dreamiest dresses, styling ideas and party spots in Devon

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dreamy days ahead Our cover image sees a boho-beautiful bride lazing on the warm, sun-kissed rocks of Mortehoe Point in north Devon. All tumbling beachy waves, bronzed skin and whimsical lace skirts, the evening sun shimmers dreamily on the calm Atlantic behind her. It’s easy to get lost in that image of golden light, which seems so distant as I sit to pen my editor’s letter on another grey day in lockdown. But, while the storm of Covid-19 still rages on, we’re keeping our eyes fixed firmly on the horizon here at Wed. Buoyed by the number of magazine orders, subscribers and newly engaged couples getting in touch over these past weeks – it’s been so wonderful to hear all your joy-filled stories amidst such bleak times – we’re looking forward to a future filled with the sweetest celebrations of love. And we’ve poured our hearts and souls into filling these pages with as much happiness, beauty and love as possible.

Beyond the north coast dreaminess of our cover shoot, ‘Golden Hour’, you’ll find a glorious celebration of autumn in ‘Apple of my Eye’. Captured in the idyllic rural climes of Harefield Barn, showstopping Devon-crafted gowns and jewels meet flowers and styling abundant with colour and natural beauty. New intimate wedding venue Rock Farm makes an enchanting canvas for sprawling florals, dreamy dresses and reclaimed details in ‘The Lost Garden’, while ‘Wild at Heart’ captivates with its ethereal, free-spirited vibes together with fresh-from-the-moorland finds at new Dartmoor venue, Badgers Holt. Then it’s over on the sea tractor to Burgh Island Hotel in ‘On Burgh Island’, where art deco wedding styling receives a fresh and stylish update for modern couples.

It’s such a privilege to be the editor of Wed and one of my favourite parts is undoubtedly getting to feast my eyes on your beautiful wedding photos for our ‘Got Wed’ section – and this issue’s weddings positively blew me away.

From Adam and Darius’ tiny winter wedding at Hotel Endsleigh in the west of Devon to Shanice and Stephen’s elegant celebration at Deer Park Country House in the east, the love and joy is palpable in each image – and really lifted my spirits as the challenges of the winter lockdown started to bite. They also lifted my gaze firmly back to those bright horizons and days ahead filled with wonderful weddings, love and togetherness.

Here’s to the future!

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love in the time of Covid-19 While we continue to live amidst the uncertainty of Covid-19, two couples share the stories of their scaled-down but stunning weddings in Devon

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“We brought our wedding forward to avoid lockdown!”

“Charles and I have been together for five years, and engaged since August 2017,” says Alicia. “We knew we would get married in 2020, but little did we know how things would turn out!

When the pandemic hit in March, we were still eight months away from our original date. To begin with, we were sure things would be over and done with by that point, and we would have the wedding we dreamed of. As it came closer and the situation only seemed to be getting worse, we had conversations of postponing and we pencilled in a back-up date in February with our venue, Upton Barn & Walled Garden.

But we knew we had waited so long for this and the most important thing was to become husband and wife. We were planning to go ahead with our original November date, but ended up having to bring our day forward in 48 hours to beat the national lockdown. We couldn’t have done it without the support of our incredible suppliers, and my mum was a godsend, helping me rearrange and pick up last-minute bits.

Our original plans for our wedding day were very similar to what actually happened in the end. This was one of the best things about our day – we didn’t feel we compromised on anything, except of course many of our guests being unable to attend due to the restrictions.

Despite everything, we had the most amazing day with our closest family and friends, and we will definitely have the big party at some point in the next couple of years, to celebrate with everyone, and I get to wear my dress again! How many brides can say that?!

Our wedding day really was the best day of our lives. It was so special, happy and everything we had imagined. We didn’t compromise on anything – our venue, all of the décor, my dress, Charles’ suit, our photographer, even our cake that was made to feed 100 people – we had it all! Our cake maker really pulled it off in such a short space of time… and yes, we now have a freezer full of cake! One thing we notice about our wedding photos is that we have huge goofy smiles on our faces in nearly all of the pictures; I think it perfectly reflects just how happy and beautiful our day was.

Now that we are finally married, a huge weight has been lifted and we are eager and excited for future plans, especially being able to rearrange our honeymoon to New Zealand hopefully within the next couple of years.

We are so glad we decided to go ahead with our wedding.

I would encourage anyone to embrace the ‘micro wedding’ and just do it. It’s so important to remember the reason for getting married in the first place, and it feels amazing to finally be Mr and Mrs Mason.”

Photography Catherine Spiller Photography catherinespiller.co.uk Venue Upton Barn & Walled Garden uptonbarn.com Flowers Weddings at Poppys weddingsatpoppys.co.uk Catering Mulberry Catering Co mulberrycatering.co.uk Decor & hire Keeping It Vintage keepingitvintage.co.uk Glas Events glascollection.com Cake Claire Makes Cakes clairemakescakes.co.uk Hair EV Hair evhair.co.uk

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“We changed wedding venue and date three times!”

“We met in 2011 in a local nightclub, and started a relationship in 2012,” explains Lauren, revealing that Sam then proposed in 2017 in the Maldives. “We had our little boy in 2018 and we just love being a family. Our wedding was originally planned for 2nd May 2020.

However, due to the national lockdown, none of that could go ahead.

We found a different venue and booked for 2nd April 2021 – we were super excited and started to get things organised. Then came the announcement that weddings would only be allowed 15 guests.

We spoke to the venue and they agreed that we didn’t foresee the numbers being increased to the guest list of 120 we’d planned. We explored the option of bringing the wedding forward to December and having just 15 guests; however, we wouldn’t be using the venue to its full potential, as it was very much an outdoor venue.

Covid-19 had made me rethink the guest list, so we agreed on a more intimate day, and came to the decision that it’s about our love for one another. So Larkbeare House registry office seemed right, followed by an afternoon tea reception at Lympstone Manor. I fell in love with Bianca Jagger’s bridal outfit and found my dream suit from Reiss. A local hat designer created my floppy fedora hat in ivory with a ribbon band – it was all perfect.

On the day, my brother Matt and his girlfriend Georgie were our witnesses at the ceremony. It was so special – the tying of the knot itself and Sam clenching my hand will stay with me forever. I put together a letter for Sam, which I gave him following the wedding, then we went to Lympstone Manor, where we met the photographer and our two-year-old son Freddie who joined us for photographs.

It was so emotional seeing my little man – he had no idea what was going on but in his tweed suit and leather brogues he looked just like his daddy! Luck was on our side and the bad weather held off on our special day meaning most photos were in the grounds just as we wanted. My bouquet was absolutely gorgeous. The florist, Holly, asked if she could create something for me as a surprise and it was amazing – ivory and greens with a few bunny tails. Utterly gorgeous.

We had the reception with just the four of us in line with government guidelines: a lovely champagne afternoon tea. The venue really looked after us, and it was everything we could have wanted and more.

At times it felt like it was never going to happen, but it had (very differently to planned!), and it was the magical ending we needed and deserved. The next day we flew to the Seychelles; it was just perfect, we had a villa on the beach with our own pool so spent most our time listening to music, reflecting and making memories with our gorgeous little boy. We’ve decided in the future we will have the day we’d originally planned, with a blessing ceremony, and we didn’t wear our planned wedding outfits so we still have them saved.

My advice would be do not think of anyone else; it’s hard but it is true, this is about you two and a celebration of your love. It was not how we planned it to be, but I wouldn’t change it now, the intimacy was just magical.”

Photography Margo R Photography margorphotography.com Venue Larkbeare House & Lympstone Manor lympstonemanor.co.uk Suits Reiss reiss.com Hair Laura Cutting instagram.com/lauracuttinghairdressing Make-up Alexis Fraser houseofskincare.co.uk Flowers Hollyhocks Florist hollyhocks-shop.co.uk Jewellery Monica Vinader monicavinader.com

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Editor Rebecca Matthews Deputy editor Lucy Higgins Chief features writer Hannah May Contributors Elizabeth Chester, Jennifer Granlund, Rebecca Green, Jessica Kearney Design Matt Sanwell, Design UNLTD designunltd.co.uk Advertising and Management Brendan Sleeman Distribution Jenna Matthews Finance Morwenna Matthews Publisher Wed Magazine 28 Reens Crescent Heamoor Penzance Cornwall TR18 3HW 01736 331456 wed@wedmagazine.co.uk wedmagazine.co.uk Print Deltor Communications Ltd Cover image Photography Grace Elizabeth photographybygrace.co.uk Dress Evolved Bridal evolvedbridal.co.uk Hair & make-up Gemma Campbell gemmacampbellmua.com Jewellery Emma Aitchison emmaaitchison.com Model Han Fisher instagram.com/hancfisher

ROMANCE ON THE RIVER Do you picture getting married in a private, intimate venue in the heart of the glorious mid Devon countryside? Located in a secluded, sheltered spot amongst rolling hills and sprawling valleys, overlooking the scenic River Exe, Pitt Farm positively exudes rural charm – making for a palpably romantic and unforgettable experience. The traditional 18th century farmhouse, cluster of lovingly restored barns and immaculate lawn all boast far-reaching views across the spectacular mid-Devon countryside.

Welcoming small and intimate weddings through to larger celebrations with up to 150 guests, Pitt Farm provides the perfect canvas for an entirely bespoke DIY event; allowing you to design and tailor every element, from the flowers and décor to the catering and entertainment.

Venue hire includes two nights accommodation for up to six guests in two stylish self-contained suites, as well as a large outdoor space to explore at your leisure. You may wish to host an al fresco ceremony on the lawn followed by a drinks reception at the Rustic Outdoor

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Bar and a feast in the Gallery Barn; or you could host a marquee reception on the lawn and serve your wedding feast outdoors.

With festoon lighting, a firepit, hay bale seating, props and lanterns all available, you can create a magical outdoor space and make the most of every inch of the farm and its glorious surroundings. Round off the dreamiest of days with a spot of bell tent glamping or wild camping under the stars, before commencing your first day of married life with breakfast in the courtyard. exevalleyweddings.co.uk

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The flowers you choose for your wedding set the tone for the whole day. Specialising in

20. GOLDEN HOUR Channel boho-chic bridal style for a summer wedding on Devon’s coast

creating beautiful bespoke floral arrangements, Emma Hewlett works with seasonal flowers to perfectly complement your style, whether you’re seeking pared-back or statementmaking. And now the talented florist has launched a dried flower wedding package to add to her stunning offerings.

With dried flowers proving to be a gorgeous trend that isn’t going anywhere, Emma’s dried arrangements will add a stylish touch of boho-luxe to your W-day look; they also come with the added benefit of not wilting and lasting long after the big day is over. Offering a bespoke dried flower package of bouquet and buttonhole, couples can also add extras to their order, including additional buttonholes, bridesmaids’ bouquets or flower crowns. Whether you envision eyepopping brights or muted organic shades, the talented floral designer can also provide dried table flowers for a dreamily beautiful finish to your wedding feast. emmahewlett.co.uk

18. DOWN TO EARTH Warm shades and natural textures bring a modern boho vibe

26. APPLE OF MY EYE A modern autumnal wedding bursting with colour and natural beauty 32. WED’S WISH LIST Dream dresses, head-turning accessories and so-stylish shoes 36. DRESS CODE How to match your bridal wear to your big day plans 44. AND THE BRIDE WORE GREEN Sustainable style inspiration for fashion-forward brides 48. WED’S BOUDOIR Bridal beauty tips and trends 60. WILD AT HEART Free-spirited inspiration for a celebration of love and nature on Dartmoor 66. ECO EDGE Sustainable style solutions for the man of the moment 69. WED’S HIP LIST Fresh, fun and fabulous ways to style your day 70. THE LOST GARDEN Abundant botanical details and deep hues set the scene for a modern rural romance

90. ON BURGH ISLAND Throw a glittering art deco inspired celebration with a fresh and fabulous twist

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6. LOVE IN THE TIME OF COVID-19 Couples share the stories of their small yet so-special weddings 50. AND I’M FEELING GOOD… How to look and feel your most radiant in the run-up to W-day 53. HEAD-TO-TOE GLOW Ideas for packing your plate with beauty-boosting and mindmellowing meals 56. YOURS TRULY Thinking of going bespoke for your rings? Be inspired by these commission stories 76. MOOD FOOD Bring an interactive element to your wedding feast with these immersive ideas 80. THE GREAT WESTCOUNTRY MENU The stories behind three memory-making wedding feasts 86. MORE THAN WORDS How to choose the right words for your wedding readings 97. WED’S VENUES GUIDE The ultimate guide to Devon’s finest wedding venues 112. I’M ENGAGED, NOW WHAT? Kick off the planning process with wedding planner Jenny Wren’s top tips 114. YOUR DAY, YOUR WAY Which ceremony? Here’s a rundown on the various ways to formalise your union

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10. BRIDAL BUZZ What’s new, what’s hot, what’s on 117. GOT WED Newly-weds share a glimpse of their day

WORDS OF LOVE “Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.” Simone Signoret

146. NOTES ON A WEDDING Top tips for your planning pleasure

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MAKE MICRO MAGIC Planning a small wedding? It doesn’t mean you can’t go big on style. Amidst the growing demand for weddings on a micro scale, three of the south-west’s leading industry specialists have joined forces to offer a brilliant new service: Styled Micro Weddings, allowing couples to look forward to a beautiful day without the stress of styling and décor.

Celebrated in the industry for their creativity and professionalism, wedding stylist and stationer Nikki Sherriff from Knots & Kisses; décor, tableware and prop specialists Tracy Kensdale and Stef Churchill-Matthews from Keeping It Vintage; and florist Emma Hewlett of Emma Hewlett Floral Design will effortlessly take care of the styling, flowers and décor, leaving you to bask in the brilliance of their eye-catching designs.

Creating the look of your day couldn’t be easier with their help.

Simply select your colour scheme, backdrop and look (boho, modern rustic, classic or festival), sit back, and allow them to do the rest. Combining a series of elements from tableware to personalised place cards, the team will create a look comprising 15 place settings on two or three tables all styled and set up ready for

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your day, including the most beautiful bouquet and buttonhole. knotsandkisses.co.uk

STICK TO THE SCRIPT The design of your day is what draws everything together, for as they say: it’s all in the details.

The Whole Caboodle covers every aspect of your stationery, from the paper elements like Save the Dates and RSVPs to table numbers, place cards, favours and menus.

Run by self-proclaimed stationery obsessive Lorraine Burt from her studio in the Devon countryside, her exquisite assortment of both printed and handmade styles offers eye-catching items to suit all themes and budgets.

“My true passion is calligraphy and hand engraving (who doesn’t love to see their name beautifully written?), turning wonderful things such as shells and bottles into Lola Rose Photography

delicate place settings and gifts for your guests to enjoy,” she enthuses. “Much of my work is inspired by the Devon coast, making it perfect for a wedding by the sea.”

From swirling calligraphy on mussel shells and handscripted ring dishes to engraved champagne glasses, guest books and deckle-edge vow books to treasure, Lorraine also specialises in utterly beautiful details you may not have considered. She can even help with the proposal by hand-scripting a quote or words of your choice on a little scroll positioned inside the engagement ring and offered in a delicate shell purse – how dreamily romantic is that?

WEDDING SUPERSTITION If a bride cries on her wedding day, it is believed that she won’t have any tears to cry during her marriage.

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LUXURY WEDDI NG AND EVENT CATERING From marquees, tipis and yurts to castles, forts and manor houses, we provide fabulous food and impeccable service to give your special day the wow factor!

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Are you missing going to wedding fairs? The talented team behind Not Your Average Wedding Fair is shaking things up with their first online virtual showcase on Sunday 11th April, bringing you all the suppliers and options of a wedding fair, but from your own home. It’s an amazing platform where you can tour the virtual site, connect with some of the best wedding suppliers in the south-west, view unique content from exhibitors – and you can even watch taster workshops from the Virtual Workshop Tipi!

Hosted at Ashridge Estate, you’ll be able to tour the venue virtually, and ‘visit’ the stands from each of the exhibitors in the Main Barn, Tipis and Food & Music Court, where you can find out more about how they can help with your wedding planning, see photos and videos of their previous work and hear many of them chatting about what they do.

In fact, many of the exhibitors will be available via a live chat facility on the day so you can request to chat to them directly with your enquiry, find out their availability for your wedding day and arrange further phone calls or consultations.

You’ll also be able to watch taster workshops from some of the region’s brilliant wedding suppliers, including watercolours with De Winton Paper Co, flower tutorials with Emma Hewlett Floral Design and calligraphy with Wild Sea Calligraphy. Tickets cost £4.50 and give you online access from 10am until 4pm on 11th April. facebook.com/notyouraveragewedshow

EFFORTLESS ELOPEMENTS Elopements and intimate weddings are on the rise, and many couples choosing to go ahead with their big day on a smaller scale are especially keen to capture those precious moments with authenticity and beauty – not only for themselves, but for any loved ones not present.

Devon photographer Hannah Wilde, whose speciality is poetically capturing the intimate moments no matter what size wedding she attends, has a relaxed, natural and candid approach – and, excitingly, Hannah has just launched a new all-inclusive Dartmoor Elopement Package.

Those couples keen to embrace love and romance on the majestic moors – with no forward planning necessary and an array of top local suppliers – can take advantage of Hannah’s new offering. With a heartfelt nod to keeping things sustainable and economical for the whole weekend, Hannah’s experience and expertise in the wedding industry has pulled together quite the team.

The Dartmoor Elopement Package includes photography, a hand-fasting or legal ceremony, either wild or within the grounds of romantic new venue Badgers Holt (with witnesses if necessary), a welcome basket of local goods, bridal hair and make-up, a small rustic naked wedding cake, a bridal bouquet and buttonhole, personal bar tender, and a tree planting on the grounds of Badgers Holt to commemorate your special day. What’s more, you’ll also have private four-course dining with an incredible chef, either fireside or by the river with champagne, plus accommodation for two nights either in a self-contained apartment overlooking the river or a lotus bell tent with a wood-fired stove and firepit.

Optional extras include everything from a floral wedding arch and videography to a live band, venue hire for more guests and even a helicopter! Every detail will be taken care of to ensure you can elope to a stress-free experience that’s the epitome of the ultimate romantic weekend away, all centred entirely around you saying yes to forever. hannah-wilde.com

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CHEERS TO COOMBE TRENCHARD Beautiful weddings deserve the most beautiful details, and that really should include a beautiful drinks

menu too, to toast that post-ceremony moment of delight, or for a late-night cocktail hour as the sun sets on the day. Sarah Marsh from Coombe Trenchard, an elegant country house estate in west Devon, has

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curated a decadent cocktail menu for weddings at this exclusive venue, featuring a heady fusion of handpicked fruits and botanicals from the wild meadows, orchards and hidden kitchen garden.

An intoxicating mix of English country garden infused cocktails will be served in eclectic antique glassware from the elegant house collection, each stunning glass a riot of colour, texture and scent.

Fine organic spirits found within the newly launched Peacock Bar include nasturtium rum, scented geranium vodka, elderflower liqueur, crab apple gin, lavender limoncello, English rose petal syrup, gorse flower, lemon verbena, seasonal berries and vibrant herbs.

Couples celebrating their wedding at the unique Edwardian estate can expect signature cocktails – including Lavender & Lemon Gin Fizz, Scented Geranium Sour, and Dartmoor Tini among others – plus mocktails, home-grown blooms, vintage treasures, wedding planning excellence and more. Following a year of shaken and stirred plans in the wake of the Covid-19 pandemic, we’ll happily raise a glass to the new cocktail menu at Coombe Trenchard, and all the happy Clare Kinchin

couples who’ll be enjoying it in weddings to come. coombetrenchard.co.uk

FREE AND EASY Looking for wedding photography with natural, creative and emotive keynotes? Laura Farmer of Freeformimages Photography is devoted to creating images that portray the individual essence of you and your day to beautiful effect. “I capture your joyous memories that are full of love, fun and colour for you to treasure for years to come,” she says. “Working in my own contemporary, relaxed style, with a mix of the traditional, I pride my photography service on building a warm and friendly relationship with you, enabling me to capture your day your way.”

Covering the whole of the south-west, Laura will begin by discussing what you’re looking for via phone or video call, and offer a variety of packages and additional extras to ensure her services are tailored to your exact requirements. All packages include two pre-wedding consultations – including a visit to your venue and any desired photo shoot locations – as well as a wet weather plan.

With prices starting from just £450 for an elopement wedding, Laura also provides additional services such as albums, pre-wedding photography and portraiture while offering discounts for mid-week winter weddings. freeformimages.co.uk

THE SWEETEST THING Give your guests something to talk about – as well as mouthfuls of deliciously moreish flavour – with one of Porsham Cakes’ beautiful bakes. Creating lip-smacking and award-winning cakes and brownies from her kitchen in Plymouth, owner Tanya Luke uses the finest ingredients to ensure a top-tasting sweet centrepiece for your wedding.

After an initial consultation and tasting session, each creation is custom-designed, baked and decorated to suit your individual preferences. Whether you envision a smattering of delectable cupcakes, a giant brownie tower or a multiple-tier extravaganza fusing flavours, textures and colours, she’ll lovingly handcraft something bespoke to suit.

“I like to make cakes that are as individual as my clients,” says Tanya. “Each individual leaf, lacework detail or petal is handmade here in my kitchen with a high attention to detail,” she enthuses, adding that she can recreate your Maxi Photography

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favourite cake, design one entirely from scratch, or adjust a previously commissioned creation to complement your colour scheme and theme. porsham.co.uk

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down to earth Warm, earthy tones, natural textures and laidback vibes are the essence of a modern boho wedding compiled by Rebecca Matthews

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1. This silky maxi dress is a super-cool cut for boho babe bridesmaids. freepeople.com

2. A glorious collection of dusky warm earth sapphires are hugged

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3. Polished smoky quartz and gold make for a striking combination in these Clare Kinchin

earrings by Mirri Damer. mirridamer.com

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and 1970s vibes of this stationery and table styling by Knots and Kisses. knotsandkisses.co.uk

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5. Doubling as place names and favours, these feather-filled personalised bottles by The Whole Caboodle are as practical as they are pretty. caboodle.wedding

6. Topped with a mix of dried and silk flowers, this uber-cool fedora

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7. Punchy petals and palm spears, together with pampas grass and macramé, this floral arch sets the scene for a lovingly laidback ceremony. thegoodflorist.co.uk

8. From the embroidered silk chiffon and keyhole back to va-va-voom balloon sleeves, we love everything about this boho-chic number from Rembo Styling’s Earth Hero collection. lovelybridal.co.uk

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The balmy evening light, the shimmering Atlantic Ocean, stepping barefoot onto the sun-warmed rocks and wild flower-speckled grasses of north Devon’s clifftops... Free-spirited brides will love a daydreamy boho gown and locally crafted finishing touches photography & styling Grace Elizabeth

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Photography

Grace Elizabeth

photographybygrace.co.uk Hair & make-up

Gemma Campbell

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Evolved Bridal

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Darling Buds

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Emma Aitchison Jewellery emmaaitchison.com Veil

Rebecca Anne Designs rebeccaannedesigns.co.uk Hand-painted jacket

See It Happy

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Han Fisher

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apple of my eye Harefield Barn makes a captivating canvas for a modern autumnal wedding brimming with colour and natural beauty photography Mimosa Photography styling & coordination Elisabeth Shell Events

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Nestled amidst leafy orchards and rolling farmland, Harefield Barn offers sweeping views across an incredibly picturesque stretch of Devon countryside. Abundant in natural beauty, the venue makes a stirring backdrop for this autumnal styled shoot where a medieval feasting vibe meets a fresh, modern aesthetic.

“Drawing on orchards and harvest time, this autumnal shoot brings together my love of clashing colours and the bountifulness of the countryside,” explains Phoebe Chapman of Elisabeth Shell Events, who coordinated and styled the shoot.

The bounty of nature can be seen throughout, from the apple-laden boughs and dramatic flowers and foliage to the feasting table bursting with colour and the flavours of roast pork and cider-soaked gravy – “the best of the West Country!” says Phoebe. “Reclaimed artisan backdrops and adornments, hand-dyed silk ribbons and handmade ethical jewellery showcase the wealth of cool, conscientious suppliers we have down here in the south-west, set off by the natural décor and textures of the outdoors.”

The stationery, too, carries the harvesttime theme of nature and abundance, the apple leaf illustrations nestling in vibrant textured pockets to add to the feeling of cosy, while the cakes are striking in their simplicity, decorated with seasonal flowers and foraged crab apples.

Couture designer dresses, handcrafted by Sarah Treble in Exeter, are the perfect fit for a shoot typified by lovingly crafted and carefully sourced details. The elegant simplicity and pretty detail of the Daisy dress contrasts with the exquisite lace and striking design of the Adrienne dress. Then there’s the showstopping autumn halo crown, another stunning Devon-made creation, adorned with foraged acorns and wheat sheaves to bring a head-turningly beautiful finish to a striking shoot.

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Concept, styling & coordination

Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Photography

Mimosa Photography mimosaphotography.uk Venue

Harefield Barn harefieldbarn.co.uk Flowers

Amanda Winsor Flower Studio winsorflowerstudio.co.uk Dresses

Sarah Treble

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Bridal Hair by Rosanne bridalhairbyrosanne.co.uk Make-up

Laura Le Page

lauralepagebridalmakeup.com Stationery

Violet Paper Studio violetpaperstudio.com Jewellery

Yumé Jewellery yumejewellery.com Headpieces

The Lucky Sixpence theluckysixpence.co.uk Videography

Capture Weddings captureweddings.co.uk Cake

Bake Shed Devon bakesheddevon.co.uk Groom’s outfit

Zebel Bespoke zebel.co.uk

Glassware, cutlery & chargers

Keeping It Vintage keepingitvintage.co.uk Candelabras & props

Glas Events

glascollection.com Catering

LAP Food & Bars lapfoodandbars.co.uk Suitcases & paper flower

Apple & Bramble Events

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From dreamy dresses to showstopping shoes, here’s our pick of the latest bridal must-haves

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A NEW DAWN An exciting new chapter is dawning at Kate Walker Bridal. Having earned a stellar reputation for her immaculate dresses and excellent service over the past 10 years at her Honiton boutique, talented designer Kate Walker is looking forward to welcoming brides to her stunning new premises, where her brand new Kate Walker Signature Collection will be gracing the rails alongside even more beautiful gowns from new designer Olivia Rose. Bidding farewell to her Honiton boutique, Kate’s new premises, The Bridal Rooms, is just over the border in Somerset’s Ilminster. The characterful Grade II-listed farmhouse provides a private and luxurious setting for brides to embark Perspectives Photography

upon a personal, memorable and inspired dress-buying journey.

Brides will be treated to a plethora of gowns from designer Freda Bennet, renowned for their sophisticated designs, distinctive fabrics and modern glamour, as well as Olivia Rose whose modern confections blend soft, feminine silhouettes and floral detailing. Then there’s the latest Kate Walker Signature Collection, a beautifully crafted collection of classic gowns with a contemporary edge, designed and made

by Kate and her team in Somerset. Think clean lines, luxurious fabrics and exquisite embellishments, which can be adapted entirely to your vision. Kate also offers a fully bespoke design service.

But that’s not all. Along with the new Bridal Rooms, fresh and elegant new branding and swathe of new dresses, this spring sees the launch of the new Kate Walker

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Bespoke Mother of The Bride and Occasion Wear Capsule Collection. From stylish two-pieces to elegant dresses, mums can also look forward to achieving a head-turning W-day look, while enjoying Kate’s bespoke experience in this tranquil and beautiful rural setting. katewalkerbridal.co.uk

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IT’S SHOW TIME! Looking for ‘the one’? Whether you’re newly engaged and poring through these pages for ideas or still searching for your dream dress with no joy, then a much-anticipated series of trunk shows at Lovely in Honiton should provide you with the perfect dose of inspiration.

The Jesus Peiro trunk show kicks off the gorgeousness on 12th and 13th March when the famed Spanish designer’s Amalia collection will be exclusively available. From clean lines with a haute couture edge to ethereal dreaminess and luxurious eco fabrics, Amalia presents everything from striking ballgowns and perfectly tailored silhouettes to flowing whimsical gowns and playful additions.

The hotly anticipated Studio Levana trunk show takes place from 9th-18th April. Celebrated for their built-in corsetry, light-as-air fabrics and tailored elements, Studio Levana’s gowns provide a fabulously flattering fit for curvy brides: picture sexy fishtails that enhance your hourglass, A-lines that accentuate your waist and bust, and sweetheart bodices replete with the wow factor.

Boho-chic brides won’t want to miss the Rembo Styling trunk show on 9th and 10th April. As well as the label’s signature light, flowing dresses, ethereal detailing and fashion-forward embellishments, the new Earth Hero and sustainable Alter Eco collections feature head-to-toe lace, cool cut-outs and recycled chiffon skirts alongside daring skirt splits and seductively scooped open backs.

Lovely’s spring calendar is rounded off in style with the Charlie Brear trunk show on 24th and 25th April ,when brides can enjoy a sneak peek of the Desert Dreamers collection. Loved by brides with an eye for a coolly contemporary self-styled look, the latest collection features bias-cut dresses, which can be worn as a striking standalone piece or layered with multiple textiles and textures. Pick from luxe fabrics like feather tulle, flower jacquard crepe and an assortment of laces, or pearl flower sequins for a touch of sparkle. Plus, clever multi-use features allow for maximum wearability and re-use, from tiered overskirts to reversible tops, as do detachable styling additions such as sleeves, sashes, belts and panels.

Lovely also has an online sample sale at its Still White store (stillwhite.com/ store/lovely-bridal-devon) where brides can bag a bargain from some of the above designers – and even more! lovelybridal.co.uk

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WINGS OF DESIRE Elegant, timeless and utterly dreamy, these luxurious heels by Aruna Seth are finished in an Italian satin and embellished with the designer’s signature shimmering Farfella butterfly for the ultimate in W-day wow. arunaseth.com

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SECRET SERVICE Tucked away on Crediton’s high street, you’ll find The Ivory Secret: the home of a beautifully crafted collection of dresses handpicked by owner Eleanor Rafferty for brides seeking ethereal, elegant gowns with a cutting-edge twist.

Some of the most talked-about designers in modern bridal wear can be found on the rails, including Willowby by Watters. The US label celebrates individuality through its free-spirited fashions; think soft whimsical layers, fine lace detail, statement sleeves and captivating cuts – just perfect for bohemian brides.

British designer Catherine Deane is also a firm favourite at the boutique, her intricate embroideries and hand-sewn embellishments lending gorgeous detail to her collection of whimsical gowns and separates. Then there’s the fashion-

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forward dresses with a relaxed, playful edge by Marylise and the dreamily elegant gowns crafted from luxurious fabrics and delicate embellishments

You heard it here – a personalised fedora is the latest must-

by Anna Kara.

have bridal accessory. And how stunning are these beauties by Rebecca Anne Designs? Known for her exquisite embroidered

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The boutique is currently running an online sample sale at its Still White

veils, the Somerset-based designer has turned her hand to

store (stillwhite.com/store/the-ivory-secret) With dress sizes ranging from

headwear and we think these fedoras will make a super-chic

8 to14 and discounts of up to 60%, you might just find your dream dress at

accessory for wedding photos, honeymoon and newly-wed

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dress code Whatever sort of wedding you’re planning, here’s how to match your bridal wear to your big day plans words Hannah May

After the biggest question of them all… a flurry of questions follow.

Hot off the heels of the engagement comes the planning period, where everything from what kind of wedding to what kind of dress presents couples with a seemingly endless decision-making process.

Fret not, for we’ve paired two of the biggest questions to help you figure out exactly what to wear to exactly what kind of event as we delve into how to match your dress to your wedding.

Looking at today’s assortment of wedding types (find out more on p.10 with our special guide), we’ve perused the catwalks to help show you how to wear the latest trends, however you’re planning on getting hitched. In response to the flux of the times, wedding world is in the midst of a movement built on flexibility and fluidity, from dress designs to outfit changes and customisations. Here’s how to partner your perfect day with your perfect dress to beautifully bespoke effect.

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Wedding type: Sequel wedding Dress code: Two looks, twice the fashion Sequel weddings comprise of two parts, so generally involve two looks. For the initial ceremony, brides are tending toward something understated and timeless to utter their vows, though with an individual flourish to mark the special occasion. Think hourglass mermaids with built-in trains, elegant A-lines with delicate beadwork and square neck shifts with lace fringing.

If you can’t decide on a single look, sequels provide the chance to play with several, whether you choose two separate gowns for each part, or rework one piece of fashion for double the wearability.

From heirlooms worn in their original form for the ceremony and then customised for the secondstage reception to dress changes achieved through the versatile style of a single gown, two-looks can easily be created. Simple customisations such as maxi back bows, beaded belts, skirt shortening, dress dyeing and switching accessories can all transform your gown from ceremony to celebration.

Alternatively, choose a dress with separates, layering and detachable features such as sleeves, skirts and trains, or make clever use of capes and cover-ups, which also add to the bespoke factor.

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Charlie Brear, Lovely

Wedding type: After-party/reception Dress code: Flamboyant and fabulous Having postponed or extended the waiting period between saying “I do” and the party that follows, brides are increasingly selecting styles that unleash an inflated sense of personalisation and celebration.

The natural result is more attention-stealing styles that project an air of drama. From frothy fairytale gowns to colourful frocks and eye-catching sparkle, a free-spirited fusion of fashions is seen as the ultimate way to dress for the final act of your wedding.

Everything from seductive waist-deep plunging necklines to backless designs, graphic patterns, exaggerated ruffling and giant fabric flowers all convey the fun and frivolous mood of the ‘more-is-more’ approach.

But for brides desiring something a little less, subtler styles that can be pared-down (or hyped up) in their look include high-low hemlines, delicate slips, nude lace gowns and the Little White Dress, which remains an everreliable go-to for all types of modern wedding and bride.

Willowby by Watters, The Ivory Secret

Jesus Peiro, Lovely

Marylise, The Ivory Secret

Rosa Clara, Lovely

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True Curve, Pretty Smithy Bridal

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Wedding type: Ceremony-only Dress code: Classic with a signature stamp Sleek and simple seem to be the keywords here, with sophisticated vintage styles, modern minimalism and contemporary romance leading the sartorial way.

Clean lines through bridal suits, blazers and structured silhouettes such as satin ballgowns complement the event to a T; or for a more laidback look, jumpsuits (either flowingly boho or with a tailored edge), classic tea-length skirts and elegant halternecks all allow a piece of personality to filter through.

Just because you’ve opted for a ceremony-only wedding doesn’t mean you can’t pull out a few style stops. From whimsical features like dreamy off-theshoulder balloon sleeves to lace accents, intricate embroidery, portrait backs and 3D florals, there’s plenty of scope for a little panache.

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PIROUET T E Set in the historic West Quarter, Pirouette has it’s home in the famous House that Moved. We have been dressing Brides for over 30 years with fabulous designer labels and offer a private appointment and bespoke alteration service.

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Wedding type: Micro wedding Dress code: One-look wonder The exact vision of your wedding but with fewer guests, the beauty of a micro wedding is that budget can be freed up from certain areas toward others, including your gown. So you could commission an investment piece, customise an off-thepeg gown with high-fashion adornments, or pick a frock that reflects your character with fashion-forward flair.

Though there may be fewer eyes on you in the flesh, a micro wedding perfectly lends itself to the presentation of your most individual bridal self. In short, whatever style you fancy should become fabulously manifest. And the two-look option still applies, allowing micro brides Marylise, The Ivory Secret

to showcase one gown during the ceremony before swapping or stripping off a layer to reveal an alternative for the reception.

A change of skirt, veil, cape or train are the easiest ways to transform your outfit, while quick add-ons such as corsages, floral crowns or oversized bows can make you party-ready in minutes. Otherwise, separates remain one of the most bride-friendly modes of customising your look, with a quick top or skirt swap along with donning your dancing shoes that’ll move you from day to night with fashion-forward ease. The catwalks are awash with mini dresses and rompers with removable overskirts, which can also be worn after the event should you choose to host another celebration later down the line.

Charlie Brear, Lovely

Sottero & Midgley, Pirouette

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and the bride wore green Sustainable is chic. From innovative designers to vintage frock-filled boutiques, we’ve picked out some ideas for finding a dreamy dress with an ethical edge words Hannah May

A sustainable wedding is becoming less of an ideal and more of a must-have for modern brides. Bridal designers are central to driving the movement, with a growing number launching capsule collections and sustainable ranges in order to meet the eco-friendly demands of brides keen to wear something fashion-forward and benevolent to boot.

From exquisite new designs to vintage, second-hand, bespoke and repurposed heirloom pieces, bridal fashion is in the midst of a very modern and beautifully sustainable makeover.

Rembo Styling Rembo Styling’s recent collections prove that bringing the environment to the fore doesn’t mean sacrificing on style or quality. Calling themselves out as a contributor toward the world’s climatic problems, the innovative designer declares that: “the clothing industry, in general, is the second largest polluter worldwide”, before explaining their ‘socially responsible entrepreneurship’ efforts to move toward a more sustainable solution.

Specifically, the boho-chic designs featured in their Alter Eco capsule are created from substances that pollute less water and have origins in sustainable forest management, as they also work to reduce their use of new resources. Favouring recycled polyester, European hemp, organic cotton, cupro viscose and bamboo sourced from sustainable forest management, the entire collection is created on demand in a conscious way, while the company continually strives for more planet-friendly production methods.

Peruse the collection to discover dreamy sustainable crepe gowns complete with organic cotton lace, recycled chiffon skirts with lace tops crafted from recycled yarns, and stunningly soft slips made with (sweat-resistant) sustainable bamboo.

Sincerity Bridal, Available at Lovely Bridal lovelybridal.co.uk Elaine Rawlings Bridal Boutique

and St Ives Bridal Boutique stivesbridalboutique.co.uk

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Days of Grace Vintage One of the easiest ways to find a sustainable dress is to opt for pre-loved and vintage fashions. Located in the beautiful beachside village of Budleigh Salterton, Days of Grace Vintage is home to a spectacular range of original antique dresses from the 1900s to the 1970s.

“I really love the early pieces and have a rail full of exquisite high-necked, embroidered and pintucked dresses that brides are wearing now. The 1920s, ’30s, ’40s, and ’50s are favourites too, but if something is beautiful and a later date it’ll make the cut!” says owner, Linda Duriez. “There are more than 100 dresses in store, including a limited ‘sample’ designer range that fit with our look, from Jenny Packham, Temperley and Yolancris; like all our dresses there is only one – and when it’s gone, it’s gone!”

Armed with a passion for antique lace and textiles, Linda has been designing and creating unique dresses to help make every bride’s vision into a customised reality. “I collect all the family stories as my brides love to know the history of their dress, and everything is handwashed,” she says of the care taken at every stage of the process.

“I’m not a purist when it comes to fashioning an old dress into something a bride desires, from low backs to complete remodelling. Sometimes two dresses become one, so a damaged dress can live on – especially when so often the fabric and workmanship is so beautiful; and nothing is wasted,” she says.

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“I like to think even if you only have £50 you could find something with us,” says Linda of her budget-friendly boutique, where the majority of pieces retail at between £300 and £500. “Buying vintage is an ethical option; it’s kind to the planet, respects and restores what is already there, and is always good value.” daysofgracevintage.com

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Jesus Peiro With a focus on eco-sustainable fabrics including recovered or recyclable yarn, Jesus Peiro’s coveted new Amalia collection fuses eco-friendliness with showstopping design to incredible feel-good effect.

Designed and manufactured exclusively in Spain and boasting the Origin and Quality Spain seal, a combination of creativity, proximity, traceability and use of eco fabrics ensures conscientiousness of the highest calibre.

While still channelling its boho-luxe style and minimalist romance all with a high fashion finish, expect ecological mikado taffeta cut into jaw-dropping A-lines alongside dreamy tulle, curve-hugging crepe, caviar beading, embroidered Chantilly lace, and sheer and satin organza.

Available at Lovely Bridal lovelybridal.co.uk

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Sister Organics Beautiful organic and sustainable fabrics are a passion for Natalie Estlick of Sister Organics.

The south Devon-based designer handcrafts her collection of laidback wedding dresses and bridal separates on a made-to-order basis.

Working with organic cotton, hemp, organic silks and English-made cotton lace, her signature aesthetic is simple and feminine with comfort being key, making her dresses perfect for outdoor, festival-style celebrations.

“My most recent pieces have been bridal separates, which I like to think are easier to wear again for special occasions or easily adapted to be worn as regular clothing,” explains Natalie.

From gorgeous hemp silk skirts and linen culottes to silk cami tops and delicate cotton lace tops, cardigans and boleros, the collection features timelessly beautiful pieces for brides seeking a relaxed yet stylish wedding day look.

“Everything is individually made to order and I’m really happy to customise the styles I offer,” explains Natalie.

“I also make one-off bespoke wedding dresses in sustainable fabrics.” sisterorganics.co.uk

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kiss-me lips After months of hiding them behind a mask, let your lips take centre stage on your wedding day. We love Bobbi Brown’s Real Nudes Crushed Lip Colour, which combines the look of a lipstick with the feel of a balm. Rich in lip-loving ingredients like beeswax and vitamin E, the long-lasting formula comes in nine gorgeous shades, from blush pink to deep chocolate. Choose the perfect shade for your skin tone – and look forward to luscious colour from first glance to first dance and beyond! bobbibrown.co.uk

top notes Created by the woman behind some of the world’s most coveted fragrances, Jo Malone, Jo Loves is a creative and utterly gorgeous scent, bath, body and candle collection. White Rose & Lemon Leaves has to be our favourite – the delicate white Norma Jean rose meets crushed lemon leaves and soft cedarwood to create a fresh and elegant floral fragrance perfect for modern brides. We love the idea of gifting personalised candles infused with the scent as gifts for your bridal party. joloves.com

face time Made in Cornwall with natural ingredients, this Organic Face Oil from Niskama Skincare is a vitamin-rich addition to any beauty regime. Massage onto your face and neck at night, and your skin will become noticeably more supple, nourished and fresh. Super light and easily absorbed, the blend of natural oils is infused with vitamin E to fight skin-damaging free radicals; anti-inflammatory and antibacterial healing agent tamanu oil to nourish and regenerate; and wheatgerm, sweet almond, sunflower, coconut and calendula oils to leave the skin silky smooth. niskamaskincare.com

lady love Naturally scented with lavender and bergamot essential oil, Lady Muck Bath Milk is just the thing for wedmin-stressed brides. The deeply cleansing bath and shower milk is enriched with coconut oil to moisturise and mango butter for a super-smooth application for face and body. What’s more, 100% of the sales of this brilliantly packaged potion made by Arthouse Unlimited goes back into the artists collective, supporting adults with complex epilepsy and learning disabilities. frankly.store

that’s handy Get your hands ready for their W-day close-up with these hand creams from Dr Pawpaw. All infused with enriching papaya, they can be used on elbows, knees, or any patches of dry skin – ideal for a quick moisturising touch-up when you’re on the go. The blend of sustainably sourced, proactive and 98% natural ingredients – including olive oil and aloe vera – are easily absorbed and intensely hydrating.

Choose from cocoa & coconut, orange & mango, and unfragranced – or grab a gift set of all three. drpawpaw.com

pillow talk If there’s one thing every bride (and groom!) needs in the run-up to the big day, it’s a good night’s sleep. Endless to-do lists and pre-wedding revelry can put paid to that, which is why we love Olverum’s Restful Sleep Pillow Mist. A serene natural fragrance for the air or linens, it blends essential oils known for their soothing qualities – think bergamot, amyris and lavender – to help promote a tranquil mind and restful sleep. olverum.com

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Look and feel at your most radiant as the big day approaches with these top tips for bridal well-being words Elizabeth Chester

AND I’M FEELING GOOD… Stay focused

and do something else with friends and family where any mention of your upcoming

Whether you have five or 500 jobs on your to-do list, in the weeks running up to

nuptials is banned. And don’t spend this enforced time away secretly worrying

your big day, you should have refined and edited your list to such an extent it’s now

either. Give yourself 24 hours away from your to-do list, and the to-dos will still be

filled with only essential to-dos. Now isn’t the time to start deliberating. So approach

there when you’ve relaxed, but your ability to deal with them and solve them will

each to-do slowly and methodically and work your way through them at your own

have significantly increased.

pace. Try not to panic and change what needs to be done or cut corners, as this will only add extra work further down the line. Writing lists and sticking them to the

Remain calm

fridge will keep you focused on what needs doing as you’ll be able to see them every

It’s very easy when things get on top of us to break down and end up causing a

day before reaching for your morning cuppa (as opposed to burying them on phones

scene, when in reality we just want a chilled glass of prosecco and a break. But

and computers and conveniently ignoring them).

don’t let planning angst get in the way of firm friendships with family and friends or otherwise successful suppliers. Yes, your nearest and dearest may have their

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moments when they turn into guestzillas and start demanding this and that but

Take time out. Dance, drink, swim, sing and make time for yourself and others in

try to remain calm and appease them the best you can. It’s easy when emotions

a space that isn’t wedding-centric. A change can be as good as a rest so make sure

are running high to obsess over the small stuff so try not to let any opinionated

you are indulging in other activities that don’t solely involve wedding planning – even

friends and family detract you from your mission to calmly plan the wedding of your

if your wedding list is longer than a Pronovias veil. Step away, take a deep breath

dreams. If demands can’t be met, try to deflect the attention with the promise of a

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big reveal such as a free bar or balloon drop, or, failing that, a compromise. So if vocal Aunt Jane has her heart set on everyone throwing traditional confetti but you’re more of a bubble-exit kind of girl, how about you give her her own flower girl duties and cones of confetti to scatter outside the church for your grand exit, while your other guests brandish bubble wands.

Laugh out loud Have a giggle. The veil that makes you look like a cockatoo? The fairytale shoes that are more ‘Three Little Pigs’ than ‘Cinderella’? Take it all in your stride and enjoy the downhill wobbles as much as the soaring, tulle-filled, lifeon-cloud-nine highs. If the giggles aren’t spontaneously happening, grab some old movies, get your best girls around and reminisce over films you watched as teenagers. Or hire a projector and screen your own video clips from your phones. Nothing helps us collapse into fits of giggles more than rummaging through old photos, notes and letters, especially to remember haircuts, bad denim and first loves!

Share the experience Don’t forget the most important person in all this: your other half, The One, your betrothed. Don’t let pre-wedding-day panic take over to such an extent that your other half starts to wonder if marrying you was the right thing to do after all! Make time for each other, involve them in the wedding planning, and most importantly don’t blame them if the tablecloths are an inch too short!

Live well Some days you might want to do nothing except throw yourself into your to-do list and bounce up and down on the bed in your new wedding gown (which all brides-to-be should, of course, indulge in). But for the days in-between, remember to live. If you spend every day thinking and worrying about your wedding day, you’ll miss out on today. And today in our book means giving yourself the time and space to appreciate how you feel.

PRE-WED WAYS TO FEEL GOOD Let’s talk Partners, friends or even pets – let your thoughts out to your nearest and dearest and have a good old chinwag; you’ll be amazed at how much lighter you feel.

Work it out Take time out of your day to work out and get your heart pumping. Exercise helps us relax and de-stress.

How about joining a walking group or tennis club for

an activity where you’ll meet new people who don’t automatically associate you with wedding planning!

Pamper time Spa days don’t have to be hen related – don’t be afraid to slink away for a day of calm and serenity on your own.

We all get lost in bubbles when a big

Eat well

life event is looming, like house-buying,

Fill up on superfoods to give yourself the best

changing job, having babies. And planning a wedding is up there with the most important things we’ll ever do. So it’s worth getting it right. But to get it right you need to step back and make it a part of your life, not let it tie you up

chance of feeling good and looking great. Our favourites for helping you look good and boost your mood include oats, blueberries, salmon, kale, eggs, avocado, walnuts and green tea – and, if you’re having a beach-themed day, why not tuck into some nutrient-packed seaweed!

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Where Wedding Dreams Do Come True!

Located in 65 acres of beautiful Devon countryside, Bickleigh Castle is the perfect wedding venue for all seasons.

Bickleigh Castle offers stunning countryside views, set in manicured grounds around a pretty courtyard and surrounded by a moat, the magnificent Castle with its beautiful Italian gates offers the perfect historic backdrop. This most impressive and historical estate is one of the leading Castle Wedding venues in the UK and is the perfect location for your dream wedding.

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feature | FOOD | BRIDAL MEAL PLANNER

BRIDAL BOOST ON A PLATE Stuck for ideas of what to rustle up? Use this weekly meal plan for inspiration

MONDAY Breakfast POACHED EGGS AND SMOKED

SALMON ON WHOLEGRAIN BREAD; GLASS OF FRESH ORANGE JUICE Lunch TURKEY SANDWICH WITH SPINACH SALAD Dinner LENTIL MOUSSAKA

TUESDAY Breakfast SPINACH OMELETTE Lunch ROASTED BUTTERNUT SQUASH SOUP WITH WHOLEGRAIN BREAD Dinner SALMON AND BROCOLLI WHOLEWHEAT PASTA

WEDNESDAY Breakfast PORRIDGE WITH BLUEBERRIES AND HONEY

HEAD-TO-TOE GLOW Look good and feel great with our pre-wedding guide to packing your plate with beauty-boosting and mind-mellowing meals

Lunch TUNA, CHICKPEA AND SPINACH SALAD Dinner MACKEREL AND SWEET POTATO BAKE

THURSDAY Breakfast GREEK YOGHURT, BLUEBERRIES AND BANANAS Lunch HUMMUS ON WHOLEGRAIN TOAST Dinner TURKEY OR LEAN BEEF, RED PEPPER AND BROWN RICE STIR-FRY

words Elizabeth Chester

FRIDAY

Tucking into colourful, nutrient-rich and

your wedding day, try to consume a wide variety of

delicious food can help to make you look great

natural, low-processed foods that can help to make

and feel your very best in the run-up to your

your skin glow, your body work efficiently and keep

wedding day.

your mind calm and happy.

ORANGE JUICE Lunch CHICKEN AND AVOCADO

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SKIN

superheroes of the cuisine world. Rich in fibre,

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antioxidants and fatty acids, three of the most

stay soft, supple and free of any pesky blemishes.

common are salmon, broccoli and blueberries.

Antioxidant-rich foods such as fruit, vegetables and

But there are lots of foods from different food

healthy fats from oily fish can all go some way to

groups that are packed with nutrients, vitamins and

helping your skin glow from within. Nutrients that

minerals and can help to benefit your health and

can aid our skin in its quest for radiance include

well-being, the majority of which are in their most

beta-carotene, vitamins C and E, zinc and selenium.

natural state – they haven’t been through much, if

Tasty foods that include an abundance of beta-

any, processing. Fruit is an easy go-to and is mostly

carotene include carrots, sweet potatoes and squash

always in its raw state – you’ll know this because it

– the perfect ingredients for warming stews and

has no labels or ingredients. It’s just a piece of fruit

soups in autumn and winter.

with nothing added.

Vitamin C-rich foods include oranges, peppers, Overall, the fewer ingredients something has in it,

strawberries, blackcurrants, Brussels sprouts and

the closer it is to its natural state and the more likely

potatoes. Vitamin E can be found in rainbow trout,

it is to be better for you. In the weeks leading up to

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kiwi fruit, while zinc is often found in red meat, poultry and seafood. If you’re vegetarian or trying to consume less meat, zinc is also found in beans, nuts, pulses, wholegrains, oats and chickpeas. Selenium, meanwhile, is found in turkey, wholewheat pasta, eggs, brown rice, milk and yoghurt.

HAIR Lean meats and fish are the way to go if you want super-shiny locks. Mackerel, packed with omega-3 and 6 fatty acids, and tuna, can add shine to even lacklustre locks – with the added benefit of improving brain power, too (helpful for staying on top of that last-minute wedmin!). Salmon and shellfish have the same effect and if you’re a vegetarian or vegan, lentils pack a punch when it comes to your mane event. Lentils contain folic acid and iron, which help transport oxygen from your blood to your scalp, meaning stronger hair growth.

NAILS Olive oil, avocado and nuts all contain the kind of fatty acids that can help to keep our nails supple (essential for showing off that new sparkler!). B vitamins and specifically biotin promote healthy cell growth, so look out for biotinrich foods such as spinach, egg yolks and mushrooms. That sounds like the beginnings of a delicious and super-healthy omelette or fry-up to us.

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Nutritionist Rebecca Gowers from IgniteYou shares her tips for feeling awesome in the run-up to W-day

Some foods have the added benefit of naturally whitening your teeth. So opt for strawberries, apple, celery, carrots, pineapple and oranges and you’ll not only look sensational beaming your megawatt smile in the wedding album, but you’ll save yourself a fortune at the dentist, too!

Find a balance. One of the ways you can really boost

your energy and feel awesome for the big day is to balance your blood sugar levels. Rather than reaching for the sweet stuff when feeling stressed, be sure to

have a protein-rich snack full of good fats and carbs

BODY Maintaining a healthy body will help you feel your absolute best in your wedding finery, and staying well is something you ideally want to maintain. The good news is, consuming

such as hummus and veg sticks (this will pack in those antioxidants as well), or a piece of fruit with nuts and seeds. You can also make your own energy bars using nuts, fruit and seeds – these are great for keeping energy

body needs is water. Your body is made up of 60% water,

levels high without the crash. It is natural to want more sugary treats when you’re stressed – the body uses insulin and cortisol like a seesaw, so if there is a lot of stress

so in order to balance all your body fluids, you need to drink

and high cortisol, your body will crave sugar to release

six to eight glasses of water per day. Water is required for all

insulin, which will bring your body back to where it feels happiest. The problem is, reaching for a sugary snack causes lots of insulin to be released, and then cortisol has

a myriad of colourful and delicious-tasting ingredients will help you, and one of the most important ingredients your

our body’s cells, organs and tissues, and it also flushes out any waste and toxins (hello, clearer skin!), regulates your temperature and helps your brain to function properly. These all sound like things the modern bride needs in order to be at her most beautiful and brilliant on the big day and beyond.

MIND

to come into play to bring it back in balance. You then

end up on a sugar rollercoaster, which makes you feel exhausted as well as affecting all systems in your body.

So you need to ‘throw a log on the fire’ in the form of

protein and fats!

Memory and brain-boosting foods include – as well as oily seeds, dark chocolate, oranges and walnuts. Those last

Stay hydrated. Another trick to feeling awesome is to make sure you are always hydrated. Drink plenty

three could go some way to becoming a chocolate-orange

of herbal teas, water and sparkling water every day to

fish – coffee, turmeric, tomatoes, blueberries, pumpkin

brownie, all washed down with a mind-friendly coffee... But if you’re looking for something a little less indulgent, broccoli and kale are both brain-boosting foods, so load up on these in salads, soups or stir-fries.

MOOD & ENERGY Finally, to keep motivation up during wedding planning, busy shopping trips and table plan discussions, stock up on energy-rich foods such as bananas and avocados. Research also suggests mood is linked to gut health, so foods packed with friendly bacteria for your gut include probiotic-rich yoghurt, sauerkraut and pickled cucumbers.

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ensure every cell is energised. You need to make sure you don’t have too much, so stick between 1.5 to 2 litres a

day (if you are very active, you will need to increase this amount). Unfortunately, tea and coffee don’t count, and can end up making you feel more thirsty and dehydrated.

So stick with some gorgeous herbal teas and water – and it will help you feel amazing in the lead-up to your big day.

Rebecca offers fun, interactive and engaging nutrition workshops as well as personalised nutrition plans, including coaching to ensure optimal lifelong changes so clients can feel the health benefits for many years to come.

Get in touch at becci@igniteyou.org.uk

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Why relegate your wedding rings to the bottom of the list when, with a little pre-thought, you could have a personally significant piece of jewellery created especially for you? After all, when the wedding day is over, it’s the one thing that remains on hand and in sight for the rest of your days together.

Here’s Wed’s guide to the wedding ring commissioning process, including how some couples have poignantly achieved the personalisation factor for rings that say much more than ‘I do’.

JUSTIN DUANCE Cornwall-based jeweller Justin Duance will create your bands from scratch using any precious metal including gold, palladium and titanium. From meetings, mood boards and example pieces, he will individually design and handcraft your ring to match your vision, gathering materials in-house, which include salvaged woods and recycled metals, or reworking heirloom pieces with family history.

Specialising in wood inlay rings and sandcasting, each element combines to ensure wholly personalised results, with couples an integral part of the process by selecting the sand or wood from a meaningful place to give each band its unique texture, tone and style. After material selection comes the design – think shaped rings, halo settings, inlays, diamond clusters and stacking sets; the possibilities are practically endless. Your choice of finish completes the look and adds further character, from laser engravings to fingerprints and inscriptions, all rounded off with Justin’s maker’s mark.

Liseve and Thom’s wedding rings were a particularly memorable commission. “They were cast from their parent’s medallions worn as children. If you looked closely you could make out their teeth marks in the high carat gold,” reveals Justin. “As a little extra, we photographed the medallions, which the couple had framed and gifted to their parents on their wedding day. We mixed their highly sentimental gold with other metals to change the colour and reduce the purity to 9ct. This was then cast in their own sand collected from the banks of the River Tara in Montenegro, a place very special to them.”

Another standout commission was Gemma’s wedding stack, which was designed to represent her family. “Each stone is a member’s birthstone; the central 18ct white gold ring represents her and her husband with a sapphire and amethyst,” explains Justin. “The 18ct yellow gold and rose gold rings represent each of their children, one with a tourmaline, the other an alexandrite. All three rings were cast in a mix of Gwithian sand collected by her mother and Southend sand collected by his.”

Then there was Jeannie and Joshua, an American couple who fell for Justin’s sandcast rings through Etsy and hiked to their ‘secret spot’ in Joshua Tree, Los Angeles to collect sand, which they posted along with their heirloom gold and diamonds. Justin created a chunky sandcast band for Joshua and a distinctive faceted ring for Jeannie. “The diamonds set around the rings in particular positions represent them and their two ‘fur babies’ – which of course were present at the wedding! It’s very humbling when couples trust us to make their rings having never seen our jewellery in person,” he notes. justind.co.uk

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ERIN COX A visit to Erin Cox’s Exeter boutique will treat you to glistening displays of handmade jewels of the highest quality, which often present couples with an inspired starting point. Since each piece she creates is specifically designed around the gorgeous gems and metals she stocks, each one is entirely unique.

Hand-selecting her own materials, including gold, platinum and palladium, she then designs and crafts the pieces herself and sets her own stones. When it comes to diamonds, Erin’s focus on excellence is reflected in her exclusive use of GVS1 stones as a minimum quality, however large or small. She also works closely with a fair-mined diamond company in America to offer ethical diamonds and is proudly registered with the Fairtrade Foundation so she can offer ethical Fairtrade gold jewellery.

Since every item is handmade, each can be sized, adapted or used as inspiration for an entirely new piece, all in-house, and with Erin’s personal touch.

Alternatively, couples desiring an entirely bespoke piece – or with heirloom jewellery they’d like remodelled –can request a commission.

All commissions start with an appointment to discuss materials, how the ring will be worn, and budget. If you have your own materials Erin will inspect them and assess the suitability of the stones for reuse. “Some old antique stones may be fractured and cannot be used, or they may need re-polishing, which we can arrange,” she says. Honing your choices of ring thickness, colour combinations of stones or metals, shape, setting, finish (matte, polished) and chain weight leads to initial sketches – often with different layouts – until a final design is agreed.

Erin recounts a standout commission whereby the client wanted a keepsake as a reminder her of yearly family holidays on the Devon coast, where the blue sapphire mirrored the ocean and the tsavorites represented the grass of the cliffs, while a concealed diamond planted inside the ring symbolised a secret treasure.

“Over the past 15 years I have created a lot of bespoke pieces and they bring me such pleasure,” she says. erincox.co.uk

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Fall under the wildly romantic spell of a wedding on Dartmoor where ‘justgathered’ florals and woodland-floor treasures meet free-spirited vibes

wild at heart photography & styling Hannah Wilde Photography

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With its rugged, sprawling expanses and ancient Tor-dotted heights, the romance of Dartmoor is undeniable, its untamed beauty making a wildly atmospheric backdrop for a wedding.

Located in the shadow of Yar Tor, the meandering River Dart weaving its path through its leafy grounds, Badgers Holt sits in a secluded and sheltered location in the heart of the moor. Now opening its doors for weddings, the former fishing lodge is immersed in natural beauty, from the rushing water of the riverbank to the dense woodland beyond.

A versatile space ideal for couples seeking a relaxed celebration, the venue offers rustic blank canvas spaces as well as ceremonies and receptions on the river bank.

This styled shoot typifies the charm of a back-to-nature wedding amidst the wilds of Dartmoor. Echoing the surrounding landscape through each and every detail, natural hues and textures are key to the aesthetic. From the wooden table laid with earthenware plates and woodland-floor finds to the haybale seating and foliage-filled ceremony arch, plus the floral arrangements of muted seasonal blooms, ferns and pampas grass, it gorgeously conveys a ‘just-gathered’ look.

Bohemian touches abound, from the vintage rugs, lanterns and festoon lighting to the striking bridal accessories, while celestial accents such as the bride’s embellished gown and the moon arch – dressed with pampas grass, foliage and blooms to complement the autumnal colours of the landscape – enhance this free-spirited celebration of the elements.

The magic heightens as night falls, a choice of cosy spaces inviting joy-filled gatherings: there’s the Garden Room, with its wood-burning stove and carnival of fairy lights, and the banks of the river, where festoon lights and firepits make the most enchanting scene beneath the starry Dartmoor skies.

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Venue, tables & tableware

Badgers Holt

badgersholtweddings.co.uk Photography & styling

Hannah Wilde Photography hannah-wilde.com Photography assistant

Lauren Wiig-Apsland

instagram.com/laurenwiig Flowers

Milli Fleur

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Craft Mongers craftmongers.com

Make-up

Hannah Symons

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St Ives Bridal Boutique stivesbridalboutique.co.uk Groom’s outfit

Zebel Bespoke

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Moon arch & arch flowers

The Youngest Child theyoungestchild.com Headpieces

The Lucky Sixpence theluckysixpence.co.uk DJ

Boden ‘Mr Flexxx’ Smith instagram.com/bodenflexsmith Models

Hannah Symons & Billy Chibouni

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ECO EDGE Think grooms wear, think sustainability – where conscience combines with style for outfits as fashion-forward as they are forward-thinking words Hannah May

From suits crafted using eco-friendly fabrics and methods to hire services, vintage wear and second-hand options, the modern groom is spoilt with clever ready-to-wear, tailor-made investments, and preloved options all with a gratifyingly benevolent twist.

Here are Wed’s top picks of the latest sustainable lust-haves…

TRANSCENDENT TAILORING The Ultra Suit by Tranzend is a waterproof, anti-odour, ultra-stretchable, wrinkle-free, breathable and UV protected two-piece suit and white shirt, or as the innovative creators say: “sartorial aesthetics, sophisticated technology and environmental sustainability combined into a single two-piece suit for all occasions.” Ethically produced from recycled plastic bottles and coffee grounds, the suit seamlessly blends function, form and eco-friendliness and can sustainably be worn on multiple occasions, whatever the event and season. tranzend.co.uk

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SUITS YOU, SIR! Hiring your suit is an obvious ‘green’ choice, though the specifics can have greater impact, for example, a wool suit scores extra sustainability points since it’s naturally biodegradable, while narrowing your selection to local or UK-made brands reduces your carbon footprint (and ensures quality control to boot!)

“Both of our hire companies have state-of-the-art eco-friendly dry-cleaning processes that are kind to the cloth as well as the environment,” reveals Alan Walker from Cornwall Suit Room. “Our own dry cleaners use a wool mark-approved lagoon cleaning system by Electrolux where no solvents are used, and all products are biodegradable for chemical-free drainage.”

One of their stockists, Skopes, boasts a history of social responsibility. “How to minimise our business’s impact on our environment has been something on our radar for quite a while,” they declare while launching a new collection of sustainably sourced suits made in partnership with Lyfcycle.

Meanwhile, if you do opt to buy, try to select something with a multi-purpose or timeless element, such as a tweed jacket, tartan, or checks that can be dressed down after the event with jeans, or worn with chinos to other formal celebrations.

“Most of our waistcoats and neckwear are made by Heirloom Waistcoats and Anthony Formal Wear; both companies are proud to be still making them in Great Britain,” adds Alan. cornwallsuitroom.co.uk

GET SHIRTY A crisp shirt is integral to a groom’s ensemble, so choose wisely by considering quality, cut and conscientiousness. Arthur & Henry’s organic cotton shirts are the style-meets-substance solution. Their cotton comes from certified Fairtrade organic farming groups, which means that apart from the environmental benefits of farming organically, the farmers also receive a financial boost by being part of a support organisation.

To achieve a classic look, pick their white or blue Chislet double cuff shirt in a fine herringbone weave, or white Oxford weave shirt with or without a button-down collar for a slightly more relaxed look. For grooms desiring something with an extra dash of panache, the blue or pink striped organic cotton shirt with a contrast floral trim is a slimmer fitting, eye-catching choice.

All shirts are cut longer so they don’t come un-tucked and have horizontal bottom buttonholes to prevent splaying, while signature but discreet orange detailing provides an extra luxe touch. arthurandhenry.com

DOING GOOD With the fashion industry experiencing a shift in priorities and practices, Theory’s Good Collection is a prime example of today’s environmental refocus. “With the initial goal of making our signature fabrics 100% traceable by 2025, we have begun the work of transforming the way we produce our clothes,” announce the fashion philanthropists. “We are especially proud that in addition to representing the exceptional quality that defines Theory, our ‘Good’ fabrics are ethically sourced and developed in collaboration with fabric mills at the forefront of sustainable manufacturing.”

The result? Good-looking grooms dressed in do-good clothing for more kindhearted fashion. Peruse their capsule collection for the latest finds: we think their Nordic blue Bowrey blazer in Good Wool pairs perfectly with their white Sylvain shirt in Good Cotton, while their Smoke coloured Clinton Blazer in Good Linen looks and feels swoon-worthily cool. theory.com/mens-good-collection

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wed’s HIP LIST Fresh, fun and fabulous ways to add a unique touch to your day words Rebecca Matthews

WONDER WHEELS Meet Betsy. Not only will this head-turning Clementine Orange 1970s Beetle ensure a retro-cool arrival on your wedding day, the multitasking marvel can also be hired as a

ZERO HERO

photo booth and glitter bar. Guaranteed to bring fun and sparkle to your evening

It’s so easy to get caught up in the dizzying

reception, your guests will love decorating

options for artisan cocktails, craft beers and

their faces in colourful blends of eco glitter

post-ceremony fizz – and overlook the drinks

and face gems before posing for some

selection for your non-drinking guests. Step

shimmery, festival-fabulous style.

Distilling Co. – an alcohol-free alternative to their celebrated gins, which is currently making

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waves in the drinks world. Sophisticated,

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fun snaps and partying the night away in

forward New London Light from Salcombe

refreshing and big on flavour, New London Light is a blend of all-natural botanicals – think citrus notes paired with aromatic spices and gentle herbs – and, served with tonic, a slice of orange and fresh sage, makes a deliciously thirst-quenching alternative to a G&T. What’s more, with marine conversation being key to the company’s ethos, it’s a perfect addition to the drinks menu for a sustainable celebration.

We’ll raise a glass to that. salcombegin.com

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FLOWER POWER

BURN BABY BURN Whether you’re seeking a scent for your reception or a covetable favour for your guests, there’s a divine Devon-made candle to suit. We love this blonde tobacco and honey heart-shaped candle from Exeter’s Recycled Candle Company for a romantic, sustainable and deliciously scented option. Hand-blended on

We love everything about the glorious

the edge of Dartmoor, Buff Natural Body Care’s natural soya and rapeseed wax candles are filled with

florals by The Velvet Daisy in this stunningly

uplifting blends of pure essential oils. Or how about an invigorating soy wax blend of sea pine, mint and

styled marquee. Suspended from the

eucalyptus from Exmouth-based Beach House Botanics?

ceiling, the carnival of peach, pink and coral blooms bring the wow factor for a floralfabulous celebration. thevelvetdaisy.co.uk

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feature | STYLING | THE LOST GARDEN

the lost garden

A bounty of botanical details sprawl across the ancient cob walls and beguiling spaces of Rock Farm, an enchanting wedding venue lost in time and rich in romance photography Louise May Photography styling Elisabeth Shell Events

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Rock Farm occupies a tucked-away corner of east Devon. A stirring sense of history is palpable at every turn of this wonderful old Domesday property, from its ancient beams and original cob and stone walls to the almost untouched charm of the Potting Shed, where wild ferns peep between time-weathered bricks.

Opening its doors for intimate weddings, this styled shoot honours the eclectic, untamed beauty of the new venue. Bathed in natural light, its vaulted ceiling crisscrossed with timeworn beams, The Granary marries history, romance and an intimate ambience.

Here, the shoot’s luxury overgrown garden aesthetic can be seen most strikingly in the table styling, where urns spilling with foliage and flowers in shades of warm burgundy and dusky pink meet potted plants, natural linens and candlelight. Sapling favours, which started life in the surrounding flower beds, signify the sustainable ethos and love of nature at the heart of Rock Farm.

“The rich overgrown foliage and flower installation seemed to flow from the wall – a nod to things being reclaimed by nature,” explains stylist Phoebe Stanaway of Elisabeth Shell Events.

The raw and romantic beauty of the venue continues in the gardens where a striking pergola with a quirky rusting tin roof is cradled by trees and a pretty lawn for outdoor ceremonies. Then there’s the Potting Shed, an intimate and earthy space with a cobbled floor and potted plans galore where the bride and groom steal some cherished moments.

“I placed objects lost and found inconspicuously about the place to be caught out of the corner of your eye; a pair of specs, some old Dickens books and the delicious cake sat on an old Singer sewing machine table added to the repurposed idea of random objects reclaimed,” explains Phoebe.

Effortlessly capturing the romance of a contemporary country wedding, the bridal look pairs whimsical modern gowns with fresh and natural hair and make-up.

Echoing the botanical theme, a ball gown embellished with floral and leaf appliqué detailing and full tulle skirts looks dreamy on a loved-up wander around Rock Farm’s garden paths. The groom, meanwhile, opts for a coolly individual tweed ensemble. Together, they take in far-reaching views across this hidden and captivating corner of Devon.

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Rock Farm

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Louise May Photography louisemay.co.uk Concept & styling

Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Dresses

Lovely

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Jai Prettejohn

instagram.com/mrsmakeuplady Rings

Erin Cox

erincox.co.uk Groom’s outfit

Zebel Bespoke zebel.co.uk Flowers

Emma Hewlett Floral Design emmahewlett.co.uk Cake

Claire Makes Cakes clairemakescakes.co.uk

Glassware, cutlery, candelabras & table runners

Keeping it Vintage keepingitvintage.co.uk Furniture

Virginias Vintage Hire virginiasvintagehire.co.uk Stationery

Watercolour Woodshed watercolourwoodshed.co.uk Videography

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feature | FOOD & DRINK | MOOD FOOD Calum Creasey

Beautiful and the Feast

MOOD FOOD Take a modern approach to wedding day dining with an immersive experience piquing all the senses while providing an array of on-the-day entertainment words Hannah May

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MOOD FIOOD

Today’s weddings are all about the experience.

Beautiful and the Feast

And what could be more of a sensory feast than a hands-on, interactive eating experience, guaranteed to bring a sense of drama as well as deliciousness to your table?

From private dinners the night before the big day to breakfast banquets, weddings provide the perfect excuse to treat your guests to a gastronomy that extends beyond the traditional sit-down meal, with the likes of sharing platters, mobile catering, cook your own, themed dining and a creative smattering of sweet treats designed to sate appetites, tickle taste buds and promote a fun, intermingling vibe throughout.

Here are some of our favourite interactive dining trends and how to deliver them on your wedding day with palate-pleasing aplomb.

Sharing platters The penchant for platters continues to grow while

Beetham Food

taking new, innovative forms to keep guests guessing.

“For interactive food experiences, our sharing platters and dessert tables feature top,” says Louisa Beetham from Beetham Food (beethamfood.co.uk). “They are hugely popular and couples will consider a sharing platter for each course, or one whole dessert for each table to share.”

Sharing food is key to the ethos of Beautiful and the Feast (beautifulandthefeast.com). “It’s all about connection to us, and ensuring your favourite humans connect with our food, with each other and with you, the happy couple, just means that’s there’s a happy buzz flowing through the whole love-soaked day!” says Emily Colwill from Beautiful and the Feast. “Sharing an experience, a conversation, passing food around a table, eye-contact ‘mmmms’ and a whole bunch of ‘have you tried this-es?’ are what we always aim for, and to hear those kind of noises as we slalom through tables make us want to high-five every

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single guest.”

There’s endless scope for personalisation, with couples working alongside caterers to create unique and eclectic menus. Pick a theme (world tour, local cuisine, your favourite book/film), dish (curries, roasts, pies) or personal preference (plant-based, locally sourced) and a select a series of supersized plates to match.

“Barbecues also help to add to the interaction,” adds Louisa, while Lucy Barber from The Good Food Catering Company (thegoodfoodcateringco.co.uk) lists their giant paellas as a popular choice, allowing you to present a colourful, self-serve feature while customising your cuisine to both personal and crowd-pleasing effect.

Mobile and bespoke catering Mobile catering is one of wedding world’s hottest trends, providing flexibility and versatility with regards to space and dining, along with adding a showstopping centrepiece

Calum Creasey

Calum Creasey

and entertaining eating/drinking intermission.

Take The Buffalo (thebuffalo.co.uk) for example, a sleek vintage airstream bar specialising in made-to-order craft cocktails to give a live mixology performance. “Every couple has their own personalised menu, ensuring

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it matches with their theme and drinks needs – however obscure this may be,” says owner, Jo Fitch. “From pisco sours on holiday in

The Buffalo

Argentina to Jägerbombs on a first date or specially created bloody marys using ingredients that are part of their heritage, we go the truly exceptional experience for couples and extra mile to make it a truly exceptional guests alike. Aside from the drinks, we also offer our large customised firepits, festoon lighting, fairy light canopy and festival flags to create an awesome outdoor bar/chill-out area that allows couples and guests an awesome to take five away from the dance floor, watch the sun go down and catch up with friends and family.”

The south-west is home to a superb selection of food trucks and mobile catering options, such as woodfired pizza from Flour & Flame (flourandflame.co.uk), barbecued flavours from Dirty BBQ (dirtybbq.

Kern (kernofkernow. uk) and beautiful Bundt cakes and coffees from Kern (kernofkernow. co.uk).

Self-carvery and live cooking Transform dinnertime into a spot of fun role play by appointing one person per table to act as head chef. one person “We’ve been doing a ‘guest chef’s table’ where one guest is nominated on each table to serve the rest of the table – usually a roast – and they carve wearing a chef hat,” says Louisa. “It’s fun and creates interaction and conversations.”

Take it a step further with a chef’s theatre, live cooking, or involve

Beautiful and the Feast

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your guests with a ‘DIY dining experience’ with design/make your own options such as pizzas, cooking with hot stones or Korean-style table barbecue grills, and themed buffets or banquets.

Foraging and feasting Locally sourced produce is a top trend in wedding catering, and you could invite your guests to sample some homegrown flavours while making memories in a number of ways, from strawberry picking to incorporating a vineyard tour and wine tasting into your wedding weekend itinerary.

With an expanding number of venues growing their own and featuring veggie patches, kitchen gardens and polytunnels, you could select your wedding venue accordingly to suit and have a helping, hands-on approach to feeding your guests.

Perhaps you could even host an expert-led foraging session before sitting down with a well-deserved and uber-fresh feast.

Dessert tables and sweet treats One of the easiest ways to create an interactive eating experience is by focusing on the sweet stuff. Dessert tables, sweetie stations and roasting marshmallows or s’mores around a firepit all add another

Beautiful and the Feast

culinary dimension to your day, while chocolate or drinks fountains (or Beetham Food

you could go savoury and retro with fondue) always provide a talkedabout feature.

“Our much-requested pavlova stacks with roasted strawberries and flowers are a total showstopper for tables to share,” says Emily.

“There’s nothing like taking a huge spoon to a pile of meringue, cream, fruit and flowers and then sharing it between the new friends you’ve made on your table. Pure heaven!”

“Last year we served an afternoon tea menu on vintage crockery from our sister company The Creative Crockery Company,” says Louisa of another lip-smacking idea (thecreativecrockerycompany.co.uk).

“Three-tier cake stands and teapots all constantly replenished…it created lots of interaction with guests serving each other and looked amazing!”

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From the glorious setting and beautifully appointed interiors to the welcoming team, every aspect of this exquisite, exclusive use Regency country house is dedicated to delivering the highest possible level of service - because we never forget, it’s the little things that make a big difference.

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THE GREAT WESTCOUNTRY MENU A well-chosen menu is the key ingredient of a talked-about wedding reception.

Here, three couples share the stories behind their memory-making wedding feasts words Rebecca Matthews For many of us, the wedding feast is the highlight of a

The overlooked wedding menus of bygone years are but a

wedding day. With taste buds piqued by the canapés and

distant memory as couples increasingly seek to treat their guests

first glasses of champagne, the warm feeling of celebration

to a memorable culinary experience: food that bursts with

feels almost tangible as guests settle at tables, chinking

personality as much as flavour. From the choice of dishes and

glasses and excitedly chattering in anticipation of the

produce to the way it is cooked and served, your wedding menu

deliciousness to come.

is a powerful way of connecting the day with your memories, heritage, food passions or favourite flavours.

As the personalisation movement gains ever more pace in wedding world, the wedding feast has become, if anything, an

To help inspire a perfectly ‘you’ wedding breakfast, three couples

even more anticipated feature of the day.

share the stories of their standout feasts.

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AN ITALIAN FEAST BY THE SEA Lerryn and Bash treated their guests to Italian flavours alongside fresh sea air Photography: James Murray, phaseFOTO Catering: Woodfired Weddings

Menu:

Parmesan chunks Radishes and whipped white beans

Antipasti Zerbinati melons

Main course

Cherries

Lamb legs and salsa verde

Grissini (from Forza Win)

Wood-roasted summer squash

Tillingham pet nat

Caponata

(English sparkling natural wine)

Tomatoes and oil Garden peas

Primi

Buttery potatoes and mint

Datterini tomatoes, mozzarella, basil Focaccia

Dessert Strawberries Bars of chocolate

Both Lerryn and Bash know their stuff

A relaxed, sharing style feast was key to their

when it comes to food – and they were

vision. “We wanted it all to be communal

looking for something very special when

with sharing tables so as to not highlight the

it came to the catering for their wedding

vegans and vegetarians,” says Lerryn. “This

day at Porth-en-Alls in Prussia Cove.

was is in line with projects Bash has done and

“Bash and I are both from the hospitality

Ben’s speciality woodfired cooking too. The

industry. I used to have a community cafe

sharing tables also help to make people feel

and restaurant and Bash has an Italian

comfortable, there is something a little less

restaurant and rooftop bar in Peckham,”

formal about them.”

explains Lerryn.

The aesthetics also played into the culinary Choosing Ben Quinn from Woodfired Weddings

experience for the couple. “We didn’t want

(woodfiredweddings.co.uk) was an easy

table decorations – just the wooden table,

decision. “We knew Ben and we have a lot of

the plates and the cutlery – to emphasise how

love for Ben and his team’s approach,” says

considered the food was visually.”

Bash.

Settling at tables almost within touching Cooking delicious woodfired food over

distance of the sea, guests tucked into big

grills before your guests, Ben has carved

sharing dishes of lamb and salsa verde –

out a reputation for memorable feasting

exactly as Lerryn and Bash had imagined. “I

experiences with his focus very much on

have friends that still talk about the lamb and

bespoke menus. “We work with you to

salsa verde, as well as the pumpkin caponata

produce a truly memorable meal,” says Ben.

and the slabs of chocolate to toast at the

“We focus on your food memories, bespoke

end,” says Lerryn. “We were really proud of

menus that encourage your guests to get

how it turned out,” she says, looking back.

involved, and food that gets shared at the

“And, as two people that pride on hosting

table like a big family.”

tables in our lives, this was probably one of the best ones.”

For Lerryn and Bash, the menu planning was very much a collaborative experience. “We

Bash agrees. “Lerryn and I met creating great

worked together with Ben on the menu with

spaces and our biggest love is hosting others,

Bash focusing on the Italian influence and Ben

so we were super keen to work with Ben to

suggesting ways of cooking certain dishes

deliver this, and deliver it he really, really did,”

and how it would work with the rhythm of

he reflects.

the wedding day – something he achieved so well!” says Lerryn. “I contributed with how

As well as serving up some seriously special

I thought things would look and feel, such as

food, the chef had a key role in maintaining

the pink glasses of pet nat wine served with

the perfect mood for their wedding feast.

slices of melon from the suppliers of our

“Something Ben did so well, alongside the

restaurant, Forza Win. It was an enjoyable

food, is holding the atmosphere,” says Lerryn.

combination.”

“He created an invisible protective bubble over that table, not letting in any bad vibes!”

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A CELEBRATION OF LAND AND SEA Stella and Pete married their passion for food with local flavours to the delight of their guests

Beautiful and the Feast

Catering: Beautiful and the Feast

Menu:

Chris Johnson Wedding Photography

Canapés Rare roast beef with pomegranate

Main course

molasses and pistachio

Roast Cornish chicken, salsa verde and

Raw summer rolls

pea shoots

Courgette and minori fritters with

Sweet herbs and lopside porchetta

a kefir lime tzatziki Smoked mushroom fritter with

Sides

tomato butter

Grilled hispi cabbage Smoked potato salad

Starter Chalk stream salmon, aioli and lavosh

Dessert

Temple pastrami, dill mustard and

Pavlova, roasted Cornish strawberries

sauerkraut

and flowers

Stella and Pete were clear in what qualities

and talking flavours, produce and seasonal

they were looking for in a catering company

creativity.”

Beautiful and the Feast

when they started planning their wedding at Launcells Barton. “We were looking for

Cornwall was the key inspiration behind their

someone who cares about food as much as

wedding menu. “We wanted to go on a journey

we do,” says Stella. “Wedding menus can

with our family and friends celebrating the land

be such an afterthought with no real soul

and sea of Cornwall throughout our day,” says

or connection to the couple or guests. We

Stella. “From local fish and organic meat to

wanted a feast to remember, a celebration

seasonal vegetables, foraged herbs and flowers.

of our love for feel-good food. We wanted

We totally trusted the team to honour and

to find someone who felt the same and

elevate their carefully chosen ingredients with

would be able to grow our ideas into a feast

vision and love.”

that would be impossible to forget.”

Chris Johnson Wedding Photography

Beautiful and the Feast

The theme of land and sea was apparent in

Devon

both the starter and main course. “We chose a

Beautiful & the Feast (beautifulandthefeast.com).

plethora of big flavour canapés and decided to

“They are food-loving humans with big souls.

celebrate the land and sea in both the starter

Nothing makes them happier than cooking the

and main courses, so everyone could experience

best food their environment has to offer,” she

the diversity of Cornwall at its best,” says Stella.

explains. “They create honest and unique feasts

“BATF showcased all their vegetable dishes as

made with sustainable British produce from

main events not just a side dish. I will never

Cornwall and even their own land in Bude.”

forget the colours, flavours, textures.”

It was a meeting of minds – and hearts – for

And the seasonal dessert choice was a

the engaged couple and the team at Beautiful

showstopper – and crowd-pleaser. “For us, a

& the Feast. “Stella was an ideal client because

pavlova is the epitome of a summer pudding

she’d worked as a chef and with people we

and a dessert best shared,” says Stella. “BATF’s

were inspired by so was totally on the same

pavlova is like no other pavlova you will ever eat

page as us in regards to a passion for food and

again – a mountain of golden meringue adorned

expressing that through her and Pete’s awesome

with foraged berries and flowers.”

day,” explains Emily Colwill from Beautiful & the

Chris Johnson Wedding Photography

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Feast.

Not forgetting those all-important finishing

touches, the team served up some evening

“We tailored Stella and Pete’s vision through

bites to match the flavoursome theme of the

sharing an ethos on good things, good food and

day. “Cuban sandwiches (packed with gooey

connection with people,” she continues. “We

local cheese and homemade pickles) and

live and work in Cornwall and feel it’s important

marshmallows on the fire finished off our balmy

to channel that wild and warm energy into the

summer wedding. Everyone went home full and

dishes we serve and the local ingredients we

satisfied,” reflects Stella. “We felt so grateful

use. It’s a huge part of making next-level food

for the team’s mad skills, love and dedication in

for people’s celebrations: finding connection

making our day unforgettable.”

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A BESPOKE FEAST TO REMEMBER Philippa and Duncan wowed their guests with a dining experience tailored entirely to their winter wedding vision Photography: Nick Hook Catering: Posh Nosh

Menu: Main course Canapés

Whole sides of chargrilled sirloin,

Local sausages with honey, cider and

sliced with garlic and herb butter

mustard marinade

Celeriac steaks with red wine lentils

Pan-fried chorizo and goat’s cheese

mousse en croute

Accompanied by sharing bowls of

Devon crab and smashed green bean

Potato and celeriac dauphinoise

bruschetta

Green bean medley

Salt and pepper squid with

Honey and thyme heritage carrots

garlic aioli

Red wine jus

Butternut arancini with spiced

butternut purée

Cheese course

Local cheeses served with crackers,

Amuse-bouche

homemade chutney, grapes and

Seared scallop with pea purée

butter, garnished with bay leaves

and crispy pancetta

Roasted king oyster mushroom,

Dessert

tahoon cress oil, toasted hazelnut

Tart au citron with blackberry crème

and a mushroom crisp

Normande and lemon crisp

A couple with extensive experience of

Duncan’s wedding gave them the opportunity

the culinary world, Philippa and Duncan

to unveil a new dish. “The celeriac steak with

dazzled their guests with a bespoke feast

red wine lentils went down a storm!” says

to remember at their intimate, winter

Sophie White from Posh Nosh.

wedding at Pengenna Manor.

A sharing element was key in creating a

Beef from Darts Farm

“I previously worked as an events manager

relaxed mood. “It worked really well for the

for Posh Nosh while my husband Duncan

main course as it brought an informal, ‘family’

was head chef at Lympstone Manor in

feel to the dining experience that not only

Devon,” explains Philippa. “We had a really

suited this laidback couple, but also the rustic

clear vision for our menu, which was almost

setting,” says Sophie.

entirely bespoke.”

The choice of drinks also added to the day’s The couple were also clear on the relaxed

personality-packed character. “The drinks

and rustic mood they hoped to create.

were rather special! We served Prosecco with

“Having both worked in the industry for so

frozen blackberries alongside some warming

long, we wanted a fuss-free day with good

(and seasonal) vin chaud for the canapé

quality, hearty food that could be enjoyed by

reception,” says Sophie.

everyone,” she says.

“We have done many ski seasons together, Choosing Posh Nosh (posh-nosh.co.uk) as

so this was a nod to that lovely chapter in

their catering company was a no-brainer

our relationship,” explains Philippa, who also

– and the couple worked closely with her

offered a personal touch for the close of the

former colleagues to create a delectable

feast, with home-made limoncello served to

selection of dishes rich in creativity,

guests alongside the coffee.

seasonality and locally sourced produce.

“It has to be said that seeing the Posh Nosh

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“We created the idea for the pan-fried

team from the ‘other side’ was just magical,”

chorizo and goat’s cheese mousse canapé,

she continues. “We had a meeting to plan the

and also the butternut arancini canapé, which

menu where all our ideas and requests were

was very seasonal,” explains Philippa. The

communicated to the team. On the day it was

team at Posh Nosh are passionate about

completely seamless with someone always

experimenting with innovative ideas for vegan

on hand to top up drinks or bring the next

and special dietary menus – and Philippa and

delicious round of food!”

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The readings should add a personal and memorable element to your wedding ceremony. Here are some expert tips on who to choose and how to find the right words words Lucy Higgins

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Whether you’re marrying in a church, a barn, or planning a humanist ceremony beneath the trees, chances are you may want to include some form of reading before or after your ‘I do’ moment.

Readings serve a range of purposes during a wedding ceremony: they can add a moment of calm or reflection; they can embrace the tone or style of your wedding; they can also bring a uniquely personal element to proceedings. It’s also a beautiful way to include important people in your day.

And that brings us to your first task: who to ask. As such a special element of a ceremony, choose someone who’s meaningful to the two of you, though do bear in mind whether your chosen reader will feel nervous or uncomfortable with speaking in front of a large number of people. “Volunteers are best!” says Nicola Le Couteur Bisson from the Guild of Cornish Celebrants (cornishcelebrants. co.uk). “Match the reading to the reader and encourage them to rehearse reading their chosen piece out loud – so different to reading to yourself!”

Emily told us she asked her brother to do a reading, but instead of jumping at the chance, he aired a concern. “He’s quite an emotional person and said that watching me walk down the aisle would probably set him off crying, so he didn’t want to be reading soon after that,” she explains. “We decided he would do a short reading after our vows. It turns out he was right: he was a blubbering mess (which was very sweet) and there’s no way he could have done the first reading.

I’m so glad he spoke up in advance!”

It’s also a lovely way to honour a special person, as Caroline explains. “We had a small wedding, and I decided to have just my sister as my bridesmaid,” she says.

“But I wanted my best friend to also have a role, so asked her to do a reading. She was really happy to be part of the ceremony, and it was a special experience for us to both go through sharing readings and choosing one together.”

Children can also be a beautiful addition to your ceremony. “If you choose a child to be a reader, consider allowing two of them to do it as a ‘double act’,” suggests Nicola. “They will give confidence and support to each other.”

Once you have decided who you’d like, and they’re comfortable, make sure they have your chosen reading in plenty of time so they can practise. Even the most confident of readers can falter when faced with a whole audience of your loved ones at an emotionally charged event!

“As celebrants, we always talk to the readers before the ceremony starts so they know where their part is in the context of the wider ceremony and reassure them that there is plenty of time,” says Nicola. “We also encourage them to take their time with the reading – half normal speaking speed is ideal – and we bring a microphone for them to use if appropriate.”

So, how do you choose what you’d like them to read? “Consider the type of ceremony you are having,” says Nicola. “If it’s a religious wedding, you will probably be encouraged to have at least one religious reading; if it’s a civil wedding with the Registration Service, the reading must be totally secular and not come from or be adapted from a religious text. And if it is a wedding celebration led by an independent celebrant, there is much more freedom to choose any reading – religious, spiritual or secular.”

This also goes back to how a reading can help to embrace the tone of your wedding – while it is, of course, a joyous occasion, do you want to err on the side of traditional, or maybe bring some humour into your ceremony? You could even have a mix, perhaps choosing a more thoughtful reading to begin, and then opting for something light-hearted after you’ve said your vows and the mood switches to celebration.

If you’re struggling to choose a reading, you could even ask your chosen reader to pick one themself, as Philippa did. “I’d asked my best friend from school to do a reading at our wedding, but I didn’t have any ideas of what she could read, other than I wanted an excerpt from a book,” she says. “She did some research and then when she came back to me with options, I asked her to choose it and keep it as a

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surprise for the day. She read an excerpt from Freckle Photography

‘Captain Corelli’s Mandolin’ that begins ‘Love is a temporary madness…’ It was perfect, and as I didn’t know what she’d be reading, it added a really lovely surprise element for me and my partner too.”

“Ideally readings should connect with the couple, be recognisably about them, their personalities, or the love they share for each other or for a pastime or place,” says Nicola.

“The reading then will enhance the whole ceremony, rather than being a ‘time filler’.”

Some of the most sentimental readings are those that are handwritten or adapted to be personal to you both as a couple. If neither you, your partner, nor your chosen reader feel confident with putting pen to paper, don’t discount adapting something you already love.

“Readings do not have to be intrinsically romantic in tone,” agrees Nicola. “If you have a particular interest that you share, search for poems on that topic and if you find one that you both love do consider using it – your guests will know that it reflects you and your interests and it will personalise the ceremony. Do the same for plays, films and TV series (handfasting and ‘Game of Thrones’ for example), song lyrics can also be used as poems – or produce song sheets and get everyone to sing a song!”

Remember, anything can be a reading – and it doesn’t have to fit into the ‘wedding reading’ box. “Children’s books often have touching prose on the nature of love – these are often familiar words that will resonate with everyone present,” says Nicola – advice taken by one bride, Lucy.

“My best friend read part of ‘Oh! The Places You’ll Go!’ by Dr Seuss. We cut out parts of it, so it was more relevant and, other than some of the guests who were parents, most people didn’t recognise it,” says Lucy. “It was read with so much emotion, it even made some

Get inspired with poignant passages from funny poems to soul-stirri ng song lyrics Modern ‘All I Ever Really Needed to Kno

w I Learned in Kindergarten’ by Robert Fulghum

‘Falling in Love is Like Owning a

Dog’ by Taylor Mali ‘Let Me Put it This Way ’ by Simo n Armitage Book excerpts ‘Captain Corelli’s Mandolin’ by Lou is De Bernières ‘Your Personal Penguin’ by Sand ra Boynton ‘Paradise’ by Toni Morrison Song lyrics ‘The Rest of Mine’ by Trace Adk ins ‘Echoes of Eden’ by Steven Curtis Chapman ‘Grow Old With You’ by Adam Sand ler from ‘The Wedding Singer’ Funny ‘Yes, I’ll Marry You’ by Pam Ayre

‘Be My Homer’ by CJ Munn

Finally, if you’re still undecided, perhaps

Sweet ‘Us Two’ by AA Milne

suggestion. “An increasingly popular option where the couple have many friends who want to be involved is to give each of them a quote on love, life or relationships,” she says.

“As discussed during the planning process for the ceremony, each friend stands at an agreed part of the ceremony and reads out their quote; this can be done individually interspersed throughout the ceremony or as a group each standing in turn. This adds a dynamic to the ceremony especially if the other guests are unaware that this will be happening – a love quote flash mob!”

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‘To My Valentine’ by Ogden Nas

guests cry, and was such a beautiful moment.”

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Its halls echoing with the glittering soirées of the past, art deco is reimagined for glamour-loving modern couples in the beguiling climes of Burgh Island Hotel photography Jennifer Jane Photography styling Emma Caesar Weddings

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Located on a tiny tidal island on Devon’s south coast, the iconic Burgh Island Hotel is one of Europe’s foremost examples of art deco style. Built in 1929 and one of the most popular hotels of the 1930s, you’ll find the hallmarks of art deco everywhere, from the accents of geometry and chrome to the beautifully designed dressing tables and armchairs. A retreat for the notable likes of Agatha Christie and Noel Coward, its spectacular walls have offered privacy, luxury and glittering parties through the decades alongside sweeping views of rolling seas and sandy beaches. “It is the hotel where guests can never be overdressed and you can relax in your own private haven,” says Jennifer Shoubridge of Jennifer Jane Photography, who coordinated this styled shoot alongside stylist Emma Caesar of Emma Caesar Weddings.

Almost 100 years since the first bricks were laid – and the art deco movement got into full swing – the shoot showcases how the aesthetic of those glamorous days are every bit as appealing for a modern wedding, but with a fresh, modern edge.

“We wanted the shoot to have a real feel of the art deco era, but at the same time feel contemporary,” says Jennifer. “For this reason, we opted for a softer colour palette of mint, white and gold instead of the more familiar black and gold.”

A nod to the period’s statement décor, a showstopping floral centrepiece towers over the tablespace, its muted shades adding a modern feel, while lillies and pampas grass replace the famed feathers of the era.

The soft, romantic aesthetic continues in the details: the geometric design of the mint and gold stationery echoes in the gold leaf adornment of the cake.

Although contemporary, the lace gown oozes vintage glamour and sophistication. “We didn’t want the hair and make-up to be a historical recreation, so we kept the make-up natural, but opted for a little more drama for the eyes,” says Jennifer. “For the hair we combined the finger-wave style of the era and a sophisticated updo.” The bespoke hairpiece – created especially for the shoot with vintage pieces – adds an exquisite finish, catching the light as the sun slips down behind the sea – and the night-time soirée begins.

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VENUES GUIDE:

COUNTRY HOUSES & CASTLES Live out your very own fairytale in one of Devon’s elegant country houses or majestic castles

Rockbeare Manor A ceremony on a pretty outdoor terrace flanked by flowerfilled parkland ticks the box for sheer off-the-scale romance – but that’s only part of the dreamy appeal of Rockbeare Manor.

Nestled in the countryside near Exeter, the Grade I listed Regency house is light, elegant and stylish yet relaxed, its fulllength windows framing 100 acres of glorious parkland dotted with mature trees. Available on an exclusive-use basis, indoor ceremonies take place beneath the twinkling chandelier of the Dining Room, while the light-filled Ballroom hosts sumptuous feasts and revelry for up to 160 guests. There’s also a beautiful balconied Bridal Drawing Room for the preparations, a Billiard Room and 13 plush bedrooms with sink-into-me bathtubs and far-reaching views across Dartmoor. rockbearemanor.co.uk Total capacity: 160 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 30, plus 5 rollaway beds for children Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog is allowed for ceremony/ reception but not overnight)

Exeter Golf & Country Club The buzz of Exeter might be on the doorstep, but you wouldn’t know it at Exeter Golf & Country Club. A hidden pocket of country charm a stone’s throw from the city streets, the tranquil air and lush parkland of the venue exude a heady sense of romance. The crisp white Georgian manor house, Wear Park, stands at its heart – think huge floor-to-ceiling windows, sweeping staircases and sumptuous furnishings. Marry in a choice of suites, blending the classic romance of the elegant, Regency-style Topsham Room to the contemporary grey, wood and stone theme of The Mews, complete with its private roof terrace. The Topsham Room offers glorious views of the golf course with a veranda for al fresco drinks. An experienced team of chefs will create culinary masterpieces, ranging from afternoon teas to decadent banquets, and for that pre-wedding prep, Wear Park Spa offers bridal beauty treatments through to luxurious Elemis facials, massage and body scrubs. exetergcc.co.uk Total capacity: 150 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: No (can come for photos on request)

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Pynes House Believed to be the inspiration for Jane Austen’s Barton Park in ‘Sense and Sensibility’, this elegant Georgian house provides the most breathtaking location for your very own love story. Set within 37 acres of parkland in the Exe Valley, the glorious gardens hint at the immaculate interiors, where you can marry in a choice of state rooms, all bathed in natural light and exquisitely styled. For dizzying romance, take your vows before the grand doors on the entrance steps with the majestic tree-lined avenue and gardens as your backdrop, before feasting and dancing the night away beneath the sparkling chandeliers of the Ballroom or, for larger affairs, in a marquee in the grounds. Romantic details such as the Romeo and Juliet-style balcony and the myrtle bush in the rose garden, which is believed to have grown from a clipping from Queen Victoria’s bridal bouquet, add to the dreaminess, while the beautiful bedrooms make for an incredibly special place to spend the night. pyneshouse.co.uk

(with dining in a marquee) Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 12 double rooms, plus 4 rollaway beds Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog for ceremony only)

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Total capacity: 96 for dining in the house, 130 for ceremony in the house

Powderham Castle Rich in romance and steeped in history, this iconic 14th century castle sits at the heart of 200 acres of ancient Tim Charles

parkland on the edge of the Exe estuary. The grounds offer dreamlike backdrops for ceremonies – choose from the American Garden where a garden pavilion is set amidst a glade of exotic trees; the Belvedere, an 18th century tower with panoramic views across the estate and estuary; and the Victorian Rose Garden, where you can marry amidst a castle backdrop and the scent of roses. Inside, there’s the magnificent oak panelled Dining Room, the Libraries and the captivating Music Room, with its stunning dome and estuary views. Bring your dazzling day to a close by retiring to a sumptuous suite for a royally romantic wedding night. powderham.co.uk Total capacity: 140 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 16 Dog-friendly: Yes

Castle Hill Situated on the southern edge of Exmoor, Castle Hill offers history, enchantment and breathtakingly beautiful scenery in equal measure. The magnificent Palladian house sits amidst 50 acres of historic parkland, where the gardens are dotted with mystical follies, temples and rivers snaking their paths through woodland cloaked with wild flowers. This dreamlike venue has an enticing option for weddings of all scales and styles. For regal romance, marry in the mansion house; the West Wing is a wow-worthy backdrop for receptions, while a marquee reception on the West Lawn comes with vistas across the valley to the Triumphal Arch. A relaxed and rustic affair is well suited to the restored 18th century Holwell Temple in the woods, and for a small celebration, there’s Satyr’s Temple tucked away in the woodland gardens next to the river. castlehilldevon.co.uk Total capacity: 300 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: Yes

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Haldon Belvedere Ever dreamt of getting married in a tower? Standing tall amidst the hills of Haldon Forest and the surrounding countryside, Haldon Belvedere is an iconic Devon landmark – and an achingly romantic setting for intimate ceremonies. Built in 1788, its cream façade is the stuff of fairytales, while its roof terrace – reached via a stone spiral staircase – boasts jaw-dropping views of the county’s beauty in every direction. Get wed before up to 50 guests in the gorgeous Ballroom, adorned with ornate Baroque plasterwork and gothic-style windows, and then head to the Lawrence Room for fizz and canapés as you spill out into the picturesque gardens. After the celebrations, kick off your heels and bed down in the self-contained apartment handily located in the castle’s turrets. haldonbelvedere.co.uk Total capacity: 50 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: for 2 in bridal apartment Dog-friendly: Yes (small dog can be carried)

Deer Park Country House Set in 80 acres of idyllic parkland, with the Georgian manor house at its heart, your wedding can be held in any number of intimate spaces with each breathtakingly beautiful backdrop yours to personalise.

The Georgian Orangery is just one with views out onto the Italian garden, for up to 210 guests. Ceremonies can be held inside or out, pared down or turned up. Offering a stylish country house experience, the service is professional, with well-equipped bedrooms boasting a refined, delicate elegance. For a cool bridal suite with a difference, there’s a thatched treehouse set within a cluster of beautiful old oaks complete with log burner, roll-top bath and wrap-around balcony.

Menus feature the estate’s own home-grown fruit, herbs and vegetables picked each day, while fresh fish comes from the market at nearby Brixham, with local sparkling wines to match. Located in the picturesque heart of east Devon, guests can easily slip off-site and explore the dramatic Jurassic coastline, Dartmoor National Park or Exeter. Around the house, everything from archery and clay shooting to falconry and fishing can be arranged. deerpark.co.uk Total capacity: 210 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 60 Dog-friendly: Yes

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Bickleigh Castle This is the place for a wedding rich in history. Beyond the stirring charm of the 11th century Norman castle, with its Great Hall complete with minstrels’ gallery and roaring log fire, there’s the 6th century chapel, Devon’s oldest building, and a truly enchanting setting for a blessing. The grounds are equally fairytale-worthy – the River Exe runs through the estate’s 1,000 acres of lush landscape and wooded valleys, while a cluster of cosy thatched cottage accommodation creates the feel of a wedding village. Kick-start the festivities with a Friday night feast; get married in the garden pavilion before dancing under the stars in the expansive grounds, with fireworks shimmering on the river. The next day, it’s all too easy to continue the festivities with a tasty brunch and fun on the croquet lawn and tennis court. bickleighcastle.com Total capacity: 120 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 5 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 40 in 18 bedrooms Dog-friendly: On request

Woolhanger Manor Flanked by miles of unspoilt countryside and offering glorious views across Exmoor, it’s not just the location of Woolhanger Manor that makes it a spectacular setting for a wedding – inside, you’ll find a series of breathtaking and beautifully restored spaces to marry and celebrate in style and privacy.

There’s the Music Room, with its magnificent octagonal hall and built-in organ for a stirringly atmospheric soundtrack; the resplendent Medieval Room, adorned with chandeliers and an open beam ceiling; and the Red Dining Room, a more intimate yet grand setting for a smaller celebration.

Outside, and with far-reaching views, the Semi-Walled Upper Garden is perfect for a drinks reception or marquee wedding, while the estate’s holiday cottages can accommodate up to 17 guests for a stayover in this extraordinary corner of Devon. weddingsatwoolhanger.co.uk Total capacity: 120 sit-down, 150 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 2 Guest accommodation: for 17 in cottages Dog-friendly: Yes

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Coombe Trenchard A stunning Arts & Crafts country house estate with restored Edwardian gardens and acres of inspiring grounds, this one-of-a-kind venue will sweep you away with its idyllic west Devon location, and time-honoured space in which to create a beautiful English country wedding. From intimate elopements to grander gatherings of 120, Coombe Trenchard weddings are unique, tailored and very special. Brimming with beauty and charm, the exclusive-use venue offers the main house, coach house, courtyard, Italian terrace, clock tower and glorious grounds with breathtaking Dartmoor views as well as a personal in-house coordination service. There are numerous locations for ceremonies indoors and out before the celebrations unfold in the elegant and versatile reception areas. What’s more, Sarah’s cutting garden flowers grown with great love and care for each couple, the stunning bridal suite, and new bijou stable bar mean this gem of a venue will steal the hearts of engaged couples from far and wide. coombetrenchard.co.uk Total capacity: 120 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 6 outdoor: 6 Alexa Poppe

Guest accommodation: for 12 Dog-friendly: Yes

Hareston Manor Hareston Manor exudes timeless romance, from the tree-lined drive and sweeping rural panoramas to the 14th century Jacobean house nestling amongst wooded hills and wild flowers in Devon’s rolling South Hams. Combining a sense of seclusion with a relaxed, back-to-nature feel, Hareston Manor is an eco haven with sustainability at the core of its ethos. With a limited offering of 12 weddings per year, the new venue’s exclusive bespoke weddings will ensure every detail is just perfect, whether you choose an elopement or celebration for 150 guests. Choose from the romance of a ceremony in the picturesque grounds, the candlelit St Martin’s chapel, which dates back to 1379, or the manor entrance, immersed in the beauty of the time-honoured walls and mullion windows, roses and wild flowers. Celebrate in a marquee or tipi before retiring to a luxurious yurt for a wedding night beneath the stars. What’s more, there’s an array of options – from gourmet barbecue evening food and fireworks to prewedding clay pigeon shooting – to ensure your wedding is as individual as it is beautiful. harestonwedding.co.uk

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Total capacity: 150 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 4 Guest accommodation: TBC, please enquire directly for up-to-date information Dog-friendly: No

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VENUES GUIDE:

RURAL TREASURES From rustic barns to modern spaces flanked by wooded valleys and rural panoramas, throw your dream wedding in a charm-packed setting in the Devon countryside

Harefield Barn Located amidst rolling hills and wild flower meadows, Harefield Barn offers the beauty and tranquillity of a country wedding with the convenience of being just a 10-minute drive from Exeter. A light, airy and versatile backdrop for a personalitypacked wedding, the rural gem boasts no less than seven licensed areas for ceremonies – including the Clock House, a dreamlike option for al fresco vows – not to mention four churches within a short drive. Characterful features such as exposed beams and a wood-burning stove meet a blank canvas aesthetic, lofty ceilings and floor-to-ceiling windows framing vistas across the ever-changing landscape. Relax with your guests in the cosy bar, steal away to the surrounding cornfields for photos against a golden sunset, and dance the night away on the terrace beneath a starlit sky. harefieldbarn.co.uk Total capacity: 300 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 6 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: No

couples seeking a relaxed and wildly romantic wedding. The River

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Hidden in the heart of Dartmoor, Badgers Holt is ideally located for

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Dog-friendly: Yes

Dart meanders through the grounds of the former fishing lodge, which houses a series of versatile, rustic spaces for celebrations, all perfect for styling with your own unique twist. Take your vows in the blank canvas Garden Room or Banquet Fireside Room – complete with a roaring wood burner – or even in the garden bandstand on the water’s edge. Venture onto the ancient Tor-dotted moorland for dramatic photos and together-time before returning for festoon lit celebrations and firepit gatherings on the riverbank and sleeping beneath the stars in a Lotus Belle Tent or cosy apartment. badgersholtweddings.co.uk Total capacity: 100 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: Yes Dog-friendly: Yes

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The Oak Barn Fall for the rural dream at The Oak Barn, where three converted historic barns and an ancient cob Devon farmhouse sit amidst acres of quintessentially English countryside. We’re talking meadows dotted with The stunning medieval-style barn is a blank canvas with traditional oak cruck trusses, which is ideal for going to town on the décor. Then there’s the Acorn Barn, a thatched 18th century barn, for intimate ceremonies and accommodation. The Linhay, a converted Edwardian dairy, offers further

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haybales, undulating hills and a beautiful country church right next door.

accommodation as well as a beautifully equipped space for the bridal preparations. And the gardens beg for al fresco celebrations around the firepit, beneath leafy trees and skies speckled with stars. theoakbarn.co.uk Total capacity: 90 day, up to 125 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: for 28-29 Dog-friendly: No

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Upton Barn & Walled Garden Comprising a cluster of lovingly restored traditional buildings and a walled garden, this exclusive-use venue offers a private, picturesque and peaceful setting in rural Cullompton. Marry in the atmospheric Cider Barn, a restored traditional cob barn with oak trusses and floor-to-ceiling windows, or glide down the lavender-lined aisle of the walled garden and exchange vows beneath the handcrafted oak arbour. Stylishly blending rustic character with modern accents, the Stable Barn is a stunning space for receptions for up to 156, with warm timbers, striking lighting and glorious paddock views, while the Press Bar is the place to stop for signature cocktails by the woodburner. Don’t forget to head outdoors at nightfall when a carnival of festoon lights and firepits add to the magic of this stellar spot. uptonbarn.com Total capacity: 156 day Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog is welcome to attend the ceremony)

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VENUES GUIDE:

INTIMATE & UNIQUE Throw a small wedding packed with personality at one of these gorgeous spots

Tree Top Escape Could there be anything more romantic than your very own tree-top hideaway, taking your vows overlooking rolling hills, surrounded by nature with the gentle breeze rustling through the leaves? Tucked away on a private north Devon estate, Tree Top Escape offers the most magical of settings to wed. Beyond the jaw-dropping views of the valley, there’s a large lounge, Italian designer kitchen, freestanding copper bath and state-of-theart technology. Celebrate with up to 14 of your nearest and dearest in the luxe, light and luxurious setting, sink into the private hot tub on the terrace beneath the stars, and enjoy a delicious dinner cooked over live flames by your personal chef in the Grill-Haus, a fresh-from-a-fairytale cabin in the woods. Beautiful, tranquil and unique, it’s the dream location for back-to-nature nuptials without skimping on luxury. treetopescape.co.uk Total capacity: 16 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: 2 en-suite bedrooms Dog-friendly: Yes

Rock Farm Rock Farm is a lovingly renovated property, dating back more than 1,000 years, with a series of character-filled spaces for an intimate wedding: think timeworn beams and original cob and stone walls. Take your vows in the Granary, an ambient setting bathed in natural light; the Potting Shed, a charm-packed spot with fern-cloaked walls, or the relaxed and rustic climes of the Shippon. Or venture down the leafy paths of the gardens and marry beneath the pergola’s quirky rust-tin roof cradled by trees and flowers.

Spend your wedding night in the stylishly renovated Roxie House with its rolltop bath and wood burner, and revel in the away-from-it-all romance of this historic and heavenly corner of east Devon. There’s room for your closest family and friends to stay in Rock Farmhouse too. rockfarmdevon.co.uk Total capacity: 45 day, 60 evening Louise May

Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 10 Dog-friendly: No

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The Lamb Inn at Sandford This village pub is bursting with charm. Nestled amongst the Tudor cobbles of the chocolate-box village of Sandford, the sense of easy charm and rich character is palpable in the 16th century coaching house, from its low ceilings and crackling log fires to its sink-into-me sofas and sheltered garden. Complete with an award-winning restaurant and luxurious boutiquestyle accommodation, it is a cosy and memorable setting for an intimate wedding, where the laidback draw of a country celebration meets fine food and luxe touches. Feast on locally sourced Devon flavours and a huge array of party-starting drinks, as the night draws to a close, bed down in one of the eight spacious and luxurious bedrooms or suites, most with underfloor heating and king-size beds. lambinnsandford.co.uk Total capacity: 40 day, 75 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 7 rooms and 1 garden suite

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Brickhouse Vineyard Tucked away in an idyllic corner of south Devon, amidst 20 acres of fields Emma Barrow

and woodland, you’ll find Brickhouse Vineyard. Although located just 20 minutes from Exeter, the venue’s away-from-it-all charm and palpable sense of tranquillity make it a blissful setting for an elopement or intimate wedding.

Marry in the 18th century Round House – an enchanting and brilliantly versatile space with a thatched roof, beamed ceilings and sweeping views across the vineyard to the countryside and coast beyond. After the vows, enjoy a loved-up stroll in the leafy vineyard and gardens before gathering for a feast tailored entirely to your tastes. You might even savour the romance of this gorgeous spot a little longer at nearby hideaway, The Folly. brickhousevineyard.co.uk Total capacity: 60 day, 100 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: Yes

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VENUES GUIDE:

HOTELS WITH CHARACTER From country charm and glorious grounds to seriously stylish suites for the wedding night, these hotels offer irresistible romance

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Hotel Endsleigh Tucked away deep in the secluded Devon countryside within touching distance of Dartmoor, this Grade I historic house is flanked by 100 acres of scenic grounds, home to woodland, follies, grottos and gardens created by renowned landscape designer Humphry Repton. Say “I do” in any of the ground floor rooms of the immaculately styled hotel or venture outside for vows in the Parterre Garden or the utterly enchanting Shell House. ‘Your day, your way’ is the mantra at Endsleigh and each wedding is entirely bespoke, whether it’s a ceremony for two or an exclusive weekend wedding, complete with a marquee reception on the lawn overlooking the gardens, the River Tamar and beyond into Cornwall.

What’s more, the individually designed bedrooms and Stable suites, featuring roll-top bathtubs and wood-burning stoves, are an absolute treat. hotelendsleigh.com Total capacity: 140 inside, 160 for reception in marquee Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 7 outdoor: 2 Guest accommodation: 18 rooms for 40 guests Dog-friendly: Yes

The Venue at Sandy Cove Perched high on the cliffs of north Devon, The Venue at Sandy Cove boasts to-die-for views across the Atlantic, the rugged coastline and heights of Exmoor. A licensed gazebo for vows and a glass-wrapped platform jutting out from the cliffs means you can make the most of the spectacular location, while the purpose-built and light-filled celebration space boasts bi-fold doors, perfect for bringing the outside in during the warmer Tim Woolcock

months or framing the white-tipped waves in winter.

State-of-the-art lighting heightens the magic while the hotel’s 37 rooms – some with private balconies and

deep bathtubs – will allow plenty of your guests to stay on and savour the sea air and rolling waves in luxury. sandycove-hotel.co.uk Total capacity: 150 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 37 rooms, with 2 people per room Dog-friendly: Yes

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QUESTIONS TO ASK A WEDDING VENUE Before you fall for the first venue you see, get clued up on these must-ask questions from wedding planner, Jenny Granlund of Jenny Wren Weddings & Events 1.

What is the capacity for a ceremony and reception?

2.

Does the venue have a ceremony licence?

3.

What ceremony locations are there, both inside and outside?

4.

Is the venue exclusive use?

5.

What is the availability like?

featuring stone pillars and floor-to-ceiling windows; the Derby Room is a light and airy space

6.

What is included in the price?

menu to impress, and the calm space of Nelsons Lounge is a lovely retreat for those after a

7.

Will room turnarounds need to take place? If so, who will take care of this?

8.

Are there any break-out rooms away from the party for older guests or babies?

9.

Will there be a wedding coordinator on-site on the wedding day? What will they be taking care of?

10. Is

furniture provided?

11. Is

tableware provided?

Mercure Exeter Rougemont Hotel For weddings in convenient locations, it doesn’t come much more central than this revamped venue, which is opposite Exeter’s train station and Rougemont Gardens. A Victorian building that boasts modern facilities, its grand façade gives a clue to its impressive interior. Elegant and stylish, it retains many of its original features, and offers a choice of exquisite spots to take your vows with your loved ones. The Devonshire Suite, with its modern décor and expansive space, caters for up to 250 guests, while the Cavendish Ballroom provides a beautiful backdrop for smaller weddings of up to 50. Catering from the in-house Drakes Restaurant promises a peaceful moment before revelling in the party atmosphere. With 98 bedrooms, your guests can make a real weekend of the celebrations in the heart of the city. mercureweddings.com/hotel/mercure-exeter-rougemont Total capacity: 250 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: 98 rooms Dog-friendly: Yes

12. Can

you bring in your own suppliers and catering company?

13. Are

toilets provided?

14. What

time do the licences for music and alcohol run until?

15. Are

there restrictions concerning music?

16. Is

there the option to provide your own alcohol? Do they charge corkage?

17. What

day and time can you have access from?

18. Is

there accommodation on-site or close by?

19. Are 20. Is

fireworks allowed?

confetti allowed?

21. Are

firepits allowed?

22. Are

there dos and don’ts concerning decoration of the venue?

This country venue has it all: acres of picturesque scenery, a grand-scale reception space for up to 220 guests, plentiful four-star accommodation, and even use of the wedding golf buggy!

Tie the knot in The Oaks, a charming space with exposed beams and large windows framing views across the countryside, or the Atrium, a grand setting with chandeliers, mood lighting and stunning views. Why not make a holiday of it and gather your loved ones in this gorgeous part of Devon for trips to the nearby south coast with its pretty beaches and wild cliffs, before returning to the extensive modern facilities including a state-of-the-art gym, pool and Aura Spa.

23. What

time does the hire end?

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24. Who

does the clean-up afterwards?

Total capacity: 250

25. Who’s

responsible for taking away the recycling and rubbish?

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I’M ENGAGED! NOW WHAT? Wedding planner Jenny Granlund of Jenny Wren Weddings & Events shares her top tips for kicking off your wedding planning journey

Congratulations on your engagement! Before you dive headfirst into

to your own money for the wedding, allocate it sensibly to all of the elements (for

wedding planning, don’t forget to take a moment to really savour being

example, venue, dress, flowers). If you have a wedding planner, they will be able to

engaged. Revel in the beauty of your just-engaged bubble, just the two of

guide you on this. There are many tools online that can help too and remember to

you, before the flurry of questions begin and decisions have to be made.

leave 10% as a contingency to give room for changes.

Let’s face it, aside from experienced events planners, not many of us know where

Create an Excel spreadsheet with two columns – predicted and actual – so you can

to begin with a challenge like planning a wedding. We’ve enlisted expert wedding

keep track of everything that has been spent. If you are anything like me, you will

planner Jenny Granlund of Jenny Wren Weddings & Events (jennywrens.com) to help

enjoy watching the numbers change as you add things in, and it is so satisfying when

you get started...

things come in under budget!

Take out wedding insurance

Draw up a guest list

We advise all of our couples do this straight away. It might not be the most fun

Determining your guest list early is essential, as it will have an impact on so many of

element of wedding planning, but you never know what is around the corner so

the things that follow on (size of venue, for example). The guest list can spin out of

make sure you are covered – with Covid-19, it has proved especially important!

control easily, so it is important to keep on top of it from the start. Begin drawing up your list together and have some structure to it. Separate it into three categories:

Break it down

people you couldn’t bear not being there, people you’d really like to attend but are

If you’re planning your day yourselves, I would advise you to break your planning

not critical, and the people you’d enjoy having but could eliminate if necessary.

down and give yourself dates of when to have things done by. That way these milestones will give you a real sense of achievement and you won’t feel so

Lots of people are likely to have an opinion on who you should and shouldn’t invite

overwhelmed about how much you have to do. Instead, you will have a clear vision

– listen and consider their viewpoint, but always keep in mind your own desires

of where you are at, what else is to be done and when you plan to do it.

first and foremost. If your wedding is being funded by your parents, they may feel

Decide on a budget

they can invite certain people; old friends for instance, who your fiancé may never have met, taking up the place of one of his or her friends. You need to reach a

Before you begin researching your dream wedding, figure out what budget you have

compromise, and you may also find that, once people have received their invitation,

for your day. No decisions can be made until you know how much money you have

some may ask if they can bring extra people, such as a partner you may not have

to work with. Seriously think about what your limit is and speak to family members

met. An easy way to ensure it is clear concerning how many guests the invitation

early on if they have said they may contribute. This is likely to feel awkward to

is for is to add this line to the invitation: “We kindly reserve one/two seats in your

bring up, but it is important to do before you begin, so you can then make realistic

honour.”

plans and not get carried away. Once you have added any contributions from family

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Choose a venue Decide whether you would like two separate locations for the day – one for the ceremony and one for the reception – or if you would rather have it all in one place. Begin making appointments to look around potential contenders; venues get booked up far in advance so this should be top of your list, along with booking your officiant.

Ensure you have a pre-prepared list of questions for your venue before you go to view it (see p.97 for our Venues Guide).

Visualise your day With regards to styling, I advise couples to initially spend some time thinking about their wedding vision. What’s important to you both for your wedding day? What are the emotions you want to evoke?

Forget about how it will look for a moment and think about how you want it to feel – for example, fun, heartfelt, romantic, full of surprises, respectful of traditions, or one hell of a party!

Think about key words that would capture and define your day, this will help you come up with ideas. If you find it hard to determine what you want, then think about what you definitely don’t want.

What have you seen at other weddings that you don’t like? Defining your vision early will make it much easier and avoids those magpie moments that many people fall into, getting everything that catches their eye with nothing pulling the look and feel together.

Find your dream team We are spoilt for choice in the south-west for wedding suppliers.

From photographers to cake makers, caterers to musicians, we have such talented and skilled wedding industry professionals at our fingertips, many of which you will find in this beautiful magazine.

Choosing those involved in your day is exciting, but make sure you do your research. Don’t be afraid to ask for their portfolios, scroll through their social media channels and request testimonials from their previous clients before you make your decision. It is also nice to get to know the person behind the business; they are going to be involved in one of the most important days of your life, I think it’s such a privilege to be part of that. Get to know each other a little first – not only will this ensure they are the right fit in terms of their work, but it will also make the wedding planning journey much more fun and enjoyable.

Choose your bridal party Take your time and think carefully about this. Not only does each additional bridesmaid or groomsman come with a potential price tag, too many maids can mean too many opinions to consider, especially when it comes to things such as dress selection or hen and stag do planning. Once you have asked someone to be in your bridal party, it is extremely difficult to withdraw your invitation if you change your mind. Let the excitement of being engaged mellow slightly before selecting. And don’t feel you are under obligation to ask someone just because they asked you – friendships and relationships change over time and you may not be as close to the person who you were bridesmaid for three years ago.

Obtain a marriage license You may not need to do this right away, but it should be on your list to get done in good time. In England and Wales, 28 days notice must be given to the register office before a marriage can take place and you have to get married within 12 months of giving notice.

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your day, your way From civil ceremonies and sequel weddings to humanist ceremonies, independent celebrant led ceremonies and pagan handfastings, Wed looks at the many ways you can formalise and celebrate your union words Hannah May

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YOUR DAY, YOUR WAY

With everything feeling so up-in-the-air at the moment, it

conversion with a ceremony (with or without guests), you can do so at

might seem impossible to cement your desires and commit to

a register office, approved premises or religious building where same-

a plan with the unpredictability of Covid-19 and its potential

sex marriages are registered.

impact. But however and whenever you’re thinking of getting married, there’s a host of ways to do it to suit your individual

Religious Ceremony (Church of England)

circumstances. Whether you’re living by the rule book or wanting

This is a religious marriage ceremony in a parish church presided over

to write your own, couples can design a day to reflect their love

by the vicar who will also register the marriage. The Church of England

story and stage something reflective of the times by picking a

marriage service is used, but can be enhanced by readings, hymns and

mode to match, from the multitude of ways to say (or not say!)

music chosen by you. Currently same-sex couples cannot marry within

‘I do’ that are also oh-so ‘you’.

the Church of England.

Legally speaking…

Religious Ceremony (not Church of England)

First off, don’t forget the legal requirements of entering matrimony. To

A religious marriage ceremony can take place at any registered religious

get married or form a civil partnership in England and Wales in a civil

building and must be presided over by an authorised person such as a

marriage or a religious marriage (not Church of England), you must both

minister who will need to register the marriage. You must also exchange

be at least 18 years of age (or 16 with parental consent), not closely

vows. Same-sex couples can get married in a religious building if it has

related nor already married or in a civil partnership. Two witnesses must

been registered for them to do so.

be present at the legal ceremony.

Sequel Wedding

You will both need to attend an interview at your register office

Gaining popularity due to current times, sequel weddings are a two-part

where you will need to supply documents such as a passport, utility

event whereby couples have a small ceremony or intimate wedding

bills or council tax bill to confirm your name, nationality and address.

followed by a larger second ceremony or celebration at a later date (only

Additional information such as details of where and when you intend

one can be legally recognised). This can take the form of an elopement

to marry must also be supplied. The venue for the marriage can be

or micro weddings. Virtual weddings have become popular but have no

a register office or a venue which holds a license for civil marriages.

legal standing. Couples who can’t or don’t wish to cancel their original

If you have been in a previous legal partnership, a decree absolute

dates are often staging a ‘minimony’: a smaller version of their wedding

(marriage), decree of dissolution (civil partnership), or death certificate

with all aspects as originally planned, just with fewer guests.

must be produced. Additionally, if one of you is a non-UK national you will need to check any visa requirements, and your waiting period may

Commitment Ceremony

be extended up to 72 days.

This is a way for couples to commit to each other, but without any

After the notice interview a waiting period of at least 28 days

celebrant or a friend. Your status won’t alter since the service isn’t legally

must elapse before the authorities for the marriage to take place can be issued. These are valid for 12 months from the date of the notice interview.

If you are marrying in the Church of England, you will be required to contact the vicar of the parish church in which you wish to marry, and they will arrange to have your banns read after they have seen the documents outlined. Banns are read out at the main service on three

legal rights or responsibilities – and can be conducted by a professional binding, but it does give total freedom and flexibility with regards to venue and content, which can include traditional elements such as vow and ring exchanges and readings, or anything else you personally desire, from promises to special rituals like handfasting.

Humanist or Independent Celebrant Ceremony These provide an alternative to a traditional weddings and are almost entirely free of restrictions or formula and can take place anywhere from

consecutive Sundays in the three months prior to the wedding day.

a beach to your own home or garden. A humanist celebrant will not

Civil Ceremony

celebrant will work with the couple to include these elements if wanted.

This is a non-religious legally binding marriage ceremony performed by government officials, known as registrars or ceremony officers, at a register office or venue approved by the local council. It can feature readings, music and songs, but cannot include any religious content.

Two witnesses must be present.

Civil Partnership A civil partnership legally recognises the relationship between two people and, though isn’t defined as a marriage, does involve similar responsibilities and rights such as tax benefits, inheritance and pensions.

It takes place in front of a registrar and doesn’t involve a ceremony or the exchanging of vows (though both can be requested), but simply the

usually include religious or spiritual elements whereas an independent Conducted by a celebrant who works to personalise the ceremony in its entirety, the event provides an opportunity for the couple to publicly declare their love in a way that isn’t legally valid but represents their relationship in a completely unique way.

Pagan Handfasting The ancient pagan-inspired marriage ritual is usually performed by a celebrant and involves a couple’s hands being bound with ribbon or cord to signify their lives joining together (though isn’t legally recognised).

Holding hands so that the pulse points or wrists are touching, the ribbon (often comprising two pieces of material to represent each member of the couple) is then looped around a number of times as vows and

signing of the civil partnership document in front of two witnesses.

declarations are made.

Both same-sex and opposite-sex couples can form civil partnerships,

Vow Renewal

and are referred as civil partners, as opposed to husband or wife.

However you originally married, renewing your vows is a way to

Civil Partnership Conversion

periodically renew their vows every decade (or even annually!), at

Same-sex (but not opposite-sex) couples can convert a civil partnership Thomas Frost

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INDIAN SUMMER Leena and Arun’s intimate wedding was a gloriously flower-filled affair in a secluded corner of Devon Together since their teens, Leena and Arun became engaged after a decade of travelling and focusing on their careers. “We organised a driving trip on the west coast of Ireland,” says Leena. “Kerry is one of my favourite spots and I’m so glad it’s part of our story. The proposal took place in a secluded spot on our travels surrounded by nothing but the wild Atlantic sea and rolling Irish hills.”

Having first dismissed their initial dream of an English country wedding due to the uncertainty of the British weather, Leena and Arun’s plans for a Goan beach wedding were scuppered by Covid-19, so they returned to their previous idea. “We visited Hayne and were completely sold; it turned out to be everything we were looking for,” says Leena. “The rural setting and views are so peaceful and secluded, and we had exclusive hire so that our 14 guests could all stay on-site, giving our micro wedding an even more relaxed and cosy feel.”

The day presented an “eclectic mixture of small, rustic, floral and bohemian with a nod to Asia” theme, which was achieved with a combination of their natural surrounds, the styling vision of Rebecca Marie Weddings, and homages to their Indian heritage including Leena’s outfit, the food and the Bollywood-bright florals.

Her gorgeous two-piece lengha design in off-white with antique gold embroidery was completed by elegant bell drop earrings, a jewelled choker necklace and flower crown.

Then there was the ultimate accessory – her groom, whose dapper emerald green tweed suit provided the perfect pairing.

“My favourite moment of the day was the ‘first look’ with Arun before the ceremony,” reveals Leena. “This was in private away from our guests. We managed to squeeze in a drink together to begin our celebrations. Until that point we had both been in planning mode, a little stressed and anxious about all the details coming together.

Once I saw him, I finally felt myself relax.”

The floristry was all lovingly grown on-site, from the flower crowns to the bouquet and venue décor, which featured glorious in-season dahlias. “It gave such a cohesion to the whole wedding,” notes Leena.

A pre-wedding dinner beautifully set the tone with the rustic candlelit styling that continued in the wedding breakfast décor. “The most striking detail was the incredible suspended floral installation above our dining table,” recalls Leena. “It was even more impressive than we imagined. None of the wedding party will forget dining under those gorgeous flowers.”

The sun-spilled ceremony took place in the walled garden and was followed by champagne and canapés framed by the Devonshire countryside. The Asian fusionstyle menu comprised canapés of shredded duck, chicken satay and fishcakes ahead of sharing platters of crispy tofu, chicken gyozas, chicken curry, prawn curry, mini lamb samosas and aubergine kuzi.

The semi-naked cake was then served alongside “showstopping” hand-painted macarons, after which followed a relaxed evening of listening to the band while lounging around the firepit and snacking on pizza and s’mores, with sparklers signifying the party’s end.

“Try not to be too disappointed if any of your original plans go awry,” says Leena of rolling with the planning punches. “It will force you to look at alternative options, which may even be better than what you had originally planned.”

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PURE AND SIMPLE Luci and Alex combined a chilled-out vibe with cosy winter styling for their stripped-back yet chic elopement wedding Meeting through a mutual friend in a nightclub in Birmingham, Luci and Alex fell for each other, and began a romance that ultimately led to an Italian proposal. “Alex booked us a four-day trip to Rome, and on the third day he proposed at the Orange Gardens,” says Luci. “It was completely unexpected.”

As they began to plan their wedding, the now-too-familiar tale of Covid-19 pandemic stood in their way. But instead of postponing their big day, Luci and Alex made the decision to bring their wedding date forward.

“Covid was actually the reason we chose to get married where and when we did, as there was so much sadness in 2020 that we wanted to bring a bit of happiness to us and the people around us,” says Luci.

Bringing their wedding forward three months, the couple decided on a winter elopement, opting for the picturesque venue of north Devon’s Millbrook Estate.

“We didn’t have a theme or colour scheme, as we wanted to keep things easy and simple,” says Luci, who adds that she chose her V-neck beaded gown, and Alex his dapper navy suit, “purely based on what we’d feel comfortable in”.

It was a case of everyone pitching in to help make the day incredibly special, with flowers being organised by a talented florist friend of Luci’s mother, and their elegant white floral cake made by a family friend.

When the day arrived, the couple were greeted with icy and snowy scenes, with sunshine overhead, and a relaxed atmosphere pervading throughout the celebrations. The intimate ceremony was punctuated with lots of laughter and poignant moments, before the couple made the most of the venue’s 32 acres for photographs. Exploring the lakes, wild flower meadows, mature woodland and meeting some of Millbrook Estate’s friendly animals, the sun shone over the glowing newly-weds.

“The weather was perfect – very cold and icy but it looked so beautiful for the photos,” says Luci. “The whole day ran very smoothly.”

Sitting down to an “out of this world” three-course feast, the winter styling of the venue brought a cosy-luxe vibe, with elements of lush foliage and white rose accents. After their meal, the couple retired to the luxurious accommodation in newly-wedded bliss.

“My favourite part was just how intimate the day was,” says Luci.

“There was no stress, no pressure; just us.” And when it comes to others planning an elopement wedding, Luci’s advice is as pure and simple as her wedding day was.

“Don’t lose sight of what matters,” she says. “People get very caught up in pleasing others instead of remembering what the day is really about.”

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SCARLET FEVER Megan and Matt took a Danishinspired warm and laidback approach for their ambient winter wedding featuring burgundy and scarlet accents “We met through a dating app, which matches you with local people who you have crossed paths with,” says Megan. “Our worlds collided at the local post office! Matt did a cheesy line in his wedding speech about me ‘collecting my mail and finding my male, and it being the best package I had ever seen’!”

The couple were spending New Year’s Eve together at a cottage in North Wales – “a family holiday haunt of mine that is full of happy memories”, says Megan – when Matt summoned her to the woodshed. “He had scattered hundreds of rose petals, lit candles and spelt out ‘will you marry me?’ with logs on the floor,” she recalls.

Picking a date five years to the day of their first meeting, Ash Barton Estate was the charming backdrop to their “cosy, winter hygge” themed wedding.

An abundance of fresh greenery helped to set the scene, with tree branches decorated in fairy lights suspended from the ceiling combining with candles, rugs and fur pelts to achieve the look. The tabletops were adorned with a single stem burgundy carnation, with centrepieces made by Megan’s mum comprising wood slices and greenery interwoven with burgundy roses, topped with personalised tea light holders crafted from recycled tins.

The central colour scheme of burgundy was also carried in everything from the bridesmaids’ dresses to Matt’s extensive entourage of seven groomsmen and six groomswomen. “Matt wore a grey tweed suit, the guys wore their own suits but had matching burgundy ties, and the girls wore matching jumpsuits and burgundy lipstick,” says Megan, whose stunning lace dress was finished with burgundy berries clipped into her hair and a bouquet featuring burgundy roses and berries with a touch of gypsophila.

Having eloped to Las Vegas a few months before to get legally wed by ‘Elvis’ at The Little White Chapel, the couple wanted their Devon wedding ceremony to be as meaningful, personal and individual as possible. “The fact we were already married in the eyes of the law meant we could ask two of our closest friends to be our celebrants. It meant we could have a lot of fun with the ceremony and the atmosphere was relaxed, fun and informal,” says Megan.

They opted out of traditional hymns in favour of the congregation singing Starship’s ‘80s classic ‘Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now’, while an old friend from university performed an acoustic guitar session during the drinks reception. “It was a lovely moment watching friends come out of the chapel to see him playing in the courtyard after so many years!” reflects Megan.

Following canapés and pub-style nibbles, guests tucked into mains of big pot cider potatoes and local pork sausages rounded off with build-your-own Eton mess, which provided plenty of fuel for the ceilidh dancing that kick-started the evening party.

“Really soak up and try to enjoy the whole process, even the stressful moments if you can. The run-up to the wedding is such a lovely time and a chance to really reflect on all the love and good stuff in your life,” says Megan of the value of taking stock. “The day itself is quite overwhelming so try to pause every now and then,” she wisely adds.

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BLOOMING BEAUTIFUL Ruth and Leigh used seasonal flowers and a smattering of handmade décor to create a distinctive day full of character at Upton Barn & Walled Garden Ruth and Leigh first met at school at the tender age of 15. “It is crazy how we have changed in the 11 years we have been together, but it has been nice to grow up with each other,” says Ruth.

Following their engagement, they set about planning their petal-pretty day at Upton Barn & Walled Garden. “It was the ideal mix between country and rustic, and modern and sleek,” Ruth says. “Everything about it was perfect: the story behind the venue, the family business element, the lovely horses, fairy lights, log burner and, of course, the beautiful walled garden.”

Selecting a rich burgundy colour scheme spliced with natural tones and soft pinks for their “autumnal and cosy, as well as elegant” celebrations, Ruth had just one major prerequisite: fabulous floristry.

“The inspiration for our colours were mostly flowers; with dahlias being in season this was perfect,” she explains of how the natural, rustic theme was achieved, which also included a plethora of handmade wooden décor and floral additions. Ruth’s dad and Leigh used different types of wood to create table centrepieces named after the kind used, while Leigh handmade all of the signage.

Ruth handcrafted much of the décor herself, including signs, place cards and stationery. “We designed the ideas for the table centrepieces and bought or made everything ourselves, then the team at Upton Barn kindly put it all together for us with a sprinkling of petals from our florist. My favourite flowers are sweet peas, which are generally out of season by October, but Gemma sourced some and integrated them into all of the florals throughout the wedding which was so special. She captured the theme and colours beautifully,” adds Ruth.

Post–ceremony welcome drinks of peach bellinis and elderflower pressé were enjoyed along with lawn games as everyone mingled. A sumptuous three-course wedding breakfast followed, which featured autumnal vegetable soup and seafood platters to start, mains of goat’s cheese tart and pork belly, and wedding cake – made by Ruth’s mum – along with cream and fresh fruit as the delicious dessert.

An evening of dancing, drinks and toasting marshmallows around the firepit ensued, with sparklers signalling the party’s end.

Reflecting on the day and offering her advice, Ruth says: “Take your time and enjoy the planning stage. Go with your gut instinct always! If you really want to splash out on something, do it, you won’t regret it. Equally, look at where you can save money and make things unique to you, it is a lot easier than you think. And always ask for help,” she adds.

“It is the best feeling in the world to be marrying the person you love, knowing you will be tied forever, with all of the people in your life who are most important to you both,” Ruth adds as a lasting memory. “Everything about the day, from the surroundings and décor to the flowers, was absolutely perfect and we really feel it was everything we wanted it to be and more. We wish we could do it all over again!”

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THE SMALL THINGS A lavish summer event for 100 morphed into a winter wedding for six, but that didn’t stop Adam and Darius from achieving the most spectacular of celebrations Six years after they first became a couple, Adam presented Darius with a box from one of his favourite London bakeries, while winding down in their apartment after a busy week at work. “We finished dinner and he told me to open it,” reveals Darius. “It had ‘will you marry me?’ iced onto six delicious cupcakes. I burst into tears and said yes straight away! We celebrated with champagne and started planning right away.”

Already their favourite afternoon tea haunt, Hotel Endsleigh was the first venue the couple visited. Beguiled as much by its natural beauty, charm and character as the “friendly and excellent service from all the team”, Adam and Darius picked a late spring/early summer date and created their mood board to match.

“Initially it was intended to be an array of spring colours – light pinks, light blues, ivory and deep greens – to mirror the grounds; however, when we finally decided to do a much smaller winter wedding due to Covid-19, we were open to our incredible suppliers surprising us,” says Darius of their altered plans that saw a turnaround of just three days. “The brief was now: take our original plans, make the colours deeper and richer, and we trust it will look amazing! Our suits were not the tailor-made dusty pink and blue planned, but instead replaced for thicker herringbone suits to match the wintry season.”

One of the benefits of choosing a place like Hotel Endsleigh is the thought and design that goes into everything, which was behind the couple’s choice of the venue. “Olga Polizzi has designed the rooms with such finesse and attention that you don’t need to cover the walls and ceilings with voile fabric – some are even adorned with original William Morris wallpaper,” says Darius.

“You don’t need to do much to dress the tables: a floral masterpiece from Endsleigh’s resident florist, Flowers Et Al, and perhaps some candlesticks and you have an amazing setting you would struggle to replicate if you tried.”

Having marked their original date with a small barbecue and lots of champagne, Adam and Darius were feeling primed for their new wedding plans for 30 when the 15-person limit came into effect. “There was a bit of mild panic and a healthy dose of hysteria but we were getting married next week!” laughs Darius.

The day was a triumph, featuring an emotional ceremony on the parterre followed by photos, free-flowing champagne and canapés, and a sumptuous dinner. Plumping for a cake for 40 “so we could share it with family so they felt more included in the day even though they couldn’t be with us – plus too much cake isn’t a thing as far as we are concerned!”, Adam and Darius gifted slices of rose and pistachio, and cherry bakewell to their nearest and dearest after the event.

The newly-weds also enjoyed a screening of messages of congratulations – “a fantastic end to an amazing day” – waking the next morning for a family breakfast before departing for their minimoon at The Pig at Harlyn Bay. “The wedding we had was small, with just our parents as guests, but in hindsight the best decision that we made. Yes, we were gutted that all of our loved ones couldn’t be there on the day, but we managed to get married at the most amazing venue and it gave us the great excuse to plan a big party for everyone to celebrate when it’s safe to do so,” says Darius in retrospect.

“Be bold and spontaneous,” he advises. “If you can leave a few things to creative inspiration, the surprise will be really worth it when you get to see it on the day. And if you want to get married, what really matters is the two of you – just do it,” he adds. “It’s also a great excuse to plan a big party later!”

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WINTER WONDERLAND The festive décor, twinkling lights and cosy ambience of Christmas provided the inspiration for Becca and Tom’s yuletide wedding A festive romance turned into something much more meaningful for Becca and Tom, who met at a Christmas party. Fast-forward to a beautiful proposal on a rowing boat in the middle of Slovenia’s Lake Bled, and the couple began planning their wedding – with a festive theme, of course.

“We had a cream and green, classic Christmas theme with lots of candles and foliage,” says Becca, of the inspiration for their December wedding. Planning a wedding during the current pandemic, however, meant they had to cut their guest list down from 120 to 15, but Becca and Tom’s positive outlook meant this didn’t dim their excitement.

“Actually, a wedding of 15 with your nearest and dearest makes the day feel even more special and surprisingly fun so it’s definitely still worth considering a smaller one, particularly through these uncertain times,” she reflects.

With lots of help from Becca’s mum, the couple planned an afternoon ceremony with their very closest friends and family. The couple spent a memorable morning with their bridesmaids and ushers and, as the bridesmaids changed into their glitzy emerald green dresses and Becca into her Justin Alexander gown, the festive sense of occasion was palpable.

“My dad seeing me in my dress for the first time was a real standout part of the day for me,” remembers Becca. “He was having a hard time trying not to cry!”

What followed was an emotional and poignant ceremony in Rockbeare Manor’s light-filled ceremony room, followed by welcome drinks and canapés as the newly-weds ventured outside for photographs, which prompted their fondest memory of the day.

“My favourite moment was when the sun came out for our photos when it had been a cloudy and drizzly morning,” says Becca, with Katherine from Nova Wedding Photography agreeing. “We couldn’t believe our luck when the sun came out for a few minutes!” she says.

After a series of heartfelt speeches – “the best man’s speech was very funny with lots of lovely childhood stories,” says Becca – the newly-weds enjoyed an intimate candlelit dinner with their favourite people. The feast comprised a starter of spiced parsnip and butternut squash soup with homemade sourdough bread, a main course of sirloin steak with seasonal vegetables, potato gratin and hand-cut chips, and sticky toffee pudding with clotted cream for dessert. As the drinks flowed into the evening, the couple and their guests enjoyed a four-tier cheese cake, as well as pasties as a nod to Becca’s mum’s Cornish heritage.

Although the couple couldn’t have a band due to the Covid-19 rules, they remarked on how little the other restrictions affected their celebrations. “The day was perfect and how we imagined it!” says Becca. “You also get to spend more quality time with your guests.”

And as for general advice, the happy-go-lucky bride and groom have some wise words for those who are planning their own weddings. “At the end of the day, a wedding is about the love you have for each other above all else! Try not to stress over the little things and enjoy every moment.”

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A CLASS ACT Shanice and Stephen didn’t let a little rain dampen their timelessly elegant country house wedding After meeting through Stephen’s sister and falling for each other, Shanice was in no doubt about his feelings for her after an elaborate week of surprises.

Organising everything from surprise dinners with friends, manicures, tours of her favourite places and special moments with her family, as well as a letter hand-delivered each day on the themes of spirituality, family, friendship and fun, the week culminated in Stephen’s proposal on a bridge over a lake.

“There were some flowers and a note that had a Bible verse in it about finding a good wife, and then a message saying ‘I’ve found what I’m looking for’,” says Shanice.

“Stephen got down on one knee, said a heartfelt speech and asked me to marry him… at which point two of my cousins jumped out of the bush to take pictures!”

Deciding they wanted a “black tie wedding on an English country estate”, Deer Park Country House ticked all their elegance-meets-romance boxes, and they set to work on a theme of soft pinks, white and gold, with the help of stylist and planner Fern Godfrey. “She brought our vision to life perfectly and was the perfect calming presence throughout a stressful planning process – in the middle of a global pandemic,” says Shanice.

Due to the pandemic, their plans had to change a few times, including scaling back from 160 guests to 30, which meant that the day was very relaxed. On the day, Shanice, Stephen and their wedding parties enjoyed a quiet morning before gorgeous music from celloist Jay Emme marked the beginning of the beautiful outdoor ceremony – and marked Shanice’s most treasured part of the day.

“My favourite moment was the ceremony. The heavens opened, which was awful timing but somehow it made everyone pull together – the wonderful pastor even managed to spin it into a positive during his sermon! Even though it rained it was so personal and heartfelt and made everything worth it,” says Shanice. “The Deer Park team were on hand with umbrellas, and then plenty of towels and hairdryers once the ceremony was over. Everyone dried off and then enjoyed canapés and drinks in the house with Stephen’s carefully curated playlists in the background.”

Commenting on another special moment, Shanice says: “‘Jumping the broom’ stood out to us, as my sister-in-law read a beautiful introduction, and it was so nice to bring something in that has such a strong cultural meaning.”

As the skies cleared, the guests were able to venture outside, before the newly-weds danced their way back indoors “to rapturous applause” ahead of dinner. “We wanted to create a magical atmosphere for dinner, as this was where guests would really celebrate the day together,” says Shanice. “With lots of candlelight and an abundance of blooms, the scene was set for hours of laughter and happy tears while almost every guest made a speech. It was unbelievably special, and that intimacy is a big plus to having a smaller wedding.”

What followed was an “utterly delicious” three-course feast comprising home-cured salmon to start, tomato tarte tatin for the main course and a dark chocolate torte with salted caramel ice-cream for dessert. Guests were also treated to a semi-naked cake, then a games evening in the drawing room and wood-fired pizza as the evening drew to a close.

“Make a list of everything you want, set a timescale for each thing and try and stick to it,” says Shanice as advice for couples in the midst of planning. “Book suppliers early to avoid disappointment and I would advise anyone to get a wedding planner.

Our wedding wouldn’t have been what it was without Fern, she was our first and best investment.”

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Enzoani from TDR Bridal thedressingroomsbridal.co.uk

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Flowers

Laura Hingston theflowersessions.com

Stationery

Knots & Kisses knotsandkisses.co.uk

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Keeping It Vintage keepingitvintage.co.uk

Abbotts Event Hire abbottseventhire.co.uk

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Handcraft Pictures handcraftpictures.com

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Plan a so-you celebration with these top tips from the wedding gurus.

This issue, we look at how to add a personal touch to your day

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Surpise, surpise! Think outside the box when it comes to entertainment - and maybe concoct a memorable surprise for your guests. This could be a pre-rehearsed dance incorporating your bridesmaids and groomsmen, a surprise performance roaming the tables during dinner or an interactive evening band. Maisie

Picture this. Dot photos of yourselves around the reception showing the story of your relationship. Instead of table names, perhaps choose images of you both on holiday, or places that mean something to you. Jessica

It’s all in the detail. If you embrace monogramming, customise guests’ napkins with their initials. This makes for a really lovely touch and looks beautiful. Jessica

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Celebrate with a celebrant. A celebrantled ceremony is the ultimate way to personalise your wedding. The celebrant takes time to get an understanding of you as a couple, your experiences and the love you have for one another, and the attention to detail and tailored speech will be remembered for years to come. Maisie

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Sign up. Instead of a guest book, have a canvas or a beautiful backdrop that your guests can sign personal messages onto.

This gives you the choice to then frame and hang it, which will be much more visible than a book! Jessica

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Favourite favours. Guest favours are an ideal place to bring in personal touches.

Perhaps there is a cause that is close to your heart, such as ecology, in which case gifting wild flower seeds would be perfect.

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Order of the day. Don’t be afraid to change the order of the day if you want to.

If you’re morning people, you might fancy getting married in the morning and serving a cooked breakfast for your wedding feast, or if you’re night owls, why not have a candlelit evening ceremony? Rebecca

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Love letters. Write a handwritten note to each guest explaining how much they mean to you and why you wanted to share your special day with them, for them to read as they’re enjoying their meal. Jessica

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Walk your walk. The most important way to personalise your day is to follow your own rules. If you want to walk down the aisle with your mum and dad by your side, or even your dog even, then go

Speak up. If you’re not a fan of traditional speeches, why not incorporate traditions from other cultures? At Swedish weddings, they often don’t have speeches; instead anybody can get up at any time, and say something personal about the happy couple. Jessica

Wonderful weekend. If you’re having a multi-day celebration, plan some events for the day before or after your wedding.

You could arrange a scavenger hunt where guests have to answer questions about you both to find places and prizes, host a movie night showing your favourite film, or how about an en masse yoga class? Jessica Making music. Consider your playlist for the day carefully, and ensure you include lots of songs that mean something to you both. If you’re lucky enough to be a musician then don’t be scared to show off your talent and perhaps write your own first dance. Rebecca Signature drink. Get creative and design your own bespoke cocktail to serve at the reception. Not only is this fun for you to make, it’s a lovely personal touch for your guests. Jessica Fan mail. If you’re having an outdoor or summer ceremony, create personalised fans to keep your guests cool. The decoration could be an illustration that reflects the decor, or colour-match it to the rest of the aesthetic of your day. Jessica Food glorious food. Street food, sharing boards and woodfired platters are great for showcasing your personalities and favourite flavours, while encouraging interaction between guests. Maisie Jessica Kearney, Ardour & Bow Weddings & Events ardourandbow.co.uk Rebecca Green, Rebel & Anchor rebelandanchor.co.uk Maisie Cook, Jenny Wren Weddings & Events jennywrenweddingsandevents.co.uk

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