February 2020 Bulletin

February 2020 • Vol. 102, No.7 SHEVAT ~ ADAR 5780 WWW.BETHELNR.ORG

66th Annual Gala to Honor Sandra and Jack Gruenberg Sunday, March 22nd • 5:00 pm • Beth El Synagogue Center President’s Ne'emanim Service Award Jayne and Darren Peister

Lapid Award Julia Keltz and Zach Seiden

Dear Friends: PLEASE SAVE THE DATE—SUNDAY, MARCH 22nd!

It is our special privilege to chair the 66th Annual Beth El Synagogue Center Gala, to be held on Sunday J O I N OMarch U R C O22, M M2020.

U N I T This Y F Oyear R S Hwe A Bare B Ahonoring T S H I R ASandy ! evening, and Jack Gruenberg, who have worked so long and hard enriching the Jewish and secular lives of not only so many of our children, but also adults throughout the metropolitan area. Along with their family, Sandy and Jack have continually made enriching Jewish life a priority in everything they do.

YOUTH & FAMILY SHABBAT WEEKEND

TO REGISTER FOR SHABBAT DINNER FEBRUARY Receiving the President’s Ne’emanim Service Award are Jayne and Darren Peister, two people who have worked 7-8 & F O R M O R E I N F O R M A T I O N , G O T O tirelessly to make Beth El Synagogue Center both welcoming and aware of the world in which we live.

2020 BETHELNR.ORG/YFSHABBAT.

Julia Keltz and Zach Seiden are the recipients of the Lapid Award for their exceptional commitment to the Beth El community. And what could be better than celebrating with a second-generation Beth El family?

FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 7

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 8

Our honorees and award recipients have devoted 5:00-5:30 PM 8:30-9:00 AM countless hours to enrich Beth El Synagogue Center and the DAILY MINYAN HOT CHOCOLATE AND DONUTS! community at large. With yourTHE help, we50 look to celebrating together and making this 66th Annual Gala FIRST YOUTHforward (KINDERGARTEN 5:30-6:00 PM TO 12TH GRADE) RECEIVE A andSITKIN kavod that VOUCHER our honorees so richly full ofSESSION the ruach LEARNING WITH RABBI FOR MIKEY DUBB'S! deserve.

6:00-6:45 PM Karine andFAMILY-STYLE Salo SPIRITED, KABBALAT SHABBAT SERVICE Vicki and Nate

6:45-8:15 PM COMMUNITY SHABBAT DINNER OPEN TO ALL MEMBERS WITH STAFF FROM BETH EL RELIGIOUS J O I N OSCHOOL, U R C OCARMEL MMUNITY ACADEMY, & THE LEFFELL SCHOOL.

Our Theme: Who is wise, the one who learns from every person. Pirkei Avot

9:00 AM-12:00 PM FAMILY-STYLE NIGGUN HALEV SHABBAT SERVICE FOR SHABBAT SHIRA LED BY CLERGY, STAFF, TEENS, AND THE YOUTH COMMUNITY.

FOR

10:45 AM-12:00 PM TOT SHABBAT (FOR S H A BABIES B B A TTHROUGH SHIRA! KINDERGARTEN)

YOUTH & FAMILY SHABBAT WEEKEND $10/CHILD, $18/ADULT FAMILY CAP: $54

12:00-1:00 PM KIDDUSH LUNCH

REGISTRATION REQUIRED

1:00-2:00 PM GAMES FOR CHILDREN WITH SOME OF WESTCHESTER'S SHINSHINIM!

FEBRUARY 7-8 2020

TO REGISTER FOR SHABBAT DINNER LEARNING SESSIONS FOR ADULTS & F O R M O R E I NWITH FORM A T I ODAVID N , G SCHUCK O T O AND RABBI STAFF FROM CARMEL ACADEMY

B E T H E L N R . O R G&/ THE Y F SLEFFELL H A B BSCHOOL AT.

QUESTIONS? CONTACT BEKKAH GOLD, YOUTH & FAMILY ENGAGEMENT DIRECTOR: R G O L D B E T H E L N R . O7R G , 9SATURDAY, 1 4 - 2 3 5 - 2 7 0 0FEBRUARY , EXT. 221.

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SHABBAT SHIRA IS THE NAME GIVEN TO THE SHABBAT THAT INCLUDES PARSHAT BESHALACH. THE TORAH READING OF THE WEEK CONTAINS THE SONG OF THE SEA (EXODUS 15:1–18). THIS WAS THE SONG BY THE CHILDREN OF ISRAEL AFTER THE PASSAGE OF THE RED SEA. IT IS CUSTOMARY FOR SPIRITUAL SINGING TO OCCUR DURING SERVICES ON THIS SHABBAT, WHICH FALLS ON YOUTH AND FAMILY SHABBAT THIS YEAR! WE ARE SO EXCITED TO CELEBRATE TOGETHER.

5:00-5:30 PM DAILY MINYAN

5:30-6:00 PM LEARNING SESSION WITH RABBI SITKIN

8:30-9:00 AM HOT CHOCOLATE AND DONUTS! THE FIRST 50 YOUTH (KINDERGARTEN TO 12TH GRADE) RECEIVE A VOUCHER FOR MIKEY DUBB'S!

6:00-6:45 PM for your login and 9:00 AM-12:00 PM Watch your email password to send SPIRITED, FAMILY-STYLE FAMILY-STYLE NIGGUN HALEV SHABBAT SERVICE in KABBALAT your Purim Greetings.

Instructions can be found at SHABBAT SERVICE FOR SHABBAT SHIRA LED BY CLERGY, STAFF, TEENS, 6:45-8:15 PM www.purimproject.com.

Orders must be placed by AND THE YOUTH COMMUNITY. COMMUNITY SHABBAT DINNER February Questions? Call The10:45 Office of Youth & OPEN TO25th.

ALL MEMBERS AM-12:00 PM WITH STAFF FROM BETH EL TOText.

SHABBAT Family Engagement at 914-235-2700, 247.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL, CARMEL ACADEMY, & THE LEFFELL SCHOOL.

(FOR BABIES THROUGH KINDERGARTEN)

$10/CHILD, $18/ADULT We likely have something Looking to Volunteer? to match your interest! Contact Abby Wise at awise@bethelnr.org.

12:00-1:00 PM FAMILY CAP: $54

KIDDUSH LUNCH

Purim Carnival................................. page 2 Open Beit Midrash............................ page 7 REGISTRATION REQUIRED 1:00-2:00 PM Tu B’Shvat....................................pages 2, 3 S.M.A.R.T. (Senior Programming)..... page 9 WITH SOME GAMES FOR CHILDREN OF WESTCHESTER'S SHINSHINIM!

LEARNING SESSIONS FOR ADULTS WITH RABBI DAVID SCHUCK AND

Purim Campaign............................pages 14 Israel Trip Information................... page 23

ISRAELI CULTURAL CONNECTIONS Presented by Beth El’s Israel Affairs Committee Beth El’s Israel Affairs Committee (IAC) is pleased to share cultural items of interest concerning Israel each month. IAC always welcomes new members. For more information about meetings and events, please contact either Tamar Tait at Tamartait@optonline.net or Bruce Gold at Bruces.gold@gmail.com.

This month’s Israeli Cultural Connections column, presented by IAC member Tamar Ben-Simon, features the holiday of Tu B’Shvat.

The Holiday of Tu B’Shvat – How it is Celebrated in the United States and Israel Tu B’Shvat, the Jewish New Year of the Trees (in Hebrew Rosh Hashanah L’Ilanot), is celebrated on the 15th day of the Hebrew month of Shevat. Tu B’Shvat is mentioned in the book of Leviticus 19:23-15 in reference to the commandment of tithing. We are told that after planting a tree in the land of Israel, it is forbidden to eat the fruit of the tree for the first three years. In the fourth year the fruit is for G-d, and in the fifth year you can eat the fruit.

Tu B’Shvat is not mentioned in the Torah; the Mishnah is the only source that designates the New Year for the trees. Throughout time different customs have emerged as to how to celebrate this arbor holiday. Tu B’Shvat is celebrated similarly in Israel and the Diaspora in some respects—we eat fruits from the Seven Species of Israel (wheat, barley, grapes (from the vines), figs, pomegranates, olives and dates), and we strive to plant trees in the land of Israel. Customs differ concerning the planting of trees. In Israel, school children go on field trips to plant seedlings in forests, gardens or yards, while in the United States, we traditionally donate to Jewish National Fund, which, in turn, plants trees on our behalf in the land of Israel.

Another difference is that while it is customary in the United States and Israel to eat a variety of fruits (not only dried fruit), these fresh fruits are ripe and readily available at supermarkets and canteen stands in Israel due to the mild winters. However, if you really want to enjoy the smells, colors, and wide selection of Israel’s tasty fruit, stroll through the famous Shuk Mahane Yehuda in Jerusalem, or Shuk Hakarmel in Tel Aviv. Walking around there you will see, smell, and taste abundant fresh fruit piled high, which is truly a feast for all your senses.

Happy Tu B’Shvat!

IAC invites the Beth El community on Sunday, February 9th, at 10:30 am, for a very special Tu B’Shvat celebration featuring a Jewish National Fund presentation on the future JNF-USA Institute of Culinary Arts in the Upper Galilee, to be followed by an Israeli food preparation demonstration by famed chef Sue Thau, owner/chef of Taim Home Cooking. Free! (see page 3)

BETH EL SYNAGOGUE CENTER PRESENTS:

Purim Edition Join us for a pre-Purim party and enjoy drinks and desserts! Adults only.

Register early to help with planning! www.bethelnr.org/denafterdark Questions? Contact Lisa Patchen - patchenlisa@gmail.com

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Sponsored by the Israel Affairs Commitee

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Spice up your life & learn about the NEW Culinary Institute in Northern Israel.

Nibble on Israeli fruits & enjoy a shakshuka demo

by Sue Thau owner/chef of Taim Home Cooking.

There is no charge, but registration is appreciated!

CONTACT: TAMARTAIT@OPTONLINE.NET OR BRUCES.GOLD@GMAIL.COM

1324 North Ave, New Rochelle, NY 10804 3

RABBI’S MESSAGE has travelled to the United States, Israel, and Brazil in order to Dear Friends, I am excited to share the news that perform Jewish and Argentinian music in many communities, and Gabriela Schvartz, our prayer leader from has taught music in Jewish day schools for many years. the Rosh Hashanah and Here at Beth El, Gabriela will be our Cantorial Intern and as such, she will function Yom Kippur Kasakove Service, was just as part of our clergy team. Cantor Schvartz will approved for a visa lead services on Niggun HaLev Shabbatot as and will join our clergy well as share the davenning with Cantor Aqua Rabbi David Schuck team as a cantorial one other Shabbat a month. She will have the intern through June of 2020. This is exciting opportunity to do some teaching and b’nei news for our community! mitzvah tutoring, and of course, will bring her In December of 2019, Gabriela was ordained musical passions and skills to many parts of the as a cantor by the Latin American Rabbinical synagogue culture.

Seminary, Marshall T. Meyer (Seminario I want to invite everyone to a Melaveh Rabínico Latinoamericano), the Conservative Malkah on February 8th, at 7:30 pm. This will Movement’s cantorial and rabbinical school be an opportunity to welcome Cantor Schvartz in South America. In addition to being a to our community, sing with her, and maybe she will treat us to a song or two from the singer and music teacher, Gabriela is now an Cantor Gabriela Schvartz ordained cantor. Cantor Schvartz served numerous Argentinian Jewish repertoire. Put the date on your congregations, including Jerusalem Synagogue in Buenos Aires, calendar and look for an announcement about the location.

Temple NCI Emanu-El in Beunos Aires, and Community NBI Bnei I am thrilled to have our community filled with Cantor Israel in Santiago de Chile.

Schvartz’s voice and music for the next few months. It will be a Gabriela was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, and grew up in real treat for our community. a family very deeply attached to Jewish traditions and a strong love L’shalom, for the Land of Israel. Cantor Shvartz spent time studying in the Conservative Yeshivah in Jerusalem, where she had the opportunity Rabbi David A. Schuck to lead services with Nava Tehila. She was also part of the Bridge Builders program, which is an interfaith dialogue group between Join us for an information session about Muslims, Christians and Jews, in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Gabriela

our Family Trip to Israel, led by Rabbi Schuck.

Sunday, February 9th, at 9:30 am at Beth El Synagogue Center.

Flyer, page 23.

Misheberach List Update Any name added to the Misheberach list will be automatically removed after one month. If a name needs to remain for another month, please reach out again to a member of the clergy.

AIPAC CONFERENCE MARCH 1st-3rd ATTEND WITH YOUR BETH EL FRIENDS Join Beth El at the AIPAC Policy Conference in Washington, D.C. Early bird registration is available! To attend with the Beth El delegation, submit your check for $399, payable to Beth El Synagogue Center, to Rabbi Sitkin (or Linda) along with your address, email address, and cell phone number.

Questions? Contact Rabbi Sitkin at zsitkin@bethelnr.org.

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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE is in the midst of a prolonged and steady decline in membership. As I mentioned at the semi-annual congregational meeting, this trend is consequential because, given that most of our expenses are fixed costs, balancing our budget becomes increasingly challenging over time. But attracting new members also matters because people are Mark Silver the lifeblood of our shul. Your Officers are committed to the shul’s financial stability, but we are equally committed to Beth El’s mission: Enriching people’s lives through Judaism and community. And this requires bringing newcomers into our ranks.

Although the joys of newborns and new members bring much happiness, I write this message with a heavy heart after attending the January “No Hate—No Fear” Solidarity March in response to a wave of violent attacks against Jews. In a recent Shabbat morning sermon, Rabbi Schuck suggested a twofold response to recent events: rejection of anti-Semitism coupled with affirmation of the positive role Judaism can play in our lives. We had a meaningful Beth El turnout at the march. Now that we have returned to New Rochelle, we turn our attention once again to enriching lives through our Jewish community. As our mission states, we do so through prayer, learning, spirituality, culture, caring relationships, and connection with Israel. Getting more people—be they current members or newcomers—actively involved in Beth El’s many activities and programs seems just the thing to do.

See you in shul!

Mark

Guess what Beth El is investing in? Highchairs! For the first time in a long time, we just purchased additional highchairs to accommodate the growing number of tots at Shabbat Kiddush lunch. And with the recent flurry of baby namings and britot, we will have even more candidates for these chairs in the months ahead.

Many of these young ones are third generation Beth El members, the children and grandchildren of Beth El members. A few years ago, a congregant suggested to me that members’ adult children represented a great opportunity for us. I thought it was a nice idea, but, to be frank, I was doubtful that it would generate significant numbers of new members. But indeed it has.

Why do Beth El progeny return home to rear their children?

Surely being near family is one factor. And nostalgia for one’s own childhood may be another. But I like to think that it is also because those who grew up at Beth El know that Beth El is a great place to rear children. Many of us know that. And many of us also have children, nieces and nephews, or friends’ children who live in Manhattan and will one day soon be looking for a home in the suburbs. So I want to encourage you to communicate to these potential members you know that Beth El is a great place for young families. Many of us also know that Beth El is a great place to retire or to downsize. Here, too, I encourage you to recommend us to your friends. And it wouldn’t hurt to mention us to your unaffiliated neighbors, as well. In short, my message is the following: At Beth El, everyone is on the Membership Committee!

If you would like to become an official member of that committee, please let me know so that we can get you involved. Recruitment is an important function because, as you no doubt are aware, Beth El, like most large non-Orthodox synagogues locally and nationally,

January “No Hate - No Fear” Solidarity March Members of Beth El gathered at the “No Hate - No Fear” march on Sunday, January 5th in downtown Manhattan. We stood with approximately 25,000 others in a show our solidarity to those who have been victims of anti-Semitic assaults. The march began in Foley Square (also known as Thomas Paine Park) and we followed Rabbi Sitkin across the Brooklyn Bridge as we held posters, sang, and chanted our anger at the recent events in the metropolitan area. Once over the bridge, we entered Cadman Plaza where we connected with Rabbi Schuck and then listened to a variety of speakers including Governor Cuomo and Senator Schumer. Each speaker passionately railed against antisemitism and made it plain that the past incidents were unacceptable. One speaker cited Elie Wiesel who stated that, “The opposite of love is not hate. It’s indifference.” That resonated with the large crowd. While the circumstances that brought us together was unnerving and horrifying, it was comforting to see such a strong and unified response by so many who rejected indifference.

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KERUV* KORNER A dozen years ago at its May 2008 annual colloquium, the Jewish Special Education International Consortium designated February Jewish Disability Awareness and Inclusion Month (JDAIM). Its purpose: A unified time for Jewish organizations and communities world-wide to raise awareness and foster inclusion of people with disabilities and those who love them. Today, in championing the rights of all Jews to be accepted and included in all aspects of Jewish life, JDAIM reflects a foundational Jewish value: We are all equally created in the image of God, and a contemporary urgency in the fight against antiSemitism, we must hold together, all of us, as one Jewish people.

At Beth El, while we work to ensure that every month brings awareness and inclusion of disabled congregants and family members, we highlight the month of February for speakers who generously share their lives with us in order to foster increased awareness and inclusion within the walls of our synagogue.

In connection with the twelfth annual JDAIM observance

*“Keruv” = to bring close, to draw near

in 2020, we are delighted to have as guest speaker one of our own, congregant Judy Schmeidler. Judy’s presentation, “You See - Let Me Tell You How I See,” will describe her journey from being sighted to being legally blind, and explain, with pictures and props, what it is she can and cannot see. A Question-and-Answer session will follow in which all audience members of any age can ask about Judy’s life and vision, as well as how to be more aware and inclusive of sight impaired individuals.

Judy’s talk is on Sunday, March 15th, at 12:00 noon, and this is an invitation for those who already know this extraordinary woman, and for those who do not. It is open to the public and especially to children and teens who will have an opportunity to ask a blind person questions that they would not ordinarily feel comfortable to ask. Judy is on a mission to educate and will answer each one. Do not miss this opportunity to hear from an individual who refuses to let a disability define her.

Nina Luban and Elise Richman, Keruv Co-chairs

“LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”

Wednesday, March 11th • 7:30 pm • How does your child’s interfaith relationship affect your extended family and community?

• Share your experiences and what you have learned?

• What can we do better to encourage Jewish engagement?

RSVP at bethelnr.org/march15. RSVP encouraged but walk-ins welcome.

Facilitated by Shari Baum, L.M.S.W. WJCS Coordinator of Partners in Caring At the home of Elise and Bob Schepp 25 Mildred Parkway, New Rochelle

R.S.V.P. to Elise Schepp at LCmoocow@aol.com.

Questions? Contact Nina Luban at nina.luban@gmail.com or Elise K. Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com Generously funded by UJA-Federation of NY • Sponsored by the Keruv Committee

For more information on all of our spiritual practices, visit bethelnr.org/spiritualpractices.

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VISION ACTION TEAM The Den Coffee Machine: Under New Management

Members of Beth El’s Vision Action Team met for breakfast on Sunday morning, January 12th, to review its work over the past six months.

Six “pillar” teams (see box in right-side column) have been developed from the congregation’s year-long Journey planning initiative to envision Beth El’s future.* The pillar teams have given birth to new ideas and have advanced prototypes (experiments) created during Journey – totaling over a dozen ideas to help enrich the lives of our members.

Initiatives range from those you may have seen (for example the Den, Beth El Interest Groups, and monthly volunteer and committee appreciation Bulletin articles) to those that are less apparent (for example, spontaneous teachings about Jewish law, research into membership trends and projections, and guides to make planning events easier and measuring program success more meaningful).

Interested in becoming more involved? If these ideas excite you, or you have an idea of your own to share, come aboard!

• Support our shul.

• Enrich our community.

• Work together with good people.

• And (see above) enjoy the occasional bagel breakfast.

Beth El’s Framework for Action

With deep appreciation, the Vision Action Team is happy to announce that members of the morning minyan have stepped forward to take charge of maintaining The Den coffee machine, the caffeine and hot chocolate life-line for many of us. Effective immediately, morning minyan members will help ensure that the machine is ready (except on Shabbat) for your visit to The Den. Thank you, minyanaires—a boker tov every morning. And thank you to the individuals who held the fort up to now—Dan Feldman, Carrie Fox, Marc Klee, Jay Lerman, Liat Snyder, and Michael Wechsler.

REMINDER: The Den coffee machine costs Beth El money.

Help defray those costs. Use the honor system to pay for your coffee or hot chocolate! A payment box hangs on the wall for cash, and Paypal instructions are at the machine.

PILLAR TEAMS * Pillar 1: A Community of Connected Communities Pillar 2: Halachic Pluralism Pillar 3: Our Building as Home Pillar 4: A Culture of Co-Ownership Pillar 5: Financial Affordability and Sustainability Pillar 6: Jewish Westchester Partners and Presence

Contact Nina Luban at nina.luban@gmail.com.

The College-Age Committee will be packing for our students on

Wednesday, March 4th at 7:00 pm This package will be for Purim and Passover.

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Go get your friends and come on over!

Wednesday Mornings — 10:30

am

- 11:30

am

Wear comfortable clothes and lace up your sneakers! Join us for a great workout (exercise class)!

Come for coffee and stay for the fun! This program is free of charge. Newcomers are welcome.

First Wednesday of the month...... February 5: Second Wednesday of the month.. February 12: Third Wednesday of the month..... February 19: Fourth Wednesday of the month... February 26: at 11:30 am

BALANCE, with Tim, North End Fitness GOLDEN ZUMBA, with Laura NO EXERCISE, WINTER BREAK CHAIR YOGA, with Nan CURRENT EVENTS DISCUSSION, with Shari Baum, L.M.S.W.

Exercise instructors are subject to change without notice.

For information or to R.S.V.P. for any SMART (Senior Mature Adults Retired Together) activity, contact Julie Rockowitz at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 256.

The Hamentashen Project at Beth El

WESTCHESTER COMMUNITY COLLEGE

Presents:

Bake Purim Treats for the Bronx Jewish Community Council

SMART Senior Mature Adults Retired Together:

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 25

History of Americana Music

10:00 a.m. | Coffee 10:30 a.m. | Baking Begins

1324 North Avenue, New Rochelle No Charge

Join The Hamentashen Project at Beth El and bake delectable Purim treats...apricot, chocolate, prune, and poppy for the members of the Bronx Jewish Community Council. Even if you don’t know how to bake hamentashen, we will teach you!

Sampling is encouraged.

Courses are held on Tuesdays: February 4, February 11, March 17, March 24 10:00am - 12:15pm 10:00am: Coffee and Cake 10:30am: Program Begins

RSVP encouraged, but walk-ins are welcome!

THIS IS A FREE EVENT!

American fare lunch will be served at our final program, March 24 - $8 per person

For more information and to RSVP, please contact Julie Rockowitz at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org or 914.235.2700 ext. 256

This course covers music that reflects the nation’s history. Focus will be from 1800 to the present and includes Stephen Foster, gospel music, ragtime, the blues, jazz, country, bluegrass, rockabilly and more.

Course Instructor: Marc Ferris For more information & to RSVP, contact Julie at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org FUNDED THROUGH THE US DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES ADMINISTRATION ON AGING (AoA), NEW YORK STATE OFFICE FOR THE AGING, WESTCHESTER COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF SENIOR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES

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Meet Our Volunteer of the Month: Jenny Longman School and Hannah began kindergarten at Schechter Westchester (now the Leffell School). I offered to do a shofar demonstration at Beth El for Eden’s class early in the year, and others in the building took notice. Thus began my shofar blowing at Beth El’s High Holiday services. I also played the trumpet for Eden’s class, which soon turned into my playing at various Beth El events, including the occasional Melaveh Malkah, Singing (well, for me, playing) as a Spiritual Practice, Purim activities, and, my favorite, our annual musical Selichot service.

Although my favorite Beth El volunteer activities involve music or shofar blowing, I have enjoyed being involved in other activities, such as the Kallah Planning Committee and the Board of Trustees. I’ve been flattered by the synagogue members who think I am a professional musician, but I am actually a tax lawyer. I focus on international tax and estate planning issues for high net-worth individuals and global families.

I am honored to be chosen as this month’s “Volunteer of the Month.” My family (husband, Randy, and daughters Hannah and Eden) joined Beth El in 2015 when we moved to New Rochelle from the Upper West Side. Ironically, although we attended shul on the UWS, Hannah attended a Jewish Nursery School, and Eden took a number of toddler classes at Manhattan’s JCC, we felt we Jenny Longman were missing a cohesive Jewish community. We were thrilled to find what we were looking for at Beth El Synagogue Center.

When we first moved, Eden was enrolled in Beth El’s Nursery

About Beth El’s Audit & Finance Committee

Beth El professionals, a final budget is presented to the Board of Trustees for their approval. This committee works particularly hard at the end of each fiscal year to develop our annual budget for the upcoming fiscal year.

The Treasurer, Barbara Cohen, is the chair of the Audit & Finance Committee. Other volunteer members are our previous Treasurer Joe Wygoda, our Financial Secretary Ellen Barlis, as well as Aaron Fleishaker, Adam Kerchner, Elliot Lesser, Geralynn Reifer, Larry Mandelker, Marc Klee, Mark Silver, Michael Meisler, Sam Berger, Executive Director Erica Leventhal, and Controller Olivier Vogel.

Do you know who oversees the finances of Beth El? Meet the Audit and Finance Committee, led by Barbara Cohen Beth El’s Audit and Finance Committee works very hard to ensure our financial sustainability. They oversee all of the finances of the congregation, including the collection of all dues and fees, and the examination and audit of all bills. They also oversee all insurance policies and recommend methods of raising funds and improving the finances of the congregation. The committee is responsible for working with our accountants on the annual review. After all of the individual budgets are created, in conjunction with the appropriate

Want to feature your committee or a member? Contact Marc Klee at mklee7@gmail.com.

Project HOPE as Spotlighted in Fall 2019 New Outlook for Women’s League

NEW ROCHELLE

HADASSAH MEETINGS

“New Rochelle is a diverse community in a suburb of New York City located in Westchester County. [We have] a group of volunteers who prepare a meal in the synagogue dairy kitchen, which is sent to the local soup kitchen, also in New Rochelle. Our group is called Project HOPE as we supply the H.O.P.E. Soup Kitchen (“Help Other People Eat”) one day each month. The meal that we send the Soup Kitchen is kosher, and the cooking group has been in existence for more than twenty years. I have been with the group for the last nine years...Our meal is prepared for a group of over a hundred people.

We are currently sponsored by the Beth El Sisterhood. We welcome all volunteers to participate.”

Monday, February 3rd Dessert at 12:30 pm

Tracy Wright, Director of the Eastchester Library reviews significant 2019 works of fiction

by Jewish authors. at the Eastchester Public Library

Monday, March 30th Dessert at 12:30 pm

View the movie, Hey, Boo: Harper Lee and To Kill a Mockingbird” (78 minutes) “Hey, Boo” explores the To Kill a Mockingbird phenomenon and unravels some of the mysteries surrounding Harper Lee, including why she never published again. at the Eastchester Public Library

Photo courtesy of Barbara Engelson. Project submitted by Rise Stern, past Sisterhood President, and Barbara Engelson, chair of Project HOPE Committee. Pictured, left to right, Barbara Horowitz, Roni Schiffres, Michael Schiffres, Barbara Engelson, Susan Mandelbaum, and Valerie Rudolph.

Questions? Contact Carol Freedman at 914-235-1527.

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Sisterhood Scene February brings us blustery winds, snow, and frigid cold in the northeastern corner of the United States. Yet on the tenth of this month, Jews will celebrate the holiday of Tu B’Shvat, the New Year of the Trees. There are four New Year holidays in Judaism, and this one delineates the time from which the tree’s life is to be counted for collection of its fruits.

As a child, I remember the small bags of fruits grown in Israel we received each year, including a strange brown pod called buchsar or carob. When we traded fruits with each other in religious school, one boy got all of this fruit since no one else would eat it. Also, we were taught that this holiday was the harbinger of Spring. “How

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could that be?” I often wondered as the ground was frozen, trees were bare, and snow was still a possibility. Then, I spent a year in Israel and, lo and behold, the almond trees were blooming and the earth was warming up and fertile. Wow, what an eye-opener for me.

As we long for Spring, remember that there is still much going on in and around Beth El and with Sisterhood to warm our hearts in this snowy month—book groups, cooking for the homeless, game night, and much more—can keep us warm until the actual signs of Spring rise here in New York. Stay warm and join us when you can!

Sandy Gruenberg, Sisterhood President

GIRLS & WOMEN 13+ JOIN US AT BETH EL SYNAGOGUE CENTER

The Bridge Ladies, by Betsy Lerner The One Man

by Andrew Gross Ravelstein, by Saul Bellow All Who Go Do Not Return,

by Shulem Deen The Hare With Amber Eyes

by De Waal

THURSDAY, MARCH 19th 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM $25/PERSON OR $36 FOR 2 • LIGHT FARE INCLUDED R.S.V.P. REQUIRED BY MARCH 5th BETHELNR.ORG/WOMENSSEDER CONTACT ERICA EPSTEIN AT MMLEEPSTEIN@GMAIL.COM OR SHAYNA KLOPOTT AT SHAYNA.KLOPOTT@GMAIL.COM SPONSORED BY SISTERHOOD AND YOUTH & FAMILY ENGAGEMENT

2020 DATES DECIDED, BOOKS TBD June 22 July 28 August 24 September 21 October 26 November 30 December 21 New Rochelle Public Library reserves books for our Book Club. Mention you are a Beth El member. Questions? Contact Arlene Salman aesalman@aol.com or 914 235-2485.

Sisterhood’s Ongoing Programs CARD ROOM, resumes at the end of August WALKING CLUB meets every Monday at 9:30 am for a nice easy walk—not a jog. All are welcome!

MITZVAH KNITTING E-mail Phyllis at pjf920@verizon.net.

QUESTIONS? Contact Arlene: aesalman@aol.com, or 914-235-2485.

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#BETHELGOESGREENER preserve the earth and reduce carbon emissions going up toward the heavens and in the air we breathe.

So, after three Shabbatot of operation (as of this writing), the Zero-Waste Kiddush received overwhelming approval from congregants.

We’ve heard many positive comments so far, such as “this is so important,” “I’m so proud that Beth El is doing this,” and “we should have done this a long time ago.”

Here are the guidelines for all of us to dispose of our lunch items at Zero-Waste Kiddush: • Collect your plates, cups, cutlery and napkins before leaving the ballroom.

• Bring the materials to one of the groups of bins at locations in the ballroom.

• For proper disposal, note the pictures on signs posted at the bins.

• If you need help, ask a green-aproned Green Team volunteer stationed at the bins.

We’re on our way. Let’s keep it up!

Big thanks go to all the congregants who so quickly picked up on the new routine. Additional respectful thanks goes to Susan Davis whose brainchild this was at a Journey Congregational Meeting way back in 2018.

Edited by Lew Koflowitz, lewkof@hotmail.com Green Team Contact Info: Alan Greenberg, asgreenberg2@gmail.com Jayne Peister, peisterjs@gmail.com

In the first week of January, the Jewish community at large celebrated the Siyyum Hashas, the completion of the seven-and-ahalf-year cycle of learning the entire Babylonian Talmud. This takes place by learning one folio page (a Daf) each day—2711 pages in total. This is called Daf Yomi. There were celebrations of the completion, a Siyyum, around the world, as well as the beginning of the next Daf Yomi cycle.

Meanwhile, that same week, we at Beth El accomplished our own significant task—and there are parallels. We started a ZeroWaste Kiddush program as our contribution to reducing carbon emissions and sustainability.

So, what are the parallels?

Both are an end, as well as a new beginning. In the case of our Kiddush, we are ending the use of plastic at Kiddush and beginning the use of compostables.

Learning Daf Yomi takes a unique kind of consistency and commitment. Zero-Waste Kiddush also requires consistency, so that the compost collections don’t get “contaminated” by recyclables and trash—hence our three bins.

The celebration is for learning 2711 Talmud pages, one day at a time. Well, 2711 happens to be the Gematria, or numerological value of the first verse of the Torah, i.e., the Beginning.

‫אשית בָּ ָּרא אֱֹלקים אֵ ת הַ שָּ מַ יִׁ ם וְּ אֵ ת הָּ אָּ ֶרץ‬ ִׁ ‫בְּ ֵר‬

Bereshit bara Elohim et hashamayim ve’et ha’aretz “In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth.”

This is a new beginning at Beth El. Your participation in our Zero-Waste Kiddush represents our contribution to help improve and

Have fun with Yiddish!

CHUG IVRI

Fridays, 1:00 pm in the Den at Beth El Call Bea Freedman, 914-337-8645.

Want to practice your Hebrew-speaking skills? Join our Chug Ivri!

We meet every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month at 7.30 pm at Beth El (conference room).

Questions? Contact Phyllis Steinberg at Phyllis.steinberg@gmail.com

12:00 NOON - 12:30 PM ON SELECTED FRIDAYS

ISRAELI DANCING

February 7, March 13, May 1, June 5

Learn old and new dances with Cantor Uri Aqua

SUNDAYS, 10:00 am – 11:00

Welcoming children 2 years and younger with their parents, grandparents and caretakers! Join us for this fun-filled musical sing-a-long and Shabbat celebration.

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THERE IS NO CHARGE FOR THIS PROGRAM.

$10 per class, at Beth El Synagogue Center

R.S.V.P. to bethelnr.org/shabbatshaboom

Interested? E-mail uaqua@bethelnr.org.

Wear comfy clothes and sneakers.

Questions? Contact Ronnie or Shery— nursery@bethelnr.org or 914.235.2700, ext. 250.

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NURSERY SCHOOL NEWS The cold weather doesn’t stop our Nursery School children from enjoying the outdoors. Digging in the sand, riding bikes and motorcycles, building structures and navigating our Gan Teva

space are just some of the activities that spark our children’s interests and enhance their days here at Beth El. Enjoy the pictures below.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN FOR THE 2020 - 2021 SCHOOL YEAR. VISIT BETHELNR.ORG/NSREGISTRATION FOR INFORMATION.

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A Note from the Director of Youth and Family Engagement…

February Teen Highlights

SAVE THE DATE! Youth & Family Shabbat is the weekend of February 7th-8th. Heads of Schools are invited to join us from Carmel Academy and The Leffell School, in addition to our wonderful Beth El clergy, educators, and staff, for a great weekend together. Stay tuned—literally!—for some melodies to learn during Shabbat Shira, the Shabbat in which we read the Song of the Sea (Ex. 15:1-18) in Parashat Beshalach. This was the song by the children of Israel after the Passage of the Red Sea. It is customary for spiritual singing to occur during services on this Shabbat, which falls on Youth & Family Shabbat this year. We are so excited to celebrate together.Register for Shabbat dinner on Friday, February 7th, by visiting bethelnr.org/ yfshabbat. This is a special opportunity to come together as a larger community and celebrate our youth and families. Join us!

As we enter the month of February, we want to remind you about our department’s Annual Purim Campaign. Each year, Beth El helps our members fulfill an important mitzvah of Purim, Matanot L’Evyonim—helping those whose needs are greater than our own —by contributing to major organizations in need and building our own Youth Community. You will be receiving an email with your username and password, so simply log on to www.purimproject.com to participate. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me at rgold@bethelnr.org or contact Stephanie at 914-235-2700, ext. 247 or slederman@bethelnr.org. All orders must be placed by February 25. Thank you for your support!

Have any questions? Want to grab coffee? E-mail me at rgold@ bethelnr.org and I’d love to chat. Hope to see you soon, Bekkah Gold, Director of Youth & Family Engagement

Above: Kitah Alef singing and dancing with Moreh Matt in Shira v’Tefillah. celebrations!

Left: One of our Gesher students and educators working together, writing and creating!

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Teen Learning Youth and Family Shabbat Services and Dinner Youth and Family Shabbat Services and Kiddush Lunch Teen Learning Teen Learning Midnight Run, 6:30 pm, open to all 8th-12th graders Register at bethelnr.org/usymidnightrun. Spots will fill up!

February Religious School Highlights

Religious School Dismissal Procedures

Dismissal occurs in the front parking lot these Thursdays between 5:40 pm and 6:10 pm.

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Beginning in September and ending in June, we have a dismissal procedure in place for Thursday evenings after Religious School, happening between 5:40 pm and 6:10 pm every Thursday that Religious School is in session. Cars will enter the parking lot through the entrance closer to North Avenue (in the exit lane) on Northfield Road, looping through the parking lot and snaking up to the front entrance, picking up children at the red doors by the Office of Youth and Family Engagement. Families are given color-coded cards for each of their children with their name and class listed. Parents or caregivers will hand one card to a professional who will send someone to go get your child and your child will hand you back your card when they enter the car. For those who would like to park, please use the second entrance on Northfield Road, further from North Avenue. Bekkah Gold will be stationed outside so that the path to the second and third parking are accessible to anyone trying to enter or exit the building. If you plan on entering or exiting the property during this window, please park in the second and third parking lots. All February Religious School dates are listed for your convenience. We look forward to a smoother process and maintain that the safety of our children is our top priority.

Thank you for your patience as we get used to this dismissal procedure!

Religious School RS Cooking Chug Religious School Religious School (No Kehillah) RS Cooking Chug Religious School Religious School Closed, February Break RS Cooking Chug Religious School

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World-Wide Wrap, 9:00 am, OPEN TO ALL Includes BE Mitzvah Experience for 6th Graders/Parents Youth and Family Shabbat Services and Dinner, 6:00 pm Register at bethelnr.org/yfshabbat Youth and Family Shabbat Services led by teens Kiddush Lunch Learning for parents and games for kids, 1:00 pm Ruach/Chaverim Relays after Services for Grades K-5, 12:00 pm

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Our BE Mitzvah Experience Sessions Help Prepare Our Students for their Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Shown here are the final products made by our sixth grade BE Mitzvah Experience cohort. They made Torah covers to use on the day of each of their b’nei mitzvah celebrations!

Bingo Night, 8:00 pm, at Beth El

Have something to celebrate with us?

Email Bekkah at rgold@bethelnr.org

Rabbi David Schuck teaching Torah to one of our BE Mitzvah Experience students!

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FEBRUARY 2020 MONDAY

SUNDAY 1324 North Avenue New Rochelle, NY 10804-2190 914-235-2700 • www.bethelnr.org

A Conservative synagogue affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi .................................... David A. Schuck Associate Cantor ...............................Uri Aqua Assistant Rabbi.........................Zachary Sitkin Rabbi Emeritus ......................Melvin N. Sirner Hazzan Emeritus ....................Farid Dardashti Executive Director ..................Erica Leventhal Asst. Executive Director ................ Abby Wise Controller .................................... Olivier Vogel Camp Dir./Seniors Coord........Julie Rockowitz Music Director......................... Jack Klebanow Nursery School Director ......... Ronnie Becher Dir. of Youth Engagement ...........Bekkah Gold Sp. Projects Dir. /Asst. to Clergy......L. Newman OFFICERS President .......................................Mark Silver Executive Vice President.........Robert Patchen Vice President ......Lauren Freeman-Bosworth Vice President ........................ David Shechter Vice President ........................ Debbie Young Treasurer ................................ Barbara Cohen Financial Secretary ........................Ellen Barlis Recording Secretary ............Nancy Mayerfield AFFILIATES Sisterhood President .......... Sandy Gruenberg Men’s Club President ........... Steven L. Young Religious Sch. Parent Org. ........Sharon Brown, Julia Keltz, Lisa Mandelker Marci Marcus Nursery Sch. Parent Org. ......... Gayle Salama Joanna Esterow BULLETIN EDITOR

Linda Newman

Daily Minyan

Daf Shevui 12:30 �� every Shabbat Beth El offers Hebrew Ulpan classes every Wednesday.

Beginner: 6:30 ��; Intermediate 7:30 ��; Advanced 8:30 ��.

Try a class!

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calendar page and elsewhere in The Bulletin are accurate as of the date of printing.

Please visit the Beth El website www.bethelnr.org/calendar for the most up-to-date information.

Chess Club 11:00 AM Mincha/Maariv 5:00��

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Shabbat USY Kinnus Religious School 9:00 AM Minyan Remembering Loved Ones 9:00 AM Info Session on Israel Trip 9:30 AM Zumba 9:30 AM Israeli Dancing 10:00 AM Tu B’Shevat Israeli Brunch 10:30 AM Chess Club 11:00 AM Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

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Religious School Closed Zumba 9:30 AM

NR Hadassah at Eastchester Library to discuss fiction by Jewish authors 12:30 PM Canasta 12:45 PM

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Shacharit 7:00��

SMART: Coffee 10:00 AM; History of Americana Music 10:30 AM Mah Jongg 12:45 PM

Dance Class 6:00 PM

Religious School Chug 4:00 PM Social Action Neighbors Helping Neighbors 4:30 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:00��

Mincha/Maariv 5:00��

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Chug Ivri 7:30 PM

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Shacharit 6:55��

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Walking Club 9:30 AM Jewish Short Stories 10:00 AM

SMART: Coffee 10:00 AM; History of Americana Music 10:30 AM

Canasta 12:45 PM Dance Class 6:00 PM

Religious School Chug 4:00 PM Mah Jongg 12:45 PM Open Beit Midrash: Nosh 7:30 PM; Discussions 8:00 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:10 �� TU B’SHVAT

Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

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Nursery and Religious Schools Closed Synagogue Offices Closed

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Shacharit 7:00��

Mah Jongg 12:45 PM

Sisterhood Cinema Brunch 11:30 AM

Chug Ivri 7:30 PM HR Meeting 7:45 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:20 �� PRESIDENTS’ DAY

Mincha/Maariv 5:20 ��

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Sisterhood Bagels and Books 9:30 AM Jewish Short Stories 10:00 AM Walking Club 11:30 AM Canasta 12:45 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:30 ��

21 SHEVAT

Nursery and Religious Schools Closed

Walking Club 9:30 AM

Dance Class 6:00 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:30 ��

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Walking Club 9:30 AM Jewish Short Stories 10:00 AM

Shacharit 8:00��

Mincha/Maariv 5:20 ��

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NOTE: Friday evening services are held at 7:00 pm throughout the spring and summer months.

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Ruach USY Kinnus Pillar 2 Meeting 8:45 AM World-Wide Wrap 9:00 AM Religious School 9:00 AM BE Mitzvah Experience 9:00 AM Zumba 9:30 AM Israeli Dancing 10:00 AM

Beth El maintains morning and evening services every day of the year. Contact Associate Cantor Uri Aqua, 914-235-2700, ext. 222.

* Minyan times listed on this

TUESDAY

Shacharit 6:55��

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The Hamentashen Project: Bake for the BJCC 10:00 AM Mah Jongg 12:45 PM

Religious School Chug 4:00 PM Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM Open Beit Midrash: Nosh 7:30 PM; Disc. 8PM Mincha/Maariv 5:30 �� ROSH HODESH

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Chai House Visits Ruach USY Kinnus Shabbat Service 9:00 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Service Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Kiddush 12:00 PM Daf Shevui 12:30 PM WJC Gala 7:15 PM (OFF-SITE) Mincha/Maariv 5:00��

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Rabbi Karp Genesis: Back to Garden 9:30 AM Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 AM Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 PM Green Team Meeting 7:30 PM Officers Meeting 7:30 PM Nursery School Board Mtg 7:30 PM Cantillation Class 8:00 PM (OFF-SITE) Mincha/Maariv 5:00��

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Rabbi Hojda Wisdom of Rab. Texts 10:00 AM Parasha Hashavua, with Jack 1:30 PM Religious School 4:00 PM Security Meeting 5:00 PM Teen Learning 6:30 PM Open Beit Midrash: Nosh 7:30 PM; Disc. 8PM Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 PM

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Shabbat USY Kinnus Grandfriends Meeting 10:00 AM 5:02PM Shabbat Shaboom 12:00 PM Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM Dance Class 3:30 PM Mincha/Maariv followed by Torah Study with Rabbi Sitkin 5:00 PM Youth & Family Shabbat Service 6:00 PM Community Shabbat Dinner 7:00 PM

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Nursery School Picture Day 9:00 AM Rabbi Karp Genesis: Back to Garden 9:30 AM Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 AM Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 PM Executive Council 7:00 PM Board of Trustees 8:00 PM Cantillation Class 8:00 PM (OFF-SITE)

Toddler Time 9:15 AM Rabbi Hojda Wisdom of Rab. Texts 10:00 AM Parasha Hashavua, with Jack 1:30 PM Religious School 4:00 PM Sisterhood Board Meeting 6:30 PM Teen Lounge Night 6:30 PM Sisterhood Program 7:30 PM

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM Dance Class 3:30 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

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Shacharit 7:00��

Nursery School Closed No Exercise Classes

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Rabbi Karp Genesis: Back to Garden 9:30 AM Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 AM Current Events with Shari Baum 11:30 AM Hebrew Ulpan 6:30 PM Teen Board Meeting 7:00 PM Cantillation Class 8:00 PM (OFF-SITE) Mincha/Maariv 5:30 �� ROSH HODESH

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5:10 PM

Shacharit 7:00��

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM Dance Class 3:30 PM Libeinu Service 6:30 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:30 ��

13 SHEVAT

Shabbat ends 6:03 PM

BESHALACH Shabbat USY Kinnus Birthday Shabbat Shabbat Service 9:00 AM Youth & Family Shabbat Shira 9:00 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Service Oneg 10:15 AM Tot Shabbat 10:45 AM Kiddush 12:00 PM Daf Shevui 12:30 PM Melaveh Malkah 7:30 PM (LOC TBD) Mincha/Maariv 5:10 ��

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Chai House Visits Shabbat Service 9:00AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Kiddush 12:00 PM Daf Shevui 12:30 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:20 ��

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Dance Class 3:30 PM

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Toddler Time 9:15 AM Rabbi Hojda Wisdom of Rab. Texts 10:00 AM Parasha Hashavua, with Jack 1:30 PM Religious School 4:00 PM Teen Learning 6:30 PM Rosh Hodesh 6:30 PM Jewish Parenting Learning Circle 7:30 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:30 ��

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Nursery School Closed Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:20 ��

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Ritual Committee Meeting 7:30 PM

Mincha/Maariv 5:20 ��

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Shabbat Service 9:00 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Kavanah Services 11:00 AM Kiddush & Ruach/Chaverim Relays 12:00PM Daf Shevui 12:30 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:30 �� SHABBAT MEVARCHIM

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Shabbat ends 6:20 PM

3 SHEVAT

Shabbat ends 6:28 PM

BE Mitzvah Exp. attends BM Bat Mitzvah Allison Kellman Shabbat Service 9:00 AM Shabbat SPACE 9:30 AM Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 AM Youth Services 10:45 AM Daf Shevui 12:30 PM Teen Night Out:Midnight Run 7:30 PM Parent Organization Bingo Night 7:30 PM Mincha/Maariv 5:40 ��

Beth El Celebrates February Birthdays Beth El would like to extend a “Happy Birthday!” to its members with a birthday in the month of February. If you have a February birthday, we hope that you will join

us for a Kiddush lunch on Shabbat, February 8th. If you have a February birthday, but your name does not appear on the list, we are sorry for the omission and ask that you e-mail the synagogue at info@bethelnr.org so that we

can update our records. Contact us if you do not wish to have your name appear on our birthday list. (The list reflects our adult members and post-bar/bat mitzvah children up to the age of 21.)

Rhonda Afran Salo Aizenberg Tal Aizenberg Graham Arad Anna Barlis Donna Bartell Kenny Berger Adam Berkowitz Emily Bromberg Lynn Buckvar-Keltz Jody Burton Isaac Claar Isabele Cohen Raymond Coll Janney Collens

Steven Gruenstein Barbara Haber Stephen Herzberg Elliot Hollander Gwendolyn Horn Dov Hyman Benjamin Jacobson Arthur Jakoby Deborah Kaplan Jack Katz Bernard Katz Rosalind Kaufman Naomi Kellman Julia Keltz Ruth Kon

Julius Oestreicher Amy O’Malley Barbara Orans Mindell Patchen Herbert Pearlman Eva Platzner Antonio Ramos Brad Roth George Rozansky Jacqueline Schachter Judy Schwartz Judith Shapiro David Shechter Beth Siegel Hava Simkhay

Adam Cooper Carol Diament Rebecca Dubin Barbara Engelson Aden Erlikh Dalia Fenster Paul Freedman Cookie Fuchs Cynthia Glickman Joseph Goldberg Shayna Goldfarb Steven Goldman Malcolm Graff Leon Greenspan Sophie Gross

Michael Kremins Alexander LaTorraca Alan Legatt Alicia Lerman Laura Lewis Arkady Mamaysky Lawrence Mandelker Sasson Marcus Marci Marcus Matthew Matcovsky Linda Mazursky Lois Morgenstern George Morris Debra Morris Steven Newman

ARE YOU A SINGER, DANCER, COMIC, OR SHPIELMEISTER? OR ARE YOU JUST A GOOD SPORT? Please call or email Jack Klebanow at 917-929-3462 and be part of our Purim Shpiel at the Megilah reading on Monday evening, March 9!

An Evening of Music, Song & Spirit MELAVEH MALKAH Welcoming Cantorial Intern Gabriela Schvartz

February 8 | 7:30PM | Location TBA Join us for a special Melaveh Malkah welcoming our wonderful Cantorial Intern, Gabriela Schvartz, back to our community. This is a chance for everyone to greet Gabi, sing together and share a few words in a casual, intimate setting.

A Melaveh Malkah or “escorting the Shabbat bride” is a Saturday night of music and community, with some desserts and drinks as well. These informal gatherings are songfilled, soulful, informal and wonderful. If you’ve never been to one, join us! If you’ve been, come again!

RSVP at bethelnr.org/melavehmalkah RSVPs requested but not required.

RSVP at bethelnr.org/melavehmalkah Questions?

Contact Jack Klebanow at jklebanow@bethelnr.org.

RSVPs requested but not required!

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Ruth Sininsky Herman Steinberg Howard Steinman Alan Stern Zachary Stock Rena Strauch Scott Talmadge Uri Tamir Grace Turkewitz Lori Weber Jeff Weckstein Ronnie Weinberger Cara Wulfsohn Marc Zoldessy

Happy Birthday!

NEWSMAKERS

Mazal tov to:

Ellen Gelboim on being selected as an honoree at WJCS’s Annual Gala on Tuesday, March 31st, for her tireless work as a WJCS Board member and her robust leadership in the WJCS Havorah program for many years; Ronnie and Michael Becher on the birth of their grandson, and to parents Ari and Beth Becher, and Sophie and Eitan on their new brother; Sheryl and Aaron Fleishaker on the birth of grandson Noah Philip, and to parents Andrea Fleishaker and Jonathan Ravski, grandparents Karyn and Norman Ravski, and great-grandfather Donald Fleishaker; Helene and Gary Liebstein on the birth of grandson Corey Harris Singer, and to parents Lauren and Jason Singer; Marsha and Tom Lustig and family on the marriage of their niece Remy Gordon to Jared Chariton, son of Laurie and Larry Chariton; Alyssa and Jonathan Erber on the bat mitzvah of their daughter Sophie Erber; Sanjiv and Nancy Chhahira on the bar mitzvah of their son Adiel Chhahira.

A Warm Beth El Mazal Tov to One and All!!

Kiddush The Kiddush of January 11th was sponsored by the Ruttenberg family in honor of Leslie’s seventieth birthday, and in honor of her beloved mother, Emily Marx, on her first yahrzeit.

The Kiddush of January 25th was sponsored Barney Troodler in memory of his beloved wife, Wendy Troodler, and his beloved brother David Troodler on their January yahrzeits, with special thanks to the Beth El Kiddush Committee and to the woman behind the scenes who makes all kiddushim run smoothly, Alise Liquorie.

The Kiddush of February 29th will be sponsored by Allison and Alan Kellman in honor of the bat mitzvah of their daughter Naomi Kellman.

Want to sponsor a kiddush? Contact Alise Liquorie at aliquorie@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 223.

FEBRUARY YAHRZEIT OBSERVANCES

The yahrzeit of the following deceased persons permanently inscribed on our Memorial Walls are observed on these dates: Sigi Engler Eunice Fishman George Y. Winter Tola Messing Dinah Ross Maurice Isaac Cohen Gertrude Schwartz Nathan Behr Joseph Brandes Robert Brenner Rabbi Abraham Nowak Abraham Botwinick Dr. David L. Jasper Joseph G. Kalish William Schepp Henry Bernstein Ida B. Desnick Becky Glatman Michael Mayorowitz Benjamin Seidenstein Dr. Judah Somerstein Louis M. Braunstein Ettie Epstein Edythe Fayer Jay Robinson Anna Frankel Murray Glago Harold Morganstern Sarah Honey Galler Irving Levy Josie Schaffer Lewis Arkin Myra Karson Abraham Rosenberg Miriam Werbelosky Grace Wile Sigmund Gruberger Joseph Magenheim Ruth Faye Markel Jack Schiff

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Harold Tarloff Charles Thier Betty Werblow Joseph Hirsch Chana Kaplan Harry Gingold Nathan Dreizen Al Fried Lillian May Goldstein Walter Werbelosky Marvin Frankel Bernard Striar Joan Wexler Sam Bernstein Joseph Gross Bertrand Lesser Sadie Lowenkopf Rose Lesser Nathan Schulman Beatrice Snyder Anna Cohen Philip Newman Rosalind Wechsler Yona Aqua Miriam Belsky Sylvia Ptak Louis M. Shimm Erwin Newman Alice Schwartz Wolf Lebenberg Abraham Streger Samuel Sussman William Wygoda Isidor Cohen John Joseph Garfein David Levine Esther Bub Strum Harry Gorlon Jacob Holman Riva Jaffe

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CONDOLENCES We record with sorrow the losses suffered by our members and friends and extend to them our deepest sympathies.

Condolences to: Rachel Charles on the loss of her mother, Ruth Stern; Doreen Simon on the loss of her mother, Gloria Weiss; Barbara Ehudin on the loss of her father, Stanley Kreinik.

Share your milestone events with us!

If you experience a milestone or a loss in your family, contact Linda at LNewman@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 246.

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ENDOWMENT FUND

GENERAL FUND

IN HONOR OF: Donations were made by Marjorie and Bernard Marc Klee being called to the Torah for his Sunshine, Erik Sulman, and Mark Silver. birthday, from Marc and Barbara Klee.

IN HONOR OF:

IN MEMORY OF: Emily Marx, our beloved aunt and mother of Leslie Ruttenberg, on her yahrzeit, from Helene and Howard Goldstein.

IN MEMORY OF: Phyllis Feingold on her induction into the Senior Miriam Einzig on her yahrzeit, from Jacqueline Citizen Hall of Fame, from Phil and Carol Greene. Allen Beckman, beloved father of Marci Marcus, from Howard Janson.

Stern-Einzig and Avi Einzig.

Sheryl and Aaron Fleishaker on the birth of their two grandsons, from Joseph and Barbara Wygoda. Harry Taubenfeld, beloved father of Anne THE ANDREW SHAPIRO Weisbrod, from Mary Queally, and Joseph and Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the Barbara Wygoda.

MEMORIAL FUND birth of their son Noam, from Lauren FreemanIN HONOR OF: Bosworth and Brian Bosworth; and Rochelle Steven Winik, beloved husband of Esther Winik, from Drew Lombardi.

The birth of Noam Sitkin, son of Rabbi Zach Chaiken.

Sitkin and Lisa Mendler, from Judith Shapiro.

Isaac and Jannine Chinitz on the birth of their son, Robert S. Orans, beloved father of Lawrence Orans, on his yahrzeit, from Lawrence and The birth of a grandson to Cantor Uri and Judy from Rochelle Chaiken Barbara Orans.

Aqua, from Judith Shapiro.

Elisa Singer and Tom Cohen on the marriage of their daughter, from Liz, Eric, Sara, and Jeremy Eliezer Klopott, from Shayna Klopott and Mike IN MEMORY OF: Frankel.

Carolyn Patchen Heller, beloved sister of Stanley Alderman.

Patchen, on her yahrzeit.

Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua on the recent birth of KOL NIDRE FUND ADDENDUM My father, Walter Prince, on his twenty-first their grandchildren, from Stephanie and Matthew Donations were received from Jay Diamond and Klingsberg. yahrzeit, from Judith Shapiro.

Joyce Goldklang; and Jerome Gottlieb.

JEREMY SCHEINFELD MEMORIAL FUND THE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL BATKIN SCHOLARSHIP FUND

IN HONOR OF: Leslie Ruttenberg on her special birthday, from Robin Kaphan.

IN MEMORY OF: Cindy and Bob Hershkowitz on the birth of their YIZKOR/ YAHRZEIT DONATIONS Marvin Schuck, beloved father of Rabbi David grandson, from Robin Kaphan.

Maralyn and Raphael Abada, Harriet and Schuck, from Anita Glassberg Liebowitz and Marsha and Tom Lustig on the marriage of their Kenneth Abrahami, Marian and Robert Baum, Stanley Liebowitz Melinda and Mark Berman, Phyllis Brown, niece Remy, from Robin Kaphan.

Rita Cohen, Susan Diamond, Ellen, Kenny and Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth Cindy Eisenberg, Arlene and Arthur Elkind, Ella DOROTHY FLEISHAKER of their son Noam, from Robin Kaphan. and Russell Fayer, Pamela Friedman and Robert RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua on the birth of their Preminger, Susan Gelb, Helen Geffner, Lawrence IN HONOR OF: grandchild, from Robin Kaphan, and from Bruce Getzler, Susan Goldstein, Malcolm Graff, Sandy Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth Gold and Grace Kalfus.

Gruenberg, Barbara and Harvey Katzeff, Alice of their son Noam, from Donald Fleishaker.

Rabbi David Schuck for his caring and support to and Kenneth Klein, Diane and Stanley Kreig, Eugene Levin, Susan and Michael Lurie, Esther Sheryl and Aaron Fleishaker on the birth of their me and my family, from Robin Kaphan. and Mark Mildner, Barbara Protass, Nikki and grandson, from Linda and Sol Haber.

IN MEMORY OF: Gil Sachs, Howard Schwartz, Jodie and Lawrence IN MEMORY OF: Louis Goldhecht on his yahrzeit, from Ruth and Silverman, Elisa Singer, Lenore and Melvin Sirner, Tova Friedler Usdan, Bernard Sunshine, Allen Beckman, beloved father of Marci Marcus, Marc Sininsky. from Jodi and Rob Scheinfeld.

Marvin Schuck, beloved father of Rabbi Schuck, Beth and Sheldon Weinberg, Esther Zarembski. from Robin Kaphan, and Bruce Gold and Grace MINYAN FUND Kalfus.

DAY CAMP FUND Bernard Kramer; Linda and Milton Persily; Arye Harry Taubenfeld, beloved father of Anne Stern.

IN HONOR OF: Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth Weisbrod, from Geralynn and David Reifer.

TO MAKE A DONATION

of their son Noam, from Joseph and Tamar Tait.

YOUTH ACTIVITIES FUND A donation was made by Eli Kornreich.

ZARO SENIOR PROGRAMMING FUND IN MEMORY OF:

THE ELEANOR G. BAUMWALD PRAYERBOOK FUND IN MEMORY OF: Marvin Schuck, beloved father of Rabbi Schuck, from the Tait family.

Ruth Stern, beloved mother of Rachel Charles, Ruth Stern, beloved mother of Rachel Charles, from Ida and Marvin Hyman. from Steven and Debbie Young.

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Contact ZOE RAYNES at zraynes@bethelnr.org, or 914235-2700, ext. 228. Min. $18.

Mail your payment to Beth El Synagogue Center, attn: Alise, 1324 North Avenue, New Rochelle, NY 10804.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

SISTERHOOD MITZVAH FUND IN HONOR OF: Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua on the birth of their granddaughter, from Harriet and Lenny Schwartz, Vicki and Nate Fisher, and Carole and Jeff Graham.

Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth of their son Noam, from Dorothy and Herb Fox, Marcia and Hy Pryluck, Harriet and Lenny Schwartz, Blanche Fried, and Elaine and Jack Katz.

Phyllis Feingold on her induction into the Westchester Senior Hall of Fame, from Ellen and Jack Hollander, Vicki and Nate Fisher, and Carole and Jeff Graham.

Alan Greenberg for leading Beth El’s Kiddush to a zero-waste operation, from Ellen and Jack Hollander.

Alan Greenberg on the engagement of his daughter Lauren to Aaron Steinberg-Madow, from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Shayna Klopott on being a Simchat Torah honoree, from Ellen and Jack Hollander, and Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Risë Stern on being a Simchat Torah honoree, from Ellen and Jack Hollander, Carole and Jeff Graham, Vicki and Nate Fisher, and Janet and Isaiah Seligman.

Steve Silverman on being a Simchat Torah honoree, from Ellen and Jack Hollander, and Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Lisa Mandelker on being a Simchat Torah honoree, from Ellen and Jack Hollander, and Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Risë and Alan Stern on their fifty-first anniversary, from Carol and Paul Freedman.

Brenda and Ivan Corwin on the birth of a daughter, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler.

Susan and Michael Meisler on the birth of their Len and Susan Mark in memory of Len’s grandson Itai, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. father, Isadore Mark; Judy Fried-Siegel in Susan and Elliot Hollander on the marriage of honor of the Brit Milah of Dylan Hudson their daughter Emily to Nathan Igdaloff, from Kaplowitz, grandson of Cindy and Robert Hershkowitz; Leora Tanenbaum in honor Vicki and Nate Fisher. of Sheila Tanenbaum and in celebration Roni and Michael Schiffres on the birth of their of Hanukkah; Rachel and Barry Charles granddaughter Yvie, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. in memory of Rachel’s mother, Ruth Susan and David Schlecker on the marriage of Stern; Rachel and Barry Charles in honor their daughter Rose to Adam Shamah, from Vicki of Rabbi Schuck’s kindness and support during shiva for Rachel’s mother; Merill and Nate Fisher. and Ellen Resnick in honor of Donald Marsha and Tom Lustig on the marriage of their Fleishaker on the birth of his greatniece Remy to Jared Chariton, from Vicki and grandsons; Merill and Ellen Resnick Nate Fisher. in honor of the birth of Noam Shai to Ronnie and Michael Becher on the birth of their Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler; Joel grandson, from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Walfish in honor of Abraham Walfish; Jeff and Phyllis and Herman Steinberg on the birth of their Susan Mittleman in memory of Harry Taubenfeld; Beth Rosen in honor of the birth of Noam Shai grandson, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. to Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler; Harriet Jessica Berman on the bar mitzvah of her son Kaplan Suvall in memory of Doreen Simon’s Jacob Tolle, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. mother, Gloria Weiss; Richard Watt in memory of Barbara Simon on the engagement of her grandson his mother, Ray Watt; Isaiah and Janet Seligman Brett Lemberger to Dana Powder, from Vicki and in honor of the birth of Noam Shai to Rabbi Zach Nate Fisher.

Sitkin and Lisa Mendler-Sitkin; Isaiah and Janet Seligman in honor of Cantor Uri Aqua, and with IN MEMORY OF: thanks for the kindness and support following Gladys Barish, beloved mother of Rhoda Barish the loss of Janet’s brother; Isaiah and Janet and Elliott Barish, from Lauren Berger and Jay Seligman in honor of Rabbi Schuck with thanks Rehr. for the kindness and support following the loss of Gladys Barish, beloved aunt of Jay Rehr and Janet’s brother; Richard and Marcia Stern; Sol and Linda Haber in honor of the birth of a grandson Lauren Berger, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. to Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua; Eric and Laurie Harry Taubenfeld, beloved husband of Florence Roth in memory of Ruth Stern, beloved mother Taubenfeld and father of Anne Weisbrod, from of Rachel Charles; Janet and Isaiah Seligman in Lori and Steve Schwartz, Joyce and Michael honor of the recent birth of grandchildren to Cantor Wechsler, and Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Uri and Judy Aqua; Bob and Barbara Cohen in Bilha Gottlieb, beloved wife of Jerry Gottlieb, memory of Bob’s beloved parents, Jeanette and from Carol and Paul Freedman, and Vicki and Jerry Cohen, on their yahrzeits; Sue and Michael Nate Fisher.

Meisler in memory of Harry Taubenfeld; Leeam Robert Kenler, beloved brother of Janet Seligman, and Sara Aldouby; Bernard Katz in memory of Herbert Pearlman. from Carole and Jeff Graham.

Eunice Kaplan on the engagement of her granddaughter Abby Katz to Brett Kirsch, from Hilda Chinitz, beloved mother of Marvin Chinitz Sharon and Peter Spenser, and Vicki and Nate and Lynn Chinitz Gruenstein, from Vicki and Fisher.

Nate Fisher.

Brenda and Ivan Corwin on the naming of their Herb Pearlman, beloved father of Randy Pearlman, daughter, from Blanche Fried. from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Donald Fleishaker on the births of his two newest Stanley Kreinik, beloved father of Barbara grandsons, from Carole and Jeff Graham, and Ehudin, from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Margaret Sadok, beloved mother of Mark and Sheryl and Aaron Fleishaker on the births of their Karen Sadok, from Vicki and Nate Fisher. two grandsons, from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Allen Beckman, beloved father of Marci Marcus, Shari and Marvin Chinitz on the birth of their from Vicki and Nate Fisher. grandson Ezra, from Vicki and Nate Fisher, and TO D O N AT E TO S I S T E R H O O D ’ S Carole and Jeff Graham.

MITZVAH FUND, contact Marcia Pryluck Barbara and David Horowitz on the births of a at marciapryluck@gmail.com, or mail your granddaughter and grandson, from Carole and donation(s) to 1255 North Avenue, B2O, New Jeff Graham.

Rochelle, NY 10804. Donation minimum Hanita and Paul Schneiderman on the engagement is $10. Make checks payable to Beth El of their children, from Vicki and Nate Fisher.

Sisterhood.

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IN MEMORY OF RABBI DAVID SCHUCK’S FATHER, MARVIN SCHUCK Len and Susan Mark; Esther Winik; Marc and Barbara Lazarus; Mark Silver; Erik and Dara Sulman; Beth Rosen; Joyce Goldklang and Jay Diamond; Lida Keltz; Amichaim Abramson and Yona Shemtov; Leslie and Richard Ruttenberg; Lauren Berger and Jay Rehr; Steven and Shirin Stein; Matthew and Stephanie Klingsberg; Salo Aizenberg and Karine Kleinhaus; Richard and Carol Chadakoff.

TEEN EDUCATIONAL EXPERIENCE SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN HONOR OF: Sheryl and Aaron Fleishaker on the birth of their two grandsons, from Lauren Berger and Jay Rehr.

SPECIAL NEEDS FUND

TODDLER TIME

IN HONOR OF: Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth of their son Noam, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Rebecca Wertheimer for her warmth and wisdom, and to celebrate her special birthday, from Laura Lewis.

FOR CHILDREN WITH BIRTHDAYS: Jan. 1, 2018–Dec. 31, 2018

IN MEMORY OF:

Begins Thursday, February 13 9:15–10:30 a.m.

Burt Wasserman, my beloved husband, from Norma Wasserman.

$490 for 14 Sessions

Gladys Barish, beloved aunt of Jay Rehr, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Harry Taubenfeld, beloved husband of Florence Taubenfeld and father of Anne Weisbrod, from Steven and Debbie Young.

WINTER/SPRING SESSION: FEBRUARY: 13, 27 MARCH: 5, 12, 19, 26 APRIL: 2, 23, 30

MAY: 7, 14, 21, 28 JUNE: 4

BERNICE FELDMAN NURSERY SCHOOL FUND IN HONOR OF:

• Play, Art & Music

Rabbi Zach Sitkin and Lisa Mendler on the birth of their son Noam, from Stanley and Mindy Patchen, Phyllis and Herman Steinberg, Jeff and Susan Mittleman, Jacqueline Stern-Einzig and Avi Einzig, and Jodi and Rob Scheinfeld.

• Make new friends and learn together!

• Classes begin with sensory and art experiences meant to develop decisionmaking skills, followed by gross-motor play, snack and music.

• Classes are facilitated by a licensed teacher with parent/caregiver participation.

Registration is required.

NURSERY SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN HONOR OF:

Register now at bethelnr.org/toddlertimewinterspring2020

The birth of our grandson, from Peter and Sharon Spenser.

SYLVIA AND ROBERT SCHER CHESED COMMUNITY FUND IN HONOR OF: Jacob Tolle on his bar mitzvah and his remarkable D’var Torah and inspiring bar mitzvah project, from Laura Lewis.

BIKKUR CHOLIM SESSIONS

2020 DATESDATES 2019-2020

All sessions 7:000-8:00 p.m. in the Conference Room.

All sessions will occur from 7:00–8:00 p.m.

Please contact Rabbi Sitkin at zsitkin@bethelnr.org if in the Conference Room, with the exception of you October are interested in participating in this important work. the 16 session, which will be from 6:30–7:30 p.m. in the Sukkah.

JOIN US ON SEPTEMBER MARCH 1818, NOVEMBER 20, JANUARY 15, & MARCH 18 Bikkur Cholim Session (Learning) We will study Jewish texts to enrich our understanding of illness, aging, and death.

MAY 2016, DECEMBER 18, FEBRUARY 19, MAY 20 OCTOBER Bikkur Cholim Session (Processing) We will have open-group processing for anyone who regularly interacts with friends or family members living with illness, is homebound, or are struggling to navigate old age and would like to reflect on how to bring

DONATION POLICY

We have re-evaluated the way we handle notification of general donations made to Beth El. We will only mail out acknowledgement letters for donations of $36 or greater made to our various funds.

ALL donations of any value will continue to be posted in the monthly Bulletin. This is in line with common practice of other synagogues of similar size, and also yields administrative savings for Beth El. To donate, visit www.bethelnr.org/donation.

Note: This policy change does not affect donations made to Sisterhood or the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund.

Please use ShulCloud wherever possible to make your donations electronically, as this, too, yields administrative savings. If you have questions about how to use ShulCloud, contact Zoe Raynes at ZRaynes@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 228.

more intention and awareness to those interactions.

APRIL - NONE

Please contact Rabbi Sitkin at zsitkin@bethelnr.org if you are interested in

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