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04 SECRETS TO BAKING SUCCESS TIPS FOR HOLIDAY COOKING

05 RECIPES FOR A CROWD PERFECTLY FESTIVE BRIE, BISCOTTI, AND CROSTINI APPETIZER RECIPES

10 GIFTS FOR HOME COOKS 6 GREAT IDEAS FOR FOOD LOVERS

12 SIMPLIFY HOLIDAY HOSTING MAKE IT A STRESS-FREE HOLIDAY

14 GIFTS THAT PAMPER IDEAS TO PAMPER AND REJUVENATE

30 THE GIFT OF EXPERIENCE OUT-OF-THE-BOX EXCITEMENT

32 THAT'S A WRAP UNIQUE WRAPPING IDEAS

38 HARD TO BUY FOR IDEAS FOR THAT ONE PERSON ON EVERYONE'S LIST

40 REMEMBER WHEN 18 WAYS TO MAKE LASTING HOLIDAY MEMORIES

42 HOLIDAY GRATUITIES TIPS ON TIPPING

16 FESTIVE TREE TRIMMING TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

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18 HISTORY OF STOCKINGS FROM WITCHES TO CLOGS, THE STORY BEHIND CHRISTMAS STOCKINGS

20 OUR FAVORITE MAINE GIFTS WE'RE SHARING THE BEST IDEAS ON OUR LIST FOR LOCALLY MADE GIFTS

28 CHRISTMAS MOVIE QUIZ NAME THAT HOLIDAY MOVIE QUOTE

44 BLENDING CELEBRATIONS BLENDED FAMILIES HAVE ADDITIONAL FACTORS TO CONSIDER AS THE HOLIDAYS ARRIVE

46 COOLEST TOYS THE 2017 HOT LIST

48 LETTERS TO SANTA TIPS FOR THE PERFECT LETTER

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Secrets to

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SUC CESS TIPS FOR COOKING UP SUCCESSFUL HOLIDAY BAKING.

Baking

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is popular come the holiday season, when baked goods are often gifted or shared with family and friends at holiday gatherings. Individuals turn out sweet treats left and right, and these treats are often gobbled up by appreciative holiday revelers.

Although some people have mastered baked goods, others can benefit from a few tricks of the trade. Utilize these tips to make holiday baking that much easier.

• OVERWORKED COOKIE DOUGH MAY RESULT IN DRY COOKIES. Try not to handle dough more than is necessary to roll it out to desired thickness. When rolling the dough, put it between two pieces of waxed paper to reduce flour usage on the rolling pin.

• When baking brownies or other bar-type cookies, LINE THE INSIDE OF THE PAN WITH GREASED ALUMINUM FOIL. This way you can lift out the dessert and cut it neatly instead of risking sticking.

• DOUBLE-CHECK YOUR OVEN TEMPERATURE with a reliable thermometer to make sure it is accurate. This will help you bake more efficiently and adjust the time or temperature accordingly.

• MANY COOKIE DOUGHS CAN BE REFRIGERATED OR EVEN FROZEN, so you can make a big batch and then spread out your baking as needed throughout the season.

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• The same technique can be used when baking cookies. LINE COOKIE SHEETS WITH PARCHMENT PAPER and bake as directed. The cookies should slide right off when done, and you won’t have messy pans to wash afterward.

Cranberry Honey BAKED BRIE STORY & PHOTOS BY SARAH WALKER CARON

Sweet,

tart, creamy and lovely … this recipe for Cranberry Honey Baked Brie is a delight to share at holiday parties.

Warm, melty brie combines with warm cranberry sauce and sweet honey for a decadent appetizer that feels fancy.

But really, it’s pretty simple. Just three ingredients that together to make something creamy, sweet and tart, perfect for enjoying with fresh apple slices, bread or whatever you want. Serve it with a knife to help folks get that cheesy goodness.

It won’t take long to make. You can use homemade cranberry sauce, or store bought. And whatever honey you keep on hand.

And enjoy. Wishing you the happiest of holidays, whatever holiday you celebrate.

CRANBERRY HONEY BAKED BRIE AUTHOR: SARAH WALKER CARON SERVES: 8-10 INGREDIENTS 8 oz wheel Brie cheese ½ cup whole berry cranberry sauce 1-2 tbsp honey FOR SERVING: Bread, crostini, crackers, sliced apples or a combination thereof INSTRUCTIONS Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.

Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and place the Brie on it.

Top with cranberry sauce. Bake for 7-10 minutes until the Brie is soft.

Transfer Brie to a serving plate. Drizzle with honey.

Serve with your choice of dippers — like bread, crostini, crackers or sliced apples.

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Chocolate Pistachio BISCOTTI

BY SARAH WALKER CARON

years, I have been making a variety of Christmas treats to gift to our near and dear friends and family. And one of my very favorites to gift is biscotti. These little cookies are perfect served with a piping hot cup of coffee.

This is the kind of food gift you give to the friend you love lingering over conversation with — because it’s perfect for that.

Making biscotti is a process. You start with the dough. This isn’t as simple as tossing ingredients together though. It needs to be kneaded together with care — this will take a few minutes, and you must be patient. Keep working with it until it forms a cohesive ball. Then you roll it into a log and pat it down.

Next comes the first bake (yes, biscotti has to bake twice). The first time you bake it, it cooks the ingredients so they meld together into a loaf. But it doesn’t become biscotti until you slice it into strips and re-bake it. Then it crisps into that delightful cookie that’s perfect to serve with coffee (be sure to dip it!).

Dotted with chocolate chips and bits of green pistachios, it’s a treat. Package some biscotti in festive bags or boxes to give this holiday season.

CHOCOLATE PISTACHIO BISCOTTI AUTHOR: SARAH WALKER CARON RECIPE TYPE: Dessert SERVES: 24 pieces INGREDIENTS 2 cups all-purpose flour ½ cup sugar 1 tsp baking soda ½ tsp salt ½ cup mini chocolate chips ½ cup pistachio meats, chopped 3 large eggs 1 tsp vanilla extract INSTRUCTIONS Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

In a large bowl, sift together the flour, sugar, baking soda and salt until well combined. Stir in the chocolate chips and pistachios.

In a small bowl, beat together the eggs and vanilla extract. Pour into the dry mixture and stir until

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combined. The mixture will be crumbly but should be moistened.

Turn the dough out onto a floured board and knead well for 2-3 minutes, until the dough comes together in a cohesive ball. Shape the dough into a 12-inch log and transfer to a parchment paperlined baking sheet. Flatten the dough to 1-inch-thick.

Slide the baking sheet into the oven and bake for 30 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack and cool for 10 minutes.

Reduce the oven to 325 degrees.

Slice the biscotti into ½-inch thick pieces on the diagonal. Place on the baking sheet and bake for 7-8 minutes per side, flipping once.

Transfer the biscotti pieces to a cooling rack and cool completely.

Store in an airtight container and enjoy within a week.

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9 Ideas for Easy CROSTINI APPETIZERS

BY SARAH WALKER CARON

Need

something quick for your holiday festivities? Why not make some easy crostini. With so many options for topping them, crostini can be a tasty offering for any gathering.

But, first, what is it?

Crostini sounds impressive but really it’s a fancy word for something that’s just somewhere between toast and a crouton. If you like bread (and crackers), this is for you.

And ultimately, crostini is a vessel for delicious toppings. It can be fancier like the Sage Ricotta Crostini with Sugared Cranberries I shared a few weeks back, or it can be simple like the ideas below.

Ready to make some? This is a simple process of brushing slices of bread with oil, seasoning and baking.

About

SARAH WALKER CARON is a Bangor-based food writer, a senior editor for the Bangor Daily News, and editor of Bangor Metro magazine. She is author of Sarah’s Cucina Bella food blog (www.sarahscucinabella.com) and a cookbook: “Grains as Mains: Modern Recipes Using Ancient Grains.”

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HOW TO MAKE CROSTINI AUTHOR: SARAH WALKER CARON SERVES: 8-12 INGREDIENTS 1 French baguette, sliced into ¼-inch slices Olive oil Salt and pepper, to taste INSTRUCTIONS Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Arrange the bread slices on a baking sheet (or two, if necessary), and brush with olive oil. Sprinkle with salt and pepper. Bake for 10-12 minutes until just beginning to brown.

Remove from the oven and let cool slightly before topping and serving.

Once you’ve made the crostini, it’s time for the fun part: topping it. Here are a few ideas to get you thinking.

EASY IDEAS FOR TOPPING CROSTINI QUICK BRUSCHETTA: Mix together

diced fresh tomatoes with chopped fresh basil, salt and pepper. Spoon onto crostini and drizzle with a touch of balsamic vinegar glaze CAPRESE: Spread basil pesto on

crostini. Top with a slice of fresh mozzarella and fresh tomato Spread with ricotta cheese. Top with chopped kalamata olives, artichoke hearts and roasted red peppers. Sprinkle with salt and pepper.

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RASPBERRY, WALNUT AND GORGONZOLA: Spread with raspberry

preserves, sprinkle with chopped walnuts and crumbled gorgonzola cheese EGG AND ARUGULA: Top with sliced

hard cooked eggs and mound with baby arugula that’s been mixed with a little fresh lemon juice, salt, pepper and olive oil BACON,

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TOMATO:

Mound with prepared egg salad. Top with a grape tomato. Sprinkle with crumbled bacon.

FIG AND PROSCIUTTO: Spread with

fig preserves. Top with baby arugula and a little thinly sliced prosciutto.

MEATBALL MARINARA: Spoon a

little marinara sauce on and top with sliced meatballs. Sprinkle with grated parmesan cheese.

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BARBECUE CHICKEN: Spread with

shredded rotisserie chicken mixed with barbecue sauce. Top with a little coleslaw.

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6 GREAT GIFTS FOR

Home Cooks

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people enjoy preparing homecooked meals for their loved ones. Whether it's a large family gathering during the holiday season or a weeknight meal, men, women and even children who like to cook enjoy the satisfied looks on their loved ones' faces after sharing a delicious meal.

Come the holiday season, gift givers can put the same satisfied look on the faces of the home cooks in their lives by offering a variety of gifts that can make mealtime easier and/or more enjoyable.

2. COOKBOOK: People who understand the joy of cooking often love to experiment in the kitchen. Cookbooks can be an ideal gift for such cooks. Choose a book that provides recipes from their favorite styles of cuisine, such as Italian or Indian food. Or find a book that offers an array of recipes that allows them to explore various types of cuisine.

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1. ELECTRIC CORKSCREW: Nothing complements a good meal quite like an appropriately paired bottle of wine. Cooks who are too busy in the kitchen to utilize traditional corkscrews, which can be time-consuming and messy, might enjoy an electric corkscrew. Such corkscrews quickly remove corks from wine bottles, requiring little effort on the part of already busy cooks.

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For your favorite Foodie, Tiller & Rye sources thousands of products from hundreds of Maine farmers and artisans. Choose from craft beers and wines, artisinal cheeses, freshly baked breads, gourmet sauces, coffees, and so much more. a gift card or ask a loved one which type of cookware he or she prefers. Of course, a covert inspection of a loved one's pantry might provide the insight gift givers need as well.

4. ROLLING PIN: For the person who loves to bake, a rolling pin might make a better gift than noncooks may appreciate. Rolling pins are necessary to prepare many baked goods, and a customizable rolling pin can flatten dough to the exact millimeter, helping bakehappy home cooks prepare the perfect plate of cookies.

5. COOKING CLASS: Cooking classes can make the ideal gift for novice home cooks who are just beginning to explore their love of cooking. But advanced classes can help more seasoned cooks perfect their craft as they learn to prepare more complex dishes.

6. WINE AERATOR: Much like electric corkscrews can make opening bottles of wine much easier, wine aerators can help aerate red wine more quickly than decanters, which can take up to two hours to fully aerate wine.

Aerators oxidate red wine, softening its flavors and bringing out the aromas that can make a great bottle of wine that much more enjoyable.

Home cooks often enjoy preparing fresh meals for their loved ones. The holiday season presents a perfect opportunity to find gifts that make cooking that much more enjoyable for loved ones who can't wait to whip up the next homecooked meal for family and friends.

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Road Map to Simplify HOLI DAY HOST I N G TAKE THE STRESS OUT OF HOSTING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON.

Hosting

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family and friends for the holidays is a tall task. According to the Bureau of Transportation Statistics, during the Christmas/New Year holiday period, the number of long-distance trips (to and from a destination 50 miles or more away) increases by 23 percent compared to the rest of the year. While many of those traveling will stay in hotels, many more will enjoy the hospitality of loved ones.

Holiday hosting can make an already hectic time of year that much busier, as hosts must prepare their homes for guests in the midst of holiday shopping excursions, office Christmas parties and social engagements around the neighborhood and at kids' schools.

Holiday hosting does not have to run hosts ragged in the days leading up to guests' arrival. The following are a handful of ways to simplify holiday hosting.

PLAN MENUS WELL IN ADVANCE OF GUESTS' ARRIVAL. One of the more timeconsuming tasks associated with holiday hosting is cooking. Hosts who plan their holiday menus in advance can get started on prep work several weeks before guests arrive.

Choose dishes that can be prepared in advance and then frozen, so dishes need only be defrosted and cooked once guests arrive.

PLAN A NIGHT OUT. Another way to make hosting friends and family for the holidays less taxing is to plan a night out for everyone. In lieu of cooking at home, dine out at an affordable, family-friendly restaurant before taking everyone to a local holiday light display or event. This gets everyone out of the house and allows hosts to showcase their hometown pride.

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ROTATE HOSTING DUTIES. The holiday season is full of traditions, and some hosts may feel beholden to tradition and offer to host each year. But family traditions are about getting together, not about getting together in a particular place each year.

Families who rotate hosting duties each year can ensure one member of the family does not feel overwhelmed time and time again.

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GIFTS THAT

Pamper & Rejuvenate COURTESY OF METRO NEWS SERVICE

Stress

can be bad for the body, contributing to depression, anxiety, hypertension, and even obesity.

Unfortunately, 47 percent of all Americans say they are concerned with the amount of stress in their lives, according to a survey from the American Psychological Association.

Reducing stress can be especially important during the holiday season, which, thanks in part to its hectic nature, tends to produce extra feelings of stress.

Gifts that pamper, relax and rejuvenate might be the ideal fit for those who need a little rest and relaxation.

• AROMATHERAPY. Studies have shown that aromatherapy, or breathing in certain scents, can trigger reactions in the brain and affect emotions, mood and memory. Specific essential oils can help relieve stress, induce relaxation and even promote better sleep. Scents such as lavender, lemon or yuzu, bergamot, ylang ylang, and jasmine can promote relaxation in many people.

• CANDLES. The combination of subtle, low flickering light and relaxing aromas can make candles soothing gifts. Put together an entire gift package with decorative candle holders or a nice tray on which candles of various heights can be placed.

• PLUSH ROBE. Sometimes lounging around the house is all that's necessary to create a soothing atmosphere. A plush robe that is luxurious and comfortable will help that someone special unwind after a long day or after sleeping in on the weekend.

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IDEAS FOR A STRESS-FREE HOLIDAY.

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• HOME AQUARIUM. Stress can melt away watching underwater life flick and flitter through the aquarium.

Combined with soothing bubbles and the gentle hum and splash of the filter, it is easy to see how having a fish tank in the home can alleviate stress. Make sure the gift recipient is able to care for the fish and select lowmaintenance species.

• BED LINENS. Treat someone special to the gift of added relaxation in the bedroom. Buying bed linens is often a chore and an expense that people put off. Pima cotton, silk, satin, or sateen sheets can be cool, comfortable and soothing.

• FACIAL TREATMENT. A massage session can be relaxing, but so can a facial. There's something serene about having a professional apply products and rub areas of the face and temples. Stress will slip away in an instant.

Anchorpak will take you though the day in comfort and style. Pack your laptop, zip keys and wallet into one pocket, cell phone into another. Secure the top with a zipper. Support your your body with our ergonomic design that works in harmony with the human form in motion. Waterproof, stain resistant, durable, washable Cordura nylon.

BUY IT: $139.00 Made in Maine.

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Festive Tree-trimming TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

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People

have visited forests to select their Christmas trees for centuries. While tree sellers conveniently stationed in store parking lots and artificial trees displayed in various retailers have led fewer people to venture into the wilderness, the Christmas tree is still an important component of holiday celebrations.

Long before the spread of Christianity, evergreen plants and trees held special meaning for people during the winter. Boughs and garlands were hung in homes and over doors and windows to repel evil spirits and illnesses. On the winter solstice, the greenery would represent that spring would once again arrive and banish winter's dreariness.

Germans who decorated trees inside of their homes are credited with starting Christian Christmas tree traditions during the 16th century. Early Americans were late to adopt Christmas trees because early Puritan settlers thought the tradition — as well as carols and other concepts — were Pagan influences. It took the popularity of England's Queen Victoria and her German Prince Albert appearing around a decorated Christmas tree to eventually win over much of Europe, Canada and the United States.

Trees are very popular today. According to StatisticsBrain, 10 million artificial trees are sold in the United States each year, while 34.5 million real tress are sold annually. Such trees require decorating, and the following secrets and tips can help celebrants do just that.

PRUNE THE TREE FIRST. Be sure to shape the tree as desired, since natural trees will have branches sticking out. Wear gardening gloves to avoid being covered in sap.

SAFETY FIRST. Position trees away from heat sources, such as fireplaces, vents or radiators, which can cause the tree to dry out prematurely and become a fire risk. For added safety, anchor a tree to a wall or ceiling, so it will not tumble over onto children or curious pets. Hang the most delicate pieces toward the top where they won't be disturbed.

GO NATURAL. In homage of the first German Christmas trees, decorate with natural ingredients, such as berries and pinecones. Also, use apples, nuts and marzipan candies.

FREE SPACE. To free up more space for presents, place a narrow tree stand inside of a waterproof planting container. Place the tree inside. This will provide a more streamlined look that's neater than a tree skirt.

Tree trimming is one of the most enjoyable aspects of the holiday season, and there are no rules other than safety guidelines when it comes to decorating.

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THE HISTORY OF

Christmas Stockings FROM WITCHES TO CLOGS, THE STORY BEHIND STOCKINGS.

Just

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when the excitement of opening presents abates after the last of the packages under the Christmas tree have been torn open, children and adults alike may discover that there are more treats to be had nestled inside of stockings hung on the mantle.

The hanging of Christmas stockings is a tradition with an extensive history. Several legends attribute the hanging of stockings to different people or events. Here is a look at some of the stories that have made Christmas stockings so popular.

ST. NICHOLAS DAY Rather than hanging stockings on Christmas, many countries celebrate Saint Nicholas Day on December 6, and this is when stockings are proudly left out for treats. The small, inexpensive trinkets are later unwrapped and enjoyed on Christmas Day. MERCHANT'S FAMILY STORY A popular tale tells the story of a merchant, his wife and three daughters.

After the wife falls ill and dies, the man becomes devastated and squanders all of his wealth on frivolous things to mask his sadness. When it comes time for the daughters to marry, the man does not have money for a dowry.

St. Nicholas hears of the plight and

knows the man would be too proud to accept charity. Therefore, St. Nicholas anonymously tosses three bags of gold coins down the chimney. The man's daughters had done the laundry prior and left their stockings hanging by the fireplace to dry. The gold landed in the stockings, thus starting the Christmas stocking tradition.

DUTCH HERITAGE One tradition says that, in 16th century Holland, children kept their clogs filled with straw in front of the hearth for Santa's reindeer to find.

They also left treats for Santa Claus.

In return, Santa would leave gifts in the clogs. Over time, stockings were swapped out for clogs.

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ITALIAN GOOD WITCH One stocking story does not attribute the tradition to Santa, but to a kindhearted Italian witch named “La Befana.” La Befana arrives on a broomstick the night of January 5 and fills the stockings of good children with sweet treats and toys. Bad children are awarded lumps of coal. La Befana is also credited with being the old woman who the wise men ask for directions to Christ's manger in the Christ child's story. After turning down an offer to accompany them, La Befana later carried gifts in search of Christ.

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MAINE GIFTS We asked our staff and writers to share their favorite Maine-made gifts to give.

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WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? Beautiful furniture and toys from Woodshapers Shop of Maine.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: They're handmade in Maine, beautifully crafted and you can't find toys like this in the box stores.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: The furniture and wreathes and arches make a wonderful addition to any home, outside or inside. The toys are a special gift for the kids. And their arches are perfect for a wedding or other celebration.

COST: Range from $10 to $300 depending on what you are looking for.

WHERE TO GET IT: woodshapershopofmaine.com

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WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? Maine-made jewelry with custom metalwork and local materials, such as sea glass, tourmaline or granite.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: Nice jewelry can make someone feel very special when they wear it, and certain designs and materials can remind them of a particular place or memory.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Someone special in your life, whether it's your mother or sister or significant other.

From AISLINN SARNACKI

FEATURE WRITER

COST: Varies greatly.

WHERE TO GET IT: The Rock & Art Shop in Bangor or The Lupine Cottage: A Maine Artist Coop in Belfast.

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Guide WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? "A Walk In the Park: Acadia's Hiking Guide" by Tom St. Germain.

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WHY IT'S SPECIAL: You could buy any number of Acadia National Park hiking guides written by the "big names," but this one's the real deal.

St. Germain—also the owner of Bar Harbor staple Jack Russell's Steak House—takes an exhaustive approach to chronicling nearly every trail in the park, often dropping bits of trail lore in the process. I've owned my dogeared copy for nearly ten years, and it's one of the best guide books I own.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Casual and serious hikers alike.

COST: $14 WHERE TO GET IT: There are old editions on Amazon, but you're better off ordering the current edition from Jack Russell's website (do a Google search) or find it at select business around MDI. No one said it would be easy.

COMMUNITY EDITOR

WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? Ornaments.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: Maine craftsmen and women often use natural resources, such as wood, stone, gemstones, and leaves found in Maine to make unique ornaments.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Any family member or friend; or for a gift swap.

COST: Anywhere from $1 up, depending on materials used or how elaborate it is.

WHERE TO GET IT: Many of the dozens of craft fairs held in Maine in fall and spring, as well as small independent shops sprinkled throughout the state.

CREATIV E MANAG ER

WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? I love giving gifts from Willy Wags, anything from funny cards to air plants to Maine ornaments, soaps, bath bombs and more.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: The Willie Wags is owned by Jamie Clark, a 30-something mommy, wife and multi-tasking maven. Inspired by spotlighting the best female owned businesses and products she could find, she hand picked, packed and shipped the very first Willie Wags subscription boxes out of her house in Levant. Since 2016, The Willie Wags has grown and opened a brick & mortar store in downtown Bangor.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: You can find something for everyone and anyone.

COST: Varies depending on the product.

WHERE TO GET IT: Online at thewilliewags.com and at the store at 78 Harlow St. in downtown Bangor.

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WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? Lip balms from Long Winter Farm in Damariscotta.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: These small-batch products are crafted with natural ingredients, care and often a sense of humor and even political engagement.

Also, they smell great.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Anyone! I like giving these as stocking stuffers because they are a little off the beaten track and are likely to make someone smile, especially if you go for one of the more unusual varieties such as Pony Breath, Coffee Brandy, Flapjacks or Spoiler Alert. Winter is the season of chapped lips, but you can get through it with flair with the help of fun lip balms.

COST: Lip balm is $5.

WHERE TO GET IT: Online at longwinterfarm.com or at their new bricksand-mortar store at 11 Friendship St. in Waldoboro. Around Bangor, The Rock & Art Shop or Tiller & Rye in Brewer both carry the products.

WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? American Stonecraft slate boards and coasters.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: I discovered these while on a trip to Boston last winter. Though the company is Massachusetts-based, they produce platters, cheeseboards, coasters and more with slate from farms around the northeast. All are marked with the farm they came from. I love how this gives new life to something that was essential to agrarian life here in Maine.

I bought one made of slate from a Maine farm for serving cheeses and love it so much.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Food lovers, farm fans, anyone who wants to own a little piece of history.

COST: Prices vary, but typically $40-$100.

WHERE TO GET IT: Available at several stores in Maine including Ricker Hill Orchards in Turner, Eventide Specialties in Boothbay and Weston’s Farm and Market in Fryeburg. Also available online at americanstonecraft.com.

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WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? LiveME T-shirts.

Specifically, my brother (whose last name is Bowler) has a "Bowl ME" T-shirt coming his way this Christmas.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: LiveME shirts and apparel are printed in Portland and come in lots of simple fun designs, with phrases like Fish ME, Hike ME and Beer ME. With T-shirts, hats, drinkware, posters, baby onesies and more, there's something for everyone. They're perfect for people who love Maine — whether you live here or you're an out-of-stater.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: They're perfect for people who love Maine — whether you live here or you're an out-of-stater. Their ornaments, totes and other trickets also make great hostess gifts if you're traveling this holiday.

COST: Varies depending on product. Most T-shirts are around $25.

WHERE TO GET IT: Online at livememaine.com and at various retailers.

WHY IT'S SPECIAL: Not only is it roasted in Deer Isle by some wonderful people, but it's also some of the best coffee you'll have in Maine.

WHO IT'S PERFECT FOR: Coffee lovers of any age.

COST: $7.75 for a half-pound/$15 for a pound.

WHERE TO GET IT: 44northcoffee.com, or Bangor Wine & Cheese Company, the Natural Living Center, Belfast Co-op, Blue Hill Co-op, others.

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WHAT MAINE-MADE GIFT DO YOU LOVE TO GIVE? A bag of 44 North Coffee.

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TEST YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF POPULAR

Christmas Movies

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Television

is full of feel-good movies come the holiday season.

Choose from among classic flicks you have watched year after year or new movies vying for spots as soon-to-be favorites.

Watching Christmas movies is a holiday tradition for many families. So much so that lines from popular movies are easily remembered and recognized. Those who can recite movies verbatim might enjoy testing their mettle with the following Christmas quiz loaded with memorable quotes from some holiday classics.

1. "It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes or bags."

4. "Bless this highly nutritious microwavable macaroni and cheese dinner and the people who sold it on sale. Amen."

3. "I want an official Red Ryder, carbine action, 200 shot range model air rifle."

6. "Now I have a machine gun.

Ho-ho-ho.."

2. "Uh, since the United States Government declares this man to be Santa Claus, this court will not dispute it. Case dismissed."

7. "We all know that Christmas is a big commercial racket.

It's run by a big Eastern syndicate you know."

10. "Tell me something, Billy. How come a cute little guy like this can turn into a thousand ugly monsters?"

8. "Seeing is believing, but sometimes the most real things in the world are the things we can't see."

11. "That's not 'my' Christmas!

'My' Christmas is filled with laughter, and joy... and this: my Sandy Claws outfit.

I want you to make it."

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5. "Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend.

You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend."

9. "Light the lamp, not the rat, light the lamp, not the rat! Put me out, put me out, put me out!"

12. "I fear you more than any spectre I have seen.

But as I know your purpose is to do me good, and as I hope to live to be another man from what I was, I am prepared to bear your company, and do it with a thankful heart. Will you not speak to me?"

13. "I passed through the seven levels of the Candy Cane forest, through the sea of swirly twirly gum drops, and then I walked through the Lincoln Tunnel."

14. "I want to wash my hands, my face, my hair with snow."

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16. "Wanna see some magic? OK, let's watch you disappear!"

1. "The Grinch Who Stole Christmas" 2. "Miracle on 34th Street" 3. "A Christmas Story" 4. "Home Alone" 5. "The Holiday" 6. "Die Hard" 7. "A Charlie Brown Christmas" 8. "The Polar Express" 9. "The Muppets Christmas Carol" 10. "Gremlins" 11. "The Nightmare Before Christmas" 12. "A Christmas Carol" 13. "Elf" 14. "White Christmas" 15. "The Simpson's Christmas" 16. "Bad Santa"

15. "If TV has taught me anything, it's that miracles always happen to poor kids at Christmas. It happened to Tiny Tim, it happened to Charlie Brown, it happened to The Smurfs, and it's gonna happen to us!"

Reindeer Games 6. In "It's a Wonderful Life" what movie is playing at the theater in Bedford Falls?

7. What's the name of the

rabbit in the magic hat in "Frosty the Snowman"?

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EXPERIENCE EXPERIENCE GIFTS ARE OUT-OF-THE-BOX EXCITING.

holidays are a season for decorating, entertaining and, of course, figuring out what to get all of the special people on gift lists. Instead of navigating crowded stores to find a gift that may just take up space in their loved ones' closets, more and more people are giving the gift of an experience.

According to Dr. Thomas Gilovich, a professor of psychology at Cornell University, new belongings will only be exciting at first, but then people adapt to them. If shoppers' goals are to prolong those feelings of excitement, then personal experiences can be more effective than material goods.

When shopping for those who seemingly have everything, a gift of an experience may be a smarter choice, especially if the experience is something the recipient may never have done before or wouldn't think to get for him or herself. For those who need a little inspiration, the following are some ways to treat loved ones to special experiences.

WINE TASTING: Find a local winery that offers tours and other wine-tasting experiences. Many areas of the country not particularly known as meccas for wine are still homes to local wineries. Treat a loved one to a day at a nearby winery or vineyard, bringing along some snacks, such as bread and cheese, to pair with the wines.

FITNESS CLASS PARTY: Enable fitness enthusiasts to try out new and trendy exercise classes by giving the gift of a class or membership. Consider tagging along to a class so the recipient doesn't have to go it alone.

HEAD IN THE CLOUDS: Book a trip aboard a sight-seeing plane, balloon or helicopter for the high-flying thrill-seeker on your holiday shopping list. Contact a nearby airport or sightseeing company to find out what is available. Some tours circle national monuments and points of interests, providing more bang for the buck.

ACTION AND ADVENTURE: There's adventure to be had on land as well. Racing fans can sit behind the wheel of a race car and lap the racetrack like their favorite NASCARÂŽ stars. Those who prefer getting a little wet with their wild may enjoy a whitewater rafting excursion.

THE CHOICE IS THEIRS: If you're stuck on what to get, let recipients choose their own experience. Companies like Cloud 9 Living enable individuals to choose their experiences from a wide variety of options.

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9. According to the 1964

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all the holiday presents have been purchased, the task of wrapping can begin. Although some people find wrapping is relaxing and provides a chance to embrace one's artistic flair, many others find wrapping gift after gift becomes tedious quite fast.

While there are no statistics on just how many gifts the average person purchases over the course of the holiday season, the National Retail Federation says the average consumer will spend around $800 on all things holiday. That means there will be a lot of gifts to wrap before the big exchange. Those who want to make gift-wrapping less tedious this holiday season can consider these ideas to streamline the process.

GATHER ALL SUPPLIES When the time comes to wrap gifts, there's nothing more frustrating than hunting for wrapping supplies. Have paper, bows, bags, tissue, pens, tape (double-sided tape streamlines the process), scissors, ribbon, and any other wrapping accoutrements at the ready. Set up a folding snack table near your wrapping area to hold the supplies so they don't get in the way.

SQUARE IT UP If you are a master at wrapping rectangular or square gifts but fail when presents are oddly shaped, place misshapen gifts into boxes and then wrap the boxes. Gift bags also can be used for such gifts, but wrapped boxes may look more appealing under the tree.

FABRIC OVER PAPER If you think gift wrap is wasteful, think about repurposing fabric into beautiful wrapping for presents. A square of leftover fabric, a piece of a t-shirt or even a portion of a sweater that has seen better days can be transformed into an innovative package for gift-giving. Tie the gathered ends into a bow and skip the tape as well. Dress up with ribbon and a tag for extra flair. Fabric bends and moves, making it more forgiving for oddly shaped gifts as well.

STOCK UP ON PAPER SHOPPING BAGS On your next trip to the grocery store, bring home more than organic produce. Walk away with paper bags and free gift wrap. Craft a DIY stamp roller or handmade stamps to dress up plain brown bags. Or wrap the gift in twine and add a sprig of evergreen for a rustic look. Children can even use markers or crayons to create their own designs on gifts, personalizing even further.

IDENTIFYING GIFTS Identify each recipient's gifts by wrapping in a different color or style. Just jot down the key to decoding the wrapping, and you'll save time on individual gift tags.

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Downtown Bangor

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Shopping

is a big part of the holiday season, when families and friends gather to reconnect and exchange gifts. While the popularity of shopping online has grown, such practices are not always ecofriendly or timely, as gifts bought online must be packaged and shipped, wasting valuable resources and time that lastminute shoppers may not have.

The following are a few ways that shopping locally this holiday season can directly benefit your community and the people who call it home.

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LOCAL ECONOMY When men and women shop locally, they are putting money back into their local communities. Local small businesses may be owned by your neighbors, and it can be comforting to know that your holiday shopping dollars are going to support a neighbor instead of a large corporation.

Local businesses also employ your neighbors, so shopping local can strengthen the local economy by creating jobs that may not exist if you and members of your community fail to support local small businesses.

COMMUNITY IDENTITY Local small businesses go a long way toward creating a neighborhood identity, and that identity can create a stronger sense of community among you and your neighbors. In addition, a unique community identity can make your town more attractive to outsiders, and that appeal can improve the value of local real estate while also attracting more people to local businesses in your neighborhood.

UNIQUENESS OF GIFTS The gifts you buy when shopping locally also can benefit your community.

Gifts purchased from small local businesses tend to be more unique than items bought from national chains, as smaller retailers tend to sell more homemade items than their national competitors. Recipients of such items may find such gifts more thoughtful than mass produced items bought from national chains, and the uniqueness of homemade gifts may encourage the gifts' recipients to visit your community and do some shopping, further benefitting your local economy.

CUSTOMER SERVICE When buying from national chains, especially during the holiday season when such businesses may be overwhelmed with orders, making contact with customer service departments can be a trying exercise in patience. But such frustration is rare when buying from local businesses, as consumers can simply take their products into the store and immediately address their concerns. bangormetro.com / bangordailynews.com • 35

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it's your mother-in-law, brother, neighbor or friend, there's always someone (or two or three) on your list who makes gift giving impossible.

Here are a few unique gift ideas to help make gift buying a little easier this holiday season.

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CONCERT TICKETS: The ultimate gift for many music fans is tickets to see their favorite performer in person. Concert tickets can sell out quickly, so research when tickets will be going on sale and be prepared to purchase them as early as possible. Some credit card companies sponsor concerts and make special arrangements with venues to offer cardholders advanced deals or special packages. Find out if your credit card company has such an offer available for the concert you are buying tickets for.

THEATER TICKETS: Even if your loved one lives nowhere near the bright lights of Broadway, touring companies that perform popular Broadway shows visit cities both big and small across the country. Tickets to such shows can stoke your loved one's passion for music and make for a great night out on the town.

Fun & Games PARTY GAMES: Board games, physical games (like horseshoes or bean bag tosses), games for video gaming systems, and even karaoke machines are fun for the whole family.

NIGHT OUT ON THE TOWN: A gift card to a local restaurant and an offer to babysit will be appreciated by most parents.

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Welcome Home!

TOOL GIFT BASKET: Homeowners can always use nails, screws, hammers, picture-hanging kits, painter's tape, and the other odds and ends that go into making repairs.

PORTRAIT SESSION: Give the gift of memories by setting up a photo session with a local photographer who enables the family to have a print made that can be hung up and enjoyed.

HOW-TO BOOKS: Owning a home presents many opportunities for repairs and renovations.

Oftentimes, this is a homeowner's initial foray into do-it-yourself projects, so consider giving a library of instructional books that walk new homeowners through some basics, like plumbing, electrical work or basic construction.

WELCOME MAT: Welcome mats can be customized with the owner's last name, and some customizing services also can print an image on a door mat or find one with a fun quirky saying.

CLEANING SERVICE: The gift of a cleaning service saves homeowners from having to do the postholiday cleanup.

Reindeer Games 12. What Maine town holds

the record for the world's largest snowman (snow woman technically)? At about 30 feet shorter than the Statue of Liberty, Olympia the Snow Woman was 122 feet 1 inch tall.

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For Music Lovers!

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MUSIC LESSONS: Perhaps your loved one is a budding musician who can benefit from professional instruction? A great way to encourage their aspirations is to finance their lessons with local music or vocal instructors.

Visit a nearby college or school for recommendations on local instructors. The franchise "School of Rock" has regional locations and offers musical training as well.

MUSIC STORE GIFT CARD: Musicians often need to repair or replace their instruments, so a gift card to a music store can make for a much-needed and appreciated gift.

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Remember WHEN 18 IDEAS FOR MAKING HOLIDAY MEMORIES.

Counting

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down to Christmas Day means many different things to people across the globe.

Although families likely have several different traditions they anticipate each year, it can be fun to incorporate some new merrymakers into the festivities. Here are some festive ideas to include in the days leading up to Christmas — a special family calendar of fun finds.

2. COOKIE DAY: Devote one day to making Christmas cookies.

Invite friends or family members over. Distribute some cookies to elderly neighbors.

3. HOLIDAY CLASSIC: Spend a night in and watch a classic Christmas flick you've never seen before. Streaming movie services often put classics and obscure titles into rotation during the holiday season.

4. CHRISTMAS CONCERT: Host a gathering of children where they can sing or perform their favorite tunes for an audience.

Take it on the road to a nearby nursing home.

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1. ANNUAL MEMENTO: Have the kids or adults make one new handmade ornament each year. This way the tree is always evolving, and everyone can track milestones.

5. DINE OUT: Take a break from cooking, shopping and hosting and stop into a restaurant you've been meaning to try. Keep it local to support nearby businesses.

6. ADOPT A CHILD/FAMILY: Volunteer with a charitable organization that provides for less fortunate families.

Answer the Christmas desires of a needy child or family by purchasing an item on their wish lists.

7. SEE THE SIGHTS: Pack the children into the family car to tour nearby areas and look at Christmas lights displays. Bring along cookies and hot chocolate.

8. TRIM A TREE: Get together with adult friends at a treetrimming party. Rotate the hosting house each year.

9. PLAY DRESS-UP: A gentleman can dress up as the man in red and pop into a friend's holiday gathering.

10. WILDERNESS WALK: Enjoy the crisp air and snow and see a local park from a winter perspective.

11. ACTS OF KINDNESS: Choose any act of kindness and make it happen this Christmas. It can include feeding the hungry or helping a disabled person shop for the season.

12. KIDS' SECRET SANTA: Spread the joy of giving by having the kids choose a sibling or friend's name from a hat and purchasing or making a gift for that person.

13. HAND OUT HOT CHOCOLATE: Make a big thermos of hot chocolate and give it out to shoppers or workers who have been out in the cold.

14. READ RELIGIOUS STORIES: Understand the true meaning of the season by reading Biblical passages.

15. CAMP-IN: The first night the tree is decorated, allow the kids to sleep beside it under the glow of Christmas lights.

16. SCAVENGER HUNT: Plan holiday-themed trivia questions and hide small trinkets for children to find.

17. SURPRISE BOX: Put a gender and age nonspecific gift into a box. On Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, the person who finds a hidden gift tag under their chair at dinner gets to open the box.

18. FAMILY PORTRAIT: Wear your holiday finery and pose for a portrait that actually will be printed and framed.

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BUY IT: Prices starting at $19.99 AVAILABLE AT: Shirley's Yarns & Gifts 677 US Hwy 1, Hancock 207-667-7158

Groovy Gifts

For groovy gifts that do a world of good, shop Mexicali's ethically sourced selection of exotic decor accents, sterling jewelry, and unique fashions—from hand-knit wool to tie dye fleece! 1% of every purchase helps organizations who make the world better!

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TIPS FOR TIPPING AND BUDGETING FOR HOLIDAY GRATUITIES.

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the rate of spending during the holiday is any indication, generosity is in full force come the end of the year. During their second annual holiday debt survey, the financial resource MagnifyMoney found consumers who took on debt during the 2016 holiday season started the New Year an average of $1,003 in the red. That marks an increase of 1.7 percent over 2015.

Rather than finding themselves in debt again next January, shoppers inclined to use their credit cards this holiday season must recognize the importance of budgeting for all holiday expenses —including those that may not immediately come to mind, such as gratuities for service providers.

Gratuities are gestures of kindness and appreciation during the holiday season. Although gratuities are not entirely necessary, many etiquette experts say certain people, particularly those who provide year-round services, are worthy of a little extra money this time of year. Consider thank-you notes for those people who don't land on this year's gratuity list.

The following is a list of service workers whose efforts throughout the year are typically worthy of gratuities come the holiday season.

POSTAL WORKERS: Postal workers face the elements each and every day to make sure letters and packages arrive on time. Their work is made even more challenging during the rush of the holiday season, when mail flow increases considerably. The U.S. Postal Service forbids carriers from accepting cash gifts, but gift cards or other tokens of appreciation can be fitting.

NEWSPAPER DELIVERY PERSON: Gift the equivalent of one month of the subscription price, which may be between $10 and 30.

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Give a gift that will last long after the tree comes down. Old Town-Orono YMCA gift certificates can be used to purchase memberships, pay programming fees for fitness classes, or sign the kids up for gymnastics, swimming, rec sports, or that camp they've been wanting to attend.

Something for everyone!

BUY IT: YMCA Gift Certificate, any dollar amount AVAILABLE AT: Old Town-Orono YMCA 472 Stillwater Ave., Old Town • 827-9622

DAYCARE STAFF OR BABYSITTER: Those tasked with caring for children are worthy of a little something extra.

A gift between $40 and $70 can be fitting. In addition, include a handmade gift from the children if kids are old enough. The Emily Post Institute suggests gifting one week's pay to a live-in nanny or au pair.

HOUSEKEEPER: Up to one week's pay should suffice for housekeepers.

PERSONAL CAREGIVER: Gift between one week and one month's salary for someone charged with caring for a loved one. In a nursing home setting, provide a gift the staff can enjoy, such as a catered lunch.

TEACHER: He or she spends several hours a day with children. Pool resources with other parents to purchase a gift card or thoughtful gift.

Other people that may be tipped include salon workers, building superintendents, doormen, tutors, and pet groomers whose services are required often.

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Beautiful, soft and hypo-allergenic alpaca teddy bears and many other adorable furry friends make the perfect holiday gift. At the Maine Alpaca Experience you will find alpaca clothing, blankets, yarn, baby and dog wear.

Something for everyone on your list.

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run deep come the holiday season. Holiday planning can be hectic, especially for blended families.

Today's families are increasingly blended, meaning they're a combination of families due to divorce or death. Even though the holidays are meant to be joyous, navigating traditions and accommodating the unique needs of all involved — including cultural traditions, visitation schedules, rituals, and religious beliefs — can be challenging. But blended families need not fret as they attempt to negotiate Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanzaa, or New Year's.

LOGISTICS The first step to holiday planning is to keep in mind predetermined custody or visitation agreements. Although there can be hope for holiday flexibility and generosity, try to stick as close to existing arrangements as possible.

Some families choose to divvy up

particular holidays throughout the year in advance. Others may do it as plans get arranged. As long as the arrangement is fair to everyone, the choice is up to the families. The plans should be made known to all involved.

DISCUSS EXPECTATIONS The Stepfamily Association of America says that communication during the holiday season is vital, especially for children so they know what to expect. Writing down specific itineraries can help alleviate the stress of not knowing where they will be at a given time.

All members of the family should vocalize how they feel about particular aspects of the holidays so that no one is disgruntled. Do not expect others to be mind readers. Perhaps one person is focusing a significant amount of energy on trimming the tree when that isn't as important to others.

Discussing expectations can make planning that much easier.

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CREATE NEW TRADITIONS The holidays without everyone under the same roof enjoying traditions that have been part of celebrations for years can contribute to feelings of anxiety for people accustomed to these annual traditions. Draw the focus away from how things used to be done and create new traditions that all can anticipate. An annual outing to see a concert or show or hosting a holiday movie night might be a new tradition the entire blended family can enjoy.

DON'T EXPECT PERFECTION Putting too much emphasis on trying to make the holidays perfect can backfire. All families must recognize that holiday celebrations will change. It can take time to find a new celebratory rhythm, and comparisons always will be made. It's acceptable to have mixed feelings about new traditions, but each member should go into the season with a positive attitude.

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Christmas

and Chanukah may be celebrated toward the end of the year, but at the annual New York Toy Fair, the season for thinking about toys begins in February. This popular convention unveils the industry's hottest trends and toys, attracting more than 1,000 exhibitors.

The Toy Fair, and recommendations by toy and game industry experts around the world, like Dr. Toy and The Toy Insider, help cement which toys are likely to end up on kids' holiday wish lists. For those shoppers who fell behind the curve and missed out on last year's break out "Hatchimal" hit, the following figure to be the most coveted items for this year of giving.

• LEGO BOOST: Lego continues to reinvent itself, offering add-ons to its popular building brick model. Lego Boost takes advantage of the STEM trend by enabling children to build and code any of the five models of building sets. These include a cat, robot, guitar, rover, and building machine.

Or, they can use the pieces to create their own designs. The models work with an app and can be coded to make different motions and sounds.

• NERF N-STRIKE ELITE: Nerf brand has been popular for decades, and the company continues to churn out popular items for boys and girls. The N-Strike Elite series has a number of incarnations to tempt sharpshooters.

Nerf's new AccuStrike line is designed to improve accuracy with specially crafted darts that sail straighter than the original darts.

These are just a handful of the industry favorites this year. Also, keep an eye out for FisherPrice Movi, anything Star Wars, FurReal friends, Shopkins, and much more.

• COLLEGGTIBLES: Building upon the Hatchimal craze of last Christmas and early this year, Spin Master offers an addition to the very popular collectible toy niche. CollEGGtibles are much smaller than Hatchimals, but are equally fun. Smaller eggs hatch to reveal various colorful critters inside. Kids are apt to want to collect them all.

• PIE FACE SKY HIGH: Hasbro keeps reinventing the Pie Face game, their runaway hit from 2016, which was awarded "Game of the Year" by the Toy Industry Association. In the Sky High version, one player hits a lever with a mallet, hoping to deliver their opponent a face full of pie cream.

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• MELISSA & DOUG SCIENTIST ROLE PLAY COSTUME SET: Melissa & Doug is widely recognized for its high-quality wooden games sets and puzzles, but the company also delves into imaginative play costumes. This scientist role-play costume includes a beaker, a test tube, a lab coat, experiment cards, and other ingredients necessary to fuel interest in the sciences.

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HOLIDAY GIFT

Guide

Santa Letter-Writing

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LETTER WRITING TIPS: • Identify who is writing the letter and share some details about your life.

• Make sure you've been nice and well-behaved all year.

• Print neatly so your letter is easy for Santa to read.

• Ask Santa how he has been, and engage in some polite conversation.

• Politely ask for the toys you'd like. Understand that Santa is busy, so keep the list brief.

• Thank Santa in advance for his kindness. Hopefully, he'll have time to reply.

• Write and mail the letter as early as possible, as things tend to get busy as Christmas nears!

Dear Santa,

At

the tip of the North Pole resides a jolly man who collects letters from children asking him to deliver all of their hearts' desires.

According to Smithsonian, the practice of writing to St. Nick dates back more than 150 years. Early depictions of Santa show him as a disciplinarian. The first Christmastime Santa letters were actually sent by Santa, rather than the other way around. Such letters encouraged children to be good boys and girls.

Eventually, an illustration by Thomas Nast depicted "Santaclaussville, N.P." as Santa's address, providing children with a place where they could send their correspondences to the big guy in red.

The Universal Postal Union indicates that Americans sent more than one million such letters in 2012, the most recent year from which figures are available. To account for the staggering number of letters sent, various post offices and postal programs were established to help Santa with the task of tackling children's wish lists.

With so many letters, Santa Claus sometimes he needs assistance with reading and responding to the thousands upon thousands of letters sent to him each year. In 2016, the USPS instituted a new letter-writing option that enables parents or guardians to include a personalized response letter back to children who address letters to Santa. The package can be postmarked to: North Pole Postmark Postmaster, 4141 Postmark Drive, Anchorage, AK 99530-9998.

Many other letters to Santa end up routing to various post offices where thousands of volunteer "elves" can adopt letters and make children's wishes come true. A "Letters to Santa" program enables children in serious need to get items that can help keep them safe and happy.

Santa has even gone high-tech with personalized videos and pictures as well. A quick web search can yield the instructions on how prospective helpers can get started.