BELLA Magazine’s 2021 Summer Issue, Featuring Boyz II Men

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LETTER from the EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Summer issue

“Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it’s less good than the one you had before.

You can fight it, you can do nothing but scream about what you’ve lost, or you can accept that and try to put together something that’s good.”

- Elizabeth Edwards

At this time last year, I was in awe of what we were able to accomplish five months into a global pandemic. When I look back at the year that has passed, I continue to be grateful.

BELLA continues to be here. My team and I have not stopped working hard every day to bring you amazing content from curated experiences for you to live your most beautiful life.

This time is most exciting as it’s also my two-year anniversary since taking ownership of BELLA. And the cherry on top is we get to celebrate in a very big away. Aside from our annual Hamptons party, we have Boyz II Men gracing our summer issue cover and joining us for what will be a memorable bash!

The following pages are a reflection of what we didn’t have for a while: Family time, barbecues, fun, hugs. Self-care has been a big part of people’s pandemic journey, and I hope you enjoy my suggestions (“5 Steps to Fabulous”) on page 16.

Celebrating literally anything will be huge over the next few months, which is why I’ve asked our team to share their favorites cocktails to say cheers with on pages 80-81.

Travel is back as best as it can be. We got to experience a staycation like no other in Cape Cod. Read more on pages 94-96. And because Hamptons will continue as the BELLA place to be each summer, be sure to learn more about Capri Southampton (pages 42-44) and our staple Southampton Social Club (pages 78-79).

My team and I are forever grateful for your support, especially during this time. I personally cannot wait to celebrate with you if you’re joining us at the Hamptons.

With love and hope, and wishing you the best summer ever,

Vanessa Coppes

“Even After All this time The Sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."

Look What happens With a love like that, It lights the whole sky.”

- Hafiz

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the back cover

We’re thrilled to be featuring artwork from Amanda Ringel on our back cover. Amanda is also responsible for our “Life Is BELLA” logo and some additional projects we have in the works. "'I am the Sun' can mean a lot of things, but drawing this made me think about how a person is their own light, and sometimes we need that light to not only guide us through the greatest of times but also the darkest of times. That's how I came up with the idea for the halo. Also, becoming your own light makes you realize you don't need to rely on anything or anyone to make you happy except yourself, which ultimately, results in peace, hope, and harmony."

Vanessa Coppes Chief Executive Officer, Editor-in-Chief Gina LaGuardia, Editorial Director Jessica Licciardello, Creative Director Janene Mascarella, Beauty Director Alexandra Anastasio, Entertainment Editor Amanda Mactas, Food Editor Mindy Shapiro Gura & Paula Shapiro Orlan, Stylists Jonathan Calixto, Fashion & Lifestyle Correspondent Norah Lawlor, Lifestyle Editor Jennifer Walsh, Mind + Body Correspondent Jessica Cirz, Cover & Features Photographer Stephanie Brogna, Editorial & Business Development Assistant Kyla Malcolm, Social Media Assistant Amanda Ringel, Digital Design Assistant Nicole Butrico, Intern

Jennifer DeCillis Publisher Lynette Barbieri, Business Development Director Cheryl Devine, Business Consultant Raffaela Pontecorvo, Administrative Assistant Jenna Guarneri, Public Relations

Contributors

Barbara Bellesi Zito, Brady Goodman-Williams, Ceylone Boothe-Grooms, Yolanda F. Johnson, Carmelia Ray, Meghan Rose, Jarrod Thalheimer

Medical Advisory Board

Julie Davelman, Ph. D. • Dr. B. Aviva Preminger • Geraldine Viggiani, LCSW, LCADC, PMH-C

Real Talk with BELLA, The Podcast Vanessa Coppes, Host

BELLA TV Hosts

Danita Chantel, Jennifer DeCillis, Cheldin Barlatt Rumer Jessica Cirz, Producer Vivian Nacionales, Producer Isaac Perez, Director Stephanie Giang, Contributor

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Vanessa Coppes, CMO & Editor-in-Chief Jennifer DeCillis, Managing Editor

Contributing Editors & Writers

Alexandra Anastasio, Kelly Bellucci, Jonathan Calixto, Danita Chantel, Dionne Clarke, Jennifer DeCillis, Ruta Fox, Vanessa Jordan, Jessica Licciardello, Dr. Robi Ludwig, Amanda Mactas, Janene Mascarella, Elena Murzello, Kristen Robertiello, Roger Sands, Sally Schimko, Christina Soriano

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Vanessa Coppes, Editor-In-Chief Candy Calderón, Editor-At-Large

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ALEXANDRA ANASTASIO, Entertainment Editor for BELLA Magazine, is a lifestyle writer with a knack for sharing stories about people—and pets! Follow her on Instagram @Alexandra_Anastasio or visit AlexandraAnastasio.com.

Former founder of beauty brands such as Beauty Bar and Pride & Glory, JENNIFER WALSH gives her in-depth perspective on wellness as a veteran entrepreneur for the past 20 years. Now, through her Walk with Walsh Media platform, she shines a light on the people and brands that are putting nature first.

MINDY GURA and PAULA ORLAN, The Style Duo, are BELLA’s fashion stylists.

In this issue’s “The Style Report,” they share their favorite swimsuits (page 15). For more tips and tricks, check out their Instagram: @TheStyleDuo.

AMANDA MACTAS is BELLA’s Food Editor. In this issue, she shares the everything you need to know about one of the summer’s hottest spirits (pages 76-77), as well as the amazing travel haven, Cape Cod (pages 9497). Follow more from Amanda on Instagram @ManhattanTwist.

BELLA Beauty Director JANENE MASCARELLA has the latest tips, tricks, and tools to help you beautify from head to toe, from the hottest new products to enhance your summer sizzle (pages 20-21) to tried and true body beauty boosters (page 22). She's thrilled to shine a light on the triumphant return of fun with some lifestyle suggestions to help you let the good times roll (pages 32-33), and once again name the “Best of BELLA” winners worthy of a visit (pages 26-31).

Need some fashion advice? Then look no further—BELLA’s Fashion and Lifestyle Correspondent JONATHAN CALIXTO has you covered. He’s on top of the latest trends as seen during NYFW, Miami Swim Week, and all the events in between.

Stay tuned to what he is up to next via his Instagram @ThisisJCali.

JENNIFER DECILLIS is the publisher of BELLA Magazine, managing editor of BellaMag.co, and a BELLA TV host. Her favorite issue is the Summer Issue, and here she covers everything in the Hamptons, from Chow BELLA (pages 78-79) to Sophisticated Spaces (paaes 42-44). You can also read her first cover story, with cover stars Boyz II Men, on pages 52-57.

JESSICA CIRZ is the cover/feature photographer for BELLA Magazine, capturing fleeting moments in time for what they are and what they may never be again. Follow her on Instagram @JessicaCirzPhotography.

YOLANDA F. JOHNSON is the president of YFJ Consulting, LLC, the founder of Women of Color in Fundraising and Philanthropy, president of Women In Development (WID), NY, founder of Allies in Action Membership Network, and a classically-trained opera singer and composer. Read her latest installment of “The beauty of giving back” on page 82.

All-around beauty boss, JENNIFER CAPELLA is a certified makeup/lash artist and the founder of GlamLife Lounge. Adding to a long list of achievements, she has also worked on NYFW, Miami Swimsuit Week, various movie sets, photo shoots, and off-Broadway productions, as well as various TV networks and as a radio host. See her work on Instagram @Jennmichelle_glamlife.

BARBARA BELLESI ZITO is a NYC-based freelance lifestyle writer covering real estate investing, home improvement, and more for Millionacres and Apartment Therapy, among others.

Follow her on social at @BarbTheWriter.

MEGHAN ROSE is a Los Angeles-based spiritual advisor, tarot card reader, and meditation guide. In addition to working with corporate groups, hosting events, and working privately with her clientele, she is also an author and writer of “The Intuitive Tarot Manifestation™ Workbook.” Head straight to pages 68-70 for her “Tarotscopes,” prepared exclusively for BELLA, then connect with her @MeghanRoseTarot on Instagram and Twitter, or at TheMeghanRose.com.

CARMELIA RAY is a celebrity matchmaker and online dating expert with more than 28 years in the love industry. Her weekly relationship podcast “Better Love” features her top dating tips. She’s the go-to dating expert regularly spotted in the media. In this issue’s “The Love Files,” she shares the her thoughts and advice on post-pandemic dating (pages 62-63). You can follow her on Instagram @CarmeliaRay and @BetterLovePodcast, or visit CarmeliaRay.com.

BELLA Editorial Director GINA LAGUARDIA has been in the publishing biz—online and off—for more than two decades. She spends her days ensuring good grammar and maintaining deadlines while enjoying her daughters, watching movies with her husband, and doing CrossFit with her friends. Follow her on Twitter @GinaLaGuardia.

BELLA Creative Director JESSICA LICCIARDELLO brings the pages of BELLA to life with design. She is also an artist and writer who shares her expertise with readers in her articles both in print and online. You can discover more her work at JLDELLO.com, and on Instagram @JLDELLO.

CEYLONE BOOTHE GROOMS is a wife and mom of four who uses her 20+ years of beauty and lifestyle industry experience to create beautiful memories and delicious delightful moments in the kitchen. Her style of "simple but special " cooking and entertaining is definitely a feast for the eyes.

See for yourself on pages 74-75.

Follow her on Instagram @CeyloneBootheGrooms.

NORAH LAWLOR is the founder of Lawlor Media Group, a PR, marketing, and strategic communications agency in New York City, which is celebrating its 20 year anniversary. She is also an avid traveler and chronicler of the jet-set lifestyle.

Follow her on Instagram @LawlorMedia.

JARROD THALHEIMER Marcus Aurelius said the object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Jarrod is still in process. Check out his latest in this issue's “The Love Files” on pages 64-66.

LAUREN VENA, a celebrity makeup artist with more than 20 years experience, specializes in editorial, bridal, and special occasion makeup, and also teaches the everyday person how to apply makeup. She is also the author of the children’s book, “My Mom… The Best Mom Ever!” You can follow her on Instagram at @MakeupArtist_LV or visit her website at LaurenVena.com.

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CONTENTS STYLE REPORT 13 THE 50 shades of blue, Beach BELLAs

STEPS TO FABULOUS 16 5Choices for living beautifully, inside & out

19 Summer sizzle, Body beautiful, BEAUTY SCENE

#HotBoySummer, Mobile Meraki

OF BELLA 26BEST Our best venues to wine, dine, mix, mingle & more

Best of BELLA

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+ LIFE 32 HOME Elevate your summer fun

BOSS 34 BELLA 8 bosses we admire

SPACES 42 SOPHISTICATED Capri Southampton

CLOSE & PERSONAL 46 UP David Bromstad

STORY 52 COVER Boyz II Men

& CULTURE 58 ARTS LGBTQ+ nightlife survival

w e n r u o o t Listen

T S A C D PO Tune in as BELLA Magazine’s new podcast division shares some sassy, funny, and intelligent conversations with Team BELLA and Editor-in-Chief Vanessa Coppes. It’s all the BELLA content you love, from entertainment, beauty, lifestyle, empowerment, and more.

The BELLAs will dish their opinions on each topic, diving deep beneath the surface of what we see on the glossy cover. Whether it’s fashion and lifestyle tips, celebrity interviews, or exclusive for-BELLA-earsonly news, the ladies will deliver what you want to hear the real way—the only way!

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CONTENTS NOVEL IDEA 60 ABeach reads (for real this season)

LOVE FILES 62 THE Post-pandemic dating, Quiz time: Do you need love, or just a pet?

TO KNOW 67 GETTING Vital Agibalow TAROTSCOPES 68 BELLA A magical summer ahead

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INSIDER 72 BELLA Your guide to a relaxing summer

BELLA 73 CHOW Lobster boil, Have fun — have rum, Southampton Social Clu

BELLA 80 TEAM Our favorite summer cocktails

BEAUTY OF GIVING BACK 82 THE Reopening the door to generosity

83 MIND+BODY Growing & thriving in the new normal, Hotels

take their wellness offerings outside, Stepping into renewed strength, Summer skincare prevention

94 TRAVEL Escape to New England Escape to New England

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TOWN 98 AROUND People, places, parties

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the style report | men’s trend Endless Joy Barong Short-Sleeve Shirt $476, FarFetch.com

Sailboats Printed Short Sleeve Shirt $159, Bugatchi.com

Dolce & Gabbana Braided Leather Wrap Bracelet $275, MatchesFashion.com

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BLUE

By Jonathan Calixto

Do you want to feel like you are at the BELLA Hamptons event this summer? Or take a deep-dive into reinventing the most common color in your closet? Here's a look at how to wear the popular oceanic tone. From monochromatic to mix-and-match essentials, don't forget to grab your blue attire this season!

Orlebar Brown Bulldog Cotton-Blend Straight-Let Shorts $245, MatchesFashion.com

Common Projects Track Classic Low-Top Sneakers $490, FarFetch.com Incotex Blue Cotton Chinos $239, FarFetch.com

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Birkenstock Arizona Leather Sandals $70, MatchesFashion.com

the style report | fun in the sun LIVING FOR LACE-UP San Lorenzo Bikinis High Neck String Set in Rose Smoke Top $70; Bottom $75, SanLorenzoHawaii.com

CRAZY FOR CUT-OUTS San Lorenzo Bikinis Cut-Out One-Piece in Honey Gold $145, SanLorenzoHawaii.com

MY NUMBER ONE (PIECE) Tampa Sky ZigZag Swimsuit $248, us.Odabash.com

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INSPIRED AND UNDERWIRED Bali Bay Underwire Bikini Top $58; Bali Bay High Waist Bikini Bottom $44, BareNecessities.com

“I followed my heart, and it led me to the beach.”

-Unknown

There is nothing as soothing as the sound of ocean waves, the smell of salty beach air, and the feeling of soft, warm sand on our feet. So why is picking out a beachy swimsuit so incredibly stressful?!

BOHO CHIC CROCHET Kiwi Bikini $132, MyBeachySide.com

Here at BELLA, we want to help eliminate the stress from the swimsuit shopping process, so you can hit the beach worry free. Here are some great swimsuits that will keep you looking your best and feeling confident. And remember—inner peace and happiness will give you the perfect summer glow more than any bikini can!

SPORTY SPLASH Camille Kostek My Favorite Long Sleeve Bikini Set $120, SwimsuitsForAll.com

SQUARE NECK STYLE Tosca Lime Swimsuit $239,us.Odabash.co

BABY ON BOARD Seraphine Teal Knot Front Maternity Tankini $59, Seraphine.com

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5 steps to fabulous

inside & out Choices for living beautifully,

By Vanessa Coppes

Summer is finally here, and with life going back to a semblance of ‘normal,’ we can all get back to doing the things we love.

Self-care continues to be at the top of my priority list. I am excited to share with you the activities that continue to bring me back to myself. I hope they serve as a source of inspiration for you too!

READ Until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. We know this, but are we willing to do the work it takes to heal? In “What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing,” Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce D. Perry discuss the impacts of trauma, building resilience, and the path to healing in order to gain wisdom.

My key takeaway from this book is that giving back to yourself is the greatest gift you can give to others. And if you’re a parent, this is a gift, especially for your children.

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FAMILY TIME I’ve always believed that family time is about quality, not quantity. It seems like all we’ve done over the past year is spend time with our immediate family. What I did learn once and for all is that we will never get back these precious moments. God only knows how much I have enjoyed spending more time with each of my boys.

What a gift! I hope it’s been the same for you and your loved ones.

DO YOU HAVE ANY RECOMMENDATIONS YOU’D LIKE TO SHARE WITH ME? LET’S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM! VANESSACOPPES

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NURTURE YOUR INNER CHILD I did a thing my soul has been screaming for me to do for years. My childhood teacher was so strict and mean, I lost interest three years into my dance practice. The longing to dance again, however, has never left me. All these years later, I decided to re-enroll, and after my first class, I cried in my car. I realized that it’s never too late and you’re never too old to pursue your passions.

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DATE NIGHT It’s overrated and overstated, however, my husband and I are finally actually doing it—spending time together and rekindling our connection in ways we used to do before kids.

Time continues to pass, so it takes conscious, daily efforts to stay connected to the people who matter to us most. Looking into your partner’s eyes after years of doing life together with the ups and downs—that’s a true testament to love in action. Do it now, when it matters most.

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beauty scene | go gorgeous Ellis Brooklyn BEE Eau de Parfum is a buzz-worthy summer scent dripping with honey, warmed with dark rum, and loaded with the addictive notes of vanilla bean, sandalwood, and cocoa absolute. $105 for 50ml, EllisBrooklyn.com

Masktini’s Night Ranger Overnight Renewal Mask is a silky sleep therapy mask that combines groundbreaking science in a rich formula to nourish, plump, and soothe skin. $65, Masktini.com

SUMMER SIZZLE Rusk PUREMIX Blooming Sunflower Volumizing Conditioner gives volume to fine hair and is enriched with sunflower seed extract to gently moisturize while protecting color, and vitamin B5 to naturally thicken and lift strands. $18, Ulta.com

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Seriously, these are the hottest new beauty commodities you must get your hands on...

By Janene Mascarella

Blessed Beauty Gaze of Goddess Palette features four gorgeous colors curated to enhance brown eyes (but beautiful on all eyes) that combines three different finishes—shimmer, matte, and metallic, for a complete eye look. $65, BlessedBeautyMakeup.com

MDSolarSciences Tinted Solar Stick SPF 40 is an easy-to-apply, portable stick.

It’s great for anyone on the go who needs a powerful, sheertinted SPF shield that blends seamlessly with all skin tones for a matte uniform finish. $24, MDSolarSciences.com

Anastasia Beverly Hills Face Palette in "Italian Summer" is a bronzer, highlighter, and blush trio that instantly transports with a touch of getaway warmth and glow. $58, Ulta.com

Mystic Tan Wake-Up Tan Hyaluronic Acid Moisturizer Self-Tan Water Mousse gets your skin all-over hydrated, smooth, and perfectly glowy. $25, MysticTan.com

Neogen Glass Foot File is made from ultra-fine, long-lasting patterned glass that helps to gently diminish rough dry dead skin cells and reveal smooth and soft skin in just one step. $28, TheBeautySpy.com

Odièle’s Rose Sérum is a powerful cocktail of essential fatty acids loaded with vitamins and minerals that infuse the skin with essential nutrients. $125, Odiele.com

Cryo Globes go in the freezer, and they're great for eliminating puffiness, especially around the eyes, reducing oiliness, easing acne, and giving your skin the perfect healthy glow. $55, FacialLounge.com

StriVectin Super-C SPF 30 Vitamin C Moisturizer is your daily SPF and skin-transforming moisturizer in one perfect cream that practically smells like sunshine. $69, StriVectin.com

IGK LEGENDARY Dream Hair Conditioner nourishes and adds shine while sealing in moisture, and keeping hair smooth, soft, and bouncy. $31, IGKhair.com Jessica Simpson Fiend features musk and sensual woods notes combined with addictive amber and touches of smoked sage, tiger lily, and velvet orris for a naturally sexy aroma that is uniquely yours. $60, HSN.com

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beauty scene | tried & true glo910+ $299, UrbanOutfitters.com My secret to toned legs is this hightech massage tool that not only tackles cellulite, it helps comfort muscle pain, increase healthy circulation, decrease swelling, and leaves my skin feeling smooth. After a month of regular use (about 15 minutes a day), I started noticing bonafide sculpting results.

BODY BEAUTIFUL Nushape Lipo Wrap $497, NuShape.com This portable belt is totally worth the splurge, and I’m basically obsessed with it. The comfotable device is like a “noworkout workout” to drain toxins from fat cells, burn calories, decrease inflammation, and increase metabolism. I often wear it at night while watching TV and seriously marvel at the results.

Our Beauty Director Janene Mascarella shares her favorite full-body beautifiers that she says (after many months of testing) are nothing short of sensational.

SmoothSkin Pure $397, SmoothSkin.com Using the very latest in IPL technology, this tool delivers a smart, fast, and powerful treatment designed to stop hair growth and reveal beautiful skin, free from dark shadows and stubble. It’s a full body treatment (legs, bikini line, underarms, and face) in as little as 10 minutes. I’ve never been so happy to kiss nicks and razor burns goodbye.

Bawdy Beauty The Bawdy Oil $75, BawdyBeauty.com After showering postworkout, I smooth on this full spectrum CBDinfused botanical body oil made with 300mg of full spectrum CBD to soothe and calm my muscles and stressed-out skin. The sensual oil is great for a massages and has a sweet and musky aroma. It repairs, restores, moisturizes, and I find it instantly uplifting.

Beauty Kitchen Bye Bye Cellulite Set $43.50, BeautyKitchen.net Say hello to the beach and goodbye to cellulite, fine lines, stretch marks, lumps, bumps, and more. I seriously love this all-natural, skin-tightening duo (it includes a coffee sugar scrub and a cellulite firming body oil) because it gives my skin a boost it needs to look and feel energized!

PMD Clean Pro Jade $179, PMDBeauty.com I love to add some Zen to my routine! This device helps lift, tone, and firm my skin. After cleansing, I flip it to activate the jade plate massager. Jade is known for its highly calming and balancing properties, which aid the skin, reducing irritation and increasing elasticity.

Environ Body EssentiA Tri-Complex Contouring Cream $66, DermaConcepts.com This cream is a revolutionary innovation to help visibly smooth, firm, tighten, and reshape the appearance of your skin with powerful threedimensional contouring effects.

It also helps visibly improve the appearance of dimpled, uneven textured and lax skin, targeting areas such as the jawline, upper arms, abdomen, buttocks, thighs, and knees, all while nourishing the skin for a silky soft feel.

TEMPTU Ultimate Airbrush Self-Tan Starter Kit $150, Temptu.com This one-of-a-kind, at-home sunless tanner collection is basically the answer to my prayers. It delivers an extremely precise, micro-fine mist that ensures every inch of skin is coated evenly with a professional spray tan formula. No mess, no streaks, and finally...no stained hands!

The result: a superior sun-kissed glow that lasts for days.

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10 top-notch MEN’S GROOMING UPGRADES

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Hold

göt2b® 2-in-1 glued® Spray Wax is a dual-finish spray wax that delivers flexible texture or structured hold to achieve a variety of styling possibilities. $4.99, stores nationwide

Soothe

Pachamama CBD Athletic Rub is a full spectrum hemp oil blended into a musclerecover salve and enhanced with soothing essential oils for maximum mobility and comfort.

42.99, PachamamaCBD.com

Treat

HANK Skincare’s BHANG - The Face Treatment assists the skin by feeding it vital nutrients contained within the plant compounds, including CBD. $36, HankSkincare.com

Restore

DONGINBI Red Ginseng Homme Power All-inOne Fluid is a restorative treatment for sensitive skin caused by shaving and other external factors. This K-Beauty skincare brand for men utilizes Asia’s most precious anti-aging ingredient—red ginseng. $53, Amazon.com

Conceal

Mattias Cover is a concealer that helps hide undereye circles, blemishes, or any other trouble spots. It’s loaded with Vitamin E, which is great for your skin. $20,GetMattias.com

Correct

Tribe Skin Fix is undetectable in person or on camera. The men’s cosmetic instantly blemishes, evens out skin tone, and hides redness and wrinkles, leaving you with a natural, handsome face. $18, TribeCosmetics.com

Thicken

Foligain Men’s Triple Action Conditioner for Thinning Hair with 2% Trioxidil also features nutrients that help make hair more manageable and add fullness and density. $19.99, Walgreens.com

Cleanse

Youbody Waterless Body Wash System is a perfect alternative to wasteful plastic bottles. The wash is eco-friendly and customizable, allowing you to mix different scented packets so you can smell exactly how you want.

Starter Kit $50, YoubodyCare.com

Spray

Anthony Hopkins AH Eau de Parfum is a mix of timeless elegance with fruitful undertones, The unisex scent is quite magical. For each purchase, up to 50 meals are provided to kids in need through No Kid Hungry. $75, AnthonyHopkins.com

Shave

MASON MAN Superhero Shave Cream offers elevated, good-for-you ingredients and luxury in an effortless everyday product for all men’s skin and hair types. $25, Ulta.com 23

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It’s a perfect way to pamper yourself, experience services with a group of friends or family, or play host to the best event or party.

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Meraki, proounced may-rah-kee, is a Greek word often described as doing something with soul, creativity, and love, and it’s at the essence of every service the team of leading estheticians, health coaches, and wellness experts provides each client.

“Stepping into our intimate mobile coach will instantly have you feeling relaxed, safe, and ready to experience a level of unparalleled service,” Micaela explains. “During this time, we are also taking extra measures to maintain a safe and sanitary spa experience for all clients.”

Not only do they provide a wide range of treatments that enhance your exterior beauty, Meraki takes a holistic approach to well-being by emphasizing the connection of mind, body, and spirit.

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BEST of 2021 Summers are made for venturing out, winding down, whisking away, and (finally) living it up! Looking for your next happy place? Here are BELLA’s very best venues to wine, dine, mix, mingle, or make a splashor mad dash with winners in 17 categories!

By Janene Mascarella

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DINING VIEW

For dinner and drinks with an extraordinary view, head over to Sanctuary Camelback Mountain Resort & Spa in Paradise Valley, Arizona. The resort’s signature bar serves up jaw-dropping views of Scottsdale from Camelback Mountain—where the resort is perched—that can’t be seen from anywhere else. Plus, Food Network star, Executive Chef Beau McMillan, creates sensational farm-fresh American cuisine with Asian accents.

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SANCTUARY CAMELBACK MOUNTAIN RESORT & SPA PARADISE VALLEY, AZ SanctuaryOnCamelback.com

ROOFTOP POOL

With a great beach resort atmosphere in downtown Nashville, there is no better place that feels like an island paradise in the heart of Music City than at Margaritaville Hotel Nashville. Soak up the sun and take in fantastic views of the skyline from the fourth-floor pool deck. With its beach-bar vibe and an extensive collection of boat drinks, brews, and—of course—namesake margaritas for which they’re known.

Photograhy courtesy of Margaritaville Nashville

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STREET ART

Richmond has one of the largest street art collections in the country with over 100 murals on vibrant, colorful walls popping up all over the city, painted by local and international artists. The annual RVA Street Art Festival is a homegrown celebration of street art in the region, transforming and invigorating neglected areas of the city with murals and paintings by local, national, and global artists, benefitting local arts charities and conducting arts outreach in underserved communities.

RICHMOND, VA VisitRichmond.com

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COMFORT FOOD

In all the hustle and bustle of Jersey City, you’ll find this gem right in the center of the up-and-coming food scene. City Diner is a seasonal, from-scratch kitchen with a full bar. They have been serving breakfast, lunch, and dinner with specialty cocktails in Jersey City since 2010. From mouth-watering burgers to the perfect Eggs Benny, it’s the ultimate spot to devour all the classic comfort dishes and experience all-day delicious.

CITY DINER JERSEY CITY, NJ CityDiner.com

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PLACE TO PLAY

The Playhouse is a bar, vintage arcade, and burger joint (Swillburger)

housed in a historic 1890 former baptist church. Known for serving up some of the most delicious burgers and fries (as well as occasional specialties, such as “Garbage Tots,” vegan sandwiches, even a lobster roll), the Playhouse brings food and fun together with original pinball machines, Big Buck Hunter, Pac-Man, Donkey Kong, and other oldschool games lining the walls. The backlit and colorful bar serves up beer, wine, and cocktail specials all evening long.

THE PLAYHOUSE/SWILLBURGER ROCHESTER, NY ThePlayhouseRoc.com

Photography courtesy of The Katharine

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ROSÉ COCKTAIL

The “Hair Toss (Check My Nails)” is one of the most popular seasonal cocktails on the menu at The Katharine, a French restaurant in downtown Winston-Salem, NC. It’s made with Titos Vodka, Bouvet Sparkling Rosé, Strawberry-infused Simple Syrup, and lemon juice. They don't serve Frozé because they say, well, this….is simply better! Flash shaken with crushed ice. Baby, how you feelin'?

THE KATHARINE WINSTON-SALEM, NC KatharineBrasserie.com

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BOOZY ELIXIR

If you’re seeking the ultimate summer sip, look no further than Spiro’s Restaurant and Lounge, a muststop if you’re heading out east to The Hamptons. The Watermelon Basil Smash is a spectacular elixir, and the cocktail is created with GREY GOOSE Essences Watermelon & Basil Vodka, Golden Falernum, fresh muddled watermelon, and basil, topped with champagne. It’s instantly refreshing!

SPIRO’S LOUNGE ROCKY POINT, NY SpirosLounge.com Photography by Daniel Brennan

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SUMMER BITE

Once you have a bite of a fresh, in-season Georgia peach, there’s no going back. Most of the peaches you see in the grocery store are picked too early, resulting in a mealy, bland taste. The Georgia Peach Truck works with a 120-year-old peach farm in Georgia to provide the East Coast with fresh, ripe peaches.

Whether you meet them at a Farmers Market in Atlanta or on their summer road trip to over 120 locations, the Georgia Peach Truck ensures you have the best bite of the summer season.

The hand-crafted luxury lean-tos at Whiteface Lodge are great spots to enjoy a cocktail and cigar under the starry Lake Placid sky. These structures are unique to the Adirondacks and the epitome of rustic elegance. Sheltered on three sides and open to stargazing, they are furnished with cozy soft seating, bright throw rugs, and fire pits that provide a dreamy setting for a warm summer evening. Cocktails, cigars, and snacks are a phone call away thanks to a dedicated line to access concierge services, making for a magical experience.

GEORGIA PEACH TRUCK ATLANTA, GA GeorgiaPeachTruck.com

THE WHITEFACE LODGE LAKE PLACID, NY TheWhitefaceLodge.com

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GILDED AGE GETAWAY

As one of only 12 remaining Gilded Age mansions in the Berkshires constructed at the turn of the 20th century, Blantyre Country Estate provides a timeless ultra-luxury experience enhanced by specialty features and services. The Relais & Châteaux resort continues to redefine bespoke New England travel with innovative offerings and exclusive guest amenities, including the new permanent residency of Michelin-starred chef Daniel Boulud’s Café Boulud at Blantyre.

BLANTYRE COUNTRY ESTATE LENOX, MA Blantyre.com

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CAVIAR TASTING

The Caviar Co.'s exciting new caviar and champagne tasting room is a top-notch spot to treat yourself to some posh wining and dining. The hot spot features fantastic caviar flights (with a build-your-own option), caviar bites, bubbles, and champagne by the glass and bottle—the champagne vending machine is a huge hit! Menu items include black truffle grilled cheese with caviar, burrata, smoked trout roe dip, and more.

THE CAVIAR CO CAVIAR AND CHAMPAGNE TASTING ROOM TIBURON, CA TheCaviarCo.com

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WELLNESS ESCAPE

If you’re looking to escape to the Catskills and focus on self-care, YO1 Health Resort recently launched a Restorative Wellness Package designed to help you decompress from stress and enhance your overall well-being. Situated on 1,400 acres of lush forest and surrounded by lakes, it includes your choice of massage (Swedish, aromatherapy, or hot stone), as well as a mud therapy session and hydrotherapy session, luxurious lake view suite accommodations, three vegan and vegetarian meals a day, and more. It’s a spectacular way to reconnect!

YO1 HEALTH RESORT MONTICELLO, NY Yo1.com

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STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE

Nothing screams summer like a classic, fluffy strawberry shortcake, and South Florida’s Lilly Cakes is hard to beat. Marsha Daly-Martorano started the homegrown dessert brand in 2011 from the pastry kitchen at Café Martorano's Fort Lauderdale.

Lilly Cakes feature the freshest ingredients in its one-of-a-kind homemade desserts. Besides the delicious strawberry shortcake, signature Lilly Cakes desserts also include lemon cupcakes, chocolate chip cookies, butter cookies, and red velvet cake.

LILLYCAKES FORTLAUDERDALE, FL LillyCakes.com

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NYC SKYLINE VIEWS

Atop 1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge, Harriet's Rooftop is an open-air garden and bar with unparalleled panoramic views of the Manhattan skyline and Brooklyn Bridge. It's the perfect place to chill this summer and enjoy handcrafted cocktails, sustainable wines, and local beers, paired with light bites spotlighting local and seasonal ingredients.

HARRIET’S ROOFTOP & LOUNGE BROOKLYN, NY 1hotels.com/brooklyn-bridge

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POOL BAR

Located between waterfalls in a rustic cave setting, the Grotto Bar at the Hyatt Regency Maui Resort and Spa offers a unique place to grab a drink and light pub fare. A truly cool spot to enjoy happy hour, you can swim up to the bar for an exclusive menu of frozen and traditional cocktails, as well as TVs that stream the day’s gaming action. Set on 40 acres on Ka’anapali Beach, the Maui resort is a getaway paradise.

HYATT REGENCY MAUI RESORT AND SPA LAHAINA, HI Hyatt.com

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RENTAL VILLA

This Balinesestyle retreat is nestled unassumingly in a quiet, upscale residential area of the Encino neighborhood in Los Angeles—a modern hideaway that will transport you to another world.

Refurbished with custom furniture and interior decor imported directly from Bali, this Nimbali Villa was created by the owner’s own inspirations of travel for a “permanent-vacation” feel and escape to her favorite Southeast Asian country. Designed with comfort, style, and of course, great photos in mind, no expense was spared in making this feel like an authentic Bali vacation.

Wings Air has curated the best day ever in the Hamptons. The experience begins with a private helicopter flight from Manhattan to East Hampton, where a luxury sedan awaits to take you to a nearby Hamptons beach picnic spot. A fully catered picnic is already arranged beautifully with blankets, pillows, and fresh flowers to match the mood. You'll enjoy your favorite foods and drinks while being waited on by an attendant. After a two-hour oceanside picnic, you will be driven back to East Hampton Airport and conclude the day with a smooth helicopter flight back to Manhattan.

NIMBALI VILLA LOS ANGELES, CA NimbaliDesign.com, AirBnb.com

WINGS AIR EAST HAMPTON, NY WingsAir.net

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HAMPTONS WHISK-AWAY

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summer fun

home + life

Elevate your

By Janene Mascarella

Pool parties, beach bashes, sunset soirées...summer 2021 shall be savored, sipped, and soaked in! Looking for some bright ideas to really amp up the fun factor?

Here are 12 ways to help you let the good times roll.

GET ENERGIZED

If you need some pep in your step, ZOA is a healthy energy drink packed with a unique mix of vitamins B, C, and nutrients, providing sustained energy with immune system support. It contains a blend of green tea and green unroasted coffee for a kick of natural caffeine, electrolytes and amino acids for hydration, as well as carefully selected superfoods like camu camu and acerola. There will be no slowing down this summer! $29.99 for 12, Amazon

VACAY VIBES

Inspired by the culture and vibe of Miami, FUN WINE is a brand influenced by art, fashion, and music. The makers believe wine should be fun and not complicated, and we couldn't agree more The Coconut Chardonnay from the Bubbly Collection is vibrant and spritzy, with flavors of coconut and pineapple—it's bold with a light-to-medium body. If summer 2021 has an official sip, it should be this one! $5.99, FunWine.com

YOU TUBE

PoolCandy is known for creating some of the most glamorous and innovative pool products, and its new Rainbow Collection features bright, glittery, dazzling floats, sprinklers, tubes, balls, water slides, and sunning pools for all of your hot boy/girl summer needs. This Inflatable Glitter Pool Tube is all you need to keep your summer chillaxing afloat. $29.99, PoolCandy.net

NO WORRIES

Want to enjoy your summer vacay with peace of mind? Lorex Technology's new 2K Wire-Free Security System is the perfect solution. The bundle includes a Lorex home hub, which stores all local data, meaning local storage and no monthly fees. With no wires, 2K resolution, and a simple DIY installation, this security system is a great buy for new homeowners. $349.99, LorexTechnology.com

SHINE BRIGHT

Illuminate all your summertime selfies in a flash! The LITTIL Selfie One brings professional lighting to your photos and videos, while being small enough to carry with you wherever you go. The 60 high-powered LEDs provide three different light tones and 10 different brightness settings to perfectly control the lighting in any setting. It fits on your phone or laptop, so say goodbye to poorly lit pictures and hello to bright, flawless selfies. $39.99, Littil.com

ALL SET

Hestia Harlow is the online rent-and-return, hyper-curated event-hosting platform offering dozens of already created tablescapes perfect for every occasion. The contactless rental service delivers all the details of any high-end beautiful soirée to all U.S. states direct to door, including table settings, centerpieces, florals, and so much more—even cocktails and charcuterie boards! Think “Rent the Runway” meets décor. The best part… no washing dishes. Yep, all you have to do is pack the items back into your custom event box, and it’s picked up the next day. Genius, right!?

HestiaHarlow.com

CAN-DO ATTITUDE

Cool Cat is a refreshing new line of wine spritzers, available in Original (elderflower mint lime) and Citrus flavors. The naturally flavored spritzers feature a base of California Pinot Grigio and cane sugar, and are gluten free. They contain just 150 calories and two carbohydrates per 12-ounce can. They taste great right out of the can, poured over ice, or used as a mixer in cocktails. So easy and breezy, no bartending skills required!

4-pack $15.99, DrinkCoolCat.com

SOUFFLÉ ALL DAY

The Fab Fête (French-ish for ‘fabulous party’) launched a fool-proof summertime soufflé, and it can be summed up in two words: c'est magnifique! The ¡VIVA! Soufflé serves 12-16 friends and incorporates “South of the Border” flavors with blended cheeses, queso fresco, roasted poblano peppers, jalapeños, and sautéed onions. It’s great for any outdoor gathering with margaritas. Just pop it in the oven, serve with chips, and cue the applause! $92, TheFabFete.com Photography by Paige Beitler Photography

PILLOW TALK

If you like to be out and about, you might want to listen up!

Ballast is the first pillow designed specifically for the beach, but it's also great for camping, boating, laying poolside, and any other outdoor adventure you may have planned. Weighted, it won't blow away at the slightest breeze, and its curved contour and padded top offer a comfortable rest—so much better than a balled-up towel! It's the perfect travel pillow as it deflates into a small carry bag for easy packing into your beach bag, backpack, or suitcase. $35, BallastGear.com

CIAO, BABY!

Got wanderlust? Minnidip's "Passport Collection” is an inflatable pool collection inspired by cities around the world—turning your own backyard into the ultimate oasis without the jetlag. The Amalfi Pool is inspired by travels throughout Italy and the Amalfi Coast, featuring blue and yellow tile patchwork commonly found in the region. Frolic with your besties in your own backyard and kiss your troubles (temporarily) goodbye! $70, Minnidip.com

GAME ON

Your next pool party is about to get a lot cooler! WOW Watersports Inflatable Travel Pong Game lets you take your game from the house to the pool, lake, tailgate, or campground. Because of its portability, Pong is not just great in the water but for anywhere–the RV, boating, or camping.

This travel game is designed to go with you, wherever you want to play. When you’re not using it as a pong table, just flip it over and it can be used as a lounge or water mat. $29.99, BJs.com

BOOZY BREW

If you like your coffee spiked, you definitely need to check out CASK & KETTLE. It's the only hard coffee cocktail on the market, and it's a fab way to bring your morning cup of joe into happy hour and beyond! Simply pop a single-serve cup into your brewing system, or add hot water. It’s coffeehouse quality with everything you need in one pod—including the alcohol. Flavors include Irish Coffee, Mint Patty, Mexican Coffee, Hot Blonde Coffee, and Spiked Dry Cider. $14.99, CaskAndKettleUSA.com 33

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By Janene Mascarella

Running a thriving business takes drive, determination, and a whole lot of hustle! We’re spotlighting eight savvy entrepreneurs whose immense success proves how a little belief and a big leap of faith can land you a leading role in your own life. Looking to recalibrate your career path? Let their accomplishments be your compass.

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Barattin

Treviso, Italy CONSORZIO DI TUTELA DEL PROSECCO DOC PROMOTIONAL AND VALORIZATION DEPARTMENT MANAGER Prosecco.wine MY BUSINESS: My job has me promoting

Prosecco DOC appellation worldwide, consolidating historical markets, opening business opportunities in new markets, and raising the awareness and brand reputation of Prosecco in the marketplace. I perform a range of marketing activities to achieve those goals, including developing marketing and communication strategies, creating advertising plans, finding sponsorship opportunities, media relations and engagement, planning and managing various promotional activities like fairs, trade events, consumer wine tastings, cultural and sports sponsorships, developing advertising and social media campaigns, and the design and creation of marketing materials.

THE BEST PART: Traveling, meeting people,

popping Prosecco, talking about it, and feeling the sparkle of working with a product that is a symbol of Italian lifestyle—trendy, contemporary, brilliant, cool, authentic, creative, never exclusive, but a great expression of great conviviality moments.

NEW CHALLENGE: Promoting the newborn

Prosecco DOC Rosé, which represents the evolution of a wine already famous in the world: Prosecco DOC,

with a further touch of Italian elegance and delicacy.

It boasts a charming pink color, elegant and fruity nose (strawberry, raspberry, and green apple), and a round, creamy, and refined mouthfeel.

IN THE BEGINNING: I did much problem-

solving to reorganize the department to create a stimulating, creative work environment with efficient teamwork.

MOST REWARDING: Finding new

opportunities, creating connections, traveling worldwide, meeting amazing people from all over the world, sharing moments with passionate men and women, setting new trends, achieving goals, going beyond the limits, and never holding back.

SECRET TO MY SUCCESS: My proactive and

entrepreneurial spirit, determination, hard work, willpower, creativity, passion, and a daily therapy of smiles and Prosecco! Even better if it’s a Prosecco DOC Rosé.

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MAYRA

Betances

Hilliard, OH TEAS YOUR SPIRITS FOUNDER Instagram.com/TeasYourSpirits

MY BUSINESS: I make exotic tea blends to create hot

tea and cold brews that mix well with liquor. My mission is to showcase the richest flavorful hues that tea has to offer in a super creative and artistic way.

IN THE BEGINNING: I started to offer my tea

fusions as a way to enhance my self care and of course to generate a second income while doing something that didn’t stress me out. In essence, Teas Your Spirits was born through my journey in seeking spiritual clarity. The blending and grinding of the loose leaves with spices, dried fruits, and flowers is so healing; it is my form of meditation.

Before I started my tea business I had a greeting card and paper invitation business, which was very rewarding.

I currently manage a nonprofit organization whose mission is to offer a platform for cultural education programming.

MOST REWARDING: Aside from the benefits of the

self care it brings by nature, the most rewarding is seeing the surprised faces of my clients when they see how pretty everything looks and how tasty my tea is! I’ve had many people tell me, “I’m not a tea person but your tea is a whole new twist of goodness!”

Photography by Miguel Gonzalez (@miguitus)

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Photography by Karen Leano

MARIA

Falzo

Cedar Grove, NJ HIP NEW JERSEY FOUNDER HipNewJersey.com

MY BUSINESS: Hip New Jersey is

a digital lifestyle platform featuring the latest in fashion, family, home, celebrations, wellness, and lifestyle in NJ. We offer customized campaigns that include videography/photography, social media promotions, written content, and more.

IN THE BEGINNING: I come from

a background in public relations in fashion, beauty, and lifestyle, so when the landscape of media was changing, it felt like it was time to create a digital business.

MOST REWARDING: I think this

changes during different times in my life. Currently, my business allows me to manage a balance between working and being available for my 8- and 4-year-old children. I can be working on a photo shoot with a brand one day and at my children’s school serving lunch duty the next day.

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MELINA

Cortes-Nmili Boston, MA LALLA BEE FOUNDER LallaBee.co

MY BUSINESS: My mission is to offer a product that, while

timeless and classic, also presents unapologetic boldness. I realize it may not be everyone’s cup of tea, and that’s totally fine.

But we all have a story, and this is my way to tell mine and to learn about yours. This is as much a creative outlet for me as it is a way to inspire others to tell their stories.

The dress alone does not make me who I am...my story, my past, my struggles, all the mistakes I have made along the way, the way I walk into a room—that tells my story. However, a well designed dress that fits well and that complements my colorfilled life certainly makes it easier for me to tell that story. I want to dress that woman who is ready to walk into the room and tell her story.

IN THE BEGINNING: My background is business. I did

not go to fashion technical school. It has been many years of learning along the way, and I continue to learn. I have an MBA in business, and I have been working since I was 18 years old in healthcare. It is very close to me and I am passionate about making patients’ lives better through my work.

Since I was a little girl I knew I was going to do something in the fashion/beauty industry. It was a dream I never really talked about because as a little girl in the countryside of the Dominican Republic. I honestly did not have the slightest idea of how that would happen, but I knew it would. I have always been a dreamer—I have always had the ability to close my eyes and just imagine that feeling of what it will be like when it happens.

MOST REWARDING: Without a doubt, it’s getting to

know the women I design for.

Photography by Federica Dall'orso Makeup and hair by Norah Salazar

Zak & SELOM Agbito OLIVER

Los Angeles, CA MAD RABBIT TATTOO CO-FOUNDERS MadRabbitTattoo.com

OUR BUSINESS: Founded in 2019, Mad Rabbit Tattoo was born and

Photography by Garin Chadwick

bred with a passion for ink as we saw an opportunity to create a superior natural solution to help improve the healing process after seeing the lack of effective and all-natural products. With the mission to eliminate all unnatural and processed ingredients found in traditional aftercare, we sought out to create product offerings that embodied the basics of holistic healing with Mad Rabbit Enhance–Tattoo Balm, Mad Rabbit Repair–Soothing Gel, and Mad Rabbit Defend–Sunscreen. Mad Rabbit promotes individuality, adventure, and anything badass.

IN THE BEGINNING: We met in freshman year at Miami

University, largely through Delta Sigma Pi, the university’s business fraternity, and started working on Mad Rabbit after trying our hand at another e-commerce startup selling women’s bathing suits. We created Mad Rabbit’s first batch of balm in a crockpot in our college kitchen from ingredients bought off Amazon.

Oliver: “[At Miami] it was very much Selom and I skipping class to cook this balm, and we got our neighbors involved; they were helping us ship out packages. Some professors were our very first customers in some senses. It really took off from the start, which helped us solidify our theories about the need for this product. My mom has years of apothecary experience and she helped us come up with the original seven-ingredient balm. We’ve kept that product development mantra the same. We like to keep it simple and all-natural. It’s been a great method for us, with no unnecessary ingredients and no chemicals.

It really just goes a surprisingly long way. Then, we graduated and accepted traditional jobs.

Selom: “I moved to Wichita for a two-year rotation with Textron, while Oliver went to Manhattan to do mergers and acquisitions consulting for EY-Parthenon. We both loved our jobs but that wasn’t the end of Mad Rabbit. We invested all our non-working hours growing the company and eventually quit to work on Mad Rabbit full time.”

MOST REWARDING: Inspiring people to innovate and providing

a solution to an underserved market. Conditions are always changing, and this can be good or bad for a business. When COVID-19 hit, a lot of companies decided to stop or reduce spending, but we decided to at least double our ad spend, which was a big risk, but it ended up paying off because it catapulted us into being the top brand in the tattoo aftercare space.

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Photography by Ghanaian-based photographers (@twinsdntbeg)

JOSEPHINE Somerset, NJ NUTTY COSMETICS CEO & FOUNDER NuttyCosmetics.co

Bonsu

MY BUSINESS: The mission of Nutty Cosmetics

is to provide all-natural skin care products for healthy and beautiful skin.

IN THE BEGINNING: I used to work at a retail

store, and every time I walked through the “Black” aisle and went through the ingredients of some products, I thought to myself, ‘Is there any product that has all-natural ingredients? If not, that’s what I will do.’

MOST REWARDING: Customer satisfaction is enough for

me. As long as they’re happy, it’s rewarding enough.

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GG

Benitez

San Diego, CA ALOISIA BEAUTY CO-FOUNDER GG BENITEZ PR CEO AloisiaBeauty.com, GGBenitezPR.com MY BUSINESS:

Aloisia Beauty™ is a line of high-performance skin care that blends traditional Korean beauty principles with modern science, signature formulations, and clean, responsive ingredients to attain healthy, glowing skin. Developed and produced in partnership with one of South Korea’s leading skin care labs, our products respect the skin and re-imagine the daily skin care ritual as an effective and pampering experience. From our signature 7-Day Skin Care System, to our DEEP HYDRATION Aloe Gel Mist, and our celeb favorite GLOW Exfoliating Soft Peel, along with our growing range of targeted skin care products, Aloisia Beauty is committed to making superior skin care an affordable luxury.

Photography by Isabella Martinez-Funcke

Photography by Eddie Spantman Photography

IN THE BEGINNING: Part of my success as a publicist is that I

have to feel a true connection to the brands I work with. That’s actually how I came to be a co-founding partner of Aloisia Beauty. I was already personally passionate about skin care, as well as about empowering other women and representing strong female entrepreneurs, when two of my dearest friends approached me during Aloisia Beauty’s very beginning stages about becoming a partner. I dove right in. The vision and core values of safe, clean, effective skin care, and the K-Beauty ritual, while offering affordable and essential self-care, really resonated with me. I saw the potential to help build a truly special skin care brand.

MOST REWARDING: As the owner of a women- and minority-

owned business, I am proud to champion and support other women, whether it’s helping them feel good about themselves or inspiring them in their business endeavors. When we receive a testimonial from a happy customer at Aloisia Beauty, it really touches me to know that our skin care has empowered her to look her best and feel more confident.

And, as the eldest of four girls and the mother of two daughters, I’m proud to partner with three other women with equally diverse heritages and backgrounds, and serve as an example of success for other women and minority-owned start-ups.

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sophisticated spaces

Curating a Hamptons experience:

Welcome to

CAPRI SOUTHAMPTON

By Jennifer DeCillis

A celebration of the arts, music, and exquisite food, the Capri Hotel in Southampton, in partnership with NAIA Hamptons, is the perfect travel destination this summer for visitors and Hamptonites alike.

Fusing expertly crafted cuisine and cocktails with music and art exhibits, Capri x NAIA offers a truly one-of-a-kind experience in a European beach-chic setting with a high-energy crowd.

“I really wanted to bring the best of Europe to the Hamptons— where the best of Mykonos meets St. Tropez, and where the best of Ibiza meets the island of Capri,” explains Capri owner, Michael Pitsinos. “We have created a European oasis with a big dose of Hamptons sophistication.”

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sophisticated spaces Enjoy farm-to-table, international cuisine, featuring global favorites you crave and craft cocktails you won't forget. A Hamptons hotspot, NAIA Hamptons lets you indulge in bottomless brunch, lunch, and dinner served daily. Dine inside the elegant restaurant, poolside at The Bathing Club, or on the charming, outdoor deck. Whether complementing your dining experience or setting the tone for cocktails on a night out, NAIA will have you swaying to the sounds of resident DJ and electric violinist, Bud Cahill.

An all-in-one experience, the Capri Hotel is conveniently located minutes from the Hampton Jitney and Long Island Railroad stops. Embellished in splashes of yellow, immersive art installations, and a chic, Grecian ambiance, the Capri Hotel has a total of 29 guest rooms, including 26 standard club rooms and three exclusive suites. A sophisticated and sexy vibe for the summer season, you can stay, eat, and play at the Capri Southampton.

Weekend rates begin at $599/night for a club room and $1599/night for a club suite.

CapriSouthampton.com

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avid

Bromstad

Living a life he loves

By Alexandra Anastasio Photography by Ian Levasseu

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up close + personal

he HGTV network is famously known for its multitude of home and design shows featuring some of the best designers, contractors, and home experts in the business. Artist and TV personality David Bromstad is right at the top of that list.

As the first ever winner of the network’s reality design competition show, “Design Star,” the artist known for his eclectic style and love for bright, bold colors has been a part of the HGTV family for the past 15 years. And while David has found success in the world of real estate and design, he says his childhood dream was to become a Disney animator.

“Fame wasn’t part of my existence or my dream,” David explains. “I just wanted to be well-known and respected in my craft.”

After a stint at the Walt Disney Company, David began designing kid’s fantasy bedrooms around the Southeast area.

Fast-forward two and a half years later, and on the suggestion of one of the interior designers he worked with, he entered the design competition show that would alter the trajectory of his life.

“I was barely making ends meet, but I was loving my life,” says David. “I loved what I was doing. I could go into work whenever I wanted, I did not have a boss, and I really loved my life before TV.” Despite the fact he had no formal training in interior design, that didn’t stop David from taking a chance. With no expectations of winning, he viewed the show as an opportunity to help out his career and to have fun in the process. But as he began winning a challenge here and there, David quickly realized he had a shot, and his competitive side went into “hyper-crazy mode,” as he describes it.

The win launched his TV career, and the rest—as the say—is history. Since then he’s had numerous shows of his own and starred in a handful of others for the network, including his latest, “My Lottery Dream Home,” now in its 11th season.

Fans everywhere have fallen in love with David’s infectious laugh and big personality, and lucky for us, we were able to spend some time with him to talk about his career and artistic vision, which include those fabulous tattoos!

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You entered “Design Star” on a whim with no expectations of winning, yet you did. How did that feel?

I’m an artist who just watched my friends; I never took classes. So I thought I was outclassed, and [there was] no way was I going to win this. So winning was obviously a dream come true. I basically went from almost rags to slightly richer. It was a blessing; everything kind of aligned and I had no idea it was aligning, but looking back at everything, it just worked out so seamlessly.

You’ve had multiple shows on HGTV, and for the past 11 seasons have been helping winners find their ultimate dream home. What do you love most about “My Lottery Dream Home?”

Besides the success of the show, it’s super fun and it gives people hope.

The most fun is hanging out with my crew and getting to know these winners. All we do is giggle; I don’t know how we get any work done.

They have to cut through so much stuff that we say, but we know we have a job to do and we’re all very professional. If you’re not having fun doing everything you’re doing on a daily basis, then you’re doing something wrong.

Within the show, winners are shown three homes before making their decision. How does it work in terms of finding “the right one?”

We really do a good job of searching for the perfect houses for them. Of course, we show them more than three houses, but it’s a 22-minute show and we have to keep it clean and simple, so we show you the best. When they come to me, they’re like, “Help, we’ve looked for years and just can’t find it.” Sometimes it takes an outside perspective of someone who can help you envision your life in that house. And it’s easier when you have someone help you do it because then you can step away from it and really think about it in a more unique and fun way.

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up close + personal One of the perks of the show is the opportunity to travel to many different places across the country. To date, which has been your favorite?

Cape Cod. We’ve gone there so many times, and I absolutely love it. It is one of the most epically charming places I’ve ever been.

The travel is the best part of the job, and it’s also the hardest because you’re obviously sleeping in someone else’s bed, living out of a suitcase, and it gets tiresome, but on the flip side you’re seeing places you might never go and visit on your own. Seeing how America lives—I love that—and it’s what makes me really happy.

this,” or “I need this type of house.” The more you look, the more you know exactly what you want. I am the most exhausting person to shop with for houses.

The house I bought is not a complete fixer-upper but I’m redoing everything. It’s a beautiful home in the most beautiful area. I fell in love with it just because it’s got such a charm and comfort to it, and of course, I’m going to put my own design craziness all over it and make it even more fantastic. It’s been a blessing, and I’m so happy to be doing it.

As an artist, you’re not afraid to take chances. From where do you draw your inspiration?

My sister is a huge source of my inspiration. She’s an interior designer and a fellow creative like me. We just set each other off creatively, and I look up to her. Her color senses are insane and wonderful and very different than mine—also very complementary. She is probably my biggest source of inspiration…we’re always sending each other Instagram pictures to look at. Obviously, I get my inspiration from other interior designers and artists as well, but my sister pushes me to another level that is amazing.

Having a creative eye, do you share some of your artistic visions when visiting the homes?

I give the advice only when they allow me to. I’ve been in this industry for so long and you can overwhelm someone who might not understand, so that’s why I ask if they are looking for a fixer-upper, to do things ourselves, or to just find move-in ready? Because if they say move-in ready, then those design tips are just not going to resonate with them, and it makes the househunting not as fun. When they want the advice, then it comes out—it’s so much fun to do that too.

It seems like a lot of the winners are first-time homebuyers, which is always amazing to watch. What advice do you share with them?

Obviously our conversations are so much more than what you see on the show. I go into extensive things like, What’s your closet situation? I just bought a house myself and the closet situation is bad, so I had to add another closet. Those are the kinds of things you have to think about before you move in. I’m not going to force my tips on anyone, but I will definitely make suggestions.

After helping others find their dream home, you recently purchased your own in Florida. Can you share a little bit about the process of house-hunting for yourself ?

I looked at probably 200 homes, and I’ve been looking for about four years. It’s been exhausting because my pace would literally change every two seconds. I would be like, “Oh, I want to do 50

Let’s talk tattoos, which is another way for you to express yourself creatively. This might be a difficult question, but do you have a favorite?

It’s like asking my favorite color or favorite child. The one that brings people the most love and happiness and an immediate smile is my Mickey tattoo on my right shoulder; I have like six Mickeys over there. I love him and he makes me so happy. It represents hope, fantasy, and magic, and all the things you feel as a kid. I continue to live off those aspects.

I love them all for different reasons; they all have a meaning whether it is super-intense or not, and some are just nostalgia. I have a scratch-and-sniff popcorn sticker on my belly because my family loves popcorn and I collected scratch and sniff stickers when I was a kid.

Between the new season of “My Lottery Dream Home” and your home renovation, is there time for any new projects?

I’m just enjoying life right now. I think another project would be fine, but I don’t want to do another TV show because it’s a fulltime job, and right now my full-time project is my house. Once I get through that, then I will be like, “OK, where am I going to retire, and start looking for properties to retire in.”

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CELEBRATING 30 YEARS AS MUSIC INDUSTRY ICONS

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cover story o have never experienced their musical genius, danced along to their hits, or fallen in love with their ballads is inconceivable. For 30 years, legendary musicians, Boyz II Men, have been serenading the masses and fortifying their place in music industry history as an elite R&B ensemble. Paving the way for boy bands to come, their accolades and countless awards speak for themselves. Ranking among the likes of Elvis Presley and The Beatles, Boyz II Men has broken records, even their own, topping Billboard charts and making their albums a staple for generations.

From humble beginnings in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, to sold-out shows across the globe, Boyz II Men has never forgotten where they came from, which has attributed to their massive success and longevity in the industry.

Besides their musical reign, they have also expanded their prowess into movies, TV shows, philanthropic work, and winemaking. Nate Morris, Wanya Morris, and Shawn Stockman shine individually and dazzle as a trio, even now as they once again set out to tour the world.

It is far from “The End of the Road” for Boyz II Men, and BELLA was there to share in the story of their past, present, and what’s in store for the future…

Cover photography by Jerry Metellus Opening spread photography by Chris Martin

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First thing’s first: As someone who lived in your hometown of Philadelphia and graduated from Temple University, I need you to set the record straight. Best cheesesteaks in Philly… go!

NATE: Well, I can only speak for me—I’m an “Ishkabibble’s” guy, because I’m a chicken

cheesesteak guy.

WANYA: Honestly, the ‘hood has the best chicken cheesesteaks. “Bella” is where we used to

go every day when we were at the studio. Up there toward Broad and Girard, they have the best ones for me...“Mimmo’s Pizza” is great.

NATE: “Geno’s Steaks” become synonymous with us; we used to hang out up there. Then

we got a little bit more money and started venturing out, and instead of getting gratis cheesesteaks, we started buying our cheesesteaks.

SHAWN: If you want a really good cheesesteak, go with someone who knows the area!

Now, congratulations are in order on an incredible 30 years of success. How do you feel celebrating the 30th anniversary of releasing your first album?

SHAWN: Amazing and accomplished! We feel there is so much more that we can do and

will do, but to have experienced as much as we’ve experienced–the highs and lows, the ups and downs—we endured it all. We sincerely love each other after all of these years. It’s a great accomplishment, and we’re just happy to still be here and for people to still appreciate what we do. We are artists, singers, and songwriters, and that’s what we got into this business to do.

We’re grateful, we’re humbled, and we want to continue, and we’ll see if we can make it another 30 years.

You are among the elite in the music industry, ranking among Elvis Presley and The Beatles.

Does it even feel real, or have you gotten used to the success?

Photogrpahy by Debby Wong / Shutterstock.com

NATE: It’s one of those things that you grow up wanting to do what you do, and one of our biggest goals was to be the best we can be at it.

We thank God for it, there are so many blessings. You have songs that people will remember even after you’re gone. Our focus keeps us from being jaded about our accomplishments.

Every day you live, you’re extending that legacy and that history.

WANYA: The funny thing is, during the time that all these accomplishments were

happening, we were always working. We never stopped working or got a good chance to sit and bask in it. It wasn’t until we actually sat down and weren’t doing something that we were able to say, “Wow, that is an accomplishment and a blessing.”

You have amassed countless awards and accolades, accomplished so much throughout your careers, and collaborated with some of the industry’s most talented artists. Is there a favorite or most memorable?

SHAWN: So many! There were so many things that just snowballed, they become

countless. From meeting Michael Jackson for the first time, to meeting Prince for the first time, to performing at the 1996 Olympics in front of 2 billion viewers, to doing a song with Mariah Carey that broke records, to the tours, the commercials, and upcoming projects– our lives do not suck! It’s hard to just pick one, there were so many great ones. Too many blessings have made our lives just one big movie.

WANYA: It’s really something we are looking forward to continuing. The greatest

accomplishment for all of us is to be together for 30 years, and it’s something we could not have forecast 30 years ago. Our music and the way we work together is a legacy that we hold onto.

Now, to “pour the wine, light the fire,” let’s talk about my favorite of your latest endeavors— Harmony Wines.

SHAWN: Our wine is something that we are

very proud of and took us longer than what people might think. We have been trying our hand at getting into the alcohol business for many years. We have finally come to this milestone in our careers and have an actual wine that was officially created by winemakers in France. Anyone who has tasted it has absolutely loved it. I would have never thought that us as singers would be successful winemakers. So, that is a great accomplishment in itself. For that to come to fruition the way it did and be received the way it’s been received is another blessing.

What originally sparked your interest in winemaking?

NATE: We delved into it a couple times, but

nothing ever stuck. Our business partners in France have a vineyard, and we gave it all of our energy and efforts. From design, to the name, to the color scheme, we chased it down and felt really comfortable. After Shawn came up with the name, “Harmony,” each type of wine—red, white, rosé—really fell into the personalities of the group and our music. It started to feel the most organic and natural.

WANYA: Not to mention, the wine is organic,

the grapes are organic. They play our music to the grapes and it helps them grow. It’s all harmonic.

So, you’re quite literally infused into this wine…

SHAWN: We have a saying now that “not only

can you listen to our music, but you can taste it too.” It was perfectly blended with our music, with no chemicals in our grapes, and they learn how to grow organically through our music and those great winemakers.

NATE: The rosé is my favorite, by the way!

You are everywhere! Besides your music, your side projects and passions must keep you insanely busy. Nate, your show, “Hit Properties,” falls right into the new television sensation centered around home remodeling, house flipping, and luxury rentals. What inspired your interest in the real estate market?

NOTHING BUT FUN

NATE: I actually enjoy doing it in my free time—

Key to the group’s longevity? Fun, says Joe Mulvihill, who has managed Boyz II Men for over 15 years.

Photography by Alexis Campbell

designing, building, construction. My manager and I invest in properties, and we started taping it and DIY Network and HGTV liked what we did. It was fun to do something creative outside of Boys II Men that didn’t rely on my music talents. I learned a lot of things and built a lot of things, and it’s just my other creative outlet outside of the group.

“We just focus on fun….we don't overthink, and we don’t care about other opinions," Joe explains. "In doing that, we have found tremendous success in all different areas of business.”

This philosophy is the exact reason Boyz II Men partied with BELLA in The Hamptons to celebrate the Summer Issue, he adds. "Wine, Summer party, The Hamptons—we’re in!"

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cover story Shawn, what was it like being on the other side of the stage as a judge on NBC’s “Sing Off ”?

SHAWN: The cool thing about that show was it brought

me back to my roots as far as acapella music is concerned.

Doing that show was right in my wheelhouse, to sit and talk for hours about music and acapella, that was the best job ever—outside of Boys II Men. We had a really good time and I met people of like-minded interests.

I met Dan Niederer, CEO of a watch company called SevenFriday—I’m a big watch fan—and we came out with a watch in honor of the charity I have with my wife called Micha’s Voice, named after my son who was diagnosed with autism at age 2. We wanted to develop a charity to help families taking care of children with autism. Proceeds from the watch collaboration went to Micha’s Voice. I feel like I’m giving back to something other than myself, something near and dear to me, by helping other families.

And the development of your new app with N’Sync’s Joey Fatone, bridging the gap between learning and applying social skills, is so commendable. Tell us more.

SHAWN: Yes, the app helps autistic kids with their everyday

routines, as well as helps the parents of those children. It’s another fun way to just help families out that need a little assistance. It’s a rough thing to have a child with autism.

Wanya, your salsa moves absolutely mastered the “Dancing with the Stars” stage! Did it come naturally to you being a performer?

WANYA: It kind of came second nature. I’ve always been

a dancer and keen on picking up steps. It was one of those things that was just fun and something I felt I needed to do to show myself I could. I’d walk down the street and instead of people saying, “There’s that guy from Boyz II Men,” they’d say “OMG, that’s the guy from ‘Dancing with the Stars’!” We put so much into every dance, and Lindsay [Arnold] taught me how to love dance like I love music.

I’m not sure how you manage to juggle it all, but on top of everything, you’re touring again. I’m sure your fans are excited, but how do you all feel to be back on the road?

NATE: We’ll be on the road again, it’s just what we do. We

do more touring than we do recording nowadays. People want to get out and we want to get back out, just to go on the road and have fun. I think our music message is needed right now in the world.

SHAWN: The tour pretty much speaks for itself. If no one’s

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ever seen us perform, they expect a bunch of ballads, and almost everyone leaves with this head-blown moment of “I didn’t know they could do that or dance like that.” Come and experience it—it’s an experience and that’s what you go to live shows for. [It’s] something they might not have expected from us.

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LGBTQ+ NIGHTLIFE SURVIVAL

By Jonathan Calixto

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hroughout the late 1800s and early 1900s, gay bars were established as places for queer individuals to openly socialize. Long before the historical Stonewall Inn, these venues helped people explore their sexual orientation and gender identities. In this last year, many iconic bars and safe-spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals have had to close their doors for good or adapt to a new normal due to COVID-19, putting at risk the survival of queer nightlife.

In a year that has forced many business owners to pivot, Shawn Hazen, marketing and special events manager at Roscoe’s Tavern, has been at the forefront of navigating such an unexpected time. Since 1987, Roscoe’s Tavern has been at the center of Chicago’s LGBTQ+ nightlife, known for its drag entertainment and community. While those ideals haven’t change, this past year forced Roscoe’s team to find innovative ways to keep the brand alive.

Almost immediately into the shutdown, Shawn and the Roscoe’s team brainstormed ways to make some income and keep the business going once strict lockdowns were lifted. “It was never a resting of our laurels, Shawn explains. “Instead of everyone saying ‘Let’s get back to normal,’ for us it was more, ‘How are we going to navigate this new normal? That’s what has kept us going this whole time.”

Tavern to adapt to the new digital way of life. Just like the rest of the world turning to Zoom, Shawn organized digital viewing parties with contestants from “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” as well as virtual shows.

This new approach showcased the success of digital tipping. “It used to be dollar bills, and I know it seems trivial, but you put those Venmo or Cashapp handles on the screens and those performers are making some serious coin just from people going on the app,” Shawn shares.

As Roscoe’s Tavern looks ahead, Shawn noted that the opening has not just meant a lot for customers, it has also given entertainers who had been stuck at home performing in front of a green screen a chance to connect with people for the first time after a long year.

But what is the key to this success, and how can brands adapt to this new normal? As Shawn explains, “creativity and our drive to keep going” is the foundation. In addition, a lesson everyone should have learned during the summer of 2020 is that “everyone has a space—especially in LGBT nightlife spaces and LGBT neighborhoods.”

This attitude is what propelled them to get with the digital times and put a virtual twist on some of its popular programming.

Known for their drag entertainment, whether it is live viewings, meet and greets with the cast of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” or programming with local drag in Chicago, this was one of the first parts of Roscoe’s

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Beach(forreads real this season) As beaches, pools, and other fun-in-the-sun places open up this summer, make room in your bag for some of these books and cool accessories.

By Barbara Bellesi Zito SEVEN DAYS IN JUNE TIA WILLIAMS

THE GUNCLE STEVEN ROWLEY G. P. Putnam's Sons

Grand Central Publishing

Eva is a bestselling erotica writer, as well as a single mother raising her daughter in Brooklyn. When she runs into Shane, an award-winning novelist, at a literary event, their chemistry is palpable. This is not the first time they’ve met, but it is the first time they’ve seen each other in 15 years, back when they were teenagers and spent a passionate week together.

Their long-ago connection is still evident in their writing, but can they reconnect now? Another hot summer week can only tell.

Tia’s award-winning novel, “The Perfect Find,” will become a film produced

by Netflix and starring Gabrielle Union.

PEOPLE WE MEET ON VACATION EMILY HENRY Berkley

Poppy and Alex have been best friends since college. They're very different people, but that doesn't stop them from enjoying every minute of the weeklong summer vacation they've been taking for the past 10 years. That is, until that one vacation two years ago that ended their friendship. Even though Poppy's life is pretty great otherwise, she feels stuck. She This is a great page-turner realizes the last time she was really to take with you on your happy, it was on that trip with Alex, own vacation. and so she convinces him to take one last trip together. Is a week enough time for Poppy to mend their friendship—especially since there's something else between the two of them that could get in the way?

A former sitcom star, Patrick's new role these days is as the fun “guncle”—gay uncle—of young Maisie and Grant.

Aside from spending time with them during the holidays or on the odd weekend visit, he doesn't know much about taking care of his This is a funny and heart- brother's kids. When tragic circumstances warming novel about unfold, Patrick is family coming together in faced with temporary difficult times. parenthood for the summer. He quickly realizes that being the fun guncle is no longer enough— now he needs to grow up and step up for his niece and nephew.

YOGA PANT NATION LAURIE GELMAN Henry Holt and Co.

Like many women, Jen Dixon has a lot on her plate. On the family front, she's got her hands full with a husband, two adult children, a middle schooler, and a toddler grandchild—not to mention her own aging parents. As she pedals her way to spin instructor certification, she has acquired a superfan in her class—who just so happens to be her husband's crazy ex.

She also takes her role as snarky class mom rather seriously. When the PTA This hilarious novel is the president tasks her with raising $10,000 third in Laurie’s hysterical for the fifth-grade class, she is ready to lead WeFUKCT (We Fundraise Until "Class Mom" series.

Kingdom Come Team) to victory.

Amid the hilarious chaos of her life, Jen proves that with the right pair of yoga pants, anything is possible.

THE FINAL GIRL SUPPORT GROUP GRADY HENDRIX Berkley

Ever wonder what happens to the surviving heroine in a horror movie after the credits roll? It's likely there's a big therapy bill involved. For years, Lynette Tarkington has been attending group therapy sessions with other real-life "final girls." When one of the members doesn't show up for a meeting, they know their luck has run out for real. It's time to fight for survival one more time.

Horror film fans will enjoy this darkly humorous thriller that has been already been optioned for a TV series.

Fun summer accessories for the

literary crowd Enhance your reading experience with one of these fun accessories.

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Spotlight POSSIBILIOTOLOGY: IT’S A GREAT DAY TO BE AWESOME WOW COACHING & CONSULTING Vallori Thomas is the epitome of joyful energy and passion.

A former executive for a top fashion house, she went on to start a non-profit helping women and families. She is also an entrepreneur and the creator of WOW Coaching and Consulting. But Vallori didn’t always feel on top of her game, and she describes a time when she felt her life hit rock bottom.

“It was not a comfortable place,” she says. “It was a place that I knew I didn’t belong.”

It took a major mindset shift to pull herself out of that despair. It started when a friend asked the question: “What do you really want?” Vallori had never been asked that question before in earnest, and it led to a conversation in which she articulated dreams and goals she had previously only thought about.

The perspective that helped Vallori reclaim her life’s purpose is what she calls “Possibilitology.” It starts with possibility thinking, which involves an exploration of what is possible in your life. Through a series of solutions-focused questions, you can then “engage in transforming what is into what might be,” she explains.

This “can-do mindset” is the basis of her book of the same name, which she describes as “reflections from my life in building myself from bottom and reacclimating myself into the full stream of life and actually speaking my vision, my truth and sharing my identity and my thoughts.”

Q: What would you like to say to your former self?

A: I would tell myself to know my truth and love my truth and to have courage in all things.

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the love files | post-pandemic dating

How to

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summer dating of (new)

By Carmelia Ray, celebrity matchmaker and online dating expert

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pring fever had singles coming out of their PJs and winter hibernation, although many were still dating in lockdown and with limited contact.

Many venues were still closed or operating with a small capacity to service people. As the summer approaches and post-pandemic singles are eager to get out and about, however, millions of singles are now re-entering real-life dating.

Get outdoors and get active It’s not surprising that singles worldwide are rushing outdoors to enjoy the summer weather and the opportunity to connect with friends and family they have missed. There are countless benefits to getting outside and getting active with a partner. To begin with, there are many perks that come with exercise and physical activity, such as extended life span, stress relief, increased happiness, and emotional bonding with your partner. For singles who value a healthy lifestyle, being active establishes a mutual commitment and places value on being healthy and fit.

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As a professional matchmaker who works with singles across North America, I can say that more and more of them are ditching phone calls and video dates for face-to-face meet-ups. Singles are tired of technology when it comes to dating, and they’re looking to connect physically after more than a year-long lockdown that cramped their dating game.

Can you relate? If so, here are three ways to make the most of post-pandemic summer dating.

Get on Clubhouse, or try a new social app Clubhouse is an invite-only app that allows people to connect through their voice on an audio platform. I recently officiated the very first Clubhouse wedding of a couple who met in one of my matchmaking rooms. Natasha Grano and Michael Graziano were two successful entrepreneurs who happened to be at the right place at the right time. When Natasha heard Michael’s voice on my Clubhouse stage, she said, “It was love at first voice.”

Natasha instantly connected to Michael’s energy and what he stood for. They ended up interviewing one another on Natasha’s podcast, and continued their long-distance correspondence until Michael flew in the middle of the pandemic from Vancouver, Canada, to the UK, where Natasha lived. Within 10 weeks they were married as both were crystal clear on who they wanted in a life partner, all thanks to an app. Virtual meet-ups online and through various social media platforms like Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, and even LinkedIn, are proving quite successful in the search for love.

Take a road trip or hop on a flight

Before the pandemic, I matched many singles with potential partners through other collaborating matchmakers across the country. I’ve had singles from LA fly to New York, Boston to NYC, Utah to Miami, Toronto to Vancouver, and beyond. Now that travel restrictions are lifted, singles looking for a connection outside of their social circle or even their local city are finding that being open to travel to meet a partner creates more opportunities.

One of my coaching clients, who currently lives in North Carolina, felt there were not enough men in her area who fit her criteria. We mutually decided she would expand her geographical reach to other cities to increase her pool of eligible men to meet. If you have the time and resources to travel (even a road trip will do!), having the ability to meet up with someone potentially compatible outside of your area will significantly increase your chances of meeting a life partner. You just may find your perfect partner in a different zip code.

Take advantage of the warmer summer weather, longer days, and plenty of activities and places opening up post-pandemic to help you find love. Connection is at an all-time high, and I highly recommend you swap your phones for eye contact and a chance to meet someone in real life!

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the love files | quiz time

Do you need

LOVE or maybe just a PET?

By Jarrod Thalheimer

Lately, you are feeling the pangs of loneliness a little more sharply, more intensely. This, in turn, has sparked some big questions to cross your mind:

Am I truly looking for love? Do I want to share my life with someone? Am I done being alone? Is any of this real, or should I just go and buy a fish?

It might seem flippant, but at various stages in all our lives we often require different things. One period might be a more personal, selfish one vs. another time in which we are more giving and open to sharing and growing our sense of being.

Another might be more material in nature, all income-andbuying stuff. Or maybe we are just in a holding pattern, trying to get a general sense of where to go next.

Knowing that more than 50% of marriages end in divorce is reason enough to take things a little slower. Better to ask yourself a few good questions before signing up for a long-term anything—dog or cat included.

Thankfully, here is a sparklingly fresh, personally tailored quiz from BELLA that provides exactly what the doctor (not a real doctor!) ordered. Is it the final word on all your needs? Of course not, but it might be enlightening–and even a little fun too.

Circle all your answers and add up the score at the end. Your personal truth will be revealed soon after!

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When you sit down at night to watch TV, do you generally find yourself…

A glad you don’t have to share the remote with someone else?

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B looking for another blanket (‘cause you’re always cold)?

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C feeling a little lonely, yearning for company?

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D deciding to check the locks on the doors one more time?

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Watching the news, you sometimes start…

A talking to yourself for no specific reason, but enjoying it?

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B wishing you had someone to discuss

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On the street, you see a very attractive person walking an absolutely adorable dog. Do you…

B fantasize about walking with the very attractive

C thinking the world would be a

C fantasize about walking in general?

whole lot better off with less people?

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D wondering why you even turned it on before switching to re-runs of “The Circle.”

up?

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Which movie would you enjoy the most?

A I would kill that

A “Mr. & Mrs. Smith“ - married assassins who find

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B maybe I can help it

B imagining breaking the

grow into something beautiful.

scale in half, dousing it in lighter fluid, and lighting it up?

8 POINTS C with a little

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effort, I could take good care of that.

C hearing someone tell you that you are already perfect and not to worry so much?

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When you hear a dog barking incessantly, your first thought is…

A where the heck is the owner, and why don’t they make it stop?

8 POINTS B that dog probably needs some help.

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C wouldn’t it be better if the dog could just tell everyone what is wrong?

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what you see?

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D that plant looks like kale. Who eats freaking kale anyway?

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love only by trying to kill each other.

4 POINTS

B “Marley & Me” - a family learns life lessons from an adorably neurotic and very, very naughty dog.

6 POINTS

C “Lady & the Tramp” - classic romance between a sheltered, uptown pup and a street-smart, downtown mutt.

8 POINTS

D “Best in Show” - a fake documentary about the world of competitive dog shows, told through the eyes of several objectively crazy and/or sociopathic dog owners.

2 POINTS

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When it comes to cliches about love, your favorite (of these four) is…

When you decide to complain about something, you mostly want…

A Love is blind.

6 POINTS

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B are the cool souvenirs you

C All you need is love.

2 POINTS

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B someone to help fix the

C to hear yourself vent.

8 POINTS

A are all the

A someone to listen.

problem.

4 POINTS

The best part about traveling…

interesting people and places you get to see.

B Misery loves company.

D What’s love got to do D that monster might bite me if I get too close. with it?

2 POINTS

D if you could fit on the rack while someone pushed

You see a cute potted plant. The first thing you think is…

fit?

D feeling happy that no one is ever around to see

4 POINTS you around.

2 POINTS

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C what the hell that rack is even for.

D fantasize about leashes, collars, and getting tied

A wishing you had more motivation to get

B if someone would help you get a massive bag of dog

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When you step on a scale do you find yourself…

6 POINTS

food onto that rack.

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rack.

6 POINTS person?

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A if massive bags of dog food actually fit on that

A fantasize about walking the adorable dog?

such things with?

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When shopping at the grocery store you look down to the bottom of the shopping cart and wonder…

8 POINTS

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D for all those responsible to shrivel up and die.

2 POINTS

8 POINTS buy.

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C coming home afterwards.

4 POINTS

D is planning all the details to make it perfect.

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When preparing a meal, do you…

C curse science because microwaves are still too damn slow?

2 POINTS

A often eat too much just to avoid having leftovers?

D quickly get bored, give up and go out to eat instead?

6 POINTS

B make a little extra just in case someone happens to drop by?

4 POINTS

8 POINTS

When you see Mickey Mouse, do you…

Add up your answers.

If you scored…

79-104:

A imagine going to Disneyland with your own kids someday?

You are truly on a quest for love. Keep going!

It’s worth the effort.

8 POINTS

B wonder why he can talk but Pluto cannot?

53-78:

6 POINTS

C consider the ethics of one animal choosing to take another animal as a pet?

4 POINTS

D remember that you hid some cheese behind the fridge a month ago?

2 POINTS

You should probably focus on getting a pet vs. diving into a full-on relationship. It will be far more rewarding and manageable for you at this time.

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getting to know THE PHOTOGRAPHER BEHIND THE LENS:

Vital AGIBALOW

BY BRADY GOODMAN-WILLIAMS

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Why does your background in original film matter?

hen we imagine editorial and celebrity photo shoots, we think of high intensity, glamour, and many moving pieces. Makeup artists, hair stylists, and fashion stylists run about with urgency, all under the auspice of a demanding photographer.

However, after seeing one special photographer on set, working alongside the likes of Nigel Barker, Carol Alt, Irina Pantaeva, and Iris Apfel, I can attest that Vital Agibalow truly breaks the mold.

Well, it builds credibility. It makes me more professional than any newbie these days who starts with a digital camera and doesn't know what it means to shoot slides. You have to be much more accurate when doing so.

That’s fascinating; I never thought of that. So, I know you love portraits—why is that your favorite style?

I love working with people and seeing their reactions when they see themselves from different angles—it is priceless! But I do also work with fashion designers, which is a whole different world!

As he worked the camera with quick bursts of intensity, Vital never wiped the professional yet inviting halfsmile-half-smirk from his face—and the effects were evident. Most of us cower in the face of fame, but Vital’s lighthearted and sensitive demeanor allowed his subjects to open up in ways I had never previously seen.

The result: Portraits of each subject’s inner being—comfortable, raw, and vulnerable. I absolutely had to sit down with Vital to try and understand the masterful mind behind this photographer’s prowess.

Who was the most challenging designer to shoot?

Probably shooting Karl Lagerfeld’s portraits.

Our time in the studio was limited to only 30 minutes, which is a photographer’s worst nightmare! But the results were so good. He really liked the images, which is huge, since he’s a photographer himself. Karl’s portrait was published in BELLA Magazine and many others, so the hard work paid off.

Vital regularly contributes to BELLA’s covers, including his most recent wonder—BELLA’s first ever Pride Issue cover with makeup artist extraordinaire James Vincent.

Tell me a little bit about yourself: Where are you from? How did you become a photographer?

I’m New York-based, but my roots are in Sweden, Russia, and Ukraine.

When I was 7, my dad gave me my first camera—a Leica—as a birthday present. I fell in love with it. I started taking portraits of the other kids in my neighborhood. There’s something about portrait photography that has clearly inspired me since an early age. By the age of 20, I started working with local modeling agencies, and I opened my own business by the time I was 21.

That’s incredible that you started so young. How has your photography changed since then?

Those were the film days. As a photographer, you couldn't afford to make a mistake back then. Now everyone shoots digital, so you can see the shot on display, which makes it all so much easier. But I'm proud to say I started as an original film photographer.

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Do you have any recommendations for others interested in pursuing a career like yours?

Do it only if you really enjoy it. Don’t do it for the money, but for the art. You’d be shocked how much money you can make when you prioritize the art first.

That’s great advice. So, what new projects are you working on right now?

Where can we see your work?

Most recently, I worked with legendary supermodel Carol Alt for her new show on FNL Network, "Carol Alt’s Living Room." But there are some other interesting side projects, too! Lately I’ve been working with beauty and fashion bloggers like Kate Romanoff, and my work was recently featured in a book released in Europe by CAPRICE magazine, “Supermodels 2020.”

You have a brand partnership with HENSEL, right? Tell me a little about that.

HENSEL is a German brand that produces professional lights for photographers. I've been the brand ambassador for this company since 2008.

I'm using their lights on each and every shoot, and I'm proud to promote them in my studio and through my work.

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MAGICAL SUMMER

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By Meghan Rose

Welcome to your Summer Tarotscopes, spiritual babe! As we enter into July, the Sun is still in our sensitive and intuitive water sign of Cancer before we get to experience Leo season from July 23rd to August 22nd, and then gently end August with the Maiden’s sign of Virgo. You’re in for a treat during these two months: Water, Fire, and Earth elements are all on the table. The only one we’re missing is a bit of Air, so try to keep your mind clear, witty, and stimulated as we transition! In this issue, you won’t just find Divine messages, but a sweet summer anthem to go along with it.

Ask yourself before July sweeps us up in its tides: “What do I want my summer to look like this year?” and make a promise to yourself not to deviate from this answer. If you want to travel, make time to do so — even if it’s a staycation! If you want to eat healthy and seasonally, carve out time each week to walk to your local farmer’s Mmarket and prioritize this above all else. The summer is yours, spiritual babe. Let’s make the summer of ‘21 one to remember!

Let’s see what the cards have to say. Read on for your Sun, Moon, and Rising signs.

ARIES

THE EMPEROR: Ah Aries, this is what they call “full alignment.” The Emperor is a card that represents Aries energy in the Tarot, so this is a signal to you that you’re right on time. That goes for love, career progress, and self-expression. If you’ve been feeling behind’ recently, rest assured that this summer is going to leave you feeling confident, sexy, and full of stamina to get to all of those “bucket list” items you have for July and August.

It may be time to take further initiative in your life. If you’ve been doing a lot of work behind the scenes, this is a sign for you to step out onto center stage and pour your heart and soul into what (and who) you have your sights on. Plan a fun getaway for yourself, and if you feel so inclined to ask a special someone to join you, just know it will be twice as fun. You will be rewarded for taking risk and action this summer — trust yourself and show up with self-assurance. Some of you are getting opportunities to be in the limelight or create viral content. The whole world is waiting for your direction, thoughts, and opinions — share them with confidence!

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “PEACHES” JUSTIN BEIBER

TAURUS

ACE OF CUPS: Dear Taurus, love is on the horizon for you this summer! If you’ve found yourself ready to break out of quarantine blues and (safely) re-enter the dating pool, know that it’s projected to be a very positive experience for you. If you’re with someone, or have your eyes on a special someone already, now is the time to take things to the next step. Express your love by living in it. Allow your heart and soul to sing with joy as you find love in every speck of dust, beam of sunshine, and blade of grass. There is something to be said about attracting more of what you feel, so invite yourself to bask in the love that’s already inside and around you at this time.

Do you have a passion or hobby that you enjoy doing? This may clue you into where or how your love life transcends. You’re being encouraged at this time to dedicate yourself to the things in life you enjoy the most. Do not stray away from living like this in July and August, if anything, make these your most passion-filled months yet!

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “KISS ME MORE” DOJA CAT (FEATURING SZA)

GEMINI

THE WORLD: My multi-tasking loves, you are about to be very busy in July and August! If you’re not already planning on traveling, rest assured that the opportunity to do so is readily available to you. Think of places that you want to take a plane, train, or automobile to go and explore. This summer will be one for the books, and even if you can’t yet see the light at the end of the tunnel, know that inner travels are always an option as well. Put on relaxing music, light your favorite candle, put on a boujee face mask, and cut yourself up some tropical fresh fruits and imported cheeses. Pour yourself a glass of wine from a faraway land that you’ve been wanting to go to. There are endless possibilities to transport yourself toward the rest and relaxation that you so desperately deserve.

CANCER

FOUR OF SWORDS: Ah, my sweet, sensitive water signs. It seems like this summer is meant for you to do some inner healing and introspection on the past. There are still memories and past pains that you haven’t quite let go of. That’s OK, don’t be too hard on yourself. But if you find yourself still holding onto parts of your past due to those feelings never being recognized when they initially happened, now is the time to self-soothe and feel in order to heal. Remember that if being harsh and demanding with yourself was the answer, it would have worked by now.

Celebrate your successes, relish in your growth, and let go of the people and habits that you’ve outgrown. It’s not your job to keep everyone comfortable it’s your job to live truthfully; eventually you’ll see that you’ve been leading by example to those around you. Now is not the time to play small. Enjoy this summer to the fullest, and allow yourself some more alone time especially from those who have been too dependent on you recently.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “YOUR POWER” BILLIE EILISH

LEO

NINE OF WANDS: Ah, Leo. It seems that life has been giving you gentle nudges on where to go next, and you’ve done everything in your power to avoid listening. Expect learning lessons to abound in July and August, leaving this summer one you’ll never forget.

It seems that there’s a pivotal decision arising, one that could change the course of your life for the better. But are you ready to make the proper sacrifices in order to see your big pay-off?

I’m also sensing that this summer could invite in a new way of living. A move, a new relationship, or a new belief system is coming toward you. Open your arms and prepare for this to arrive to you. The more you put up a fight, the worse you’ll hurt yourself and those around you. Be cautious in your fear of surrender. What’s waiting on the other side isn’t quite as scary as you’re imagining it.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “LEAVE THE DOOR OPEN” BRUNO MARS, ANDERSON .PAAK, SILK SONIC

VIRGO

THE DEVIL: Ah, sweet Virgo…when we see The Devil card arrive in preparation for future months, it can act as an omen. Do not let yourself fall into addictive patterns this summer. Whether it’s booze or beaus for you, try to do everything (and everyone) as consciously as you can. Some of you may be caught up in the ‘Honeymoon Phase’ of a connection, and your guides are asking that you find balance in spending time with lovers, friends, family, and yourself. Make sure that everyone is getting equal parts of the pie before you hear someone ask, “Where’s my slice?”

For some of you, expect an “a-ha” moment that will make it all come full circle. You’ll be receiving the answers to your long-awaited questions on how to move forward in life. Who will come and who’s getting left behind? Make sure that you’re open to the possibility of you being your own worst enemy when you’re thinking about who (or what) holds you back in life. It’s OK to admit to your faults.

Sometimes that’s the very key to the lock you’ve been trying to open.

Any recurring patterns that you incur should be easily met with a feeling of deja vu—it’s not about avoiding patterns all together that shows your progress, but how quickly you can get yourself out of the same trap that really tells you how far you’ve come along. Try not to be too hard on yourself this summer, it’s OK to have days, or weeks even to simply enjoy yourself. However, make sure you’re giving your time, money, and energy to the things that you want, and not simply following the herd.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “TELEPATÍA” KALI UCHIS

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LIBRA

THE STAR: What a phenomenal summer ahead for you, Libra!

Your balanced Venusian energy is about to flourish during the months of July and August, all your spirit guides are asking that you do is keep the faith. Any of the times you find yourself stressed, overwhelmed, or tired, remind yourself “this is just temporary” and encourage yourself to go with the flow. The more times you can do this, the more joy you’ll find over the months ahead.

Be sure that you’re checking in with those around you, and remind yourself that life isn’t always all about you—sometimes the very remedy to our pain is helping someone else. Be a listening ear for the people you care most about, especially the friends and family members who seem like they have it all together. Your ability to teach others is going to be heightened during the summer months, and I promise it will be karmically paid back to you later on. Be patient with yourself and your energetic investments, Libra! Now is the time to plant your seeds of intention, expect the dividends to be paid back to you in happiness.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “LEVITATING” DUA LIPA (FEATURING DABABY)

SCORPIO

TEN OF SWORDS: Let go, Scorpio. You may have convinced yourself that you have it all figured out, and what would life be if it wasn’t our greatest teacher? This summer will be a time for you to take inventory of the people from your past who are still taking up your mental and emotional space. You need to get brutally honest with yourself, as some of these people are the same people you’re now thinking “please don’t let it be them” about.

For some of you, you’re playing too small in your life: taking jobs that don’t pay you well enough, letting your vacation time go unused, trying to appease friends and family with how you live your life, or even avoiding the proper risks that would kick your life up a notch. Now is the time to put your money where your mouth is and try out a new approach with both love and career.

Let go, Scorpio….let go!

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “DRIVER’S LICENSE” OLIVIA RODRIGO

SAGITTARIUS

THREE OF PENTACLES: What a time to be alive, my fiery Sag! You’re starting to understand what all the fuss has been about with travel, fun, and friendship. Make yourself known in your community, and live life as if it were your last—ergo, it’s your only chance with this lifetime!

I see most of you shifting away from simply existing into truly living this summer. Call up your closest friends and give spring break a second chance. It’s never too late to have fun, and regardless of your age, it’s never too late to start either. You’re being called to let go of the “worker bee” mentality, and remember why you were put on this planet: It’s your divine right to be happy. Learn how to alchemize your pain into wisdom, and learn from the past. Even though you may have had it rough growing up, now is the time to rewrite what your life is all about. This chapter is called: Me, Myself, and I. Enjoy it, dear Sagittarius!

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “BEST FRIEND” SAWEETIE (FEATURING DOJA CAT)

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CAPRICORN

THE TOWER: And it all came crumbling down. Capricorn, part of the reason you’re feeling fear as the summer approaches is because you know you cannot sustain life and happiness at the pace you’re running.

It’s time now to focus on making space for your life to unfold, but that requires a dedication to the truth that’s been missing in recent times.

If you’re still trying to keep up with the Jones’—or anyone else for that matter—this is your warning signal. Reel back from the life you’re working toward, and start to be in the ever-present now. Do you really still want that life, or are you simply on autopilot working toward a falsified reality that doesn’t suit your desires anymore?

For some of you, it’s time to take a certain someone off of a pedestal.

Can’t think of anyone? It may be you! Let yourself be “human” again; no one expects perfection from you, lest should you be expecting it of yourself. Use July and August to encourage breakthroughs and invite in new belief systems that work for the present-day version of yourself. It’s time to see things for what they really are.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “HEAT WAVES” GLASS ANIMALS

AQUARIUS

FIVE OF WANDS: It’s said in certain studies of astrology that Aquarius is ruled by Saturn in the day and Uranus at night; these two diametrically opposite planets (Saturn ruling rules and Uranus ruling progressive thought) could inform us of what July and August have in store for you, my water-bearers. This summer is expected to be one of conflict, confusion, and an opening of the mind for you. Don’t look at this negatively, conflict has been one of the greatest openings for progress and change in the past—let that be your expectation as the summer begins.

Call in, and get comfortable with change. You may be parting ways with a lover or a group of friends before August ends, and trust in your spirit guides that they’re helping you make way for like-minded people to enter in. If you’ve been feeling stuck or stagnant at work, expect some passion projects and new opportunities to arise during these next two months. Your hard work and unique talents are about to pay off for you in a big way. Keep yourself level-headed by spending time outdoors, connecting with nature, and integrating things that you used to enjoy as a child. Feel, heal, repeat!

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “GOOSEBUMPS REMIX” TRAVIS SCOTT, HVME

PISCES

THE CHARIOT: What a whirlwind summer ahead for you, Pisces! Life is about to take off in a new, exciting way. There seems to be others who are quite envious of you, your life, and your recent successes—and if not yet, you can expect them before August is over. You’re attracting the right people, places, and opportunities like never before. Spirit is asking for you to let go of the mentality that you need to wait for the other shoe to drop.

You’ve made it past a checkpoint recently that will allow you to take more risk, receive more reward, and make that cycle your new normal.

You can—and deserve—to rest into safety, security, and stability. Allow this summer to be where your new trust in the process begins and gets put into action. You’ve got this Pisces, and everyone else has seen it for quite some time.

YOUR SUMMER ANTHEM: “SAVE YOUR TEARS” THE WEEKND AND ARIANA GRANDE

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Your guide to a

relaxing summer

By Norah Lawlor The summer season is in full swing, and after the stress of this past year, it is time to hit up the sunny beaches for some much-needed relaxation.

Pull out the beach chairs, unwind with some essential reading, explore prime real estate in South Beach, or keep up with cryptocurrency.

Let the summer of tranquility begin!

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SUMMER’S HOTTEST ACCESSORY: APPLE WATCH DIAMOND FRAME FROM ELENA TARANINA This summer’s hottest accessory for the fashion forward is an 18-karat diamond frame for your Apple smart watch from fashion influencer Elena Taranina. Since many people now enjoy a healthy lifestyle, Elena came up with the idea of glamorizing the Apple Watch that many of her friends were using in measuring their daily exercise routine. With her many years experience owning a luxury jewelry store in Geneva, she decided to create her own fun accessory for the man or woman who has everything. The Apple Watch frame can be made with any gemstones, since each one is custom made. You can choose from black or white diamonds, emeralds, and rubies or sapphires.

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CHOW BELLA LOBSTER BOIL ∙ HAVE FUN — HAVE RUM ∙ SOUTHAMPTON SOCIAL CLUB

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chow BELLA | yum

Lobster boil

By Ceylone Boothe-Grooms

Nothing says summer more than seafood, and nothing tastes like summer more than a lobster boil. I love this dish because it’s as easy as it is delicious!

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Yields: 4 to 6 servings Prep Time: 30 minutes Cook Time: 30 minutes INGREDIENTS: • 4 lobster tails • 2-1/2 lbs Dungeness crab • Kielbasa sausage (I use fully cooked turkey kielbasa) • 1 lb of clams (scrubbed) • 1-1/2 lbs of jumbo shrimp (cleaned and deveined) • 1 lb of large scallops • 6 small ears of corn (fresh is best) • Small red potatoes • Garlic cloves • 1/2 cup of OLD BAY Seafood Seasoning • 6 cups low sodium chicken broth • 8 cups water • 6 tbs butter (salted) • 2 tbs extra virgin olive oil • Fresh basil • Fresh parsley • 3 lemons cut into wedges INSTRUCTIONS: 1. Place large pot on stove with flame on medium 2. Add 3 tbs of butter and 2 tbs of extra virgin olive oil 3. Add garlic cloves 4. Add basil and Parsley, sauté for 3-5 minutes 5. Add water and chicken broth; bring to a boil 6. Allow water to boil for about 30 minutes 7. Season seafood (except clams) with OLD BAY 8. Make sure your clams are clean and dispose of any opened clams 9. Add potatoes and corn in the boiling broth 10. After a few minutes, add sausage 11. Add seafood as follows and cook as noted:

• Lobster tails: 8 minutes

• Crab:12 minutes

• Shrimp: 6 minutes

• Scallops: 5 minutes

• Clams: 5 minutes (Time is layered—do not remove anything until the end) 12. Plate food on a large serving platter 13. Drizzle melted butter all over and garnish with fresh parsley

You will have a meal that is sure to delight your eyes as much as your stomach. Enjoy!

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chow BELLA | summertime sipping

Have

fun, have rum

By Amanda Mactas

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t’s tiki time! Rum, a distilled liquor made from sugar cane, is having its moment in the limelight. Sales are increasing and people are eager to learn about and explore this versatile spirit.

While rum is often associated with the Caribbean, countries in Asia, South America, Europe, and North America all make rum as well. With expressions ranging from white rum and dark rum to spiced or flavored rums and rhum agricole (which is distilled directly from pressed cane sugar instead of fermented juice or cane byproducts), there is much to learn about this unique and diverse spirit.

One of the biggest misconceptions about rum is that it is too sweet and will give you a terrible feeling in the morning, explains Ben. “Rum comes in many flavors and styles. I’d argue that there is a bottle of rum out there for 90% of any fine spirit drinker,” he continues. “I’m confident in saying this because I also believe 90% of American consumers have not been exposed to a very wide variety of quality rums.”

SALES SURGE

The recent pandemic has inspired people to move out of their comfort zones and try new things, and rum, which is often associated with a warm beach vacation, is a treat that can transport you during difficult times. In fact, the major growth we are seeing in rum sales is mostly attributed to premium, top-shelf rums, meaning people are willing to spend more money on a quality product.

Ben Jones, the managing director of Spiribam, has a theory.

“Spirit drinkers are becoming fatigued

by American whiskey and are searching for the same features and stories they enjoy about their typical favorite spirit,” he explains.”[They are] finding these experiences in rum “THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTION IN RUM and with a far more reasonable price tag.”

IS THAT IT IS TOO SWEET” BEN JONES, MANAGING DIRECTOR OF SPIRIBAM

The North American managing director of Don Papa Rum, Chris Rigby, expands, telling us that “the different styles and production techniques increase the opportunity for discovery. There are many rums to explore.”

Each and every country that produces rum has its own set of rules and regulations, which results in a huge variety in the spirit. Rum is the base of many of the world’s most popular cocktails—the daiquiri (Hemingway’s favorite), mojito, dark and stormy, and the piña colada are just some of our favorites.

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Hunter Laing Kill Devil Single Cask Rum, $115.65

Don Papa 10 Year Rum, $64.99

Chairman’s Rum 1931, $114.98

The Kraken Black Spiced Rum, $21

Rhum J.M White 50%, $38.28

chow BELLA | toasting 10 years

THE SOUTHAMPTON SOCIAL CLUB HAMPTONS STAPLE CELEBRATES DECADE OF MEMORABLE DINING

By Jennifer DeCillis

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he Southampton Social Club is toasting a major milestone this year—its 10year anniversary. Celebrating a decade of success, as well as overcoming a global pandemic, owner Ian Duke says he has transformed the club into an “outdoor sanctuary” just in time for the summer season in the poshest destination–the Hamptons.

“We’ve created an oasis that allows people to escape and have a little normalcy in the lives for an evening,” says Ian, who also owns Southampton culinary favorites Union Burger Bar and the new Union Sushi & Steak. In addition to developing the go-to spots for dining and nightlife “out east,” Ian also serves it up in Manhattan, with venues like The Baylander, Prohibition, and Lucky’s Famous Burgers. “We have an absolutely enormous outdoor space and we have all the safety features in place.”

Known for its vibey atmosphere and open-air dining room leading out to a high-heelfriendly lawn, the Southampton Social Club—or “SSC,” for short—is also thirsted after for its mouth-watering menu of fresh seafood and vivacious cocktails. Hailing a new drink menu, including house specials like the Backyard Lemonade (Grey Goose le melon vodka, fresh-squeezed lemonade, and fresh berries) and The Weekender (Stoli cucumber vodka, Chambord, and fresh lime) the Southampton hot spot is the perfect spot to cool your palette after a day at the pool.

Plus, with Executive Chef Scott Kampf taking the helm in the kitchen with menu favorites like the Rockin’ Arugula Salad, Caribbean Spiced Mahi-Mahi, and a Hamptons classic, SSC Lobster Rolls (savory lobster salad on toasted mini croissants), we’re sure you’ll agree that this club is the only one worth waiting to get into.

Here’s a deliciously-BELLA inside look…

The owner: Ian Duke

Restaurateur + partner Ian Duke is dedicated to making a difference in Southampton’s social and culinary scene. He is a partner in a number of restaurants, including Prohibition, a live music bar, restaurant, and lounge on New York’s Upper West Side; 2 Lucky’s Famous Burgers located in Hell’s Kitchen and Chelsea in New York City; the prohibition-style speakeasy-meets-Hamptons’ glam destination, Southampton Social Club; The Baylander in Manhattan; Union Burger Bar; and most recently, Union Sushi & Steak; and The Coop at 40 Bowden Square in Southampton. Catering to a very diverse clientele, Ian’s restaurants are designed to be friendly for families, groups, locals, and singles, as well as for parties and events.

Hosting a summer soiree? Impress your guests, friends, and family with Southampton Social Club’s coolest (and spiciest) cocktail.

The house-favorite: social cooler INGREDIENTS

• 1.75 oz Villa One Blanco tequila infused with sliced fresh jalapeños (at least 24 hours) • 1.75 oz fresh watermelon puree • 0.5 oz house-made margarita mix MIX IT UP

• Combine, shake, and serve over ice in a rocks glass • Garnish with fresh watermelon triangle and jalapeños, and enjoy!

The chef: Scott Kampf Executive chef

New York native Scott Kampf has been a professional chef for over two decades and has led an illustrious career with a focus on French/American cooking.

Scott’s career largely consisted of work as a private chef for stars and professional athletes alike. He developed his natural cooking ability while living abroad and traveling around France, Italy, and Spain to study international cuisine. His fresh interpretation of various cuisines has already earned him a strong New York following. Scott, who is widely regarded as one of The Hamptons’ top chefs, was brought on by Southampton Social Club as part of a major overhaul.

It will be at this Hamptons hotspot that Kampf will call on over 20 years of expertise to offer East End foodies an innovative menu crafted with the season’s finest and freshest ingredients.

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team BELLA

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE

SUMMER COCKTAIL? VANESSA COPPES

CEO & EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

When it comes to alcoholic beverages, I am a lightweight. This makes me the perfect candidate for sweet, mixed drinks with more fruit and less alcohol. During summertime, my go-to is a frozen margarita— they are salty and sour with just the right amount of sweet from the strawberries. They are so refreshing, and I can manage to drink two and still keep myself together.

JENNIFER DECILLIS

JESSICA LICCIARDELLO

PUBLISHER

CREATIVE DIRECTOR

In the summertime I love to enjoy a Moscow Mule. It contains all of my favorite flavors, including ginger and lime. The best one I’ve had is made by renowned bartender and mixologist Erin O’Neill, owner of the new restaurant that bears her name in the Hudson Valley. A special twist on the traditional vodka ingredient she uses is Stoli Razberi vodka—yum! oneills-pub.com

As soon as the summer weather starts to set in, my go-to cocktail is a classic Aperol Spritz. Its sunny hue, light and sweet taste, bubbly texture, and always photo-worthy presentation make it perfect for summertime sipping. And, of course, I top the Aperol with my favorite, Prosecco DOC—the Brilla pairs perfectly with the apéritif. Finish with a splash of soda and garnish with an orange slice, or if you want to toast in traditional Italian style, swap out the orange for green olives (really!), and enjoy!

For more Prosecco DOC cocktails, follow @ProseccoDOC_USA.

LYNETTE BARBIERI

BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT DIRECTOR

A strawberry mint cocktail is my new summer cocktail obsession! It is light and refreshing, and if you love strawberries and mint like I do, you will love it! I ordered one (maybe two) at the Belmar Grill a few weeks ago, and I have been serving it to friends ever since!

INGREDIENTS

• 4-5 sliced fresh strawberries • ½ oz simple syrup (optional) • ½ oz fresh lime juice (1 lg lime) • 10 mint leaves • 2-3 oz vodka • 21/2 oz seltzer • Sliced strawberries and lime for garnish DIRECTIONS

• In a cocktail shaker, add 2-3 sliced strawberries, simple syrup, and lime juice • You can blend strawberries until they are dissolved if you prefer (I leave them in sliced) • Add mint leaves and muddle gently; tap 2 -3 times with muddler • Add vodka and fill ⅔ with ice • Shake for 20-30 seconds to make sure it is chilled • Add to a pretty wine glass with ice • Add club soda, garnish, and enjoy!

GINA LAGUARDIA EDITORIAL DIRECTOR

I’m not a big cocktail gal, but I do enjoy a refreshing adult beverage on hot summer days, which makes White Claw Hard Seltzer my tried and true favorite. The Watermelon flavor screams “summer” to me, as does the refreshing Pink Grapefruit and the not-too-sweet-and-marvelous Mango. The fact that each contains only 100 calories and 2 grams of carbs per 12-ounce can is a big bonus!

WhiteClaw.com

STEPHANIE BROGNA

EDITORIAL AND BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT ASSISTANT

My favorite summer cocktail is a Raspberry Mojito. Light, refreshing, and a little sweet, it’s the perfect drink for a hot summer day. Muddle together raspberries, mint, simple syrup, and lime juice, then add 2 ounces of rum. Top with seltzer, and enjoy!

MINDY GURA & PAULA ORLAN FASHION STYLISTS

We love “The Stylish Spritzer,” an easy and refreshing wine spritzer mix of white wine, lemon/ lime club soda, and a splash of a grapefruit-flavored soda. It tastes like homemade champagne, and with the quarantine ending, there’s a lot to celebrate these days. Cheers to a fun summer!

JANENE MASCARELLA BEAUTY DIRECTOR

VIVIAN NACIONALES

PRODUCER, “LIFE IS BELLA”

I first heard about the Pomegranate Martini on “The Oprah Winfrey Show” many years ago, and it is still a favorite of mine: • 1 1⁄2 cups pomegranate juice • 2 ounces Absolut Citron • 1 ounce Cointreau • 1 cup ice • sparkling water, splash (optional) • lemon, a squeeze (optional)

My favorite boozy summer sip is not actually a sip at all! It’s the perfect way to get the party poppin’ and all you need for prep is a pair of scissors! Cutwater Frozen Margarita Spirit Pops are made with real tequila, contain less than 80 calories per serving, have no artificial sweeteners, and are gluten-free. Just freeze overnight, cut off the top to open, and treat yourself to the perfect margarita!

12 pack $24.99, Drizzly.com

AMANDA RINGEL

DIGITAL DESIGN ASSISTANT

NICOLE BUTRICO INTERN

My go-to summer cocktail is the Watermelon Agua Fresca Mimosa. It’s the perfect drink to enhance a day at the pool or an evening out with friends.

All you need to do is fill your glass a third of the way with watermelon juice and top the rest off with champagne. To get fancy, just add some mint leaves.

My go-to summer drink is a refreshing Paloma. It’s so easy to make and pairs perfectly with a nice dinner, or just chilling poolside. In a small glass, add two shots (or more, who’s counting?) of tequila, a splash of grapefruit juice, and 2 ounces of sparkling water or club soda.

Garnish with half of a fresh lime, coat the rim with sea salt, and you have a perfect summertime cocktail. Enjoy!

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the beauty of giving back

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generosity

Reopening the door to

he pandemic very long time. Here’s hoping that all of and related the generosity that lockdown skyrocketed as a result triggered a different

By Yolanda F. Johnson of the pandemic is here kind of generosity to stay, because people compared to other will always need food, shelter, and medical care. Artists will always need disasters and difficult times in history. As we look forward with cautious forums to craft and present their talents. hope and optimism, how did this past year change us, and will those I want to encourage everyone reading this column to take a moment to changes last? identify as a philanthropist. Your name doesn’t have to be on a building in order to claim that title. Do what you can; give what you can. A good In living what I refer to as “The Philanthropic Lifestyle,” which truly benchmark to start with is donating 10% of your income. It’s as simple shows us the beauty of giving back, it’s important to better understand as thinking about what matters the most to you in life. What change do the difference between charity and philanthropy. Charity is giving you most want to see in the world? Then think big, of how you might immediate relief by writing a check or sending cash for a short-term take action on a larger, national, or global scale. Then, think of the folks involvement. On the other hand, philanthropy is more of a strategic, just down the street, in your neighborhood, at your local gym, at church, long-term commitment to system change work that gets to the root wherever. How you might be able to show them a bit of love as well? This cause of some of the issues facing our society today. Both are great, but I is important, because being kind and taking action isn’t just about times want to encourage you to play the “long game” when it comes to giving of crisis; it should become part of the way we live our lives. back.

So, as we make our way back into the sunshine of these summer months with vaccination options at our fingertips, we’ll hopefully find During the midst of the pandemic in the United States, charity was at opportunities to connect with each other—to hold hands, hug, stand the fore, because many socio-economic issues that had been present closer than six feet (yay!)— all of the things we haven’t been able to do for years or even decades seemed new for some. Many people made in more than a year. And may that same spirit of charity that influenced one-time gifts to different causes and nonprofits, hoping to ease the us so much during the most difficult times of the past year remain with strain and toll that COVID-19 had taken on so many family, friends, us for many years to come. Remember that just because our society is neighbors, and strangers. But for many, the pandemic simply shone reopening shouldn’t mean that we close the doors to thinking about a bright light on some of the work that had needed to be done for a others and being generous.

BELLA

MIND + BODY

GROWING & THRIVING IN THE NEW NORMAL ∙ HOTELS TAKE THEIR WELLNESS OFFERINGS OUTSIDE STEPPING INTO RENEWED STRENGTH ∙ SUMMER SKINCARE PREVENTION

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Growing & thriving in the

NEW NORMAL

By Geraldine “Gerry” Viggiani

What a year and a half it has been! Pandemic, lockdowns, social distancing, riots, uprisings, political unrest, police brutality, racial injustice, job loss, and homelessness. All these things have come together as a collective nightmare harder for some, but difficult for all. So much anger, hate, loneliness, fear, and anxiety has emerged. As a psychotherapist, I am seeing more people then ever in my group practice. People who never needed help before are coming in for therapy in droves, all looking for ways to cope with the unprecedented stress.

As we are emerging from the other side of the pandemic, of course, in ways that are comfortable, we have a tremendous opportunity to change and grow, maybe even start over.

The pandemic forced us to rethink all aspects of our lives.

We have had to figure out a new way to work, live, date, and entertain ourselves by ourselves and for ourselves.

Switching to the online world to maintain friendships and family relationships, working and meeting via virtual platforms, purchasing essentials online. Extra challenging has been for families with children who have had to learn how to entertain and educate their children all while working from home.

Resilience has been key to survival. It is defined as the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. It is about getting knocked down and having the ability to get up again.

What does getting up again look like for you? Are you going to do the same things, or will you do things differently? If we could see a benefit of the pandemic, it would be that many of us have had to re-examine, streamline, and reinvent basic assumptions about our lives. Understandably so, there are many who are just surviving, and that is what they need and must do. There are also many who are in a holding pattern because that is what the pandemic and quarantine demanded. Some have flourished and used the extra time at home to evolve. For all, this is a great time to reflect and observe how we want to feel in the coming months.

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ACCEPTANCE AND COURAGE An excerpt of the Serenity Prayer says, “Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” This is a powerful reminder that sometimes there are things in our life that we cannot change, or that the road to change will be difficult. Change is hard for most humans. We relish in the path of least resistance; to commit to change involves courage, resolve, and gumption. Daily reminders, inspirational quotes or pictures, a buddy, therapist, or a coach to help motivate you can help make the path less daunting.

Sometimes change is just not possible now or even in the future for a variety of reasons. Not accepting this keeps us stuck. Acceptance is a choice to let go of what is impossible to change. If we are to accept, that must be done in mind, body, and spirit. We can do this by turning our minds over and over to acceptance, while taking steps that would reflect that acceptance.

A VISION FOR THE FUTURE What do we want from the opportunity to re-emerge? What is working? What is not working?

Take a stance of curiosity and let go of judgment; we are brainstorming and there is no room for judgment while we are striving toward growth!

A vision board or journaling can help. As noted in the book, “The Secret,” “The law of attraction is forming your entire life experience and it is doing that through your thoughts. When you are visualizing, you are emitting a powerful frequency out into the Universe.” Meaning, if you manifest it, you can make it happen.

What would make you happier and more connected to your life? Taking a moment to notice how you are feeling now and how you want to feel. It is helpful to take a wholistic view of all the arenas in your life. Here are some examples of spheres to explore:

RELATIONSHIPS

Do you need to let go of ones that are not working? Do you want to date? Marry? Widen your social circle? How about reconnecting in person vs. via video or phone?

CAREER AND FINANCES

Are you happy at your job? Is there anything you could improve? Is it time for a job or career change? Would there be training involved? Is there anything you would like to change or save for in your finances? Home, debt payment, or retirement?

PERSONAL GROWTH

(including spirituality, social life, education)

Do you want to learn a new skill or hobby? Photography, writing, or surfing? Travel to new places?

Take a class? Return to and recommit to your place of worship, pray, or start a meditation practice?

How about volunteering or engaging in advocacy work with like-minded people?

HEALTH

Have you been neglecting your medical check-ups? Want to move from mentally coping to selfactualizing? Gained some weight? Want to start exercising? Do yoga? Eat healthier?

Out of the flames rises the Phoenix. Whatever that looks like for you within the confines of your COVID comfortability, change or accept and take this opportunity to move from hunkering down to growing and blooming. Seize the day!

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mind + body | take it outside

Hotels are looking to the outdoors to maximize

wellness offerings

By Jennifer Walsh

This is the season to get outside, and people around the country are gearing up and getting ready to hit the road and drive to their next adventure. Wellness travel offerings have exploded this year, and with the pent-up excitement to travel again, hotels are listening. Travelers want experiences, but they are looking for those experiences to be closer to nature. For decades, hotels banked on their spa offerings. But now, travelers in the post-COVID era want accessibility to healthy air and wellness options, which is why hotels are taking their valueadded offerings to the great outdoors.

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YO1: GO INSIDE BY GOING OUTSIDE

Nestled in the Catskills of New York, Yo1 is providing individual health programs customized to yield results through the ancient Indian therapies of naturopathy, Ayurveda, and yoga. Each immersive, customized, and all-inclusive stay is designed to empower guests to travel inwards in order to find balance between the mind, body, and soul, and to reshape and transform the patterns of their daily lifestyle, which were truly upended over the past year.

Prices vary, Yo1.com

PAGOSA HOT SPRINGS: THE “MOTHER” OF ALL RELAXATION

Water is the main attraction at this beautiful spot, and not just any kind of water. With the world’s deepest geothermal hot spring at its core, Mother Nature is the star at The Springs Resort & Spa, located in a quaint Western Colorado town nestled along the banks of the San Juan River. At over 1,002 feet deep, “The Mother Spring” not only provides geothermal energy to the resort and spa, it continuously feeds mineral water to 24 smaller pools terraced along the riverbank, with water temperatures ranging from 80 degrees to 114 degrees.

Guests at the 79-room, pet-friendly riverfront resort enjoy a special perk: 24/7 access to its varied and wondrous steamy soaking pools across the property.

Prices vary, PagosaHotSprings.com

ART OF LIVING: MINDFULNESS IN THE MOUNTAINS

The new era of travel has created a going-in-deeper approach to wellness at this 380-acre mountaintop property in the Blue Ridge Mountains in Boone, NC. Health, well-being, and nature are at the core of the Art of Living’s unique offerings, so guests can focus on immersive self-care at every level during their stay. The retreat center’s activities are primarily focused on outdoor connections to self and nature. Through the second half of 2021 and into 2022, you can find custom retreats, such as Ayurveda Wellness Escapes, Wild Awakenings Weekend, Meditation Retreat, and more.

Prices vary, ArtofLiving.org

CASS WINERY: CAMP FOR ADULTS

This beautiful spot in Paso Robles, California is anything but a typical vineyard. Cass Winery presents education and exploration of the local region to a more profound overall wellness experience. Experience the ancient traditions of bee-keeping, olive oil pressing, archery, outdoor photography, cooking classes, scavenger hunts, color wars, horseback riding, and so much more. This is not your normal wellness excursion, and that’s why we love it. All programming is tied back to the local land and why we need to be more in touch with it.

Corporate events are popular at this spot as well. And did we mention that this is also an extraordinary vineyard?

Prices vary, CassWines.com Photography by Yvonne Goll Photography

MONTAGE PALMETTO BLUFF: CALMING COASTAL CAROLINA

This special place in the low country of South Carolina, along winding waterways, instantly envelopes you in peace and tranquility. Its wellness programming is centered on regaining our connection to earth and ourselves. And while Montage Palmetto Bluff has many indoor spa and wellness offerings, the outdoor activities shine a spotlight on their local connections to the outdoors. This is a 20,000-acre retreat and community. Weekend happenings and extended retreats are added often and are a must-experience.

Prices vary, MontageHotels.com/PalmettoBluff

HILTON SEDONA ARIZONA RESORT AT BELL ROCK: HEALING VORTEX SEEKERS

Most people that visit this amazing resort are looking to recharge and focus on their mental, physical, and spiritual health. And that’s the goal at Hilton Sedona Arizona Resort at Bell Rock—to help guests tune into their energy and frequency for better health and well-being. While the hotel boasts a 25,000-square-foot athletic club, many choose to take to the outdoors for the beauty and healing nature of this space in the country. There is even an on-site energy specialist, who offers a unique range of therapies that focus on channeling positive energy.

Guests can choose from tarot card readings and tuning fork therapy to aura cleansings, and more.

Your traveling furry companion can also get his or her own therapeutic boost of pet energy as part of the resort’s Pet Pals program.

Prices vary, HiltonSedonaResort.com

mind + body | state of fitness

Stepping into renewed strength:

new “ normal ” of working out The

By Jennifer Walsh

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he fitness landscape has changed drastically over the past year. We thought it was time to learn more.

The pandemic changed the way we work out in many ways, from the in-person class experience to the time of day we choose to get our sweat on. With this upheaval and drastic change, we sought to find out what might stay on as the world begins to open back up.

Breathe Easy

Staying Outdoors

Gym-goers who do come back inside may notice a few changes. At most gyms, air purification has become a significant part of their business.

While Americans put on an average of 15-29 pounds according to a recent report from the American Psychological Association, some people are not quite ready to flock back indoors to the gym setting, at least not yet.

According to Vinny Lobdell, president of HealthWay, which provides air purification systems to gyms around the world, “the health and wellbeing of individuals in the given space is paramount.” The company has been so busy trying to keep up with demand that his teams have been working around the clock for over a year. “What surrounds us matters. The smallest lung-penetrating ultrafine particles are wreaking havoc on even a healthy immune system,” Vinny explains. “It’s important for gyms to provide the highest efficiency filtration system available.”

More and more Americans have been vaccinated, so one would think there would be an overall easy feeling about stepping back into the gym. However, many people are opting for new, alternative ways to help combat the weight gain and gain strength and muscle.

Many gyms, such as Life Time, are continuing to offer virtual programming through Life Time Digital (classes, personal training, recipes for $15/month and 1,000 live online classes per week), as well as outdoor classes at many of their 150 locations around the country.

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Post-pandemic Pedaling

Online bicycle retailer Trek Bikes conducted a national study this past spring around attitudes toward cycling as a result of the pandemic. This is what they discovered: 47% of Americans currently own a bike or use a bike-sharing network More than one-third (37%) of Americans have been riding a bike more since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic Nearly two-thirds (64%) of Americans feel that e-bikes are a good commuting alternative to cars For Americans currently commuting to work, or when they do return to work, 35% of Americans plan to do so by bike

New Perspectives

At Rock Box Fitness Studios’ nationwide locations, mirrors have been removed so people can focus on punching out pounds instead of staring at themselves as they work out. The kickboxing studio, which offers group workouts set to concert-style rock music, shares five tips on a healthy and fit post-pandemic workout:

1 Be slow and steady.

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Continuously hydrate.

Get plenty of rest.

5

Always listen to your body.

Never compare your journey with others.

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mind + body | medical advisory board

Summer skin care to

sun

prevent

the effects of

damage

By Alexandra Anastasio

ne of our favorite times of year is upon us, and with that comes extended time spent outdoors—BBQs, beach days, and lots of outdoor activities fill our days. A little vitamin D and a summery glow always make people feel better than they do in those dark, winter months.

Beautiful, warm weather may help uplift our mood, but sun exposure is not forgiving on our skin for many reasons, including premature aging and skin cancer. That’s why sun protection is key to any time spent outdoors; it doesn’t have to be 90 degrees and blazing hot to get a burn.

“There are a lot of concerns people have when it comes to sun exposure,” explains Dr. B. Aviva Preminger, a renowned plastic surgeon located on Manhattan’s Upper East Side.

One of the new fillers, the RHA2, is really good at filling in fine lines, so I will use that to help out as well. But when the wrinkles really become a problem and the skin elasticity is bad, that’s when patients should consider a facelift.

Can these procedures be done year-round?

These procedures can be done during the summer as long as patients are careful about wearing sun protection. After any skin intervention you must be careful not to go right back out into the sun because the skin is vulnerable.

One area that sometimes gets neglected is the decollete. Can these treatments be used on the neck and chest area as well?

Yes, and a lot of these lasers can be used on the arms and shoulders too.

There’s also a product I really like by Skinbetter that is helpful for the face and neck. It’s an even-tone correcting serum that’s used daily and can help with pigmentation.

Is there a point when it becomes too late to reverse sun damage?

According to Dr. Preminger, the sunburn is just the initial heat. What’s actually happening underneath is the sun can cause changes in a person’s DNA, and that damage can increase the long-term risk for all sorts of skin cancers. “Some of that is a genetic predisposition, and some of it’s just because of the damage done to the DNA from the sun,” says Dr. Preminger.

It’s never too late, but it does become more challenging. The further you let things go, like anything else, the worse they tend to get. Sun damage has a similar effect on the skin that smoking has—it prematurely ages you.

A perfect example of end-stage sun exposure is someone like the character from the movie, “There’s Something About Mary,” or the actor George Hamilton. While it’s never too late to intervene, I do think some people need an intervention because they keep doing this to themselves. They think it looks good or healthy because they have a tan, but this is when you want to talk to them about some sort of artificial tan. If they feel they need to continue to look like they’ve been in the sun, there are much safer ways to achieve that.

Skin cancer is one of the most common types of cancer. Approximately 5.4 million basal and squamous cell skin cancers are diagnosed each year in the United States, and these numbers continue to increase. That’s why it’s important to implement preventative measures into our skin care routine on a daily basis.

We sat down with Dr. Preminger to find out some of the most effective ways to help protect ourselves while enjoying the outdoors, along with latest treatments available to help repair and reverse sun damage.

What you hear about is basic sunburns and skin cancer, but there are other effects in terms of how the skin ages. One of them is hyper-pigmentation, also known as dyschromia. As people age, you’ll notice brown spots and ultraviolet radiation causes changes in the DNA that can lead to all sorts of premature aging, hyper-pigmentation being one of them. When there is a general breakdown of the elasticity of the skin, is it starts to become wrinkled. It’s important to know that sun exposure really does cause premature aging.

What kind of treatments do you recommend to patients hoping to help repair and reverse the damage?

From a cosmetic perspective there is a lot we can do. For dyschromia, which are those brown spots, I use something called an IPL laser, which is intense pulse light therapy. It targets the brown spots, and they become darker and then flake off.

For fine lines and general skin resurfacing, I will use a fractionated CO2 laser. I have the Deka laser in my office, which takes off the top later of the skin, rejuvenates it, and improves fine lines, pigmentation irregularities, and skin texture.

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Particular areas that are vulnerable on the face are the nose, lips, and ears. They are unforgiving areas when it comes to getting skin cancer. Especially when applying sunblock, these are all areas to think about.

Dr. B. Aviva Preminger

In what ways besides a burn can sun exposure cause visible damage to the skin?

What areas should people pay a little extra attention to even when the sun isn’t at its strongest?

A significant predictor for skin cancer is a sunburn at a young age. That’s why it’s important for parents to put sunblock on their kids as well as themselves.

Ideally, sunblock should be re-applied every two hours.

What else can we do on a daily basis?

A hat is always helpful especially when sitting at the beach. People underestimate the value of sunglasses too. When we talk about the areas that age most quickly, the eyes and neck are always the first to go, because they are the thinnest skin. Wearing sunglasses with UV protection can be helpful; you don’t want to end up with skin cancer on the eyelid. It’s another sensitive area that is really not forgiving.

I also recommend using a tinted moisturizer in the winter that has an SPF in it. I really like the one by Revision Skincare; it has SPF 45 and works really well. Using it on a daily basis is another helpful way to prevent skin cancer.

It’s wonderful that we have all of these modalities, but I think there is nothing better than prevention. And for people who have had work done, it’s equally important to maintain their investment in themselves and be diligent about sunblock.

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BREASTS

ENHANCE, LIFT AND SHAPE

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RESTORE FULLNESS

BEFORE

INCREASE YOUR SIZE

BREAST AUGMENTATION

By Dr. Aviva Preminger

BREAST REDUCTION & LIFT

By Dr. Aviva Preminger

“Enhancing your breasts can provide balance to your figure and greatly boost your self-confidence.” - Dr. Preminger Do you think your breasts are…Too small? Too large? Asymmetric?

Do your breasts droop? Have you lost fullness?

Some women have never been happy with the appearance of their breasts, while others have experienced significant changes over time.

Whatever your concern, there is a solution.

If you want to increase breast size and fullness, a breast augmentation may be the procedure for you. Three dimensional imaging can even help you visualize your result and find the breast size you desire.

Some women have enough volume, but it’s all sitting in the lower part of the breasts causing sagging and drooping. This is particularly common after pregnancy, breastfeeding, and weight loss. A breast lift may be the key to restoring fullness in all the right places.

Breasts that are too large, however, can cause back and shoulder pain and interfere with exercise and weight loss. If that’s your issue, a breast reduction may be the solution.

At your consultation, we will discover what you like and dislike about your breasts and create a customized surgical plan that will address all of your breast concerns, leaving you looking and feeling your best - a more confident, beautiful you!

FIND YOUR IDEAL SHAPE

ELIMINATE SAGGING

Call for your Personal Consultation

212.706.1900

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travel | new england escape

That

OLD CAPE

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ith over 500 miles of coastline, Cape Cod has become synonymous with the idyllic New England escape. Populated with beautiful beaches, flourishing wildlife, lush golf courses, and overflowing with old town charm, Cape Cod is a picturesque spot to vacation in the summertime.

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MAGIC

By Amanda Mactas

SETTLE IN

Conveniently located in the town of Brewster lies Ocean Edge Resort & Golf Club, a sprawling estate with a plethora of places to stay, and plenty of things to do. Situated on over 400 acres of land, the resort, which is divided into two sides—the mansion and the villages—has 337 guest rooms and suites. Perfect for families or larger groups, the villages boast more than 200 villas, ranging from one to three bedrooms, complete with a kitchenette, patio or terrace, washer/ dryer, and lots of space. Those looking for a more traditional hotel stay can set up shop at the mansion, which was originally built back in 1912 by Samuel Nickerson following a fire that took out the original estate built in the 1880s.

PACK YOUR ITINERARY

With so much land at your disposal, you can bet that the resort has curated a seemingly endless array of activities for guests to take advantage of. From its pristinely manicured 18-hole Nicklaus-designed golf course (where you can also opt for private lessons from a pro), to Blueberry Pond, where you can try your hand at stand-up paddleboarding or kayaking, there’s not only something for everyone here, but enough to keep you from ever getting bored. Hit up the private beach, practice your swing on one of Ocean Edge’s nine tennis courts (or even attempt pickleball), or rent one of the property’s bicycles and explore the 26-mile long Cape Cod Bike Trail (it’s wondrous!).

If you need a break from all of the fun in the sun, rest your weary bones at the Beach House Spa, which offers an array of treatments that will have you feeling relaxed in no time. And, if the salty waves aren’t your speed, the resort also has a handful of indoor and outdoor pools for you to get your “Life Aquatic” on. A daily shuttle service makes it easy to get around, and the staff ’s attention to detail and spirit to please will make this a getaway you won’t soon forget.

Fire it up

Another private experience you can book during your stay is a beach fire pit, complete with s’mores, chairs, and your own personal beach attendant. Once you catch the sunset like this, there’s no going back.

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FRESH CATCH

Ocean Edge Resort offers guests numerous ways to enjoy their stay, including a handful of private experiences that can be booked in advance. Among them is a private oyster tour (for up to 10 people), where you can get hands-on with the Cape’s beloved bivalves. Tour guides will take you to look at the property’s own oyster beds, where you will learn all about the shelling industry and local delicacies. (Did you know oysters have feet?!) You might even find yourself up close and personal with some other seafaring animals like crabs and snails along the way!

Chow down

There are seven spots for visitors to get their grub on at Ocean Edge Resort, from the more casual Linx Tavern, Shark Bah, and Beach Bar, to the more upscale Bayzo’s Pub and Ocean Terrace. Try the resort’s own Bayzo’s Brew, an exclusive pale ale made by Cape Cod Beer just for the property, and pair it with any number of their fresh seafood dishes for an unforgettable experience.

OFF-CAMPUS DINING

With all of the fresh seafood on the Cape, you would be remiss not to head off property to try out some of the local hot spots. Luckily, nothing seems to be further than a short walk, ride, or drive away.

Snowy Owl Coffee Roasters is the place to go for your morning pick-me-up. Its charming barn appeal is known for lines out the door, but don’t worry—they move quickly! Known for its tasty coffees and indulgent pastries, stop in to pick something up and go for a stroll in the café’s herb shop and gardens.

Do breakfast at Apt Cape Cod, a farm-to-table restaurant that has a little something for everyone, including its famous rosemary bread.

The backyard seating is the idyllic setting to start your morning. Down the street you will find the Brewster Fish House, a cozy bistro-style restaurant whose lobster bisque will haunt your dreams (in a good way). Serving up meticulously prepared local seafood, along with fresh cocktails, this little spot should definitely make your list.

ABOUT TOWN

While you could certainly spend the majority of your time on the sprawling resort, there’s much to discover around the quaint town of Brewster. Begin your tour about town with a visit to the infamous Brewster General Store. The building, which was originally erected as a church in 1852, now stands as a general store full of history, knick knacks, and treats for locals and visitors to enjoy. Good old-fashioned penny candy, fudge, and toys will delight the kiddos, while branded clothing, kitchenware, jams, puzzles, and other gifts will keep your eye wandering indefinitely.

Next door, The Brewster Scoop offers a much-needed way to cool off with ample homemade ice cream flavors to choose from and a long history of serving the town. And nearby, the independently-owned Brewster Book Store gives bibliophiles a welcome reprieve from the summer sun with an impressive array of books and gifts, including a fun section dedicated to local authors and stories about Cape Cod. If you plan your trip right, you might even have the opportunity to check out one of their many events or book signings.

In the nearby town of Hyannis, you can hop aboard a boat with Hyannis Whale Watcher Cruises for a chance to see some ocean life in action. With both indoor and outdoor seating, sun decks, and a full-service snack bar, the tour is narrated by an on-board naturalist, who will help you spot whales, dolphins, and maybe even seals. Typically running between three and a half to four hours long, there’s plenty of time for you to spot some wildlife and witness some quintessential Cape magic.

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