Finding Connection and Confidence: Men’s Space at St Oswald’s

In a world where it can be all too easy for men especially older or isolated men to slip through the cracks, one local group is providing a place to reconnect, recharge, and rediscover joy in community.

Men’s Space, hosted every Wednesday afternoon at St Oswald’s, is exactly what it sounds like: a safe, welcoming environment for men to gather, take part in activities, and most importantly, enjoy each other’s company.

Each two-hour session is led by a skilled facilitator who brings a wide range of workshops, creative activities, and even the occasional day trip into the mix. No two weeks are ever quite the same. The group has tried its hand at African drumming, woodwork (including some rather impressive bird boxes), and even shared a meal while celebrating Chinese New Year with a quiz. From cooking together to enjoying performances from up-and-coming local musicians, Men’s Space offers more than a chance to pass the time it’s a chance to participate, create, and belong.

The group also takes regular trips further afield, making memories and exploring together. Outings have included visits to the Black Country Living Museum, Cadbury World, the Belgrade Theatre, a spa day, and even a festive stroll through Stratford-upon-Avon’s Christmas markets.

But the real magic of Men’s Space lies not just in the activities, but in the atmosphere. There’s no pressure just an open invitation to be part of something supportive and lifegiving. Many of the men who attend say it’s helped them build confidence, make new friends, and feel more connected to the wider community.

At a time when male mental health is increasingly recognised as a critical issue, spaces like this are more than a good idea they’re essential. Whether it’s for the conversation, the craft, or just a cuppa and a bit of laughter, Men’s Space continues to grow, one Wednesday at a time.

Written by Fr Ed Backhouse SSC –Priest in Charge, St Oswald’s Church, Tile Hill fr.edwardbackhouse@outlook.com