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28 Faith: Be my Valentine?

8 Cover Story Bring magic back into the bedroom

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10 The amazing resilience of Handy Chapel 13 Ask the Old Bag: Newly widowed? Treat yourself. 14 Healthy Geezer 15 Dear Pharmacist: Improve memory and reduce pain with ginger 16 Remember caregivers on Valentine’s Day 17 Women: Know the symptoms of heart disease 18 Laughing Matters 20 Create a dental routine with your pet 21 Boomer Beat 22 Designing your garden: Part I Planning your outdoor sanctuary 24 The widower’s effect: Surviving a broken heart 26 Travel in the “new normal” Anything but garden variety!

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EDITOR'S COLUMN

Strive for love in its highest form

ove is a buzzword, not just because Valentine’s Day is approaching, but because it’s relevant everywhere: in relationships, business, consumerism and society at large. Because love is an important virtue that’s so widespread, it’s English definition only skims the surface. When it comes to love, I submit to the Greeks. The ancient Greeks had eight words for love: • eros (romantic, passionate, desirable love) • philia (affectionate love, friendship) • agape (selfless, compassionate love) • storge (family love) • mania (obsessive love, jealousy) • ludus (playful love)

Lastly, compassionate love (agape) is best described as unconditional. While philosophers and religious entities call this the highest form of love, it’s also in the shortest supply. I like to think that I’m a compassionate person, but I also know that my agape levels are lower than I’d like them to be. Similarly, I know plenty of people that could use a heavy dose— preferably intravenous so it’s fast-acting. If we show compassion to strangers in the same way we do our neighbors, wouldn’t our world be a better place? We can practice this by listening to others and respecting differences, by paying a compliment or doing someone a favor, volunteering for a cause, and even saying a prayer.

• pragma (committed love) • philautia (self-love) Regardless of your romantic history, both you and I have expressed each of these types of love at some point in our lives. I grew up with sisters, so you can bet there was plenty of jealousy (mania) going around… and not just when they got more attention from my parents than I did (storge). As kids, my friends (philia) and I whispered about the boys we were crushing on (ludus). Then in high school, I met the love of my life (eros) and committed to him long before we finally tied the knot in 2019 (pragma). At the root of all of this is self-love (philautia) because in order to wholly love others, you must first love yourself. For me, this type of love manifests as pride in my work and personal achievements. I just have to remember to check myself and make sure it doesn’t go to my head.

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COVER STORY

Bring magic back into t he bedroom

Do’s and don’ts for rekindling romance By Kimberly Blaker

as your bedroom lost its touch? Does it seem like the same dull routine every time you head to what was once a magical lair? After being together for a while, that once yearned-for familiarity turns into a longing for the unexpected. So why not give your room a lift? According to the ancient Chinese philosophy of Feng Shui, your surroundings play a significant role in the quality of your love life. While some of this philosophy may be rooted in superstition, there’s no question that one’s environment plays a crucial role in our moods and desires. Incorporate pleasures in your bedroom for all your senses to savor—from romantic sounds, sensual sights and exquisite touchables, to savory tastes and aromatic fragrances. Try some of these ideas and transform your humdrum room into a lover’s lane.

incense, sprays and candles, to cologne and scented body lotions. For a lasting fragrance, lightly spray your favorite cologne on the sheets for a fresh, inviting scent. Open the windows and let the fresh breeze whisper through to enhance your room. Or, set out a box of gourmet chocolates. The aroma of chocolate alone is a

AROMATHERAPY Aroma is an essential ingredient in creating the right mood. Choose from many fragrant scents that come in a variety of forms—from

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great aphrodisiac. Fresh cut flowers are a delightful addition. Try different types to determine which have lingering scents. But too much fragrance is bothersome to some men. Strive for a pleasant aroma that isn’t overpowering. If your partner is sensitive or allergic to perfume, forego it altogether.

MUSIC IS ALSO ESSENTIAL TO SETTING THE MOOD. IT HELPS COUPLES RELAX, WHICH IS PERFECT AFTER A HARD DAY AT WORK OR FOR BREAKING THE SILENCE.

AN IRRESISTIBLE VISION Men are most stimulated visually, so they want to see the woman they’re with. Play this up, and you’re bound to hold his heart. Everyone looks their personal best in particular colors—and those colors may not necessarily be red or black. Choose colors that draw out your natural beauty. There are several books available to assist in finding the colors and shades that best compliment you. Drape different colors over your shoulders to determine how they affect your appearance. You’ll likely find some colors make you look drab, while others bring out your true radiance. Choose eye-pleasing fabrics. Flannel is not so likely to be a hit, but men find clingy or shiny clothing irresistible. Don’t forget the lingerie. Many men love it. Keep in mind, though, all men have different tastes. Ask your partner what styles or articles of clothing do it for him.

IT’S ALL IN THE MUSIC Music is also essential to setting the mood. It helps couples relax, which is perfect after a hard day at work or for breaking the silence. Avoid loud rock, country or hip-hop music, which can be a real distraction (unless, of course, these have the opposite effect on your mate). Try some of these favorite albums for setting the mood: • Anything by Jon Secada (vocal) • John Legend’s “Love in the Future” (R&B) • Kenny G’s “Breathless” (jazz) • Luther Vandross’ “Best of Love 2” • Anything by Celine Dion (vocal) • Adele’s “21” (vocal, pop) • Chris Botti’s “Slowing Down the World” (jazz, vocal/instrumental) • Mark Whitfield’s “Forever Love” (jazz, instrumental) • Raphael/Intimacy: “Music for Love” (contemporary/new age, piano) • Andrea Bocelli’s “Love in Portofino” (classical, opera) • The Romantics’ “A Windham Hill Sampler” (new age, instrumental) • Michael Bublé’s “To Be Love” (vocal, pop) • Paul McCartney’s “Working Classical” (pop/ classical, vocal/instrumental) • Nora Jones’ “Come Away With Me” (jazz, pop)

Our cover models, Pat and Linda Howery, still madly in love after 37 years of marriage.

SPICE IT UP An occasional change in scenery creates interest. For example, try a purple, blue or red light bulb for a new effect, or string white holiday lights around your window or bed frame. Add vibrantly colored satin sheets as an eye-catcher, or erotic statues, paintings or strategically placed books for added intrigue. You can also install a mirrored wall or a large mirror for a different view. Other additions could include a bowl of delicious fruits such as strawberries, cut melons and grapes next to a bottle of chilled wine. Plus, toss a few fresh rose petals on the bed. They’ll add fragrance and are perfect for tickling, too. Finally, put a furry or soft throw rug or a comfortable armchair in your room for added coziness.

DOS AND DON’TS

In contrast, you want to avoid mood-killing common bedroom mistakes. Television in your bedroom is a definite no-no. This passive individual activity is sure to destroy the allure of your bedroom as a place for intimacy. Both bright lights and no lights can detract from the moment. Your partner definitely wants to see you, yet doesn’t want to be under a spotlight. Use a small bedside lamp with a low watt bulb for soft lighting. Candles also make a romantic substitute. Keep exercise equipment in any place but in your bedroom. The thought of a sweaty gym isn’t exactly an aphrodisiac. Decorate in ways that appeal to both of you. An atmosphere that’s either too masculine or too feminine can destroy your or your partner’s mood. Finally, keep clutter hidden. A messy room is a reminder of work that needs to be done. ■

Don’t be caught without these necessities. Make sure you have a nightstand or small chest next to the bed to eliminate unnecessary fumbling. You also want a firm, comfortable mattress, good box springs and a solid bed frame for comfort and quietness. Put soft quality (fresh!) sheets, a lightweight comforter and fluffy pillows on your neatly made bed for relaxing and lingering. Occasionally, change the furniture arrangement to keep the environment feeling new.

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LOCAL LORE

The amazing resilience of

Handy Chapel The oldest historically black church in Grand Junction

By Michael Melneck

he year is 1881. The U.S. Government has abolished the Ute Indian Territory and forced the Native Americans onto reservations in order to open the territory to white settlers. One of the earliest of those was George Addison Crawford, who immediately bought a plot of land (said to have been one square mile) near the Colorado River, where he founded the city of Grand Junction.

A SAFE HAVEN In 1883, Crawford deeded four lots at the corner of what is now White Avenue and Second Street to “the black citizens of the community.” The property was then “sold” to the black community for $1, to be used as a site for the African Methodist Episcopal Church (AME), though there was never a known deed of transfer to the AME. Congregants met and worshipped on the empty plot for nine years while they raised the $962.50 necessary to start construction, which began in 1892 and completed in 1893. While there was little affluence—if any—among those early

worshippers, there was undoubtedly an overwhelming amount of tenacity and faith. The location served as a church, cultural center and haven for blacks and others traveling across the country. Although the chapel has served three dominations—Holiness, Baptist and AME—there’s never been a membership requirement. All were welcome. Travelers might find lodging at the parsonage or at a rental property managed by the chapel, where rent might range from $25 to $40 per month. No one was turned away and no one was expressly charged. One of the earliest pastors at Handy Chapel was Wilson Shel-

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HANDY CHAPEL’S MISSION HAS ALWAYS BEEN TO PROVIDE FOOD, CLOTHING AND SHELTER TO THOSE IN NEED. NO ONE HAS EVER BEEN TURNED AWAY. don, whose 1901 photo is the only known record of his tenure there. Traveling preachers followed sporadically, and no one became an official “pastor” at Handy Chapel for many years. It’s possible the chapel was named after Southern preacher William Handy. However, Josephine Dickey, the late caretaker of the property and chairperson of the Handy Chapel board, said the name signified “a hand reaching down to help someone else.” Also, the loca-

tion was “handy” for black citizens to find.

THE FAMILIES THAT BUILT IT Arguably, Handy Chapel’s real story is the story of Josephine and the families who came before her and gave life to the chapel. While Grand Junction quickly grew away from the original plot, the Handy Chapel developed a strong legacy of service and compassion, fostered over seven generations by the Taylor and Dickey families. That involvement started in the 1850s when William and Ellen Washington Austin and William Carpenter helped secure the parcel for where the Handy Chapel still stands. In the 1870s, William Washington Taylor (Josephine Dickey’s For decades, the Handy Chapel has served as a church, cultural center and haven for blacks and others in the Grand Valley. Photos by Michael Melneck

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grandfather by several “greats”) and his daughter, Lizzie, published and edited one of Utah’s principal black newspapers, which was also circulated in Colorado. Lizzie later became an ordained minister, and by 1938, she pastored at Handy Chapel. Josephine’s uncle, Reverend Booker Taylor, also ministered the chapel from 1940 to 1960. Josephine liked to run her hand over a brick wall at the chapel. “My great-grandfather probably laid those bricks down,” she said. Harry Butler’s family likewise were a formative part of the chapel’s history. Butler was a prominent member of the community and one of the chapel’s most recent acting pastors, conducting Saturday services for Certain Place of the Seventh Day Adventist congregation.

credit for saving it from demolition. administrator. As Josephine reportedly once In the 1970s, the Rocky MounWhile no one has the care-Alzheimer’s said, “We’re not here for ourselves. ■ questioned Memory & Demen tain Conference of the AME Church chapel’s ownership since the 1983 We have to help other people…If we Veterans benefits accepted expelled Josephine, her daughter decision, the Handy■Chapel has don’t contribute to our people and Helen, and all but three congreproved to be resilient in other ways. our country, we’re going to have to LifeStyle 360 Activities gants from their positions. The In 1994 the chapel was added see God one day and He’s going Progra to AME then arranged to sell the chapto the National Register of Historic say, ‘What have you done?’” “The Five Star Difference” focusing on your: el and its land to Far West Investors Places, which was also around when Josephine’s daughter, Barbara Intellectual, social, physical, emotio for $68,000. That ■ is, Rehabilitation until Josephine theto building began to fall into disAnderson, once objected to her return home after spiritual well being and her daughter sued the group. repair. By 2011, Colorado Preservamother being in the chapel alone. hospitalization The women proved in court that no tion, Inc. added the property to its “I’m never alone,” Anderson Physical, Occupational & Speech Therapy deed of transfer to■the AME Church list of “Most Endangered Places.” recalled her saying. “Jesus is always had ever been filed or recorded. That naming raised awareness to with me.” ■ Skilled nursing care 24/7 The Mesa County District Court the chapel’s plight, and grants from Josephine was the chapel’s old■ Respite care & short-term stays ruled in their favor, stating that the Colorado Historical Society, the est and longest serving caretaker, the chapel belonged to the black El Pomar Foundation, the State His- until she passed in 2016. Anderson ■ Memory care-Alzheimer’s & Dementia community. torical Fund and the National Trust is now the acting chairperson for ■ Veterans accepted In 1983, the Colorado Court of benefits for Historic Preservation funded the Chapel’s board. Appeals upheld the lower court’s renovations and structural repairs. “What have you done?” It’s an LifeStyle 360 Activities Program understatement to say that she, decision and suggested that the Handy Chapel’s mission has focusing onprovide your: property be placed in a trust. Joalways been to food, cloth- and the Handy Chapel, have done Intellectual, physical, &plenty. ■ sephine was installed as the trust’s ingsocial, and shelter to thoseemotional in need.

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Dear Old Bag: This widow made it through the holidays, and actually stayed reasonably happy the whole time, even though I could not have the normal family get-togethers due to the pandemic. But the holiday that makes me sad is Valentine’s Day. My husband and I always made it a big day. He sent me mushy cards, flowers and candy, and took me out to our special place. My second year without him is coming up. What can I do to keep from getting depressed this Valentine’s Day? Signed, MM Dear MM: You are not alone. There are more widows than widowers. I suggest you schedule a nice dinner out with a girlfriend that day. Plus, do something nice for yourself. Buy yourself a box of candy, get a massage or a facial. Treat yourself. Your husband would be proud of you! You can choose to have a happy Valentine’s Day. OB Dear Old Bag: I met this guy on a dating site. He lives in another city about 300 miles away. It just so happens that my son and his wife live in that city, too. After talking with this guy online for about three months, I decided to visit my son and invited the guy to meet up while I was there. He said he was sorry, but he had to be out of town on business. Now I’m suspicious that he might not be real. What do you think? Signed, BAM Dear BAM: Sounds to me like he’s a romantic scammer. My general rule with dating sites is to only communicate with guys in your town. Try to meet them for coffee as soon as possible. If they find excuses not to meet, they are probably a scammer. Above all, do not give them any personal info such as an address, social security number, etc. Sorry, but they’re everywhere. Good luck, OB Dear Old Bag: I met a woman at church last year. I really liked her and was thinking about how I could get to know her better. Then the pandemic hit, and we do virtual church now. I do know her number from our church directory, but I’m reluctant to call her, partly because I am afraid she will think I am too forward. Any ideas to help me along? Signed, A Bit Shy Dear Shy: Call her! Tell her you miss seeing her at church and wonder if you could communicate online or on the phone. If she says yes, you have a way to get to know her better. If she says no, you will know she is not interested, right? Fear of rejection is a real thing, but missing out on a possibly good thing is even scarier to me! I’m betting that she will be delighted to hear from you. Good luck! OB Dear Old Bag: I am writing to tell you that I got brave and joined a dating site. After about a year of not finding anyone of interest, I finally met a wonderful guy. Our in-person meetings have been limited due to the pandemic; however, we are both looking forward to a long-term relationship. I did get scammed twice on the site, but thanks to you, I recognized it right away. Signed, Dater Dear Dater: I’m happy to hear of your success. Two of my adult children have met their mates online. While I haven’t had a serious relationship there, I have met two men who became good friends...and you can’t have too many friends. Good luck to you and your dating-site guy. OB

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Soap and water are more effective than alcohol-based hand sanitizing gels in killing certain types of bacteria and viruses that cause disease. Infectious diseases that are commonly spread by our hands include colds, flu and gastrointestinal disorders. If you clean your hands with hand sanitizers, apply the gel to one palm. Rub your hands together and spread the sanitizer on all surfaces until dry. The gel doesn’t need water to work; the alcohol in sanitizers kills the germs on your hands. Not all hand sanitizers are the same. You should use only sanitizers that contain at least 60 percent alcohol. Antibacterial soaps, which are different from alcohol-based sanitizers, are no better at killing germs than regular soap. The combination of scrubbing your hands with soap—antibacterial or not—and

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• Before and after touching a sick or injured person • After handling garbage • Before inserting or removing contact lenses

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inger is something you’ve probably walked past a thousand times in the grocery store and passed up. While ginger is often thought of as a flavoring agent, it also has some incredible medicinal benefits and offers people a natural approach to many ailments. For example, ginger is an antioxidant and strong analgesic (pain reliever). In studies with people who ate dried ginger spice in their meals, 75 percent experienced relief from arthritic pain and swelling! Many women also use ginger for morning sickness during pregnancy. But, it can thin the blood, so avoid or minimize it if you are on anticoagulant medications. Known officially as Zingiber officinale, ginger contains many therapeutic compounds, all of which have well-documented medicinal actions in the body. Sometimes you have to heat the ginger to see a specific compound. For example, zingerone is negligible in fresh ginger, however, cooking it transforms the gingerol to zingerone. The dried (powdered) ginger spice also contains zingerone in it. Zingerone is well researched, and it’s incredible. Studies have determined that it reduces inflammation, improves blood sugar, eases muscle pain and spasms, helps with arthritis, speeds fat breakdown and ramps up immune function. In an animal study, ginger compounds protected rodents from brain damage and memory loss. As a result, drug companies are now trying to morph it and patent it into an Alzheimer’s drug. I say, just eat it! Ginger can block your enzyme xanthine oxidase—which is good

because that reduces ROS (reactive oxygen species). So, the fact that ginger can degrade these ROS free radicals means it protects your DNA and mitochondria. In fact, ginger promotes mitochondrial health, which stores energy for you in the form of ATP. If you have liver disease or hepatic injury (for example, hepatitis), consider ginger in all of your recipes because studies show that zingerone has a hepatoprotective effect. Additionally, ginger might have some heavy metal binding abilities because it can reduce cadmium levels, according to animal studies. It can also reduce the body’s burden of organophosphate pesticides (Unfortunately, it cannot bind gadolinium from MRIs). If you have a PON1 gene, make ginger your friend! Not only does ginger spice up your recipes, but it also makes for a quick and delicious tea. I have a recipe for this on my website, as well as a free ebook called “Spices that Heal.” Ginger is a delicious, safe and affordable way to improve health while adding a warming spice to your meals. ■

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kind of help you need now or in the future. • Ask for help. You may realize that you cannot do everything you once were able to do. Share with others how they can provide help and support as roles and responsibilities change. • Strengthen relationships. Focus on relationships that are supportive. Show your gratitude for the people you love and appreciate. • Be prepared. Plan ahead for the future by putting together financial, legal and care plans. The sooner plans are in place, the better prepared you and your partner will be. You can then focus on enjoying your life moving forward. • Seek support. Sometimes befriending another couple in the same situation offers new possibilities for support. Contact the Alzheimer’s Association Helpline (800-272-3900) to learn about support groups in your area. ■

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eart disease is the leading cause of death among women in the U.S. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), it accounts for 20 percent of female deaths. Coronary artery disease—also commonly known as coronary heart disease or atherosclerosis— is the most common type of heart disease. More than 6 percent of women over the age of 19 are afflicted by it, which can lead to a heart attack or heart failure. Heart conditions for which women are at higher risk than men include cardiac syndrome X, angina (chest pain) and broken heart syndrome (stress-induced cardiomyopathy). Women can also be affected by several other heart conditions, such as heart failure, heart valve disease, arrhythmia (irregular heartbeat) and atrial fibrillation (Afib).

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LAUGHING MATTERS CRUMPLED UP Submitted by Betty Cain While enjoying their evening cocktails, a wife asks her husband, in very seductive voice, “Have you ever seen $20 all crumpled up?” “No,” said her husband. She gave him a sexy little smile, unbuttoned the top three or four buttons of her blouse, and slowly reached down into the cleavage and pulled out a crumpled $20. He took the crumpled $20 from her and smiled approvingly. She then asked him, “Have you ever seen $50 all crumpled up?” “Uh… no, I haven’t,” he said. She gave him another sexy little smile, pulled up her skirt, and seductively reached into her panties… and pulled out a crumpled $50. He took the crumpled $50 and started breathing a little quicker. “Now,” she said, “have you ever seen $50,000 all crumpled up?”

Trying to contain his excitement, he shook his head. She said, “Check your truck in the garage.”

OUT OF TOWNER Submitted by Bob Breazeale The other day I was driving around town when I got stuck behind an out-of-town driver. She must have been from out of town, because she actually stopped at the red lights and the stop signs

FAREWELL TO 2020 Submitted by Jil Goebel Here are 11 things to consider as we closed the door on one of the most horrible years of our lifetime: 1. The dumbest thing I ever bought was a 2020 planner. 2. I was so bored I called Jake from State Farm just to talk to someone. He asked me what I was wearing.

3. 2019: Stay away from negative people. 2020: Stay away from positive people. 4. The world has turned upside down. Old folks are sneaking out of the house and their kids are yelling at them to stay indoors! 5. Every few days try your jeans on to make sure they fit. Pajamas will have you believe all is well in the kingdom. 6. Does anyone know if we can take showers yet or should we just keep washing our hands? 7. This virus has done what no woman has been able to do. Cancel sports, shut down all bars and keep men at home! 8. I never thought the comment, “I wouldn’t touch him/her with a 6-foot pole” would become a national policy, but here we are! 9. I need to practice social-distancing from the refrigerator. 10. I hope the weather is good tomorrow for my trip to the back

yard. I’m getting tired of the living room. 11. Never in a million years could I have imagined I would go up to a bank teller wearing a mask and ask for money.

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LAUGHING MATTERS “If they’re grazing in the morning, they’re pregnant,” he replied. “If they’re in the mud, they’re not.” The next morning, the farmer woke up to find the pigs rolling in the mud. He hosed them off, loaded them into the family station wagon, met the other farmer in the field and proceeded to try again. The following morning, he found them in the mud again. The same thing happened every day for a week. One morning, the farmer was so tired that he couldn’t get out of bed. “Honey,” the farmer asked his wife, “look outside and tell me if the pigs are in the mud or in the field.” “Neither,” his wife said. “They’re in the station wagon and one of them is honking the horn.”

TALKING PARROT Submitted by Sue C. Hughey While on a business trip to South America, Todd is impressed by a parrot displayed in front of a pet store, rattling off phrases in several different languages. Todd decides to buy the parrot, and has it shipped directly to his father as a gift for his upcoming birthday. Upon his return to the States several days later, Todd calls his father. “Hi, Dad, did you like the parrot I sent you?” “I did!” answers his father. “It was delicious!” “Dad!” exclaims Todd, “You ATE him? That bird was worth a fortune! It could speak five different languages!” “Well...” said Dad, “He shoulda said somethin’.”

LIFE ADVICE Submitted by Jan Weeks When we’re young, we sneak out of our house to go to parties. When we’re old, we sneak out of parties to go home. Once you understand why the pizza is made round, packed in a square box and eaten as a triangle…then you will understand women. If you get a loan at a bank, you’ll be paying it back for 30 years. If you ROB a bank, you’ll be out in 10 years. Welcome campers! Safe social distancing: 100 yards for bears, 50 yards for skunks, 25 yards for racoons, and six feet for Aunt Edna.

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n the winter of my freshman year of college, I adopted Gary—a headstrong Jack Russell terrier. Gary quickly became my world. I would sneak him into class under my sweatshirt and take him with me when I met with my professors. He went everywhere. One professor and I especially bonded over our obsessive love for our dogs. She had a border collie that was equally as brilliant as Gary, but much less mischievous.. One day I bumped into her while I was walking Gary around campus and she teared up when I greeted her. What she told me would stick with me the rest of Gary’s life and with every other dog I would adopt. “I didn’t know a dog’s teeth could kill them,” was her sobering confession. Her beloved dog died unexpectedly from a gum infection that had gone undetected and got into his bloodstream, ultimately harming his vital organs. “Take care of Gary’s mouth, it could save his life,” she warned me. That heartbreaking admonition led me to start working with Gary to be comfortable with mouth care. At first, I stuck my finger under his lips and just rub his teeth and gums with dog toothpaste. When he was tolerant of that, I started using a finger brush and finally, an actual dog toothbrush. At first, he was resistant to the invasion of his personal space, but eventually he got used to it. Many of us don’t realize how critical dental health is for our pets’ overall health. With New Year’s resolutions fresh in our minds and February being Pet Dental Health Month, now is a great time to resolve to focus on your pet’s mouth. The first step to ensuring better

dental health is to schedule an annual dental cleaning for your pet. Some veterinarians even offer discounted cleanings in February. Most dental disease occurs below the gum line, which means you cannot see it without a thorough exam. Your veterinarian can also recommend treats and toys that help remove tartar and keep teeth and gums healthier between cleanings. Your next step is to create a routine. A daily habit is ideal, but even just a couple times per week can greatly reduce the risk of dental disease. If you need help getting your pet to tolerate something in his mouth, call Roice-Hurst Humane Society’s dog and cat behavior counselors (434-7337). They can walk you through some tricks for desensitizing your pet and bonding in the process! Finally, take stock of your pet’s dental health. Stinky breath, discolored teeth, tartar, redness along the gum line, mouth swelling, and any changes in how your pet eats (more slowly, less readily, or with more drool) may be signs your pet should be seen by a veterinarian. Gary passed away last July at almost 16 years old. As devastating as his passing was, I found comfort in knowing that it was nothing that I had not done for him, and that he had simply lived out his life. ■

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or nearly 20 years now, my husband has been perfectly happy having me cut his hair. To date, there’s been no finger-pointing or restrained snickers that I’m aware of. But with hair salons closed for a period during COVID, was he (or rather was I) up for him cutting MY hair? I had the fact that he’s a retired engineer and perfectionist on my side. Between the two of us, no one was the wiser. COVID has made me ponder, who are we trying to impress? I’ve never been a makeup wearer, but even if I was running late to exercise class, there was no way I was leaving the house without mascara on, believing that my eyes shrunk into my head without it. But now I can count on my fingers and toes the number of times I’ve worn mascara since last spring. Grabbing the same pair of comfy leggings and favorite sweater two days in a row has become perfectly acceptable. Dusting the house less often is also okay, since the chance of company coming over is little to none. Reading or playing the piano are things I saved for evenings, as my brain told me days were not for lounging. No longer. I truly believe the inventor of the term “bed head” was referring to my unruly, coarse, curly mop which needs a bugle wake-up call and serious attention each morning. Left unsupervised, I could star in “The Shaggy Dog” Disney classic. Especially over this winter,

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BEACON SENIOR NEWS long-time spouse has died, known as the widower’s effect, appears to be far more prevalent in older married couples. Research shows that the risk is highest in the three to six months after the death of the spouse, as widows are forced to go through often unanticipated changes. My personal practice for not yielding to the widowers effect is accepting the truth that everything’s a choice and I co-create my reality. So I’m shedding old paradigms and putting the intention out to the universe that this will not happen. (As ye think, so shall ye be.) I’m determined not to give up on or neglect myself: to eat well, not fall into unhealthy habits, exercise, take my meds, meditate, breathe, stay divinely connected, balanced, bathe in family love and welcome community support. After 30 years of our oneness, my twin flame doesn’t want me to give up while she patiently waits for me beyond the veil we cannot see.

MY PERSONAL PRACTICE FOR NOT YIELDING TO THE WIDOWERS EFFECT IS ACCEPTING THE TRUTH THAT EVERYTHING’S A CHOICE. She wants me to go on and live life to the fullest. Life’s a miraculous precious gift, in which suffering and change are certain. But it takes all the energy, intention and coping mechanisms in my emotional toolbox. I recognize grieving is an expression of love and the intensity of grief is proportional to the love we have for each other. Because we’re internal and love is eternal, her physical vessel is all that died. Her energetic essence lives on eternally. Why would I seek closure? I’d prefer to bathe in knowing that her energy field from another unseen dimension accompanies me wherever I am. I am Sandi, and she is in me. She sees the world through my eyes, interested in what I eat, wear, think and feel. I love knowing we

can still have fun communicating on another level. When I need her, all l need is to think of her, be a receiver, tune into the frequency of her unconditional loving energy, and she’ll always be there. Sometimes when I’m quiet, totally present in the moment, a knowing takes over and I can sense her soft, gentle essence as I align to the frequency of our eternal love. Like Sir Issac Newton discovered, like energies are attracted to like energies. But it’s not easy. In the year prior, I endured the double jeopardy of caregiving and then home hospice. A study by researchers at Harvard Medical School and the University of Pennsylvania shows the impact of a spouse’s illness on his or her partner’s health can be as bad as or worse than it would be if the

spouse had died. So far, I’ve physically recovered, although the stress took its toll and aged me. I’ve read that stress can induce illness and depression. The resulting poor health can further decrease the effectiveness of the caregiver, and in some cases, even cause premature death. One study found that the caregivers of Alzheimer’s patients had a 63 percent higher death rate than the control group. So, if you are a caregiver, make sure to ask for help. Kind folks comment that I’m doing remarkably well...considering. I credit my spiritual journey in life, the one Sandi and eagerly I traveled together. We grew in leaps and bounds. Sitting on the porch, we’d often muse, “Wonder what’s beyond death? Well, we’ll never know till it happens.” Little did I know she’d cross over first. I wait for the time we can soar together again. Until that day, I’ll tune in to your gentle whispers. Fly on, Angel Eyes. ■

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iddle seats in the planes of some airlines are vacant. Passengers and crew members aboard cruise ships are wearing masks and socially distancing, when possible. Some countries remain closed to non-residents, while others won’t allow people from the United States to enter. Few aspects of life have been hit harder by the COVID-19 pandemic than travel, and there’s no end in sight. Or is there? The kinds of trips people take in the months ahead will be different than in the past. A number of travel industry experts predict that not all of the changes will disappear as the virus does. Many people who normally would be flying are loath to set foot on an airplane. Hotels are running below capacity. Travel during typically busy seasons has plummeted. According to CNN Business, “Airline traffic has plunged and it probably won’t recover any time soon.” Stewart Chiron, a leading expert known as The Cruise Guy, says the COVID-19 outbreak may

be the worst blow the industry has ever suffered. But that doesn’t mean people seeking an escape from home have no alternatives. Let’s consider both the short-term outlook and longer-term probabilities.

WHERE TO GO While the borders of many countries are closed, some have lifted travel bans. Mexico has become a popular destination, with minimal restrictions for incoming tourists. But other countries may still have bans on visitors from the United States, due to the high rate of infections here. Even when they’re open to Americans, there are safety regulations that must be followed,

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and some popular tourist sites have restricted access. The first step in planning a trip should be to check the location’s latest information for travelers.

HOW TO GET THERE If you’ve flown anywhere recently, you may have noticed strange airport connections and higher ticket costs than in the past. Higher fares, fewer direct flights and hassles getting through a number of airports are the new norm for air travel, and these challenges aren’t likely to go away soon. Likewise, The Economist magazine forecasts that giant passenger ships will take a long time to recover their appeal. Jay Johnson

of Coastline Travel Advisors in California predicts that cruise lines may have to offer reduced fares in the short term in order to attract people to board ships again. For those who like to travel with a group, most tour companies have implemented safety guidelines and flexible cancelltion policies, limited group sizes, and taken other steps to keep people healthy. Travestride.com, a leading marketplace source for worldwide travel, hosts more than 50,000 group tour packages, expedition cruises and independent itineraries. Currently, its experts recommend custom travel as an option, which eliminates any concerns about going with a group. The website also includes a list of

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WHILE THE BORDERS OF MANY COUNTRIES ARE CLOSED, SOME HAVE LIFTED TRAVEL BANS. countries that are reopening for tourism, which is regularly updated.

WHAT LIES AHEAD While it’s impossible to predict with certainty how travel will evolve in the months and years ahead, there are signposts which point to what’s likely to take place. Many observers believe that airlines will offer fewer choices and charge higher fares. Low-cost seat options may dwindle and passengers are likely to have limited alternatives for flight times, routes and possibly companies. The International Air Transport Association estimates that the industry won’t fully recover from the impact of COVID-19 until 2024. Rather than heading for mega-resorts, amusement parks and other popular vacation spots, more people are likely to drive to the beach, mountains or lake that’s fairly close to home. As a result, hotels and motels probably will enjoy an uptick in business. Early in November, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention announced that it was lifting the “no-sail” order it had imposed

For those who like to travel with a group, most tour companies have limited group sizes.

on cruises, and will now allow a phased-in return of passenger cruises. In order to resume sailings, ship lines must take steps that include informing people of the potential risks caused by the pandemic, limiting voyages to a maximum of seven days, testing crew and passengers, and mandating wearing masks and social distancing. Even as consumer travel slowly increases, business-related trips may lag behind. Robert Crandall, former head of American Airlines, predicts that many companies currently conducting meetings and other tasks online won’t return completely to their previous travel practices.

THE SILVER LINING However, there are some bright spots on the horizon. First, the temporary reduction of visitors will give popular destinations a much-needed rest and opportunity to recover from some of the negative effects of over-tourism. Second, the many setbacks to travel caused by the pandemic have done nothing to dampen the penchant of Americans for vacation trips. Michelle Gielan, a psychologist who heads the Institute for Applied Positive Research, conducted a survey on the role of vacation in people’s happiness quotient. She reports that 97 percent of respondents said having a trip to look forward to makes them happier, and 80 percent said planning travel during the coming 6 months does so as well. The potential kicker is that 96 percent also responded that feeling safe during a trip is a high priority. As travel gradually adjusts, more people will enjoy the happiness it can bring to life. Hopefully that will include you, too. ■

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AS WE GO INTO FEBRUARY, THE ONLY WAY TO HEAL THE UNREST AND CHAOS IN OUR WORLD IS TO REACH OUT IN LOVE. a martyr. But, if I don’t have love, I’m useless. The Bible says we know how to love because God first loved us. It says that he is love. In fact, it says he loved us so much that he sacrificed his own son in order for us to have life. I can’t imagine. What does he ask in return? That we believe he is who he says he is and that we believe he is the sacrifice for our sins. 1 Corinthians 13 goes on to describe love: “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” As we go into February, the only way to heal the unrest and chaos in our world is to reach out in love. The Bible says we are to be peacemakers. That doesn’t mean we are to lay down or back away. But, we are to stand in love, patience and kindness. We are to be humble, not proud or rude. We are to stand firm without being demanding. We don’t keep records of others’ wrongs. We do not rejoice with injustice. We love without giving up. We do not lose faith, and we are always hopeful. Our love will endure through every circumstance. ■

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Many of our readers grew up in an age where good service was a staple of every purchase. Unfortunately, some businesses today treat customer service as if it’s old-fashioned and out of style. While this year’s BEACON Best winners span many different industries, they all have at least one thing in common: Each winner delivers a high-quality experience and is dedicated to the superior customer service that BEACON readers have come to respect.

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hen I was in fourth grade, I had a social studies teacher who had a lazy answer for her most inquisitive students. “Write down your question and when you get to the library on Thursday, ask the librarian to help you find the answer.” When we asked her what a word meant, she would say, “Here’s a dictionary, look it up.” As you can imagine, her apathetic teaching style was extremely annoying to the more curious learners. Before the first quarter was over, we stopped asking her questions and just started looking words up ourselves. Some of us would sneak off to the library during lunch to search for the answers that were nagging us. In the 21st century, every single student has access to a repository of all human knowledge. Most carry a smartphone that allows them to access the answer to any question without leaving their desk or raising their hand. Grownups understand that my teacher wasn’t avoiding our questions at all. She was teaching me to find the answers for myself. But many people who were trained to find the answers in the library or

IN THE 21ST CENTURY, EVERY SINGLE STUDENT HAS ACCESS TO A REPOSITORY OF ALL HUMAN KNOWLEDGE. the dictionary haven’t developed the habit or skill of searching for answers on the internet. Every week, I get calls from former students, friends and strangers asking me questions that can be immediately located with a search on Google, YouTube or even Amazon. I’m a member of Facebook groups about crafting, virtual reality, teaching, art, photography and technology. Every day, someone asks the group a question like, “What’s the difference between the iPhone 12 and the iPhone 12 Pro?” Without exception, members of the group reply with dozens of answers. Many of the responses are inaccurate or even derogatory. LMGTFY (Let Me Google That For You) is a common snarky comeback that I hear techies give a lot in response to these types of questions. A significant number of internet users don’t know that you can

literally type a question into Google or YouTube. “What’s the difference between iPhone 12 and 12 Pro?” will not only bring up the answer, but the autocomplete will finish your question before you are even done typing. While Google is a great source for answers to questions, I use YouTube more often when I need to know how to do something. For example, one night I met two people in a Walmart parking lot who were struggling with a dead battery in a 2008 Prius. One of them was the owner of the Prius, the other was a good Samaritan with an SUV and jumper cables. When I arrived on the scene,

they had been trying to figure it out for more than 20 minutes and the owner was talking to the tow truck company. I pulled out my phone and typed, “How to jump a 2008 Prius” into Youtube. We all watched the 3-minute video together and the owner of the Prius canceled the tow truck five minutes later. I didn’t do anything other than search for the answer and play the video, but they both thanked me profusely for solving the problem. So the next time you call a friend, neighbor or relative and ask them a question, listen very closely for the sounds of keyboard clicks in the background. Chances are, the person is Googling the question for you. Better yet, dazzle them by learning a new skill or fixing a problem using the information you discovered by researching the answer without their assistance. ■

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HOW YOU CAN PROTECT YOURSELF Catfishing has been around long before the internet. But the web provides catfishers an endless supply of prey while making it easier to conceal their identities. Whether you’re on an online dating site or social media, keep your eyes peeled and follow these precautions. First, know the red flags to look for before you begin communicating with someone you don’t know. Some catfishers provide elaborate but deceptive profiles. More often, though, their profiles are incomplete and vague. By providing such limited detail (other than, perhaps, a very attractive photograph), they’re able to lure more potential victims. It also gives them the advantage to make things up as they go that best fits their victim’s wants, needs and desires. Having no photo can also be a red flag, as well as one that looks extremely dated or straight from GQ or Glamour magazine. Even when the photos look kosher, they might be stolen from someone else’s social media profile. So, always do a reverse image search. Just right click

FINANCE on the photo, and select ‘save image as.’ Then, go to Google images and drag and drop the photo into the search bar. If Google shows identical results for the image, do some investigative work. Another thing to watch for is broken English in messages. If you notice odd phrasing such as ‘I will like to get to know you,’ be wary. It might indicate they’re from a foreign country commonly known for scammers. However, some scammers use broken English intentionally. They do this to weed out those intelligent enough to easily catch on to them. Catfishers want to invest their time in those who seem to be gullible. Another reason they may intentionally use broken English is to create the illusion they lack sophistication. This gives them the advantage that you won’t suspect they’re crafty enough to be a catfisher. On the other hand, plenty of catfishers are American, or English is their native language. Good English

doesn’t necessarily deem them legitimate. When you begin communicating with someone online, ask for their full name (and be wary if they won’t tell you.) Then, do an online search for their social media profiles, job information, places they’ve lived and anything else you can learn. If you can’t find the person online or something doesn’t seem right, cut ties. If someone starts getting romantic quickly or comes out with the “L” word before you’ve ever met, be suspicious. While some legitimate relationships have started out this way, it isn’t the norm. It’s fairly common, however, with catfishers who try to quickly lure you into a phony whirlwind romance. They often move quickly and begin talking about a relationship, being in love or a future together before you’ve met. Most important—regardless of how perfect or real someone seems—don’t allow yourself to get emotionally involved before you’ve met in person. In fact, once you’ve

done the investigative work above, try to meet for coffee as soon as possible. That way you don’t waste time or risk getting emotionally entangled with a fraud. Some people have found themselves sucked into years-long sham relationships without ever having met their predator. They only learn after wasting years of their life, and sometimes all of their savings.

SIGNS OF A CATFISHER Be wary if: • They’re difficult or impossible to catch on the phone. • They’re unwilling to video chat. • They always have an excuse for why they can’t meet you in person. They may claim to be out of state or the country. • They often claim, repeatedly, to be dealing with a major crisis or setback. This is to gain your sympathy, so you’ll accept it without question.

• They won’t provide their exact address, especially even after professing their love, an extended courtship or asking to borrow money. (But, for your safety—especially for women—never give your address to someone you haven’t met or don’t know well.) • They try to manipulate you by shaming you, playing on your sympathy, or being overly charming, complimentary or empathetic.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU’VE BEEN CATFISHED If you suspect you’re communicating with a catfisher but are uncertain, gather everything you know about the person and print their profile, communications and photos. Then, share it with trusted family and friends for objective opinions. Also, report catfishers to the dating or social media website where you met and file a report with the FBI at www.ic3.gov/default .aspx ■

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etropolitan areas aren’t the only destinations for seniors seeking elite, personalized healthcare. Tucked in the heart of Fruita, Family Health West prides itself on the array of services its physicians, nurses and other trained professionals provide with the added bonus of less wait time. Originally built as a 20-bed hospital in the mid-1940s, Family Health West has since expanded its services and proudly offers hospital, outpatient and physician services on top of long-term care

options. But there are two specialized services that seniors may find themselves needing more in the years ahead: wound care and pain management and/or treatment.

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Family Health West’s Wound Healing Center staff with Dr. Troy Griffiths pictured in the center. Specialists of the Rockies, echoed Griffiths in that patients shouldn’t have to wait months to be seen when they’re in pain. “That’s not like waiting for an elective process,” Lewis said. “It needs done now.” Although lingering pain is often associated with aging, Lewis had comforting words for seniors. “I’ve had so many patients who, before they got to me, were told, ‘You are just going to have to live with it,’” he said. But that isn’t necessarily true, Lewis added. Lewis and Dr. Kyle Christopherson, both board certified anesthesiologists, treat chronic pain through minimally invasive, non-surgical techniques. Advancements in interventional pain treatments—from spinal cord stimulators to steroid injections—have accelerated within the past five years. This has allowed Lewis to help patients who’ve had no help for decades. What pain can they treat? Lewis said, “nearly infinite.” Before finalizing a treatment plan, patients at Pain Specialists of the Rockies, as well as the Wound Healing Center, are seen to determine the cause of either the pain or the wound so individualized plans can be formulated. However, long-time physicians at both sites believe each is still underutilized in Western Colorado.

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something a senior tends to think needs treatment or understands the ramifications of leaving it untreated. “It can be very costly,” noted Griffiths, the only physician in Colorado dual certified by the American Board of Foot and Ankle Surgery and the American Board of Wound Healing. “The highest risk for a diabetic is to get a laceration, have it not heal, and then to lose a limb.” That’s not alarmist. That’s a reality for diabetics who ignore wounds. Griffiths urged diabetics, a population on the rise, to inspect feet on a daily basis and go in annually for a medical assessment of feet and ankles to determine risk of potential injuries. Treating diabetic wounds and preserving limbs is a specialty of the Wound Healing Center, but it also handles such things as venous stasis wounds, pressure wounds and post-surgical wounds. Ultimately, it can be easy to look at a laceration and think time will heal all wounds. But with elite care available locally to treat both wounds and pain, medical professionals urge seniors to use it. Referrals are welcome but not necessary at both Pain Specialists of the Rockies, 300 W. Ottley Ave., and the Wound Healing Center, 551 Kokopelli Dr., Unit H in Fruita. To begin initial consultations, call Pain Specialists of the Rockies at 858-2578 or the Wound Healing Center at 858-2586. ■

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fter years of being asked if they were related, in 2017, Warren Buffett and Jimmy Buffett submitted to a DNA search for 23andMe. The result? They are not related— except by wealth, that is. The senior Buffett, the Oracle of Omaha, has amassed a fortune of $82 billion, while in comparison, the younger Buffett is worth a mere $550 million. That’s right. The music star with the 1977 Top 10 song about guzzling booze is worth more than half a billion bucks because of this lone hit.

In 1974, Buffett scored a Top 30 hit with the plaintive “Second Avenue.” Three years later, Buffett found success with “Margaritaville,” the catchy ditty that wormed its way into the collective American conscience and never departed.

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“I was with some friends in a Mexican restaurant on a hot day in Austin, Texas. We had a couple of margaritas, and they really tasted good,” Buffett recalled in a magazine interview. “Afterwards, I was heading back home to Key West. I wrote ‘Margaritaville’ in about six minutes, driving down the Overseas Highway.” James William Buffett, Jr., was born on Christmas Day, 1946. He grew up in Mobile, Alabama, where he went to a Catholic school and played trombone in the school band. Buffett went to college at University of Southern Mississippi, where he took up the guitar in order to meet women and eventually joined a bar band. He earned a history degree but never used it. Buffet and his bandmates endured hardscrabble times in a trailer. He later moved to Nashville, where he hoped for country music stardom, which never materialized. Buffett never really found his groove until 1972, when he relocated to Key West and began playing local bars while promoting an easy-going “beach bum” persona.

That solitary song provided the motivation Buffett needed to shift his career into overdrive. Since the 1980s, he has written five hit books, opened a chain of restaurants, developed a line of beach clothing, started his own record label (called Margaritaville), and developed the Broadway jukebox musical, “Escape to Margaritaville.” He even created the Margaritaville retirement communities in Florida and South Carolina. Today, he lives with Jane, his second wife, in Palm Beach, Florida, where he sails his boat, pilots his plane and offers enthusiastic support for environmental causes. His zealous followers are dubbed Parrotheads, a name coined at a 1985 concert when Buffett commented on the number of people in the audience wearing Hawaiian shirts and parrot hats. He said they follow him from show to show much like Deadheads followed the Grateful Dead. “It’s fun, and it’s getting away from the rigors of real life,” he told NPR. “These days, I think we need it more than ever.” ■

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A RIVERBOAT WAS A PLACE TO DANCE, GAMBLE, DRINK AND ENJOY LIVE MUSIC. asked. Mama sipped on the bottle he’d concealed inside his jacket, and then headed to the dance floor. He followed. Her smile would not go away and her dancing feet wouldn’t stop moving to the heartfelt tunes sung by a man called “Blind Man Sonny.” The pianist banged out an occasional Scott Joplin song as if hoping to rouse those who had yet to feel the effects of bootleg whiskey. Throughout the evening and with each sip of booze, Mama’s comfort level grew in proportion to her laughter. Never in her young life could she remember having so much fun. Harold and Mama danced close together while a fat woman sang “I Want Some Sugar in My Bowl” and sounded just like Bessie Smith. He leaned in and whispered in her ear, “Marry me tomorrow.” Mama didn’t hesitate. “Nope. I’m gonna have a hangover.” She lived with her older sister in a small town in the Mississippi Delta since leaving the country farm where she had lived with the rest of her family. Big sister was a teetotaler whose Southern Baptist membership forbade both alcohol and dancing. She was not happy when the morning after the riverboat excursion, little sister was too hungover to eat the nice breakfast she prepared. She was even more annoyed when the doorbell rang before nine o’clock and a gentleman asked to speak to Mama.

“Wake up, Sister. Wake up,” she hissed, pulling covers from her groggy and hung over sibling. “Somebody’s here to talk to you and he won’t say what it’s about. What on earth did you do last night?” The last thing big sister needed to hear was that little sister got pie-eyed on bootleg whisky. Mama dragged herself into the living room where Harold was decked out in a suit, tie and polished shoes, looking better than he had a right to. Nervous, he held a hat in his hands and twirled it around and around. Next to him stood a stout man with a fringe of grey hair, holding a Bible. Mama frowned at Harold. “What are you doing here?” “I came to marry you.” She blanched. “I told you last night I was going to be hung over today. There’s no way I am gonna marry you with a hangover.” The heavy-set man cleared his throat. “Miss, you might as well go on and get yourself dressed. I’m a Justice of the Peace and this man is determined for y’all to get hitched today. He won’t let me leave until y’all have said ‘I Do.’ My wife is cooking fried chicken for dinner and I aim to get on home while it’s still hot.” A year after she agreed to marry him in her sister’s living room, Mama gave birth to a son on Father’s Day. They named him Harold, Jr. Three years later, Mama gave Harold a Valentine baby, a daughter. They named her Cappy. ■

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February 5

Runners of all abilities are welcome to join a group 6-mile run, with shorter options available, followed by social time on the Copper Club Brewing Company’s patio. 6-7 p.m. | 233 E. Aspen Ave., Fruita | www.mesamonumentstriders.com

Live-stream this fundraiser piano concert featuring Nick Carozza at the Montrose Center for the Arts. Live near Montrose? Take-out concert dinners and wine are available at the Stone House. 5-7 p.m. | www.mc4arts.com/ wine-roses | 787-9428

Monday Night Group Run

February 2-6

Senior Social Club: Love Letters

Join other seniors virtually on Zoom to chat, socialize and share stories about falling in love. Participants will also create a love letter to share with someone special. Registration required. 10-11:30 a.m. | www.mesacounty libraries.org | 858-7703

Wine & Roses piano concert

Visit the Craig Gallery to peruse the phenomenal entries from over 20 Colorado artists for their last week on exhibition. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | 128 E. Third St., Palisade | Free | 216-0213

Go online to hear Luisa Gil, who originally hails from Venezuela, as a part of Mesa County Libraries’ Culture Fest. 6-7 p.m. | www.youtube.com/user/ yourmcl | 243-4442

February 3, 10, 17, 24

Mesa Monument Striders hosts a prediction race, where prizes are re-distributed to those running closest to their pre-race prediction times. Entry fee is two cans or bottles of something to drink. Run solo or as a team of “sweethearts.” 9:45 a.m. | Start bottom of Rosevale Road, Grand Junction | www.mesamonumentstriders. com | 270-0109

Roice-Hurst Humane Society offers a weekly, low-cost vaccination clinic by appointment only on Wednesdays. All vaccine costs are in addition to a mandatory $16 pet exam fee. Call to claim your spot. 2-5 p.m. | 362 28 Road, Grand Junction | www.rhhumanesociety.org | 434-7337

Join Colorado Backcountry Biker for a two-hour long mountain bike ride on whatever gravel route calls their names! 11 a.m.-1 p.m. | 150 S. Park Square, Fruita | 858-3917

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February 6

Colorado Winefest Contest Art Exhibit

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February 10

Quilting Basics – Strips

Learn how to sew, press, cut, and design with strips, the next step to making great quilts at Quilters Inspiration. 10 a.m.-1 p.m. | 200 W. Grand Ave., Grand Junction | $25 | www.Quilt ers-Inspiration.com | 549-4482

February 6

The MIXX Live

Catch this high energy dance cover band at Warehouse25sixty-five and enjoy a large variety of modern and classic hits! 7:30-10:30 p.m. | 2565 American Way, Grand Junction | 628-4321

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Western Region One Source offers a free, beginner-level yoga class for military members, veterans and their families every Wednesday. 2:30-3:30 p.m. | Free | 482 28 Road, Grand Junction | 257-3760

Couples Painting

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February 13

Chad Prather Live

Chad has used his motivational speaking to influence leaders from around the world with humor and inspiration. Watch this “modern day Will Rogers” live at the Avalon Theatre; doors open at 7 p.m. 8 p.m. | 645 Main St., Grand Junction | $29-$49 | 263-5757

February 13

Men’s Pheasant Hunt

Join other men from the Downtown Vineyard Church (DTV) at Black Canyon Wing and Clay in Delta for a pheasant hunt. Meet at the DTV parking lot to head out there together. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. | 402 Grand Ave., Grand Junction | 5 bird min/$145 | www.dtvchurch.org/events | 2420813

February 14-21

Sweet Heart Virtual Run

Kick off 2021 with a virtual 5k or 10k run on (or near) the day of love! Register at the Fruita Community Center beforehand, and track your run using the fitness app, Strava. There will be prizes for the top finishers!

325 E. Aspen Ave., Fruita | $20-$30 | www.fruita.org/parksrec/page/ seniors | 858-0360

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February 17

Socialize with other seniors virtually on Zoom, chatting and sharing stories about yourself, growing up, your favorite hobbies…you name it! Registration required. 10-11:30 a.m. | www.mesacounty libraries.org | 243-4442

Culture Fest Interview

Go online to hear Elvira Ramirez, who immigrated from Mexico, as a part of Mesa County Libraries’ Culture Fest. 6-7 p.m. | www.youtube.com/user/ yourmcl | 243-4442

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Yoga Posture Lab

Food Bank of the Rockies provides a drive-through distribution of food boxes for Palisade adults 60 and older every third Thursday of the month. Call to see if you qualify. 1-3 p.m. | 120 North River Road, Palisade | 464-1138

February 23

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Practice asymmetrical standing poses at Thrive Yoga Fruita with their Posture Lab Series designed to meet students of all levels. Space is limited; Register in advance. 6-7:30 p.m. | 138 S. Park Square, Fruita | $35 | 349-0302

February 18

Creative Fiber Arts Club

Meet virtually to discuss “Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine” by Gail Honeyman with others who’ve read the book, hosted by Mesa County Libraries. 6:30 p.m. | https://meet.google.com/ uwg-viuy-qvd | 727-310-0074

February 24

Kiva Book Club

February 20

Brahms Viola Trio

Join the Western Slope Concert Series live at The Art Center for Brahms’ engaging and powerful music featuring a trio for viola, cello and piano. 3-5 p.m. | 1803 N. Seventh St., Grand Junction | $15 | 243-7337

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Join others on Google hangouts for a time of crafting and conversation. Bring crochet, knitting, or another favorite art project to work on. Hosted by Mesa County Libraries. 8-9 a.m. | https://meet.google.com/ dkd-vpyh-xqo | 240-617-0087

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Some club meetings may be canceled due to COVID-19 safety measures and restrictions. Please contact organizers to confirm meeting details before attending. American Association of University Women meets monthly. Call for location. 2nd Saturday | 11:30 a.m. | 261-2112

Cups Club meets at The Artful Cup in Grand Junction. Meet people through cards, games, talk and tea. Wednesdays | 2 p.m. | 257-2390

Bookcliff Duplicate Bridge Club plays at Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Grand Junction. Wednesdays & Fridays | 12:45 p.m. | 244-9989

Daughters of the American Revolution, Mount Garfield Chapter, meets monthly. 719-580-0948

Citizens’ Climate Lobby meets monthly online via Zoom. Check their Facebook page for details and contact info. 250-4832 | grandjunction@citizesclimatelobby.org | facebook.com/ CCLGJ Clifton Book Club meets virtually on February 9 to discuss “The Secrets of Love Story Bridge” by Phaedra Patrick. Register online. 2nd Tuesday | 8-9 a.m. | www. mesacountylibraries.org Colorado Archaeological Society Grand Junction meets monthly. Call for location. 2nd Monday | 6:30-9 p.m. | 4334312 | www.meetup.com/CAS-GJ/ events Crafting Club meets at Clifton Library. 3rd Tuesday | 2-3 p.m. | 434-6936 Cribbage Lite meets at IHOP. Tuesdays | 5:30 p.m. | 201-7823

Fleet Reserve Association meets at VFW #3981 in Grand Junction. All former, retired and active sea service, U.S. Navy, Marines or Coast Guard are welcome. 2nd Wednesday | 7 p.m. | 434-0868 Friendship Force meets at First Baptist Church in Grand Junction. 3rd Thursday | 6:15 p.m. | 778-6191 | www.ffwcolo.com Gem & Mineral Club meets at 2328 Monument Road in Grand Junction. 2nd Thursday, 7 p.m. | 4th Thursday, 6:30 p.m. | grandjunctionrockclub@gmail.com Golden K Kiwanis meets at the Redlands Community Center. Wednesdays | 9-10 a.m. | facebook. com/gjgoldenk Grand Junction Petroleum & Mining Club meets at Two Rivers Convention Center. 3rd Thursday | 6:30 p.m. | www. grandjunctionpmc.com Grand Junction Toastmasters

meets at The Commons of Hilltop Garden Room in Grand Junction. Tuesdays | 6:45 a.m. | 361-1806

Mesa County Genealogical Society meets at various locations. www.mesacountygenealogy.org

Grand Valley Pets Alive meets at Church of the Nativity in Grand Junction. 3rd Wednesday | 4:30-6 p.m. | 462-7554

Newcomers Club meets at First Christian Church in Grand Junction. 2nd Wednesday | 9:30 a.m. | 549-0440 | www.gjnewcomers.org

Grand Valley Woodcarvers meets at Redlands Methodist Church. 1st & 3rd Wednesdays, 6 p.m. | 2nd & 4th Wednesdays, 1 p.m. | 245-8817 or 257-1549 Grand Valley Woodturners meets at Redlands Methodist Church. 2nd Tuesday | 7 p.m. | 245-8817 or 856-3632 Great Old Broads for Wilderness, Grand Junction Area Chapter, meets monthly. Call for details. 596-8510 Guys’ Giving Club meets quarterly at Springhill Suites in Grand Junction. Members donate $100 at each meeting and are invited to nominate a local charity to receive the evening’s total contributions. 1st Tuesdays in February, May, August, November | 5:15 p.m. | 243-8829 or 270-6184 Knights of Columbus #1062 typically meets at St. Joseph Catholic Church Parish Hall in Grand Junction. 2nd Thursday | 6:30 p.m. | 261-1952 Knitting Club meets at Community of Christ Church in Grand Junction. 4th Tuesday | 6:30-8 p.m. | 623-1455

Not Going Quietly meets at Center for Spiritual Living Grand Junction. This group creates a space of empowerment, grace, community and wisdom for those age 60 and older. 2nd & 4th Tuesdays | 1:30-3:30 p.m. | 433-7799 Orchard Mesa Lions Club meets twice monthly. Call for location. 1st & 3rd Monday | 7 p.m. | 208-9228 River City Singles meet regularly at Canyon View Park in Grand Junction. These young-at-heart adults get together for activities throughout the month. Fridays | $20/year | 210-2390 Rotary Club of Grand Junction meets weekly at the Bookcliff Country Club. Wednesdays | 12-1:15 p.m. | 234-5030 Senior Social Club meets February 8 and 22 on Zoom via Mesa County Libraries to chat and share stories. Register online for video link. 2nd & 4th Mondays | 10-11:30 a.m. | 243-4442 | www.mesacountylibrar ies.org Sons of Norway, Vestafjell Lodge, meets at Shepherd of the Valley Lu-

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Western Colorado Amateur Radio Club meets at the Civil Patrol Hangar, 2868 Aviators Way. 2nd Saturday | 9:30 a.m. | www.w0rrz.org

Western Colorado Astronomy Club meets at Mesa County Libraries’ Central Branch. 1st Tuesday | 6 p.m. | 201-2865 | www.wcacastronomy.org

Sweet Adelines International, Grand Mesa A Capella Chorus, rehearses at Redlands United Methodist Church. Currently, meetings are held over Zoom. Call for an invite. Mondays | 6:30-9 p.m. | 256-9763 | www.grandmesaacappella.com

Western Colorado Decorative Artists meets at First Congregational Church in Grand Junction. 2nd Saturday | 9 a.m. | 640-2751 Western Slope Coin Club meets at VFW #1247 in Grand Junction. 4th Tuesday | Free currency evaluation at 5:30 p.m. | Meeting at 6:30 p.m. | 250-7036

Talk of the Town Toastmasters meets weekly. Call for location. Thursdays | 12 p.m. | 361-1806 Thunder Mountain Camera Club meets at Western Colorado Community College, Building B. 4th Tuesday | 7 p.m. | www. thundermountaincameraclub.org

Western Slope Liberty Toastmasters meets at Chronos Builders in Grand Junction. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays | 6:30-8 p.m. | 361-1806

Two Rivers Cribbage Club meets at Grand Junction Masonic Center. Thursdays | 261-1670

Wheels West Car Club meets at the Whitman Center, Museum of Western Colorado. 1st Saturday | 9 a.m. | www.wheels westcarclub.org

Veterans Coffee Club meets weekly at Western Region One Source, 482 28 Road, Grand Junction. Tuesdays | 8:30-10:30 a.m. | 257-3760

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Who was your first crush? Fred Schwartz - Grand Junction “Marian Hoffman. Her family lived next door. Our mothers were best friends and they often put us in the playpen together. Then, when we got a little older, Marian and I walked to school together. She was a sweet girl and a good friend.”

Susan Smith - Grand Junction “My first crush was when I was in the second grade. I don’t remember his name, but he kissed me on my head at recess after I got hit by a ball. He definitely took the pain away!”

Jim Moe - Grand Junction “I grew up in a small South Dakota town of just 500 people and had a crush on a classmate in first grade named Marsha. Although she still lives in South Dakota, we continue to be friends to this day via Facebook and Christmas cards.”

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MeSa County Volunteers needed: Write notes for our military men and women Operation Interdependence (OI) is in dire need of handwritten notes from community members to accompany care packages to military men and women. Drop notes off at any of Randy’s Southside Diner location, Overhead Door Company, the UPS Store on 12th and Patterson, or the OI office at 2695 Patterson Road. The troops certainly appreciate receiving these notes. Email carley@oidelivers.org if you need someone to pick them up. St. Mary’s receives “A” in patient safety SCL Health St. Mary’s Hospital was recently awarded its seventh consecutive “A” rating from the Leapfrog Group’s Fall 2020 Hospital Safety Grade. Hospitals that make the top “A” grade have proven their ability to make every effort

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space in the 970West Studio. Apply at www.mesacountylibraries.org. Veterinarians open new animal hospital; offers fear-free pet care Local veterinarians Dr. Mark Ryan and Dr. Justin Seely along with Certified Veterinarian Technician Miranda Schroeder recently opened Monument View Veterinary Hospital, located at 1673 US Highway 50, Unit A, in Grand Junction. The practice specializes in small animal medicine and offers fear-free, pet-friendly techniques. Together, the team has over 55 years of veterinary experience. Open seven days a week, Monument View Veterinary Hospital also provides house calls, at-home euthanasia, and eventually telemedicine. The hospital is equipped to provide chemotherapy, digital dental x-rays and exceptional pain management. Schedule an appointment by calling 644-5552.

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Community Hospital diabetes program earns Joint Commission’s Gold Seal of Approval Community Hospital’s diabetes program underwent a rigorous review, where a team of Joint Commission reviewers evaluated compliance with the hospital’s diabetes education program standards including: environment of care, leadership, medication management, and rights and responsibilities of the individual. For more information about the array of services offered at Community Hospital, visit www. YourCommunityHospital.com. Grand Junction Senior Theatre posts free variety show online In lieu of a spring production (postponed due to COVID-19), Grand Junction Senior Theatre produced an hour-long virtual variety show that can be viewed online

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at no charge. View it on YouTube by searching “The Grand Junction Senior Theatre” or call 234-1828 for more information. Free tax preparation through AARP Starting February 1, the AARP TaxAide group offers free 2020 state and federal tax return preparation at the following locations through April 15. For more information, call 589-3789. • Well Fargo Bank annex, 359 Main St., Grand Junction: 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays • Wells Fargo Bank (downstairs), 2808 North Ave., Grand Junction: 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays Gem and Mineral Club seeks vendors for March craft show Grand Junction Gem and Mineral Club is seeking vendors for an outdoor Arts and Crafts Show on Saturday, March 27, 2021 from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. To apply, call 250-9128 or 434-3033. New quilting classes in Grand Junction Quilters Inspiration, located at 200 W. Grand Ave., Grand Junction, offers multiple quilting classes throughout the month. Classes are open to up to eight students with over six feet between each table, and offers quality cotton fabric, notions and gifts. Beginner quilting classes are offered every calendar quarter. Call 549-4482 or email quiltersinspiration@gmail.com for more information on classes or supplies, or visit www.quiltersinspiration.com. Curbside delivery and shipping are available. ■

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Did you know that the benefits of volunteering We would can be huge? for Volunteeryou to ing can reduce stress, combat depression, keep you mentally volunteer with us!stimulatVOLUNTEERS ed, and provide a sense of purpose. While offering vital help to people WANTED St. Mary’s Senior Companion volunteers are vibrant, excited-toin need, you can build relationships, connect with the community, learn Mesa County RSVP connects be-plugged-in adults age 55+ who enjoy helping people and the individuals 55 and olderbe to happier! new skills, and company of others. volunteer positions in any of our member agencies. Call 243-9839, ext. 5

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When you join us as a Seniormodest Companion or Foster Grandparent volunnon-taxable stipend to our fixed-income volunteers in Food Bank of the Rockies teer, you will time and attention to seniors at home volunteers assist in a give variety much-needed of exchange for a minimum of 6 hours/week commitment. You get areas. Shifts available Monday or children the you get so stipend muchwon’t back, too!retirement You'll to setbut your schedule and the affect other through Friday at 8in a.m. and classroom, afternoons at 1 p.m. with hugs, smiles, appreciation, be rewarded great conversation and or disability benefits! Call 464-1138 | www. seeing someone you care about grow. We’d love to help you figure out foodbankrockies.org/westernOther perks are ongoing training, mileage reimbursement, and slope-volunteer where you’d fit in. building great friendships! Operation Interdependence needs volunteers to hand-write notes for care packages sent to U.S. military men and women. Call 523-4217 | carley@ oidelivers.org

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MOPS Kids (Mothers of Preschoolers) volunteers watch children for several hours a month during MOPS meetings at Canyon View Vineyard Church 2nd & 4th Wednesdays | 9-11:30 a.m. | 549-6637 Palisade Historical Society welcomes volunteers who like to share the history of Palisade, and/or work on various committees and projects. Email pbwalker630@acsol.net Foster Grandparents are needed in nonprofit school classrooms throughout Mesa County. Applicants must be age 55+ and may be eligible for a taxfree stipend. Call 298-9092 Senior Companions 55+ provide friendship and drive homebound seniors to errands and appointments. Call 298-9092 Mesa County Spellbinders tell stories to students in kindergarten through fifth grade once a month during the school year. Call 243-7303

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Some support group meetings may be canceled due to COVID-19 safety measures and restrictions. Please contact organizers to confirm meeting details before attending. Caregiver Connections meets at the Miller Homestead at HopeWest, 3090 N. 12th St. Tuesdays | 10-11:30 a.m. | 241-2212

one, meets at Clifton Christian Church, 3241 F ¼ Road. Mondays | 6:30-8:30 p.m. | 628-1453

Caregiver Support Group meets at Cappella Grand Junction, 628 261/2 Road. Call to RSVP. 1st Thursday | 1:30-3 p.m. | 822-7070 Come Back Yoga is open to veterans and their caregivers at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road. Wednesdays | 2:15-3:15 p.m. | 257-3764 Compassionate Friends offers friendship and understanding to bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents at Unity Church. 1st Tuesday | 7-8:30 p.m. | 434-3822 COPD Support Group meets at 581 Grand Valley Drive. 4th Friday | 2 p.m. | 317-7556 | jimcampbell3@aol.com Gamblers Anonymous’ 12-step meeting is held at The Meeting Hall, 1938 N. First St. in Grand Junction. Tuesdays | 7-8 p.m. | 917-363-3719 GriefShare, a nondenominational Christ-based support group for those mourning the death of a loved

Grief Group for Pets meets at Roice-Hurst Humane Society, 362 28 Road. 2nd Wednesday, bi-monthly | 6-7 p.m. | 434-7337, ext. 103 Head & Neck Cancer Support Group meets at Colorado West Otolaryngologists, 2643 Patterson Road, #503 (St. Mary’s Hospital). 1st Tuesday | 6:30-8 p.m. | 245-2400 Healing Hands Hour meets in St. Mary’s Hospital’s Reflection Room. Thursdays | 12-1 p.m. | 298-2351 HEARTBEAT/Survivors After Suicide meets at First Congregational Church, 1425 N 5th St., Grand Junction. 3rd Tuesday | 7-9 p.m. | 778-9274 Job Searching After 50 Networking Group meets at Mesa County Workforce Center. You must register as a job seeker at www. connectingcolorado.com. 1st & 3rd Thursdays | 8:30-10 a.m. | 248-7560 Leukemia, Lymphoma & Myeloma Support Group meets monthly in St. Mary’s Hospital’s Reflection Room.

3rd Monday | 4-5 p.m. | 298-2351 MACHO Men cancer support group meets at the VA Medical Center In-Patient Dining Room, 2121 North Ave. 1st Thursday | 2 p.m. | 298-2351 Mending Hearts is for any adult who has experienced the death of a loved one. Call for location. Thursdays | 2-3:30 p.m. | 257-2390 Mindful Pain Management meets at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road. Fridays | 1 p.m. | 257-3764 MS Breakfast Group meets at Village Inn, 757 Horizon Drive. 1st Tuesday | 9 a.m. | 985-4935 National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) meets at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Fruita. 4th Tuesday | 6-7:30 p.m. | www.NAMIWS.org | 462-3989 Not Going Quietly, a space of empowerment, community and grace for adults 60+, meets at the Center for Spiritual Living. 2nd Tuesday | 1:30-3:30 p.m. | www. cslgj.org | 433-7799 Parents of Addicted Loved Ones meets at First Presbyterian Church, 3940 27 1/2 Road. Thursdays | 6:30 p.m. | 379-5786 PTSD Support Group meets at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road. Tuesdays | 10:30 a.m. | 257-3764

TOPS Club weight-loss support group meets at Grace Point Church, 606 28 3/4 Road. Wednesdays | 9 a.m. | 523-0243 Veteran Coffee Club meets at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road. Wednesdays | 8:30-10:30 a.m. | 257-3764 Veteran Peer Support meets weekly at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road. Wednesdays | 2-3 p.m. | 257-3764 Veteran Spouses Grief and Loss ladies-only support group meets at the Grand Junction Veterans Memorial Cemetery. Wednesdays | 9-10:30 a.m. | 263-8986 Woman to Woman cancer support group meets in St. Mary’s Hospital’s Reflection Room. 3rd Thursday | 4:30-5:30 p.m. | 298-2351 Yoga For Life meets at the St. Mary’s Life Center Aerobics Room. Tuesdays | 5:30-6:45 p.m. | 298-2351 Yoga for Military Members, hosted at Western Region One Source, offers a free beginner yoga class for military members and their family. Wednesdays | 2:30-3:30 p.m. | 257-3760. ■

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Kick off 2021 with a virtual 5K or 10K run on (or near) the day of love! Register at the Fruita Community Center beforehand, and track your run using the fitness app, Strava. There will be prizes for the top finishers! February 14-21 | $20-$30

GAMES Bingo for Fun

Join others on Zoom for an afternoon of Bingo fun! Email Jacqui or call the Fruita Community Center for the invite link. 2:30 p.m. Thursdays | jfoster@ fruita.org

Strengthen muscles and increase range of movement. A chair can be used for seated exercises or standing support. 11:30 a.m.-12:15 p.m. Tuesdays | Fruita Community Center

Senior Hikes

Hikers are asked to remain at least six-feet apart on the trail. Due to the statewide mandate, masks are required while together for group talks. Preregistration is required. 1 p.m. | Wednesdays & Fridays | $5

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Circuit training for seniors with flexibility exercises. 11:30 a.m.-12:15 p.m. Thursdays | Fruita Community Center

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Some events may be canceled or rescheduled due to COVID-19 safety measures and restrictions. Please contact event organizers to confirm event details before attending.

February 2

ARTbar: Cactus and Cabernet

Create a colorful cactus on a canvas at the Sherbino Theater with the help of step-by-step instructions. Cost includes all materials, a drink and going home with your own painting! 6-8 p.m. | 604 Clinton St., Ridgway | $40 | www.sherbino. org | 318-0892

February 4

Black Canyon Afternoon Ski

Meet at Black Canyon of the Gunnison’s South Rim Visitor Center and be ready to ski with the Mesa Nordic Masters. Email with questions. 4:30-5:30 p.m. | Free | caryl_ brown@yahoo.com

Watercolor Wednesdays

Bring your art supplies and escape today’s turmoil at the Montrose Center for the Arts with instructor Jodine Broscovak. Register online as space is limited. 1-4 p.m. | 11 S. Park Ave., Montrose | $35 | www.mc4arts.com | 787-9428

Fly Tying 101

The Montrose Anglers hosts a four-week class teaching multiple techniques. All tools and materials provided. Space is limited; sign up in advance. 6-8 p.m. | $100 | 309 E. Main St., Montrose | 249-0408

7 a.m.- 12:30 p.m. | 2201 S. Townsend Ave., Montrose | Free | www.noregretsconference.org | 240-9099

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Discuss “Finding Dorothy” by Elizabeth Letts with others who’ve read the book virtually on Zoom. Email lmclean@montroselibrary.org for the link. 9-10 a.m. | www.montroselibrary. org/events | 249-9656 ext. 3

Support your local farmer’s market every other weekend outdoors on S. Uncompahgre Ave., between Main and S. First streets. 10 a.n.-1 p.m. | 433 S. First St., Montrose | Free

No Regrets Men’s Conference Join the men of Western Colorado at Calvary Chapel in Montrose for the free annual No Regrets Men’s Conference. Come early for a delicious breakfast, followed by a video streaming of the event.

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Magic Circle Players presents “My Funny Valentine”

Grab a friend or significant other and enjoy this humorous local production on the weekend of love. Dine out at The Stone House afterwards, and ask for the “My Funny Valentine Special!” 7:30 p.m. Fri & Sat./ 2 p.m. Sun. | 420 S. 12th St., Montrose | $18 | www. MagicCirclePlayers.com | 249-7838

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Montrose Winter Market

Head over to Amazing Glaze to relax, have fun, and paint a new creation with friends or your special someone! 6:30-9 p.m. | 209 E. Main St., Montrose | 252-7225

February 14

Valentine’s Dinner

Meet at My Place for a romantic dinner for two. Dinner includes your choice of prime rib, veggies, salad and dessert with complimentary champagne and soft music. 6:30-9 p.m. | $50 per couple or $27 per person | 1410 Valley View Dr., Delta | 874-3130

February 13

Art Session at TADA

TADA Your Art Space hosts a session “Finding Freedom Creating in 2021” to experiment with colors, patterns, scale and imagery with instructor Jean Stortz. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. | $15 | 459 Main St., Delta | 763-607-7448

February 16

ARTbar: Valentine’s Trees

Bring a significant other or friend to paint these perfectly fitting trees. Cost includes all materials, two drinks and going home with your own masterpiece! 6-8 p.m. | 604 Clinton St., Ridgway | $45 | www.sherbino.org | 318-0892

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Vancouver International Mountain Film Festival

Join us virtually to enjoy 50 films, interactive workshops, panel discussions and discover new documentaries about climbing, snow sports and more! $7 per film, $15 show compilations or $75-$95 festival pass | www.vimff.org

February 20

Mardi Gras at My Place

My Place invites all Mardi Gras fans to a nigh of fun, specialty drinks, and the chance to wear your best Mardi Gras outfit! 9 p.m. | 1410 Valley View Dr., Delta | 874-3130

February 23

Virtual Candlelight Yoga

Colorado Yoga House hosts virtual yoga classes daily. Join instructor Melissa Lowe Tuesday night for a hatha flow great for all levels in the soothing ambient of candlelight. 5:30-6:30 p.m. | $15 | www.colo radoyogahouse.com | 462-9977 ■

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Montrose Amateur Radio Club meets at the Olathe Community Center. 3rd Friday | 7 p.m. | 417-6142

Alpine Photography Club meets at Colorado Mesa University’s Montrose Campus, classroom 100. 2nd Tuesday | 7-9 p.m. | apcmont roseco@gmail.com

Montrose Area Woodturners meets at 520 Collins Way in Montrose. 2nd Saturday | 9 a.m. to noon | 986-2550 | lvcribbs@charter.net

Black Canyon Barbershop Chorus sings four-part a cappella at Olathe United Methodist Church. Thursdays | 7-8:30 p.m. | 765-7020 Black Canyon Woodcarvers meets weekly at the Montrose Senior Center. Thursdays | 10 a.m.-12 p.m. | 323-5860 Book Club meets virtually through the Montrose Regional Library. 1st Saturday | 9-10 a.m. | lmclean@ montroselibrary.org Citizens Climate Lobby meets monthly at the Montrose Library. 240-9146 | montrose@citizens

climatelobby.org | www.citizens climatelobby.org Crafternoon members meet in the Montrose Library’s meeting room. Members knit and crochet projects, which they donate to various charities. Supplies are provided. Experienced crafters will help beginners. 1st, 2nd & 3rd Wednesdays | 2:30-4:30 p.m. | 249-9656 Delta Hubwheelers Square Dance Club is seeking new dancers. Call if interested in future square dancing classes. 7-9 p.m. | 773-4495 | deltawriter 47@gmail.com Friendship Quilters of Western Colorado meet monthly at Friendship Hall at the Montrose County Fairgrounds. 4th Thursday | 9 a.m. | 417-4842

Montrose Elks hosts bingo at the Montrose Elks Lodge, 801 S. Hillcrest Drive. Tuesdays | 6:30 p.m. | 249-4852 Montrose Pavilion Dance Club has canceled dances at the Montrose Pavilion due to the COVID-19 pandemic. When they resume, dancers of all ages are welcome. 2nd & 4th Saturdays | $5 | 7:30-11 p.m. | 252-7172 San Juan Dance Club offers eight styles of dance lessons at the Lions

Clubhouse in Montrose. Singles are welcome. Thursdays | 6:30-9:30 p.m. | 2529600 | patdouglas213@yahoo.com Sons of Norway, Vestafjell Lodge, meets monthly at Shepherd of the Valley Lutheran Church in Grand Junction. 1:30 p.m. | 245-5649 | www. vestafjelllodge.org Veteran Coffee Club meets at Western Region One Source, 428 28 Road in Grand Junction. Wednesdays | 8:30-10:30 a.m. | 2573764 Western Slope 4 Wheelers meets at the Montrose Rod & Gun Club’s indoor range, 1211 6450 Road. 1st Tuesday | 7 p.m. | 209-5326 ■

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TRIPS & TOURS Snowshoeing on Dave Wood Road

Grab your snowshoes, bring a sack lunch and enjoy getting outdoors with others! Location and trip date are subject to change, due to weather or COVID. For those who need assistance, “Pay it Forward” passes are available. Call 252-4884 to inquire. 9:45 a.m.-2 p.m. | February 18 | $15 self-drive

Chair Massage

Call to reserve a 15-minute chair massage by certified massage therapists. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. | February 8 & 23 | Montrose Recreation Center Party Room | $15

VIRTUAL Highway61 helps seniors stay connected

Highway61 is a free platform for seniors that offers real-time discussions, games and support groups all throughout the day. Live discussions offered include classic movies, opera, music hour, travel, bingo, trivia, as well as support groups for aging alone, grief and chronic illness. Create an account at www.highway61.co and find upcoming discussions.

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Call to reserve a 20-minute treatment with certified reflexologist Cheryl Adams. 8:30 a.m.-12 p.m. | February 12 | Montrose Recreation Center Party Room | $15

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Some events may be canceled or rescheduled due to COVID-19 safety measures and restrictions. Please contact event organizers to confirm event details before attending. Sharing Ministries in immediate need of volunteer drivers Sharing Ministries Food Bank , 49 N. First St. in Montrose, has an immediate need for volunteer drivers to pick-up food from local retailers. If you have a couple of hours to spare in the mornings, your assistance would be most appreciated. Please contact Oneda Doyal 240-

8385 for more information. Montrose seeks feedback on Woodgate Road plans The City of Montrose is poised to begin the realignment of Woodgate Road, one of the largest capital projects of 2021. The design of the project is being finalized and the city is looking for public feedback

to fine-tune the work. The project would connect Woodgate Road at its northern end to East Oak Grove Road along the eastern side of Townsend Avenue. This connection aims to relieve heavy traffic congestion in the area and give an alternative to Townsend Avenue, especially for local residents. The city formally started on the design of this realignment project in early 2020. The road will include a center turn lane, bike lanes in each direction, and a sidewalk along the eastern side. The design of the

project is currently being finalized while the city solicits public feedback. Comments may be directed to City Engineer Scott Murphy at 901-1792 or by email to smurphy@ cityofmontrose.org. Construction is scheduled for completion by the end of 2021. Delta Chamber of Commerce seeks hosts The Delta Area Chamber of Commerce is looking for businesses to host its monthly Business After Hours events. They prefer businesses that either have not hosted

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Frontline health care workers at Delta County Memorial Hospital (DCMH) made history December 17, 2020, as the first people in Delta County to receive the COVID-19 vaccine. Gwen Eslinger, a DCMH Surgical Tech, was met with a room full of applause after receiving the first dose. Eslinger was one of 175 frontline health care workers at DCMH who signed up for the first round of vaccines. The first delivery of the Pfizer vaccine provided roughly 46,800 vaccine doses to Coloradans and DCMH was allocated 330 doses of the vaccine. In addition to hospital employees, DCMH will reach out to non-DCMH medical clinics and ambulances in Delta County to administer vaccinations to their frontline health care workers. DCMH is administering their vaccines in cohorts and is monitoring those receiving the vaccine closely to ensure the overall safety and well-being of their staff. More information on the vaccine, timelines of vaccine allocation, and other resources can be found online at covid19.colorado.gov/vaccine.

in the past two years, or that partner with a nonprofit. The chamber is also looking for women in business who would be interested in hosting the Women in Business regularly scheduled events. If anyone is interested in either opportunity, contact the Chamber by email at chamber@deltacolorado.org or call 874-8616. Colorado Artists create age-positive birthday cards The anti-ageism group Changing the Narrative is making birthday card shopping fun again, producing “age-positive” cards. A contest attracted submissions from over 60 Colorado artists resulting in 23 winning birthday card designs to be part of a collection of age-positive cards. Changing the Narrative challenges the notion perpetuated in many birthday cards that with each year older adults become weak, deaf, forgetful and crabby. In an effort to be humorous, some of the cards portray older adults as bench-sitting curmudgeons, boozy women in wheel-chairs, flatulent grandparents, or lecherous old men. But ageism isn’t funny, it’s harmful. For more information on how to support older adults and local artists through these birthday cards, visit www.changingthenarrativeco.org. ■

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES Sharing Ministries Food Bank in Montrose seeks dedicated volunteers for three hours, one day a week. Call 240-8385 Senior CommUnity Meals needs volunteer delivery drivers to help seniors in Delta and Montrose counties. www.seniorcommunitymeals.org | 874-7661 Friends of Montrose Library seeks volunteers to sort donated books, run book sales and serve on its board of directors. Meetings are held once a month. Call 249-9656 Habitat for Humanity of the San Juans seeks volunteers to help at its ReStore or at its construction sites. Call 252-9303 Time Bank of the Rockies is a Montrose-based nonprofit that helps people through a system of exchanged services. Call 209-6886 Museum of the Mountain West seeks volunteer tour guides to bring the past to life for visitors. Call 240-3400

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Who was your first crush? Diana Herrera - Montrose “In 1962, the song ‘Norman’ came out. I was in the seventh grade and had the biggest crush on Norman and wrote his name on the side of my catechism book—still have it, too! I would sing that song all the time. Now when I hear that song, I just smile and remember Norman.”

Gary Tracy - Montrose “I remember sweet Mary. She kissed me on the school bus when we were in the second grade. I was so sad when she and her family moved away.”

Gene Lillard - Olathe “When I was in Cedaredge Elementary, I had a crush on one of my classmates. She was a skinny rancher’s daughter who had braces on her teeth and wore funny glasses. We went on to become high school sweethearts. Years later, I put a ring on Deb’s finger and we’ve been happily married for 45 years.”

Laura Morris - Delta “My very first crush was on Matt Ketchum in the third grade. He gave me a cute little bear claw ring with turquoise in it. One day, during recess, he was chasing me and grabbed my foot. I fell down and sprained my left arm really badly. I was so upset that I flushed his ring down the toilet!”

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THIS PANDEMIC WASN’T ON OUR BUCKET LIST. WE’VE NEVER EXPERIENCED ANYTHING LIKE IT, AND WE’RE FINDING OURSELVES NUMBER ONE IN THE WORST POSSIBLE WAY. horrific last few months. So many times I’ve heard people say that they’re only one person; what can they do? Well, I can name several individuals who changed the world—Gandhi, Mandela, Mother Teresa, John Lewis. We, your “average” Americans, must imitate and become in small ways like such people. “It’s all my husband and I can do not to kill each other!” cried my neighbor, whose husband has been constantly home since March, “And you’re telling us to model ourselves after them? Are you crazy? We’ve already become Alexander Hamilton and Aaron Burr!” “With kindness, you can pull an elephant by a hair.” If only those simple, wise words could be tattooed on every peacemakers’ forehead. Then, maybe the abrasive, bitter and abusive people they encounter would be deterred from their destructive ways. Elephants are known for their intelligence, but are we? In the spirit of the new year, I can only pray that we can do one better—toss in compassion with kindness, too! To tell you the truth, I think it’s harder to be hateful than to try to be happy. So, like the song says, “Make it easy on yourselves.” ■

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