Perseverance May/June 2021

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Issue No. 23: The Perserverence Issue

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Letter from the Editor Perseverance, often these days referred to as grind, is the ability to overcome obstacles and failures to pursue and or attain a goal. The building of perseverance or grind happens daily; many times, most learning/building occurs during setbacks. I remember quitting school because I couldn't pass this one class that I needed to graduate. Yet, I kept to myself and never asked for help or even knew how to begin to learn what the teacher required. Quitting was the easy way out! However, before I could leave, I had to speak with Dr. Steele, the school's director. I sat in his office with the lump of shame in my throat and told him that I couldn't pass and that I was quitting school. The director leaned forward in his chair and said to me, "Do you think that you're the only person that has struggled to pass a class?" Dr. Steele then wrote the words persevere and grind on his whiteboard. Up to that point, I had never really thought about other students but only myself. He said that if a person breaks down tremendous obstacles into smaller chucks and commits to learning and building daily, they can learn anything. But they must grind until they get it! And sometimes the best learning happens when people work as a team. That's when I learned the value of the type of friends you have and mentors in accomplishing goals. By the way, I didn't quit! Whenever I feel like something is too hard to get through, I think back to my meeting with Dr. Steele. Ok, I will admit these days, I also blast Nipsey Hussle's "Grinding All My Life" song in my headphones for additional motivation.

Whatever it takes, right?! Inside this issue, we have amazing young people passionate about school, sports, activism, overcoming living outside of the home, and entrepreneurship. As they continue to work hard even after experiencing setbacks and failures, chances are they are developing some real hustle, grind and will persevere in life!

OUR MISSION: BoldlyU Magazine is specifically designed for tweens, to encourage them to be brave, to be bold and to be themselves by providing a place for them to share their stories, struggles and passions. It is a positive resource to empower them to build confidence within themselves while also helping others!

Most of this content is written by tweens for tweens!

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DIY Red Velvet Cake Pops

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Ingredient s:

X Red Velvet Cake Mix Ingredients on the box for the Mix Cream Cheese Frosting 1 Package White Almond Bark Cookie Sticks

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Makes 20!

X Mix the cake as directed on the box.

Bake the cake at the temperature directed on the box.

Bake the cake five minutes or until edges are slightly browned (after a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean).

Allow the cake to cool uncovered for several hours or overnight.

Crumble the cake into a mixing bowl.

Place 2/3 cup of cream cheese frosting in the mixing bowl with the crumble cake.

Mix until well combined.

Line a cake pan or sheet cake pan with wax paper.

Melt while almond bark as directed on the package.

Using an ice screen scoop, dip the cake mix and frosting mixture onto the prepared pan.

Use your hands to make sure the mixture is firm.

Repeat until all cake mix and frosting mixture has been moved into balls on the prepared pans.

Dip cookie sticks partially into the melted almond bark.

Stick the almond bark stick into the cake balls on the prepared pan.

Be sure not to press all the way down touching the pan (the balls will split).

Repeat until all balls have sticks in them.

Place in the freezer for several hours or overnight.

Take them out of the freezer (one pan at a time).

Using the stick, dip them one at a time in melted almond bark.

Place the freshly dipped cake pops on a sheet of wax paper on the counter.

Let dry.

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Vot ing

Voting is a method for a group, such as an electorate, to make a collective decision. It seems simple, right! Often the process is misunderstood by a first-time voter. Sometimes, adults voting in various elections for years, such as local school boards and presidential elections, forget to tell young people the basics.

For example: where you go to register, knowing the deadline to register in your state, how to vote when you are away at college, and how to properly mail-in/ fill out a ballot. These are all crucial steps in the voting process. Before the 2020 election, America did not take steps to ensure all young people were properly informed in regards to voting and politics. According to Vox, it was reflected in the 2016 election turn out that 45% of youth went to the polls.

Today, I believe that more young people are properly informed about politics, voting, and political parties. Reaching younger people in America, non-profits used their platforms to grab the attention of young voters. Some examples are When We All Vote, whose CO-Chair is Michelle Obama. They hosted a drive-in concert with celebrities to get young people to get out and vote.

Other platforms were also used in America to teach young people, such as Instagram, to display celebrities like Beyoncé, Lizzo, and Michael B. Jordan to reinforce the importance of voting and educate yourself in politics. I would constantly receive messages containing links and flyers with new voter registration information and frequently asked questions. All of the effort to educate young people had a positive outcome because, according to the Center for Information & Research on Civic Learning Engagement, 52%-55% of youth voted in 2020. All of the information from older Americans to younger Americans helps educate voters.

For young voters to actively participate in elections ranging from the mayor to the president, they need to learn all there is to know about politics. America has made progress in educating young people on politics, voting, and political parties; however, the hard work doesn't stop here. We still have more improvement to make till we have a 100% turnout. With the help of programs such as When We All Vote and local community leaders, young people's knowledge will continue to grow, and voters' percentage will continue to increase.

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Bria

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GAMING! ONLINE

Some video games help people talk to friends far and wide, some people don’t have access to video games or have video games and no internet connection. Video games can bring people together and tear people apart but for me it brings me and my friends together.

Video games have to be coded for people to play it on a disc, game card, or to be downloaded from the internet. The coding allows people to play with other people at a similar XP (player experience level) level. It also allows people to play the same games as others allowing them to compete or play together as a team. This allows people to build friendships or a competitive relationship .

Video games are forms of entertainment and sometimes they are not just video games. They can be people’s only link to other people especially when they are living in a pandemic. During the pandemic many people have not been able to go to school or participate in other activities everyone is used to doing. It can be very lonely. The video games give a place for people to talk and play together as if they were sitting in the same room.

You could play them on a phone (this is where the apps are), computer, or a console. Many video games have their own apps. Apps take longer to code so not all apps have the same amount of stuff to do. The apps take more coding and have to take up less space than a video game. This causes the apps to have less features than the video games do. There are different ways to play video games. Playing on the actual games and not an app allows people to do more stuff than in the apps.

Every minute you play a game you are using data. Data is information transported over the internet. The data is how you communicate and play with other people. It is also how people access email, pictures, and things like tic toc. Video games can get competitive. If you don’t have enough data or fast enough internet it can cause lag and serious issues with 14

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competitive play or very funny situations when you are talking to someone and words get lost. People can get very competitive with video games. It can cause friendships to fall apart but it can also help to build teamwork.

The most important thing to remember when it comes to videogames and this pandemic is that you have to keep from getting over competitive. You need to be able to talk and discuss strategy or learn that you and your best friends can play against each other and maintain friendships. Good sportsmanship conduct is not for just sports. It should be used in any competitive situation. This is how you build friendships as well as keeping the friendships you already have. Video games can be a social outlet for people who are not getting a chance to get out. It can increase happiness and make people feel less lonely. Video games are no longer just a waste of time for many it is the only socializing they get

This pandemic has changed a lot in our society. We don’t have school dances and we didn’t even get to go trick or treating this year. Many do not get to go to graduation or sports events. The world that is open to us right now is a world that has been created where everyone can choose where they go and what they do. They can make new friends and reconnect with old. In conclusion more people should have video games because they can be helpful in ways as they increase people’s happiness, and you might even make some friends along the way.

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I attended Thomas Carr Community High School, where I excelled at basketball. However, the school closed at the end of the 2020 school year. I had a buddy who played basketball at a school called Covenant Christian high school, and because of the pandemic (large classroom and fewer students), my family and I chose this school for my senior year. I decided to play football which I hadn't played since my freshman year. Our football team finished a perfect 15-0, winning the state championship 41-10, and I was selected the Overall and Offensive Player of the Game. I carried the football 33 times, gaining a season-high 236 yards.

Next up was basketball season, and our team had a great year during the regular season. We entered the playoffs 22-4 and cruise to two easy victories before winning a three-overtime thriller. That's when things fell apart. Our team came out a little flat, and we never recovered. We would lose our fifth game and get knocked out of the playoffs in the semistate round. All in all, an outstanding senior season while maintaining a 2.9-grade point average.

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The hottest day of my life was Christmas day of 2020. Yet,

the forecast read 40°F and the chilling winds that hovered over the Cape Fear River fought for my balance as I stood on a hilltop surrounded by pine trees, and barren land.

I had finally come to peace with myself after months of concealing lies that only set my life on fire. The first fire was the one I alighted against myself; I was drowning in the mass of work I accumulated in Fall semester, and did not tell my parents about. The second one, a gift from God. I was shown immense grace, and was able to successfully complete two out of four of my classes with high A’s, and had chosen to withdraw from the other two courses. His fire alighted joy undeniable in my heart and founded my newest revelation; I was free from myself. Before, I was trying to uphold an appearance that I had my entire life together, but indeed I was in need of the support extended by advisors, and my parents. This marked the day of true serenity over every bone in my body. The bitterly cold winds were scorched by my radiating warmth from inner understanding that I was no longer alone. I needed to catch fire. Where hot tears of disappointment streamed down my face, agonizing headaches interrupted train of thought, and deep sadness lurked, was now a smile aglow for all to see. Though challenging, the illumination of my flaws taught me how to live again, and allowed for God to pierce my soul with his evergreen love.

In the class of AP Earth & Environmental Sciences, my teacher had begun to cover the processes of Ecological Succession.

Succession is known as the “series of events in which life comes back,” and the first part is known as Primary Succession (“Succession Interactive”). This is where all that is left in the ecosystem is bare rock, as some sort of disaster or wildfire had taken place.

There is no soil left, just the presence of death. That night, when I opened my laptop, the volcano of lies erupted in front of my parents; I was failing my classes. Now, this was unlike me. All of my life I worked hard to get A’s in my classes, and fully take in every inch of knowledge I could possibly consume from my course curriculums. However, Fall Semester of my Junior was tumultuous. I had three college classes, was dually enrolled, and had a lab attached to my BIO-111 class. Overwhelmed, I wanted to make every assignment a masterpiece, but the work was abundant, and I pushed it off until the last minute. Each time then, I lied to myself that I would get it done. The growing list of my assignments haunted me deeply. As I tried to sleep my problems away, there were “little fires everywhere” exploding by my bedside (Ng).

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Previously, on June tenth, my beloved Grandma Rose passed away from COVID-19. Dually, she was battling Congestive Heart Failure and the newly found coronavirus. Her lungs could no longer bear the weight of both CHF and COVID-19. To say that I was sad was an understatement. I carried or at least tried to, the weight of my grief. Along with the death of my Grandma, I was beyond frustrated with my highly-reactive and inflamed skin. As of freshman year, my skin started to develop keratin bumps. However, Keratosis Pilaris’ symptoms can only be managed, as there is no cure currently available.

Fire was catching as I suffocated in the billows of my self-made smokefire. Bothered, I would scratch my skin until I bled. Why o’ why was I hurting myself? I neglected my school, created scars on my skin, and did not fully grasp that my Grandma, my best friend, was gone. I had reached my boiling point, and my Mom was on to me; how were my grades?

Alarmed and utterly disappointed, my Mom and I began to yell at each other at full speed. My fire set ablaze a flame in her; why did I not come to my parents? It was the end of the semester, two weeks remaining to be exact, and I had over eighty assignments missing. As I tried to take up offense, all I could do was fall to my knees. The countenances of my parents simmered with disappointment. Truly, a part of myself died that night. The volcano erupted, the ashes were created. How could life grow back on bare rock?

Secondary Succession is when an ecosystem is disturbed “e.g forest fire, harvesting, hurricanes,” but soil remains as life is ready to come back (“Succession Interactive”). I sat, stagnant in front of my laptop; I began to work. My Dad helped me outline a plan to push through and optimize the grace period I was given. After days, and days of making up assignments, I was able to successfully complete two out of four of my classes. My Bio Professor had lost her mother-in-law to COVID-19 and her son withdrew from all of his classes. When I held a conference with her to see if it was even possible for me to finish her class, she comforted me with the words that in fact, I did not fail, but I was meeting my needs at that moment. This changed my perspective immensely; in what ways was I growing? During Fall Semester I cut out processed foods and gluten to see if it would help my skin heal, which it started to, and my episodes of severe inflammation digressed. Secondly, I had started an online Journaling account titled “Journaling with Jesus” designed to express my faith in Jesus Christ and share his love with my peers. All along, God was planting seeds of light in my darkness. There was beauty in the ashes, and life was surely coming back into my body.

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A prime example of Secondary Succession were the forest fires of 1988 in Yellowstone. When the fire occurred, trees like the “Lodgepole pines quickly rebounded” because the tree contains serotinous cones that open up and bear seeds after a fire takes place (“Succession”). In that moment of taking notes, I realized that I was like the Lodgepole pines. Jesus had saved me from myself, for his love was a consuming fire. Rushing waves of his undying love drenched me in light and I would too, bear seeds again.

For my ENG-111 class in spring semester 2021, the class was assigned an attention-grabbing and startling essay by former author and poet, June Jordan. Throughout Jordan’s short essay “Many Rivers to Cross,” she developed themes of lateness, hardship, and death. Her mother’s death was at the forefront of her writing, but beneath the surface lied her own death to self. At the closing of her essay, she thanked all of the women in her life with an “everlasting thanks” to whom she accredited helped “[her] stay alive” while she was “working never to be late again” (241). Like Jordan, I too died to myself. I was moving forward, and no hardship could stop me from bearing fruit.

It was through the hellfire of my life that God would refine every inch of my existence to plant seeds of life. Flames of his glory beamed from my now transformed heart. I would continue to catch fire, but that was good. This is because life is evergreen in the loving arms of God. His love withstood the matches I threw unto my soul. It was by his consuming fire that he was able to make beauty from my ashes, and enrich me with everflowing life and prosperity. I was no longer afraid of dying, I now knew that life could come from barren land.

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I am a college senior studying criminal justice and sociology. Growing up, I had no choice but to go wherever my mom went, and she was active in the community, which made me community-oriented. I became involved within my community at a very young age. Growing up, I was a part of the minority, and I’m not talking about race. I had very overprotective parents and a village. Although I lived in the inner city, I didn’t quite live the inner city lifestyle. I experienced the hood from the outside looking in, and I had a different childhood and mindset setting me aside from my peers.

I participated in dozens of youth-based organizations, including the Philadelphia Community Youth Court, where I served as the first female judge, youth advocate (Lawyer), & intake coordinator. Our mission is to mentor our peers to change their thinking in order to change their behaviors, to help eradicate the school-to-prison pipeline, and address issues that affect youth by the law, restorative practices, and from the youth perspective.

I’ve indirectly experienced inner-city violence. I’ve had schoolmates and friends killed in the streets and incarcerated. I felt the need to take action, so I, along with South Phila Jr Stakeholders, initiated “Philly Youth Speak Up,” a traveling nonviolence youth forum focused on finding the root causes of violence committed by youth. That’s when I realized that most youth that look like me have experienced some form of trauma, poverty, brokenness, and a failed system. I set my short-term goals on making a difference, becoming a part of the solution and addressing disparities within the system, and my long-term goals are becoming a lawyer and law advocate.

As soon as I could vote, I voted and advocated for my peers and their parents to vote. Electing civil servants and officials into office that will introduce laws that will bridge the gap and address those disparities was just as important as electing the president.

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It was important to me to raise awareness of the responsibility and accountability of our elected officials. It is equally important for the community to take a seat at the decision-making table, having a voice, and speaking up when our youth and community is affected in all matters, including but not limited to Education, funding, gun violence, criminal justice reform, and health.

Youth needs to get involved because we are the change we want to see; we are the now and the future. It is up to the youth to take charge now to change the future. Our voices matter and need to be heard! Much too often, youth and the youth perspective are overlooked. Adults and those in charge need to take the time to listen to and understand our youth. Parent and community accountability is not enforced. There is no real emphasis on investing in our youth. Instead, they are investing in prisons. Frederick Douglas eloquently said, “It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” If parents raised more community-minded children, we would be the majority.

Again, I’m not talking about race. I’m talking about productive citizens versus “broken men.”

Khayla Philadelphia

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When I arrived at the NXG motorsports academy, I did not know what to expect through my association with Girls Stem Institute. My knowledge of motorsports was minimal, and I had never taken an interest in the subject before. By combining typical classroom instruction and hands-on experience, I have gained much more knowledge about motorsports through NXG. I also have a newfound interest in the subject, and I am excited to learn more about motorsports.

In the classroom, which took place at Fastimes Indoor Karting rather than the Indianapolis Motor Speedway due to weather, I learned the basics of motorsports. My favorite thing I learned about was the different types of flags and their meanings. I also learned about other motor vehicles, the science and mathematics behind motorsports, and how to operate a gokart. The things I learned in the classroom helped prepare me for my time on the track at Fastime and helped prepare me for life by learning how cars work and drive.

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After time in the classroom, I went to the track, and I was able to gain valuable hands-on experience. Driving in the go-kart was one of the most fun experiences I have had since the start of the pandemic. Being able to race against others while going at a fast speed was exhilarating. In addition, I was able to apply what I learned in the classroom while driving the go-kart on the track, which made the experience a lot more rewarding.

The NXG motorsports academy is a wonderful organization. I walked through the door having almost no knowledge about motorsports.

However, I left knowing the basics behind motorsports and how to apply that knowledge to real-life situations. Overall my Girls Stem Institute experience with the NXG motorsports academy was amazing, and they have inspired me to learn more about motorsports and racing.

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Shower Shower Thoughts...........

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What What are are your your Shower Shower thoughts? thoughts?

The first 18 years of life are like a free trial, after that its pay to play Everything in the universe is either a potato or not a potato Does anyone remember the last seconds before sleeping?

People put clocks in cell phones so we don't have to check our watch. Now the watches have phones so we don't have to check our phone.

If your house is on fire, there's probably some perfectly cooked food before its over We cook bacon and bake cookies When there's a crazy animal in a movie, the trainers train that animal to act untrained Incorrectly is always spelled incorrectly unless it is spelled incorrectly I used to think limos were for millionaires. Now when I see one I assume its Prom night.

Bathtubs are opposite boats Out of everyone on earth, someone is the worst human alive.

You think you're unique until you have to pick a username Earth is round, so someone right in front of you is the farthest behind you.

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Perserverence St ruggles My life story is that I was born to Ebony Wright (who is a big support for me and has always shown that she loves me) and Marquis Elliott (who is not in my life and has not been there for me). I have 7 brothers and sisters. My grandmother, Ella, has been a great presence in my life. I have been in and out of juvenile for years. I have been Inner Beauty Program, Inc. and New Breed of Youth and they have taught me life skills and character and I didn't recognize what they gave me until I had to sit in placement. I am moving in with my aunt to be an only child to have a better focus on myself. Before now, I was always expelled or suspended from school and I hung around the wrong crew. I have been able to be a part of this Saturday Virtual Village Nationwide Zoom call that has taught me so much about myself, about how parents think and feel, and about how the system works. This has made me reflect on my actions and determine that I am better and that I will be even better once I am out.

My successes are that I am getting my credits for high school. I have been able to do some programming successfully that taught me to effectively help younger kids by peer mentoring and volunteering at daycares. I was a contestant in the Inner Beauty Pageant, and I praise danced and made the audience cry. This helped build my self-esteem and confidence. I have an ability to make people feel better and smile and laugh. I currently have A's and B's and I make these grades despite being locked up. I have been able to change my attitude and have a much closer relationship with my mother.

My Life Goal to be an OBGYN because I like people and babies and want to be in the medical field. I would like to also go into cosmetology to be a hair artistry. I want to be a mentor, too, because all of the stuff that I have been through will help me to help kids avoid being locked up and going through the same things.

The advice that I would give to other youth is that they should take advantage of being at home. Do not ruin relationships with your family and don't end up in outof-home placement. Respect your elders and everyone around you and, most of all, yourself. FIND YOUR VILLAGE!

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DEAR FUTURE ME

I always struggle to get motivated to do things, like my homework or doing the dishes. My mom and my teachers keep telling me that if I can’t get motivated that there will be “consequences” … whatever that means. And since I’m behind on both my chores and my school work, it all piled up and now there’s even more for me to do.

It just seems easier to ignore it rather than have to tackle a huge pile. How can I motivate myself to get my responsibilities done -Past You before I find out what these “consequences” are?

-Past You

DEAR PAST ME

You are certainly not the only person who struggles with motivation sometimes, and the longer you wait, the harder it becomes to start. Different things help motivate everyone, but here are a couple of ideas that could help...

1. Focus on the end goal. Doesn’t warm clothes out of the dryer sound better than the same socks you’ve been wearing all week?

2. Take it one step at a time. Set a goal to finish a chapter each night for your homework, or maybe just a few worksheets. This way the pile is much less daunting, and you’ll get it done quicker.

3. Reward yourself in intervals. Finish an hour of reading, give yourself 20 minutes to watch TV. Or maybe for each flash card you get right while studying, give yourself a little piece of candy.

Everyone at some time in their life has struggled with motivation. In the end, it helps to think of the tasks ahead as an opportunity to better yourself, if only to prove to yourself that you can do it. -Future You

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OVERCOMIN G ST RUGGLES WITH PER SERVER NCE Last year in early August of 2020, midway through the Covid-19 Pandemic, my mom challenged me to do something productive with all the extra time that I had. Almost immediately, I was prompted to pray and ask God what he would like me to do. And that's when I got the idea to start a threefold business called "Faith Family & Food," FFF for short. I got connected to the Indy Mentor Networks (IMN) virtual village through one of my church leaders from that business. I met Mr. Kareem, Ms. Kim, Mr. Dwayne, and the rest of the IMN team. As the calls grew, so did the youth on the calls. From there, Mr. Kareem had the idea to take these hard-working and passionate young people and put them on the path to break away from society's mold, and he dared us to be different. From there, we ran with the challenge, and the Young Entrepreneurs Network was born. The IMN team used their business knowledge and expertise to help us birth our businesses. Specifically, they've helped me to narrow down and focus on one aspect of my overall vision for my brand.

What I committed to first was the faith aspect. One day I was in the kitchen, and I began to pray about a name for this huge vision of faith-based God-centered apparel line. The name "Overcomer Clothing" was revealed to me, and since then, I've been running with it. The Bible verse I use to describe Overcomer Clothing is Revelation 12:11; this is because it talks about how the children of God overcame the enemy through the blood of Jesus and the bold word of their testimonies of what God has done. To me that scripture means that through Christ not only can we overcome obstacles and challenges we face in our life but it means that we have already overcome because Christ died and rose again. That scripture gives me the confidence that whatever I go through in life and whatever battles I face, Jesus is King and I will always win and overcome. I am using that same truth to inspire and help other young people and even older people to live their lives not in their own truths but in the truths of who they are in Christ.

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Not only have they helped me with just learning more about business, but they have introduced me to people and organizations who have assisted me in growing my business. They have also helped me monetarily by putting on showcases through the YEP. They have given each entrepreneur a platform to showcase our businesses, organizations, and, most importantly, confidence in who we are. They've not only encouraged and affirmed me but also other young business owners. The mentors have instilled in us that we are strong creative leaders and CEO's of what could be multi-million dollar companies. They've done an amazing job building an entire family unit and environment where we can be vulnerable with one another and not worry about judgment.

Also, as a teenage entrepreneur, I've found that it comes with many added tasks and responsibilities because you have to juggle school and business and relational and social life, and it's hard to find balance in that. Honestly, I haven't found the balance yet, so to make up for where I lack, I pray and ask God to help me and cover me where I'm exposed and weak in my life. But I'm blessed nonetheless to have an amazing mother who actually specializes in business analysis, amazing mentors, and a great support system who push me and help me when needed with my business. Lastly, my vision for my brand is to own my own office space, establish a team, expand my online market, and own multiple stores across the country. I also would like to provide job opportunities that give my employees the ability to gain financial wealth and, most importantly, help them grow spiritually.

I pray you all are encouraged by my story and these words and that you begin to really grasp that because Christ overcame the grave that the same power used to raise him up is the same power that was planted on the inside of you the day you began to walk this journey out with God. The power that helped me, when I was a little boy in the second grade, overcome depression, suicidal thoughts, and attempts to take my own life can also help you overcome every bit of pain, hurt, trauma, confusion, and whatever else you battle within your life. Just remember I love you, and above all, God loves you!

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Counselor’s Corner Perserverence This past year has looked different and been challenging as we learned to maneuver through our “new normal” part of that navigation has taught us perseverance. We have all learned that motivation has to come from within, and we have had to find new reasons and ways to stay motivated. We must use grit to get through challenging and difficult times. The world is ever-changing, and we have to prepare daily for the new obstacles that come our way. To do this, we must diligently seek ways to overcome daily challenges against us. The word perseverance is often thrown around, but what does the word indeed mean?

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Perseverance is the ability to do something despite the difficulty of obtaining success. A student must move forward even when things seem challenging and complex. May is the month that we focus on mental health and staying healthy. A big part of staying mentally healthy is going forth even when situations appear unbearable or unattainable. To have a healthy mindset, we must also know when things are getting too challenging and recognize that we might need support to persevere through some challenges.

I encourage each of you to focus on the characteristic of perseverance and cultivate it daily. If you genuinely want to be successful in life, you must start to develop this trait now. You can challenge yourself daily through schoolwork, sports, and even in relationships. You must realize that when things get hard or feel difficult, that is not the time to quit, but a time to refocus, regroup, and pull hold to the grit that is within us all.

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Starting a YouTube Channel...

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Starting a YouTube channel can be a difficult thing, but it also can be very fun. It took me at least a year before I started mine, but when I did, it was totally worth it.

Here are some t ips on making your channel: 1. Start with an introduction video, whether it’s a “10 Facts About Me” video or just something introducing you what your channel does.

2. Start with an easy editing software, that you can learn quickly. Don’t put too much editing or it will look too ‘busy’ and distract the viewer from you.

3. Be patient. It takes a while for your channel to grow. For several months I only had 11 subscribers, but if you put effort into your videos, you will eventually get views.

4. Try interesting things that your viewers will like, but don’t be repetitive. Don’t make the same type of video several times in a row, or people will get bored.

5. Lastly, include your subscribers in your videos. Do an “Answering Comments” video to bring together your subscribers in your channel.

I hope these quick tips help! Enjoy and most importantly, have fun doing it! That’s the whole purpose is to have fun.

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Scholar Athlete's 2021

Each of these outstanding student athletes are being honored & recognized for maintaining a minimum 3.0 GPA, being active in the Community and participating in Athletics. They’re in the running to receive one of two $20k scholarships. The purpose of this program is to assist students with their higher educational goals.

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Heal t h & W e ll n e s s

WHAT TO EAT before training, practice, or the big game.

Youth athletes might not be concerned about game day nutrition, but parents and coaches should be. Not only do kids need optimal nutrition for fueling and recovery, but also to meet energy demands and maturation for growing athletes.

Working muscles need carbohydrates for fuel, moderate amounts of protein, small amounts of fat, and plenty of fluids.

Below are some basic guidelines on what to eat before a sports game for kids.

Timing:

The timing of the meal will be dependent on the meal size. Meal size will depend on how recently an athlete has eaten. Full-sized meals should be eaten 2-3 hours prior sports activities. If the athlete has already had 1 or 2 full meals earlier in the day, they may prefer a slightly lighter snack. This can be eaten closer to the game, within the hour timeframe.

(For great snack ideas, check out 8 Healthy Snacks for Athletes on the Go.)

Hydrat ion:

Pre-game hydration doesn’t begin a few hours before the event; it begins the minute the athlete wakes up. Stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water during the day leading up to a game, especially in the two to three hours before game time. Water is essential for the proper circulation of nutrients in the body and as such, supports energy levels and strength.

Carbs:

Carbs are a key player in a pre-game meal. Carbs are the body’s main source of energy, but also digest faster than fat and protein, making them ideal before exercise.

Stick to basic carb sources. Some ideas include toast or rice cakes with jelly, bananas, cereal, pasta, potatoes, etc. Choose a high-glycemic carb for fast digestion. You may want to avoid carbs rich in fiber as they may cause bloating and discomfort.

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Protein:

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Active bodies need protein to support growth and build and repair hard working muscles. Young athletes should spread protein foods throughout the day, having some at each meal and with most snacks, such as eggs, yogurt, meat or protein shakes.

Fat:

You want to focus on minimal fat intake directly before energy exertion. Fatty foods slow down the digestion of food, and as such, will not give athletes the energy they need to perform at their best.

Pos t-Game Nut rit ion:

What an athlete eats after a sports game is just as important as what they eat before a game. Make sure your athlete properly refuels within an hour of competition. Again, carbs are a priority here to restore glycogen in the muscles and begin the muscle recovery process. With that in mind, the same high-glycemic carbs are best post game as well. Pairing a banana with a protein shake is a quick and easy staple to fall back on.

You don’t need to complicate things when planning what to eat before a sports game for kids. Follow these guidelines above to help your athletes perform at their peak in every game.

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Parent’s Corner Motivating your child!

As a parent, motivating my 3 boys is an ongoing process. As their wants, needs and desires change so does their motivation. And when I figure out what motivates one child, I quickly learn the same does not work on another child. So how do I provide incentives and be a motivating force for my ever-changing boys?

One trick I use is to find what really is important to them. Is it one on one time with mom and/or dad (I wish this was always the case but as they get older, we get lower and lower on their list), video games, friends, food, staying up past bed time, money, the list is endless. These are just a few of the motivating factors that drive my children to do their chores, keep their grades up and practice their skills in whatever activity they may be currently participating. I wish the good reward would just be how awesome it feels to be great on their test or at their game or with a clean room but let’s face it; we all like to be rewarded for our efforts…especially children!

"Communicating t he “why” can build an unders tanding of t he importance of t he task."

Using rewards is tricky because I feel you can over reward when trying to motivate your kids. I am not a fan of entitlement and there’s a fine line when motivation can start to make kids feel that when they do something good, then they must be rewarded. I am sorry, but that is not how life works so a reward doesn’t come with every good deed.

For the child to want to complete a task it is also necessary to help them understand “why” the task is important. They might not understand why they need to do their homework or help around the house. Communicating the “why” can build an understanding of the importance of the task. This may not fully motivate them to complete the task but it can be a step in the right direction.

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Another tactic we like to use is positive reinforcement. We want our kids to know how proud we are and we try to tell them that often and provide hugs and loving gestures. This is important in our family, because we want our boys to do the same in their families when they get older and to not be afraid to compliment someone when they do a good job. Words are very powerful and they can be just as motivating as an object!

My advice to parents it to find that good balance between keeping your child enthusiastic and ambitious with intrinsic motivation as much as you can before moving on to extrinsic rewards. Every family is different so I would recommend finding that good balance of tangible and not-tangible rewards while being able to raise level headed children who do not need to receive something for every good deed. Talk with other parents for ideas and talk with your children about what motivates them. Communication is key to finding the right method of motivation for you and your child!

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Curly Hair Tips LOB long bob accentuated with beach waves

Balayage a free hand painting that allows custom looks for every length styled with Barrel wave curls

Hair Tre n d s A layered pixie cut with with perfectly blended highlights

Pixie her curls are perfect for this short look that is easy to style and feminine to wear. We colored her a rich chocolate with a demi perfect for the tween.

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Ombré a balayage technique that sweeps from dark to whatever color achievable

Curly hair can be a blessing or a curse. It’s so pretty but it can be very hard to deal with. Here’s some of the tips I’ve learned for taming curly hair.

1. Letting your hair air dry instead of using a blow dryer can reduce the frizz.

2. Drying your hair with a t-shirt instead of a towel can reduce frizz. The rough texture of the towel instantly makes your hair frizzy.

3. Applying leave in conditioner while your hair is damp can help keep it moisturized.

4. Use heat guard before straightening your hair. It helps protect it from heat damage your hair may undergo.

5. Avoid shampooing as frequently as straight haired people do. It can dry out your hair and make lots of split ends.

6. Use wide toothed combs when detangling. Apply product right after a shower and comb it all the way from the roots to the tips. It helps keep your curls from getting tangled and the product helps make combing your hair easier.

7. Get a good deep conditioner and use it after every shampoo to help keep your hair moisturized.

8. Avoid products with alcohol in them such as hair spray and some gels and mousses. They suck all the moisture out of your hair. Try mouses that resemble beaten egg whites and water soluble gels that don’t feel sticky on skin.

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