Wedding Guide - East Kootenay Wedding Guide 2020

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Making it legal in British Columbia Are you eligible to marry in B.C.?

• You do not have to be a British Columbia resident to be married in the province. However, you are required to get a marriage license, which is valid for a term of three months and only valid in British Columbia.

• Anyone over 19 years of age is eligible to apply for a marriage license in B.C. Anyone under 19 years of age must first obtain the consent of both parents. No one under 16 years can be married without the consent of the Supreme or County Court.

If one or both individuals were divorced within the last 31 days, proof of divorce must be provided.

No license is issued until the courts finalize a divorce; normally 31 days after the Courts issue the divorce decree.

Arrange the Marriage Ceremony • In British Columbia, couples can choose a religious or civil ceremony, which must be witnessed by two people.

• To perform the religious ceremony, you can choose a religious representative who must be registered with the Vital Statistics Agency,

under the Marriage Act. • If you plan to have a civil ceremony, contact and book a marriage commissioner as soon as possible once you set your wedding date.

Register the Marriage • The marriage commissioner or religious representative who will perform the wedding ceremony will help complete the Marriage Registration Form. Within 48 hours of the wedding ceremony, the form will be sent to the Vital Statistics Agency, where the marriage will be registered and a legal record will be kept.

Proof of Marriage • At the time of the ceremony, your marriage commissioner or religious representative may provide a statement of marriage, which can be used temporarily as proof of marriage. However, it is not a legal document.

You will receive a legal Marriage Certificate from the Vital Statistics Agency after the registration of the marriage.

Which name can I use?

• After marriage, you can continue

using or choose to use your own surname at any time. You also gain the right to use your spouse’s surname.

This does not result in a legal change of name or any automatic change to

your identification records.

If you choose to use hyphenated surnames, a legal Change of Name is required.

East Kootenay Marriage Commissioners Cranbrook Marriage Commissioners Christina Blaskovich, 250-489-1424 christinabeeMC@shaw.ca Harry Gold, 250-417-9413 goldsign@shaw.ca Kathleen Hagman, 250-489-0170 khagman@shaw.ca Kevin Higgins, 250-427-3322 KevBevHiggins@live.com Creston Marriage Commissioners Johanna Mulder, 250-402-8066 mulderj@shaw.ca Andrea Suprowich-Dirk, 250-428-0494 dirk3@shaw.ca Ada Mae Wilson, 250-435-0422 adamae@hotmail.com Fernie Marriage Commissioners Donna Marie Burak, 250-430-1110 idoinfernie@shaw.ca Muriel MacLeod, 250-423-7067 murimac50@gmail.com Kelli McNair, 250-865-7492 mcnairk@telus.net

Fernie Marriage Commissioners Lynn Rogers, 778-519-1214 lynnrogers@shaw.ca Golden Marriage Commissioners Julia Cundliffe, 250-344-6300 juliasevencmc3@gmail.com Sandra Pagliaro, 250-344-5737 scpagliaro@gmail.com Phyllis Twa, 250-344-5833 phyllistwa@gmail.com Invermere Marriage Commissioners Dee Conklin, 250-341-5100 deeconklin@gmail.com Julie Dodds, 250-581-1425 juliedodds@shaw.ca Michele Neider, 250-341-3140 mneider@shaw.ca Kimberley Marriage Commissioners Heather Darbyshire, 250-427-2057 hbabiarz@yahoo.ca Ruby Rioux, 250-427-5255 ruby.rioux@hotmail.com

Source: www.vs.gov.bc.ca

Types of wedding officiants Many people play a role in a wedding.

The bride and groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, ring bearers, and flower girls are front and center on the day a couple ties the knot.

Another central, and very important, figure on a couple’s wedding day is the officiant. Officiants perform the wedding ceremony and are the first to introduce the newlyweds to their guests as an officially married couple.

Various types of officiants can officiate a wedding, and understanding each type can help couples find the right one for them.

Religious officiant Couples who want traditional religious ceremonies often choose a religious officiant, such as a parish priest or rabbi, with whom they’re familiar. For example, couples who grew up attending a particular church might choose the priest who’s been preaching to them since they were children, while others might choose the priest at their current place of worship.

Religious officiants may be governed by certain rules that restrict them to

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performing ceremonies in a house of worship, which might rule them out for couples who want outdoor or destination weddings. Couples should inquire about such restrictions as early as possible in the planning process so they aren’t caught off guard.

Civil officiant Civil officiants are officers of the court, such as a judge or justice of the peace. Many couples who are planning destination weddings abroad still choose to have a

civil officiant perform a wedding ceremony at home. This is because some overseas officiants may not be authorized to marry couples in their home countries, meaning their marriages won’t be recognized once they return home. Civil officiants make sure marriages are legal, and they also make great options for couples who just want to get hitched without a grand ceremony.

Professional officiant Professional officiants are not affiliated with a particular religious

organization. That makes them great choices for couples who aren’t religious as well as those who come from different religious backgrounds and won’t be converting to the same faith. Professional officiants typically meet with a couple once or twice to get to know them before writing the speech they will give during the ceremony. Many will share the speech with the couple in advance of the big day, and some even allow couples to write the speech.

Loved ones Many couples ask a friend or family member to officiate their weddings, which can add a fun and very personal component to the ceremony. Couples who want to take this route should research local laws to determine the steps loved ones must take to become ordained ministers who will be recognized by the state or country where the ceremony will take place.

Officiants play a significant role during a wedding, and couples can choose one who best fits their personalities and ceremony preferences.

A day to remember

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Saying “I do” is the easy part. By the time you get there, the planning is behind you.

The East Kootenay area has some of the most outstanding and unique venues all of which offer breathtaking scenery. However, let’s get serious – there are a lot of places to choose from when you are getting married, and many of them come with a beautiful backdrop for your photos, but there is much more that you should think about when choosing your location.

How accessible is it, what will the weather be like in my chosen month, will it work with my budget, are there good photographers in the area, what about florists, bakeries, hairdressers, recreation activities, deejays...so much to think about!

A flight into the Cranbrook airport will have you within an hour or two of any destination in the area. With an easy three hour drive from Calgary, you will be in the scenic Rockies and on the edge of amazing!

Think no more, and look no further. From Elkford to Creston, and Golden to Grasmere, there is a venue that will be just right for you, complete with all of the accoutrements required to make your special day perfect and memorable.

This area is home to some of the best photographers who know all of those killer locations to give you photos and memories to last a life time. For what would a wedding be without those one of a kind mementos of your special day.

The East Kootenay is filled with spectacular caterers ready to listen and prepare your meal just the way you want it. Looking for something different for your rehearsal dinner? Why not have a food truck come to your location.

While the bridal party is busy preparing for the ceremony, a visit to a distillery for a tasting and tour, a round of golf or a float down the river might be in order.

These things and so many others are awaiting you in the southeast corner of British Columbia.

And best of all, the people are friendly, and all you need do is ask and the locals will do their best to answer your questions or fulfill your requests.

If you think that winter in the Rockies is unbelievable, then summer will knock your boutonniere off!

Come on over, and make the most important day of your life the most amazing too.

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Making it legal in British Columbia.................................................... 2 Types of officiants................................................................................ 2 Wedding checklist................................................................................ 4 Get schooled on wedding terminology................................................ 5 Compiling the guest list....................................................................... 6 Partner with wedding professionals..................................................... 7 How to plan a wedding ceremony........................................................ 8 Choosing the site of your wedding reception...................................... 9 Feature Couple: Jessica & Nick Haller.............................................. 10 Get the most out of bridal shows and wedding events....................... 12 How to dress your bridesmaids.......................................................... 12 How to supplement your wedding invitations with a website........... 13 Wedding registry tips......................................................................... 13 Feature Couple: Teanna & Tyler Jensen Salters................................ 14 10 things you can rent for your wedding........................................... 16 A push for private vows..................................................................... 17 How to feature bright colours in your wedding................................. 18 4 fresh ideas for decorating wedding tables....................................... 18 A wedding dress you can dance in..................................................... 19 How to ace your wedding day makeup.............................................. 19 Food and drink stations for your wedding reception......................... 20 Did you know?................................................................................... 21 Easy but awesome photo booth ideas................................................ 21 Wedding budget planner.................................................................... 22 East Kootenay Weddings 3

Wedding checklist The question was popped and the proposal joyfully accepted.

Now it’s time to plan the wedding.

Here’s a month-by-month checklist to make sure you don’t forget a thing.

4 months before • Reserve wedding day transportation for the wedding party • Select alcohol and other drinks for the reception • Taste and choose your wedding cake • Buy wedding bands • Shop for and order the groomsmen’s attire

12 months before • Decide on the type of wedding you’d like (civil or religious, big or small) • Choose a date • Determine the number of guests • Establish a budget • Pick venues for the ceremony and reception (it’s best to reserve early)

3 months before • Purchase wedding favours for your guests • If you’d like your loved ones to say or read something during the ceremony, let them know • Write down your vows • Decide on activities for the reception (photo booth, dancing, games, etc.)

11 months before • Make your guest list • Choose a caterer (meet with a few first) • Select your wedding party • Hire a wedding planner

2 months before • Send out your wedding invitations • Do trial runs for both hair and makeup • Give your music selections to the deejay or emcee

10 months before • Start shopping for a wedding dress • Decide on a theme for your wedding • Choose an officiant if you haven’t already done so 9 months before • Book a photographer • Reserve a block of hotel rooms for your out-of-town guests • Purchase a wedding gown • Shop for the groom’s attire and purchase it 8 months before • Meet with your officiant to plan your ceremony • Book your entertainment (deejay, band, emcee, etc.)

• Shop for and purchase your bridesmaids’ dresses • Design and order the wedding invitations and save-the-date cards 7 months before • Create a gift registry • Hire a florist • Plan your honeymoon 6 months before • Send out the save-the-date cards • Book your hair and makeup appointments for the day of (also schedule trial runs for both) • Book a hotel room for the wedding night if necessary 5 months before • Create a schedule for the big day • Decide on dates for bachelor and bachelorette parties • Shop for and purchase shoes, jewelry and accessories

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1 month before • Finalize the schedule for the big day • Choose a seating plan for the reception • Break in your shoes 1 week before • Visit the desired beauty professionals (hair colourist, esthetician, etc.)

• Practise reading your vows • Write out cheques to pay your vendors 1 day before • Get your nails done • Give the cheques to someone you trust to pay the vendors Day of • Enjoy!

Get schooled on wedding terminology A crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

Couples about to embark on their wedding journeys will likely learn a thing or two about party planning once their engagements are over and they are newly married. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding terminology can help couples make more informed choices along the way.

• Blusher: A short, single-layer veil that covers the bride’s face before the ceremony.

• Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in the bridal party.

• Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cocktail hour of a reception.

• Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a council official or justice of the peace at a municipal location rather than in a house of worship.

• Cocktail hour: Typically an hour-long interlude between the wedding ceremony and the main dinner of the reception. Guests have time to arrive and mingle before being seated.

• Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow guests to bring their own wine.

• Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where the bride and groom are seated.

• Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to a vendor to secure a date for their services.

• Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that appear on wedding cakes.

• Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct reception guests to their seats.

• Fondant: A sweet, plyable product used to decoratively cover layered cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight buttercream.

• Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps around the stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carries.

• Maid/matron of honour: The title given to the woman who assists the bride and stands closest to her at the altar. “Maids” are those who are unmarried, while “matrons” are women who are.

• Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work with the deejay or band to announce the various components of the wedding reception.

• Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typically given to the mothers of the bride and groom before the ceremony.

• Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the entrance and exit from the wedding ceremony.

• Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding who welcome and greet guests.

• Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wedding, including invitations, programs and enclosures.

• Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple components of centerpiece designs.

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Compiling the guest list Drawing up a guest list for your wedding can be very stressful, especially when you start thinking about your extended family and your limited budget. What’s the best way to tackle this difficult job? Two options are available to you.

First of all, you can list the names of all the people you would like to be present at your wedding, and adapt the reception or your budget accordingly. Obviously, the longer the list, the more costly it will be. Or, if you feel that the presence of all the people on your list is essential, there are ways of inviting everyone without breaking the bank. You could opt for a more affordable menu or a no-frills reception or a cash bar, for instance.

You can also do the reverse. Choose the reception hall and determine your budget, then adjust your guest list accordingly.

You’d love to get married in a specific place that can only accommodate 80 people? Compile your list according to your priorities until you reach the maximum number of guests. Start with family and close friends, then add extended family and friends, and end with ac­quaintances and collea­gues if there is room. Don’t forget the spouses (and the children, if invited) of all these people.

Whichever option you choose, keep in mind that it is your big day; don’t succumb to the pressure of inviting people you don’t really want to see. Instead, surround yourself with people who are important to you.

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Partner with wedding professionals You want the most amazing wedding possible? Working with experienced professionals will help you make sure that everything is perfect on the big day.

• A mouth-watering feast You’ll need to feed your guests, of course, so which caterer will you do business with? This professional can suggest different formulas and menus depending on your bud­get and the type of wedding reception you want. A talented pastry chef will take into account your tastes and your theme and make a cake as beautiful as it is delicious.

• To look beautiful Makeup artist, hairstylist, beautician, manicurist — make an appointment now to be breathtakingly beautiful on your big day. Don’t forget to plan test sessions to ensure that the results live up to your expectations.

• To immortalize the big day Don’t leave your wedding photos to chance; after all, you’ll want to keep them for the rest of your life. Take a look at the portfolios of several photographers before deci­ding which one will create these beautiful memories for you.

If you want to be able to relive the highlights of this special day, hire a videographer as well.

• For a great atmosphere Who will get your guests out on the dance floor: an orchestra, a string ensemble, a brass quintet or a deejay? For a successful evening, hire musicians and an emcee as soon as possible. Don’t forget the reception hall; a decorator will be able to set the tone for the evening.

You’re rushed off your feet with your busy schedule and a wedding to organize? A wedding planner will be able to give you all the help you need and ensure that everything is perfect on your big day.

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How to plan a wedding ceremony From choosing readings to honouring loved ones to immersing oneself in his or her faith, these tips can help couples plan their perfect ceremony.

• Choose a ceremony location that is close to the reception site. If a ceremony will take place in a house of worship, try to choose a reception venue close to the ceremony site. This keeps guests, some of whom may be out-of-towners who have already traveled extensively, from spending too much time on the road during the day of the wedding.

Months of planning is par for the course for couples about to tie the knot. Much of that planning concerns the reception, and rightfully so. Receptions last longer than ceremonies, and couples are often involved in every reception detail, from picking the appetizers to serve during cocktail hour to choosing the final song before everyone calls it a night. But it’s equally important that couples devote considerable attention to their wedding ceremonies.

• Get to know the officiant. The officiant should be someone with whom you both feel comfortable.

This person should know you well enough that he or she can preside over the ceremony and add sentiments that come across as authentic and personalized.

A wedding ceremony might not last long, but it is the most crucial component of a couple’s wedding day and can even set the tone for the rest of the festivities. From choosing readings to honouring loved ones to immersing oneself in his or her faith, these tips can help couples plan their perfect ceremony.

• Give the ceremony equal footing with the reception. Spend time trying to put a personalized spin on the proceedings, whether that entails writing your own vows or choosing moving music that means something to you.

When given ample attention, seemingly minor details can make for a special, memorable ceremony.

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• Do your best to avoid especially lengthy ceremonies. Couples will need to meet the religious requirements if they are getting married in the faith, and there may be some aspects of the ceremony that you cannot cut short or modify, but if you have wiggle room, try to keep the ceremony to around 30 minutes; otherwise, you run the risk of guests getting antsy, especially if children are in the audience.

• Decorate the ceremony space. While the altar and aisle are key places to draw attention, couples also can dress up the chairs/pews, ceiling (if allowed), and entrance to the space to make it welcoming and romantic.

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Choosing the site of your wedding reception It’s time to choose a location for your reception. Are you thinking hotel, country inn or cruise boat? A marquee tent, community hall or vineyard? Orchard, art gallery or golf club?

chairs and tablecloths provided or do you need to rent some? Is all the necessary sound and lighting equipment provided? You’ll need to take into consideration everything that is not included in the rental price in order to calculate your budget.

There are so many great places to celebrate your wedding that sometimes it can be difficult to make a choice. Consequently, it’s always a good idea to establish a list of criteria before starting your search.

1. The wedding theme.

The chosen lo­cation must be suitable for the theme without re­quiring a huge makeover; otherwise your budget could explode. Find out about decorating possibilities as well.

2. The capacity.

Make sure the chosen place can comfortably accommodate all your guests.

3. The meal.

Is there a caterer on site? Can you choose a different one? Can you personalize the menu? Think about drinks: is there a liquor license? Can you bring your own wine or if it’s a vineyard, are you limited to certain products?

4. Access and overnight accommodation.

Is there enough parking? Is it free? Is the reception hall close to where the ce­remony will take place? Are there ho­tels nearby?

Don’t hesitate to ask questions. Is there a music curfew?

Is the dance floor accessible at all times?

Who is responsible for cleaning up after the party?

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Jessica Lento and Nick Haller met through mutual friends in 2007. Jessica is a Fernie local who was attending high school at the time and Nick had come to Fernie from Ontario with a group of friends. According to the couple, as soon as they met, “the rest was history.”

“She was a local girl and I was new in town so it was good to have an insider, someone who knew all about Fernie,” said Nick. The couple was together for 11 years before Nick proposed. Jessica said that it was a big joke with both their families that they were together for so long before the proposal came.

However, when the moment did come, Jessica said she was still surprised. Nick had been wanting to do the Lizard Lake hike for many years and finally managed to do the hike with Jessica on September 11, 2018. Nick and Jessica both described the day as being picture-perfect, with beautiful fall colours, crisp mountain air, and sunshine peeking through the treetops.

When Nick popped the question, Jessica cried because she was so happy and added, “that’s a tough hike so it was a really nice bonus at the top.”

As for the way down, Jessica told Nick it would be his fault if she fell off the trail since she was so busy staring at her hand, now adorned with an engagement ring.

Almost a year later, on September 14th, 2019 Jessica and Nick were married. They chose Birch Meadows for their ceremony and despite a bit of rain, had a spectacular day surrounded by family and friends.

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took place before the wedding even started.

According to Jessica, everyone had been asking whether she and Nick were going to do a ‘first look’. Jessica, being very traditional, decided that she wanted Nick to see her for the first time when she was walking down the aisle, and not before. She just decided she wouldn’t tell Nick that.

Convinced that he was about to see his beautiful bride for the first time, Nick waited patiently in a wooded area before the wedding. Unbeknownst to him, Jessica had planned a little prank. As he turned around for the big reveal, he was stunned to see, not Jessica, but her brother, “big, hairy chested Michael, with tattoos everywhere and wearing this dinky little wedding dress,” Nick recalled.

Nick said he “keeled over laughing” and that he was very impressed with Jessica since she’s usually terrible at keeping secrets.

As soon as the rain cleared, Jessica started her walk down the aisle and Nick was allowed to truly see her for the first time that day. She said that as she was coming down the aisle, a strange feeling overtook her because “you don’t see or hear anything other than that focal point (Nick) so it’s a really good memory I have of that day, seeing him.”

After the ceremony, the newlyweds “kissed and the rain held off for all of our family photos and

portraits until we went off on our own and we just got soaked,” Jessica said. “You can see in our photos that everything is good and happy and we’re doing great and then a few moments later we’re just soaking wet.”

The couple took photos along the trails in Mount Fernie Provincial Park and Nick said the trails were slick with mud from the pouring rain. Getting drenched in their wedding clothes didn’t faze the couple though.

“Yeah, I was hiking in my huge wedding dress,” Jessica recalled. “But I wouldn’t have it any other way so it was good. It’s like, I didn’t pay this much money to not wear this dress so I’m going to wear the crap out of it.”

One hundred and fifty guests joined Nick and Jessica at the Fernie Community Centre for the reception, where they had fun dancing the night away.

Looking back on it all, Jessica had some advice for future newlyweds.

“Weddings can be a stressful event but only if you let it be. My advice for others would be to plan it as you see fit... The day of, just go with the flow because you cannot control anything once things are in motion. Just raise your glass and enjoy every moment.”

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Get the most out of bridal shows and wedding events Wedding shows introduce couples to vendors and set them on the path to making decisions regarding the planning of their weddings. Though they’re a great source of information, contacts and samples, bridal shows also can be a bit overwhelming. Learning how to maximize time spent at shows can help couples plan their weddings as efficiently as possible.

• Start small. If the idea of large crowds is unappealing, attend the more intimate, boutique shows that are often held at local reception halls and restaurants instead of the larger installations at convention centres and hotels.

• Scout out vendors. Check the bridal show’s website for lists of exhibitors and see if your desired vendors are on the list. But even if they’re not, keep an open mind and use the show as a chance to compare offerings. If an event map is available, marking off must-visit booths can help save time.

• Pre-register. Pre-registering for bridal events saves time at check-in, and doing so may make you eligible for discounted tickets.

• Come prepared. Chances are each vendor is going to ask couples for information so that they can follow up with a phone call or email with more detailed offerings and estimates. Couples attending the show can expediate the process by coming equipped with labels that feature their names, contact information and wedding date. They can then stick the labels on sign-in sheets or use them like business cards.

• Dress comfortably. Bridal expos involve a lot of walking and roaming around. Wear comfortable clothing and shoes. Consider a backpack or hands-free bag so you are not weighed down when collecting the swag and other handouts throughout the day.

• Ask questions. When face-to-face with vendors, rely on their expertise but don’t hesitate to ask questions concerning themes, colors, recommendations for honeymoon locations, invitation paper suggestions, and much more.

• Stay for the fashion show. Many shows will offer a runway experience to present the latest gown and tuxedo offerings. This can be an entertaining way for couples to formulate their wedding styles.

How to dress your bridesmaids Whether you have three bridesmaids or 13, you’ll need to decide what you want them to wear. Here are some options.

Same colour, same dress For a classic and cohesive look, ask your bridesmaids to wear matching dresses that correspond to your wedding decor. This option is best when the girls in the group have similar body shapes and skin tones.

Different colour, same dress For a multicoloured esthetic, choose a style of dress and let your bridesmaids pick the hue they wear. If you prefer a more subtle approach, ask them to wear different shades of the same colour.

Same colour, different dress This is a great way to show off your bridesmaids’ personalities while still maintaining a cohesive look. You can even opt for convertible dresses. These can be worn as many as 20 different ways, so your girls will have no problem finding a look that suits them.

Ultimately, you don’t have to follow any ru­les when choosing your bridesmaids’ dres­ses. The most important thing is that the women who matter most to you will be there with you on your big day.

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How to supplement your wedding invitations with a wedding website Wedding invitations traditionally include a few different cards and a whole lot of information. If you’re planning a wedding and want to cut down on the amount of paper you send, a wedding website is the perfect way to communicate with your guests.

What needs to be on the invitation All basic information about your wedding needs to be on the invitation. This includes the full names of the bride and groom to be, the location of the wedding and the date and time it’ll take place.

Traditionally, your parent’s na­mes Building a wedding website is would also be included, but if you’re easy and often ti­mes free. Use paying for your own wedding, you can one of the following host take or leave this tradition. Include sites: the URL to your wedding website so people know how to access it.

• withjoy.com RSVP cards • minted.com Your guests need a way to tell you • weddingwire.com whether or not they can make it to • theknot.com your wedding. You can include this with your invitation, or have people respond on your website. Both options are acceptable, but keep in mind that some of your older guests may not understand the lack of a response card.

Alternatively, you can build your wed­ding website using Wordpress.com; they even offer a free wedding theme.

What to put on your wedding website Use the website to let your guests know about accommodations, the gift registry and directions to the venue. You can also include some photos of the two of you, introduce guests to your wedding party or add local fun facts for people from out of town.

Wedding registry tips Building a wedding registry is a task unlike any other couples may encounter during their lifetimes.

Wedding registries are invaluable resources that provide engaged couples’ loved ones with gift suggestions. In spite of that value, couples may find it daunting and even a little uncomfortable to build their wedding registries.

Building a wedding registry can feel like walking a tightrope. Couples likely won’t want to ask for too much or for gifts that are too expensive, but a poorly built registry can be a major inconvenience for guests. The following tips can help couples build adequate registries that benefit them without asking too much of their guests.

• Register with more than one store. It’s important to register with more than one store. Doing so makes things as convenient as possible for guests and increases the chances they will be able to shop at stores they’re familiar with. Unless your guest list is predominantly local, try to register with at least one national chain so

guests who live in different regions can shop for gifts in-person if they prefer to do so.

• Make a large list. Some couples are hesitant to make large wedding registries, feeling that doing so gives the impression that they’re asking for too much. But large registries simply give guests more options to choose from. Many industry insiders advise registering for two to three gifts per

guest. That might seem like a lot, but guests will appreciate having all of those options.

• Don’t hesitate to include expensive items on your registry.

Couples also may be hesitant to include especially expensive items on their wedding registries. However, the couples’ parents and other close relatives may be honoured to purchase more expensive items, so

couples should not feel embarrassed to include them on their lists. It’s also important to note that many retailers, after couples’ wedding days have come and gone, discount registry items that weren’t purchased.

So even if no one purchases the more expensive items, including them on a registry may significantly reduce their cost for couples who want to buy such items themselves after tying the knot.

• Vary the prices of items on the list. In addition to including more expensive items on the registry, make sure to include moderately priced and inexpensive items. This gives guests more options and ensures guests who might be spending a lot to travel to and from the wedding can still purchase gifts without digging too much deeper into their pockets.

• Periodically update the registries.

Periodically update your registries to remove items you have already received and to add items if many of the less expensive ones have already been purchased. This also makes things more convenient for guests.

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Tyler and Teanna met in a back alley somewhere in Calgary, Alberta. Teanna was having some trouble manoeuvering her truck and Tyler gallantly stepped in to help.

Teanna’s friend thought that Tyler was quite the looker and wanted to get to know him better, so she suggested the group of them go on a double date.

It did not take long until both Tyler and Teanna realized that they liked each other more than the person they were paired with. It was the beginning of a love-filled and fun relationship.

Teanna recalled the beginning of their relationship where she referred to Tyler as her ‘man friend’.

Then, when Tyler was helping her move from Kelowna to Calgary so they could truly be together she made it official. Although it was clear to both Tyler and Teanna that they were dating, she asked him, “do you want to be my boyfriend?” Tyler enthusiastically agreed and then it was official – boyfriend and girlfriend.

As the first of their friend group to get together, and the last to get engaged, both Tyler and Teanna were thrilled to finally make it official.

“Even though I kind of had a feeling it was coming, I was still completely caught off guard and I balled like a baby,” Teanna said. “It was adorable. He wrote a really cute speech about how I was like the best snow on a pow day and the pristine waters on a fishing day and it was really cute.”

After the engagement came a difficult conversation for the couple.

“We got engaged in September and we decided at the beginning of October that we would postpone the wedding and that we would try for a baby,” Teanna explained. They found out not long after that she was actually already pregnant.

“That was probably one of the toughest conversations we ever had,” Tyler said. “Because a wedding is really expensive and we needed to save.”

So, the couple postponed their wedding until baby Odin came into the picture the following June. After the newest addition to the family joined them, Tyler and Teanna felt comfortable picking a date for the wedding.

a huge sound system. The couple had songs planned for each part of the wedding, including for all the different parties walking down the aisle at the ceremony.

“We’re Tyler and Teanna so we’re T and T so when we came out at the reception, we played that song,” Teanna said.

She also added that people often tell newlyweds that they had a wonderful time at the wedding and that they partied really hard but the feedback they heard was a little different.

“We had so many people tell us that they were so hungover the next day,” she said. “We had a lost and found the next day because there was just so many articles of clothing and shoes and stuff. We were wondering how these people got home and what they were wearing when they left.”

Teanna said that her favourite part about the whole day was when she started walking down the aisle towards Tyler. She remembers having the worst anxiety on the day of the wedding, with all of the possible ‘what ifs’ running through her head.

“Then I saw Tyler and held his hands and he just calmed me. Just touching him calms me.”

After six years of dating, Tyler took the many hints that Teanna was dropping and proposed.

The couple tied the knot on July 6, 2019 on the steps of City Hall in Fernie.

Tyler’s favourite part of the wedding day was the same, just from the reverse perspective.

According to Tyler, Teanna’s sister had planned a surprise party for her thirtieth birthday in September. Even though Teanna noted that it wasn’t too much of a surprise for her, they both remember the night very fondly. At some point during the day, before the party started that evening, Teanna remembers saying “tonight would be a great night,” dropping yet another hint.

“It was exactly what we wanted it to be,” said Teanna about the wedding day. “We wanted it to be very fun. We almost thought about sending flyers out for an after party but then realized that wouldn’t work.”

“As soon as I saw her walk down the aisle,” he said.

“She looked beautiful.”

Fun was definitely the aim of the Jensen Salters wedding. Tyler said they wanted to get as many speakers as possible and that they ended up renting

“Do whatever you want and don’t sweat the small stuff because anything that you notice that goes wrong, nobody else noticed.”

Looking back on their wedding day and the planning process, Teanna and Tyler had a little tidbit of advice for future brides and grooms.

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10 things you can rent for your wedding If you’re planning a wedding, there’s no need to buy everything you’ll need for the event. Here are 10 things to consider renting instead.

1. Tables and chairs.

Even if your venue offers them, you may prefer to choose different ones that better suit your theme.

2. Table linens and napkins.

These come in a number of colours and styles and can be selected to complement your wed­ding esthetic.

3. Lighting.

Add lights to create the precise ambiance you’re looking for.

4. Centrepieces.

You’ll need to purchase the flowers, but many florists offer vases as rental items.

5. Tents.

If you’re hosting an outdoor wedding, it’s important to have a plan in place in case it rains.

6. Lounge furniture.

An area with comfortable chairs and couches is a great place to rest between dances.

8. China, flatware and stemware.

Your caterer or venue may have some that you can use, but you may wish to upgrade to nicer looking pieces.

7. Dancefloor.

A space to cut the rug is a must at most weddings. If your venue doesn’t have one, rent it.

9. Photo backdrop.

Whether you’re planning a photobooth or not, a beautiful backdrop is sure to be a hit with selfie-loving guests.

10. Entertainment.

If you want to make sure your guests have fun, rent some large scale games or even a bouncy castle to keep them talking.

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A push for private vows If couples are intimidated by a heartfelt recital of their vows in front of a crowd, then exchanging vows in private may be for them.

• There are words you would like to share with your future spouse that are deeply private, and you don’t want to express those feelings to every person at the wedding.

• You do not want to censor your thoughts or words.

• You desire an intimately private and personal moment together before all of the fanfare and rush of the wedding.

Weddings are very special occasions for two people who are in love. That’s why many couples want close family and friends nearby when they tie the knot. But even the happiest couples may express some nervousness about one particular part of traditional wedding ceremonies.

Wedding vows are a way for couples to profess their love for each other.

However, many couples who want to write their own vows are hesitant to say them aloud in front of an audience. If couples are intimidated by a heartfelt recital of their vows in front of a crowd, then exchanging vows in private may be for them.

Wedding planners and industry experts say that private vows have

• You’d like to recite loving words in a native language that some guests may not understand.

• You desire the potential for some very great candid photos if you invite the photographer to be there at a distance. become very popular. While the vows do not replace the public exchange that seals the marriage from a legal standpoint, they can be words shared in a private moment before the actual ceremony itself. A quiet moment alone allows couples to shed private tears and share a special moment

before they make haste for the altar.

The Knot, a premier wedding planning resource, notes that there are many reasons to share private vows.

• You do not like being in the spotlight or become shy in front of crowds.

• You want to create a lasting memory that is only yours as a couple to share.

The popularity of private vows exchanged before a wedding ceremony is growing. This growing trend provides yet another way for couples to personalize their weddings.

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How to feature bright colours in your wedding An increasing number of brides and grooms are incorporating bright colours into their wedding outfits and decor. Here’s how to do the same.

Choose the right colour While red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet look great on a rainbow, it may be overwhelming to use them all at your wedding. Instead, choose only one or two of your favourite colours.

Or, choose colours based on the meaning behind them and the feelings they evoke. For example, green is the colour of renewal and balance, while blue calls to mind feelings of serenity and peace.

Use colour judiciously Incorporating colours into your wedding doesn’t mean everything should be bright and bold. Instead, favour neutrals and use your chosen hue as an accent here and there. The bride’s bouquet, bridesmaids’ dresses, centre­pieces and the groom and groomsmen’s ties are perfect places to inject a vibrant shade.

For a look that’s rich and voluptuous, be sure to use different shades and textures of your chosen colour.

4 fresh ideas for decorating wedding tables The centrepieces at your wedding are sure to be the decor that your guests notice the most. Here are four fresh ideas for centrepieces that will make a statement.

1. Potted plants. A welcome change from cut flowers, potted plants can be taken home by guests and enjoyed for years to come. Anything goes, from cute succulents and cacti to tall orchids and even herbs or flowers that can be transplanted outdoors.

2. Terrariums or lanterns. A geometric glass vase or container will complement almost any type of wedding esthetic. Fill it with moss and cut flowers for a romantic look or sand and seashells for a beachy vibe. Or, substitute the vase with an old lantern if you want to create a more rustic look.

3. Candles. A wedding is the perfect time to indulge in a romantic, candlelit dinner. Tall tapers in a variety of different candleholders are ideal. Or, use candles of varying heights to add visual interest.

4. Suspensions. If the ceiling and venue allow for it, consider hanging your centrepieces from above. Flower arrangements, candles and other items can be hung to add ambiance to the table and will dramatically impact the look of the room as a whole.

No matter what type of centrepiece you choose, make sure it’s not so tall or wide that it gets in the way of conversation around the table.

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A wedding dress you can dance in Dream Big for Your Big Day

They may look striking, but many wedding gown styles restrict your movements, making it hard to dance. Here are some things to consider if you’re shopping for a wedding dress you can move freely in.

• Light fabric. A flowy dress made of a lightweight fabric is sure to be comfortable enough to dance in.

• Separates. Choose an elegant halter top or corset and select two different bottoms. Wear a long tulle skirt to imitate the look of a ballgown for the ceremony and swap it out for a shorter style for the reception.

• Tea length. There’s no rule that says a wedding gown must be long. Choose one that ends just below your knees for a vintage style you can move in.

• Reception dress. Choose a second dress that’s easier to dance in for the reception. This is a great option for brides who don’t want to have to choose between two looks.

If you must wear a ballgown or a mermaid-style dress, choose one that can be modified through­out the day. Bustling a long train or removing a layer of tulle may be all you need to dance the night away.

How to ace your wedding day makeup All eyes are on the bride on her wedding day, and all cameras are too. Here are some makeup tips to ensure you look your best.

Be yourself Your wedding isn’t the right time to try out a new look. Instead, strive for a slightly enhanced version of the makeup you normally wear. For some, this may be dark eyeliner and a bold lip and for others, it may be a natural but radiant look.

Do a test run Try out your wedding day makeup in advance. If you’re doing it yourself, run through applying it a few times. If you’re hiring a makeup artist, schedule an appointment a few weeks before the big day. Doing a test run will ensure you’re happy with the results.

Use the right products Even if you’re not usually the emotional type, plan for tears on your wedding day. Opt for waterproof mascara, high quality liquid foundation and lipstick that won’t smudge.

Don’t forget to pack a kit that includes concealer, blotting papers and your lipstick for touch ups throughout the day.

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Food and drink stations for your wedding reception Are you looking for a way to make your wedding a little different? Any of these fun food or drink stations are sure to get your guests talking.

Snacks Instead of passed hors d’oeuvres, create a fun snack bar. Pickles, charcuterie or even popcorn with various toppings are all great ideas for a laid back crowd. For a more luxurious touch, try an oyster bar or sushi station.

Dessert Forego the traditional wedding cake and offer your guests their choice of dessert. From donuts and pies to cupcakes and your favourite childhood cereals, anything goes. For sum­mer weddings, cool down with ice cream, gourmet ice pops or sundaes.

Late night eats After several hours of dancing and drinking, your guests will be ready for a late night snack. Think French fries with different dipping sauces, grilled cheese sandwiches or even a make-your-own-taco bar.

Drinks While many weddings have a cocktail bar, you can also offer fresh juice, your favourite craft sodas or beers from nearby microbreweries. Or, a coffee bar complete with flavoured syrups is a great way to encourage the party to keep going all night.

Remember to tailor the food or drink station to your wedding and location. This will personalize the experience and make it more memorable.

Some food bars can even do double duty as your wedding favours if you provide cute boxes or jars alongside your pickles, cookies, candy or anything else that’s easy to transport.

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Easy but awesome photo booth ideas Are you planning to set up a photo booth at your wedding? If you do, your guests will love hamming it up in front of the camera, and you’ll wind up with a slew of fun, candid mementos. Here are some backdrop ideas for a photo booth you’ll love.

• Sequins. For an old Hollywood feel, choose white, silver or gold. Or put a modern spin on it and choose reversible sequins that your guests can play with to change the look.

• Flowers. A wall of flowers is the perfect romantic backdrop. Match the blooms to your wedding colours or opt for white or red roses. Alternatively, create an ombre effect from light to dark using a variety of flowers in an array of hues.

• Balloons. The trick to nailing a balloon backdrop is to use balloons in various sizes and shapes. Choose pastel tones for a soft look or go for bright colours for a more whimsical touch.

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A first dance song at the wedding reception often sets the tone for the upcoming festivities and can exemplify just how newlyweds feel about each other.

Couples may agonize over which song to choose, but there are many different resources available that can help couples narrow down their options. Spotify, the popular streaming music service, has compiled a list of the most popular wedding songs for 2018, based on global respondents. Their top pick was “Perfect,” by Ed Sheeran, a song that many might suspect was composed with wedding dances in mind. Sheeran’s “Thinking Out Loud,” Etta James’ “At Last,” John Legend’s “All of Me,” and Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love” filled out the remaining top five spots on Spotify’s list.

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There’s no getting around the fact that weddings can be expensive.

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