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How to Balance Hanukkah and Christmas

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Parenting with Dr. Friedman December/January Pull Out Calendar December/January Calendar of Events Ask the Specialist: How Can Injuries Be Prevented During High Intensity Workouts?

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BIRMINGHAM PARENT ANNOUNCES

YOUR FAVORITE KIDS’ DOCS 2013

Editor’s Note Happy Holidays from Birmingham Parent!

38 32 New Holiday Traditions to Start This Year!

14 Making the Most Out of a Visit to the Pediatrician

34 Ho-Ho Hanukkah!

How to Balance Hanukkah and Christmas Celebrations

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parenting

Parenting with Dr. Friedman My 16-year-old daughter is dating a nice-looking young man from her high school. He often comes to our house to pick her up. I am a 40-something year-old divorced mom who is dating men my own age but I am not attached to any one man at this time. I am a naturally outgoing person and I chat with my daughter’s friend when he is here waiting for my daughter to get ready. She tends to run late and is typically putting on her makeup for 20 minutes after he arrives ready to leave. The problem is that my daughter is accusing me of flirting with her boyfriend. What is behind this and how should I handle it?

Q:

There seems to be some role confusion in your family. Somehow, you and your daughter have become peers instead of parent and child. You seem to be competing as equals and treading on each other’s turf.

Divorce, in some ways, places a parent back in adolescence. While divorce does not cause the loss of the maturity and experience gained through age, it does throw an adult back to the stage of mate selection. Along with this come the flirtatious behavior, the focus on appearance, and the insecurities that this process involves.

Your daughter is creating the time you have with her boyfriend by not being ready to leave when he comes.

If she is concerned about your spending time with her boyfriend, she can

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choose to be ready when he arrives.

On your part, you can avoid any appearance of competition by not dressing as a teen around her boyfriend and by being a bit less enthusiastic in your conversation with her date. If there is a problem of impropriety or competition, you can recognize your needs and work to fill them with your peers rather than with your daughter›s. The former is likely to be successful in meeting your needs, if not immediately but eventually. The latter is doomed to fail.

Competition as peers creates many problems in parent-child relations. If you are her peer, you have no authority over her. If she sees you as lacking maturity, she will not respect your opinion. Teenagers do not automatically take orders from adults. They evaluate the correctness and fairness

of the rules. If you give up your parenting role in the dating realm, you will lose it in all areas of parenting.

Yet it is not uncommon for middleaged parents to see themselves as they were when they were young and on some level to view themselves as still being teenagers. Most adults don’t change their self-concept about appearance and stamina as rapidly as the reality of the aging process changes them.

Competition between mother and daughter over a date is not a healthy parent/child relationship. Both you and your daughter need to make some changes. She needs to be ready when her date arrives. You need to pull back from relating to her friends and to find company among your peers. You are still your daughter›s mother, not her peer.

Vivian K. Friedman Ph. D. is a child and family psychologist at UAB, Department of Psychiatry. Send questions for response in this column to Viviankf@gmail.com. No personal replies are sent.

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BIRMINGHAM PARENT ANNOUNCES

YOUR FAVORITE KIDS’ DOCS for 2013

Imagine a great notebook full of doctors’ names with recommendations from friends and family who have “been there, done that.”

More often than not, most moms and dads consider a friendly recommendation more valuable than any other form of referral. Moms will trust their friends, family and acquaintances because they believe their stories – those friends have walked in their shoes with a sick child, an unknown diagnosis, and often worry until someone sets their mind at ease.

This is the idea behind Birmingham Parent’s Favorite Kids’ Docs campaign – the opportunity to have this

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special list and to give credit where credit is due to the faithful, caring and professional doctors who serve our children every day in our community. The process is totally reader driven – we call for nominations, and moms and dads and grandmas and uncles go and nominate a favorite kid’s doctor on our website and tell us why. And in our book, all the nominees are winners.

Now in its third year, Birmingham Parent’s Favorite Kids’ Docs honors those special doctors (pediatricians, specialists, optometrists, dentists and other health professionals), and gives parents a little glimpse at the experi-

ences of others. It’s a list of “parent-to-parent” referrals, if you will.

You’ll hear terms like “concerned,” “patient,” “awesome,” “amazing,” “knowledgeable,” “fun,” “love,” “attentive,” “caring,” and many more. We have compiled all the comments on our website, www.birminghamparent. com, and you can see the highlights here. And know when you see our little logo, the doctor you are seeing is a “Birmingham Parent Favorite Kids’ Doc!” These are the nominees for 2013, in no particular order. A * by the name denotes they have a profile in this issue:

✚ PEDIATRICIANS

Here’s what some of our readers had to say about their Favorite Kids Docs:

DR. STEPHEN BLAIR Redmont Pediatrics Birmingham, AL

DR. JOHN CORTOPASSI Greenvale Pediatrics Birmingham, AL

DR. RYAN WALLEY Redmont Pediatrics Birmingham, AL

DR. JOHN PETELOS Greenvale Pediatrics Alabaster, AL

DR. MARY DOYLE Mayfair Medical Group Homewood, AL

DR. BASSAM BABI Bessemer , AL

DR. STACY GILBERT Mayfair Medical Group Homewood, AL DR. PATRICK FARR Birmingham Pediatrics Birmingham, AL DR. JEFF MALONE Southtrace Pediatrics Hoover, AL DR. ALICE HARDY Southtrace Pediatrics Hoover, AL DR. PATRICIA HARRIS Healthy Kids of Gardendale Gardendale, AL DR. ROBERT LEVIN Alabama Pediatrics Homewood, AL DR. AMY ALBERT Alabama Pediatrics Homewood, AL DR. ANDREW MCCOWAN Southlake Pediatrics Hoover, AL DR. ANN BYARS Southlake Pediatrics Hoover, AL DR. ALLISON HOLT Tots N Teens Pediatrics Birmingham, AL DR. STEVE BARRON Tots N Teens Birmingham, AL DR. FRANK WALDO Greenvale Pediatrics Birmingham, AL DR. WILLIAM HARDWICK Vestavia Pediatrics Vestavia Hills, AL

DR. JOHN SIMPSON Vestavia Pediatrics Vestavia Hills, AL DR. DARBY MCELDERRY Greenvale Pediatrics Birmingham, AL DR. COURTNEY BAXLEY Over the Mtn. Pediatrics Birmingham, AL DR. PEILY SOONG Pediatrics East Trussville, AL DR. TOREN ANDERSON Greenvale Pediatrics Birmingham AL

✚ DENTISTS, ORTHODONTISTS DR. LAUTEN JOHNSON * Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry Hoover, AL DR. CLARK THOMAS * Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry Hoover, AL DR. MICHAEL KELLER Hoover, AL DR. ANGELICA ROHNER * Homewood, AL

✚ OPTOMETRISTS DR. REBECCA DOSS * VISIONFIRST Eyecare Center Trussville, AL

“Dr. Rohner is absolutely outstanding.

She always greets my daughter with a smile and takes her time with her. She is very friendly, attentive and listens to your concerns. Not only is she wonderful, the office staff is also amazing….”

– Kelly Kessler “Dr. Lauten Johnson has a practice that is extremely kid friendly, providing games, movies and a fun colorful environment for all ages. Dr. Johnson Goes above and beyond to make each child feel relaxed and special at each of their dental appointments…”

– Kelli Etheridge “Dr. Keller is the BEST children’s dentist in the area. Fantastic wait/play area, QUICK cleanings, fun staff and wonderful people there. They treat us like family and make everything as painless as possible.”

- Lesli Peek “Dr. Harmon is amazing. First of all, he was my husband’s pediatrician. My husband is 32!

He always remembers my daughter, even though he sees hundreds of kids. He has a wonderful bedside manner. He is always smiling and never rushes through our appointment….I wish he could be my doctor.”

– Mary Keck “Dr. Thomas always has a big smile on his face and makes my son feel excited about dental appointments. Dr. Thomas sings to the patients, asks them about their school, sports, etc. He is always reassuring

them that nothing is going to hurt and this office is a fun place to visit….”

– Valerie Madison “Dr. Cortopassi is a great doctor with a great bedside manner.

He is fun and makes the kids laugh. He was my childhood doctor and now is my children’s doctor, as well.”

– Matthew Harrison “My boys say Dr. Malone is their favorite doctor because he is silly and makes them laugh, even when they don’t feel good. Dr. Malone is my favorite pediatrician because my kids love him and I know without a shadow of a doubt that he cares about them, as well as all of his patients…”

– Mandy Solomon “Dr. Mary Doyle always talks to my son and not at him. She always makes him feel at ease.”

– Nancy Hamric “Dr. Barron understands my concerns and cares about the wellbeing of my two girls.

He understands what they’re going through and explains it where I can understand it.”

– Ashley Smith “Dr. Hardwick cares so much about the kids.

He always receives the patient with a smile and good attitude.”

– Sandra Velez “Dr. Stacy Gilbert is hands down the BEST pediatrician in the U.S.!

She is so sweet and takes time to make sure you are comfortable with what she is doing and answers any and

all questions. She has even called us after hours to check on our babies and answer questions. Her personality and genuine concern for each member of our family is unmatched.”

– Zach White “We absolutely LOVE Dr. Ann Byars. She is amazing with the kids and very thorough for us parents!”

– Michelle Smith “Dr. Amy Albert and her group are the best pediatrician and group in Birmingham. We can always be worked in, and she so attentive and kind to the kids.”

– Jennifer Whatley “Dr. Patrick Farr is very thorough and informative at all of my son’s visits!”

– Kayla Frankin “Dr. John Simpson is an absolutely sweet and caring doctor. He is very patient, understanding and takes time to answer any concerns you may have.”

– Melonee Hatfield

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Dr. Thomas is a children's dental specialist, who is passionate about helping children and teenagers maintain healthy and beautiful smiles by helping instill in them a positive attitude towards dentistry. He is a 2007 graduate of the Pediatric Residency Program at the University of Alabama/Birmingham, where he developed expertise in treating patients with special needs. Dr. Thomas is certified in the use of oral sedation and when needed can take a child to general anesthesia. Dr. Thomas has completed Board Certification in Pediatric Dentistry.

He is a Diplomat of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry.

Dr. Thomas grew up in Montgomery and graduated Cum Laude from the University of Mississippi. He completed his Doctor of Dental Medicine (DMD) at UAB and obtained his Alabama State Dental License in 2001. From 2001 to 2005, he was Chief Dental Officer for the Indian Health Service providing dentistry for Ignacio, Colorado and Santa Fe, New Mexico area Indian tribes. It was during this time that Dr. Thomas realized his gift for working with children and decided to return to his home state and enter the UAB Pediatric Residency Program. He is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and the American Dental Association. He resides in Vestavia with his wife, Pate, who holds a Masters degree in Social Work from the University of Alabama, and their daughters, Ashby (9), Myers (1).

Dr. Johnson shares Dr. Thomas's goal of instilling in children a positive attitude towards dentistry. He completed his Doctor of Dental Medicine (DMD) at UAB and obtained his Alabama State Dental License in 2006. He completed his residency in pediatrics in 2008. Dr. Johnson is certified in the use of oral sedation and has privileges at Children's Hospital and when needed can take a child to general anesthesia. In 2006, he won two clinical awards in excellence at UAB. First, American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry Pre-doctoral Student Award which is given to the student with the greatest proficiency and interest in Pediatric Dentistry. Secondly, the Birmingham District Dental Society Award for outstanding clinical ability.

Dr Johnson also leads a team of dentists and staff to Mexico where they provide dental services to the underpriveleged. The team goes annually to the Yucatan Peninsula and recently he founded The Smile Foundation to help promote awareness and to raise money for supplies.

Currently Dr. Johnson practices in both locations Hoover and off of Montclair Road. He is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and the American Dental Association. Dr. Johnson is married to Betts Johnson and is the father of three: Callie (6), Sanders (4), and Mary Carmen (3).

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After two years of teaching special education, she realized her passion for children.

Graduating from the University of Mississippi School of Dentistry with a D.M.D. degree, she then completed an internship/ residency program in Pediatric Dentistry at the University of Alabama at Birmingham and Children’s Hospital, receiving a specialty degree in that field. Dr. Rohner is also Board Certified in Pediatric Dentistry.

Dr. Rohner and her husband, Mark, have four children, Ramsey, Victoria, Katherine, and Elizabeth. She enjoys watching her children play sports,

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Making the Most out of a

Visit to the Pediatrician

By Kathy Sena

As parents, we’ve all had questions when taking a child to the doctor: What information should I bring? How do I get copies of past lab reports and X-rays? How do I keep track of my child’s immunizations, medications, etc?

We shared these common concerns with Jean Hanley, M.D., a board-certified physician with more than 20 years of experience in pediatrics and allergy, asthma and immunological diseases. Hanley also is the founder of PLANning Health, a non-profit patient advocacy service that helps people with health problems to receive better care in all aspects of their health, such as understanding their symptoms, diagnosis, procedures, treatments and insurance coverage.

Q:

When my child is sick and I’m worried, it’s easy to forget to bring the right things to the doctor’s appointment. What should I remember to bring to make it an effective appointment?

A: It’s helpful to create a medical history for your child and to update it as needed. This can be done on paper, on a computer document or spreadsheet or with one of the convenient health-tracking apps for your computer or mobile device. List immunizations, past diagnoses, treatments, lab results, medications taken daily (asthma inhalers, recent antibiotics, etc.) and intermittently (acetaminophen, ibuprofen, etc.).

Try one of the free or inexpensive medical-tracking apps that can be easily downloaded to your mobile device or computer, such as: 4 My Medical Records (online and mobile app: https:// www.freehealthtrack.com) 4 My Medical (online and mobile app: http://www. mymedicalapp.com) 4 Hermes (mobile app) 4 MyHealth (mobile app)

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These databases allow you to record medications, procedures, tests, allergies, surgical procedures, diagnoses, injuries, photos, insurance info and more. Having easily available medical information can lead to a more efficient and productive doctor’s visit.

If you don’t have all of this information available, it’s important to bring to your appointment at least the actual medications that your child has been taking recently.

Write down your child’s symptoms: cold, cough, ear pain, etc. When did the symptoms start? What happened if there was an injury? Where does it hurt? How have the symptoms progressed? Are they getting better, worse or staying the same? (If the illness or injury happens suddenly and you have to rush to a doctor’s appointment, try to write down this info while in the waiting room.)

Q:

How do I get copies of medical records, tests, X-rays, etc. from other doctors to bring for my appointment, if necessary?

A: Requesting records from hospitals and clinics takes time, and each office has its own procedure for requesting records. Most facilities require that you fill out a special form. Healthcare providers are required by law to share information regarding your child. The requested items can be sent to you by mail, fax or email, or you can pick them up in person. Procedures such as lab tests, x-rays, etc. will need to be requested from the doctor who ordered them.

Most labs do not provide information directly to the patient or guardian.

The smartest step a parent can take is to obtain the records at the time of the visit to the doctor so that they have as much information as possible at their fingertips and they don’t have to go through the hassle of requesting records.

Q:

Should I bring another adult along for the visit if I’m bringing a young child? How does

this help?

A: I always advocate bringing another adult with you to doctor visits, whether it’s for your child or for yourself. A spouse, friend or other family member often serves as an objective observer and provides what I call the “witness effect.” Although I’m a doctor, I get sick too! As a patient, I often went to appointments by myself.

When my spouse would occasionally accompany me, I noticed that more time and attention was being given to me. Although I felt that my care was very good, the “phenomenon” of even more information being disseminated when I had another adult with me was an eye opener. An objective friend or family member also may be able to ask questions that you may forget, or to ask for important details or clarification.

Q:

What about communicating with my child’s doctor by email? How do I suggest this? Is it common these days?

A: There has been a very slow, but steady, increase in electronic com-

munications between doctors and patients, but only about 5 percent of doctors do this currently. One issue is privacy. The Federal Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act, referred to as HIPAA, must be complied with in all emails, ensuring that any health information sent is secure and truly private. For this reason, many doctors won’t use email.

Doctors who do use email will ask their patients to sign forms agreeing to communicate electronically regarding health issues. Some only exchange lab or procedure results or non-urgent follow-up information. For other medical situations, you’ll likely be asked to call the doctor’s office. I believe that email communications and texting will continue to increase over time. The only way to know if your doctor is actively emailing patients is to ask. Many medical groups, such as the American Academy of Pediatrics, are trying to establish guidelines as to how to incorporate and better serve patients through electronic communications.

It’s important to remember that no amount of electronic communication can take the place of a thorough history, a physical exam and an inperson conversation with your child’s doctor.

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Q:

I’d like to do online research on my child’s condition or symptoms before the doctor’s visit. How do I share this information with the doctor?

A: In our information age, many parents want to have a shared decisionmaking relationship with their child’s doctor. The parents may have already researched the illness and may have a fairly good idea of what diagnosis or treatment plans are available. Some parents feel more comfortable accepting the doctor’s information as-is.

Either way is acceptable as long as you’re comfortable with the relationship: one-way vs. shared.

A note of caution: With medical information at our Internet fingertips, it’s easy to become overwhelmed and confused with the details of a diagnosis, treatment or the potential side effects of a medication. Medical misinformation from the Internet often leads to perplexing concerns

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American Girls Club 4pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library.

Gingerbread House Workshop 6:15pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library.

Explore Art with Bart 10:3011:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art.

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A Christmas Survival Guide 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre.

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Artplay presents Yuletide in Dogtown 7pm, Alys Stevens Center.

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Museum Complex Christmas Walking Tour 5-8:30pm, Anniston Museum of Natural History.

Christmas at The Home Depot 6-9pm, The Home Depot, Trussville A Christmas Survival Guide 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre.

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Coffee, Cocoa and Conversations 9:30-11:30am, Hoover Public Library Theatre.

Holiday Party 10-11:30am, Albert L. Scott Public Library.

NATIONAL NOODLE RING DAY

SANTA’S LIST DAY Hope you are on the “nice” list!

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Alabama Wildlife Center’s Holiday Craft & Bake Sale 9am-3pm.

PEARL HARBOR DAY AY Y German Christmas Market 10am-6pm, Das Haus, 2318 2nd Ave. N, Birmingham.

Holiday Faire 10am-3pm, Alabama Waldorf School.

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Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall BCT, 2:30pm.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever BCT, 2:30pm.

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Frugalistics Coupon n Swap 10:30am, Hoover Public Library Theatre.

Learn How to Find Grants 10:30am The Library Theatre at the Hoover Public Library.

NATIONAL HUGGING DAY

Moms Connect 6:30-8:30pm, Riverchase Community Church.

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Museum Complex Christmas Walking Tour 5-8:30pm, Anniston Museum of Natural History. Begin a new holiday tradition with your family as you explore the gardens, grounds and interiors of Anniston Museum, Berman Museum and Longleaf Botanical Gardens. $10 per passenger car. 256-237-6766, www.annistonmuseum.org.

7 SATURDAY Pearl Harbor Day Pepper Place Saturday Market 7am, Pepper Place. Shop at the market for all of your Holiday Meals! Make your holidays special with handmade gifts from Pepper Place Market! In addition to the best produce Alabama has to offer, the market features artisans, food producers, local music, and much more! Bring the kids and dogs. 205-802-2100, www.pepperplacemarket.com.

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The Arc of Jefferson County holds its annual Decked Out Dash Dec. 14 at Oak Mountain State Park in Pelham. Grab your festive wear and join them! All proceeds benefit the Arc's programs for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities.

DECEMBER 2 MONDAY Lego League 4-4:45pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library. Kids of all ages can play with Legos of all sizes in the meeting room. Children age 6 years and younger must be with an adult. 205-6646822, FREE.

3 TUESDAY Explore Art with Bart 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. Children ages 3-8 and their adult companions are invited to join museum educators to explore the collection, discover activities

that make looking at art fun and exciting, and create new family memories about art. www.artsbma.org.

tures with Santa and free gift wrapping with a canned food item or donation to T.E.A.M. 205-655-7535. FREE.

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A Christmas Survival Guide 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. See December 5.

A Christmas Survival Guide 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. This light-hearted musical revue is just what Santa ordered, with vignettes starring Tam DeBolt, Howard Green, Kristi Tingle Higginbotham, Jan D. Hunter and Jessie Kisor. 205-444-7888, www.hooverlibrary.org/thelibrarytheatre/shows.

6 FRIDAY Christmas at The Home Depot 6-9pm, The Home Depot. Pic-

The Arc of Jefferson County’s Sporting Clay Shoot 8:30am. Selwood Farms in Childersburg. The Arc’s annual clay shoot is open to individual players and corporate teams of four. Each participant gets 100 targets and breakfast and lunch are provided. $125 for an individual or $485 for a fourperson team. Amanda Marcrum or Scarlet Thompson, 205-3236383, http://arcofjeff.org.

Breakfast with Santa Birmingham Zoo. Make your reservations now for this popular holiday event.

Enjoy a scrumptious scrambled eggs and sausage breakfast at the Kudzoo Cafe followed by a visit from Ole Saint Nick himself! All children receive a special treat upon arrival. www. birminghamzoo.com. Fee. German Christmas Market 10am-6pm, Das Haus, 2318 2nd Ave. North, Birmingham.

Stock up on hand-crafted, holiday gifts from local and German artists and vendors.

Sample German Christmas Market food and drink, have a customized Santa experience and enjoy other traditional German kids activities. It’s en event for the whole family! 205-566-6153, www. dashausbham.com/index.php/ christmas-market. FREE.

Events may change after publication deadline; please phone ahead to confirm important information. The deadline for submitting calendar items for the February 2014 issue is January 3. Mail calendar items to: Calendar, Birmingham Parent, 3590B Hwy 31 S #289, Pelham, AL 35124; fax to 987-7600; e-mail to calendar@BirminghamParent.com; or enter directly to the online calendar at www.birminghamparent. com. Entries added online after the print deadline will not appear in the print version. Information cannot be accepted over the phone.

Birmingham Parent publishes a calendar 11 times a year. January events are included in the December issue.

Guidelines: Birmingham Parent’s calendar is designed to be a resource and service to the community and our readers. Events which are open to the public, fund-raisers, free classes, etc., are events that may be included in our monthly calendar. We reserve the right to reject any event or listing due to rules or space restrictions. For questions regarding calendar entries, call 987-7700.

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Holiday Faire 10am-3pm, Alabama Waldorf School. Celebrate the season with an international buffet and bake sale, live music, games, climbing wall from Idelwild, and vendors, featuring local artists, crafts & handmade goods. 205-592-0541, www. alabamawaldorf.org. FREE.

Dance to the Traylor 8-Piece Band 6-9pm, Odenville Middle School/Purser Ray Hall. Family entertainment; no smoking or alcohol. Doors open at 5pm. $5 admission (children 12-under free) 205 629-6815, www.bandmix.com/traylor8pieceband.

Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall 10am, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. Poor Santa – It’s Christmas Eve and he’s trapped in the gigantic Merrywood Mega Mall. Will he find his way out in time to bring gifts to all the good little girls and boys? Come find out in this special holiday musical created especially for Birmingham Children’s Theatre. $9 children, $11 adults. 205-4588181, www.bct123.org.

A Christmas Survival Guide 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. See December 5.

Explore Art with Bart 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 3.

Bart’s Art Cart--Ornaments 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. Make your own ornaments for the holidays www.artsbma.org.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A hands-on adventure for pre-school children to explore nature. Family fun. Register 205-401-0245, events@freshairfamily.org.

FREE. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever 2pm Birmingham Children’s Theatre. All ages. No one wants to be in the annual Christmas play at the local church except six irascible siblings who have never heard the Christmas story. Ultimately, their energy and sincerity triumphs as they make this year’s pageant the best ever. $11 for Children, $13 for Adults 205-458-8181, www.bct123.org.

Museum Complex Christmas Walking Tour 5-8:30pm, Anniston Museum of Natural History. See December 6.

UAB’s Alys Stephens Performing Arts Center Education & Outreach

Winter/Spring Classes Begin in January.

8 SUNDAY Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall 2:30pm, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 6.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever 2:30pm, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 7.

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10 TUESDAY Explore Art with Bart 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 3.

American Girls Club 4pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library. Girls 7 years old and older can come with or without a doll for a holiday surprise. 205-664-6822. FREE. Gingerbread House Workshop 6:15pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library. Our workshop leader has everything for the makings of tasty-looking houses!

Families must sign up in advance and pre-pay $3 per house when they sign up by Sunday, December 8. Make checks payable to the library.

All children must be with an adult. Don’t forget your camera! 205-664-6822.

Moms Connect 6:30-8:30pm, Riverchase Community Church. Moms Connect at Riverchase Community Church is a support group of mothers with children of all ages. Holiday party!

Childcare is available. Contact Lynn for childcare reservation.

205-664-4531, FREE.

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I NEW THIS YEAR: Tree lighting ceremony with an illuminating tree reaching nearly 30 feet tall!

I Special appearance by Miss Alabama on December 14th from 6–8pm I Festive snowfalls every night I Jingle Bell Carousel* I Candy Cane Train*

I Holiday Hayride* I Santa’s Roller Racers* I Take a stroll through over a million lights I Up-close and personal interactions with the Children’s Zoo barn animals I Photos with Santa through December 23rd I And so much more!

*Requires ride tickets. The Zoo will close at 4pm every night of Wells Fargo ZooLight Safari. Animal exhibits will be closed during Wells Fargo ZooLight Safari.

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Museum Complex Christmas Walking Tour 5-8:30pm, Anniston Museum of Natural History. See December 6.

14 SATURDAY Pepper Place Saturday Market 7am, Pepper Place. See December 7.

The Arc of Jefferson County’s Decked Out Dash 8am, Oak Mountain State Park.

Registration on-site starting an hour prior. Come “decked out” in holiday clothes and costumes, whether it’s a red and green tutu, a Santa hat, or a tacky Christmas sweater.

Preregistration, $25 for the 5K; $20 for the one-mile fun run.

Amanda Marcrum or Scarlet Thompson, 205-323-6383., http://arcofjeff.org.

Alabama Wildlife Center’s Holiday Craft & Bake Sale 9am-3pm, Alabama Wildlife Center. Holiday-themed crafts and ornaments, handmade jewelry, gifts with a natural theme, jams, jellies, preserves, baked goods, vacuum sealed smoked hams and turkey breasts, and frozen casseroles: broccoli and rice, mac n cheese, sweet potato and breakfast grits, just in time for the holidays. All proceeds benefit the Alabama Wildlife

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and staff. 205-870-0073, http://freeform2013.eventbrite. com/. FREE.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A hands-on adventure for pre-school children to explore nature. Family fun. Register 205-401-0245,events@freshairfamily.org. FREE.

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Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall 10am, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 6.

Bart’s Art Cart--Ornaments 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 7.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever 2pm, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 7.

Trussville Christmas Parade 3pm, Downtown Trussville.

205-655-7535, www.trussvillechamber.com. FREE. Museum Complex Christmas Walking Tour 5-8:30pm, Anniston Museum of Natural History. See December 6.

FREEFORM 7pm, Children’s Dance Foundation Studio Theatre.

A delightful mix of dances performed by CDF students

Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall 2:30pm, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 6.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever 2:30pm, Birmingham Children’s Theatre. See December 7.

16 MONDAY Holiday Family Night 3:30pm, Birmingham Public Library. Bring the whole family to celebrate the holidays with the youth department. Storytelling, crafts, food, and fun! www.bponline.org. FREE.

17 TUESDAY Explore Art with Bart 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 3.

Family Networking Group for Parents/Caregivers of Children with disAbilities 6:30-7:30pm, The Arc of Shelby. The Arc of Shelby County invites all family members to join in our monthly family networking meetings to discuss issues related to community living, school advocacy, disability rights and best practices, and any other issue

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of interest to participants. Susan Ellis, 205-664-9313, www. thearcofshelby.org. FREE. An Evening with Santa 6:30-7:15pm, Albert L. Scott Public Library. Santa & Mrs. Claus will listen to children’s Christmas wishes in the meeting room. All children must be with an adult. Don’t forget your camera! 205-664-6822, FREE.

18 WEDNESDAY Coffee, Cocoa and Conversations 9:30-11:30am, Hoover Public Library Theatre. Meet book group leaders, pick up yers with next year’s selections and hopefully discover a new book group you’d like to attend.

205-444-7840, www.hooverlibrary.org. FREE. Holiday Party 10-11:30am, Albert L. Scott Public Library. Children and their caregivers are invited to come for a fun-ďŹ lled morning featuring Santa and Mrs. Claus and gingerbread man decorating in the meeting room--plus a horse-drawn carriage ride around the library! Don’t forget your camera! All children must be with an adult. 205-6646822, FREE. Holiday Celebration 3:30pm, Birmingham Public Library. Celebrate the holidays with songs and crafts. Guest Singer Monica Slater. Target audience: tweens. Story Castle, 2nd oor. www.bponline.org. FREE.

19 THURSDAY Alabama Family Rights Association (ALFRA) Birmingham Chapter meeting 6pm, Hoover Public Library.

Healthy Children, Healthy Economy! Increase your knowledge and understanding of Alabama Family Law and Practices. 205-626-9458. www.alfra.org. FREE.

20 FRIDAY Artplay presents Yuletide in Dogtown 7pm, Alys Stevens Center. The dogs are back in town for this holiday favorite. Join Spike, FiďŹ , Scotty and Beauregard

on an interactive musical adventure created by local playwright Jerry Sims, as his pups learn what the holidays really mean. Stay after the show and meet the costumed canine characters. Tickets are $8 for children, $10 for adults. www.alysstephens.uab.edu.

children ages 4-7. Bart selects a new book and related work of art each month that he thinks kids will enjoy. www. artsbma.org.

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Explore Art with Bart 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 3.

Artplay presents Yuletide in Dogtown 10am, Alys Stevens Center.

See December 20.

JANUARY

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A hands-on adventure for pre-school children to explore nature. Family fun. Register 205-401-0245,events@freshairfamily.org. FREE. Bart’s Art Cart--Ornaments 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 7.

23 MONDAY Holiday Movies 10am-3pm, Birmingham Public Library. The Story Castle hosts a day of holiday movies to get into the spirit of the season.

Snacks will be provided. All Ages. Story Castle, 2nd oor www.bponline.org. FREE.

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CHRISTMAS DAY 28 SATURDAY Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A hands-on adventure for pre-school children to explore nature. Family fun. Register 205-401-0245,events@freshairfamily.org. FREE. Bart’s Art Cart--Ornaments 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See December 7.

Bart’s Books 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. Bart’s Books is a storytelling program for

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THE DOGS ARE BACK IN TOWN for "Yuletide in Dogtown" at the Alys Stephens Center. Watch the pups learn what the holidays really mean in this holiday favorite. Written

by Alys Stephens Center's own Jerry Sims. the grant process and what foundations look for before awarding grants. Reservations required. 205-444-7816, www. hooverlibrary.org. FREE.

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Moms Connect 6:30-8:30pm, Riverchase Community Church. Moms Connect at Riverchase Community Church is a support group of mothers with children of all ages. Hear some great tips on making a budget!

Childcare is available. Contact Lynn for childcare reservation.

205-664-4531, FREE.

17 FRIDAY An Evening with Molly Ringwald 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. Ringwald released her first studio album at the tender age of six with the Fulton Street Jazz Band. The Dixieland style of her youth made way for modern jazz of later years, and performing songs such as “Don’t You Forget About Me,” she is now showing off those sultry pipes to audiences around the world. She is also a pretty good actress! 205-444-7888, www.hooverlibrary.org/thelibrarytheatre/shows.

Santa’s Adventure in the Merrywood Mega Mall December 7 & 14 at 10am & Noon December 8 & 15 at 2pm $9 for children, $11 for adults

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever December 7 & 14 at 2pm December 8 & 15 at 2:30pm $11 for children, $13 for adults

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18 SATURDAY An Evening with Molly Ringwald 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. See December 17.

25 SATURDAY Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10-11am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens, see December 4.

28 TUESDAY Frugalistics Coupon Swap 10:30am, Hoover Public Library Theatre. Bring coupons you don’t need and swap for ones you do. Please clip your coupons before coming 205444-7840, www.hooverlibrary. org. FREE. Learn How to Find Grants 10:30am The Library Theatre at the Hoover Public Library.

Learn how to find grants using the Hoover Public Library’s Foundation Center Cooperative Collection. Reservations required. 205-444-7800, // www.hooverlibrary.org. FREE. Moms Connect 6:30pm-8:30pm, Riverchase Community Church. Moms Connect at Riverchase Community Church is a support group of mothers with children of all ages. Game Night! Join us for great fun and conversation! Childcare is available. Please contact Lynn at 205-664-4531 for childcare reservation. 205-664-4531, FREE.

30 THURSDAY Masters of the Fiddle: Natalie MacMaster and Donnell Leahy 8pm, Hoover Public Library Theatre. Two of the world’s most celebrated fiddlers come together in an evening of traditional fusion, combing the best of French, Celtic and Cajun styles. 205-444-7888, www.hooverlibrary.org/thelibrarytheatre/shows.

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McWane Science Center IMAX Movies: SANTA VS. THE SNOWMAN The story of a lonely Snowman who at first is swept away by the magical wonders of Santa’s Village, only to ultimately wage war on Santa because he’s jealous of all the attention Santa gets during Christmas time. Dec. 1-31.

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N., Birmingham. 205-458-8181, www.bct123.org Birmingham Civil Rights Institute 16th St. N., Birmingham.

205-328-9696, www.bcri.org Birmingham Museum of Art 2000 Rev. Abraham Woods Jr. Blvd., Birmingham.

205-254-2565, www.artsbma.org Birmingham Zoo Zoolight Safari, December 6-8, 13-15, 18-23 and 26-31, 5-9pm nightly. Members FREE, non-members $8. Festive snowfalls every night. Animal exhibits closed during this event.

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New Holiday Traditions to Start this Year!

By Pam Molnar The holiday season gives us plenty of opportunities to kick off a new tradition. By doing something that creates and rekindles memories year after year, you are building a family custom. Looking to try something new this year? Consider these ideas to freshen up the holidays in your family.

Be of service: 1. Play board games with residents at the senior center.

2. Prepare a meal for the families at Ronald McDonald House.

3. Fill a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child.

4. Make a double batch of tonight’s dinner and share it with a friend.

Learn something new: 1. Attend a holiday service at a different place of worship.

Make something together: 1. Build a gingerbread house – from scratch or from a kit.

2. Create a homemade gift for someone each year.

3. Design a Christmas time capsule to be put away in your holiday boxes.

4. Make an outdoor Christmas tree for the birds by stringing popcorn, dried fruit and bread or add bird seed ornaments made with seed, nuts and gelatin.

2. Research holiday traditions from your ethnic background and add one to your current day celebration.

5. Try a traditional holiday recipe from a different country every year.

1. Purchase an Elf on a Shelf and set him up in different situations each night.

2. Plan a couple of evenings to watch holiday movies together. Add it to the calendar so everyone can look forward to it.

Take a trip down memory lane:

3. Leave out shoes for St. Nicholas Day.

3. Read a different holiday story each night – find a mix of old favorites and new reads.

4. Sit down with the family to discuss their New Year’s resolutions.

Have some fun:

4. Host an Ugly Christmas Sweater Party

5. Bake cookies, make candy or put together “gifts in a jar” to share with your neighbors.

5. Play holiday decoration bingo as you drive around and mark off things like a blow up snowman, a house with all red lights or a menorah in the window.

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Great Little Ideas For You and Yours Following are some great gift suggestions we’ve found at Birmingham Parent for Christmas, Hanukkah or any gift you need to give to a child this season. As always, be sure to read the directions and check with the manufacturer for any questions.

EDUCATIONAL & CREATIVE Play-Doh® Let’s Create Letters & Let’s Create Shapes Who doesn’t love playing with Play-Doh? For the young child that’s hard to buy for, these 11-page books with 6 small cans of Play-Doh includes ideas, molds, a plastic mat and Play-Doh knife and roller at just $16.95, wherever Play-Doh and books are sold.

Bananagrams Word Games make Educational Fun There’s a word-themed family-friendly game to suit every age, from preschoolers who are just starting to recognize letters, through competitive teens and grandparents who already have a way with words. ● APPLETTERS (SRP: $14.95 ages 5+) – clear the table, unzip the apple and prepare for a great family evening – Appletters is the addictive game for early readers, where players work together to build a “word worm” by adding words to the head or tail. The first player to use all of his or her tiles wins. ● BANANAGRAMS® (SRP: $14.95 ages 7-107) – the fast and fun anagram game that drives players bananas! Requiring no pencil, paper or board, Bananagrams comes in a small portable banana-shaped pouch and is perfect fun for all the family, at home or on the go. ● FRUITOMINOES (SRP: $12.95), ages 5+) takes the classic dominoes played by generations and puts a fresh twist on it with colorful images of fruit on the dominoes.

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Wild Guess Chase Who will be the player/team to win the most cards by guessing other players’ words correctly the fastest and with the fewest letters possible? Will a Guesser discover the hidden word before the timer runs out and win the face down cards, or will the Word Hider be able to stump the guessers and win all the cards from the word? The game fosters learning skills and creativity because players will naturally problem-solve as they come up with strategies to decipher the hidden word before the time runs out. They also use creativity when they generate words from the cards in their hand and try to stump their opponents. For ages 8 and older, SRP: $12.99. Available at Snoozy’s Kids, Homewood Toy & Hobby, Think Toys (Anniston) and www.amazon.com.

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The newly enhanced Bitty Baby® line features high-quality 15-inch baby dolls, outfits, and accessories. Bitty Baby is a longtime, lovable playtime companion to millions of girls ages 3 and up. Eleven different dolls with various skin tones and hair and eye color combinations, beautifully illustrated picture books, and new premium play sets and plush animals, as well as online activities for girls and parents. Prices start at $80.

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ALL ABOUT TRAINS Thomas & Friends® All Around Sodor Interactive Train Set by Fisher-Price Thomas travels to three exciting destinations: Brendam Docks, Tidmouth Sheds, and the Shake Shake Bridge! Thomas has a Go/Stop button and 2 location buttons. Press a location button on Thomas and he will go directly to that location on the track. Thomas’ eyes and mouth will move as he talks to his friends at the locations. At any time children can simply press the go/stop button to let Thomas ride around the track without stopping at the stations. Thomas will still talk to his friends as he passes by. Works both on and off the track. Requires 3 “AA” and 3 “AAA” batteries, included. For ages 18 months+, suggested retail price: $44.99, available where Fisher-Price toys are sold and at www.amazon.com.

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Ho-Ho Hanukkah!

How to Balance Hanukkah and Christmas Celebrations

By Christina Katz

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ou don’t have to be an interfaith family to celebrate both Hanukkah and Christmas each year. Any family can choose to celebrate whichever holiday traditions they wish. Holiday joy can be doubled, rather than halved, when you choose to light the menorah and decorate the Christmas tree to honor the cultural and religious traditions of both parents.

So forget the “December Dilemma.” When it comes to religion, families increasingly run the Judeo-Christian gamut. In our family, we have Orthodox Jews on one side of the family tree and born-again Christians on the other side. But my husband and I both share the same beliefs about diversity, tolerance, and spirituality. And that’s what we intend to pass on to our daughter.

As a woman who was raised Catholic and has been happily married to a Jewish man for the past 13 years, I can attest that once you become the parent in an interfaith family, you quickly become accustomed to not being able to please everyone. But since the wisdom of your hearts brought you and your partner together in the first place, why not call on that same source of wisdom to guide you through creating your own version of happy holidays?

Here are a few tips based on what our family has learned from holding the middle ground over the years:

Talk to Each Other First and Last. The bottom line on family celebrations, holiday or otherwise, is to always do whatever you and your spouse deem best for your family.

The only way to come to an understanding about what this means is to discuss it with each other first and last. Be prepared for this to be an ongoing conversation, and probably one that you revisit each year.

Protect Your Joint Point of View. Never let bossy or opinionated family members horn in on conversations that rightly belong between you and your partner. You only have one spouse, and that’s the person whose opinion you

should value most. Your kids come next and the grandparents after them. Don’t treat your parents like children or allow them to treat you like a child. This behavior will only create conflicts between you and your spouse.

Ignore Disapproving Outsiders. Never apologize for being an interfaith family, even if people in your extended family or circle of

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close friends do not approve of your union. You are not seeking their permission, as Perchick expressed so boldly in Fiddler On The Roof, you are asking for their blessing.

Creating harmonious and joyful dual holidays in your own home is your parental right and your familial duty, even if it means agreeing to disagree with certain members of your extended family.

Stick to Separate but Equal. Christmas may be more common and commercial than Hanukkah, but don’t let that trump your holiday fun. The nice thing about Hanukkah is that it lasts for eight nights. Light the menorah candles and say the Hanukkah prayer every night, if you possibly can. You may be amazed at how moving and inspiring such simple rituals can be, even on busy school nights. Look for the quieter, more awe-inspiring moments in Christmas as well, such as ending the day admiring the beauty of the decorated tree and window lights.

Keep Both Sets Of Traditions. At our house, we celebrate as much of both traditions as we can, without a worry about whether the holidays overlap or not. For me, this means the Christmas tree, the presents, the cookies, the big dinner. For my husband this means lighting two menorahs for eight nights (one for him and one for my daughter), having our daughter’s friends over for

potato latkes and some lively dreidel games.

Don’t Double your Gift Budget. We make an effort to celebrate the bounty of two holidays without going overboard. If you are an interfaith family, your kids’ friends may consider them “lucky” because they assume that they get double the gifts every holiday season.

However, that’s not necessarily the case at our house.

Our daughter typically gets a little present on the first day of Hanukkah and a bigger present on the last day of Hanukkah. One set of grandparents send a couple of little Hanukkah gifts and a check and the other sends a couple of stocking stuffers and a check. The amount of gifts she receives is essentially the same as it would be if we only celebrated one holiday.

Share the Love. Another thing we enjoy about dual holidays is that our daughter can share traditions about both holidays with her friends, no matter what religion they

follow, exposing them to a culture they may not have had the opportunity to learn about.

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Honor the Choices of Others. We don’t try

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to protect our family members from our choices.

They need to be exposed to what we value, if we expect them to understand and accept our choices.

However, we also try to respect the choices that each of our family members make without imposing our life choices on them.

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by Clement Clarke Moore How The Grinch Stole Christmas

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The Wrap Artist

By Christopher “Bull” Garlington

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ome of us, over the course of our adult lives, come to a quiet, disheartening conclusion about our relationship with simple tools.

You know those commercials where the cavemen are all apoplectic at the phrase so simple a caveman could do it?

Well, it bothers me too.

I can barely use a can opener. Certainly not a Philips screwdriver, and keep me away from socket wrenches or somebody loses an eye. Christmas terrifies me because of bikes and dollhouses.

I once put together a Barbie mansion with such an astonishing lack of skill I got a foreclosure letter. Don’t even get me started on the Kraft Vintage Kitchen.

Thing comes with a fridge, a microwave, and a cordless phone. It might as well be a real kitchen.

Long ago I made a pact to only buy toys already assembled. Dinosaur Hot Wheels with a working volcano jump?

Not happening. Barbies? They are God’s gift to overthumbed dads. I bought my daughter enough Barbies to repopulate the earth.

All I had to do was wrap them.

A note to Mattel: the trapezoidal assemblage you’ve packaged your dolls in is unwrappable. Please use a rectangle or a cube. Please don’t use curved edges and whatever you do, don’t wang the side off a perfectly usable square into some kind of sloped edifice. That’s just mean.

I know why you do it. It’s to protect the environment. You want to protect the environment? Make the box a shape a man can wrap. It takes me 17 rolls of paper to get one of these things sealed.

You know how they say we lose an acre of trees every minute to deforestation?

Around Christmas, that’s all me.

I tried shrink-wrapping our presents but I set one on fire and the wife made me quit. My only hope was the last-resort wrap, the Tootsie Roll twist, where I just curl a sheet of paper around the poor doll and twist like I’m losing tug-o-war then tape the ends liberally. By liberally, I mean bullet proof.

You want to protect the environment? Make the box a shape a man can wrap.

And all my presents end up like this, little table-top piñatas with my kids pounding them, hitting them, and attacking them with knives to get to the good stuff inside – which is never what they wanted.

One year I got my son a set of Lego racecars. When he finally got the wrapping paper off (screwdriver, blow torch) he’d torn one corner and sliced through the plastic. He said “Really? I’m eleven.”

My daughter kissed me on the cheek, patted me on the head, and said “Nice try.”

I finally tried planning ahead. I had a nice flat gift. I laid the paper out on the table, got a yardstick, measured, flattened, pleated, folded, taped, folded again, taped again, and finally, when I was all done, I had a beautiful, perfectly wrapped present. I turned to look for a bow on the counter and saw the actual toy lying there by the coffee machine. I picked up the gorgeous gift I’d just spent an hour working on and it fell limp across my hand. I’d just wrapped nothing.

I put it under the tree anyway.

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