These luxurious diamond engagement rings are as timeless as your love.
20 / THE SUITE LIFE
Whether your style is modern and chic or traditionally Southern, your wedding suite of paper and wedding day details can combine to capture your moment in time.
26 / SOMETHING BLUE
The beautiful blue colors of these stones speak to the serenity of a wide expanse of sky and deep bodies of water.
28 / BOUQUET IN BLOOM
Summer’s bright jewel tones of amethyst, garnet, emerald, and rose quartz add just the right amount of dramatic color to this bride’s bouquet.
30 / THE BRIDE’S FLOWERS
In this luxurious bouquet filled with soft pastel floral hues, combines the most fragrant and luscious peonies and roses.
46 / BONTANICAL OLD WORLD CHARM
Grounded in love, this couple relishes time together and appreciates all things inspired by nature and artisan crafted.
50 / LOUISIANA FRENCH FLAIR
Ooh-la-la! Bridal registries reflect a couple’s joie de vivre and set newlyweds on their journey.
110 / BAYOU EATS
For five decades, Etc. Catering has blended family tradition, culinary creativity, and heartfelt hospitality into a beloved Northeast Louisiana institution.
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115 / THE BRIDAL ATELIER
52 / HIS & HER SIGNATURE DRINKS
Wedding guests love sipping signature cocktails, and we have paired two of our favorites for a dynamic combo that rivals all the great love stories.
74 / BAYOU ARTIST
Rhonda Neal has spent three decades blending traditional craftsmanship with fearless innovation.
96 / BAYOU ICON
Rev. T. Whitfield Stodghill, III’s career took a major turn in 1990 when he discerned that God was calling him to serve the Church.
From timeless silhouettes to contemporary couture, these stunning gowns showcase some of our favorite bridal looks of the season.
138 / WEDDING GUEST EDIT
Find these standout styles at local boutiques and step into wedding season dressed to impress. From floralembellished dresses to impeccably tailored suits, our best-dressed guest edit has every celebration covered.
150 / FATHER’S DAY GIFT GUIDE
Looking for a gift this Father’s Day? These local retailers have the most unique and thoughtful finds that will surely impress.
June has always been one of my favorite months at BayouLife because it gives us the opportunity to celebrate two of life’s greatest gifts — love and family. Our annual Wedding Issue is one readers look forward to every year, and this month we are proud to bring together some of the best wedding inspiration, resources, and local businesses North Louisiana has to offer. Whether you are newly engaged, planning your dream ceremony, or helping someone special prepare for their big day, we hope this issue becomes a trusted guide during such a meaningful season of life.
Inside these pages, you’ll discover everything from stunning bridal fashion and elegant invitation suites to beautiful bouquets, memorable venues, registry ideas, and much more. We are continually inspired by the creativity and talent found right here in our community, and this issue is a celebration of the people who help make weddings in North Louisiana unforgettable occasions.
One of the highlights this month is our feature on Etc. Catering on page 110. For five decades, Etc. Catering has been a cornerstone of hospitality in Northeast Louisiana. Founded by Joyce Stephenson and now operated alongside her daughter, Rhonda McDuffie, the business represents the very best of family tradition, heartfelt service, and exceptional Southern cuisine. Their story is one of dedication, resilience, and love, values that feel especially fitting in our Wedding Issue.
We are also thrilled to feature BayouArtist Rhonda Neal on page 74. Rhonda’s work beautifully combines traditional craftsmanship with innovative design, creating meaningful pieces that help celebrate life’s most treasured moments. From custom wedding suites to handcrafted typography, her artistry has helped shape countless celebrations across our region for more than thirty years. And of course, bridal fashion takes center stage this month on pages 138-144. From
timeless silhouettes to modern couture, these breathtaking gowns showcase some of our favorite bridal looks of the season. We are grateful to Blue Sparrow Bridal Co. and Blush by Sadie C’s for helping bring these inspiring styles to life for brides across North Louisiana.
While weddings are at the heart of this issue, June also gives us the chance to celebrate the fathers and father figures who have shaped our lives. Father’s Day always reminds me how fortunate I was to grow up with a dad who taught me to love the outdoors, whether camping, fishing, or simply spending time together. He was never too busy to play, fix what was broken, or lend a helping hand when needed, and he still does. In honor of dads everywhere, be sure to check out our Father’s Day Gift Guide on page 150 featuring some of the best gifts from local retailers.
This month we also proudly recognize Father Whit Stodghill as our June Bayou Icon on pages 96-101. Father Whit’s remarkable journey, from architect to Episcopal priest, is both inspiring and deeply moving. His commitment to faith, service, and community continues to impact countless lives throughout Northeast Louisiana.
As always, thank you for reading BayouLife Magazine and for supporting the local people, businesses, and stories that make our community so special. We hope this issue inspires celebration, connection, and lasting memories all summer long.
Genevieve Alexander in a wedding dress from Blush by Sadie C’s photography by Kelly Moore Clark
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Winnsboro Medical Spa
The Conversation Men Aren’t Having (Yet)
APATIENT RECENTLY TOLD ME A STORY THAT STUCK with me. Her husband had been at a dinner with family when he noticed his brother-in-law’s forehead. Smooth. No creases, no deep lines, nothing. He didn’t say anything at the table, but later that night he asked her about it. “What’s going on there?” She laughed. “Babe, that’s Botox. Welcome to the club. I’ve been doing this the whole time and you had no idea.” He wasn’t put off by it. He was genuinely impressed. He just had no idea that’s what Botox could do.
That kind of moment happens more than you’d think. The men in your life are noticing results on other men. They just don’t know what they’re looking at, and it’s not the kind of thing that comes up in casual conversation.
A Conversation That Hasn’t Started Yet
Here’s something we see at Winnsboro Medical Spa and at Winnsboro Medical Clinic that might surprise you: men are becoming some of our most consistent patients. They come in for testosterone optimization and feel ten years younger. They try Botox and wonder why they waited. They start a medically supervised weight loss program and finally get traction after years of doing it alone.
It’s not that these men are keeping it a secret. If you asked any of them, they’d tell you. It’s that nobody thinks to bring it up. One of Dr. Kelly’s patients told us he’d been out with his friends on a weekend when someone casually mentioned testosterone therapy. Within a few minutes, the rest of the group was talking about it too. Turns out most of them were already doing it. He wasn’t upset that they’d hidden it; he just wished someone had mentioned it sooner. He started treatment the following week.
That’s where a lot of men are right now. They’re open to it. They’re curious. The conversation just hasn’t happened yet. And most of the time, it takes someone else to start it.
More Than You’d Expect
The range of what we offer men might surprise you. Botox is one of the most popular, and for good reason. It’s quick, there’s virtually no downtime, and the results speak for themselves, as that husband at the dinner table can confirm. Men tend to want a natural look, not
a frozen one, and that’s exactly how Dr. Kelly approaches it.
For men experiencing hair thinning, we offer hair restoration using PDGF and Anteage Hair Exosomes. The process involves microneedling the scalp and applying growth-factor-rich topicals directly to the treatment area. It’s not a hair transplant and it’s not a pill. It’s a targeted, in-office treatment that supports the hair you still have and encourages new growth.
Then there’s one men don’t expect to care about but absolutely do once they hear about it: Forever Bare laser hair removal. The back, chest, shoulders, back of the neck, ears; with summer coming, that’s a lot of stubborn hair that doesn’t have to be there. Forever Bare makes it a non-issue, and most men are surprised at how quick and straightforward the treatments are.
At Winnsboro Medical Clinic, Dr. Kelly also sees male patients for testosterone optimization through Biote bioidentical hormone therapy. Low energy, poor sleep, brain fog, declining motivation; these are things men tend to chalk up to aging, but they don’t have to be.
And for men working on their weight, our medically supervised weight loss program provides the same physician-led, lab-monitored approach we’ve built for all of our patients, with body composition tracking, side effect management, and ongoing adjustments based on real data.
This Father’s Day, Start the Conversation
He’s probably not going to look into this on his own. Not because he’s not interested, but because he doesn’t know where to start. So this June, consider being the one who gets the conversation going. Give the man in your life something he’d never give himself: a reason to walk through our door.
This month, when you book and prepay for a treatment for a man in your life at Winnsboro Medical Spa or Winnsboro Medical Clinic, you’ll both receive $100 in treatment credit. It’s our way of making that first visit easy for him and rewarding for you.
Call 318-435-3872 or visit us online at WinnsboroMedicalSpa.com to schedule a consultation with Dr. Kelly.
Your June Table
Summer Flavors Worth Gathering Around
AS THE DAYS GROW LONGER AND THE TEMPERATURES rise, summer cooking settles into an easy, inviting rhythm filled with smoky grills, chilled cocktails, and meals that feel both effortless and memorable. June is the season for backyard gatherings, patio dinners, and spontaneous evenings with friends, where great food and drinks become part of the experience. To help you savor every moment, we’ve gathered some of our favorite culinary and beverage discoveries of the season, products that deliver bold flavor, a little indulgence, and plenty of summer charm.
For tequila lovers, few bottles capture the spirit of Jalisco quite like Arette Blanco Tequila. Crafted from premium blue agave, this unaged tequila offers a clean, crisp profile with remarkable smoothness. Floral and herbal notes mingle with hints of citrus, creating a refreshing and versatile spirit equally suited for sipping neat or mixing into cocktails. Arette Blanco shines in a classic margarita, but it also lends sophistication to more creative summer drinks. It’s bright, authentic, and exactly the kind of bottle you want within reach during warmweather entertaining.
Comfort food also gets a summer-ready refresh this month thanks to Ramen Bae and Momofuku. Ramen Bae’s Classic Seafood and Vegetable Mix transforms an ordinary bowl of noodles into something deeply savory and satisfying. Packed with real shrimp, seaweed, mushrooms, leeks, and other flavorful ingredients, the dried topping blend springs to life the moment it hits hot broth. Pair it with Momofuku’s Soy & Scallion Noodles for an easy meal that tastes surprisingly restaurant-worthy. The noodles are delightfully chewy, while the sauce delivers rich layers of soy, garlic, and scallion oil. Finished with a generous spoonful of Ramen Bae’s umami-packed topping, the result is a comforting bowl that comes together in less than ten minutes. Perfect for busy summer nights when you still want something special.
Another standout shortcut to comfort comes from Lazy Food and their indulgent Cacio E Pepe. While the name may sound playful, the flavors are unmistakably serious. Inspired by Rome’s iconic pasta dish, this ready-to-prepare meal combines perfectly al dente pasta with a creamy Pecorino Romano and cracked black pepper sauce that balances richness, sharpness, and spice beautifully. In under ten minutes, dinner feels elevated without requiring a sink full of dishes afterward. For an easy seasonal twist, add sweet green peas, crispy pancetta, or even grilled chicken fresh off the barbecue. It’s comfort food designed for summer simplicity.
Of course, no June table is complete without the right wine, and few producers embody creativity and craftsmanship quite like Randall Grahm of Bonny Doon Vineyard. Le Cigare Blanc, the winery’s celebrated Rhône-style white blend, offers a refreshing expression of Grenache Blanc and Vermentino. Aromas of citrus blossom and stone fruit lead into a palate that is vibrant, saline, and wonderfully dry. It’s the kind of wine that instantly evokes coastal evenings and seafood dinners. Serve it well chilled alongside grilled shrimp, shellfish, or even Lazy Food’s Cacio E Pepe for an easy pairing that feels elegant without trying too hard. Whether enjoyed at a casual backyard gathering or a more refined dinner party, Le Cigare Blanc belongs on the summer table.
Tequila enthusiasts looking for another standout bottle should also take note of Alma de Jaguar Blanco Tequila. Crafted with deep respect for traditional tequila-making methods, this vibrant blanco showcases the pure character of agave with notes of cooked agave, citrus zest, and white pepper. Beyond its flavor, Alma de Jaguar stands out for its commitment to conservation, with proceeds supporting jaguar preservation and environmental initiatives. Smooth enough for sipping yet bold enough for cocktails, it’s an ideal addition to any summer bar. Try it in a refreshing paloma or a classic margarita finished with fresh lime and a touch of agave nectar for a cocktail that tastes like summer in a glass.
And for those evenings that call for something rich, indulgent, and effortless, Spirits Lab has created an exceptional bottled Espresso Martini. What began as a cocktail trend has firmly earned its place as a modern classic, and this ready-to-pour version delivers all the flavor without the work. Blending vodka, cold brew coffee, and subtle vanilla notes, the cocktail is velvety, balanced, and wonderfully smooth. Shake it over ice and strain into a chilled coupe glass for an elevated afterdinner drink, or simply pour it straight from the fridge for an easy nightcap under the stars. It’s equally suited for brunch gatherings, latenight conversations on the patio, or any moment that deserves a little extra indulgence.
This June, let flavor lead the way. From vibrant tequilas and refreshing wines to elevated comfort foods and effortless cocktails, these selections capture everything we love about the start of summer: relaxed gatherings, bold flavors, and meals worth lingering over. Thank you for allowing us to be your Spirits Guides here at Beef & Barrel, and here’s to making the season as delicious as possible.
Alumni Spotlight
ULM Alum: Desirae Trappey
THOUGH ORIGINALLY FROM MORGAN CITY, Louisiana, Desirae Trappey moved to the Monroe area at five years old, eventually graduating from Ouachita Parish High School. Drawn to ULM’s exceptional art program and esteemed nursing school, Desirae desired a profession that centered on helping others. With a sister as an LPN, Desirae felt a nursing career would allow her to give back and make meaningful connections with people. While in nursing school, Desirae was inspired by Nursing professor Amy Kincannon. Though Dr. Kincannon valued discipline, she knew how to make students comfortable in what could otherwise be an intimidating environment. Desirae routinely sought Dr. Kincannon’s advice and support while in clinicals. Outside of class, Desirae was a member of the Scouts and helped with sporting events. Even as a commuter student, Desirae enjoyed campus life and meeting new people.
While in nursing school, Desirae appreciated the supervised clinical rotations, working directly with patients in healthcare settings. She learned the importance of being present, that good care involved looking people in the eye and listening, as well as caring for patients’ physical health. Building those relationships via oneon-one interactions reinforced Desirae’s love of human connection, a thread that would connect her initial career in healthcare to her present work in photography.
After graduating from nursing school in 2010, Desirae began working at Glenwood Hospital on the pediatric floor. Her love for children originated from early babysitting jobs and work in daycares. Her incessant desire to be with kids greatly influenced that initial specialty. When the pediatric floor took on overflow patients from home health and hospice, Desirae met the moment. She insisted, “I loved being present with families in their time of need. It felt right and made me feel needed, that I had a defined purpose.” After 6 years as a nurse and having her first child in 2016, Desirae longed for more freedom. She wanted to be more available for her child and started considering her side photography business as a full-time career.
Desirae remembers taking art lessons throughout her childhood, namely with Melanie King at Painter’s Pallet. Having always possessed a creative drive, Desirae contributed to art shows
and indulged in acrylic painting. She even took a pottery class at ULM before entering nursing school, perhaps an omen of things to come. She found pottery making therapeutic, where her mind went blank and she could only focus on the task at hand. She discovered photography by accident one summer break while babysitting. Using her mother’s camera, Desirae shot some photos of the child that the child’s mother loved. Desirae was then asked to do family portraits, and the hobby snowballed from there. Now with Desirae Trappey Photography, she mostly focuses on shooting newborns and families, while also photographing the occasional wedding. Like those bedside interactions while nursing, Desirae loves getting to know the families, as they continue working with Desirae for years. While Desirae insists, “This is not where I thought my path would go,” she credits her technical skill and nursing background for the success of her business. “Nursing gave me the passion that my now clients see and respond to. I’m able to show up for them emotionally, really invest in the people in front of me.” Like those sacred moments in hospice care, Desirae is honored to offer bereavement photography, creating gentle, meaningful images for families who have experienced the loss of a baby. In the most difficult moments, her instinct for empathy and compassion is why families trust her with their most personal experiences.
As a ULM alumna, Desirae marvels at the abundance of ULM graduates dispersed throughout the community. She loves the opportunities ULM creates, from sporting events to arts and music, for her family to enjoy. Desirae met her husband Nic Trappey on the ULM campus. The couple has two adorable red-headed children: son Creed (10) and daughter Ruby (6). Creed is all into the outdoors, particularly soccer and fishing. He recently asked if ULM had a fishing team (we do!) and hopes to join one day. Ruby is in a softball phase, super active with a fiery attitude. Together, the Trappey family is proud to be a part of this community and inspired by their local university.
Desirae Trappey
WHAT
FOREVER LOOKS LIKE
Luxurious diamond engagement rings are as timeless as your love, and Hollis & Company Jewelers in Monroe and Marty & Mark’s Jewelry on Antique Alley in West Monroe present an impressive array of engagement rings and wedding bands that complement your style.
ITEMS 1-9 HOLLIS & COMPANY
ITEMS 10-18 MARTY & MARK’S Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
FOXTAIL FERN
(Asparagus densiflorus)
While its name may imply that this is a fern, think again! The Foxtail fern is really a perennial evergreen herb with fluffy stems of spiky needle-like leaves. The foxtail uses seeds to reproduce, not spores and is a member of the asparagus family. This plant produces small white flowers with red berries. This is a super versatile plant that can thrive indoors as well as out in the garden.
Tips for Healthy Foxtails:
All this plant needs for strong growth is bright, indirect light and welldraining soil. Make sure you give the foxtail fern ample room to spread out. The foxtail fern is drought tolerant due to tuberous roots. These strong roots can crowd out smaller more fragile plants in your garden so be mindful of placement.
Start feeding your foxtail in the spring, and then continue monthly throughout the growing season (summer) using a 10-10-10 plant food at half strength. Foxtail fern responds well to slow-release fertilizers and liquid fertilizers.
For outdoor garden ferns, you can also amend the soil annually in the fall with one inch of compost scattered around the plant topped with two inches of mulch.
Note that all parts of foxtail fern may be toxic to both humans and pets, including the flowers and the berries.
Take care when handling the stems of the foxtail as they occasionally will grow thin thorny shoots that hide amid the leaves.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Maré Brennan
BAYOU PLANT
Foxtail fern and terra cotta pot were sourced from Sonny Panzico’s Garden Mart.
THE SUITE LIFE
Today’s brides know a timeless and customized wedding paper suite sets the tone for an incredible wedding day and beyond. A custom monogram incorporating his and her initials starts the couple on their life’s journey and can be incorporated into wedding and party invitations, paper goods, and specialty items, as well as thank you notes. Whether your style is modern and chic or traditionally Southern, your wedding suite of paper and wedding day details can combine to capture your moment in time. Here are a few of the ways you can create a customized experience for your wedding guests with your wedding suite of paper goods. Custom cups, koozies and cocktail napkins enliven the bar. Custom matchbooks are keepsakes that will have guests reminiscing about the reception. Ceremony programs along with weekend itinerary cards keep all the information needed easily at hand. Monogrammed keepsakes and surprises for guests ensure the good vibes flow throughout the evening.
In this suite, Rhonda Neal brings her craftsmanship and Southern refinement with elements that thoughtfully and beautifully tell this couple’s story – from a beautifully entwined monogram to a beautiful color palette and embossed paper that captures the elegance of their ceremony.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Suite Design by Rhonda Neal
Material Things
Why Craft is the Soul of True Luxury
IJUST RETURNED FROM THE H+H Americas International Trade Show in Chicago. This is a relatively new show to the US, it originally started in Cologne Germany. I believe the show promoters felt there was a void that needed to be filled so, in 2022 they opened this to the US, Robert and I went to the first one that year and felt like it was going to turn into something big. I have traveled there myself every year since then and have sourced so many new things for The Haberdashery each time. Stay tuned for all of the newness!
An enchanting, exclusive to the area fabric line for The Haberdashery is the Liberty of London Tana Lawn cotton fabrics. Since the 1890’s Liberty has been experimenting with cotton lawn, a smooth plain weave prized for its ultra-soft and durable qualities. In the early 1930’s LOL’s cotton buyer William Hayes Dorell established a new LOL signature, Tana Lawn cotton and a brand legend was born. The ground breaking product was named after Lake Tana in Ethiopia, where its unique long staple cotton fibers originated. If you have ever touched their cotton lawns, then you know what all the “hoopla” is about. Stay tuned for new prints arriving.
I also want to share a picture of what our BOM (block of the month) will be after we finish our current one in October. We will be offering the whimsical design Fun Folk Sampler by Kathy Doughty, an American that has lived in the ultra progressive, quilt design world of Australia since 1993. This BOM will be a 10 month program where you receive the pattern and fabric for a block each month. The characters each month are set on Japanese linen cottons that are lovely to stitch on. If you think you would like to participate, please let me know because space will be limited.
We will be hosting our sixth annual Children’s Sewing Camp from 9-12 each day the weeks of July 13-16 or July 20-23. During each week, your camper will be learning to sew on their own Husqvarna Viking sewing machine that they will be taking home with them when the week is over. They will be learning the basic techniques of using their machine and completing many projects. The week of June 22-25, we are having an Advanced Children’s Sewing Camp where our campers will be constructing a quilt (beginners camp is a prerequisite).
Tilda Fabrics is a fabric brand founded by Norwegian designer Tone Finnanger in 1999, best known for whimsical, naive characters and charming fabric design.There is a certain attitude to life in Tilda’s world, whimsical and romantic, like a ball gown worn with welliesperfectly imperfect! The Blue and White Special Collection is being introduced this June, we are hosting a trunk show featuring this collection mixed with her chambray collection that we also carry. We are privileged to be hosting this trunk show for several weeks in August, be sure to join us for all of the fun. Remember, her patterns are always free.
Another fabulous company that I am bringing home from the H+H show is Petit Pan. I visited their brick and mortar shop in Paris last summer and was definitely enchanted with them immediately! So, when I saw they where in Chicago, I could not wait to place my order-they said we were the only shop in Louisiana that had ordered. The founders of this distinctive, playfully naive pattern driven company are Belgian artist Myriam De Loor and Chinese born, poetic craftsman Pan Gang. If you have never experienced these fabrics in person, you are in for a genuine treat.
A lot of you may or may not know that we
have been offering Mahjong lessons with Amy Taylor of Monroe Mahjong since September of last year. And, have since been hosting Open Play for Mahjong players with up to 24 attending every Friday from 12-3. It’s a fun, casual, no cost event each Friday-the only requirement is that you know how to play and have your own current 2026 Mahjong card. And, if you are in need of lessons or to sign up for Open Play, then you can find all of the details on Monroe Mahjong’s social media sights on Instagram and Facebook.
In the Spring of 2022, I decided that I needed to add the world of needlepoint to The Haberdashery and, boy has it been a wild ride! So many of you have joined me on this ride, especially all of you lovely, loyal young ladies, you have been so patient to wait on fibers and threads, you’ve been so willing to do “thread swaps” and have become consumed by this “analog bag” craft-I LOVE IT! I also have my core group of ladies that come each Thursday and are so willing to help anyone that is new to the craft. I have since had many beginner’s classes, finishing classes and also host free Sit and Stitch on every Thursday from 1-3, so if you have picked up this beautiful craft, then consider joining us.
So, as you can see-we are kicking off a super busy Summer and beyond, filled with all of your sewing and mind soothing desires! “The future is handmade because the objects that are handmade get inspiration from your community, from your environment. It goes through your eyes, then it goes to your heart and comes out from your hands. And those are objects that have a soul.” Carla Fernandes-Designer
XOXO - Joyce
Wedding Etiquette for 2026 and Beyond
by ERIN SHARPLIN LOVE | erinlove@panachebyerin.com
When it comes to weddings, I believe the standard rules of etiquette still matter and should still be applied. However, many brides (and guests) are confused about what is considered proper etiquette and what could be considered a “faux pas.” With that said, below is a list of the rules that will never go out of style. If you follow these rules you can rest assured that your guests (and you) will feel welcomed, appreciated, and loved.
1. Always RSVP! This rule deserves top spot on this list. RSVP’ing is quickly becoming the most skipped etiquette rule even though it is the most important part of planning a wedding or event. After all, knowing how many people to expect is imperative to planning a successful event.
2. Never invite a guest to a pre-wedding party but not the wedding itself. If done, you may appear callous and as though you are just inviting them to get a gift.
3. Start the wedding on time. Try not to make your guests wait past the scheduled hour of the wedding. I would suggest that ten minutes is the longest you should postpone the start time.
4. Never list your registry information on your wedding invitation. You should have a wedding website that lists all pertinent information for your guests.
5. Even though evites are easier and less costly, it is not in good taste to send them to a wedding guest. You should mail a professionally printed invitation instead. Furthermore, the invitations should be mailed no less than six weeks in advance. Eight weeks is even better.
6. Please don’t make your guests pay for their drinks. If you are on a budget, you can skip alcoholic beverages altogether or limit the type of alcohol (wine and beer only, for instance) and you can also limit the amount. When it is gone, it’s gone.
7. Don’t forget about your vendors! You should make accommodations so they are able to take a break and eat.
8. Try your best to greet all of your guests. They took the time to attend the wedding and to show you their support; it is only appropriate that they receive a proper “hello” and “thank you for coming.”
9. If you require an RSVP, please include postage on the return envelope.
10. If someone gives you a gift you must send them a handwritten thank-you note. No ifs, ands, or buts, please!
11. If your children’s names are not listed on the invitation, they are not invited. Do not ask the couple if you can bring them because they will feel obliged to say yes. Take the opportunity to have a wonderful evening with your partner sans children.
12. On that same note…if your invitation does not list “and guest” you are to attend the wedding solo.
13. Always arrive to the ceremony ten minutes early! It is not okay to arrive to a wedding ceremony late. You can disrupt the entire event.
14. Leave cellphones in the car for the ceremony especially. If you must have it with you, please turn the ringer off.
15. Never wear white to a wedding. Yes, this rule still applies; On the other hand, black is okay.
16. As a guest, you should never post pictures of the bride and groom on social media. Allow them to post what they want the world to see.
17. Brush up on your dining etiquette before attending a reception. Especially if you will be treated to a seated dinner.
18. And, finally, never get drunk! Limit your alcohol intake to one or two beverages and drink plenty of water. Creating a lasting memory is a great thing unless you are being remembered for how wasted you were.
So, what do you think? Did you realize that many of the tried-and-true etiquette rules still applied? I am happy to share more with you if needed! Just send me an email and I will get back with you – erinlove@ panachebyerin.com
SOMETHING BLUE
These stunning pieces of jewelry from Hollis & Company Jewelers in Monroe and Marty & Mark’s Jewelry on Antique Alley in West Monroe are sure to make her heart skip a beat. “Something Blue” is as timeless as your love whether it’s a ring, bracelet, necklace, or earrings. The beautiful blue colors of these stones speak to the serenity of a wide expanse of sky and deep bodies of water. Dreamy blue stones add beauty and significance to each delicate piece.
ITEMS 1-9 HOLLIS & COMPANY
ITEMS 10-18 MARTY & MARK’S
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BOUQUET IN BLOOM
Summer’s bright jewel tones of amethyst, garnet, emerald, and rose quartz add just the right amount of dramatic color to this bride’s bouquet. The purple hues bring a sense of balance, peace, and calming energy for the bride on her day. Meditative in quality, the restive purples of chrysanthemums, carnations, and lavender roses interspersed with peachy pink roses and alstroemeria in a velvety reddish-purple hue blend together in this design. Italian ruscus adds elegant emerald tones of greenery.
Denise at Petals and Pearls has created this modern, sophisticated design that would look equally stunning in a cathedral or a garden setting.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark
Written by Maré Brennan
Wedding dress available from Blush by Sadie C’s
THE BRIDE’S FLOWERS
In this luxurious bouquet filled with soft pastel floral hues, Harley at Studio Roo has combined the most fragrant and luscious peonies, roses, and stock in glorious sherbet colors, along with peachy anemones and touches of blue delphinium. Peach roses symbolize sincerity, deep gratitude, and modesty. Light pink peonies convey romance, and prosperity, a powerful symbol of good fortune and a happy marriage. The delphinium signifies deep emotional bonds and a light, joyful spirit. Stock represents lasting beauty and a happy, contented life. Yellow lisianthus rounds out the bouquet with happiness and positivity.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark
Written by Maré Brennan
Wedding dress available from Blue Sparrow Bridal Co.
Building Brighter Futures
How a Partnership Between LDCC and Building Futures Pediatric Therapy is Expanding
FOR FAMILIES NAVIGATING THE CHALLENGES OF developmental delays, feeding disorders, speech difficulties, or pediatric injuries, having access to specialized therapy close to home can make an incredible difference. In Northeast Louisiana, that access continues to grow thanks to a meaningful partnership between Louisiana Delta Community College and Building Futures Pediatric Therapy.
With locations in Monroe, West Monroe, and Ruston, Building Futures Pediatric Therapy has become a trusted resource for families seeking compassionate, highly specialized pediatric care. Serving children from infancy through age 18, the practice offers a wide range of therapy services including physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, feeding therapy, and hippotherapy. Their team works closely with children facing developmental challenges such as language disorders, articulation difficulties, neuromuscular deficits, neurodiversity, pediatric injuries, and feeding disorders.
At the heart of Building Futures is a mission focused on helping children thrive in a supportive, engaging, and family-centered environment. Every therapy plan is designed with the individual child in mind, helping families feel encouraged and empowered throughout the process.
That mission has been strengthened even further through Louisiana Delta Community College’s administration of the Louisiana Workforce Commission’s Incumbent Worker Training Program (IWTP). Through this partnership, Building Futures has been able to significantly expand the training and education opportunities available to both therapists and office staff while easing the financial burden that often comes with advanced professional certifications and specialized instruction.
Over the course of two IWTP contracts, Building Futures has provided advanced training for 50 employees, resulting in more than $13,900 in employer cost savings. The first contract, awarded in 2025, supported training for 24 employees in areas such as HIPAA compliance, pediatric neurobiology and emotional regulation, autism-related care, and feeding therapy. A second contract is now helping train an additional 26 employees in highly specialized areas including developmental and sensory feeding, autism intervention, infant breastfeeding support, primitive reflex integration,
neuromotor development, pediatric bladder and bowel disorders, tethered oral tissues, and oral function.
In addition to clinical specialty training, Louisiana Delta Community College also provides workplace instruction in Basic Life Support, goal setting, and verbal intervention strategies, helping strengthen both the clinical and interpersonal skills of the Building Futures team.
The impact of this investment reaches far beyond the walls of the therapy clinics themselves. Specialized pediatric services can often be difficult to access in rural communities, forcing families to travel long distances for care. By expanding the expertise of local therapists, Building Futures is helping keep high-quality pediatric therapy services accessible right here in Northeast Louisiana.
Jennifer Reeves and Wendy Petrus, Administrative Directors and owners of Building Futures, shared how meaningful the program has been for both their staff and the families they serve.
“The grant has helped us increase the ability to provide high level, specialized training and certification for many of our therapists to better serve children and families in our community. This would have taken us much longer without this funding. It has also helped to increase the quality of care for our patients and has helped with employee retention and staff confidence.”
Their comments highlight an important part of the story: when local businesses are supported through workforce development opportunities, entire communities benefit. Better-trained therapists mean expanded services, improved patient outcomes, stronger employee retention, and greater confidence among families seeking care for their children.
The partnership between Louisiana Delta Community College and Building Futures Pediatric Therapy serves as a powerful example of how workforce development funding can create lasting impact. By investing in the continued education and growth of healthcare professionals, Northeast Louisiana families are gaining greater access to the specialized pediatric services they need, without having to leave home to find them.
Ochsner LSU Health
Solutions For The Silent Epidemic In Women’s Health
BY ADRIENNE WILLIAMS, MD
FOR MILLIONS OF WOMEN, THEIR MONTHLY CYCLE IS A recurring source of debilitating pain and heavy bleeding. Despite 1 in 10 women suffering from endometriosis and uterine fibroids affecting up to 80% of women by the age of 50, these reproductive health issues remain largely underdiagnosed and untreated. Regularly dismissed as normal period symptoms, these conditions are anything but normal. They need further investigation.
Diagnosis: The First Step To Finding Relief
Today, we have a range of advanced imaging tools that are used to confirm an endometriosis or fibroid diagnosis. Ultrasound, magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) and computed tomography (CT) scans are all noninvasive methods of effectively diagnosing endometriosis and fibroids.
If these are inconclusive or immediate treatment is required, hysteroscopy and laparoscopy are the next options. A hysteroscopy uses a small camera to look inside the uterus while laparoscopy accesses the lower abdomen via a small incision. A biopsy may also be taken during the procedure.
Treating Endometriosis: Prevention And Precision Treatment
Treatment for endometriosis focuses on shrinking or removing endometrial tissue rather than simply controlling pain. “Over the counter” nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) like ibuprofen can help with symptom relief, but they don’t treat the underlying growth.
Hormone therapy can help treat endometriosis by slowing tissue growth and preventing new tissue from growing.
● Hormonal Contraceptives: Birth control pills, patches and the Mirena® intrauterine device (IUD) can help reduce bleeding and pain.
● GnRH Agonists And Antagonists: These medications induce a menopause-like state by lowering estrogen levels and stopping the menstrual cycle, causing the endometrial tissue to shrink.
● Progestin Therapy: Options like Depo-Provera® or the Nexplanon® rod can prevent menstruation and relieve symptoms.
When medication doesn’t work or the patient wants a permanent solution, surgery is required. A conservative surgical approach to remove the endometriosis tissue (called laparoscopic excision surgery) is now considered the gold standard. For complex cases involving deep infiltrating endometriosis, robotic-assisted surgery provides surgeons with enhanced precision.
Endometriosis can also impact fertility, making it more difficult to conceive. In these cases, fertility treatment may be required. For women who don’t want to become pregnant, hysterectomy is another surgical option in the treatment of endometriosis. It is usually only considered when other treatments have failed.
Treating Fibroids: Innovative Nonsurgical
And
Minimally Invasive Options
Treatment for fibroids depends on the location and size of the fibroids, severity of symptoms, and patient fertility goals. If fibroids are asymptomatic, treatment may not be required. However, monitoring may be necessary. For symptomatic fibroids, medications and hormone therapy can be used to manage pain and control bleeding. Procedures are available to shrink or remove the fibroids.
One of the most significant advancements in fibroid treatment is uterine fibroid embolization. This nonsurgical, image-guided procedure involves blocking blood flow to the fibroids. It causes them to shrink, and it is more than 90% effective in reducing symptoms. Another noninvasive breakthrough is MRI-guided focused ultrasound, which uses high-frequency sound waves to destroy fibroid tissue by using heat.
Minimally invasive surgical options include myomectomy to remove fibroids while leaving the uterus intact and radiofrequency ablation, which uses microwave energy to shrink them. A hysterectomy (removal of the uterus) remains the only permanent solution to prevent new fibroids from growing. However, it is only an option for those not planning future pregnancies.
A Holistic Approach To Healing
Complete management of these conditions often requires more than a prescription or a procedure. In more complex cases, a team-based approach involving gynecologists, interventional radiologists, pelvic floor physical therapists and pain specialists may be required to create a comprehensive care plan.
Women do not have to struggle in silence. With thorough diagnosis and minimally invasive treatments, we can make chronic pelvic pain a thing of the past. If you are experiencing symptoms, make an appointment to discuss your symptoms with your primary healthcare provider or gynecologist.
Dr. Adrienne Williams specializes in obstetrics and gynecology at Ochsner LSU Health Monroe Medical Center. Call 318-330-7168 or visit ochsner.org to schedule an appointment.
Meredith’s Musings
CONSEQUENCES
article by MEREDITH MCKINNIE
Ican count on two hands the number of times I’ve seen Husband cry. And I don’t mean the sad movies that wrestle the tears to the surface. I mean in the context of our daily lives. One such occasion happened about three years ago. I was in the madness of writing my dissertation, and most of the childrearing fell to Husband, including the discipline. This is not our norm. Though Husband appears tough and authoritative, he loathes being the source of someone’s pain, even warranted, and thus, the discipline typically falls to me. I don’t resent this; I’m like my dad in this way. I appreciate boundaries, relish setting them, and am quick to identify one crossing such boundaries. Admittedly, authority gives me a bit of a high, so disciplining our girls comes naturally.
On this evening, I heard the elevated voices and rushed to the living room as Husband commanded our then five-year-old to go to bed. Barely 5PM, I glanced outside, stared at Husband, and then fell in line, insisting Big Sister get ready for bed. Little Sister shied in the corner, afraid of faring the same. Big Sister cried, protested, and then the look of fear set in when she realized Dad meant it and Mom wasn’t coming to her rescue. Teamwork is essential to parenting, so I’ve learned. As Husband pulled up her covers, tears streamed down her face, and her protests evolved into disbelief and defeat - perhaps the saddest expression I’ve ever witnessed. Big Sister placed my hand
against her cheek, as if insisting she was too cute to suffer in this way (and she was). I calmly told her that what Dad said goes, and she had pushed too far, that we loved her and following through on consequences was an expression of that love. Her furrowed brow reflected her sense of injustice. She didn’t feel the infraction warranted the consequence, and frankly, I didn’t know if it did either.
The rest of the evening felt silent. Little Sister is not the loud one, and without her protege she melted into the couch, as if punishing us for punishing her sister. When we put Little Sister to bed two hours later, Big Sister was fast asleep, angelic as always mid-slumber. Later in bed, I asked Husband what she did. Whatever it was had been prefaced with an explicit directive not to, that Big Sister then defied. He reminded me that a few nights earlier I had insisted he follow through on his threats, that the girls would never respect a pushover, that an absence of correction didn’t translate to love and respect. I had already forgotten, but it sounds like me. I told him I was proud of him, and he nodded as I settled on his chest to read.
Moments later, I detected his sly sniff, the noise we make when we’re crying but we don’t want to be watched. I tilted my head and witnessed tears, not unlike Big Sister’s, escaping Husband’s eyes. He hated the follow-through, of being the bad guy, of hurting his little girl’s heart. I reminded him that she hurt herself, that parenting means making those hard choices for
the kind of human we want her to be. “She’ll still love you in the morning,” I whispered. Without making eye contact, his eyes returned to the page.
We read for about an hour after the exchange, though my mind wandered. Why did Husband struggle with this? I knew he and his brothers were disciplined regularly; he has an amazing love and respect for his parents. The concept shouldn’t have felt foreign to him, but for some reason, it did. His passive nature is one of the many aspects I adore about Husband, the yin to my yang. I rage, and he just breathes, calming all of our storms. I needed him to step up for me, and he did, but he didn’t want to.
The next morning, Big Sister was first in our room, leaping onto the bed, the night before seemingly forgotten. She climbed in her daddy’s lap and lay her head on his chest. As I watched through the mirror, Husband held her, as he’s so often held me, offering tenderness and safety, a refuge we’ve come to rely on. When he caught my eye, I mouthed, “I’m proud of you.” While the punishment may have been difficult for Husband, the repair came naturally. I love that my girls are experiencing a soft masculinity, that Husband’s gentle nature transposes society’s insistence that men be hard and unyielding. In those moments when his passivity means more assertion on my part, I remember the counterpoint - that strength comes in various forms, as does love.
Bank of Oak Ridge
Welcomes Bradley Bridges and Kim Osborn
BANK OF OAK RIDGE HAS EXPANDED ITS PRESENCE IN West Monroe with the addition of two experienced banking professionals as the community bank continues investing in customercentered service and growth across Northeast Louisiana. Bradley Bridges has joined the bank as senior vice president and West Monroe market president, while Kim Osbon has been named banking officer and loan assistant. Both will serve customers and support the bank’s continued expansion throughout Ouachita Parish and the surrounding region. The hires represent another step in Bank of Oak Ridge’s commitment to strengthening its presence in Northeast Louisiana while maintaining the personalized approach and community-centered philosophy that have defined the institution for more than a century.
Bridges brings years of banking leadership experience to the role and is a graduate of the Graduate School of Banking at LSU, a nationally respected program focused on professional development, financial management and community banking operations. Throughout his career, Bridges has worked closely with business owners, community leaders and families across the region, building relationships centered on trust, service and long-term financial success. He also serves as a board member for Two Penny Missions in West Monroe, reflecting his commitment to community involvement and service beyond the banking industry.
In his new role, Bridges will oversee the bank’s efforts in the West Monroe market, working to strengthen customer connections while helping expand the bank’s presence in one of the fastest-growing areas in Northeast Louisiana. He will also focus on supporting local businesses and providing financial solutions customized to community needs.
Osbon joins the bank as banking officer and loan assistant, where she will support customers and lending operations while assisting clients with personal and business banking needs. Her role includes helping customers navigate lending processes, maintaining strong relationships and supporting the high-touch service Bank of Oak Ridge prioritizes throughout its operations.
Bank officials said the addition of Bridges and Osbon reflects the institution’s continued investment in experienced professionals who understand the importance of community banking and local involvement. “Bradley and Kim are outstanding additions to the Bank of Oak Ridge team, and we are excited to welcome bankers of their caliber to our organization,” said Wesley Martin, president and CEO of Bank of Oak Ridge. “Their experience, professionalism and commitment to relationship banking align perfectly with the culture we continue to build at our bank. Community
banking is about serving people, supporting local businesses and providing financial solutions that meet the unique needs of our customers and communities. We are confident Bradley and Kim will play an important role in strengthening those community ties and continuing the high level of service our customers expect from Bank of Oak Ridge.”
Martin said the bank remains focused on sustainable growth while preserving the local decision-making and customer-first philosophy that distinguish community banking from larger financial institutions. “As we continue growing in West Monroe and throughout Northeast Louisiana, our priority remains building lasting partnerships with the people and businesses we serve,” Martin said. “We believe banking should still be personal. Our customers deserve access to experienced bankers who understand the local market, value relationships and are committed to helping communities thrive. Bradley and Kim both embody those values, and we are excited about the experience and vision they bring to our team.” Bank of Oak Ridge has continued expanding its footprint and services while emphasizing community involvement, local leadership and customer accessibility. Officials said growth in markets like West Monroe allows the institution to better serve personal and business customers while continuing to invest in the communities where employees and customers live and work.
The bank said hiring experienced professionals with strong regional ties is important to maintaining the personalized service customers expect as the bank grows. Bridges said he is excited to join an institution that shares his belief in community involvement and personalized banking. “Bank of Oak Ridge has a strong reputation for putting customers and communities first,” Bridges said. “I’m excited for the opportunity to join a team that values personal service and local commitment while continuing to grow throughout the region.”
Osbon said she is excited to continue serving customers and contributing to the bank’s customer-focused culture. “Being in the banking industry for 18 years, I am excited to contribute to a team that prioritizes trust, delivers excellence and helps clients achieve their financial goals,” Osbon said.
Founded in 1910, Bank of Oak Ridge has served Northeast Louisiana for more than 100 years with a focus on relationship banking, community involvement and tailored financial solutions for individuals, families and businesses.
The additions of Bridges and Osbon position the bank for continued success in West Monroe while reinforcing the bank’s commitment to responsive, personalized community banking.
BelleWood Chapel
BelleWood Chapel Creates a Stunning Setting for Life’s Most Meaningful Moments
ANEW CHAPTER IN NORTHEAST LOUISIANA WEDDINGS
is beginning with the arrival of BelleWood Chapel & Event Venue
LLC, an elegant new venue designed to bring timeless beauty, Southern charm, and meaningful celebrations to the heart of Farmerville.
Located at 6561 Highway 2 in Farmerville, BelleWood Chapel is a family-owned and operated venue created by Chad Patton, Melissa Patton, and their daughter, Isabella Patton. What began as Isabella’s dream for her own wedding day quickly transformed into a vision for something much bigger — a beautiful gathering place where couples throughout the region can celebrate life’s most memorable moments.
The venue’s very first wedding, scheduled for April 3, 2027, will be Isabella’s own ceremony to her fiancé, Colby Gean — a meaningful milestone that reflects just how personal this project has been from the very beginning.
Rooted in Community
For the Patton family, choosing Farmerville as the home for BelleWood Chapel was an easy decision. As lifelong locals, they wanted to create something that would not only serve couples and families but also contribute to the community they love.
“Farmerville is home,” the family shared in their questionnaire. With its peaceful scenery, strong sense of community, and growing need for large event spaces, they saw the perfect opportunity to build a venue that combines elegance, functionality, and heartfelt Southern hospitality.
That hometown connection is reflected throughout the property’s design. BelleWood Chapel was envisioned to bring back the feeling of weddings in the church while still offering the modern comforts today’s couples want. The venue blends classic architectural inspiration with breathtaking views of the surrounding landscape and pond, creating an atmosphere that feels romantic, timeless, and welcoming.
Designed for Beautiful Celebrations
BelleWood Chapel was thoughtfully created to host weddings and events of all sizes while maintaining an intimate and elegant feel. The property features three main sections, including a fully enclosed and climate-controlled chapel, a spacious reception venue, and a beautiful courtyard connecting the two spaces.
The chapel itself is a one-story building designed to seat approximately 240 guests, with a maximum capacity of 270 people. The reception venue can accommodate 250 seated guests and up to 350 people total, making BelleWood one of the few venues in the area capable of comfortably
hosting large celebrations without sacrificing style or comfort.
The reception building also includes a prep kitchen, serving bar, multi-stall restrooms, and upstairs bridal and groom suites complete with private restrooms and amenities for getting ready on the big day.
One of the venue’s standout features is its ability to offer both indoor and outdoor event options while protecting couples from Louisiana’s often unpredictable weather. Both primary buildings are fully enclosed and climate controlled, allowing weddings and receptions to continue comfortably year-round.
Guests will also be able to enjoy scenic views throughout the property thanks to thoughtfully placed windows and gathering spaces overlooking the pond and surrounding landscape.
A Place for Meaningful Memories
More than anything, the Patton family hopes BelleWood Chapel becomes a place where people feel celebrated, welcomed, and connected. Faith, family, and community remain at the center of the venue’s mission, shaping every detail of the experience they hope to create for couples and guests alike.
“Our mission is to provide everyone with a beautiful, stress-free setting where life’s most important moments can be celebrated together,” the family shared.
While weddings are the primary focus, BelleWood Chapel also plans to host receptions, private parties, and community gatherings in the future. The family already has plans for future phases and additions as the venue continues to grow in the coming years.
Looking Ahead
Although tours are not yet available due to ongoing construction, the owners hope to begin showing the property in the fall and winter seasons ahead of their official opening.
As construction continues, one thing is already clear: BelleWood Chapel was built with heart. From its church-inspired atmosphere to its scenic surroundings and family-centered vision, the venue promises to offer Northeast Louisiana couples a truly unforgettable place to begin their forever.
For now, couples can follow BelleWood Chapel on Facebook and Instagram for updates and booking information. Interested brides and event planners can also reach the venue by email at isabella@bellewoodchapel.com, bookings@ bellewoodchapel.com, or info@bellewoodchapel.com.
BOTANICAL OLD WORLD CHARM
Grounded in love, this couple relishes time together and appreciates all things inspired by nature and artisan crafted. Plates and serving pieces that take a cue from the natural world. Fine cookware. Napkins and placemats inspired by flowers.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Maré Brennan
Landscape in gilded frame from Material Things
Sue Sartor paper Marigold block print napkins from The Muffin Tin / Trenton House
Copper cannister set from Walsworth & Company
Le Creuset mixing bowl from The Muffin Tin / Trenton House
Green glazed Majolica, large handpainted serving bowl and floral napkins from Walsworth & Company
Wooden chip and dip with spoon from Petals & Pearls
Royal Crown Derby “Majestic White” tea cup and saucer and stainless flatware with beaded gold accent from The
MODERN ROMANTIC
Chic and stylish, this registry reflects a couple with modern sensibilities wrapped in romance. A bold piece of art. Tactile hand-thrown pottery serving pieces. Graphic decorative accessories mix with refined contemporary china and silverware accented with gold. Sleek serving pieces.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Maré Brennan
Laguiole cheese knife set from Walsworth & Co. Modern handthrown pottery from Palette House holds a mix of “White Cloud” and “Juliet” roses from Carlstedt’s
Benjamin Burts gold leaf bowl from Material Things. Silver leaf XO Bookends from The Muffin Tin/Trenton House
Framed contemporary art from Material Things. Blond Soap Lotion and Caddy from Petals & Pearls
/ Trenton House
Muffin Tin
Stacked wooden oval boxes with bone inlay from Walsworth & Co
Dianne Candle from The Hotel Monroe
Laguiole steak knives from Walsworth & Co
LOUISIANA FRENCH FLAIR
Ooh-la-la! Bridal registries reflect a couple’s joie de vivre and set newlyweds on their journey. A signature scent for their new home. A keepsake box for their most treasured wedding mementos. Nods to Louisiana’s French heritage. Toiletries and luxurious robes. Butterflies and bees as adornment. Blues inspired by Provence.
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tassel
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Maré Brennan
Lollia “Elegance” Bubble bath from Petals and Pearls. Liberty of London robe from Material Things
Leather Privacy
door
from The Hotel Monroe
Gilded frames from The Muffin Tin/Trenton House
Trudon “Figuerie” Room Spray with atomizer and Petite Keep Bridal Keepsake Trunk from Material Things
Jay Davis-signed Louisiana Iris print and Revered Bayou Beard
Fleur de Lis Beard Oil from The Hotel Monroe
Ruffled Edge Footed Serving Bowl from Palette House
Mottahedeh Lace with Butterfly and Juliska Provence Goblet from The Muffin Tin/Trenton House
HIS & HER SIGNATURE DRINKS
Wedding guests love sipping signature cocktails, and we have paired two of our favorites for a dynamic combo that rivals all the great love stories. The French Kiss Martini is an absolute legend with sweet and tropical pineapple blended with elegant raspberry liqueur. The Louisiana Gentleman is our take on a classic Old Fashioned with a twist and is made with home-grown Louisiana ingredients.
(HERS) THE FRENCH KISS MARTINI
Ingredients:
2 oz Vodka
3 oz Pineapple Juice
1 oz Chambord raspberry liqueur
Fresh raspberries halved for garnish
Crushed ice
Combine vodka, pineapple juice, and Chambord along with ice in a shaker and vigorously shake until frothy. Strain into martini glass and garnish with raspberry halves.
(HIS) THE LOUISIANA GENTLEMAN
Ingredients:
½ oz Steen’s Cane Syrup
½ oz Lemon juice
2-3 Shakes of Angostura
bitters
2 oz Orange or satsuma juice
2 oz JT Meleck Bourbon Club soda to top
Pitted cherries
Large ice cube
Satsuma slice for garnish
Combine syrup, juices, bitters, and bourbon in a high ball over a large ice cube. Add two cherries and top off drink with fizzy club soda and stir. Garnish with satsuma slice on rim.
Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Maré Brennan
BAYOU WEDDINGS
High ball and martini glasses and travertine tray were sourced from Walsworth & Co. on Antique Alley.
Louisiana Surgery Center
Dedicated to Outstanding Patient Care
LOUISIANA SURGERY CENTER IN RUSTON IS COMMITTED
to providing exceptional outpatient surgical care to patients throughout north Louisiana, combining advanced medical technology with compassionate, patient-focused treatment. The center is home to a talented group of physicians representing multiple specialties, allowing patients to receive high-quality surgical care close to home. Among the experienced providers serving the region is Dr. Lee Miller, the center’s dedicated ear, nose, and throat specialist whose extensive training, military service, and commitment to northeast Louisiana have made him a trusted name in ENT care.
Born in Monroe and raised in Lake Providence, Dr. Miller has spent much of his life connected to the people and communities of Louisiana. His passion for medicine and patient care led him to pursue higher education at Tulane University, where he earned his Bachelor of Arts degree before continuing his medical education at LSU Health Sciences Center. He graduated with his Doctor of Medicine degree in 2000 and remained within the LSU system to complete both a General Surgery internship and a residency in Otolaryngology and Head and Neck Surgery at LSU Health Sciences Center.
This extensive education and training provided Dr. Miller with a strong foundation in diagnosing and treating a wide range of conditions involving the ears, nose, throat, head, and neck. Today, his specialties include ear disorders, hearing issues, allergy treatment, sinus conditions, voice and swallowing disorders, and sleep-related conditions. As the only ENT specialist associated with Louisiana Surgery Center in Ruston, Dr. Miller provides an important and highly specialized service to patients throughout the region who are seeking expert care without traveling far from home.
Patients appreciate Dr. Miller’s comprehensive and personalized approach to treatment. ENT conditions can significantly impact quality of life, affecting everything from hearing and breathing to sleep and communication. Dr. Miller works closely with each patient to understand their symptoms, identify underlying causes, and develop effective treatment plans tailored to their individual needs. Whether treating chronic sinus problems, hearing loss, allergies, sleep disorders, or complex throat conditions, his focus remains on helping patients achieve long-term relief and improved health.
In addition to his clinical expertise, Dr. Miller brings a remarkable background of military service and surgical experience to his practice. After completing his residency training, he served four years as an otolaryngologist in the United States Air Force. During his military career,
he also served as a faculty member at Wilford Hall Medical Center, where he helped train medical residents and future surgeons. His experience teaching other physicians further strengthened his expertise and leadership within the field of otolaryngology.
In 2008, Dr. Miller deployed to Joint Base Balad in Iraq in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom as part of a head and neck surgical trauma team. While deployed, he worked closely alongside specialists in neurosurgery, ophthalmology, and oral maxillofacial surgery to provide emergency trauma care for wounded coalition forces, Iraqi civilians, and enemy combatants. The fast-paced and demanding environment required precision, adaptability, and teamwork under extreme conditions. This unique experience added another layer of surgical skill and perspective that continues to benefit his patients today.
Dr. Miller’s service extended beyond the Middle East as he also participated in an otologic surgery mission to Riobamba, Ecuador. Through this medical mission work, he helped provide specialized ear surgery and ENT care to patients with limited access to advanced medical services. His willingness to serve both internationally and within his own community reflects a deep commitment to improving the lives of others through medicine.
After completing his active-duty service commitment, Dr. Miller chose to return home to north Louisiana to continue serving the region where he was raised. For the past fourteen years, he has practiced in Monroe, building strong relationships with patients and earning a reputation for compassionate care, surgical excellence, and professional integrity. As a dedicated husband and father of three children, Dr. Miller values family, community, and the importance of caring for patients with respect and understanding.
At Louisiana Surgery Center in Ruston, patients benefit not only from advanced outpatient surgical services but also from access to experienced specialists who are committed to improving health outcomes throughout north Louisiana. Dr. Lee Miller’s expertise in ear, nose, and throat care, combined with his military background, advanced surgical training, and dedication to patient-centered medicine, makes him a valuable part of the center’s physician team and an important resource for the surrounding communities.
In addition to Dr. Lee Miller, Louisiana Surgery Center in Ruston is proud to work alongside a respected team of physicians dedicated to outstanding patient care, including Dr. David Trenton, Dr. Sol Graves, Dr. Martin DeGravelle, Dr. Elliott Nipper, Dr. KC Sirmon, Dr. Cameron Best, and Dr. Stanley Crawford.
Honoring ULM’s President
Investiture of 10th President Dr. Carrie L. Castille
THE UNIVERSITY OF LOUISIANA MONROE CAME together to celebrate its 10th President, Dr. Carrie L. Castille, on Thursday, April 23, 2026. The University held an Investiture Ceremony in Fant-Ewing Coliseum, followed by a Presidential Gala later that evening in Bayou Pointe Event Center.
The University of Louisiana Monroe’s Investiture ceremony is a distinguished academic tradition that formally honors the installation of the university’s president. Rooted in centuries-old academic custom, the investiture marks the official conferral of authority and leadership through ceremonial regalia and symbolic elements such as the presidential medallion and mace. The event brought together faculty, staff, students, alumni, and community leaders to celebrate continuity, institutional achievement, and the beginning of a new chapter in ULM’s history. The festivities began with a processional led by Dr. Castille that began in front of the ULM Library and included students, faculty, and staff marching to Fant-Ewing Coliseum for the beginning of the Investiture Ceremony.
The ceremony was led by Provost and Vice President for Academic Affairs Dr. Michelle McEacharn. Featured guest speakers included Dr. Mike Strain, Louisiana Commissioner of Agriculture; Dr. Kim Hunter Reed, Commissioner of Higher Education for the state of Louisiana; Misti Cordell, Chair of the Louisiana Board of Regents; Mark Romero, Chair of the University of Louisiana System Board of Supervisors; Dr. Rick Gallot, President of the University of Louisiana System; Dr. Nick Bruno, 8th President of ULM, and Dr. Bill Graves, ULM Vice President for Business Affairs. As part of the ceremony, Dr. Castille was given the presidential robe, which is a symbol of education, experience, and wisdom. “The robing of the president represents both how the university closely envelops the president and how the president wears her responsibility for the university and the education that we provide,” said Dr. McEacharn.
After the robing, Dr. Castille was formally invested as the 10th President of ULM by University of Louisiana System President Dr. Rick Gallot. She then took to the podium for remarks.
“Today is a day of deep gratitude and profound humility. Standing before you as the 10th president of ULM is an honor I will carry with me for the rest of my life,” said Castille. “As president, I am committed to honoring our history while boldly building our future, strengthening academic excellence, expanding every opportunity, supporting our students, and deepening our commitment to the communities we serve. We will pursue innovation with purpose and growth with integrity, and we will do so together,” she added.
As she exited the coliseum following the ceremony, Dr. Castille was treated to cheers and a standing ovation from the students who were gathered in the coliseum. The celebration continued into the evening with the Presidential Gala, sponsored by Entergy. A host of special guests packed into the Bayou Pointe Event Center for an evening of great drinks, food, music, dancing, and some words from special guests.
The Gala was hosted by Roy Heatherly, Retired President and CEO of the Monroe Chamber of Commerce. After an invocation led by Dr. Alberta Green, CEO of ABG Professional Development Solutions and Secretary/ Treasurer of the ULM Foundation Board of Supervisors, the evening’s special guest speakers took to the stage to highlight Dr. Castille’s impact on their lives and on ULM and the surrounding community.
Aubrey J.D. Bettencourt, Chief of the Natural Resources Conservation Service, shared about his time working with Dr. Castille, as did Brian Klippenstein, Hedge Post Consultant and Owner of Dead Reckoning Farms, and Michelle Ribera, Assistant Commissioner of the Office of Animal Health and Food Safety in the Louisiana Department of Agriculture and Forestry.
Toni Bacon, ULM alumna and Chairperson of the Development Committee of the ULM Foundation, District A Police Juror for Ouachita Parish, and Senior VP of Commercial Lending at Century Next Bank, gave remarks about her friendship with Dr. Castille and her hope for the future of ULM under Dr. Castille’s leadership.
Speaking about the connection between ULM and the surrounding community were Monroe Mayor Friday Ellis, West Monroe Mayor Staci Mitchell, and Ouachita Parish Police Jury President Shane Smiley. Each leader congratulated Dr. Castille and highlighted the importance of ULM’s collaboration with local government. Dr. Megan Borel Spansel, Lunar Scientist at NASA and Dr. Castille’s daughter, made remarks and introduced President Castille.
In her speech to the attendees of the Gala, Dr. Castille highlighted her history that led her to the presidency and expressed thanks for those who helped her along the way. She ended with a message of gratitude, “Thank you for believing in me and believing in ULM. Thank you for being part of this journey. Let’s go Warhawks!”
The evening concluded with dancing and live music provided by Souled Out from Lafayette, La.
The following groups are gratefully acknowledged for the success of the Investiture events: Administrative Council of President Castille, ULM Event Services, Investiture Committee, ULM Foundation, and the ULM Office of Marketing and Communications.
A Witness to Love
One Bridal Boutique Owner’s Unexpected Calling
COURTNEY PENTECOST NEVER EXPECTED THAT helping brides find their dream gowns would eventually lead her back to her own dream. Yet somehow, in the heart of her bridal boutique in Jena, Louisiana, she found clarity, purpose, and a renewed belief that some moments in life are worth waiting for.
As the owner of Blue Sparrow Bridal Co., Courtney has helped brides experience one of the most emotional milestones of their lives. Since 2021, they’ve quickly become a destination for brides searching for “the one,” carrying sought-after designers including Maggie Sottero, Rebecca Ingram, Justin Alexander, and more.
But despite dedicating her career to unforgettable bridal moments, Courtney reveals there was one experience she had never personally lived herself. “I’ve actually never worn a wedding dress,” she says candidly. She and her husband were planning their wedding back in 2013 when life shifted course. After years of believing motherhood might never happen for her, Courtney discovered she was pregnant. “Since grade school, I had been told I would never be able to bear children,” she explains. The couple immediately shifted focus from wedding plans to preparing for the arrival of their baby girl. A wedding no longer felt important compared to the miracle they were about to experience together.
Twelve years later, Courtney and her husband are still happily married. But according to Courtney, one dream always remained in the background. “My husband has wanted to have a wedding for years,” she says. “He says, ‘I want to see you standing at the end of an aisle in a wedding dress. I want that moment captured and framed on the wall so I can look at it whenever I want.’” Like many couples, though, life simply kept moving. Between children and the demands of adulthood, the idea was pushed further down the list.
Ironically, during those same years, Courtney found herself immersed in the very world she once stepped away from. When asked what inspired her to open a bridal boutique, she admits she never really had a logical explanation. “I truly didn’t know what drew me to it,” she says. “I just felt it in my heart.” Even the boutique’s name seemed to come to her out of nowhere. It wasn’t until a month after opening that she discovered the deeper meaning behind it. During a conversation with her aunt, Courtney mentioned that the name had no real significance beyond simply liking the sound of it. “That’s when she told me that a blue sparrow symbolizes true love,” Courtney recalls.
Today, she believes that revelation may not have been accidental.
Over time, Courtney began noticing a recurring pattern during bridal appointments. Customers often commented on how genuinely emotional and invested she became during their special moments. “As cliché as it sounds, I still get goosebumps every single time,” Courtney admits. “The moment a bride realizes she’s found her dress, there’s nothing like it.” For Courtney, it’s never just about fabric, fashion, or fittings. It’s about witnessing a deeply personal milestone many women have dreamed about since childhood. “It’s such a beautiful thing to witness,” she says. “I feel incredibly blessed to be even a small part of that moment.” It was then, she knew. “After a few years, it finally dawned on me why I felt led to open the boutique,” she says. “I may not have had that moment for myself, but I get to relive it every time another bride has hers.” Helping other women experience joy, excitement, and love became healing in its own way.
But earlier this year, an unexpected encounter finally pushed Courtney to stop living vicariously through everyone else’s happiness and claim her own moment. While attending a wedding rehearsal, Courtney overheard the bride speaking to her wedding coordinator. “She said, ‘After I step through the doors, I want to pause and have my moment.’” The words immediately struck something deep inside her. “I remember thinking, ‘Yes! Everyone deserves that moment!’”
Then came the realization she couldn’t ignore. “Since when did ‘everyone’ stop including me?” she says. “When did it stop including my husband and the moment he’s wanted for so long?” In that instant, years of postponement, excuses, and hesitation disappeared. “Sometimes clarity comes from the most unexpected moments and ignites something in you,” Courtney says. As soon as rehearsal ended, she walked straight to her husband with a decision already made. “I told him, ‘Okay, let’s do it.’” The reaction on his face is a memory she says she’ll carry forever. “The look of pure joy that washed over him, I’ll never forget it.”
Now, after years of helping countless brides find their perfect dress and live out their wedding-day dreams, Courtney Pentecost is finally preparing for a moment of her own. In May 2027, surrounded by their children, family, and closest friends, Courtney and her husband will officially celebrate the wedding they never got to have.
And for the very first time, the bridal boutique owner who has spent years helping others say yes to the dress will finally wear a bridal gown of her own.
Flying Heart Turns 5!
Celebrating Five Years of Craft Beer, Pizza, and Community in West Monroe
NESTLED IN THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN WEST Monroe, Flying Heart Brewing and Pub has become a cherished hub for craft beer lovers and families alike. As we proudly celebrate our fifth anniversary, it’s the perfect moment to reflect on our incredible journey and highlight what makes us a standout destination for both locals and visitors.
At Flying Heart Brewing & Pub, we take immense pride in our diverse selection of handcrafted beers. Our dedicated brewers infuse their passion into every batch, resulting in a spectrum of flavors that cater to every taste preference. From refreshing IPAs to rich stouts, our beer menu is crafted to delight both seasoned enthusiasts and newcomers.
Signature brews like the “Firehouse Blonde” and “Louisiana Amber” have developed devoted followings, while our seasonal offerings keep the experience fresh and exciting. Whether you crave something light or bold, there’s always a new discovery waiting on our taps.
Flying Heart is not just about exceptional beer; our extensive bar menu perfectly complements our craft beverages. Guests can indulge in a variety of cocktails, wines, and non-alcoholic options, ensuring everyone finds something to enjoy. We even brew our own Root Beer! Our knowledgeable staff is always eager to recommend the ideal pairing or introduce you to a new favorite drink.
Our food menu has gained a fabulous reputation! We are especially known for our uniquely crafted pizzas, made with fresh ingredients on a thin, New York-style dough. Our regular menu includes a variety of delights, such as pretzel bites, chicken wings, and meat pies. Don’t forget to check out our monthly specials! On the weekends, you can enjoy our signature brunch menu, which has made us a favorite brunch spot.
The brunch menu features a delightful selection of dishes that cater to all tastes. Pair your brunch with a refreshing mimosa, crafted cocktail, or cold brew for a truly enjoyable experience. Our familyfriendly atmosphere makes it the perfect spot to gather with loved ones for a relaxing weekend meal.
At Flying Heart Brewing and Pub, we strive to create a welcoming environment for all. Whether you’re unwinding after a long day, catching up with friends, or seeking a family-friendly outing, our
space is designed to accommodate everyone. With comfortable seating, board games, and a dedicated staff, we’ve crafted a place where guests can relax and enjoy quality time together.
To mark our fifth anniversary, we are hosting a multi-day celebration with events to bring together friends, families, and loyal customers. Starting Thursday, July 2, the West Monroe-West Ouachita Chamber of Commerce will host a ribbon cutting at the brewery to commemorate the milestone celebration. On Saturday, July 4, we will have Message from Mercury kicking off at 6:00 pm and ending right before the City’s fireworks show.
The following day, July 5, we will continue the festivities with live music from Jackson Culp and The Company starting at 6:00 pm. Throughout the weekend there will be door prizes, drink specials, and anniversary merchandise for sale. It is sure to be a great weekend of friends, family, fireworks, and fun!
As we look forward, we remain committed to sharing our craft with our ever-growing family and friends. Our fifth anniversary is just the beginning, and we eagerly anticipate continuing to grow and serve our community for many more years to come. So, whether you’re a local or just passing through West Monroe, we invite you to visit us at Flying Heart Brewing and Pub—where great beer and unforgettable memories await!
Flying Heart Brewing & Pub is located at 204 Commerce Street in West Monroe. To make reservations or for any questions, contact them at (318) 367-0888. Also be sure to check out their Facebook and Instagram for news, events and monthly specials.
Hats & Horses 2026
Celebrates Five Years of Style and Scholarship
ONE OF NORTHEAST LOUISIANA’S MOST ANTICIPATED spring social events returned in unforgettable fashion this year as the LDCC Foundation hosted Hats & Horses 2026 at its brand-new venue, Hotel Monroe. Blending Southern sophistication, Derby-inspired style, and community spirit, the annual celebration brought together supporters, sponsors, and guests for an evening filled with elegance and purpose.
Celebrating Five Successful Years
Now celebrating its fifth consecutive year, Hats & Horses has grown into a signature event for the LDCC Foundation, helping raise support for educational initiatives and student opportunities throughout the region. Powered by Entergy and Meta, the event continues to expand in both attendance and community impact, becoming one of the area’s most highly anticipated annual gatherings. This year’s move to Hotel Monroe added a fresh and elevated experience to the beloved tradition, offering guests a beautiful downtown setting with modern charm and timeless Southern hospitality.
The event was masterfully coordinated by Frank Bennett and Nathan Hall, whose vision and attention to detail helped transform the evening into one of the most memorable Hats & Horses celebrations to date. From the elegant décor and seamless atmosphere to the carefully planned guest experience, Bennett and Hall played a major role in bringing the event to life at its new location.
Dining, Derby Viewing, and Silent Auction
Fun
Guests were treated to a delicious meal prepared by Hotel Monroe and Chef Karen Bennett, adding another memorable touch to the evening’s festivities. Throughout the night, attendees mingled with friends and supporters, sipped on classic mint juleps while watching the Kentucky Derby, and enthusiastically bid on silent auction items benefiting the LDCC Foundation. It was not only an evening of celebration and style, but also a meaningful opportunity to raise scholarship funds for students attending one of the LDCC campuses across the region.
Fashion and Festivities
From the moment attendees arrived, the excitement was evident. Guests showcased stunning wide-brimmed hats, colorful fascinators, seersucker suits, and spring-inspired attire as they gathered to celebrate
both philanthropy and community. The venue’s stylish event spaces provided the perfect backdrop for the evening’s festivities, creating an atmosphere that felt both upscale and welcoming.
Thank You to the Sponsors
A special thank you goes out to the generous sponsors who made the evening possible. Leading sponsors Entergy and Meta played a major role in supporting the success of Hats & Horses 2026, along with the many additional sponsors and community partners who contributed to the event. Their continued support allows the LDCC Foundation to create meaningful opportunities for students throughout the region. Organizers emphasized that the event simply would not be possible without the dedication and generosity of every sponsor involved.
A Special Thanks to Hotel Monroe
The LDCC Foundation also extended a huge thank you to Hotel Monroe for hosting this year’s celebration. The venue’s sophisticated atmosphere, outstanding service, and welcoming hospitality helped make the evening truly unforgettable for everyone in attendance.
Looking Ahead
Hosting the event at Hotel Monroe marked an exciting new chapter for Hats & Horses. The venue’s sophisticated design and downtown location brought a renewed sense of excitement to the event while maintaining the charm and traditions guests have come to love over the years. Many attendees praised the new location for its elegant ambiance and ability to comfortably accommodate the growing crowd.
Beyond the fashion and festivities, the heart of Hats & Horses remains its impact. Funds raised through the event help support scholarships, programs, and opportunities that directly benefit students served by the LDCC Foundation. The evening served as a reminder that when a community comes together in support of education, meaningful change follows.
As another successful Hats & Horses comes to a close, anticipation is already building for what next year may bring. With a beautiful new venue, strong community support, the backing of generous sponsors, and the creativity of organizers Frank Bennett and Nathan Hall helping lead the way, Hats & Horses 2026 proved to be a memorable celebration of style, generosity, and the power of giving back.
Photos by Hannah Finley
Off the Wall
Supporting the Arts in Northeast Louisiana for its 17th Year
OFF THE WALL, THE MASUR MUSEUM’S ANNUAL fundraising event, has become one of the area’s most anticipated experiences, bringing together artists, collectors and supporters, under one roof to support the arts in Northeast Louisiana.
What began as a practical solution to a financial challenge has grown into a signature event that highlights the strength and diversity of the local creative community. Current Director Evelyn Stewart recognized shortly after stepping into her leadership role that the museum needed additional funding sources. She created Off the Wall not only to help close the budget gap, but also to provide local artists with an opportunity to exhibit and sell their work in a professional museum setting.
The Masur Museum was originally constructed in 1929 as a private residence. The modified Tudor-style estate was built by lumberman Clarence Edward Slagle for his wife, Mabel. After Clarence’s passing in 1934, Mabel sold the home to the Masur family. Sigmund and Beatrice Masur, along with their children Sylvian, Jack, and Bertha Marie, lived in the home until the 1960s. In 1963, the Masur children donated the home to the City of Monroe with the vision of transforming it into a fine art museum for the community. Through the efforts of volunteers and docents, the museum began presenting exhibitions and educational programming. In 1974, the Twin City Art Foundation was established to further support the museum through funding for exhibitions, educational initiatives, and the permanent collection. Today, the Masur continues to operate through a partnership between the City of Monroe and the Twin City Art Foundation.
Unlike many juried or invitation-only art events, Off the Wall welcomes artists of all experience levels. As long as the artwork meets the event guidelines, it is accepted into the show. That open approach creates an atmosphere that feels welcoming and results in an eclectic mix of styles, mediums, and perspectives.
This year’s event featured an impressive 93 artists from across the region and beyond, showcasing everything from painting and collage to mixed media and contemporary works. Artists included Adrianna Speer, Allie Collier, Amber Johnfroe, Andre Pace, Anna Agan, Anne Erwin, Arielle Douthit, Ben Bennett, Brandon Dearing , Brenda Anderson, Brooke Cassady, Callan Bowling, Cathy Lowery, Christiane Drieling, Clifford Tresner, Crystal Harkins, Cynthia Loy Sheppard, Daija Essien, Daisy Bright, Daniel Moore, Dean Dablow, Deborah Faulk, Dominic Wilfong, Donna F McGee, Doug Breckenridge, Drék Davis, Emily Ezell, Emily Leibowitz, Fable Hyde, Frank Hamrick, G Scott, Grant Bowling,
Hartley Waldrop Arendsen, Heather Gill, Heather Green, Hooshang Khorasani, Inique Harris, JaCera Francois , Jaci Johnson, Jaki Wilkinson , Jan Wurm, Jane Jarrett, Jansyn, Jason Byron Nelson, Jay Davis, Jeffrey Douthit, Jennifer Haynes, Jeremy Thornhill, Jolee Nicole Rogers, Joyce Pommer, Katie Webber, Katye Leggett, Keagan Vaughan, Kyla Justice , Lacey Warren, Lauren Butler, Leah Reitzell , Leana Dillon, Lemon Burnside, Lexi Smith, Lindsay Carraway, Lissy Sanders Compton, Markus Wobisch, Megan Smith, Mehdi Heidari, Melanie Douthit, Michelle Newton, Natalie Armstrong of ¡Fifi Gi! Storied Collage Art, Natalie C. Sturgis, Nicolas Bel Pepper, Nicole Duet, Pam Morrison, Pamela Graves , Pat Cene Howard, Qais Al-Sindy, Riana Amato, Rusty Potter, Sage Traylor, Scott Stone, Shykeria Monet, Solomon Williams, Stacy Medaries, Suzanna Scott, Tom Richard, Trey Gordon, Tyler Skipper, Viana Fabian, Victoria Hair, Vivian Graham, Whitney Trisler Causey, Wyn Garner, Xili Swan-Flanders.
Between sponsorships, ticket sales, and auction proceeds, the museum raised more than $30,000. Those funds directly support the Masur Museum’s annual exhibitions and educational programming, helping sustain art opportunities for children, families, students, and visitors throughout the region.
Guests enjoyed more than just the artwork during the event. In place of traditional catering, the museum partnered with local businesses that donated food as in-kind sponsorships. Contributions came from Doe’s Eat Place, JAC’s Craft Smokehouse, Chicken Salad Chick, Flying Tiger Brewery & Pizza Bar, Warehouse No. 1, and several other local favorites, creating a festive atmosphere that celebrated not only the arts, but the broader community as well. Papi Loco also provided meals for museum staff throughout the busy event day. Live music added another layer of energy to the evening with performances by HeavyDrunk and Watermelon Slim, whose sets helped keep the excitement going as guests moved through the galleries placing bids and visiting with artists.
As with any successful art auction, a few pieces sparked particularly spirited competition. Among the evening’s most sought-after works were The Passion of Maternity by Qais Al-Sindy, Still Life with Citrus and Berries by Nicole Duet, and Monroe Riverside by Doug Breckenridge.
The event brings together people from all walks of life who share a common appreciation for creativity and community. Artists mingle with collectors, first-time buyers discover local talent, and longtime museum supporters gather to celebrate an institution that has served Monroe for generations.
The Luxe Bride Guide
A Modern Wedding Planning Guide for Northeast Louisiana Brides
THERE’S A REASON WEDDINGS ARE KNOWN FOR FEELING unforgettable. From receptions and ceremonies to outdoor celebrations, weddings across Northeast Louisiana tend to feel family-centered, and full of personality. Between booking vendors, organizing guest lists and budgets, it’s easy to overlook details that can make the entire experience feel smoother and far less stressful.
Start With the Atmosphere You Want to Create
Before selecting things like linens, floral colors, or reception decor, consider the atmosphere you want to create.
Do you want the evening to feel elegant and formal? Relaxed and romantic? High-energy and lively? Intimate and emotional? The clearest wedding designs begin with the feeling first and the aesthetic second. Once you establish the overall tone, decisions become much easier to make.
Prioritize Your Vendor Bookings Early
In Louisiana, spring and fall wedding dates tend to book quickly. When researching wedding vendors, couples should look beyond pricing. Qualities such as experience, communication, organization, and professionalism all play a major role in how the day will actually run behind the scenes.
A Few Important Questions to Ask Before Booking:
• How far in advance do you arrive?
• Have you worked at our venue before?
• What happens if the weather changes the schedule?
• How do you communicate leading up to the event?
• Do you help with timeline planning or logistics?
Build a Timeline With More Buffer Time Than You Think You Need
One of the most common planning mistakes couples make is underestimating the wedding timeline and how long everything actually takes. A realistic timeline often includes buffer time for getting ready, short breaks between major events, dedicated time to snack and hydrate, travel time between locations, and quiet time away from the crowd.
Sample Wedding Day Timeline
8:00 AM – Hair and makeup begin
2:00 PM – Photographer arrives for details and getting ready photos
2:30 PM – Bride gets dressed
3:00 PM – First look and private vows (totally optional)
3:30 PM – Wedding party portraits (less if you do a first look)
4:30 PM – Hide before the ceremony and final touch-ups
5:00 PM – Ceremony begins
5:30 PM – Family portraits and cocktail hour
6:30 PM – Reception entrance and dinner service
7:30 PM – Sunset portraits
10:00 PM – Grand exit
The Small Details Couples Forget Most Often
Some of the most commonly overlooked wedding items are also the ones that create the most panic. Before the big day, make sure someone is responsible for:
• The marriage license
• Rings, vow books, jewelry, shoes, etc for the creative team
• Vendor tips or final payments
• The card box and gifts
• Chargers and extension cords
• Snacks and bottled water
• Emergency kit items
• Extra copies of vows, timelines, etc.
Make Time to Actually Experience the Day
Some of the most meaningful moments are often the quietest ones:
• A private first look before the ceremony
• Quiet time or private portraits right after the ceremony
• Sitting together during dinner for a few uninterrupted minutes
• Stepping outside for sunset portraits
• A final private dance after guests leave
A New Wedding Resource for North Louisiana Couples
This August, Luxe Love Weddings will host the Luxe Bridal Showcase at the West Monroe Convention Center, bringing together wedding inspiration, planning resources, and wedding professionals.
As things change in the wedding industry, we have noticed couples are looking for more than trends. They want real moments, trustworthy professionals, and authentic resources to help them create a celebration that feels personal, well-organized, and unforgettable from the proposal to the grand exit.
The Spring Junior Cotillion
The Spring Junior Cotillion of the Next Level, presented by Watha’s Wonderful World and held on Saturday, April 18th, was a beautiful celebration of grace, confidence, and achievement. Parents, sponsors, and guests gathered to proudly watch the lovely young ladies of the Cotillion shine throughout the evening. The event highlighted poise, elegance, and the importance of leadership and personal growth, creating a memorable experience for all in
Sensational Summer
Watha’s Wonderful World, LLC®
ALAS, SUMMER HAS ARRIVED, bringing glorious memories of picnics, pool parties, and reunions. We must practice etiquette as we celebrate brides, fathers, and culture, to respect and honor others’ feelings and beliefs. Social situations can sometimes become awkward and chaotic simply because individuals do not understand proper protocol. Watha’s Wonderful World, LLC® is here to guide you with refined techniques guaranteed to elevate you to the next level. You will notice a significant improvement in your social interactions by applying the suggestions below:
TIMELY RESPOND TO RSVP INVITATIONS.
This is a simple but often overlooked issue, which is a source of pain for event coordinators and honorees. Time-sensitive details such as a catering menu, décor, seating arrangements, and entertainment are contingent upon the guests’ yes or no reply. It is encouraged that a response is provided via the method requested (email, snail mail, or digitally) to ensure the success of the event.
ABIDE BY THE INVITATION SPECIFICS. A well-thought-out invitation contains the time, date, venue location, theme, and dress code. Unless otherwise specified, you should adhere to the one or plus one rule expressed by the host. Notably, many events are not child-friendly (weddings, class reunions, etc.), and childcare should be arranged. Always stay in tandem with the event’s theme and never attempt to upstage the guest of honor’s attire. Most importantly, be on time.
RESEARCH AND RESPECT THE EVENT.
Father’s Day and Juneteenth are fantastic summer holidays centered around fellowship and culinary indulgence. These holidays are an opportunity to showcase your signature dishes while instructing family and friends on the history and preparation of the cuisine. Exercising proper etiquette is paramount to the success of any gathering. One should canvass the guests for allergies and health restrictions before developing the menu. Always remember to prepare your signature dish and avoid infamous first-time “trial and error” entrees.
Lastly, respect the host by utilizing the designated restroom facilities and being on time for the event. A hostess gift is always appropriate and welcome when attending private and commercial events.
SUGGESTED READINGS.
Emily Post’s Etiquette The Centennial Edition, and Soul Food: The Surprising Story of An American Cuisine One Plate At A Time by Adrian Miller.
Special Announcement: Congratulations to Chef Hiwatha Coleman on her elevation to Certified Tea Sommelier by the Tea and Herbal Association of Canada.
Upcoming Events: Summer Etiquette Camp is scheduled from June 2026 through August 2026 on Saturdays from 9:00 am to 12:00 pm. Please scan our QR code to share your contact information. The Next Level Winter 2026 Jr. Cotillion Enrollment is open now through October 19, 2026. This six-week program, designed for students ages 7-17, commences on October 24, 2026. Students will master effective communication and public speaking, basic French, cursive writing, Mise en place, chivalry, and deportment, American and European dining etiquette, Tea History and Tea Party etiquette, and cultural field trips. We provide additional courses to elevate the participants’ health, hygiene, and emotional intelligence. Your investment of $400.00 per student guarantees positive results.
Alisa Travel Designs Specialists
Your Dream Honeymoon Awaits
LOVE MAY BE THE REASON FOR a honeymoon, but it’s the destination that defines the experience. Newlyweds are choosing escapes that seamlessly mix luxury, discovery and unforgettable scenery. Whether couples dream of candlelit beaches or adrenalinefilled adventures, Alisa Travel Designs can plan destinations tailored to every romantic style.
Here are the top five romantic destinations we recommend:
1. For couples seeking timeless romance, few places rival Maldives. With private overwater villas, turquoise lagoons and sunset dinners on the sand, the islands create an atmosphere of complete serenity.
2. Equally enchanting is Paris, often called the City of Love. Couples can stroll beside the Seine, admire the glowing Eiffel Tower and enjoy cozy cafés that feel like they’re straight from a film.
3. Another dreamy retreat is the Greek Isles,
where whitewashed buildings overlook the sparkling Aegean Sea. The islands’ famous sunsets and cliffside suites make it a honeymoon favorite.
4. In Italy, the breathtaking Amalfi Coast offers winding coastal roads, charming villages and intimate seaside dining. Sorrento, Positano and the Bay of Naples are known for their cliffs dropping into brilliant blue water, sun-filled citrus groves, and the rhythm of cafés, scooters, church bells and seaside sunsets.
5. Completing the romantic list is Bora Bora, a tropical paradise known for crystal-clear waters and luxurious resorts surrounded by coral reefs.
Adventure is more your game? Here are our best recommendations from Alisa Travel Designs:
1. New Zealand tops the list with its dramatic landscapes, bungee jumping, glacier hikes and scenic road trips.
2. For wildlife lovers, South Africa delivers unforgettable safaris, shark diving and vineyard tours all in one destination.
3. In Costa Rica, couples can zip-line through rainforests, surf Pacific waves and relax in natural hot springs after a day of adventure.
4. Meanwhile, Iceland offers dramatic volcanoes, black-sand beaches and the magical Northern Lights, creating a honeymoon unlike any other.
5. Finally, Thailand combines tropical beauty with adventure, from island hopping and scuba diving to jungle trekking and vibrant night markets.
The perfect honeymoon ultimately depends on a couple’s personality.
Some may cherish peaceful luxury under swaying palms, while others may prefer climbing mountains or exploring hidden waterfalls together. Whether romantic or adventurous, the best honeymoons share one essential ingredient: unforgettable moments that begin a lifetime journey together.
And that’s where Alisa Travel Designs excels. Global travel advisors Alisa Spatafora, Kerry Kilpatrick, Julia Marzula and Liz Craft have the experience, the knowledge and the commitment to fitting the location to your picture of the perfect honeymoon. Email Alisa, Liz, Kerry or Julia for a consultation alisa@alisatraveldesigns.com.
Dr. Bakeer Delivers Innovation
Patient happy about “new freedom”
WHEN RETIRED SURGICAL RN
and Nursing Administrator Debbie Austin first saw the EmSella, she had her doubts.
“When I first saw the demonstration, I was skeptical because I thought, ‘How can I sit on the chair with no pain, playing on my phone for 30 minutes, and that strengthens my pelvic floor muscles?’ However, I noticed improvement after the first couple of treatments. It works great for me and my lifestyle, freeing me to travel.”
Over six months later, Debbie’s pelvic floor is strengthened; her incontinence challenges are now minimal, and she can travel from Monroe to Dallas with just one pit stop instead of three to five stops. She is now on a maintenance plan and only undergoes treatment every three months.
Debbie, of West Monroe, has suffered from weak pelvic floor muscles since her 20s, well before giving birth to her children, and has
tried several traditional methods to no avail. She enthusiastically recommends the FDAapproved EmSella, available for both men and women, at Bayou Bariatrics, founded by surgeon Dr. Mohamed Bakeer.
Dr. Bakeer said, “I am pleased to offer EmSella because it provides a non-invasive, effective solution for so many patients struggling with incontinence and pelvic floor weakness. It’s a great alternative to medication or surgical intervention. Seeing the positive impact on my patients’ quality of life is truly rewarding.”
The EmSella treatment uses high-intensity focused electromagnetic (HIFEM®) energy to trigger thousands of powerful pelvic floor contractions in a single session, much like doing thousands of Kegel exercises at once.
These muscular activations help retrain and strengthen the pelvic floor’s neuromuscular system, improving bladder control and reducing incontinence symptoms over a series of sessions.
There’s no pain and no recovery time with the EmSella; once the session ends, the patient, who is fully clothed during treatment, can immediately return to their normal activities.
Debbie is also a fan of the Emsculpt Neo, the world’s first and only technology that uses Radiofrequency and HIFEM+ (high-intensity focused electromagnetic field) to eliminate fat and build muscle non-invasively. Treatments are tailored to eliminate fat and build muscle on various body parts, such as the abdomen, buttocks, thighs, and biceps.
Debbie said, “I’ve noticed that the Emsculpt Neo really helps strengthen my core, which is the foundation of physical health.”
Dr. Bakeer created Bayou Bariatrics based on the philosophy that weight loss is never “one size fits all.” Ready to transform your body? Book a consultation at Bayou Bariatrics, located in the Surgery Clinic of Northeast Louisiana. Bayou Bariatrics also offers IV infusions, vitamin injections, hormone therapy, weight-loss medications, and weight-loss surgeries.
Photo by EmSella
BAYOU ARTIST
RHONDA NEAL
FROM HAND-CUT TYPOGRAPHY TO BESPOKE WEDDING
SUITES,
RHONDA NEAL HAS SPENT THREE DECADES BLENDING TRADITIONAL CRAFTSMANSHIP WITH FEARLESS INNOVATION. HER LIFELONG PASSION FOR MEANINGFUL, PERSONALIZED DESIGN CONTINUES TO SHAPE THE WAY NORTHEAST LOUISIANA CELEBRATES LIFE’S MOST MEMORABLE MOMENTS.
ARTICLE BY APRIL C. DOUGHTY PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK
LONG BEFORE GRAPHIC DESIGN LIVED ON glowing screens and cloud drives, Rhonda Neal was learning to design by hand. A Shreveport native who had never taken an art class, Neal entered what was then Northeast Louisiana University in Monroe with the intention of pursuing a degree in dental hygiene. Her father had always encouraged her to build a career in orthodontics, so her original plan was to honor that wish. But somewhere between the science courses and the creative instincts that had followed her since childhood, she realized her future was elsewhere and trusted he would be proud of her for following her heart.
Despite having no formal background in art, creativity was woven into her genes. Her grandmother, with whom she’d spent a lot of time, was very crafty, and her uncle was a watercolor artist. Even her dad liked to dabble in drawing as a hobby. Being surrounded by creatives growing up meant Neal was never afraid to take on a creative project herself. From handmade banners to t-shirt designs and school projects, Neal naturally gravitated toward creating.
In college, she continued this kind of work for groups she was involved in. She made party cups and continued designing t-shirts. During her freshman year, she designed a t-shirt for the drill team and realized she was much happier designing things than she ever could be in a dental career, so she switched her major to graphic design and never looked back. “That’s just what felt natural to me,” she said, “and I ended up where I needed to be.” What began as a leap of faith has now become a 30-year career uniquely shaped by both old-school craftsmanship and fearless adaptability.
Trained in an era before home computers and the rise of the internet, Neal learned to design by hand, preparing artwork manually before scanning it for print. At the time, there were maybe two computers in the graphic lab, so they would typeset words, print them, cut them out, and use them that way. There
were no classes on computer generation. “Everything was done by hand,” she said.
This background ensured Neal grew highly competent with skills many modern designers have traded for digital alternatives. Yet even as technology transformed the industry around her, she evolved with it, teaching herself emerging digital tools and building a thriving business centered on personalized paper goods, wedding suites, branding, and marketing design. Today, Neal’s work reflects the rare combination of a traditional artistic foundation and decades of innovation that continues to set her apart.
After earning her Bachelor of Fine Arts with a concentration in graphic design, Neal moved to Baton Rouge where she found her first job working for LCR Corporation, a plumbing distributor. There, she spent several years creating Photoshop renderings of plumbing fixtures as part of an ambitious electronic catalog project developed for retailers like Home Depot and Lowe’s. The work came at a pivotal moment in the evolution of digital design, just as the internet was beginning to emerge into everyday use. While much of the world was only starting to imagine the possibilities of the web, Neal was already contributing to one of the early intersections of design, technology, and retail accessibility.
Neal spent just a few years in Baton Rouge. During that time, she focused on growing her design skills but also fell in love with Mark who is now her husband of nearly 30 years. Mark is from Monroe but was in law school at the time. When he graduated, the couple returned to Monroe and built a life together. Back in Monroe, Neal worked in the specialty advertising sector, applying and refining her skills on promotional goods, logoed items, pens, cups, jackets, and shirts. “I love the layer of detail that merchandise brings to a brand or an event,” she said. Around the same time, she started what she called her “side hustle,” which was essentially drawing, painting, and doing other creative and design work on the side.
Because Neal and her husband waited seven years before having children, she found herself with plenty of free time to explore her creative ideas. One avenue for this exploration presented itself when friends and family started having children. She would draw, paint, and make crafts for baby showers and for the children when they were little. She also got a home computer before they were commonplace, and in her free time, she would scan artwork for printing. She also continued to hone her Photoshop skills while creating custom gift tags, birth announcements, Christmas cards, invitations, and more.
Given that Neal graduated in graphic design before design software and applications were mainstream, she taught herself how to use these tools. She was fearless when it came to diving in and trying new software and techniques, and for many years, Neal devoted much of her free time to creating designs with both new and old-school tools, and sometimes with a combination of the two. Neal attributes much of that willingness to learn to her natural curiosity and a deep satisfaction in making things by hand. “If I don’t know how to do it, I’d like to figure out how to do it,” she said. Whether experimenting with unfamiliar software or building paper goods from scratch, Neal was driven by a desire not only to create, but to understand the process behind what she was creating.
That mindset was shaped in part by the independence she developed growing up. Neal learned early on to keep moving forward and make the most of what was available to her. She and her husband Mark built their life together through persistence and self-motivation, characteristics that naturally carried over into her creative work and entrepreneurial efforts. Neal described her fearless perseverance as an “inner move forward” instinct, a determination to “keep putting one foot in front of the other.”
Over time, that combination of curiosity, resourcefulness, and creative drive pushed Neal beyond specialty advertising toward something more personal and hands-on. What began as experimentation with paper, printing, and handcrafted details eventually grew into a successful side business of stationery and paper goods.
In the years before her children were born, Neal said, “I would host these little home shows. I would put my artwork up on the walls, and I would invite my friends over, and they would come and shop with me, and they would order gift tags and cards and that just sort of happened organically.” From the beginning, Neal’s friends have been a powerful source of support. “I have always been surrounded by a wonderful and encouraging group of friends,” Neal said. “I have a group of four sorority sisters that I have traveled with every year for the past 30 years, and we have never missed a year of gathering. They are a big part of my story.”
When Neal’s first son was born, she and Mark decided that it was time for her to leave full-time advertising behind, which gave her more time to focus on her family and her own design work. When her boys were young, she found she needed to cut back on some projects. She’d gotten into wedding invitations and was finding time management to be a special challenge, so she decided to shift her focus primarily to her stationery business for a time.
During her break from weddings, Neal also volunteered her skills to her boys’ school and to organizations she believed in and served, such as the Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum, the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, and the University of Louisiana in Monroe (ULM). In fact, one of her most enduring and widely publicized designs was the logo she created for ULM’s Wine Over Water fundraiser. “Giving back has always been a big part of who I am,” she said. “I feel like God has blessed me with
so many things, and I’m responsible to use those resources wisely and give back, do for others, sometimes probably to a fault.”
As the boys got older, Neal was able to return to her own work in both wedding and stationery design with more energy. In 2018, she opened an Etsy shop where some of her tiger and bulldog designs went viral during COVID when people were shopping almost exclusively online for their stationery needs.
Today, Neal’s bespoke paper goods, including her stationery suites, continue to be accessible online through her website and Etsy shops, as well as through Material Things in Monroe, Louisiana, where she also takes appointments for custom wedding invitation suites and other wedding-day paper goods to complement those suites.
In recent years, Neal said the wedding side of her business has grown significantly, particularly because there are few local wedding stationers serving the Monroe area. While couples can easily order invitations online, she believes many still want the experience of working directly with a designer who can help them shape a cohesive vision for their wedding day. “When they’re spending that kind of money on their wedding paper,” Neal said, “these girls really want to have somebody to consult. They want to make sure they’re doing it right. They want to make sure it looks cohesive.”
That collaborative aspect of the process is one Neal particularly enjoys. Rather than simply producing invitations, she works with couples to create paper goods that reflect their personalities and relationship, incorporating carefully curated details throughout the suite. From envelope liners and detail cards to fans and intricate diecut elements, Neal said the expanding possibilities within wedding stationery have made the work especially fulfilling for her as a designer. “For a graphic designer, it’s just a dream come true to design all those different pieces and elements,” she said. “It’s a lot of fun. It fills all of our buckets.”
For Neal, the work she is currently doing represents a natural culmination of the creative path she began decades ago, combining illustration, typography, branding, and craftsmanship into something both deeply personal and celebratory. What began with a love for design has evolved into helping people visually tell stories about the most meaningful times in their lives. Neal’s hand-painted designs tend to be bright and whimsical, the perfect vessels to preserve joyful memories and strengthen bonds with friends and loved ones. Whether it’s a birth, a graduation, a wedding, or some other special occasion, Neal’s hand-crafted designs are there to mark the occasion with a personal touch that balances tradition and modern design.
Even as Neal continues to create wedding suites and personalized stationery, her creative curiosity is always leading her in new directions. Most recently, that path has taken her to the world of Mahjong, a game she learned last summer after her sister-in-law introduced her to it during a visit. What began as a casual hobby quickly became another outlet for both connection and design inspiration. “I have fallen in love with the game,” Neal said.
After learning to play, she transformed one of her existing stationery patterns into a Mahjong mat design and plans to expand the collection this year. Neal said additional mat designs featuring her tiger and bulldog motifs will be available this fall through Material Things and her website, Rhonda Neal Shoppe.
For Neal, Mahjong’s appeal extends beyond aesthetics. She describes the game as both social and mentally engaging, offering a different kind of creative satisfaction. “I think it’s a different side of my brain that I get to use that’s so enjoyable,” she said. “There are a lot of rules, but once you learn them, you know.” In many ways, the growing popularity of Mahjong reflects the same appreciation for intentionality and connection that has long shaped Neal’s work. The game creates space for gathering, conversation, and tradition, which are values that also sit at the heart of her designs.
That desire for meaningful connection is also why Neal remains deeply committed to paper in an increasingly digital world. While trends and technology have changed dramatically throughout her career, her appreciation for handwritten communication and tangible design has only deepened over time. “The art of the thank you note, that’s something that a lot of people talk about bringing back,” Neal said. “I think it’s important for these young people to understand handwritten notes. I feel like we need more of that, especially in the age of text messages.”
Neal believes many people are rediscovering the value of analog experiences, whether through hobbies like Mahjong and needlepoint or through the growing demand for personalized paper goods. She sees stationery not simply as decoration, but as a way of communicating care and intentionality. “When you give a gift that has someone’s name on it or someone’s monogram on it, it says to that person, ‘I took extra time to pick this gift for you,’” Neal said. “Personalized paper just means more.” That philosophy continues to resonate with clients seeking pieces that feel personal, lasting, and thoughtfully made in a culture increasingly dominated by speed and convenience.
For Neal, that sense of purpose is what has sustained her throughout decades of creative work. She still speaks about design with the same excitement and gratitude that first drew her to it years ago. “I love what I do, and I don’t feel like it’s a job,” Neal said. “I truly love and enjoy what I do.” She described the process of transforming a blank page into a finished invitation suite as endlessly rewarding, from selecting fonts and layouts to choosing paper textures and adding small details that bring a design to life. “I love creating something out of nothing,” she said. “It’s very satisfying.”
More than anything, Neal sees her creativity as something larger than herself. It’s a gift she feels called to share with others. “I have always said that God has given us gifts and that we’re supposed to use those gifts, and I truly believe that my gift is to share my art,” Neal said. That perspective has become especially meaningful as her career has come full circle. Many of the children whose birthday invitations and birth announcements she once designed are now returning to her for wedding suites of their own. Neal recalled recently working on wedding materials for Landry Burback, now Wheeler, the daughter of one of her lifelong friends. She’s someone whose birth announcement Neal also created decades earlier.
In many ways, Neal’s career has been defined not simply by artistry, but by continuity as she remains present for life’s milestones across generations. Through paper, paint, typography, and now even Mahjong mats, she has built a body of work centered on celebration, connection, and care. What began as a love for design has grown into a lifelong practice of helping people commemorate the moments that matter most, one thoughtfully crafted piece at a time.
Family Ties In Title
Growing with Friends
IN A WORLD WHERE BUYING OR SELLING A HOME CAN often feel stressful and overwhelming, one local team is working hard to make the process more personal, approachable and built on trust. At North Delta Title, clients are more than just paperwork and closing dates — they’re neighbors, families and friends embarking on one of life’s biggest milestones.
What makes the company especially unique is the family foundation behind it. Father-daughter duo Kirby Price and Amy Price have built a business centered around integrity, relationships and a commitment to helping clients feel confident every step of the way. Now, with the addition of longtime family friend and attorney Cody Rials as partner, the team is continuing to grow while staying true to the values that shaped the company from the very beginning.
Kirby Price, a veteran of the title and real estate industry and co-founding partner of North Delta Title, has spent more than three decades helping clients navigate the legal and financial details of property ownership. Over the years, he built a reputation for professionalism, honesty and treating every client with care and respect.
For Amy, those lessons began long before she entered the industry herself. “I grew up watching my dad work with integrity and treating clients like family,” Amy said. “When I graduated law school and was ready to choose my career path, I knew I wanted to help people the same way he did.”
What began as admiration for her father’s work eventually became a shared mission. Together, Kirby and Amy created a familyoriented business where communication, trust and personalized service remain top priorities. Their approach has helped countless buyers, sellers, lenders and real estate professionals feel supported during what can often be a complicated process.
Now, sixteen years later, the company is entering another exciting chapter with the addition of Cody Rials. A lifelong friend of both Amy and Kirby, Cody joins the team bringing not only legal experience, but also a deep understanding of the values that make the company special.
“I’m proud to join a team that values integrity, precision and exceptional service,” Cody said. “This new role allows me to bring my legal background into a collaborative environment where protecting clients and facilitating seamless closings are top priorities.”
From title searches and title insurance to closing services and real estate transactions, the team at North Delta Title works to ensure each client understands the process and feels comfortable from start to finish. “We treat every transaction like we’re helping family,” she said.
As the real estate market continues to evolve, the team remains focused on the same founding principles that have guided them from the beginning: honesty, transparency and excellent service. While the company continues to grow, their mission remains simple — helping clients move forward with confidence during some of life’s most meaningful moments.
For Kirby, Amy and Cody, success is measured by much more than the number of closings completed. It’s about building relationships, earning trust and helping open the door to new beginnings for the people they serve.
For more information or to schedule a closing, North Delta Title can be reached at 318.387. 1100, and is located at 1100 North 19th Street in Monroe.
Red, White and Runway
At Oak Grove Airport July 4th
FAMILIES FROM ACROSS WEST CARROLL PARISH AND surrounding communities are invited to celebrate Independence Day during the Red, White and Blue Runway Show on Friday, July 4th, at the Oak Grove Airport.
The family-friendly event will take place from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. inside the Kelly-Dumas Main Hangar and surrounding airport grounds.
Hosted by the West Carroll Chamber with support from the West Carroll Tourism Commission, the celebration will feature an evening of:
• Live Entertainment
• Patriotic Activities
• Food Trucks
• Amazing Fireworks Display
Organizers say the event was inspired by the upcoming 250th anniversary of the founding of the United States and aims to bring the community together while highlighting the continued growth of the Oak Grove Airport.
Admission is $5 per person, and attendees can expect a full lineup of activities throughout the evening.
Live music will be provided by Generation Rust, a local North Louisiana rock and pop-punk cover band. During the event, children and families can enjoy inflatable bounce houses, water slides, foam cannons, and a dunking booth.
Food trucks from around the region will also be on-site serving festival favorites, sweet treats, and summertime snacks.
Several patriotic-themed activities are planned, including a George Washington look-alike contest and a children’s wagon parade featuring decorated wagons, bicycles, and strollers dressed in red, white, and blue.
The evening will conclude with a fireworks display at dusk above the Oak Grove Airport, with the Kelly-Dumas Main Hangar expected to provide one of the best viewing locations for attendees.
Community leaders hope the Red, White and Runway Show will become one of Oak Grove’s signature Independence Day celebrations for years to come.
Whether you’re visiting for a weekend or looking for a place to put down roots, West Carroll invites you to slow down, connect, and experience something real. Come #seewestcarroll and you just might decide to #livelocal.
Rural. Local. Wonderful. There’s no place like home.
Elevate Your Day
Wedding Catering From The Platter
WHEN IT COMES TO UNFORGETTABLE WEDDING
celebrations in Northeast Louisiana, Leah Parker and her team know how to deliver flavor, beauty, and creativity all in one bite. As the owner of The Platter in West Monroe, Leah has built a reputation for curating unique, crowdpleasing catering experiences that go beyond the expected, especially when it comes to weddings.
With years of culinary experience and an eye for design, Leah offers an extensive wedding catering menu that brings fresh, bold ideas to the table. While The Platter is also a favorite for its daily grab-and-go selections and holiday offerings, it’s Leah’s wedding catering, particularly her signature grazing platters, that continues to steal the show at receptions across the region.
A feast for the eyes as much as the palate, grazing platters are one of The Platter’s most popular catering options for weddings, showers, and bridal brunches. Each board is thoughtfully crafted to deliver balance, beauty, and delicious bites, whether you’re serving a crowd of 20 or 200.
The Classic Charcuterie is the star of the show and The Platter’s most requested option. This signature board offers a little bit of everything: premium charcuterie meats, assorted cheeses, fresh fruits, crisp vegetables, and an array of flavorful accompaniments like pickled items, jam, nuts, and honey. It’s a stunning and savory display that fits seamlessly into any wedding vibe, from rustic to elegant.
For morning events or bridal brunches, The Brunch Platter is a delightful option. This breakfast-themed board includes fresh fruits, breakfast meats, cheese, and nuts, paired with mini pastries like waffle bites, mini pancakes, and muffins. Dips such as syrup, whipped topping, and chocolate sauce add a sweet finishing touch.
For the couple with a sweet tooth, The Dessert Platter is pure indulgence. It’s filled with cookies, dipped confections, chocolates, and candies, complemented by decadent dips like chocolate syrup and whipped toppings. It’s the perfect treat table alternative, or a charming late-night snack option.
The Fruit Platter delivers a fresh and colorful spread, with a seasonal assortment that often includes melons, berries, grapes, and pineapple. Served with honey, whipped toppings, and chocolate for dipping, this option is as refreshing as it is beautiful. For a light and vibrant display, The Crudité Platter offers a rainbow of crisp vegetables including carrots, cherry tomatoes, broccoli, snow peas, celery, radish, and cream cheese–stuffed peppers. Dips like ranch, pepper jelly cream cheese, and pesto make this platter a bright, flavorful option for any reception.
Planning a wedding is all about bringing together the right team—and when it comes to food, The Platter consistently deliver a memorable experience. And don’t forget The Platter offers box lunches, weekly hot sandwich specials and Grab-N-Go Supper Options. From weddings to every day meals, they have you covered!
IN THE GARDEN
Blossom End Rot in tomatoes is caused by an inability to metabolize calcium.
Alright, y’all. As Joan Rivers would say, “Can we talk?”
This spring, I think I have seen more social media posts and have had more questions come into the office that fit into the category of “What’s wrong with my tomato plants?” than ever before. Now, if you know me (not an envious proposition) then you know how I pretty much feel about a lot of the information circulated on social media gardening pages. Unfortunately, social media has become a place where logic, reason, and brain cells go to die. Many commenters demonstrate, repeatedly and with gusto, their lack of knowledge of plants and simply pass along information they’ve read somewhere or seen on another social media outlet without evidence to back up fantastic claims.
So, without using AI, social media, or an app, let’s rely on RK (real knowledge) of plants and what they need to be productive in gardens and talk about the most commonly encountered tomato problems for the 2026 gardening season.
My Tomato Plants Are Sickly, Yellow, and Don’t Grow. What Am I Doing Wrong?
I’m reminded of the old joke, “Doc, what should I do about my yellow teeth?” The dentist says, “Wear a brown shirt.” Or something like that. In all cases I’ve seen this year, stunted yellow tomato plants were in raised beds filled with what is basically sawdust. They’re also too crowded. This is the problem with bagged media (it isn’t soil!) that people spend an untold amount of money on: it ain’t got nutrients! You have to fertilize the plants….heavily! But the nutrients aren’t available to the plants because nutrient ions are positively charged (cations) and readily bond to the particles of organic matter which carry an overall negative charge (anions). Also, the small levels of nutrients that may be in some products get leached out from frequent watering that has to take place because the plants are in what is essentially a giant container. Folks, the bagged growing media is junk. Real soil, which is what your tomato plants need to be growing in, is a combination of mineral particles (sand, silt, and clay) and organic matter (only about 5% needed), as well as a biological component consisting of soil microbes (bacteria, fungi, protozoans, myxomycetes and the like) and macroinvertebrates like
earthworms, crickets, and isopods like rollie pollies that all play roles in nutrient cycling. Real soil also has water and oxygen. You’re not going to buy all this in a single bag. Your yellow tomato plants are starving to death. Yes, applying some nitrogen may help, but only in the short term. The long-term answer is to mix sand, silt, and some clay with the organic growing medium in your raised bed to adjust the medium’s water holding capacity so there’s more of a soil solution when you water. This will improve nutrient ion exchange. The mineral components of soil provide more surface area per unit volume for nutrient bonding and exchange. Nutrient ions come off the particles in solution and are readily available to your plants. Your tomato plants should green up and grow well.
The Bottommost Leaves on my Tomato Plants Are Turning Yellow! What Do I Spray?
Nothing to spray. The bottommost leaves on your tomato plants were the first leaves formed. They’re going to be the first leaves to senesce. That is, they’re going to age, stop producing chlorophyll, turn yellow, and die away. Botanically, tomato plants are vines and as they grow from the stem’s tip and produce more leaves, the plant will jettison leaves it no longer needs. Perfectly natural.
The Tops of My Tomato Plants are Curling Up. What’s Causing That?
More often than not, your plants have received some amount of a phenoxy or synthetic auxin herbicide. Generally, herbicides work in two ways: they either inhibit/prevent photosynthesis or they inhibit cell division and growth. A phenoxy or synthetic auxin herbicide does the latter, and this is why tomato leaves curl up and look rather like moose antlers. For whatever reason(s), tomato plants are extremely sensitive to herbicides. Vapors from drift or mobility of lawn herbicides in soil if the garden is close by are all that is required. I saw one case this year where a home gardener put down a pre-emergent herbicide, which is fine if applied according to label directions. This gardener, however, administered the “adult dose” to his soil without waiting the recommended number of days before planting and, needless to say, his tomato transplants curled up pretty as you please. Herbicide residues may also be a problem in bagged “compost” and growing media that may not be fully composted or if you’re using aged manure and hay from a field treated with herbicides that target broadleaf weeds. Typically, tomato plants that are otherwise healthy will grow out of the curling phase, but production may be reduced.
Why Do My Tomatoes Get Black or Brown Mushy Areas On Them and Rot? If the mushy area is black and confined to the very bottom of the fruit (formerly the top of the flower’s ovary), this is a condition called Blossom End Rot (BER). Solutions for correcting this malady will vary
Photo by LSU AgCenter.
on social media, so avoid that. The correct answer: the plant and fruit can’t metabolize calcium. Either the soil is deficient in calcium (which is rarely the case in native soil) or there is calcium in the soil, and the plant simply can’t take it up. If a soil test shows the soil or growing medium to be deficient in calcium, supplement with either calcium sulfate (gypsum) or with calcium nitrate. Neither will raise the pH of the soil or growing medium. That is, they’re both non-liming agents. Simply sprinkle a few tablespoonsful around the plant, scratch it into the soil or growing medium, and water it in. Keep in mind this won’t reverse the condition in fruit already affected; those should be plucked and tossed. But it should prevent the condition from showing up in new fruit. If calcium is present and the plant isn’t taking it up, get the tomato plant on a consistent watering schedule. This doesn’t necessarily mean often. Rather, don’t let the soil or growing medium dry completely between waterings. Water deeply, too. A layer of mulch such as hay or straw around the tomato plants will help the soil retain moisture.
If mushy lesions occur on the sides and shoulders of the fruit (the bottom of the former ovary), then your tomatoes more than likely have Buckeye Rot, a disease caused by an old friend, the water mold Phytophthora spp. Rain or watering from the top splashes infected soil up onto fruit closest to the ground, and the disease starts. Hot, humid days and excessive soil moisture exacerbate the problem. Infected fruit should be discarded. A layer of mulch such as hay, straw, or even
A tomato transplant deformed by residues of pre-emergent herbicide. Always read, understand, and follow the directions on any pesticide. Photo by Kerry Heafner.
pine straw around your tomato plants will go a long way in preventing Buckeye Rot, as will getting your plants on a consistent watering schedule. Making sure the soil or growing medium they are planted in has good internal and external drainage is key, too.
What’s This Fly Doing In My Soup? Looks like the backstroke.
A healthy tomato plant grown in native soil with good fertility and drainage.
Tune in to Louisiana Living every Tuesday at 4:30 for In the Garden with Kerry Heafner of the LSU AgCenter.
Photo by Kerry Heafner.
NELA Welcomes Ready2Roof
Bringing Professional Roofing Services to Northeast Louisiana
FOR MORE THAN TWO DECADES, Ready 2 Roof has built its reputation on quality workmanship, trustworthy service, and a commitment to treating every customer like family. Originally established in Mississippi in 2005, the company has grown into a trusted name across Mississippi and Northeast Louisiana for both residential and commercial roofing services.
Commercial Roofing Contractors Inc., doing business locally as Ready 2 Roof for residential customers, was founded after recognizing a growing need for more professional, dependable home service companies in the region. That vision continues to guide the company today as it combines industry-leading standards with a personal, hometown approach.
The company’s expansion into Louisiana was also deeply personal. The operations manager’s wife, a Louisiana native, accepted a job in the area, inspiring the family to put down roots and bring the Ready 2 Roof name to Northeast Louisiana as well. Since then, the company has continued
serving families and businesses on both sides of the state line with the same dedication and care that helped establish its success in Mississippi.
Ready 2 Roof offers a full range of roofing services, including residential and commercial reroofs, roof repairs, gutter installation, and inspections. Whether responding to storm damage, replacing an aging roof, or helping a business protect its investment, the company focuses on providing long-lasting solutions.
What sets Ready 2 Roof apart is its commitment to accountability and customer confidence. Customers know exactly who is working on their property and can feel confident in the quality and consistency of the work being completed.
The company also stands firmly behind its craftsmanship by offering lifetime labor and material warranties backed by the manufacturer, giving homeowners and business owners added peace of mind long after installation is complete. Flexible financing options are also available.
From ownership to the support and billing
teams, the company emphasizes ongoing training and research to stay ahead of industry advancements and better serve customers. Their credentials include GAF Master Elite and FORTIFIED certified roofing contractor as well as residentially and commercially licensed in Mississippi and Louisiana.
Customer service is another area where Ready 2 Roof strives to stand out. The company has a dedicated customer care team that guides clients through every stage of the process— from installation to final billing—to ensure communication stays clear and customers feel supported every step of the way.
The company also regularly participates in local events, gives back through donations and volunteer efforts, and intentionally supports fellow local businesses whenever possible. One favorite tradition is hosting monthly team meetings at locally owned restaurants as a way to invest directly back into the communities they serve.
The team understands that reroofing can be stressful and disruptive for families, which is why they work to make the process as smooth as possible through transparency, compassion, communication, and friendliness.
By combining the resources and warranties of a larger company with the care and values of a small-town business, Ready 2 Roof continues to build lasting relationships one roof at a time.
For more information about Ready 2 Roof, visit Ready 2 Roof or follow them on Facebook. You can also contact their office at 318-432-4030.
Story Cannabis
Local Care, Trusted Guidance, and a New Chapter
STORY CANNABIS IS PROUDTO OPEN A new chapter in Northeast Louisiana, bringing trusted cannabis care to a community that deserves high-quality, compassionate service. With a name rooted in the idea that every patient has their own wellness journey, Story is here to help write that next chapter of hope, healing, and empowerment.
Founded with a mission to provide safe and effective cannabis care, Story Cannabis brings decades of combined industry experience to Louisiana. The team has built a strong reputation in other markets for premium products and heartfelt service, and their expansion into this region marks an exciting milestone in their continued growth.
For many new patients, navigating medical cannabis can feel overwhelming. That’s why Story Cannabis puts education at the heart of its approach. Staff members take time to understand each individual’s unique needs, answering questions in simple terms and offering personalized product recommendations. One-
on-one consultations, printed educational materials, and accessible resources are all part of the support system designed to help patients feel confident and informed.
Ordering is made easy for Louisiana patients with a valid medical cannabis recommendation. Customers can visit the dispensary in person to receive personalized assistance or browse the full menu online at storycannabis.com. The website provides up-to-date product availability, detailed descriptions, and the ability to reserve items for quick and convenient in-store pickup.
The Story Cannabis team sees their role as a trusted healthcare ally, working to provide consistent access to medical cannabis while actively supporting the community through educational events, partnerships, and patient advocacy efforts. Addressing the stigma around cannabis is also central to Story’s mission. Through compassionate conversations, evidence-based information, and the sharing of real patient success stories, they help challenge outdated perceptions and foster a
more informed, accepting view of cannabis as a legitimate tool for health and wellness.
Looking ahead, Story is excited about the future of the cannabis industry, especially the increasing research into therapeutic uses and innovations in product formats. From precision dosing to advanced delivery methods and targeted formulations, the industry is evolving rapidly, offering more effective solutions to meet patients’ specific needs.
Above all, Story Cannabis wants every customer to walk away with more than just a product. They want them to feel heard, supported, and empowered. The goal is to build lasting relationships with patients and serve as a consistent source of guidance throughout their health journey.
The environment inside Story dispensaries reflects this patient-first philosophy. Designed to be calm, welcoming, and professional, each location offers a space where individuals can feel comfortable discussing their needs and exploring options. Friendly staff, clean interiors, and a supportive atmosphere make every visit a positive experience.
With their arrival in Northeast Louisiana, Story Cannabis brings not just products, but a promise to care deeply, educate honestly, and support each patient every step of the way. If you’re interested in learning more about getting your medical cannabis recommendation visit GoodCannaNow.com or visit your local Story dispensary.
Color Me in Kindness
2nd Annual Legacy Color Run Set for July 18 at Forsythe Park
THIS SUMMER, THE COMMUNITY
is invited to join a celebration of joy, kindness, and legacy at the 2nd Annual Legacy Color Run, happening Saturday, July 18th at Forsythe Park in Monroe. With the vibrant theme “Color Me in Kindness,”the event offers a 10K, 5K, and Kids Fun Mile that’s open to all.
Hosted by the St. Christopher Educational Fund, the Legacy Color Run is more than a race. St. Christopher donates half of the registration proceeds from the race, to The Tarver Braddock Foundation, an organization built on the belief that even the smallest act of kindness can leave a lasting mark.
Live Along the Race Route? Join the Fun!
If you live along Park Ave, Island Drive or Paragoud Blvd, you’re invited to be part of the celebration! Step outside during race time to cheer on the runners, decorate your driveways, wave signs, throw on something bright, and
help spread a little sunshine and kindness through the community.
The Tarver Braddock Foundation: Spreading Kindness
In honor of his radiant spirit, the Tarver Braddock Foundation was established to carry on Tarver’s legacy of love, laughter, and happiness.Through countless scholarships and other random acts of kindness, the foundation invests in the community, believing that small gestures can make a big difference.
Ready, Set, Register!
Register now at www.runsignup.com by searching “NELA Color Run”! Entry fees are $30 for adults (18 and up) and just $15 for students (17 and under). Race packet pickup will be held on Friday July 17th at Fleet Feet located at 1866 Forsythe Ave in Monroe from 10am-4pm. Or, register the day of the race at 7:30am at the race tent. No cash, please.
Coloring the Community with Kindness
More than 600 second graders from Ruston to Rayville are taking part in the “Color Me in Kindness Challenge,” a heartwarming initiative designed to spread joy throughout our community. As part of the challenge, students are completing 18 random acts of kindness. A special thank you to Texas Roadhouse in West Monroe for sponsoring this challenge and helping spread kindness across NELA.
Keeping the Celebration Going
After crossing the finish line, join us at Flying Tiger Brewery for the official after party! Runners ages 21 and over can show their race medal and enjoy a complimentary adult beverage.
Whether you’re racing, walking, or just coming for the color, the Legacy Color Run is a chance to come together, celebrate life, and build a legacy of kindness—one step, one smile, and one splash of sunshine at a time.
The Guest of Honor
Why Better Hearing Deserves a Seat at the Wedding
WEDDINGS CAN GO BY IN A blur, and the moments that matter often happen quietly: a deep breath before the ceremony, a whispered “You look beautiful,” a grandchild tugging at your sleeve to tell you a joke.
If you’re a parent or grandparent involved in a wedding, being able to hear your best can make all the difference between simply attending and truly experiencing the day.
Weddings Are Beautiful But Noisy
Between echoey venues, background music, overlapping conversations and emotional voices, weddings are one of the hardest places to hear well. Even people with relatively good hearing can struggle to keep up.
For parents and grandparents playing an active role, such as giving away the bride or making a toast, those listening challenges can add unnecessary strain to what can already be an exciting but stressful occasion.
Hearing Loss Is Common But Often Overlooked
Age-related hearing loss is far more prevalent than many people realize. Around one in three adults between the ages of 65 and 74 has hearing loss, and almost half of those over 75 have trouble hearing.1 Despite how common it is, fewer than one in three adults aged 70 and older who could benefit from hearing aids have ever used them.2
Since hearing loss usually happens gradually, it often goes unnoticed until a situation demands clear hearing, like a wedding day.
Plenty of people get by in everyday settings, filling in gaps without realizing how much effort it takes or smiling and nodding during conversations rather than asking others to repeat themselves. But in a lively, crowded wedding environment, that extra effort can lead to fatigue and frustration, as well as plenty of missed moments and opportunities for connection.
A Little Preparation Goes a Long Way
If you’re part of an upcoming wedding, put a hearing checkup before the big day on your
wedding prep to-do list. It’s a simple way to either confirm that your hearing is working as it should or that hearing loss treatment may be needed.
If you already wear hearing aids, having them checked or fine-tuned ahead of time can improve sound clarity, especially in noisy spaces. It’s also smart to plan for a long day by thinking ahead about batteries or charging.
Don’t
Miss the
Moments You’ll Remember Most
Years from now, you won’t remember the centerpieces or the seating chart. You’ll remember sharing special moments with the people you love. Taking care of your hearing beforehand will help ensure those memories are not just seen but also heard.
Ready to schedule your hearing checkup? The audiologists at Advanced Audiology & Hearing Aids are now accepting new patients. Call to schedule your appointment. West Monroe (318) 582-5317 | Ruston (318) 251-1572
1 National Council on Aging. (n.d.). Hearing Health. https://www.ncoa.org/older-adults/health/ physical-health/hearing-health/
2 National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders. (2024). Quick statistics about hearing, balance, & dizziness. https://www. nidcd.nih.gov/health/statistics/quick-statisticshearing
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BY NATHAN MORRIS, MD
EVERYTHING HAS A PRICE: THE “QUICK FIX” TRAP FOR RESPIRATORY INFECTIONS
Italk with people almost daily who explain that they had an upper respiratory issue, went to their provider the next day and got two shots and now feel better. I often see them 2-3 weeks later and they say they had to get another round of shots as it came back. This may even happen a third time and 6-8 weeks later they are finally getting over their symptoms. This is pervasive. It is also a misguided approach to an infection that will likely take 7-10 days to resolved and 9 out of 10 times it is viral and the treatment they are receiving is going to set them up for recurrent infections and prolong the length of their illness in a lot of cases. What should we do instead is what I would like to explore and how to heal ourselves so that we can better fight off infection. Let’s first explore what those shots entail and if there is any benefit from them and what they mean long term.
The Steroid Shot
• When you have a viral upper respiratory infection (URI), like a common cold or the flu, your immune system is the “army” fighting to get you healthy. It uses inflammation, like a sore throat or a stuffy nose, as a signal that it’s attacking the germs.
• If you get a steroid shot (like prednisone or dexamethasone) for a cold, it might feel like a “magic button” at first because steroids are powerful anti-inflammatory drugs. They turn off the swelling and pain almost instantly. However, there is a major downside: steroids suppress your immune system.
• By calming down the inflammation, steroids tell your white blood cells to stop fighting. This basically puts your body’s defense team on a forced vacation while the virus is still inside you. Without your immune system actively hunting the virus, the infection has a chance to spread further and stay in your system much longer.
• Instead of recovering in a few days, you might find yourself sick for weeks because your “army” was told to stand down. Doctors usually avoid steroids for simple viruses because it’s better to let your body do its job, even if the symptoms are annoying for a little while.
The Antibiotic Shot
“It is like using a sledgehammer to put a nail in the wall...”
I love antibiotics as they have saved millions if not billions of lives. They usually work miraculously well on so many infections, at least for now. They should be targeted though to bacterial infections and use the bare minimum to get results. Unfortunately using something like Rocephin, which is often the second shot you receive, is a very aggressive approach to something that 9 out of 10 times does not even need a weaker antibiotic. Here are some of the reasons we should not be getting the Rocephin shot for simple upper respiratory infections
• It is like using a sledgehammer to put a nail in the wall to hang a picture frame. It is a very specific tool for serious infections like
o Meningitis
o Neurological Lyme disease
o Infected wounds
o Gonorrhea
o Pneumonia
o Heart valve infections
o Severe urinary tract infections that have gone to kidneys
• Every time you get antibiotics you risk creating resistance in the future so that when you do have an actual infection, it will not work. This is an ongoing problem and only getting worse as inappropriate antibiotic use has been rampant in the medical community for years with some estimates showing that the prescribing of antibiotics inappropriately 50% of the time for upper respiratory infections (cold, bronchitis, sore throat, etc.).
• It can cause serious gut issues. There are often cases of severe diarrhea after antibiotic shots. There is even risk of developing clostridium difficile, a serious gut overgrowth that leads to hospitalization for diarrhea. This is all due to killing the good guys in our gut which we will explore next.
Your Gut is Keeping Score
There is one guiding principle in my practice, make sure the gut is strong. The reason for this is for important reasons.
• This is where you absorb nutrients and vitamins that help keep you healthy and strong.
• The gut is where your brain gets input about how you should feel- happy or sad? The gut often decides.
• The GI tract is your primary form of detoxification. Constipated? You are not detoxing and the bad stuff cannot be removed and is recycled.
• Finally, much of your immune system lives here. This is where you determine the ability to fight off cancer, virus, and bacteria. It is here that you develop most autoimmune diseases. Now here is the big takeaway, the gut bacteria or microbiome determines how this immune system reacts and whether it attacks cancer, viruses, bacteria, or you!
How to Prevent Infections and Heal Your Gut
Taking the following supplements are a good start in helping with upper respiratory infections
• Vitamin D3 to prevent in first place, 2000-4000 IU a day is a good start.
• Zinc lozenges taken as soon as symptoms start to shorten the cold duration.
• Vitamin C -1-2 grams a day to reduce symptoms severity.
• Honey- my favorite remedy for the cough.
• Elderberry- to help with both duration and severity of illness (only take while having symptoms-not a great preventative as causes inflammation when healthy).
While these supplements are great, probably your greatest tool is having healthy gut bacteria and healthy immune system. Both with antibiotics and steroids, you are changing your gut microbiome. Your gut bacteria are your greatest friend or enemy. If you want a strong immune system to fight future infections, you need friends in your gut. With getting a short-term gain of not coughing or feeling quite so bad you are creating enemies in your gut that give the wrong signals to your immune system. Making gut bacteria be a positive force for immune health will prevent future infections and create a more vibrant mood, increase longevity and prevent chronic diseases. It will take time, but you can create vibrant health by addressing your gastrointestinal health and avoiding unnecessary insults like steroid and antibiotic shots.
A View For “I Do”
“It’s such a hidden gem in North Louisiana!”
TUCKED AWAY IN CENTRAL NORTH Louisiana, Rolling hills and quiet waters make the Outdoor Wilderness Learning (OWL) Center the perfect place for you and your beloved to say, “I do.”
The OWL is a tranquil escape full of natural beauty, complete with all you need to host the celebration of a lifetime. Conveniently located just twenty minutes from Ruston, Louisiana, the OWL is a convenient getaway full of abundant beauty and a variety of offerings, including a lush orchard, expansive pond, plenty of indoor event space, overnight accommodations, and more! There are a variety of activities available on-site during the day, perfect for out-of-town guests.
Immerse yourself in the moment during an outdoor ceremony with a waterfront overlook. Our intimate indoor reception area accommodates up to 200 guests. With a fullservice commercial kitchen, outside catering is welcome, giving you the flexibility to create the perfect dining experience for your event. Tables
and chairs are also available to rent.
Located in Dubach, Louisiana, the Outdoor Wilderness Learning Center is a nonprofit that provides community-based programs yearround with a mission to serve children, families, and the community through nature and outdoor experiences. Our programs include teambuilding, therapeutic horseback riding, summer camps, corporate retreats, and more.
On 800 acres of rolling hills and verdant forest, the OWL Center’s beautiful facilities and specially-designed programs encourage teamwork, family bonds, character development, education, and fun! Originally designed to benefit the youth of the Louisiana Methodist Children’s Home, the OWL Center has grown into a place of community and connection in nature for the north Louisiana area, offering a variety of services to churches, schools, businesses, community groups, and families.
Hear what two brides had to say about their experience with our venue.
“The OWL was the perfect wedding spot!
The pond created such a stunning backdrop for our ceremony, and the Conference Center was the ideal size for our guests. The OWL Center helped make our wedding truly unforgettable in the best way!”
“I had a dream of a pasture setting, and we got both a beautiful pasture and a serene pond -- it couldn’t have been more ideal. From start to finish-- community, booking, setup, and the big day itself, everything was seamless.”
Visit us today, and see for yourself the peace and tranquility of time spent at the Outdoor Wilderness Learning Center. We look forward to setting the stage for your perfect wedding, surrounded by the beautiful nature of North Louisiana.
Contact us today and let your lifelong adventure begin at the OWL.
Photo Credit: Zelda Garcia, Ruston Photography
Timeless Gifts for Father’s Day
Marty & Mark’s Jewelry and Watch Repair
AS FATHER’S DAY APPROACHES,
Marty & Mark’s Jewelry and Watch Repair is helping shoppers find meaningful gifts for the fathers, grandfathers, husbands, and mentors who deserve to be celebrated. Known throughout the West Monroe community for quality craftsmanship and personalized service, the locally owned business offers timeless gifts designed to last far beyond Father’s Day.
For shoppers searching for something both practical and personal, Marty & Mark’s carries an impressive selection of men’s watches and accessories. Their curated collection includes brands such as Glock, pre-owned Rolex, Bertucci, Bering, and Belaire, with styles ranging from classic and refined to durable everyday wear. Whether shopping for a dad who appreciates timeless style or someone who prefers rugged functionality, there are options suited for every personality and lifestyle.
In addition to watches, the store features a variety of leather goods and grooming products
that make thoughtful Father’s Day gifts. Mad Man leather accessories and Duke Cannon grooming essentials offer stylish yet practical options, including wallets, travel accessories, shaving products, and everyday essentials perfect for gifting. These smaller items also make great additions to larger gift packages or personalized Father’s Day baskets.
Beyond retail, Marty & Mark’s is also known for its custom jewelry design and repair services. Families can redesign heirloom jewelry, restore treasured watches, or create custom pieces with sentimental value. These personalized services allow customers to give gifts that feel meaningful and lasting, making Father’s Day even more special. A restored watch or redesigned family piece can become something treasured for generations to come.
Behind the business is a knowledgeable team with decades of experience in jewelry and watch repair. Greg Kennedy brings more than 55 years of expertise, while Tommy Shoemaker
specializes in custom design and craftsmanship. Store manager and owner Mark Bennet, alongside Katelyn Gaspard, who has more than 15 years of jewelry experience, helps customers with everything from repairs and resizing to selecting the perfect gift.
What continues to make Marty & Mark’s stand out is its commitment to customer service and community. The team takes pride in creating a welcoming environment where customers feel cared for and appreciated, making holiday shopping feel personal rather than stressful. Their attention to detail and dedication to quality craftsmanship has helped make the store a trusted part of the West Monroe community for years.
This Father’s Day, give a gift that combines quality, craftsmanship, and meaning. Whether it is a timeless watch, a practical leather accessory, or a custom-designed heirloom piece, Marty & Mark’s Jewelry and Watch Repair offers gifts fathers can enjoy for years to come.
Southern Stables
Flexibility and Thoughtful Accommodations
PLANNING A WEDDING IS ONE OF LIFE’S MOST exciting seasons, and choosing the right venue sets the tone for the entire celebration. For couples searching for a place that combines beauty, flexibility, and thoughtful accommodations, Southern Stables Event Venue offers an experience designed to make wedding weekends feel both memorable and stress-free.
One of the features that sets Southern Stables apart is the variety of spaces available for couples and their guests. The venue offers three separate spaces for wedding celebrations, giving couples flexibility when planning ceremonies, receptions, rehearsal dinners, or bridal events. At the center of it all is the venue’s “crown jewel,” a spacious 5,000-square-foot guest house designed with wedding parties in mind. The large guest house provides plenty of room for bridesmaids, groomsmen, hair and makeup teams, and family members to prepare comfortably throughout the day. It also allows couples to extend the celebration beyond the ceremony, with the option of staying their honeymoon night in the luxurious master suite.
As wedding trends continue to evolve, Southern Stables has noticed a growing shift toward smaller, more intimate celebrations. Couples are increasingly focusing on meaningful moments with close friends and family rather than large-scale events. More intimate bridal parties and guest lists allow couples to create personal experiences while prioritizing the details that matter most to them.
When it comes to planning, the team at Southern Stables encourages couples to establish their priorities early in the process. One of the biggest pieces of advice they offer is to determine a realistic budget and identify three nonnegotiable elements for the wedding day. By building a budget around those priorities, couples can avoid unnecessary stress and make decisions more confidently throughout the planning process.
The venue has hosted many beautiful weddings over the years, but one celebration stands out in particular — a stunning wedding held during the memorable 2026 ice storm. Despite the unusual weather, the event came together beautifully and became a reminder that meaningful celebrations can shine even under unexpected circumstances.
Southern Stables also understands that every couple has different needs when it comes to wedding-day support. Staffing and coordination services are fully customizable, allowing couples to choose the level of assistance they want. For those who add coordination services, team members can assist with vendor communication, timeline management, setup oversight, and keeping everything running smoothly behind the scenes.
For newly engaged couples just beginning the planning journey, Southern Stables offers one final piece of advice: enjoy the process. The engagement season passes quickly, and while planning can sometimes feel overwhelming, it also marks the beginning of a new chapter. Taking time to appreciate the small moments along the way can make the experience just as meaningful as the wedding day itself.
Summer Smiles Start at Caples & Robinson Orthodontics
Why Summertime is the Best Time for Braces
SUMMER IS ONE OF THE BEST TIMES for kids and teens to begin orthodontic treatment, and the team at Caples & Robinson Orthodontics is helping families take advantage of the season to start building healthy, confident smiles.
With school out and schedules more relaxed, summer gives children and teens the extra time they need to adjust to braces and settle into a new routine without the added pressure of homework, tests, sports, and packed school calendars.
Time to Adjust Before School Starts
One of the biggest advantages of starting braces during the summer is having time to get through the “awkward stage” before returning to school in the fall. By the time classes begin again, many patients are already feeling more comfortable with their braces and may even begin noticing early improvements in their smile.
Summer also makes recovery from initial soreness a little easier. Kids and teens have access
to plenty of soft, cool foods like smoothies, ice cream, yogurt, and cold fruit treats that can help soothe tender teeth after braces are placed or adjusted.
Best of all, when treatment starts early in the summer, many patients begin seeing noticeable results by the time the new school year rolls around, giving them even more confidence when they head back to class.
Personalized Care for Every Smile
At Caples & Robinson Orthodontics, patients are cared for by a trusted team of orthodontic specialists including Dr. Ricky Caples, Dr. Chris Robinson, and Dr. Cammie Laird. Together, they provide personalized orthodontic care in a welcoming, family-friendly environment focused on helping every patient feel comfortable and confident throughout treatment.
Whether you’re a teen getting braces for the first time or even an adult seeking a discreet solution like Spark Clear Aligners, their team
ensures a comfortable, customized, and stressfree experience from the very beginning. Caples & Robinson Orthodontics also incorporates cutting-edge technology.
• Digital x-rays for safer, clearer imaging
• Intra-oral scanners for highly accurate impressions
• Soft-tissue lasers, which help with specific procedures and can reduce recovery time and discomfort.
Convenient Locations Across Northeast
Louisiana Call Caples & Robinson Orthodontics today to schedule your complimentary consultation and take the first step toward a confident, healthy smile. With same-day treatment starts and affordable monthly payment options, getting the smile they deserve has never been easier.
Schedule a consultation by calling 318.325.9655 or visit their website, caplesrobinsonortho.com.
FATHER WHIT STODGHILL
The Rev. T. Whitfield Stodghill, III has worn many hats during his lifetime -- including motorcycle helmets! His career has ranged from working the concession stands during football games at Northeast Louisiana University (now the University of Louisiana Monroe) to working as an architect in Louisiana and California. His career took a major turn in 1990 when he discerned that God was calling him to serve the Church. His decision to serve was an easy one; he had been steadily drawn toward that work for some years. Whether to become an Episcopal priest or a Jewish rabbi was the harder decision. After much prayer and contemplation plus turning the decision over to God, he knew the answer. `
Today Father Whit serves as Priest for St. Alban’s Episcopal, a position he has held since 2011. Because of an amazing life’s journey that led him to the priesthood, and because of the life-changing work he is doing in that priesthood by bringing together a community of worshippers, Father Whit Stodghill is our June Bayou Icon.
ARTICLE BY GEORGIANN POTTS AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK
Father Whit’s family tree holds several religious connections. His paternal grandfather, Thomas Whitfield Stodghill, was born in rural Kentucky, and was a retired Methodist minister. Aside from the ministry, Whit’s grandfather also owned a lumber yard in Winnsboro, Louisiana. Whit’s paternal grandmother, Jewell Taylor, was born in Winnsboro, Louisiana, and was a school teacher. That branch of the family was primarily Methodist.
There are also a cousin and one uncle who were Baptist ministers on his mother’s side of the family. In the early 1980’s Whit discovered a female cousin living in Kentucky who shares his name – Whit Stodghill – and is an Episcopal priest (as well as a college chaplain and former professional tennis player).
Whit’s dad, Thomas Whitfield Stodghill, Jr. (aka “Bubba”), was born in Winnsboro. His mother, Mary Durr, was born in Mansfield. Her parents were Jimmie Harlow Durr, an Agriculture Service agent, and Evelyn Corinne Durr, a school teacher. Whit’s mom and dad were high school sweethearts and married at the Methodist Church in Winnsboro in 1957 after both graduated from Louisiana State University, Bubba in Architectural Engineering, and Mary in Elementary Education. The couple had two children, son Whit, and daughter Stephanie, born two years later.
Whit’s family moved to Monroe from Winnsboro in 1964 when Whit was 6 years old. Whit’s dad had taken a job with Johns and Neel
Architects there. The firm was designing Monroe City Hall and the Monroe Civic Center at the time. In 1968, Whit’s dad opened his own office and practiced architecture until he retired in 2006. Whit’s mom worked as a full-time mother while her children were small, but returned to teaching in 1987 as an elementary school teacher. Toward the end of her successful teaching career, she taught Instructional Technology with the Monroe City School System until she retired in 2007.
Whit remembers that he and his sister had ideal childhoods. “Our parents loved one another and us deeply. We lived in the same home in Monroe for our entire childhood,” Whit says. The siblings enjoyed a close relationship built on common loves, including a love for riding motorcycles. “We rode motorcycles together mostly in the woods,” he recalls with a laugh.
The family enjoyed camping trips together as well as more formal family trips to Six Flags in Dallas/Fort Worth, to the Jackson Zoo, and to Hot Springs, Arkansas. Whit and his sister often spent time with their grandparents, and usually spent an entire week in Winnsboro each summer. There they played and went to the rodeo. Major holidays – Thanksgiving and Christmas -- found them gathered together with cousins.
Education Means Change
Whit enrolled in 1st grade at Sallie Humble Elementary where he had wonderful teachers. He experienced integration there for the first time when his school integrated during his 5th grade year. There, also, he had his first African-American teacher, Ms. Mosley. Whit’s 7th and 8th grade years were spent at Lee Junior High (now Neville Junior High). For his first year in high school, he was a Neville Tiger. There he took his first Mechanical Drawing class and completed Driver’s Education. He enjoyed being in a large high school and many older students, even seniors, helped him fit in.
In fall 1971, Whit and his sister transferred to Ridgedale Academy in West Monroe. Ridgedale was a K-12 small private school so they both knew not only their classmates, but other students there plus their families. “The downside to our experience at Ridgedale was our separation from friends who remained in public schools and, of course, the experience of being in a segregated school environment,” Whit explains. “The experience of a small school allowed us to be a part of everything. I had a number of very good teachers and coaches there.”
During high school, Whit began competing in motorcycle events as a serious contender. The family traveled to motorcycle events in Mississippi, Arkansas, Texas, Oklahoma, and Louisiana. Whit says that aside from his parents, among his most influential mentors during that time were adult friends who were fellow motorcyclists. In that group were artists, construction workers, and some in the motorcycle industry. “They taught me persistence, practice, and sportsmanship,” Whit says. “One of the most difficult lessons was how to handle besting a hero and friend at a motorcycling event, and later how to handle being bested by a younger friend who I mentored.”
What Shall I Be?
When time came to go to college, Whit had no specific career in mind. He did toy with the idea of a career in motorcycling, but was also drawn to working in a profession that helped others. Law enforcement, psychology, and psychiatry were all on his “maybe” list.
In 1976 Whit enrolled at Louisiana Tech University with no declared major. He spent two quarters there with good roommates and some good friends from high school. He realized during the second quarter when he did poorly in his first calculus class that he needed a sense of direction. Fortunately for both Whit and for his dad, at the time his father was particularly busy on a couple of projects. One was the repair of a very well-designed but fire-
damaged modernist residence on Bayou DeSiard and the other was the renovation of a bank in Rayville. Both required that the space be measured and documented prior to the redesign, both skills that Whit had. “I went to work with Dad and did not return for my 3rd quarter at Louisiana Tech,” Whit says. “It was very rewarding, and I enjoyed working with both Dad and Mom. She was Dad’s secretary and office manager.”
With that work experience, a career appeared. In late August 1977, Whit decided to enroll at Louisiana State University to study Architecture. “When I arrived on campus, I was informed that classes started the following week. I ran from building to building, had my Tech transcripts sent, and got myself enrolled,” Whit remembers with a chuckle. “A week later, I was in Baton Rouge. My first dorm space was on the fourth floor of the stadium.”
Architecture – A Good Fit
Among many fine professors Whit encountered at LSU, one of his favorites was Dr. Robert Heck. Dr. Heck taught architectural history, and when he first arrived at LSU in the mid-‘50’s he had taught Whit’s father. “Dr. Heck was older, very smart, a great teacher, and fun to be around,” Whit recalls. “We all loved him. People who are good at what they do have always inspired me to want to be good at the things I want to do. Dr. Heck was like that.”
A special memory of that time at LSU that Whit shares with his sister Stephanie is traveling as part of LSU London, a 6-week summer program that Dr. Heck led. Stephanie had followed her brother to LSU and after several changes of major, majored in Interior Design. She enjoyed the LSU London program with her brother. It was an exciting time as this was the summer that Prince Charles married Lady Dianna.
While at LSU, Stephanie fell in love with one of Whit’s classmates, Guy Carwile, and married him. Today she is an Assistant Professor of Interior Design at Louisiana Tech. She also holds an MFA degree and is a painter and printmaker. Her husband is a Professor of Architecture at Louisiana Tech. He is a photographer, architectural historian, and author and documents significant buildings in the region.
During his university years, Whit recognized that he had a natural strength in math and technical courses. However, it was then that he also learned to enjoy reading. English classes at both universities exposed him to things that he might not have picked on his own. Later in his life, Whit’s love of reading would become critical in his pursuit of spiritual ideas.
A second course at LSU also deeply impacted Whit’s life. Taught by Professor Walter Wendler, the class was “The Power of Craft.” In it, Whit read and studied the work of an architect at the University of California at Berkeley. “His name was Christopher Alexander, and his work centered on the study of, and creation of beauty and the spiritual aspects of space, construction, and design.” Whit remembers. “It planted another seed, one that would continue to grow.”
When they first moved to Monroe, Whit’s family attended the Methodist Church there. In 1972, however, the entire family became Episcopalians. They were all confirmed at St. Thomas’ Episcopal Church at the old location on Filhoil Avenue. “We started attending there with one of my sister’s friends and her family,” Whit recalls. “The small church quickly became home and was a better fit than the larger Methodist Church in Monroe.” During his time at LSU, Whit attended worship occasionally at the Episcopal Church on campus there, but not regularly. Because studying architecture involved long studio hours and late nights of work, most of those students were cloistered with one another and rarely did anything else.
Experiential Learning
While at LSU, Whit met his first wife, an architecture student a year behind him. They married in 1983 after her graduation and
moved to Monroe. Whit went to work with his dad and she worked with another architect in town. Whit worked for banks, churches, residences, and commercial businesses. A favorite project with his dad was renovating an old church to become the Ronald McDonald House.
Whit became involved at St. Thomas when he came home, but also became active at Temple B’nai Israel. His wife was Jewish and had family in Northeast Louisiana and in Monroe. “My time with the Jewish community was an important part of my spiritual formation, and it remains a close connection,” Whit says.
As the two were developing their architect careers, Louisiana moved into a deep recession. Many architects were struggling, and many firms closed. Whit took a part-time job managing a yogurt shop to help. At the same time, Whit realized that he wanted to go back to school.
In 1987, the couple moved to the San Francisco Bay area where each had accepted jobs with firms in that area. Whit went to work with a family of Chinese architects, both parents and their two sons were in the practice. “We did restaurants, and other commercial facilities,” Whit says. “Obviously it was a huge change.” Later he joined another firm in Oakland that specialized in public schools. There he served as a project architect.
As he settled into the work, Whit achieved another goal. He was able to work as a volunteer on several of Alexander’s projects doing actual construction work while learning more about Alexander theories. While this work was fascinating, Whit was finding something deeper and more interesting to him than architecture. He was beginning to think that he was being called to be a priest or a rabbi.
On his first weekend in California, Whit had found a new Episcopal church home. It took longer, but his wife found a synagogue. They worshiped at both. As he thought more about entering the priesthood, Whit discussed his thoughts with his priest and his rabbi.
Above: Father Whit pictured with his family. Bottom left: Father Whit riding a motorcycle - photograph by Gene Hayes. Bottom right: Father Whit and Bishop Jake Owensby
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The idea of Whit leaving his architecture career to pursue a vocation in the Church or the Synagogue was not something his wife could accept. They separated in 1991 and divorced in 1992. Even then, Whit continued worshipping and studying and participating in both the Church and the Synagogue. “I was still trying to find my call,” Whit says. It was a stressful time, but friends from both communities helped him survive and heal.
A Singular Decision
Whit was certain that he was called to an ordained ministry, but he didn’t know whether that was as a priest or a rabbi. “Study and worship in both places informed and deepened my love of both,” Whit says. After careful thought and praying to God to show him the way, Whit chose the priesthood. “That was not because one choice was better than the other, but my willingness to be either let me find the best choice for me,” Whit says.
Whit met his second wife Dawnell Smith, from Dillon, Montana, when they were in seminary together. With permission to marry granted by both his bishop and hers, the two were wed. Today Dawnell serves as priest at St. Andrew’s in Mer Rouge, Church of the Redeemer in Oak Ridge, and at St. David’s in Rayville. Whit says that she is a mentor, companion, best friend, and a wonderful mother to their two children. Daughter Tracy Ruth was born during Father Whit’s first year as a priest, and son Thomas was born two years later. Father Whit was ordained as deacon in 1996 and priest in 1997 at Grace Cathedral in San Francisco.
The family moved to Louisiana in 2000. Dawnell stayed at home with the children until they entered school. Today daughter Tracy is a Special Education teacher in Bossier City while working on a Master’s in Special Education at ULM. She serves as the Director of Able Camp – at Camp Hardtner, the camp’s session for Special Needs Adults. Son Thomas is working on his Master’s in Communication Technology at Louisiana Tech. Previously he served as the Communication Officer for the Episcopal Diocese of Western Louisiana.
A Special Challenge
The COVID pandemic presented special challenges to everyone, but no more so than to those leading in the spiritual community. Those leaders had to learn ways to maintain their communities and relationships even when they couldn’t gather physically. That forced them to grow in important ways.
Father Whit remembers that time as a time of overcompensation as he and the others struggled overtime to meet the needs of their flocks. “During the COVID pandemic, the joke was “Just like that, we all became televangelists!” Father Whit remembers with a laugh. “There is great truth in that.”
When asked if an aspiring young person were to ask him why he/she should consider a career in pastoral service, Father Whit’s answer was immediate. “If you are called to serve the Church, there is really nothing better,” Father Whit said. “I remember coming to the decision that I wanted to serve the Church, even if I had to do something else to earn a living. When you truly want to live in the community of the Church, and to serve and work with the people of God - no other calling can replace that desire.”
When he reaches 72, Father Whit will retire through the mandatory retirement policy for Episcopal clergy. At that time, he will be able to do all of the wonderful parts of being a priest but will be relieved from managing the daily affairs of the Church. Clearly, Father Whit looks forward to continuing to serve for as long as he lives. With Dawnell by his side and continued meaningful work ahead, the future is bright.
Mahatma Gandhi (1869 – 1948) wrote “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others”. That is a truth that all should live by. Father Whit certainly does.
Kyra Clark Hairstyles
Bridal Beauty with a Faith-Filled Purpose
FOR KYRA CLARK, BRIDAL
hairstyling has always been about more than creating beautiful hairstyles. Over the years, what began as a childhood passion has grown into something she now describes as both her career and her ministry.
A self-proclaimed hopeless romantic, Kyra has loved weddings for as long as she can remember. Between growing up with her mother and two older sisters, she was constantly surrounded by opportunities to braid, curl, and style hair. Those early moments eventually sparked a lifelong dream of becoming a hairstylist.
At just eighteen years old, Kyra styled her first official wedding for her sister’s best friend. The following year, she had the opportunity to style hair for that same sister on her wedding day, a moment that became especially meaningful. Since then, her career has naturally come full circle time
and time again. Often, she will style hair for a bridesmaid, only to return months or years later to style that same woman for her own wedding day.
Today, Kyra has become known for creating timeless bridal styles while building genuine relationships with the brides she serves. But for her, the beauty of weddings extends far beyond hair and appointments or early mornings spent getting ready with bridesmaids. She sees every wedding day as a reflection of something much deeper.
“To me, bridal hair has become my ministry,” Kyra shares.
Her faith plays a central role in both her personal life and her business. Drawing inspiration from biblical imagery of the bride and bridegroom, Kyra views weddings as a reminder of the relationship between Christ and the church. She believes there is something incredibly meaningful about
preparing a bride to walk down the aisle toward the person she loves most.
That perspective has shaped the way she approaches every wedding morning. Beyond creating polished updos, soft curls, and elegant bridal styles, Kyra hopes brides leave her chair feeling encouraged, confident, and reminded of their worth.
One verse in particular has become the foundation of her work: Isaiah 61:3, “to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes.” Kyra says the verse took on new meaning after a friend once explained that even through grief, shame, or hardship, believers are still daughters of a King. As a hairstylist, she loves the symbolism of working with the “crown” of someone’s head while also reminding women of the lasting beauty and hope found in faith.
As she continues booking weddings for 2026 and 2027, Kyra remains passionate about serving brides during one of the most meaningful days of their lives. Through every hairstyle she creates, her goal is simple: to help brides feel beautiful, cared for, and celebrated as they prepare to begin a new chapter. Bride’s can get further information for Kyra Clark’s services by visiting her social media on Instagram @kdc_hairstyles.
Where History Meets Happily Ever After
Weddings at The Hotel Monroe
SET WITHIN TWO LOVINGLY preserved buildings that have stood since the late 1800s, The Hotel Monroe is an experience steeped in elegance, character, and Southern hospitality.
On one side, guests are welcomed into the historic Opera House building, home to the hotel’s inviting lobby bar and Heirloom, its celebrated restaurant known for refined, entirely glutenfree cuisine. The primary hotel building houses beautifully appointed guest accommodations and the rooftop Star Bar, where panoramic views create a memorable backdrop for celebrations.
At the center of the hotel’s offerings is the breathtaking Opera House Ballroom, a 4,740-square-foot showpiece that once served as Monroe’s historic Opera House. Restored to preserve its original grandeur, the ballroom accommodates up to 300 guests and offers an atmosphere of unmistakable glamour.
For more intimate gatherings, the hotel’s Mezzanine Level offers flexible, beautifully curated spaces that can be tailored to nearly any
vision. The Magnolia Room and Zinnia Room feature floor-to-ceiling windows, warm wood accents, and ambient lighting that create a fresh, modern aesthetic ideal for rehearsal dinners, bridal luncheons, cocktail receptions, or smaller ceremonies. Meanwhile, the Iris Room and Rose Room celebrate the building’s historic charm with original exposed brick walls and built-in hospitality centers, creating an intimate setting for private gatherings.
No two weddings at The Hotel Monroe are ever alike. The hotel’s flexible layouts allow couples to design a celebration that reflects their individual style. This adaptability was on full display during the hotel’s very first wedding: following the ceremony in the Opera House Ballroom, guests enjoyed cocktails and hors d’oeuvres on the Mezzanine level while the ballroom was transformed into an elegant dance and lounge experience. Since then, the hotel has hosted celebrations ranging from striking monochromatic soirées to whimsical gardeninspired receptions.
From the first conversation to the final farewell, couples work closely with a dedicated event specialist whose role is to ensure every detail is considered and every expectation exceeded. The hotel’s team partners directly with wedding planners, coordinators, florists, photographers, and entertainment vendors, ensuring every moving piece works in harmony.
A wedding at The Hotel Monroe is also a culinary occasion. Heirloom offers thoughtfully designed banquet experiences. Menus are fully customizable, allowing couples to create something uniquely their own. And as a 100% gluten-free property, The Hotel Monroe offers an extraordinary level of inclusivity, ensuring guests with dietary sensitivities can dine confidently without compromise.
At The Hotel Monroe weddings are not simply hosted. They are carefully designed to become part of a couple’s story for generations to come. Ad photo by Unveiled Radiance.
75 Years of Excellence
Orthopaedic and Spine Clinic of Louisiana
FOR
THREE-QUARTERS OF A century, the Orthopaedic and Spine Clinic of Louisiana has stood as a cornerstone of musculoskeletal care in Monroe and throughout the surrounding region. What began in 1951 as a small but visionary practice has grown into a multi-location clinic serving generations of patients across Northeast Louisiana.
Founded by orthopedic surgeons Dr. Roy Ledbetter and Dr. Faheem Cannon, the original Orthopaedic Clinic of Monroe was built on a simple but enduring mission: to provide high-quality, compassionate orthopedic care close to home. Over the decades, that mission has remained unchanged—even as the clinic itself has evolved to meet the growing and changing needs of the community. Through every stage of growth, the clinic has remained committed to providing compassionate, highquality care to the families it serves.
A Legacy of Growth and Regional Impact
From its original location in Monroe, the clinic steadily expanded its reach opening additional offices in West Monroe, and later in Ruston. Today, in addition to its three primary locations, the clinic operates satellite clinics in Winnsboro, Columbia, and Bastrop.
A Tradition of Sports Medicine Excellence
A defining chapter in the clinic’s history began in 1969, when Dr. Myron Bailey joined the practice. Shortly thereafter, Dr. Bailey became a sports medicine physician for Northeast Louisiana University, now known as the University of Louisiana Monroe.
Dr. Bailey’s contributions to sports medicine were widely recognized, culminating in his induction into the Louisiana Athletic Trainers Hall of
Fame. Continuing this tradition, the clinic also provides orthopedic sports medicine services for Louisiana Tech University.
Advancing Care Through Specialization
In the past year, the clinic embraced a new name—Orthopaedic and Spine Clinic of Louisiana—to better reflect the breadth and depth of its services. This includes the addition of two fellowship-trained spine surgeons, Dr. Stan Crawford and Dr. Andrew Meyers.
In addition to general orthopedic services, the clinic is proud to offer a range of subspecialty services, including:
• Sports medicine
• Upper extremity and hand surgery
• Total joint replacement
• Foot and ankle care
• Spine surgery
Commitment to Community and Accessibility
The Orthopaedic and Spine Clinic of Louisiana remains deeply committed to accessibility and convenience. The clinic hours are Monday-Thursday 8am-5pm and Friday 8am to noon. In addition, the clinic offers an after hours walk-in clinic MondayThursday 5pm-8pm and Saturday 8am-11am.
WHAT IS LOW DOSE-RADIATION and Therapy (LDRT)? Arthritis and other inflammatory conditions can make even the simplest daily activities painful and frustrating. Joint stiffness, swelling and chronic discomfort often interfere with mobility, sleep, and overall quality of life. While medications, injections, and physical therapy can help manage symptoms, many patients continue searching for longer-lasting relief. Northeast Louisiana Cancer Institute (NELCI) now offers LDRT, an advanced, noninvasive treatment option designed to reduce inflammation, relieve pain, and improve movement.
How It Works - LDRT uses targeted, very small doses of radiation to treat inflammation in affected joints and tissues. Unlike traditional radiation therapy used in cancer treatment, LDRT focuses specifically on calming inflammation rather than destroying cancer cells. The treatment is designed to help patients experience pain relief and improved joint
function without surgery or lengthy recovery times. Inflammation is one of the primary causes of arthritis pain. When joints become inflamed, patients often experience swelling, tenderness, and limited mobility. LDRT works by targeting inflammation at its source. By calming the body’s inflammatory response, LDRT may help decrease pain, improve flexibility, and restore daily function over time. Many patients begin noticing improvement within just a few weeks of starting treatment.
Conditions Treated - NELCI offers LDRT for a variety of inflammatory and degenerative conditions. Patients suffering from osteoarthritis, rheumatoid arthritis, plantar fasciitis, Dupuytren’s contracture, tennis elbow, tendonitis and bursitis may be candidates for treatment. Each patient is evaluated individually by the NELCI care team to determine whether LDRT is an appropriate option based on symptoms, medical history and previous treatments.
Our Process - The treatment process is straightforward and convenient. Care begins with a consultation to review symptoms and discuss treatment goals. A short planning session follows to prepare the treatment area. Most patients complete six treatment sessions scheduled two to three times per week. Each session typically lasts only 10 to 15 minutes. LDRT is painless and often compared to getting a standard X-ray. Patients can return to normal activities immediately after each visit with no downtime required. Because the treatment is noninvasive, it may appeal to patients looking to avoid or delay surgery while still seeking meaningful pain relief. For many individuals, relief from LDRT can last one to two years, and treatment may be repeated if needed.
Take the Next Steps - To learn more or schedule a consultation, call Northeast Louisiana Cancer Institute today at 318-966-1900 or 318-329-4800.
BAYOU KIDZ
A Quiet Kind of Love
Loving Fathers and Centipede Grass
article by Cindy G. Foust
JUNE HAS OFFICIALLY ARRIVED IN LOUISIANA, WHICH means the heat has settled in like an uninvited guest that refuses to leave, the mosquitoes are big enough to carry off small pets, and every dad in America has suddenly decided it’s time to start mowing grass, like they’re preparing Augusta National for the Masters. Speaking of the Masters, my little grandbaby love had a birthday and the theme was “Britton has Mastered her 2nd Year.” You will also be interested to know we had a party worthy of Pinterest with fresh flowers, pimento cheese sandwiches and a smocked dress with a golf cart on it that ended up with grass stains on it from playing with the oversized golf clubs. If you are thinking that we are a little extra…you wouldn’t be wrong. The only thing we didn’t have was AstroTurf grass, probably because we just didn’t think of it. I mean, you only turn 2 once!
Speaking of grass, I’ve said this before but it bears repeating…my husband Scott is a man who loves his grass.
And when I say he loves his grass, I mean I genuinely believe if our yard could be added to the family Christmas card, he would do it. Well, if I did a family Christmas card, but I digress.
Scott literally measures the grass. I’m not exaggerating. If it reaches one inch, he’s outside cranking up the lawnmower like it’s an emergency response vehicle. And if he gets bored? He just mows it again in another direction for aesthetics. I don’t even know what that means, but apparently the stripes matter.
Sometimes I stand at the kitchen window watching him ride around the yard for the third time and wonder if this is what middle age looks like for men.
At my house, it’s not golf. It’s not sports cars. And it’s not motorcycles. Just Centipede grass and a deep emotional attachment to edging sidewalks.
And honestly? It’s kind of endearing. Frankly, it’s just another quiet way that Scott shows up for his family.
Because the older I get, the more I realize that fatherhood usually isn’t loud. Even if the lawnmower is. And the ordinary task of mowing the lawn is one example of dads showing up in ordinary ways.
They show up. They fix stuff. They carry heavy things (I’ll elaborate more shortly). They make sure your gas tank has fuel in it. They worry quietly. Or loudly…whatever the circumstance dictates. They stand in the background at ballgames and dance recitals and graduations pretending they didn’t cry when everybody knows good and well they did.
That was my daddy. And he carried a lot of heavy things in my life… things that I thought would break me, but he carried my load for me.
Now physically speaking, my dad was a very large man. Six-footsix, broad shouldered, deep voice…the kind of man who could walk into a room and make everybody straighten up just a little bit. As children, I think me and my sisters and my brother genuinely believed he could fight bears.
Well, maybe not a bear, but probably a snake.
And honestly, looking back, he probably could have.
But underneath all that size was one of the softest hearts you could ever know. I would say it was as big as he was tall.
For most of my childhood, Daddy worked overseas on a thirtydays-on, thirty-days-off schedule. And if you’ve ever loved someone who worked away from home, then you understand the strange rhythm of that life. One minute they’re there, filling up the whole house with their presence, and the next minute they’re gone again and everybody’s trying to adjust to the quiet. Especially quiet it seemed, after Daddy was dropped at the airport.
As children, we measured time differently than most people. By the way, it moved at a snail’s pace then, unlike now when it was January with an Ice-cop-olypse and now it’s May and the Farmer’s Market is about to open.
But I digress.
But when he came home? We knew by the excitement in the house, by the groceries Mama bought, by the way she cleaned a little extra and by the countdowns on the calendar.
And when he walked through the door, it felt like life started back up again.
But I think somewhere along the way, my dad realized he had missed enough.
By the time I was in the tenth grade, he made the decision to come home for good. Well…sort of.
Now technically, there was a brief period where he tried to move all of us to Oklahoma. Let me just say this as delicately as I can: that did not go well.
Our family revolted like it was a historical event that should’ve been documented in textbooks.
Particularly my grandparents, who lived right next door on our family compound and they revolted. And that’s a nice way of putting it. Honestly, they might have chained themselves to the property line in protest. And thankfully, cooler heads prevailed.
But, we stayed.
Daddy stayed.
And what I realize now, as a grown woman, is what a sacrifice that probably was for him.
Because fathers carry responsibilities children don’t always understand until they’re older. They carry pressure. Financial worry. Fear. The weight of trying to provide a good life for the people they love.
And somehow, the really good ones carry it quietly.
That’s what my dad did.
And years later, that’s exactly the kind of father I watched Scott become, too.
He shows up.
Not just for the big things, but for the ordinary things that end up becoming the big things later.
Ballgames. School pick-ups. Late-night talks. Broken hearts. But not reading aloud to our kids, because he skipped a bunch of pages and
made up stories that didn’t relate to the pictures.
So I took the books from him.
Where was I? Oh, trying to end this column. If you’ve ever watched a man become a father and then later become a grandfather, well, that’s a sweetness I don’t even know how to fully describe. Watching that disciplinarian soften. The one who softens the debit card for anything she wants. The one who lets the toddler play in his hair (I could make a joke here, but in honor of Father’s Day, I will let my readers get their own visual). The one who gets choked up when the toddler is hurt.
And it’s beautiful to witness.
This Father’s Day, I find myself thinking less about the loud moments in life and more about the quiet ones. My father. My husband. Both of my father-in-law’s. A lot like the ones you know.
The fathers who worked long hours.
The dads who came home tired and still tossed baseballs in the yard.
The men who loved their families not always through words, but through consistency.
Through sacrifice.
Through showing up over and over again.
And maybe that’s why June feels sentimental to me this year.
Because the older I get, the more I understand what a gift that kind of love really is.
Steady love.
Dependable love.
Grass-mowing-for-the-third-time-this-week kind of love. And I’m just really grateful for it.
Keep ULM Beautiful
Awarded Prestigious (KLB) University Affiliate Grant
THE UNIVERSITY OF LOUISIANA
Monroe is proud to announce that Keep ULM Beautiful (KULMB) has been awarded a prestigious Keep Louisiana Beautiful (KLB) University Affiliate Grant. This grant funded the installation of a new water bottle filling station on the first floor of the Student Center. This grant, along with previous grants, has funded the installation of four water bottle filling stations in key campus locations, significantly advancing ULM’s ongoing commitment to sustainability and waste reduction.
The newly installed filling station will replace one traditional water fountain in the Student Center, providing a convenient, eco-friendly option for students, faculty, and staff to refill reusable water bottles. This project aims to reduce the use of single-use plastic bottles on campus, support a culture of sustainability, and encourage students to adopt environmentally responsible habits.
“This grant allows us to build on our previous efforts to promote sustainability on campus,” said Sidney Jones, Coordinator of Keep ULM Beautiful. “The three bottle refill stations funded by last year’s KLB University Affiliate grant, which were installed this past year, have already diverted over 16,281 single-use plastic bottles from the waste stream. We are excited to expand this impact with the addition of new stations.”
The project is a continuous and collaborative effort between Keep ULM Beautiful, the ULM Office of Residential Life, and the ULM Office of Student Development. These departments will collaborate to install, maintain, and promote the refill stations. In addition, they will lead educational programs to increase awareness of water conservation, reduce single-use plastic waste, and promote reusable water bottles.
To encourage student participation, KULMB plans to distribute stainless steel
water bottles to students who attend educational programs related to litter prevention, recycling, waste reduction, and sustainability. These initiatives will support KLB’s overarching goal of fostering environmental stewardship and reducing waste on Louisiana’s college campuses.
“With the support of our campus and community partners, we’re taking practical steps to be better stewards of our resources. It’s inspiring to see ULM students and staff taking responsibility and showing pride in our campus environment,” added Jones.
The water bottle filling stations will feature signage that recognizes the support of Keep Louisiana Beautiful and Keep ULM Beautiful. By promoting the use of refillable water bottles, the stations will reduce waste and empower students to make sustainable choices in their daily routines.
This project is part of Keep ULM Beautiful’s broader mission to engage the campus community in litter prevention, recycling, and sustainability initiatives. Through partnerships, education, and service projects, Keep ULM Beautiful continues to make strides toward a cleaner, greener campus.
For more information about the water bottle filling station project, please contact Sidney Jones at sijones@ulm.edu.
Dansby’s Taylor Rental
Creating Beautiful Celebrations
FOR COUPLES PLANNING THE perfect wedding day, every detail matters, from elegant table settings and stunning décor to spacious tents and unforgettable reception spaces. For 50 years, Dansby’s Taylor Rental has been a trusted name in Monroe for helping brides and families bring those special moments to life with ease and style.
Located in the heart of Monroe, Dansby’s Taylor Rental has built a reputation for exceptional service, dependable rentals, and a thoughtfully curated selection of event essentials designed to make weddings and receptions both beautiful and stress-free. Whether hosting an intimate ceremony, a grand ballroom-style reception, or a charming outdoor celebration, couples can find everything they need in one convenient place.
A complete wedding and party rental destination, Dansby’s offers an extensive
inventory that includes elegant candelabras, columns, arches and gazebos, tents, tables, chairs, dance floors, fine tableware, linens, and a wide assortment of colored tablecloths to complement any wedding palette or theme. Their dependable delivery service also helps ensure every event setup runs smoothly from start to finish.
What truly sets Dansby’s apart is its dedication to customer care. Their experienced staff works closely with clients to help create events that feel personal, polished, and memorable. From the earliest planning stages to the final touches on the wedding day, the team is committed to making every rental experience seamless and enjoyable.
Over the past 50 years, Dansby’s Taylor Rental has played a role in countless weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal showers, and celebrations throughout the region. Generations of families have
trusted the company to help create the backdrop for life’s most meaningful occasions.
Beyond weddings, Dansby’s also serves the community through event rentals for graduations, corporate gatherings, birthday parties, and local celebrations. Their longstanding presence in Monroe reflects not only quality service, but also a deep commitment to the people and communities they serve.
For brides searching for timeless elegance, reliable service, and a team that understands the importance of every detail, Dansby’s Taylor Rental continues to be a go-to destination for unforgettable wedding celebrations. Couples can visit the showroom at 2102 Forsythe Avenue in Monroe to explore rental options and begin planning the wedding day they’ve always envisioned.
THE SECRET INGREDIENT AT ETC. CATERING
For five decades, Etc. Catering has blended family tradition, culinary creativity, and heartfelt hospitality into a beloved Northeast Louisiana institution. Founded by Joyce Stephenson and now operated alongside her daughter, Rhonda McDuffie, the business continues to serve generations of customers with home-style cooking and enduring Southern charm.
ARTICLE BY STARLA GATSON AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK
Anyone familiar with the restaurant business knows how difficult it can be to survive in it. So, when a food service provider manages to achieve decades-long success, it’s wise to learn what their secret is.
That’s the first question I asked Rhonda Stephenson McDuffie upon learning how long Etc. Catering, the company she operates alongside her mother, Joyce Stephenson, has been in business. McDuffie answers with no hesitation, declaring, “I don’t serve anything I wouldn’t have at my house.”
While McDuffie’s commitment to using only high-quality ingredients is admirable, it’s probably not the sole reason Etc. Catering, which Stephenson founded five decades ago, is still booked and busy. That the food tastes good probably helps quite a bit, too. Of course, the food tastes good; Stephenson is a gifted chef. She’s been in the kitchen since she was six years old, and, as the youngest of 11 children, learning to cook for large groups became secondnature to her right away.
Despite having so much kitchen experience, Stephenson didn’t set out to cook professionally. At least, not right away. When Stephenson first got married many years ago, she was in an entirely different profession. After the birth of her third child, she decided to leave her job to stay home with the children and the family pets. “We always had pets, some stranger than others,” McDuffie shares, noting that at one point, the Stephensons had a dog, a hawk, and a mink.
Staying at home brought Stephenson back to cooking. Sure, she’d done it for her family every day. But now, with time to do it for others, Stephenson began preparing meals for friends and extended family members.
“[She did it] so frequently that Daddy finally asked, ‘Do you think you can get the cost of groceries back?’” McDuffie recalls.
Thus, Etc. Catering was born. Stephenson brought her neighbor and close friend, Hilda, on board, and the two dove headfirst into hospitality. Thanks to a three-by-five-inch ad in the local newspaper, Etc. scored its first real catering order: a 200-person wedding meal.
“We came home to see huge amounts of roast beef in electric roasters,” McDuffie says of that order. “It seemed to be looking back at us. We stood there looking at all this roast with our mouths gaping open. Then, we started laughing hysterically. The party was a huge success, and the hardest part, getting started, was done.”
From there, Etc. Catering only continued to grow, providing food for all kinds of events, including two of the three Stephenson children’s weddings.
“For my wedding, [Mother] cooked for over 500 people,” McDuffie says. “Thanks, Mother, the memories last forever, even if the marriage didn’t.”
Etc. Catering trucked along, with Stephenson and her business partner at the helm. After several years, though, Stephenson’s partner decided to step away
from the business due to health issues. As she made her exit from ETC, McDuffie made her entrance, first on a part-time basis before eventually transitioning into full-time.
For more than 20 years, the company operated out of the Stephensons’ kitchen. But as Stephenson and McDuffie’s business grew, so did the need for a dedicated Etc. Catering space. The good news was that the family had a local property, the former Stephenson Chevrolet auto lot, available for them to move into. The bad news? It was in bad shape.
“The Stephenson Chevrolet property has been in our family since the early 1930s, and it was in terrible shape,” McDuffie says. “We either had to renovate or take bulldozers to the building. We decided to renovate. The renovation was somewhat like trying to resurrect a dinosaur.”
After months of hard work and lots of imagination, the mother-daughter duo managed to transform the old car lot into an ideal workspace, and Bastrop’s 224 North Washington Street has been Etc. Catering’s headquarters ever since. July 2026 marks the twenty-fifth anniversary in that location, McDuffie says proudly.
Now, the building holds no traces of its
car lot past, save for the framed newspaper clippings featuring Stephenson Chevrolet that hang on the walls. It’s a welcoming, well-decorated space with rosy pink artwork over the windows and a small dining area for groups who want to reserve the space for a meal.
There’s a dark wood barn door in the building, and behind that is where the magic happens. The spacious Etc. Catering kitchen lies on the other side of the door. There, you’ll find shelves of spices, jars of pickled items, big cans of vegetables, and a refrigerator full of sweet treats ready to be served. There’s also a bookshelf in the corner of the kitchen, stocked only with cookbooks. As I peruse the titles on the shelf — they have everything, from the Amish Community Cookbook to the holy grail of cooking, Irma S. Rombauer’s The Joy of Cooking — Karen, Stephenson’s granddaughter-in-law, says in passing, “Grandmother reads cookbooks like novels.”
That makes sense. They say those who are best at their craft are the ones who never
stop honing it, and that describes the ladies of Etc. They’re always learning, McDuffie says, explaining that, as culinary and décor trends change, the company must, too. “For example,” she explains, “one weekend, you may use all silver and crystal for an event. The next weekend, you may be using hammered copper chafers and wooden bowls. Trends are always changing.”
By the looks and age of her cookbook collection, Stephenson has long been aware of how important it is to learn about and adapt new culinary practices. Fortunately, she’s passed that knowledge down to her daughter, who oversees much of the company’s dayto-day operations now. At 91 years old, Stephenson is no longer in the kitchen every
day, just occasionally. But, McDuffie adds, should she need a reminder or guidance, “[Mother] is always a phone call away.”
And, of course, she has an excellent staff to aid her, too, including Shadonna, Karen, and many other nieces and nephews who step in to help out. With so many hands on deck, Etc. Catering runs smoothly, catering events and selling to-go plate lunches four days a week efficiently. Don’t mistake the efficiency for ease, though. The work is challenging, says McDuffie.
“A caterer has to love the whole process,” she says.
And, just like her mother, she does. Despite having done so for decades, working in the food service industry hasn’t gotten old for McDuffie. The result, whether an upscale holiday dinner with elaborate dishes and crystal or a laidback birthday party with sandwiches and cupcakes, is always gratifying. I ask why, and McDuffie answers quickly: the people. Through Etc., McDuffie and her crew get the opportunity to meet and serve people they may have never met otherwise. That, she says, is the most rewarding part of the process.
“We have made some really good friends that we’ve met [through the business],” she shares.
And, McDuffie adds, they’re always happy to make new friends through the business. Etc. Catering is open from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Tuesday through Friday, and they are always happy to chat with both returning and prospective customers about catering their next event.
When they aren’t prepping for their next catering gig, McDuffie, Karen, and Shadonna are in the kitchen cooking lunch for the community. Tuesday through Friday, the ladies of Etc. Catering offer an entrée and sides for customer pick-up. Since they offer a variety of dishes, like chicken fried steak, smoked pork ribs, chicken and sausage jambalaya, and lasagna, there’s enough variety to please plenty of palates. The menu changes daily, so be sure to check out the company’s Facebook page to see what’s being served each day, then call (318) 281-5580 to reserve your meal.
THE BRIDAL ATELIER
From timeless silhouettes to contemporary couture, these stunning gowns showcase some of our favorite bridal looks of the season. Discover each style at Blue Sparrow Bridal Co and Blush by Sadie C’s, where elegance meets modern romance.
MODEL: GENEVIEVE ALEXANDER
HAIR & MAKEUP BY MEKA BENNETT
PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK
BLUE SPARROW BRIDAL CO.
Experience the ultimate in glamour and luxury with the Benjie Royal wedding dress by Maggie Sottero. Shimmering sequins and beaded lace motifs adorn the plunging illusion sweetheart neckline and glitter illusion bodice. The extended illusion scalloped lace train and optional train extensions add drama while the lined Rosario crepe back satin ensures comfort. Elevate your look by adding buttons down the back for a vintage vibe.
BLUSH
BY SADIE C’S
This Sophia Toll fit-and-flare gown balances romance and allure with a sculpted sweetheart neckline, sparkling lace, and sheer side and back paneling. Shimmering tulle and sleek crepe create striking contrast through the silhouette, while cascading lace appliqués and fabric buttons add a refined, romantic finish.
BLUE SPARROW BRIDAL CO.
Timeless romance meets modern elegance in the Glenetta wedding dress by Justin Alexander. This captivating fit-and-flare gown features delicate vintageinspired lace, a flattering straight neckline, and an elegant basque waist that enhances every curve. The seductive silhouette creates a look that is both feminine and unforgettable, while the romantic chapel-length train adds the perfect finishing touch to this preppy chic bridal style.
RON ALEXANDER CLOTHIERS
Crafted by Ron Alexander Clothiers, this custom tuxedo showcases the refined elegance of luxurious Dormeuil fabric, tailored for a timeless and sophisticated look. A coordinating custom shirt and classic bow tie complete the ensemble, creating a polished statement perfect for the groom’s special day.
Inspired by modern royalty, this Sophia Toll soft organza ballgown blends romance with effortless elegance. A sculpted scoop neckline and contouring lace appliqués add a subtle touch of allure, while softly ruched organza creates an ethereal, contemporary finish.
BLUSH BY SADIE C’S
BLUSH BY SADIE C’S Dazzling and undeniably romantic, this Essence of Australia gown captures timeless elegance with a modern edge in this fit-and-flare silhouette. A striking cat-eye neckline, exposed boning, and Basque waist sculpt the classic trumpet silhouette, while ivory beaded lace and delicate 3D florals create an unforgettable finish.
SPARROW BRIDAL CO.
Romantic and effortlessly elegant, the Leighton wedding dress by Justin Alexander features allover corded Alençon lace in a timeless A-line silhouette designed to flatter every curve. The graceful scoop neckline and structured basque waistline create a beautifully feminine shape, while layers of lace, organza, satin, and tulle add soft texture and dimension. Finished with a classic chapellength train, this gown is the perfect blend of sophistication and modern bridal romance.
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Junior League of Monroe
Meet the League
THE JUNIOR LEAGUE OF MONROE IS A DYNAMIC organization dedicated to developing the potential of women and improving the community through effective action and leadership. With a mission centered on empowering women across Northeast Louisiana, the League provides opportunities for members to build civic leadership skills while making a meaningful impact in the region. Through volunteer service, community partnerships, and leadership training, members gain the tools and confidence needed to put their unique talents to work for the greater good.
At its core, the Junior League of Monroe focuses on developing leaders who are passionate about serving their community. Members come from a variety of backgrounds and professions, but they all share a common goal: to strengthen Northeast Louisiana through service and collaboration. The League equips women with leadership training, organizational experience, and community connections that extend far beyond their time in the organization. By participating in committees, planning community initiatives, and working alongside other motivated women, members develop skills that benefit both their personal and professional lives.
Volunteerism is a central part of the League’s mission. Each year, members of the Junior League of Monroe collectively contribute more than 5,000 volunteer hours to the community. These hours support programs and initiatives that address critical needs in Northeast Louisiana. Whether organizing fundraising events, supporting local nonprofits, or leading community outreach projects, League members are dedicated to transforming communities by challenging the status quo and working toward meaningful change. Their commitment demonstrates the power of women working together to strengthen and uplift the places where they live and work.
Women who are interested in becoming part of this impactful organization are invited to attend the League’s “Meet the League” events. These gatherings provide a welcoming and informative introduction to the Junior League of Monroe. Potential members have the opportunity to meet current League members, ask questions, and learn more about the League’s mission, programs, and volunteer opportunities. Attendees can also connect with potential sponsors, who play an important role in guiding new members through the application and provisional process.
The pathway to membership begins with joining the Provisional Class, which is designed to introduce new members to the League’s history, mission, and community initiatives. During this provisional period, women gain insight into how the League operates and begin building relationships with fellow members. The experience helps provisionals develop leadership and service skills while learning how they can best contribute to the organization and the community.
Those interested in learning more are encouraged to attend our fall 2026 Meet the League event to discover how their talents and passions can help create lasting change in the community. Please scan the QR code or go to monroe.jl.org to learn more!
King of Hearts
Wedding Style Made Easy
FOR MORE THAN 40YEARS, KING OF HEARTS TUXEDOS & Menswear has helped generations of grooms and wedding parties prepare for one of life’s most meaningful celebrations. Known throughout Northeast Louisiana for exceptional customer service and an unmatched in-stock inventory, King of Hearts continues to be a trusted destination for couples looking for both style and reliability during the wedding planning process.
What truly sets King of Hearts apart is its ability to provide immediate solutions when wedding-day details don’t go exactly as planned. With more than 4,000 tuxedos in stock, the store can quickly make sizing adjustments, accommodate last-minute changes, and ensure every member of the wedding party looks polished and feels comfortable. This is especially helpful for weddings that include attendants traveling from out of town, where measurements submitted remotely are not always perfectly accurate. Rather than waiting on replacements to be shipped, King of Hearts can often correct issues on the spot.
Current wedding trends are leaning back toward timeless sophistication, with classic black tuxedos making a strong comeback. Today’s styles feature updated slimmer fits and modern tailoring, offering a refined look while still honoring tradition. In addition to black tuxedos, shades of blue, tan, and sage have become popular choices for couples wanting a softer or more contemporary wedding palette.
Couples also appreciate the opportunity to see and try on styles in person before making a final decision. Because the tuxedos and suits are available in-store, grooms can work alongside their bride-to-be to select attire that complements the overall aesthetic of the wedding day. From formal black-tie celebrations to outdoor ceremonies with lighter tones, the team helps coordinate every detail. With more than 150 tie color options available, accessories can easily be matched to bridesmaid dresses, floral arrangements, or wedding décor.
To create a smooth and stress-free experience, couples are encouraged to begin the tuxedo selection process about six months before the wedding. While final measurements are typically needed four weeks prior to the event, starting early gives attendants plenty of time to submit measurements and helps eliminate last-minute worries for the bride and groom.
The fitting process is carefully designed to ensure every customer receives the right fit. Local attendants are measured instore and return two days before the wedding for a final fitting and pickup. Out-of-town members follow a similar process by submitting measurements remotely, with adjustments made if necessary once they arrive.
Being part of such an important milestone is one of the most rewarding aspects of the business. Helping wedding parties look their best and hearing that everything went smoothly continues to make each celebration special.
Timeless Southern Elegance
EMILY AND JOHN-MICHAEL SAY I DO AT FIRST BAPTIST OF SHREVEPORT WITH A RECEPTION THAT FOLLOWED AT 601 SPRING EVENT VENUE
Timeless Southern elegance and deeply personal touches made the wedding of Emily Aillet and John Michael Cristler on November 8, 2025. Emily and John Michael’s story began years before they officially started dating. The two first met through mutual friends while attending college and went on a few dates during Emily’s senior year. After graduation, the pair reconnected at a church community group, where their relationship naturally blossomed into something deeper.
When it came time to propose, John Michael planned a moment that was intimate, sentimental, and tied closely to family tradition. Under the guise of helping his grandfather retrieve something, he brought Emily to his great-aunt’s lake house located on family property. Once they arrived, he led her outside where he surprised her with a heartfelt proposal. Hidden nearby was a photographer ready to capture the emotional moment as the couple began the next chapter of their lives together.
For the big day, Emily envisioned a celebration inspired by the effortless sophistication of Serena and Lily. Blue and green tones paired with rattan accents created a classic Southern aesthetic that felt elegant without being overly formal. Working alongside wedding coordinator Allie Murphy of 601 and florist and designer Brianna Belton, Emily brought her vision to life with intentional details and timeless textures that reflected her personal style.
The ceremony took place at First Baptist Shreveport, a venue Emily had long admired for its beauty and traditional architecture. The grandeur of the church provided the perfect setting for the couple’s vows and complemented the refined atmosphere they hoped to create. Surrounded by family and friends, the couple exchanged promises in a ceremony filled with meaningful moments and emotional touches.
One of the most memorable parts of the day occurred before the ceremony even began. During their first look, Emily and John Michael
shared private vows with one another, creating a quiet and emotional moment away from the crowd. For Emily, this became one of the most special memories from the entire day. The ceremony itself was equally moving, especially as classical organ music echoed throughout the sanctuary. Emily walked down the aisle to “Trumpet Voluntary,” the very same song her mother had chosen for her own wedding day, adding another generational connection to the celebration.
Emily’s bridal look perfectly matched the timeless elegance of the wedding. She always imagined herself wearing a ball gown, and after finding the perfect dress at Fabulous Frocks, she customized it by adding off-theshoulder sleeves to make the design uniquely her own. Her bridal details were filled with sentimental family heirlooms and meaningful keepsakes that honored generations before her. Attached to her bouquet was her baby bonnet, lovingly monogrammed with the wedding date by her mother. She also carried her great-grandmother’s brooch and her great-
grandfather’s handkerchief as her “something borrowed,” while her bridesmaids in soft blue gowns became her “something blue.” Emily also wore the same earrings her mother had worn on her wedding day, creating another beautiful family connection.
Following the ceremony, guests gathered at 601 Spring Street for a lively reception that blended classic bridal elegance with warm Southern charm. Rattan details, coastal-inspired textures, and sophisticated blue and green décor carried the design seamlessly from ceremony to celebration. One of the highlights of the evening was undoubtedly the music. The Cap City Band kept the dance floor packed throughout the night, creating an energetic atmosphere that guests continued talking about long after the celebration ended.
Even amid the excitement of the reception, Emily incorporated deeply personal moments that reflected the importance of family throughout the day. Before the bouquet toss, she dedicated her bouquet to her mother in a touching tribute that left many guests emotional. The wedding also featured carefully selected details, from a needlepoint wedding cake ornament gifted by a family friend to the classic getaway car provided by Tim Chance Classics for the couple’s grand exit.
Every aspect of the wedding came together thanks to a talented team of vendors who helped bring the couple’s vision to life. Photographer Carly Butts beautifully documented the celebration alongside second shooter Jamie
Endris, ensuring every meaningful detail and candid moment was captured throughout the day. Brianna Belton’s floral designs elevated the elegant Southern atmosphere, while guests enjoyed catering by ICater and a beautiful cake by Social Bites. Hair by Avery Covington and makeup by Meka Bennett completed Emily’s timeless bridal look. Additional contributions from Creative Reflections, Please and Thank You Paper Co., Pelican Tents and Events, The Enchanted Florist, and Lilac Rentals ensured every detail felt polished and intentional. Bvn Films and invitations’ calligraphy by Beth Harper.
Best Day Ever
THE WEDDING OF ANNA GRACE SPANN & DRAKE DANIELS
Anna Grace Spann and Andrew Drake Daniels began their forever on April 25, 2026, surrounded by the people they love most at the picturesque Bella Rouge Venue. With rolling hills, glowing sunsets, and an elegant outdoor setting, the day reflected every detail of the couple’s joyful vision,w one rooted deeply in faith, family, and celebration.
The couple first met through mutual friends, but it was Drake’s heartfelt proposal on May 11, 2025, that beautifully set the tone for their future together. In front of close family and friends, Drake proposed beside a wooden cross overlooking Bayou Bonne Idee, framed by towering cypress trees and the peaceful beauty of Louisiana. That same spirit carried into their wedding day as Anna Grace and Drake exchanged vows outdoors beneath a floral-adorned cross, officiated by their pastor, Bro. Casey Johnson.
Planning the wedding alongside her mother, Anna Grace envisioned a ceremony centered around Christ and filled with timeless Southern elegance. Florist Kirsten Verdin of
KV Floral Design transformed the ceremony space into a springtime dream with lush arrangements of blue and white hydrangeas, coral and pink peonies, peach and yellow garden roses, tulips, ranunculus, delphinium, and delicate greenery. Each bridesmaid wore a different spring-inspired color selected by the bride, carrying monochromatic bouquets that perfectly complemented their dresses and the groomsmen’s classic navy tuxedos. Adding a personal touch, Drake gifted each groomsman gold duck tie tacks as a nod to his love of duck hunting.
Anna Grace stunned in a satin Justin Alexander gown from Bridal Path, the very first dress she tried on. The elegant A-line gown featured an off-the-shoulder neckline, soft ruching, a modern slit, and delicate buttons trailing down the back. Though she explored other options, she continually returned to the first gown she fell in love with, knowing it was the perfect dress for her wedding day.
Meaningful family heirlooms and sentimental details added even more depth to the celebration. Anna Grace carried a
refurbished antique trunk prepared by her mother to hold cherished wedding memories. Her “something new” included pearls gifted by her parents and grandparents, while her “something borrowed” was a treasured 1920s vintage diamond ring with intricate filigree detail. A custom embroidered bouquet wrap with blue monogramming completed her “something blue.”
Music filled every moment of the ceremony with heartfelt emotion. Family members were seated to “The Blessing” by Kari Jobe before the wedding party processed to Brandon Lake’s “Gratitude.” Anna Grace made her entrance to “Goodness of God” by CeCe Winans, and following the vows, the newlyweds recessed joyfully to “Counting My Blessings” by Seph Schlueter. One of the ceremony’s most touching moments came during the couple’s communion unity ceremony and private prayer, accompanied by the breathtaking sounds of violinist Hallie Yarbrough and harpist Marcy Hall performing “Agnus Dei.”
Inside the reception at Bella Rouge, the
celebration came to life under the theme “Best Day Ever.” Vibrant spring colors, towering floral arrangements, and dreamy tablescapes created a joyful atmosphere for guests to enjoy throughout the evening. Mamoo’s Catering served an unforgettable menu featuring brisket, duck wraps, and bacon-wrapped green beans, while a flowing chocolate fountain paired perfectly with fresh fruits and appetizers.
The bride’s five-tier cake by Uptown Downtown was adorned with fresh florals and featured classic wedding and birthday cake flavors with buttercream icing. Drake’s groom’s table showcased assorted cookies and a cookie cake displayed atop a custom Louisiana wood tabletop inspired by his favorite pastime, duck hunting. Guests also enjoyed fun personalized touches including a dirty soda bar, customdesigned hats, and a lively photo booth by Bash Booth featuring an oversized “BEST DAY EVER” backdrop.
As the evening continued, DJ Mike Howington kept the dance floor packed with laughter and energy. One unforgettable highlight came when the groomsmen wowed the crowd with a spirited dance-off to “Play That Funky Music.” The bride and her bridesmaids added even more excitement by changing into matching light-up sneakers to dance the night away beneath glowing marquee letters spelling “The Daniels.”
The couple shared their first dance to “The Perfect Love of Jesus” by LO Worship, while Anna Grace danced with her father to “Half the
Man” by Jennifer Hart and Drake shared a dance with his mother to “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts. The evening concluded with the newlyweds exiting through a tunnel of glowing sticks and floating bubbles, surrounded by cheering friends and family.
Following their unforgettable celebration, Anna Grace and Drake honeymooned in Gatlinburg, Tennessee, before returning home to begin married life together in Mer Rouge.
Forever in Bloom
KLACI SIMMONS & HUNTER DEAR CELEBRATE A SPRING WEDDING FILLED WITH FAMILY, FAITH, AND SOUTHERN CHARM
Surrounded by the people they love most, Klaci Simmons and Hunter Dear began their forever on March 28, 2026, with a beautiful spring wedding at The Barn. The date itself held deep meaning for the couple, marking the 10-year anniversary of Klaci’s late grandfather’s passing, a heartfelt way to honor his memory and feel his presence throughout their special day.
Although their paths first crossed years earlier through family and mutual friends, their love story truly began two years later when they reconnected and quickly became inseparable. From that moment on, they spent nearly every day together, building the strong foundation that led them to forever.
Hunter’s proposal on June 21, 2024, was just as thoughtful and emotional as their wedding day. After a date night, he brought Klaci back to her parents’ home where the back porch had been transformed with candles, roses, and a beautiful backdrop. As their song played while driving down the road where Klaci grew up, the couple arrived to find their
two beloved dogs, Maverick and Phoebe, waiting with bandanas that read, “Will You Marry My Dad” and “She Said Yes.” Family and friends were gathered inside to celebrate the unforgettable moment.
For their wedding vision, Klaci and Hunter dreamed of a day inspired by elegant springtime pastels. Shades of lemon sorbet, blush pink, sage green, and ivory filled the ceremony and reception with soft, romantic touches. The bride’s bouquet featured classic white roses and hydrangeas, while the bridesmaids carried colorful arrangements full of pastel blooms. Bridesmaids wore flowing lemon sorbet chiffon gowns while the groomsmen complemented the look with Vera Wang blue tuxedos and coordinating ties.
The couple worked alongside wedding coordinator Gina Downs and Hunter’s sisterin-law, Gabby Dear, to bring every detail together. Klaci and her mother personally designed much of the wedding signage and visual elements, adding meaningful personal touches throughout the day. One especially
sentimental detail was the use of Klaci’s parents’ wedding cake cutters from 25 years ago, beginning a new family tradition that future generations will continue.
From the moment they toured The Barn, Klaci and Hunter knew it was the perfect venue for them. Its Southern charm, spacious setting, and romantic atmosphere fit their vision immediately. In fact, it was the only venue they toured before making their decision.
Klaci looked timeless in an ivory strapless satin ballgown from The Bridal Path. She described the gown as unlike anything she had ever worn, yet somehow feeling completely meant for her. Accompanied by her mother, matron of honor Katherine Jeselink, and maid of honor Marly Simmons, Klaci knew she had found “the one” when tears filled the room each time she tried it on.
Her bridal details were equally meaningful. Klaci wore her Nana’s pearls as her “something borrowed,” carried a handkerchief with blue monogramming in honor of her late uncle as her “something blue,” and cherished
the diamond in her engagement ring as her “something old”, a stone originally gifted to her Nana by her late grandfather and customdesigned for her by Hunter.
The ceremony itself was filled with emotional moments and personal tributes. Family members walked down the aisle to Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love,” honoring Klaci’s late grandfather, who was a devoted Elvis fan. During the ceremony, Klaci’s sister Marly Simmons and family friend Bo Barton performed “The Goodness of God,” creating a deeply emotional atmosphere. Guests filled the venue wall-to-wall in standing-room-only fashion, a true reflection of how loved the couple is by their family and friends.
One of the most unforgettable moments came as Klaci walked down the aisle. Hunter, who rarely shows emotion publicly, was overcome with tears the entire time, leaving many guests emotional, as well. With 10 bridesmaids, 10 groomsmen, junior attendants, flower girls, and ring bearers all made up of close family and lifelong friends, the ceremony beautifully reflected the strong support system surrounding the couple.
Following the ceremony, guests celebrated at a lively reception filled with elegant floral arrangements, custom details, and nonstop dancing. Personalized cups, napkins, bartender aprons, and koozies added playful touches throughout the evening. Since Maverick and Phoebe couldn’t attend the wedding, the couple included them on custom koozies that read, “Cheers! Love, Maverick and Phoebe.”
Klaci and Hunter shared their first dance to “Next Thing You Know” by Jordan Davis before joining family and friends on a packed dance floor that stayed full all night long. Between the music, laughter, and celebration, the reception perfectly captured the joy and excitement of the newlyweds beginning their next chapter together. Their unforgettable day came together with the help of an incredible vendor team, including Sadie Leigh Photography, The Flower Tree in Bastrop, Southern Smoke Slingers, Bake Me Happy by Dana Nolan, Guy Smith Productions, live artist Daren Alexander, videographer Hunter Johnson, and many more talented professionals. The couple gave special recognition to coordinator Gina Downs, whose dedication and creativity helped make the day everything they had dreamed of and more.
PHOTO BY MICAHLA VAUGHN
From the Field to Forever
EMILY AND CHASE TIE THE KNOT IN SHREVEPORT, LOUISIANA
Emily Roden and Chase Thompson’s wedding on June 7, 2025, was a celebration of love, legacy, and a shared passion for creating unforgettable moments. From the beginning, their journey toward marriage was filled with intentional details, something that became beautifully evident throughout their thoughtfully designed wedding day, brought to life by a talented team of vendors.
Their engagement set the tone. Chase, a football coach, planned a surprise proposal on a football field, an intentional nod to both his career and a place meaningful to their relationship. It was heartfelt and memorable, perfectly capturing their blend of romance and playfulness, a spirit that carried seamlessly into their wedding celebration months later.
The day began at First Methodist Church of Shreveport, where timeless elegance met heartfelt sincerity. With careful planning by Delia Jeffcoat Events, every moment unfolded effortlessly. Surrounded by family
and friends, Emily and Chase exchanged vows in a setting that honored tradition while embracing personal meaning, most notably in Emily’s tribute to her mother.
In one of the day’s most touching details, Emily incorporated fabric from her mother’s 31-year-old wedding gown into her own dress from Bridal Boutique of Lewisville. This meaningful gesture symbolized generational love and continuity. The tribute extended beyond her gown, as pieces of the fabric were wrapped around the bridesmaids’ bouquets, beautifully designed by The Colony House, weaving family legacy throughout the celebration.
Emily’s bridal look was completed by beauty artist Hailey Kilpatrick, whose soft, timeless styling enhanced her natural elegance. Every detail, from her gown to her finishing touches, reflected a classic yet personal aesthetic.
Following the ceremony, guests experienced a charming Southern tradition: a trolley ride through downtown Shreveport.
The relaxed, joyful transition allowed guests to celebrate alongside the newlyweds while taking in the city, creating a moment that felt both nostalgic and festive.
The reception at the Scottish Rite Cathedral brought a shift in energy, blending grandeur with vibrant celebration. Emily and Chase made an unforgettable entrance, led by a live brass band in a New Orleans–style second line. Guests followed, waving handkerchiefs and dancing their way into the reception space. From there, entertainment by It’s Your Night Entertainment kept the dance floor lively throughout the evening.
The visual design of the reception was equally striking. Lush floral arrangements by The Colony House transformed the space, while invitations by Kelly Avery Designs had already set the tone for the day with an elegant first impression. Each design element worked together to create an atmosphere that felt both refined and inviting.
Food and dessert added a playful and personal touch. The bride’s cake, created
by Sweetie Cakes, complemented the overall elegance of the evening, while the groom’s cake by Social Bites celebrated Chase’s football career with a tailgate-inspired design. Guests also enjoyed stadium-style nachos, a fun and unexpected addition that reflected the couple’s personality.
Throughout the evening, guests captured memories at the photo booth by Bringing Life to the Party, adding an interactive element that kept energy high and laughter constant. Behind the scenes, photographer Micahla Vaughn and cinematographer TJ Webb Media documented each moment with artistry and intention, preserving the joy and emotion of the day.
As the night continued, the dance floor remained full, a reflection of the celebration’s vibrant atmosphere. Every detail, from the music to the décor, was carefully curated to create an experience that felt seamless, polished, and deeply personal.
The evening concluded with a playful and memorable finale. In a nod to Chase’s football background, Emily and Chase tossed custom “Team Thompson” t-shirts into the crowd, reminiscent of a game-day giveaway. Guests cheered and reached for the keepsakes, ending the night on a high note filled with excitement and joy. The couple’s departure, coordinated with Chance Classics, provided a stylish and fitting send-off to an unforgettable celebration.
Emily and Chase’s wedding was more than just a beautiful event, it was an experience that told their story with authenticity and heart. By
blending meaningful traditions with personal details and working alongside a talented creative team, they created a day that resonated deeply with everyone in attendance.
In the end, their wedding stood as a testament to the power of thoughtful planning and shared vision, a celebration filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories, marking the beginning of their life together in a way that was both meaningful and unforgettable.
From FaceTime to Forever
ON APRIL 18TH, 2026, ALEX SMITH AND GARRETT HABLE SAID “I DO”AT FIRST METHODIST MONROE WITH A RECEPTION FOLLOWING AT BAYOU DESIARD COUNTRY CLUB
Immersed in the timeless colors of spring, Alex Smith and Garrett Hable’s said “I do” on April 18, 2026 at First Methodist Monroe with a reception following at Bayou DeSiard Country Club. The wedding was a beautiful celebration centered on faith, family, and personal details with a classic Southern style. The two first met in 2020 on a group FaceTime call with friends, and after the call, Garrett asked for Alex’s number. The two quickly became inseparable, and over time, they both realized that they simply did not want to go a day without talking to each other.
Garrett’s proposal was both sentimental and personal. He told Alex they needed to stop by his grandfather’s house to pick up a Christmas gift before meeting friends for dinner in Shreveport, which gave the perfect excuse to have her dressed up for the evening. Instead, he drove her to the Laird Weems Center on the University of Louisiana Monroe campus, where his sister
Faith had arranged candles and decorations for the proposal. Photographer Joanna Weed, a close friend and Alex’s former sorority president, captured the moment. Afterward, the couple celebrated with close friends at Apero.
When planning the wedding, Alex already had a clear vision in mind. She always imagined a blue, green, and white color palette accented with hints of silver and gold. The goal was to create a wedding that felt light, airy, and inspired by spring. Garrett’s favorite color being blue made the spring palette feel even more fitting. Alex credits her boss, Chrissie Autin, for helping bring the wedding together and making the planning process enjoyable.
The ceremony took place at First Methodist Monroe, the church the couple joined together during their relationship. After visiting several churches, Alex and Garrett felt most connected to First Methodist Monroe and appreciated how welcomed they felt by the congregation. Choosing
the church as their ceremony venue felt meaningful because it represented the place where they began building their life and faith together. The ceremony itself reflected the couple’s love for tradition. Rather than focusing on elaborate productions, they chose simple music with a live organist to honor the church setting and keep the attention on the meaning of the ceremony.
Alex found her wedding dress at Bridal Path after trying on only two gowns. The dress featured a high neckline, full lace detailing, and a cathedral veil. Although she had always admired that style, she was unsure how it would look on her until she tried it on. Once she did, she immediately knew it was the dress she wanted to wear on her wedding day.
Following the ceremony, guests gathered at Bayou DeSiard Country Club for the reception. The venue held sentimental value because golf has always been an important part of Alex’s life through her father, an avid golfer. The atmosphere of the
country club also fit perfectly with the relaxed and classic style the couple envisioned for the evening.
Some of Alex’s favorite memories from the reception included the father-daughter dance, the couple’s private last dance to a REO Speedwagon song, and having all of their favorite people together in one place. Garrett also had one specific request for the reception menu: late-night pizza, which quickly became a guest favorite.
One of the most meaningful personal touches from the wedding was Alex’s wedding band. Her grandmother gifted her a ring from her late husband that had originally been given for their 20th anniversary. Alex had the ring redesigned at Randy Smith Jewelers to complement her engagement ring, creating a piece she says will always remind her of her grandmother.
An incredible team of vendors worked to bring the day together: photography, Unveiled Radiance, with second shooter Jamie Endris; floral design, Brianna Belton Design; catering, Bayou DeSiard Country Club; bride’s cake, Rachel Huber, and groom’s cake; Sweets by Ashlyn.
Hair styling for the bride, mothers, and grandmothers was done by Kyra Clark, while bridesmaid hair was styled by Emmerson Britt and Shelby Waid. Makeup services were provided by Ansley Braswell and Mallory Kirksey. Entertainment came from Flashback 5 Band, while Bash Booth, Toast and Tango, Lilac Lane Event Rentals, and Madison LeBlanc Design all helped complete the celebration.
Together, Alex and Garrett created a wedding day that felt timeless, personal, and centered on the people and traditions that matter most to them.
From “I Love You” to “I Do”
SYDNI AND JOSH EXCHANGE VOWS AT BLACK BEAR GOLF CLUB
From the earliest days of their relationship, both Sydni Knight and Josh Lee sensed something different.
Sydni recalls how quickly she knew Josh was “the one,” a feeling that was playfully confirmed when he accidentally said “I love you” just weeks into their conversations. Though he brushed it off as habit at the time, it became a sweet and telling moment that foreshadowed everything to come.
That sense of ease and certainty carried into every detail of their wedding day on February 21, 2026. With a vision drenched in Southern elegance, Sydni thoughtfully curated a celebration that was both timeless and personal. A soft baby blue palette set the tone, accented with touches of gold that added warmth and refinement. Hydrangeas, abundant and romantic, were woven throughout the design, creating a classic atmosphere that felt both elevated and inviting.
Bringing this vision to life was no small feat, but Sydni found the perfect partner in
her wedding planner, Deborah Simmons of Signature Occasions. With expertise and creativity, Simmons guided the process seamlessly, ensuring that every detail reflected the couple’s style while allowing them to enjoy the journey.
The couple’s path to their venue was unexpectedly swift. Initially set on a different location, Sydni quickly realized during an early walkthrough that the space simply couldn’t accommodate their guest list. Without hesitation, she and her planner began searching for alternatives. That search led them to Black Bear Golf Club, where everything seemed to fall into place. Trusting her planner’s reassurance, Sydni embraced the venue’s potential, and it paid off. The space was transformed into a breathtaking setting that perfectly suited the scale and elegance of their celebration.
For Sydni, one of the most memorable parts of the planning process was finding her wedding dress. Going into her appointment with an open mind, she relied on the expertise
of her stylist, who selected a gown she believed would be perfect. It turned out to be the very first dress Sydni tried on. As she stepped out to show her loved ones, emotions filled the room, tears, smiles, and an immediate sense that this was the one. The fabric, unlike anything Sydni had seen before, sealed the decision. Its uniqueness captured exactly what she didn’t even realize she had been searching for.
The ceremony and reception both took place at Black Bear, allowing guests to transition seamlessly from vows to celebration. As the evening unfolded, it became clear that this would be a night to remember. The reception was filled with energy, joy, and meaningful moments, but one highlight stood above the rest—the music. Style Entertainment kept the dance floor full all night long, with guests later describing it as one of the most fun weddings they had ever attended.
Personal touches throughout the celebration made the day even more meaningful. Josh honored his family by wearing his father’s wedding band, a simple
yet powerful symbol of legacy and love. His groom’s cake paid tribute to their shared life and business, designed as a model of one of his big trucks, a nod to their work with Twin Row Farms and their trucking company. Sydni, wanting to incorporate sentiment without sadness, chose to feature her beloved dog Molly on the cocktail napkins, adding a lighthearted and heartfelt detail that made guests smile.
An incredible team of vendors helped bring every element together. Kennedy Allen Photography captured each moment with artistry and care, preserving memories the couple will treasure for a lifetime. Floral designs by The Ivy Place Florist added lush beauty to the ceremony and reception, perfectly complementing the color palette. Guests couldn’t stop talking about the food from Goldie’s Trail Bar-B-Que, which quickly became a standout feature of the evening.
The cakes, designed by Cakes by Iris, were both visually stunning and delicious, while beauty services from Laci Jo Beauty ensured Sydni and her bridal party looked and felt their best. The celebration was further enhanced by unique touches, including a custom bar by Leslie Ratcliff, live violin music by Temperance Babcock-Steiskal, and detailed alterations by Lauren Bussey Designs that ensured every member of the wedding party looked flawless.
Guests also enjoyed interactive moments thanks to SelfieBot, a mobile photography robot that added a fun, modern twist to the evening. Sydni’s custom wedding ring and band from Magnolia Jewelers served as a lasting symbol
of the day, while videography by Tyler Weed captured every laugh, tear, and dance move. Even the finishing touches, like her glow from Charme, contributed to the polished and radiant look of the day. The event would have not been complete without the help of the mother of the groom, Christy Lee who added thoughtful details to make it memorable from the rehearsal dinner, to the napkins and touches in the decor.
From beginning to end, Sydni and Josh’s wedding was a reflection of who they are, grounded in love, rich with meaning, and full of joy. Every detail, from the grand design elements to the smallest personal touches, came together to create a celebration that felt authentic and unforgettable. It was a day that honored their journey, celebrated their future, and left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to be part of it.
Faith, Family & Forever
SURROUNDED BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS, ALLIE CHAPMAN TITUS AND TY TITUS
SAID “I DO”
DURING A BEAUTIFUL SPRING CELEBRATION AT SOUTHERN STABLES
On a beautiful spring day filled with family, faith, and plenty of celebration, Allie Chapman Titus married Ty Titus on March 14, 2026, at Southern Stables in West Monroe. Nestled among rolling hills, the venue’s signature white barn paired modern elegance with rustic Southern charm. It was the perfect setting for a couple who loves horses, country living, and time spent with the people closest to them.
Their story began in the summer of 2019 in true small-town fashion. Ty was working the J&H Boots and Jeans tent sale alongside Allie’s maid of honor, Cassie. One evening, Cassie invited Allie to supper with the group, and before the night was over, Ty asked for her phone number. “The rest is history,” Allie said.
Nearly six years later, Ty planned a proposal that could not have fit them more perfectly. On February 8, 2025, the couple was getting ready for a date night at The
Warehouse when Ty casually mentioned that one of Allie’s horses had “accidentally” gotten out after feeding them. When they arrived back at the barn, Allie quickly realized the loose horse was only part of the surprise. Ty had transformed the space into a romantic proposal setting and asked her to marry him.
When it came time to plan the wedding, the couple knew they wanted a spring ceremony in West Monroe, where both of their families have deep roots. Ty had only one request during the planning process: avoid hunting season!
From there, Allie leaned into a romantic spring palette of mauve and navy with rustic touches woven throughout the day. Whiskey barrels, beautiful flowers, candlelight, and country details blended naturally with the atmosphere at Southern Stables. Working alongside planner Katie Dyer, the couple created a celebration that felt personal and intimate.
One of Allie’s favorite parts of wedding planning was finding her dress. She discovered her gown at Bridal Path after trying on nearly 20 dresses, though ironically, the one she chose was among the very first she tried on.
“It immediately felt like the one,” she said.
The fit-and-flare gown featured sparkling lace straps, intricate detailing, and a cathedral-length train with lace appliqués, shimmer accents, and delicate buttons extending the length of the dress.
Some of the most meaningful moments from the ceremony came from the couple’s premarital counseling with officiant Scott Carson. During counseling, Allie and Ty were encouraged to write a private prayer for their future marriage. Instead of keeping it between themselves, Ty suggested incorporating the prayer into the ceremony through a voice recording.
As the couple took part in a unity ceremony branding a cowhide rug
surrounded by their parents and siblings, guests listened to the recording of their prayer layered over an instrumental version of Lauren Daigle’s “Hold Onto Me.” The result became one of the day’s most emotional moments.
After the ceremony, Southern Stables shifted from intimate to energetic as guests filled both the barn and pavilion for the reception. White linens, mauve and blush florals, gold lamps, glowing votives, marquee letters, and rustic accents created a warm, celebratory atmosphere. The barn housed food stations, cakes, the bar, and a photo booth, while the pavilion quickly became the center of the party with a dance floor that stayed packed all night.
According to the bride and groom, one of the biggest highlights of the evening was the music provided by Darrell Favis.
“He exceeded all of our expectations,” Allie shared. “He interacted with the guests and kept the dance floor full the entire night.”
The day came together with the help of a talented vendor team that included Jansen Nowell, KV Floral Designs, Creative Catering, Crumbs Catering, Meme’s Kitchen, Taylor Atkinson, and Livian Holley.
For Allie and Ty, the wedding reflected far more than beautiful details and a carefully planned celebration. From the recorded prayer during the ceremony to the nonstop dancing at the reception, every part of the day
felt unmistakably like them, centered on faith, family, and the life they are building together. By the end of the night, one thing was clear: it was exactly the wedding Allie had always dreamed of.
WEDDING GUEST EDIT
Find these standout styles at local boutiques and step into wedding season dressed to impress. From floralembellished dresses to impeccably tailored suits, our best-dressed guest edit has every celebration covered.
MODEL: ANNA CLAIRE LEMOINE HAIR & MAKEUP BY MEKA BENNETT PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK
BLUSH BY SADIE C’S
This floral jacquard mini dress brings the perfect touch of garden glam for wedding season. Featuring shimmering floral fabric, an open back, and a flattering fitted silhouette, it’s a chic pick for everything from outdoor ceremonies to festive soirées. Accessorize with a platform heel and floral beaded bracelet.
HEMLINE MONROE
This midi dress showcases a multi floral print with a side slit for easy movement. Its sleeveless cut and ruched waist offer a flattering shape, ideal for special events or relaxed weekends. Oversized florals and exclusive design add a unique touch. Accessorize with a cuff necklace and gold strappy heels.
KING OF HEARTS
This tan suit delivers timeless sophistication with a modern edge. Designed in a sleek slim fit, this polished two-button suit features a classic notch lapel, flap pockets, and side vents for a tailored finish.
Crafted from a comfortable stretch poly/wool spandex blend, both the jacket and pants offer refined style with added flexibility for all-day wear.
MATERIAL THINGS
This green dress was designed with feminine ease in mind. This eyelet dress features a stand collar, wide self belt, covered placket and elongated cap sleeves with a pleated shoulder. Pair with a beaded bag and coordinating earrings and bangle bracelet.
MAX PORTER PROVISIONS
This olive and light blue stripe linen button-down is perfectly paired with Duck Head’s performancedriven pant designed with lightweight, quick drying materials and a classic fit. A perfect look for an outdoor wedding or date night.
PALETTE HOUSE
A flowing blue-and-white sleeveless maxi dress with a softly gathered waist and cascading tiered skirt makes an effortlessly elegant choice for a wedding guest look. Styled with chinoiserie-inspired drop earrings and a delicate gold lanyard necklace, this look feels both polished and timeless.
HERRINGSTONES
This floral embroidered mini dress is a favorite for weddings and special occasions. Featuring delicate embroidery, a flattering fitted silhouette, and vibrant floral details, it’s a chic statement piece for any celebration. Accessorize with layered Kendra Scott necklaces, gold pearl cuff bracelets and blush heels.
Stateside Vodka
Crafted in America
BY DELIA SIMPSON, BRAND MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC
STATESIDE VODKA IS A MODERN TAKE ON AMERICAN CRAFT.
Born in Philly and proudly independent, the focus stays on the details that matter: smooth, clean spirit, bold design, and a bottle you’ll actually want to put on the table. The distinctive bottle design, with its swing cap, custom embossed glass, and timeless label, speaks to the care that is put into every drop. Freeze-filtered, 7X distilled, and American made, it’s vodka done right. And it is now available in 750ml bottles at a store near you!
The Stateside Vodka story began in 2013 with a simple conversation between two bored brothers, Matt and Bryan Quigley: “Hey, do you want to start a vodka company?” “Yes.”
It started there. But the two brothers had no money and no clue how to make vodka. As luck would have it, it was around that time they came to realize their parents hadn’t used their basement gym in what appeared to be many years. Desperate and broke, it occurred to them that this was a perfect place to hone their craft while saving money to launch the business. And so it was there, in a dimly lit corner of that perpetually unused suburban subterranean gymnasium, that Stateside Vodka was born.
They learned the basics of distillation with some help from Google. Utilizing eBay, they sourced a legally dubious contraption of a still which consisted of a repurposed beer keg welded to some high school lab equipment. Over the months, they researched, joined online forums, made some distiller friends, tweaked, and ultimately perfected their vodka.
At this point, they had learned enough to land a distilling fellowship at Michigan State University. That was quickly followed by a consulting gig with a famous Vodka brand in Poland. Armed with more knowledge, experience, and credibility, they returned stateside ready to fine tune their business plan and begin the process of launching a new company. The goal was simple: to make the highest quality craft vodka in America. When it came time to pick a name, it was so obvious, it came to them immediately.
The pair were able to find great investors and quickly opened their distillery and tasting room. Stateside soon became Philly’s favorite hometown vodka and PA’s top selling craft spirit. They’ve since expanded distribution throughout the mid-Atlantic region and added multiple package sizes. They are now on to their third still and have
come a long way, with the innovation of multiple flavors of Surfside Teas and Lemonades.
Surfside has ramped up its distribution nationwide to 48 states, compared to a presence of just seven states at the beginning of 2023.
“We take enormous pride in crafting the best-tasting ready-to-drink products in the industry,” says Surfside President Matt Quigley. “All of our Surfside Iced Tea and Lemonade flavors have been developed in-house with our team, from the formulation to the branding and packaging.”
Surfside Lemonade + Vodka is a canned cocktail that transforms sour faces into sweet smiles faster than you can say, “Who spiked the lemonade?” Like the tea, it is made with Stateside Vodka, real juice, and natural flavors and also clocks in at 100 calories and 2 grams of sugar per 12-ounce can. Surfside ready-to-drink teas and lemonades are available locally in 4 pack cans, variety 8 and 12 packs, and single serve cans. Flavors include the original Lemonade, Blueberry Lemonade, Strawberry Lemonade, multiple flavors of tea, and Half and Half (tea and lemonade).
Give Dad what he really wants this Father’s Day. He deserves the best.
Dad’s Dirty Martini
Ingredients:
.25 oz Dry Vermouth
2 oz Stateside Vodka
.75 oz Olive Brine
Method:
Chill your martini glass before you begin. Rinse glass with dry vermouth. Then, combine Stateside Vodka and olive brine in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake vigorously until cold. Strain mixture into your chilled glass. Garnish with olives (we recommend the ones stuffed with blue cheese). Best served in a recliner with full access to the remote.
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Hats & Horses
The Louisiana Delta Community College Foundation hosted another unforgettable evening at the annual Hats & Horses event on May 2 at Hotel Monroe, where guests gathered in their finest derby-inspired attire for a night of fun! From elegant hats to exciting entertainment, the event brought the community together to support scholarships for students attending one of the Louisiana Delta Community College campuses. With the support of generous sponsors, including Entergy and Meta, the evening was a tremendous success and a celebration of giving.
Photos by Hannah Finley.
7 Nathan Hall and Mike Downhour
8 Sarah Moe and Lisa Holyfield
9 Sydney Rogers, Amanda Wimberly and Madison Hoover
10 Kristy Hall, David Payne and DeAnna Kiper
11 Grace Nweke, Jessica Grigson and Emily Stogner
12 Christi Fox, Dawn Bailey, Amanda Whiddon and Ivana Fava
17 Tim Kane, Aimee Kane, Linda & Joe Holyfield
It’s Not The Heat. It’s the...
Why I Only Wear Glasses In Months That End In “R”
“WHY ARE YOU SQUINTING SO HARD AT THE chalkboard, Jerod?” Fifth grade English class sealed my four-eyed fate. I’ve been wearing glasses ever since I learned about past participles and prepositions. I learned shortly thereafter that stepping out of my mom’s van could be risky during the summer. Those glasses would fog up so thick I couldn’t see the parking lot I was stumbling across.
That was my first introduction to Louisiana humidity. It’s thick enough to fog a windshield, soak a shirt, and temporarily blind a fifth grader just trying to make it into school. Later in life, I learned about heat index. The first time I heard the weatherman say “It’s gonna be 110 today,” I almost had a stroke. Then he clarified it was the “feels like” temperature. Well, I knew what 98º in Swartz felt like, and I sure didn’t want to find out what 110º felt like.
Since then, I’ve been blessed enough to travel to different parts of the country. I’ve been to Death Valley (the one in California, not Baton Rouge). Honestly, I’d take 110º there over 98º in Swartz any day of the week. Humidity is practically non-existent in the desert. On the other hand, I’ve walked into homes where 72º felt like a clammy cave. How can 72º feel uncomfortable?
It’s not the heat. It’s the humidity.
Our bodies were designed to cool off by sweating. But when the air is already packed full of moisture, sweat can’t evaporate very well. That’s why 98º in Louisiana can feel absolutely miserable while 110º in the desert somehow feels survivable. The temperature might be lower here, but the air feels heavier.
Your house works the same way. When humidity stays high indoors, 72º can feel sticky, damp, and uncomfortable. Lower humidity, on the other hand, can make a home feel cooler, cleaner, and more comfortable without touching the thermostat—maybe even at a higher temperature.
Most people think air conditioners exist to make the air cold. That’s only half true. A good home comfort system is really doing two jobs at the same time: removing heat and removing humidity.
Ironically, one of the biggest mistakes homeowners (and some of my competitors who won’t be named) make is assuming a bigger air conditioner will automatically make them more comfortable. I remember my dad answering this with a wink when someone asked him about getting a 3 ton instead of the 2 ton he recommended. He
smiled, “If a 3-ton is better than a 2-ton, let’s go ahead and get a 5-ton!”
As strange as it sounds, an air conditioner can actually be too big for a house. An oversized system cools the air so quickly that it shuts off before it has time to remove enough humidity. It’s a little like microwaving a ribeye. The outside changes temperature fast, but the inside never really finishes cooking. The house may technically reach 72º, but the air still feels damp and heavy.
A properly sized system runs longer, steadier, and quieter. That extra runtime gives it time to pull moisture out of the air instead of just blasting the house with cold air for a few minutes at a time. In Louisiana, that matters a whole lot more than most people realize.
Our climate is part of the reason old Southern homes were designed the way they were. The tall ceilings, wide porches, big windows, and shade trees everywhere weren’t just for romance. Long before smart thermostats and high-efficiency equipment, people in Louisiana already understood something important: moving air matters, shade matters, and humidity matters.
Modern air conditioning has made life in the South a whole lot more comfortable, but it still hasn’t changed the laws of physics. Your home comfort system still has to remove heat and moisture at the same time. That’s why properly sizing equipment, designing ductwork correctly, and allowing systems to run the way they were intended matters so much, especially in our climate.
Bigger isn’t always better. Faster isn’t always more comfortable. Sometimes the best systems are the ones you barely notice at all.
I think that idea applies to more than air conditioning. Some of the best things in life work quietly in the background. Good friendships. Good marriages. Good leadership. Good craftsmanship. They create comfort without demanding attention.
The next time someone says, “It’s not the heat, it’s the humidity,” just know they’re not exaggerating. In Louisiana, comfort has never been just about temperature. It’s about taking the heaviness out of the air.
And if you wear glasses, you know exactly what I mean.
Jerod Smith
Mike Smith Heat & Air West Monroe, LA
The Medical Spa by St. Francis
Confidence Looks Good On Everyone (Especially Dad)
JUNE IS ALL ABOUT FEELING GOOD, looking refreshed and taking a little time for yourself, and we’re here for all of it. Whether you’re preparing for summer events, vacations or want to look a little more well-rested, this is the perfect month to do it.
We’re also putting a special spotlight on the men this month with exclusive offers designed just for them because great skin and confidence aren’t just for the ladies.
Father’s Day Tox Special
Let’s be honest, most men aren’t looking for dramatic changes. They want to look less tired, less stressed and a little more like themselves on a good day. That’s where tox comes in. From June 8th through June 12th, we’re offering all neurotoxins for $12 per unit, exclusively for men.
Tox treatments (like Botox, Dysport and Daxxify) work by relaxing the muscles that cause lines and wrinkles, especially in areas like the forehead, between the brows and around the eyes. The result? A smoother, more refreshed look that still feels completely natural. It’s quick, requires little to no downtime and is one of the easiest ways to make a noticeable difference without anyone being able to put their finger on why you look better. If you’ve been thinking about trying it, this is the perfect time.
Now Offering Daxxify
We’re excited to offer Daxxify now! Daxxify uses a unique peptidebased formula, setting it apart from other neurotoxins and making it a great option for those looking for something a little more advanced. Whether you’re new to tox or a regular patient, we’ll help you decide if Daxxify is the right fit for your goals and lifestyle.
Men’s Monthly Special: $25 off IV Hydration
We didn’t stop at aesthetics, this month is also about helping men feel better from the inside out. All June long, men can book and purchase an IV hydration session and receive $25 off. IV hydration is one of the fastest ways to replenish your body with fluids, vitamins and nutrients, helping with:
• Energy levels
• Hydration
• Immune support
• Recovery (especially after workouts, travel, or long weeks)
It’s simple, effective and a great entry point for anyone new to wellness treatments.
ZO SPF Portfolio
ZO Skin Health’s new SPF portfolio is redefining what daily sun care should be. It’s not just about sun protection; it’s about total skin protection. While traditional sunscreens often focus on a single concern, this advanced lineup is built around Triple-Spectrum Protection™, a comprehensive approach that defends against the three major environmental stressors we face every day: UVA/UVB rays, HEV (blue light) and IR-A (infrared radiation). Beyond protection, these formulas are designed to support the skin’s natural recovery process from daily exposure while helping maintain long-term skin health.
What truly sets this collection apart is how effortlessly it fits into your routine. Each formula is lightweight, elegant and designed for seamless wear. There is no heavy, chalky feel. The Daily Mineral SunShade SPF 45 offers weightless, all-mineral coverage in a range of buildable shades that blend beautifully to even skin tone while leaving a healthy, radiant finish. For those who prefer a barely-there look, the Sheer Fluid Tint SPF 45 provides ultra-light, adaptive coverage that enhances your natural complexion without compromising protection. And for full versatility, the Gel Sunscreen SPF 50 delivers a clear, water-resistant option perfect for both face and body.
Powered by ZOX12™, an innovative time-released antioxidant complex, these formulas provide continuous defense against free radical damage for up to 12 hours. If you’re unsure which formula is the best fit for your skin type and lifestyle, stop by and let our team guide you. We’ll help you find the perfect SPF to keep your skin protected, healthy and glowing every day.
Convenient Location
Visit The Medical Spa this month to take advantage of our specials, events and learn more about our medical-grade skincare products. We are in the James R. Wolff Building (also known as the P&S building) in downtown Monroe. Our address is 312 Grammont St, suite 406, across from the FMOL Health | St. Francis Medical Center. This location offers complimentary valet parking and convenient curbside pick-up for your product purchases. Also, be sure to follow The Medical Spa by FMOL Health | St. Francis Medical Group on Facebook and Instagram to stay updated on our weekly specials, sales, promotions and giveaways.
Renewing the Spirit
DURING THE MONTH OF June, we recognize our fathers. But of course, not everyone has only pleasant memories about their dad, me included. For instance, when I was 15, the hairstyle for teen-aged boys was to have long hair. But one Saturday morning my dad took me and my brother to get regular haircuts.
The next Monday, a school day, my best friend didn’t even recognize me as he walked right past me! He laughed when he saw my “whitewalls!” That is, the hair on the sides and the back of my head had disappeared! Imagine the embarrassment of going to school and hearing my friends wondering out loud, “What happened to youuuu?!”
Of course, I can laugh now. But it took me a while before I could accept my dad’s behavior as an act of love. Still, let me share a couple of vignettes from my dad’s life which touch my heart to this day.
On a serious note, a number of years before the regular haircut episode, my dad was injured in an Army helicopter crash. While being transported to the hospital, he passed out from shock. When he awoke, he prayed, “Lord, let me live. My family needs me.” Then he passed out from the pain again.
Looking back on his prayer, I see a husband and father praying for God to allow him to still provide for the needs of his family. His prayer was answered. He blessed our family in countless ways, for almost 53 years after that prayer. My dad taught me there’s often power in our prayers when we approach God with a desire to care for those we love.
But there’s more. My dad also taught me, one way to care for those you love is to pray for those you love. Perhaps he was inspired to follow the example of Jesus as Christ prayed for his disciples in John 17 . Along this line of thought, the night of my Ordination to the Gospel Ministry, my dad shared a prayer during the ceremony, which was first penned by General Douglas MacArthur. Here’s what my dad prayed that night.
“Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, brave enough to face himself when he is afraid. One who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory.
Build me a son whose wishes will not take the place of deeds; a son who will know (you); and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.
Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let
him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.
Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other(s); one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.
And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, and the meekness of true strength.
Then, I, his father will dare to whisper, ‘I have not lived in vain.’”
In summary, my dad teaches us two of the fundamentals in an effective prayer life. He teaches us to pray to be in a position to care for those we love. Maybe, like my dad, we will be able to love our loved ones for over half a century.
Plus, to love those we love, be sure to offer prayers on their behalf. Hopefully, God will answer our prayers, and we will see the many blessings our loved ones bring to the world. Then we will dare to whisper, “I have not lived in vain.”
Thanks be to God for all the Spirit filled fathers (and mothers) who love their families! Amen.
MY DAD TAUGHT ME HOW TO PRAY article by Reverend RB Moore
THE MUFFIN TIN THE
HOLLIS AND COMPANY
HOTEL MONROE
The Randolph
Preserving History, Creating Memories
OVER THE PAST YEAR, THE RANDOLPH HAS BECOME more than just a new event venue in St. Joseph, it has become a gathering place where memories are made and community is celebrated. Nestled in the heart of historic downtown on Plank Road, the beautifully restored venue has breathed new life into a beloved local landmark while honoring the town’s rich history.
A Timeless Setting for Wedding Celebrations
The Randolph isn’t just another venue. It’s a carefully reimagined space for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal showers, engagement parties, and celebrations of all kinds. Whether couples are planning an intimate gathering or a large wedding celebration, The Randolph offers a timeless backdrop filled with historic charm and heartfelt hospitality. Beyond weddings, the venue also hosts birthday parties, reunions, proms, fundraisers, and private gatherings. More importantly, it’s a project rooted in passion, respect for history, and a deep love for community. It is, in every sense, a labor of love.
The Vision Behind The Randolph
Owned by Chip and Brandi Bunch, The Randolph is the latest project from the husband-and-wife team behind JBB Construction, LLC. Known for their excellence in high-end residential contracting, the Bunches have built their company on a reputation of quality craftsmanship, integrity, and community commitment. Yet for Chip, The Randolph isn’t just another business endeavor, it’s deeply personal.
“It was a ten-year search for the perfect spot,” Chip explained. “After opening a second office location here for our construction company and becoming part of the St. Joseph community over the last five years, this building found its way into our lives. We were fortunate enough to purchase it from Donna Ratcliff, the current Tensas Parish Assessor and daughter of Carl Randolph.”
Honoring a Family Legacy
That connection is how the venue got its name. The Randolph pays tribute to Carl Randolph, a respected member of the community and former owner of the building. His legacy lives on through the
name and the renewed purpose of the space, creating a bridge between the past and the present.
Restoring a Piece of History
Originally constructed in 1907, the building has lived many lives. In its earlier years, it housed offices for the U.S. Department of Agriculture and the Department of Veterans Affairs. Later, it became a Western Auto store and played a central role in the life of the Randolph family, especially during Donna’s childhood. But after Carl’s passing, the building sat vacant for years. It had no electricity, no plumbing, and no HVAC, a hollow shell that time had nearly forgotten.
That’s Where Chip and Brandi Stepped In.
Determined to preserve its historic charm while giving it a second life, the Bunches embarked on a complete renovation. Every wire, every beam, every detail was thoughtfully brought back to life. “To get this historic building from Donna means the world to me,” Chip said. “We’ve poured all of our love into restoring it, and now, seeing it continue to host special moments for families and the community makes it all worthwhile.”
A Meaningful Place to Celebrate
For Chip, being a business owner in downtown St. Joseph means more than bricks and mortar. “To be an outsider who came here just five years ago and gain the respect and trust of this tightknit community proves the loyalty and trust we’ve earned. We take pride in our work and in giving back to a town that’s embraced us like family.”
Today, The Randolph has become a sought-after destination for couples across the region who are looking for a venue that feels both elegant and meaningful. From bridal showers and rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions and anniversary celebrations, the venue’s historic character and warm atmosphere create the perfect setting for life’s most memorable moments.
To learn more about The Randolph or to schedule your special event please visit The Randolph’s Facebook page or call 225-279-4658.
Calendar of Events
June 2, 9, 16, 23, 30
Bayou Bowl Trivia & TraXs
Get ready for a summer full of themed trivia, great vibes, and nonstop bowling!
Hours: 5PM
Cost: $10 Unlimited Bowling
Venue: Bayou Bowl, 100 Horseshoe Lake Rd. Monroe, LA 71203
Phone: 318-325-2062
June 2
RFM: Peach Cobbler
Enjoy this class at the Ruston Farmers Market Teaching Kitchen. You will learn all about making your own delicious peach cobbler!
Hours: 6PM - 8PM
Cost: Varies
Venue: Drew Jones Teaching Kitchen, 220 E Mississippi Ave. Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-957-1305
June 2, 9, 16, 23, 30
Trivia @ Flying Heart
Think you’ve got the brains to win it all? Join Flying Heart and Trivia Taylor for family-friendly trivia and the chance to win a gift card!
Hours: 6PM
Venue: Flying Heart Brewing & Pub, 204 Commerce St. West Monroe, LA 71291
Phone: 318-367-0888
June 3—6
New Music on the Bayou Festival Head to various venues around Monroe and Ruston to meet composers from around the world and hear their music performed by an incredible lineup of musicians.
Hours: Vary
Venue: Various venues in Monroe and Ruston
June 4
Downtown Gallery Crawl
Immerse yourself in all things arts, food, and music in Monroe-West Monroe on the first Thursday of every other month!
Hours: 5PM - 9PM
Venue: Downtown Monroe & West Monroe
June 4
The Big Run 5K
Celebrate Global Running Day with Fleet Feet and Brooks, whether it’s your first 5K or your fiftieth.
Hours: 6:15PM
Cost: $25
Venue: Forsythe Park, 2300 Sycamore St. Monroe, LA 71201
June 4, 5, 6
Short Attention Span Theatre
In the tradition of Second City and Saturday Night Live, Short Attention Span Theatre consists of comedic skits interspersed with performances from a special musical guest each night.
Hours: 6:30PM or 8:30PM
Cost: $15
Venue: E ‘86, 404 Desiard St. Monroe, LA 71201
June 5—7
Big Creek Trade Days
Enjoy this shopping venue with a variety of local vendors, food, and live music.
Hours: Friday and Saturday 9AM5PM; Sunday 10AM - 4PM
Cost: $5 per car
Venue: 327 California Plant Rd. Dubach, LA 71235
Phone: 318-680-1304
June 6
Peach Parade
Family friendly parade.
Hours: 6PM
Venue: Downtown Ruston, route on lapeachfest.com
Phone: 318-255-2031
June 6
76th Louisiana Peach Festival
12+ hours of live music, arts market, food vendors, kids’ activities, and more peachy fun!
Hours: 9AM - 10PM
Venue: Downtown Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-255-2031
June 6, 13, 20, 27
Landry’s Vineyard & Winery Tour
Start your Saturday with a wine tasting, then hop on a golf cart for a guided tour of the vineyards, bottling and crushing facility, and cellar-barrel
aging room.
Hours: Tastings begin at 11AM; Tours begin at 2PM
Cost: $10 Tasting Fee; $25 Tour
Venue: Landry Vineyards, 5699 New Natchitoches Rd. West Monroe, LA 71292
Phone: 318-557-9050
June 6
Adoption Event at PetSense
Meet adoptable cats and kittens with some of River Cities Humane Society for Cat’s sweetest residents ready to find loving homes.
Hours: 10AM - 2PM
Venue: Petsense by Tractor Supply, 3426 Cypress St. West Monroe, LA 71291
June 6, 13, 20, 27
Ruston Farmers Market
Enjoy local produce, handmade products, art, and more at this farmers market downtown.
Hours: 9AM - 1PM
Venue: 220 E Mississippi Ave. Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-957-1305
June 6
Raise The Racquet Gala
Join Serve and Return of Louisiana for an unforgettable evening dedicated to celebrating community impact, youth empowerment, and the transformative power of tennis.
Hours: 8:30PM - 11:30PM
Cost: $75
Venue: Bayou Pointe Event Center, 100 Warhawk Way, Monroe, LA 71209
June 6
Juneteenth Family Day
Join the NELA Delta African American Heritage Museum as they celebrate freedom, faith, and community. Bring your lawn chairs and joy!
Hours: 12PM
Venue: NELA Delta African American Heritage Museum, 1051 Chennault Park Dr. Monroe, LA 71202
Phone: 318-235-7090
June 6, 13, 27
Monroe Greenheads Game
Check out The Arena League’s
newest addition as the Monroe Greenheads call the Civic Center their home.
Hours: 7PM
Venue: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expy. Monroe, LA 71201
June 7
Pride in the Park
Kick off June with Pride in the Park. Enjoy food trucks, crafts, games, dancing, music, and more in this celebration of pride in the community!
Hours: 10AM - 3PM
Venue: Forsythe Park, 2300 Sycamore St. Monroe, LA 71201
June 11
RFM: Cinnamon Rolls 101
Enjoy this class at the Ruston Farmers Market Teaching Kitchen. You will learn all about making your own delicious cinnamon rolls!
Hours: 6PM - 8PM
Cost: Varies
Venue: Drew Jones Teaching Kitchen, 220 E Mississippi Ave. Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-957-1305
June 11
Meet the Wine Maker Ken Bernard with ANCIEN Wine will take guests through his tasting portfolio.
Hours: 4:30PM - 5:30PM
Cost: $45
Venue: Apero Restaurant Website: visitapero.com
June 12
Krewe of Janus Texas Hold ‘em Poker Tournament
The Krewe of Janus will have their Texas Hold ‘em Poker Tournament at their float den.
Hours: 5:30PM
Cost: $10 Registration; $80 Buy-in
Venue: Krewe of Janus Krewe Den, 901 Louisville Ave. Monroe, LA 71201
Phone: 318-348-3237
June 13—14
Jalapeno Summer Series
West Monroe MX & Family Fun Park hosts this summer race series. Saturdays will be practice days and
Sundays will be race days.
Venue: West Monroe MX & Family Fun
Park, 280 Tinsley Rd. West Monroe, LA 71292
June 13, 20, 27
Live Music at the VFW
Cover includes ticket for door prizes, BYOB, concessions available, non-smoking and family-friendly!
Hours: 7PM - 11PM
Cost: $10
Venue: Monroe VFW, 1499 LA-594, Monroe, LA 71203
June 14
Goat Yoga and Farm Tour
Class includes a tour of the farm, so wear appropriate footwear. Class could be interrupted at any moment by baby goats wanting a cuddle!
Gather will fellow artists to share ideas, techniques, and stories as you create art.
Hours: 6PM - 8PM
Venue: Kit Gilbert Studio, 301 N Trenton St. #3 Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-202-3202
June 18
RFM: Classic Chicken Salad
Enjoy this class at the Ruston Farmers Market Teaching Kitchen. You will learn all about making your own delicious chicken salad recipe!
Hours: 6PM - 8PM
Cost: Varies
Venue: Drew Jones Teaching Kitchen, 220 E Mississippi Ave. Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-957-1305
June 22
Wine Dinner: Tour of Itayl
Come explore the Italian countryside through wine and food with sommelier Bambi Ray.
Hours: 6PM - 9PM
Cost: $130
Venue: Apero Restaurant Website: visitapero.com
June 25
RFM: Charcuteries & Wine Tasting
Enjoy this class at the Ruston Farmers Market Teaching Kitchen. You will learn all about making your own delicious charcuteries board while learning the best wine pairings!
Hours: 6PM - 8PM
Cost: Varies
Venue: Drew Jones Teaching Kitchen, 220 E Mississippi Ave. Ruston, LA 71270
Phone: 318-957-1305
June 25
Annual Business Expo
Enjoy a high-energy evening of networking, discovery, and celebration of the region’s thriving business community.
Hours: 4PM - 7PM
Venue: West Monroe Sports & Events, 875 Constitution Dr. West Monroe, LA 71292
Phone: 318-325-1961
June 27—28
Sterlington Freedom Fest
This free event will feature live music, food trucks, drink vendors, bounce houses, shopping, and more all weekend long!
Venue: Sterlington Sports Complex, 1290 LA-136, Sterlington, LA 71280
June 27
Oak & Cedar Bottle Share & Mead
Tasting
Join Two Warriors Meadery for a special Bottle Share & Mead Tasting event. They are teaming up with Oak & Cedar and 5th Squad for a laid-back afternoon of great meads, bottle shares, and good company.
Hours: 2PM - 8PM
Cost: $35+
Venue: Two Warriors Meadery, 95 McClendon Ave. West Monroe, LA 71291
June 30
Creative Current: The Morning Edition
Join the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council for a relaxed meetup designed for artists, designers, performers, educators, and creative thinkers from across our region to connect, share ideas, and learn what others are working on.
Hours: 9AM - 11AM
Venue: NELA Arts Council, 118 Cotton St. West Monroe, LA 71291
