Birmingham Parent Magazine September 2015 Issue

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ESTATE PLANNING:

A Critical Choice for Parents with Special Needs Children WINGS FOR AUTISM

Helps Those on the Spectrum Navigate the Skies

MERRIMACK HALL

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AUTISM SPECTRUM

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Welcome to the Fall Special Needs Issue Thank you for picking up our September issue of Birmingham Parent, where the emphasis this month is on special needs. You’ll find our fall 2015 Special Needs Directory and a number of stories related to raising children with special needs. And save the date for our 6th Annual Special Needs Expo on March 12, 2016.

We hope this issue is helpful to you. I never realized how many different types of special needs are out there, and how much need is out there for those children and parents – until we started this magazine 12 years ago with our first-ever special needs issue in March 2004. Through the years I’ve learned a lot, and been touched by so much.

As we made the adorable photos in August of little Tripp, our cover child, I realized what special people parents of special kids are. Tripp, who was doing well to sit for this photo (his mom and dad were so proud), has a lot of obstacles, but lack of love is not one of them. His parents adore this happy little boy, and their patience with him was staggering to me. It is absolutely true that special people get special children. We wish them well as they continue to try to come up with a diagnosis for Tripp.

He is one precious little guy.

We hope this issue will bless your family or someone you know in some way. And don’t forget there’s even more here, from car seat safety, to travel, to our popular calendar of events, we have something that can benefit anyone in this issue of Birmingham Parent.

Have ideas for us? We’d love to hear from you! E-mail me at carol@birminghamparent.com.

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SEPTEMBER 2015

ISSUE Fall 2015

ESTATE PLANNING:

A Critical Choice for Parents with Special Needs Children WINGS FOR AUTISM

Helps Those on the Spectrum Navigate the Skies

MERRIMACK HALL

in Huntsville Serves the Special Needs Community Safety for Those on the

AUTISM SPECTRUM

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Our Fall Directory PAGE 12

departments Note 04 Editor’s Welcome to the Fall Special Needs Issue

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Parenting with Dr. Friedman

8 Short Stuff 0 10 School News Page in a Book 30 ASharing the Joy of Generosity

the Specialist: 34 Ask Breast Milk is Best PAGE 20: Merrimack Hall in Huntsville Serves the Special Needs Community In 2006, Debra and Alan Jenkins founded Merrimack Hall Performing Arts Center, a nonprofit arts outreach, as a gift to the people of Huntsville to offer visual and performing arts education, cultural activities and more.

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September 2015 Calendar Highlights

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September 2015 Calendar of Events

Party: 46 Poetry Back-to-School Poems

features

26 TRAVEL: The Historic Grand Hotel on Mobile Bay Planning for Camp 28 Why is Planning for Your Child’s Future

Estate Planning is Critical for Parents with Special Needs Children

Wings for Autism Helps People with Intellectual Disabilities Navigate the Skies

Safety for those with Autism Specitrum Disorders

ON THE COVER: Our Special Needs Cover Kids Winner, Tripp, age 3, of Chelsea.

PHOTO BY KIM BRANTLEY PHOTOGRAPHY.

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Getting There Safely: The Importance of Proper Car Seats for Children

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10 Traditions to Start with Your Grandchildren

Pumpkin Patch 37 2015 & Fall Events Guide

parenting

Parenting with Dr. Friedman

Q:

I had tickets to a play on a Friday night with a friend when my 13-year-old daughter became ill. She generally does not mind staying home alone for an evening, although I do not leave her alone often.

However, I would not leave her home alone sick. Typically when I go out, her brother is home with her but he had plans of his own that night. I was caught between wanting to remain home with my daughter and not wanting to disappoint and abandon my friend who had paid for non-refundable tickets. I ended up asking my 16-year-old son to stay at home with his sister, which he did willingly. Should I pay my son for his time or is this is just a part of being in a family?

If you pay children for their work too often, they come to believe that they should be paid for everything they do.

Paying for all chores done gives the message that the child is “entitled” to a free ride at home and that anything he does for the general good and welfare is “extra.” Paying too often, for anything not immediately for his own benefit, creates a self-centered human being.

On the other hand, we all work for incentives. A paycheck is quite motivating and often overrides any resistance we might feel. Offering your son some money for his time might make him feel appreciated. Of course, kind words could do this too. The pay might also overcome any resentment that he might feel about giving up his weekend evening with his friends.

The prior relationship between the siblings will play a role in how your son feels about his time. If your children already have a good relationship, then your son will not feel that taking care of

his sister is a sacrifice. If your children do not get along, then the task is a chore for him. By paying him, the babysitting becomes a job and he may take it on as a serious responsibility and may resent it less.

know how much I appreciate your helping me out. Here’s some money for you to go to a movie with a friend tomorrow night.” This is very different from “I am paying you for babysitting.”

The issue is not so much what you

Pay for work should be given as “thanks” rather than entitlement.

Because your son had plans of his own that he gave up to care for his sister, you might want to offer him a thank-you gift of money. If he would have been home anyway, you might consider his help just a part of being a family.

How we react to a situation is often determined less by the reality than by how we interpret it. A “thank-you gift” of money is different from being paid for just being part of the family. If you decide to give him some money, you might want to say, “I just want you to

do about pay in this one case. It is really the pattern that matters. Parents should respect a child’s social, school, and work commitments and should pitch in to help the child do his chores when he gets in a bind. Children should be expected to do the same without pay for other family members. Pay for work done within the family should be used to overcome resistance such as when a child has to cancel his own plans to help out. It should be given as “thanks” rather than entitlement.

Vivian K. Friedman Ph. D. is a child and family psychologist at UAB, Department of Psychiatry. Send questions for response in this column to Viviankf@gmail.com. No personal replies are sent.

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short stuff SHERIFF’S CORNER

Fighting the “Hacktivists” for Your Personal Security

By JEFFCO Sheriff Mike Hale No one is immune to having their personal computers or information hacked. Recent news demonstrates that even our government is vulnerable to these attacks. So, if the U.S. government can be attacked, what can we do? Plenty! Here are some suggestions:

n Closely monitor your credit and banking activity for fraudulent activity. n Passwords should be changed regularly. It is recommended to use a password phrase of 15 characters or more.

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n Turn on all privacy settings on social media sites and be aware of your security settings on your home computers and wireless networks. n Routinely update hardware and software applications, including antivirus. n Pay close attention to all work and personal emails, especially those containing attachments or links to other websites. These suspicious or phishing emails may contain infected attachments or links. Get an antivirus that will scan your email prior to being placed in your in-box.

n Be aware of pretext or suspicious phone calls or emails from people phishing for information or pretending to know you. Social engineering is a skill often used to trick you into divulging confidential information and continues to be an extremely effective method for criminals. n Advise family members to turn on security settings on ALL social media accounts. Family member associations are public information and family members can become online targets of opportunity. n While eliminating your exposure in the current digital age is nearly impossible, you can take steps to minimize risk in the event you are targeted.

Children’s of Alabama Donor Drive Encourages Locals to “Be the Match” The 2015 Committed to a Cure Done Marrow Registry Drive will take place Sept. 1 from noon-5pm and Sept. 2 from 7am-5pm at the Performance Area at Children’s of Alabama.

The Alabama Center for Childhood Cancer and Blood Disorders at Children’s of Alabama is partnering with Be the Match bone marrow donor registry in this regional effort to add names to the national registry of those willing to donate bone marrow. This year’s event has a football focus, and participants are encouraged to wear their team colors to show their commitment to the cure. For more information, visit www.bethematch.org and www.childrensal.org.

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NBA star DeMarre Carroll Hosts “Giving Back” Weekend Newly-signed Toronto Raptors small forward DeMarre Carroll returned to his hometown of Birmingham in July to host his first-ever Carroll Weekend Affair.

The theme of the weekend was “giving back,” where Carroll planned events to show his appreciation for his hometown. This series of events presented by the Carroll Family Foundation was created to promote health and wellness, humanitarianism and unity within the community.

On Friday, Carroll and the foundation team visited with the young patients of Children’s of Alabama. As a liver disease survivor, Carroll visited with the transplant patients of the hospital. It was also Carroll’s birthday weekend, so he was surprised by the doctors, nurses and patients with the “Happy Birthday” song and a signed banner. Carroll signed basketballs and played virtual basketball with a few patients. He visited the rooms of those who were unable to attend the party and every child was given a signed ball and photo to commemorate the visit.

On Saturday, Carroll held a one-day basketball clinic at his alma mater, John Carroll Catholic High School, as part of his Next Level Basketball series. Boys and girls ran drills, played games and heard about Carroll’s journey within the NBA. After lunch and a birthday celebration, Carroll and his foundation team headed to Memorial Park for their Back to School Drive and Giveaway. The foundation and members of the Perfect Kingdom Christian Church sponsored bags of supplies for children and provided food. More than 150 families received supplies, and remaining bags were delivered to local group homes, shelters and youth programs.

“It’s amazing that I have the opportunity to come back to my hometown and give back,” Carroll says. “Birmingham made me who I am today, and I am grateful for the support the city gave me for my first “Carroll Weekend.” To learn more about the foundation, go to http://www.thecarrollfamilyfoundation.org.

Photo courtesy of the Birmingham Zoo

The Birmingham Zoo Opens the All-New Barbara Ingalls Shook Black Bear Trail The Birmingham Zoo recently opened the new Barbara Ingalls Shook Black Bear Trail, an allnew exhibit contributing to animal conservation and welfare that was made possible through a lead gift from the Barbara Ingalls Shook Foundation.

The new trail, located in the Alabama Wilds area of the Junior League of Birmingham – Hugh Kaul Children’s Zoo and spanning nearly an acre, is an interactive and educational exhibit that will feature two distinct habitats for the zoo’s rescued North American black bears, Bety and Sassy.

The exhibit will transport visitors from Grandma’s backyard in rural Alabama to the wilds of Alabama. The “backyard” habitat will demonstrate how humans can share the same environment with native wildlife. In the “wild” habitat, the bears may be seen foraging under the trees, ripping apart logs or lounging in a stream.

This new exhibit aims to encourage humans to be good stewards for bears and their environment.

There is no additional cost to visit the trail. Visit www.birminghamzoo.com for more details.

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school news

ASFA Chosen for American Ballet Theatre Outreach The Alabama School of Fine Arts dance department was chosen by American Ballet Theatre (ABT) ® in New York as a partner for their outreach program, Project Pliè, in association with the Boys and Girls Club of America.

Two master classes taught by Jamie Kilgore and Martha Faesi, faculty of ASFA’s dance department, were given for children at the A.G.Gaston Boys and Girls Club’s Center for a New Generation inside Hayes K-8 School. Frank E. Adams, president and CEO of A.G. Gaston Boys and Girls Club, is an ASFA alumni and chairman of ASFA’s Board Jamie Kilgore of Trustees.

The children watched a video about Misty Copeland, ABT’s ® first African-American principal ballerina and spokesperson for Project Pliè.

Copeland’s love of dance began in ballet classes offered at a Boys and Girls Club in California.

A few students, who demonstrate strong potential in dance movement, will be chosen from the master class to receive scholarships to attend ASFA’s Ballet Preparatory Program. ASFA’s Ballet Preparatory Program offers classes to students ages 3-15 after school with ABT® certified teachers.

The ASFA Ballet Preparatory Program provides disciplined instruction in classical ballet technique with a commitment to excellence in training and etiquette. Classes are offered for students ages 3-15. For more information please contact Jamie Kilgore at jkilgore@asfa.k12.al.us.

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THE FALL 2015 SPECIAL NEEDS DIRECTORY: YOUR ONE-STOP SOURCE FOR BIRMINGHAM’S KIDS WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

Following is an abbreviated list of resources and services, both local and national, made available to Alabama residents who have children with special needs. There are a number of services offered throughout the state for parents with children with disabilities, from inclusive school care programs to music and sports teams and classes. If you know of an organization or service that should be included in the next special needs directory in THE GUIDE 2016 (January), please e-mail editor@ birminghamparent.com or fax to 205-987-7600 for updating in the next directory. Be sure to check out the advertisers that made this directory/issue possible. They are in color blocks below.

INFORMATION Alabama Association for Parents of Children with Visual Impairments www.aapvi.org 205-422-5826 Provides educational, social and recreational opportunities for families with children who are blind or have low vision, including children with multiple disabilities.

Alabama Council for Developmental Disabilities www.acdd.org 334-242-3973 or 800-232-2158 Provides educational resources for individuals with special needs and their families.

Alabama Disabilities Advocacy Program (ADAP) www.adap.net 800-826-1675 205-348-4928 Provides free legal services for disabled individuals who qualify. *Autism Society of Alabama www.autism-alabama.org 877-428-8476 or 205-383-1674 bama@autism-alabama.org The Autism Society of Alabama strives to empower individuals impacted by autism and their families through advocacy and support. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE. 15.

Birmingham Collat Jewish Family Services www.cjfsbham.org 205-879-3438 Confidential counseling and social service support for individuals and families experiencing challenges in coping with some aspect or situation in their life.

Regional Poison Control Center www.childresnal.org/rpcc 800-222-1222 A fully accredited poison center by the American Association of Poison Control Centers, providing 24/7, tollfree access to life-saving information.

Disability Rights and Resources (Jefferson, Shelby, St. Clair, Walker and Blount counties) www.drradvocates.org 205-251-2223 Empower individuals with disabilities to fully participate in the community.

Parent Connection Network of Alabama www.rehab.alabama.gov/crs 800-441-7607 or 334-293-7500 A statewide network of families who have children with special health care needs or disabilities and who are willing to share their experiences with other families.

United Way of Central Alabama Information and Referral Center www.uwca.org 205-251-5131 A community resource directory of services in Shelby, Jefferson, Walker, Blount and St. Clair counties.

CHILDCARE/DAYCARE Childcare Resources, Birmingham www.ccr-bhm.org 205-945-0018 or 800-822-2734 Assists parents with children with special needs in locating childcare and information.

United Cerebral Palsy of Greater Birmingham - Hand in Hand Early Learning Program www.ucpbham.com/our-programs/ hand-in-hand 205-944-3939 A learning program for children 6 weeks through age 4 for children with and without disabilities to maximize each child’s intellectual, physical and emotional health.

EDUCATION Alabama Institute for the Deaf and Blind www.aidb.org 256-761-3660 Alabama Parent Education Center 334-567-2252 lbarnes@alabamaparentcenter.com www.alabamaparentcenter.com Provides services and support to families of low income, minority and those with disabilities, as well as providing parents with training, information and support.

Community Outreach Special Education PTA www.cosepta.org The Community Outreach Special Education Parent Teacher Association is a member of the Birmingham Council of PTAs. Down Syndrome Alabama www.downsyndromealabama.org 205-988-0810 Promotes awareness, acceptable and advocacy for individuals with Down syndrome of all ages, their families, educators, health professionals, service providers and community. *Epilepsy Foundation of Alabama 251-371-0170 Epilepsyfoundationalabama.org Provides supportive services and direct programs to persons with epilepsy and their families. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 21.

Shades Mountain Baptist Church Hand in Hand Ministry www.shades.org/connect/ministries/ special-needs 205-822-1670 A ministry providing assistance to special needs children, adults and the elderly.

Family Voices of Alabama 877-771-3862 lisa@familyvoicesal.org www.familyvoicesal.org The state affiliate of Family Voices, a national grassroots network of families, friends and professional partners who care about children and youth with special health care needs.

The Horizons School www.horizonsschool.org 800-822-6242

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PAL – Alabama’s Parenting Assistance Line www.pal.ua.edu 866-962-3030 Provides helpful assistance to moms, dads, grandparents, and relatives whose children are ages birth through adolescence.

Parent Advocates Down Syndrome www.downsyndromealabama.org 205-988-0810 Southeastern Diabetes Education Services 205-402-0415 www.southeasterndiabetes.org VSA Arts of Alabama www.vsaalabama.org 205-307-6300 ext. 3 A statewide, nonprofit organization dedicated to providing opportunities in the arts for people with chronic illnesses and disabilities.

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Alabama Child Caring Foundation http://jeffersoncountychildren.org/ resourceDirectory/?companyID=4 205-220-5929 Alabama Family Trust mbradford@alabamafamilytrust.com 205-313-3915 www.alabamafamilytrust.com A nonprofit special needs trust that holds and administers money for the disabled so they are able to become eligible and maintain government benefits for which they would otherwise be financially ineligible.

AllKids www.adph.org/allkids 800-252-1818 Provides insurance for eligible children younger than 19. * Bradford & Holliman, LLC www.bradfordholliman.com 205-663-0281 john@bradfordholliman.com melanie@bradfordholliman.com Estate and long-term care planning for young families, blended families, the disabled, empty nesters & the elderly.

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Easter Seals Medical Assistance Grant www.eastersealsbham.org 205-942-6277 Assists in paying for medical requirements of children and adults who have disabilities and those unable to provide for their own needs.

Medicaid of Alabama www.medicaid.alabama.gov 800-362-1504

Special Needs Alliance Katherine Barr, Sirote and Permutt kbarr@sirote.com 205-930-45147 A nationwide educational organization for attorneys with advanced knowledge & experience in laws affecting persons with disabilities.

Barr is Alabama’s first attorney selected for membership.

HEALTH AND REHABILITATION 4 Paws for Ability www.4pawsforability.org 937-374-0385 Service dogs (including seizure dogs, autism dogs, hearing dogs, and others) are made available to help increase community acceptance and participation of people with disabilities.

The Adolescent Health Center at Children’s of Alabama www.childresnal.org 205-638-9231 Provides specialized medical care for teenagers. Services include primary care, nutrition, long-activing reversible contraception and eating disorder clinics.

AIDS Alabama www.mh.alabama.gov 205-324-9822 Alabama Head Injury Foundation www.ahif.org 205-823-3818 Alabama Relay Center www.alabamarelay.com 800-676-3777 Communication systems for the visually impaired and hearing impaired ARC www.thearcofalabama.org 866-243-9557 The Arc of Alabama, Inc. is a statewide volunteer membership organization which advocates for people with cognitive, intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families.

The Arc of Jefferson County www.arcofjeff.org 205-856-2912 The Arc of Shelby County www.thearcofshelby.org 205-664-9313

The Bell Center for Early Intervention Programs www.thebellcenter.org 205-879-3417 The Bell Center is dedicated to maximizing the potential of children at risk for developmental delay. *Brookwood Care Network BrookwoodCareNetwork.com 205-877-8800 The Brookwood Care Network is an extension of the Brookwood physician family, caring for patients in locations all over town – and backed by the resources of Brookwood Medical Center. Let our Family Care for Yours.

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The Charity League Hearing & Speech Center www.childresnal.org/ hearingandspeech 205-638-9149 Provides speech and audiology services to patients having or suspected of having any of the communication or hearing disorders possible in the pediatric population.

Child-Adolescent Partners, LLC 205-991-7226 www.childadolescentpartners.com Provides evidence-based professional

counseling services to children, adolescents and adults throughout central Alabama. *Child’s Play Therapy Center LLC Pediatric Occupational Therapy Services www.childsplaytherapycenter.com 205-978-9939 Occupational, physical, speech and music therapy, along with academic tutoring. Experienced loving staff and facility just for kids. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 21. *Children’s of Alabama www.childrensal.org 205-638-9100 Children’s of Alabama has provided specialized medical care for ill and injured children since 1911, offering inpatient, outpatient, and primary care services throughout Alabama. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 15.

Children’s of Alabama Physical Therapy & Occupational Therapy Department Hospital: 205-638-9645 Clinic: 205-638-6289 Provides hospital and outpatient therapy services for children to support development, movement, play and daily activities.

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Children’s Rehabilitation Service 205-290-4550 www.rehab.alabama.gov Children’s Rehabilitation Service is a statewide organization of professionals providing quality medical, rehabilitative, coordination and support services for children with special health care needs and their families.

CHIPS Center (Children’s Hospital Intervention and Prevention Services) www.childresnal.org/CHIPS 205-638-2751 Provides free services to children and families affected by child abuse.

Services include non-emergent medical examinations, counseling and prevention education.

Disability Determination Services http://ssa.gov 205-989-2100 Easter Seals Pediatric Therapy www.eastersealsbham.org 205-621-6503 Provides physical, occupational, and speech therapy to children with special needs ages birth to 21 regardless of ability to pay for services. *Focal Point Child’sPlay Therapy Center 205-968-4157 www.childsplaytherapycenter.com Focal Point is a program developed to specifically target improved processing, organizational and attention skills for children with ADD or ADHD utilizing cutting edge technologies. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 27.

Full Life Ahead www.fulllifeahead.org 205-439-6534, 866-700-2026 Empowers the person with a disability to live as independently as possible.

Glenwood, Inc. www.glenwood.org 205-969-2880 or 877-295-8425 Glenwood was created for the purpose of educating and treating individuals diagnosed with autism, emotional disturbances and mental illnesses.

Hands, LLC 205-733-0976 Services include one-on-one behavior based therapy for children 2 to 18, social skills groups, workshops and support groups.

Lakeshore Foundation www.lakeshore.org 205-313-7400

promoting independence for adults and children with physical disabPALling conditions and opportunities to pursue active healthy lifestyles. *Med Center Hoover Urgent Care-Family Medicine www.medcenterurgentcare.com 205-822-1150 Serving patients in Hoover and surrounding area, our physicians are board-certified in emergency medicine & family medicine. Offering care and treatment for non-life threatening illnesses & injuries.

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Mitchell’s Place www.mitchells-place.com 205-957-0294 Comprehensive treatment center for children and young adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). *Pediatric Therapy Associates, Inc. www.pediatricptot.com 205-823-1215 Programs focus on specialized individual physical and occupational therapy services. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 21. *Seraaj Family Homes, Inc. www.seraajfh.com (205) 942-7516 info@seraajfh.com Seraaj Family Homes, Inc. is a nationally accredited child-placing agency. Become a Foster or an Adoptive Parent for a child with Therapeutic or Special Needs! SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 23. *SPEECHTraxx LLC 888-899-3503 – FREE CALL www.speechtraxx.com Provides speech therapy through teletherapy web sessions for individuals with impairments in speech (articulation), language (understanding, attention, listening) and swallowing. SEE OUR AD ON PAGE 25.

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University of Montevallo - Speech and Hearing Center 205-665-6720 Assists children with communicative problems in obtaining diagnostic and therapeutic services; training of students majoring in speech language pathology.

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ESTATE PLANNING

is Critical for Parents with Special Needs Children

By Melanie Bradford This article is intended for general educational purposes and is not to be regarded as legal advice.

Seek counsel for your specific situation from an experienced estate planning attorney.

Parents of children with special needs juggle many daily demands to provide for the needs of their children. Often, even though the parents know estate planning is important, it is pushed to the bottom of the “to-do” list. While this is understandable, it is very dangerous for a parent to gamble that the parent will not die prematurely; or worse, that both parents die prematurely in a tragic event. The same is true for aging parents as plans must be made for what happens to the child when the parent dies.

THE FIRST STEP: Parents need to answer: Who will be responsible for caring for my child’s physical, medical, and social needs when I die or become disabled? Parents also need to answer: Who will be responsible for managing my assets for my child’s benefit when I die or become disabled? The same person may serve in both roles, or the parent may appoint different people to serve in those roles. For example, Aunt Sally may be a great caregiver but a horrible money manager. If that is the case, the parent may want to appoint 16 | birminghamparent | september 2015

Aunt Sally as the caregiver but appoint a professional trustee to manage the money.

REVIEW YOUR ASSETS: What do you own?

Do you have enough liquid assets to take care of the disabled child? Is the bulk of your assets tied up in the family home? If so, where will the money come from to take care of the child?

Where will the child live if the home must be sold to provide for the child’s needs? Do you have life insurance? Do you have enough life insurance to provide for the child’s needs during his or her lifetime?

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF: Who will provide for your care if you become disabled through an accident or an illness, such as Alzheimer’s? Decide who will handle your financial matters and health care matters if you become disabled and appoint an agent through a durable power of attorney. Decide what will happen to you if life support or artificial nutrition becomes an issue if you are terminal or in a permanent vegetative state. Do you want a living will, (Advanced Health Care Directive) or do you want your agent to make these decisions?

YOUR LONG-TERM CARE: Do you have long term care insurance to provide for your needs so your assets are not depleted caring for your needs? Remember your estate plan only covers what you own at death. If your assets are exhausted providing for your care during your lifetime, your child may not inherit anything.

THE CRITICAL STEP – MAKE IT LEGAL: It is not enough to answer these questions.

Parents need to be certain that their wishes are set out legally. Telling your family verbally what you wish to happen will not be sufficient.

Without a Last Will and Testament or a Living Trust, Alabama state law will determine how your estate is distributed. Further, Alabama state law will determine who becomes guardian of your child. To exercise your right to make those decisions, you must have the proper legal documents.

It is important for all individuals to receive proper legal guidance to implement an estate plan. However, it is especially important for parents of disabled children.

Do not attempt to write legal documents yourself, purchase forms, or copy something from the Internet or any other source. Too much is at stake. You need legal counsel that is experienced in dealing with estate planning for families with disabled members.

DON’T FORGET THE SPECIAL NEEDS TRUST: Parents with disabled children cannot afford to leave assets directly to their disabled child or even to another family member with instructions to take care of the child.

Why? Leaving assets directly to the disabled child will likely cause the child to have too many assets to qualify for SSI and Medicaid.

Leaving assets to another person in the hopes that the other person will care for the child is dangerous as the person could be sued and lose the assets, get a divorce and lose the assets, or decide to be stingy and keep the assets.

Establishing a Last Will and Testament or Living Trust that has a Special Needs Trust component protects the disabled child. The child will benefit from the assets placed in the trust, but the trust will not be considered when the government reviews the case to see if the child meets financial program requirements.

If the parent establishes the trust inside the parent’s Last Will and Testament or

It is not enough to answer these questions. Parents need to be certain that their wishes are set out legally. Telling your family verbally what you wish to happen will not be sufficient.

Living Trust, the parent gets to determine what happens to any remaining assets at the disabled child’s death. In other words, the parent may state that any remaining assets go to the disabled child’s siblings when the disabled child dies.

If the parent fails to establish a trust, as stated before, the assets will likely prevent the child from getting additional government benefits. This can be remedied by having a guardian for the disabled child place the assets into a special needs trust.

However, in this instance, the trust would need a Medicaid pay-back provision that states Medicaid is reimbursed for any benefits it has provided for the child at the time of the child’s death. If any assets remain after Medicaid is reimbursed, the assets can be distributed to other individuals. Obviously, it is much better for the parents to establish the trust in their estate planning documents.

NAME A TRUSTEE: A special needs trust is governed by federal and state law. A trustee must have knowledge of these laws to properly administer a special needs trust. It is not advisable for a family member or friend to try to administer the trust without professional guidance.

Professional trustees are usually named to administer a special needs trust. A low-cost option for many families is the Alabama Family Trust. The Alabama Family Trust is a non-profit 501(c)(3) company, located in Vestavia Hills that serves the role of trustee for special needs trusts.

The role of Alabama Family Trust is to make certain the money is distributed properly so the child has his or her supplemental needs met; but, does not lose government benefits.

The board of trustees is made up of experienced elder law attorneys and other professionals with knowledge of social security and Medicaid regulations. Parents have the peace of mind that the trustee will be there long-term for the disabled child and that the money will be managed properly. Fees are very minimal.

The initial set-up fee and a 1/6 percent annual administrative fee on the income earned (not the principal) are much lower than other professional trustees. In oversight at an affordable price. For more information about Alabama Family Trust, or for information about fees and requirements to establish a trust, go to www.alabamafamilytrust.com.

Melanie B. Bradford is a local attorney and executive director for Alabama Family Trust. birminghamparent.com | 17

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WINGS FOR AUTISM™

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People with autism spectrum disorders or other intellectual disabilities, their families and airline personnel will get the chance to learn together how to make the airport check-in and airline boarding process easier.

From 4-8 p.m. Saturday, September 26 at the Birmingham-Shuttlesworth International Airport, the first Birmingham Wings For Autism™ event will be held for people ages 3 to 26 with intellectual disabilities, along with their families. They will practice entering the airport, obtain boarding passes, go through security and board a plane to learn safety procedures. The plane will not take off, but will taxi around the airport.

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Wings for Autism™ is a national Arc organization program that helps people ages 3-26 with intellectual disabilities, their families and airport personnel learn how to help each other when boarding an airplane. It helps take away the anxiety and confusion that often comes with such a different experience.

Birmingham’s first event is Saturday, September 26 from 4-8pm at the Birmingham-Shuttlesworth International Airport.

Delta is the sponsoring aircraft, and the event is presented

by The Arc of Jefferson County and the Birmingham Airport Authority.

Many people who have autism and intellectual disabilities have tried unsuccessfully or have not had the confidence to travel by air. “It can be overwhelming and stressful, and this will help,” says Scarlet Thompson, vice president of development of The Arc of Jefferson County.

Another great feature of the program is that it also trains airport personnel on how to best help people with intellectual disabilities navigate the airport. Airport, airline, Transportation Security Administration professionals and other personnel will be able to observe, interact and deliver their services in a structured learning environment.

Each participant gets to bring one caregiver onboard the aircraft, and a reception follows to celebrate the experience.

Wings For Autism™ is a national Arc program.

Space fills quickly, so registration for the free program is required. Register online at www.arcofjeff.org. Each participant will receive a Delta Airlines goody bag and a T-shirt, Thompson says. For more information or if there are questions, call Thompson at 205-705-1836.

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Debra Jenkins, far right, and some of the students at Merrimack Hall.

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MERRIMACK HALL IN HUNTSVILLE SERVES THE SPECIAL NEEDS COMMUNITY

By Carol Muse Evans

In 2006, Debra and Alan Jenkins founded Merrimack Hall Performing Arts Center, a nonprofit arts outreach, as a gift to the people of Huntsville to offer visual and performing arts education, cultural activities and more.

“We wanted to do something for the arts, which we are passionate about,” Debra Jenkins says. They purchased the old Merrimack Hall textile mill and started with $2.5 million. They remodeled and created a 302-seat theatre similar to Birmingham’s Virginia Samford Theatre.

Though Merrimack started off as booking only professional shows for performances there, it quickly became evident that there was an outreach opportunity as well.

In 2007, Merrimack extended its outreach to children and adults with special needs, and to provide professional entertainment to the community. Today, the performance theatre still sees a few traveling shows, but performances, classes and even day care for Merrimack’s special needs students have virtually taken over.

About 267 volunteers and 503 students later, the center is now host to 21 classes each week – music, theatre, dance, tap, choir, 20 | birminghamparent | september 2015

creative writing, yoga and general fitness for people with special needs. Its DayHabilitation Program for young adults (day care), serves about 60 adults from age 18 to middle 60s. A day program also serves these adults in music therapy, yoga therapy visual arts, life skills and even field trips.

“We really want to grow all the activities,” Jenkins says. “We need to grow the day activities, because when these young adults graduate, there is rarely anything for them.

“Creating jobs will give them a sense of pride, accomplishment, and there is independence in a job,” Jenkins explains. “This is our five-year goal.”

In 2010, the Johnny Stallings Art Program was born – a tribute to Coach Gene Stallings’ late son with special needs and to serve children and teens with special needs. On July 10 that year, Gene Stallings came to Merrimack Hall to speak about his son and raise money for Merrimack Hall’s arts education programs for children with special needs. This is when the folks at Merrimack decided to dedicate its three outreach/arts education programs to Stallings’ son: Dance Your Dreams, Camp Merrimack and Project UP. continued on p. 22

Merrimack Hall is home to the Johnny Stallings Art Program. Here, Coach Gene Stallings talks with a student.

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“Normal is a dryer setting.”

– Debra Jenkins, founder

John Mark “John” Stallings, son of legendary Alabama coach Gene Stallings, defied the odds he was given at birth and became a beloved figure on the Alabama sidelines and in the locker room, as well as serving as an assistant to the Dallas Cowboys, where his father later coached. Now, Johnny Stallings is honored and remembered with the programs that carry his name: Dance Your Dream, for ages 3-12; Project Up, a show choir, for ages 13 and older; and Inspired Hearts, a visual arts program, for ages 10 and up. Also, Camp Merrimack for ages 3-12 is a half-day day camp every summer.

The Huntsville Times and al.com selected Jenkins as one of the “Ten Most Influential People in Madison County” in 2014 because of her work on behalf of people with special needs. She was selected by Meredith Publishing Company to receive the 2009 Classic Woman Award, a national award given annually in New York City to women who are making a difference in their communities as a volunteer. She and Alan were named Madison County’s Humanitarians of the Year of 2012. Jenkins says she has found her life’s calling and believes, “People with special needs are only limited by the labels we choose to give them.

And,” she points out, “Normal is a dryer setting.”

Recently Merrimack Hall began the Merrimack Hall Leadership Academy, offering basic leadership development for high school students to help start the next generation of leaders.

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Safety for those with Autism Spectrum Disorders: THREE PROGRAMS CAN HELP GIVE FAMILIES PEACE OF MIND

By Bama Hager, Ph.D.

The Autism Society of Alabama (ASA) has focused on safety during recent years and continues to develop safety tools and suggestions for families with members diagnosed on the autism spectrum.

There have been several recent media stories related to safety and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Because of communication and sensory challenges inherent in ASD, children and adults living on the autism spectrum are more likely to come in contact with first responders, exhibit behaviors that may be misinterpreted and wander from safety.

Here are three major programs that will help improve safety for those on the autism spectrum and their families:

In collaboration with Autism Risk and Safety Management, ASA is organizing First Responder Trainings throughout Alabama.

Those with developmental disabilities are seven times more likely than others to come in contact with a first responder.

Dustin Chandler, Autism Risk and Safety Management first responder trainer, travels to law enforcement agencies and fire and rescue departments to conduct trainings. These sessions are designed to educate first responders about the challenges associated with ASD that may impair communication between an individual and a first responder.

Police officers, fire fighters and emergency medical technicians who are trained to interact with those on the autism spectrum may avoid miscommunications, unnecessary detainments and injuries. During interactions with first responders, the challenges of language processing speed and communication skills associated with ASD may at times appear to be noncompliance or oppositional behavior, when there is no intent for such behavior. Trainings have improved relations between first responders and community members.

Card in the U.S. The card can be used by anyone with ASD and was created particularly for independent teens and adults with ASD who may come in contact with first responders. The card is available at county health departments in Alabama and costs $10. The application can be printed from the Alabama Department of Public Health website or the ASA website.

The card can be carried by a child or adult and can be presented to communicate to a community member that the owner of the card may display behaviors associated with autism.

ASA worked closely with the state legislature and the Alabama Department of Public Safety to develop the first Autism Identification

Bama Hager, Ph.D. is a parent of a 15-year-old son who has autism. She is program and policy director at the Autism Society of Alabama.

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Autism Society of Alabama also advocated for Project Lifesaver, a program that can locate children or adults on the autism spectrum who wander, roam or bolt from safety. Project Lifesaver is in 61 of Alabama’s 67 counties so far. Families are encouraged to contact their county sheriff’s department to request the Project Lifesaver wrist or ankle bracelet. The bracelet emits a tracking signal that can be used to locate a lost loved one. The program has no cost, or a nominal fee to the participant. The bracelet is put on by the sheriff’s department, is waterproof and difficult to remove.

RESOURCES: Autism Society of Alabama (Information, resources, safety programs) www.autism-alabama.org 1-877-428-8476 Bama Hager, bamah@ autism-alabama.org Autism Risk and Safety Management (First responder training) http://www.autismriskmanagement.com/ Alabama Department of Public Health (Autism Identification Card application) http://adph.org/disability/ assets/AutismSpecDisCardRegForm.pdf Project Lifesaver (Wrist or ankle bracelets to locate a loved one) http://www.projectlifesaver.org

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By Lori Chandler Pruitt

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So school’s started and the kids are all right…but what about Mom? She’s been frantically shopping for new clothes, school supplies and lunchbox goodies – and may already be pooped by the time the first bell rings.

Before the school year really gets busy with sports, band and dance, why not take a girlfriends getaway? In only a few hours, you can be relaxing at the Grand Hotel Marriott Resort, Golf Club & Spa in Point Clear.

The Grand, on beautiful Mobile Bay, is consistently ranked one of the top Marriott resorts for guest satisfaction, spas, pools, dining and golf. There are 405 large guest rooms in five buildings on 550 acres, seven restaurants and lounges, and has been named one of Travel + Leisure’s Top 500 Hotels in the World. Conde Nast Traveler named it one of the “Best Resorts in the South” in the 2014 Readers’ Choice Awards.

The praise goes on and on – but all you need to know is that you and your friends will be thrilled from the start with friendly, helpful staff, fantastic accommodations, a beautiful, private adult pool (with pool butlers), the beauty of Mobile Bay, a world-class, full-service spa, gift shop, fitness center, beautiful grounds, two beaches on the bay, tennis, golf, dining and more.

Seven restaurants offer fine and casual dining options. There is fresh seafood from Mobile Bay and the Gulf of Mexico; the Grand Steakhouse offers great selections along with spectacular views, and received the AAA Four-Diamond Award.

Restaurants and lounges also

are available poolside, and there is a coffeehouse, too. The hotel offers culinary classes the third weekend of the month with a Friday night beverage class and a Saturday morning cooking class.

This hotel is a historic landmark, having served as a Confederate hospital during the Civil War. Opened in 1847, it is known throughout the South as “The Queen of Southern Resorts,” with many well-known guests staying here throughout the years, from American presidents and captains of industry. The Grand celebrated the 150th anniversary of the Battle of Mobile Bay last year, and has a daily patriotic military salute and cannon firing at 4 p.m.

It was named the Top Historic

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Hotel in 2013 by Historic Hotels of America.

Yet for all its history, additions, renovations and other amenities have made this a popular destination all its own. The hotel underwent a $50 million major renovation in 2006 following Hurricane Katrina, and rooms were renovated in 2010. The Grand is part of the Renaissance hotels group, and the Robert Trent Jones Golf Trail.

For more to enjoy, there is a 37-slip marina at the resort that includes boat charters for guests.

Or, drive the short distance along the bay to the picturesque city of Fairhope, known for unique, one-of-kind shops and cafes/ restaurants; it’s easy to park and walk. Shops offer clothing,

gifts, art, home décor, antiques and much more. There’s also a small grocery store for anything you might have forgotten. A full listing of downtown Fairhope merchants can be found online at www.fairhopemerchants.com.

By the way, the Grand also is well-known for its family-friendly atmosphere and kids activities, so check out the amenities and packages and take the whole crew next time! For more information, go to www. marriottgrand.com.

Lori Chandler Pruitt is associate editor of Birmingham Parent and loves to take a beach trip with her sister every summer.

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Why Planning for Camp is Planning for Your Child’s Future

By Todd Kestin LCSW, Life Skills Mentor

Since Junior’s birth, you’ve been socking away savings from every paycheck to ensure he has money for college. After all, responsible parents make sure he has the education to prepare him for the workforce, to care for himself and his family.

When he leaves for college, your heart swells with pride, hope, and a little trepidation. Will he do well? Is he ready for all that freedom? Will he make the most of your investment?

Two semesters later, he comes home whipped, defeated, demoralized. While he had the grades to get into that Ivy League college, he didn’t have the life skills to succeed.

There’s more to preparing for adulthood than academic education. If kids spend their summers in camp, they’d be better prepared for later decisions such as whether to go to college, and how to make the best life for who they are.

Kids, especially teens, need mentors they trust separate from their parents. These role models provide guidance and help them prepare for their adult lives by helping them lay the foundation now.

I started camp as a 10-yearold, and didn’t stop till I was in my 20s. Though many may view this as parents getting rid of kids for the summer, my parents told me it was an investment to set me up to be a more independent, confident person. They were so right.

Camp taught me how to grow up. It taught me to take responsibility, and the importance of meaningful relationships in life.

Before I started attending camp I had friends, but no significant relationships that I viewed as important. In fact, I had no idea what that even meant.

I didn’t need to be “cool” at camp. It was the first place I could truly be myself, and was accepted for who I was. In fact, I felt pretty cool for the first time.

My self-esteem was boosted, my confidence increased, and I learned about investing myself in things that matter.

An interesting thing happens at camp when kids are taken out of their usual environment. The rules change. Everything changes. Authenticity is rewarded.

Responsibility is cool. Maturity adds clout. If it weren’t for camp, I would never have been ready for college, which led to graduate school, and the mentoring career I enjoy now. It was a natural progression that began in camp.

As a camp counselor, I learned the importance of putting attention on others. The older I grew, the more I learned to be at camp for the campers, rather than for myself. As I grew as a camp

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counselor and worked with the kids, my personal development transformed as I spent time with them to give them a meaningful, significant experience that wouldn’t go away. It changed me, and it changed them. As my focus turned away from myself and I became focused on others, well, that was a huge piece of the growing up process.

Without this type of experience, kids often flounder through their teens and early twenties, unsure how to choose valuable friends, make life decisions and have the confidence to pursue their dreams.

For me, camp was a big group of mentors I looked up to, who gave me amazing advice, guided me on my journey, taught me lessons about growing up, showed me the importance of meaningful relationships, and, most important, how to find them.

Through my development in the camp experience, I learned how to leave camp and go back to school and find valuable friends.

By the time I was in high school I had learned how to surround myself with people who would bring the most value to my life. I wasn’t born with this important skill, I learned it at camp.

Kids need to learn how to develop this skill at a young age. To choose the people they put around them who will help them in their own development, push them to be successful, take chances, and show them how to be a good friend.

Whether your child has the funds to go to college or not, his future growth and management of life depend on how he’s living today. Sometimes I think we as parents forget what’s important now. We’re so focused on what is necessary later, we don’t realize we need to set our kids up now to have the skills to live later.

So, saving funds for college is important, but saving for camp each year can really change a life.

Let’s let our kids decide if college is important to them when the time comes. Let’s give them the tools necessary for them to make the decisions that will catapult them forward.

Give them the gift of camp.

If you wonder why I’m posting this at the end of summer rather than the beginning, here’s why. The new school year is beginning. You have nine months to save for next year’s camp.

Make it happen for your child’s future success.

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Sharing the Joy of Generosity A pacifier, a bottle, a favorite toy, a security blanket – these are some of the first things that a young child senses are uniquely their own. But as toddlers age into the years of interactive play with their peers, and their landscape of ‘things’ broadens, learning to share can be the difference between frustrated tears and peace in the realm. The following titles explore the natural feelings children experience regarding their possessions (or things they want to possess) and open up positive conversations about sharing. With a focus on the good feelings that sharing can generate, these books give a boost to the joy of generosity!

Red Panda’s Candy Apples

By Ruth Paul (Candlewick Press)

Red Panda makes the best sticky and sweet candy apples. So he decides to make some to sell, looking forward to the reward of coins in his jar. But he soon discovers that it’s hard to let go of something that you’d like to keep (and eat) yourself. Red Panda’s brisk business quickly leaves him with only one apple left, and his last two customers fighting over it. When the struggle over the last apple turns to tears, Red Panda remembers a secret solution that will let everyone enjoy a candy apple. Exploring the mixed feelings that we get when we share the things we love, the real joy of giving comes to the fore in this sweet title.

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Bernice is having a lousy time at her friend’s party. She receives the only piece of cake without a frosting rose. The pinata is opened before she even has a chance to take a swing at it (and the only candy she finds from it is one stepped-on gumdrop). But when the balloons arrive, Bernice isn’t taking any chances. She grabs the all the balloons – which quickly lift her up and away from the party! As Bernice floats away, she passes others who are having equally bad days. Sharing her bounty of balloons becomes the key to boosting the moods of others as well as getting Bernice back down to the party. Touching on the real feelings that can spark possessive reactions, Harrison’s expressive illustrations relate the journey to generosity with warm humor that will delight both children and adult read-aloud partners.

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Children playing together for the first time can be a dance of mutual discovery as kids feel out each other’s boundaries, seek out common interests, and learn what things are sometimes hard to share. When Llama Llama meets new neighbor Nelly Gnu for the first time, he’s not sure what they will both enjoy playing together. After a cautious start, the two slowly discover a shared interest in building blocks and it looks like the play date is going to be successful. But when Nelly starts to play with Llama Llama’s beloved Fuzzy Llama doll, all bets are off as tears (the wet kind) and tears (the ripping kind) erupt between the new playmates. With parents to help guide the way, Llama Llama and Nelly find a path toward sharing that mends the moment and paves the way toward smoother shared play in the future for these new friends.

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Getting There Safely: The Importance of Proper Car Seats for Children

By Carol Muse Evans

Car crashes are a leading cause of death for children 1 to 13 years old, and many times deaths and injuries can be prevented by proper use of car seats, boosters and seat belts, according to www.trafficsafetymarketing.gov. During Child Passenger Safety Week, Sept. 13-19, the emphasis is on making sure your child is traveling safely.

Child Passenger Safety Week, Sept. 13-19 RESOURCES www.childresnal.org www.safekids.org www.cpsalabama.org www.safecar.gov

BREAKING THE LAW As Pinkerton points out, failure to use a car seat in many cases is against the law. However, if a parent breaks the law it costs approximately $25 with no court costs, though you do receive “points” on your driver’s license for each offense. Charges are dismissed in some places with proof of getting a car seat, and a portion of the fine is used to provide vouchers for child restraints to low-income families.

HOW DOES IT KEEP MY CHILD SAFE? What’s even worse than breaking the law, both professionals say, is the failure to keep your child safe in a traffic accident. The Children in Crashes Traffic Facts report from the National Center for Statistics and Analysis included 2013 crash data related to children, and the numbers were disturbing.

Of the 32,719 traffic fatalities in the U.S. in 2013, 4 percent were children 14 and younger, a 2 percent increase from 2012. In 2013, motor vehicle traffic crashes were the leading

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THE BASICS According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children should be in a rear-facing car seat up to age 2 years or until they have outgrown the weight and height of their car seat, says Marie Crew, coordinator of Safe Kids Alabama, a Children’s of Alabama lead organization. “Car seats should be rear facing for children up to 35-40 lbs. for up to 3-4 years old and at least 2 years old,” she says.

States are making it a law to ride rear-facing up to 2 years old, says Allana Pinkerton, certified child passenger safety technical and global safety advocate for Diono (us. diono.com). “As of 2006, Alabama law says that a child at least 1 year or 20 pounds must be in a rear-facing infant or rear-facing convertible seat, and at least 5 years or 40 pounds must be in a forward-facing convertible or forward-facing car seat, and until 6 in a booster seat.”

“After the child outgrows the rear-facing seat, a child should be ‘harnessed’ in a 5-point harness as long as possible, to the limits of the car seat, and at least until 4 years old and 40 pounds, minimum,” Crew adds. “Once they outgrow the harness, they should go to a booster seat.

The booster seat allows the vehicle’s seatbelt to fit them properly, as car seat belts are designed to fit adults.”

Crew recommends staying in a booster seat until the child is about 4 feet 9 inches tall, or from 8-12 years old, and keeping the child in the back seat, away from front air bags, until at least age 13. Crew also points out that Alabama law regarding child restraint in vehicles does not meet the Alabama Academy of Pediatrics or National Highway Safety guidelines.

cause of death for children age 4 and the second leading cause of child age 3 and every age in 2014. According to the report, child safety seats reduce the risk of fatal injuries by 71 percent for infants and 54 percent for toddlers.

“With the wrong seat belt, or an improperly fitted restraint belt, a child can be ejected in a car accident or slide under the seatbelt,” Crew explains. If the seatbelt does not fit on the bones properly, it can allow significant organ damage in an accident.”

KEEPING UP TO DATE In an ever-changing industry, parents can rest assured that the seats currently on store shelves meet federal standards, Pinkerton says. “However, some car seat manufacturers tout more safety features, and they do have them. Visiting a Certified Child Passenger Safety Technician with a current certification card can help guide parents…you can find one in Alabama at www.cpsalabama.org,” Pinkerton adds.

A car seat inspection station is available, by appointment, at Children’s of Alabama through Safe Kids, Crew adds. The appointment line is open Mondays and Wednesdays only from 8:30 a.m-4:30 p.m. Call 800-504-9768 or 205-638-9900 to make an appointment.

Parents can stay up to date on car seat recalls at www. cpsalabama.org, Pinkerton says, and www.safekids.org, Crew says. “Parents need to be role models for wearing seatbelts,” Crew adds. “And while driving with older children, this is an excellent time to talk about safety. It’s never too early.”

Carol Muse Evans is publisher and editor of Birmingham Parent.

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According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, breast milk is by far the best first food for babies. Breast milk has many advantages over the formula alternative and provides all of the protein, sugar, fat and vitamins that babies need to be healthy. But breast milk is not just nutritionally superior; it also plays a crucial role in protecting babies from diseases and infections.

Through a process called passive immunity, a mother’s antibodies are transferred to her baby through her milk, protecting the newborn until the immune system is mature enough to fight infections on its own. As a result, the likelihood of your baby vomiting, wheezing or developing ear infections, diarrhea, pneumonia, meningitis, and/or bronchitis is reduced.

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I’m sure I don’t have to tell you grandparents how important you are to your grandchild(ren). You are so much more than an occasional babysitter. You teach without it even seeming like you are, and your wisdom is soaked up better than any lecture from a parent.

You may not realize just how profoundly you affect your grandchildren. To keep your connection with them alive, read on for 10 traditions you can start with your grandchildren.

By Kerri McLoughlin

Most of them are pretty adaptable so you can continue them as your grandchildren grow.

1 Explore your “stuff” with them.

see “The Nutcracker.” If your grandson loves trains, take him on a train ride.

Why have you kept what you have over the years? Take the kids on a tour of your attic, basement and special treasures throughout the house. Kids learn so much about you and about history through this tradition.

2 Go fishing. Boys and girls alike are always up for a short bout of fishing, either on a boat, off a dock or in a nearby pond. They not only learn how to bait a hook and cast the line, but their faces light up when they actually catch a fish. And if they don’t … well, you still get some time to find out what’s on their mind.

3 Take a girl on a day of beauty or do your own at home. My girls love it when Grandma Mac brushes their hair because she is so patient and gentle and talks to them so lovingly while doing it. A simple session of nail painting can be very relaxing and the perfect time for a girl-to-girl chat.

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5 Snuggle up and read some stories, no matter how old your grandchild is.

Make up stories, create some and write them down in a notebook and illustrate them, too.

Tell them what your child (their parent) was like at their age and some of the messes they got into. My parents love to tell my kids how I used a poison ivy leaf as a powder puff once … and paid the price!

6 Write each of your grandchildren a letter. You can write one when each is born, sharing your feelings about their birth and hopes for their future. You can write one later, giving advice and pointing out their strengths. Write one just for milestones or write one every year … it’s up to you. Trust me, it will be treasured.

7 Teach a skill. Do you crochet, build furniture, paint, cook the best chicken and noodles in the state? Could you teach your grandchild how to start a budget, how to care for cows, how to grow blackberries? Tutu (my

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8 Play a game, throw a ball. You can play something your grandchild wants to play, like Candyland, or tackle something you want to teach, like checkers, chess or gin rummy. While Poppy is always good for a game of marbles on the floor, Papa Dave makes them scream by hiding and then chasing them around the yard and house.

9 Take your grandchild on a trip for a great learning opportunity, and make some special memories in the process.

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september highlights Have a day of fun on Labor Day! On Monday, September 7, go to McWane Science Center for You Build It from 8am-5pm. Get ready for a constructive day with a “block” party inside the museum.

From Legos to Lincoln Logs, there is something for all ages!

Building challenges throughout the building. Kids between the ages of 2-10 can create a “Big Blue Blocks” structure and enter a national competition. Information, www.mcwane.org.

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Enjoy a beautiful fall evening at the ASO Symphony 30 Annual Family Picnic at 5pm. Eat dinner and enjoy family activities while listening to the Alabama Symphony Orchestra perform! Symphony 30 is a support group of the ASO consisting of young women who support and promote the activities of the orchestra among the 25-40 age group. Information, tickets, www.alabamasymphony.org.

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There’s a reason the Middle Eastern Food Festival is celebrating its 34th year this year! Live music, dancing, vendors – and of course, the homemade food! This year’s festival will be held September 17-19 at Saint George Melkite Catholic Church, 425 16th Ave. S. Featuring return Arabic musical artist Amin Sultan and his band, parish dancers, vendors and homemade Middle Eastern food. Food sold all day from 10:30am9pm on-site; delivery available; drive-thru service available each day until 7pm. Information, www. saintgeorgeonline.org or on Facebook.

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LABOR DAY You Build It 8am-5pm, McWane Science Center. Calling all builders!

Get ready for a constructive day at McWane with a “block” party inside the museum. From Legos to Lincoln Logs, there is something for all ages! Building challenges throughout the building. Kids between the ages of 2-10 can create a “Big Blue Blocks” structure and enter a national competition.

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From 2-4pm – and in fact, all month – The Dance Foundation holds its Bargain Costume Closet sale! The main sale will be Sunday, September 13 at 1715 27th Court, Homewood. Shop for gently-used costumes! No entry fee to shop. The sale will continue through September, and donations welcome. Visit www.thedancefoundation.org for needs and details. 205-870-0073.

1 TUESDAY Committed to a Cure Bone Marrow Registry Drive Noon-5pm, September 1; 7am5pm September 2, Children’s of Alabama performance area. The Alabama Center for Childhood Cancer and Blood Disorders at Children’s is partnering with “Be the Match” bone marrow donor registry in a regional effort to add names to the national registry of those willing to donate bone marrow. Wear your team colors!

Prospective donors need only complete paperwork and conduct a simple mouth swab.

Free parking in Children’s 5th Avenue parking deck.

Information, www.bethematch. org, www.childrensal.org.

5 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-noon, 1130 22nd St. South.

Rain or shine. Fresh produce and much more.

East Lake Market 8am-noon, East Lake United Methodist Church. Farmers market.

Mt Laurel Farmers Market 8am-noon, Town of Mt Laurel.

Valleydale Farmers Market 8am-noon, 4601 Valleydale Road.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Fun and learning for preschool children and their families. www.freshairfamily. org. FREE. Bart’s Art Cart: Drumming up Fun! 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features

Have a Blast on Rosh Hashanah Noon, Levite Jewish Community Center. Celebrate the Jewish New Year and learn how to get the most out of the High Holidays. Lunch provided by Bo’s Kosher Café. Cost: $8.50.

RSVP to Mindy by Sept. 3. www.bhamjcc.org.

12 SATURDAY 6th Annual Head Over Teal 5K/10K/Family Fun Day 8am-noon, Hoover Preserve Town Hall. 5K/10K race at 8am, followed by a 1-mile fun run. Awards given afterwards.

Children’s activities, food and live music. Registration, information, www.thinkoflaura. org/HeadOverTeal. Proceeds benefit the Laura Crandall Brown Ovarian Cancer Foundation. (251) 802-2668.

Pepper Place Market 7am-noon, 1130 22nd St. South.

Rain or shine. Fresh produce and much more.

PLEASE NOTE: Events may change after publication deadline; please phone ahead to confirm important information. The deadline for submitting calendar items for the October 2015 issue is September 4. Mail calendar items to: Calendar, Birmingham Parent, 3590B Hwy 31 S #289, Pelham, AL 35124; fax to 987-7600; e-mail to calendar@ BirminghamParent.com; or enter directly to the online calendar at www.birminghamparent.com. Entries added online after the print deadline will not appear in the print version. Information cannot be accepted over the phone. Birmingham Parent publishes a calendar 11 times a year. January events are included in the December issue.

Guidelines: Birmingham Parent’s calendar is intended to be a resource and service to the community and our readers. Events which are open to the public, fund-raisers, free classes, etc., are events that may be included in our monthly calendar. We reserve the right to reject any event or listing due to rules or space restrictions. For questions regarding calendar entries, call 987-7700 or e-mail calendar@birminghamparent.com.

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calendar East Lake Market 8am-noon, East Lake United Methodist Church. Farmers market.

Mt Laurel Farmers Market 8am-noon, Town of Mt Laurel.

Valleydale Farmers Market 8am-noon, 4601 Valleydale Road.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

Fun and learning for preschool children and their families. www.freshairfamily.org.

FREE. Bart’s Art Cart: Drumming up Fun! 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features a different theme from our galleries and art activity each month.

This month: welcome the return of fall with music and dancing! Make your own drum and stick to ring in the harvest season.

Southeastern Outings at Oak Mountain State Park 11:30am, Oak Mountain State Park lower fishing lake. Potluck picnic at Mallard Pavilion; bring a dish of food to share, a drink and folding lawn chairs. SEO will furnish plates, cups, utensils, napkins and ice. Afterwards, enjoy boating on the lake in your own boat, or rent a canoe or kayak, or hiking along the shore.

Information, Acyenith Alexander, 205529-2253, Dan Frederick, 205-631-4680 or seoutings@bellsouth.net; or Edd Spencer, 205-991-1045.

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15 TUESDAY Harvest of Hope Luncheon 10am, silent auction, 11:30am luncheon, Cahaba Grand Conference Center.

Pelham Mayor Gary Waters is keynote speaker; Janet Hall of Fox 6, is mistress of ceremonies, and The Wilson Hill Band will provide musical entertainment. Benefitting Oak Mountain Missions Ministries and is the group’s only fundraiser of the year.

Donations raised from this luncheon provide for many clients who need help. Information, Dianne Cesario, 205685-5757, oakmtnmissions@yahoo.com.

ASFA Tuesday Tour 3:30pm, Alabama School of Fine Arts lobby. Students and parents can take a tour of the school and learn about the application and audition process for the following school year. No appointment necessary.

17 THURSDAY 34th Annual Middle Eastern Food Festival September 17-19, Saint George Melkite Catholic Church, 425 16th Ave. S. Featuring return Arabic musical artist Amin Sultan and his band, parish dancers, vendors and homemade Middle Eastern food. Food sold all day from 10:30am9pm on-site; delivery available; drive-thru service available each day until 7pm.

Information, www.saintgeorgeonline.org or on Facebook.

18 FRIDAY Alabama Symphony Orchestra 8pm, Alys Stephens Center. The ASO welcomes its new music director, Carlos Izcaray, who will be conducting Strauss; featuring Elena Urioste on violin. Tickets, www.alabamasymphony.org.

Bargain Costume Closet 2-4pm, The Dance Foundation, 1715 27th Court, Homewood. Shop for gently-used costumes! No entry fee to shop. The sale will continue through September, and donations welcome. Visit www. thedancefoundation.org for needs and details. 205-870-0073.

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Mt Laurel Farmers Market 8am-noon, Town of Mt Laurel.

The World’s Greatest Fair 2pm, 6:30pm, Hoover Library Theatre.

Journey back to yesteryear and experience the marvels of the 1904 Louisiana Purchase Expo in this fascinating documentary. Free admission and refreshments. 205-444-7840.

Pepper Place Market 7am-noon, 1130 22nd St. South. Rain or shine. Fresh produce and much more.

East Lake Market 8am-noon, East Lake United Methodist Church. Farmers market.

Valleydale Farmers Market 8am-noon, 4601 Valleydale Road.

Owens House Superheroes 5K & Fun Run 8am-2pm, Oak Mountain State Park.

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Bart’s Art Cart: Drumming up Fun! 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features a different theme from our galleries and art activity each month. This month: welcome the return of fall with music and dancing! Make your own drum and stick to ring in the harvest season.

Southeastern Outings Dayhike 2pm, Black Creek Trail, Fultondale. Moderately easy four-mile dayhike on a wide and level trail. Well-behaved, carefully supervised children age 7 and up able to walk the distance welcome. Depart 2pm from Black Creek Park.

Dan Frederick, seoutings@ bellsouth.net, 205-631-4680.

Alabama Symphony Orchestra 8pm, Alys Stephens Center, see September 18.

Neuroscience Café 6:30pm, Hoover Public Library.

The UAB Comprehensive Neuroscience Center presents “Unraveling the Mysteries of Frontotemporal Dementia.”

Presenter is Erik Roberson, M.D., Ph.D., associate professor of neurology and neurobiology and the Virginia B. Spencer Scholar in Neuroscience. 205444-7840. FREE.

Bart’s Books: Sori’s Harvest Moon Day 11am-noon, Birmingham Museum of Art. Bart’s Books is a storytelling program for children ages 4-7. Bart selects a new book and related work of art each month. FREE.

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Bart’s Art Cart: Drumming up Fun! 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. Welcome the return of fall with music and dancing! Make your own drum and stick to ring in the harvest season.

7:30am; 8am 5K; 9am fun run and 10am costume contest and awards. Benefits Owens House Shelby County Children’s Advocacy Center. Family fun fest with food vendors, games and inflatables. To register and other information, Cindy Greer, 205-669-3333, shelbycountycac@bellsouth. net; www.owenshousecac.org.

Sebastian’s Run/Walk for a Cure 8:30am, 5K run/walk; 10am, 1 mile kids fun run/walk, Veterans Park, Hoover. Sebastian’s Run/ Walk honors the memory of Sebastian Lemos. All funds will benefit the Alabama Center

for Childhood Cancer and Blood Disorders at Children’s of Alabama. Wear camo to show your support; prizes for the best dressed! www. sebastiansrunwalk.org.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Fun and learning for preschool children and their families. www.freshairfamily. org. FREE. 34th Annual Middle Eastern Food Festival Saint George Melkite Catholic Church, 425 16th Ave. S., see September 17.

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Vulcan AfterTunes 2015 1pm gates open, opening acts 3pm, headliners 4pm, Vulcan Park. This fall, Vulcan Park presents its 11th annual AfterTunes concert series.

This Sunday’s feature act: Langhorne Slim & The Law. Admission $15 for adults, $8 for Vulcan members and children 5-12; children 4-under, free.

Ticket price includes live music and admission to Vulcan’s tower and museum. Bring your lawn chairs and blankets!

Tickets, more information, www.visitvulcan.com.

U.S. Women’s National Soccer Team Victory Tour 1:30pm, Legion Field.

Birmingham hosts the fourth match of the U.S. women’s national soccer team’s 10city victory tour. The newlycrowned FIFA Women’s World Cup champions will battle it out with the Australian women’s national team.

Tickets, information, seating, www.ussoccer.com, www. ticketmaster.com, 800-7453000, or at all Ticketmaster ticket centers.

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23 WEDNESDAY FIRST DAY OF AUTUMN

24 THURSDAY Blind Boys of Alabama 7:30pm, Hoover Library Theatre. Winners of five Grammy awards, the Grammy Lifetime Achievement award, four Dove awards, Gospel Music Hall of Fame inductees and invited to sing at the White House by three different presidential administrations, the Blind Boys of Alabama are living legends. Tickets $25; purchase at www.

TheLibraryTheatre.com, 205444-7888 or in person at 200 Municipal Drive, Hoover.

25 FRIDAY Blind Boys of Alabama 7:30pm, Hoover Library Theatre, see September 24.

Community Poetry Reading and Reception 7-10pm, Alabama School of Fine Arts lobby and Creative Writing Lecture Hall. Free and open to the public. www.asfa.k12.al.us.

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8pm, Wright Center, Samford University. Join the Alabama Symphony Orchestra for the kickoff of the Red Diamond Superpops series. Local artists Kristi Tingle Higginbotham, Jan Hunter, Lonnie Parsons and Carl Dean perform. Tickets, www.alabamasymphony.org.

26 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-noon, 1130 22nd St. South. Rain or shine.

Fresh produce and much more.

East Lake Market 8am-noon, East Lake United Methodist Church.

Farmers market.

Mt Laurel Farmers Market 8am-noon, Town of Mt Laurel.

Valleydale Farmers Market 8am-noon, 4601 Valleydale Road.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Fun and learning for preschool children and their families. www. freshairfamily.org. FREE. Wings for Autism 4-8pm, Birmingham-Shuttlesworth International Airport.

People with autism spectrum disorders or other intellectual disabilities, families and airline personnel will learn together how to make the airport check-in and airline boarding process easier. Registration required at www.arcofjeff.org.

TotShots The Jefferson County Department of Health offers free vaccination clinics monthly to children younger than 19 who have no insurance or whose insurance does not cover vaccinations. Children must be enrolled in the Vaccinations for Children program, a federally-funded program that provides vaccines at no cost for eligible children.

Children must be accompanied by a parent or legal guardian and must bring their immunization records. Call 205-930-1450 or www.jcdh.org for more information on your child’s eligibility.

HERE IS THE CLINIC SCHEDULE FOR SEPTEMBER: 2-4pm September 8: St. Peter’s Catholic Church 2061 Patton Chapel Road, Hoover 2-4pm September 21: Garywood Assembly of God 2730 Allison Bonnett Memorial Parkway, Hueytown 3-5pm September 24: First Baptist Church, 910 Main Street (family life center), Gardendale

Bart’s Art Cart: Drumming up Fun! 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features a different theme from our galleries and art activity each month.

This month: welcome the return of fall with music and dancing! Make your own drum and stick to ring in the harvest season.

27 SUNDAY Southeastern Outings Dayhike 1pm, Hargis YMCA Retreat, Chelsea. Easy four-mile hike on trails. Bring water and good walking boots/ shoes. Depart 1pm from parking lot beside chapel at the retreat. Edd Spencer, 205-317-5868, eddthehiker@ outlook.com.

ASO Symphony 30 Annual Family Picnic 5pm, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Enjoy dinner and family activities while listening to the Alabama Symphony Orchestra perform! Symphony 30 is a support group of the ASO consisting of young women who support and promote the activities of the orchestra among the 25 to 40 age group. Information, tickets, www.alabamasymphony.org.

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Aldridge Botanical Gardens 3530 Lorna Road, Hoover.

205-682-8019, www. aldridgegardens.com Alabama Jazz Hall of Fame 1631 Fourth Ave. N., Birmingham. 205-254-2731, www.jazzhall.com Alabama School of Fine Arts 1800 Rev. Abraham Woods, Jr. Blvd.

Alabama Sports Hall of Fame 2150 Richard Arrington Blvd.

N., Birmingham. 323-6665, www.ashof.org Alabama Wildlife Center 100 Terrace Drive, Pelham.

205-663-7930. www.awrc.org Albert L Scott Alabaster Public Library Story Times: Tunes & Tales: Wednesdays at 3:30pm in Library Meeting Room, all ages Toddler Tales: Fridays at 10:30am in the Library Meeting Room, 2 and 3 year olds 100 9th Street NW, Alabaster, AL, 35007. 205-664-6822, www.cityofalabaster.com/ departments/library American Village Highway 119, Montevallo.

205-665-3535, www. americanvillage.org Barber Motorsports Park 6040 Barber Motorsports Parkway, Leeds. 205298-9040, www. barbermotorsports.com

Birmingham Botanical Gardens Be sure to download the treasure map to take with you! www.bbgardens. org/documents/ treasuremapforweb.pdf 2612 Lane Park Road, Birmingham. 205-414-3900, www.bbgardens.org Birmingham Children’s Theatre 1001 19th St. North, Birmingham, AL, 35203, 205458-8181, www.bct123.org Birmingham Civil Rights Institute “Let Us Now Praise the Roma,” an exhibition of documentary photos by Karen Graffeo, Odessa Woolfolk Gallery.

The exhibition documents the culture of the Roma, or “gypsies,” inside refugee encampments, caravans, slums and housing projects in Italy.

Through September 13.

16th St. N., Birmingham.

205-328-9696, www.bcri.org Birmingham Museum of Art Rising Up: Hale Woodruff’s Murals at Talladega College.

This exhibit has six large-scale murals depicting landmark events in the rise of AfricanAmericans from slavery to freedom. Organized by the High Museum of Art and Talladega College, it has toured the U.S. for the past three years and is on display through September 6.

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Black Like Who? Exploring Race and Representation.

This exhibit surveys a variety of historical and contemporary works by both white and black artists, and explores how various representations of blacks in American art have been influenced at particular moments by specific political, cultural and aesthetic interests, and well as the motives and beliefs of the artists. Through November 1.

Family Tours: Fall into Fun! Join museum educators to explore the galleries in a fun, interactive experience!

Discover Bart the Art Bat’s favorite artworks during these free, drop-in tours. Tours held 10:30-11:30am on Tuesdays, Sept. 1, 8, 15, 22, 29 and Saturday, Sept. 5.

2000 Rev. Abraham Woods Jr. Blvd., Birmingham. 205-2542565, www.artsbma.org Birmingham Zoo In-park Special Attractions Giraffe Feeding & Keeper Chat, Saturday & Sunday 11am-12pm & 2-3pm, $3. See Griffin, the first giraffe born in a North American accredited Zoo in 2014!

Sea Lion Training, Daily 10am & 2pm Predator Zone, Saturday & Sunday 11:30am & 3:30pm 2630 Cahaba Road, Birmingham. 205-879-0409, www.birminghamzoo.com Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum 1919 Ninth St., Calera. 205668-3435, www.hodrrm.org McWane Science Center TOYTOPIA. Stage Nine Exhibit Design presents this highly acclaimed exhibition, an immersive and interactive exhibition focusing on the various histories and legacies of toy makers throughout the past century of toymaking.

Learn about the origins of toys, who made them and why they are fun and dear to us.

Through September 7. www. mcwane.org.

Itty Bitty Magic City. This 10,000-square-foot area

allows children newborn to kindergarten to learn in a fun and playful environment.

Member Mondays. Every Monday, McWane Science Center members receive extra perks while visiting!

Includes a special gift for kids when checking in, 30 percent discount on gift shop purchases, $1 small popcorn at IMAX concession stand and a free members-only evening event each month.

Also, on the second Monday of each month, McWane opens its doors from 5-8pm for its members.

IMAX Movies: Horses. Horses takes you on a spectacular journey through Argentina, British Columbia, Chile, Mexico, Morocco, Spain and Texas to meet vaqueros, gauchos, baqueanos and cowboys – all part of a single global horse culture, an unbroken trail stretching back 1,500 years.

Ocean Oasis. Ocean Oasis, a giant-screen film, is a fascinating journey into the bountiful seas and pristine deserts of two remarkably different, but inextricably linked worlds — Mexico’s Sea of Cortés and the Baja California desert.

200 19th St. N., Birmingham.

205-714-8300, www.mcwane.org.

Oak Mountain State Park 200 Terrace Drive, Pelham.

205-620-2520, www.alapark.com.

Ruffner Mountain Nature Center 1214 81st St. S., Birmingham.

205-833-8264, www. ruffnermountain.org.

Southern Museum of Flight 4343 73rd St. N., Birmingham.

205-833-8226, www. southernmuseumofflight.org Tannehill Ironworks Historical State Park 12632 Confederate Parkway, McCalla. 205-477-5711, www. tannehill.org Vulcan Park 1701 Valley View Drive, Birmingham. 205-933-1409, www.vulcanpark.org

Every Saturday and Sunday in October, the entire family will enjoy an autumn train ride to the pumpkin patch for a hayride, jumpstation, temporary tattoos, and good ol’ fashioned boiled peanuts!

Pick out your favorite pumpkin from the patch.

For Tickets and Information

www.HODRRM.org

205.757.8383 1919 9th St. • Calera, Al 35040

Pumpkins & Peanuts extra charge

Congratulations to Karson Vines who will be 4 on September 10 As the winner, he receives a party at McWane Science Center

If you would like your kid to be a Birthday Kids contestant, complete and send this form, along with a recent photograph of your child (photos will not be returned) to Birthday Kids, Birmingham Parent, 3590-B Hwy. 31 S., #289, Pelham, AL 35124. Child must be 13 and under to win. By entering, contestants and their parents or legal guardians release the photo to Birmingham Parent with no further obligation to Birmingham Parent, and give consent to Birmingham Parent to reproduce and publish any photographs submitted whether or not the entry is chosen as the winner. All entries must be signed by parent/guardian. Employees of Evans Publishing and contest sponsors are not eligible.

Oct. entries much be received by Sept.10, 2015. Entries can be sent ahead for later months.

Child’s Name _______________________________________________ Child’s Age __________ Birthday ______________________________ Address ___________________________________________________ City _______________________________ Zip ____________________ Phone _____________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________ Parent/Guardian Signature __________________________________

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by Charles Ghigna

Back-to-School Poems Autumn is my favorite time of year! I love all the colors and laughter, especially the laughter of friends on their way back to school! Seeing old friends again is fun. Making new friends is fun too! Here are a few back-to-school poems. Hope you find a favorite to share with your friends, old and new!

On the Way to School As told to my teacher I’ll tell you why I’m tardy And I hope my excuse will do.

I stopped to view upon a leaf A spider and some dew.

She spun a web before my eyes With a soft and silver hue, And when she looked, I looked at her And whispered, “Peekaboo!”

I think I may have startled her And so I waved good-bye, But when I turned around to go, I met a butterfly!

I almost caught him in my hand To bring to class for you, But when I tried to peek inside, Away my treasure flew.

And that is how I’m tardy, But I had to tell you why.

It’s all the fault of a spider’s web And a sneaky butterfly!

Lunch Box Surprise Mother packed me all the things I like to eat for lunch; A peanut butter sandwich And some pretzels I can munch, A little box of raisins And a little box of juice, And for dessert my favorite treat, A cup of chocolate mousse.

I sat in class, my stomach roared, It echoed loud and far, ‘Cause I remembered I had left My lunch box in the car!

Lunchroom Magic For more funny animal poem activities click on “It’s a Jungle Out There” at FatherGoose.com.

Want to submit YOUR poems for publication? Parents, here are some magazines that publish poems written by children: http://www.ckmagazine.org • http://www. magicdragonmagazine.com, http://www.cricketmag.com

46 | birminghamparent | september 2015

Of all the magic I have seen My favorite, I suppose, Was yesterday at lunch when Mark Made milk come out his nose.

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