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NOVEMBER 2015 • Vol. 98, No. 4 CHESHVAN ~ KISLEV 5776 WWW.BETHELNR.ORG

Turkey Drive...................................... page 2 Betzelem Elokim................................ page 7 SMART People.................................. page 3 College-Age Committee.................. page 12

HavDairy......................................... page 14 Calendar...................................pages 16, 17

Turkey Drive 2015 HOPE’S food pantry distributes groceries to more than 900 families in New Rochelle. There are more than 600 children in these families.

Without our help, many of these families will not have a Thanksgiving meal.

For more than twenty years, Beth El Synagogue Center has made a BIG difference by providing more than 225 turkeys each year to HOPE. Help us continue and enlarge our “chesed” by making a contribution of $25 or more.

dropped off in the office, or mailed to Beth El. Please write HOPE TURKEY DRIVE on the memo line of your check.

Each family who supports our Turkey Drive will put their names on a turkey and stick it on our wall in the lower lobby.

Checks payable to Beth El Synagogue Center may be

Enjoy your Thanksgiving by making Help fill our wall!

Thanksgiving possible for our neighbors and their families!

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JOIN THE SMART* PEOPLE

* SMART = Senior Mature Adults Retired Together

In October, The Hon. Lisa Margaret GET SMART GET FIT Smith, Magistrate of the United States 10:30 am - 11:30 am District Court of the Southern District of New York, welcomed our group to her Join us each month! No R.S.V.P. needed.

Members, free • Community, $60 for chambers at The Hon. Charles L. Brieant 10 classes, or $8 for a drop in class.

Jr. Federal Building and Courthouse, in White Plains, for a fascinating insider’s First Wednesday (November 4) look into the federal court system. BALANCE EXERCISE AND FITNESS Addressing elder issues, we met with a court reporter and a federal prosecutor, Using resistance bands, balls, and cones. and came away with a better understanding of how to protect seniors from Led by Tim from Personal Training Institute. financial abuse and theft. Dalia Fenster, a member of our group, described this Second Wednesday (November 11) eye-opening day as “enlightening and informative.”

MIND AND BODY YOGA AND On TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 10th, join us for coffee and a nosh at 10:30 am, MEDITATION, with Kirpal followed by speaker Ken Klonsky at 11:00 am, on Freeing David McCallum: The Theraputic workout from head to toe.

Last Miracle of Rubin Hurricane Carter. Hear the story of the wrongly convicted Third Wednesday (November 18) David McCallum, who spent twenty-nine years in prison for a murder he did not ZUMBA, with Julie commit. He was released in October 2014. This is the story of how a committed Offers a low intensity dance workout, group of lay people and legal professionals worked together to achieve his release. dancing to different music genres.

On TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 24th, join us at 9:30 am for coffee and a nosh.

At 10:00 am, attorney Rita K. Gilbert (who concentrates on estate planning, real Fourth Wednesday (November 25) estate, and family law) will offer an introduction of our speaker, Cindy J. Kanusher, CHAIR YOGA for Every Body, with Nan Executive Director of PACE Women’s Justice Center. Ms. Kanusher will discuss Improve your health through an amazing Westchester County’s leading civil legal services and training provider addressing form of breathing exercises. domestic violence and elder abuse.

Questions? Call Julie Rockowitz at R.S.V.P. to JRockowitz@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext 256. No charge. 914-235-2700, ext. 256.

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VETERANS SHABBAT

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 14th Join us to recognize our veterans. If you are a veteran and would like to participate in this special service, contact Hazzan Jamie Gloth at jgloth@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 252.

Are you a World War II veteran?

Blood Drive Sunday Morning, December 6th 8:30 am - 12:30 pm at Beth El Synagogue Center

If so, please contact Nathan Fisher at NFisher@dealcloser.biz. We have a special project in mind!

New York Blood Center will be here!

Blood cannot be manufactured.

The one pint you donate can help to save three patients! We need all of you in order to meet our community’s need for blood.

We look forward to honoring you!

Schedule your appointment by: • Visiting bethelnr.org/blooddrive, or • Call the office at 914-235-2700, ext. 223, or • E-mail Mitch Kaphan, benrblooddrive@gmail.com

ANNUAL HOMECOMMING SHABBAT Saturday, November 28, during Shabbat Services

We invite all college students home for Thanksgiving break, and their families, to come say “hi”! A few of our college students will be speaking about their experience of Jewish life on campus during the service. A kiddush lunch will follow services.

co-sponsored by The Beth El Men’s Club and Temple Israel of New Rochelle

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RABBI’S MESSAGE Dear Friends, One of the most beautiful aspects of the schmooze events that we have held is listening to people reflect on the significance of Beth El in their lives.

Rabbi There have been David A. Schuck so many precious moments in the lives of people that have been intimately connected to this synagogue.

After each schmooze, I am left feeling awe at the degree to which a synagogue can play such a significant role in the lives of so many families.

There is also a lot of discussion around questions relating to the future of our synagogue. Our dreams for synagogue life are varied, yet in each discussion, there is a tacit acknowledgment that if we are to thrive as a community, we will have to be open to change. Even when we know the truth of this notion, it still generates a sense

of anxiety. Suggestions of change naturally induce questions regarding how we will each fit within the community as it reshapes itself.

The topic that is brought up consistently in these conversations is prayer. We have many different experiences of prayer and we have many strong feelings about what is working in our synagogue services. As I reflect on the feedback that I hear and the things that I see, I ask only one thing of the community: as we ponder our future prayer community, we ought to approach each issue that arises with a sense of curiosity.

Synagogues spend a great deal of emotional energy on changing “policies” when it comes to services; we invest hours of meetings and conversations in an attempt to determine the right policy for a given issue. Policies are important. They define us and hold us to a standard that we aspire to live up to, but to determine the right policy or character of services, we need to first experiment with many different expressions of prayer.

My approach to navigating these questions is to create a posture of openness

to experimentation, knowing full well that some of the things that we try will fail. If we are open to new things, we will give ourselves the opportunity to discover aspects of communal prayer that may surprise us. Just because we try something new on Shabbat doesn’t mean that we are establishing a new practice, it simply means that we are experimenting with it. For example, I did not sit on the bimah on Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah. I wanted to see what it felt like to daven among the congregation rather than separate from everyone up on the bimah. The experience was completely different for me, and it gave me a new perspective on what it feels like to pray in our sanctuary. When I did this, there were some people who wondered if I was making a statement or creating a new policy, when in the end, I was just curious to see how things were different from the perspective of the congregation.

As we continue having conversations about our community, please try to be open [continued, page 5, bottom]

NOTES FROM THE HAZZAN November is my favorite month of the year. I have always loved the autumn weather Hazzan Jamie Gloth and especially the colorful array of leaves that gradually spreads from the treetops to the ground.

My favorite holiday, Thanksgiving, caps off the month, and the general lack of Jewish holidays allows us to get into a regular rhythm. I find it relaxing, and the perfect time of year to reflect on the many blessings in my life.

I am lucky. I live in a warm house and have ample food on the table. Of course, we know that there are so many others in our community who are less fortunate and do not always have enough to eat. As the temperature drops, it is difficult not to think about the challenges these people face every day.

Each year, in conjunction with HOPE Community Services, Beth El, led by the efforts of our own Frankie Shahar, solicits

monetary donations to help provide turkeys to those families in our community who cannot afford one. The need continues to grow, and this year, more than ever, we need your help so everyone can have a happy Thanksgiving.

I invite each of you to contribute to our annual Turkey Drive this year. For just $25, you can provide a turkey and a Thanksgiving meal for a family in need. Simply bring in or mail a check, made out to Beth El Synagogue Center, with “HOPE Turkey Drive” on the memo line (see Bulletin, page 2). When you do, you can hang up a Beth El turkey on our Turkey Drive wall to show your support of this important cause. Thanks to your support, last year our Turkey Drive was incredibly successful, out-performing past Turkey Drives at Beth El. I am confident that we can do it again this year. Please take the time to help those in our community who need it most.

In addition to it being my favorite month, this November I am especially excited that Beth El Synagogue Center will 4

play host to the METNY USY Fall Kinnus convention from November 13-15. I met most of my closest friends in USY, including my wife, and I am thrilled that we have such an active group of teens in our awardwinning Beth El USY chapter.

As host to this annual convention, we all have the opportunity to witness something truly special. Over 250 teens from all over the New York area will be converging on Beth El for a weekend of prayer, education, Jewish community, and ruach—Jewish spirit. I encourage you to join us for religious services on Shabbat, all of which will be completely led by USYers. You will be inspired by our Jewish future.

We are still looking for volunteers to help out over the course of the weekend.

If you have a few spare feet of floor space, perhaps you might be willing to house a few USYers. It’s easy, and you do not have to have a teen living at home to host. We also need volunteers to help throughout the

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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE There is no such thing as a free lunch . . . except maybe at Beth El $15,000 last year. The charge to sponsor a luncheon just about covers the cost for the food. Only when there are multiple luncheon sponsors is there any profit to offset the costs for unsponsored luncheons (currently there are approximately twenty Samuel E. Berger kiddushes through June 2016 that remain without any sponsor). The cost to sponsor a “basic” luncheon is $750, which comes out to approximately $3.35 per person with 225 people attending on a typical Shabbat. That is a very reasonable, if not unheard of, cost for a lunch in our neighborhood, or anywhere for that matter. If you are unable to afford the cost to sponsor a luncheon, please consider making a donation to the General Fund to help defray the cost of our world- reknown Kiddush luncheons.

Whether it’s in honor of your birthday, anniversary, or other joyous occasion, or simply to help cover the cost in appreciation of our wonderful tradition that has enhanced your Shabbat experience and been a source of many happy memories, your sponsorship of a Kiddush or donation to the General Fund will be greatly appreciated by and benefit our entire community. I have a birthday in December so Tris and I will be an additional sponsor on December 5th. In the hopes that you’ll consider doing the same, a list of unsponsored Kiddush luncheons appears on page 18. And, of course, we welcome additional sponsors for ANY luncheons if you prefer a different date.

Please help support this special Shabbat experience for all to enjoy!

See you in shul, Sam

Dear Friends: We have all heard the expression that there is no such thing as a free lunch. However, at Beth El we have free sit-down kiddush luncheons almost every Shabbat throughout the year. Our sit down Kiddush lunch is cited by our members as one of the beautiful benefits of our sacred community—a weekly opportunity to sit with friends and catch up, meet new people, make new friends, and simply enjoying Shabbat together. I remember the many wonderful Shabbatot as Yali and Kenny were growing up, coming up to Kiddush after Torah for Tots and Junior Congregation to enjoy some “grown up time” around the kiddush table with our friends, while all our kids enjoyed some play time together. Friendships grew through this weekly breaking of bread and, looking back, Tris and I realize that some of our closest relationships were built through this weekly tradition of a sit down kiddush lunch.

Keeping this tradition alive has been considered a priority of our community throughout the years. Our “kiddush team,” currently led

by Barbara Horowitz, works tirelessly, behind the scenes to make sure everything is ready for us to walk in to a nice meal after services.

But their hard work alone doesn’t make this happen. The costs of the lunch must be covered as well. Each B’nei Mitzvah family sponsors a Kiddush luncheon to celebrate their simcha. The Men’s Club and Sisterhood often sponsor a Kiddush luncheon for various occasions, and many of our members sponsor a Kiddush to celebrate with our community their birthdays, anniversaries, aufrufs, baby namings, and other s’machot. Notwithstanding these many generous sponsors, Kiddush luncheons still cost our budget approximately

RABBI’S MESSAGE, continued from page 4

and curious about different ways that prayer can be engaging.

Remember, when you encounter something different or new, it’s just an experiment, not a new policy or approach. Work to cultivate an openness to new ways of tapping into your spiritual life. This is not the time that we are thinking about setting policies and customs.

For now, we are just trying different approaches to communal prayer with the hope that we may discover things that touch us in surprising ways.

L’shalom, Rabbi David A. Schuck

HAZZAN NOTES, continued from page 4

weekend, including driving to host homes, registration and luggage, meals (cooking, serving, cleaning up), and supervising. Even if you only have an hour of time to lend, we appreciate your help! You can get more information and sign up to volunteer on our website,http:// www.bethelnr.org/events/fallkinnus2015/.

Finally, if you have students in grades 9-12 who have not yet registered to attend this amazing weekend, please contact Bekkah Gold at rgold@bethelnr.org, or Jen Vegh at jvegh@bethelnr.org immediately for more information.

It is going to be a November to remember!

Hazzan Jamie Gloth 5

Limmud Classes for November 2015 Sunday, November 1

1:00 pm

Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri

Wednesday, November 4

7:30 pm

Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck

Thursday, November 5

10:00 AM

Thursday, November 5

7:00 pm

WAJE: “Talmud’s Twists & Turns,” with Rabbi Hojda Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri

Friday, November 6

10:00 am

Parshat Hashavua, with Rabbi Josh Dorsch and Jack Gruenberg

Saturday, November 7

12:45 pm

ShabbaTunes, with Hazzan Jamie Gloth

Saturday, November 7

1:00 pm

Daf Shevui

Sunday, November 8

1:00 pm

Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri

Wednesday, November 11

7:30 pm

Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck

Thursday, November 12

10:00 am

Thursday, November 12

7:00 pm

Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri

Thursday, November 12

8:00 pm

Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad

Friday, November 13

10:00 am

WAJE: ”Talmud’s Twists & Turns,” with Rabbi Hojda

1:00 pm

Daf Shevui

Sunday, November 15

1:00 pm

Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri

Wednesday, November 18

7:30 pm

Introduction to Judaism with Rabbi Schuck

Thursday, November 19

10:00 am

Thursday, November 19

7:00 pm

Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri

Thursday, November 19

8:00 pm

Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad

10:00 am

Save these dates . . .

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 6 Hanukkiyyah lighnting FRIDAY, DECEMBER 11 Special Friday Night Hanukkah Dinner and Program Watch for information on GIVING TUESDAY, DECEMBER 1

Parshat Hashavua, with Rabbi Josh Dorsch and Jack Gruenberg

Saturday, November 14

Friday, November 20

Hanukkah is coming!

WAJE: ”Talmud’s Twists & Turns,” with Rabbi Hojda

Parshat Hashavua with Rabbi Josh Dorsch and Jack Gruenberg

Saturday, November 21

8:30 am

A Modern Understanding of the Bible, “The Book of Psalms,” with Rabbi Blumenfeld

Saturday, November 21

10:30 am

Saturday, November 21

1:00 pm

Daf Shevui

Sunday, November 22

1:00 pm

Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri

Monday, November 23

8:00 pm

Torah on Tap, with Rabbi Dorsch (off-site)

Saturday, November 28

1:00 pm

Daf Shevui

Shabbat Discussion Group, with Jack Gruenberg

“A Modern Understanding of the Ancient Biblical Psalms” Rabbi David L. Blumenfeld, Ph.D. (Near Eastern Literature and Languages)

The Forces of Nature, Henotheism, Comparative Canaanite Poetry, “The Song of the Stairs,” Musical Instruments in Temple Times

November 21st 8:30 am - 9:30 am in the Board Room

• All Ulpan classes are taught by Miri Ben Avi. For questions, contact her at miriulpan@gmail.com, or 914-602-1503.

• For information about WAJE, e-mail WAJE@wjcouncil.org, or phone Alice Tenney at 914-325-7001.

• For questions about all other programs, contact Rabbi Josh Dorsch at jdorsch@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 260.

Saturday, November 7th 12:45 pm 6

All are welcome. No fee.

Additional dates are:December 12, March 12, April 2, and May 21.

BETZELEM ELOKIM—BELONGING AT BETH EL LET’S BE RADICAL . . .

If you attended “Belonging at Beth El—A Different Voice” on October 22, thank you. That special event galvanized a Beth El-wide effort to create what might be called a culture of radical inclusion. Not so radical really… To get a taste of what it means to have a “culture of inclusion,” I am sharing with you an excerpt from an op-ed article Jay Ruderman* wrote just before the High Holy Days.

“Ed Frim, an inclusion specialist at United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, said that true inclusion goes much deeper than making synagogue life accessible. “Inclusive congregations are mindful of everyone who is part of the community,” he said. “They establish a culture that takes for granted that all, including those with disabilities, have the right to fully participate as part of the congregation.”

“It’s not just about training ushers to be welcoming to people with disabilities and helping them find their way, it’s about turning the entire congregation into ushers, who seek to create a welcoming environment, he said.

Just as important as building a culture of inclusion is affecting a shift in attitude about how we think of disabilities. Rabbi Noah Cheses of Shaarei Shomayim Congregation, in Toronto, recalls an ‘aha’ moment when his perspective on disabilities changed from seeing just the disability to seeing the whole person.

A senior in high school had come to speak at a retreat Cheses was attending.

The student had a muscular disorder that required him to be in a wheelchair.

It was clear from the moment he began speaking that this charismatic young man was not defined by his disability.

“He asked us to take out a piece of paper and make a list of [perceived] personal shortcomings,” recounted Rabbi Cheses. “We were then instructed to introduce ourselves to the person next to us in the following way: “Hi, my name is X, and I have such and such.”

“For a moment, I felt what it was like to be identified by my personal limitations . . . as if my passions and talents were being overshadowed and pushed aside by something beyond my control.”

It was that realization, among others, that motivated Rabbi Cheses to

seek change in his congregation. The congregation made physical changes — among other things, it built an accessible ark—but the rabbi also sought to make spiritual changes and help his congregants experience the same ‘aha’ moment that he had at the retreat.

Indeed, it is these spiritual changes —viewing all of God’s people as bringing unique contributions to the world—that can turn a congregation from a collection of people to a holy community.”

I have already experienced Beth El as such a “holy community” of wonderful people. To continue to grow spiritually and physically, however, we continually seek to raise ourselves to higher ground.

So please contact us at inclusion@ bethelnr.org, whether you would like to share your experiences, express concerns, or simply ask a question.

Elise Richman Chair of Betzelem Elokim elisekrichman@gmail.com *Jay Ruderman is the president of The Ruderman Family Foundation. On November 16, Rabbi Dorsch and I will be representing Beth El at the USCJ Convention 2015 as part of a presentation by the Ruderman Inclusion Action Committee, directed by Ed Frim.

BETH EL SYNAGOGUE CENTER

BETH EL and UJA-FEDERATION present

AND

“BUILDING BRIDGES ACROSS RELIGIOUS DIVIDES IN ISRAEL”

ISRAEL BONDS invite you to a

Community Night for Israel and Dessert Reception

with Rabbi David Stav

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 16th 7:30 pm

Thursday, November 19th • 7:30 pm

at Beth El Synagogue Center

at beth el synagogue center

An influential global rabbinic leader, Rabbi David Stav plays a crucial role in broadening the conversation in Israel around the challenging religious issues of conversion, marriage, and the role of the Chief Rabbinate in Israeli civil society. He is at the forefront of efforts to make Israeli civil society more welcoming to Jews of all backgrounds. $18 couvert R.S.V.P. to Susan Scharf Glick at 914-761-5100, ext. 120, or glicks@ujafedny.org.

GUEST SPEAKER SGT. BENJAMIN ANTHONY

Combat Veteran and Reservist, IDF Founder of “Our Soldiers Speak”

will discuss “From the Front Lines of Combat to the Headlines in the Media—Separating Fact from Fiction” To R.S.V.P. (no charge), or for information, contact cynthia.blustein@israelbonds.com, or 914-713-9003.

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MEMORIES TO GO: OUR STORIES ABOUT THE TWENTIETH CENTURY

In our Jewish world, autumn means more than riotous colors, birds migrating, shortening days, and school starting. To us it means “The Holidays.” The rapid succession of holidays have us spiritually moving from repentance and forgiveness to fun outdoor meals in the Sukkah, marching with the luluv and etrog, and ending with the happy commotion of Simchat Torah. There is no Jewish woman who does not have an opinion on these holidays. What follows is a selection of perspectives on the holidays by members of our writing class.

First, I thank God for all the wonderful autumn holidays. Then, I thank Him when all the holidays have finally ended. I hope He understands.

Anonymous I literally count down the days until “The Holidays.” Somewhere in August, I look up the date—is it early or late? Does it involve a Saturday? It is extra long to have yontif and Shabbat together. How many weeks to Rosh Hashanah? Is there time for me to bake all the things my family looks forward to? Mandelbrot? Rugalach? Nut cake? Those double chocolate cookies?

My beautiful round raisin challot? How will it all get done on time? What will the new fruit be? Kumquats? Ugli fruit?

Persimmon? Pomegranate? I know we will have honeydew and grapes for dessert—and my grandma’s cut glass bowl will hold all l have. Aba will polish the silver and inspect the crystal for spots and once again we will usher in the New Year with apples and honey and high hopes to do the same thing next year. Early or late, whenever “The Holidays”

come, we will celebrate!

Bernice Ward

This is one of the most beautiful seasons of the year in the Northeast. The air is crisp, not cold; the leaves are turning brown, gold, orange and red. Its wonderful to be outdoors.

However, I believe the weather angel got a bit confused this year and sent us down too much rain. It is also the time for the Jewish holidays. Although it is very nice to see all of the people who come to synagogue only at this time of year, there are so many people all bunched together that the synagogue gets very crowded. There are also so many services to attend that it is very difficult not to get “shuled” out. However, who are we to decide what time of year holidays should happen?

Blanche Fried The High Holidays (Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur) and Sukkot and Simchat Torah, usher in the time of introspection for Jews around the world. At this time of year, we are expected to take stock of our lives and our behaviors, good and bad, and ask God for forgiveness for all the mistakes we have made during the previous year. Even more importantly, this is the time to ask for forgiveness from anyone we have hurt intentionally or unintentionally. The Gates of Heaven close on Yom Kippur, when our fates have been meted out. Although this is a very powerful concept, I personally feel that our weekly Shabbat services keep us closer to Judaism and have kept our religion alive for generation after generation. Shirley Katz Sunrise and sunset, yes the days go swiftly by and one season follows another. I

realize that only the barn owl hoots through the evening. The katydids have mysteriously disappeared leaving an eerie silence in their wake. The grass has grown sparse as it ages and turns from green to gray on the hill and the bright flowers of fall shout out in all their glory in one spectacular arrangement, one last gasp. The eternal sun that warmed my bare toes is now showing up late and leaving early.

There is a time for each season. Arriving in the hill towns of southern Italy, I experienced my husband’s joy of the trebbia, the wheat harvest; of the men with the threshing machine and the women carrying the baled wheat on their heads. This is harvest time.

Nowadays, I go to Costco and buy grapes from Chile, papayas from Hawaii, mangoes from Jamaica. The world has gone flat and it has taken so much of the joy of the seasons with it. I order a pumpkin latte at Starbucks and discover that the seasoning has no pumpkin. I buy pumpkin bread and taste zucchini. And still, each holiday demands a variety of foods all its own. I join my Jewish friends under the Sukkah and pray to our one God that I will not freeze as I devour the fruits of the fall. We all give thanks for the abundance of the harvest—no matter where or when that harvest occurred. It is a new year and we rejoice, as did our ancestors and their ancestors. All too soon the land will sleep, the fields will lie fallow, the lakes will turn hard, and we will bundle ourselves as we race from home to store, hunting and gathering at Stop & Shop or DeCicco’s. We all thank our one God for so much abundance in our lives Sheila Mignone [cont., page 9, bottom]

The New Rochelle Chapter of Hadassah is pleased to present

Elena Procario-Foley, Ph.D.

driscoll professor of jewish and catholic studies, iona college

“Iona College: Engaging the Community” Distinguished lecture series, Council on the Arts, Jewish-Catholic studies—all fostering dialogue and exploration within our community. We are honored to bring Dr. Procario-Foley, to our program. It is through these initiatives that Iona College brings nationally and internationally recognized scholars from around the world to our neighborhood, creating opportunities for community education at all levels. Learn about the exciting happenings right here in New Rochelle.

Monday, November 9th

Beth El Synagogue Center, New Rochelle, NY Light lunch: 12:30

pm

• Program: 1:00 8

pm

• Everyone welcome!

MEN’S CLUB A Note from Your Men’s Club . . .

Club will be doing its part by preparing and serving breakfast for the over 200 VERY hungry teenagers expected to be in attendance.

Preparation starts early that morning, but plenty of help is needed to mix, cook, set up, and serve. It is a wonderful experience. Please join us!

The Blood Drive, one of our signature community events, will be held at Beth El on Sunday, December 6th, from 8:30 am to 12:30 pm. We will again be jointly sponsoring the event with Temple Israel of New Rochelle. Please sign up at bethelnr.org/blooddrive.

Questions? Contact Mitch Kaphan at BENRblooddrive@gmail.com. (see this Bulletin, page 3).

Mark your calendars for Monday, December 14th. Men’s Club will have another Monday Night Football game, this time featuring the Giants and the Dolphins. Sign up at bethelnr.org/football.

Our monthly meeting will be held on Sunday morning, November 8th, at 9:00 am. Stop by for a bagel and shmear. We will discuss assignments for the Kinnus breakfast at that time. If you cannot join us that morning, please send us an e-mail and let us know how you can help.

Rob Levine, gobrother@ralasolutions.com Steve Young, beprez@optonline.net

Our first events of the year were social—Steak and Scotch (and Bourbon) in the Sukkah and Monday Night Football. We built camaraderie and had fun at both.

The month of November shifts our focus to communal needs.

Members of Beth El Men’s Club will be participating in the annual “Light the Night Walk” (run by the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society) on Saturday evening, November 7th. This walk supports research, therapies, and treatments for patients with blood cancers. Plan on joining us at Rye Playland as part of Team Mitch. For details, check out Beth El Men’s Club past president Mitch Kaphan’s page at http://pages.lightthenight.org/ctwhv/Wstchstr15/TeamMitch.

I am sure you will be reading about the amazing efforts of the entire Beth El community in hosting the METNY USY Regional Fall Kinnus from November 13th to November 15th. The Men’s

Men’s Club Monthly Meeting Sunday, November 8th • 9:00 am Join us for a bagel and schmear and help plan our upcoming events

KERUV COMMITTEE Why belong to a synagogue?

There are many Jewish people in our community, and indeed around the country, who are not affiliated with a synagogue. These people feel Jewish, call themselves Jewish, and identify with the Jewish people. They are not of a religious frame of mind and, though Jewish, do not see any reason to support a local synagogue. Some of our own synagogue members have given up their membership after their child passed bar/bat mitzvah age because the synagogue has lost its usefulness to them. Membership is an expense they think can do without and they believe they do not get any benefit from it.

But is that really the case?

When I drive up Quaker Ridge Road and come to North Avenue, I see ahead of me the tangible display of Jewish life, and of Jewish feeling and effort: the Menorah on the East wall of Beth El Synagogue Center, facing the street. To the person passing by this represents the presence of a Jewish community. Is it good for the Jewish people? If you want to make it known that there is a Jewish presence in New Rochelle, decidedly yes.

Does the unaffiliated Jew get any benefit from this?

We are not the dominant religion of this country. We swim in the sea of Christian culture. Even Christmas, a quintessential religious holiday, is a national holiday. It infuses the national, secular life of the community, and of the whole country, with a religious quality.

It imposes its values, customs, and traditions on the cultural life of the community: Christmas trees, Santa Claus, crèche, Christmas

parades. There are Christmas carols and popular Christmas songs, some written by Jews, in the air around us. It would be easy for Jews to be overwhelmed by this culture and simply join with it.

Lately, national recognition of other religions and cultures has been growing in the United States, sometimes for the good, sometimes for bad. Certainly Judaism, the religion and its practices, has become known and generally accepted. The presence of a Jewish community, and the synagogue as a tangible evidence of that community, is a counterforce to this Christian religiosity in secular life. It is a reminder to the community in general that there is a large and lively populace among them who have different, and valuable customs and traditions; that there is more than one way to be an American.

And the synagogue is a reminder to Jews, affiliated or not, that Jewish life is here. It is a reminder to all that the larger community is composed of more than one group, more than one way of living.

Does the unaffiliated Jew get benefit from this? Yes. Is he getting something of value without making effort to sustain it? Yes. The synagogue building is an ongoing reminder to all of the presence of Jewish life. Though this is not the purpose for which the synagogue was built, its concrete existence has a real effect on the community at large. This should not be overlooked by the Jews in the community, whether or not they are members. And those who are not members need to be reminded of it and encouraged to join.

Bob Sussman

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of us newcomers from an Ashkenazi background arrived, some families got together and rented an old colonial house that was converted into a house of prayer. That was the one that we joined.

I remember being on my father’s shoulders while he danced with a Torah in his arms. It is a warm and very pleasant memory of my first Jewish celebration in our new home.

Ruth Kon

The festival of Simchat Torah has a special significance for me because it reminds me of my childhood. It was the first Jewish holiday that I remember celebrating in the New World, in Uruguay, after our arrival from Germany a few days before. There had been a Sephardic synagogue in Uruguay for a long time. When so many 9

Join Sisterhood for an innovative program on the

Tuesday, November 17 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm

Tonia, an expert on fashion and styling, will conduct an interactive program that will help you achieve a new level of confidence in your appearance and build self awareness for the styles and clothing best suited to you.

Have a glass ofwine and enjoy an evening with Sisterhood!

OPEN TO ALL! at Beth El Synagogue Center

ANNOUNCING OUR 2016 BOOK CLUB SCHEDULE We meet on Monday mornings, beginning at 9:30 am.

Please save these dates!

January 11 February 29 March 28 April 18 May 23 June 20 July 25 August 29 September 26 October 31 November 21 December 19

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SISTERHOOD Sisterhood Scene “I’m too busy.” I hear that a lot. (In fact, sometimes, I am the one saying it!) It is a response that I often receive when I ask Beth El members to participate in Sisterhood events and help with our efforts to enhance Jewish life in our community.

I know there are a lot of demands on our time—work, family, leisure activities, and exercise. Our Beth El Sisterhood members are some of the most active women I have ever met! But as busy as we all are, we somehow manage to find the time to take care of our responsibilities to our families, while also making time to volunteer at Beth El. Our active members find it satisfying and fulfilling, and have many have made new friendships along the way.

If you have not yet joined Beth El Sisterhood, I encourage you to consider

joining us now by contacting either of our membership chairs—Sandy Gruenberg, gamson36@gmail.com; or Linda Resnick, cosa48@yahoo.com.

If you have joined Sisterhood, but have not attended one of our events yet, please see the information on this page with details about upcoming activities. There is something to fit almost anyone’s interests and time schedule. We also have a listing of activities on the Beth El website at bethelnr. org, click on calendar, then Sisterhood for dates and details of upcoming events.

I also encourage you to support our fund-raising efforts by contributing to our Torah Fund campaign and by patronizing our newly revitalized Baum Judaica Gift Shop.

I look forward to seeing you soon!

Shalom, Barbara Horowitz, President

Torah Fund Pins Available—Get Yours Now! Nat’ah karem is written on the beautiful 5776/2016 Torah Fund pin.

It represents the appreciation for the hard-working, generous, familyoriented woman who “plants a vineyard” by her own labors. She is productive, independent and creative.

Pins are given in appreciation of donations of $180 or more; contributions of any amount are gratefully accepted. Contact Rita Kaufman at rita.kaufman@gmail.com, or Susan Morris at sgmorris@optonline.net.

2015 SHOP SMART, DO GOOD FUNDRAISING DAY Lord & Taylor Shopping Benefit FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 13th

Order Your New Cards from Sisterhood!

Large print cards, $9 each Standard print cards, $8 each Orders must be placed by January 1, 2016 Payment is required with your order. Make your check payable to Beth El Sisterhood and return it to the office, attention Arlene Salman.

Please include your name, complete mailing address, phone number, and the number of each card style that you would like to purchase.

Questions? Contact Arlene at 914235-2486, or aesalman@aol.com.

Ongoing Programs CARD ROOM, 12:45 pm: Canasta (Mondays) and Mah Jongg (Tuesdays) meet weekly!

WA L K I N G C L U B meets every Monday at 9:30 am for a nice easy walk—not a jog. All are welcome!

opens at 9:00 am • Eastchester Store only!

Sponsored by Sisterhood & the Nursery School

Pre-shopping (credit card only) begins on November 6th Purchase a ticket for a $5 donation, which serves as your admission to this event. The ticket includes two 25% bonus coupons, with very limited exclusions, and your 15% savings pass (usable all day), good on regular- and sale-priced items, including cosmetics and fragrances! Plus, you can save an additional 10% on top of all the other great savings when you use your Lord & Taylor credit card.

For tickets or questions, contact Linda Resnick at 914-576-3632 or cosa48@yahoo.com; Rachel Messinger in the Nursery School at DancingRM@ gmail.com or 917-822-6958; or in the synagogue office at 914-235-2700, ext. 223/226, or visit LordandTaylor.com/dogoodeastchester (Be sure to enter Beth El Synagogue Sisterhood New Rochelle in the drop down).

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BAGELS & BOOKS BOOK CLUB usually meets on the last Monday of the month, at 9:30 am. Join us on November 30th for An Officer and a Spy, by Robert Harris.

MITZVAH KNITTING meets once a month on Wednesdays. Lessons and supplies are available. For information, e-mail Phyllis at pjf920@verizon.net.

QUESTIONS? Contact Arlene Salman, aesalman@aol.com, or 914-235-2485.

Full Life, but an Empty Nest? Join the College-Age Committee for An Evening with Wendy Aaronsson, Author of Refeathering the Empty Nest Monday, November 30th, 7:15 pm at Beth El Synagogue Center Share your thoughts and challenges of life after the children leave. Children grow up, they go to college, move out, and recreate their own lives and their own homes. The role of the parent changes, diminishes, and evolves. Wendy’s stories provide hope to anyone whose nest is about to empty, as well as to those whose nests already are.

Wendy Aronsson was chosen as a finalist in the Relationships Category for the Annual Books for a Better Life Awards. This title was selected from nearly 500 submissions received in ten self-improvement categories.

Don’t miss this compelling evening! Bring your friends! Participate in a raffle for Wendy’s fascinating book! Your R.S.V.P. would be appreciated. E-mail one of the chairs of the College-Age Committee—Debra Ackerman at Acker5Family@ gmail.com, or Lori Schwartz at oreomets@yahoo.com. Questions? Contact Julie Rockowitz at JRockowitz@bethelnr.org.

Our evening begins with hors d’oeuvres and sweets at 7:15 pm, followed by the author’s talk at 7:30 pm, and questions and discussion at 8:30 pm. We will pack our Hanukkah packages for our college students at 8:45 pm.

CO-CHAIRS:

Karen Rosenfeld & Susan Banker committee members include:

Ellen and Moshe Gelboim Nathan Rosenfeld

CALL FOR BAR/BAT MITZVAH CANDIDATES If you have a child who is currently in 5th grade, please complete the

online form at www.bethelnr. org/bmitzvahdate/ or contact Hazzan Gloth at jgloth@bethelnr. org or 914-235-2700, ext. 252,

by Monday, November 9th.

Thank you!

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 19th Advocates Circle Reception, 6:30 pm General Admission & Dinner, 7:30 pm AT METROPOLIS COUNTRY CLUB 289 Dobbs Ferry Road, White Plains, New York honoring

Marcy and John Harris

with the ADL in Westchester Award for Philanthropic Leadership and

Rabbi Emily Korzenik

with the ADL in Westchester Award for Community Service Leadership and a special presentation by

Jonathan Greenblatt National Director

~ reservations required ~ Visit ADL.org/ADLinWestchester2015, call 212-885-7866, or e-mail egreenblatt@adl.org. Questions? E-mail Karen at klrosenfeld0407@gmail.com.

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YOUTH & FAMILY ENGAGEMENT YOUTH COMMUNITY HIGHLIGHTS Sunday, November 1

Thursday, November 5 Sunday, November 8

Tuesday, November 10 Wednesday, November 11 Thursday, November 12 Friday, November 13 to Sunday, November 15 Tuesday, November 17

DOR l’DORways: Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute, 10:30 am METNY USY Social Action Day USY Kinnus Prep, 6:00 pm Rosh Hodesh Parent Learning, 9:15 am -10:00 am Chaverim Minute to Win It, 12:00 pm - 1:15 pm USY Kinnus Prep, 6:00 pm USY Kinnus Prep, 6:00 pm USY Kinnus Prep, 6:00 pm

Friday, November 20 Sunday, November 22

Tuesday, November 24

Kadima Shabbat Dinner, 6:00 pm (off-site) DOR l’DORways: Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute, 10:30 am Ruach Candyland, 11:00 am-12:15 pm Emek USY Dance Marathon Beth El USY Board Meeting, 6:00 pm

METNY USY Regional Fall Kinnus, at Beth El Rosh Hodesh Girls

Watch your e-mail for information about other upcoming Youth Events!

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL HIGHLIGHTS Sunday, November 1

Olim & Tichon Educator Meeting

Thursday, November 5

Gan-Gesher Educator Meeting

Sunday, November 8

Rosh Hodesh Kislev Super Hero Day, Art for Gimel-Hey

Thursday, November 12

Art for Alef and Bet

Thursday, November 19

Dorothy Fleishaker Dancing Letters Program for Alef,

Bet, and Gimel

Sunday, November 22

Art for Gimel - Hey

Monday, November 30

Religious School Board Meeting, 8:00 pm

Youth Community Update In October, our youth events kicked off with tons of fun. Our new Ruach advisor, Dani Samet, welcomed over twenty-five kindergarten through second graders for Noah’s Animals Day, with The Nature Company. They met a rabbit, chinchilla, boa constrictor, and more! Chaverim (3rd5th grades) had a very merry Un-Birthday Celebration with their new advisor, Max Leader, complete with a cake decorating contest and birthday games. Kadima (6th8th grades) got moving with Bekkah for their Crazy Relay Races, while USY rolled up sushi in the Carr-Gloth sukkah and shared in a Shabbat dinner at the Schuck home. Our basketball teams also got “on the ball” for their first practices of the season. It was a fabulous October in the Youth Community!

We are excited to host over 250 USYers for the METNY USY Fall Kinnus, November 13-15. See the front cover of this Bulletin for details. It’s not too late to offer your help with housing and extra hands during the weekend. Contact Jen at jvegh@ bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 247.

Religious School News

follow the Religious School on Twitter! @bethelrelschool

With all of the holidays behind us, our Religious School classes have been exploring the full spectrum of their curriculum. From theology and Tanach to Hebrew and Jewish values, there is so much to learn and so many creative ways to learn! Our classes can be found playing Hebrew Twister, building with natural materials, recreating historical moments, writing their own midrashim, playing t’fillah (prayer) matching games, and more. We’d love to share some of the amazing learning that happens in the Religious School. Stop by to learn more!

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The rain couldn’t stop Beth El USY from enjoying Sushi in the (Kasakove) Sukkah.

Learners in Kitah Alef baking Challah with Morah Dara.

(r) Learners in Kitah Hey playing a T’fillah Matching Game with Morah Rebecca.

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Ruach had so much fun with Noah’s Animals and absolutely loved connecting it to Parashat Noah.

D GEARE RDS TOWA ED EN-AG T R A G R NGER KINDE & YOU N E R CHILD

HavDairy!

Saturday, November 21st 5:30 pm - 7:00 pm

HAVDALAH (Hebrew, meaning “separation”) is a Jewish religious ceremony that marks the symbolic end of Shabbat and ushers in the new week. Shabbat ends on Saturday night after the appearance of three stars in the sky.

Join us for a delicious DAIRY DINNER, a musical HAVDALAH service, an exciting art activity, and a SNUGGLE STORY from PJ Library. Come in your pajamas—your teachers will be wearing their pajamas too! $25/family • $20/family (Beth El members) REGISTER AT BETHELNR.ORG/HAVDAIRY For more information, please contact Ronnie Becher at nursery@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 250; or Shery Rosenstein at srosenstein@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 235.

Sponsored by JLiFE (Jewish Living and Family Engagement).

FALL SESSIONS

Baby U

A series of interactive experiences for parents of babies in their first year

Workshop for parents & babies on Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30 am

OPEN TO THE PUBLIC

$20 PER

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November 10 – Troubleshooting Sleep Challenges $15 FOR B ETH E in the First Year with Joanna Winograd and MEMBERS L Lauren Lappen November 17 – Maintaining a Strong Relationship with your Partner with Shari Baum December 1 – Fresh Food for Baby with Dini Klein 14

NURSERY SCHOOL NEWS This past month, chock full of holidays, afforded the Nursery School children an expansive opportunity for deep learning. Shofarot, luluvim, etrogim, and Torot were in all of our classrooms.

There was intense blowing, shaking, smelling, exploring, and comparing.

We decorated our outdoor school sukkah with murals, wall hangings, and many artistic creations. Using lumber and PVC pipes, many of our classes built their own sukkah right in their room!

Classes were also able to enjoy snack and/or lunch in one of the many Sukkot of Beth El. Before Simchat Torah, many of our classes went on a Torah Walk and counted all of the Torot in Beth El Synagogue Center.

While we were in the chapel, we opened the Ark and took out a real Torah. We discussed the many parts of the Torah and we verbalized new Hebrew vocabulary words, including: Beit Kenesset Synagogue Yad Torah pointer M’eel Torah cover Aron Ark Degel Flag Hashem God Siddur Prayer Book

Our gathering culminated in singing and dancing with the Torahs. Subsequently, each class created an Aron Kodesh, an ark, to house their class Sefer Torah.

Once the holidays were completed, we had an opportunity to begin a new tradition in the Nursery School. Families are invited to join us on Monday mornings, at 9:00 am, in the Youth Lounge for a communal Havdalah ceremony. Hazzan Gloth leads us in song and ritual as we compare the customs of beginning the Shabbat and ending the Shabbat. Come join us on Monday morning if you are around!

Having adjusted to life in the classroom with new teachers and friends, it was time for our parents to hear more details about our vision for the school year. On Curriculum Night, the parent body was invited into the classrooms and heard presentations from the staff. Not only was our program outlined, but also parents had an opportunity to engage in their own “play” (building, finger-painting, dress-up, and manipulatives). Everything was documented and books will be published shortly.

Ronnie Becher, Director

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NOVEMBER 2015 MONDAY

SUNDAY 1324 North Avenue New Rochelle, NY 10804-2190 914-235-2700 • www.bethelnr.org

A Conservative synagogue affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi ....................................David A. Schuck Hazzan ........................................Jamie Gloth Associate Rabbi......................Joshua Dorsch Associate Cantor .............................. Uri Aqua Rabbi Emeritus ..................... Melvin N. Sirner Cantor Emeritus...............Lawrence Avery, z”l Hazzan Emeritus ................... Farid Dardashti Executive Director ................. Erica Leventhal Controller ....................................Olivier Vogel Day Camp Director ................ Julie Rockowitz Nursery School Director ........ Ronnie Becher Dir. of Youth & Family Engagement .. Jen Vegh Special Projects Director ........Linda Newman Maintenance Director ...............Milton Sinclair OFFICERS President ............................Samuel E. Berger Executive Vice President... Geralynn C. Reifer Vice President .......................... Daniel Burton Vice President .................. Sandra Gruenberg Vice President ....................Mark Seidenfeld Treasurer .............................. Joseph Wygoda Financial Secretary ...................Debbie Young Recording Secretary ................. Jayne Peister AFFILIATE OFFICERS Sisterhood President .......... Barbara Horowitz Men’s Club Co-Presidents ........Robert Levine Steven L. Young Religious Sch. Parent Org. ...........Ellen Barlis, Rachel Casanova, Marci Marcus

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Beth El maintains morning and evening services every day of the year. Contact Associate Cantor Uri Aqua, 914-235-2700, ext. 222.

Shacharit*

Saturdays – 9:00 am Sundays – 8:00 am Mondays & Thursdays, 6:55 am Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Fridays – 7:00 am *On Thursday, November 26, and Friday, November 27, morning minyan will take place at 8:00 am

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METNY Social Action Day Religious School Kehillah 9:00 AM Family Photo Day 9:00 AM Zumba 9:30 AM Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute 10:30 AM Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 PM

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 AM Walking Club 9:30 AM Canasta 12:45 PM

Daylight Savings Time Ends— Move clock back 1 hour at 2:00 AM

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Men’s Club Meeting 9:00 AM

Religious School Kehillah 9:00 AM Zumba 9:30 AM Chaverim 12:00 PM Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 PM Ritual Committee Meeting 4:30 PM

Schmooze with Rabbi, for Singles 7:30 PM (R.S.V.P. only)

Officers Meeting 7:30 PM

Sisterhood Executive Board Mtg 7:30 PM

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METNY USY Kinnus

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Hadassah 12:30 PM

Mahjong 12:45 PM

Canasta 12:45 PM

USY Kinnus Meeting 6:00 PM

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Nursery School Board Meeting 7:30 PM

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Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 AM

JECA Board Meeting 4:00 PM UJA Rabbi David Stav 7:30 PM

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Religious School Kehillah 9:00 AM

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Baby U 9:30 AM Mahjong 12:45 PM Shevet Achim 4:00 PM

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Zumba 9:30 AM

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 AM Walking Club 9:30 AM

SMART People 10:30 AM

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Institute 10:30 AM

Canasta 12:45 PM

Mahjong 12:45 PM

E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 PM

USY Board Meeting 6:00 PM

Ruach 11:00 AM Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 PM

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Torah on Tap 8:00 PM (OFF-SITE)

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Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 AM

Religious School Closed

Sisterhood Bagels and Books 9:30 AM

Zumba 9:30 AM

Walking Club 11:30 AM Canasta 12:45 PM

Evening Minyan Times Mincha and Maariv

E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 PM College-Age Committee Discussion with Author and Hanukkah Packing 7:30 PM Religious School Board Meeting 8:00 PM

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Nursery Sch. Parent-Teacher Conferences 3s & 4s 5:00 PM Schmooze with Rabbi, for Parents of College-Age students & young professionals 7:30 PM (R.S.V.P. only) Sisterhood The Art of Dressing 7:30 PM Youth Services Committee Mtg. 8:00 PM

Canasta 12:45 PM

Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 PM

Baby U 9:30 AM

Sisterhood General Board Meeting 7:30 PM

Walking Club 9:30 AM

Zumba 9:30 AM

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SMART People 10:30 AM

Board of Trustees 8:00 PM

Religious School Kehillah 9:00 AM

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Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 AM Walking Club 9:30 AM Memories to Go 10:00 AM

Executive Council 7:00 PM

Kristallnacht Commemoration 6:00 PM

Mahjong 12:45 PM

E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 PM

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BULLETIN EDITOR ...............Linda Newman

Daily Minyan

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CHESHVAN ~ KISLEV 5776 WEDNESDAY 4

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FRIDAY

THURSDAY 5

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SHABBAT

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CHAYE SARAH

Toddler Time 9:15 AM SMART People Exercise 10:30 AM

WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 AM

Parashat Hashavua 10:00 AM

4:28PM

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM USY Kinnus Prep. 6:00 PM Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM (OFF-SITE)

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Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 PM

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Toddler Time 9:15 AM WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 AM SMART People Exercise 10:30 AM USY Kinnus Meeting 6:00 PM

Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 PM Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM (OFF-SITE) Choir Rehearsal 8:00 PM VETERANS DAY

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SMART People Exercise 10:30 AM Nursery School Westchester Director Network and Project SEED 2:00 PM

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ROSH HODESH

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WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 AM

Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 PM Community Night for Israel 7:30 PM

Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM (OFF-SITE)

Choir Rehearsal 8:00 PM

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Nursery and Religious Schools Closed

Nursery School Early Dismissal 11:45 AM

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Toddler Time 9:15 AM 4:15 PM

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM

Kadima Shabbat Dinner 6:00 PM (OFF-SITE)

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Nursery and Religious Schools Closed

RoHo Girls 4:00 PM

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2 KISLEV Shabbat ends 5:21PM

Veterans Shabbat Birthday Shabbat METNY USY Fall Kinnus Weekend 9:00 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Daf Shevui 1:00 PM

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Parashat Hashavua 10:00 AM

Synagogue Offices Closed SMART People Exercise 10:30 AM

4:21 PM

METNY USY Fall Kinnus Arrival 2:30 PM Services with congregation 5:45 PM followed by USY Dinner 6:00 PM

ROSH HODESH

Welcoming Chai House Visitors Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Shab. Disc. Grp 10:30 AM Pre-Service Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM ShabbaTunes 12:45 PM Daf Shevui 1:00 PM

TOLEDOT

Parashat Hashavua 10:00 AM Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM

Cub Scouts Meeting 6:00 PM USY Kinnus Meeting 6:00 PM

Shabbat ends 5:27PM

Shabbat ends 5:17 PM

A Modern Understanding of Bible 8:30 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Shab. Disc. Grp 10:30 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Daf Shevui 1:00 PM JLIFE HavDairy 5:30 PM

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4:11 PM

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Shabbat ends 5:14 PM

Homecoming Shabbat Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Daf Shevui 1:00 PM

THANKSGIVING DAY

B’NAI MITZVAH 11/7

Madeline Klonsky

Please visit the Beth El Synagogue Center website, WWW.BETHELNR.ORG for the most current information on meetings and events.

To send us a message, e-mail info@bethelnr.org.

Visit us on facebook at facebook.com/BethElSynagogueCenter

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MAZAL TOV

NOVEMBER YAHRZEITS

The yahrzeit of the following deceased persons permanently inscribed on our Memorial Walls are observed on these dates:

Newsmakers . . .

Mazal tov to:

Max Cooper Philip Fried Estelle Worton Morris Imber Alexander Finn Stanley Fuchs Irving May Harry Desnick Donald Eisenberg Morris Rubenfeld Jeanette Friedman Kitty S. Winter Irene Tanenbaum Sarah Faye Weintraub Rivka Gelboim Elenor Klein Mabel Posner Hyman Shanok Martin Goldstein Charles Kahn Philip Koslow Charles David Greene Herbert Kander Charles Parker Morton Bellin Sarah Diamond Harold Drimmer Edna Schulman Menucha Bryna Benzel Samuel Fuchs Milton H. Farber Arnold Feingold Morris Geller David Sirner Benjamin Solov Harriet Engelson Sadye Lesser Marjorie Silberman

Annette and Mitchell Fogelman on the engagement of their son Daniel Fogelman to Cantor Lauren Phillips, daughter of Dr. Malcolm and Rebecca Phillips; Bert and Greta Gross on the engagement of their granddaughter, Channa Gross, daughter of Stuart and Adina Gross, to Dave Katz, son of Rav Aharon and Sara Dena Katz; Hilde Stern on the birth of great-grandson Ethan Jordan White, and to grandparents Caryn and Harvey Lowy and parents Rachel and Jacob White; Robert and Cindy Hershkowitz on the engagement of their daughter Rachel to Mark Kaplowitz, son of Debbie and Steven Kaplowitz; Av Rivel and Carole Rivel on the bar mitzvah of their grandson Noam Greenstein, son of Deborah and Ami Greenstein; Dorothy and Herb Fox on the engagement of their grandson Maayan Sapir, son of Dr. Rabbi Paul and Saralee Shrell-Fox, to Sharone Sara, daughter of Margolit and Benny Granner-Nadler and Brian Granner; Joy and Steve Rotker on the engagement of their daughter Alicia to Alex Ochoa, son of Celia Ochoa.

A Warm Beth El Mazal Tov to One and All!!

Share your milestone events with us!

We would like to hear about your engagements, births, graduations, losses, and other events. If you experience a milestone or a loss in your family, please contact Linda Newman at LNewman@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext.

246, with your news.

Kiddush The Kiddush of November 7th will be sponsored by Jennifer and Jonathan Klonsky in celebration of the bat mitzvah of their daughter Madeline Klonsky.

The Kiddush of November 21st will be sponsored by the Wenig family in honor of the publication of the third edition of Dr. Bruce Wenig’s textbook.

Can you help? Be a Kiddush Sponsor!

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Nathan Cooper Avraham Gelboim Rose Levin Beate Grunauer Anne Polow Adele Scheffler Lena Weinrib Florence Zarovsky Dorothea Bernstein Alexander Brenner Sydell Heimowitz Marjorie Price Andrew Kaplan John Linden Rhea Newman Samuel Nathan Rubin Anna Stein Fanny Muller Ida Pearlman William Root Dr. Louis Scheinberg Bella Sheffer Jennie Imber Kenneth Paul Kaplan Samuel Mintz Dora Fishman Rebecca C. Gordon Louis Haimoff Florence Lenchner Reuben Gilbert Betty Golub Mildred Gruberger Paul Rivel Elizabeth Rubin Meyer Gordon Samuel Kolins Emanuel Levin

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CONDOLENCES

Kiddush lunch with our fellow congregants is just one of the many things that makes Beth El a special place. Beth El needs your help to sponsor these lunches. We are looking for individuals or families to sponsor a kiddush lunch. For just $750, you can provide lunch on Shabbat. Dates with no sponsor are: December 12 January 9 January 16 January 23 January 30

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We record with sorrow the losses suffered by our members and friends and extend to them our deepest sympathies. Condolences to: Lois Morgenstern on the loss of her husband, Martin Morgenstern.

May 21 May 28 June 4 June 25

Welcome to the Beth El Community The Bradbury Family Of New Rochelle Mitchell and Barbara Bradbury Jonathan, 14; and Isabel, 12

Call Alise Liquorie in the office, 914-235-2700, ext. 223, or e-mail aliquorie@bethelnr.org.

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CONTRIBUTIONS RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Leslie Jaffe in memory of her mother, Fae Chaefsky, on her yahrzeit; Leslie and Stephen Jaffe to wish a speedy recovery to Dr. Robert Chaefsky; Richard Simon; Judy and Mel Gabriel in memory of Elliott Pollack, beloved husband of Helene Pollack; Sheila Tanenbaum in honor of Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua’s baby grandson.

SYLVIA AND ROBERT SCHER CHESED COMMUNITY FUND IN HONOR OF: Ellen Gelboim on her Simchat Torah honor, from Geralynn and David Reifer.

HAZZAN’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

SPECIAL NEEDS FUND

IN HONOR OF:

Dr. Bob Schepp with appreciation for his help and assistance, from Carol and Paul Freedman.

Hazzan Jamie Gloth in appreciation for helping our daughter Ilana prepare for her bat mitzvah, from Carrie Fox and David Shechter.

IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Barbara and Bob Cohen; Lois Kohn-Claar and Gary Claar; Barbara and Bob Cohen; Jacqueline and Avi Einzig; Caryl, Steven, and Debbie Fuchs; Rita and David Kaufman; Betsy and Lance Kravitz and family; Susan Sapiro and Lewis Polishook and family; Geralynn and David Reifer; and Laurie and Eric Roth; the Schepp family; Beth Siegel and Pat Myron and family; Carrie Fox and David Shechter; Laurence and Carla Stein and family; Norma Wasserman, Joyce and Michael Wechsler.

DOROTHY FLEISHKER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Donald Fleishaker.

Yvette Goldstein, beloved mother of Jay Goldstein, from Donald Fleishaker.

THE NURSERY SCHOOL FUND IN HONOR OF: Susan and Robert Goldstein on the birth of their grandson Jacob Ian, from Laurie and Eric Roth.

ELEANOR G. BAUMWALD PRAYERBOOK FUND IN HONOR OF: The bat mitzvah of Ilana Shechter, so glad your parents chose Beth El, from Laura Lewis.

IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Michelle and Eric Maidenberg, and Laura Lewis.

Eva Teitlebaum, from Jack R. Schwartz.

IN HONOR OF:

Dr. Lawrence Epstein with appreciation for his help and assistance, from Carol and Paul Freedman.

Dr. Michael Greenberg for all his work with the museum art shows, from Norma Wasserman.

Uri Aqua for his chanting Selichot, from Norma Wasserman.

Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua on the birth of their grandson, from Wendy and Alan Rosenberg.

Our fortieth wedding anniversary, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

The marriage of our daughter Rachel Legatt to Will Merchan, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Carrie Fox, Simchat Torah honoree, from Norma Wasserman, Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, and Ellen and Jack Hollander.

Ellen Gelboim, Simchat Torah honoree, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, and Ellen and Jack Hollander.

Nina Luban, Simchat Torah honoree, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, and Ellen and Jack Hollander.

Darren Peister, Simchat Torah honoree, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, and Ellen and Jack Hollander.

Rabbi David Schuck, welcome to Beth-El, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

The birth of a son to Debbie and Danny Aqua, grandson of Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

The birth of Chloe Paige Goldberg, daughter of Marisa and Michael Goldberg and granddaughter of Sheila Cohen and Irwin Cohen, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Elizabeth and Alan Legatt on their fortieth wedding anniversary, from the Schepp family.

Elizabeth and Alan Legatt on the marriage of their daughter Rachel Legatt to Will Merchan, from the Schepp family.

IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Judy Hararay, Louise and Jason Silverman, and Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

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GENERAL FUND A generous donation was received from Diane and Eugene Linett.

IN HONOR OF: Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua upon the birth of their grandson, and to parents Danny and Debbie Aqua, from Barbara and Bob Cohen, Mila and Michael Greenberg, and Barbara Finder and Jack Renick.

Yvette Gordon on the birth of her great-grandson, from Mila and Michael Greenberg.

Ronnie and Mitch Kaplan on the birth of a granddaughter, from Mila and Michael Greenberg.

Our Beth El Simchat Torah honorees—Carrie Fox, Ellen Gelboim, Nina Luban, and Darren Peister, from the Schepp family; and Candace, Mark, and Shira Silver.

Nina Luban on her well-deserved Simchat Torah honor, from Barbara and Lawrence Orans.

Rabbi Josh Dorsch in appreciation for helping our daughter Ilana prepare for her bat mitzvah, from Carrie Fox and David Shechter.

Julie Rockowitz on her Woman of Excellence honor, awarded by the New Rochelle Chamber of Commerce, from Barbara and Marc Klee; and Candace, Mark, and Shira Silver.

Beth El members Beth Breakstone and Ted Keltz and family, Elise and Barry Richman and family, Lynn and Martin Keltz and family, and Julia Keltz and Zachary Seiden and family, from Lida and Harold Keltz.

IN MEMORY OF: Trudy Kaplan, beloved mother of Mitchell Kaphan, from Mila and Michael Greenberg.

Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Erica and Larry Epstein, Barbara and Bob Cohen, and Barbara and Marc Klee.

YAHRZEIT/YIZKOR DONATIONS Joel S. Goldstein; Myra Fisch; David Hirsh; Burton and Lila Stern; Betty Grad-Gross; Arthur Elkind; Steven and Rachelle Stern; William Winter; Susan and Jeff Mittleman; Diane and Eugene Linett; Barbara and Jay Lerman.

YOUTH ACTIVITIES FUND IN HONOR OF: Carrie Fox on her Simchat Torah honor, from Geralynn and David Reifer.

Nina Luban on her Simchat Torah honor, from Geralynn and David Reifer.

Darren Peister on his Simchat Torah honor, from Geralynn and David Reifer, and the Kremins family.

CONTRIBUTIONS DAY CAMP SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN HONOR OF: Julie Rockowitz on her Woman of Excellence honor, awarded by the New Rochelle Chamber of Commerce, from Erica and Larry Epstein, Robin and Mitchell Kaphan, Bilha and Jerry Gottlieb, and Carol and Steve Herzberg and family.

Cindy and Robert Hershkowitz on the engagement of their daughter Rachel to Mark Kaplowitz, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Alisa and Ted Kesten on the engagement of their daughter Abbey to Rel Rom, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Dr. Rochelle Chaiken on the engagement of her son Brian Scharfman to Emily Berkowitz, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Ava and Stan Konwiser on the birth of their granddaughter Bia Alison, and to parents Dana and Evan Konwiser, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Our son Adam Kaphan on running the New York City marathon, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua on the birth of their grandson, and to parents Danny and Debbie Aqua, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

Ester Offman, beloved mother of Elaine Holland, from Robin and Mitchell Kaphan.

THE JEREMY SCHEINFELD MEMORIAL FUND IN MEMORY OF: Richard Gloth, beloved father and grandfather of the Carr-Gloth family, from Joy and Steve Rotker.

Yvette Goldstein, beloved mother of Jay Goldstein, from Joy and Steve Rotker and family.

SISTERHOOD MITZVAH FUND IN HONOR OF: Phyllis and Harvey Jay on the engagement of their daughter, from Naomi Raber.

Rochelle Chaiken on the engagement of her son Brian, from Naomi Raber.

IN MEMORY OF: Gert Scheinkman, beloved mother of Al Scheinkman, from Clara Ingwer.

Dr. Richard Gloth, beloved father of Hazzan Jamie Gloth, from Joan and Jonah Atlas, Naomi Raber, and Blanche Fried.

Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund: Call Rise Stern, 914-761-5645, or mail to 59 Bayne Place, White Plains, NY 10605.

Please make your check payable to Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund.

TO MAKE A DONATION Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Make check payable to fund and mail to Lisa in the Rabbi’s Study.

Hazzan’s Discretionary Fund: Make check payable to fund and mail to Debra in the Clergy Study.

PTA Library and PTA Israel Travel Study Funds: Make check payable to individual fund and bring/send it to Beth El’s office.

Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund: Call Rise Stern, (see box at left). Make check payable to Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund.

All other funds: Make check payable to Beth El Synagogue Center, indicate the fund on the memo line, and mail or bring your check to the office.

Minimum contribution, $5 per Bulletin listing for all funds except the Prayerbook Fund. To have a donation card mailed to the recipient, the minimum contribution is $18.

Questions? Contact Alise Liquorie at ALiquorie@bethelnr.org, or 914-2352700, ext. 223.

Beth El Celebrates November Birthdays Beth El Synagogue Center would like to extend a “Happy Birthday!” to its members with a birthday in the month of November.

We hope that you will join us for Kiddush Benjamin Ackerman Gabrielle Altman Gabriela Altman Jonah Atlas Roslyn Barnett Mark Berman Victoria Bloom Fredric Bomback Matthew Bonci Stacy Cerny Rochelle Chaiken Luba Chernov Emma Cohen Sheila Cohen Paul Diament Jill Efron

Lee Ehudin Lawrence Epstein Marc Esrig Jacob Esses Julian Ferdman Davina Fisher Victoria Fisher Sheryl Fleishaker Abbe Fleishaker Moshe Gelboim Samuel Getzler Debra Goldfarb I. David Goldman S. Elizabeth Goldman Robert Goldstein

lunch on Shabbat, November 14th. If you have a November birthday, but your name does not appear on the list, we are sorry for the omission and we ask that you e-mail the synagogue at info@bethelnr.org so that we Daniel Leffell Elizabeth Legatt Nancy Levin Laurie Levine Matthew Evan Lewis Diane Linett Sima Littman Jonathan Lopatin Susan Mandelbaum Emma Medina Meryl Mendelson Marla Mishler Goldie Newman Zipporah Oksman Darren Peister

Helene Goldstein Jonathan Gotian David Grandwetter Libby Gross Heather Herman Susan Hollander Ida Hyman Marc Jacobs Sarah Keltz Vanessa Kerchner Celia Kessel Jonas Kessler Michelle Kolodny Barbara Kotler Deborah Kurlander Barbara Lazarus 20

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Nathaniel Platzner Hyman Pryluck Marcia Pryluck Arnold Reisfeld Debbie Rieber Laurie Roth Evelyn Salter Jodi Scheinfeld Michael Schiffres Edward Schwartz Alan Segal Thalia Segal Samuel Shteingart Douglas Simon Darcy Stack Deborah Stampfer

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