Parish Proclaimer Autumn 2013

Parish Proclaimer Autumn 2013

Cathedral Parish of Our Lady & St. Philip Howard, Arundel, West Sussex Published in October 2013

ALL ABOUT THE PARISH Rev. Canon Tim Madeley - Dean Rev. Mr. David Clifton - Deacon Father Stanislaw Mycek - Assistant Priest Louise Sharp - Parish Secretary* Cathedral House, Parsons Hill, Arundel, West Sussex BN18 9AY Tel: 01903 882 297 Fax: 01903 885 335 Email: aruncath1@aol.com

www.arundelcathedral.org * The Parish Office is open 9am – 1pm, Monday – Friday

Mass times at the Cathedral Sunday

9.30am

Weekdays

11.15am 10.00am

Saturday

11.00am

Family Mass on the third Sunday of the month Children’s Liturgy available other Sundays.

Cathedral Choir.

Monday - Wednesday, Friday and Saturday.

Saturday: Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament after Mass.

Benediction.

Mass times at the Convent of The Poor Clares, Crossbush Saturday 5.30pm Vespers.

6.15pm Sunday 4pm 5pm

Vigil Mass (entry at 6pm).

Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament.

Vespers and Benediction.

Monday/ Thursday

Mass - for Mass times on other weekdays please call the Convent the night before on 01903 882 536.

8.30am

Sacrament of Reconciliation Saturday

Cathedral 10.30am otherwise by appointment.

Convent Before/after the Saturday 6.15pm Mass.

FRONT COVER One of the scenes from the life of the Virgin Mary, by the eminent Victorian stained-glass artist Nathaniel Westlake, from the North Transept window (above the St. Philip Howard altar). Photo by Bill Philip (who is happy for it to be used in our magazine).

Hello to Arundel Parishioners

By Fr. Stanislaw Mycek

I have only been only a few months in Arundel, but I feel as if I were already at home. I’d like to write just a few words about me.

I was born in the last century, but I’m not very old. I studied philosophy and theology in Sandomierz, a lovely medieval city in the south-east part of Poland. I was ordained in 1998 by my first bishop. I worked in a parish for one year. Then the bishop sent me to do a PhD in dogmatic theology (in Lugano, Switzerland) and to help out in a parish of the diocese. I worked there for six years.

My second Polish bishop (the former one reached his retirement age) called me back to my diocese in 2005 and I lectured at the Lublin Catholic University. The same bishop proposed that I do some pastoral work in England. I accepted and I came to Bexhill in 2008 where I helped out for two years. At that time my second bishop went to another diocese and a new bishop suggested I’ll stay longer in England. And so Bishop Kieran suggested to me that I join the Guildford Team where I worked for three years. And now, following Bishop Kieran’s decision, I am in Arundel. That’s a quick overview on my 15 years of priesthood Many of you have asked me how long I am going to stay in the parish. Well, my answer is simple: I’ll be serving you as long as Jesus Christ wants me to do it. We Continued overleaf ++++++++++++++++++++++++ ARTICLES FOR THE WINTER ISSUE OF THE PARISH PROCLAIMER: Deadline for receipt - 21 November 2013 Please email your written piece and photos to clouter@mac.com or post to Cathedral House, Parsons Hill, Arundel, West Sussex BN18 9AY including your name/address to enable us to return the photos.

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get to know His will when we listen to His word, get to know deeper our heart and follow the decisions of our spiritual superiors.

Pure chance does not govern our life. Divine Providence has given me to you and you to me. We have just to give one another time to learn and to enrich ourselves. It is going to be a wonderful journey of our mutual sanctification.

May Mary our Mother and St. Philip Howard intercede for us, for the graces we really need. We have only to open our hearts to them. Please, pray for me too. I really need your support.

Fr. Stanislaw Mycek ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Thérèse of Lisieux - her life and legacy

By Mary Corbyn Thérèse Martin was born at Alençon in Normany on 2 January 1873, the youngest of nine children of Louis and Zélie; of these only five survived - all girls - but their parents provided a loving and devout family home with the two eldest girls, Marie and Pauline, taking over responsibility when their mother, Zélie, died. Thérèse, described as precocious, lively and intelligent, changed dramatically at the loss of her mother (she was only 4 years’ old) and later described herself as “entering a very dark time.... from being full of life, I became timid, retiring and sensitive to an excessive degree.”

Soon after this event the family moved to Lisieux and made the acquaintance of the Carmel and its community. Thérèse had become very ill but recovered in time to make her First Communion when she was 11 years’ old – a great milestone in her life that left her with the awareness of being totaly loved by God and a longing to give herself completely FOR EVER! Another time of desolation followed when her beloved sister, Pauline, entered the Carmel at Lisieux and, soon afterwards, the second sister – Marie – joined her there.

It seems that Thérèse had already decided that her own vocation lay in her religious 4

life and she was impatient to make her own profession. Her father gave his consent but suggested that perhaps 14 was too young an age for such a decision to be made.

The Prioress at the Carmel agreed, as did the Bishop, but Thérèse, no longer timid and retiring, was determined to take her request to the highest authority, the Pope himself!

Thus, Thérèse and her father set off for Rome – an adventure she wrote about in her autobiography and which she evidently enjoyed, despite her impatience with the Pope – Leo XIII. Like the other pilgrims, they were expected to walk sedately past the Pope, to receive his blessing, but Thérèse fell to her knees and pleaded to be granted admission to Carmel when she became 15. She wrote later: “He gazed at me steadily speaking these words and stressing each syllable: ‘You will enter if God wills it!’”

And so they returned home to await her 15th birthday, but it was not until Thérèse was 15 years 3 months that her wish was granted and she entered Carmel on 9 April 1888.

Convent life was physically hard and tiring – Thérèse was not used to housework – and community life was often irksome, but she seemed to find inner strength and joyfulness in the disciplined daily round. About a year after Thérèse’s admission, her father suffered a series of strokes from which he never fully recovered, dying five years later. Altogether, Thérèse spent only nine years in the Carmel at Lisieux; she contracted tuberculosis and suffered greatly with physical pain and intense spiritual darkness of soul during the last two or three years of her life. Thérèse died on 30 5

September 1897 at the age of 24.

HER LEGACY In her own words Story of a Soul, compiled from three manuscripts put together after her death and distributed, at first, to other Carmels in France.

Her sister Pauline, as Prioress of the Lisieux Carmel, with remarkable foresight had set Thérèse to write about her memories and reflections from childhood and into her religious life; similar requests were made also by the second sister, Marie, and by a later Prioress – Mother Marie de Gonzagne. Almost immediately more copies were requested, and more... so that reprinting rose to thousands, far beyond Carmel and beyond France.

By the time of her canonisation in 1925, Thérèse’s story had been translated into 35 languages with sales reaching millions worldwide. How can this be explained or indeed understood? The appeal of Thérèse for so many thousands of people seems to lie within her concept of ‘littleness’, a recurring theme throughout her life – and frequently misunderstood.

Having decided from a very early age that her goal was ‘sainthood’ she said: “I want to seek out a means of going to heaven by a little way; a way that is very straight, very short and totally new.”

She found confirmation of her purpose within scripture: “Whoever is a LITTLE ONE, let him come to me” but understood that it was first necessary to acknowledge one’s powerlessness, weakness and complete dependence on God. She also realised that this knowledge was itself God-given, not arrived at by one’s own contrivance.

‘Littleness’ is simple but never easy, lived out in everyday life with habitual awareness of our need of God at all times; in practice, this consisted of “doing ordinary things with extraordinary love.”

For Thérèse, holiness was less to do with overcoming imperfections than learning to live with them: “I must bear with myself, such as I am, with all my imperfections.”

She wrote to Marie: “Let us love our littleness, let us love to feel nothing, then we shall be poor in spirit and Jesus will come to look for us.”

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Pope Pius XI described Thérèse as ‘the greatest saint of modern times’. She became Patroness of the Missions and a Doctor of the Church: a teacher for all people. Her feast day is commemorated on 1 October.

Most of this material is taken from articles printed in the July-September edition of CARMEL to commemorate the coming of the relics of Thérèse to England and Wales in 2009.

The book STORY OF A SOUL: The Autobiography of Saint Thérèse of Lisieux is published through Washington DC, ICS Publications 1996 and obtainable through many bookshops in most countries. Other books on Saint Thérèse are available through the CTS and other publications. There is also a Carmelite Book Service based at the Carmelite Priory, Boars Hill, Oxford OX1 5HE. You can also visit their website: www.carmelitebooks.com ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

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Comedy with the Clergy Outside the church after Mass, a young girl said to the priest, “I am going to give you a lot of money when I am rich. My daddy said you’re a poor preacher.”

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After a church service on Sunday morning, a young boy suddenly announced to his mother, “I’ve decided to become a priest when I grow up.” “That’s OK with your dad and me,” the mother replied, “but what made you decide that?” “Well,” said the little boy, “I have to go to church on Sunday anyway, and I figure it will be more fun to stand up and yell, than to sit and listen.”

A young couple invited their local parish priest for Sunday roast.

While they were in the kitchen preparing the meal, the priest asked their young son what they were having for lunch.

“Goat,” the young girl replied. “Goat?” exclaimed the priest, “are you sure about that?” The boy nodded and answered, “Yes, I heard dad say to mum, ‘we might as well have the old goat for lunch today as any other day.’”

A child’s prayer... Dear heavenly father, yesterday I have been good.

I have not argued or lost temper with my sister. I have not been greedy or selfish, so I am really happy about that so far. In a few minutes, I have to get out of bed & then I’m going to need loads of help, thank you, Amen.

News from The Poor Clares

By Sr. Leo During Eastertide the sisters at the Poor Clares Convent hosted a series of introductory talks on different kinds of prayer. We had been inspired to offer these to anyone who was interested because during our small group discussions during Lent, the topic of how to pray often came up and we felt we could take things deeper not just for ourselves but for anyone in the parish who was interested.

The introductory session was led by Sr. Gabriel and she gave us an overview of what we were going to touch on in the following five weeks. The sessions ended each time with Night Prayer together with the community in our chapel.

Sr. Gabriel began the next week and led us into an exploration of imaginative prayer using the story of the woman of Samaria. The Gospel story was read twice and then Sr. Gabriel guided us slowly through a period of prayer, making suggestions for where we might like to linger, texts we might choose to stay with, and people we might like to imagine ourselves to be in relationship to Jesus. It was a powerful experience and helpful to be guided in this way so that we could learn how to do it for ourselves.

Sr. Leo led the next session, which was a prayer exercise where we used pen and paper to explore our relationship with God, beginning with God’s name and who He is for us. This proved to be an interesting experience with participants discovering things about God and themselves which they hadn’t expected.

Sr. Graca spoke to us the following week about Lectio Divina which is an ancient spiritual art that is being rediscovered in our day. It is a way of allowing the Scriptures to become again what God intended that they should be – a means of uniting us to God. In Lectio Divina we discover and experience God who truly loves us. In the Word – which is ‘alive and active’ – we experience ourselves as personally loved by God, the God who desires intimacy with us. Slowly we become the recipients of a Word which God gives uniquely to each one of us whenever we turn to the Scriptures. And so Lectio Divina not only teaches us about God but it also teaches us about ourselves as we discover that there is no place in our hearts, no interior corner or closet where God is not present: ‘alive and active’ in our deepest selves.

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In the fifth week Sr. Aelred explored the prayer of simple presence and intimacy in which by sharing and stilling our present concerns in the Lord’s presence we remain before Him in peace and trust, held steady by a word or phrase of Scripture. We ended the session by praying in the way that we had heard about.

Sr. Maria prepared the last presentation on the subject of praying with icons. An icon is an image which we say is written because it is a scripture in colour. The iconographer writes an icon in colour just as the scripture is written in words. The icon is written with natural pigments, pure egg yolks and water. In order to pray with icons we need to know a bit of iconography and the scripture related to it. Her talk was well presented and she had made a display of several icons to reflect on and to pray with for a time and it was a very powerful and beautiful experience. She mentioned an icon writing course that she gives each year for those who wish to begin to learn more about icons for themselves.

Each session ended with a period of time for questions and feedback and we all learnt a lot from each other in these sharings. Also we made available a small selection of books on prayer for anyone who wished to read around the subject.

The resource was well used. The feedback that we had from those who attended was positive and we all felt that it was very worthwhile experience that we might be able to put on again if there was a desire for it.

Please visit www.poorclaresarundel.org for more information. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

News from the Sacristy

By Graham Monet The 11.15am Mass for St. Peter and St. Paul on 30th July was a special occasion for five of our servers: Billy Walker, Dr. James Walsh, Graham Monet, Ian Fricker and Richard Edney. They received from Canon Tim, Guild of St. Stephen long service medals marking 50 years (Gold) and 10 years (Silver) of serving.

Billy began at St. Peter's Dagenham in 1939 and has continued serving at several parishes including Westminster Cathedral and Brentwood Cathedral. He has been a regular server at our 11.15am Mass since 2001. His gold medal was long overdue.

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Richard, Graham, James, Billy and Ian

James started in 1952 at Fetcham Village Hall Mass Centre, moving on to Leatherhead and Wimbledon College. He served at the Royal London Hospital Chaplaincy and whilst in the Royal Navy. In 1973 he came to the Cathedral and is one of our longest serving Cathedral Servers. You will see him at the 11.15am as well as the special services throughout the year. He is a loyal Cathedral server well deserving his gold medal.

The other gold medal was awarded to Graham. He began at the Brompton Oratory in 1956 then Crawley; he was MC at Sacred Heart Church in Ilkley before joining the Cathedral team on moving to Sussex. He moved from 11.15am to 9.30am Mass to be available to train the younger servers. Graham is also an MC (Master of Ceremonies) and the Cathedral sacristan.

Ian was recipient of a silver medal. He was enrolled in1995 and since then has given dedicated service to the Cathedral progressing to MC serving at 11.15am Mass. In addition he provides strong support at all principal services and is responsible for the organisation and preparation of the Sanctuary for the Corpus Christi celebration.

Richard is the youngest of the servers to receive his silver medal. He was enrolled at the Cathedral in 1996 progressing to MC and serving at 11.15am Mass as well as providing support for all other services. Being the younger member of the senior serving team his continuing help is much appreciated.

We offer them all our congratulations and thanks.

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other servers in particular Michael Rycroft and Colin Swanton. Michael, who is already a gold medal holder, has served at the Cathedral since 1975. He is one of the MCs and serves at 11.15am Mass and other services. He is the Cathedral archivist possessing a unique knowledge of the collection of vestments and artefacts used in all the Cathedral services. He, along with Ian, ensure the appropriate vestments and artefacts are used.

Colin serves every Saturday at the The Poor Clares’ Convent as well as Tuesday and Friday at the Cathedral. He also prepares and serves for most of the funeral services, looks after the Masses at Fitzalan Chapel and helps at our School Masses. Colin also helps out with Bognor parish serving every Sunday at Slindon. Colin stays in the background but his contribution to our parish life is much appreciated.

We are fortunate to have the help of such senior servers but regretfully they are approaching or have passed their "best before" date! Luckily we have some fine young servers, Alexei, Dominik, Hanako, Francis, Lucinda, Liam and Veronika, who started serving shortly after receiving their first communion and are now at secondary school.

Sadly this is the first year that we have no servers from junior school. New young servers are needed. If your son or daughter wants to serve then please let Canon Tim, Father Stan, Deacon David or Graham Monet know. They would be most welcome. Attendance every Sunday is not required and training will be given at 9.30am Mass.

The invitation to serve is not restricted to the children, new adults male or female are also very welcome and if you do want to join the team just let us know. It's never too late to start!

Watch out for more news from the Sacristry in the next edition of this magazine. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Cathedral Choir Examination Success Grade 2 Singing Passes: Elliott Kingshott and Indigo Steele Grade 3 Singing Passes: Grace Batcheloe, India Craddock, Sebastian Kirwin, Ella Markell and Felicity Park Grade 5 Singing Merit: Veronika Buckwell 14

News from the Cathedral Choir

By Elizabeth Stratford

I first encountered Thomas Perkins at St. Wilfrid’s Primary School in Angmering when I went to hear 60 children sing for places in the Cathedral choir. This was in the summer of 2003 and Tom was one of over 100 children I heard sing that summer. He was a very polite and well turned out child with a voice, which showed potential so I offered him a place in the choir, met his parents at a choir open evening and he began to sing in the Cathedral Choir in October 2003 along with 13 other children who were also successful in gaining places.

Tom quickly established a reputation in the choir for being dedicated and always working hard. It didn’t take very long for him to be presented with his cotta (which marks the change from probationer to full chorister) and around 6 months after joining the choir, he attained his Light Blue medal which was presented by the Bishop.

During the course of his early choir life, Tom did a great deal. He obtained his Bronze Award following examination, sang at choir festivals and for the Friends of Arundel Cathedral Christmas Concerts. In 2005 he was featured on the front page of the West Sussex Gazette in his choir regalia, holding a candle, for the Christmas edition. The image was a powerful one and many still remember it now. After being the Head Chorister for a year, singing in a solo capacity on many occasions including on the choir’s Be thou my vision disc on the Priory Records label and achieving his Silver Award, Tom’s voice inevitably began to change and he moved to singing the alto part in the choir, much to the delight of the assembled ladies already singing the part who were over the moon.

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As an alto, Tom has sung for countless weddings over the years. Tom continued to deepen his understanding and love of music as his voice developed further and he participated in the choir’s tour to York in 2008, singing in York Minster and Leeds Cathedral, soaking up the music and fabulous acoustics.

Following good GCSE results, Tom went into the sixth form at St. Philip Howard and decided to study Maths, Physics and History. He continued to sing in the choir and his voice deepened to baritone so he had a spell being a bass with Bernard and Chris leading the way. He auditioned for the RSCM Millennium Youth Choir (MYC), an auditioned choir of young singers aged 16-24 and gained a place under the direction of David Ogden. One of his first singing breaks with them was at Bedford School where, amongst other things, he sang at Bedford Prison! Other singing trips with them have included Tonbridge School, Durham and Prague, with a multitude of composers being covered. The choir’s most recent CD also features Tom. A year into his sixth form, Tom realized he wanted to study music so switched his studies and spent his second year studying the two-year music course as well as his other A levels. His performance results were in the top 5% of the country and he received an unconditional place to study music (voice) performance at the Royal Welsh Academy of Music and Drama in Cardiff. During his gap year, Tom has taken a bigger role in choir life if that were possible! Since last September he has learned more about directing a choir and organizing rehearsals, music lists and a department of musicians. He has worked with the choristers helping to teach them music theory and sight singing and has conducted the choir on various occasions. He has sung all over the country and abroad and has taught himself to play the piano with a little help from a couple of people. He is passionate about playing the organ and again, self-taught, has accompanied some of the psalms and played quietly during Holy Communion at some Masses. He is well known for singing the psalm at the 11.15am Mass. Tom will be missed by all of us involved with the choir. He has a fantastic sense of humour, is always willing to take part and is incredibly enthusiastic about the Cathedral Choir.

Tom’s time in numbers: Rehearsals attended: over 500; Services sung: over 650; CDs recorded: 5 plus one with MYC; Voice parts sung: Four! Treble, alto, baritone and finally, tenor; Biggest musical influences: Eric Whitacre; Approximate hours spent singing at the Cathedral: 3150 (that’s over 131 days!)

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Hurricane Sandy called & Cora responded!

By Cora Gillies The whole world knew that Hurricane Sandy was coming to New York but few imagined the devastation it could bring to one of the top cities of the world. The hurricane struck on October 29th 2012 and soon Staten Island, Rockaway Long Island, the lower east side of Manhattan and New Jersey were in a state of devastation.

As an American citizen who grew up on Long Island I decided that, since I had time before starting a new job, I would travel to New York and volunteer to help with the clear up of my home city. I looked at organisations that might be co-ordinating operations in the area, such as The American Red Cross, but they said I required training by them and I didn’t feel either they or I had the time for that – action was needed now! I looked at another site called “OccupySandy.net” I wrote down a few addresses and thought I would see what I could do.

I had an offer of accommodation through friends in the States but this was not going to be close enough and transport around the city would be difficult so I booked a room in an apartment through “Airbnb” which was a perfect location down in the Financial District, just off Wall Street; I also booked a room for the night I arrived at Newark Airport in the Howard Johnson Hotel, but I have to say this would not be on my list of recommended places for the future. It gave me an uneasy feel as I ran to my room quickly and double bolted the door!

Early the next day, I travelled into the city and found my apartment – a delightful contrast to the one the night before! I took the subway to Union Square where I found an organisation called “Goles”, they did not do any direct co-ordinating but suggested I try the local Congresswoman’s office, but again no joy. However, they gave me a flyer which asked for volunteers to help serve turkey dinners on Thanksgiving, an important day for all Americans. I did not have much joy with this lead as when I arrived at their base they told me they had enough volunteers. I started walking uptown and went into Grace Church where my Dad had been a choirboy. I asked him in a prayer what I should do. I decided to take the subway out to Clinton Avenue, Brooklyn where St. Luke’s Episcopal Church (Dad had been an Episcopalian) had become the distribution centre for supplies. It had been taken over

by OccupySandy.net who were co-ordinating supplies coming in from all over the country and distributing them to the worst hit areas. I signed in, put a name tag on 17

and away I went!

It was great to be busy loading and unloading, unpacking and sorting all manner of supplies from foodstuffs, clothing, blankets, sleeping bags to cleaning materials, tools, medical supplies. These donations were arriving every day from across the United States.

On Wednesday November 21st I headed over to Brooklyn, waited by the signing-in desk with other volunteers when it was suggested that some volunteers were needed to go to Bayridge to help with food prep for Thanksgiving meals. My cousin Mark had come down from New Hampshire to join me; he and I were driven down to Bayridge to another church hall, which had been taken over to prepare the Thanksgiving meals. I spent my time preparing the vegetables packed in many boxes, then having to cut up all the boxes afterwards while Mark worked in the kitchen. We decided we would return the following day, which would be Thanksgiving – always the fourth Thursday in November.

On Thanksgiving we travelled over, but slowly, as it was a Sunday service for the transport that was working. When we arrived the place was buzzing. Mark went to work in the kitchen and I attached myself, metaphorically speaking, to one of the tables where they were co-ordinating the distribution of the meals. Some people had been working all night to be ready for the big day. It was a crazy day. We were having to make up meals: turkey, vegetables, potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, oranges, stuffing and pies – apple and pumpkin and enough of each to feed, say 700 people or 900 people or 300 people – we had no idea of the exact numbers. By the end of the day we had served 4,000 turkey dinners! It was the first time this group of volunteers had done anything like this: it was great to be part of the operation.

Thanksgiving is such an important holiday for Americans; the people in the hard hit areas of New York needed something to lift their spirits. It is the American way – a bit like the British blitz spirit.

For the rest of my time in New York I went over to Clinton Avenue where they continued to receive supplies for local distribution. I continued to help fill those orders. I continue to receive regular emails asking for volunteers as the clearing up process is on-going and for some life will never be the same again!

It was a wonderful experience, I feel very lucky to have been able to help albeit in a very small way.

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Memorable Masses - 3

By Graham Rodmell

Cathedral of The Holy Spirit, Accra, Ghana

Africa was not a regular destination for my overseas work. Most of my visits to African countries were memorable for reasons other than their business purpose.

Achievement was measured differently in Africa. When it came to Mass attendance, I sometimes had to admit failure.

My first visit to Ghana in the 1970s included two successive Sundays. I found the Ghanaians to be friendly people but struggling to overcome economic problems with a series of blunt tools administered by the Central Bank, whereby the local currency was maintained at artificially high levels. I was working in Accra and on the first Sunday, I took myself to the Cathedral of the Holy Spirit, a striking building in white stone, with a spacious feel and ‘beautiful’, in a mid-20th century way. The Mass was in English and my principal recollection was that we sung the hymn “All things bright and beautiful”. This sticks in my mind because of the lines: The cold wind in the winter, the pleasant summer sun, the ripe fruits in the garden, he made them every one. which all seemed improbable at around latitude 6ºN, particularly during the hot and dry harmattan (a dusty wind) which dominated while I was there!

The second Sunday was a different story and I had low expectations of being able to attend Mass. It had been decided that we should make a site visit to the project in which I was engaged. This was located close to the Pra River in the Central Region 20

and was an extensive oil palm plantation, then in its early stages, partially funded and managed by my employers. Twifo Oil Palm Plantations Ltd. is still one of the largest producers of palm oil in Ghana. At the time it was encountering difficulties in assembling land.

This visit involved my colleague (whose office was in Accra) and me being driven from Accra to Cape Coast University (then during vacation) on Saturday night and going onwards to Twifu on Sunday morning. The car was a Peugeot 404 estate (a popular workhorse in Africa at that time). The ‘air conditioning’ system consisted of opening the windows! This ensured that a reddish dust from the unfinished surface of the main road from Accra covered our hair, faces, hands and clothes.

My colleague was experienced in Africa. Also he possessed a gift of prophecy. As the journey progressed, we both said how much we were looking forward to a shower at our University accommodation. His immediate response was: “If my experience in Africa teaches me anything, we shall not be expected, they will be unable to find the key to our accommodation and there will be no running water!”

Each of those predictions proved to be correct. When we finally gained admission, we waited patiently for a stopcock to be turned on, but instead we were presented with a bucket of water each. I worked out a technique for having a thorough wash down from a single bucket but have never since had the opportunity of refining it!

The onward journey was on a rough and dusty road leading northwards. I noticed that Ghanaians in every village were dressed in their colourful traditional Sunday dress to go to their place of worship. It seemed that villages were alternately Methodist or Catholic, as if the 19th century missionaries had carved up the province between themselves. I mentioned to my colleague that if possible, I should like to go to Mass before returning to Accra. He tasked himself with enquiring about the situation at Twifu and reported that there would be no Mass at Twifu that Sunday. The priest in charge was out saying Mass in other villages in the area.

There was no electricity service in Twifu, unless you lived next to the railway line and chose to help yourself to a free but very unsafe supply from the railway company to operate your TV! This meant that our meeting with the head people in the village took place in a very murky hut, but we began to make progress with outstanding land acquisition. When we returned to the project team’s gathering, a barbecue was being prepared. The animals to be cooked as bushmeat were known as ‘grasscutters’. I admit that when in London I first read of complaints of the damage 21

that the grasscutters were doing to the young palms, I thought that some piece of agricultural machinery was being carelessly used. It later dawned on me that this must be animal damage. ‘Grasscutter’ is the word used in Ghana to describe the greater cane rat that can grow to 5 to 8 kilos. The planned barbecue seemed like a ritual eating in which those who cared for the palms took their revenge on the rodents.

Before we started eating, a rotund and jovial priest wearing the Franciscan habit and sandals, came to our gathering and was introduced to me. He was American. He had come personally to explain why there was no Mass that day. In all that heat, he had just crossed the railway bridge over the Pra River back to Twifu, having said Mass a number of times at different villages without vehicular access. He had to reach them on foot. He was responsible for about 40 villages. He had departed just after dawn. I admired his fortitude and perseverance. He thoughtfully offered to give me holy communion if I accompanied him back to the Mass Centre, which I did. Although not a Mass, this was even more memorable, because it was the first time that I had received communion other than within the Mass.

I was grateful and wanted to make a worthwhile offering, so I asked him whether he could use sterling currency. He was delighted. Neither of us gave a thought to the potential consequences. I gave him one of the ten £10 notes that I was carrying.

We thus had examples of ‘faith’, ‘hope’ and ‘charity’ and the greatest of these was ‘charity’. So great was this charity, that it would lead to my instantly, miraculously losing weight. On departure at Accra airport, I was shown into a small cubicle with three soldiers armed with automatic weapons. They demanded that I produce all the foreign currency that I had declared on arrival, or Central Bank receipts showing their exchange at the ludicrously low ‘official’ rate that applied at that time. I had never been clever at magic tricks, but my performance on this occasion, by flourishing my nine notes instead of ten, mercifully won the approval of my military inquisitors. At that time, for Ghanaians within Ghana technically to offend exchange control regulations would have been a matter of small moment, but for foreigners, could have been seriously inconvenient. On exiting the cubicle, my tropical weight suit jacket was wringing wet with perspiration! The Priest will have had no such problems in exchanging his note on the unofficial market at a sensible rate! (Those exchange controls have now sensibly been swept away and the currency floats freely against foreign currencies.)

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By Sherian Morgan The Coronation Party held at the Cathedral Centre on Saturday 20th April was very well attended by congregation members, young and old, of both the Cathedral and St. Nicholas Church, in particular young families, and was great fun.

There were various splendidly royal costumes, with several contenders for the ‘best crown’ prize. Lively games with a ‘coronation’ theme were played, not least amongst them an ‘orb and sceptre’ race, and the event organisers were delighted to welcome as guests of honour the new High Sheriff of Sussex, Mr Patrick Burgess and his wife.

Mr Burgess attended in his full ceremonial uniform as the Queen’s representative, and gave a fascinating short explanation of his duties as High Sheriff, explaining the significance of his regalia, which was much enjoyed by everyone, and patiently answering questions from in particular the children. After supper – coronation chicken of course – Arundel’s own much-loved charity rock band The Alternatives took over for the second part of the evening, which was also throughly enjoyed. The organisers are very grateful to Mr and Mrs Burgess for helping to make the party so special, and also to all the families who joined in with a will!

The event was organised by the Arundel-Stegaurach committee to raise funds towards hosting the next visit of our parish partners from Franconia in Germany. The link, now ten years old, is an ecumenical one shared between St. Nicholas and Arundel Cathedral involving Anglican and Roman Catholic members from Arundel plus Roman Catholic and Protestant members from Stegaurach in Southern Germany. Families and individuals of all ages stay with each other and great friendships and bonds have been formed. If you are interested in taking part, please contact Sherian Morgan (01903 882010) or Anne Dunkley (01903 882457). We would love to hear from you! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Thank you from Thomas Perkins

I would just like to thank all of you not just for the presents and donations you have given but for the most amazing 10 years which we have shared. From Henry’s advice to Sheila’s plainchant guidance you have all taught me some extremely useful skills, which will stand me in good stead for the next 4 years at music college. I hope to keep in touch and will make sure I come back and sing as much as I can.

Thank you all so very much for what has truly been an unforgettable chapter in my love, Tom. (see p15)

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Parish People - Colin Swanton

By Alex Clouter

It was high time that we featured Colin Swanton in our ‘Parish People’ series, having written 31 articles for The Parish Proclaimer magazine since the Pentecost 2007 issue. This written piece is the result of an enjoyable and friendly chat one afternoon in early June in Cathedral House.

Colin was born in Mitcham and later his family – his parents and siblings – moved to settle first in Hambledon and then to Chiddingfold, Surrey. They attended services at a Baptist chapel where Colin attended Sunday school and the ‘grounding’ of his faith started. “These were my formative years,” Colin explained, “and when I served my National Service in British Honduras (now known as Belize) I converted to the Catholic faith.”

Colin was a Pay Corporal, co-ordinating the salaries of the 150 soldiers in the camp.

He also had the responsibility of collecting the Jesuit priest for services at the camp and through many conversations en-route Colin was drawn to the Catholic faith.

“My first Holy Communion was at Midnight Mass in Christmas 1960 and during Easter the following year was confirmed, both celebrations taking place in Belize Cathedral, run by Jesuit priests from America.

Two years later having completed his National Service in August 1961, Colin married his sweetheart, Jean Patricia Gilbert (who is usually known as Pat) with Father Charles Borelli taking the service at St.Teresa of Avila Church in Chiddingfold. It was thought that their marriage was the very first for the church. Their honeymoon was spent at Mermaid Hotel in Rye, East Sussex. As the following years rolled by, they had three children born to them – Catherine, Phillipa and Sam – and decided to 26

adopt four more children – Stephen, Michael, Zélie and Ben – all mixed race – “as we had plenty of room in our hearts and our house for more! We were so happy that our adopted children fitted in so well with our own, so we have happy memories of all seven growing up together, going away on holidays and the like!”

For several years Pat was editor of ‘Adoption Today’, the magazine for an adoption support organisation (then PPIAS) called Adoption UK, having previously worked for the mental health charity MIND. She was also a part-time adult education tutor and worked in a voluntary capacity as a literacy tutor, in post adoption support work and as a member of adoption panels. She and Colin were both members of ARC, the fund raising organisation for research into rheumatism and arthritis.

Colin’s work was very much in the plastics industry, involved in sales, and as I was writing away during my interview with him for this article, he was already making comments to me after reading my notes whilst sitting opposite me. As I remarked on Colin’s speed reading while sitting opposite me, he said “I first learned my ‘upside down’ reading very quickly when I was a salesman having to run through the quotations for clients. It was essential so that I could get that signature at the bottom of that form – a trick of the trade!”

Much of Colin’s working life was spent at the English subsidiary of a French machinery supply company called Billion SA. There was a lot of commuting between the family home in West Yorkshire and the UK subsidiary in Milton Keynes and also, when he became Managing Director in 1995, trips to the HQ based in Oyonnax, France, close to the Swiss border.

Colin started ‘Parish People’ in this magazine

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Retiring in June 2001, it was not long before Colin and Pat had the urge to move back to Surrey or Sussex. They settled down in an old cottage in Walberton in June 2005 with the intention of being less busy, a slower pace of life with peace and quiet. In reality this did not happen!

Colin had spent 37 years in Otley and the voluntary work he undertook showed the strong dedication he had to making a difference to the parish. He was chair of the Governors at St. Joseph’s Primary School for seven years and Chair of the Parish Pastoral Council for another seven years, albeit at a different time. Colin was a Eucharistic Minister for a number of years, as well as being a sacristan and a welcomer. You can add to this the numerous ‘Parish People’ articles for ‘Wharfe Tales’, a parish magazine for Our Lady and All Saints Catholic Church so life for Colin was certainly full during his Yorkshirian times of his life, loyally and unequivocally supported by Pat and his extended family.

So it just had to follow that after the move to Walberton, Colin commenced his support to Arundel Cathedral by becoming a server and a sacristan in 2005. He then joined the Parish Communications Team and began writing ‘Parish People’ for the Parish Proclaimer magazine, with his first article in the Pentecost 2007 issue. Since then Colin has tirelessly written many articles for the Cathedral’s parish magazine, and he keeps going!!

As if this was not enough, Colin also ‘throws himself’ into another passion, namely photography. Although this has had to take a backward step since retiring for a number of reasons, he still gets enormous pleasure in capturing the beauty of landscape scenes like the photp of Ashness Bridge, Cumbria, below as well as the

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splendour of castles, cathedrals and churches. Animals and flower studies were also other themes.

“I feel blessed with steady hands,” says Colin, yet another skill to add to his upside-down reading ability!! Colin went on a Charlie Waite (currently one of the world’s leading landscape photographers) photographic course, to improve his knowledge and skills. His first assignment with Charlie was to the Lake District where we sat for three hours taking the same photograph every 15 minutes to compare the difference light makes to a photograph over time. The one featured in this article was the best one of Ashness Bridge in Cumbria, as you will see, although in mono rather than colour.

Colin also manages to squeeze more time out of his days by his love of gardening – his own and also enjoying the splendour of those of the National Trust. This can be seen in the photo on page 26 with him seated and relaxed enjoying the garden at Nymans in West Sussex. In addition he serves at Slindon on a Sunday morning as well as at the Saturday Vigil Mass at the Poor Clares Convent. There is also a family connection with Arundel Cathedral in that Pat’s nephew – Daniel Challen – is married to Frances, daughter of Deacon David and his wife, Monica.

Colin and Pat decided to celebrate their golden wedding anniversary one year early at the Mermaid Hotel in Rye in September 2012 – where they honeymooned as well as celebrated their silver and ruby wedding anniversaries. Love and romance certainly remains as strong now as it was back when they first met in 1961. With so much going on in Colin’s life – with 11 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren – there is never a dull moment in the Swanton family!

To finish with Colin’s own words: “I just can’t resist doing so much in my life. Me compulsive...? Well, I’m afraid so!” ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

First Communicants Congratulations to all who had their first Holy Communion on 19 May 2013 - Ryan Beattie - Emilia Bradley - India Cleall - Jasmine Declas - Amy Declas - Joe Folkes - Seth Hayward - Oliver Horne - George Johnson - Agnieszka Kirwin - Sebastian Kirwin - Thomas Murtagh - Leon Myerscough - Lily Myerscough - Daisy Park - Evangeline Wishart 30

Fun, honest and decent

By Pat Swanton

By 1961, my romantic adventures had left me with the impression that there were two types of men: charming rogues and decent bores. I remember saying to my mother, “Why can’t I meet someone who is fun to be with but honest and decent as well?” Of course, I didn’t know then that, within a few weeks, I would meet the love of my life! Anyone who knows Colin will see that he fitted my criteria perfectly.

Our relationship progressed rapidly. That Colin was Catholic and I was not did not pose any particular problems. Colin was a convert to Catholicism, so I was not disappointing any family hopes; my own family, though firmly Protestant, were tolerant. I made sure, also, that Colin knew that I had been diagnosed at the age of 15 with rheumatoid arthritis: no-one could give me any certain long-term prognosis, but we were confident of dealing with whatever came up.

We married in October 1963, and our life together began, not in Sussex, as originally planned, but in West Yorkshire, taken there by the not-to-be-missed job offer made to Colin shortly before we married.

Our wedding took place in Colin’s home village of Chiddingfold, in the newly-built church of St. Theresa of Avila, so new that no organ had then been installed. With no Catholic background for either of us (Colin was one of only three Catholics at the 31

wedding, including the officiating priest), Father Borelli knew that his congregation would mostly be Protestant: he made a lovely speech of welcome and explanation, during which he also told the many parents of young children there not to worry if their children cried or made noise. The parents relaxed, the children responded, and our wedding music was the sound of contented baby babblings.

When we “came home” in 2005, it was to find ourselves the little Sussex cottage we had envisaged as our first home. We loved living in West Yorkshire: it’s a beautiful county, and we’ve left most of our children and grandchildren there, which is sad, but most of them visit and we travel back as often as we are able. The family we brought up consisted of seven children: with three born to us, we adopted two babies and then two older children who slotted into gaps between the eldest and the youngest. People said we were mad, but it worked. We have a family, mixed in more ways than one, all of whom we are proud of, and who, even more importantly, are affectionate and supportive of each other.

This year, we celebrate 50 years of marriage. Colin has to do more than his fair share of household tasks these days, sadly, as my health has deteriorated. This he does with great patience and humour, and we devise household routines and menus to make life as simple as possible (whilst still indulging our love of delicious food and fine wines!). With God’s help, we hope to be around a bit longer. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++

More Comedy with the Clergy Courtesy of Deacon David Clifton Uncle Joe Clifton’s Story The Church of England parson was dining one evening with the local Catholic priest (a not uncommon occurrence in this ecumenical age) when there was a knock at the door. On opening it the priest found a young boy on the doorstep, son of one of his parishioners, with two kittens in his arms, which he wanted the Reverend Father to buy. As part of his sales pitch he said, “They’re good Catholic kittens, Father.” The Parson, overhearing this, came forthwith to the door and said to the boy, “You young rascal. You tried to sell me those same kittens last week and assured me they were good Protestant kittens.” “Ah, yes,” replied the little boy, “but that was before their eyes were opened.” Other denominations will doubtless twist it the other way!

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Our visit to Rome

By Monica Clifton

How wonderful to be back in Rome. We caught a train from the airport and Bruno met us at Ostiense a short journey to Santa Sabina. As always the Friars welcomed us with such hospitality. The Italians take their coffee very seriously and their coffee making machine is quite spectacular. I am familiar with the mechanism as it is one used in restaurants – extremely elaborate and excellent! We took some English biscuits with us as a present for the brothers (as many as our hand luggage allowed, e.g. ginger nuts, custard creams and chocolate hob-nobs (the latter was particularly appreciated!). It was great to feel warm after the hard winter of England. Although there was some rain it was never cold.

I found the walking about quite strenuous but it is the only way to see Rome, and I survived! This time we made a couple of trips out of the city. Firstly to a small town called Bracciano, a train journey about 30km north-west of Rome. It is well known for a particularly well-preserved medieval castle and large volcanic lake. This lake is the second largest in the region and one of the major lakes of Italy. It has a circular perimeter of approximately 32km and serves as a drinking water reservoir for the city of Rome. Consequently motorised activity on the lake is controlled so as not to pollute the water. It was a good day out especially as the weather was beautiful.

Another visit we made was to the Summer Residence of the Venerable English College. south of Rome Looking across Lake Albano to Castelgandolfo. the Villa Palazzola was a 13th century Cistercian Monastery and it is believed to have been built on the site of Scipio's villa. It is now used for retreats and guests who want to 33

get away from it all. We had to imagine the wonderful view as the weather that day was not so good. We enjoyed a lovely lunch and met some people who knew other people we know! You know how it is!

Talking of the English College we met up with Tristan Cranfield for a meal one evening... photo featured in this article, sitting with our son Bruno! Our last day there was very busy. In the morning we attended the Papal Audience in St. Peter's Square, making up a crowd of 70,000 people (I understand that as the summer has progressed that figure has increased). Because of the vast crowds it was not possible to see the Holy Father very closely but it was wonderful to be there and experience the enthusiasm and soak up the atmosphere. He spent 45 minutes riding up and down on the jeep and sometimes getting out to speak to people. On one occasion he took off his skull cap and put it on a young child. He really is amazing. All the clergy in Rome with whom I came in contact, speak very highly of him.

On the same day we visited an exhibition of an old Roman House. This was situated near Trajan's Column and called Domus Romane di Palazzo Valentini. Visitors walked on a glass floor showing the excavations underneath. It was a strange feeling for me to do this but I got used to it and it was quite spectacular. With the help of virtual reconsructions, graphics and film accompanied by a commentary we made a journey through the building seeing mosaics, decorated walls, pavements, polychrome floors and other artifacts as they would have been. It was a brilliantly presented exhibition and well worth a visit.

Next year David and I celebrate our 40th Wedding Anniversary and as it will be Bruno's last year of study in Rome we shall have to make our next trip extra special.

I can't wait!

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By Chris Dinham Many of you know that some published crossword puzzles are either easy to complete, from various papers, magazines, alternative printed offerings, or clues from other press items that you cannot make in your minds how to work the answers to the questions you have been required to happily install in your puzzles.

Cryptic crossword puzzles seem to have no meanings at all for your correct (or any) answers, simply because you can’t be sure what it is all about. Let’s start on what you can do to try and help yourself. Its intention is for you to carefully examine the following, so here we go....

The word ‘cryptic’ means that you must think in certain terms, such as these: (a) hidden - meaning that some words have more than one meaning; that is to say, many of our regular words (and there are a lot) so here are some examples: air - the sky; what we breathe; sounds of music; make public; style bear - animal; carry; suffer; put up with conduct - behaviour; guiding; lead; including music; carry out draw - tow; attract; stretch; write; end of sports activities; even score result mark - stain; sign; succeed at work; starting a race; indicate price score - end of game result; end of exam; musical libretto; avenge a wrong (b) an example - here is a cryptic clue for you, with its answer: Clue 1: “I is the first of these” Answer: “Roman Numerals” - the “I” is not the capital letter of “i”, it represents the first number of a clock; the “I” was the key to the solution Clue 2: “Swimmers take top leads around.” Answer: “Tadpoles” - the “around” word is to hint that the clue was an anagram.

This is enough for the time being and I hope that some of the above may assist over this and subsequent magazines, particularly that once it begins with your absorption it will become a regular piece of fun for you all. For the following crossword puzzle you will find an asterisk (*) at the beginning of 8 clues that will be of a cryptic nature. The rest of the clues are simply straightforward so do enjoy this new series of crosswords in The Parish Proclaimer!

Win a £20 voucher! Correctly complete the puzzle and either photocopy/tear out page 37 and include your name/address on a separate sheet to send to ‘Proclaimer Prize Crossword’ at the address shown on page 3 for us to receive by 21 November!

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The Saints of the Roman Canon

By Canon Tim Madeley A few months ago, at the request of one parishioner, I started a series of articles on the saints of the Roman Canon (Eucharistic Prayer I). I glossed over St. Joseph believing we knew enough about him. However on 1st May, the Church thought otherwise and issued a decree for his name to be included in some of the other Eucharistic Prayers. The following extract from the decree gives us the reasons why.

The Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments have informed Bishops' Conferences that from henceforward St. Joseph is to be inserted into Eucharistic Prayers II-IV in the Roman Missal. In the Decree it is stated: “Exercising his paternal care over Jesus, St. Joseph of Nazareth, set over the Lord's family, marvellously fulfilled the office he received by grace. Adhering firmly to the mystery of God's design of salvation in its very beginnings, he stands as an exemplary model of the kindness and humility that the Christian faith raises to a great destiny, and demonstrates the ordinary and simple virtues necessary for men to be good and genuine followers of Christ. Through these virtues, this Just man, caring most lovingly for the Mother of God and happily dedicating himself to the upbringing of Jesus Christ, was placed as guardian over God the Father's most precious treasures. Therefore he has been the subject of assiduous devotion on the part of the People of God throughout the centuries, as the support of that mystical body, which is the Church.

“The faithful in the Catholic Church have shown continuous devotion to St. Joseph and have solemnly and constantly honoured his memory as the most chaste spouse of the Mother of God and as the heavenly Patron of the universal Church. For this reason Blessed Pope John XXIII, in the days of the Most Holy Second Ecumenical Council of the Vatican, decreed that St. Joseph's name be added to the ancient Roman Canon. In response to petitions received from places throughout the world, the Supreme Pontiff Benedict XVI deemed them worthy of implementation and graciously approved them. The Supreme Pontiff Francis likewise has recently confirmed them. In this the Pontiffs had before their eyes the full communion of the Saints who, once pilgrims in this world, now lead us to Christ and unite us with him.”

St. Joseph’s name is added after the Blessed Virgin Mary in the form of ‘Blessed Joseph her spouse’. Listen out for it at Mass.

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By Margaret Myerscough Following on from Oliver Hawkins’ article about the design of the 2013 Carpet of Flowers, I thought I would write a bit about the flowers and laying of the carpet.

We only use chrysanthemum heads for the main patterns on the carpet as they will lay flat on the paper and last for the two days we are open to the public.

Once Oliver has come up with a design with the dimensions for the carpet, a meeting takes place between Mary Bagg, Mary Harding and me to calculate the number of flowers we need for the carpet. This is not an exact science as you can imagine, as we don’t know the size of the flower heads or how many heads we can use from each stem until they actually arrive, but we assume each head will be approximately 2 inches across and we will achieve five heads per stem. The chrysanthemums come in bunches of five stems so we assume we will get 25 heads, each about 2 inches across from every bunch of flowers.

We square off each pattern to make it easier to calculate the number of heads that are required. As each pattern is usually a different colour, we need to work out how many bunches of each colour we require.

For the lettering on the carpet, we use small-headed chrysanthemums called stallions. Again we assume each head is 1 inch across and seven heads per stem to try and calculate the amount we need.

In all cases, we have to overestimate rather than underestimate as we are unable to get any more flowers if we run out.

In order to get a variety of colours, it is necessary to get some of the flowers dyed (red or blue), which the growers will do for us provided they have enough notice.

In past years we have used Country Fresh in Barnham to supply all the flowers for both the carpet and flower arrangements around the Cathedral. Usually 6-8 weeks before Corpus Christi the order is placed with Lyn at Country Fresh who will contact her suppliers in Holland to make sure they can supply our needs.

On the Saturday before Corpus Christi, we go over to Country Fresh and take the chrysanthemums from their boxes, cut about an inch from each stem and place 42

them in water containers which are then placed in cold storage areas until we are ready to collect them on the Monday.

The greenery (cupressus) is provided by The Norfolk Estate who deliver a trailer load on the Friday before Corpus Christi.

On Monday of Corpus Christi week, we have an army of helpers of all ages, who sit for long hours cutting up the cupressus into small pieces which will be used to fill in the background on the carpet.

The chrysanthemums are collected from Country Fresh and brought to the Cathedral and it is only then that we can see what colours we have and decide which colours will be used on the various patterns.

On Tuesday, many of these same people assist by cutting off the heads of the chrysanthemums into large plastic containers. No stalk is left attached as the heads need to lay flat on the paper laid down the aisle.

After Mass, three small groups of people start laying the flower heads on the patterns at either end of the carpet and in the middle followed by other groups filling in the background with the greenery. Both these tasks take a great deal of care so as not to damage the flower heads and to make sure there are no gaps showing. (It is not a job to be undertaken by those with knee and back problems as it involves many hours of kneeling and bending.)

Once the flowers and greenery are laid, Mary Bagg uses other flower heads and greenery to make raised centres on the patterns just to give it a finished look. The laying of the carpet can take up to eight hours to complete depending on the complexity of the patterns and how many people turn up to help.

Each year we scrutinise the final result and declare it to be the best ever! Our visitors certainly agree with us.

To those loyal people who turn up year after year and to all our new helpers we give a big thank you, because without your help our task would be impossible.

STOP PRESS Marcin Mazur, Vatican & Bishops’ Conference Photographer visited the Cathedral during Corpus Christ. He took loads of photographs that can now be viewed on www.flickr.com/photos/catholicism 43

News from St. Philip’s Catholic Primary School

By Liz Hargreaves, Deputy Headteacher Our end of year thanksgiving leavers Mass was led by Canon Tim and Year 6. It was a chance to look back, not just over the year, but also across the years from the time when the children first started school in Reception. Our Year 6 children shared precious memories about their time in St Philip’s and prayed for those who have helped them during the years, as well as asking God to give them courage to pass on their faith in the next school. Some of our young people have witnessed great faith through their bravery and courage in difficult recent times.

Supported by their friends and the school community, we see God’s love in action on a daily bases. Saying goodbye is always difficult, however we know that these children are ready and equipped to move on and grow into young adults in their next school.

Earlier in the term Year 6 had another memorable visit as Veronika Buckwell (Year 6) reports: “On a warm but windy morning, Year 6 were invited to go to Pulborough Brooks to work on their topic ‘Go with the Flow’ about Rivers. It was a slow journey and we were all beginning to feel tired but then we reached our destination and we stepped out of the bus, we heard loads of wildlife! We were given a map and a compass to make our way to the river Arun.

We took turns to lead our group. When we reached the river we sketched it and we did an activity to see how fast the river was flowing. We threw dog biscuits in the river and we used a stopwatch to see how fast it was going. After that we travelled back a bit so that we could have lunch then we looked at some of the river features that we had learnt about in class.

We had a great day because we were able to learn outside, like we do at school when the weather is fine.”

In preparation and as part of our transition program Year 5 also visited St. Philip Howard Catholic High School for an exciting Science day. Annie Eden and Sophie North (Year 5) write: “We had to hurry so that we didn’t miss our train. When we got there we went to the science lab, we got in partners and we made salt from salt rock. We had to wear science goggles so nothing got in our eyes. The science was really interesting and very clever. When we had a break we had chocolate cookies and ones with Smarties in, and an apple or orange juice. We used Bunsen burners to do most of our work; we also used acids and water. One of the highlights was when the science teacher made elephant toothpaste and when he had bubbles on his hand he lit fire to them it was AWESOME! We had lunch outside because it was a nice day, after lunch we went back to the train station and caught the train back to Arundel.”

Please visit http:learning.st-philips.w-sussex.sch.uk to read more about our school.

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News from St. Philip Howard Catholic High School

By David Carter, Headteacher We are all delighted for our students that their hard work has paid off. Their attitude to their studies and the school community has been exceptional: they deserve every success. A special thank-you to the teachers at SPH; they are wonderful and always walk the extra mile to support our students.

Students, staff and parents were celebrating as record GCSE results were released at SPH. Over 84% of students gained 5 GCSEs at A*-C grades and 77% gained 5 GCSEs including English and Maths. These are the best results in the school’s history.

Despite there being a downturn in the numbers achieving this feat nationally, one third of all grades awarded to SPH students were at either A* or A grade. Mark Brookes, James Branchflower, Lauriane Canadas, Megan Ekinsmyth, Peggy Hughes, Hanna Masanjika, Adam Owers, Catherine Wells, Elizabeth and Josephine Whitehouse all achieved straight A* and A grades.

SPH A Level students are overjoyed at their success in 2013, especially with such a high number achieving A* - B. Successes include student Lucy Brookes and Lucy Thraves who will both be going to Oxford University, Lucy Brookes to study English and Lucy Thraves to study Music.

Ella Fleetwood, Tom Foster, Tom Hurst, Alice McIlwraith, Tazzie Mirza, Mark Stansfield, Charlotte Trump and Alicia White also achieved particularly impressive results, with at least 3 A or A* grades each. Students will now continue to study at prestigious universities across the country.

With 27% of entries being awarded grades at A* or A, over 56% at A*-B, and 83% of all results being at grade C or above, this year’s results represented exceptional improvement on grades achieved since 2010. In particular we are proud that 56% of all entries achieved A* - B, an 11% improvement on results from 2012, even in a year when national results showed a downward turn. Results at AS Level also showed improvement with a more students being awarded A* - B. You can read our most current newsletter from the home page of our website: www.st-philiphoward.w-sussex.sch.uk

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Parish Notice Board WELCOME! If you are a new parishioner, we hope that you will quickly feel at home with us...

Please make sure that you have completed one of the special forms kept at the back of the Cathedral (to the left of where the newspapers are displayed) so that you can be registered on our Parish Database.

HOLY BANDS FESTIVAL 1-5pm, Sunday 20 October Chatsmore Catholic High School, Goring An opportuntiy for all young musicians and singers to play and sing for each other and share good music that helps us to pray!

TO APPLY PLEASE CONTACT 01293 651 156 catherine.christmas@dabnet.org

HOUSEBOUND? If you or a family member is unable to come to Mass due to illness or infirmity please call us on 01903 882 297

ALIVE IN CHRIST! This is a group for women aged 18 - 35 to discover and respond to the call of Christ.

The group offers a space to journey with others seeking to tune-in more deeply to the call of Christ in your life, to discern His will for you, discover deeper meaning and direction, and to grow in the trust and freedom to respond generously to the Gospel. Meetings are the last Tuesday of each month at Vocations House, Stagelands in Crawley. Starts from 6.15 for Mass with discussions and Adoration, finishing with Benediction at 9pm.

St. John Vianney Group WORTH ABBEY PARISH VATICAN II TALKS

This group meets monthly and is for all men aged 18 - 35 who are brave enough to consider a specific vocation from the Lord. It is particularly (though not exclusively)suitable for those daring to consider a vocation to the priesthood.

Meetings are the first Sunday of each month in Crawley at 5pm for Mass followed by pizza, talk, discussion and Adoration, finishing with Benediction at 8.30pm.Venue: Vocations House, Stagelands, Crawley, W. Sussex RH11 7QD

COMING UP 23 Oct - Roads to Redemption: The Work of God in the Old Testament 11 Nov - Roads to Salvation: The God of the New Testament, Mission Accomplished?

Talks take place in the Unity Room at Worth Abbey, from 7.30 - 8.45pm More info from www.worthabbeyparish.co.uk

Make a bequest to Arundel Cathedral A leaflet is available to all parishioners who would like to include ArundelCathedral in their will. The leaflet gives some guidance as to how to make a bequest using the right wording if you wish to make a bequest to the Cathedral Parish, a bequest for Masses or a bequest for a Foundation Mass.

Leaflets available at the back of the Cathedral or call 01903 882 927

CATHEDRAL GIFT SHOP Now selling of religious and themed gifts, blank/written greeting cards, prayer tokens, interesting books and Sunday Missals From 1/4/13 to 31/10/13 Mon - Sat 10.30am - 4.30pm From 1/11/13 - 31/3/14 Mon - Sat 10.30am - 12 noon Plus Mon - Wed 1.30 - 4pm

Parish Diary OCTOBER Friday 4th

CAFOD Harvest Fast Day

Saturday 5th

2.30pm Ecumenical Animal Blessing Service

Saturday 19th

2.00pm Visiting Choir lunchtime recital

Sunday 20th

3.00pm Mass for the Feast of St. Philip Howard followed by tea and the ‘Friends of Arundel Cathedral’ AGM in the Cathedral Centre

Saturday 26th

7.30pm Arun Choral Society Concert - for tickets see www.arunchoralsociety.co.uk or ACS Box Office 01798 831234

NOVEMBER Friday 1st

ALL SAINTS DAY Masses at 8.30am at the Convent, 10am & 8pm in the Cathedral

Saturday 2nd

ALL SOULS’ DAY 10.00am Mass in the Fitzalan Chapel 7.00pm Salvation Army Band Concert (see current newsletter for details)

Sunday 3rd

3.00pm Blessing of Graves in St. Philip’s Cemetery

Saturday 9th

7.30pm Sussex Symphony Orchestra Concert - see http://ssomusic.co.uk/ for tickets or telephone 01273 415384

Sunday 10th

REMEMBRANCE SUNDAY Mass at the Convent of the Poor Clares on Saturday 9th at 6.15pm Masses at 9.30am and 11.30am (not 11.15am) 10.45am Remembrance Service in the Town Square

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3.00pm Knights of St. Columba Mass for the deceased members Tuesday 12th

11.00am Mass for Deceased Deanery Clergy

Wednesday 20th

10.00am Mass in the Fitzalan Chapel

Saturday 23rd

7.30pm The Angmering Chorale Concert - tickets from www.theangmeringchorale.org.uk

Wednesday 27th

11.00am Chapter Mass & Meeting

Saturday 30th

Let the Children Live! & Sardhana Joint Fundraising Event

DECEMBER Sunday 1st

6.00pm Friends of Arundel Cathedral Advent Vespers - all are welcome

Wednesday 4th

Cathedral Deanery Schools Advent Service

Thursday 5th

Worthing Deanery Schools Advent Service

Saturday 7th

7.00pm Arun Choral Society Carol Concert with local schools - tickets available from Box Office 01243 866469 or www.arunchoralsociety.co.uk

Tuesday 10th

10.00am Mass in the Fitzalan Chapel

Friday 13th

7.45pm Mass in the Castle Chapel

Saturday 14th

7.00pm Arun Choral Society Carol Concert with local schools - tickets available from Box Office 01243 866469 or www.arunchoralsociety.co.uk

Saturday 21st

Christingle Service

Christmas week times

Please refer to current newsletter

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During Autumn we pray to the Lord...

27th week of the year Sunday 6th Oct Monday 7th Tuesday 8th Wednesday 9th Thursday 10th Friday 11th Saturday 12th

That we are inspired by Mary’s unconditional faith and trust in you In thanksgiving for our food; and that we may be generous with those who have so little For those starting University or new jobs For unemployed people, that they may retain their sense of worth and find new work In thanksgiving for friends who are there for us in times of joy and sorrow That the conflicts raging in the Middle East will be resolved In thanksgiving for the life of St Wilfrid, who brought the Christian message to Sussex

28th Week of the year Sunday 13th Monday 14th Tuesday 15th Wednesday 16th

Thursday 17th Friday 18th Saturday 19th ST. PHILIP HOWARD

That we have the grace to thank you for your blessings; and each other for kindnesses shown That we do not lose heart when life disappoints or frustrates us For the gift of listening For those who have lost their homes and livelihoods through conflict or natural disasters; and that we respond to their plight in whatever way we can That as a society, we protect vulnerable people from abuse and exploitation For those who visit and minister to the sick and the housebound in our parish For the Friends of our Cathedral – that their support helps to sustain and develop the Cathedral as a place of welcome and enlightenment 50

29th Week of the year Sunday 20th Monday 21st Tuesday 22nd Wednesday 23rd Thursday 24th Friday 25th Saturday 26th

For those working in the Missions, especially those facing hostility and extreme hardship For those burdened with guilt, that they may know your unfailing love and compassion For patience and gentleness with those who are frail in physical or mental health In thanksgiving for those who have inspired us, and for the joy of good company and laughter That we may have the courage to persevere when life seems especially difficult Thanking those parishioners who clean and care for our Cathedral each week That by the example we give, we help to lead others in the way of salvation and love

30th Week of the year Sunday 27th Monday 28th Tuesday 29th

Wednesday 30th Thursday 31st Friday 1st Nov ALL SAINTS’ DAY Saturday 2nd ALL SOULS’ DAY

For humility That we might become more prayerful For children who suffer from being bullied; and that those who resort to bullying are helped to deal with their problems effectively For our politicians that they may serve the nation with integrity For steadfastness and hope when life seems impossible and hopeless That we might really believe that we are all called to sainthood That those grieving the loss of someone they love may be comforted by your promise that they share in your eternal kingdom

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31st Week of the year Sunday 3rd Monday 4th Tuesday 5th

Wednesday 6th Thursday 7th Friday 8th Saturday 9th

In thanksgiving that your love knows no bounds That faith liberates us so we see the Holy Spirit at work in our lives and in our parish For forgiveness when our pride and our sense of self-importance prevents us from showing true Christian love For children with special needs and those who adopt or otherwise care for them For our clergy, that they are sustained in their responsibilities of leadership and pastoral care For our catechists, and those deepening their faith under their guidance That whatever hardships we face, we remain strong in hope and faith

32nd Week of the year Sunday 10th

Monday 11th Tuesday 12th Wednesday 13th Thursday 14th Friday 15th Saturday 16th

For those who have given their lives in the two World Wars and other conflicts since; that their sacrifice may lead to peace and reconciliation within and between nations For families and others who are caring for those who are terminally ill For prisoners, especially those at Ford; and that those in charge of them treat them with respect and dignity For those who are wrongly convicted; and those imprisoned by virtue of their faith or political persuasion For those who have to flee from tyrannical regimes That prisoners gain the confidence and determination to change their lifestyle For justice and fairness

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33rd Week of the year Sunday 17th Monday 18th Tuesday 19th Wednesday 20th Thursday 21st Friday 22nd Saturday 23rd

That in receiving the Eucharist, we may be healed, strengthened and renewed For babies who die before, or soon after, birth; and for families who carry their memory in their hearts That we may have the courage to stand up for our beliefs and do what we know to be right For those who feel trapped by difficult circumstances at home or at work That we welcome newcomers to our parish with generosity and friendship For our Cathedral choirs In adoration of you as King of all; and that you reign in our hearts, mind and will

34th Week of the year Sunday 24th CHRIST THE KING Monday 25th Tuesday 26th Wednesday 27th

Thursday 28th Friday 29th Saturday 30th

That our young people feel secure and valued, and grow in strength, wisdom and your grace For those who are anxious about their health, or that of a loved one For families who find it difficult to cope For our teachers in our Primary School and at St. Philip Howard’s High School at Barnham, and all the pupils in their care That we are helpful to those who are lonely and housebound, especially during the winter months For our parish, that we may bear witness to your redeeming love in all we do For the people of Scotland

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1st Week of Advent - Year A Sunday 1st Dec Monday 2nd

Tuesday 3rd Wednesday 4th Thursday 5th Friday 6th open Saturday 7th

That we enter the Season of Advent in a spirit of prayer and reflection In thanksgiving for the dedication of those working in our hospitals and hospices, caring for those who are sick, frail or dying That we may heed your call that we should forgive those who hurt us For those who risk their lives working in the emergency services That we treat those who migrate to, or seek refuge in, our country with fairness and dignity That we do not judge others and that we are prepared to our minds and hearts to them That we are honest in word and deed

2nd Week of Advent Sunday 8th BIBLE SUNDAY Monday 9th Tuesday 10th Wednesday 11th Thursday 12th Friday 13th Saturday 14th

That we are open to the challenge of your words and have the courage to model our lives on them In praise of Mary’s role in our salvation For those whose lives are dominated by resentment and anger For those whose fear of rejection prevents them forming relationships with others For those who cannot join us at Mass, that they are assured of our prayers, interest and care For all who organize and contribute to our parish magazine That just as we wait patiently for your coming, we are patient with those less able or agile than we are

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3rd Week of Advent Sunday 15th GAUDETE Monday 16th Tuesday 17th

Wednesday 18th Thursday 19th Friday 20th Saturday 21st

That we rejoice in anticipation of your coming For those whose lives are dominated by anger or resentment, that they experience your inner peace For those who are seriously injured while serving in our Armed Forces, and for those trying to restore them in mind and body That you will guide us and give us courage when making difficult decisions That in the hectic preparations ahead, we keep in mind what it is we are celebrating For all those who work behind the scenes to make Christmas special In thanksgiving that you came into the world for all nations

4th Week of Advent Sunday 22nd Monday 23rd Tuesday 24th Wednesday 25th Thursday 26th Friday 27th Saturday 28th

For all those expecting babies, or experiencing the joy of a new life in the family For those who find Christmas difficult or lonely; and for those for whom it has no meaning For those whose work prevents them from celebrating Christmas with the people they love Happy Christmas! As you shared your life with us, may we learn to share what we are, and what we have, with others For our altar servers and all those who help to organize and assist with our liturgy That we are inspired by the gospel writings of St John For help in trying to resolve and heal family disputes and ill-feeling

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Octave of Christmas Sunday 29th THE HOLY FAMILY Monday 30th Tuesday 31st Wednesday 1st Jan Thursday 2nd Friday 3rd Saturday 4th

For families experiencing difficulty; that you will give them strength to persevere; and that we will be sensitive to their needs For children missing from home, or enduring abuse, negligence or exploitation For those who fear what the New Year may bring; that they may find comfort in your love That starting today, we resolve to become more spiritually aware For those with mental, emotional or behavioural disorders, who are so often misunderstood and shunned by society For all who struggle to make ends meet That like the wise men, we acknowledge our need to pay you homage

Solemnity: Epiphany of the Lord Sunday 5th Monday 6th Tuesday 7th Wednesday 8th Thursday 9th Friday 10th Saturday 11th

That your love is manifest in the way we treat others That we do not become obsessed with material wealth That our faith is sustained and nurtured For those who have to endure the pain of watching someone they love, suffer That whatever we do, we do it diligently and with pride For those who struggle in the cold weather For those whose spirit is broken, that they may feel consoled

A TRULY HAPPY AND HOLY NEW YEAR FROM ALL AT ARUNDEL CATHEDRAL

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Cathedral Aspects From a variety of people... you know who you are!

Congratulations & Commemorations BAPTISMS 12th May - Kian Sean Hull 12th May Ava - Lilly Mary Campbell 1st June - Emilija Ambros 8th June - Anabelle Grace Pallant 23rd June - Frankie Ray Cassini Dixon 5th July - Mariya Grigaliunaite 10th August - Elena Zilionyte 25th August - Anna Elizabeth Tustin 25th August - Jessie Isabella Tustin 31st August - Ace Dominic Moore 15th September - Tommy Harber

MARRIAGES 18th May - Ronan O’Kelly & Catherine Newton 7th June - Michael Clarendon & Sophie Foreshew 22nd June - Max Thoms & Emily Peach 6th July - Matthew Bonnar & Charlotte Baker 20th July - David Stuart & Hayley Caffyn 3rd August - Simon Maxwell & Elizabeth Kenny 6th September - Darren Quinn & Michelle Brenton

DEATHS 1st April - Catherine Nash (67 years) 8th April - Anne, Duchess of Norfolk (85 years) 18th April - Nicole Marie Robertson (19 years) 11th May - Jack Littlefield (89 years) 24th May - Sr. Bonaventure (86 years) 9th June - Miles Gall (7 years) 29th June - Sr. Sheelagh Mary Moreton (89 years) 18th August - Edwin Jones (86 years) 19th August - Barbara Cook (86 years) 20th August - David Mewis (75 years) 28th August - June Taylor (84 years) 2nd September - Monica Parkinson (79 years)

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And finally...

From Ray Weatherley A Box of Kisses The story goes that some time ago, a woman punished her three-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and she became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her mother the next morning and said, “This is for you Mummy.” She was embarrassed by her earlier overreaction, but her anger flared up again when she found the box empty.

She yelled at her, ”Don’t you know that when you give anyone a present there is supposed to be something inside it?”

The little girl looked up at her with tears in her eyes and said “Oh, Mummy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box.. all for you, Mummy.”

The mother was crushed. She put her arms around her little girl, and she begged for her forgiveness. It is told that the woman kept that gold box by her bed for years and whenever she was discouraged, she would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

Views expressed in The Parish Proclaimer are not necessarily the views of The Catholic Church, the Catholic Diocese of Arundel & Brighton, its affiliated companies and charities, employees thereof or persons otherwise associated directly or indirectly.

The content of The Parish Proclaimer is provided by parishioners and advertisers, published in good faith, without guarantee.

The Arundel and Brighton Diocesan Trust is a Registered Charity - No. 252878 The Editor of The Parish Proclaimer is Alexander Clouter, a parishioner who happens to be a writer, proofreader and graphic designer. Email: here@rite4u.biz

A PRAYER FOR THE OCCASION

We plough the fields and scatter the good seed on the land, but it is fed and watered by God’s almighty hand; he sends the snow in winter, the warmth to swell the grain, the breezes and the sunshine, and soft refreshing rain.

All good gifts around us are sent from heaven above, then thank the Lord, O thank the Lord, for all his love.

He only is the maker of all things near and far; he paints the wayside flower, he lights the ev’ning star.

The winds and waves obey him, by him the birds are fed; much more to us his children, he gives our daily bread.

All good gifts around us are sent from heaven above, then thank the Lord, O thank the Lord, for all his love.

We thank thee then, O Father, for all things bright and good: the seed-time and the harvest, our life, our health, our food.

No gifts have we to offer for all thy love imparts, but that which thou desirest, our humble, thankful hearts.

All good gifts around us are sent from heaven above, then thank the Lord, O thank the Lord, for all his love.

M. Claudius (1740 - 1815), tr. J.M. Campbell