Big Sky Bride Summer | Fall 2016

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FINDING YOUR MUSICAL MUSE 7 FABULOUS MONTANA WEDDINGS • GROOMSMEN’S GEAR • #ENGAGED

WHY SHOULD WOMEN HAVE ALL THE FUN? TIE THE KNOT & OTHER JARGON

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CONTENTS A PUBLICATION OF MAGIC CITY MAGAZINE

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Groomsmen’s Gear

BY TARA CADY & CHARLI WHITE

Why should the women have all the fun?

26

Tie the Knot

BY BRENDA MAAS

A new take on wedding jargon

29

The Evolution of Engagement Announcements

BY TARA CADY #engaged

32

Pump up the Jam

35

The Album

BY TARA CADY

BY BRENDA MAAS, TARA CADY & CHARLI WHITE 7 Unique Montana Weddings

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FINDING YOUR MUSICAL MUSE 7 FABULOUS MONTANA WEDDINGS • GROOMSMEN’S GEAR • INSIGHT ON WEDDING JARGON

WHY SHOULD WOMEN HAVE ALL THE FUN? TIE THE KNOT & OTHER JARGON

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On the Cover: Newlyweds Danielle and Tom

Paxinos in downtown Billings on their wedding day. Photo by Daniel Sullivan Photography.

Inset Photo:

Megan and Cody Bott take a quick canoe ride on their wedding day. Photo by Cabel Noteboom Photography.

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Down the Aisle ALL THE DETAILS YOU NEED FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY

11 The Flowers 13 The Ring 14 The Dress 17 The Hair 19 The Photos 20 The Cake

Photo by Amelia Anne Photography

In Every Issue

6 From the Editor 8 Unveiled 50 I Thee Wed

Something Old, Something New

Geraldine and Paul Mottram 65 Years of Opportunities

Photo by Amy Hallenius Photography

Photo by Amelia Anne Photography

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Something Old, Something New ‌Many generations of brides have followed this rhyme-turned-custom.

I was no exception. In 1993, as a young bride and eternal romantic, I opted for a garden wedding – florals reigned and pastel hues were everywhere from our invitations to the location itself. My intended, being a smart man, did not really interfere with my ideas.

I dutifully compiled my “something old (heirloom pink gloves), something new (ivory, scalloped pumps), something borrowed (pearl necklace) and something blue” (hint: the blue “somethings” were under my dress). Now, 23 years later I still see our framed wedding invitation on a daily basis – it has hung in our bedroom since we were newlyweds.

I sometimes – usually around our anniversary – pull out my wedding gown to touch its mini-pearls and embroidered accents, marveling in the intense emotions a simple gown can evoke.

As a new generation approaches the altar, brides and grooms are creating their own wedding customs – based more on their personalities than “what is always done.” Yet individuality doesn’t necessarily exceed tradition; it simply exemplifies a new way to meld contemporary character into preserving customs.

For example, creative social media posts immediately and casually announce engagements,

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as demonstrated in “The Evolution of Engagement Announcements” on pages 29-31. Brides are no longer restricted to the pure-white dress and grooms can outfit their pals in funky socks or sporty suspenders, to show the world his style (see “Groomsmen’s Gear” on pages 23-25).

Yet the intent, the mission and the commitment remain the same.

The wedding day, in its most elemental form, is the public act voicing vows to each other before family and friends.

Whether an officiant or priest, a judge or a minister performs the ceremony, the promise becomes legal. For those who chose to follow a faith, the marriage also becomes sacred.

Despite trends, modern communication and internet announcements, the “something old” remains rooted.

In “The Album” on pages 35-49, seven couples share their stories with us, giving readers a peek into their own version of “something new.”

Yet after 23 years of marriage, I have one thought that perseveres: The simple beauty of embracing life and enduring-yet-always-changing love is tradition that should never fade.

Brenda Maas Managing Editor Big Sky Bride magazine

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the flowers Floral arrangements add beautiful freshness to your soulful ceremony. Whether they contrast boldly against your white wedding dress, accent the groomsmen’s gear or complement the changing seasons, flowers keep the good feelings among friends and family flourishing all day long.

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There’s nothing more romantic than roses. Combine crocosmia, cranberry viburnum and lily grass with peach garden and orange spray roses for a sensual and summery ambiance.

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For a chic ceremony around the holiday season, blend both dry and fresh flowers into an appealing assortment of carnations, daisies, roses, white button poms, kermits and broomcorn.

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Show off your uniqueness and dress up your bridal bouquet of kermits, freesia, carnations and roses with lace, ribbon and personalized charm. It’s a perfect place for something borrowed or something blue.

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A cascading bouquet of cymbidium orchids, lisianthus flowers, ivy, ming fern and lily grass creates an elegance only beat by the bride holding them.

Combine ranunculus, dusty miller and silver tree leucadendron with ginestra, silver brunia, calla lilies, roses and hydrangea for a softer palette. These perennials match perfectly with a wintry wedding scene.

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the ring Whether it’s hiding within a piece of cake or tucked away in his pocket until he asks your father for his blessing, the story doesn’t truly begin until the moment that sparkler is placed on your finger. A true testament of your love, the ring embodies your committed companionship. Choose a gemstone and wedding band that speaks to who you are individually and as a couple.

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the dress Every button, bead and embroidered embellishment shines like your smile as you walk down the aisle. From fabric to finish, your tailor-made gown captures not only the love you put into planning your special day but also the precious moments shared at the altar when your beloved’s – and everyone else’s – eyes are focused on you.

Dazzle in dreamy designs ranging from the traditional A-line dress to ultratrendy cut-outs. Accentuate your assets, and take a walk on the aisle side with these glamorous gowns fit for a queen.

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Laced-up & asymmetrical

Of the sea

Blossoming beauty

There’s no doubt you will already stand out among

You’re his greatest catch. Highlight those curves in

A new take on the ballgown, this flowery frock subtly

the crowd at your ceremony. Push the envelope a

a mermaid-style dress, showing him that no, there

resembles Cinderella. With classy white gloves and a

little further with a unique back-side design. Consider

are no other fish in the sea like you. The sleeveless

delicately-decorated veil, promenade down the aisle with

laced-up ribbon, a bow and two shoulders straps on

ensemble with billowing white fishtails and beaded

pride and grace. With each step, the dress gives the

one side for a twist on the typical wedding gown.

accents beckon all eyes on the bride.

appearance that you are literally floating on cloud nine.

A snug silhouette

Dare to bare

A bride betwixt

Form-fitting in all the right places, this classy dress

Peek-a-boo designs are trendy, seasonal and a unique

Hung up on the length of your gown? Try a

borders mermaid-style while preserving a vintage

way of showing some skin on your big day. Available in

mix of both. A shorter dress loses the cocktail

charm. Ideal for disguising cleavage and upholding

a variety of dress styles, choose a cut-out that accen-

quality when tulle wraps around your waist. Tie it

ravishing and refined flair, make an entrance where

tuates your husband-to-be’s favorite feature on you, be

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Whether you prefer the authentic look or a spiced-up modern

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Nothing but neck Steal the show and rock your sleek short hair standing next

“Girlz with curlz”

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If you’re blessed with feisty curls or flow-

plete the look and showcase

ing waves, lose the flat-irons and let your

your neckline with a fabulous

hair have its way.

chunky necklace.

The charmer Add a little sparkle with a

Braided glory

petite tiara. This ravishing up-do

Let your hair color do

will leave your future mister’s

the talking as you cruise

Wild pony

mouth agape and you feeling as

down the aisle. Notice

You truly can’t go wrong sporting wavy curls

classy as the film’s leading lady,

how her blonde ombré

gathered in a half-ponytail embellished with

Holly Golightly.

hair color accentuates

flowers to match your bouquet.

the easy flow of the relaxed braid into gathered ringlets?

Sassy simplicity Audrey Hepburn meets Rosie the Riveter in this combination of

A twist at the end

Tender romance

Mrs. Sophistication

elegant hair and a bold headband.

Tucking sprigs of baby’s breath into the

Pin up your delicate locks in a loose-

A new take on the sleek ballet bun,

It’s perfect for short hair as well –

overlapping hair sections will draw the eye to

ly curled mid-rise ensemble that

this tasteful style brings it low and

just spike and tousle the back half

the delicacy of this cascading braid-and-curl

softly rests on the nape of your neck.

open to bloom like rose petals.

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the photos TIPS FOR CAREFREE CANDIDS Whether you’ve had over a year or just a few months to plan your wedding, odds are you’re a little more anxious the closer it gets to the big day. So relax and take a deep breath – here’s some pointers on landing lighthearted photos.

Leave it to the pro Most photographers don’t mind a little input from their brides, especially if she has something specific in mind for a backdrop or pose. But if you’ve looked at your photographer’s portfolio, you already have a good idea of what to expect. They’re the professionals of their craft, so let them surprise you.

Stretch your mindset – and your muscles Your photographer may have you and your significant other experiment with a wide variety of poses. While it’s likely that not all of them will turn out, just being willing to cooperate and have fun will land you several unexpected gems.

Lose your stage fright Sometimes it’s a little nerve-wracking to think of a photographer looking at you through the boxy contraption we know as a camera. But don’t worry, there’s magic behind that lens. With every click of the shutter he or she is adjusting settings in the viewfinder, switching the angle of the light source and modifying the frame to creatively compose some stellar shots.

Savor the day Your wedding day will be filled with special interactions. Let go and live in those moments.

In the end, it’s you and your hubby who determine both your album and your future, so give yourself permission to bask in the joy of your special day with the one you love.

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the cake GO CUCKOO FOR CONFECTIONS You can have your cake and eat it, too – and also take as many pictures of it as you like. For dessert you can brag about, consider going outside the cake box for your wedding. Overwhelmed by a three-tiered cake? Opt for cute little cupcakes. Not a cake person in general? Spice up your palate with a bridal bread or pie. Mix and match your favorite flavors, frosting designs and accent pieces for a delectable display of sugary goodness.

A timeless treat With frosting that functions like your favorite crackle nail polish – but tastes like heaven – you can add a textured and distinguished vintage look to your cake.

Loving loaf It’s hard to imagine, but not everyone loves cake.

Include another baked good such as a bread loaf for your more discerning guests, melding the many tastes of the season.

TO TOP IT OFF Toppers are as interchangeable as the icing of the cake.

Expand upon your dessert’s uniqueness with a topper that speaks to who you two are as a unit. Whether you highlight your new last name with a monogram or poke fun at your various interests with football-themed characters, enjoy topping the cake with a sweet statement of your love.

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BY TARA CADY & CHARLI WHITE

adies, it’s time to let your man take the lead – and not just as your dance partner. Have your future husband and his crazy sidekicks dress up their suits to their liking with anything from western bolo ties and boutonnieres to socks and suspenders. We have some tricks up our sleeves for getting groomsmen to strut with sophisticated swagger.

The Classic Man Move from basic traditional to suave and dashing with just the right details. A timeless fedora, polished-to-a-shine dress shoes and precisely-folded pocket square provide the perfect finishing touch.

The Hobbyist Pin with pride, thanks to these do-it-yourself boutonnieres. Try a few oversized flies for fishing, wrap twine around a few golf tees or slip fresh flowers into an empty rifle shell for a unique spin on the customary corsage.

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The Hipster For the more eclectic man, consider mixing styles and fabrics. Pair a corduroy bow-tie with suspenders and psychedelic socks to showcase your husband-to-be’s silly side.

The Cowboy Pull your groom and his men up by their bootstraps with the right western wear.

Browse local shops for the best belt buckle, bolo ties and boots. With the right hat, he’s sure to be the cowboy to your angel.

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A NEW TAKE ON WEDDING JARGON

BY BRENDA MAAS

Big Sky Bride editors love words, especially those we can promote with our tongues in our cheeks.

In this piece we offer our insight, supported by a bit of history plus loads of presumption, on how certain matrimonial words came into our vernacular and exactly what they mean.

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue While many forget about the “sixpence in her shoe” we highly recommend following this Old English rhyme. Get your gal-pals on the gig for even more creative charms.

It’s not uncommon for the “something blue” to be your garter {insert suggestive eyebrow wag here}.

Taking the plunge‌ The figurative meaning of “commit oneself ” started in 1845 from the earlier noun plunge, meaning “point of being in trouble or danger.” While marriage is certainly a commitment, we like to think that the danger lies in remaining single.

Getting hitched‌

Shotgun wedding‌

As cattle or horses are connected via a yoke to equally share the work of pulling a load, so a husband and wife who are “hitched” become fastened together in marriage. All present hope they get along well and last over the long haul.

Similar to the question, “What came first?

The chicken or the egg?,” a shotgun wedding typically coincides with a blissful birth announcement oh, say, some 8-1/2 months later. Some call it a case of “wife or death.”

We prefer to consider it a pleasant, albeit early, surprise.

Buy the cow‌ Now, we all love cows – we do live in Montana.

However, the literal interpretation is far too insulting to both brides and bovines everywhere to even consider. Perhaps the phrase comes from the verb “to cow” or intimidate or from the Old Norse “kuga” which means to oppress and refers to the archaic practice of subservient wives. Either way, we wish to permanently strike this phrase from all vocabulary.

Down the aisle‌ This one’s a no-brainer – unless, of course, you have never entered a church.

Or, you are so late, so frequently that the rear pew is personalized with your name on it. Either way, the aisle is a place of many brides’ dreams.

Ball and chain‌ While etymology refers to a ball and chain as a type of prisoner’s restraint (1818), how it transitioned to include “one’s wife” (1920) is beyond the imagination of these editors.

Unless, of course, the phrase refers to domestic chores – menial household tasks can certainly drag down a partnership.

Going to the chapel‌ If you are not singing “…gonna get maaarr—rrried!” yet then you likely don’t remember The Dixie Cups (who are distinctly different from The Dixie Chicks). Regardless of your age, “Going to the Chapel” can mean one of three things. The first two are pleasant. The third one is not. Think about it.

Become man and wife‌ As in “…I now pronounce you…” We consider these four short words the best and most joyful of all wedding jargon – along with the most recognized. The meaning, and depth, of the culminating kiss is up to individual interpretation, however.

Sources: Etymonlne.com (Online Etymology Dictionary) & imagination of Big Sky Bride editors

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ANNOUNCEMENTS From newsprint to news feed

BY TARA CADY

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etting friends and family know about your major life event is as simple as a status update on Facebook. But before the internet changed everyday communication as we know it, newspapers were the best source for engagement and wedding announcements.

Parents would announce engagements on their daughter’s behalf, highlighting the wedding date and where both families hailed from. A picture might appear next to the blurb, but rarely was there ever detailed information – let alone photos – of the husband-to-be.

It was parents’ time to boast, showcasing their child’s bright future. Now, the tables have turned. Though parents can surely share posts made by their children, announcing is literally in the couple’s hands.

From that initial knee drop to the nolonger-naked-ring-finger, time stands still.

However, now it seems proper protocol to capture moments with a mobile device and upload a short description, photo and video as soon as possible.

Is the magic lost once you pick up your phone and share your engagement for all to “like?” Local wedding planners explain the evolution of engagement announcements.

ning in Billings, explains the origin of publicly proclaiming your betrothal.

“The very first proclamation came in 1215 when Pope Innocent III made it law that you had to formally announce your engagement,” said Means.

With an interim waiting period, others could Time to intervene intervene and prevent an unsuitable marriage Engagements are announced for several reafrom happening. sons, some more obvious than others.

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Fiancées and their female family members used to host engagement parties, kick-starting the fun wedding planning festivities.

Today, engagement parties have nose-dived.

“I haven’t worked with couples in Montana who hold engagement parties in the last ten years,” said Pat Clark, owner and officiant of Patricia Clark Weddings.

A new way of celebrating is taking its place.

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Status update: Jane Doe is engaged to John Smith.

You’ve just announced your engagement online. Why? Because news travels faster on social media than with the postal service—duh! You’re more likely to have your friends’ email addresses or usernames as opposed to their physical addresses. They’re probably checking their inbox more than their mailbox anyway.

Effortlessly announce, plan and discuss wedding plans with your followers on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and on wedding websites.

“Announcements on Facebook are huge,” said Clark of the social media platform where friends and family can “react” with a “love” emoticon.

“But many wedding companies have a website where you can expand on everything.”

How you met, fell in love and got engaged… these snippets of information tell your story as a couple. Don’t fill a friend’s Facebook feed; save the juicy stuff for a specialized platform instead.

Is online out of line?

Websites such as The Knot and WeddingWire focus on all things wedding. Featuring planning tools, registry access and honeymoon ideas, these online portals provide the 24/7 wedding planner you can access wherever there’s an internet connection.

“Guests can post on your website and respond to events with RSVPs,” explained Clark.

“It’s great, but grandma might not get the message.”

According to Clark, until we get through that gap in technology, we still have a need for paper trails.

“You have to be really careful sharing information online, especially with parents who are not on social media,” said Means.

“Be sure to take the time to tell mom or dad about the engagement so nobody’s feelings get hurt.”

For some multi-generational families, tradition has been submitting wedding information to the local newspaper. Grandma or great-grandma might expect to see it there, so honor their wishes by announcing via print, too.

gagement, too.

“A photographer is going to be in your face for eight to ten hours on your wedding day. Having that one-on-one experience ahead of time builds rapport, giving the bride and groom a chance to get to know their photographer,” said Means. “Photographers also get a first glance at what it will be like to pull expressive pictures from a couple on their wedding day.”

After the magic is caught on camera, you can share the snapshots on various social media platforms including Pinterest, Instagram and Facebook.

Don’t instantly grab your phone. Laugh, cry and smile widely with your beloved first. If you really want the moment Pins, posts and your photographer captured as you live it, send Social media gurus will tell you subtle hints to your partner that that a post gains more publicity when you want your friends and family a photo is attached. Don’t have the right camera or filters to make your moment spar- present. Otherwise, keep the excitement bekle? Consider using the photographer you have tween the two of you until you just can’t stand picked out for your wedding to capture your en- it anymore.

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PU MP A JM UP THE

BY TARA CADY

Lights dim, your song comes on and all those dance lessons finally pay off. Music has the ability to transcend what is heard into an emotional experience. Whatever’s playing in the background on your big day should be intensifying your loving feelings. hether it’s the local band you followed throughout your dating years or a well-known local disc jockey, someone has to provide the soundtrack to your new life.

Matt Knoche (aka DJ MK) at Toonz DJ in Billings explains what to expect from a professional DJ. “I book weddings a year in advance, so planning begins very early. Couples complete a worksheet online, highlighting preferred songs for all of a wedding’s special moments including the bouquet toss, introduction of the wedding party and first song,” said Knoche.

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You want Single Ladies playing while you into has a license, high-quality equipment and throw your bouquet? Using a digital worksheet rights to the music. like Knoche’s, your preference will be automatProfessional DJs know that emergencies do ically emailed to your DJ. No reminder texts happen and are prepared with safeguards. necessary.

“The venue matters, so I do my homework if it is somewhere I’ve never been before. You have to plan for inclement weather if it is outdoors Smooth operators Professional DJs intrinsically know how to and always adjust the size of the sound system per the size of the venue,” explained Austin. set the mood.

Though it is the couple’s time to shine, Dave Austin, owner and DJ at Magic City Knoche urges the bride and groom to considProductions, explains why.

“DJ-ing isn’t just about the music. Em- er their guests’ wishes in song selecting. With cee-ing the reception and providing ceremony online portals, guests can request their own music is possible, as well as incorporating min- favorites. ute-but-important details including announcements, lighting and dance floor rentals,” said Digital dreamland Austin.

What’s your favorite love song? Chances are a Confirm that the DJ business you’re looking DJ has it on file or knows where to get it.

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THE TIMELINE FOR TUNES: With a library of over 250,000 songs and videos, Knoche can produce just about anything, creating an uninterrupted constant flow of tunes by blending and mixing music.

“I mix in slow songs to get older people to dance or use projector screens for music videos to appeal to the younger crowd,” explained Knoche on catering to different crowds.

Austin subscribes to a music service in addition to his digital library of genres ranging from jazz to Top 40, ensuring receipt of new releases.

According to Austin, a four-hour event equates to nearly one-hundred songs. Avoid the dancing duds by incorporating meaningful yet mesmerizing music into your wedding’s soundtrack.

“Some bands’ songs are not available online,

1. Processional 2. Recessional 3. Cocktail hour 4. Reception entrance 5. The first dance 6. Father/daughter dance 7. Reception music 8. Cake-cutting 9. Dollar dance 10. Bouquet & garter toss

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requiring me to buying the CD the good old-fashioned way,” said Austin.

For hit songs not yet on a DJ’s radar, instant downloads are the best way to keep current at your wedding.

No WiFi? DJs like Knoche have MP3s backed-up just in case.

In addition to the DJs themselves, wedding websites and Pinterest are also viable resources for finding the right songs for your special day.

Deciding on a DJ‌

In the age of electronic dance music (EDM), everyone’s claiming to be a professional disc jockey these days. You want an expert, not a fraud. Do your research and request information up-front before hiring an entertainer for your special day. Consider asking these questions at the interview:

1. Do you have a license and rights to songs?

2. Have you played this venue in the past, and if so, what was your experience? (press for details) 3. What is your back-up plan in case of inclement weather, a power outage or equipment failure?

4. Do you have a contract?

5. What are the specifics on payment?

6. What is your timeframe?

7. Do you have a microphone available during dinner?

8. What if my BFF wants to sing (or, there’s some other pre-planned event)?

9. Who is your back-up if you are ill or have an emergency?

10. May I see a sample line-up and customize it?

11. This is your job. Will you be drinking during the event?

12. Do you take breaks or stop the music during the evening?

So you think you can dance?

Don’t chance walking onto the dance floor with two left feet. With a little help from local dance schools, you’ll be ready to dance the waltz, foxtrot, swing and lively Latin numbers in no time.

Avoid stepping on your partner’s toes at your reception and consider practicing your moves at the organizations listed below: Elks Club Most Fridays ~ 7 to 11:30 p.m. elks.org

West Coast Swing Club wcsmontana.com or 406-534-0927

Yellowstone Ballroom Dance Club yellowstoneballroomdance.com

Billings Community Center First Friday of the month 406-670-0157

Big Sky Polka Club First Sunday of the month ~ 1:30 to 5:30 p.m. bigskypolkaclub.com

Let’s Dance For Fun Sundays ~ 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. albedooshrine.org

THE ALBUM

BY BRENDA MAAS, TARA CADY & CHARLI WHITE Wedding day photos are among a couple’s mostprized possessions. These pictures tell their story of the beautiful and the precious; the planned and the unanticipated; the tears of joy and the tears of parents’ bittersweet sadness. Upon request, seven sets of newlyweds shared their personal moments with Big Sky Bride readers. Turn the page for a poignant peek at each couple’s Big Day.

HILARY & SAM PATERSON • AUGUST 8, 2015

CINDERELLA STORY ‌ edding & Reception: Billings Depot W Photography By: Finch Photography

Like many love stories, theirs was a chance meeting.

A co-worker told Hilary Harrison that her boyfriend’s roommate was “single and super-handsome.” The two were introduced; their first date included an evening service at Harvest Church and a late movie in the park.

To celebrate Sam’s college graduation, Hilary planned a surprise dinner party.

But the real surprise was on her.

“He led me into the Northern Hotel, in front of the fireplace and Christmas tree,” she said of his proposal. “All my family, close friends and his mom were hiding and taking photos. Britney Higgs was taking video of the whole thing – followed by tears, strawberries and champagne.”

When it came to planning the wedding, Hilary and Sam opted for the Billings Depot for both the ceremony and reception, accented with a blushnatural palette and hints of gold and green.

Hilary cites the incredible history of the Depot along with the convenience of having everything in one place.

“It has so much elegant charm and character with its vintage feel,” she said.

The couple incorporated several family heirlooms and meaningful symbols into their day. Hilary’s greatgrandfather’s suitcases were part of the props; the bouquets included pressed, lucky pennies; guests signed their Bible and highlighted favorite passages; and they cut the wedding cake with Sam’s great-grandfather’s sword – a longstanding family tradition.

“Our wedding day was truly an elegant, romantic, glamour-inspired wedding,” Hilary recalled. “It was the sparkly fairytale I’ve always dreamed of.”

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MIKHAEL & NICK SELLE • JULY 24, 2015

SOFT, SUBTLE AND SERENE ‌‌ Wedding & Reception: Chancey’s Event Center Photography By: Amber Reinhardt Photography

It’s often said that good things take time.

That was certainly true for Mikhael Noonkester and Nick Selle.

“We have mutual friends,” recalled Mikhael. “He introduced himself, and we didn’t exactly hit it off right away.”

But persistence paid off when a few weeks later Nick asked her out.

“It was all history from there,” she said.

Nick’s proposal was subtle and, strangely, wordless.

“We were eating sandwiches he had made and in the middle of eating he gave me the ring,” said Mikhael.

“He never did ask, ‘Will you marry me?’ because we were both holding back our tears of joy!”

For their wedding the couple selected soft colors of coral, ivory and mint, which complemented the stunning scenery at Chancey’s Event Center.

“We loved the idea of having an outdoor wedding and an indoor reception, and the setup of the hall worked phenomenal for our large crowd,” Mikhael said.

They wove sentimental pieces throughout their wedding. For example, the bride wore a brooch from each of her grandmothers and Nick’s grandmother’s brooch on her bouquet. The groom’s mother sewed their daughter’s dress and headband to correlate with Mikhael’s gown.

“Our wedding was truly unbelievable,” noted Mikhael. “Everything was so personal, it really a captured our personalities. Although it was large, it was still intimate and you could really feel the love.”

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KELSIE & JACOB TEBBS • AUGUST 15, 2015

A SPLASH OF COLOR ‌ edding & Reception: Billings Montana Temple of the Church of W Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and Monad LDS Church Photography By: Jana Graham Photography

Jake Tebbs had just moved to Montana when Kelsie Johnson returned home from Brigham Young UniversityIdaho. He sat next to her in church one Sunday in early August and they struck up a conversation.

“He told me he liked snowboarding and scuba diving, and he was pretty dang cute,” Kelsie admitted. “Three weeks later we were dating.”

The following spring the couple went on a picnic near the Billings Montana Temple of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Jake said he had a surprise.

“He blind folded me – I thought the surprise was my favorite soda, I was so clueless,” she confessed.

The surprise was the perfect proposal, complete with orange roses and an adorably cheesy poem, according to Kelsie.

As a tribute to the couple, Kelsie’s great-grandfather performed the marriage ceremony at the revered Billings Montana LDS Temple. A pearl necklace around the bride’s neck, a Popeye pin on her veil and grandmothers’ brooches adorning her bouquet added to the thoughtful gifts from affectionate family members.

Inside a sister chapel on Monad Road, vibrant accents of turquoise lanterns and Kelsie’s favorite flowers, orange daylilies, transformed the space into a stunning reception hall.

“Our wedding day turned out exactly as we’d hoped – filled with family, friends, laughter and love,” she said.

“And orange flowers.”

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AMY & BRENT JACOBS • AUGUST 1, 2015

INFORMAL GARDEN PARTY ‌ edding & Reception: The Moss Mansion W Photography By: Allison Kazmierski

Carter’s Brewing in downtown Billings served as the locale where Brent Jacobs and Amy Ward first laid eyes on each other. A brief conversation revealed that both worked in the financial industry. To Amy’s surprise, Brent sent a flower arrangement to the branch where she worked the following day.

“The card had a note asking to see me again and his phone number.

Very creative – I couldn’t not call,” Amy recalled.

So she did. The two quickly fell for each other. Both avid skiers, they spent most of every winter at Big Sky Resort.

At the top of the triple chair on a miserably cold and windy day Brent took off his skis, got down on one knee and pulled out his grandmother’s ring.

They chose the historic Moss Mansion as the location for their intimate August ceremony and reception. The choice of venue was easy as Brent’s parents lived nearby, and his mother had gardened at the mansion for several years.

Breaking tradition, the groomsmen traded tuxes for shorts and a few guests donned Hawaiian shirts for the occasion. In place of a standard wedding cake the caterer concocted creative desserts. The bridesmaids chose their own dresses and Brent’s hand-crafted floral centerpieces featured agates and petrified wood he’d collected over the years.

“It was an absolutely beautiful day to say our vows surrounded by an intimate group of our friends and family,” Amy said. “At the risk of sounding cliché, it really was perfect.”

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SARAH & JAMES BAILEY • OCTOBER 2, 2015

VOWS AT DUSK ‌ edding & Reception: The Billings Saddle Club W Photography By: Tracy Moore Photography

Some people meet through friends or by going out and others find each other in their work environment. Such was the case with Sarah Gorecki and James Bailey at Rimrock Mall.

“We built a friendship and both ended up leaving our jobs, but reconnected and became even closer,” said Sarah.

On a weekend trip to Yellowstone with James and her family, Sarah ventured with James to take pictures in Slough Creek. In a field of flowers in front of the creek, James snuck behind Sarah got down on one knee and tapped her on the shoulder.

When considering their wedding’s atmosphere, the couple looked for casual, rustic and romantic.

“The Billings Saddle Club provided the country theme we were looking for in a wedding,” she said.

Eclectic shades of coral, brown, white and champagne decorated everything from the bridesmaid dresses to the archway.

“The lights, candles, paper lanterns and log aisle décor made for a really romantic feel,” said Sarah of her small, evening wedding near Alkali Creek.

To Sarah, the day went without incident thanks to friends and family.

“I cried, James cried, the photographers cried. The day was perfect!” exclaimed Sarah.

With a reception inside the lodge, Sarah was overjoyed by how she and James pulled off “country romance” at their wedding.

MEGAN & CODY BOTT • SEPTEMBER 5, 2015

DESTINATION MONTANA ‌‌ Wedding & Reception: The Resort at Paws Up, Greenough, Montana Photography By: Cabel Noteboom Photography

Going out is one of the best ways to meet someone. That’s how Megan DePree and Cody Bott met – over dinner and drinks with mutual friends. Both Megan and her friend were interested in Cody, but Megan called “dibs.” That “call” became their destiny.

It is easy for Megan to recall Cody’s eventual proposal – over a card game of Memory.

With four cards left, Cody asked what the cards revealed. Two were a match of chairs and the others were of a ring and a box.

“Of course I still didn’t put it together,” Megan said. “He said maybe some cards were misplaced. We began looking until I turned around, and he was on one knee.”

The couple wanted a destination wedding in Montana for its unparalleled beauty.

“We had in-camp butlers and chefs that catered to our every need,” said Megan of the venue. “Because of them our family was able to enjoy our time together instead of being stressed.”

Truly a family affair, Megan’s oldest brother Nick officiated the wedding and their mom hand-made fly boutonnieres.

Keeping everything natural, Megan opted out of wedding colors but did have a green bouquet with pale pink accents and wood centerpieces with touches of green and white.

“It was truly a blending of two families,” Megan noted of the relaxing day filled with fly fishing, horse-back riding and hiking.

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DANIELLE & TOM PAXINOS • DECEMBER 12, 2015

DOWNTOWN DEVOTION ‌‌‌ Wedding & Reception: Billings Depot Photography By: Dan Sullivan Photography

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Their romance was brewing from the beginning. Danielle Lester and Tom Paxinos met while working at Montana Brewing Company. Remaining friends for several years, the relationship stepped beyond friendship at a fire pit and the passion blazed.

With a group of friends in tow, Danielle and Tom set out for a six-day camping trip along the Smith River. After a long first day, Tom invited Danielle to a short hike. It was there, overlooking a spot where two rivers became one, that Tom asked Danielle to be his wife.

They returned to camp where their friends were waiting to celebrate with bottles of champagne.

“I enjoyed every minute of the next five days calling each other by our new title, fiancé,” said Danielle.

Both “downtown kind of people,” the couple chose the Billings Depot for their ceremony and reception. A December date provided a wintery-yet-warm ambiance.

“We thought it was the only logical place for us to tie the knot and throw a party,” Danielle noted.

On the big day, hues of gray filled the venue, accented with white candles and baby’s breath. Danielle, a creative cosmetologist, designed the chalk board and tissue paper snowflake decorations herself.

“It was earthy, soft and romantic,” she said. “But also chaotic, stressful, exciting, whimsical and loving.”

The couple joined forces to build their own arbor made of fallen branches from Red Lodge and Two Moon Park.

Tom’s uncle, who shares similar spiritual beliefs about life, performed their ceremony – complete with the support of those they love.

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65 YEARS OF OPPORTUNITIES

BY RACHELLE LACY If faith, hope and love remain, Geraldine and Paul Mottram may be counted among them.

The happy Billings couple married on June 10, 1951, and attribute the success of their 65-year marriage to having faith in God, always putting family first and building on mutual interests.

Having attended the same high school and churches that were nearby one another’s, they had known each other for a while before he asked her on a first date.

“I was out one night with a group of friends.

We were walking by her house, and I saw her,” Paul recalled. “She was sitting on the front porch, all by herself.”

He glanced fondly at his wife, known as Gerry among friends, before adding, “I think she was waiting for me.”

Soon after going steady, having walked her home after a movie, he proposed.

“The rest is history,” Paul teased.

But what about the hard times?

“There weren’t any hard times,” Gerry expressed.

Perhaps noticing a raised eyebrow or two, Paul added, “You just do what you have to do. Life happens.”

The couple’s unique perspective may be rooted in their beginning. Within 30 days of their wedding, Paul, who had been exempt from military service as an only son, received a letter explaining that marriage changed his draft status. He was ordered to report for active duty.

When he left to serve as an Army artilleryman in the Korean War, Gerry was newly pregnant with their first child.

Now, the seasoned couple promotes a simple strategy for a long and happy marriage. “Decide to take advantage of the great opportunities — and everything is an opportunity. Everything.”

Paul and Gerry, who enjoy each other’s companionship whether volunteering at church, golfing, at home or traveling abroad, also note that decisions, over time, add up.

“And never quit,” Paul advised.

“Ever,” she agreed.

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Top: Gerry and Paul Mottram were married in 1951 at First Baptist Church.

Bottom: Paul and Gerry Mottram today.

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