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DEVON’S DRE AMIEST WEDD I N G I N S P I R AT ION

WELCOME

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Welcome to the 50th Devon issue of wed Magazine!

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milestone and, looking back over the past 13 years, a reel of wonderful moments, fun photo shoots, fabulous people and love in the most spectacular landscapes plays out in my mind.

The publication of our first issue in 2010 saw my husband

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Brendan and I spending the ensuing years criss-crossing Devon from north to south, east to west – and, I have to say, I fell more in love with the county each time. From the cliffs of Croyde to the enchantment of Burgh Island, from the splendour of Powderham Castle and Bovey Castle to the breathtaking romance of country houses such as Pynes House, Rockbeare Manor and Coombe Trenchard, it’s been wonderful to visit so many incredible places and meet the warm, talented and passionate individuals of Devon’s wedding industry – the combination of which makes the county such a magical place to get married.

It’s been a blast – and we couldn’t be prouder that Wed continues to be an integral part of so many couples’ journeys to the altar.

It’s a privilege to be here with you at such a special and significant chapter in your lives. Thank you to all our wonderful readers, advertisers and industry friends who make this magazine such a delight to run. And, of course, a huge thanks to our brilliant team - Hannah, Lucy, Jenna, Morwenna and Matt.

And now to the future. After the heartache of the past couple of years, I’m particularly excited about the upcoming weddings across Devon, which promise to be more joy-filled than ever. It was so moving to cover the first post-lockdown weddings and witness the palpable emotion of people coming together after so long apart. It’s been a vivid reminder of the special place weddings occupy in our lives – in bringing people together, in creating moments to cherish forever, in celebrating love in all its forms.

We like to think of every issue as a celebration of Devon – and in this, our 50th issue, the county shines like never before. One of our favourite country house venues, Pynes House is abloom with gorgeous florals, timelessly elegant detailing and a generous helping of Bridgerton vibes in A Fine Romance. Another Devon gem, Brickhouse Vineyard is captivating in the depths of winter in Winter Wonder, where foraged treasures and ethereal styling meet super-chic fashions.

Our real weddings take us from the windswept heights of Dartmoor in Tara and Kelvin’s wildly romantic winter nuptials to the idyllic setting of Upton Barn in Laura and Earl’s sun-drenched celebrations. Molly and Will’s wedding at Rockbeare Manor brims with music and sunshine, while the sense of happiness is palpable in every image of Kate and Tayler’s colourful moorland wedding.

Love, joy and the beauty of Devon shines through each of these life-affirming stories – and, indeed, this very special issue of Wed! I hope you enjoy it.

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Editor Rebecca Matthews Deputy editor Lucy Higgins Chief features writer Hannah May Contributors Elizabeth Chester, Rebecca Green, Jessica Kearney, Sophie Walker-Sunderhauf Design Matt Sanwell, Design UNLTD designunltd.co.uk Advertising and Management Brendan Sleeman

Publisher Wed Magazine 28 Reens Crescent Heamoor Penzance Cornwall TR18 3HW 01736 331456 wed@wedmagazine.co.uk wedmagazine.co.uk

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GOOD HAIR DAY

Print Deltor Communications Ltd Cover image Photography Tara Statton tarastattonphotography.com Styling Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Venue Pynes House pyneshouse.co.uk Hair The Updo Girl theupdogirl.com Make-up Laura Le Page Bridal Makeup lauralepagebridalmakeup.com Dress Kate Walker Bridal katewalkerbridal.co.uk Headpiece Clare Lloyd Accessories clarelloyd.co.uk Tuxedo Zebel Bespoke zebel.co.uk Flowers Flourish and Grace flourishandgrace.com Model Clara Bond & Chris clarabond.com

Delivering gorgeously individual styling from a passionate and highly accredited creative team, Gershwins Hairdressing is renowned for their bespoke bridal beauty services. Every element of the award-winning Paul Mitchell Signature Salon focuses on quality, from their NVQ Accredited Training Academy to their friendly and talented team of stylists intent on helping you look and feel your very best for the big day.

Promising a tailor-made beauty experience, the salon’s dedicated wedding coordinator will ensure the specialist wedding hair and makeup services are delivered with the utmost care, attention and skill to help you achieve your bridal vision. You can either book a visit to the Newton Abbot salon or schedule the team to attend the venue of your choice. And, thanks to the extensive team of hair stylists and in-house make-up artists, even the largest of bridal parties can look forward to being pampered to perfection.

British natural mineral make-up brand Lily Lolo is used to create a flawless finish while the hair stylists will work their professional magic to transform your tresses. You might even opt for Gershwins’ ‘Countdown to the Big Day’ wedding service, which personalises and

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plans a unique wedding hair diary featuring innovative techniques and treatments to ensure your mane is in aisle-ready condition. What’s Emma Solley Photography

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more, the salon also offers a special restyle, hair treatment and cut and finish service for grooms, helping couples to steal the spotlight together to wow-worthy effect. Get in touch to book your free consultation. gershwins-hairdressing.com

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BRIDAL BUZZ

10% OFF YOUR TIPI WEDDING WITH TIPI SPACES! Give your wedding space the wow factor it deserves with one of Tipi Spaces’ striking ivory white canvas Nordic tipis – who are currently offering Wed readers a fabulous 10% discount on all new bookings made for 2022.* The beauty of the tents is three-fold: the freedom to pitch up practically anywhere and celebrate your love in a setting to individually suit, a beautiful blank canvas to make your own, and a show-stopping

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12. AMAZING GRACE Literary inspired touches for a timelessly beautiful wedding 14. A FINE ROMANCE Classically romantic wedding inspiration at Pynes House 22. WINTER WONDER A wildly beautiful winter wedding at Brickhouse Vineyard 30. WED’S WISH LIST Dream dresses and head-turning finishing touches

centrepiece guaranteed to take your guests’ breaths away.

34. SHAPE OF YOU Swoon-worthy silhouettes, from ball gowns to mermaids

Crafted in Sweden by Tentipi, each tent is expertly designed to offer maximum durability and protection

48. WED’S BOUDOIR Bridal beauty tips and trends

from the elements while affording great flexibility for all styles and sizes of event. At 7m in height and 10m in diameter, they pack a visual punch, while their conical shape inside creates a more intimate space that can be uniquely styled to match your vision. A smart linking system allows multiple tipis to join up and accommodate up to 240 guests, while the team – who together boast almost 50 years combined experience of project and luxury event management – will be on hand to help you with every element including the lighting, furniture, floor matting, tableware, soft furnishings and a collection of accessories,

62. THE BRIDESMAID DRESS EDIT These frocks are serious bridal party goals 70. SUIT YOURSELF Wear your personal style with panache on W-day

which are all available to hire.

74. ACCESSORISE ALL AREAS Coolly individual finishing touches for grooms

However and wherever you’re dreaming of tying the knot, be it an intimate dinner party for your nearest

77. WED’S HIP LIST Fresh and fabulous ways to add a unique touch to your day

and dearest or a sprawling festival style party, Tipi Spaces’ exclusive canvases will provide the most eyecatching space to suit. *Subject to availability. This offer does not apply to existing bookings. Readers should use the code TIPIWED when enquiring to access this discount. Terms and conditions apply.

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80. ESTATE OF GRACE Fairytale-worthy romance at Ugbrooke House 86. RHAPSODY IN BLUE Shades of blue and intricate Eastern inspired details

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44. HEAVEN SCENT Perfume your wedding to perfection with these fragrant ideas 50. FOREVER LOVE A guide to choosing your dream ring from the experts 54. BE JEWELLED Prepare to be captivated by these aisle-worthy jewels 58. THE ZERO-DRAMA GUIDE TO BRIDESMAIDS Look forward to bridesmaid bliss with these top tips 67. GOOD MORNING SUNSHINE! How to bring the joy to your bridal preparations 92. IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU Fashions, feasting and how to do your day your way 97. NEW ORDER Reimagine your wedding with these personality-packed ideas 100. 10 TIPS FOR A SUSTAINABLE WEDDING How to plan a stylish and sustainable celebration 106. WED’S VENUES GUIDE The ultimate guide to Devon’s finest wedding venues

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120. THE LOWDOWN ON PRE-WEDDING ANXIETY How to deal with the pressures of the planning period

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WORDS OF LOVE “I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.”

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6. BRIDAL BUZZ What’s new, what’s hot, what’s on 125. GOT WED Newly-weds share a glimpse of their day 162. NOTES ON A WEDDING Top tips for your planning pleasure

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IMAGERY WIZARDRY

Priding himself on an unobtrusive yet relaxed approach to wedding photography, the multi award-winning Peter Prior will produce a stunning set of emotive images that you’ll forever value as one of the most treasured keepsakes from your day. “Your wedding album will be far more than a set of pictures. I will have created a piece of family history that will be a priceless heirloom for generations to come,” he explains.

“My aim when photographing a wedding has always been to produce timeless, natural and elegant images that capture the soul and essence of the occasion.”

Tailoring his photography to suit your personal requirements, Peter will document as much or as little of your day as you’d like before presenting you with a handmade designer album packed with pictures you’ll wish to pore over time and time again (with a digital only option also available).

For 2022/23, he is thrilled to introduce a selection of exclusive Devon and Cornwall packages that aren’t available to clients anywhere else the UK in a move to focus on shooting the majority of his weddings in the south-west. Part of these new additions includes brand new albums, which have proven particularly popular. Together with Peter’s creative eye and professional service, expect a wedding album that will allow you to relive and share your W-day in the most beautiful of ways. peterprior.com

ART AND SOUL There’s nothing quite like a wedding show for stirring some planning excitement – and the team at Art of Weddings has a calendar brimming with must-visit events for 2022 across Devon and Cornwall. Exeter Racecourse will host shows on Sunday 8th May and Sunday 18th September, while the Royal Cornwall Showground is the place to be on Sunday 10th July and Saturday 15th and Sunday 16th October. Couples can look forward to a diverse and talented selection of wedding suppliers showcasing their services, from bridal specialists, cake designers and wedding stylists to florists, photographers and venues. Together with entertainment and refreshments, the shows promise to be fabulous wedding planning extravaganzas. Running from 11am-

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3pm, entry is free of charge. artofweddings.co.uk

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“On your wedding day, remember to be you”

Special thanks to these incredible local suppliers: Dress – The Ivory Lounge, Photographer – Melanie Barnfield, Suit – Moss Bros, Hair and Make Up – Fox House Retreat, Flowers – Hannah Burnett, Models – Paige and Daniel.

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LOVE IN DEVON

“If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” Alfred Tennyson

A new wedding venue has opened its doors on the edge of Tavistock – and it offers romance and spellbinding scenery in abundance. Located in Lamerton, Hurlditch Court is a Grade II listed manor house boasting a rich history that dates back as far as 1351. The charm-filled house is flanked by incredibly pretty grounds where elegant gardens meet rolling lawns and a beautiful lake.

With a myriad of stirring settings for ceremonies, choose from an elopement or intimate wedding for up to 14 guests in the Gatehouse or, for palpable romance, a celebrant-led ceremony by the lake. If you have your heart set on a church ceremony, the local church is a short distance from the venue.

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As for receptions, you might choose a grand marquee or tipi reception by the lake for up to 80 guests or perhaps a stretch tent between the shepherd’s huts for up to 60. With ample space for garden games and al fresco festivities, imagine mingling with your nearest and dearest while taking in the idyllic country views and dancing beneath the stars as night falls. With accommodation for up to 14 on-site, ranging from the snug shepherd’s huts and Gatehouse to a cosy cottage, you can relax and savour the delights of this Devon gem over the course of a magical and oh-so memorable weekend. hurlditchcourtweddings.co.uk

LIGHT UP THE NIGHT There’s no finale to your W-day quite like a fireworks display, which ensures a magical endnote to your evening entertainment. Sonic Fireworks is an award-winning and family-run fireworks display operator with over two decades of professional industry experience, who are renowned for creating wow-worthy illuminations across the south-west.

Using state-of-the-art firing systems and techniques to create unique pyro-spectaculars at a variety of events, the talented team is highly trained and fully insured to provide a safe and utterly breath-taking show.

Whatever the scale or theme of your celebrations, they can customise their service to suit, from creating giant love hearts in the sky to high impact displays cleverly choreographed to your choice of music.

You might also wish to take advantage of their special reader offer of a 10% discount on items from the wedding shop on their retail website. The collection

most unforgettable of parties. sonicfireworks.co.uk / sonicfireworkshop.com

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amazing grace Make nods to fashion’s Regency era obsession with romantic silhouettes, literary-inspired touches and a plethora of pearls compiled by Rebecca Matthews

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freyarose.com 6. We adore the timeless elegance of this stationery from Devon-based The Whole Caboodle. caboodle.wedding 7. Adorned with intricate florals and sequins, this shimmering number by Needle and Thread exudes Bridgerton vibes.

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A FINE ROMANCE Pynes House makes a dream canvas for a timelessly romantic wedding scheme, where abundant florals and muted shades meet luxurious styling and Bridgerton-worthy gowns photography Tara Statton Photography styling Elisabeth Shell Events

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Graceful, elegant and steeped in history, Pynes House offers period-drama-worthy romance in the picturesque Exe Valley. Indeed, it is believed to be the inspiration for Barton Park in Jane Austen’s Sense and Sensibility.

Flanked by sweeping meadows and woodland, immaculate lawns and bloom-filled gardens, the grounds set the tone for the wow-worthy interiors.

The huge ornate doors open onto a stunning entrance hall with a dramatic stone staircase, an elegant Ballroom flooded with light and a myriad of beautifully styled reception rooms and bedrooms. As photographer Tara Statton explains: “It’s a real slice of English luxury, and I knew it would be the perfect location for some seriously dreamy fine art wedding inspiration.”

Heaps of fresh florals, luxurious table styling and gorgeous bridal wear were the cornerstones of Tara’s vision of timeless romance. “We combined a palette of creams and golds with hints of pink and peach with candlelight, lavish stationery and floaty fabrics in the Ballroom for effortless style,” she says.

The cake table echoes the soft palette, the crisp white confections styled with linens and florals in barely-there hues, while the carnival of fresh flowers make the most beautiful statement in the Drawing Room. “Our ceremony aisle was lined with a meadow of peonies, garden roses and dahlias, and when paired with some seriously stunning gowns, gave us total Bridgerton vibes,” says Tara.

The gowns carry the aesthetic through delicate floral embellishment – think shimmery petal sequins and intricate laser-cut blooms – and skirts in shades of ivory and mink. Featuring clusters of enamel flowers, the dainty jewels and crown also nod to the current Bridgerton-inspired love affair with Regency style - a seamless blend of classic and contemporary for freshfrom-a-novel romance.

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Photography

Tara Statton Photography tarastattonphotography.com Venue

Pynes House

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Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Flowers

Flourish and Grace flourishandgrace.com Dresses & shoes

Kate Walker Bridal katewalkerbridal.co.uk Hair

The Updo Girl theupdogirl.com Make-up

Laura Le Page Bridal Makeup lauralepagebridalmakeup.com Headpieces

Clare Lloyd Accessories clarelloyd.co.uk Cakes

Edible Essence

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Laura Elizabeth Patrick lauraelizabethpatrick.com Cocktails

The Fizzy Pheasant

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Keeping It Vintage keepingitvintage.co.uk Tuxedo

Zebel Bespoke zebel.co.uk Bride’s ring

Erin Cox Jewellery erincox.co.uk Groom’s ring

Molten Wedding Ring Co

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Winter Wonder Immerse your guests in the wild romance of a wedding in the depths of winter. Natural treasures meet bold and beautiful bridal wear in the captivating setting of Brickhouse Vineyard photography Mimosa Photography coordination & styling Elisabeth Shell Events

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WINTER WONDER

There’s something about a winter wedding: the steely skies, the snug, twinkling touches, the sheer magic of making merry together while the blanket of darkness falls. This styled shoot captures the enchantment of the season against the stirring backdrop of Brickhouse Vineyard, an idyllic venue set amidst rolling meadows, vines and woodland in the hills of south Devon.

“Foraged greenery, with feathers and twigs, contrasted with natural stone colours and textures, singing a winter hymn together and celebrating the wild countryside,” explains Phoebe Stanaway of Elisabeth Shell Events, who coordinated and styled the shoot. The moon shaped arch is a vivid expression of this wildly beautiful styling: a flurry of lichen, moss and foliage, dotted with homegrown flowers and pheasant feathers, makes an ethereal backdrop for a ceremony in the 18th century thatched Round House. The golden glow from the handcrafted rope chandeliers, together with the warm tones of the red bricks and oak beams, enhance the cosy ambience.

Set against the blank canvas backdrop of the renovated Barn, the tablescape is nothing short of dreamy.

Echoing the moon arch, foraged greenery nestles black candelabras and egg-textured vases springing with delicate stems and pheasant feathers. Beeswax flower favours sit alongside dainty blooms and vellum stationery on the metallic charger plates, enhancing the fragile beauty of the scene. And, resting on a bed of lichen, moss and white flowers, the stone textured cake, adorned with barely-there accents of gold, ties in perfectly with the aesthetic.

With nature at the heart of the concept, careful sourcing was key for Phoebe. “I try to make sure that all the hire items I use are sustainably sourced and artisan-made and so Glas Events’ hire range was a perfect choice for the elegant black candelabras and unique charger plates,” she explains.

Nature shares the spotlight with a strong bridal look.

“Drawing on icy winters, the shoot showcases a fiercely feminine aesthetic with our stunning bride galloping through the vineyard on her beautiful grey horse, while her caramel vizsla is with her throughout the day,” says Phoebe.

Teamed with a striking braid and smoky eye, the bridal separates bring bold and beautiful drama: there’s a black lace crop top paired with a hand-painted dip-dye chiffon skirt; then there’s the dreaminess of a dove grey printed top and hand-painted skirt in silk organza.

Complete with her groom in a sharp, all-black tuxedo, the couple embody the wild romance of a wedding in the darkest months of the year.

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Mimosa Photography mimosaphotography.uk

Videography

Yeti Film

yetiphotography.co.uk Coordination & styling

Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Dresses

Rock the Frock

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Bridal Hair by Rosanne bridalhairbyrosanne.co.uk Make-up

Laura Le Page

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Model’s own Flowers

Holly Bee Flowers

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Boho Cakes

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Erin Cox

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The Wedding Hub thewedhub.com Hire items

Glas Events

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Elisabeth Shell Events elisabethshellevents.com Beeswax favours

Millie Uhlein

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Chandeliers

Stories & Light

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FOR THE LOVE OF VERA A breathtakingly beautiful collection of gowns from the biggest name in bridal fashion – Vera Wang Bride – is now available at The Ivory Lounge in Plymouth.

Located in the heart of the city in Whimple Street, the plush boutique is already home to one of Europe’s leading designers of bridal gowns – Suzanne Neville – as well as British labels Ellis Bridals and Kelsey Rose – and the arrival of the fashion icon’s designs are the perfect addition to the luxurious collection.

Combining refreshingly modern silhouettes with elegant and romantic design, Vera Wang Bride’s latest gowns offer pared-back chic through to full-blown drama. There’s the spellbinding romance of Yvette, a ball gown with a sweetheart bodice and layers of soft tulle edged with organza, and the ethereal whimsy of Raphaelle with its corset bodice and soft ivory tulle scattered with silvery beads. Then there’s the iridescent, beaded beauty of Lys with its elegant mermaid silhouette and draped Juliette sleeves, and the striking cut of Eliette with its folded architectural design in soft Mikado, tulle skirt and organza floral detailing. And for minimalist chic, we love the effortlessly stylish aesthetic of Amandine with its plunge back and subtle draping.

Gorgeously made, stunningly styled and complete with the revered Vera Wang Bride label, these gowns guarantee all-eyes-on-you aisle style. Get in touch with the team to book your exclusive appointment. theivorylounge.co.uk

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PRETTY PERFECT From divinely sleek silhouettes to curve-hugging tulle confections and all in-between, Pretty Smithy Bridal in Paignton is brimming with a gorgeous collection of gowns for brides of all styles.

New to the boutique, the Wilderly Bride collection is awash with dreamily romantic silhouettes, ranging from delicately ethereal to classically bohemian. Picture soft textural laces, seductive plunging necklines, open backs and statement sleeves for a modern yet whimsical take on romance. From the delicate lace and dramatic bell sleeves of Rebel and the corset bodice and soft skirts of Justina to the gorgeous textural lace and chic tie back of Shelby, prepare to be enchanted by these free-spirited gowns.

The boutique has also welcomed a collection of gowns from GAIA Bridal to the rails.

Every gown is designed in the UK with a focus on fine fabrics and exquisite detailing including hand-applied beadwork. The seriously swoon-worthy gowns feature the likes of eye-catching glitter tulle skirts, V-backs, beaded lace and exposed boning.

Take Georgia, for example, whose layers of luxurious crepe and Chantilly lace are paired with dreamy off-the-shoulder lace detailing. Then there’s the ornately beaded bodice of Monaco and the pure romance of Jasmine with its cascading beaded lace appliqués and sumptuously layered skirt – the perfect fit for brides seeking contemporary style with a timeless twist.

You’ll also find the latest arrivals from Millie May, offering classic cuts through to dreamy boho designs, while Danish label Lilly offers delicate detailing, soft breezy silhouettes and light, airy ball gowns. And for retro fashion fans, Brighton Belle is all about dancefloor-ready tea-length dresses for a sassy bridal look.

Pretty Smithy Bridal is renowned for their extensive collection of curvy bridal wear from dedicated curvy designers True Curve and Millie Grace with samples in every size between 14-36; think fabulous fishtails, elegant lace A-lines and vintage-inspired beauties dripping in sparkle and pearls.

What’s more, the boutique has partnered with Carbon Neutral Britain to off-set their carbon footprint through sustainable tree planting projects across the world, while taking a conscious approach to their practices in-store to minimise their impact on the planet – making a purchase at this emporium of bridal delights both stylish and sustainable. prettysmithybridal.co.uk

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FABULOUS FREDA Housed in the charming climes of Grade II-listed Horton Cross Farmhouse in Ilminster, Kate Walker Bridal’s emporium of loveliness is home to romantic, whimsical designs from Olivia Rose as well as Kate’s own exclusive signature label, Kate Walker. Adding to the enchanting choice at the rails, the boutique has taken stock of the latest collection from British designer Freda Bennet, whose designs are as timeless as they are tantalisingly on-trend.

You might wish to create a minimalist look with Austin’s strapless satin ball gown or opt for the practical prettiness of Augusta’s floral illusion lace bodice and luxurious Mikado skirt complete with pockets! Up the romance with Denver’s off-the-shoulder ball gown edged with floral detailing, or channel a sense of whimsy with Roseville’s semi-sheer plunging bodice with floral appliqué and voluminous skirt.

The collection features a host of accessories to help you layer and individualise your look, from tulle coats and tiered overskirts to gardenia lace tops and detachable puff sleeves. With an array of fashion-forward choice in a range of shapes and styles, you can look forward to making your bridal vision a reality with this beautifully crafted collection. katewalkerbridal.co.uk

HEAD START Seeking a unique finishing touch for a mother of the bride or groom ensemble? Rachel Dunn runs her award-winning millinery venture, All Dunn Up, from her studio in Winkleigh, Devon where she lovingly crafts a wide range of headpieces from the finest, locally sourced materials. Her designs range from delicate combs and elegant fascinators to showstopping hats adorned with flamboyant feathers, silk flowers and dramatic veiling through to intricate beads, pearls and lace. Having trained with a series of renowned milliners including Katherine Elizabeth, Ian Bennett and Rebecca Share, Rachel is perfectly placed to design and handcraft a beautiful bespoke piece to complete your W-day look. alldunnup.co.uk

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LOVERS AND DREAMERS

Whether your dream gown is boho, minimalist or achingly fashion-forward, Evolved Bridal in Barnstaple has a curated collection of gowns to ensure you rock the aisle with stunningly individual style on your wedding day. With designers such as Vera Wang Bride, Rish Bridal, Rosa Clara and Zavana Couture at the rails, prepare for a captivating choice.

Exclusive to the boutique in the southwest, Lovers Society is perfect for brides seeking romantic and bohemian style with a high fashion edge. The sister brand of Rue De Seine, the latest collection combines sweeping lines with whimsical florals to head-turning effect.

Picture lace plunge bodices paired with vine appliqué skirts and body-hugging crepe gowns with open backs. With details such as textured botanical accents and exclusive lacework to floral embroidery and voluminous trains, swoon-worthy drama is guaranteed.

Keep your eyes on Evolved Bridal’s website for details of a special Lovers Society promotion running throughout March. evolvedbridal.co.uk

SOLE MATES The new collection from bridal shoe designer Charlotte Mills has landed – and it’s bursting with gloss, glitter and gorgeousness! We love them all, from the silk knotted styles sprinkled with pearls and the elegant suede numbers in shades of soft blue and blush to the block heels dusted with micro pearls and glitter. There’s even leopard embossed pearl leather heels and dancefloor-ready sneakers for sparkle – and comfort – for the evening shenanigans. All Charlotte’s shoes come complete with her signature details: an original silver sixpence embedded in the shoe and the traditional bridal rhyme ‘Something old, Something new…’ embossed on the soles. What’s more, you can carry your big day essentials in coolly coordinated style thanks to the collection of matching clutch bags. charlottemills.com

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SHAPE OF YOU

From airy ball gowns to figure-sculpting mermaids, wed showcases the seriously swoon-worthy silhouettes storming the bridal scene words Hannah May

Wilderly Bride, Pretty Smithy Bridal

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As the Academy Award-winning costume designer Edith Head once said: “Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman and loose enough to show you’re a lady.” In short, it’s all about the shape.

Designers are currently enjoying their own obsession with form. Sculptural ball gowns, statement fishtails, modern tailoring and micro minis are all big on the runways, giving brides greater choice than ever when it comes to that all-important silhouette. But where to start? Here’s Wed’s lowdown on the latest dress shapes shimmying their way into a bridal boutique near you...

Vera Wang Bride, Evolved Bridal Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge

Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge

Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette

Lovers Society, Evolved Bridal Vera Wang Bride, Evolved Bridal

Lovers Society, Evolved Bridal

Lovers Society, Evolved Bridal

Maggie Sottero, Pirouette

Fit and flare Flattering and fashionable, fit and flares continue to dominate the catwalk.

A more relaxed version of the mermaid, it features a fitted bodice with a skirt that billows loosely from the base of the thigh. The result is a gown that accentuates the female form (sculpting and lending support for curvier figures and showcasing the slim waists of slender frames) while also allowing a greater degree of movement and dynamism of design.

For example, detachable overskirts and in-built trains add a high fashion and whimsical edge, while deep sweetheart, scooped, plunging and off-theshoulder necklines pair perfectly with this beautifully versatile and uberfeminine silhouette.

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The sheath (or column) is one of the most curvehugging body-con styles for brides wanting to

Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette

Sheath

Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge

show off their figure. Comprising a straight cut skirt and top, the sheath’s sleek, clean lines trace your contours (and lengthen shorter torsos), making it a supremely elegant choice. They’re also fantastically diverse and come in an array of fabrics from crepe and chiffon to all-over lace, allowing you to find one to match your exact bridal vision. Keep it chic with a strapless bodice, cap sleeves and subtle waist detail, or up the ontrend ante with a thigh-high split, statement veil, portrait back, nude underlay and embellishments like embroidery, beadwork, intricate lace and metallic threading.

Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge

Gaia Bridal, Pretty Smithy Bridal

Rebecca Ingram, Pirouette Gaia Bridal, Pretty Smithy Bridal

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A bridal classic that suits every figure, the A-line is the dress for all body and style types. Pairing a fitted top with a skirt that starts at and accentuates the waist before flowing out and down, it creates

Wilderly Bride, Pretty Smithy Bridal

A-line

Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge

a flattering and comfortable silhouette that loosely follows your physical outline. The result is a gown that allows you to focus on your assets or create a statement with the most head-turning design features du jour.

Examples include a simple silk Mikado with centre thigh-high split and pointed V-neck, an illusion bodice with 3D floral appliqué and ethereal tulle skirt, or adopt the two-piece trend with bridal separates such as a silk camisole or an open back lace top and pleated satin skirt. Add dainty cap or long bishop sleeves for a more modest approach, or opt for delicate drapery, ruching and cover-ups such as a cape for minimalmeets-mystique style.

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Gaia Bridal, Pretty Smithy Bridal

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Lilly, Pretty Smithy Bridal

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Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge

Ball gowns are a mainstay of bridal fashion for a number of reasons. Despite their reputation for being heavy and bulbous, nowadays they serve to

Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge

Ball gown flaunt and forgive all physiques, having evolved in recent years into light, dance-worthy confections fit for any bride, whether it’s traditional fairytale or modern minimalist style you favour. Close fitted on top and bell-shaped on the bottom, the beauty of the ball gown is that it is constantly being reimagined, making it one of the most highly wanted and wearable of all the silhouettes. Strapless remains a popular choice, ranging from off-theshoulder sweetheart necklines to seductive deep V plunges and lingeriestyle bustiers. Pick a minimalist satin ball gown (perhaps with a front split or giant back bow), or fuse fashion-forward elements with florals (lace, prints, 3D petals, botanical motifs, colourful embroidery), monochrome (via black accents such as a belt or appliqués, or embolden your look with a black bodice or overskirt), long or puffy sleeves, and a tiered tulle, waterfall or organza flounce skirt.

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Shorter skirts Minis, high-lows and tea-length gowns are all making an appearance on the catwalks as designers continue to play with hemlines. The Little White Dress is back with aplomb and is shorter than ever (if you dare), while ballerina styles and ankle-length gowns offer a way to wear the look while baring less leg. From ’20s-style flapper skirts to statement ostrich feathers and ‘Black Swan’-inspired tutus, there’s an emerging aesthetic of revamped vintage wear making a beeline into bridal boutiques, which also includes disco dresses in eye-catching metallics. Meanwhile, asymmetrical high-lows of any length channel contemporary romance, ranging from softly tiered lace skirts to attention-grabbing ruffles and tulle overskirts thrown over a micro mini.

Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge

Hermione de Paula

Hermione de Paula

Brighton Belle, Pretty Smithy Bridal

Brighton Belle, Pretty Smithy Bridal

Halfpenny London

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Wilderly Bride, Pretty Smithy Bridal

Vera Wang Bride, Evolved Bridal

Maggie Sottero, Pirouette

Ellis Bridals, The Ivory Lounge

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Mermaid The mermaid (or trumpet) remains one of the most glamorous dress shapes, blending an old-school screen siren vibe with contemporary couture for a look that’s both trendy and timeless. Hugging the entire body right down to the knees, the skirt then sharply flares out in a dramatic kick to exaggerate the natural hourglass. Here, playful and intricate elements can be used to draw the eye downwards and enhance the air of romance. Think feathers, ruffles and voluminous layers of tulle (in blush or pastel shades), which can be combined with corset tops with exposed boning, bodices with bare backs and cut-outs, and statement sleeves to garner maximum overall impact. Alternatively, spaghetti straps, high necks and square or bateau cuts Vera Wang Bride, The Ivory Lounge -

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h eaven s c e nt It’s not just about how your wedding looks – evoke your other senses too, and embrace a fragrance that sets the sweet tone of your day words Rebecca Matthews

The sense of smell might be one of the most

The whole issue of fragrance goes far beyond

the background music and sounds to relax or

underrated of our five senses, but it is indisputably

your personal choice of perfume, however.

excite your guests, and, of course, the taste,”

the most powerful when it comes to stirring

The wedding itself can wear a fragrance. Scent

recommends Jessica Kearney from Ardour & Bow

memories. One waft of the fragrance you wear

brings a whole new dimension to your wedding

Weddings & Events (ardourandbow.co.uk).

on your wedding day will plunge you into a reverie

that can enhance the theme and style of your

of sweet reminiscence in years to come – you

day, as well as further increase the personalisation

“As an extension of this, you should consider

might see your beloved’s face as you glide down

of the celebration.

what scent you would like to associate with your wedding. Do you want a ceremony filled with the

the aisle, taste the bubbles of champagne at your

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lips, or feel their arms around you as you shimmy

“When you plan your wedding, consider all the

scent of jasmine or the sight of flickering candles

across the dance floor.

senses, including the textures, the visual impact,

with your favourite aroma?”

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Signature scent First things first, make your fragrance personal. “One of my favourite parfumiers, Jo Malone, offers the opportunity to have an in-store bespoke consultation to establish your signature scent,” says Jessica. “Every time you use your wedding perfume after your wedding, you’ll find yourself transported back to your special day.”

Your ceremony So often considered the highlight of the day, think carefully about how you’ll scent your ceremony – and how those scents will stir cherished memories of your vows for years to come. “Do you want to walk down the aisle in a room filled with your favourite scented candles? Add them to a collection of candles in tall cylinders to create a beautiful backdrop,” advises Jessica. “Make sure you pick a scent that matches your personality and complements what your partner is also wearing in terms of their perfume.”

Floral scents For a more subtle scent than that of candles or perfumes, choose a scented floral arrangement.

“This could range from aromatic herbs with a sprig of rosemary in your bouquet to filling your reception or ceremony with swags of jasmine,” says Jessica. “Ask your florist what highly scented flowers are in season

PERFUME POIN

Fabulous tips

TERS

for finessing yo ur bridal fragranc e…

Choose your br

idal fragrance be fore your bouquet. You ca n then coordina te it with the scent of your flowers for extra impact.

Perfume should enhance the scen t of your flowers, not mas k it.

When sampling

a fragrance, ensu re you spray it onto your skin and give the scen t time to develop before you sniff.

at the time of your wedding. Colourful sweet peas are one of my personal favourites, which not only look beautiful but smell incredible.”

Your venue A subtly scented diffuser can provide a good alternative to candles in venues that don’t allow flames, creating a lovely background ambience.

“You could place these at the entrance as guests arrive as well as other areas they might visit, including bathrooms and bedrooms if you’re providing overnight accommodation,” suggests Jessica. “Think about whether you would like different scents as the day progresses, with subtler notes during the wedding

Wear the same perfume your m other or grandmother w ore on her wed di ng day for a nostalgic and pe rsonal gesture – and a novel twist on your ‘so mething borrow ed’.

breakfast and stronger scents during the party.”

Apply your fragr

them a small candle of your choice or bottle of your

ance in layers. St art with the scented body wash, slap on th e scented moisturiser and finish with a sprit z of the perfume on your primary pulse po int s (behind your ears and inn er wrists) and yo ur se condary pulse points (beh ind your knees and in the crook of your elb ow).

Give your fragr

ance extra stayin

Favours Who doesn’t love a luxurious scented keepsake?

“Indulge your guests with luxury favours by gifting favourite perfume, or go for the green-fingered approach and gift seeds they can plant that will grow into a scented rose or other flower.”

Invitations The scent – and immersive guest experience – can be there from the very beginning of your wedding journey, with the arrival of your invitation. “Why not

g power by spraying a fine m ist onto your un derwear, the lining of your dress and your veil. That way, you’ll be tre ating your gues ts to a heavenly waft every time you sashay by.

send scented invitations either with aromatic paper

Take a bottle of

Don’t overlook the power of fragrance on your

your fragrance that fits into your bag for touc h-ups if necessar y.

Know when to

stop. You don’t

want your beau’s nostrils to be so overwhelm ed that they don’t fully apprec iate the glorious sight of you!

or spritz your invitation with your favourite perfume?” suggests Jessica.

Cocktails drinks menu. “An alternative to scented candles is to add scent to your cocktails,” says Jessica. “You could serve a particularly floral drink with rose essence included, or add different garnishes, such as rosemary or lavender, to gin and tonics.”

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SMELL SCENTSATIONAL Let these fragrances spoil your senses, whether they’re for you, your bridesmaids or your guests

Luna by Penhaligon’s From the elegant bottle to the floral notes of soft rose and jasmine with a twist of citrus, Luna is a fragrant dream: delicate, airy and uplifting. What’s more, luxe perfumery Penhaligon’s is renowned for the longevity of its fragrances, so this heavenly scent is sure to last you from the preparations through to the after-party. penhaligons.com

Rose Petal 25 by Jo Loves Created by the woman behind some of the world’s most coveted fragrances, Jo Malone, Rose Petal 25 is the most beautiful celebration of the queen of flowers. A gorgeous choice for modern brides, its blissful blend of rose absolute, rose de mai and ambrette is smooth, soothing and oh-so elegant. joloves.com

The Recycled Candle Company Scent your day with the handcrafted creations by The Recycled Candle Company in Exeter. With sustainability at the heart of their ethos, the candles are made from recycled candles and come in a captivating range of scents: think Blonde Tobacco & Honey, Bitter Orange & Ylang Ylang and Rose & Oud. Their candle tins also make perfect wedding favours. therecycledcandlecompany.co.uk

Candles by Jo Loves Bring the stunning scents from Jo Loves to your tabletops with their collection of luxury candles, which also make covetable bridal party gifts. Available in a heady choice of scents, we love the uplifting citrus notes of Pomelo and the fresh, floral romance of White Rose & Lemon Leaves.

You might even choose to go bespoke with personalised W-day labels. joloves.com

Rigaud Paris From the iconic French perfumers who invented the scented candle, Rigaud Paris has created a heavenly selection of scents wrapped up in a sleek and sophisticated design – perfect for scenting your day or a stylish Parisian gift for your guests or bridal party. We love Gardénia, a fresh floral fusion of tropical blooms and Provençal rose. rigaud-paris.com

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beauty from within A radiant complexion starts from within, so to fuel your body with skinloving goodness, make Equi London’s brilliant Beauty Formula part of your daily routine. Developed by nutritional experts with decades of experience in helping women look and feel their best, Equi London’s award-winning formulas are unique, all-in-one supplements tailored to your specific wellness goal, from improving skin radiance and hydration to balancing hormones and boosting immunity.

Perfect for brides-to-be seeking aisle-ready skin, the Beauty Formula has become a daily staple here at Wed. Combining 48 of the most effective nutritional compounds with star ingredients including marine collagen, hyaluronic acid, turmeric and probiotics, it is formulated to support all the bodily systems involved with keeping the skin optimised, from the hormones and immune system to the gut. Hydrating and rejuvenating your complexion while nourishing the hair and nails, its carefully selected ingredients come with a host of further benefits such as boosting energy levels and concentration, and aiding digestion. Simply mix the powder with water or plant milk and get set to glow! equilondon.com

the look of luxe We don’t know what we love most about Bobbi Brown’s Luxe Precious Metals Eye Shadow Palette – the shimmery colours, the cream-meets-powder formula or the so-shiny packaging! Whether you choose the high-impact pinky glitz of ‘Downtown Heat’ or the barely-there beauty of ‘Skyline Shimmer’, you’ll find the gorgeous shine and luscious finish are perfect for party-ready peepers. bobbibrown.co.uk

hands up With its new ‘Time to Hygge’ collection, Nailberry has, er, nailed it! Offering a healthier manicure with breathable, oxygenated and water permeable polishes, the trio of limited-edition nail colours offer bang on-trend colour with ultra-rich pigments and creamy shine. The dusky blush of ‘Cashmere’ is a warm and super-chic pink, the deep chocolate brown of ‘Hot Coco’ boasts a luxe finish, and the vivid ‘Teal We Meet Again’ brings a bold and sophisticated pop of blue-green colour, perfect for modern brides. nailberry.co.uk

heavenly creatures For a quick beauty fix, Creature of Habit’s Anywhere Everywhere Balm is a handy and hard-working essential to stow in your bridal bag, your honeymoon luggage and beyond. As the name suggests, the soothing, multi-purpose balm can be used anywhere, whether it’s to soften a patch of rough, flaky or sensitive skin, tame flyaways, nourish your nails or moisturise your lips. creatureofhabitskincare.com

lip service Long-lasting lip colour is a must for W-day – and its staying power is just one of the reasons we love NARS’ Powermatte Lip Pigment. We’re also crushing on the pale pink nude tones of new shade Le Freak – a pretty, smudge-resistant colour to last you from first look through to last dance. narscosmetics.co.uk

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FOREVER LOVE As the symbol of your union you’ll wear for life, choosing your wedding jewellery is a big decision. From where to start to selecting metals and gemstones, we’ve enlisted the experts to help you pick the perfect rings words Hannah May

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1.

1.

Perhaps you’re newly engaged and wondering

band be a practical, hard-wearing choice if you labour

what wedding ring will pair perfectly with your

a lot with your hands? Will different metals and shapes

engagement ring. Maybe you’re about to propose

of engagement and wedding rings sit flush or rub

and searching for the most striking band to

against each other?

present to your loved one, Or you might have

1.

1.

jointly decided to get married and fancy buying

With regards to your choice of precious metals,

(or making) your own rings together. Whichever

there’s silver, gold (white, rose, yellow), platinum

scenario best describes you, you’ll find there’s an

(the most durable) and palladium, which come in a

abundance of choice. But having to narrow down

range of colours and carats (with the highest being the

an endless array of options can be part of the

heavier and more expensive). “Colour is a key factor,”

problem, so where exactly do you start?

adds Chloe. “For instance, rose gold with ocean teal sapphires casts a warm glow and distinctive statement

It’s very common to feel overwhelmed when you’re

that will stand apart.”

looking for your or your partner’s wedding jewellery.

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“This forever piece of jewellery has much to fulfil and

“I like to mix metal colours and so it may be the ring

the pressure to get it right can be daunting,” says Chloe

shank is one colour and the setting a different one,”

Wild from Emily Nixon (emilynixon.com). There’s an

reveals Erin. “I also create a unique ‘camo gold’ where

array of different approaches to the task. Visit jewellers

yellow and white gold is melted together. This is a

to peruse and pick from their in-house collections,

great option if you wear a range of different coloured

scroll through the likes of Instagram, Pinterest and

metal jewellery and ensures the ring stays modern

the Wed website for inspiration, or get creative and

with the ever-changing fashions.”

come up with your own designs that can be brought

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1.

to life with a band made especially for you. You’ll soon

The shape of you

discover that you’re drawn to styles, so take note of

Shape-wise, you can plump for pretty much anything.

your preferences and go from there.

“We create everything from classic shapes such as straight or wishbone, to the more organic curves

The best way is to begin with you. “Trust what you

and varying widths of our sandcast rings,” says Jamila

know and don’t get your head turned by trends or

Hirtenstein from Justin Duance (justind.co.uk). “If

convention – be authentic and true to yourselves,”

you are fitting your ring around an engagement ring

urges Chloe. “Is your style subtle, bold or flamboyant;

or another ring that you wear often, that may inspire

what colour metals do you like?” By using yourselves

the shape of the final design.”

as muse, you’re more likely to end up with something 2.

2.

reflective of you and your relationship, as well as a

To pair your rings, Erin suggests two options. “Have a

piece that will stand the sartorial test of time.

band shaped to go around your stone-set ring or have a slightly wider ring and have a section cut away for the

A little bit of research (and rifling through each other’s

stone to sit down into,” she says. “Tiara-style rings fit

jewellery collections) should give you a distinct flavour,

around the engagement ring like a little crown. A second

and whether you opt for matching bands or different

can then be created as an eternity ring thus forming a

styles, the most important thing to remember is there

halo of diamonds around the engagement ring.”

are no rules when choosing your wedding rings. “If you

2.

2.

and your partner have different styles, then embrace

If you’ve already got your engagement ring, and

it,” says Nicola Price at Drakes (drakesjewellers.co.uk).

don’t want to alter it when it comes to buying your

So if you adore gold but your partner prefers silver,

wedding ring, it’s a good opportunity to get creative.

then pick those metals you each love, and match your

“The great thing about designing a ring from scratch

stone, shape or engravings instead.

is that you can choose your shaping,” says Stephanie Stevens (stephaniestevensjewellery.co.uk), who gives

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2

Which moves us on to the specifics. There’s a core

couples the opportunity to personally follow the

list of basics to consider when it comes to buying your

making journey from the ideas phase to the bespoke

engagement or wedding rings: budget, metal, shape,

and handmade finish. “Shaping is really important to

width, profile and stones.

have a ring that feels comfortable to wear and suits your style. This is especially important for people who

Vital details

don’t wear a lot of jewellery; creating a comfortable

“The first things to consider are budget and your

ring that fits perfectly will help to make it feel like you

lifestyle,” says designer-maker Erin Cox (erincox.

aren’t wearing it.”

co.uk), who created the Molten Wedding Ring

2.

2

Company (moltenweddingringcompany.com) to

In the thick of it

provide ethical, luxurious and timeless rings with

The same goes for the thickness of your band (though

a modern edge. “I produce rings that have a heart,

chunkier bands don’t tend to work as well with slender

a story and are crafted with care and attention by

fingers and vice versa), which will also be impacted

artisans with high-quality materials,” she explains.

by whether you’ll want to wear your engagement and wedding rings together. If you do, be aware that similar

If your bank balance won’t accommodate your giant

width sizes look best, or you can even opt for stacking

diamond ring dreams, then draw a line through that

with the addition of an eternity band.

particular dream and discuss what exactly your buck will buy with your jeweller. It’s important to consider

Meanwhile, there are a selection of profiles to pick

the wearability factor too – will a delicate white gold

from including comfort/court (slightly curved on

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the inside and outside), D-shape (flat inside, domed

“Sapphires offer a myriad of hues for a bespoke colour

“Because our ring designs are cast in beach sand

outside), flat (flat on all surfaces), and a variation of

palette, far removed from the conventional solitaire,”

or inlaid with wood, you can actually send us

these (such as domed court and double comfort flat).

says Chloe. “We have seen this more creative choice

your own!” reveals Jamila of Justin’s unique use of

Our best advice here is to simply try them all on and

in engagement rings as an expression to do things

materials and casting process. “Perhaps your partner

select what appears, fits and feels best to you.

differently, to make a statement and not be restricted

proposed to you on a beach? Your ring could be

by tradition.”

cast in that very sand (from that very day if you’re super organised!). The lovely thing about sandcasting

The final element is optional and, again, comes down to personal preference. You might want an

“My clients use stones to make the ring personal

is that at a glance your ring may look like a simple

understated plain band or something with texture

and remind them of something they love,” agrees

band; however, when you look closely, you can

(such as Justin Duance’s sandcast rings, Erin Cox’s

Stephanie. “I mostly work with diamonds, sapphires

make out the subtle texture and the odd specks of

organic undulations, or Emily Nixon’s seaweed-esque

and aquamarines because they love to represent

sand captured on the surface.”

twists and folds), but if your heart is set on a stone,

the sea.”

Erin extols the virtues of taking that extra time

there’s a series of additional decisions that will need

Make it yours

to ensure your rings uniquely represent you.

Once you’ve thought about the design of your

“Personalised wedding rings will always be popular –

Leave no stone unturned

ring – from its overarching look to how it will wear,

engraving or having secret stones set inside of the band

Firstly, which stone? Diamonds remain timelessly

potentially pair, and feel – it’s time to hone in on the

conveys a special meaning to the wearer,” she says.

tasteful, and the most popular choice with nearly-

minute details to make it truly yours.

“I rework a lot of jewellery using sentimental gold or

to be made.

weds. Remember your four Cs for quality (carat,

stones, which adds additional meaning to the rings.”

clarity, colour, cut) as well as its source, and try to

This will largely depend on how much of an input you

shop as ethically as possible such as with vintage or fair

have had from the start; if you’ve handpicked every

As with all else in life, the trick is to stay true

mined diamonds. “Does your jeweller know about the

element from the metal to the stone and setting, you

to yourselves, as Chloe’s final note resounds.

materials they are using?” asks Chloe. “Find out the

will already have co-created a bespoke and meaningful

“Ultimately, an engagement ring symbolises the

backstory of your ring; where the stone came from,

ring based on your specifications.

unique love between two people,” she says. “So

for instance, and is the metal recycled?”

be free to express what it is that you find beautiful, If not, should you want to make or increase your

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endearing, and true to you both.”

Meanwhile, gemstones provide the perfect

individual stamp, there’s a myriad of ways to do

opportunity to weave extra personality and meaning

so. “Engraving, stones, adding features into the

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diamond added to a band you’ve fallen for in a

waves, different colour stones, fingerprints, dates,

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jeweller’s signature collection; or select your favourite

coordinates; all these things make your ring so

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coloured stone to build your design from.

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From heavenly headwear to bespoke jewels, prepare to be captivated by these aisle-ready treasures words Hannah May & Rebecca Matthews

BE JEWELLED FEARLESSLY YOU If you’re a bride with a penchant for something unique, The Lucky Sixpence specialises in gloriously distinctive pieces designed for the ‘fearless’. “My accessories are for those who are not afraid to make a statement, who want to break away from the ‘traditional’ bridal mould,” explains designermaker Janie Wolverson. “When I was married, I wanted accessories and jewellery that spoke to me, had a story and a soul. I wanted something that reflected the uniqueness of me and my style.” If this sounds like you, then Janie’s collection promises to breathe personality and style into your bridal look.

Lovingly handmade in her Devon studio, each limited edition piece is created from upcycled vintage and pre-loved materials sourced from small, independent and – whenever possible – local businesses, meaning that earth-friendly ethics are at the core of the production process. Janie also offers a custom-made service.

When it comes to her dazzling range, there’s a heady assortment to pick from (or individually commission) including headbands, crowns and halos, pins, combs, head chains, vines, wraps and Pierra G Photography

jewellery. Picture everything from a pearl crown and freshwater pearl hoop earrings to a vintage

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WRITTEN IN THE SAND Delicately textured and imbued with personal meaning, it’s little wonder that Justin Duance’s sandcast pendants are growing in popularity with brides seeking a special piece to wear on their wedding day. As versatile as they are beautiful, you might choose a pendant cast in sand from a beach which holds a special place in your heart – perhaps the beach of the proposal or location of the big day itself. You might even have your wedding rings cast in the same sand. We love the simplicity of the disc pendant – a treasured piece to wear for any occasion and a gorgeous gift idea to boot. justind.co.uk

ETHICAL AND EXQUISITE For stunning jewellery as unique as your love, look no further than designer-maker, Erin Cox. Handcrafting exquisite pieces from her Devon studio, each piece “evokes the feeling of the organic and raw landscape it is inspired by”. Whether you’re searching for an engagement or wedding ring, W-day gift for your beau or bridesmaids or those final flourishes for your ensemble, Erin’s signature collection guarantees to boast something eye-catching to suit. Her one of a kind creations come in eco gold and platinum as standard or Fairtrade gold in yellow, rose and white hues, and range from textured bands to pearl earrings, hammered chain bracelets, diamond pendants and beaded necklaces. You can also commission Erin to craft a bespoke piece of jewellery or she can remodel your gold, platinum and gemstones, giving new life to ‘something old’ for a piece laden with sentimentality, be it a family heirloom or your grandmother’s wedding ring.

If you’re seeking a wedding ring, Erin’s sister enterprise, the Molten Wedding Ring Company, was set up specifically to provide ethical, luxurious and timeless rings with a modern edge. “Rings that have a heart, a story and are crafted with care and attention by artisans with high quality materials,” she explains.

The capsule collection of eight ring styles, each with their own unique molten texture, are available in a range of metals and colours, allowing couples to customise elements from the material and shaping to the finish and diamond setting for a design replete with the bespoke factor. Peruse Erin’s collection and discuss your requirements by visiting her new shop at 56 Fore Street, Topsham, EX3 0HW. erincox.co.uk / moltenweddingringcompany.com

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SMALL WONDERS Seeking something stylish, sustainable and locally made for your bridal jewellery or bridesmaid gifts? Enter Devon-based modern jewellery brand, One & Eight. Crafting contemporary porcelain and fine metal jewellery with a minimalist edge, one of the beauties of their timeless pieces is that they can be worn by people of all ages. Pieces such as the blush glass drop earrings and porcelain gold earrings are particularly perfect for brides seeking a chic finishing touch to their ensemble, which can be worn again and again after the big day. And, packaged in cute reusable bottles, the necklaces or dainty studs will make fab gifts for bridesmaids! oneandeight.co.uk

MIDAS TOUCH Armed with a passion for the bespoke, the beautiful and the unusual, award-winning artist goldsmith Isabella Day’s creations are head-turning in every sense, from the fine craftsmanship to the exquisite design and creative personal flourishes. Together with master goldsmith Ford Hallam, Isabella has just opened The Remarkable Goldsmiths in Dartmouth, a shop where couples can discuss bespoke commissions as well as feasting their eyes on a captivating collection of wedding rings, engagement rings and jewellery ranging from dazzlingly distinctive bangles and earrings to striking pendants.

Each piece is handcrafted using traditional goldsmithing skills and the goldsmiths even make all their own gold alloys from scratch. “This means taking fine gold direct from the dealers, mixing it with other metals such as silver and palladium and melting them together to alloy them to our own special recipes which have been refined and adjusted over the years,” explains Isabella. Hand forged to give the metal strength, the gold ingots are then crafted into a stunning piece to last a lifetime. “We even make really unusual and beautiful colours such as peach gold, green gold and grey gold!” she says.

With remodelling being a speciality, Isabella loves to rework heirloom jewels into a carefully designed contemporary piece. “We can turn your dusty drawers full of treasure into really beautiful pieces that reflect your personality and style,” she says.

Bespoke commissions are a particular passion for Isabella and Ford; the goldsmiths relish the process of finding out about you to create a unique piece reflective of your love story. Whether it’s an engraving of a special coastline, an inscription, a star map of the night of your engagement or kaleidoscopic birthstones woven amidst a wave design, you’re promised a unique and beautifully personal piece of jewellery to cherish forever. isabelladay.co.uk

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THE ZERO-DRAMA GUIDE TO BRIDESMAIDS Gathering your squad, sharing in all the

common to see ‘bridesmen’ in the bridal party these

to take on tasks – such as organising the hen do – so

excitement together and knowing they’ll be

days whether that’s a brother, close friend, or any

if you have people who already know and like each

by your side – literally and figuratively – come

other male you’d love to include.

other, it can minimise any potential awkwardness.

To make the most of this special chapter, we’ve

“Consider who would make a good bridesmaid/

“I have close friends from different groups and really

enlisted some expert advice to help you select

bridesman in supporting you with your dress fittings,

wanted to see them all ‘represented’ in my bridal

your bridal party while avoiding any potential

the hen do and getting ready on the day,” says Jessica

party,” says Amelia. “However, it started to get a bit

pitfalls to keep your bridesmaids – and yourself –

Kearney from Ardour & Bow Weddings & Events

awkward with how to narrow them down – and this

happy from the get-go.

(ardourandbow.co.uk). “For your maid/man of honour,

was before I’d even decided who to ask, so I could

W-day, is a wonderful part of wedding planning.

you want someone organised and unflappable, so bear

predict that awkwardness would definitely spill over!

CHOOSE WISELY

this in mind when choosing. It’s always nice to include

I decided in the end to ask my two sisters to be my

For those brides who are just starting to think about

family members, but ultimately the choice should

‘on-the-day’ bridesmaids, my friends from university

who to have as bridesmaids, consider personalities

always be entirely yours.”

who I’m still close with to help me organise my hen do,

and life situations. Some of your closest friends, while

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and my school friends to do a reading at the ceremony.

being a hugely important part of your life, might be

CONSIDER THE DYNAMICS

This kept all the roles clear and meant there weren’t

more comfortable out of the spotlight, supporting you

It’s also important to consider how your bridal party

too many people trying to do things they weren’t

in a different way. Be prepared to ask them honestly

will get on with each other. It can be tempting to

comfortable with.”

whether they’d like to be a bridesmaid and be aware

pick one close friend from each friendship group (for

that the answer isn’t necessarily going to be yes.

example, a school friend, a sister, a uni mate), but this

WHO AND HOW MANY?

will result in a group who don’t necessarily know each

Don’t be put off by whether someone has been a

Also, while we’re saying ‘bridesmaids’, please don’t

other. There’s nothing wrong with this – however,

bridesmaid before. The important bit is what they

think you have to stick to a girl squad! It’s much more

it can be a lot easier for the bridesmaids to team up

mean to you, and how you can support each other in

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the lead-up and on your wedding day. You will create such special memories together, whether it’s their first time in the role or not.

“I’ve been a bridesmaid nine times, and each wedding has been so special to me. My relationship with each bride or groom is entirely unique, and means an awful lot to me, so there’s never a sense of ‘here we go again’ or any fatigue about being a bridesmaid,” says Daisy.

“It’s genuinely the loveliest honour, and such a privilege to be asked. Plus, it means I’m pretty good at organising hen dos now!”

So, what’s a good number of bridesmaids to have?

“There is no specific rule about how many you should have. You could have one, or a whole handful,” says Jessica. “Just be mindful that having more bridesmaids could be costly if you are paying for their dresses, hair and make-up. Also, it helps to try to balance out the wedding party, so give some consideration to how many your partner is having.”

Once you’ve made your decision, you have the lovely task of ‘popping the question’ to your bridesmaids.

“This could be something personal to you and your friend. It might be inviting them to a lovely afternoon tea or you could surprise them with a curated giftbox with their favourite things as you pop the question,” says Jessica. “Wherever possible, I always recommend asking them in person, as it’s such an important role

On a quest for bridesmaid bliss? Here’s how to choose your tribe, minimise tension and maximise this cherished time with your dearest pals words Lucy Higgins

and a big question to ask.” Remember they may have questions to ask or things to talk through rather than just a big excited ‘yes!’ so planning some time together means this can happen more naturally. Once you have your squad locked in, think about setting up a bridesmaid WhatsApp group so everyone can get excited together and send tips and suggestions.

TROUBLE IN PARADISE We won’t pretend it will always be sunshine and rainbows (although often it will be!), so it’s best to be prepared for some of the issues we’ve seen crop up when it comes to bridesmaids, from financial and practical to emotional.

“Often bridesmaids’ dresses can be a contentious issue. It really helps to explain your decision-making process, so that they feel involved, and understand any budgetary constraints or particular colour choices,” says Jessica. “You might have a particular style of dress in mind, but it won’t look the same on every one of them, as they will likely have different body shapes.”

Luckily, the days of bridesmaids all wearing the same ill-fitting shiny number have long gone and there are so many options – from mismatched to tailor-made – to ensure your squad all feel comfortable and confident walking down the aisle. Decide in advance whether you will or will not be paying for your bridesmaids’ dresses, or whether you’ll make a contribution, which can be a good middle ground.

“I let my three bridesmaids know I had budgeted £100 for each of their dresses, and that if they found something they loved over that amount, they’d need to cover that cost,” says Poppy. “They all wore different

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dresses (in the same shade), and one came to £150. She paid the extra £50, which she was happy to do as she loved the dress and had known about the cost beforehand.” Being upfront about finances usually avoids any awkwardness down the line.

You’ll also need to minimise the potential for disagreements between your bridesmaids. “If your bridal party aren’t already friends, hold an informal gathering ahead of the wedding to help break the ice between everyone, and reinforce the team feeling, so everyone pulls together on the day,” suggests Jessica. “Teamwork is essential to make sure everything runs smoothly, so those fun, informal gatherings beforehand really will help to bond everyone together for the big day.”

TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK “Spread the roles out evenly, so everyone feels equally involved,” advises Jessica. This also means that one person won’t be overloaded, and they can all help and back each other up with duties, decisionmaking, and getting a spread of opinions. If there’s a chance your bridal party might disagree, have a nominated ‘voice of reason’ for them to go to, so they’re not all turning to you if they need a rant!

This is even more important if you’re asking them to plan your hen do and not giving too much guidance on what you’d like to do.

“Sometimes, one bridesmaid who knows the bride from childhood has one very specific idea, but another bridesmaid, who perhaps has known her through her wild partying days, has another,” says Daisy.

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“Sharing out the roles and responsibilities means it doesn’t all fall to one person, which can not only start to feel like a burden, but also runs the risk of it being a very one-sided hen do, instead of something with broader appeal.”

SPREAD THE JOY As the bride, you love and appreciate your bridesmaids, and will want to make the whole experience a positive one for them, so Jessica has some ideas to help make them feel special. “Ensure the bridal party are looked after on the morning of the wedding. You will likely be busy with hair and make-up so ensure some pastries or light bites are organised in advance, along with coffee and refreshments so you avoid anyone getting hangry!” she says. “Make sure you’ve prepared a getting-ready playlist and, of course, a bottle of bubbly to really set

What sort of duties can you ask or expect of your bridesmaids? Every bride will be different, and you’ll have your own approach in how you would like to be supported, so have a clear conversation concerning how you would like your bridesmaids to assist you throughout the day. Some of the main duties, both before the wedding and on the day itself, are listed below but, as always, communication is key to ensure everyone understands the expectations.

a great atmosphere.”

Beforehand

Think about gifting your bridesmaids something special on the day

• Organise hen do

too. “It might be hair and make-up services, or a beautiful bracelet to bond you all with this lovely moment,” suggests Jessica. It doesn’t have to be something expensive – a thoughtfully written handmade card can be just as special to let your bridesmaids know what they mean to you.

ALL IN THIS TOGETHER Finally, heed Jessica’s advice. “Remember that as a bride, your life may be revolving around your wedding, but your bridesmaids may lead very busy lives so be mindful of that when asking for help or allocating tasks.” They will be delighted to be involved but it’s

• Provide calm, unwavering support to the bride • Shop for bridesmaids’ dresses • Help make decisions in terms of wedding dress and key wedding suppliers • Help with preparations in the days leading up to the wedding • Attend any rehearsals or appointments

On the day • Be the on-the-day contact so the bride isn’t receiving phone calls or questions • Ensure bride eats breakfast • Hold a copy of the day plan • Keep bride topped up with water (not just champagne!)

• Help bride get in and out of the dress or change into an evening outfit

important to check in with them too and see how they’re doing!

• Ensure bride has an emergency supplies kit stored somewhere in the venue

“There are few things more special than being a bridesmaid,” says

• Hold flowers during ceremony

Daisy. “From being asked to having a role in the planning and on the day itself, each wedding I’ve been to as part of the bridal party will be with me forever. My tip for other bridesmaids is to remember that it’s the bride’s day, and that you love them and want the best for them! There might well be stressful elements, things you would do differently, and moments of pressure or anxiety, but at the end of the day, just smile, be there for your friend and soak up the experience.”

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• Hold her dress up as she is walking • Get the party started – when the DJ or band start playing that music, get the atmosphere going by hitting the dance floor first

Afterwards • Help with any clean-up required the next day • Return hire items • Keep the memories alive!

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GOOD MORNING SUNSHINE! From who to spend it with to what to eat, here are some pointers to bring the joy to your wedding morning preparations words Elizabeth Chester

Often consumed with drifting down the aisle on

morning or bridal breakfast. Or how about a sleepover

everything at your fingertips, so take a trip down

a wave of gossamer, brides can overlook the part

with your best girls the night before in your suite? If

memory lane, reminiscing with your besties over old

of their day wedding before the formalities begin.

you’d rather wake up alone, you could enquire about

photographs, memories and songs.

Small details, perhaps, but no less important…

hiring the snug or lounge in another part of the hotel

Where to stay

for a chic get-together and pamper breakfast, where

Self-catering accommodation offers intimacy and

nails can be painted and movies can be screened.

flexibility in a way that a hotel, which may have other

Whether you’re safely ensconced in the bridal suite

guests staying, may not be able to. So how about an

of the venue you’re marrying in, at home eagerly

Should you wish to enjoy the great outdoors, a sea

old school crafty morning – no glitter, please! – creating

anticipating the arrival of a Rolls-Royce to whisk you

swim or stroll with your bridal gang could work well

self-portraits of one another or handmade thank yous

away, or getting ready in self-catering accommodation,

if you’re marrying later in the day and help you to get

for your friends and family. This could be a fun and

there may be hours to fill before your ceremony

moving (mornings of weddings can often involve quite

carefree way to while away an hour in a small group,

begins. Depending on your bridal look, the time of

a lot of sitting around!). Larger wedding venues and

particularly if you don’t want to begin the getting-

your ceremony and when your guests are arriving, that

hotels can organise activities for you on-site, so ask

bridal-ready stage too early.

may allow you time to plan some things to do.

what’s available at your venue.

Who to see

What to do

If you’re getting ready at home, at least you don’t have

Some couples have strict rules about who they must or

If you and your bridal party are all at your venue or

to worry about forgetting to pack everything! Leaving

mustn’t see ahead of the big reveal. If you’re having a

hotel, gather together in one room for a makeover

for your nuptials straight from home means you have

first look, you may well be in hair and make-up early,

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and your exact location could be shrouded in secrecy

Mrs-To-Be name are a cute option. Team tracksuits are

mean something to you. Or if you’re in self-catering

so as not to spoil the surprise of that first glimpse. Some

also a sweet way to unite a group of besties and can be

accommodation or at home, you can have a bridal

couples, however, like to spend the morning of the

personalised with whatever you wish. We know of one

brunch prepared and delivered to you and your gang.

day together and even play a part in each other getting

bride who was in her dress from 8am on the morning

Devon-based Bridal Brunches (bridalbrunches.co.uk)

ready. One recent bride loved the fact her fiancé zipped

of the day despite the ceremony not being until 2pm.

can deliver wedding carts groaning with everything

her into her wedding dress before their elopement.

That’s one way to get your money’s worth!

from fruit and pastries to maple syrup-drizzled waffles,

Decide early which of your party is privy to your pre-

What to eat

budget doesn’t quite stretch to outside catering, how

ceremony plans and if you want them with you, give

High five to any brides who can push aside the nerves

about enlisting any culinary-fabulous friends to create

them plenty of notice. The wedding party might have

and tuck into a proper gourmet breakfast on the

you some dream wedding-day treats.

grand plans to get ready together but if you’d rather

morning of the big day. This is, of course, the way to

go it alone or choose the glossy magazine-style secrecy

go to ensure you feel ready and grounded for the day

What you do in the hours before your wedding begins

with just hair and make-up allowed, make it clear that

ahead. Porridge with fruit is a good option to fill you

is entirely up to you and ultimately depends on the

the rest of your party will be invited to play a bigger

up, with its combination of fibre and slow-digesting

timings of your day. But just bear in mind, there may

part of the day once things have officially kicked off.

carbs meaning you’ll get a slow release of energy,

be more to organise than you think, so don’t over plan.

keeping you full for longer.

While the idea of a wedding day walk across the local

and smoked salmon and cream cheese bagels. If your

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national park is wonderful and will give you a beautiful

This depends largely on what you plan to do. If you’re

If you want food to play a key role in your morning,

bridal glow, no one wants to be atop a tor or stuck in

having a girlie get-ready morning in the hotel, then

you could ask your venue or hotel to prepare a

a bog when they’re supposed to be rearranging their

dressing robes emblazoned with The Bride or your

themed breakfast with delicacies from countries that

veil and hearing the first notes of Pachelbel’s Canon!

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SUIT YOURSELF How to pair your personality with the latest groomswear? Pick the things you like and wear them with bespoke panache. Here are our favourite looks du jour words Hannah May

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Earthy tones of brown, grey, ochre, rusty reds and burnt oranges evoke the aesthetic, along with mixed textures, patterns (tartan, houndstooth, polka dots) and accessories including flat caps, paisley pocket squares or cravats, and tan brogues.

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COASTAL COOL For on-the-fashion-pulse versatility, look no further than coastal cool.

Including everything from formal blue three-pieces to uber laidback tailoring with no tie in sight, grooms can dress up or down to suit their stylistic selves.

Don a linen beige suit with an open-necked shirt for seductively paredback style or layer up a look chock with interest courtesy of watery tones, nautical details and personal flourishes. The beauty is that this trend can be worn anywhere, whether you’re getting wed by the water or just want to exude an en vogue air. Pick anything from the baby blue spectrum through to pastels, bright cobalt or a timelessly debonair midnight blue (in velvet for a luxe winter wedding), or opt for sandy shades, lemon, tan and soft sea greys for a more muted palette. Complement with blue florals and a cream DJ or contrast with colour-pop additions such as a pink waistcoat or tie, Hawaiian prints and a hibiscus flower buttonhole.

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Stand out from the crowd with an ensemble that incorporates an individual sense of style with the latest trends, be it a sharp suit with a statement blazer or a relaxed two-piece à la ‘lockdown loungewear’. Microprints and colour (blocking and accents) are all the rage with tones of pink and green freshening up a multitude of looks. Customise a bright suit with heirloom accessories, a retro jacket with your favourite chintzy shirt, or focus on the minutiae with a bespoke bow tie, buttonhole and footwear. Mash everything for an eclectic edge, or carefully curate your favourite things for an outfit that’s oh-so voguishly ‘you’.

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HOT STEPPER Wear your personality on your shoes thanks to the bespoke shoe service from Duke + Dexter. Whether you choose a custom hand-painted design or elegant embroidery, you’ll be stepping into married life in style. dukeanddexter.com

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FLOWER POWER Seeking a boutonniere that won’t wilt after the big day? These handcast orchid and cherry blossom creations from Ophelia Ren Bridal guarantee to add a romantic and sophisticated flourish to your W-day ensemble. opheliarenbridal.com

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Have the country wedding of your dreams in our beautifully restored 18th century barn, set in the rural heart of Devon The Oak Barn, Hittisleigh Friendly, informal, affordable licenced for civil ceremonies For more details visit our website:

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Fresh, fun and fabulous ways to add a unique touch to your day words Hannah May & Rebecca Matthews

REACH FOR THE MOON From prop hire to full design and styling, Devon-based Borrow the Moon helps couples to create their vision with personality-packed flair.

“We love working with free-spirited couples to create beautiful and impactful celebrations that still feel down to earth,” says Zoe Harvey of Borrow the Moon. “We love to use natural materials alongside vintage, bohemian and handmade pieces.”

Whether you’re planning a rustic tipi affair, an al fresco ceremony or boho festival wedding, the collection of ceremony backdrops and props will offer something standout to suit. Choose from arches, moon gates and vintage French window frames which can be personalised with floral arrangements, fabrics and lighting. Props range from peacock chairs, mirrors and vases through to cake swings, macramé chair backs and a vintage Persian rug aisle for a wedding full of the wow factor. borrowthemoon.com

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SAY CHEESE! Everyone’s talking about Bruno – a luxurious new photo booth guaranteed to bring high jinks to your evening shenanigans while capturing its hilarity in quality print. Handcrafted from oak and sporting two touch screens, the classy open-air booth from Plymouth-based Posh Booth offers a choice of stylish backgrounds, props and top tech (we’re talking flattering lighting and a professional quality camera and printer). The brainchild of experienced wedding photography duo, Younger Photography, you can rest assured the quality of the images will be second to none. Choose from instant images, gifs sent via email or an online gallery so guests can download their favourite pics after the big day. A must-have guest for a reception to remember. poshbooth.co.uk

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FOREVER FLOWERS Turn your wedding flowers into keepsakes to treasure thanks to resin artist Samantha Oakes of SO Resin. Whether you’ve opted for fresh florals, faux or dried, Samantha can preserve your blooms in resin letters, arches, blocks, bookends or hearts, creating a petal-pretty work of art for your love nest. soresin.co.uk

BOOKS OF LOVE Enshrine your wedding vows in an oh-so elegant vow book from Devonbased The Whole Caboodle. Crafted from handmade paper, the books can be finished with the likes of silk ribbon, wax seals, gold leaf or delicate butterflies, making for a precious heirloom to cherish. And what could be more romantic than reading through those all-important words on your anniversary each year? caboodle.wedding

COOL BEANS Stylish, retro and serving the most delicious coffees and cocktails, Cold Start Coffee Company offers the coolest caffeine fix for your big day. With a hand-built coffee bar strapped to a classic 1972 Royal Enfield and sidecar, the striking bar serves speciality coffee from Extract Coffee Roasters, while cocktails range from a classic Margarita and Elderflower Collins through to signature delights such as Espresso Martini, Cold Brew Rum Tonic and Coconut Espresso Daiquiri. And we love the idea of gifting their bottled range of cocktails to your guests as favours! coldstartcoffee.co.uk

LOVELY BUBBLY A glass of creamy English fizz is the perfect accompaniment to a summer wedding. Light, bright and refreshing, the award-winning wines from The Uncommon are vegan, sustainably made and packaged in delightfully quirky can packaging. Choose from the bubbly white and rosé wines or the white and rosé wine spritzers for a standout summer’s day tipple. wearetheuncommon.co.uk

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Prepare to fall in love with a fairytale-worthy scene brimming with pretty details, fresh flowers and elegant fashions at Ugbrooke House coordination & photography Jennifer Jane Photography styling Emma Caesar Weddings

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Ugbrooke House sits amidst acres of idyllic parkland in a south Devon valley, where tranquil lakes nestle Capability Brown landscaped gardens.

The house is the epitome of elegance with a history dating back over 900 years. From its sweeping driveway to its opulent interiors, it makes a timeless canvas for a romantic country house wedding.

This air of romance was the starting point for this styled shoot where whimsy meets sophistication. “The vision was to create a wildly romantic country wedding whilst still retaining an air of stately elegance and luxury,” explains Jen Shoubridge of Jennifer Jane Photography who coordinated and photographed the shoot. “Inspired by the beautiful soft tones of the brickwork of the house, we used a soft palette of cream, white, pale pink and peach.”

Gorgeous petals in this soft medley of colours adorn the steps of the garden pavilion where vows can be taken overlooking the lake. “The abundant wild blooms bring romance and whimsy to the elegant and chic vision,” says Jen. They also bring delicate beauty to the tabletops where blooms spill from vintage metallic urns and glass vases. White pearl beaded plates, gold cutlery and crystal glassware add a luxurious touch, reflecting the opulence of the setting.

Accents of gold foil catch the light on the pale pink macaron wedding favours, while a gorgeously styled selection of further sweet delights – coconut ice squares, iced biscuits and marshmallows – complement the tiered cake: a sleek vision of white ruffles edged with gold foil.

With its sequined illusion bodice and puddle train, the bridal gown strikes a classic yet contemporary chord. Together with gold accessories, a cathedrallength embroidered veil and, of course, her dashing groom in a sharp tuxedo, she looks every inch the heroine of a modern country house romance.

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Steal away to a Devon idyll and marry amidst a symphony of blues, glimmers of gold and intricate details inspired by the East photography Venetia Norrington Photography coordination & styling Elisabeth Shell Events

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A Chinese rice bowl was the starting point for this striking styled shoot at Eversfield Lodge, a new wedding venue hugged by wooded valleys and rolling hills in the heart of Devon’s countryside.

“The owner of the venue, Li, has Chinese heritage, and I really wanted to nod to this with a theme based around one of my vintage Chinese rice bowls,” explains Phoebe Stanaway of Elisabeth Shell Events, who styled the shoot.

“I was born in Hong Kong and so have plenty of this china floating about the place, and a beautiful ceramic elephant plant stand that has travelled the world with me. The entire concept was put to our amazing suppliers for them to run with whatever they picked up on in the bowl’s features.”

“The beautiful blue and white bowls have a geometric pattern, a floral leaf motif and usually a dragon or interesting scene depicted in swirling blue at the bottom,” continues Phoebe. “They have a delicacy to them and also a strength – they are everyday objects which have been designed to be beautiful.”

Set up in the charming courtyard flanked by converted stone barns, the minimalist tablescape carries the palette and delicate charm through tulle draping, smoky grey glassware and petrol blue vases topped with oak chopsticks and rice bowls layered over gold-rimmed porcelain plates. A handcrafted chandelier and hanging flower installation in shades of cream and blue frame the focal point of the intimate celebrations, while the exquisitely hand-painted bird and florals of the cake beautifully echo the fine design of the bowl.

The finer details also nod to its intricate beauty, from the stationery gilded with gold leaf and sapphire engagement ring to the ceramic floral headpieces and earrings which crown the whimsical dresses, embellished with bohemian lace and dainty blooms.

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it’s all about you A perfectly personal wedding is every couple’s dream, but how do you sidestep tradition and expectations to bring the ‘you’ to your day? Here’s how to be bold and choose the wedding that will make you both happy words Hannah May

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The term ‘do you’ – and the sentiment behind it – underpins everything that wedding world is unashamedly all about.

Rather than adhering to conventions or being a stickler for tradition, couples are increasingly moving away from expectations toward achieving their aspirations in an entirely personalised way.

Bold choices and a strong sense of individualism are being woven into the planning process as couples ask themselves who they are and what they really want, to make their vision a personalitypacked reality that will induce a smile long after the final thank you note has been dispatched. For what good is a day of love if you’re later feeling remorse at having not freely celebrated your Toby Lowe Photography

day, your way?

Small adaptations and additions are an easy way to treat your guests, pacify your parents (if needs be) and please yourselves, while grander gestures work wonders in ensuring a wedding as unique and true-to-form as it is unforgettable for both you and your guests. After all, when will you ever have another opportunity to stage a celebration that is by its very definition all about you, while being surrounded by the people you hold dearest in the world? Here are some ideas for starters...

Pick what you love The way you style your day and its individual components need not fit a specific mould or recognisable theme. Is there a specific book, film, decade, hobby, country or colour you adore? Use this (or a combination) as the creative starting point and look at how it can filter into each element. For example, if you’re a fan of the ’50s, you might want to don a rockabilly tea-length gown paired with a leather jacket, choose an American diner-style menu or kick-start the party with a dance routine or some floor-fillers from the musical Grease. Meanwhile, Jane Austen or Bridgerton

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fans might opt for a garden party with high tea, string quartet, and vintage empire-cut gowns. Or you could just pick your favourite everything and design the best mash-up of a day possible, be it a supper of fish and chips, tower of macarons, Beatles cover band, singing waiters, live art or surprise circus performance. Tie them together through the décor, colour scheme or a single motif, or embrace the quirky differences in your eclectic choices.

Stand on ceremony There’s no ‘right’ way to actually get married. The type of ceremony you choose will depend on your belief system and whether you wish to legally tie the knot; otherwise, it’s however you want to wed. Some couples prefer to do the formal proceedings ahead of W-day, leaving them free to host a celebrant-led ceremony in the woods or pagan handfasting on the beach. You might have your heart set on a traditional church or other religious ceremony, or an elopement wedding with just a pair of witnesses. The venue, itinerary and type of wedding are all your choice as a couple, whether you envision a sunset ceremony under a tree, a private civil partnership, or a spiritual day of rituals led by a handpicked officiant.

There is a plethora of ways to write your own rulebook and personalise your wedding, from waking up and preparing for the day together to staging a first look, scattering the choir amongst Josh Harkon Photography

the congregation, and selecting someone special to walk you down the aisle. Bridal speeches, readings from children, dog ring bearers, and post-ceremony activities such as surfing can provide personal highlights for you and your guests. Have some fun in finding new and reimagined ways to incorporate and honour the people, places and things that you love.

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A matter of taste The menu provides the perfect way to infuse extra flavour, character and meaning into your wedding. The easiest and most sure-fire way to achieve this is simply by picking your favourite dishes and drinks. If you can’t stand bubbly, then don’t proffer it to your guests. Toast with a signature cocktail, shot of tequila or vodka jelly – whatever tipple you fancy most. So long as your bar is stocked with a bit of variety, guests will be able to find a drink they like.

For the food, weave your personal preferences into a crowd-pleasing menu or present your guests with a culinary journey of your love affair, starting with the tapas you ate in Spain just after you became engaged followed by a main course of the curry you devoured while travelling around India before finishing with the croquembouche you couldn’t get enough of at your best friend’s wedding. Not keen on a sit-down three-course dinner? Consider mixing up the format, presentation and flavours with food vans, street food, sharing platters, al fresco banquets, tasting menus, drinks stations, a mixologist, or a buffet crammed with fresh local foodstuffs that looks, tastes and smells sensational.

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Dress to impress The dress code for the couple, bridal party, groomsmen and guests can be customised to match your vision, from the timeless elegance of black tie and cocktail gowns to eye-catching brights, florals or even themed attire. You can use the wedding dress as the primary focal point from which to build the day’s overarching design – a bohemian botanical lace frock for a woodland, world-inspired wedding, perhaps, or a jumpsuit that oozes modern minimalist style – or let the leading man steal the sartorial spotlight with tailoring that sets the entire tone.

The key is to use your own fashion personalities as cue to ensure that you still look like you – albeit a glammed-up, wedified version of you.

Nothing is more timeless and tasteful than being yourself.

Role play There’s absolutely no done thing when it comes to selecting the bridal party, groomsmen and guest list – and the tasks you assign to them. Both brides and grooms can have a maid of honour or best man in addition to a bevy of bridesmaids and flower girls – or none at all. And there’s no need to reciprocate roles either. You might have been her maid back then, but if your friendship has changed and there’s someone else you’d prefer, then don’t hesitate in Enchanted Brides Photography

sticking to your gut. For more help with choosing your bridesmaids, see p.58 for our guide to bridal party bliss.

Also, don’t feel the need to invite distant relatives you haven’t seen for a decade or plus-ones you’ve never met – especially if you’re planning a small or intimate wedding. Chances are, they’ll feel as awkward being there as you are having them there, so save everyone the unnecessary bother and don’t fret over it.

All that matters Remember to pour your energy into what matters to you the most. If you’re a foodie, focus on the menu. Are you musically minded? Design a soundtrack to suit, from the aisle walks and choir performance to the drinks reception, wedding breakfast and evening party, blending band sets with special playlists and live performances from friends and family to reflect each stage and emotion of your day. Don’t care much for cake? Ditch it, or have a doughnut wall, champagne fountain or ice cream trike instead.

From those first months of planning to the day itself, you’ll no doubt need the opinions of a few trusted confidantes when things get too much or you lose direction, but otherwise don’t be too heavily swayed by the opinions of others. Come wedding day, your future self will heartily thank you.

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NEW ORDER Throw confetti to the wind and reimagine your wedding day to make it just right for you words Elizabeth Chester Many of us are probably aware of the traditional

over one or two friends you both want at your do –

amazing photographs, but also – in a day that is about

order of wedding days. And even if we don’t

gone are the days when hens were girls and stags were

sharing joy with others – it’s special to have a moment

know, most weddings are structured in a way

boys so why not combine everyone together? You

to yourselves to take it all in alone.

that is easy for guests to be seamlessly guided

can always split up for part of the weekend and enjoy

from ceremony to evening celebration on a sea

different activities, then resume as one group again,

Pre-ceremony drinks

of champagne toasts.

depending on the do. Great group activities for guys

Granted, nobody wants their guests to be slurring and

and gals include surfing, golf, bowling and wine tasting,

staggering around their ceremony, but it’s a lovely idea

to name a few.

to start some gentle celebrations early. If you’ve chosen

But what about non-traditional days or couples who

a later ceremony time, there’s no reason you can’t pop

want to follow tradition but also want to mix things up?

Perhaps you have time constraints or venue or guest list

First look

the champagne corks before you take your vows, and

tweaks that mean you can’t stick to the order you had

Couples who share a sneak peek of each other ahead

this works especially well if you’re opting for a relaxed

imagined, or maybe you just want to do it your way to

of the official start to their day have what’s known as a

ceremony style. Outdoor dos also lend themselves to

refashion and refresh your celebration…

‘first look’. We love the idea that the happy couple see

this idea – a mulled wine or glass of bubbly may help

each other for the first time on their wedding day alone

everyone mingle while awaiting the happy couple’s

Combine your hen and stag dos

(except for their photographer if you want to catch that

arrival.

OK, so this one isn’t strictly on your wedding day, but

wow factor moment). There’s something so special

have you considered throwing your last big celebration,

and emotional about sharing this private moment

Walking in together

before you start married life, with your other half as

before anyone else has seen you and to really take

Have you considered arriving at your ceremony or

opposed to without them? Combined stag and hen dos

in each other’s wedding day looks. First looks are an

walking down the aisle together? This ties in well with a

can work brilliantly, particularly if you’re both fighting

opportunity to make wonderful memories and capture

first look and is a lovely way for guests to see the happy

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couple for the first time. It’s also a fabulous way for

performers entertaining your guests. Or you may

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the nearly-weds to share their excitement and nerves,

prefer to have the day to yourselves and commence

This is clearly dependent on location but, for any

rather than walking down the aisle or waiting at the

the wedding ceremony and celebrations as the sun sets.

couples tying the knot beachside or even retro-style in

altar alone. Again, this provides a perfect moment for

Then keep going into the early hours – or as long as

a lido, why not encourage your guests to celebrate your

some beautiful and unique photographs.

your venue allows!

union with a dip? This suits an informal kind of do –

Bridesmen and maids

Post-ceremony party

As with the hens and stags, who says men can’t

Another brilliant idea for late-in-the-day ceremonies is

great photos of everyone running into – or out of – the

be maids? We have seen some fabulous wedding

starting the party as soon as you’ve tied the knot. This

sea or leaping into the lido. Retro bathing suits optional!

photographs of brides with their best lads and ladies in

idea relies on your venue but if you’re able to make it

an eclectic group mix. Bridesmen can coordinate their

work, then go for it! We loved a recent wedding where

Two-in-one wedding and honeymoon

suits with bridesmaids’ dresses, with pops of colours

the bride and groom exited their venue to be met with

Head off on holiday (whether at home or abroad),

from pocket squares to socks, to perfectly blend your

an outdoor dance floor and the music starting just as

invite your guests along, tie the knot, celebrate and

crowd of besties together.

the confetti spiralled out of the sky. Similarly, we have

then stay on to honeymoon once your guests have

seen a couple exchange their vows in a themed garden,

Marry at candlelight

departed for home. This unique take on a wedding and

and once they had been pronounced man and wife, a

honeymoon rolled into one benefits from everyone

Ceremonies at sunset or lit by candlelight can be truly

painted party backdrop dropped to the floor, the music

being in one place, and, once you’re there, little to no

magical. A late ceremony allows for lots of fun and

began, and they didn’t even need to move from their

travel for you and your guests, so all you have to do is

games beforehand, such as garden games or circus

positions to begin dancing the night away.

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10 TIPS FOR A SUSTAINABLE WEDDING Embrace an eco-conscious wedding by cutting down on waste and designing a day with sustainability in mind words Lucy Higgins

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We know that green is the new black, with more and more couples choosing to plan a thoughtful, ethical and environmentally sound wedding. And, as this advice from the experts reveals, your dream day can be every bit as stylish as it is sustainable.

Push the envelope “Sending save the dates by email is a cheap and ecologically sound way of getting your date out there. You can do this with invitations too, but if you do want to send a postal invitation, then ensure the materials used are recycled and recyclable and avoid any additional adornments, which won’t be processed in a recycling plant,” advises wedding planner Rebecca Green of Rebel + Anchor (rebelandanchor.co.uk) “There are also some awesome plantable, seeded invites, which guests can then plant in soil to grow into wildflowers or herbs.”

Location, location, location If possible, keep travel down to a minimum by having the ceremony and reception in the same location. “If they’re not in the same place but are walking distance apart, don’t rely on coaches or minibuses,” says Rebecca. “This will also add a really fun element to the day, especially if you have the ushers and bridesmaids lead the way holding ‘This way to the party’ signs, or musicians playing along the route.”

Confetti time We all want that confetti moment, and there’s no reason not to, as long as you think ahead. “Biodegradable confetti is generally all that most venues will now accept and there are some lovely ones. You could create your own, of course, if you have the time and the patience,” suggests Rebecca. Grab a hole punch and make your own confetti using dried flowers and old book pages, suggest Surfers Against Sewage (sas.org.uk) or choose an alternative idea that will create just as much buzz. “People are often surprised to know that lots of confetti has plastic components. Go traditional with rice or get a bubble machine in (not single-use plastic bottles of bubbles!)” suggests Rachel Yates, chair of Plastic Free Penzance (plasticfreepz.co.uk).

Flower power “Always work with a florist who doesn’t use floral foam and ideally only uses locally grown organic flowers, where possible,” says Rebecca. We’re lucky down here in the south-west that so many florists have access to locally grown flowers. “Also, ask that flowers are not wrapped in plastic – preferably hessian or delivered to you in glass.” You can find an array of beautiful different ribbons in charity shops or, if you want to buy new, use naturally dyed ribbons. After the wedding, consider rehoming your floral bouquets or centrepieces to local nursing homes or cafés, so they are not left to waste and can be appreciated by others.

To-die-for décor “If you’re creating your own tablescapes, ask friends and family if they have any foliage that can be used as central runners, or use plants and ceramic pots to create that al fresco style dining effect,” suggests Rebecca. “I also love used candles as an alternative to artificial lights. As a stylist and planner, I always have lots of leftover candles and they always look amazing. Ask around; it’s such a waste when candles are just thrown away, and used candles can create that beautiful rustic feel,” she says, an idea that Rachel agrees with. “Light up your tables with handmade candles in old glass jars from home or charity shops, cutting back on plastic table decorations. In fact, when it comes to table decorations such as glitter, table confetti, place markers and ribbons think about ways you can use natural materials,” says Rachel.

Do us a favour The options are endless when it comes to favours for your guests, and we love locally made gifts that put a personal stamp on your proceedings. “Some simple but lovely eco-friendly favours include either packets of seeds or, better yet, pre-planted seedlings or plants in beautiful ceramic pots,” suggests Rebecca.

And don’t be tempted to package your favours in plastic or cellophane gift bags.

“Make your gift bags more personal and sustainable by handmaking them. Give them a vintage style, by swapping the plastic bags for paper and include thrift shops treats,” recommends Surfers Against Sewage.

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Presents of mind And talking of gifts, if people are travelling a long way to your wedding, offset your carbon footprint by requesting guests, as a wedding gift, go onto https://co2.myclimate.org and calculate the carbon cost of their flight and compensate with funding climate projects. Alternatively, you can ask for donations to an eco charity of your choice.

Food glorious food Always source local, seasonal, organic produce or work with caterers that have that ethos. You could even keep your menu meat-free or plantbased. “There are some incredible vegan caterers out there, and the food is so delicious even your meat-eating guests won’t complain, promise!” says Rebecca.

Of course, as well as sourcing locally, it’s important to make sure all the food and drink at your wedding

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is as free of plastic packaging as possible, too, and avoid single-use plates and cutlery especially for evening food. “Use wooden cutlery instead of

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plastic cutlery. Arrange for them to be collected up

Want to hear how it all works on the big day?

and put on someone’s compost heap afterwards!”

Dot and Maarten, who recently married in

says Rachel. “Takeaway boxes can be replaced with

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bagasse or cardboard boxes, depending on what food is going in them – your caterer should be able

“We are blessed to be surrounded by a wealth

to advise on the best choice.” You could always hire

of inspiring local businesses who champion

crockery or buy some mismatched plates from a

environmentally conscious values, so it was an

charity shop to give a relaxed vintage look.

intuitive decision that our wedding should be an opportunity to support those small businesses, and

Drink up

that community we live in,” says Dot. “We were

The same ethos applies to your drinks, whether

also conscious we wanted our children to feel very

it’s wine, beer, bubbly or soft drinks – source local,

much a part of the day and by keeping it simple

organic and vegan; it can be done, and you’ll have

they would feel more held throughout the day.

fun experimenting. “Another fun idea is to ask guests to bring a bottle from their drinks cabinet.

The defining factors were definitely keeping it local

Hire an experienced mixologist who can work

and intimate. Everything happened within walking

their magic with a hotchpotch of different spirits

distance of our home, so there was no need for cars

and liqueurs that have been gathering dust in the

and convoys between venues. Our ceremony was

backs of cupboards,” says Rebecca. It goes without

held at the beautiful Totnes Guildhall – a hidden gem

saying, plastic straws are no longer welcome and if

– and we have the most incredible organic pub, The

you do have a DIY bar, try using glass. “Hire glasses

Bull Inn, on our doorstep. The Bull was the obvious

or trawl the charity shops and have a wonderful

choice for our wedding breakfast and because the

array of different glasses or even teacups, which

guest list was 24, it meant that we could lay on an

you can donate back afterwards or sell on,” says

exquisite meal of ethical dining with a choice of

Rachel. We’ve been to weddings where the favours

vegan, meat and fish without compromising our

were enamel mugs (filled with mulled wine) for the

values around food – the tempura broccoli with

guests to use on the day and keep afterwards. If you

miso mayo was a big hit!

have to use disposable cups, then opt for recyclable paper ones and make sure they are disposed of in

Maarten had my engagement ring made by Yumé

the correct way.

Jewellery, a jeweller in Ashburton who works with recycled and single origin metals as well as ethically

Waste not

sourced gems. We found out that Yumé also offers

When the big day is over and the clean-up

a wedding ring workshop, and took in some old

begins, it’s not time to forget your eco-conscious

family jewellery that our parents donated to us.

credentials. “Try to keep waste to a minimum, so

Yumé had it melted down and refined, so when

use limited packaging, if any,” says Rebecca. “Always

we arrived on the day, we had gold to work with

ensure your venue has a good recycling policy. If

which had personal meaning to us – neither my

you’re having a DIY wedding, ensure your caterers

dad nor Maarten’s dad are still with us, so it felt

have recycling and compost bins and your bar has

special to make our rings out of gold that they had

recycling bottle bins.” Using compostable plastics is

once touched.

great but make sure they’re collected up and taken to the right composting facilities (this sounds like a good job to delegate to someone else!).

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Maarten wore a suit he’s had for seven years, and

my skirt and jacket I had put away for our wedding for a few years too. When I worked in fashion I was often paid in clothes, and as soon as I saw it I knew it would be my wedding outfit, so I took it as payment and it’s been in a box under our bed waiting for its big moment ever since! I needed to finish my outfit off with a few accessories, so I contacted local maker Lucie Cast for my bag and purchased my sandals from Small-Folk, a children’s and lifestyle store on Totnes High Street.

Our wedding flowers were grown by some of our neighbours on their allotment at Bowden Springs Farm, and our vegan cake was made by legendary local baker Lisa of Boho Cakes. Finally, the real stroke of genius was our wedding registry.

We approached Me and East – a store selling a beautifully curated selection of locally made crafts – and Chloe very kindly helped us to put together a wish list. This was such a wonderful thing as not only did it mean that our wedding gifts were all unique and beautiful, but the very act of people buying them supported the makers as well as Chloe and her growing family. By the time I looked at our wedding as a whole, I realised that the entire act of our getting married became a process in investing in the community where we live.

Think about the people who you want to witness your commitment – don’t feel that you are obliged to invite people to boost the numbers or pacify relatives. Your wedding is a pivotal moment in your life and the people who share it with you should be the people you will turn to in times of joy and sorrow. If you keep things local, you will be reducing the impact of your wedding in many ways, and by being clear about what matters to you environmentally, you’ll find a way to weave that in to your day. Maybe it’s paperless invitations, maybe it’s local seasonal food, maybe you encourage your guests to re-wear something rather than shop for a new outfit. Most of all – have fun with it! It’s supposed to be the happiest day of your life after all. For us, it was pure magic!”

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Bickleigh Castle An English Historical Landmark

Where Wedding Dreams Do Come True!

Located in 65 acres of beautiful Devon countryside, Bickleigh Castle is the perfect wedding venue for all seasons.

Bickleigh Castle offers stunning countryside views, set in manicured grounds around a pretty courtyard and surrounded by a moat, the magnificent Castle with its beautiful Italian gates offers the perfect historic backdrop. This most impressive and historical estate is one of the leading Castle Wedding venues in the UK and is the perfect location for your dream wedding.

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COUNTRY HOUSES & CASTLES Live out your very own fairytale in one of Devon’s elegant country houses or majestic castles

Pynes House Believed to be the inspiration for Jane Austen’s Barton Park in ‘Sense and Sensibility’, this elegant Georgian house provides the most breathtaking location for your very own love story. Set within 37 acres of parkland in the Exe Valley, the glorious gardens hint at the immaculate interiors, where you can marry in a choice of state rooms, all bathed in natural light and exquisitely styled. For dizzying romance, take your vows before the grand doors on the entrance steps with the majestic tree-lined avenue and gardens as your backdrop, before feasting and dancing the night away beneath the sparkling chandeliers of the Ballroom or, for larger affairs, in a marquee in the grounds.

Romantic details such as the Romeo and Juliet-style balcony and the myrtle bush in the rose garden, which is believed to have grown from a clipping from Queen Victoria’s bridal bouquet, add to the dreaminess, while the beautiful bedrooms make for an incredibly special place to spend the night. pyneshouse.co.uk Total capacity: 96 for dining in the house, 130 for ceremony in the house Rebecca Goddard

(with dining in a marquee) Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 12 double rooms, plus 4 rollaway beds Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog for ceremony only)

Exeter Golf & Country Club The buzz of Exeter might be on the doorstep, but you wouldn’t know it at Exeter Golf & Country Club. A hidden pocket of country charm a stone’s throw from the city streets, the tranquil air and lush parkland of the venue exude a heady sense of romance. The crisp white Georgian manor house, Wear Park, stands at its heart – think huge floor-to-ceiling windows, sweeping staircases and sumptuous furnishings. Marry in a choice of suites, blending the classic romance of the elegant, Regency-style Topsham Room to the contemporary grey, wood and stone theme of The Mews, complete with its private roof terrace. The Topsham Room offers glorious views of the golf course with a veranda for al fresco drinks. An experienced team of chefs will create culinary masterpieces, ranging from afternoon teas to decadent banquets, and for that pre-wedding prep, Wear Park Spa offers bridal beauty treatments through to luxurious Elemis facials, massage and body scrubs. exetergcc.co.uk Total capacity: 150 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: No (can come for photos on request)

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Rockbeare Manor A ceremony on a pretty outdoor terrace flanked by flower-filled parkland ticks the box for sheer off-the-scale romance – but that’s only part of the dreamy appeal of Rockbeare Manor.

Nestled in the countryside near Exeter, the Grade I listed Regency house is light, elegant and stylish yet relaxed, its full-length windows framing 100 acres of glorious parkland dotted with mature trees. Available on an exclusive-use basis, indoor ceremonies take place beneath the twinkling chandelier of the Dining Room, while the light-filled Ballroom hosts sumptuous feasts and revelry for up to 160 guests. There’s also a beautiful balconied Bridal Drawing Room for the preparations, a Billiard Room and 13 plush bedrooms with sink-into-me bathtubs and farreaching views across Dartmoor. rockbearemanor.co.uk Total capacity: 160 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 30, plus 5 rollaway beds for children Dog-friendly: No (couple’s dog is allowed for ceremony/reception but not overnight)

Powderham Castle Rich in romance and steeped in history, this iconic 14th century castle sits at the heart of 200 acres of ancient parkland on the edge of the Exe estuary. The grounds offer dreamlike backdrops for ceremonies – choose from the American Garden where a garden pavilion is set amidst a glade of exotic trees; the Belvedere, an 18th century tower with panoramic views across the estate and estuary; and the Victorian Rose Garden, where you can marry amidst a castle backdrop and the scent of roses. Inside, there’s the magnificent oak panelled Dining Room, the Libraries and the captivating Music Room, with its stunning dome and estuary views.

Bring your dazzling day to a close by retiring to a sumptuous suite for a royally romantic wedding night. powderham.co.uk Total capacity: 140 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes indoor: 3 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 16 Dog-friendly: Yes

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Haldon Belvedere Ever dreamt of getting married in a tower? Standing tall amidst the hills of Haldon Forest and the surrounding countryside, Haldon Belvedere is an iconic Devon landmark – and an achingly romantic setting for intimate ceremonies. Built in 1788, its cream façade is the stuff of fairytales, while its roof terrace – reached via a stone spiral staircase – boasts jaw-dropping views of the county’s beauty in every direction. Get wed before up to 50 guests in the gorgeous Ballroom, adorned with ornate Baroque plasterwork and gothic-style windows, and then head to the Lawrence Room for fizz and canapés as you spill out into the picturesque gardens. After the celebrations, kick off your heels and bed down in the self-contained apartment handily located in the castle’s turrets. haldonbelvedere.co.uk Total capacity: 50 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: for 2 in bridal apartment Dog-friendly: Yes (small dog can be carried)

Moreton House A Georgian stately home on the outskirts of the ancient port town of Bideford, new wedding venue Moreton House boasts a range of impressive yet homely spaces and luxurious on-site accommodation. Rich in the beauty of North Devon, the house sits amidst five acres of landscaped tree-lined gardens, while the breathtaking vistas of the north coast are less than two miles away.

Marry in one of the elegant, light-filled rooms or, for something more intimate, before the fireplace in the hall. Venture outdoors and take your vows in the portico framed by the grand entrance or the gazebo in the secret garden. Savour the festivities in the beautifully restored Special Day Wedding Photos

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accommodation for an extended wedding weekend.

The exclusive-use venue has joined forces with awardwinning restaurant The Royal George to offer a limited number of prime weekend wedding packages for 2022, with the catering and so much more taken care of for an unforgettable wedding in this endlessly romantic setting. moretonhousedevon.com

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function rooms and enjoy the cosy and characterful

Total capacity: 70 day, 100 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 6 outdoor: 2 Guest accommodation: for 30 Dog-friendly: Some dog-friendly options are available

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Bickleigh Castle This is the place for a wedding rich in history. Beyond the stirring charm of the 11th century Norman castle, with its Great Hall complete with minstrels’ gallery and roaring log fire, there’s the 6th century chapel, Devon’s oldest building, and a truly enchanting setting for a blessing. The grounds are equally fairytale-worthy – the River Exe runs through the estate’s 1,000 acres of lush landscape and wooded valleys, while a cluster of cosy thatched cottage accommodation creates the feel of a wedding village. Kick-start the festivities with a Friday night feast; get married in the garden pavilion before dancing under the stars in the expansive grounds, with fireworks shimmering on the river. The next day, it’s all too easy to continue the festivities with a tasty brunch and fun on the croquet lawn and tennis court. bickleighcastle.com Total capacity: 120 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 5 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 40 in 18 bedrooms Dog-friendly: On request

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Hurlditch Court Located in Lamerton, Hurlditch Court is a Grade II listed manor house boasting a rich history that dates back as far as 1351. The charm-filled house is flanked by pretty grounds where elegant gardens meet rolling lawns and a beautiful lake. Choose from an elopement or intimate wedding for up to 14 guests in the Gatehouse or a celebrant-led ceremony by the lake. Celebrate in style with up to 80 guests in a grand marquee or tipi by the lake or you might choose a stretch tent reception with up to 60 guests. There’s ample space for garden games and al fresco festivities complete with idyllic country views and, with accommodation for up to 14 on-site, ranging from the snug shepherd’s huts and Gatehouse to a cosy cottage, you can savour the delights of this gem over the course of a magical and oh-so memorable weekend. hurlditchcourtweddings.co.uk Total capacity: 90 Civil ceremonies licence: No - celebrant-led ceremonies available & St Peter’s Church in Lamerton is very close Guest accommodation: for 14 in cottages and shepherd’s huts Dog-friendly: No

Woolhanger Manor Flanked by miles of unspoilt countryside and offering glorious views across Exmoor, it’s not just the location of Woolhanger Manor that makes it a spectacular setting for a wedding – inside, you’ll find a series of breathtaking and beautifully restored spaces to marry and celebrate in style and privacy. There’s the Music Room, with its magnificent octagonal hall and built-in organ for a stirringly atmospheric soundtrack; the resplendent Medieval Room, adorned with chandeliers and an open beam ceiling; and the Red Dining Room, a more intimate yet grand setting for a smaller celebration. Outside, and with far-reaching views, the Semi-Walled Upper Garden is perfect for a drinks reception or marquee wedding, while the estate’s holiday cottages can accommodate up to 17 guests for a stayover in this extraordinary corner of Devon. weddingsatwoolhanger.co.uk Total capacity: 120 sit-down, 150 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 2 Guest accommodation: for 17 in cottages Dog-friendly: Yes

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Coombe Trenchard A stunning Arts & Crafts country house estate with restored Edwardian gardens and acres of inspiring grounds, this one-of-a-kind venue will sweep you away with its idyllic west Devon location, and time-honoured space in which to create a beautiful English country wedding. From intimate elopements to grander gatherings of 120, Coombe Trenchard weddings are unique, tailored and very special. Brimming with beauty and charm, the exclusive-use venue offers the main house, coach house, courtyard, Italian terrace, clock tower and glorious grounds with breathtaking Dartmoor views as well as a personal in-house coordination service. There are numerous locations for ceremonies indoors and out before the celebrations unfold in the elegant and versatile reception areas. What’s more, Sarah’s cutting garden flowers grown with great love and care for each couple, the stunning bridal suite, and new bijou stable bar mean this gem of a venue will steal the hearts of engaged couples from far and wide. coombetrenchard.co.uk Total capacity: 120 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 6 outdoor: 6 Alexa Poppe

Guest accommodation: for 12 Dog-friendly: Yes

Hareston Manor Hareston Manor exudes timeless romance, from the tree-lined drive and sweeping rural panoramas to the 14th century Jacobean house nestling amongst wooded hills and wild flowers in Devon’s rolling South Hams. Combining a sense of seclusion with a relaxed, back-to-nature feel, Hareston Manor is an eco haven with sustainability at the core of its ethos. With a limited offering of 12 weddings per year, the new venue’s exclusive bespoke weddings will ensure every detail is just perfect, whether you choose an elopement or celebration for 150 guests. Choose from the romance of a ceremony in the picturesque grounds, the candlelit St Martin’s chapel, which dates back to 1379, or the manor entrance, immersed in the beauty of the time-honoured walls and mullion windows, roses and wild flowers. Celebrate in a marquee or tipi before retiring to a luxurious yurt for a wedding night beneath the stars. What’s more, there’s an array of options – from gourmet barbecue evening food and fireworks to prewedding clay pigeon shooting – to ensure your wedding is as individual as it is beautiful. harestonwedding.co.uk

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Total capacity: 150 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 4 Guest accommodation: TBC, please enquire directly for up-to-date information Dog-friendly: No

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Everything about Rockbeare Manor is devoted to you.

From the glorious setting and beautifully appointed interiors to the welcoming team, every aspect of this exquisite, exclusive use Regency country house is dedicated to delivering the highest possible level of service - because we never forget, it’s the little things that make a big difference.

Rockbeare Manor, Nr Exeter, Devon, EX5 2FE Telephone: 01392 797444 www.rockbearemanor.co.uk

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RURAL TREASURES From rustic barns to modern spaces flanked by wooded valleys and rural panoramas, throw your dream wedding in a charm-packed setting in the Devon countryside

Harefield Barn Located amidst rolling hills and wild flower meadows, Harefield Barn offers the beauty and tranquillity of a country wedding with the convenience of being just a 10-minute drive from Exeter. A light, airy and versatile backdrop for a personalitypacked wedding, the rural gem boasts no less than seven licensed areas for ceremonies – including the Clock House, a dreamlike option for al fresco vows – not to mention four churches within a short drive. Characterful features such as exposed beams and a wood-burning stove meet a blank canvas aesthetic, lofty ceilings and floor-to-ceiling windows framing vistas across the ever-changing landscape. Relax with your guests in the cosy bar, steal away to the surrounding cornfields for photos against a golden sunset, and dance the night away on the terrace beneath a starlit sky. harefieldbarn.co.uk Total capacity: 300 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 6 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: No

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Badgers Holt Hidden in the heart of Dartmoor, Badgers Holt is ideally located for couples seeking a relaxed and wildly romantic wedding. The River Dart meanders through the grounds of the former fishing lodge, which houses a series of versatile, rustic spaces for celebrations, all perfect for styling with your own unique twist. Take your vows in the blank canvas Garden Room or Banquet Fireside Room – complete with a roaring wood burner – or even in the garden bandstand on the water’s edge. Venture onto the ancient Tor-dotted moorland for dramatic photos and together-time before returning for festoon lit celebrations and firepit gatherings on the riverbank and sleeping beneath the stars in a Lotus Belle Tent or cosy apartment. badgersholtweddings.co.uk Total capacity: 100 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 2 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: Yes Dog-friendly: Yes

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The Oak Barn Fall for the rural dream at The Oak Barn, where three converted historic barns and an ancient cob Devon farmhouse sit amidst acres of quintessentially English countryside. We’re talking meadows dotted with The stunning medieval-style barn is a blank canvas with traditional oak cruck trusses, which is ideal for going to town on the décor. Then there’s the Acorn Barn, a thatched 18th century barn, for intimate ceremonies and accommodation. The Linhay, a converted Edwardian dairy, offers further

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haybales, undulating hills and a beautiful country church right next door.

accommodation as well as a beautifully equipped space for the bridal preparations. And the gardens beg for al fresco celebrations around the firepit, beneath leafy trees and skies speckled with stars. theoakbarn.co.uk Total capacity: 90 day, up to 125 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: for 28-29 Dog-friendly: No

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Upton Barn & Walled Garden Helen Lisk Photography

Comprising a cluster of lovingly restored traditional buildings and a walled garden, this exclusive-use venue offers a private, picturesque and peaceful setting in rural Cullompton. New for 2022, savour the stylish spa-like delights of The Paddock during your wedding morning. Marry in the atmospheric Cider Barn, a restored traditional cob barn with oak trusses and floor-to-ceiling windows, or glide down the lavender-lined aisle of the walled garden and exchange vows beneath the handcrafted oak arbour.

Stylishly blending rustic character with modern accents, the Stable Barn is a stunning space for receptions for up to 156, with warm timbers, striking lighting and glorious paddock views, while the Press Bar is the place to stop for signature cocktails by the wood-burner. Don’t forget to head outdoors at nightfall when a carnival of festoon lights and firepits add to the magic of this stellar spot. uptonbarn.com Total capacity: 156 day Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: for 8 Dog-friendly: No

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INTIMATE & UNIQUE Throw a small wedding packed with personality at one of these gorgeous spots

The Lamb Inn at Sandford This village pub is bursting with charm. Nestled amongst the Tudor cobbles of the chocolate-box village of Sandford, the sense of easy charm and rich character is palpable in the 16th century coaching house, from its low ceilings and crackling log fires to its sink-into-me sofas and sheltered garden. Complete with an award-winning restaurant and luxurious boutiquestyle accommodation, it is a cosy and memorable setting for an intimate wedding, where the laidback draw of a country celebration meets fine food and luxe touches. Feast on locally sourced Devon flavours and a huge array of party-starting drinks, as the night draws to a close, bed down in one of the eight spacious and luxurious bedrooms or suites, most with underfloor heating and king-size beds. lambinnsandford.co.uk Yeti Photography

Total capacity: 40 day, 75 evening Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 7 rooms and 1 garden suite

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Brickhouse Vineyard Tucked away in an idyllic corner of south Devon, amidst 20 acres of fields and woodland, you’ll find Brickhouse Vineyard. Although located just 20 minutes from Exeter, the venue’s awayfrom-it-all charm and palpable sense of tranquillity make it a blissful setting for an elopement or intimate wedding. Marry in the 18th century Round House – an enchanting and brilliantly versatile space with a thatched roof, beamed ceilings and sweeping views across the vineyard to the countryside and coast beyond. After the vows, enjoy a loved-up stroll in the leafy vineyard and gardens before gathering for a feast tailored entirely to your tastes. You might even savour the romance of this gorgeous spot a little longer at nearby hideaway, The Folly. brickhousevineyard.co.uk Total capacity: 60 day, 100 evening

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Tree Top Escape Could there be anything more romantic than your very own tree-top hideaway, taking your vows overlooking rolling hills, surrounded by nature with the gentle breeze rustling through the leaves? Tucked away on a private north Devon estate, Tree Top Escape offers the most magical of settings to wed. Beyond the jaw-dropping views of the valley, there’s a large lounge, Italian designer kitchen, freestanding copper bath and state-of-the-art technology. Celebrate with up to 14 of your nearest and dearest in the luxe, light and luxurious setting, sink into the private hot tub on the terrace beneath the stars, and enjoy a delicious dinner cooked over live flames by your personal chef in the Grill-Haus, a fresh-from-a-fairytale cabin in the woods. Beautiful, tranquil and unique, it’s the dream location for back-to-nature nuptials without skimping on luxury. treetopescape.co.uk Total capacity: 16 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: 2 en-suite bedrooms

St Nicholas Priory A jewel in the heart of Exeter, this 900-year-old priory turned Tudor home is rich in historic charm and romance.

Original features captivate at every turn, from the medieval kitchen and Tudor bed chamber to the 15th century arch-braced timber roof and stunning stained glass windows. Three stirringly beautiful settings are licensed for intimate ceremonies with up to 45 in attendance. Absorb the palpable atmosphere of this extraordinary building as you take your vows and venture out for a loved-up stroll in the pretty grounds; then gather with your nearest and dearest for a wedding feast to remember. nicholaspriory.com Total capacity: 45 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 3 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: No Dog-friendly: By arrangement

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HOTELS WITH CHARACTER From country charm and glorious grounds to seriously stylish suites for the wedding night, these hotels offer irresistible romance

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Hotel Endsleigh Tucked away deep in the secluded Devon countryside within touching distance of Dartmoor, this Grade I historic house is flanked by 100 acres of scenic grounds, home to woodland, follies, grottos and gardens created by renowned landscape designer Humphry Repton. Say “I do” in any of the ground floor rooms of the immaculately styled hotel or venture outside for vows in the Parterre Garden or the utterly enchanting Shell House. ‘Your day, your way’ is the mantra at Endsleigh and each wedding is entirely bespoke, whether it’s a ceremony for two or an exclusive weekend wedding, complete with a marquee reception on the lawn overlooking the gardens, the River Tamar and beyond into Cornwall.

What’s more, the individually designed bedrooms and Stable suites, featuring roll-top bathtubs and wood-burning stoves, are an absolute treat. hotelendsleigh.com Total capacity: 140 inside, 160 for reception in marquee Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 7 outdoor: 2 Guest accommodation: 18 rooms for 40 guests Dog-friendly: Yes

The Venue at Sandy Cove Perched high on the cliffs of north Devon, The Venue at Sandy Cove boasts to-die-for views across the Atlantic, the rugged coastline and heights of Exmoor. A licensed gazebo for vows and a glass-wrapped platform jutting out from the cliffs means you can make the most of the spectacular location, while the purpose-built and light-filled celebration space boasts bi-fold doors, perfect for bringing the outside in during the warmer State-of-the-art lighting heightens the magic while the hotel’s 37 rooms – some with private balconies and deep bathtubs – will allow plenty of your guests to stay on and savour the sea air and rolling waves in luxury. sandycove-hotel.co.uk Total capacity: 150 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 1 outdoor: 1 Guest accommodation: 37 rooms, with 2 people per room Dog-friendly: Yes

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QUESTIONS TO ASK A WEDDING VENUE Before you fall for the first venue you see, get clued up on these must-ask questions from wedding planner, Jenny Granlund of Jenny Wren Weddings & Events 1.

What is the capacity for a ceremony and reception?

2.

Does the venue have a ceremony licence?

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What ceremony locations are there, both inside and outside?

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Is the venue exclusive use?

5.

What is the availability like?

featuring stone pillars and floor-to-ceiling windows; the Derby Room is a light and airy space

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What is included in the price?

menu to impress, and the calm space of Nelsons Lounge is a lovely retreat for those after a

7.

Will room turnarounds need to take place? If so, who will take care of this?

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Are there any break-out rooms away from the party for older guests or babies?

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Will there be a wedding coordinator on-site on the wedding day? What will they be taking care of?

10. Is

furniture provided?

11. Is

tableware provided?

Mercure Exeter Rougemont Hotel For weddings in convenient locations, it doesn’t come much more central than this revamped venue, which is opposite Exeter’s train station and Rougemont Gardens. A Victorian building that boasts modern facilities, its grand façade gives a clue to its impressive interior. Elegant and stylish, it retains many of its original features, and offers a choice of exquisite spots to take your vows with your loved ones. The Devonshire Suite, with its modern décor and expansive space, caters for up to 250 guests, while the Cavendish Ballroom provides a beautiful backdrop for smaller weddings of up to 50. Catering from the in-house Drakes Restaurant promises a peaceful moment before revelling in the party atmosphere. With 98 bedrooms, your guests can make a real weekend of the celebrations in the heart of the city. mercureweddings.com/hotel/mercure-exeter-rougemont Total capacity: 250 Civil ceremonies licence: Yes - indoor: 4 outdoor: 0 Guest accommodation: 98 rooms Dog-friendly: Yes

12. Can

you bring in your own suppliers and catering company?

13. Are

toilets provided?

14. What

time do the licences for music and alcohol run until?

15. Are

there restrictions concerning music?

16. Is

there the option to provide your own alcohol? Do they charge corkage?

17. What

day and time can you have access from?

18. Is

there accommodation on-site or close by?

19. Are 20. Is

fireworks allowed?

confetti allowed?

21. Are

firepits allowed?

22. Are

there dos and don’ts concerning decoration of the venue?

Woodbury Park This country venue has it all: acres of picturesque scenery, a grand-scale reception space for up to 220 guests, plentiful four-star accommodation, and even use of the wedding golf buggy!

Tie the knot in The Oaks, a charming space with exposed beams and large windows framing views across the countryside, or the Atrium, a grand setting with chandeliers, mood lighting and stunning views. Why not make a holiday of it and gather your loved ones in this gorgeous part of Devon for trips to the nearby south coast with its pretty beaches and wild cliffs, before returning to the extensive modern facilities including a state-of-the-art gym, pool and Aura Spa.

23. What

time does the hire end?

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24. Who

does the clean-up afterwards?

Total capacity: 250

25. Who’s

responsible for taking away the recycling and rubbish?

Civil ceremonies licence: Yes Guest accommodation: 54 rooms Dog-friendly: No

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THE LOWDOWN ON PRE-WEDDING ANXIETY

anxiety (noun) WORRY ‘an uncomfortable feeling of nervousness or worry about something that is happening or might happen in the future’ If the dictionary definition of anxiety strikes a chord, then you’re not alone. Whether you already had an anxiety disorder before you became engaged, or developed one through the pressure imposed during the planning period, then you are amongst an increasing number of people experiencing a bout of pre- (and even post) wedding anxiety.

We talk to one bride about her personal journey and glean some expert advice on how to help ease your anxiety as you approach the aisle...

Too many questions

“Anxiety, on the other hand, is more persistent and can disrupt day-to-day life. With anxiety there may not be one specific cause of worry, you can find yourself worrying about little things all of the time. If the anxiety you experience starts to get out of proportion and you end up feeling more anxious than you would expect someone else to be in your circumstances – this may be a sign of an anxiety condition.”

Dave’s distinction between stress and anxiety is an important one. While one tends to occur in short bursts on a temporary basis, the other can appear as a constant threat: a looming fretfulness that increases in force until, quite often, it can cause total overwhelm and even an inability to think and function properly.

Weddings can heighten anxiety in new and unpredictable ways, as Laura experienced from the outset. “The sheer

“It started in my teenage years, with it rearing its ugly head

number of things to be organised and the number of

several times in my 20s before I finally found the right

decisions to be made!” she cites as a lead contributor.

therapy when I was 30,” reveals bride-to-be Laura of her

“Making this more stressful was the time pressure, added

long-held anxiety disorder. “It was hard work, but it got

to by Covid weddings being pushed back, thus limiting the

my head to a place where I was ready to meet someone.

availability of suppliers. Decision fatigue set in very quickly,

My self-confidence had increased, I was able to relax for

I ended up jumping back and forth between what I wanted,

the first time in years and my personality was able to shine

even doubting the things that I had decided in my head

through.”

years ago.”

“When I met my fiancé Tristan we both knew very quickly

Not only did the internal pressure advance Laura’s anxiety,

that we were perfect for each other. One of the many

but her perceived expectations of others became equally

things that confirmed that for me was one morning I had

as overinflated. “Pressure to ‘keep up with the Jones’

been overdoing and overthinking, resulting in me crying and

and Instagram really brought out all my perfectionist

shaking. Tristan wrapped me up in a blanket on the sofa and

tendencies,” she admits. “Pressure to keep everyone happy,

hugged me until I fell asleep. From the way he took care of

differing opinions on the type of ceremony, the guest list,

me when I was struggling I knew he was ‘The One’.”

the food...”

A romantic proposal during a break in the Cotswolds led to

“The wedding planning process can be very overwhelming,”

the announcement that the couple were engaged – and a

Dave confirms. “Sometimes anxiety can affect us so much

deluge of questions that spiked Laura’s anxiety levels.

that we feel genuinely paralysed when it comes to making decisions. Not only are you planning the biggest party of

“The more people we told, the more questions were asked:

your life, but you may also have external pressures on top of

‘Have you set a date?’, ‘Where are you having it?’, ‘When

that. Financial worry, family pressures, conflict and decision-

is the hen do?’... And after all the questions came the well-

making are all common concerns.”

meaning advice and suggestions,” says Laura. “With so much information and options flying around in my head I quickly

“It is a very special day, so understandably you want to

became overwhelmed. My anxiety returned with full force;

ensure it’s perfect,” he continues. “However, it is very easy

I couldn’t sleep and I had a panic attack for the first time in

to get swept up into the whirlwind of expectations. Social

two years.”

media platforms such as Instagram and Pinterest can add to this pressure,” he adds of the multiple stressors involved.

Planning pressures “It’s likely you will have experienced stress at some point in life already, whether it be from your job, education or other responsibilities,” says Dave Smithson from Anxiety UK (anxietyuk.org.uk). “Some people are more prone to stress and may find seemingly simple tasks a challenging experience. The difference between stress and anxiety is that stress can often be linked to a specific cause and is usually temporary or can be relieved by action. For example, if you are stressed about a deadline, once you have finished the project and the deadline has passed you will no longer feel stressed.”

An inability to switch off can rapidly ensue, leaving you struck with a negativity that not only affects your ability to act, but can also impair your relationships as a result.

One solution is that rather than persistently second-guessing your decisions, ask yourself some pertinent questions that relate to your values and goals as individuals and a couple.

The trick is to avoid becoming swept up by the stress and outward appearances of things by keeping sight of reality, of who you are and what you want.

“Not everything you see online is real,” reminds Dave.

“Social media is deceiving. What you don’t see behind the

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picture is all the editing that has gone into it, or

my dad is a great help sorting out the marquee

how much that set-up costs to put together.”

arrangements.”

“It’s not just about the look, it is such a special day

“No day is worth sacrificing my mental health,”

Dave Smithson of Anxiety UK shares his

so how it looks on Instagram is just a very small

affirms Laura. “It’s impossible for everything to go

advice on how to quell anxiety during the pre-

part of it. It’s about the atmosphere on the day,

perfectly on the day, but it can still be your perfect

wedding period

making that commitment to each other, getting

day. Whenever I feel myself getting overwhelmed,

together with family and friends, and most of all –

I remember that Tristan and I will be getting

Manage your time. Make a list of all the things

having fun!” Prioritisation and perspective are key.

married, and that’s the only thing that matters.”

you need to get done no matter how big or small.

YOUR ANXIETY ACTION PLAN

Seeing it all written down may alarm you at first He raises another vital consideration. “Is it worth

Dave’s final words of advice echo Laura’s

but taking an inventory will help you to become

getting into debt for?” he asks. “A lot of these

proactive position, highlighting the importance of

as prepared as possible to manage your time and

‘extras’ cost extra. Check in with your budget.

staying true to your own intentions and priorities.

reduce your stress levels. Then prioritise. Be

You don’t want to cause stress further down the

Everything else, as ever, is just noise.

reasonable about what you can achieve.

line with financial problems.”

“Ask yourself: what am I achieving by worrying

Decide on a budget. Assess how much you can

Try to picture how you’ll feel both during and after

about this? What can I do to change the outcome

afford to spend. Weddings can be expensive so

the event once the stress has subsided. “When it

of the situation?” he proposes. “If the answer to

think of ways in which you can save money.

comes to the day, you won’t be worried about the

both of these questions is ‘nothing’, then it does

little things that seemed so important during the

not deserve to occupy this much of your time.

Share the load. Not just with your partner, but

planning. You’ll be thinking, ‘Why was I stressed

Focus on the things you can change.”

also with family and friends. You’ll be surprised at how excited people are to be involved in your day.

about table signs? It was the best day ever!’”

Talk...and breathe Your first response to any feelings of anxiety should be to acknowledge them. The next should be to relocate a sense of perspective, and then if and whenever you’re still struggling with your condition, communicate it to the people in your life that should know, and might be able to help.

“Luckily I have a very good support network,” reveals Laura. “Not only Tristan but my sister and parents too. With their help I was able to stop, take a breath, and breakdown the issues that were bothering me,” explains Laura.

“Talk about it,” urges Dave. “If you feel like you’re being buried under the weight of extra tasks or emotions, reach out to those around you. Talk to a friend about it, no matter how small or silly it may seem. They might be able to help you, or at least reassure you.”

Vocalising your feelings is one of the most vital steps, and should be followed by taking action to abate your anxiety. For example, Laura discovered that a pragmatic approach to the planning helped her to exercise a degree of focus and control that she was comfortable with, allowing her to tease out any issues and problems in a more bite-sized way. “I do love a list!” she announces. “Getting everything down on paper really helps me process information and come up with a plan. I got a diary and wrote a ‘to do’ list for each month. I knew time is of the essence with suppliers being booked up so far in advance and I just couldn’t cope with doing everything at once.”

Self-care is another seminal and often

It’s ok to let go of the reigns a little and allow others

overlooked part of the planning process, but

to take some of the workload.

can pay dividends on the day and beyond. “Eat well, drink well: caffeine and alcohol can both

Set boundaries. Remember this day is about you

exacerbate feelings of stress and worry. Yes, it’s

and your partner. Other people will likely want

a time to celebrate and you should be having fun

to have a say in what’s going on. Most often this

– just be sure you’re also nourishing your body

can come from parents, especially if they have

with plenty of fruit and veg,” Dave suggests.

contributed financially you may feel like you ‘owe’

“And give yourself enough time to recharge

them. It’s ok to say no. Be clear and honest about

by getting some early nights and making sure

your feelings.

you’re taking a moment to relax before bed.” It seems such obvious advice, yet many brides and

Take breaks. Not every waking minute should be

grooms fail to meet their basic needs while in

filled with wedding planning. Make sure you have

the throes of wedding planning, hampering their

some time to relax. Book in a date night with your

wellness – and happiness – as a result.

partner, get out for some exercise, practise some self-care.

Also try to bolster a sense of synergy and work together as a team with your fiancé, family and

Anxiety UK supports individuals living with or affected

friends, which will help you to stay connected

by anxiety, stress and anxiety-based depression, their

with all of the people in your life – including your

caregivers/family and friends through the provision of

self, and to harness a state of harmony and reduce

a wide range of services and information. For more

anxiety.

information on Anxiety UK’s services visit anxietyuk.org.uk

“Breathe,” says Dave of one of the most effective tools for eliciting a sense of calm and connection.

“This breathing technique works with the parasympathetic nervous system to bring calm to both the mind and body. Breathe in for four, hold for two, breathe out for six. Be sure that the out breath is much longer than the in breath. This cycle should be repeated at least six times.”

A mantra put simply by spiritual master Amit Ray and one well worth remembering: “If you want to conquer the anxiety of life, live in the moment, live in the breath.”

Her next tip is one that many brides fail to see the value of often until it’s too late: delegation. “I asked Tristan to be in charge of the honeymoon.

We discussed possible locations but I left it up to him. My sister is maid of honour so I have left hen do decisions in her capable hands, my mum is on the case with flowers and decorations, and

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Sunshine of my Life After a year’s delay, Laura and Earl’s wedding reunited friends and family in the idyllic setting of Upton Barn & Walled Garden Having met at work in 2004, Laura and Earl took their first trip as a couple to Edinburgh and always vowed to return. After going their separate ways, the pair rekindled their relationship in 2016. “In November 2018, Earl booked us a surprise weekend away,” reveals Laura. “I was delighted to find out we were finally going back to Edinburgh!”

“We pulled up to the same cottage we stayed in 13 years earlier,” she continues. “As I opened the door, candles lit the room and I noticed pictures of Earl and I throughout the years and a bottle of champagne. As I turned to look at Earl, he was on one knee. It was perfect.”

Although based in the West Midlands, the couple decided they would wed in Devon. “Earl has some wonderful family memories from when he was a child there and over the past few years we have shared some fantastic times as a couple in south Devon,” explains Laura.

It was love at first sight when they set eyes upon Upton Barn & Walled Garden. “We knew it was the perfect place for us: the beautiful backdrop of the Devonshire countryside, the elegant stable barn and modern open-plan feel was exactly what we were looking for,” she says.

Drawing inspiration from the rural setting, the couple opted for a palette of white, ivory, light dusky pinks and green foliage. “The beautiful walled garden brought so much colour that we wanted our scheme to only amplify the stunning surroundings,” says Laura. “We extended this to the table plan, where we named each table after a flower that could be found in it.”

After vows in the sun-drenched garden, everyone enjoyed a drinks reception and sumptuous feast featuring locally smoked salmon, pan-fried gnocchi with wild mushrooms, seared rump steak and a trio of desserts. Guests spent the warm summer’s evening throwing shapes on the dance floor, mingling in the gardens and tucking into pizza around the firepit.

“Like many other couples, our wedding was postponed by a year,” says Laura. “At the time this news was deflating, but it turned out that it made our day more special. It arrived two days after the lockdown restrictions were lifted, so we truly appreciated having our friends and family with us to celebrate.”

Laura shares a plethora of highlights from their day. “Everyone on their feet dancing, kids playing football on the lawn, the blazing sun, the beautiful words and memories of loved ones lost, families meeting, seeing everyone’s faces together in one room after a year apart...” she smiles.

“There were so many things we couldn’t control leading up to our wedding,” she reflects. “The lesson we learned was that things may not be perfect, but the main thing was we were finally going to be married – and we didn’t lose focus on this.”

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“Seeing all our family and friends in one place after so long on a beautiful sunny day was pure joy!”

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Everlasting Love Tamsin and Aidan’s postponed wedding was a rustic-luxe affair combining the best of Devon’s food and landscape Having met at school, it wasn’t until a few years later that Tamsin and Aidan fell for each other. Fast forward to 2019, and the couple were on holiday in Bali having dinner at a private temple.

“After we’d eaten, Aidan asked me if he could take a picture of the back of my dress,” says Tamsin.

“When I turned around, he was down on one knee and asking me to marry him. It was such a magical moment and we were lucky enough to capture the whole thing on video.”

Choosing the enchanting rural venue of Wonwood Barton for their wedding, the couple embraced a rustic theme to suit, with “lots of wood, greens, whites and candles”.

“Our dream was to get married outside,” says Tamsin. “I stayed at the venue the night before with my mum and my bridesmaids, and on the morning of the wedding when we were all getting ready, the weather was not looking good. It was only at the very last minute we decided to risk it and set the chairs out on the lawn, hoping no more rain was coming. We were so lucky that just as everyone was arriving the sun began to shine!”

The poignant ceremony that followed was made even more special as they’d had to rearrange their big day. “Our favourite moment was finally getting to become husband and wife in front of our closest family and friends after having to postpone our wedding due to Covid,” remembers Tamsin. “It really was the most perfect day we could have wished for.”

Guests enjoyed canapés and drinks alongside views of Devon’s rolling hills before settling into the marquee for the delicious wedding breakfast. Sharing platters of breads, oils, meats and cheeses were followed by a roast beef joint with vegetables, potatoes and gravy, and a mini trio of desserts.

“Each table had a ‘designated carver’ to cut the beef, which was a really fun way of doing things,” says Tamsin.

The speeches and lawn games provided further entertainment alongside a soundtrack from “amazing live singer” Lizzie Corish. And, as the day turned to evening, the festivities continued with the first dance and sparklers galore, before the couple and their loved ones danced the night away.

Reflecting on her top tip for couples in the throes of wedding planning, Tamsin has some sage advice.

“Enjoy the planning,” she says. “Although it may seem stressful at the time, once your big day is over, you might actually miss it!”

Photography Melanie Barnfield Photography melaniebarnfieldphotography.com

Hair Josie Wilton from Peace Hair & Beauty peacehairandbeauty.co.uk

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Flowers Hannah Burnett Florist hannahburnettflorist.co.uk

Catering Taylors taylorstavistock.co.uk

Cake Cakes by Hannah facebook.com/cakesbyhannah.co.uk

Dress Willowby by Watters from The Wedding Company

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KATE AND TAYLER by venetianorrington.com

Sunny Delights Kate and Tayler’s moorland wedding was full of colour, joy and sunshine Kate and Tayler first met at university. “I was a young fresh(wo)man living in halls, suffering no TV in the peak of ‘The X Factor’ years. Tayler lived with one of my best friends in a proper house with a TV, so naturally Saturday nights I took advantage of watching Simon Cowell at theirs. ‘The X Factor’ was just an excuse really!” she laughs.

The couple’s engagement involved Tayler sending Kate on a treasure hunt before directing her to Jay’s Grave on Dartmoor, where she was greeted with a tor lit with candles. “The lit pathway led to a cave he had adorned with fairy lights, a roaring fire and music. We danced and he got down on one knee…” she reminisces of the achingly romantic proposal.

Opting for a church ceremony followed by a reception at Gidleigh Village Hall, Kate and Tayler wanted to treat their guests to the happiest celebration possible. “We just wanted the brightest day after a couple of gloomy years amidst the pandemic. It was a colourful paradise!” says Kate. The carnival of colour carried from the bunting and glassware to the stationery and dried flowers, while a handmade butterfly photo booth and a showstopping cake provided brilliantly vibrant focal points.

Readying herself for the aisle with her six bridesmaids, eight flower girls and all the mums, Kate donned her gown ahead of an “emotional first look with my dad and brothers – and then came out to a screaming party of my favourite women who made me feel on top of the world!” she smiles.

The weather perfectly captured the cheery mood of the day (“bright sunshine and 30 degrees!”), while the ceremony provided the most aptly personal and upbeat celebration. “Our six-year-old nephews both read poems, one of our best friends played the cello during the signing of the register, and my godfather sang ‘Can You Feel the Love Tonight?’ Magic,” recalls Kate.

The whole village was waiting outside the church to congratulate the newly-weds who headed off in their yellow campervan ‘Sunny’ to the reception. There, guests enjoyed cocktails and garden games before tucking into beef brisket with garlic roast new potatoes, tenderstem broccoli with blue cheese and crispy onions, and a round of brownies.

“The speeches blew us away and there were so many happy tears,” says Kate of an especially fond memory. “We got whisked up to Scorhill for photographs, then our first dance was to Becky Hill’s orchestral version of ‘I Could Get Used To This.’ All our guests joined us for the moment.”

An evening of dancing, photos in the butterfly booth and drinking espresso martinis and limoncello carried them into the small hours.

“Take your time and don’t rush decisions,” says Kate by word of advice. “This is such an important and meaningful day – you want every moment to reflect who you are and celebrate your love. Make sure that happens.”

Photography Venetia Norrington venetianorrington.com

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TARA AND KELVIN by hannah-wilde.com

Heart of Winter Tara and Kelvin embraced the elements and natural details for their wildly romantic winter wedding on Dartmoor From a sunny day on the Isle of Skye to windswept Dartmoor in the depths of winter, Tara and Kelvin’s love story has been played out amongst some epic landscapes. “The proposal was a complete surprise while on a road trip around Scotland,” explains Tara. “Kelvin got down on one knee on a beautiful coral beach on the Isle of Skye.”

Deciding they wanted “a very natural and simple wedding,” the couple knew they’d found the perfect setting in Badgers Holt, an intimate venue on Dartmoor. “We love the outdoors and wanted to reflect that in our special day. Dartmoor and Badgers Holt suited this perfectly with their relaxed approach to weddings,” says Tara.

Sustainability was a key consideration for the couple. “We were conscious of the environmental impact and tried to reduce waste where possible,” she says. “So we reused table decorations provided by the venue and reduced excessive waste by keeping the save the dates and invitations electronic. We kept decorations very minimal – Badgers Holt is already very twinkly and with beautiful floristry little else was needed.”

The wintery hues and natural aesthetic of the flowers perfectly complemented the couple’s relaxed wedding attire: Kelvin wore a country-style suit, while Tara donned a stunning bohemian lace gown.

Framed by a foliage-filled arch, the ceremony provided the couple with their standout moments. For Kelvin it was “seeing Tara come down the aisle looking totally stunning” and, for Tara, it was “walking down the aisle to see Kelvin at the end and being surrounded by family”.

“The ceremony was just the start of a whole day so filled with love,” she reflects. “After two years of Covid, being able to share our wedding with all our family and gathering at Christmas gave it an extra special feeling.”

The couple exchanged wedding rings which were made by Tara’s uncle. “He also made my parents’ rings 38 years ago. This was very special to us,” she says. After the vows, everyone enjoyed hot mulled wine and a feast of duck, pork and vegetarian and vegan dishes. As darkness fell, the party moved outdoors for sparklers and drinks around the firepits before ceilidh band Banned from the Moor got everyone on the dance floor with their fun-filled, high energy music.

“The whole day felt like a huge family wedding and Christmas party without having to worry about cooking a turkey and washing up. It was perfect,” reflects Tara, who has advice for engaged couples.

“Add some homemade elements. We handmade place names and used pine cones to hold them up so they could all be recycled afterwards,” she says. “Keep it relaxed. Many of our guests said it was the best wedding they’d been to. And most importantly enjoy your day. Build in time to take it all in.”

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The digital world brought Charley and Thomas together when they started following each other’s blogs as teenagers. “We had followed each other for a few years before I messaged Thomas for the first time. Fast forward a year and we had been speaking every day before going on our first date in August 2016,” reflects Charley.

After a “perfect” proposal at home, the couple set out to find their dream intimate venue – and they soon fell for the charms of Brickhouse Vineyard. “It was the first venue we visited and we fell in love straight away,” says Charley.

In keeping with the venue’s idyllic backdrop of leafy vines and meadows, they picked a palette of pale green and pink. “We really love plants so there was a lot of greenery on the day,” says Thomas.

Their vision was brought to life beautifully by wedding stylist Nikki Sherriff of Knots & Kisses. “Nikki worked closely with our florist to make sure everything was cohesive and looked perfect on the day,” says Charley. “She also set up for us which was a massive weight off our shoulders.”

The venue was dressed with a dreamy blend of pale petals in glass vases, modern stationery and simple sprigs of rosemary atop rattan plates, while a ceremony arch bedecked with delicate petals and foliage framed the vows.

The newly-weds exited the ceremony to a shower of confetti and savoured cherished moments with their family and friends in the sun-kissed grounds. With the wedding taking place two days before Covid restrictions ended, they replaced the planned buffet with individually served buffet platters – these went down a treat, particularly the finale: a trio of puddings comprising raspberry frangipani tart, lemon posset with shortbread and Devon apple cake with caramel sauce and clotted cream.

Restrictions meant plans for a DJ also had to be shelved, but guests were more than happy to mingle in the sunshine, playing board games and taking Polaroid pictures for the photo wall. “As our families and friends hadn’t been able to see each other for such a long time most people opted to sit and chat outside,” says Charley. What’s more, being forced to have their first dance outdoors provided Charley’s highlight of the day. “It was around golden hour and turning around to see all of our friends with their arms around each other swaying along was so lovely,” she reminisces.

The ensuing moments stand out most in Thomas’s mind. “Just after our first dance we were whisked away for some golden hour photos,” he says. “We went to a nearby field and it was nice to escape and have some time together and reflect on the day.”

“The atmosphere was so lovely and everyone said how much they enjoyed themselves,” says Charley of her dream summer wedding. “Regardless of how difficult Covid restrictions made planning, we’re so happy with how things turned out.”

There’s just one thing the couple would change. “Have your ceremony earlier,” she advises, reflecting on their 2pm ceremony. “We said to each other so many times that time was going too quickly and wished we had more time to soak it all up.”

Photography Nova Wedding Photography novaweddingphotography.co.uk Venue Brickhouse Vineyard brickhousevineyard.co.uk Styling & stationery Knots & Kisses knotsandkisses.co.uk Catering Titley Green titleygreen.co.uk Flaming Good Pizza Co. flaminggoodpizzaco.co.uk Dress Wed2B wed2b.com Hair Nicky from The Hair Boutique hairboutique.co.uk Make-up Carrise from Melanie Thornton Makeup Artists melaniethornton.co.uk Groom’s outfit Next next.co.uk Flowers Holly-Bee Flowers hollybeeflowers.co.uk Cake Jax’s Cakes ‘N’ Bakes jaxscakesnbakes.com Invitations Pear Paper Co. pearpaperco.co.uk Confetti bags Etsy etsy.com

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MOLLY AND WILL by noahwerth.co.uk

Summer Daze Molly and Will’s wedding at Rockbeare Manor presented guests with a memorable medley of music, games and gastronomy “I was working as an estate agent in Exeter when Will moved to the area. He was looking to purchase a home and popped into the office. A few emails back and forth, then a first coffee date...and the rest is history over six-and-a-half years ago,” says Molly of her and Will’s romantic beginnings.

The couple were holidaying in New York when Will got down on one knee and popped the question during a cold morning walk in Central Park, much to Molly’s elation.

Selecting the elegant setting of Rockbeare Manor for their summer wedding, Molly and Will chose neutral tones of white and champagne to adorn their day. “We wanted a summer feel in the ballroom so added some raspberry pink with the flowers and cakes,” says Molly.

It was the ceremony at Broadclyst Church that proved to be “the most magical moment,” she reflects. “Walking into the church and seeing Will’s face was a moment I’ll never forget. Having everyone you love in one space is the most magical feeling and made the whole day so special.”

The newly-weds were transported in a VW Beetle to Rockbeare where they were met by the sounds of live oompah band German Jukebox. “We had canapés on the lawn with the amazing brass instruments entertaining everybody,” says Molly.

Guests feasted on platters of Devon rib of beef, roast chicken stuffed with mushrooms and sweet potato gnocchi in the ballroom. “We wanted a more casual option for dessert, so had afternoon tea dotted around the manor. It worked perfectly, enabling guess to get out of their chairs and venture round the amazing manor and grounds,” says Molly, who also commissioned cupcakes featuring pictures of their dog – “which made my day,” she says. “They added such a personal touch.”

The rest of the evening was a relaxed affair featuring a photo booth, chocolate fountain, table tennis, “amazing” live band Mammoth and another round of food and drinks. “It ended with everyone on the dance floor and it really was the perfect end to a perfect day,” reminisces Molly.

“The entertainment was always going to be our main focus – we wanted guests to enjoy the day and relax with friends,” she says. “Having a fun brass band in the day and a brilliant live band in the evening added so much fun – we just felt it brought everyone together.”

“Prioritise,” Molly says by word of advice for other couples embarking on their planning journey.

“Make sure you book the things that are most important to you first, then you have time to decide the other elements. Also, don’t get too stressed,” she adds. “No one notices the little details so don’t let those moments overshadow the fun parts of planning a wedding!”

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Classic Classic Romance Romance Cristina and Rupert’s country house wedding was brimming with country gorgeous florals and Cristina and Rupert’s house wedding romantic was brimming withtouches gorgeous florals, delectable Devon flavours and dreamily touches Cristina and Rupert’s loveromantic story took them from a first encounter in Dubai to a beautiful country house wedding in Devon. “We were out with friends on a Thursday night in Dubai,” says Cristina. “Rupert and his friend approached us, and we spent the evening talking. We exchanged numbers and the rest is history.”

Rupert’s proposal followed in September 2020 after a day exploring the beautiful sights of North Devon. “We ended up eating strawberries and drinking Prosecco on Saunton Sands beach, watching the sun set,” reminisces Cristina of their romantic engagement.

A private Jacobean manor house on the edge of Lamerton, new wedding venue Hurlditch Court made the spectacular setting for their celebrations after a ceremony at nearby St Peter’s Church.

“It is not only a beautiful venue but also great for their luxury shepherd’s huts and cottages that can accommodate the guests,” she says. “A marquee was set up in the garden.”

Cristina’s bridal gown – a stunning design made in Moldova with layers of soft tulle and statement sleeves – evoked the day’s romantic aesthetic beautifully. The soft pink bridesmaids’ dresses harmonised with the bouquets of barely-there shades, while Rupert carried a classic look in a bespoke morning suit.

Styled with a palette of white, sage green and blush pink, the marquee perfectly complemented the scenic setting. “We wanted something classic with a very slight country feel,” explains Cristina.

Gorgeous hanging foliage and florals, together with candlelit tables adorned with arrangements of dainty blooms, made for a dreamily romantic scene.

Such a showstopping setting demanded a special wedding breakfast – and renowned local chef John Hooker ensured the feast of locally sourced flavours was one to remember. Highlights included native lobster and scallop ravioli, spiced carrot purée and roasted lobster bisque; roasted rack of new season lamb, poached and roasted belly, baby broad beans, capers and mint; and lemon posset, Tamar Valley strawberries, honeycomb and sorrel.

The culinary delights continued in the evening, with the likes of ham hock scotch eggs, British cheeses and Cornish sausage rolls with candied onion and walnut going down a treat. “Everything was absolutely delicious,” enthuses Cristina.

Looking back on the day, Cristina recalls her standout moments. “The church ceremony was very memorable. I was feeling very emotional walking down the aisle alongside my dad as Rupert was waiting at the altar.” The speeches provided another highlight. “The groom’s and best men’s speeches were absolutely hilarious,” she reflects fondly. “We all had a good laugh.”

Photography Freckle Photography frecklephotography.co.uk Venue St Peter’s Church, Lamerton Hurlditch Court hurlditchcourtweddings.co.uk Marquee Marldon Marquees marldonmarquees.co.uk Catering John Hooker, The Cornish Arms thecornisharmstavistock.co.uk Hair The Hair Bar thehairbarinplymouth.co.uk Flowers Flowers Et Al flowersetal.co.uk Cake Boo to a Goose bootoagoose.net Stationery White Tor Design whitetordesign.co.uk

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Plan a so-you celebration with these top tips from the wedding gurus. This issue, we look at ways to bring the fun factor to your big day

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Song time. If you’re opting for a civil ceremony or celebrant-led ceremony, give guests lyric sheets with the words

couple or making a ‘time capsule’ vase by asking guests to write their favourite memories with you and popping them in a vase (that you can’t get into) for you to open in the future. Sophie Strike a pose. Whether it’s DIY or professional, a photo booth is always brilliant for bringing the fun factor.

You’ll find some fabulous options across the region from VW campervans through to vintage-style cameras.

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Rainbow brights. Add a bold pop of colour to your palette. It might be a pop of bright orange to a sage

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to your favourite song – a group singsong is always great fun and makes everyone feel included. Rebecca

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it was a massive hit. Rebecca Fun favours. Consider gifting something fun, unique and personal as favours, leaving your guests with a smile-inducing keepsake of your day. Sophie Let’s dance. Dance routines aren’t for everyone but there’s some fun options to get guests learning some moves such as hiring a ceilidh band or organising a

consider something different, whether it’s sharing food, food your guests have never tried before or even a giant

Love is sweet. Dessert stations look fab and can be created with the help of some willing guests who love to bake. I planned a wedding where the mother of the bride’s friends baked lots of different cakes and desserts to create an amazing dessert station – not only did it look and taste great, but it made everyone feel involved in the day. Rebecca End note. Think of a fun finale. A fireworks display adds a big wow factor and signifies the end of the night, which is always helpful to let guests know when the night is drawing to a close. Rebecca Rebecca Green, Rebel & Anchor rebelandanchor.co.uk Sophie Walker-Sunderhauf, The Little Details by Sophie thelittledetailsbysophie.com

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