BLAQUE/OUT Magazine Nov '22 #0026

NOVEMBER 2022

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THERE IS NEVER ENOUGH COVERAGE OF TRANS ISSUES, TRANS PEOPLE OR TRANS JUSTICE. NEVER. SO BLAQUE/OUT AS AN ENTITY MAKES IT PART OF OUR MISSION TO MAKE SURE WE TELL THOSE STORIES AND BRING FOLKS TO THE FOREFRONT IN EVERY WAY WE ARE ABLE. WE ARE PROUD TO HAVE MANY TRANS & GNC WRITERS, CREATIVES, ARTISTS, AND INFLUENCERS AS A PART OF OUR B.O.M. FAMILY. THEY MAKE US STRONGER, THEY MAKE US SMARTER, THEY MAKE US BETTER. THEY MAKE US AS A PUBLICATION AND AS A COMMUNITY- WHOLE. WHEN YOU DO HEAR STORIES, THEY ARE TYPICALLY ABOUT THE TRANSFEMININE COMMUNITY, AND DESERVINGLY SO. BUT ALL OF TRANS-SIBLINGS ARE STRUGGLING WITH AN UNACCEPTING WORLD AND SO WE ARE GRATEFUL TO AIKO AND THE GENTLEMEN ABOVE FOR STEPPING INTO THEIR VISIBILITY, FOR CHOOSING TO SURVIVE, FOR THEIR ADVOCACY, FOR DEFINING THEIR OWN MASCULINITY AND FOR THE COURAGE TO WAKE UP AND DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN EVERY SINGLE DAY. THANK YOU. B.O.M.

NOV. 20

issa movement!

This month, the world recognizes Trans Day of Remembrance on Nov. 20th. It's a day to remember the thousands and thousands of murders of folks in the Trans & GNC community from the US and around the world.

But its also a day to remind us to celebrate LIFE.

#REMEMBERMENOW

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TamaraSanaaLeigh Editor-In-Chief

In the month of November, Blaque/OUT Magazine is standing in solidarity with our friends from Next Generation Men of Transition and Trans-led orgs from around the country to ask folks to use the #RememberMeNow hashtag, share pics and videos saying "Remember Me Now!" and holding #RememberMeNow signs to remind folks: 1. When they head to the Voting Booth, vote NO! to Anti-Trans legislation 2. That you don't have to BE Trans to fight for Trans people because TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS! 3. That TDOR is about remembering and grieving but its also about celebrating their lives and showering love on our sibs that are here living, loving, growing and fighting every day to just be who they are. Lets remember them in how we speak, how we vote, how we love and how we stand against Transphobia

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Our story holds the power to absorb any of our weaknesses.

No longer can they attack us, turn us against each other or dictate how our community should live. We set our own expectations of what our story looks like. We are the teachers of what trans looks like. We are the leaders of our own narrative. We are the doctors or healers and the lawyers fighting for justice for us. We reform our story not any one else. They may want to break us to our lowest points, take away our voice but guess what? What we are is more than they can see. We are not broken easily.

We fight a battle that does not stop when the enemy comes for us. We stand solid on our beliefs, on our history and in solidarity for those who joined the fight that we lost along the way. We are not weak. We are underserved not undesirable. We deserve to grow to our highest altitude no longer be bound by our fears. With our heads held high and our hearts heavy from the ones we lost along the way. We light a candle to set them free and as we release their spirit into the heavens . We hold onto their happiest moments with us. We cry tears of sorrow and pour unresting love as we say the names we lost this year. As a community we have the power to heal but it takes a chain reaction of abundant love and community support. By our grace we are still here and there’s a reason why. We need to trust that we can keep the fight alive.

Speak up for your choice!

If fear was not a thing would you THRIVE? Would you step out on faith if it meant you would leap not only you but your community forward? Could you assume all the risk to create successful change not for just you but for community as well?

Fright is a powerful tool but movement is what is needed to eliminate it. When you stand up for you it creates a chain reaction.

When you ignore the limits society has placed on your mind, body and soul that is the game changer. Once you no longer worry what you should have access to but make it a requirement. Undercover your true potential by demanding equity in all places you stand. Understand that only you have the ability to identify your greatness not your oppressors.

There is no shame in existing and you should own your trans narrative. Own your voice and get charged up. Scared of what might happen? They want you to be frightened so you do not apply pressure. Let the plot change by finding acceptance and your voice.

Truth is when you own your story you begin advocating for you and that is when you gain you underline power. That power flows from you onto others. Start accessing your voice so they can no longer hold your trans experiences over your head. Wear your trans-ness like the badge of honor it is and not this curse society has placed on a whole marginalized community.

Such a small act of self worthiness spreads through how you show up and how you flourish. Let that shine starts to ignite your voice for a community that has been silenced for far too long. Lift your voice so that others can find their. You were uniquely made to serve a purpose and let no man cast anything but joy upon you.

You are covered in abundance and built to battle wars created to eliminate your pride. Oppressors do not even feel like you should even be alive yet your essence is contiguous. You deserve the right to make rules on your life and body and deserve to be included in every weapon placed on your life.

You reserve the right to carry a child, to have health care that was designed for you in mind and deserve the right to have a voice without retaliation.

Heterosexual, cisgender narrative do not own you or your choice. As a community member you are important and your voice should be heard and celebrated. Your magic creates questions to change narrative they never included you in give them a reason to add you in the fight.

THE MAN BEHIND THE THREADS: WHO IS AIKO FINESSE

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Q: Who is Aiko Finesse?

A: Unique Q: Can you tell us a little of your background story? What was the journey you took to get here?

A: I’m a SC native. My mom actually named me Aiko Finesse. I’ve been into the arts since I was a child. Writing, poetry, music. I’ve always seen myself in the spotlight. Not knowing how but I just always saw it. I picked up djing in 2013, started teaching myself. I kept at it and started making a name for myself. The journey to get to this point of my life, I learned to love myself, know my worth.

When I learned that, I found my purpose in life.

Q: Quote you live by?

A: If it’s not hurting you or harming others, do what makes you happy.

Q: We see you’re a DJ… What resonates with you about being a DJ? Why is that your “thing” A: The love of music. I love seeing people enjoy life, having a good time. When you're dancing you're enjoying the moment. You forget about the problems, the stress, and pain. Nobody is sad or upset, just enjoying life and making memories. I love when I get approached after an event of people telling how much fun they had and how they enjoyed the music. It makes me feel good knowing I made them smile through music. That’s something they’ll never forget.

Q: You caught our attention by the many, many #TransManThread posts you run on social media that highlight pics of Transmen from around the country. What made you start doing that and why does it matter?

A: Honestly, one day I was sitting around and it popped in my head to do a thread. I’d come across other threads of trans guys, and it’s always the same ones. Or ones that had the “look.” Body, facial hair, etc. I was surprised I made a few since I had just started my journey. So I made a post asking trans guys if they wanted in on a thread. If so, send me a picture. I didn’t think it would get the attention.

I just wanted to help these guys feel good about themselves. A few even went viral. The more I do them, the more guys start hitting me up to get added. I kept at it because so many guys don’t have that support system.

Some don’t get that encouragement.

There are so many others out here just like you. You're not crazy, you're not alone. And mainly, no matter where you are in your journey you LOOK AMAZING!

Q: Where is the farthest you’ve gotten pics from?

A: California Q: How many pics do you think you've had submitted total?

A: About 1600

Q: Why does visibility matter?

A: Because we exist. We are not going no where.

Q: What is one thing you’ve learned that you’ve tried to pass on to other people that are early in their transition?

A: That everybody’s body reacts differently. Don’t rush the process.

Q: What does your activism look like?

A: I’m always putting my story on the front line. Whether it’s Vlog, or giving out information about doctors or surgery. I respond to dm’s from other trans guys. Most are shocked I do respond which I don’t understand why lol Q: Where will Aiko Finesse be in 5yrs?

10?

A: Showing the world it’s ok to be yourself. Being on a bigger platform.

And doing more for the trans community.

Q: What is your booking info, website etc. and where can folks find your threads?

A: My booking link is aikofinesse.com/booking. I’m on all social media platforms @ aikofinesse.

The threads mainly are on facebook. I just started up the IG page @ iamhim.21 I’ll be posting there soon as well.

Q: What do you want to be remembered for?

A: That, through all the years God allowed me to breathe, I found my peace on earth. Everybody can’t say that

THE OLD MAN'S E.L. WINSTON CORNER

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23 YEARS & COUNTING Transgender Day of Remembrance was founded in order to memorialize the 1999 murder of Rita Hester, a transgender woman, and by 2010 TDOR had become globally recognized in 185 cities across 20 countries.

Being a trans man of color, life comes with its own set of stressors automatically. This day brings those to the forefront all the more. In the back of your mind, you're always wondering, “Am I going to make it home today”? Let’s just take a moment to think about this. TDOR has only existed for 23 years, but we know that the violence did not just start then. There are so many who have been murdered, abused, bullied, demeaned, etc. and we don’t even know their names. They are our brothers and sisters who have no one to speak their names and our brothers and sisters who left the world being misgendered with their dead name labeling them. No one being given the opportunity to acknowledge who they truly were. See where my stress and sadness come from?

At this moment though, I also have to look at the sunshine or I'll drown in the rain. Out of great loss always comes great change. We are now more in the light from fashion to TV to politics. You name it and there's a Trans person living out loud in living color. Yes, we are still very aware of the dangers that face us everyday but we’re also very aware that our community is thriving. There are more laws on the books than ever to protect our human rights. Our Trans youth have the freedom to be seen and heard. There are more safe spaces for them to go. This definitely was not the case for me growing up. Being able to find and afford trans affirming meds has definitely changed for the better in the last 23 years.

Affirming surgeries have come a long way and it's also less difficult to find a surgeon for affirming surgery. We don’t have to leave the country for surgery (unless we’re trying to save some money). Trans people portraying trans people on the big and small screen is not a foreign concept and neither is portraying cis gendered people as well. Things that were not even a conversation 23 years ago are now a reality. Although there is still a great distance between the darkness and the light we are closer to the light then we’ve ever been. We will continue to speak the names and tell our memories of those we’ve lost while standing up for and pouring into those of us still here in the fight. I continue to hope and pray that TDOR becomes something we speak about in past tense because we’ve gotten to the place where we are recognized for who we are….your brothers. Sisters, aunts, uncles, etc.

Human beings deserving of life just like all the other family. Do an Old Man a favor today and have a moment of silence for those we’ve lost.

Then go out of your way to learn something new from someone different than you. Maybe if we do that everyday we won't have to mourn the loss of our loved ones to violence by their hands or anyone else’s.

THE FINAL STRETCH BY IMMANI LOVE It’s finally here!

The Final Stretch of the year! Now I know what some of you may be thinking…” But Immani, it’s only November!” Yes, I know, but there’s something you may not realize or for whatever reasons, may not acknowledge.

November is the beginning of the end. The end of hurricane season for us Floridians, the last days of Autumn, the last month of layaway shopping for the holidays, and unfortunately, the end of rational thinking for most of us.

Although October “officially” (if that’s such a thing) marks the beginning of “cuffing season,” it’s November when it’s in full swing and likely to be one of your primary points of focus for the next few months and where the lapses in judgement prevail. I’m no expert…anymore, (*refers back to her “Ask Dr. Love” column and chuckles) but it has come to my attention that during these months as the leaves turn colors in some places, and the trees shed their skin preparing to suffer the brutality of winter in preparation of being reborn as vibrant breath givers in the spring, we as humans gravitate to other beings in search of shelter from the cold. We seek warm hugs, long embraces, deep conversations, and hot sex, not necessarily in that order.

As such, this is typically where all sense of logic goes out of the proverbial window, and we become pawns to our emotions and succumb to pure lust.

Don’t worry lovers, thankfully it is in most cases, a case of temporary insanity and in the eyes of the average passerby, looks perfectly normal. No one notices how you’ve started to finish each other’s sentences or how quickly you text back when they message you. No one pays attention to the fact that you are suddenly unavailable for the previously scheduled weekly session of “what are we wearing to the happy hour that never ends” and are for some reason too “busy” for the unfortunate soul who didn’t quite luck out in the “cuffing season lottery.”

(I mean after all those tickets were scarce and very expensive!) You seem perfectly sane when purchasing matching pajamas (or even worse, onesies,) for you and your “Boo,” “Baby,” or “Bae” depending on what part of the country you reside. No one will even blink an eye when you change your profile pic to one of you and your aforementioned, holding hands, while wearing said ensemble, clutching your pet who of course has been wrestled into its own color coordinated costume to match.

Most recently, the truest form of seasonal temporary insanity, is the TikTok of you and your partner, dancing to 414BigFrank’s “BackPack” with the caption, “When the haters ask, who you wit?”

Sadly, oftentimes, in that matching outfit. <sigh> Not to worry my friends. The key word in my previous statements is “temporary,” because right around mid-January to early February, one of two things will have happened. One, you have begun to come to your senses and realize that it was purely physical and that you really didn’t like the way that they chewed gum, not chewed, popped, and since decided that a hot toddy, a warm blanket, and cuddles from your pet whom after you have apologized profusely to for your behavior and burned the coordinated monstrosities, finally will allow you near them. You’ve repented for your foolish ways and head into February with your head held high, knowing you won’t have to buy them anything for Valentine’s Day. Or two, you acknowledge that although the TikTok may have taken it a bit too far, you are indeed invested in this being, that during your deep conversations you’ve found real common goals and interests, and the reason you finish each other’s sentences or that they know what you want or need before you say it is because they actually listened to you. They complement you and compliment you. They are no longer a distraction but a welcomed interaction.

They match your energy not just your outfits. You are well on the way to regaining your sanity and along with it a partner outside of cuffing season. My hope for you is the latter, after all, we are in the final stretch and all’s well, that ends well.

Contributed by: Immani Love She/Her @ImmaniLove

Love Lives In Us... The Winstons WINSTON AND THE MRS. (E. L. AND RONI)

Love lives in us…the Winstons. We want to share a little bit of it with you. The definition of the word ‘transformation’ is a thorough or dramatic change in form or appearance. Relationships often see transformations, but it is how we handle them that determines the quality of our relationships.

The Mrs: When we had worked our way to making it work (lol), there was a decision to be made. Who would move locations? My spouse took the leap and so many of my friends have reminded me that I am quite fortunate because he went from a settled life in a big city to taking the chance on me. I am so grateful that he was willing to do it, but what we didn’t know at the time was how much we would transform as human beings in the journey together.

Suddenly, there we were sharing space, bills, and everyday with one another.

My spouse’s willingness to relocate to be with me could have left frustration, resentment, and anger.

Thankfully, though God left us with endless possibilities instead. We were able to recognize that all of the difficulties could bring great transformation in our ability to love. We had to be patient, honest, and communicative. There was no topic that could be off limits, no conversation we couldn’t have, and no avoidance to sharing who we were. This period transformed me to a more confident and self-assured woman. Love didn’t crush me because it helped me to bloom.

Thoughts to Leave You: Some may think the idea of love changing us is a bad thing, but when it is done from a loving place then it transforms you into a better version of yourself. Change is inevitable, but we must share ourselves in the process. If we don’t, then the change becomes damaging and filled with fear.

Take ownership of the process and allow it to help your relationship grow. The beauty of transformation like the caterpillar into the butterfly can make your relationship brighter and more colorful. Finding its beauty allows you to recognize that love lives in us.

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Rochelle J Photography

Winston: The scary part of transforming is that it's different and unknown. You’re never even sure until you're in it if it's a good thing or not. I prayed about the move.

I had an established life where I was, I had .

friends that I loved and who loved me. I said to the Lord, “ please let this be the right move”…… then I jumped both feet in. I instantly became a father of 3 adult kids and one teenager. The teenager alone let me know that jumping was the right move.

Now don't get me wrong, I love all of my children equally. She is the youngest though and the one who's love for me transformed me the most. She helped draw me from a selfish, standoffish bachelor to the loving teddy bear of a dad. For her, I become better. My wife's love made me transform in a different way. I came out of my shell and started to express feelings that I didn't realize I had. I'd never been in a safe space before to explore them. Here in this life, with this woman, I've allowed love to transform the parts of me that I never thought possible and I'm forever grateful.

Looking for a little more guidance on what life might bring you this month? Tarot cards, read by an intuitive reader, can provide us that guidance.

While your personal reading may vary slightly, the readings here are directed for all of those born in the same month for the current month. For a more specific reading to your specific circumstance contact Doreen Scanlan on FB Messenger to set an appointment.

If you were born in : NOVEMBER Your life is coming to very pivotal moments this month. The first crossroad brings into question your thought processes. You are asked to look at things from a fresh perspective based on what you have come to learn recently. Trust yourself to know what steps to take next. You are stepping into a better understanding of what makes you tick. From that new understanding you will face the next crossroads of truth. Your truth. Be willing to declare to yourself and the world that you are moving forward as You. You are willing to know that you are a whole being. Walk in your truth into the new beginnings ahead of you.

DECEMBER Time to put to rest things from your past that you still allow to haunt you. You need to take charge of the things you can to prove to yourself that you are in charge.

Once you do , you may be amazed at how things start coming back into balance for you. It is possible that a financial burden that you have had you finally can come out from under. It may also be a time for a new job or a new place to live. New chapters are definitely ahead.

JANUARY If you have to take a position on something this month, make sure you have your facts straight. There is a real possibility that you may have to back off later as more facts come out. Be careful accusing others of anything on just a hunch. Handling situations around this could determine how people deal with you in the future. On a more positive note, something you have been working towards , finally pays off.

With this you have finally broken free from a heavy weight that has held you down in the past. Congratulations.

FEBRUARY Relationships this month may be strained. Some people that you normally rely on may not have anything to give right now. You may have to turn the tables and be there for them instead. Use your sense of compassion to know when to ask questions. You may find that others need your advice and support. You get to decide how much you have to give. Do what you can but don’t lose sight of your personal goals either. Walk proud but without ego.

MARCH Time to start envisioning the lifestyle you want to be living. If you can see it , it is much easier to make it a reality. It is time for you to start actively pursuing your dreams. You may find that some people around you are not as supportive of your dreams as you thought they might be. Don't let them discourage you. If you do, then you will stagnate and it will keep you from making progress. Find people that will encourage you instead . You might even want to start working on a plan to save up for what you want. That could mean you earn more or spend less. Either way it is time to become smarter with your money. If you can get an idea of much you will need, then you can make a plan to make it happen. Do you need enough for a new outfit or do you need enough to buy a house? You decide and then make a plan to get it.

APRIL Those dreams that you have had about things you want to accomplish, need a plan. It is time to start doing what you can to move things forward. The Universe has acknowledged your desires and now you need to stop making excuses as to why you can’t. The only thing you are doing is holding yourself back from the things that can be yours. If you initiate things you may be pleasantly surprised as to who is willing to help. A generous gift may come your way in order to get things rolling.

MAY Take some time to re-evaluate how you are feeling emotionally. Notice what things in your life are causing you distress. Consider getting new information in order to turn those feelings around. You have the ability to pull from inside you what you need to do but you may need help in knowing how to access that information. Once you have been able to get past any blockages it is time to put your skills to work. You just have to believe in yourself. Just dig a little deeper.

JUNE Festivities this month are a big focus for you. They might be a little different for you this year though. You are being asked to make a decision on who you would most like to celebrate with. You are being advised to choose the people that bring with them the least amount of drama. There is no need for you to be around people that aren’t there to celebrate with a sense of compassion and love.

Tolerating that relative you can't stand is not necessary. Be with people you mutually care about.

JULY If you have been wondering if it is time to look at being in a relationship again, the cards confirm that it is. It is okay to start putting out the partnership vibes.

You may have to be a little more actively involved though by going places that you don’t normally go to expand your social circles. You will recognize this person that is meant to you because the connection will be built on mutual respect.It might not make sense to you but the connection is undeniable.

AUGUST What has been heavy energy based on a poor sense of judgment now starts to lift. You may find that you are more reluctant to trust people though. This is a tough place to operate from because you are constantly more tense. You are going to have to work on your personal spirituality and practices to bring you back to center. We need that connection most during stressful times. As a result of attempts to connect with your spiritual self you may find new inspiration not only about the current situation but things that you may want to adapt into your regular routine. These may be anything from breathing techniques to a whole new belief system. We often experience traumas in order to get us where we need to be in life. Keep an open mind.

SEPTEMBER You may find that you are torn between the desire to live your life the way you wish and feeling like you need to defend your right to live it. While you are entitled to live as you choose , you need to ask yourself,” how important is it to you to let other people’s opinions influence your choices”? Live….Defend? Which is the better use of your time and energy? Be you. Work to become as independent financially as possible so people don’t hold power over you.

Compassionately walk into the life that is yours to live.

OCTOBER Get ready for some major changes this month. These changes , while impactful, are going to usher in some wonderful things in your life. Evidently you have been doing a lot of work to align yourself with your inner being and time has come for you to reap the benefits of your efforts.

There is great creative energy that will be available to you if you choose to tap into it. You may be amazed at how easily things line up for you this month because that is not normally how things work for you. Universal energies are definitely working in your favor . Make sure you take advantage of this time to manifest the things you want. These are magical times for you.

TIFFANY BANKS. SEMAJ BILLINGSLEA. ACEY MORRISON. MYA ALLEN. DEDE RICKS, MADDIE HOFMANN AARON LYNCH. KANDII REED. HAYDEN DAVIS. MARISELA CASTRO. CHERRY BUSH KESHIA CHANEL GETER. MARTASIA RICHMOND. KITTY MONROE. SHAWMAYNE' GISELLE MARIE. BRAZIL JOHNSON. SASHA MASON. CHANELIKA Y'ELLA DIOR HEMMINGWAY. NEDRA SEQUENCE MORRIS. RAY MUSCAT. FERN FEATHER. ARIYANNA MITCHELL. MIIA LOVE PARKER. KENYATTA KESHA WEBSTER. KATHRYN KATIE NEWHOUSE. TATIANA LABELLE. PALOMA VAZQUEZ. MATTHEW ANGELO SPAMPINATO. NAOMIE SKINNER. CYPRESS RAMOS. DUVAL PRINCESS. AMARIEY LEJ. DAVON DAVIS

TIFFANY BANKS. SEMAJ BILLINGSLEA. ACEY MORRISON. MYA ALLEN. DEDE RICKS, MADDIE HOFMANN AARON LYNCH. KANDII REED. HAYDEN DAVIS. MARISELA CASTRO. CHERRY BUSH KESHIA CHANEL GETER. MARTASIA RICHMOND. KITTY MONROE. SHAWMAYNE' GISELLE MARIE. BRAZIL JOHNSON. SASHA MASON. CHANELIKA Y'ELLA DIOR HEMMINGWAY. NEDRA SEQUENCE MORRIS. RAY MUSCAT. FERN FEATHER. ARIYANNA MITCHELL. MIIA LOVE PARKER. KENYATTA KESHA WEBSTER. KATHRYN KATIE NEWHOUSE. TATIANA LABELLE. PALOMA VAZQUEZ. MATTHEW ANGELO SPAMPINATO. NAOMIE SKINNER. CYPRESS RAMOS. DUVAL PRINCESS. AMARIEY LEJ. DAVON DAVIS

TIFFANY BANKS. SEMAJ BILLINGSLEA. ACEY MORRISON. MYA ALLEN. DEDE RICKS, MADDIE HOFMANN AARON LYNCH. KANDII REED. HAYDEN DAVIS. MARISELA CASTRO. CHERRY BUSH KESHIA CHANEL GETER. MARTASIA RICHMOND. KITTY MONROE. SHAWMAYNE' GISELLE MARIE. BRAZIL JOHNSON. SASHA MASON. CHANELIKA Y'ELLA DIOR HEMMINGWAY. NEDRA SEQUENCE MORRIS. RAY MUSCAT. FERN FEATHER. ARIYANNA MITCHELL. MIIA LOVE PARKER. KENYATTA KESHA WEBSTER. KATHRYN KATIE NEWHOUSE. TATIANA LABELLE. PALOMA VAZQUEZ. MATTHEW ANGELO SPAMPINATO. NAOMIE SKINNER. CYPRESS RAMOS. DUVAL PRINCESS. AMARIEY LEJ. DAVON DAVIS

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