BayouLife Decemeber 2014

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DECEMBER 2014

24 / FISHING WITH KENNY Know When to Hold ‘Em 26 / ASK ERIN Your Holiday Organizing Guide 36 / P. ALLEN SMITH Farm Chic Christmas 40 / BAYOU PAGES Must-Have Reads for the Holidays 56 / JUST DESSERTS Christmas Treats for a Sweet Season

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78 / BAYOU OUTDOORS Take a Kid Hunting 86 / THE GREAT ILLUSION Bayou Artist Corey Trahan Helps to Resurrect an Iconic Community Theatre 94 / HOME FOR THE HOLDIAY Festive Looks for the Most Wonderful Time of Year 106 / BAYOU HOME The Holiday Home of Marcia and Dr. Lance Donald 116 / CONSTRUCTING THE CREATIVE Doug Breckenridge on Preserving Historic Architecture 131 / BAYOU ICON The Many Adventures of Sidney Wilhite

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144 / RALPH BROCKMAN The Road to the World Goes Through Monroe 162 / CHRISTMAS IN NELA Holiday Events for the Whole Family 178 / HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE These are a Few of Our Favorite Things

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BayouLife

HE MOST WONDERFUL TIME

of the year is here. It’s mid-November, but you wouldn’t be able to tell that in the BayouLife office.

We’ve had Pandora Christmas tunes on, hot chocolate on our desks...along with plenty of coffee and our Christmas décor hung with care. I’m anxiously awaiting our neighbors to put up their spectacular lights, and Scarlett has been asking her boyfriend if she could make a Thanksgiving tree. It’s part of the routine when you work a month ahead of time to be in the “spirit” a little bit earlier than most folks.

In this issue, you will find our beautiful models Rheagan Sutton, Julianne Tippen and Ellie Jackson modeling clothes from area boutiques. These images captured by the talented Martin G Meyers exemplify the season’s most stylish and comfortable winter wear. (pages 94-103). Thank you, Ashley Yeldell, for letting us use props from her company Eight and Two Vintage Rentals, to Calvin McKenzie for driving over his beautifully restored El Camino and to Dee and John Ledbetter for allowing us to shoot at their lovely home.

On pages 190-196, Jaden Leach models holiday cocktail attire in a Winter Wonder Glam photo shoot. Brad Arender’s studio was transformed by the uber-crafty Gifford sisters, Libby and Abby. And Meka Bennett worked her hair and makeup magic on all of our fashion sets this month.

We debated on whether or not to call this month’s magazine The Big Game Issue or The Holiday Issue. Featured on page 130, April Kelley interviews businessman and avid sportsman, Sidney Wilhite.

Home for the Holidays, page 94

2107 Honor Street, Suite E Monroe, LA 71201 Phone: 318.855.3185 Fax: 318.855.4645

WW W. B AYO UL I F EM A G . C O M His collection of sport trophies might only be rivaled by those of another north Louisiana resident, Ralph Brockman. Find Kenny Covington’s interview with Mr. Brockman on page 144.

Craving sweet treats? So were we ,until this month’s Bayou Eats column was photographed. Our staff gained a couple of pounds and a cavity or two when styling the shoot for these holiday goodies on page 66.

Thank you to Jodami Designs for letting us use his hand-crafted table.

If you are looking for the perfect gift, look no further. We’ve compiled our favorite gift items in 12 pages. There is something for everyone on your list, and all are available from local retailers. See pages 178-189.

December’s issue is always a real doozie for us, but this year was especially challenging considering the size of the magazine. I couldn’t do this without my talented staff and amazing family. Thank you to all my girls: Toni, Melanie, Maré, Rheaganza, Scarlett, Meka and Tess. And to the fellas we can’t do without: Michael, Graham and Brad. I always hate saying goodbye, and this month brings a lot of tears as we bid farewell to our precious Rheagan Sutton.

From LA to L.A., we know our little BayouLife girl is going to do big things in California.

We’ve faced some challenges this year, but have had great accomplishments. I now have two little girls to share my joy with and the blessing of a wonderful husband and the most loving parents. This holiday season, let’s let the peace of the season shine throughout our community and goodwill be done everywhere. With all my love and thanks, we truly hope that you enjoy reading this month’s issue of BayouLife Magazine.

Please like us on Facebook at BayouLife Magazine, and visit our webpage at www.bayoulifemag.com. We welcome your comments, and wish you and your families a very happy holiday season.

~ Cassie Livingston

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PUBLISHER Cassie Livingston cassie@bayoulifemag.com EDITOR Maré Brennan mare@bayoulifemag.com STAFF WRITER Michael DeVault michael@bayoulifemag.com ART DIRECTOR Melanie Moffett melanie@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING MANAGER Toni Navarro toni@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Scarlett Holland scarlett@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Tess Wilks tess@bayoulifemag.com OFFICE MANAGER Rheagan Sutton rheagan@bayoulifemag.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Maré Brennan Dan Chason Kenny Covington Dr. David Finley Cindy Gist Foust Linda Holyfield April S. Kelley Erin Love Dr. Timothy Mickel Dr. Lauren Mickey Mary Napoli Melissa Sanderlin Delia Simpson P. Allen Smith Beatrice A. Tatem Judy Wagoner CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Brad Arender Martin G Meyers Scarlett Holland ON THE COVER Jaden Leach and Rheagan Sutton in Holiday Wonder Glam Cover Photography by Brad Arender BayouLife Magazine is published and distributed by Redbird Publishing, LLC. Circulation: 12,000 copies monthly. Postal subscriptions ($20) can be ordered online at www.bayoulifemag.com.

BayouLife Magazine is not responsible for unsolicited photographs, manuscripts or other materials. Reproduction of contents without express written permission is prohibited.

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The Season for Giving Back Choice Brands’ Commitment to the Community

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BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT, SPECIALTY & IMPORT MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

HOICE BRANDS IS BEST KNOWN

for distributing Miller Lite, Coors Light, Sam Adams, Abita, Heineken, Smirnoff, Red Bull and many other fine beverages in Northeast Louisiana. Beer is certainly our main passion but we, as a company, are also committed to serving our community. In addition to our involvement with local universities and scholarship programs, we have helped build some great charitable events in Monroe, West Monroe, Ruston and surrounding areas.

Each May, the dragons descend upon Monroe. You may have seen the unusual boats lined up along Bayou DeSiard getting ready for the race. Last year, all proceeds of the Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival went to PAWS, a local organization dedicated to reducing and aiding the population of unwanted and lost companion animals in our community. The one day festival includes activities for the whole family, and the races are a blast to watch. To get involved or sign up for a team, see their Facebook page, facebook.com/BayouDeSiardDragonBoatFestival.

Strauss Theatre Center has been an institution in Monroe for decades. Entering its 83rd season this year, it is still going strong.

Choice Brands has partnered with the Strauss in many local fundraisers including Music in the Air and The Voices. Thanks to these wonderful events, we are helping to keep the culture of the theatre alive in our town. For

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information about memberships or volunteering, contact the Strauss Theatre Box Office at 318-323-6681 or visit them at facebook.com/strausslittletheatremonroe.

Downtown River Jam is a wonderful series of free outdoor concerts held in Downtown Monroe. Presented by Kevin Alexander in conjunction with the Downtown Monroe Alliance and Choice Brands, these fun events offer an evening of entertainment for the whole family. The excitement in Bry Park is palpable as families and music lovers, old and young, gather to enjoy local, regional and even nationally renowned musicians. Opening acts feature local up and comers, provided with the help of Tipitina’s Foundation.

For more information, visit them at facebook.com/DowntownRiverJam. Last year marked the ninth annual Bradshaw-Brooks Golf Tournament in Ruston. Together with Terry Bradshaw and Kix Brooks, Choice Brands helped to raise funds for Louisiana Tech Athletics. Including a pretournament concert and some friendly competition, this is always a fun event and a great way to support one of our amazing local universities.

Choice Brands partners with Monroe Renaissance on several events throughout the year. The Downtown Pub Crawl brings thousands of people to the downtown area each year, promoting local businesses and the revitalization of downtown. Up on the

Rooftop, an annual fundraiser for Monroe Renaissance, uses proceeds to produce the Christmas and Fourth of July fireworks, buy and install lights throughout the downtown area for the holiday season, install DeSiard Street window displays and plant trees along Desiard Street. The funds have also allowed for a commissioned art mural in the downtown area and various other beautification projects. Information about this organization and how to help can be found at facebook.com/MonroeRenaissance.

There is also involvement on a National scale. MillerCoors began a partnership with St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital back in 1992. Each year, around Halloween you may see Coors Light pumpkins hanging around participating local stores, bars and restaurants. Since its inception, the program has raised more than $76 million for St. Jude.

Make sure you get your name on one of those little pumpkins next year. It’s a small contribution for a great cause.

Most of these organizations run on a volunteer basis, so they can always use your help. It’s a great way to contribute to your favorite events and make them even better!

For info on local events and more, like us on Facebook at facebook.com/choicebrands and follow us on Twitter at twitter.com/choicebrandsinc.

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Hear for the Holidays

Don’t Let the Holidays Lose Their Luster Because of Hearing Loss

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HE SOUNDS OF THE HOLIDAYS: JOYOUS MUSIC, lively conversation and family gatherings are a cherished part of every holiday season. But if a loved one has trouble hearing in crowded, noisy situations or suffers any degree of hearing loss, the holidays may lose some of their luster.

A person with hearing loss symptoms may have difficulty hearing the higher pitched tones of children’s (and women’s) speech. Missing out on a grandchild’s recitation of a wish list or not being able to contribute to a family conversation about holiday memories can be frustrating for both the person suffering from hearing loss, as well as family members who may not be aware of the hearing problem.

There are ways to help a loved one with hearing problems enjoy the holiday season. It takes observation, awareness and a healthy dose of patience – communication skills that are useful year round – but may be even more important when families and friends gather to celebrate.

• Be sure the person is paying attention before you speak.

• Speak face-to-face, never from a different room or from behind.

• Dimly lit situations make it difficult to see facial expressions.

Try to have conversations in areas with good lighting like a kitchen or near a window.

• While speaking, avoid activities like smoking or chewing that make lip reading difficult.

• Speak at a natural pace and volume level.

• Try to reduce background noise. Even people who wear hearing aids may have difficulty hearing in noisy situations.

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the causes and types of hearing loss can help pinpoint the problem and rule out other medical issues.

With the support of family, a person with hearing problems may be more able to accept the need to get hearing loss treatment and may be ready to take the first steps of better hearing – a hearing test, and, if necessary, hearing aids. What a great gift to give a loved one (or yourself) this holiday season!

Avoid unnecessary frustrations this holiday season. A simple hearing test and video otoscopy can answer a lot of questions about your hearing. We will have a consultation about options to get you on the right track to improve your speech understanding and to make listening in group situations less fatiguing and more enjoyable. We will discuss technologies and fitting options to best fit your lifestyle and budget. The sooner we can get you started with your Auditory Therapy, the sooner you will start enjoying those soft sounds of the holiday season. Make your appointment by simply visiting www.AudibelMonroe.com, or call us to request a free hearing test. We look forward to helping make your season free from struggles with hearing loss and full of joy.

ABOUT US Audibel The Hearing Center is Northeast Louisiana’s Audibel dispenser. Cherry Phillips “The Hearing Lady” has been serving this area for over 25 years. We offer free hearing screenings, free second opinions, extended warranties and repairs on all makes and brands of hearing aids. You can find out more by visiting our website www.AudibelMonroe.com and you can see more and like us on Facebook.com/AudibelMonroe.

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Dealing with Holiday Stress There Are Ways to Deal with Holiday Stress

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BY MELISSA SANDERLIN, LPC NCC

HE HOLIDAY SEASON CAN BE A FABULOUS TIME OF year. It’s the time we get to see loved ones we don’t see often during the year. It’s a time to bring joy to others in the gift-giving spirit. It’s a time to see our kids’ eyes light up with excitement. But it can also be a time filled with stress and feelings of being overwhelmed. But there are ways to cope with the stress.

day without that loved one present. In the case of a death, it is best to focus on honoring the memories of the deceased and remind yourself that the person would only want you to experience happiness in his/her absence. It’s also important to communicate with those around you. Let them know what you need and ask for their understanding if you decline any activities.

Busy Schedule The holidays are full of invitations for get-togethers and parties.

You want to be nice and accept them all, but who has the time? Unfortunately normal life does not get put on hold at the holidays, so prioritize your invitations and attend those you can without over-booking yourself. Graciously decline the others.

Striving for Perfection But what if you are the hostess? In the spirit of the holidays, you are the one that cooks the dinners and throws the parties. You feel like the menu has to be perfect, the house spotless and everyone’s happiness is dependent on you getting things just right. That’s great, except you will be the only miserable person at the party. Instead, only offer what you can reasonably attain and enlist the help of others.

Focus on the joy of being with your loved ones, enjoying great food and hopefully a few days off work. And remind yourself that the stress of the holidays is only temporary, and life will soon return to normal.

Budget Issues Sometimes we can get caught up in making sure everyone we care about gets a gift. And the list grows as the season carries on. A lot of people max out their credit during the holidays, then have to spend the rest of the year paying it off. That can be a terrible cycle to get caught in. Instead, focus on meaningful, personal gifts that don’t necessarily cost a lot. And every person you know doesn’t need a gift.

Honestly, do you remember what Mary Jo from the car pool group got you last year? No? Neither does she.

Family Strain It is very rare that an entire family always gets along. We sometimes have family members we would rather not be around. If you have a legitimate reason for your ill feelings, then you have a legitimate reason to avoid him or her. You will feel happier and healthier, as well as avoid any unnecessary drama that could ruin the holiday for everyone.

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Children’s Expectations We are all guilty of overindulging our kids at times. The holiday season is no exception. But it is important that we teach our children the value of money and that instant gratification is not realistic. Explain that Santa, Mom and Dad, Grandma and everyone else have a long list of shopping to do and limited funds, so appropriate gifts will be given. And teaching appreciation is a must. There is nothing more embarrassing than your child being rude to a person after being dissatisfied with a gift.

If you are concerned that your stress may be more than just temporary holiday stress, consider speaking with a licensed professional counselor. You can contact Melissa and her staff at 318.323.7575 or info@sanderlincounselingservices.com.

Balloon Sinuplasty Technological Advancements in Sinus Treatment

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S IT ALLERGIES, A COLD OR SINUSITIS? Your nose is congested, and it’s hard to breathe. Thick mucus irritates the back of your throat. Your face, head and even your teeth hurt from the pressure. You’re losing your sense of smell and taste. You’re incredibly tired and irritable.

You think that it must be yet another cold or allergy attack again this year.

You take allergy or cold medicines to relieve your symptoms, but they don’t help.

Finally, you see your physician.

After listening to your history of symptoms and conducting an exam, the doctor says you have acute sinusitis, which is temporary inflammation of the sinus lining that is cause by a bacterial infection and commonly called a sinus infection. Your doctor may recommend saline nasal spray, antibiotics, nasal steroid sprays, decongestants and over the counter pain relievers to help the condition.

However, if you experience symptoms for longer than 12 weeks, you could have a chronic sinus infection.

When you have acute or chronic sinusitis, the mucous membranes of your nose, sinuses and throat become inflamed, possibly from a pre-existing cold or allergies. Swelling obstructs the sinus openings and prevents normal mucus drainage, causing mucus and pressure to build up. Symptoms include: drainage of a thick, yellow or greenish discharge from the nose or down the back of the throat; nasal obstruction or congestion; tenderness and swelling around the eyes, cheeks,

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nose and forehead; and/or a reduced sense of smell and taste. The impact of chronic sinusitis on a person’s quality of life could include: throbbing facial pain or headaches, congestion, bad breath, irritability, fatigue or nausea.

Patients who do not respond well to medications become candidates for conventional sinus surgery, which is known as functional endoscopic sinus surgery.

Conventional surgery is no longer the only option. Balloon Sinuplasty is a breakthrough procedure that relieves the pain and pressure associated with chronic sinusitis.

With Balloon Sinuplasty, a specially designed catheter is inserted into the nose to reach the inflamed sinus. A small balloon is slowly inflated, which widens and restructures the walls of the sinus passage without cutting and with minimal bleeding, helping to drain mucus from the blocked sinus and restore normal mucus flow. The balloon is then removed, leaving the sinus open.

Balloon Sinuplasty can be safely performed in the physician’s office under a local anesthetic. This procedure can also be performed in the operating room under a general anesthetic, in conjunction with other more invasive procedures, such as a nasal septal reconstruction.

Ninety-five percent of patients who have had Balloon Sinuplasty in an office setting say they would have it again.

Many patients when presented with sinus surgery using traditional methods decide to delay or forego surgery. Surgery with the Bal-

loon Sinuplasty devices now provides a minimally invasive option for these patients who want safe and effective, clinically proven relief from their symptoms and the ability to return to their normal activities sooner.

Sinusitis patients require nearly 30 million prescriptions each year. While the medical management of sinusitis is designed to reduce the severity and duration of symptoms, some patients become disappointed when their symptoms recur or are persistent.

When patient response to medical management fails, referral to an Ear, Nose and Throat specialist is appropriate. It is estimated that up to 60 percent of chronic sinusitis sufferers do not respond to medications. Some of these patients, but not all, can be made better with procedural intervention, such as sinus surgery.

A specialist has more diagnostic tools with which to assess the sinus patient. An endoscopic exam using a sinus telescope is one such tool. Allergy evaluation is often indicated. A CT scan of the sinuses will delineate the sinus anatomy and look for occult polyps or growths causing sinus symptoms. When symptoms have been present because of anatomical obstruction to the sinus, drainage procedural intervention can be of benefit.

If you would like additional information about the office performed Balloon Sinuplasty, please call Dr. Lauren J. Mickey’s office at 318322-9882 or visit our website at www.laurenjmickeymd.com.

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The First Christmas Story Jesus the Good Shepherd Wishes You a Wonderful Holiday Season

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URING ADVENT, AS WE PREPARE

for the coming of our Lord as well as during Christmas when we joyously celebrate His birth, we at Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a wonderful holiday season. Our school has been richly blessed through the generosity of our friends and families but most especially through the Grace of God. So during this sacred time of year, we’d like to include the first Christmas story instead of a regular article about our school.

May God richly bless your family and Merry Christmas.

Luke 1:26-47

In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph, of the house of David, and the virgin's name was Mary. And coming to her, he said, "Hail, favored one!

The Lord is with you." But she was greatly troubled at what was said and pondered what sort of greeting this might be. Then the angel said to her, "Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and the Lord God 16 DECEMBER 2014 | WWW.B AY OU LI FE MAG . CO M

will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end." But Mary said to the angel, "How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?" And the angel said to her in reply, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God. And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren; for nothing will be impossible for God." Mary said, "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word." Then the angel departed from her. During those days Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of Judah, where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, "Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And how does this happen to me that the mother of my Lord should come to me?

For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed are you who

believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled." And Mary said: "My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior.

Luke 2:8-14

Now there were shepherds in that region living in the fields and keeping the night watch over their flock. The angel of the Lord appeared to them and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were struck with great fear. The angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for behold, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For today in the city of David a savior has been born for you who is Messiah and Lord. And this will be a sign for you: you will find an infant wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger." And suddenly there was a multitude of the heavenly host with the angel, praising God and saying: "Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests."

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The Present Being in the Spirit of the Holiday

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BY BEATRICE A. TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

HE LONGER I LIVE,THE MORE IMPORTANT IT IS FOR ME to be in the present, to take in all the present has to offer. I have found it is important when being in the spirit of the holiday to be in the present when giving presents. The holiday season is a favorite time of the year. Each year, I find myself wrapped up in the joy of the holiday, visiting family and friends, cooking special treats, making donations to charities, volunteering my time and shopping for the perfect present to give. I am aware of the impact of the holiday. What effect does the holiday have on you, and how has it impacted your life.

If you were to identify your most memorable or favorite present what would you say? What is the meaning of the holiday and being in the spirit of the holiday to you?

“Food, plenty of food is what we want.” Last year during the holiday season, an organization I volunteered with sought from the director a wish list of items children at the local shelter wanted for the holiday. While the list was being constructed, members of the organization attempted to put together a list of toys, books and items “all children” want. We struggled with how many toys to buy purely for fun versus educational toys. We were wrong. To our surprise the children did not want toys. Instead, the request made by several of the children was to get plenty of food. The director expressed to us the children felt the greatest present they could receive was food, given their present situation of having little food. We shifted our goal from getting favorite toys to food choices children would like. We were struck by the candor of the children regarding their situation and yet ashamed of our lack of awareness of their needs. Were we so caught up in our own needs and therefore blind to the needs of others? It was a reminder of the significance of stepping outside of one’s experiences in order to appreciate the circumstances and needs of others. Life presents us with opportunity to provide presents. The children needed and wanted food. Acknowledging the present situation of the children added value and meaning to the presents given.

Reflecting on my childhood, I recall one year believing in Santa Claus so strongly I was convinced I heard Santa’s reindeer on my roof.

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I was a child who was amazed at how well Santa Claus knew all of the children across the world and managed to give what each child desired. I was a believer in the spirit of the holiday and the presence of Santa Claus. His gifts were part of the spirit as well. I am not sure when I realized Santa as a person did not come to my house; however, I recall pretending to believe in Santa Claus as long as I could to get the gifts and to avoid losing what I thought at the time was the holiday. As time passed, I stopped looking for Santa Claus in the physical sense but continue to appreciate what Santa Claus symbolizes.

I am still a believer in being in the spirit of the holiday. Time has shown me that a great present, if not the best present, is life in and of itself. Celebrate the present moment, it is a gift. Be present of mind and reconnect with the moments that mean the most to you. Take in the goodness of the holiday. When presenting gifts to others, remember to give yourself a present. Give the gift of your presence to someone in need of love and concern. Take the holiday spirit to those who are sick and shut-in. Be intentional with your attention. Offer a smile and extend a kind gesture. When considering the ideal gift for someone, be mindful that the ideal gift to give may not be the ideal gift to receive. Provide presents with purpose and be purposeful when giving. Open yourself to others’ perceptions of a meaningful holiday. Be a creator of joyful memories and traditions…the holiday is what you create for yourself. Reflect on what brought you joy and how you brought others joy.

This holiday be present in all you do, in all you are, in all you give and in all you wish for yourself and others. There is no joy like spreading joy. Have a magical holiday and get ready to embrace the New Year!

For more information on counseling and outreach services, contact Dr. Beatrice Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC 1900 North 18 th Street, Suite 414, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.

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Glenwood Emergency Services Fast•ER, Bett•ER Emergency Care

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T SOME POINT DURING YOUR life, it is very likely that you will be faced with a medical emergency, such as an injury, life threatening illness, potential heart attack or stroke.

Whether it’s a broken bone, a deep cut that needs stitching or something more serious, we’re prepared to take care of your medical needs 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Our board-certified emergency room doctors and nurses are always here to handle a medical crisis with timely, high-quality treatment.

We know that all medical emergencies are stressful. Our staff is committed to easing your fears and concerns by providing frequent progress reports about your diagnosis, condition and treatment.

Our state-of-the-art, 16-bed Emergency Department includes: • Only fully accredited Cycle IV Chest Pain Center in Northern Louisiana • Private patient triage area • Comfortable treatment rooms • Bedside registration • Fast-track for minor illnesses and injuries • InQuicker online minor emergency registration service • Advanced patient monitoring equipment • STEMI heart protocols “Seeing patients quickly is vital to providing optimal patient care,” said Ron

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Elder, GRMC CEO. “We are striving to provide a high level of care, while addressing the growing problem of long emergency room waits. At Glenwood Regional Medical Center, your emergency is our emergency.”

INQUICKER® InQuicker® is an innovative online service that allows patients to virtually hold their place in line at the emergency room without having to be present. Patients arrive at Glenwood’s ER at their projected treatment time and are seen as quickly as possible. InQuicker estimates treatment times based on the facility conditions. The InQuicker online portal allows patients to be assessed by evaluating their medical symptoms online to see if immediate care is necessary. Those who indicate a life or limb threatening medical condition are prompted to dial 911 or go immediately to the ER. It’s another way that Glenwood is taking busy lives into account and making access for minor medical emergencies faster and more efficient. To schedule an appointment using InQuicker, visit GRMC.com.

FULLY ACCREDITED CYCLE IV CHEST PAIN CENTER When you’re having a heart attack, where you go for treatment could be one of the most critical decisions of your life. Cycle

IV accreditation is the highest rating a Chest Pain Care facility can earn. Glenwood earned it by demonstrating expertise and commitment to quality patient care by meeting or exceeding a wide set of stringent criteria. Glenwood is the only fully accredited Cycle IV Chest Pain Center in Northern Louisiana.

ER STEMI PROTOCOLS A STEMI is the most severe type of heart attack, in which a clot blocks the coronary artery, and as a result, the heart muscle being supplied by the affected artery starts to die. Rapid percutaneous intervention (PCI), commonly referred to as angioplasty, is crucial to the survivability of a heart attack. Experts say the sooner that a patient is treated to relieve the blockage causing the STEMI, the better the outcome.

The Glenwood ER’s STEMI protocols ensure that patients with chest pain who need advanced care in a cardiac catheterization lab are taken care of as safely and quickly as possible. The STEMI service, along with Glenwood’s state-of-the-art cardiac catheterization labs and Hybrid OR, is designed to save lives.

For more information about Glenwood’s emergency services, visit www.grmc.com or call 877-726-WELL (9355).

Shop Burney’s This Holiday

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Burney’s Offers Specialized, Home Accessories, Gifts and More

F YOU REALLY WANT TO HAVE SOME FUN THIS holiday season, check out Burney’s Furniture in Monroe. You might even find some delightful and unexpected Christmas gifts! Carve a few minutes out of your day and head on over to view their large selection of everything for the stylish home.

Burney’s Furniture has been helping customers with their specialized furniture, accessory and gift needs for... well, for back to the days of decorating with big flowers, bright colors and wallto-wall shag carpet.

These days, you may have to sacrifice some of the above ideas... but you may not! Burney's offers fabulous accent chairs and reclining furniture from makers like La-Z-Boy, Catnapper and Best. As a La-Z-Boy Comfort Studio dealer, Burney’s can offer you total special order designs from anything that La-Z-Boy makes.

What about the added touch of specialized pieces of art for your walls? You are going to be awed and amazed by what Burney’s offers. We have a large selection of everything from Tiger Eyes for LSU fans to sophisticated New York gallery type of art, to bright colors and big flowers.

Of course, if your style is a little more traditional... or transitional... or even contemporary, we have that look, too. And just in case you're a fan of things symbolizing Louisiana, you’ll really step into accessory heaven. Find pelicans, cranes, fleur-de-lis and European style vases, to name only a few.

Burney’s has always offered free, in-home design services, with a fabulous staff that is committed to helping you decorate your way using the budget you set. At Burney’s, our goal is always a satisfied customer, and that’s why people have been coming back to us for years.

Through the first of December, Burney’s is offering special terms of up to 48 Months with Interest Free Financing.

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After December 1, enjoy 12 Months Interest Free financing, available with minimum purchase amounts and approved credit.

Our commitment is to making your home as beautiful as it can be with great financing and customer service after the sale.

In a nutshell, Burney's is willing to walk the extra mile, or the extra 10 miles, or even the extra marathon to make sure you are a satisfied customer. We do this by offering: • Free In-Home Design Services • Name brands, like La-Z-Boy and Serta, that have been serving America for years • Product warranties to ensure your product will serve you as expected • An informed sales staff that will understand your needs, including budget requirements • Interest Free Financing to make your new home purchase easy and fun • Service after the sale • Wish List catalog services so that we can help you plan your home decorating in affordable phases Burney's loves being a part of this community and takes pride in assisting you with beautifying your home and making it comfortable, all at the same time.

Burney’s Furniture is located at 3111 Louisville Avenue in Monroe, LA. Call 322-4959 for questions about their services and merchandise. Check out their website for a detailed list of quality brand names they carry in living room, dining room, home entertainment and more. And don’t forget to join their email list for special offers. www.burneysfinefurniture.com Happy Holidays, and we look forward to helping you.

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FISHING with KENNY always good choices. A 3/16th ounce shakey head with a 4 inch finesse worm in watermelon/red or green pumpkin is a great back up no matter the season.

Know When to Hold ‘Em Know When to Fold ‘Em

by KEN N Y C OV INGTO N

THIS HAS HAPPENED TO EVERY BASS fisherperson at one time or another. You come around the corner of a creek or you fish out on an open flat, and the sight of bass feeding on shad, blowing up the water as if it were their last meal catches your eye. Your heart races with anticipation! You get the boat within casting range, and your first cast goes untouched. The fish are still breaking water all around you. The second cast, third cast and twentieth cast go unnoticed.

The minutes pass, and soon you have spent more than an hour on your new found “honey hole” with nothing to show for it. Baits litter the deck of your boat as each idea has gone down in flames. You know the fish are there, but you just can’t seem to make them bite.

The scenario I described happens quite often but under many different circumstances.

You are catching fish, but they stop biting. Do you stay and try to figure out other ways to catch them, or do you go to another location? You found an area that you and your buddy loaded the boat off of. A week later, you would think there wasn’t a fish in the lake. Where did they go?

Bass fishing is a lot of trial and error. Once you are able to put the pieces of the puzzle together, it becomes easier. You go from just fish-

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ing to try and locate active fish to catching fish in a matter of minutes. However, you can also go from catching fish back to trying to locate them even faster. Like I have said before, there are no easy answers, and it takes time to figure it all out.

The following are some common scenarios or situations I have seen over the years. Each one presents its own challenges but with a little thought and patience, these potential fishing trip wreckers can turn into memorable days on the water.

COLD FRONTS Bass fishermen have used the “the fish didn’t bite because of the cold front” forever. In the springtime, a major cold front can severely damage even the strongest of shallow water patterns. I have seen water temperatures drop as much as 10 degrees overnight. I have found that cold fronts in the fall and winter seasons tend to actually make the fish bite better. Unlike in the spring when fish are needing warmer water temps to spawn, in the later parts of the year the drop in water temperature will usually trigger a feeding frenzy. The best cold front lure ever made is the Rat L Trap. Shad patterns in the fall and winter and red or crawfish in the spring are

TOO MANY BAIT FISH When you find yourself in the scenario that I described earlier in this article, I have learned that even the best bass fishermen struggle. It is hard to compete with Mother Nature. Why would a fish try to eat something that is being used to resemble what he is naturally eating without having to use near as much energy to do so? I have found that I do better by switching locations, where I don’t have as much natural competition to compete with. I will still stick to my shad based lure choices, because I will be presenting them to fish that don’t have to pick my lures out of the crowd.

CROWDED LAKES Four time world champion Rick Clunn who has been fishing professionally since the mid 1970s recently said, “The biggest variable we have to contend with when it comes to finding and catching bass on our fisheries today is not the weather, it’s fishing pressure. We are the number one variable.” In tournaments, when fishing summer events, I take into account the water skiers and pleasure boaters I will have to contend with. No lure or change in line size can combat that. All of our lakes are crowded, but to be successful on the water, we must adapt accordingly. Just like heavily pressured deer during hunting season, the fish do a great job of dealing with and surviving this humanistic invasion. My mindset on these bodies of water has always been “they go somewhere and still have to eat.”

THEY JUST WON’T BITE I have fished many different bodies of water. I have fished the clear waters of Table Rock Lake in Missouri to the maze like canal systems of the Atchafalaya Basin. Seen the vast waters of Toledo Bend and Kentucky Lake and the beauty of Old Hickory Lake in Tennessee. I have fished ditches, creeks, ponds, lakes, rivers and reservoirs. Ladies and gentlemen, no matter the time of year, season, cold front, warm front, prespawn or post spawn, sometimes they simply don’t bite.

Please be careful in the woods and on the water and I will see you next month!

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ASK ERIN

YOUR HOLIDAY ORGANIZING GUIDE

by Erin Sharplin Love

oesn’t it always seem that as soon as Halloween passes Thanksgiving and Christmas are right around the corner? Those weeks between each holiday seem to fly by in the blink of an eye, so it’s essential to get organized as quickly as possible to head off any last minute issues that might arise, as well as to save your sanity!

The first step to getting and staying organized for the holidays is preparation! My first piece of advice is to start a to-do list if you haven’t already! Never underestimate the value of writing things down, especially during such a hectic time of year. I suggest keeping a small notebook in your purse or within arm’s reach for when an idea or an impending errand run strikes.

Now on to the fun stuff! Let me help you get ready for those parties you will be attending, gifts you will be buying, cards you will be mailing, menus you will be making, and all of the other fun holiday festivities.

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Get Your Holiday Cards Organized – Sending out holiday cards this year doesn’t have to be a daunting task if you prepare for it. First, I suggest marking time off on your calendar to create, address and send the cards. If you can’t set aside enough time for taking care of the task in one sitting, it’s ok to do it in small increments, but I suggest beginning immediately so your time doesn’t get away from you. Second, check your address list for anything that might be missing – Did you make a new friend? Did someone recently have a change of address? Organize your list now to avoid complications later. Third, choose and order your holiday cards. And, finally, address and mail them!

Four simple steps is all it takes and the task is done!

Get Your Holiday Events and Hosting Organized – Begin marking your calendar of events now so you will be sure to know when and where you need to make an appearance this holiday season. Getting organized early ensures that you will not overbook yourself or miss an important gathering. As the invitations flow in, go ahead and RSVP immediately. Don’t wait or you could forget entirely. Another great tip is to choose a party-ready outfit for each event. Try it on and take a picture, complete with acces-

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sories and shoes, so you will be completely prepared and stress-free before each event. And one last piece of advice – brush up on your dining etiquette!

Get Your Holiday Gift-Giving Organized – Make a list and check it twice! (I couldn’t resist saying that!) Seriously though – Make a list of all of the people you need to purchase a gift(s) for and also note if you’ve already decided what you’d like to purchase for them. I always suggest shopping with a list, so you don’t overbuy or forget something. Also, search online to see who has the best deals before going shopping.

You might find it cheaper to purchase some items from the comfort of your couch instead of having to face the crowds. Finally, designate an out-of-the-way (away from prying eyes) spot in your home for storing the gifts until you are able to wrap them.

Create a Meal Plan – Grocery shopping gets a bit amped up during the holidays when you are hosting and attending numerous parties, so creating a game plan helps minimize stress. Don’t wait until the last minute to decide what to cook and what to prepare for the potlucks you will be

attending. Create a shopping list and stick to it as much as possible to avoid wasting money or purchasing duplicates. Be sure to include items on the list for the occasional last minute visitor, and you can never go wrong by having a little wine and cheese ready!

Get Organized for Holiday Travel – Hopefully, you have already purchased any plane tickets that are needed; otherwise you could face sold out flights and/or high prices. In the meantime, create a list of travel items you will need, complete with outfits and important documents.

Review the guidelines for travel so you don’t miss something that could cause a delay at the airport. If you are driving, I suggest mapping out your route to ensure there are no roadblocks or construction that could cause unneeded stress.

Below are a few more steps you could take to get you well on your way to an organized holiday: Take stock of what you already have Avoid wasting money on duplicate purchases by taking stock of what you already have. For instance, do you have tape? Wrapping paper?

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Christmas on the River Fun Events for the Whole Family Now Through December 31st

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HIS YEAR’S EVENT KICKED OFF on Veteran’s Day, November 11, with the lighting of the Freedom Trees at Chennault Aviation and Military Museum.

These trees feature ornaments created using photos and medals of veterans and current service men and women and is on display through December 31.

The lights are dancing again on Antique Alley and the Tree-Jays, an interactive light display, made their return to the NELA Children’s Museum on Saturday, November 22.

Lighting displays are located throughout Downtown Monroe and West Monroe. The newest additions to the Christmas on the River lights include Christmas Rocks, located at Palace Park with techno beats and a flashy display, and the Walk Through Tunnel of Lights, located at the corner of Commerce and Trenton Streets in West Monroe.

This year, enjoy the lights from a wagon ride on the evenings of November 28 and 29 and December 5, 12, 13, 19 and 20. This ride will take you to all of the interactive and beautiful lighting displays in Downtown Monroe and West Monroe.

Holiday decorations bring a festive look to downtown Monroe and West Monroe with many windows featuring “Christmas at the Movies” as their theme. Christmas at the Biedenharn will again be a sight to see, with each room decorated by the Monroe Garden Study League featuring a different take on their theme of “O, Christmas Tree.”

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The kids will be busy this holiday season at Santa’s Christmas Village at the NELA Children’s Museum (November 22-December21) with ice skating, a hand crank train, cookie decorating, making ornaments, story time with Mrs. Claus and visits with Santa.

The Monroe RiverMarket will have fun activities each weekend for kids, especially on December 6 with Lunch with Santa, bounce houses and a Christmas Pet Parade. Antique Alley’s Kids Alley, on December 13, will feature fun activities, such as the Chariots of Fire, crafts and more.

Two parades will roll on December 6, starting with the popular Bawcomville Redneck Parade that morning. This parade always brings surprises with interesting floats and throws that may include turnips, candy, Moon Pies or Ramen noodles. On that afternoon, the downtown streets will be lined with people waiting for the Kiwanis Club of West Monroe Christmas Parade sponsored

by Bancorp South. This parade will feature community floats decorated to the theme of “Christmas at the Movies.” Make plans to stay for the Monroe Renaissance Fireworks Extravaganza, also sponsored by Bancorp South, for a spectacular show. The best viewing spots are at the RiverMarket, the West Monroe levee, or the Up on the Rooftop Party at the Vantage Garage with music, food, and fun.

The holiday season in Monroe-West Monroe is full of live performances. The

Twin City Ballet will host their gala performance on December 6 with A Winter’s Night and Santa’s Spy. The Louisiana Delta Ballet will wow audiences with “The Frozen Kingdom,” a performance based on the Hans Christenson Anderson story of "The Snow Queen." Family Church will once again host their Broadway-style production of Scrooge!, and Cedar Crest Baptist Church’s Journey to Bethlehem will inspire with their live nativity at Pecanland Mall. Strauss Theatre Center presents The Music Man on two weekends in December.

The Monroe Symphony Orchestra and Chorus will perform their “Sounds of the Season” featuring traditional holiday music. The Ed Miller Trio from Edinborough, Scotland, will bring a Celtic touch to Christmas in Louisiana at A Celtic Christmas in West Monroe.

And of course, the holiday shopping abounds in Monroe-West Monroe. Antique Alley offers both boutique and antique shopping for clothing, furniture, home décor and gifts. The RiverMarket brings vendors with one of a kind gift items, clothing and more.

Pecanland Mall, the largest shopping mall in North Louisiana and a number of boutiques in the area will help you cross everyone off your list.

For more information and a complete up-to-date list of events, please visit www.christmasontheriver.org or call 800843-1872.

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Glenwood Medical Group Quality Doctors You Expect. Compassionate Care You Deserve.

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LENWOOD MEDICAL GROUP recruits and employs highly qualified and skilled physicians with diverse medical specialties to support Glenwood Regional Medical Center. Working together, we are making a difference in the lives of our patients, our hospital and our community.

BRAIN & SPINE SURGERY Jorge Alvernia, MD Dr. Alvernia is an exceptionally skilled surgeon concentrating in the area of brain tumors, nerve disorders and spinal conditions.

He completed his residency at Tulane University and earned his brain tumors fellowship in Lyon, France. He is a member of multiple international neurological societies and has published numerous articles in medical peer review journals and chapters in neurosurgery textbooks.

HEART & VASCULAR SURGERY Harry Donias, MD Dr. Donias’ services include mitral valve, tricuspid valve and aortic valve repair or replacement, on and off pump coronary artery bypass, proximal aortic and arch pathology, surgical treatment of atrial fibrillation, lung and esophageal cancer, aneurysms, peripheral revascularization and carotid stenosis, as well as minimally invasive and endovascular techniques.

EAR, NOSE & THROAT Brent Metts, MD, PhD Dr. Metts is one of the few surgeons in the

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nation who are fellowship trained in minimally invasive and endoscopic assisted thyroid and parathyroid surgeries. His services include sinus disease, balloon sinuplasty, thyroid disease, hearing loss, voice care, sleep apnea, throat problems, tonsilliti and ear infections.

GLENWOOD FOOT & ANKLE David Gardner, DPM Dr. Gardner specializes in bunions, hammer toes, flat foot, Achilles tendonitis, toenail fungus, ingrown toenails, heel pain, neuromas, corns, calluses, warts, deformities, geriatric conditions, diabetic foot conditions and sports injuries of the lower legs and feet. He also provides wound care treatment weekly at Glenwood’s Hyperbaric and Wound Care Center.

GENERAL SURGERY Frank Sanfiel, MD Dr. Sanfiel specializes in hernia repair, breast surgery, gastrointestinal surgery, skin and soft tissue infections and other common surgical interventions.

GENERAL SURGERY & WOUND CARE Russell T. Lolley, MD Dr. Lolley is the Medical Director of Glenwood’s Hyperbaric & Wound Care Center. The Center offers transcutaneous oxygen monitoring, hyperbaric oxygen therapy, wound debridement, specialty wound dressing and skin grafts, compression therapies and diabetic foot care.

INTERNAL MEDICINE & PREVENTIVE CARDIOLOGY Alyce Adams, MD Dr. Adams has been a certified Diabetes Educator, who specializes in diabetes, hypertension and preventive cardiology. She also offers EKGs, stress tests and echocardiograms.

FAMILY & INTERNAL MEDICINE Roland Ponarski, MD Dr. Ponarski specializes in diabetes, hypertension and high cholesterol. In addition, he offers routine physical exams and CDL license exams.

NEUROLOGY Michael Boykin, MD Dr. Boykin completed his residency at the Medical College of Virginia and attended Loyola School of Medicine for Neurology. Dr. Boykin’s services include: EEG, NVC/EMG studies, Parkinson’s disease, stroke, tremors, epilepsy, sleep disorders, myasthenia gravis, ALS, multiple sclerosis and neuropathy.

PSYCHIATRY Michael B. Wright, MD Dr. Wright specializes in psychiatric evaluation, diagnosis and treatment for adolescents and adults. His services include psychopharmacology and medication management, outpatient consultations, crisis management, psychiatric emergency management and referral, and consultations for psychiatric problems related to medical illness.

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Harrison and Lambert

lyse Olga Lambert and Andrew Stuart Harrison were united in marriage on September 5, 2014, at Sacred Heart of Jesus in Broussard, Louisiana. The 7 p.m. ceremony was officiated by The Reverend William Ruskoski.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Dillard Lambert of Lafayette, Louisiana. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Sidney John Richard, Jr. of Franklin, Louisiana, Mrs. J.D. Lambert of Lafayette, and the late Mr. J.D. Lambert.

Alyse is a 2008 graduate of Lafayette High School and a 2012 graduate of Louisiana State University receiving a Bachelor of Interior Design degree. She is employed by Paradigm Design Group in Houston, Texas.

The groom is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Ralph Benjamin Harrison, Jr. of Monroe, Louisiana. He is the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. A.L. Nel-

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son, Jr. of Minden, Louisiana and Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Benjamin Harrison, Sr. of Monroe.

Drew is a 2008 graduate of Ouachita Christian School in Monroe, a 2012 graduate of Louisiana State University receiving a Bachelor of Science degree in finance, and a 2014 graduate of the University of Houston receiving a Master of Business Administration degree.

He is employed with Apache Corporation in Houston, Texas.

Escorted by her father, the bride wore a dramatic composition of ivory lace with a striking trumpet silhouette. The gown featured an elegant sweetheart neckline, a champagne underlay and English netting accented by gorgeous lace appliquĂŠs. Her look was completed with an ivory cathedral-length veil and sapphire earrings. The Bride carried a bouquet full of David Austin Juliet roses, white chocolate roses, wax flowers and seeded eucalyptus. The bouquet stems were

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wrapped with silk hand-dyed ribbons that draped to the floor in hues of blush, ivory and taupe.

Kaitlyn Reaux Johnson served as matron of honor. Bridesmaids were Whittney Haynes, Allison Singleton, and Megan Webber; all friends of the bride.

Will Harrison, brother of the groom, served as best man.

Groomsmen were Barron Bullock, friend of the groom, Davis Lambert and Jesse D. Lambert, Jr., brothers of the bride. Ushers were Timothy Burns, Charles McIntosh, Colby Mike and Logan Picou.

Readings were presented by Sydney Fletcher, cousin of the bride, and Ginger Swanson, aunt of the groom. Program attendants were Anna Kiburz, cousin of the bride, and Sarah Keen, cousin of the groom. Pianist was Mrs. Ellen McLemore.

A reception followed at City Club at River Ranch.

The floral design was done for

the reception by Kelly Wright Taylor, Matthew Barnhill and Denise Hardy. The City Club was transformed with beautiful table arrangements of David Austin Juliet roses, apricot stock, white hydrangea, peonies, Queen Anne's Lace, cymbidium orchids and white snapdragons. The beautiful five-tiered cake had over five dozen Juliet Roses cascading from the top tier. The fireplace was draped in fresh garlands of eucalyptus, boxwood and ferns with small bouquets of roses and hydrangeas entwined in it. Strands of tiny fairy lights hung from the garland which was reflected in the giant mirror above the mantle.

Hundreds of candles warmed the room to a beautiful golden glow.

Upon returning from their honeymoon, the couple will reside in Houston, Texas.

Photography by Kaylynn Marie Photography, New Orleans, LA

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Welcome to Strategic Medicaid Planning Impoverishment Made Easy... Through Lack of Planning

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HE AVERAGE AMERICAN HAS NO idea what it takes to be eligible to qualify for government programs like Medicaid that can actually cover nursing home care in most situations. Many aren’t even aware such a program is available for this purpose.

Like most programs established by our bureaucratic system, the devil lies in the details. The majority of American citizens think that Medicaid only applies to the “poor.” Actually, for qualified persons, it’s also meant to be there to prevent impoverishment of families who have a loved one requiring nursing home care. In order to do so, though, one must have knowledge of the detailed regulations established to see that this program is fairly administered.

Many families at this point in the discussion would say, “Well that is good, because we need the help.” The wake-up call comes when the cost of nursing home care is finally assessed by the family members, and they realize that it would require everything they have and then some to pay for the care recommended for their loved one. That cost varies depending on what the family has to lose. It could be everything that they worked a lifetime to acquire, including what may have been intended for their spouse to live on or as a legacy for their children and grandchildren.

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that administer Medicaid to see that the above doesn’t happen. They only follow the required rules and regulations according to the law. So, what is the answer? How does a family get the needed help? In short, it can almost always be had through proper strategic planning whether at the time of the crisis or in advance. It is actually when preplanning is properly in place before the Medicaid application process that the ideal of approval without a great loss of time and therefore assets can be achieved.

Let’s explore an example of one of many possible scenarios. Helen, a widow, falls and fractures her hip. She is hospitalized. At the end of a 100 day rehabilitation stay she still is unable to go home. It is determined that she will need long term nursing home care. Her adult daughter began the Medicaid application process while her mother was in the hospital once it was apparent she couldn’t go home. Helen and her daughter have no knowledge of the specifics of Medicaid qualification. Even though Helen obviously has the need for care, she is told she has not met the required criteria. The bills begin to pile up. In one month alone, her nursing home care cost is $4,500. This cost along with some of her other medical bill from her recent hospital stay have virtually wiped out all of Helen’s savings in a span of six short months. The good news is Helen is now being released

from the nursing home; the bad news is that it’s with an empty bank account.

This was a very simplistic version of events. If Helen had a spouse at home it could have been even worse. The monetary losses can stack up to astronomical levels in nothing flat. There is a better answer: Preplanning before the need occurs. Not every medical issue that requires in-patient care is the result of a known chronic developing problem. Often it can be due to an unknown condition that results in a catastrophic event.

For these reasons, developing a plan for the family assets well in advance with the assistance of a professional knowledgeable in these matters can make the difference where it really counts – a family’s financial security. While also keeping in mind that even if you have a loved one in a nursing home now, it’s not too late to create a plan to protect the remainder of their estate.

This article was written by Chuck Barber of Pennington Financial, LLC. He is a specialist in Estate and Medicaid Pre-planning and Crisis Planning. For more information, contact us at 318-855-4690. Pennington Financial, LLC is located at 1900 North 18th St. Suite 211 in Monroe.

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P. Allen Smith Farm Chic Christmas Garden Fresh Ideas for Decorating and Gifting This Holiday Season.

PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF: DONNA EVANS AND MARK FONVILLE

don’t know about you, but I’m crazy about Christmastime. Cozying up to a warm fire with a cup of hot chocolate and the smell of fresh greenery really kindles that holiday spirit.

If you’re like me, you love entertaining, especially around the holidays. To decorate your table, simply use a premade mantle piece of fresh greenery for a center piece, echoing the colors of your theme.

You can use noble fir, western cedar or juniper and add pine cones, glass balls and wood berries to create a cheerful table.

Pull things together to create a festive table for an impromptu gathering of friends or family. Mix things up a bit by integrating the best of the old and the new. Set each place setting with simple, vintage white plates with gold or silver rims. Use modern larger green plates as chargers. Disperse taper or votive candles into the greenery centerpiece to add some sparkle and light.

I’m an advocate of using fresh cut greenery for decorating, but I can understand why folks sometimes baulk, because it does require some maintenance. However, the beauty and fragrance make it well worth the trouble. And really, you only need to take a few extra steps to make the greenery last as long as possible. When you’re collecting or buying your greenery, look for pieces that are pliable, have a

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strong aroma and vivid color. To extend its life by three to five days, give it a deep soak to hydrate all the foliage. To seal in the moisture, spray each piece with an antitranspirant. This compound is applied to leaves of plants, Christmas trees and cut flowers to keep them from drying out too quickly. Keep your greenery away from direct sunlight or heat sources. Remember, it will dry out much quicker indoors.

Another favorite aspect about the holidays is giving gifts. I like to create my own gift wrap, and taking the time to make special gift tags just lets the recipients know their special. It’s an easy and creative way to jazz up your gifts, and you don’t have to spend a lot of money.

One of my favorite gift tag ideas is taking precut balsawood ornaments, applying two coats of chalkboard paint and writing the person’s name in chalk. These are great gift tags that can later be hung on the tree.

Above: (Left) Unique decorations are as close as your grocery store. A nice, big pineapple adds a lovely touch to the greenery on this banister.

(Right) I like to set the scene for holiday gatherings, because it puts guests in a festive mood. However, the most important thing is remembering to enjoy the season.

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I love giving gifts that will reward the recipient well after the holidays have passed. Caring for orchids is so easy. They are wonderful holiday gifts, even for my nongardening friends.

To make them special, I like to wrap them, and you can wrap several orchids to hand out to your friends. Here’s what you’ll need: potted orchids, bare branches, ribbon, silver balls, wired floral sticks, cinnamon sticks and one of your homemade gift tags.

To gift wrap the orchids, remove the original stakes and replace them with winter twigs, which can be purchased at the craft store or gathered from your yard. Tie a bow with the silver balls and gift tag to a floral stick and insert it into the pot, careful not to poke the roots. Add the cinnamon stick to make it smell like Christmas. You’re done!

Giving the gift of something homemade is also a marvelous way to show someone how important they are. Cookies-in-a-jar is a sweet gift, and it’s really easy to assemble. We always have canning jars around the farm, so finding a 1-quart, wide-mouth Mason jar is simple. Below is the delicious recipe for the Mason Jar Cokie Mix.

Mason Jar Cookie Mix

1 ¾ C all-purpose flour 1 tsp baking powder 1 tsp baking soda 1/8 tsp salt ¼ C cocoa powder ½ C granulated sugar ¾ C raw sugar 1 C semi-sweet chocolate chips

A few little tweaks turn a store-bought orchid into a charming gift that will flower for months.

Mix flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Add it as the bottom layer in the jar. Smooth out each layer with a wooden spoon.

Add layers in this order: cocoa, granulated sugar, raw sugar and chocolate chips. Add some nuts on top if you want.

Attach a tag to the jar with the following directions: Preheat oven at 350 degrees. Combine contents of jar with ¾ cups melted butter, 1 tsp vanilla extract and 3 eggs. Refrigerate dough for an hour.

Place tablespoon-sized balls of dough on cookie sheet about 2 inches apart. Bake for 8-10 minutes or until cookies are golden brown. Let cookies cool on a wire rack, then store in an airtight container.

I encourage you to fill your home with the festive scent of fresh greenery and to enjoy your family and friends this holiday season.

P. Allen Smith P. Allen Smith is an award-winning designer, gardening and lifestyle expert and host of two public television programs, Garden Home and Garden to Table, and the syndicated 30-minute show P. Allen Smith’s Garden Style. Smith is one of America's most recognized and respected design experts, providing ideas and inspiration through multiple media venues. He is the author of the best-selling Garden Home series of books. Allen is also very active on social media such as Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Learn more at www.pallensmith.com.

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Pilots for Patients Painting

On November 10th, a retirement party was hosted by Sylvan Learning Center to celebrate Barbara Biersmith’s 27 years of service to this community.

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Rumo’s Crafted Products

During Russell Moore’s journey as a barber, one thing remained in the back of his mind and was prominent in the company’s long term vision…he wanted to develop a hair product line of their own. One that was free of harsh chemicals, free of sulfates, parabens, gluten and DEA. One that smelled great without the artificial stuff and worked great without damaging your hair. After assembling an incredible team and working out a long period of research and development, they have successfully formulated a line that has achieved all of those things and is fragranced with essential oils. The current lineup includes two shampoos (one for fine hair and one for coarse hair), one conditioner and one lightweight mousse to add body. Learn more by visiting www.rumosbarbershop.com or either of their locations.

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Caption: Barbara Biersmith, Donna McLemore, Amye Smith and Karl Pentecost

Strings For Sam

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Joy Surles is donating this original painting titled, Standing on the Promises, with all proceeds benefitting Pilots for Patients. This painting will travel around town to different locations until the winning ticket is pulled in mid-December. Look on Joy’s Facebook page to see where the painting will be displayed.

Barbara Biersmith Retires

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BayouBuzzworthy

Meet Sam. He is the son of Jennifer and Drew Routon of West Monroe. Drew is a football and baseball coach at Neville High School and Jennifer teaches at West Ridge Middle School. On November 14th, 2014 they were given the heartbreaking news that their 2-year-old son, Sam, had been diagnosed with high risk Stage 4 Neuroblastoma.

A custom guitar is being built in honor of Sam to be raffled off to raise money for the Routons. Guitar parts, as well as money, can be donated for the build by contacting Stephanie at stringsforsamrouton@gmail.com. Any excess funds will be deposited into one a benefit account for Sam. For more information, visit facebook.com/stringsforsam. #samstrong

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MUST-HAVE READS FOR THE HOLIDAYS

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inter came early, and that means it's time to snuggle up by the fire with a good book. This season, though, put down the latest James Patterson thriller and, instead, spend some time with a good Christmas book. After all, the holidays are a time about family, fun and making memories. There's no reason the book in your lap can't be a part of that.

There's a lot to choose from when it comes to Christmas books. As even the most cursory look at Amazon's collection will

In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash

By Jean Shepherd If you've ever tuned into TNT's "24 Hours of ‘A Christmas Story’" marathon, then you'll already know about Ralphie Parker, about Red Rider BB guns and will no doubt sing along with "far ra ra ra ra." What you may not know is the dewy-eyed nostalgia of the 1983 film barely scratches the surface of its source, In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash, the 1966 novel by radio personality Jean Shepherd.

Shepherd takes an unapologetic and often unfiltered look back at life in Indiana in the 1940s, a time when "snow days" meant you go to school dressed for snow. After all, as Shepherd writes, "There was no question of staying home. It never entered anyone's mind."

If you loved the film, do not miss the chance to get to know Ralphie, Randy, Mom and the Old Man better. In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash is an American classic that's a must-read for anyone looking for a holiday book.

Skipping Christmas

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reveal, no writer is immune from the pull of yuletide nostalgia. Mary Higgins Clark wrote a Christmas book. So did Glenn Beck, Terry Pratchett and Fannie Flagg. And Christmas books are hardly a recent phenomenon, either. Truman Capote got in on the game. So did Agatha Christie and Arthur Conan Doyle. In fact, Christmas stories predate the "father" of all holiday tales, A Christmas Carol.

Still, sifting through all those books to come up with the perfect book is a chore. Here are a few you might consider for your own Christmas collection.

surprised. The 2001 novel represents one of Grisham's earliest and most successful attempts to break out of thriller mode, and Grisham delivers with a natural ear for comedic timing.

When Luther and Nora Krank drop their daughter off the day after Thanksgiving for a year-long trip to Peru, they make a decision: they won't take part in any holiday celebrations and, instead, will spend everything they spent in previous years on a blowout Caribbean cruise. After angering the entire town with their anti-Christmas antics, their daughter surprises them. She's coming home for the holiday after all, because she doesn't want to miss their annual Christmas party. As Luther and Nora struggle to stage a Christmas extravaganza, they'll need a miracle to rebuild the bridges they've inadvertently burned.

When it was released in 2001, Skipping Christmas shot to number one on the New York Times bestsellers list and garnered more than a little critical recognition for Grisham. And over the years it's grown a cult following of its own, and it even spawned a 2004 film version, "Christmas With the Kranks," which starred Tim Allen and Jamie Lee Curtis. This book is a touching tale about the importance of Christmas spirit.

The Christmas Box

By Richard Paul Evans When Richard Paul Evans set out to write The Christmas Box, he wasn't expecting it to become an international phenomenon. In fact, he was writing the story to entertain his children. Only after he self-published The Christmas Box and the book became a bestseller in Utah did he garner national attention--and a seven-figure book deal that cemented his place in Christmas lore.

The Christmas Box begins as Keri and Richard Evans struggle to maintain their young family in the cramped confines of a one-bedroom apartment. When Keri finds an advertisement seeking live-in assistance for an elderly woman, Mary, his wife convinces Richard to inquire. In exchange for care and light housekeeping, the Evans family is given an entire wing of Mary's spacious home. A mystery of sorts ensues when Richard discovers a box of Christmas letters in the attic. Curious, Richard investigates, only to discover that Mary lost an infant child, and that each of these letters were written to that child.

Mary's health declining, Richard learns the true meaning of gifts at Christmas.

At times sentimental and at others poignant, The Christmas Box is a heartwrenching story.

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New Location

Premier Urgent Care and Bariatric Services Relocates to Mercedes Drive

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IVE YEARS AGO,THE PREMIER Urgent Care and Bariatric Services team of medical professionals introduced Lap Band™ surgery to their patients. Now, after years of growth, they have upgraded to a brand new state of the art fluoroscopy x-ray machine which allows for accurate band fills and alleviates the painful guess work of blind stick adjustments.

Using a unique medical device, Lap Band™ creates a small pouch in the upper part of the stomach. This device allows patients and their doctors to adjust the size of the stomach without permanent damage or removal, providing the freedom to adjust gastric intake as needed. With more patients recognizing the benefit of Lap Band™ surgery for weight loss and health, the practice has grown. Some of the benefits of Lap Band™ include: • Actual procedure can be performed in under an hour • No hospital stay is required • Minimally invasive surgery requires no cutting or stapling • Covered by most PPO Insurances • Financing is available • Procedure is 100% reversible and Adjustable.

Not only do they offer Lap Band™ surgery, at the new facility patients can enjoy the benefits of in-office Lap Band™ fills, a minimally invasive adjustment that allows precise monitoring of nutritional intake. Saline is injected into a small port under the skin, which

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tightens the band around the stomach and reduces the frequency and craving to snack more frequently or to eat larger meals.

In addition to lap band, Stamper also offers a walk-in urgent care clinic for patients. Another new feature that has set patients of Premier Urgent Care and Bariatric Services abuzz is the addition of a compounding pharmacy service. This service allows direct Fed-Ex shipment to the patient’s home with little or no out of pocket cost. Premier Urgent Care and Bariatric Services' Michael Stamper explains, "Some patients aren't able to swallow pills whole, so we're able to help them with that. But not only that, we can help with scar creams for patients with long-term scars."

Those scar creams can reduce signs of scarring, or even eliminate those signs in some cases. "It's great for bariatrics, because after bariatric surgery there is some scarring," Stamper says. With compound pharmacy scar creams, patients get the treatment and relief they need with the added benefit of reducing or eliminating the appearance of scar tissue.

Among the best uses for scar creams are: • C-Section Scars • Stretch Marks • New and Old Scars • Surgical Scars • Keloid Scars • Acne Scars • And more...

Results vary, but most patients begin to show improvements within ten to 14 weeks of continued use. Also, for patients with joint in-

flammation, chronic pain or arthritis, the compounding pharmacy produces a pain cream.

Pain creams specialize in treating: • Acute Sports Injuries • Joint Pain • Back Pain • Arthritis • Diabetic Neuropathy • Surgical Pain • Fibromyalgia

"Pain cream is one of the greatest things that we do," Stamper says. "If people have joint or arthritic pain, you apply it straight to the joint." Within a matter of moments, pain is greatly diminished or eliminated all together, restoring quality of life and range of mobility previously lost.

"We have some really awesome multivitamins that are fantastic for increasing energy, anemia and overall health. It's important to get all the multivitamins you need for daily life," Stamper says. Those multivitamins aren't always available in an over-the-counter product, so many times patients will have to take two or three vitamins. Compounding pharmacy is as much an art as it is a science, and it has been growing in popularity in recent years as patients realize the benefits of customized pharmaceutical delivery. Physicians are able to custom-tailor medications to meet the needs of patients, and the pharmacist is skilled in delivering those medications with precision. Compounding allows the patient to get everything they need in a single dose, customized to their specifications.

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Dedicated Customer Service U.S. Corrugated Excels in Meeting Customer’s Needs

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N THE MONTHS SINCE NATIONAL CORRUGATED BOX manufacturer U.S. Corrugated purchased Louisiana Corrugated, the company has made significant investments to improve efficiency and capacity and to bring state-of-the-art manufacturing tools into the Louisville Avenue facility. While this represents a significant commitment to the community, U.S. Corrugated didn't stop there.

Just ask U.S. Corrugated customer service manager Terria Watson, who has seen the benefits of the larger company firsthand. For a company that has a long and deep commitment to providing excellent customer service, the prospect of new ownership could have proven challenging. But, according to Watson, the transition has been remarkable.

"We still have the great customer service that attracted our customers to us, and that's what helped draw the attention of U.S. Corrugated to us," says Watson. "But going into U.S. Corrugated has opened us up to so much more. We have the ability to go into more facilities and offer more products than we ever could have without U.S. Corrugated."

U.S. Corrugated is a nationally recognized leader in corrugated box manufacturing, with eight facilities spread across the continent and several more planned. The company's wide geographic area provides U.S. Corrugated with a nimble, rapid response mentality and the reach to deliver products in a much larger market than a local company could ever hope to achieve. Meanwhile, there have been additional benefits, as well, in customer consistency and time to delivery.

Watson recalls the moments after a tornado struck the heart of Monroe in October. The Louisville facility was left damaged and without power. Instead of calling customers to let them know orders would be delayed, Watson and her team were on the phone with sister facilities in the U.S. Corrugated family, shifting work orders and making sure that customers weren't impacted. "In turn, that keeps us from shutting down the customer and avoiding delays to that customer," says Watson. "It's helped our customer service a lot, having those other facilities to work with, to give us that little padding when something like the tornado happens in our facility."

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Efficient, dedicated customer service is vital to the success of any endeavor. Nowhere is that more true than at U.S. Corrugated, where customers depend on the products U.S. Corrugated provides to deliver, in turn, their own products to the end consumer. The slightest hiccup in scheduling could send ripples throughout the entire supply chain and upset production schedules in any number of markets.

That's something U.S. Corrugated customers know they can avoid because of the company's diversity of resources.

Meanwhile, U.S. Corrugated continues to expand in all areas of its operations, and that includes the customer service division, where plans are to add additional representatives in the near future. Watson notes one area in which the company is expanding is in their service to Fort Smith, AR Graphic Packaging, as well as the Monroe area. The customer service expansion underway includes adding a U.S. Corrugated representative at the facility, to handle all of Graphic Packaging's corrugated box scheduling and ordering. While this is taking place, the team continues to grow through additional sales, customer service, and cross-facility training. In fact, Watson is headed out of town for a few days of training and scheduling in another U.S. Corrugated facility.

This level of customer service is important to U.S. Corrugated because it shows the client the level of dedication the company has to their success. Watson and her team recognize the intrinsic value in frequent and vital interactions with their clients, be that interaction by phone, email, or a site visit. "If you don't have good customer service you're not going to keep customers very long," says Watson. "We have an excellent customer service team. We strive to make sure every one of our customers is taken care of on a daily basis."

She's proud of the work she and her colleagues are accomplishing in Monroe. "When you have a good customer service representative taking care of that customer on a daily basis, they're going to continue to be a customer for a long time. I believe the skills and relationships that we have with our customers makes it more appealing for them to stay with us," Watson says.

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a fun reunion working with him again.” Zentner is familiar with the fast talking salesman “Professor” Harold Hill, having played the role originally in a small production while in college.

Says Zentner of his onstage alter-ego, “Harold is a fascinating character.

Most people are instantly turned off by con artists, but he has a curiously infectious quality. And in the end, his virtuous side is revealed. I just wish he would talk a little more slowly. Keeping up with that cadence is a particular challenge for this slow drawling Southerner.”

One of Zentner’s favorite production numbers in The Music Man is “Wells Fargo Wagon.”

That song “really gets the whole cast into it,” says

THE MUSIC MAN Scott Zentner Takes Center Stage | By Maré Brennan

r. Scott Zentner, local psychiatrist, husband to Maggie, dad to Mac and musical prodigy Margaret Ann, is set to play the lead role of the fast-talking salesman, “Professor” Harold Hill in Strauss Theatre Center’s upcoming production of The Music Man. The good doctor is no stranger to musical theatre and has been an ardent supporter of the Strauss Theatre for many years. How long? “Well, it's been a while,” explained Zentner, “But about 15 years ago, I was in "Faces" at the Strauss, which was a collage of musical numbers from The Music Man, Oklahoma, Chicago, Cabaret and others. Scot Baronet also directed that.”

Baronet is reprising his role as the director for the upcoming run of The Music Man at the Strauss. Continues Zentner, “It's been

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Zentner. “From the kiddos to the geros (and I consider myself in the latter category). It's such a happy song. Also, the Wells Fargo Wagon is sort of like a metaphorical Santa Claus, delivering Christmas presents, but in July.”

Zentner and his brother, Tommy, are famous for their spontaneous serenades.

Says Zentner, “I don't know how that all got started, but I could probably trace it back to childhood memories of singing along at the piano with our older sister, who was a natural. One thing's for sure...talent has never been a prerequisite for either my brother or I to break into song, as many unfortunate observers can attest.”

Zentner’s signature song of choice?

“Sinatra has such a big repertoire, so any-

one of his can fit the occasion,” says Zentner. “But Bobby Darin's “Mack the Knife,” like “Trouble” from The Music Man, will wake up a crowd at a reserved party. Typically, though, I don't get asked to sing until the host is ready to break up the crowd.”

Which begs the question, “What could Zentner family Christmases possibly be like?” “They are known to be all-day marathons. Well, of course, there is food and drink...and singing...and typically more drinking...and more singing...then sleep, whether or not we can make it to the bed first,” laughs Zentner.

In the Strauss production, the role of Marion the Librarian is actually double casted with two beautiful talents, Gayle Fricke and Claire Vangelisti, amazing vocalists and seasoned veterans of the stage.

Marion's younger brother, Winthrop, is played by Benjamin Matherne, who joins several member of his talented family in this production.

If you have never set foot into the Strauss Theatre Center, The Music Man provides multiple reasons to buy your tickets today. Says Zentner, “I think that even though The Music Man is set in the summertime, it will certainly get people in the Christmas spirit with its upbeat musical score, bright costumes and wholesome story, which the entire family can enjoy. It also transports us back to a more carefree time, which we can all use these days. The Strauss is a real treasure in our Arts community and definitely worth preserving.

Please become a member today. And I looking forward to seeing you all at The Music Man.”

THE MUSIC MAN PERFORMANCES December 11-13, 18 & 20 7:00 pm for Friday & Saturday performances 2:00 pm for Sunday performances (Saturday Dec 20th will have a 2:00 performance and a 7:00 performance) www.strausstheatrecenter.com

Deck the Walls

Portraits from Albritton Photography Make the Perfect Gift for Family

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HE HOLIDAY SEASON IS IN FULL SWING.THIS IS THE busiest time of year for almost everyone. When thinking of gifts for your family, you most likely will want to choose something personal and thoughtful. Portraits make wonderful gifts for family members. If your parents or grandparents are anything like mine, they already have everything they need as far as clothes, electronics and gadgets. What I hear from so many people is that they just simply want a portrait of their children or family.

We all tend to get busy and a lot of us don’t take the time to have professional portraits made. Sure, we all have photos on our phones, computers and tablets. But what happens when those crash and break? Plus, you can’t very well hang your phone or tablet on the wall in your home. I am seriously afraid there will be a whole generation who is left without photographs to display and show their children. Maybe you should think about taking advantage of the portrait specials and the season to have portraits taken. Make it a priority to record your family’s history with photographs. But most importantly, give your parents and grandparents a gift that will warm their hearts.

Not only does Albritton Photography have portrait specials for the season, but many may not realize that we offer portrait programs for children of all ages. Our programs, Once Upon a Lifetime and Footsteps, are timeless. Once Upon a Lifetime is a first year portrait program starting at 3 months of age. Footsteps is an album program that can start anytime. Many people start it with maternity and newborn portraits. The great thing about these programs is that you get portraits of all your child’s stages organized and well presented to display and keep forever. Our clients always tell us how much they cherish their albums and portraits. Capturing a child’s life and creating memories that are priceless is what we love to do.

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idea to think long and hard when choosing one. Albritton Photography is professionally trained, certified and reputable. We have been in business for over 30 years and have a great reputation. Ask around! So whether you want your baby, family or high school senior photographed and you want the best, choose Albritton Photography in West Monroe. We have a full service studio and 3 acres of outdoor studio built just for photography. Staci (owner/photographer), Dionne (studio manager), Toni (portrait artist) and Holly (production artist) are ready to serve you. Come by and visit our studio or call 324-9118 for more information.

Happy Holidays,

Staci Albritton

Albritton Photography will be offering Christmas Specials until December 19. Don’t miss out on a great opportunity!

Santa & Mrs. Claus are coming!

Where? A Kid’s Closet When? Saturday, Dec. 6 What time? 9:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.

Packages will start at $40

Albritton Photography is located at 406 North 6th Street in West Monroe, LA. Browse their website, www.albrittonphotgraphy.com to view Staci’s extensive portfolio.

Staci is a Certified Professional Photographer through the Professional Photographers of America and a member of Professional Photographers of Louisiana Besides photographing people, Staci loves times time with her family, gardening, fishing and being involved in community and civic organizations.

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PULMONARY Ronald Hammett, MD Dr. Hammett specializes in critical care medicine, internal medicine and pulmonology. His services include treatment of disease and infection of the respiratory tract including cystic fibrosis, pneumonia, asthma, tuberculosis, emphysema and chest infections.

CARDIOLOGY P.Thomas Causey, Jr., MD, FACC Dr. Causey is a fellow of the American Board of Cardiology and is board certified in cardiovascular disease. His services involve the evaluation and management of patients with known or suspected heart disease.

UROLOGY Edward Rutland, M.D. Dr. Edward Rutland is a board certified urology specialist and the only robotically trained urologist in Northeast Louisiana. His services include the evaluation and treatment of bladder, kidney and prostate cancer, kidney stones, urinary incontinence, vasectomy and erectile dysfunction.

Glenwood Medical Group administrative offices are located at 503 McMillan Road, in Glenwood Regional Medical Center, West Monroe. For more information, call (318) 329-4200 or visit www.glenwoodmedicalgroup.com.

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Decorations? Mushroom soup? That ongoing to-do list will help you keep track of what you already have and what needs to be purchased.

Sort through your child’s toys and clothing - Mark off thirty minutes in your schedule to sort through toys and clothing that your child has outgrown. The holiday is a perfect time to donate them to another child in need, and it will help you make more room for this year’s gifts as well.

Sort through your old decorations - As you unpack your decorations this year, throw away and/or donate any items that you don’t like or want anymore. Your home should be filled with items you love and use.

As I stated before, the key to creating a stress-free and organized holiday is by being pro-active!! Prepare now and save your sanity later.

Happy Holidays!

Erin Sharplin Love, owner of Panache by Erin, is a Certified Fashion and Image Consultant, Professional Organizer and Certified Wedding Coordinator whose specialties include outfit coordination and closet organization. Love has a knack for helping her fashion clients develop their own personal style, as well as helping her wedding clients create the wedding of their dreams within their budget and without the stress. To learn more, please go to www.panachebyerin.com.

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The Most Wonderful Time of the Year Decking the Halls with Paul Michael Company

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HE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF the year has finally arrived, and the staffers here at Paul Michael Company have dreamed up some of the most extravagant and inspiring Christmas designs to demonstrate to shoppers and fellow staff just how creative and versatile one look can be.

From traditional red and green to elegant black tie or distinctive peacock hues, the looks we have this year at Paul Michael Company have inspired some playful and grand displays. Shoppers and staff alike, who haven’t seen the adorned trees that become the centerpieces of each look, have described taking a trip around the store as the equivalent to hopping in the car with the kids and driving around town to see all of the Christmas lights. It certainly is an experience that will inspire and entertain!

“How do these looks come to be?” some may ask. The buyers for the Paul Michael Company attend gift and home furnishing markets across the United States and abroad to bring customers the very latest in design and decorator products. While at market, the buying team establishes the "looks" for the next season. The buyers then put together a "lookbook" for the store as a guideline for each display. From there, it is up to our gifted designers at each store location to bring these looks to life.

For the holiday season we always try to bring new Christmas inspiration to our looks

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while still offering an assortment of the traditional Christmas red and green. One of our more colorful looks this year is Candy Sprinkles; a very youthful, whimsical look inspired by Mrs. Claus’ candy shop. It’s filled with candy-themed, colorful accessories that convey a very playful Christmas look. More modern and elegant, our Black Tie Affair look is inspired by the way Paul and Debbie Michael entertain at Christmas.

A mature, but fanciful Christmas look transitions from Christmas to New Year’s Eve seamlessly. Black Tie Affair focuses on black and white patterns, embellished with silver sparkles and crystal accessories. Peacock Alley brings together many different hues of blue and green to create the perfect peacock look. Blues and greens with touches of bronze and gold may not seem like an appropriate Christmas color palette to some, but seeing all of these elements come to life might change what you think of traditional red and green!

While sparkles and dynamic color combinations make for lively displays, we take just as much pride in our softer looks. Cabin Fever, as we like to call it, brings together rustic and natural elements to create a cozy Christmas atmosphere. Coupled with burlaps and plaids, these rustic and natural components bring together the comforts of a “Rocky Mountain Christmas.” Muted col-

ors and wooden adornments complete our Bohoho look; a Bohemian take on Christmas that allows for color with natural elements.

Snowflake ornaments constructed with straw and colorful, wooden Christmas trees are just a few of the quirky elements we use to create our Bohoho look.

Because we place so much emphasis on presenting customers with the most imaginative combinations of products we can with the hopes that shoppers will be inspired to transform their own homes, it is often forgotten that we are a reliable center for gift items.

Paul’s newest line of live-edge walnut cutting boards finished with aluminum bases are definite gifting favorites, as well as our handcrafted, reclaimed wood wall letters.

Because our Paul Michael Company Exclusive pieces are made from locally harvested woods, reclaimed architectural elements and upcycled materials and are handcrafted with care by Paul and the boys at our Dermott, AR woodshop. They are gifting the go-to’s company-wide. We feel handcrafted items make for a more personal gift experience.

Tea towels, wine accessories, amethysts, bakeware, serveware and a vast variety of home décor accessories are just the beginning of our gifting options. Let us be your inspiration for everything you need on your tree this holiday season – and underneath it.

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THE CAMELS ARE COMING

HOLIDAY TRADITION F rom S ears a nd R oeb uc k to F ir st C hr is t ia n C hur c h

BY MIC H AEL D EVA ULT

Sometime in early November of each year, the Lexan sign in the lawn of First Christian Church makes an announcement: "THE CAMELS ARE COMING!" With this simple phrase, the church on the corner of Forsythe Avenue and Loop Road continues a Twin Cities holiday tradition that is more than forty years old. It began when Sears and Roebuck moved into its shiny new store on Louisville Avenue near 18th Street. At the time of the move, retail was still centered in downtown Monroe, and the location, though new, was still in a relatively undeveloped part of town.

To draw attention to the store, a visual merchandiser arranged for Sears to purchase a Christmas display--three wise men on

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camels and a bright, electric star--that the store would position atop its roof. And thus one of Monroe's earliest heralds of Christmas was born.

For twenty years or so, the Sears location featured the camels. Each season, the camels would appear without fanfare atop the building on the day after Thanksgiving, the traditional first Christmas shopping day and the day retail stores unveiled their Christmas displays. There the camels would remain, too, until the day after Christmas, when they would silently vanish, only to reappear the following year.

The tradition appeared to be over when Sears announced it would be moving to a new store. The camels would no longer go up, a

tradition that would fall victim to the continued shift of retail shopping to large, indoor malls. For the Ford family of West Monroe, though, the thought of losing the camels was too much. Sybil Ford arranged for the camels to come to her West Monroe home, and for the next few years, the tradition didn't just survive, it thrived.

There was just one problem. Even in the days before Twitter and Instagram, the camels were celebrities. Thousands of visitors a year would file by in their automobiles, slow down to take pictures and clog up the street. The Ford family’s neighbors were understandably upset. So Sybil Ford decided to stop displaying the camels.

That's when they found their third home, this time back in Monroe, on the banks of Bayou DeSiard. Since the early 1990s, on the first Saturday after Thanksgiving, the camels miraculously appear on the lawn of First Christian Church. People drive by, they pose for pictures and the tradition is preserved. In fact, it's become a permanent part of the legacy of First Christian Church, according to their pastor, Dr. Craig Ferguson.

"We do it, because it's become something the community identifies us with," said Ferguson. "A lot of people know our church by the camels going up every year."

For several years, First Christian Church even made a festival day out of it, with food and refreshments, live music and fellowship.

And even though the Camel Day festivities are in the past, the tradition lives on, thanks to the dedication of a string of stewards stretching back to a visual merchandiser. For his part, Ferguson is proud his church continues the tradition.

"We enjoy creating a warm community environment at Christmas time, and it's such a part of our community now," said Ferguson.

But, the camels aren't just a marketing ploy anymore. Instead, they're part of a deeper, symbolic connection to the celebration of the birth of Jesus.

According to tradition, the three wise men perched on the camels were traveling to Bethlehem to pay respects to the new king.

With them, they brought gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. Ferguson said acknowledging and celebrating the birth of Christ is one of the most important parts of the season.

Those camels help do just that.

"It really tells the story of Christmas," he said.

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LAND OF TOYS

CHRISTMAS OF YESTERYEAR H o wa rd G riff in L an d O ’ T oys | BY MI CH AE L D E V AU LT

Howard Griffin Land O' Toys Loads of fun for girls and boys Bring the kids and look around The biggest toy deal in the town If you're of a certain age and from the area, those words come with a bit of music, and they put a smile on your face. In the 1960s, they had the power to usher joy into the hearts and excitement into the minds of children from Vicksburg to Shreveport. For 11 months of the year, the Howard Griffin building on South Grand street in Monroe was home to a fleet of boats and motorcycles looking for homes. But sometime in November, the boats vanished and the motorcycles were hidden away and, as if by a miracle, the entire building was transformed into a winter wonderland of toys.

Santa waited on his giant chair. There were dolls, pedal cars, Tinker Toys, footballs.

Whatever a kid could want, they could find.

There was even a train. Sometime just before Thanksgiving, every kid in the region would begin to grow antsy and ask ceaselessly when they would make the first of many trips that year to the big blue and brick building on the river.

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For Monroe resident Scott Tisdale, the excitement of Christmas began each year when the jingle appeared on the television. "When I would see the commercial on T.V., I knew it was time," said Tisdale, who still lives in Monroe. "I will never forget the jingle."

And what magic awaited? Toys. Acres of toys stacked six deep on floor-to-ceiling shelves. There were dolls and play kitchens and Easy Bake Ovens for the girls. For the boys there were BB guns, footballs and erector sets. And for both, there were row after row of bicycles. More than one of Tisdale's boyhood bicycles came from the Land O' Toys.

The store was the brainchild of the Howard family, area retail mavens who had a penchant for promotion. Just the jingle was so catchy that it remains today a defacto Christmas song for many visitors to the store.

For twenty years, Land O' Toys reigned over the toy scene and the imaginations of the kids who clamored to go. Tisdale said sometimes his parents would plan the family's trip to Howard Griffin Land O' Toys for days, building up his anticipation until he couldn't bear it.

"Sometimes, it would be a surprise," Tisdale said. Either way, a trip to Howard Griffin Land O' Toys was a treat. "As a kid, it was like Santa's toy store."

But, times were changing, and by the end

of the 1970s, Twin City Mall was beginning to take center stage. Also, major retailers in the area were expanding their offerings of toys during the busy Christmas season. For Howard Griffin Land O' Toys, times were changing too quickly. An attempt to take the show to the Twin City Mall prolonged the tradition for a couple of years but ultimately couldn't save it. Howard Griffin Land O' Toys became a memory.

For more than 25 years, the iconic "Howard Griffin" sign hung over the empty building, and for those who had experienced the magic, it was hard to drive by and see the four-foot-tall red letters without singing the jingle to themselves. A fire destroyed the building in 2011.

Kids still get excited about toy store trips or the quick jaunt to the toy section of the big box retailer. But with a standing toy section and major toy store, the toy store experience loses a little something special. Tisdale said the experience of Howard Griffin Land O' Toys was unlike anything today.

"There's no comparison to me," Tisdale said. "The excitement was...everything was Christmas."

Photography courtesy of Ken Purcell

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CHRISTMAS CARD LANE

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Christmas and car trips have long been synonomous. There are the trips families take to Grandma's house, out to the Christmas tree farm or to the toy store. But one area neighborhood nestled in the heart of North Monroe wasn't getting away to somewhere else. They were instead the destination.

Just ask Georgia Street, who has lived on Sauvelle Drive since 1969. Sauvelle is one of seven streets near Bayou DeSiard that run between Forsythe Avenue and Fort Miro Drive. For almost fifty years, their neighborhood was defined by the holiday season. In fact, for many people, the collection of streets is simply known as Christmas Card Lane.

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Sometime after Thanksgiving every year, the residents erected a homemade, wooden Christmas card in their yard. Street recalls that the cards themselves were all the creative creations of the residents of each house, homemade testimonies to the spirts of the individuals themselves. "The cards were as varied as the people in the houses," she said. Some were creative outpourings of holiday spirit. Others were straight up greets that featured familiar tropes, such as nativity scenes, Christmas trees and mangers.

Though it started out as large Christmas Card displays, few residents stopped there.

Most displayed other holiday wares, including other wooden cutouts, cotton-ball snow-

men, and even Christmas lights. By the time the 1970s rolled around, a few of the lighting displays were worthy of Clark Grizwold.

The entire event was coordinated each year. Sometime in early November, residents would receive a letter instructing them when to put their cards up and when to take them down. This level of cooperation may seem a bit much, but it was necessary. After all, between Thanksgiving and Christmas, tens of thousands of cars would file slowly through the neighborhood. Beginning at sundown, until well into the night, people from all walks of life and all over northeastern Louisiana would drive past the homes to view the cards. Without planning, living in the neighborhood could have become impossible. Even with the planning, it could be difficult.

"I remember one night, we had been out at an event and, when we got home, we couldn't get into our driveway," Street said.

Cars were blocking their access, and she and her husband had to fall into line to make it home. By the late 1970s, with more than twenty years of Christmas card celebrations under their belts, the residents along the Christmas Card Lane route were growing weary. "The success of it was the beginning of the end of it."

Still, the tradition persisted well into the 1980s, when at last, the handful of residents who coordinated the effort each year moved away and the letters stopped coming. Even now, more than twenty years since the last Christmas Card Lane display, Street said people ask her about it. And for older residents, the neighborhood is an indelible link to a bygone era.

Like so many other traditions of Christmas of Yesteryear, this one may not be out of life, either. Recent efforts at ULM and other schools for Greek Life and student organizations to create Christmas Card displays have rekindled the Christmas spirit. More and more families are getting in on the act, too, and adding Christmas card displays to their holiday decorations.

Could Christmas Card Lane make a comeback? Who knows. But Street is certainly one resident who's open to the idea.

"It would be great if some of those nice young couples who’ve moved into the area would unite and start it up again!" she said.

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PICKING THE PERFECT TREE Finding The Tree That Is Right For Your Home | By Michael DeVault

he day after Thanksgiving, the family piles in the Tahoe and heads down to the corner nursery over to the big box home improvement retailer. For others, instead of a retailer, they take a trip to the country. The goal is the same: finding the perfect Christmas tree.

To be fair, there are a lot of choices available and many more factors to consider.

Just ask Grace Pepper, who operates Pepper Christmas Tree Farm with her husband, Joe. At Pepper Christmas Tree Farm, customers stroll the lanes between live trees, searching for that one that speaks to their needs.

"We grow Leyland Cypress, Carolina Spruce and Blue Ice," says Pepper, who adds that Blue Ice is one of the varieties that provide a hearty Christmas tree smell. She adds, helpfully, "If you have allergies, you'll want to go with the Leyland Cypress."

Smell is just one of the many considerations to take into account before selecting the perfect tree. Also consider constraints of

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the space. Does it lend itself to a tall, thinner tree that tapers gently, as do many Leyland Cypress. Or perhaps the thinner, spindly branches of a Silvertip Fir offers better aesthetics. Douglas and Fraser Firs have their benefits, too, as both trees weather long display periods. On that front, Pepper has a tip.

"Faithfully water your tree," she says, whether you're buying a fresh cut tree from their farm or a previously cut tree from a retailer. "If you water your tree, it'll last quite some time," she says. Also, Pepper says avoid placing the tree directly beneath an air vent, as the hot air will hasten drying out the tree.

Height plays an important role in trees, too. Most people have a 9' ceiling, and they sometimes think that means they can buy a 9' tree. That's not so. "If they get a 9' tree, they're going to be very unhappy," Pepper says. Instead, leave about a foot of clearance.

That'll keep the top of the tree from rubbing against the ceiling and still allows a couple

of inches for the stand.

If you want to bring a touch of winter wonderland to your living room, perhaps flocking is for you. Flocking is a process in which artificial snow is sprayed onto the tree. Typical materials used in flocking are cellulose or cotton fibers and a mild adhesive. Some flocking materials contain mica or glitter, which adds a touch of sparkle to a tree. Other flocking materials include a flame retardant to help protect your Christmas tree from accidental fires. Flocking is available at most Christmas tree retailers, including the Pepper Christmas Tree farm.

Picking a live Christmas tree from a farm is a bit of an adventure. "If you're coming out to the farm to buy a tree, look at the trunk to make sure it's as straight as possible," she says. That way, it will stand straight and level. There are benefits to a live cut tree, too. "When you buy a real tree from a Christmas tree farm, you know it's fresh," Pepper says.

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JUST DESSERTS C H R I ST M A S T R E ATS F O R A S W E E T S E A S O N

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t's the most wonderful time of the year...especially for those with a sweet tooth. From the candy canes of Germany to the flying chocolate bells of Italy, every culture has its own, unique culinary traditions that go hand in hand with Christmas celebrations. Our neck of the woods is no different, and BayouLife has sought out five of the best confection creations to help satiate those holiday sweets cravings.

As we explored the hundreds of desserts offered by the culinary masters of our region, similar threads began to emerge, the textures and flavors shared by each of the selections. After a while, a picture of the holiday dessert began to form, sweet, savory, a hint of spicy, and in pretty much everything is butter, which brings a fulfilling richness to every bite. Cinnamon, nutmeg, and a dash of ginger ranked among the most impressive of the tastes we sampled.

In the end, though, BayouLife selected just five of the masterful treats, dishes that best symbolize the achievement and joy that is the perfect holiday dessert. With treats from several of our area's most popular bakers and chefs, the December edition of BayouEats is sure to leave you craving a sugar fix. So don that ugly Christmas sweater, snuggle up with a hot butter rum and get ready to dig into Christmas on the Bayou.

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PEPPE R MI NT TUM M Y Y UM M Y CR E AT IO NS A s h ley & B ob W i lson For Bob and Ashley Wilson, Tummy Yummy Creations began as a labor of love. An accountant by trade, Ashley was working for International Paper when she became pregnant. Bob discussed their future with his wife, and the couple decided she would become a stay-at-home mom. Sometimes, plans don't work out the way we plan.

"About six months in, she realized she wanted to be doing something," Bob said. The couple did not have to look very far to find a suitable pastime for Ashley. In fact, she was already doing it. "She liked to bake, so she started to bake."

At first, the business was based out of the couple's kitchen. Cookie orders for schools and businesses blossomed into holiday baskets.

Eventually, they realized it was time to make a move. They opened Tummy Yummy Creations in 2006, in the space above the Rialto Antique Mall in West Monroe. Two years later, Tummy Yummy moved again to its current location on Natchitoches Street. The rest, well that's the just desserts.

We started out doing decorated cookies," Bob said. "But as the business grew, we expanded into cupcakes, cakes and chocolates."

Today, Tummy Yummy is a full service bakery, dishing out cakes, candies and other sweets to a steady stream of walk-in customers. They added plate lunches a couple of years back, as well.

The Wilsons say they look forward to the holiday season, because everyone has that favorite Christmas memory, which is really what it's all about. "I don't think desserts as a whole need to be overly sweet, maybe just a hint of sweetness," said Bob. "But most importantly, especially for Christmas, are the memories."

Tummy Yummy prides itself on building iconic flavors from cinnamon, vanilla and peppermint. As Bob put it, "It brings back memories of your childhood." Perhaps that's why, each year, Tummy Yummy sells dozens of pound-sized jars of its signature dessert: peppermint bark.

A thick layer of rich milk chocolate is melted, topped with peppermint-flavored bark, and dusted with tiny, spicy flecks of real peppermint.

Once it cools, this melt-in-your-mouth treat is the absolute flavor of Christmas. Tummy Yummy even makes it ready to gift, with each serving of Peppermint bark jarred and topped in a genuine Mason jar.

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CHRIS T MA S idr ea m ca k e v ic k i e m i tc h el l Vickie Mitchell has been baking for more than 30 years, but it wasn't until a few years ago that she started thinking of it as a business. At the time, she was running a home-based bakery, preparing wedding cake masterpieces to order. One morning, she realized something had to change.

"It started taking over the house, and we decided to open a bakery, because we didn't have room for all the cakes we were doing," Mitchell said. So the home-based business found a location on North 7th Street in West Monroe, where they set up shop making designer cakes and wedding cakes. "We do fondant work more than anything," said Mitchell.

For the holidays, iDream Cake doesn't draw the line at cakes, though. They can do everything. "We do a full-fare Christmas.

Chicken and dumplings, turkey, dressing and full meals with pumpkin rolls," she says. A popular dish during the season is the Winter Wonderland Cake, a dreamscape of sweetness.

"It's airbrushed light blue, with snow and icicles." Butter Cream snowmen and icingdipped trees finish out the landscape.

When it comes to cakes, at iDream Cake the name says it all. "Whatever you dream up, we make it happen," said Mitchell. "We've done hundreds of Elsa cakes. They're very popular right now because of the movie 'Frozen'."

When it comes to the quintessential Christmas dessert, iDream Cake has you covered with their fresh, made-from-scratch cupcakes. Each cupcake is an artistic creation, a holiday masterpiece sure to inspire visions of sugarplums. Save room for two! Light, moist white cake is topped with a rich, sweet, royal icing. Then, blending both edible and decorative elements, the cupcake is finished out in true holiday spirit. Perhaps you'll find a snowman next to Santa Claus. There are Christmas Trees and poinsettias, too. Whatever you want, it's there, waiting fresh just for you.

"We make cupcakes fresh every day.

None of our products are frozen. Everything we do is fresh," said Mitchell.

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THURM AN ’ S F OO D FACTO RY TH U RMA N DIC K E Y Thurman Dickey has come a long way since his days of selling candy and groceries wholesale for F. Strauss and Sons. He's grown over the years, but his roots as a wholesaler are never far from memory. "I learned the ropes about different kinds of foods there," Dickey told BayouLife. After opening a string of successful in-store delis in McLemore Jitney Jungles--a new innovation for the region--Dickey decided the time was right to strike out on his own. By 1989, Thurman's Food Factory was up and running, a permanent fixture in the Monroe culinary scene.

Holidays are always big at Thurman's Food Factory, where Dickey and his staff spend their time making homemade candies, baking cakes, and taking orders for Christmas turkeys. "We do a world of pralines, fudge, and divinity," Dickey said. In addition to candies, they provide seasonal hits such as fruit cakes and pies in a dozen varieties. "We can do most anything you want." What's at the forefront of the list? The bûche de Noël.

A traditional, silky chocolate sponge cake is removed from the oven and, while still hot, rolled until it cools. This maintains the spiraled layers inside. Once the cake has cooled, it is unrolled and a light, fluffy chocolate ganache is spread evenly over the entire surface. Once the ganache cools, the cake is rolled up again and iced in chocolate, decorated with edible holly sprigs or poinsettias or even with tiny meringue mushrooms. The real magic comes when the cake is sliced.

"When you slice it, the rings look like the inside of a big log," Dickey said. The cake is a traditional favorite that harkens from Christmas celebrations in France and other francophone regions, where Yule logs serve as a centerpiece of the holiday season. Bûche de Noël is a rich, velvety way to say goodbye to Fall and hello to the cold embrace of Winter, a remembrance of a time when Yule logs flickered in hearths around the world. "They would burn the logs and keep the ashes from the logs as good luck for the next year. The cake grew from that tradition."

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HO LIDAY A LLB RI T TO N’ S C AK E H O U SE KATHY AL LBR I T TO N P H IL L IP S Kathy Phillips remembers watching her mother navigate baking masterful cakes in their family's kitchen when she was a little girl. It's no surprise now, 30 years later, she's in her own West Monroe kitchen baking cakes. After all, it's all she knows. "My mother has done it my whole life. I followed in her footsteps," Phillips said.

Allbritton's Cake House and Catering specializes in specialty cakes. They also offer a full range of pies, cookies and homemade candies.

As Phillips tells it, they're a one-stop shop for pretty much every food need. "We do gift baskets and catering, and we offer daily lunches, as well."

Today, Allbritton's Cake House and Catering is Phillips's own. She keeps a staff busy serving delicous treats. But, there's always an extra set of hands near by. Now 89, her mother, Gloria, is still involved. "If I need her, she'll come up and help and, even at 89, she can still work circles around the girls." For the Allbrittons, this business is a family thing. "It's exciting when people tell you how good your stuff is, especially when you do it from scratch.

Phillips says one of the Cake House's most popular preparations is something she calls 4layer Delight, Cool Whip, chocolate pudding, cream cheese, and pecans topped with powdered sugar. "Most all of my customers, who get it say that's their favorite," said Phillips, who notes she'll sell many of the dessert casseroles during the holidays. But their most popular item, and one of her personal favorites, are decorated holiday cookies.

"They're made from scratch," said Phillips.

Each cookie is light, fluffy and just crispy enough to flake. Thin, but not too thin, and sweet, but not too sweet, the hand-rolled, hand-decorated creations are each tiny works of art. There is Santa Claus, his giant red belly frocked with icing. And underneath that green Christmas tree, there's a gift. Rudolph's nose is red, too.

And don't try to eat just one. Allbritton's Cake House cookies are addictive, and you'll find yourself going back to the tray again and again.

There's a reason for that, Phillips reveals with a wink. "They're made with real butter and topped with butter cream icing, not the royal icing."

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MIN T Y RU BY’ S BA KERY M EG AN D B E N DO U GH TY Six years ago, Meg Doughty took a job in a bakery. She wanted to learn more about the craft she enjoyed, and Ruby's Bakery seemed like the place to do it. Named for the original owner's grandmother, Ruby's Bakery had quickly established itself as a Monroe northside tradition. A little over a year ago, Meg and Ben were presented with the chance to become their own bosses. They bought the bakery. "It was a great opportunity for us at the time," said Meg. Owning Ruby's was like a dream come true for Meg. Over the years, she had worked in a number of jobs, from a position with a country club to a job in a seminary. Nothing satisfied her the way baking would. "It's the only job I've ever had that I truly enjoyed," Meg said. She loves every aspect of baking, from perfecting recipes to decorating the finished product. That passion shows in her work, too.

Decorated Christmas cookies take their spot each season beside Ruby's other dessert offerings. "They sell out as fast as we can make them," Meg said. People come in for popular cookies, see the Christmas creations, and buy those as well. If you're going to try a Ruby's creation, Meg suggests the Lemon Cookie, a soft, chewy cookie with a lemony glaze. "That's become what we're really known for," Meg said. "It's similar to a sugar cookie, but with a strong, lemon flavor."

Another popular item is the Blue Suede Cupcake, the Ruby's take on red velvet. "It's a white chocolate cupcake, colored blue, with a cream cheese icing. No one else offers a similar flavor in the area," Meg said.

For the Christmas party, though, pick up a dozen or so macaroons. These tiny treats are crafted to perfection, with a light, airy crunch and creamy finish that will keep your guests coming back to the buffet again and again.

Buttery, rich and fully Christmas, each macaroon is an artistic creation of its own.

Meg sees to that herself, and she adds snowmen, trees and the most amazing icing snowflakes imaginable. Each cookie is a unique work of art, and while you may think about saving it forever, your taste buds win.

And just as that first Ruby's Bakery macaroon melts away, it's time to try another one.

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Christmas With KidZ The Great Cookie Swap | By Cindy Foust

ometimes, you just have to call it like you see it…and the way I see it, our world has gone completely bonkers. The urban dictionary defines bonkers as "bananas, nuts, crazy, wild, ballistic, cuckoo." Cuckoo, now there's a word I like better and find even more appropriate for what's going on in the news today (no, I'm not talking about election advertising). For starters, did anyone notice one of the "hot, must-have" baby costumes for Halloween, 2014, which happened to be a marijuana leaf?

No, really? Or how about Kim "Karbonkersidian" suggesting she was going to "break the Internet" by showcasing her rather voluptuous "rear-end" in the buff? Or worse, she placed a wine glass "atop" her mountain top and popped a bottle of champagne, hoping to catch the bubbly with her bottom. The only thing I think she will break is her record for the most ridiculous publicity stunts in the world. What exactly is our world coming to?

The examples are children are given to follow in the media are so warped it makes me want to take my children and move to Montana (oh,

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and live on the land.) I write frequently about wanting my children to have wholesome, Christian role models that help build their character. Admittedly, they have lots of those around them, but like other parents, I also hope we are giving our children some of these values at home. Quite simply, I consider being a parent the hardest aspect of my life. And it seems this time of year, with the holidays quickly approaching…again (didn't we just put our Christmas decorations in the attic?), I get a little nostalgic and start longing for those days of Christmas past, like way past, when life was much simpler; when life didn't involve smart phones, X-Box and cable television. My dad always subscribed to the philosophy that the family that plays together stays together. Since I started my own family, I have tried to subscribe to that same parenting philosophy, and through this column, I also write to encourage families to find time to spend together by suggesting ideas that would help them build family traditions. Just call me the "Family Fairy", you know, like Glenda the Good Witch, only instead of a pink

dress and tiara, I wear black fleece warm-ups and a ponytail. Last Christmas, I know my readers will remember, because they hang on every word I write and commit my stories to permanent memory, I suggested some different Christmas activities to make us slow down and enjoy the holidays. Well, this Christmas will be no different. In fact, the Family Fairy is going to give you another option for establishing a Christmas tradition that your children will love, and I can assure you it doesn't have anything to do with insane costumes or naked derrieres. In fact, I'm going to wave my magic wand, and give you step-by-step instructions for planning the greatest Cookie Swap you've ever been to (if I'm guessing, probably the only Cookie Swap you've ever been to). I know what you are thinking…this idea is about as cuckoo as catching champagne on your tush, because no one has time to even go to the grocery store anymore, much less bake cookies and organize a party. But think of the memories you will create for your children and their friends. It might take a little work, a little planning, but the effort will be worth it in the end (you will have to get a personal trainer and your mouth wired shut after you gain 20 pounds from eating 8 dozen cookies, but just call me and I will wave my wand and make those pounds disappear). Now, blow the dust off that planner, sit down with your pen and notebook (and your calendar) and plan a cookie bonanza (by the way, if your children are out of the house, plan one of these for your friends…they will love it, too!).

STEP ONE: Plan a date, and don't be disappointed when you don't get 100% participation. It is the holiday season after all, and people will have conflicts. Don't stress out over invitations, just print some on the computer, and get them out 2-3 weeks in advance.

You can either ask your guests to bring their own Christmas platter or tin to take their cookies back home, or you can be a really gracious hostess and provide the tins for them.

STEP TWO: Decide exactly how many invitations you want to send. This step is important because you must have your guests bring 6-12 cookies for every invite you send. If you send 10 invitations, your guests need to bring at least 60 cookies (5 dozen), so that each guest will take home that many cookies.

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P H OT OG RAP H Y B Y M AR T IN G M EY ER S | AR T IC LE B Y M ARÉ B R ENN AN

Nick McKinney (or St. Nick as called by BayouLife Magazine staffers) is ready for holiday cheer. Nick has created this naturally beautiful Yuletide wreath from elements literally gathered from his backyard. “Christmas is all about indigenous foliage,” says Nick. “I like to use pine, cedar and, of course, viburnum like in this wreath. Satsumas and kumquats are great to use as well.” The key, says Nick, is to make the most of things in you find growing naturally in your yard. Now is the perfect time to find gorgeous red berries, fruits and foliage to use throughout your home for the holidays.

NICK’S NATURAL WREATH HOW TO: Begin by gathering wild vines like wisteria, honeysuckle and possom grape vine. Twist them together and create your form by using florist wire to secure your wreath shape. Nick cuts tons of vibrant green, glossy viburnum leaves which stay green and ties them onto the wreath to create the green base. Then the fun begins! In this wreath, Nick weaves in a variety of plant materials such as canna seed pods, Carolina snail seed vine with its delicate red berries, nandina berries, magnolia pods, dogwood berries, kumquats, and sedum blossoms. Nick says the kumquats will continue to ripen on the wreath until Christmas deepening to a richer golden color.

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Channel your inner Medici with a Renaissance-worthy floral vignette this Twelfth Night.

Local designer Gregory Hudgins starts with a representation of the Madonna and Child in an 18th century reproduction of a medieval masterwork which is hung between voluminous striped silk panels. The wall behind the painting features a hand-painted trompe l’oeil garland.

Atop a marble pedestal, Gregory has placed a modern Venetian glass vase from his personal collection that echoes the pattern in the Virgin Mary’s cloak. The vase is artfully filled with delicate white blooms and green spires of ornithogalum interspersed among billowy peonies in a bright hue.

Stems of hanging amaranthus in shades of chartreuse add drama and movement to the arrangement.

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Chance

BAYOUOUTDOORS

TAKE A KID

HUNTING

KEY TIPS FOR MAKING A YOUNG HUNTER’S EXPERIENCE A GOOD ONE

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article by Dan Chason

am either getting old or soft as this year is the first time I have shared a deer stand on opening weekend. However, the company I had for the weekend brought back old memories and made some new ones, as I spent my hunting time with two of my seven grandchildren. The youngest, Chance, at age 7 is a "ring tailed tooter" as we call him. I called my daughter and asked if the two oldest could come over for a hunt. Chance and his brother, Elijah, who is 12 arrived, and we started prepping for our big hunt the next morning. Chance was so excited that he woke up at midnight and stayed awake all night, so he would not miss the wake up call. I have had deer cameras out for a few weeks and was pretty confident that we would see some four-legged friends. I had pictures of deer, hogs and even bear on two of my stands. I told them that we would most likely not shoot anything, as I never want to start a kid out in the wrong path. What I am referring to is the number one mistake parents or guardians make when hunting with a kid: Measuring the hunt by what is harvested. I rarely gauge a hunt by any other barometer, even when hunting alone, by the amount of game seen or taken. This message spoils young hunters into thinking that this measure determines the joy of being outdoors. The second biggest mistake made is letting the youngster tag along and not making it THEIR hunt. I remembered two years ago, when I invited Elijah over for a deer hunt. The stand I picked was one of my prime areas, and I was confident that we would see lots of deer. I intentionally got to the stand early, and we sat down for a quiet evening.

Right about 4:45, I looked over and the look on Elijah's face told it all. He was not enjoying himself. In the age of video games and stimuli that engages kid's brains, sitting in a deer stand and trying to be quiet and still is hard for them to do. I knew right then, he was a

little young for this type of hunt. Right at prime time, I asked him if he wanted to leave. The look on his face was priceless. He was surprised I would ask and could not agree that he was bored quite quick enough. So, we climbed down and spent the rest of the evening on the UTV in the mud holes. Now I don't recommend this if you share your hunting area with other hunters. Young hunters need to understand that respecting others’ rights is paramount in the outdoors. But if the opportunity is there, don't wear out a young person with your desire to stay with it when they are obviously not having fun.

The third mistake we make with our kids is when we don't prepare. This past weekend, I had two gallon sized Ziploc bags packed full of goodies. Bring them plenty to eat and plenty to drink. Another mistake is thinking a youngster can sit still. They can't. No amount of fussing, evil looks or chastising can overcome the "ants in the pants" of young hunters. Utilize a box stand where their movements are concealed. Also don't forget cough drops.

Snotty nosed kids cough. A lot. In the winter, it is normal for a child to have a dripping nose and accompanying cough. To make the hunt fun for them, make it a learning experience. From identifying the noises of a barking squirrel or the hammering of a woodpecker, teach that child to identify what they are hearing and what it can mean. That squirrel is the best deer alarm made. Help them learn how to key in on the little things. This weekend, we identified tracks of hogs, deer, bear and coons. We learned the safe way to carry a weapon. What I do with my grandkids is to bring an UNLOADED BB gun for them to carry. It is a great tool to learn muzzle control and responsibility. That first time they shoot or carry a gun should not be when they are aiming at an animal, anticipating the recoil. Which brings me to my pet peeve with kids: Never ever let a child shoot a gun that is going to knock them on the ground. Too many hunters hand a shotgun or rifle to a child to “learn to shoot.” It doesn't take but one mishap of recoil, and you have bred a lifelong flincher. Flinching is a learned behavior. As a shooting instructor, it is the hardest mistake to correct. Start out with a BB or pellet rifle and graduate to a .22 rifle. Move up from there according to their size. Make sure the gun fits them and that they have ear and eye protection. You don't want to imprint a negative experience with firearms.

We didn't see anything all weekend due to the full moon and other unnatural sounds that emitted from our stand. However, my time with the boys was well spent. I answered ten thousand questions, served enough potato chips to have stock in Frito Lay and will now have to buy some more propane canisters for our next trip. But to see their faces of anticipation and to see them grow up doing the things I was taught to do by my father made it a trip to remember.

I encourage you with a simple slogan that I will borrow from the late Sheriff Bob Buckley: Kids that hunt and fish don't steal and deal. Or my favorite, "Take your kids hunting, and you won't have to hunt your kids." Share the gift of the great outdoors this holiday season. Make it all about them, and don't gauge the trip by what hits the ground. Gauge it by the memories you create with that beloved child.

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OLD & NEW

Ashley Yeldell’s love of vintage accessories served inspirational in the development of her new company, Eight & Two Vintage Rentals. She talks to BayouLife about her favorite old and new must-haves.

Old: Vintage sweaters with elbow patches New: Factory Stripe Luxe Pullover from Banana Republic (every color is necessary) Old: Vintage Perfume Bottles New: Stella by Stella McCartney perfume Old: Victorian style sofas New: People's Couch on Bravo Old: Redoing a headboard with exposed nail heads New: OPI Nein! Nein! Nein! OK Fine! Nail color Old: Vintage stationary is perfect for handwritten notes New: People's Couch on Bravo Old: Redoing a headboard with exposed nail heads New: Emails from Lamar and Ole Susannah's giving the deets on the next estate sale Old: Whitehall Cubed Glasses from the 60's New: Styrofoam cups from the Paper Market Old: Rotary dial phones New: The MightyPurse AKA the clutch that charges your phone Old : Recycled Wine bottles as candles-Rewined New: Cigar Zin Zinfandel Old: Coca Cola wooden Crates New: Coke Icee Old: French prints found at estate sale for $5 New: French Macarons Old: Vintage wooden shoe stretcher New: Tall riding boots, particularly the Manchester Boot from Bed Stu Old: Hand Stitched Tablecloths from the 30's and 40's New: Dirt Cheap linen section Old: Vintage Louis Vuitton suitcase found at recent estate sell for 75% off New: The Jude Kelly Moore Bag

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The Best of the Best

Kilpatrick Funeral Homes Receives National Award from the NFDA

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HE NATIONAL FUNERAL DIRECTORS Association (NFDA) recently honored Kilpatrick Funeral Homes with its most prestigious recognition, the 2014 Pursuit of Excellence Award. Only 151 firms in the world earned this award, placing Kilpatrick Funeral Homes among the top 2% of funeral service providers in the world.

In addition to receiving the 2014 NFDA Pursuit of Excellence Award, Kilpatrick Funeral Homes was one of only four funeral homes that received the “Best of the Best Award” in recognition of their development and execution of an innovative program or service that had a positive impact on the families and communities they served this year.

The award is presented by NFDA annually to firms that have demonstrated a commitment to “raising the bar” on funeral service excellence by adhering to strict ethical and professional

standards and providing outstanding service to families and communities.

"The funeral homes that have earned the Pursuit of Excellence Award represent the very best in of our profession and are committed to exceeding expectations every day," said Robert L. "Robby" Bates, CFSP, CCP, president of NFDA. "We offer our heartiest congratulations to this year's award recipients; we are proud to count them as members of NFDA." To earn an NFDA Pursuit of Excellence Award, a funeral home must demonstrate proficiency in key areas of funeral service, such as compliance with state and federal regulations; providing ongoing education and professional development opportunities for staff; offering outstanding programs and resources to bereaved families; maintaining an active level of involvement in the community; participating

Outside the Box Paying It Forward With Gifts

He's kind, generous and has everything he could ever want. So what's the perfect gift for him this Christmas? Maybe she's told you not to get her anything. So what are you to do? These are questions we all face when it comes time to shopping for that person who has put their foot down and says, "No gifts!" So look outside the box with these ideas to get you in the holiday spirit.

DONATIONS Virtually all charities accept donations made in honor of an individual. Many charities go so far as to send that individual an acknowledgement card. Charitable donations let you express your love and appreciation while honoring the recipient's request to avoid gifts.

Maybe his passion is hunting or conser-

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vation. The National Wildlife Federation and Coastal Conservation Association are good choices. Does she run the Race for the Cure every year? Send a contribution to the Susan G. Komen Foundation in her honor.

Your loved ones will appreciate the thought, and the fact that you heeded their instructions.

FAMILY STAYCATION Oftentimes, loved ones protest about gifts, because they don't want you to spend money on them--or worse, they don't think they deserve it. Prove they deserve it without spending extra money. Plan an extensive family staycation. Arrange to take time off from work during a time that's convenient for your partner, your family and your friends.

Pictured (left to right:) presenting the “Best of the Best Award is "Robby" Bates, President of the National Funeral Directors Association; Pam Lavender, Director of Community Events and Grief Support for Kilpatrick Funeral Homes; Laura Kilpatrick Marchelos, President; and Carole and Tex Kilpatrick

and actively serving in the funeral service profession; and promoting funeral home services through a variety of marketing, advertising and public relations programs. Participants are also required to adhere to a Pledge of Ethical Practices.

NFDA formally honored the 2014 Pursuit of Excellence Award Recipients during the AllStar Recognition Ceremony during the 2014 NFDA International Convention & Expo held in Nashville, Tennessee in October.

Kilpatrick’s family and staff have been earning the trust of the families of Northeast Louisiana for over 90 years. Kilpatrick Funeral Homes is a full-service facility offering PreNeed, At-Need funeral and cremation services, After-care Programs, cemetery and mausoleum services. Kilpatrick’s family and staff are here to serve all families and offer service packages that meet everyone’s financial needs.

Throw a party in their honor and have people stay over for a couple of days. Plan activities, too, like game night, themed dinners and movies. They'll love the attention and love you for not making them feel uncomfortable.

NAMED DEDICATIONS Everything has a name on it these days.

From stretches of highway to the stained glass in the chapel, you can name things in honor of your loved one and support a worthy cause at the same time. Are books his great passion? Buy a few for the public library. Maybe she loves her church. Name a pew after her. College was the best years of his life. Memorialize that with a brick in his honor at his alma mater.

Typically, sponsoring a name on a bench or buying a brick is an inexpensive and permanent way to say, "I love you," to that hard to please loved one.

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The Twin City Art Foundation presented an Art Battle Nov. 13 at the Masur Museum of Art, and it was up to the visitors to pick the champion from five teams who created an original work of art in front of a live audience.

Students and faculty from Grambling State University, the University of Louisiana-Monroe, and Louisiana Tech University joined teams from the Downtown Arts Alliance and the Masur Museum to create works of art prior to judging.

Also on hand, Rhoda Brown's Hog Wash Caboose was on hand slinging barbecue while Slider Central also turned out to dish up delicious burgers. Drinks were provided courtesy of Marsala Beverage.

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In the wings with Bayou Artist Corey Trahan who dishes the magic of performing, teaching and the challenge of resurrecting an iconic community theatre ARTICLE BY MICHAEL DEVAULT PHOTOGRAPHY BY BRAD ARENDER

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ot so long ago, Corey Trahan was in Bangkok, Thailand, pondering his future.

The performer and educator had traveled to Thailand in 2012 to take a position as chairman of Mahidol University's musical theatre program. For a performer and educator of his stature, it was a dream job. Not only was he able to teach and direct, but Trahan also was able to perform operas and musical theatre roles in an international city. By any measure, it was a job that should have been longer term than just two years, but like other Americans living and working in Thailand, Trahan had just received troubling news.

The political climate was deteriorating rapidly, and safety was becoming a concern.

"The American Embassy basically said to all the Americans there, 'We can no longer protect you,'" Trahan tells BayouLife Magazine. "So I knew it was time to get out."

Instead of accepting a professional defeat, Trahan looked at his situation as an opportunity. His parents and family live in Dallas, and this could give him a chance to get closer to home. That's when he found out about a similar position as director of musical theatre at Northwestern State University.

For decades, NSU in Natchitoches has been one of the South's premier musical theatre programs, producing class after class of actors, singers and dancers who would go on to tour nationally or appear on Broadway. Trahan applied for the job, hopeful at the opportunity. NSU offered him the job, but before he could accept the position, another opportunity to helm a storied Louisiana theatre institution developed.

The general manager position at Strauss Theatre Center in Monroe was vacant, and the job was his if he wanted it. Trahan was torn. Northwestern had offered him their position, and it was attractive. "At the same time I was offered the Strauss job. I was afraid I was not going to be able to do both," Trahan said. "But Northwestern was quite supportive."

Instead of being without a job, Trahan now found himself with two illustrious programs. At Northwestern, musical theatre is a popular major, and the college has a long history of staging ambitious theatrical productions. On the other hand, Strauss Theatre is one of the oldest community theatres in the nation, and it, too, has frequently fielded impressive and difficult seasons. But Strauss was in trouble. Strauss was just regaining its footing in the wake of the 2008 recession when a major storm dealt the theatre a body blow. Winds ripped the roof from the prop house, dealing more than $100,000 in damage to the facility and its collection of props and costumes. Trahan hasn't flinched in the face of the challenges of running two major programs.

At Strauss, his long term vision is focused on rebuilding the theatre's membership. The immediate future, though, is a different challenge. "I think we need to continue repairing our building," Trahan said. He noted the repairs were almost completed when a tornado ripped through Monroe and dealt another round of damage. "We're almost there, but it did suffer a lot of damage."

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We're trying to choose shows that we know the Strauss membership will appreciate, but we're also looking for a show that may stretch that a little bit, that's a little more cutting edge than something they've done before.

Strauss alum and current NSU junior Chase Miller, he's unsurprised by Trahan's focus at Strauss. "I think he brings a high level of professionalism into anything he's working on," said Miller, who recently appeared in the ensemble of the NSU production of Sweeney Todd. "He's honest, hard working, and brings the best out of his students."

Miller sees a lot of Trahan's work as a teacher--Miller studies in Trahan's vocal studio--that will carry over into managing a rebuilding era at Strauss while juggling the demands of a university theatre program.

"He's able to pinpoint a problem and find an easy fix for it faster than any other music professor I've worked with," Miller said.

It stands to reason, according to Miller, that Trahan would bring that same ethic and skillset to the task at Strauss. Trahan's work there, overseeing the staff, coordinating volunteers and staying abreast of developing shows and seasons, draws on the same problem solving techniques he uses with studio students like Miller. While he doesn't direct shows at Strauss, Trahan nevertheless stays in touch with his production team. For the first time in many seasons, a single, established production team will shepherd all five of the year's shows through rehearsals and performances. In recent years, each show director recruited a technical director, stage manager, costumer and props team.

Going forward, those roles will be filled for the season. "That way, we've assembled a team, and we have the same person doing that job throughout the year," Trahan said.

It may not sound like a major shift, but Trahan illustrated the importance of the move by noting each show's technical director would otherwise have to spend the first two weeks of rehearsals finding light switches and locating hammers. "If they're doing it throughout the season, they know where all of those things are. Just that right there is a tremendous time saver."

Meanwhile, he's focusing on developing the next season, as well. One goal laid out by the Board, and one Trahan shares, is to expose Strauss to a wider audience while respecting the legacy and the continued support of the existing membership. It's a tightrope walk that can imperil a young director, and Trahan acknowledges the risk.

"We're trying to choose shows that we know the Strauss membership will appreciate, but we're also looking for a show that may stretch that a little bit, that's a little more cut-

ting edge than something they've done before," Trahan said. The ultimate goal is to strike a chord that allows Strauss to continue to entertain its existing members while attracting younger professionals to the theatre. "We're trying to come up with ways we can develop that audience."

It's a challenge Trahan has at Northwestern, as well. After all, Natchitoches is a conservative community that shares more than a few similarities with Monroe. At NSU, Trahan must also balance cutting edge with traditional. To that end, Sweeney Todd appeared on their season in the main theatre while, in the spring, the off-Broadway hit Avenue Q will go up in the NSU black box theatre. The show will be one of Trahan's first efforts at directing both the music and stage direction. (For Sweeney Todd, Trahan was the music director.)

Trahan believes Avenue Q will entertain the college audience, but he admits he's a little concerned with how the community at large will accept a musical comedy in which Muppet-inspired characters deal with adulthood in New York's Alphabet City community. The show not only deals with “twentysomething” malaise, but it also touches on themes from racism, homosexuality and intimacy in the confines of a small apartment building. And then there's the language.

"That's part of the challenge of live theatre," Trahan said. "Finding a way to censor a show appropriately for the audience it's being performed for while remaining true to the show's themes." The last thing any director wants to do, after all, is offend an unsuspecting audience. "It's a risk any theatre runs."

Challenge is part of the game, and that's one of the reasons Trahan continues to work on the stage. In fact, he won't do a show unless it offers him the chance to work hard and grow as an artist. "The show's got to present some type of challenge to me to make it interesting," Trahan said.

If anyone is up to those challenges, it's Trahan, according to ULM vocal instructor Julian Jones. Jones first met Trahan when Trahan was on faculty at ULM as a voice instructor. Jones expects that Trahan will face each show just as he faces each of his vocal students, by challenging his students to grow as performers, tempering that challenge with inspiration and encouragement.

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ON COREY TRAHAN Like any great stage performer, he never cracks, never lets the audience see the strain. Instead, he keeps moving, perseveres against the exhaustion, the endless stress of managing two programs at once.

scure pieces for the student," Jones said. "It's all about being expressive, about helping students become better performers. He helps them learn how to find characterization."

Trahan approaches the task of molding young performers with a single, unified goal in mind. That goal is to make each student into the ideal version of themselves. In theatre parlance, it's called the Triple Threat.

Performers naturally exhibit strengths in a particular area. Where one may be a strong singer, they may not be a particularly strong actress. Then, there are those who can act and dance, but maybe the singing could stand to improve. Trahan specializes in finding those strong skills, embracing them and then focusing the student's energies on building up the weaker components. "It's my job to assess what they do well and then immediately address what needs work, so that, when they leave, they have a fighting chance," Trahan said.

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to Monroe audiences was in Singing In the Rain, where Trahan appeared as Don Lockwood, the role immortalized by Gene Kelly.

No one would ever accuse Kelly of not being a talented dancer, and Trahan was nervous about the role. Yet, he worked hard, attended tap lessons daily, and wowed the Strauss audience. That's unsurprising to Jones. "He's an incredibly charismatic performer, with lots of energy and an ability to think on his feet," Jones said. "He's very quick and witty, and he's able to respond to whatever situation occurs at the drop of a hat."

The ability to find solutions on the fly is an important skill for a performer, and Jones said it's one of Trahan's strongest points as a performer, which is ironic, considering Trahan said he spends his evenings in the wings, watching performers trod the boards. "I like watching people when, if something goes wrong on stage, how they're going to get themselves out of it," he said. "That's where the fun of live theatre takes place."

He calls live theatre "the great illusion," and from a chair in the wings, Trahan can observe the best of both worlds. The ultimate goal, even when mistakes happen, is making sure the audience doesn't have a clue. "A

whole other world is going on on stage and backstage, and the audience has no clue," Trahan said. "It's pretty awesome."

With theatres at his disposal in Monroe and Natchitoches, Trahan has more than a share of magic to watch. Yet, therein lies the biggest challenge--distance. While he keeps in touch with Strauss staff and teams by phone, email and weekly meetings, he misses being at rehearsals. "There are a lot of things that I would love, to be able to attend every rehearsal that Strauss has," Trahan said. "But that's physically impossible."

So for now, Trahan accepts the limits of time and distance. "It's challenging, physically.

Sometimes, I get tired. I do work seven days a week," Trahan said. His last bona fide day off was Labor Day. But like any great stage performer, he never cracks, never lets the audience see the strain. Instead, he keeps moving, perseveres against the exhaustion, the endless stress of managing two programs at once. And yes, he misses Strauss when he's not there to lend vociferous support. But that's just one part of the illusion that is any great director.

"Sometimes, it is from afar I have to show that support," Trahan said.

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Downtown Gallery Crawl Thursday, December 4, 2014: Holiday Art Party 1

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HE DECEMBER 4TH DOWNTOWN Gallery Crawl will be a free “art party” for all ages! As always, the first Thursday of December will afford all the opportunity to see wonderful art while enjoying party foods and listening to festive music at eleven galleries in downtown Monroe and West Monroe.

Original art will be for sale, too, with no sales taxes charged, because the galleries are in an official cultural district. All are invited to the party, 5-9 p.m.!

Holiday Variety is the theme at The River Gallery in West Monroe. This artist-run gallery hosts twenty-five artists working in all media from paintings to woodturning, pottery, jewelry, glass art and photography. Guest musician John Farmer will provide music while Landry’s Vineyard will serve wine, and gallery members will provide great refreshments.

Staying in West Monroe, the Crawler can visit Hamilton House Gallery, which will host self-taught artist John Ramage Adams with his show “CTRL+ART+DELETE.” Adams’ medium is mixed media on canvas, using an amalgamation of found Internet images combined with his own photography and paintings.

Another new Antique Alley gallery is Sacred Expressions, where owner Lori A. Brown will be exhibiting her own work including various media. She is a licensed counselor and art therapist, using art as a method of helping others.

Moving to Monroe’s Art Alley, the Crawler will find MAD Art Gallery, where the featured artist is Doug Duffey. Best known as a singer/songwriter, pianist and international recording and concert artist he is also known as a serious, multi-genre visual artist using collage, drawing, painting, photography, mixed media, 92 DECEMBER 2014 | WWW.B AY OU LI FE MAG . CO M

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digital drawings, digital collage, digital scans and video. "In my drawings, I am heavily influenced by my Louisiana culture, heritage, traditions, everyday life and scenery,” he explains.

Also on display and for sale is “Azalea Blossoms”

by Juanita Cochran. Proceeds are for the benefit of local non-profit ARCO. In the foyer will be Cynthia Cloud with her iCyndi Creations; while inside the gallery, Gray Matter will provide live music.

The Sugar Gallery is back in December with a fresh new look and new art by its stable of diverse artists. William Holley will also have new ceramic pieces; Stacy Medaries will have new mixed media pieces that always delight; Melanie Douthit will have rich, colorful mixedmedia pieces; Mary Thompson will have her beautiful photorealistic landscapes; Leah Reitzell will be debuting some new colorful, constructed bayou pieces; and Burg Ransom will have some wonderful wildlife photography on the walls.

The Palace Gallery, will be doing its 4th annual Christmas Gifts Show. Works created by several artists make for great Christmas gifts, including jewelry, bags and accessories from the ladies at the Peace House in Rwanda. The Palace is also excited to present Tommy Matthews. He will have his amazing watercolors, artsy illustrated decorations and more for all to share with loved ones.

Down DeSiard Street, Luna Blue Yoga Studio and Gallery will present a show of sculpture

by Monroe artist Lacy Mitcham. She will be joined by Baton Rouge writer Collette Keith in a collaboration exploring the feminine roles in today’s society.

ARENDER studio + gallery on Art Alley presents Making/Decisions--art by Joey Slaughter,

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an art professor at Louisiana Tech University.

Slaughter will display colorful sculptures representing themes of communication, choices and technology in today’s world.

Guest artists in Art Alley’s The Big Room are Ghofran Thiga, a student at Louisiana Tech showing photographs; Sara Beth Howard, a ULM student showing works on paper including mono print, silkscreen and collographs; and Alyssa Guidry Posey, a ULM student exhibiting ceramic sculptures and mixed media block prints. ULM sculpture students Ben Bennett and Lacy Mitcham are also exhibiting again in The Big Room, as well as resident artists Jon Aiken, Christen Parker, Ricky Sikes and Victoria Smith with oil, watercolor and acrylic paintings and mixed media work.

At UPSTAIRS artists are celebrating five years as a gallery with the OG (Original Gangstas) Show. Three founding members--Emily Caldwell, Jason Byron Nelson, and Anna Schriefer-are exhibiting their work together. Together again! Their works include sculpture, oil painting, collage and mixed media pieces.

DOWNSTAIRS gallery is the final gallery that will be open for the Downtown Gallery Crawl.

Presenting Sponsor Creed and Creed Law Office leads a group of faithful sponsors to support the Downtown Arts Alliance, a non-profit organization dedicated to encouraging the fine arts and developing the downtown areas of Monroe and West Monroe. Other sponsors include Fiesta Nutrition Center, BancorpSouth, The News-Star, Sir Speedy, Monroe-West Monroe CVB, DeltaStyle, KEDM Public Radio, Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, Atmos Energy Corp., Heck Law Firm, Hollis & Company Jewelers, Community Trust Bank, Cross Keys Bank, Val Salomon Law Office, Rawls DeSigns, Marsala Beverage, Restaurant Cotton, Warehouse No. 1 Restaurant and Choice Brands.

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BAYOU GYPSY Ellie is comfortably chic in this cute open cardigan with stunning piano fringe detail. Pair it with a fitted thermal top featuring front button closures and lace paneling at the sides. And style with ankle boots and skinny jeans for a look that’s homeward bound.

Whether you’re traveling home for the holidays or staying near, we’ve got festive outfits for this most wonderful time of the year. Photography by Martin G Meyers. Hair and makeup by Meka Bennett.

Special thanks to Dr. and Mrs. Ledbetter and Calvin McKenzie. Props from Eight and Two Vintage Rentals.

MR. P’S TEES Julianne is sporting this incredibly soft trophy buck shirt from Mr. P’s Tees.

Featured in black on a triblend 3/4 length brown and camo baseball shirt this design is great for gals and guys alike. No need to hunt for the perfect tee any longer.

SALT & PEPPER ACCESSORY BOUTIQUE This look has it in the bag from the precious houndstooth jacket with fur cuff detailing to the impeccable cream-colored sweater dress, it’s an outfit perfect for holiday gatherings.

Style it with a fun legging, multi-strand necklace with charm accents and a cute chocolate-colored wedge.

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CARA’S BOUTIQUE A cozy button-down flannel is the quickest way to look cool this winter. This haute look is accessorized with a multi-toned long cardigan, fringed scarf, legging and a knee-length boot. Add a head scarf and layered bracelets for a look that is merry and bright.

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PEARL PUMPHREY’S Rheagan looks like a winter nymph in this beautiful cashmere top with a fox fur hood. Stay warm with this cocoa-colored cashmere wrap. Finish the outfit with a neutral riding pant and Frye boots.

MOJO’S BOUTIQUE Sleigh bells ring and Ellie is glistening in this adorable robin’s egg blue coat with zigzag stitches from Mojo’s. Wear it with a patterned draw-string waisted dress and gorgeous matching topaz necklace and earrings.

PELICAN DISTRICT Step up your style with this handkerchief-hem tunic with scoop neck and 3/4 length sleeve. Add a winecolored legging and a sleeveless cardigan with fur accents. Finish the look with a stunning horn necklace and tall black boots.

MOODY BLUES BOUTIQUE Take a walk on the wild side with this precious tiger print top with leather detailing. Add a statement necklace with black tassel and leather embellished leggings for a luxe look.

K-SERA BOUTIQUE Travel in style with this precious outfit from K-Sera Boutique. We adore the extra-long cream-colored cardigan paired with a wine-colored top with embroidered detailing. Add a stretchy straight-legged jean with distressed, leather booties, a chic hat and layered accessories.

HEMLINE MONROE Kick a time-honored flannel shirt up a notch by adding a fur vest and skinny jean. Add a pair of tall-shafted distressed boots and these cute boot socks for a funky and fun look. Accessorize with a fringe bag with stud accents and long, shoulder strap.

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Talk of the Town

Twin City Ballet Company’s Talk of the Town performance in October brought out a bevy of little princesses to celebrate Aurora’s royal wedding in Act II of The Sleeping Beauty, a classical ballet confection complete with fairies, storybook characters and guest artists, Leilani Brown and ???, of the world-renowned New York City Ballet. The little girls and prima ballerinas-to-be gathered in the Civic Center Theatre lobby before the performance for petit fors and punch and an opportunity to have their photo taken with the Lilac Fairy (pretty Leah Stephens Smith). At Intermission during the performance, all little girls were asked to make their way to center stage as vocalist Jodi Crawford Wright serenaded them as they twirled and listened intently. Twin City Ballet Company dancers performed several classical ballet variations and a stunning modern piece by Leaia Caver Alsup to Phillip Glass’ “Continuum” and a high energy jazz number, “Be Italian,” by Joe Istre.

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A CHRISTMAS RENOVATION CELEBRATION THE HOME OF MARCIA AND DR. LANCE DONALD | ARTICLE BY MARÉ BRENNAN

arcia Donald and her family weathered the storm of renovating their home over the past year and are ready to celebrate Christmas with the aplomb it deserves. Marcia explains the process that she undertook with local designer Corey Hamilton as they set about updating the family’s West Monroe home. “I walked in Corey’s store [Serendipity Jewelry] last Christmas and loved the store and the look he achieved. I immediately asked if he could help me with my house, and we started as soon as the holidays were over. We literally repurposed everything,” she smiles as she surveys their handiwork. Corey adds of the finished product, “All of these rooms are my babies, and I couldn’t possibly pick a favorite.”

Corey added a unifying and luxurious gold and cream striped wallpaper in the home’s foyer that carries over into the formal living room. Small French chairs with cushions in a subtle cream and gold stripe are accented with zebra print fabric accent pillows. A black and gold mirror over a carved painted and distressed console reflects a grouping of gold Christmas trees and greenery. A zebra-print hide from Z Gallerie in Dallas adds eclectic style.

In the living room, the Donalds’ existing sofa and chairs were rearranged to allow for intimate conversation areas. French bergére chairs were reupholstered in a delicate blue zebra print fabric from Material Things. Antique Italian stools with a lush leopard print cushion along with an antique French secretary were some of Marcia’s favorite High Cotton Antique finds. The lightly frosted Christmas tree resounds with the luxuriousness of the formal living room, mirroring the golden hues and warmth of the room. Generous panels of gold and cream striped silk frame arched windows in the the formal living area and the adjacent dining room. “Twin” Rococo chandeliers from Restoration Hardware infuse the spaces with a profusion of crystal with a hint of metallic shimmer, precision-cut and polished for optimal refraction and sparkle. Both chandeliers are anchored to the ceiling with a deliberately bold, black-painted medallion.

In the dining room, Corey added a chair rail and molding below the rail which were painted a pleasing shade of cream. A graphic damask print of aqua on a metallic gold field sets a regal tone for the formal dining room. Father Christmas’ sleigh is filled with toys and has landed on the antique English buffet from Clements Antiques and a gift from Marcia’s mother. The

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table is set with Christmas china by Noritake placed on lacquered gold chargers layered on reptile embossed leather placemats. Gold wire Christmas trees add a touch of Baroque elegance as the table’s centerpiece when paired with gilded magnolia leaves, red berries and peacock feathers. One of the most unusual features of the dining room lies tucked in the corner. Explains Marcia as she carefully opens the table to reveal its pristine red satin inner workings, “It’s an antique sewing table which had been my great great grandmother’s from Michigan. We try to make the trip to Michigan every year to see my dad’s family.”

The heart of the home, the Donalds’ kitchen is merry and bright thanks to a lightened palette. Cabinetry were painted and given an antique glaze. A mosaic travertine tile backsplash with bronze details echoes the oil rubbed bronze fixtures throughout the kitchen. Lighted garland delineates upper cabinetry while the built in stove hood is decorated with an evergreen wreath heavily laden with luscious red berries.

A handsome stag leaps from the central island, his neck adorned with vintage Christmas ornaments and ribbon. The glass paned upper corner cabinets are filled with decorative holiday containers and décor.

“The first thing we did in the breakfast room was brighten it up,” said Corey. The space which opens into the kitchen and den had been a study of beiges and browns before with a heavy faux finished wall treatment. Now the central space is opened up with a crisp blue and white ikat wallpaper by Thibaut, inspired by Indonesian tie-dyeing techniques.

The breakfast room table and chairs were a gift from Marcia’s mother, a former antiques dealer from Hattiesburg, Mississippi. A white porcelain container is filled with fresh greenery, hypericum berries in red and green hues and elegantly pavéed red roses. The chandelier above the table is embellished with pine boughs and oversized Christmas ornaments. The family’s “Three Wise Men” follow the star from a place of 108 DECEMBER 2014 | WWW.B AY OU LI FE MAG . CO M

honor on the breakfast room’s Calcutta marble-topped buffet. Double doors between the breakfast room and the formal living room were removed to allow for an easy flow.

A wall in the den with three sets of French doors, opens out onto the pool area and is softened by Corey with the addition of sheer panels.

Crystal iced branches are gathered to create wreaths that are hung on each door. A trio of blue and white patterned pillows strategically placed on a comfortable linen covered sofa lends visual parity with the ikat pattern along with a pair of blue and white double gourd lamps. Built-in bookshelves are filled with photographs of the family and Christmas decor.

“I love our red office,” says Dr. Donald of the chic space just off the breakfast area. A four-panel Chinese screen provides a focal point on the Chinese red lacquered wall behind the couple’s desk. Molding and trim is painted a haute glossy black. The square arm chair upholstered in leopard print was an purchase from one of Marcia’s favorite antique venues from the past, High Cotton. Continuing the room’s “Pearl of the Orient” theme, the office is bejeweled with pearl embellished wire Christmas trees.

The master retreat offers the couple a respite from their busy lives.

Designer Corey chose tonal silvers and greys throughout the space to provide a neutral yet glamorous palette. Bedding and pillows in luxurious silks, velvets and furs from Material Things create layers of comfort for the couple. The dark grey damask upholstered headboard is juxtaposed against a background of a silvery grey damask on white wallpaper for a graphic pop which is accentuated even further by the ebonized lacquered crown molding and trim. The bench, found at Horchow Finale, feels light and airy with acrylic legs and a python leather cushion.

Marcia found an ingenious way to hide the bedroom’s flatscreen television behind the mercury glass-paneled doors of a Pottery Barn cabinet.

Oriental rugs throughout the home were acquired from Trenton Street’s Southern Lady Antiques, including this Oriental rug on a field of bluish grey. The chaise found new life when Corey had it reupholstered in a zebra print fabric from Material Things. Sparkle and shine is what Santa will find on the couple’s bedroom tree. Ornaments of pearl, gold, sterling mirror and garlands of golden seed pods fill the boughs of the bedroom’s tree.

The en suite bathroom’s walls also feature the large damask print.

Soft, ebony velvet panels add a layer of privacy for the oval, jetted tub.

Corey had the cabinetry painted a soft white and added jewel-like pulls.

The couple’s daughter, Katelyn, a junior at West Monroe High School, loves getting into the holiday spirit. Her room’s white Christmas tree is a playful take on the colors prevalent in her room, which features chartreuse green walls, vintage painted and gilded furniture with snowy hemstitched linen bedding with chartreuse and pink accent pillows.

Polka dot wide ribbon in hot pink and chartreuse cascades and gathers down the tree, and vintage style ornaments in hot pink, turquoise and chartreuse with white glitter embellishments add to the frosty feel.

The Donald’s son, Connor, is definitely ready for all that Christmas brings. He gathers his beloved piebald dachsund, Panda; the feisty pomeranian, Jax; and elder statesman labrador, Cody and heads outside to explore. Inside Connor’s room, a natural linen tent hangs above the headboard of the sleigh bed, which is covered in a color-blocked quilt.

A trio of candy cane inspired Christmas trees are grouped on his chest of drawers with a tall Santa. Traditional green and red striped mesh ribbon gather along the sides of Connor’s Christmas tree, which is embellished in red and green ornaments.

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A gilded mirror with carved birds from Trenton Street Antiques sets the tone for Connor’s bathroom which received a refresh with new wallpaper and cabinetry pulls.

Marcia, originally from Hattiesburg, was working in the hospitality industry in New Orleans at the famed Royal Sonesta Hotel when she met Lance, who was raised in West Monroe. He was working on his endodontic residency, and they happened to be living in the same apartment complex, meeting, of course, where all young people in New Orleans tend to gather to beat the heat - the apartment’s pool. It’s no wonder that the view of the Donald’s back gardens looks across an azure and inviting pool with a stacked stone water feature and spa. Pennsylvania bluestone creates a seamless terrace which leads to the wreath-festooned, brick columned guest house.

Teak outdoor seating arrangements invite guests to linger on cool winter days and nights. The lazy susan-equipped teak table has a centerpiece of bare branches that rise from a wreath of pine. Beneath the guest house veranda, the state-of-the-art outdoor kitchen gets the Saint Nick treatment with garlands of pine boughs and pinecones. A wrought iron candelabra gets glowing with large, ivory pillar candles interspersed with rustic jingle bells and velvet ribbon in chartreuse. In the outdoor living space, dark green all-weather wicker with Sunbrella cushions in cream and hunter green stripes are arranged to take full advantage of the cozy outdoor fireplace.

A reindeer grapevine planter holds large amaryllis blooms, a sure sign that Christmas is here. On the mantle above the stacked stone fireplace, a large evergreen wreath with a red bow that matches the intensity of the amaryllis petals, garland with pinecones and dried hydrangeas and mini Christmas trees covered in tiny white lights create a nest for the vintage painted iron Nativity.

“We built the guest house seven years ago. This is where we entertain,” explains Marcia. At the entrance to the guest house, a large metal deer with a beautiful neck tie of bright red ribbon with sprigs of pine greenery and a sliver of chartreuse velvet ribbon greets guests. On either side of the French doors are large planters filled with sculpted boxwood and copper lanterns that get in the holiday spirit with evergreen wreaths centered with large red bows.

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bedecked with burlap ribbon and metallic red and bronze Christmas ornaments and berries. Naturally dried hydrangeas and pinecones mix well with burlap covered balls to create a natural tree for this guest house that backs up to the forests of West Monroe.

Above the guest house’s marble topped dining table, the arms of the chandelier are bedecked for the holidays with pine foliage, green velvet ribbon, dried hydrangea and large jeweled Christmas balls. A trio of fringed burlap Christmas trees form a tactile centerpiece. On the guest house kitchen’s counter, a sassy reindeer holds peppermints for guests to sample.

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the Ouachita River Art Gallery on Antique Alley. The bedroom is painted a very “liveable” Sherwin Williams green called “Lacewing.” Adding Christmas whimsey to the guest room is a large porcelain deer head with yarn-covered “antlers” which anchors the space between the twin beds.

The deer head and the vintage metallic Christmas ornaments in the same hues as the paintings were found at Woodstock Furniture Revival in Monroe. The beds are dressed in matelassé coverlets, monogrammed pillows and striped dust ruffles. Striped silk curtains finish the room with panache.

Over the years, with her refined eye and chic sense of style, Marcia has hunted and gathered a collection of beautiful furnishings and now with the help of designer Corey Hamilton has curated an urbane oasis in the woodsy wilderness of Ouachita Parish.

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Boo at the Barn

Parents, teachers and friends of Jesus the Good Shepherd School got their groove on at the highly anticipated, 6th annual Boo at the Barn fundraiser, held at the Brockman family barn on the Ouachita River. Kelly Southern and Misti Hajj fearlessly led the Boo at the Barn committees to another successful year. Live music was provided by everyone’s favorite party band, Dr. Zarr’s Amazing Funk Monster. Cormier’s provided a delicious dinner of Louisiana specialties, and adult beverages were provided by Choice Brands, Daq’s and Marsala Beverages. Partygoers created the cleverest of costumes, including a Roller Coaster, Snow White, her Magic Mirror and the Seven Dwarfs, and a cute flashback to the 80s and The American Gladiators! The silent and live auctions provided the treats of the night with children’s artwork, amazing trips and more going on the auction block.

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The Real Facelift

Q& A with Mickel Plastic Surgery

BY TIMOTHY J. MICKEL, MD, FACS, BOARD CERTIFIED PLASTIC SURGEON

“The body, she says, is subject to the force of gravity. real anatomic changes require real facelift surBut the soul is ruled by levity, pure.” gery done by real plastic surgeons.

– Saul Bellow I have done hundreds of facelift proceRAVITY.TOO BAD IT ONLY WORKS dures over the past twenty-five years. Here are vertically. But because it does, gradu- some of the most common questions patients ally over the years, everything goes ask me about facelifts. south – whether it’s your buttock, your breast your brow or the fatty tissue overlying your How long does the operation take?

It depends on what type of facelift is being cheekbone. The effect of gravity on the soft tisdone.

I do a thorough and complete deep-plane sues of the face and neck produces predictable face/neck lift that involves fat removal and creand familiar changes: drooping of the outer ation of a muscle corset in the neck, conservathird of the eyebrow, gravitational decent of tive removal of lower jowl fat and release and cheek fat with loss of fullness over the cheekrepositioning of the deep tissues of the face. In bone, deepening of the fold between the base of my hands, this takes about five hours of operathe nose and the corner of the mouth, a sad, tive time.

Simple procedures, like thread lifts downturned mouth, jowl fat collections that and skin-only facelifts, don’t take as long, and hang off of the lower cheek and obscure the the results are only short term. flow of the jaw line and a “turkey gobbler” neck. Topical creams, passing threads through your face or squirting fillers into the cheeks to Why don’t you do the simple procedures?

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How long does a facelift last?

On average, a facelift will make you look about ten years younger – but the end result depends upon many factors, not the least of which is your starting point. Skin quality, overall health and whether or not you exercise all play a role. Aging is like a conveyor belt, slowly and inevitably moving you toward the way you will look at the end of the line. Cosmetic surgery moves you back to an earlier spot on the belt, but then it keeps right on moving. So you continue to age, but you will still look about ten years younger than your age matched peers.

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Creative

CONSTRUCTING THE

DOUG BRECKENRIDGE Breckenridge’s deep respect of vernacular architecture led him to take part in securing the preservation of what is left of the historic architecture in his own hometown.

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he steep staircase inside the home of local architect Doug Breckenridge is somewhat of a metaphor. The stairs are somewhat of a ladder into the creative psyche of the Monroe native. The steps lead to a landing that serves as the divider between two main rooms. One functions as the studio of a creative, experienced architect. The other functions as the studio of a talented artist, with whimsical canvases leaning in layers up against the walls.

Standing in the foyer between the rooms feels like straddling two worlds—the calculated, precise, well-planned mindset of an architect and the expressive, unrestricted spirit of a natural artist. Effortlessly, Breckenridge lives in both worlds simultaneously.

Breckenridge earned a degree from Business from NLU (now ULM) and went to work for his father’s company, Breck Construction. Fresh out of college, he was happy to have the opportunity to work alongside his dad, learning about the business that he had watched his father build.

Unfortunately, the time together in the family business was not to last. The elder Breckenridge suffered a heart attack and passed away only a year after his son had joined him at the firm. Grief stricken, Doug Breckenridge took over the successful family business at the young age of 24.

Recalling that point in time, Breckenridge remembers, “My father had built a very successful business with a very capable staff, but it was a very difficult time.

After four years, we sold the firm, and I went back to Louisiana Tech to study architecture.”

Breckenridge put the artistic talents he inherited from his father to use in his studies. Inspired and invigorated, he dove into the program eager to learn. Although he was certain of his abilities, he recalls that there were certain members of the faculty that needed convincing.

“I’ll never forget, I had a professor with

a Philosophy degree from the University of Virginia and a Master’s in Architecture from Princeton. I went in there and told him I had been a contractor and, I wanted to come back to study architecture. I remember clearly, he looked at me very sternly and said, ‘Mr. Breckenridge, contractors do not make good architects.’ A year later, I won the Outstanding Student Design Award, so I proved him wrong,” Breckenridge recalls with a chuckle.

In his college studies, he took a course on “Vernacular Architecture,” which focuses on local historic architecture and investigates ways that the culture is reflected in the architecture. He began by studying the historic architecture in Bienville Parish, and what he learned fascinated Breckenridge immediately. It led him to further studies in different areas throughout the United States, and he became something of an expert in vernacular architecture. His knowledge was well respected and highly regarded, and he was invited to give speeches and workshops on the topic all over the country.

“I can go into a town anywhere and look at the historic architecture, and pretty well tell you when it was built and where the people came from who built the architecture by looking at the elements of style.

When you begin to lose examples of the historical architecture, you, in essence, begin to lose cultural references to the area,” he explains.

It is likely this deep respect of vernacular architecture led him to take part in securing the preservation of what is left of the historic architecture of his own hometown.

“When I was a kid, downtown Monroe had some outstanding examples of architecture, but much of that is gone…that all changed when shopping malls took off in the 1970s. Monroe was once known as a “pacemaker city.” Unfortunately, many of the historic structures were removed. Forty years later, the thing to do is to preserve and renovate these structures through historic tax credits and things like that…(Down-

town Monroe) has something to build on, but not what it once had in the 60s, and that is because Monroe was basically ahead of the curve in urban renewal.”

Breckenridge has worked on several historic tax credit projects to preserve existing historic structures. Through his efforts, the Coca-Cola Bottling Plant was recently placed on this historic register, making it eligible to be renewed through historic tax credits. These credits also apply to residential areas, such as the Garden District, and can assist in up to 45% of the restoration of a historic structure. This is something that Breckenridge is passionate about, and prompted him to help form the Downtown Historic Commission, an organization that looks after historic structures and ensures that their integrity is not compromised.

He has not only assisted in preserving the historic landscape of Monroe, but has added to it in many ways through his own distinctly creative, thoughtful designs.

Throughout his career, he has worked with several firms, most notably as Lead Design Architect for Architecture Plus, one of the largest firms in the state that works on projects all over the country. However, it is the projects that developed in his hometown which are closest to his heart. While working with another firm, he assisted in the design of the Neville Field House, which holds significance for many locals.

After forming his own firm two and a half years ago, he has had the opportunity to design several Monroe landmarks of interest, such as the Chase Bank Building with its memorable checkerboard design, Delta Community College’s Adams style structures and Lee Junior High’s gymnasium. The gymnasium was a meaningful project, as Breckenridge had experienced life as a student in those very halls. Similarly, he is currently working with Frank Bennett of Architecture Associates on the restoration of Neville High School, his alma mater. The project not only has nostalgic meaning, but happens to be one of his favorite historical structures in Monroe. AlWWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | DECEMBER 2014

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though incredibly beautiful to look at, the 1932 Art Deco building is in need of some serious attention. Water has penetrated the exterior and leaked into many of the classrooms. He plans to waterproof the building before working on the interior repairs.

While working on his former high school is an inspiring project, creating new structures are also exciting for Breckenridge. He often begins by consciously examining the landscape, often taking photographs of native foliage and colors that occur naturally in the environment and working those into his designs. This holistic approach helps the structures feel as though they belong there as a part of the surroundings. He enjoys working with the elements of the location, but each architectural design begins in its own way.

“Given an open situation, I always push originality. That does not necessarily mean something contemporary or in vogue, but something that strives to create a distinct statement for a distinct client. I have always considered architecture to be the most profound public statement an organization or an individual can mak,e and it needs to be distinct and personal. Design concepts usually begin as ideas, and these ideas can take form through numerous elements in the environment and not just the built environment at that.”

His natural creativity dominates his distinctive designs, which are meticulously created. For example, his design of the St. Frederick Chapel draws from elements often found in Florentine structures associated with traditional Catholic designs. He was inspired by the colors and textures found in historic churches in Florence, Italy and included them as elements to represent the Catholic religion.

He designed the light tower of the chapel to draw in the natural sunlight to illuminate the priest at the altar. Light, color and form are the elements that he creates design concepts around.

“From an idea, I sketch and sketch, and I do this usually in notebooks for several days before I ever commit something to hardline drawings. I usually then proceed to work back and forth between hardline drawings and sketches until I

firm up the design concept. I am always thinking in the third dimension, even in the early sketch stages. Color and texture are as important to me as form and shape and usually exist in the design process from day one,” says Breckenridge.

Considering his design aesthetic, it seems only natural that Breckenridge’s imagination expresses itself in multiple mediums. He is not only an accomplished architect, but also a talented artist. In his art studio, dozens of beautiful canvases depicting landscapes—cityscapes and pastoral—wildlife and scenes from fly fishing adventures. His most common subject, however, is closest to his heart—his stunningly beautiful wife, Karen Breckenridge. When commenting on his talent, Breckenridge is humble.

“My painting is an avocation and not a profession, so it generally takes a backseat to architecture. Not having the time to contribute to painting and not being of the personality type to spend long hours in detail, I have developed a style that is fast, loose and spontaneous,” he explains.

Often, clients who are enthusiasts of his architectural designs often become patrons of his artwork. He has worked with friends Lynda and Dr. Lou Gavioli on the renovation of their homes over the years and also provided artwork for the interior.

“When we renovated the house we are currently in, we asked Doug to do a pen and ink of the home,” Mrs. Gavioli shares. “It hangs proudly beside the original pen and ink of the home on Lake DeSiard (that Breckenridge designed)—two of our most treasured pieces of art!”

Breckenridge helped the Gavioli Family to create and develop the aesthetic of their home in an imaginative way that encompassed all of their ideas.

“We had worked on the plans for the house on our own for quite some time and asked Doug to advise us on the look we wanted for the house,” Gavioli says. “He went to New Orleans, photographed homes and came up with the design we ultimately used. The house is one of the new homes featured in Lee Estis’ “Fading Textures” as one of the “sparkling textures” mentioned in his book. We loved working with Doug. He is so creative and an amazing artist. He really captured the feel, design and cultural aspects that we wanted in our home. We loved working with him!”

Breckenridge’s remarkable talents in design and art are consistently sought after, and the intelligent architectural designs he has contributed to the community will remain cultural treasures long into the future.

“I have always been artistic—even at five or six years old. I wanted to be a painter or an architect.”

Breckenridge not only succeeds at both separately, but combines his instinctive creativity in a way that is its own authentic art form.

To contact Breckenridge for architectural or artistic services, find his firm—Douglas C. Breckenridge, Architect & Planner, L.L.C.—on Facebook, or contact him directly at doug.breckenridge@comcast.net.

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Quality Through the Decades

Handmade Jewelry With Expert Precision at Dupont Jewelers

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T DUPONT JEWELERS, WE ARE elebrating our first year in Monroe since 2001. Many things have changed since 2001. Gold was $275. Now it is $1275 an ounce. The United States was once the number one market for diamonds in the world. Now China is the number one buyer of diamonds. One thing hasn’t changed. Most every woman wants a personalized piece of jewelry to celebrate an event in their lives like, anniversaries, the birth of a child, family jewelry, and of course engagement and wedding rings.

I grew up in the jewelry business. I got started at age 15, when I attended my first jewelry school. I have spent over 30 years creating fine jewelry. You may remember during the 90s, I owned Dupont Jewelers on

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18th Street in Monroe, and my family owned a jewelry store in Rayville for over 50 years.

The way I create my pieces are by a process call “Handmade.” No piece is ever the same. I use solid gold metal that has been rolled and work-hardened into wire or flat karat stock. This metal is very dense and hard. It doesn’t scratch, bend or dent like most commercial jewelry. It also can be polished to a higher gloss finish due to the hardness of the metal. I bend, drill, solder, polish and engrave the piece I am making. I call this “Generational Jewelry,” because it will truly last generations. Many antique pieces are handmade. This hand-crafted process will ensure a person’s jewelry inheritance to be passed down for generations.

Each ring is fashioned to create a custom fit to the person’s finger. My customers comment often on how well their ring fits and the constant luster of the metal. Creating jewelry in this nostalgic process is very rewarding to me as a jeweler and gives my customers a-one-of-a-kind, signature pieces designed specifically from their taste of jewelry.

If you are searching for that special gift for that special person, we would like to invite you to visit our store and to see our line of fine jewelry. We showcase traditional earrings, pendants, rings and unique jewelry from estates.

I am looking forward to seeing you,

James Dupont

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Improving Your Smile

Create The Smile You’ve Always Wanted

BY DAVID FINLEY, D.D.S.

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O YOU EVER TRY TO HIDE YOUR TEETH WHEN YOU are talking? Advances in cosmetic dentistry can make you proud of your smile. A dazzling smile can ignite a room. It projects strength, confidence and beauty. For decades, dentists have worked on ways to treat dental problems. We can now change the way your teeth look and the way you feel!

Because your mouth is one of the focal points of your face, it plays a major role in how you perceive yourself and how others perceive you. And now, taking steps to improve your appearance is an investment in your long-term health and well-being.

Here’s a glossary of what the most popular – and quick – treatments can do for your smile ... apart from making a lasting impression this holiday season!

Whitening – Erases stains and discolorations for a brighter, whiter smile. It’s so popular, because it’s so fast, safe, and effective.

Veneers – Stains and chips or overlapping and uneven teeth may require veneers, which are extremely thin but strong porcelain shells that are layered over the surfaces of natural teeth. Veneers can be designed to improve the proportions of your smile.

White Fillings – White composite, porcelain, cast glass or resin inlays and onlays replace silver-colored fillings.

Patients have options to improve their smile thanks to new materials and advances in cosmetic training. Increasing numbers of adults are improving the appearance and function of their teeth. We often correct cracked, chipped, or unevenly spaced teeth using bonding or with veneers. This patient chose porcelain veneers.

What’s so special about cosmetic veneers? Hand-sculpted porcelain veneers, applied to the outside surfaces of your teeth, can dramatically recontour your smile, and they’re long-lasting. Also, applying veneers doesn’t involve moving your teeth. The procedure is quick and your picture-perfect smile will look completely natural!

We want your smile to radiate the health you feel. Reward yourself. Ask us about how we can help you achieve your best smile possible: healthy, vibrant and natural! Give us a call today and get in today! Your smile can be bright and white ... just in time for the holidays!

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The Franciscan Path of Peace

The Perfect Christmas Gift for Someone Special in Your Life

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HE FRANCISCAN PATH OF PEACE IS A SPECIAL PART of the new St. Francis Community Health Center campus, now located on Tower Drive. The path is a 100’ x 70’ terrace designed as a peaceful green space within a larger, beautifully landscaped garden. This garden will be a frequented destination for patients and visitors who will utilize the garden area for reading, walking, meditation or prayer time. A meandering pathway within the Path of Peace offers the opportunity to honor a loved one through engraved bricks which would be a wonderful, unique Christmas gift for that special someone in your life.

There are two brick sizes available: • 8”x 4” Paving Brick with 4 lines is $75: 18 characters per line (including spaces) • 8”x 8” Paving Brick with 7 lines is $150: 18 characters per line (including spaces) Each donation received from these engraved bricks helps to support the mission of St. Francis Medical Center, an institution that enriches lives, inspires hope and provides health and healing for those in need. For more information, or to reserve your special brick for a loved one, call (318) 966-7833. You may also visit stfran.com and click on the “Give/Support” link to make a donation to the St. Francis Medical Center Foundation.

Join us to celebrate “The Next Generation of Healthcare” at a special ribbon cutting and blessing of the St. Francis Community Health Center. It will be held on Tuesday, December 9, 2014 at 3 pm. The 97,000 sq. ft. brick and stucco 4-story facility includes a 2-story glass atrium with beautiful stained glass art. This unique piece, designed by artist Sam Corso, graces the atrium entrance at the new facility and was made possible by a donation from the Scott family in honor of Thomas H. and Mayme P. Scott.

The following services are available at this location: • drive-through pharmacy • walk-in clinic • laboratory services • diabetes and nutrition center • occupational medicine • rehabilitation services • cardiac rehabilitation • imaging services • physician offices

For more information on the services at St. Francis Community Health Center, call (318) 966-6200 or visit our website at www.stfran.com.

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Comfort and Convenience at Car Wash West

Step Back in Time at Café ExpressO

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ARWASH WEST PROVIDES FOR THE community a pleasant environment to bring your car for the finest service available in the Monroe – West Monroe area. Step back in time with Café Expresso, the fifties era café, located inside Car Wash West.

Café ExpressO was created for the comfort and convenience of Carwash West’s guests.

Whether waiting on your vehicle or just meeting someone for lunch, the list of delicacies at Café ExpressO are a treat.

Pick up a last minute greeting card and some Woodwick Candles or Mrs. Myers environmentaly friendly home cleaning products as a gift or get a little something for your car, all in a friendly atmosphere with free WIFI. What makes Café ExpressO unique along with the great customer service is their coffee itself. “Our house coffee we use is a single estate

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from the Don Roberto Plantation in Costa Rica.

Our Espresso coffee is a blend of six beans from Brazil, Guatemala, Ethiopia, Sumatra, Columbia and Mexico. These coffees are roasted per order by a small roaster in Jackson, ”owner Ross Thompson explains.

In addition to coffee and breakfast items such as scones, muffins, etc., Café ExpressO has cleverly named menu items.

HOT RIDES Duster – Bacon, lettuce, tomato and mayo on toasted sourdough or whole wheat bread.

Cobra GT – Roast beef, tomato, lettuce and mayo on a white or wheat po'boy served with gravy.

COOL RIDES Thunderbird – Turkey, Swiss, spinach,

apricot, glazed walnuts all rolled up in a flour tortilla.

Impala – Chicken salad, tomato and lettuce on sliced sourdough or whole wheat.

These are just a few of the items on their very healthy menu.

TRAINING WHEELS Mini Cooper – Peanut butter and jelly.

VW Beetle – Grilled cheese.

Carwash West is located at 3111 Cypress Street in West Monroe. Check out their website www.carwashwestmonroe.com for more information. And don’t forget to download the Carfax app on your phone to stay up-to-date on services with Carwash West! Come by and see Brandi and Teau, and maybe Cathi!… they can’t wait to see ya!

Achievements Foster Growth

St. Frederick’s January Open House To Kick Off Enrollment

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T THE BEGINNING OF THE 2014-2015 SCHOOL YEAR, St. Frederick had a waiting list for junior high for the first time in school history, and Athletic Director and Head Football Coach Jeff Tannehill had to add more lockers to the field house due to the number of players that came out for the football team.

Continued growth has expedited the Warrior Foundation fund raising project to construct a new strength complex which will more than double the size of the current workout facility.

“Although some grades have a waiting list, we are prepared to expand to meet the needs of additional students.” Farber said.

“There has been a genuine outpouring of support and encouragement from the community, because of the success that the students here at St. Frederick have had in the classroom, in athletics and in extracurricular activities such as the new Equestrian Team,” said Principal Guy Farber.

“St. Frederick students’ ACT average scores consistently exceed the city, state and national averages. We are committed to increasing them even more, “ Farber added.

Save the date for St. Frederick High School’s Open House on Thursday, January 22, 2015. Prospective parents and students will be able to tour the campus to see PTO funded improvements to biology, engineering and physics labs plus technology upgrades.

They will meet teachers and coaches who will talk about individual attention, college credits and opportunities for achievement.

One of those who is always willing to talk about the student advantages at St. Frederick is Ray Gambino, High School Hall of Fame coach. He says parents want their children to be educated in an environment where they are encouraged to excel in the classroom, on the playing field and in extracurricular activities.

“Athletics has expanded now to include volleyball,” said Farber. “Our Junior High girls’ Cross Country team recently won state. Our football team is having another winning season. We’ve got high expectations for all of our athletic programs as basketball and soccer kick off their seasons.”

“Prospective parents will be impressed with our Robotics Team that made it to the finals to earn the Louisiana state runner-up position, and our Future Business Leaders of America team that competed at the 2014 FBLA National Leadership Conference this summer with several team members placing nationally,” Farber added.

For more information about the Open House or enrollment, contact Melissa Hall at 323-9636 and go to stfrederickhigh.org.

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Gardening Through the Ages

Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners 5th Annual Gardening Seminar

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EXT TO BASEBALL, GARDENING is quite possibly America’s favorite pastime. And, it’s an activity that is passed down through generations. Agriculture itself is as old as the most ancient civilizations. The theme of the Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners Association’s fifth annual January gardening seminar is “Gardening Through the Ages,” and we want to invite you to join us at the West Monroe Convention Center on Saturday morning, January 17th, 2015. Doors will open at 7:30 a.m., and the program will include three expert speakers, door prizes, a centerpiece contest, and exhibits by members of the Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners Association.

We hope you’ll join us!

Keynote speaker: Peter J. Hatch is a professional gardener and historian with 38

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years experience in the restoration, care and interpretation of historic landscapes. He is a celebrated author of four books on the gardens of Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello, where he served as Director of Gardens and Grounds for 35 years. Hatch has lectured in 36 states on Jefferson and the history of garden plants. Presently, he gardens and botanizes from his home in Virginia, travels extensively to promote his latest work, A Rich Spot of Earth: Thomas Jefferson’s Revolutionary Gardens at Monticello, and consults on the installation and maintenance of both public gardens and private estate landscapes.

WilliamWelch is a professor and TexasAgriLife Extension Service Landscape Horticultural Sciences at Texas A&M University.

His books, Perennial Garden Color and Antique Roses for the South, have been best sellers. He

considers the plants grown by ancestors as living antiques, because they are tangible symbols of success for generations of gardeners. In addition to his books, he is a regular contributor to Southern Living Magazine.

Chris Wiesinger is a graduate of Texas A&M University, owner of The Southern Bulb Company near Tyler, TX and a member of Texas AgriLife Extension Service was dubbed “The Bulb Hunter” in a 2006 New York Times feature story. What started as a personal passion and college project turned into a lifestyle and profitable business. His book, The Bulb Hunter, a story of his adventures to find, grow and propagate heirloom bulbs that had fallen out of fashion and off the market, was co-authored by William Welch.

The Real Facelift CONTINUED FROM PAGE 115

How can I make the results of a facelift last longer?

Good genes are probably the most important way, but we don’t have any control over that. Common sense things like adequate sleep, a healthy diet and regular exercise help. So does a good skin care regimen involving retinols or retin-A. Minimally invasive procedures like regular microdermabrasion, Fraxel laser treatments, Botox and the judicious use of fillers like Radiesse, Juvederm, Restylane and Belotero are also a great way to maintain the results of a facelift. All of these things are available at my office.

Facelift surgery has evolved over the past century from simple procedures that merely pull on the skin, to more sophisticated operations that relocate skin, fat and muscle and put them back where they came from. I am fortunate to have been trained in Dallas

by some of the recognized masters of facial cosmetic surgery - Drs. Fritz Barton, Sam Hamra, Steve Byrd and others - at an exciting and innovative time in the development of facelift techniques. We were taught how to avoid the stigmata of a bad facelift and to deliver a safe, reliable, natural, lasting result.

The broad and extensive experience I received during my training has been fine-tuned during the 25 years I’ve been in practice in Monroe. You can’t reverse the effects of gravity with levity. It takes a real facelift done by an experienced, board certified plastic surgeon.

So if you are interested in a real facelift – one that delivers a natural and lasting result – call Mickel Plastic Surgery at 388-2050 for a comprehensive evaluation.

Dr. Mickel is certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery and is a member of the American Society of Plastic Surgery.

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Traveler. Entrepreneur. Philanthropist. These are a few words that could be used to describe Sidney Wilhite. A man of few words and multitudes of adventures and experiences, Wilhite shares his story as this month’s Bayou Icon.

Article by APRIL S KELLEY | Photography by BRAD ARENDER t all began with hunting. As a boy born and raised in West Monroe, hunting and shooting became one of Wilhite’s favorite activities. He would hunt every day after school and any other chance he got. It was at this time that saving also became ingrained in Wilhite’s personality. He would save up every tiny bit of money he could to buy single gun shells because at the time he could not afford an entire box.

As a teenager, Wilhite began recycling, a habit that would become a vital template for his company. A self-proclaimed ladies’ man, Wilhite played football at West Monroe High School, not because he enjoyed football but because he thought it would be a good way to attract girls. In order to pay for dates, Wilhite would drive around in his car and attached trailer hitch, picking up scap metal to recycle in exchange for cash.

After high school, Wilhite began the busiest time in his life. He attended college, joined the military and started a family all in the same time period.

Wilhite’s mother really wanted him to attend college, even though it was not something Wilhite necessarily wanted. Keeping with his mother’s wishes, Wilhite graduated from Northeast Louisiana University, currently known as the University of Louisiana at Monroe.

“I got the simplest degree I could get. I had no idea what I wanted to do back then, no idea what I would become.” Wilhite said.

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uring this same time, Wilhite also joined the US Army Reserve 95th Division with his cousin. “We, my cousin and I, joined the Reserve Unit before the draft. So we missed the draft, thank goodness,” Wilhite said.

Wilhite spent his time in the military training troops at Fort Polk and participating in shooting competitions with the 5th Army Division Rifles Team. He became a professional marksman. The money he won and saved from these competitions would become the seed money for Louisiana Plastic Industries.

After college and his time in the military, Wilhite began working at Adams Industries, an extinct plastic company, from which he was eventually fired. Instead of becoming discouraged, Wilhite took action, paving his own destiny. “When I got fired, it was a big change. I didn’t have anything except $3000,” Wilhite said. He decided to purchase a burn machine that recycled plastic with his saved earnings from the shooting competitions. This was the beginning of Louisiana Plastic Industries.

“A friend of mine was doing plastic in Beaumont, Texas. I bought the machine from him for 3000 bucks. I drug it up here, got it going and away it went. There was a tremendous shortage of plastic back then. If you had a recycling operation back then, you had your foot in the ground,” Wilhite said.

At first, Louisiana Plastic Industries was sort of a garage-business with only one machine. Wilhite would drive around picking up scraps of plastic off of the side of the road to recycle with his machine, much like in high school when he would pick up scrap metal. “There’s no such thing as scrap plastic. It’s money,” said Wilhite.

With a lot of hard work, however, the business started growing.

“It’d be hot as hell. I’d get out there.

Sweat all day. Sweat all night. Get up in the morning and do it all again, till I finally got it going right,” Wilhite said.

Wilhite credits the entirety of his success to a book by Og Mandino called The Greatest Salesman in the World. This book was actually given to Wilhite by the very man who fired him from Adams Industries, prior to his Louisiana Plastic Industries success.

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“This was given to me by the boy at Adams Industries that fired me. I didn’t really pay attention to it at the time but I started reading it close and applying it to what I was doing. And it does apply very well. I was able to start a business by using this book,” Wilhite said.

It is this book that taught him the fundamental characteristics of a lucrative and successful life and career, and he recommends it whole-heartedly to everyone. According to Wilhite, this book will lead to nothing but dreams fulfilled. “Read this book, you will get what you want. Read it a bunch of times. I promise you. This book got all of this – LPI, this land, this house. Seri-

ously, you will be rich if you read this book,” Wilhite said.

Once Louisiana Plastic Industries became a household name, Wilhite returned to his oldest passion. He bought land in Mer Rouge, Louisiana, specifically for duck hunting. “That’s all it was, just a hole in the ground with water,” Wilhite said.

Over the years, he kept adding on to this hunting ground till it was a 10,000 acre farm.

Finally, after much time and profit, Wilhite began traveling the world. Traveling became another one of his coveted passions.

He has traveled everywhere from Australia to New Zealand to China to Russia to Ice-

land to the Arctic, and he yearns to travel more.

As a boy, he loved stories like Tarzan that took place in the faraway lands of Africa. As he grew older, he became fascinated with Hemingway’s tales of big game hunting in The Green Hills of Africa. This, along with books by other big game hunters such as Peter Hathaway Capstick and Robert Ruark and novels by South African historical fiction writer Wilbur A. Smith, led to the over thirty trips he has made to the country.

He claims that he did not become a true hunter until he began his voyages to Africa.

“The first time I took a trip to Africa, I became a professional hunter,” Wilhite said.

After apartheid ended, no one was sure what was going to happen to the country. A lot of people had lost their businesses in Africa. At this time, Wilhite was on a hunt and he came across some beautiful land. He went to a bar with the owner, made a deal and bought it. Wilhite bought some 20,000 acres in Bonwa Phala which means ‘the drinking place’ and started the Wilhite Safari and Outfitter Company of Africa. He stocked the land with game and had a staff of about thirty. It was a successful hunting outfit and safari. Wilhite sold this land five years ago.

Africa bred a big game hunter in Wilhite. He went on to hunt all kinds of big game, from the Grizzly Bear to the Polar Bear. His house is evidence of his skill, with the grizzly bear, the polar bear, dozens of ducks and deer displayed proudly as trophies of his hunting expertise.

His most difficult hunt was the polar bear. For ten days, he traveled via dog sled across the Arctic, staying in igloos and feasting on Spam. “The polar bear was the hardest thing. You froze. The tips of your fingers would freeze. If you took them out of your gloves for just a minute or two, they’d turn black,” Wilhite said.

When he finally killed the polar bear, Wilhite was so excited that he called his wife, Charlene, from a satellite phone to tell her about his triumph. “The whole thing took ten days, but I messed up and took my gloves off to call Charlene,” Wilhite said.

As an experienced and professional marksman, Wilhite never took to hunting with anything but a gun, often killing even his largest prey with only one shot.

“Normally, you’d be scared, but you’ve got a big gun. I always use a gun, a .375. Stick a bear in the ass with an arrow, then you’ve got real trouble,” Wilhite said.

Wilhite has traveled all over the place and ingested so much culture and cultural cuisine as well. From boiled moose meat in Russia to grubs and bugs in Africa, Wilhite has literally taken a bite out of life experience.

Not only did Wilhite test out strange culinary delights while traveling around the world, but he had many amazing experiences.

He slept in the Kalahari listening to the lions in the cold of night. He enjoyed African music. He went to the Symphony every chance he got. One of his favorite experiences was attending the Russian ballet.

He had not wanted to go, but his wife, Charlene, dragged him and he loved it.

“They are absolutely perfect,” Wilhite said.

“NORMALLY YOU’D BE SCARED, but you’ve got a big gun. I always use a gun, a .375. Stick a bear in the ass with an arrow, then YOU’VE GOT REAL TROUBLE.” Throughout all of his adventures, Wilhite kept a detailed diary of all of his hunts and trips around the world. “Botswana is the most beautiful country. You wouldn’t believe it,” Wilhite said.

Back here in his hometown, Wilhite has become quite the philanthropist over the years. He was one of the first individuals to ever donate to Monroe’s Chennault Aviation & Military Museum. He also funds two scholarships at ULM. In addition, he has also donated to the First Baptist Church of West Monroe, the church he grew up in.

Wilhite also made sizeable contributions to various other schools and churches throughout his life.

Some of his largest contributions go towards the military through his purchases of guns, artillery and paraphernalia. He became borderline-obsessed with WWII. He devoured books like Stephen E. Ambrose’s Band of Brothers, visited military museums and continued to collect all the war memorabilia he could find.

Displayed around his television set in his living room are countless guns and other weaponry from WWII. There are also display cases with numerous medals and other knickknacks from the war as well.

Some of Wilhite’s first travels out of Monroe were driven by his love for all things military. He would drive to Vicksburg to go to the Vicksburg National Military Park, which he still visits frequently today. “I always went to Vicksburg, Mississippi. That’s where I started traveling. Back and forth, back and forth. I still go today,” Wilhite said.

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stands ferociously at one corner of his main room while the polar bear lurks on the opposite end. Animal skin rugs line the floor.

And all of his war artifacts and weaponry are interspersed throughout.

Stepping into Wilhite’s house is like stepping into his world. With a wooly mammoth skull at the entranceway, one immediately becomes entranced with the life of this unique man before the speaking even begins. His house is a visual history of his entire life, and it feels the way one would imagine Ernest Hemingway’s or Hunter Thompson’s house may have been.

Wilhite spends his days reflecting on his hunts and his travels while planning more in the comfort of his one-of-a-kind home. He owns land and a home in Alaska, where he stays from May to September every year.

“It is absolutely wonderful,” Wilhite said of his Alaskan home.

Wilhite has also been philanthropic in Alaska as well, donating funds to his church, the Little Log Cabin Church of Alaska.

While grateful for all of his successful endeavors and opportunities, Wilhite cannot stress enough how important perseverance is for success in any field.

“Perseverance. That’s it. Don’t quit.

Make your mind up, and don’t quit. That’s my advice to you,” Wilhite said.

Nowadays, Wilhite enjoys his quiet home life in his West Monroe home until his annual Christmas party.

Hundreds of people attend a Christmas celebration at his home on the second Thursday in December every year. With food and music and the largest and longest fireworks display in the area, Wilhite’s Christmas parties have become a legendary event. He has loved fireworks since he was a boy, and every year he tries to put on an even bigger and better show.

“It’s big, people line up on the highway to see it. The bigger it is, the better it is,” Wilhite said.

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business as Ross and John Mark would often help Sidney pick up found plastic when they were young boys.

“We recycle big time over there now.

They’re doing a better job than I was doing,” Wilhite said.

Without question, Sidney Wilhite has proven to be an instrumental individual in Northeast Louisiana. He put an entire company on the map, by working hard and developing it from a garage-business into a full-fledged corporation. He gave back to the community at every chance he could.

From donating funds to hosting political fundraisers at his home, Wilhite supports his hometown region tremendously.

All of his travels and hunting excursions just add to the amazingly impressive and uniquely captivating person that is Sidney Wilhite. He is nothing short of a local hero who we can all live vicariously through. He has experienced more than most do in ten lifetimes, and for that, we can all be inspired.

We Deliver...

Quality Care

Morehouse General Hospital Provides Quality Care and Delivery Services For Mothers and Babies

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OREHOUSE GENERAL HOSPITAL HAS PROUDLY SERVED residents of Northeast Louisiana and Southeast Arkansas since 1930. Delivering babies is one of the things that we do best. We love bringing new babies into the world at Morehouse General Hospital; and we are committed to providing quality healthcare before, during and after birth for all of our mothers and their babies.

Dr. Janos Guoth graduated medical school in Hungary and relocated to the US in 1986. He completed his residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Cincinnati, College of Medicine in Cincinnati, Ohio. Dr. Guoth has practiced in the US for more than 25 years and has been a valued

member of the Morehouse General Hospital medical staff for the last 6 years. He is board certified with the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology. He is located at 425 South Vine Street. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 281-8555.

Dr. Curtis Sanders earned his medical degree from the University of Kansas, School of Medicine in 1996. He completed his internship and residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at LSU Health Sciences Center in Shreveport in 2000. He practiced at EA Conway in Monroe for 12 years before joining the medical staff at Morehouse General Hospital.

Dr. Sanders is board certified by the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is a Fellow of the American College of Obstetri-

cians and Gynecologists. He is located at 618 South Washington. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 281-5035.

Dr. Martin Young graduated from the University of London, in London, England.

He completed a fellowship in pediatric endocrinology at Children’s Hospital of Boston and is a member of the Endocrine Society and the American Diabetes Association. Dr. Young has practiced for more than 30 years and in 2012 joined the medical staff at Morehouse General Hospital. He is located at 420 South Vine Street. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 283-3032.

Rachel Waller is a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner who has more than 10 years’ experience caring for pediatric patients. She graduated from the University of Louisiana at Monroe with a BSN, and went on to obtain her Master’s Degree from Grambling University. Rachel is certified by the Pediatric Nursing Certification Board and is now a member of the Morehouse General Hospital medical staff. She is located at 420 South Vine. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 283-3032.

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The Children’s Coalition for NELA

A Focus on Fatherhood

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ORE THAN 24 MILLION CHILDREN LIVE IN A HOME

without the physical presence of a father. Millions more have dads who are physically present, but emotionally absent. If it were classified as a disease, fatherlessness would be an epidemic worthy of attention as a national emergency. The Children’s Coalition for Northeast Louisiana invites you to be part of a national fatherhood initiative to improve the lives of children by inspiring and equipping fathers and father figures to be actively engaged in the life of every child.

The Coalition is a non-profit organization dedicated to creating communities where children and families thrive. Lynda Gavioli first breathed life into the organization in 1998 and remained at the helm until the summer of 2014, when Dr. Lynn Clark, PK-12 educator and professor, assumed the reins of the Coalition. Like Gavioli, Clark believes that the best problem solving for children and families occurs at the local level through collaborative efforts from all parts of the community—non-profits, government agencies, civic and faith-based organizations, businesses, families and individuals.

For the past seven years, Gatha Green, Director of Parenting at the Coalition, has been a tireless advocate and educator for parenting in all forms. Leading workshops for parents that ranged from teen parents to grandparents, foster and adoptive parents and even bi-lingual workshops for migrant workers, Green has inspired and equipped those who parent with the skills and attitudes necessary to nurture and support children. Because of her commitment and work, this year’s What Works Conference will be dedicated to parenting.

The Coalition realized in 2011 that there was a need to share the knowledge it had gained regarding research based studies and best practices with childcare providers and educators throughout the state. With this in mind, Children’s Coalition created the concept of a conference where educators and child care professionals could gather to share information and learn from leaders in their fields. In 2012, the Coalition hosted their first large-scale conference: What Works: Birth to Adolescence.

January 16 and 17 What Works Conference: Parent is a Verb January 16-17, 2015 will be the third What Works conference for the Coalition. The conference will provide several career paths that will provide Continuing Educational Units (CEUs) in specific areas – education, nursing, social work — as well as evidence– based practices and research relating to Nurturing Fathers, Share Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support, Adolescent Sexual Health and Substance Abuse and Early Childhood and Development.

This year, the conference will focus on fathering and how we all “parent” the children in our personal and professional lives.

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CAREY CASEY Featured Guest Speaker The Coalition hopes to engage families, as well as educators and child care professionals, with the idea that “parent” is a verb. To parent a child is an ongoing responsibility and opportunity to nurture into adulthood—not merely the moniker given to the person who contributed DNA to the child. Even though we may not be cognizant of it, our daily interactions and regular interplay with children and youth are an act of parenting. Mothers, fathers, friends, relatives, school and church leaders—all play significant roles in actively parenting the children and youth of our community.

January 15 Dad’s Draft Day Dinner The Children’s Coalition has chosen a roster of renowned speakers and educators to lead the conference. Most notably, they have invited Carey Casey, a dynamic individual and extraordinary speaker to host the conference kick-off on Thursday evening at the men-only dinner event, The Dad’s Draft Day. Carey is known throughout the country for his vast and various accomplishments—hall of fame alumnus at UNC-Chapel Hill, champion of fatherhood initiatives, charismatic speaker on men’s topics, acclaimed author, and CEO of the Kansas City-based National Center for Fathering (NCF).

“Our research at the National Center for Fathering clearly teaches us that every child needs an engaged father, grandfather or father figure,” says Casey.

Throughout his work across the country, Casey has earned a reputation as a compelling and energizing communicator, especially on the topic of men being capable and effective fathers. He

is known as a compassionate ambassador, particularly within the American sports community. He joined the NCF in 2006 after 18 years in various roles with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including executive director of the OneWay2Play program, the firstever National Urban director and president of the FCA Foundation. His career has also included serving as chaplain at the 1988 Summer Olympic Games in Seoul, South Korea, chaplain for the Dallas Cowboys under Hall of Fame Coach Tom Landry, and chaplain for the Kansas City Chiefs. He continues to speak on life issues for numerous professional and college sports teams across America.

Casey serves on the White House Task Force on Fatherhood and Healthy Families. He is also a member of the executive committee of the National Fatherhood Leaders Group, which promotes responsible fatherhood policy, research, advocacy and practice. In June 2012, he was honored by the White House Office of Public Engagement and Office of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships as a “Champion of Change” in the field of fatherhood.

His career naturally gravitated toward sports and male team building as a result of his own definitive life experiences on the field. In high school, Casey played in the 1971 Virginia State Championship football game—the game later dramatized in the award-winning film, Remember the Titans. Casey is still friends with the former Titans coach Herman Boone and many of the people he was portrayed along with in the movie.

Casey received his bachelor’s degree from the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill. As a running back, he helped lead the school’s football team to the Atlantic Coast Conference in 1977. He has gone on to serve as a lecturer at the World Congress on Sports, the college football Senior Bowl, the National Association of Basketball Coaches Convention at the Final Four, and the Super Bowl.

He has been featured in many local and national publications and broadcasts, including The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, “Fox and Friends,” ESPN.com, and ESPN’s “Quite Frankly” with Stephen A. Smith. He is the author of the book Championship Fathering: How to Win at Being a Dad and general editor of The 21-Day Dad’s Challenge.

Casey looks forward to sharing his entertaining and moving insights with the fathers of Northeast Louisiana on Thursday, January 15 at the Monroe Civic Center Arena. As part of the What Works Conference and the Coalition’s focus on fatherhood, the Dad’s Draft Day Dinner offers reserved tables of eight where fathers and father figures of all ages can enjoy Casey’s captivating and often hilarious observations and wisdom. During Casey’s commentary, guests will also enjoy barbeque from Memphis Ribs World Champion and contestant on TLC’s “BBQ PitMasters” Rhoda Brown’s Hogwash Caboose. It promises to be an evening to remember.

“We must continue to inspire and equip fathers to be more involved with their children in order to give each child a better future and create a positive fathering legacy,” Casey says.

To be a part of this extraordinary and meaningful event, visit the Children’s Coalition at www.childrenscoalition.org.

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More Than Just a Flower Shop

The Flower Tree Has Been Delighting Its Customers for Over 40 Years

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UCKED AWAY IN BASTROP, LA IS one of the best kept secrets. Well, the cat is now out of the bag! The Flower Tree is a full service flower and gift shop that has been delighting its customers for over 40 years. The shop features two licensed designers with a team of talented florists behind them, ready to design whatever you need.

From an everyday bouquet to brighten someone’s day or that special corsage for your daughter’s first prom, they have you covered.

Where they really shine is their custom work.

No matter the occasion, The Flower Tree designers sit down with you and take the time to make an arrangement that will reflect the sentiment that you want to convey.

Their custom wedding work has been featured on theKnot.com and comes with over 50 years of combined experience, bring-

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ing you an assurance that your flowers will be perfect. They like to say “he chose her, but she chose us.” It is a reminder that their reputation and ability to bring the freshest flowers in the design and theme that the bride chose is important to them.

The shop also designs for homes and businesses. Whether a front door needs a little extra welcoming from their grapevine garlands or a business would want a custom look for the holidays; The Flower Tree is there to help.

The gift lines that the shop features run from fun to traditional. They proudly feature Louisiana and Southern-made products.

Their artisan candle line from So Delta features hand-poured soy candles in mason jars and highlight Southern scents such as: Sweet Tea, Delta Dawn, Rosemont and Crossroads. The

Jazz candle line made in Louisiana are clean burning soy candles with a look that would be complimentary in homes and business alike, with scents such as Love Spell, Voodoo Doll and Big Easy, you are sure to find a scent you love. Food-safe handmade pottery is available in plates, bowls and platters and are sure to please any one on your gift list.

Southern made copper trays in the shape of Louisiana and sets of gumbo spoons are sure to help you not only with entertaining but make great hostesses gifts as well. The Flower Tree also provides complimentary gift wrapping to make everything easy.

Remember if it’s got to be unique, if it’s got to be special, if it’s got to be beautiful…

Then it has got to be the Flower Tree.

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You Won’t Want to Miss the Holiday Deals at Sleepy Hollow Furniture

HE HOLIDAYS ARE HERE AND even with all of the hustle and bustle, our homes usually get bumped to the top of the priority list! Spending time with family and friends in a beautifully decorated home seems to make the season come to life. Memories are created and moments are shared, giving joy to carry us into the New Year. Through all the planning and decorating, it is easy to create our own wish lists! A little something here, a pretty something there gives new life to your home.

Sleepy Hollow Furniture has just what you need and WANT! For your own home, our HGTV Home Furniture collection adds color and style to any room. A beautifully lighted curio for displaying Christmas

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china, a raffia chest to display your snow village, a new dining table to seat your extra guests. Your home is your showpiece.

Let us help make it picture perfect!

Finding that perfect gift is another top priority of the holiday season! We know it can be a challenge to find that special item for that special person. This season, choose from thousands of in-stock gifts and quickship gifts for your whole shopping list!

Our most popular holiday favorites include: Sofa Beds offered in a choice of 3 colors, 5 piece dining set, Glider with Ottoman offered in choice of 2 colors, Dressing Mirror, Vanity with Stool in choice of 3 finishes, Home Office Desk and Chair Set, Bunkbeds.

For simple luxury: 1800 Threadcount

Sheet Sets, Brushed Microfiber Sheet Sets, Bed Lounge Chair, Lavender Memory Foam Pillow, Gelled Microfiber Pillow, Nanobeads Pillow, Sound Resistant Sleep Mask, Sleep Elevating Bed Wedge, Bed-ina-Bag Sets, and of course, BEANBAGS!!!!

And don’t forget to make your guests comfortable! When was the last time you slept on your guest bed, sofa bed or couch?

Consider our Holiday Specials on Mattress Sets for your guests. Or better yet, upgrade your own mattress and move yours to the guest room!

From Home to Gifts to Comfort, Sleepy Hollow Furniture has your Needs List and Wish List handled for you! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from our family to yours!

Celebrate You This Holiday Season

Sparkle Inside and Out with Help from Professional Laser Center

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BY JUDY WAGONER

HRISTMAS IS THE SEASON OF giving, so give someone the gift they've been dreaming of. Professional Laser Center has a plethora of services and procedures to help with your gift-giving this year.

The Vampire FaceLift is our newest procedure. It's the Secret "Blood Method" to revive youth and restore beauty. The Vampire FaceLift is a non-surgical, no downtime form of facial rejuvenation that uses the patient’s own blood to lift and restore the healthy glow to the skin of the face. While women may like their facial features, many would like to improve dullness, lack of color, sagging and wrinkles. Dr. Victor Zuckerman is currently the only physician certified to perform the Vampire FaceLift in Monroe and across north Louisiana.

Intense Pulsed Light is one of our most

popular procedures. It's a non-invasive light system that treats a variety of skin conditions, including Rosacea, lentigines (brown spots), hyper pigmentation and sun damage. The intense light causes the destruction of spider veins and damaged cells that signal sun damage (brown spots). It also decreases pore size and tightens skin.

Other popular services include Laser Hair Removal, which removes hair permanently in as little as six to eight treatments. Our Pinpointe Foot Laser is incredibly popular throughout the entire Ark-La-Miss. With just one treatment, you can say goodbye to nail fungus. It's painless and requires no downtime.

Dermapen Microneedling induces new collagen through the delivery of needles into the epidermis and dermis. These micro injuries

allow the body’s innate ability to re-grow and repair the skin. Dermapen offers a solution for many skin conditions including wrinkles and fine lines, acne scarring, stretch marks, skin tightening, lifting and rejuvenation.

Some of our older but still popular services include Endermologie for the treatment of cellulite, microdermabrasion with the use of diamonds, our Blue Violet ClearLight that stops acne in its tracks and the Ideal Protein Weight Loss Method. Since Professional Laser Center introduced this diet to the state five years ago, we've taken thousands of pounds and inches off our clients.

If your Christmas wish is to restore your "Natural Beauty,” Professional Laser Center is here to help.

Merry Christmas to all!

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When Your Holiday Tune Is the Blues

Depression and the Holidays

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HE HOLIDAY SEASON CAN bring with it unwelcome stress and depression. Long winter nights and the overwhelming demands of the holiday season, for many, can trigger feelings of sadness or anxiety making it difficult to enjoy oneself.

Further, unresolved grief can surface when thoughts of absent loved ones interfere with daily functioning. Some may even develop psychological symptoms, such as moodiness or irritability, as well as physical symptoms such as headache, sleep disturbance and fatigue in response to increased stressors. Prolonged stress and depression can have adverse effects to both mental and physical health and should not be taken lightly. While many experience the “holiday blues” this time of year, some may require treatment to return to a healthier level of functioning.

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Whether you are experiencing seasonal sadness or suffering from a more serious clinical depression, Delhi Hospital Counseling Services can help.

Our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) provides mental health treatment to adults and older adults. Clients reap the benefits of the social support provided in our group counseling program, while therapists utilize best practice counseling techniques according to each client’s individualized treatment plan.

Our multidisciplinary treatment team consists of caring and appropriately licensed professionals representing the fields of psychiatry, social work, counseling, marriage and family therapy and nursing. We also offer less intensive outpatient behavioral health services for ages 5 and older. Our experienced Licensed Clinical Social Workers, Lola Coleman and

Joni McDonald, provide individual, group and family counseling in a therapeutic environment according to the client’s individual needs.

If you or a loved one are experiencing distressing symptoms including depression, social isolation, hopelessness, suicidal ideation, anxiety, mood fluctuations, agitation, panic attacks, unresolved grief, family conflict and difficulty coping with stress or trauma, contact our office for a confidential assessment and treatment recommendations.

Let Delhi Hospital Counseling Services help restore your joy, good cheer and optimism this holiday season.

For more information contact Delhi Hospital IOP (318) 878-6376 or Delhi Clinic Behavioral Health Services (318) 878-6383.

Wake Up a New You This Christmas

Give Yourself the Gift of Good Sleep

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F YOU HAVE EVER SPENT CHRISTMAS

Eve tossing and turning all night, you understand how much that lack of sleep can put a damper on your holiday spirit.

Your sleepless winter nights may be just a temporary result of the stress of the holidays, but if your sleep problems are more than seasonal and interfere with your daily life, you may be suffering from a sleep disorder. A bad night’s sleep can significantly affect your mental health, physical healthy quality of life and safety.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about 50-70 million American adults have a sleep disorder.

Most notably, 18 million of those suffer from obstructive sleep apnea. This sleep disorder is the result of airways in the back

of the throat failing to stay open while you sleep, despite your body’s efforts to breath.

The result? Snoring, pauses in breathing, choking and gasping for air in the middle of the night. All of these symptoms not only interrupt your sleep—leaving you tired and groggy during the day—but they also reduce your blood oxygen levels and can lead to more chronic medical conditions such as heart disease, high blood pressure, heart attack, stroke and depression.

Another common sleep disorder is insomnia, or the inability to fall asleep or stay asleep. Acute insomnia is typically due to life circumstances like a stressful week at work or receiving bad news. However, people may suffer from chronic insomnia, if

they experience symptoms three or more times a week for three or more months in a row.

The experts at Delhi Hospital can turn your sleepless nights around. Delhi Hospital Sleep Center features a comfortable and homey sleeping environment with queen size adjustable beds, Sealy Posturepedic mattresses, HD televisions and private restrooms. Our professional staff offers access to close-to-home sleep studies and treatment options in a hospital-based setting.

So you can go from feeling like you could sleep right through the holidays to waking up a new you full of the holiday spirit.

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The Road to the World Ralph Brockman talks to BayouLife Magazine about traveling the globe in pursuit of the hunt

Goes Through Monroe Article by Kenny Covington and Photography by Martin G Meyers

Before you can hunt for it, you have to know where to find it “I remember pitching pennies with the other kids when I would go to the movies each Saturday. Seems I would always come home with a pocket full of them. But I always went back the next weekend, to give them a chance to win their pennies back,” the gentlemen said with a thought filled look on his face. “I would ride my bike,” he continued “That bike would take me everywhere.”

That bike and an eagerness to go someplace new, lay the foundation for Ralph Brockman, long before he became an Ole Miss graduate and future business owner, and his travels would lead him to places to hunt all over the world. Many people know Mr. Brockman as the owner of Brockman Enterprises in Monroe, but I wonder how many people know that he could probably serve as a travel guide on how to get to the end of the world in an airplane and what species of animal you could hunt once you arrived?

As I sat in his outer office waiting for the time for our meeting to start, I marveled at the various head mounts of exotic animals from around the world. I had watched bits and pieces of numerous hunting shows over the years, with a specific species being the target for that week’s episode, but I had never spoken to anyone who had actually “been there and done that” as a self-directed passionate quest, not just a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

As I looked around his office at the evidence of his hunting expertise, I asked, “What are you searching for? Why do you do it?”

That one question was the beginning of mesmerizing conversations filled with an eye opening series of stories, quips and candid observations.

He began, “I love to travel. I love to hunt. It started when I was a kid. Squirrels, deer, the typical local things we hunt when we are younger. But hunting is more than that. I love the art involved. To get the animal you want, you have to go to it. You are not just hunting the animal you want. You have to find where it is located, either the section of the woods, state or country in which it can be found. You find the best outfitter, make the best travel arrangements and decide the best time period that fits your schedule. Hunting is not just about pulling the trigger; it’s about the entire process.”

“People would be surprised with how much we have in common with the rest of the world, “ he continued, “Each society has their good and bad, those who want it (success) and those that don’t. A good society will help care for those who can’t provide for themselves; however, but in doing so, you have to make sure you don’t take away the desire for them to want to improve. I have been to many places where even in poverty there is dignity.”

I asked him about his love of big game hunting and how the traveling process got started. I mentioned that his son Alan, had told me when he was a kid, a lot of his friends thought his father was an undercover spy working for the government, because he was always gone or leaving for some place they hadn’t heard of or didn’t know existed. In actuality, Mr. Brockman’s lifetime pursuit began quite innocently.

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“I think it was in the late 1960s, when I took my first big game hunting trip. I went to Colorado. I took one hunt a year, maybe two.

That’s when I decided I wanted to complete the North American Big Game Slam. But back then it was different than it is today. When I started, a person could take a five species hunt for a couple thousand dollars. It definitely isn’t that way anymore.”

His decision has now led him on adventures around the world.

He has been on at least eleven African safaris and to Europe and Russia. Just a few weeks ago, a planned trip to Iran was cancelled at the last minute. But he hasn’t given up on that trip just yet.

“Have you ever been afraid on one of these trips like as in ‘what have I gotten myself into’ type of deal?” (On that particular note, I have looked at the list of what are considered to be the most dangerous animals to hunt and Mr. Brockman has taken all of the ones on the list. So I eagerly awaited his answer. But surprisingly his reRALPH BROCKMAN From the woods of Louisiana to the African savannah, Ralph Brockman has hunted the all over the globe.

sponse had nothing to do with the animals he was hunting, it was more humanistic).

“Oh yes, of course,’ he replied “When you are sitting in a car and they tell you, ‘If someone asks you if you can speak English, don’t say anything. Or if they ask if you are from the United States tell them you are from Canada.’ There is nothing quite like traveling up a mountain on a road that is no wider than the car you are riding in, and all you can see outside the window is a long drop. But it’s not just things like that anymore. There are always places where people are looking for trouble. There is always the criminal element. Drugs are the constant concern.” With that he added, “But there is magic in the misery.”

He nodded, smiled slightly and he began to reflect on several topics like conservation and how hunting contributes to it.

“If you regulate and put a monetary value on the animal, through enforcement and sensible harvesting, the animal will thrive.

Smaller countries, of course, are easier to police. Many times, I will be allowed to hunt national parks or game reserves in an effort to try and help manage the animal herds. If there is a certain amount of land that is only capable of withstanding a certain number of animals, some restrictions must be met. It is a delicate balance, but we are getting better in our appreciation of wildlife.”

“Is this true in all countries?” I asked.

“We have learned over the years to try and harvest the more mature animals. This will allow the younger animals to reach maturity.

It also allows us to sustain the maximum population. Animal conservation is of major concern and worldwide we are doing a great job.

They now have hunting conventions where people not only show up to promote their outfitters and their newest hunting establishments, but to learn the newest ideas in conservation and game management.

People realize the importance of it, and that is why we now have more animals to show for it.”

“But what about poaching? What kind of damage has that caused?”

“The best example I can give you is in Africa. The poaching of elephants for their tusks is rampant. The tusks are high priced, and these animals are harvested for the tusks only. They are left to rot and the meat goes to waste. That is just as serious of a crime.”

I offered that I felt that people who set yo-yos, trot lines or fish-

nets out without checking them and leave fish to die are just as bad as the guy who kills a deer out of season.

Mr. Brockman agreed, “People have to be more aware and learn how to take care of the resource.”

I asked about Bighorn Sheep, and if it were true that he was considered one of the best at hunting that particular species. With a slight laugh he smiled and said, “I don’t know if that is true or not, but I do enjoy that type of hunting.”

“What makes it so enjoyable to you?” I asked.

“The difficulty of it. Bighorn Sheep have excellent eyesight and a keen sense of smell. It’s a lot of work to get one of them. You have to go over and around mountains to even attempt to get into gun range. Even with today’s technology, my hat is off to anyone who can kill a Bighorn Sheep with a bow. And remember every animal has what they consider to be “a safety distance” where they feel comfortable. Bighorn Sheep always look down the mountain, which is why you have to maneuver your way around so that you can get above him to get a possible shot. And even when you have moved from one side of the mountain to a section above him, there is still no guarantee that he will be where you last saw him. So there is a lot that goes into it.”

I asked him if that is why it takes so long to make a hunting show when they target Bighorn Sheep. He responded, “Sometimes it takes them a couple of years to film one hunt.”

As our conversation came to a close, I asked again my earlier question, “So why do you do it, the travel, the hunting? What drives you?”

After a slight pause, Mr. Brockman replied, “My father died when I was 21. He was 43. Somewhere in your mind you have given yourself a time frame to get all the things done that you have planned on doing, and I felt like I had a limited amount of time. I just knew I had to crowd a lot of living into a limited amount of time. I just got lucky enough that my time ran over.”

“I have accomplished my hunting goals; however, I still plan to keep traveling and hunting. If there comes a time when I will only be able to stalk a squirrel, shoot at a dove or take my grandkids hunting because I can no longer travel, that’s fine. You tend to realize when you are on the downslide that life comes around full circle.”

I had my answer.

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Diwali Gala

A little slice of India made its way to Monroe Nov. 1, as organizers staged the annual Diwali Gala at the B.D. Robinson Conference Hall of the Monroe Civic Center. Diwali is one of the largest annual celebrations in Hindu culture, and it features prominently the exchange of gifts.

Diwali is celebrated for five days, with continuous activities throughout the celebration. The third night is the largest of the celebrations, and is known as "The Festival of Lights."

In addition to Indian cuisine provided by Taste of India, visitors also browsed a bazaar and enjoyed Indian arts and crafts, including a large Diwali mandala crafted entirely of colored rice.

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1 Nandini Sunkireddy, Sookham Dhaliwal, Simran Emaus and Alpha Patel 2 Vanelis Rivera, Arely Castillo and Gaby Landress 3 Back row: Hansin Tatuskar, Samantha Roby and Sushma Kshirsagar; Front row: PrincessTatuskar, Neharika Roby and Ishwari Kshirsagar 4 Wendy Napoli, Lynn Clark, JoJo Clark and Beth Ricks 5 Olivia Remsberg and Brittney Lindsey 6 Vivek Gullapalli and Arjun Dhaliwal 7 Krunali Bhagat and Satveer Kaur

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Couple Chooses to Change Their Future Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery Patients Jamette and Robert Tolbert Tell Their Story

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AMETTE TOLBERT DECIDED TO undergo the gastric sleeve surgery at Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery, because she knew if she didn’t make a change, time with her new husband would be “very short.” Jamette lost 90 pounds. Her husband—inspired by her success—underwent the same surgery and lost 97 pounds.

She said, “I wanted to spend as many waking moments with him as I possibly could, and being healthy was the only way.”

Robert agreed, saying, “The real nugget out of all of this is now I have many more years with my beautiful and gorgeous wife!”

Read their inspiring story below.

How has the surgery changed their lives?

Jamette: For almost 20 years, I felt like I had no control, and my health was just spiral-

ing. The gastric sleeve was my lifeline. I no longer suffer from anxiety, depression and high blood pressure. Now, I can go walking and enjoy dinner with my husband without worrying about squeezing into a booth and people staring.

Robert: I have struggled with my weight for the last 20 years. I lost 87 pounds in 2005, but the love for food never leaves you, and life catches up with you. The weight returned, twice as fast. I felt like a failure all of the time because of the extra weight. Now, I absolutely enjoy wearing clothes that fit and bending over to tie my shoes without holding my breath or getting winded. After the surgery, I ceased taking prescribed medication for diabetes, high blood pressure and thyroid issues.

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What were their proudest moments after the surgery?

Jamette: I realized I could actually wear my 14-year-old daughter’s jeans! I knew what the scales showed and what people were saying, but I didn't feel it until that moment.

Stopping all of my medications was another life change.

Robert: I was going through clothes in the closet and found a pair of slacks, size 34 waist. They FIT! I danced around the closet and came out of the closet in tears. I grabbed my wife in shock, and I was unbelievably overcome with emotion. This surgery and process have literally changed my life. Food no longer has control and power over me. I eat to live now instead of living to eat!

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Breast cancer continues to be one of the leading killers of women in the United States each year. Glenwood Regional Medical Center hopes to help change that trend through informing women about breast health. Part of that effort is the Think Pink event. This year, the event was held Oct. 17 at the West Monroe Convention Center.

Murphy Brown and Hope and Faith actress Faith Ford was the keynote speaker, and she talked about her life with her husband, screenwriter Campion Murphy, her faith, and her career as an actress, which spans more than twenty years.

Think Pink not only seeks to raise awareness of the risks of breast cancer, it also is held to celebrate the survivors of the disease.

On the BayouScene

1 Stephanie Dunn and Jackie Neal 2 Jennifer Bass and Kathlene Hutchison 3 Brooke Futch and Alana Babb 4 Helen Hogan and Janice Reeves 5 Debbie Pate and Pat Clark 6 Stephanie Sikes and Michelle Williams 7 Dr. Sanjay Joseph, Mary Joseph, Lynn Fabian, Quinci Crane and Ramona Crow 8 Debbie Swan, Demetria Peters and Laura Roberts 9 Peggy Harrison, Joyce Rogan, Linda Childers, Delilah Stringer and Joan Morgan 10 Kelsey Jackson and Charlene Jackson 11 Terri Wilson, Elda Wilson, Loraine Gray, Diana Foreman, Cecelia Hartley and Mary Wafer 12 Becky Clark, Kristen Johnson and Kendra Edwards 13 Amanda Treno and Anne Bennett Colaricci 14 Pam Fontenot and Naomi Bamburg 15 Rachel Valley and Jillian Corder

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Pub Crawl Pilgrimage It was the first Thursday of November, and that meant intrepid pub crawlers braved the first hints of winter to enjoy a brew and crawl their way across town for Pub Crawl Pilgrimage, hosted by Downtown Monroe Renaissance.

The pub crawls are hosted to promote downtown living and take pub crawlers from location to location, beginning downtown at Bry Park. Crawlers collect stamps on their passports at locations from Cotton to Enoch's before ending up at Live Oaks Bar and Ballroom, where one lucky participant took home the grand prize.

The pub crawls are sponsored by Monroe Renaissance, BayouLife, Lamar Outdoor and the Radio People. Also taking part were brew-afficionados Choice Brands, Glazer's and Marsala Beverage.

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1 Brett Bennett, Ashley Williams, Katelynn Denman and Blake Brown 2 Nicole Amman and Delia Simpson 3 Robert Jameson, Zach Lawrence, Kristen Meier, Drew Register, Jacob Broussard, Evans Glasgow and Corry Sampognaro 4 David Alan Whitman, Jessica Lawson and Hannah Barmore 5 Tyler Harris, Lindsay and Andrew Nations 6 Veronica Duchesne and Cindy Johnson

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A Tradition of Excellence River Oaks School Ranked #18 in Louisiana

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IVER OAKS SCHOOL HAS A LONG TRADITION OF excellence, and over the years the school has proved time and again how much its faculty and staff deserve the reputation of being one of the best private schools in Louisiana. Because of a deep focus on a rigorous curriculum, River Oaks students are prepared to succeed in the classroom and in life. Recently, niche.com recognized this fact when it ranked River Oaks School #18 in Louisiana for best private schools.

For River Oaks Headmaster Tom Middleton, the ranking confirms what he's always known about the school: hard work, dedicated staff and faculty and exceptional students produce outstanding work. "This ranking is just one of the many ways in which parents see the benefits of a River Oaks education," said Middleton. "But they don't need an outside source to confirm what they already know. They have confirmation every day, when their children bring home report cards or get into the best colleges."

In fact, River Oaks frequently posts high average ACT scores, and graduating seniors receive thousands of dollars in scholarship awards each year. In addition to a solid foundation for college, River Oaks also provides each Mustang with a firm moral and ethical footing, as well.

It's part of the River Oaks whole person approach to education, according to Middleton. "Parents trust their children to our care, and that's sacred. We take very seriously our responsibility as role models, not just academically, but morally, too," said Middleton. "We strive to instill in each River Oaks student the kinds of values that we, ourselves, strive for."

Those values are exemplified in the River Oaks mission, which emphasizes realizing each student's full potential while reinforcing the ideals of diversity, success and personal excellence. River Oaks isn't just a school. For the faculty, staff, students and their families, it's a way of life. "We are very proud of each of our students, and when they succeed, we succeed," Middleton said.

Registration for the Fall, 2015 term is underway now. For more information or to inquire about admittance, contact River Oaks School at (318) 343-4185. http://k12.niche.com/rankings/private-high-schools/best-overall/s/louisiana/?

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Nice Guy Finishes First

The Love and Admiration of a Daughter Serves as the Inspiration of a New Book

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F ANYONE KNEW HOW TO FIND HER DADDY, IT WAS Carolyn Williams Perry. Whether he was in New York City or Oak Ridge, Louisiana, she’d call the operator, tell her daddy’s hotel name and ask the operator to find him. She was once asked, “Does your mother know you are on the phone?” to which she replied “Yes, we know everything about the phone.” And they did.

CenturyLink Founder, Clarke McRae Williams, rode around on his bicycle collecting monthly bills as an 8-year-old. After returning home from World War II, as a wedding gift, his parents gave him the unprofitable phone company of 75 customers. It was a hot mess of wires tacked to trees, barns and fence posts. Clarke worked three other jobs to feed the family while he tried to build the business. He climbed poles and hung wire in the scorching heat and brutal winters, while trying to build the business. Bankers and business managers agreed that Clarke Williams’ business model would never work…but, it did. His secret was keeping prayer as part of his decision-making, treating everyone as he would like to be treated and putting others first.

Carolyn feared that her father’s story of faith and miracles would be forgotten so she commissioned an author to capture his story.

How Clarke Williams turned an albatross into an industry leader is the focus of this new book, Nice Guy Finishes First: The Clarke Williams Story -- How one man’s belief in the Golden Rule transformed a small phone company into CenturyLink® by Louisiana biographer Leo Honeycutt. “In many ways like Alexander Graham Bell, Clarke Williams always had faith when nobody else did. When the bank turned him down, the moment he prayed, an answer literally drove up in a pickup.”

The book is an excellent idea for a Christmas gift and can be found at the following locations: Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Million, Haneline’s, The Toggery, Ron Alexander, Gingerbread House, Walsworth & Company, Blessings Bookstore, Something Special, Louisiana Purchases, The Muffin Tin and The Trenton House. It can also be purchased online at www.clarkewilliamscenturylink.com.

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Healthy for the Holidays Surviving the Stomach Bug Blues

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ITH GERMS AND VIRUSES GOING AROUND THIS time of year, GI Associates wants to give you a few tips on surviving those stomach bug blues and keeping healthy for the Holidays!

Stomach bug has a quick onset and can have many different causes. It is usually very contagious. Symptoms can include vomiting, diarrhea, abdominal pain, fever, chills and muscle aches.

Symptoms can last for hours or days. It most likely will be gone in 24 to 48 hours with no medical treatment needed. But, it can become more serious quickly in children. When your child has nausea and vomiting, with or without diarrhea, it is a scary thing (especially if the child is an infant). Keeping calm and reassuring the child is important.

When your child has a stomach bug…

• Encourage rest and keep the child at home.

• Infants who are breast-fed should be allowed to feed. Bottle-fed infants can be given small amounts of clear liquid, such as Pedialyte, if they can tolerate it without vomiting.

• When vomiting stops, have your child try small sips of an oral rehydration liquid such as CeraLyte, Enfalyte or Pedialyte. Don’t use only water or only apple juice for very small children.

• The best foods to try first are rice, bananas, potatoes, pretzels, crackers and toast. Avoid dairy products and fatty or sugary foods, as they can make symptoms worse.

Seek medical help right away if your child…

Seems unusually drowsy or non-responsive.

Has bloody vomit or diarrhea.

Shows signs of dehydration.

Has not urinated normally (or infants whose diaper remains dry for three hours or longer).

• Has a fever that lasts for more than one day (if under two years old).

• Has a fever for more than three days (if over two years old).

• Has cool and/or discolored feet or hands.

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GI Associates is proud to offer a full service Pediatric Department with Dr. Sara Ripple and Dr. Angela Shannon as well as a Nurse Practitioner. We can help with your child’s tummy issues; give us a call today!

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Visit Ridgeland!

Come Experience a Place Where Hospitality is More Than Just a Word, It’s Our Art.

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IDGELAND IS YOUR DESTINATION FOR FABULOUS shopping, outdoor recreation, a delicious meal and awesome accommodations. Whether for business or pleasure, in a group or on your own, our city offers so much to see and do. Just across the street from Mississippi’s capital city of Jackson, there is an abundance of culture and history at your fingertips.

Ridgeland is the state’s premier shopping destination with centers like Northpark Mall; the world-class lifestyle center, Renaissance at Colony Park; and Township at Colony Park, a beautiful collection of signature shops and restaurants. For the ultimate shopping experience, check out the Ridgeland Retail Trail, a compilation of Ridgeland’s locally owned boutiques, galleries, shops and spas. And don’t miss the Mississippi Craft Center, featuring the works of over 150 members of the Mississippi Craftsmen’s Guild.

More of the outdoor type? Ridgeland has numerous opportunities to enjoy sports and nature at quality parks and facilities. The massive Ross Barnett Reservoir has 105 miles of shoreline and is bounded on the north by the historic Natchez Trace Parkway. This All American Road and National Scenic Byway offers natural excitement with miles of Scenic Trails and a roadway perfect for motorcycling, RVing and bicycling. Within this treasure, you will find 157 types of birds, state parks, riding trails, Civil War historic interpretations, American-Indian artifacts, cultural and heritage opportunities and waterways.

This Bicycle Friendly Community also features a 14-mile MultiUse Path for cyclists to utilize through the Ridgeland area of the historic Natchez Trace Parkway with outfitters near to help supply your needs.

Visitors return to Ridgeland time and time again to participate in great events like the Ridgeland Fine Arts Festival, Sante’ South Wine Festival and Natchez Trace Century Ride, each event punctuated by Ridgeland’s incredible dining options.

Ridgeland has all the charm of a small Southern town with the amenities of a larger city. With the metropolitan area of Jackson next door, it’s easy to plan an extended trip while staying in Ridgeland.

Contact us today so we can help you plan your getaway – www.visitridgeland.com or 800-468-6078.

Come experience a place where hospitality is more than just a word, it’s our art.

The Perfect Day Trip

Lewis’ Gifts in Shreveport is the Perfect Get-Away for a Day of Shopping

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HREVEPORT’S HOTTEST SHOPPING MECCA, IS SET apart from the hassle of a thundering crowd. Easily accessible and only a few miles from down town Shreveport, this is where the locals go!

At Lewis’ Gifts, you will find a veritable wonderland of gifts or something just for you. From unique Louisiana made items to delightful gifts from around the world, including art, fine linens for both bed and bath, furniture, sleepwear, jewelry, candles, fragrances for men and women, rugs, life-like silk florals, and tabletop – even a selection of beautiful baby layette, gifts and so much more!

Plan to stay for lunch The many delights of Lewis’ Gifts have been expanded to include Biscotti’s - a wonderful gourmet restaurant inside the store with something to please every taste. Southern favorites include Shrimp & Grits to one of the best burgers in town and nine specialty salads. Each day brings not only a different lunch special but also soup, cake and quiche of the day!

Freshly ground and brewed coffees, espresso drinks and gourmet teas are always available, and the desserts are divine. If you don’t want to cook dinner after this perfect day trip, see what’s available for a meal to take home! And don’t forget our extensive catering menu to make your holiday entertaining easier.

Bridal Registry Lewis’ is the premier bridal registry of the South. With exemplary registry and planning service, Lewis’ offers one of the largest selections of crystal, silverware and fine china including exclusive lines not readily available. The experienced registry consultants can help any bride find her dream crystal, china, linens and décor.

Bridal Registries are featured online at LewisGifts.com. Your guests will have the convenient option of shopping online, free gift-wrapping and delivery available.

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KEDM Big Band Classic Radio host Richard "The Boomerang Man" Harrison was the guest of honor at Big Band Blast, hosted by his own home on the dial, KEDM 90.3 Public Radio. Harrison is the host of "Mostly Big Bands," a KEDM program that has aired continuously for more than 20 years.

Also honored during the roast was Harrison's long-suffering wife, Jean, who has "loaned" her husband to the radio world every Friday night during the show's long run. Both Harrisons are fixtures in community organizations.

The Dan Sumner Quartet provided musical entertainment, while the roast itself included such popular locals as Michael Echols, Bill Rambin and Mara Loeb.

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Chances are you won't get all 10 invitees at the party, and it will give you some extra cookies to nibble on during the party. Also, important to this step is asking your guests to bring recipe cards with their recipe on it, so the guests get 10 new recipes along with their cookies.

STEP THREE: Choose your own recipe. The Family Fairy is actually going to include my family's favorite cookie recipe in this column, because, hey, that's just how I spread my magic dust.

STEP FOUR: Plan a light menu to enjoy during the cookie swap. Milk… milk is a good beverage to offer or something more festive if you are doing this with adults (but if I see any pics on Facebook of your friends trying to catch their bubbly on their beeee-hind…I'm sending my elves to do an intervention.)

STEP FIVE: The day of the party, usually a stressful time for some party givers. First, you've already got your house decorated for Christmas, so this step should be less stressful. Just let the tinsel cover up the dust, throw out a few festive tablecloths on the tables and set your nibblers out. Turn up the Christmas music and get ready to get down cow (only my family knows what goofy movie that phrase comes from).

STEP SIX: When it's actually time for the cookie exchange, your guests taken their empty platters or tins and walk around the table and help themselves to cookies prepared by their friends. It will be great fun and you will be considered the "hostess with the mostess.”

Christmas tends to bring with it stressful times, but remember, it doesn't have to be that way. Stop, my busy little pretties (I'm trying to sound more like Glenda) and smell the cocoa (also a good beverage to serve at the Cookie Swap). Play your Christmas really loud in your car.

Pick out a real Christmas tree this year so your house smells fresh. Shop local. Let your children wrap the gifts. Purchase some great "old" Christmas movies and make the cookies for your Cookie Swap with your family. Because in the words of the famous Glenda the Good Witch "there's no place like home" and the memories you create with your family will cement that philosophy in the minds and hearts of your children, family and friends.

FOUST FAMILY COOKIES 1 cup softened REAL butter (2 sticks) 1 cup sugar 1 cup brown sugar 2 eggs 1 tsp vanilla Cream these ingredients, adding one egg at a time.

Sift: 2 1/2 cup all purpose flour 1 tsp baking soda 1 tsp salt Add to wet ingredients.

Fold in 1 bag milk chocolate morsels 1 cup chopped pecans (optional) Bake at 375 11-13 minutes.

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Birthday Celebration

Dr. Jane Campbell just turned a year better, and to celebrate her birthday, husband Gus invited several dozen of the couple's closest friends to a party in his wife's honor.

A veritable who's who turned out for the soiree, too, as the Campbell's spacious bayou home played host to friends from Revolution Park, from the medical community, and from politics, business, and the arts.

Monroe's favorite entertainer and our own fifth Beatle, Kenny Bill Stinson, provided lively classic tunes to the party, as he switched back and forth between piano and guitar to help make Jane's birthday one to remember.

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Twinkling lights, cypress trees and the bayou were the perfect backdrop for an October engagement party honoring Caleb Poole and Leah Cotten. Close friends and family gathered at the home of June and Charles Poole to celebrate with the happy couple.

Hostesses for the evening were Cheryl Anderson, Cheryl Carr, Margaret Copeland, Ginnie Craig, Janet Fisher, Charlotte Goodwin, Nona Ledford, Ashley Meese, Wendy Newsom, Debbie Sawyer and Lillie Traxler.

Janet Fisher arrived bearing beautiful fall arrangements peaking from inside harvest moon pumpkins magically created for the event by Vee Hollis. Wendy Newsom and Ashley Meese gave new life to old mason jars wrapping them with burlap, jewels and lace and filling them with the colors of autumn.

Serving tables were created from old wine barrels and topped with an array of foods created by Chris McHenry along with the hostesses.

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Heart the Holidays Holiday Variety is the Theme at The River Gallery During December

oliday Variety is the theme at The River Gallery during December.

This artist run gallery hosts 25 artists working in all media from paintings to woodturning, pottery, jewelry, glass art and photography. In addition to the exquisite offerings of fine art, the gallery will be featuring gift items for December. This includes smaller art, handcrafted wine stoppers, jewelry, unique ornaments, and notecards. Sales of the original works are tax exempt under the Louisiana Cultural District, so visitors not only support local artists but also save sales taxes when shopping.

The River Gallery will be open till 9 p.m. on Thursday, December 4 for the Downtown Gallery Crawl. We will have guest musician John Farmer providing music during the crawl. Make The River Gallery your first

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stop on your Art Crawl tour, and meet the artists at the gallery as well as enjoy some of the best food as well as wine from Landry’s Vineyard. Art Crawl hours are 5-9 p.m.

Ouachita River Art Gallery is the oldest and largest co-op gallery in the state. We are grateful to the local community for the continued support of the arts in our area. The gallery is at 308 Trenton Street, West Monroe, and is open Tuesday through Saturday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Admission is always free.

Gallery member’s work can also be seen at the Ouachita River Art Gallery’s extension gallery located in the lobby of Ouachita Independent Bank/Bankers Mortgage Plaza at 18th and Louisville in Monroe. Call 322-2380 for more information, or visit www.ouachitariverartgallery.com.

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henever you aren’t busy rummaging store shelves or placing your Amazon orders this Christmas season, our region has put together numerous familyfriendly activities to bring holiday cheer to everyone, even the Ebenezer Scrooge of your family.

One of the longest-running events going on is “Santa’s Christmas Village” at the Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum. A virtual holiday wonderland with cookie decorating, Santa and Mrs. Claus and fauxsnow, “Santa’s Christmas Village” is every child’s winter wonderland.

“Going to ‘Santa’s Christmas Village’ has become a tradition for a lot of people in our area. They do everything. Kids can decorate cookies. They can make ornaments.

There’s a skating rink and hand-crank train, which is really cool, because you don’t see things like that anymore. There’s a new snow machine that blows even more snow.

Santa is always there, and Mrs. Claus reads stories to the kids. It’s a huge event,” Sheila Snow, the Vice President of Communications at the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau, said.

The Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum will host “Santa’s Christmas Village” on Thursdays and Fridays from 5-8 p.m., Saturdays 10 a.m.-8 p.m. and Sundays 1-6 p.m. until December 21. There is an admission fee of $5, or $10 to ice skate.

Another event going on for the entire month of December is the Dancing Lights, which can found in Downtown Monroe and West Monroe. The lights dance along with your favorite Christmas songs while you walk or drive around the most festive areas in the region. For the first time, there will also be an area, created especially for children at the corner of Commerce and Wood Streets in Downtown West Monroe.

“We’re adding a new area of lights for children. There will be a tunnel of lights that the kids can walk through,” Snow said.

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In addition to the children’s area, wagon rides will also be available for the entire family on select nights. The wagon rides will tour the downtown areas on Friday and Saturday nights. Check monroewestmonroe.org for more information.

On December 4 from 5-9 p.m., the Downtown Art Alliance will be hosting the Downtown Gallery Crawl, featuring art, holiday treats and wine and spirits for adults.

The Downtown Gallery Crawls are always family-friendly.

“It’s fun to watch the kids check the art out and kind of see what they gravitate toward. I like to stand back and watch my kids and see what catches their eye,” Snow said.

The Downtown River Jam will be going on during the Downtown Gallery Crawl as well, and everyone enjoys live music! Plus, both of these events are free and open to the public.

Also starting on December 4- December 6, with an encore December 11- December 14, the Family Church of West Monroe will be putting on Scrooge! This will be another free event; however, tickets should be reserved in advance due to limited seating.

The show will begin at 7 p.m.

“It’s the story of Ebenezer Scrooge, and it’s really beautiful. It is really a Broadwayquality performance. The scenery is great.

They have different sets of dancers, The Celtic and Couples dancers. It is truly amazing,” Snow said.

December 6 is the biggest day for Christmas events in the Monroe-West Monroe area.

With two parades, the Kids Christmas Market Day, an outdoor concert and fireworks, the holiday fun should last all day.

Starting at 10 a.m., the 8th Annual Bawcomville Redneck Parade will be running down Smith Street in West Monroe.

“It’s so funny. You never know what you’re going to find or what someone is going to throw. They throw Ramen noodles, turnips, Moon Pies or toilet paper, just fun stuff,” Snow said.

The River Market will host its Kids Christmas Market Day from 10 a.m.-4 p.m. also on December 6. There will be bounce houses, lunch with Santa and a Christmas pet parade, as well as vendors to help shorten those Christmas lists.

“It’ll be a fun thing to do, to hang out with the kids and do some fun things and wait on the big Christmas parade to come,” Snow said.

At 3 p.m., the Kiwanis Club of West Monroe Christmas Parade will begin weaving through the streets of Downtown Monroe and West Monroe. Immediately following the parade, Antique Alley will be hosting an outdoor concert at the corner of Natchitoches and Commerce Streets in West Monroe. Then at 7 p.m., BancorpSouth will host the Monroe Renaissance Fireworks Extravaganza. Dozens of large and beautiful fireworks will be displayed along the banks of the Ouachita River for all of the Twin Cities to see.

“The Outdoor Concert is a great idea.

There will be something to do, while you’re waiting for the fireworks to start,” Snow said.

The last three noteworthy Christmas event for children in the area all take place in Antique Alley in West Monroe.

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On December 13 from 2-5 p.m., Antique Alley will host their annual Kids Alley event. On this day, Antique Alley will have a host of children’s activities from crafts to bounce houses and even a visit with Santa.

“Kids Alley is an event that we have done the past few years, and the kids love it. There will be horse and buggy rides and different games, some jumpers,” Snow said.

Immediately following Kids Alley on December 13, Antique Alley will put on a Holiday Outdoor Movie at the corner of Natchitoches and Trenton Streets in West Monroe. It begins at 5:30 p.m., and it is free to attend.

“They’ll do Kids Alley right up until the movie starts that night, and there will be popcorn and hot chocolate. It’s really just a night to come out and have a good time,” Snow said.

The last event that Antique Alley will host before Christmas is their Christmas in Costume event on December 20 from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Parents can get some last minute shopping done, while kids enjoy the shop owners dressed up as their favorite Christmas characters. Children are also encouraged to dress up as well.

“We used to do Old-Fashioned Christmas, where the shop owners dressed up in old-fashioned costumes, but this year we decided they should just dress up as their favorite Christmas characters. They are encouraging people to come shop dressed up as their own favorite characters, too. So, the kids can dress up as the Grinch or an elf or whoever,” Snow said.

Monroe and West Monroe have so many Christmas events this holiday season, and this in no way depicts them all. For further details on any of these events or for a complete list of every event, please visit monroe-westmonroe.org.

For those who live in Ruston, do not despair. There are plenty of Christmas activities for those who live in Lincoln Parish as well.

Every Monday night in December, the Lincoln Parish Library will be putting on holiday movies for children and families.

“Every Monday night, they are going to have a movie night, with Christmas-themed movies, for the entire family. They’ll usually do a classic like Rudolph and then a newer movie like Elf or something. It’s always a really good time,” Amanda Quimby, the Marketing Director for the Ruston Lincoln Parish Convention and Visitors Bureau, said.

Starting December 4 and running through December 7, The Dixie Center for the Performing Arts will be putting on The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. This is the comedic story of the struggle of putting on a Christmas pageant with a group of misbehaved kids, based on the young-adult book of the same name by Barbara Robinson. The show begins at 7p.m. on December 4-6 and 2 p.m. on December 7. General admission is $12 for adults and $6 for students.

“It is supposed to be really, really funny,” Quimby said.

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On December 6, the Ruston-Lincoln Parish Convention and Visitors Bureau and the Ruston Chamber of Commerce will be hosting Reading with Santa from 9-10:30 a.m. at their office. This event will be for toddlers to children around five years old. For this event, parents need to pre-register at www.rustonlincoln.org or call 318-2552031.

“We’ll have Santa here. We’ll do milk, cookies and hot cocoa and sit around the fireplace,” Quimby said.

Louisiana Tech will be doing their SciTEC Winter Wonderland and Maker Workshop on December 6 as well. From noon to 3p.m., students of all ages can come and check out the grand opening of the “Funnery” and the new Warped Eye Fish Eye planetarium projector.

“Recently, we received a new fish-eye projection system in our planetarium. So we moved from just a standard projection to a fullprojection, almost like an IMAX. And the ‘Funnery’ is a maker-space where anybody from the community, anybody from the college, and students from around the region can come in, interact with 3D printers. We have an eggbot and a watercolor bot, which are simple robots that do different designs. They are just really cool tools,” Lindsey Vincent, the Interim Director of SciTEC, said.

The “Funnery” Makerspace is SciTEC’s newest addition. At the Winter Wonderland and Maker Workshop, students can make Christmas decorations or ornaments or even a gift for someone special.

“We want the ‘Funnery’ to be a place where somebody can come in off the street and create their own item right there on the spot,” Vincent said.

Also, on December 6, 13 and 20, Santa Claus will be in Railroad Park in Downtown Ruston from 10am-2p.m. Children will have the opportunity to visit and take pictures with Santa.

Another pivotal Christmas event in the Ruston community is the Ruston Christmas Parade on December 11. Starting at 6p.m., the parade will leave the Louisiana Tech football stadium, go down Alabama Avenue and head downtown.

“This year, the theme for the parade is ‘Blue Christmas.’ It should be really beautiful and festive,” Quimby said.

One of the last events in the Ruston area takes place at the Lincoln Parish Library on December 19. It will be a Christmas Sing-ALong and Holiday Follies.

“The staff gets all dressed up and get on a little stage and puts it on. They get the kids interacting with Christmas songs and dancing.

It’s really fun,” Quimby said.

For more information on any of these events or for other events, please visit rustonlincoln.com.

There is no shortage of fun activites to do in our region this holiday season. So put on your coats and your Christmas spirit and head out with the family to make some memories that will last a lifetime.

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Focusing on the Reason for the Season First West Invites You to God with Us

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IMMY WANTS THIS. SUSAN WANTS THAT. AND YOUR your third cousin twice removed whose name you can barely remember is expecting a present, because you drew his name last year at your family’s Christmas. Gifts are great for Christmas time, but the tension to make everyone happy can really wear you down.

What if things could be different? What if Christmas was about more than making everyone happy? What if this Christmas, you and your family focused on what this season is really about.

First West is pleased to offer multiple opportunities to allow you to focus on the birth of Jesus Christ.

On December 20 and 21 at their West Monroe Campus, the First West Worship Team, Orchestra and Choir will show you that Jesus is “God with Us.” The Saturday night service will begin at 6:00 p.m. Sunday morning services will begin at 9:30 and 11:00 a.m. respectively. The First West Fairbanks campus will also present “God with Us” on Sunday, December 21 at 10:30 a.m..

Families attending the Christmas worship event will receive a gift that will allow for a special time of worship on Christmas Day in an individual home.

On Christmas Eve, “The Greatest Gift” will be a great time of family worship. The service will feature the First West Children’s choir, as well as the Lord’s Supper. Worship is set to begin at 6:00 PM. First West’s West Monroe campus is located at 311 Mill Street.

The Fairbanks campus is located at 1029 Highway 134 in Fairbanks.

First West is one church in two locations. The church’s vision is to see people changed by the Gospel and living out their Christcentered purpose.

For more information about First West, visit their website at www.firstwest.cc.

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An “Uncommon” Groundbreaking

First National Bank Breaks Ground on New Monroe Branch

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HOVELS OF DIRT MARKED THE BEGINING OF construction for the latest addition to First National Bank’s growing family. The new branch will be located on the corner of 18th Street and Hudson in Monroe. The bank broke ground October 24th for its newest branch, a more than 5,000 square foot state-of-theart facility. Several public officials and bank representatives were on hand for the ceremony including the presidents of both the Monroe and West Monroe/West Ouachita Chambers of Commerce. Monroe Mayor Jamie Mayo, Monroe City Council Chairperson Ray Armstrong and Louisiana Senator Mike Walsworth helped the Bank’s Board of Directors, led by Russell Woodard, along with the President / CEO of First National Bank, Brian Woodard with the festivities.

The bank’s design is innovative, high tech and will also include offices for its sister company, Ensure, The Insurance Agency. The exterior of the building is a polished pre-cast limestone with glass columns. There will be two entrances, one on 18th Street and the other facing Hudson Lane. The interior will also include polished stone and extremely high end finishing. Ricky Choppin with Mapp Construction says, "There is not a bank in town that will look like this.” Mapp Construction was the contractor chosen to build the facility.

First National Bank takes pride in its motto “The Uncommon Bank.” Being Uncommon in every thing we do means we are committed to make every interaction with our customers and community an experience that is noticeably different and more exceptional than any they have ever encountered.", says Ashley Doughty, business development officer.

The bank originated in 1905 in Arcadia, LA. Since the year 2000, First National Bank has expanded its offices to include locations in Farmerville, Ruston, West Monroe and soon-to- be Monroe. First National Bank is very proud to be locally owned and operated, which allows them to give personalized and prompt service to our customers.

First National Bank has survived many generations including the Depression era, a near hold-up by Bonnie and Clyde, and lastly, the bank acquisition trend that has swept across Louisiana.

The Monroe office is slated to open in June 2015. See for yourself why First National Bank is the “Uncommon” Bank!

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Governor’s Cigar and Pipe in Monroe

Governor’s Offers An Extensive Selection of Cigars, Pipe Tabaccos and Accoutrements

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HE NAME CONJURES IMAGES OF a smoke-filled back room, leather Chesterfield chairs and deep discussions on politics. And to be fair, Governor's Cigar and Pipe does have that smoke-filled back room, where Delta blues is just as ubiquitous as the thick, hearty cigar smoke. But before you get to the room, visitors are first struck by the extensive selection of cigars, pipe tobaccos and accoutrements.

"We're the area's only tobacconist," says Governor's Cigar and Pipe proprietor Friday Ellis. Ellis opened Governor's earlier this year and, so far, he has been encouraged by the reception. Customers pop by constantly to enjoy a good cigar or to take in a pipe smoke. The popularity of the Governor's Lounge pleases Ellis, who says the lounge is one of the primary reasons he opened his to-

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bacconist shop. "The Governor's Lounge is a great place to sit in the company of other tobacco aficionados, sip a cup of coffee and smoke a great cigar," he says.

Great cigars and pipe tobaccos abound at Governor's Cigar and Pipe, from some of the world's best premium cigars to smaller, boutique labels, the Governor's humidor offers something for even the most discerning cigar enthusiast. At any given moment, a buyer will find Padron, Ashton, Tatuaje and Arturo Fuente on hand, on the shelf next to boutique favorites such as Black Label Trading Company and Jericho Hill. Their selection of pipe tobaccos is unparalleled, as well, and Governor's Cigar and Pipe lives up to its name with a fine selection of premium pipe tobaccos from Peterson and Nording, just to name two. Governor's also

stocks its own custom blends. A customer favorite is Moon Pie, with a sweet, savory blend of vanilla and hints of confection.

Overall, Governor's Cigar and Pipe strikes a relaxed, inviting tone that Ellis calls, "absolutely Louisiana." He encourages visitors to pass a time in the lounge, even if they're not smoking, and enjoy the camaraderie. One visit and it's clear why people come back again and again. "Cigars are convivial by nature," Ellis says. "They bring people together from all walks of life." At any moment, you might find yourself sitting between a banker, a school superintendent and a welder. "Other than a sporting event, where else are you going to find people from that many walks of life?"

M Salon’s Hot Topics for the Holidays

Surviving the Holidays in Style!

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HE MERRYMAKING STYLE TEAM at M Salon give their top tips for surviving the holidays in style.

1.) Tape-In Extensions M Stylist and extension expert Lauren Halley says Tape-In Extensions are the way to go for staying fabulous this season. “They are the perfect solution for getting past that awkward grow-out phase or just adding volume in general. The Sombré (soft Ombré) is also a great way to use lighter extensions to avoid chemical processing. The results are gorgeous and application of the Tape-In extensions are faster and safer than traditional bonded extensions.

2.) Fat Party Hair If you want your hair to have volume and last all night, you must use

volume boosting products, “says M Stylist Mallory Williams. She suggests using Redken Body Full Instant Volumizing Foam before blow drying and flipping your head upside down for lift at the root. “For curling, start with the curling iron mid shaft (cheekbone level) and curl away from the face. Shake it to loosen and finish with hairspray.

3.) Shag Time! “It’s all about layers! Layers!

Layers!” says co-owner Ashley Murray. The asymmetrical bob is classic, but it's been done.

It’s time for something fun! We’re doing lots of pixie cuts with rocking layers, Lobs (long bobs) with shaggy layers. Ashley recommends Redken Guts Spray Mousse for volume and Redken Control Addict 28 hairspray for hold.

Ashley is excited aout a new color line coming called “Olaple.,” It’s a new color breakthrough

that takes hair from dark to light without breakage.

4.) Ombré, Sombré, Balayage? “It’s all about warmth at the roots with gradual fade this season” says co-owner Natalie Matthews. We’re doing lots of rich chocolate browns with caramel balayage tips, buttery blondes with platinum highlights, and deep red mahogany with copper-lit, face-framing highlights- no more stripey, frosted looking blonde, obviously foil-placed, chunky highlights. There's a movement towards a more natural look. The goal is effortlessly chic, nothing too contrived.” Natalie recommends Pureology Hydrate Shampoo and Conditioner for color maintenance.

M Salon gift certificates and hair products make fabulous gifts. Call 410-9911 today for that lunch break blowout or after work perk!

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Holiday Art Exhibit

Bank of Ruston Hosts Annual Art Exhibit Reception on Tuesday, December 2nd

ank of Ruston is pleased to invite members of the community to attend its 11th Annual Holiday Art Exhibit, showcasing two Ruston-based artists, Hooshang Khorasani and Dianne Springer.

The Annual Holiday Art Exhibit kicks off with a reception on Tuesday, December 2, from 5:00 to 7:00 pm and will remain on display weekdays from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm through Wednesday, December 31. The reception and exhibit are located in the lobby of Bank of Ruston’s downtown location at 505 North Vienna Street, Ruston, 71270.

Displayed art is available for purchase, and the participating artists have been asked to contribute a portion of their sales to North Central Louisiana Arts Council.

Bank of Ruston has been part of the Ruston community since its humble beginning

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in 1905. As a truly local banking institution, Bank of Ruston views community reinvestment as good business. For more information, please visit www.bankruston.com.

At Left: Gentle Runner by Hooshang Khorasani Above: Luminescence #4 by Hooshang Khorasani

Great Gifts for the Holidays

Woodstock Furniture Revival Has Something for Everyone

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HE HOLIDAYS ARE A GREAT TIME of year to try to find that perfect gift for that special someone. Woodstock tries to offer a variety of different gift ideas to please everyone, from home décor and furniture to candles and bath lines. Here are a few of the candle lines that will have your house filled with amazing scents this holiday season. First we have Rewined candles which are hand-poured soy wax into handcut recycled wine bottles with scents to mimic the aroma you find in your favorite wine. Voluspa candles are made up of natural coconut and apricot waxes that help release the maximum fragrance and have become a house-hold favorite. Our next two lines are sister companies made in Mississippi, Capri Blue and Aspen Bay. These are

all natural, hand-poured candles that are guaranteed to make your house smell amazing. Lastly but certainly not lease the Lafco House and Home collection. Lafco is a natural soy based candle that is poured into a hand blown glass vessel and has been featured as one of Oprah’s favorite things. Each one pound candle’s scent is designed for specific rooms throughout your house. This line has easily become our best selling candle line. We carry 33 different scents to choose from in Lafco making us be able to offer the biggest variety in town. If you’re not looking for candles, we offer a few different bath and body lines that make great gifts as well. Our best selling body line is also one of Oprah’s favorite things, Lollia.

We carry all seven scents that Lollia has to

offer, making it our sexiest, most luxurious bath line. We now carry all nine scents of Lollia’s sister line, Library of Flowers. It’s bright and fun and offers more great products with the same great quality as Lollia.

Barr and Co is our last but not least, favorite body line. It is a natural line that is packaged in hand-crafted apothecary bottles and offers great natural scents. Of course, this is nowhere near all the products Woodstock has to offer but is just a few of our best gift lines for the holidays. We also have lots of one-of-a-kind found furniture, home décor and art. Our artists include Margaret Becton Cox’s beautiful landscapes and Caroline Youngblood’s cotton and oyster collections.

We have lots of stocking stuffers, teacher gifts ideas, handmade picture frames from funky painted molding and Christmas ornaments. Just come stop by 1806 North 3rd in the Garden District to find a unique one-ofa-kind gift that is sure to please anyone this holiday season.

Happy Holidays,

Chelsie and Patrick Summerville

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Getting Debt Free Centric Federal Credit Union sponsored Debt Free with Kelly Brantley at the Ruston-Lincoln Convention and Visitors Bureau Oct. 28. Brantley is a Dave Ramsey certified financial counselor, and she specializes in helping individuals and families reach financial freedom through the elmination of their debts.

Also, Brantley helps her clients to achieve wealth and confidence while also building wealth and living each day in financial freedom.

Chili's of Ruston hosted the Centric FCU visitors for the Debt Free with Kelly Brantley seminar. For more information about getting debt free, visit Brantley's web site, debtfreewithkelly.com.

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Great Gifts from Haven

Home Furnishings to Inspire You and Gifts for Everyone on Your List

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HIS CHRISTMAS YOU CAN count on Haven as your go-to place for inspiring design and gift ideas.

Gifts created by regional artists are at the heart of Haven’s gift selection. Louisiana canvases by L. Young Studios; hand-painted glassware, coasters and gold oysters by S. Bynum; handcrafted jewelry by McClendon Designs; and a new line of Mississippi Pottery, just to name a few. Other amazing gifts to give, as well as receive, are Cinda B travel bags in stylish patterns, Nest candles and diffusers, calendars, planners, books and several beautiful jewelry lines.

Haven is the place for pajamas! In materials like bamboo, cotton and satin, you are bound to find a set that is perfect for you.

Robes, wraps and luxurious throws make lounging around the house stylish. Come by

and select your size, send your husband in to get it, and it will be a gift you are guaranteed to enjoy.

If you’re on the hunt for a great gift for dad or the hubby, don’t forget Haven has an impressive selection of men’s gifts. They are the exclusive dealer of Jack Black men’s skin care products. Grab an award-winning shave cream, moisturizer or fantastic hand cream, as they make great stocking stuffers.

Haven also has men’s travel and game bags, robes, a new lounge wear line, books and leather planners.

Those who have shopped at Haven know that they have beautiful bedding choices and decorative pillows, along with bedding basics such as sheets from Peacock Alley and Matouk. All season blankets can be ordered and received in just a few days.

For the rest of your home, Haven’s designers can help you locate that perfect coffee table or upholstered bed in their many lines of furniture, including a new line of swivel chairs and slip-covered sofas which are showcased on their floor. Lamps, accessories, and rugs can complete that look and add a finishing touch to any room.

Treat yourself this holiday season with a trip to Haven at 1127 Forsythe Avenue in Monroe. Whether you are shopping for yourself or marking off your gift list, a visit to this beautiful shop is a must.

There’s plenty of time to shop! Haven is open until 5:30 during the week and 10 - 4 on Saturdays. And don't forget they are open 1- 4 on Sunday's in December.

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Downtown Monroe Transforms

Monroe Renaissance Presents Walking in a Window Wonderland

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OWNTOWN MONROE IS TRANSFORMED INTO A “Window Wonderland” this holiday season! Monroe Renaissance is bringing new life and light to historic DeSiard Street in the heart of downtown Monroe. This is the third year the non-profit organization has worked on this initiative, but this year, there is a new element.

Monroe Renaissance has partnered with the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitor’s Bureau to promote area art students. Each window is designed and decorated by local middle school and high school art classes, including Ouachita High School, West Ridge Middle School, Lee Junior High, Richwood High School, Franklin Parish High School and Grace Episcopal Middle School.

Each window represents a different Christmas movie, which goes along with the CVB’s Christmas on the River theme, “Christmas at the Movies.” The windows will be installed by December 4 and will be featured at the December Downtown Gallery crawl. That night, artists will view and judge the window installations, with first, second and third place receiving a cash prize. The windows will remain on display through the New Year.

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“We are excited about this partnership, because it not only highlights our local students and their creativity, but it also spotlights the downtown area and brings visitors to see this impressive display,” said Alana Cooper, president of the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitor’s Bureau.

Local artist, Libby Gifford, served as a “creative consultant” on the project. She guided the students on their design and helped them select non-traditional items to incorporate into their window. “The students were challenged to create their window installations using non-traditional items, stepping outside of the typical materials they’re used to using in the classroom,” said Gifford. “This was a fun and important project to me because it exposed these students to new art forms, as well as connecting them with what’s going on downtown, while also allowing our community to see what these students are capable of.”

Monroe Renaissance is a non-profit organization consisting of local volunteers whose mission is to stimulate and make possible the re-awakening of downtown Monroe through community participation, resulting in an enhanced quality of life.

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Shoppers galore turned out for the annual Holiday Open House on Antique Alley in West Monroe. Strolling from store to store, patrons had the chance to browse boutique selections, antiques and collectibles.

Each shop provided visitors with refreshments, ranging from hot chocolate to apple cider. Brownies, cheese, fresh fruits and cookies were also served.

The annual open house event is the official kickoff to the Antique Alley holiday season, and each year it draws more than 2,000 shoppers to downtown West Monroe's historic shopping district.

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What is their advice for those nervous about the surgery?

Jamette: The results far outweigh the fear; take comfort in the knowledge that you are adding more years with your spouse and family.

Robert: The body is amazing in how it can survive on a small amount of food. I was taught at an early age to clean my plate and to not waste food. The benefits of being healthy and off of 18 pills a day far outweigh any obstacle.

How do they view their lives now, post surgery?

Jamette: There is nothing Robert and I can't do together. The window is open, and we can actually fit through it, together.

Robert: I now have more energy and at my last doctor visit, both Dr. Bart Liles and Marci, the registered dietitian, were ecstatic with my progress and outcome. I am 50, but look like a 26-year-old on paper. I feel like a 24-year-old! Jamette was a patient of Dr. Walter Sartor. Dr. Sartor, Dr. Liles, and the entire staff were awesome!

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LA Tech Guest Speaker Dr. Don Kaczvinsky Speaks at International Conference

Dr. Don Kaczvinsky, dean of Louisiana Tech University’s College of Liberal Arts and George E. Pankey Eminent Scholar in English, was an invited guest speaker at “Reading Graham Swift: International Conference,” hosted recently by the Department of British Literature and Culture for the Institute of English Studies at the University of Łódź in Łódź, Poland.

Kaczvinsky presented a paper titled, “Rejoycing Tomorrow: Graham Swift and Intertextuality” which considered the family resemblances between Swift’s novel, “Tomorrow” (2007), and the Penelope chapter in James Joyce’s “Ulysses.” Kaczvinsky further explored the notion of literary “paternity” and artistic originality through Swift’s metaphor of “artificial insemination” as presented in Tomorrow.

The research was supported by the George E. Pankey Eminent Scholar Chair in English, which is made available through the State of Louisiana Board of Regents Support Funds.

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Glossed Over.

Fabulous gifts can come in small packages. These lip glosses come in festive colors such as Cherry Bomb, Explosion and Roman Candle. They are minty, stocking-stuffer perfection, available at MD Minerals inside Hopkins Dermatology in Monroe.

On the Wild Side.

Ornaments make wonderful gifts. Woodstock always carries the most eye catching and darling ones around. This year they have more than ever.These adorable animals are just a few out of a giant selection of Christmas décor. Stop by Woodstock Furniture Revival in Monroe and check them out!

Map Quest.

Looking for a unique gift this holiday season? These Louisiana state map necklaces are custom-made to show your southern pride. Beautifully crafted, these statement pieces are available in two sizes at Pelican District in Monroe.

What a Stud.

Take her breath away this holiday season with these gorgeous diamond stud earrings from Hollis & Company Jewelers in Monroe. These studs feature a halo of diamonds around the center diamond.

Available in many sizes and as princess cut also. Starting at $900.

Bayou Christmas.

This limited edition design from Mr. P’s Tees features a “Bayou Christmas” design on a long-sleeve heather gray shirt. Sizes S-XXL are available at HerringStone’s, K-Sera and Rodéo or at www.mrpstees.bigcartel.com. $32.

Holiday Shine.

ZO Skin Health is a Daily and Preventative Skincare routine sold exclusively

by Dr. Timothy J. Mickel, MD, FACS of Mickel Plastic Surgery in Monroe. It is a comprehensive array of products which maintains the results of therapeutic treatments and supports daily skin health and protection from the environment. They offer packages on three diffent levels: Youthful Skin, Mature Skin and Aging Skin. Any beautiful lady would adore one of these packages under the tree.

Outta Sight.

Inspired by relaxing days on the North Shore of Kaua’i, these Maui Jim’s are a great gift for your sunshine. Available in Tortoise/HCL Bronze, these shades have a round frame which complements many face shapes. Find these and more at Moss Eye Care in Monroe.

Everything Nice.

Every Caldrea product does what it sets out to do- make the daily tasks of caring for our homes and ourselves easier, safer, and more satisfying.

We are excited to introduce Caldrea’s newest fragrance collection Black Coriander Lime is inspired by wanderlust.

An exotic and spicy, refreshing fragrance, available in all the best forms, available at Material Things on Forsythe!

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The Cacoon.

Relax. Play. Have An Adventure. A Cacoon makes a great wow gift, available at Lincoln Outdoor Living in Ruston. They come in several colors and sizes to fit your needs and outdoor space.

The Perfect Fit. This is the gift that gives, and gives… and gives!

Custom made shirts by Robert Talbott from The Toggery in Monroe. Purchase the fabric bundle for him to open as his first gift. He will go in for a fitting and select everything he prefers in the cut, from the collar to the sleeves, cuffs, buttons, the length and the fit. His final gift will arrive for him to enjoy for years to come!

Word Up. These darling bracelets give words of encouragement to get you through your day. They make precious gifts for friends, children and coworkers, featuring bible verses that will remind you of your spiritual journey.

They are available at Salt & Pepper Accessory Boutique on Antique Alley in West Monroe.

Sock It To Me. Boot socks are all the rage this season. They are a great way to dress up any outfit and help keep you warm and toasty. Chessy’s has several colors and styles to choose from to pair with any ensemble.

Chessy’s is open in Ruston, and now in the Bridge Street Shopping Center in West Monroe.

Charming Chanel.

These Recycled Vintage Couture Chanel necklaces make the perfect gift this holiday season.

RVC incorporates authentic vintage Chanel buttons, chains and jewelry found from actual couture clothing. Each piece is meticulously handmade using gold plated brass. You will be sure to put a smile on the face of your loved one this holiday season with these pieces.

They can be found at Hemline in Monroe.

A Good Read.

The Clarke Williams Story is the tale of how a Louisiana entrepreneur built America’s 3rd Largest Telecommunications Giant, CenturyLink.® This inspirational biography is a must read this holiday season. Available at local retail stores: Barnes and Noble, Books-AMillion, Haneline’s, The Toggery, Her Toggery, Ron Alexander, Gingerbread House, Walsworth & Company, Blessings Bookstore, Muffin Tin and Trenton House.

Wine Not? Looking for a unique gift? These entertaining pieces, highball and wine glasses are designed by regional artists. A variety of hand-painted finishes are available. Enjoyed by everyone during the holidays, these items are available at Intelligent Designs/Haven in Monroe.

Take Note.

These cute notecards and notepads are sure to be a hit with anyone on your list this year. They are available in various designs ranging from holiday designs to a simple fleur de lis and can even be customized with your name, monogram or company logo. Buy one design… or a few! Available at the UPS Store of Monroe.

Southwest Flair.

Necklaces, cuffs, earrings and more, Thurman’s Food Factory & Gifts in Monroe has a large selection of jewelry to choose from. Stop by today to find something special for the lady on your list.

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Charming Necklace.

These necklaces are perfect for the girl with unique style. This A-line style, 14 kt. rose gold is dainty and offbeat. Paired with this rose gold morganite and diamond teardrop necklace, it makes a lovely gift. These can be found at National Jewelry in Ruston.

Mad Hatters.

You’ll fall in love with these precious hats from HerringStone’s in Monroe. These hats are available in all colors, shapes and sizes. Complete any outfit – these are must-have gifts for the season.

Scarf It Up. This luxurious Donni Charm scarf is one of many available at Duck & Dressing in Monroe. This line has been worn and admired by celebrities such as Beyoncé, Jessica Alba, Sarah Jessica Parker, Rihanna, and many more. But most importantly, they are worn by the inspiring and amazing women from all around the globe. Find it at Duck & Dressing in Monroe.

Tame the Mane.

Blue boxes always bring a smile on Christmas morning and the MOROCCANOIL Holiday Gift Collection will do just that. It contains everything you will need in generous portions to help bring your back from the winter blahs. Find it at M Salon in Monroe.

Booting Up. These sleek booties from Bayou Gypsy are a musthave for this season.

Available in gray and cognac, they make a great gift for any girl. Bayou Gypsy is located in the Shoppes on Tower in Monroe.

Cutting Up. Crafted from exotic wood from Southeast Asia, the Xikar Xi3 Spalted Tamarind Cutter exhibits spectacular colors and black grain patterns that are truly unique.

The Xi3 features a polished stainless steel body, high quality 440 stainless steel blades and equipped with Xikar’s lifetime warranty.

Available at Governor’s Cigar and Pipe.

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On the Road.

One of the coolest gifts around, a plasma car is great for toddlers for Christmas! All they will need to make it move is a turn of the steering wheel!

These are timeless toys that will be a family favorite, available at The Children’s Shoppe in Monroe and Ruston.

Louisiana Proud.

It’s a state of mind. This Louisiana-shaped serving dish is handmade in the South. Constructed of copper, this piece is food safe.

Available in platters and ornaments, these can be found at The Flower Tree in Bastrop.

Guitar Hero.

The American Standard Stratocaster® guitar is the same great best-selling, go-to model it has always been, and now it’s upgraded with aged plastic parts and full-sounding Fender Custom Shop Fat ’50s pickups. The latest iteration of our time-honored classic, it is the very essence of Strat tone and remains a beauty to see, hear and feel. Find one at Matt’s Music in Monroe.

Wax On. Himalayan Candles makes beautifully fragranced candles in reusable original containers. They are poured using artisan techniques with a natural soy wax blend and high quality essential and fragrance oils. These and more gift items can be found at Merle Norman in Ruston.

Sole Sister Ankle boots are haute this holiday season and Cara’s Boutique in West Monroe has a large selection to choose from. We adore this chunky heeled ankle boots with buckle and strap details.

Argghhh Matey.

Perfect for the little mateys, this swashbuckling set features award-winning PIRATE PETE and the firebreathing baby dragon that he encounters on the High Seas. Great gifts for baby can be found at Mojo on Trenton Street in West Monroe.

Jewel Tones.

The look and feel of real.™ Lewis Gifts’ premier jewelry line is perfect for this holiday season. Set by hand, guaranteed for life, these pieces are guaranteed to make her smile. These can be found at Lewis Gifts in Shreveport, LA.

Perfect Pottery.

A vase can make a lovely gift for a mother or grandmother. This one is embellished with ceramic grape designs. Find these and more at Burney’s Furniture in Monroe.

Hostess With The Mostest.

This a Fleur de Lis wine votive is a lovely gift for the hostess with everything.

Unique in design, it is a great item for a wine enthusiast or a new bride. Find this and many more great gift ideas at Paul Michael Company.

Kavu For You. Kavu makes high quality men’s and women’s outdoor clothing, hats, bags, sunglasses and accessories. Stop

by Fiesta Nutrition Center in Monroe today to check out their large selection of stylish Kavu products… Great for students and anyone with active lifestyles!

A Charmed Life.

Create a one-of-a-kind locket to express what's in your heart.

Hundreds of charms, discs, and drops to choose from that will tell your unique story. Find this and more great gift ideas at Debbie’s Hallmark in Monroe.

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Dream Cream.

Aveda’s Stress Fix Body Crème is an organic aromatic body cream containing certified organic shea butter and sunflower seed oil to restore skin’s natural moisture barrier. It’s blended with sustainably harvested sea algae to provide deep hydration and infused with essences of French lavender, lavandin and clary sage from organic farms. It delivers a soothing aroma to reduce feelings of stress while the skin appears softer, smoother, more elastic and feels more comfortable. Available at Arlette in Monroe.

Arm Candy.

This natural topaz and peridot bracelet with a pearl border clasp dates back to 1870s. Find this and other beautiful and timeless estate pieces at Baldwins Antique Jewelry in Ruston.

Puff Up the Jam. Puffer vests are the “it” item for Winter 2014.

Keep warm in style this season with one from Beau Monde in Ruston.

They have the latest styles and colors such as this navy and white striped one with gold zippers.

In A Clutch.

These chain strap clutches are a must-have for any girl. There are several colors to choose from to match any outfit. Perfect for carrying your essentials through all of those holiday parties. These and more styles are available at Erin’s Attic in Ruston.

Pillow Talk.

Libeco linens are designed for simplicity and quality. These washable linens include items for the bed, bath, kitchen and table, as well as lounge and nightwear.

This excellent Belgian linen makes the perfect gift for someone special or simply yourself. Find this and more at Walsworth & Co. in West Monroe.

Little Light of Mine.

Capture nature’s beauty in these amazing oil candles for years to come. You will never need to replace the wick. These specially designed candles are made with smokeless, odorless liquid paraffin with fiberglass wicks. Find your Lifetime Candle at Something Special II in West Monroe.

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Master Chef.

A great gift this season for virtually anyone: natural cooking on the barbecue.

This ceramic platter has been designed to grill your meat in a healthier way and for cooking more delicate ingredients such as fish, seafood or vegetables. Cooking essentials and gift items of all kinds can be found at the Muffin Tin in Monroe.

Bat A Lash.

Lashes! Lashes! Lashes! The greatest gift of all. Latisse can help your lashes grow longer, fuller, thicker and more beautiful. It’s not only for those that only have a few lashes, it’s for those that crave the luscious lashes they thought they would never have. Stop by Premier Urgent Care and Bariatric Services in Monroe and pick up a bottle. You’ll have the lashes you crave in no time.

Scarf of the Party.

This trendy scarf by Olive and Pique is sure to keep you warm and fabulous for the holidays! Whether you’re stuffing a stocking or playing Dirty Santa, this gift is sure to be the scarf of the party. Find this and more at K-Sera Boutique in West Monroe.

Father Time.

Give him the gift of time this season with a men's Rolex Oyster Perpetual Date Explorer II watch from Diamond Vault in Monroe.

Holiday Sparkle.

Sparkle this season in style with Moody Blues’ generous selection. This gorgeous blue sequined top will have you feeling super glam at your holiday party. Moody Blues Boutique is on Cypress Street in West Monroe.

Just Kick It. Kick it in style with these black suede distressed boots complete with lacing and tassel elements. A staple for any style savvy gal! Find these and more great gift ideas at Twisted Peacock in West Monroe.

Buckle Up. The Giuliana Buckle cuff is a great compliment to any outfit this season in Snow White. A genuine leather bracelet, this one has silver accents and a signature RC enamel logo. Find great gift items at Maison Couture Clothiers in West Monroe.

Mothers of Dragons.

Radial’s Dragon’s Blood product line found at Professional Laser Center will leave skin smoother, plumper and more youthful looking. Your complexion will have more defined facial contours. From now until Christmas enjoy 10% off "Dragon's Blood" products at Professional Laser Center in Monroe.

Framed Up. Easel back frames and albums. Albritton Photography frames anyone's photographs. They have a great selection of choices of easel back, wall frames and small albums. Albritton Photography is located in West Monrroe.

What a Bangle.

Santa, baby, hurry down the chimney with this gorgeous bangle from Randy Smith Jewelers in Monroe. Crafted with silver and gold, this bracelet is embellished with saphhires, rubies and diamonds.

Totes Adorbs.

This Ceri Hoover crossbody bag in python print is not only beautiful but also a perfect size. Each bag is handcrafted by a designer from Nashville, TN. This particular bag is made of genuine leather and pony hair. These bags make the perfect Christmas gift for your loved ones. Find this and more at Hemline Monroe.

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Handsome Humidor.

Store your cigars in this handsome humidor from Savoy by Ashton. Black Calabash woods pronounce a bright variation of color with fine grain patterns. This humidor enlists the patented technology of Boveda Humidification Systems that maintain perfect conditions within your humidor.

Governor’s Cigar & Pipes in Monroe has this and other great gift ideas.

Super Charged Clutch.

A fusion between fashion and technology, the Mighty Purse is an essential handbag accessory for the modern day woman. The Mighty Purse features a hidden lightweight built-in battery that can recharge most smartphones, ensuring that you will never be left powerless again while being fashionable. This is the ultimate stocking stuffer. Available at K-Sera in West Monroe.

Scott On. Kendra Scott is a classic well-known designer jewelry line that is in stock at HerringStone’s. These earrings make the perfect Christmas gift for any age. Available in a variety of styles and colors, the mother-of-pearl is the most popular, but we love green and red styles for the holiday season. Find all of these at HerringStone’s on Forsythe.

Skin Deep.

Caudalie Vinexpert Firming Serum. This oil-free serum deeply restructures the skin, so it regains its firmness and elasticity. Skin is visibly younger: the contours are re-sculpted, wrinkles are reduced and skin is redensified. Instant firming effect.

Available at Hopkins Dermatology in Monroe.

Duck Taylor.

This Duck Taylor long-sleeve tee from Mr. P’s Tees is a great gift for any kid on your list. Have a quack attack with this whimsical design featuring a duck rockin’ his Converse. Available at The Children's Shoppe or at www.mrpstees.bigcartel.com.

Nativity Scene.

What could be a better reminder for the reason of the season than a nativity scene? This one is a twist on the classic figures that features a rustic look, perfect for any home. These and other holiday treasures can be found at Woodstock Furniture Revival in Monroe..

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Diamonds by the Yard.

Diamonds by the yard are a popular gift that she will ask for every year, for years to come.

Pictured in both yellow gold and white gold, the classic look is perfect for every look in her wardrobe. These can be found in the area exclusively at National Jewelry in Ruston.

State of Mind.

Exclusively at Pelican District in Monroe, these wine glasses are a compliment to any table. Give them as a gift, or keep for yourself. Sold individually, but we recommend buying a set.

Bookworm Bait.

Looking for the perfect little “stocking stuffer” for the bookworm?

This limited edition bookmark is a great accompaniment to the book, Nice Guy Finishes First, The Story of How Clarke Williams built America’s 3rd Largest Telecommunications Giant, CenturyLink.® Available local retailers.

Ruby Tuesday.

Diamonds and rubies, oh, my! This ring is constructed of silver and gold with emerald-cut ruby with 1 ct of rose and round cut diamonds. Find it at Randy Smith Jewelers in Monroe.

Click Clack.

Get ready for those holiday overnight guests! This Coaster click clack sofa bed from Sleepy Hollow Furniture in Monroe will be the perfect addition to your home, helping you accommodate for more family members.

Cute Cardi.

Leopard print is for the girl who walks on the wild side. This fashionable cardigan can be paired with a cute skirt to jeans to transition from work to a night on the town.

Check out Salt and Pepper Accessory Boutique on Antique Alley and follow them on facebook for deals and new arrivals.

Portrait of a Family.

Portraits make wonderful personal gifts. Albritton Photography in West Monroe has a wide selection of chunky or thick frames in different colors in styles for all size portraits. , Birds of a Feather.

Add some flair to your home with these birds of a feather. Burney’s has fabulous home décor selections such as this group of cranes.

Check out Burney’s Furniture, filled with items for any style.

Here We Come A Tasseling.

Semi-precious stones and Czech crystals combine for a stunning display of color, luxe layers and shine in this beautiful necklace. Mojo in West Monroe carries beautiful accessories to fit any style.

Jewelry Box. Every girl needs a jewelry box. These CHLOE jewelry boxes are made of soft leather with multiple compartments and a vanity mirror. For a no fail gift this year, find these and more at Lewis’ Gifts in Shreveport, LA.

Beanie Me Up, Scotty.

Krochet Kids has a great story and is a charitable company. This beanie by Krochet Kids features a snug but slouchy fit, providing coverage without the bulk, and nostalgia without the mothballs. Each design is signed by the person who made it! They are available at Duck and Dressing downtown in Monroe.

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Bejeweled.

Want to give her something special this year? This gorgeous bejeweled statement necklace will leave her speechless. Find these and other unique estate pieces at Something Special II on Antique Alley.

Glitter Bug. The Kate Spade Glitter Bug Bee is a gift that will make her light up! Available in different colors and sizes, they are a thoughtful gift that she will love. These bags and more are available at The Toggery in Monroe.

Get the Blues.

Matt’s Music has the perfect gift for the music enthusiast on your list. This Taylor 614CE Grand Auditorium Koi Guitar in Blue is a great piece to add to their collection. Find this and much more at Matt’s Music in Monroe.

Pretty Pottery.

This pottery is hand-made in the south and makes a great gift who anyone that appreciates an artisan’s touch. An added bonus is that it is freezer, microwave, and dishwasher safe. Vessels Pottery Co. can be found at The Flower Tree in Bastrop.

Pamper Her This Season.

Pamper her with the luxury of the Shelly Kyle selection at Gingerbread House. From body powder to hand soap, to perfume and much more, they carry a wide selection of bath and body products.

These make great stocking stuffers as individual items or put them together in a fabulous gift set. The Gingerbread House is located on Antique Alley.

Faux Sho’.

Superb quality, outstanding fabrication, lightweight and functional. All throws are lined with incredibly soft velvet and are machine-wash/line dry. Matching pillows are available in all fabrics and have zipper covers for easy-care/machine-wash.

Signature Series Fabrics include Sable, Black Mink, Leopard, Vintage Mink, White Mink, Red Fox and Ivory Mongolian.

Find this and more at Material Things in Monroe.

On the Cutting Edge.

A perfect gift for the man who cooks… this 17” live edge walnut cutting board with an aluminum base is part of Paul Michael’s newest line of cutting boards. Find this and more at Paul Michael Company.

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Etched With Love.

Show your school spirit with this high quality etched wine glass from Debbie’s Hallmark in Monroe.

Perfect for a holiday party or for the ultimate Warhawk fan.

This and more can be found at Debbie’s Hallmark.

Holiday Glam.

A John Hardy icon, the complex Classic Chain technique is a tribute to the ancient chain-weaving practiced across Asia.

Each link is hand-woven and annealed for a smooth supple drape, yielding a one-of-a-kind, timeless classic. John Hardy creations can be found at Hollis and Co. Jewelers in Monroe.

In-Vested.

This super soft Patrizia Luca vest, made of real rabbit fur is lined with silk and lace. Found at Moody Blues in West Monroe, it would make a luxurious gift for the refined lady on your list.

In the Bag. Sprucing up kids’ rooms for the holidays? Bean bag chairs are a great way to add a comfortable place to sit without taking up much space. Find them in all styles, colors, there are even ones for the LSU fanatic at Sleepy Hollow Furniture in Monroe.

Santa’s Liquid Helper.

What better way to look your best for Christmas than a trip to Dr. Mickel for a little Botox? He will have you beautiful in no time at all, and looking younger, tighter and wrinkles will disappear! Gift certificates for fillers are also a wonderful gift that everyone loves and can use anytime. Mickel Plastic Surgery is located in Monroe.

Ring in the New Year.

Make her swoon this Christmas with a gorgeous ring from the Diamond Vault in Monroe. This fabulous 18K white and yellow gold ring is comprised of 3.64ctw princess cut diamonds by Simon G.

Burning Bright.

This luxurious dry oil moisturizes, nourishes and enhances the face, body and hair, thanks to its unique formula made with exceptional blend of oils combined with our patented anti-oxidant Polyphenols. It envelops the skin with a subtle, floral and sun-kissed fragrance, with woody notes. Pair it with a Divine candle for notes of peppercorn, rose, cedar, vanilla and musks. Go on a sensory journey with this warm, woody fragrance.

Available at Hopkins Dermatology in Monroe.

A Good Read.

Give the gift of BayouLife Magazine this year. Subscriptions are available for $20/year and can be ordered through our website at www.bayoulifemag.com or by calling (318) 855.3185.

Lounge Act. Looking for the perfect gift this holiday season? Haven/Intelligent Designs in Monroe has a variety of pajamas, robes and wraps in bamboo, cotton and satin. Various styles and colors available for all ages.

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That’s A Wrap.

Body Sense Wraps are designed to be used hot or cold. These therapeutic wraps conform to knees, elbows, back, shoulders and attach securely to relieve injury or inflammation from exercise and physical therapy. Get yours at 10% off till Christmas at Professional Laser Center in Monroe.

She Has A Halo.

This Handmade Halo Engagement Ring is 14k solid gold. The center diamond is .51 carat and is accented by 22 round diamonds.

The total diamond weight of the ring is .96 Carat. Find this and more quality custom jewelry at Dupont’s Jewelers in Monroe.

Comfort and Joy. Lincoln Outdoor Living in Ruston carries items for the home, inside and out. These cozy blankets and throws make an ideal gift for anyone.

Super soft and luxurious, they are sure to please.

Rose-Colored Jewelry This rose gold accessories set features chandelier earrings a bracelet and a long necklace. This is the perfect set to layer with your fall finds, or give to that trendy someone on your list.

Available at Twisted Peacock in West Monroe.

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Protect against those chilling winter winds with Aveda Hand Relief and Foot Relief. These make great stocking stuffers or a great treat for yourself. Hey, shopping is tough on feet and hands. Available at Arlette - an Aveda Concepts Salon in Monroe.

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You’re Getting Warmer.

This cozy sweater scarf by Look from Bayou Gypsy in Monroe is a perfect gift for those chilly days and nights ahead. Look provides fashionable merchandise with understated elegance.

Home for the Holidays.

These Louisiana themed “home” hats make great items for college students whether they live here or live away and want a simple reminder of their home state. Erin’s Attic in Ruston carries stylish clothing, great jewelry and accessories.

Where There Is Smoke...

This modern smokey topaz set in 14 Karat yellow gold, swirled in diamonds is a gorgeous gift that will leave her breathless. Find these and more gorgeous jewelry selections at Baldwins Antique Jewelry in Ruston.

Kick It Up a Notch.

Chessy’s in Ruston and now in West Monroe has tons of merchandise for Christmas. A great way to impress her this year is with a pair of boots. This is a simple buckled pair in mid-calf length. Chessy’s has several sizes to choose from.

Wrap Star.

It’s cold outside, and this precious scarf from Cara’s Boutique in West Monroe is the perfect winter accessory. Bundle up in style with this and many other cozy and cute items from Cara’s.

Fully Engaged.

This handmade engagement ring is 14k solid gold and flanked by 14 accent stones and a signature .63 carat diamond center. The total weight of diamond is .95 carat. Find this gorgeous hand-crafted ring at Dupont Jewelers in Monroe.

Aromatherapy.

The Aromatherapy Collection from M Salon in Monroe is sure to bring smiles on Christmas morning. Its hydrating signature blend of Ylang Ylang, Bergamot and Patchouli is enchanting. The collection consists of shampoo, conditioner, colour care and a pureology candle.

Mittens Off.

These knit mittens with fur cuffs are the perfect gift for your BFF. Be sure to match them with your favorite knit sweater and beanie for a trendy winter look.

These and more great gift ideas can be found at K-Sera Boutique in West Monroe.

Wax On. Show your hospitality this season with a thoughtful hostess gift like this hand-molded Pineapple Pinecone candle. Choose from different scents of the season such as Apples n’ Spice. Find them at Maison Couture in West Monroe.

Perfect Purse.

Miss Margo designs are fun, flirty and extremely popular. Embellished with feathers, jewels and bold patterns, they really make a statement. Miss Margo makes bags of all kinds from duffels to makeup bags, and headbands as well. Find a large selection of these at Beau Monde in Ruston.

Go Baroque.

Give her the gift of jewelry this holiday season with these breathtaking 40-inch Baroque pearls with round and rose cut diamonds set in silver.

Find these precious pearls and more at Randy Smith Jewelers in Monroe.

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WINTER WONDER GLAM Be the belle of the ball in these haute holiday looks from area boutiques. From glitter to gold and prints that are bold, these looks are perfectly suited for festive occasions.

Photography by Brad Arender Hair and Makeup by Meka Bennett Set Design by Libby and Abby Gifford Model: Jaden Leach

Duck & Dressing Jaden looks stunning in this fun and flirty blue and white tartan dress from Duck & Dressing.

Add a statement necklace and coordinating bracelet, booties and a fashion-forward clutch for a night on the town.

Erin’s Attic Va-va-voom! This sequined dress with sweetheart neckline is the perfect little party number. Add beaded drop earrings and stackable bracelets to complete the look.

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Chessy’s This classic dress gets a boost with all-over bronze sequins. The scooped neck and long-sleeves creates a sophististicated silhoutte making this the perfect special occasion outfit. Add an emerald earring and bracelet for a fun twist.

HerringStone’s This gorgeous maxi dress features stretch fabric from the shoulders through mid thigh with fringing around the front and back. See through sections are cut out underneath the ribbed bust for a special flair. Add instant glamour with this fur vest and sparkly stilettos for holiday shine.

Beau Monde Jaden looks elegant in this metallic scalloped front shift dress with round neckline and 3/4 length sleeves. Add a eyecatching pair of nude heels with a subtle, scalloped detail.

The Twisted Peacock This dazzling cocktail dress is sure to stand out among the crowd.

It features a deep V back, kimono sleeve and round and square sequins in various sizes and colors. Add a beaded earring for a subtle bit of bling.

The Toggery This beautifully tailored lace dress features a vneck and a delicately detailed scalloped hemline.

Add a timeless and versatile rabbit and fox fur for luxurious style. Semiprecious stones at the neckline add subtle shimmer.

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The Gift That Gives This Holiday Season

The Junior League of Monroe Continues Cooking Tradition

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HE JUNIOR LEAGUE OF MONROE HAS PROVIDED DECADES of tradition with its cookbooks and is excited to announce that Cooking in High Cotton is now available as an eBook. The eBook provides the authentic 2008 published cookbook in a digital format, complete with all 221 recipes and search capabilities.

“The Cooking in High Cotton eBook is a perfect addition to having the hardback cookbook at home,” said Cynthia Rodriguez, current chair of Cotton Bayou Publications committee. “We are excited to be able to provide this to our community and to our cookbook enthusiasts everywhere. For me, having one of my favorite cookbooks as an eBook provides me with the ease and simplicity of having these recipes on my smartphone and with me on the go.”

The cookbook is available for purchase and download on your PC, MAC, PDA, tablet, smartphone or any electronic reading device. Once it is downloaded, you no longer need Wi-Fi or the Internet to access your eBook.

In addition to the eBook, the League continues to sell hard copies of all three cookbooks – The Cotton Country Collection, Celebrations on the

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Bayou and Cooking in High Cotton. Proceeds from sales of all cookbooks are returned to the community through projects sponsored by the Junior League of Monroe. The Junior League of Monroe is responsible for founding and funding several staple community projects and initiatives such as Court Appointed Special Advocate program (CASA), Shots for Tots, YMCA Shelter for Battered Women and many more.

“The Junior League of Monroe strives to serve the community through many important community endeavors,” said Jennifer Ables, current President of the Junior League of Monroe. “We are excited to launch the Cooking in High Cotton eBook as a new avenue to share and serve our community.”

The Junior League of Monroe was founded in 1930 and is an organization of women committed to promoting volunteerism, developing the potential of women and improving communities through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.

For more information, contact the Junior League of Monroe at 318322-3236 or www.jlmonroe.org

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Beauties at Brunch

Delhi Hospital the Delhi Civic Center partnered together to host Beauties @ Brunch, a Women's Health Event, Oct. 25. Popular author Shellie Rushing Tomlinson provided the keynote address at the event, which was organized to raise awareness of the various women's health options available to women in Delhi.

Visitors enjoyed brunch, a lighthearted and inspirational speech from Tomlinson and received tons of useful information about issues in women's health and the resources they can take advantage of without having to go too far from home.

Women's health is one of the key missions of Delhi Hospital, and Beauties @ Brunch is one of the ways in which Delhi Hospital is fulfilling that mission.

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The Junior League of Jackson took to the Mississippi Trade Mart in Jackson for the 2014 Mistletoe Marketplace, a massive, three-day shopping extravaganza that has become one of the best kickoffs of the holiday shopping season.

From Nov. 5 to the 8th, visitors browsed antiques, fine art, clothing and decorative arts at the Trade Mart. Also, they took in the smells and flavors of the season courtesy of more than a dozen food vendors.

Vendors traveled from as far away as California and New York to display their products and help support the core missions of the Junior League.

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Calendar of Events Through-February 14, 2015: Shared Earth: The Ancient Mounds Project This exhibition features photographs by Jenny Ellerbe. It deals with the landscape of Northeast Louisiana as a cultural object whose layers heap one on top of another.

Shared Earth: The Ancient Mounds Project exhibition is collaboration between the Poverty Point Station Archaeology Program and the Masur Museum of Art. It will feature fine art photography and archaeological artifacts. Free lectures and educational activities will take place at the Masur and Poverty Point State Historic Site during the exhibition.

Venue: Masur Museum of Art Address: 1400 South Grand Monroe, Louisiana 71202 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 318-329-2237 Web: masurmuseum.org Through-December 31: Freedom Trees Time: 5:00 p.m.

Start off the season with the tree lighting ceremony of the Chennault Aviation & Military Museum Freedom Trees honoring veterans with a patch, ribbon, medal or photo from their military service. On November 11, the trees will be turned on at a Special Ceremony at 5 p.m.

Venue: Chennault Aviation & Military Museum Address: 701 Kansas Lane Monroe LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 318-362-5540 Web: www.chennaultmuseum.org Dancing Lights and Faux Sneaux Monroe-West Monroe is shining with festive light displays painting each city bright! Drive the trail of light shows that tell jokes, dance and more. Visit the newest walk through display on the corner of Commerce and Wood Streets in West Monroe.

And don’t forget the snowmen and

For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com

their faux sneaux on the corner of Trenton and Wood Streets. The sneaux falls every Friday and Saturday through Christmas. See the map for locations.

Venue: Downtown Monroe and West Monroe, DeSiard and Trenton Streets Admission: Free Email: www.christmasontheriver.org Phone: 800-843-1872

December 5-31: Christmas at the Biedenharn Time: Tuesday-Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. through December 26; Tuesday-Saturday 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. after December 23 Enjoy the beautiful Christmas decorations throughout the Biedenharn Home and ELsong Gardens thanks to the Monroe Garden Study League. This year's theme is "O Christmas Tree." Be sure to come by during regular museum hours to take your family Christmas snapshots. The museum will be open until 6:00p.m. through December 23 so that visitors may enjoy the lights.

Venue: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens Address: 2006 Riverside Drive Monroe LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Adults $6; Children $4 Phone: 318-387-5281 Web: www.bmuseum.org December 5, 6, 12, 13, 19 & 20: Wagon Rides Time: 5:00-9:00 p.m.

The holiday lighting in Monroe and West Monroe is growing brighter each year. We are offering our residents the opportunity to take a special ride through our most illuminated areas of Christmas lighting in the Landry wagon, which holds approximately 30 people.

Wagon provided by Landry Vineyards. The rides will begin at 5p.m. and will end at 9p.m., with each trip taking about 30 minutes. We are

looking to start a new trip every 40 minutes which should allow 6 trips per night.

Children are required to be accompanied by an adult.

Venue: Antique Alley Address: Corner of Commerce and Wood Admission Cost: $3 per adult, $2 per child, free for children under 2.

December 6-7: Journey to Bethlehem Time: 2:00 to 5:00p.m.

Experience the sights and sounds of the world of the first Christmas through a 20-minute walk-thru Christmas drama. The journey features over 100 characters in costume, live animals, 1st century shops and a live nativity.

Venue: Pecanland Mall Address: 4700 Millhaven Rd Monroe LA, 71203 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 318-396-4953 Web: ccbchurch.org December 6: Bah Humbug 5k Run Time: 9:00am This 5K run is sponsored by Family Church in West Monroe and benefits the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of Louisiana.

Venue: Antique Alley Address: 100 Trenton St West Monroe, LA, 71292 Admission Cost: Entry Fees Apply Web: www.ovrrc.com Flint Knapping Demonstration at Poverty Point World Heritage Site Time: 10:00 am-2:00 p.m.

Come and watch flint-knappers demonstrate how ancient people turned pieces of rock into various styles of spearheads and tools.

Venue: Poverty Point Address: 6859 Highway 577 Pioneer, LA, 71266 Admission Cost: $4 Phone: 318-368-3503

Up On The Rooftop Party Time: 6:00 to 9:00p.m.

Don't miss out on this night to remember. Everyone will sure to be entertained with a wide variety of festivities from Santa and his sleigh, a raffle prize drawing and a fun interactive photo booth. Start off the fun with a choir ensemble, then get the best seat for the Christmas fireworks and finally end the night with live music entertainment! All proceeds go to benefit the Downtown Renaissance.

Venue: Vantage Building Address: 130 DeSiard Street Monroe LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Ticket prices vary Phone: 318-324-0001 Warhawk Basketball ULM vs.

Louisiana College Time: 7:00 p.m.

Show your school pride and come to the ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum to watch your Warhawks play against the Wildcats.

Venue: ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum Address: 4099 Northeast Dr Monroe LA, 71209 Admission Cost: Ticket prices vary; Students get in free with I.D. Phone: 318- 342-1000 Web: www.ulmwarhawks.com Monroe Renaissance Fireworks Extravaganza Sponsored by Bancorp South Time: 7:00 p.m.

Enjoy this beautiful fireworks display along the banks of the Ouachita River. Fireworks will be shot from the Endom Bridge.

Address: 100 DeSiard Street Monroe LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 318-807-1177 Web: www.facebook.com/MonroeRenaissance

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The Twin City Ballet Christmas Gala Time: 7:30 p.m.

The Christmas Gala features an evening of pure Christmas joy that will appeal to all ages. A Winter’s Night will fill friends and families with awe and true Christmas wonder during Leaia Alsup’s beautifully choreographed spiritual tribute to the miracle of that most magical winter night so long ago. Santa’s Spy – New York-based choreographer, Joe Istre, is at it again, bringing a brand new Christmas production. Twin City Ballet Company’s Christmas performance is a long-time favorite holiday tradition for thousands of school children. This all-new mixed-media production is no exception. Join us as our mischievous elf visits children everywhere to see who is being naughty or nice.

Venue: Monroe Civic Center Address: 401 Lee Joyner Memorial Expressway Monroe, LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Ticket Prices Vary Phone: 318-388-3011 Web: www.twincityballet.org December 7: Tool Demonstration at Poverty Point World Heritage Site Time: 1:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m.

Come and watch the rangers demonstrate the tools used by early inhabitants to build, hunt with and create other articles used in their culture.

Venue: Poverty Point Address: 6859 Highway 577 Pioneer, LA, 71266 Admission Cost: $4 Phone: 318-368-3503 December 9: Warhawk Basketball ULM vs. Northwestern State Time: 7:00p.m.

Show your school pride, and come to the ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum to watch your Warhawks play against the Demons.

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Time: 7:00 p.m. each day with an additional 2:00 p.m. showing on December 20 Celebrate the Season with Strauss Theatre Center as they bring you one of the most beloved musicals of all time, Meredith Wilson’s The Music Man. A fast-talking traveling salesman, Harold Hill, poses as a boys’ band organizer and leader, when he arrives in River City, Iowa.

After conning the citizens into buying non-existent instruments and uniforms, his plans are to skip town with the cash, but he falls in love with Marion the librarian who transforms him into a respectable citizen.

Venue: Strauss Theatre Center Address: 1300 Lamy Lane Monroe LA, 71201 Admission Cost: Ticket Prices Vary Phone: 318-323-6681 Web: www.strausstheatrecenter.com December 13: Photos with Santa Paws Time: 11:00 a.m.

Hope your pets are on Santa's "nice" list because on Saturday, December 14th, they will get to meet and have photos taken with Santa Paws! Join us from 11 a.m.-4 p.m. at Southern Style Antiques, Gifts and Salon, in West Monroe's festive Antique Alley, with your leashed and well-behaved pet! Please use the Cotton Street entrance. 100% of the proceeds benefit PAWS of Northeast Louisiana and our core programs!

Venue: Southern Style Antiques Gift and Salon Address: 215 Trenton St West Monroe LA, 71291 Admission Cost: $10 per photo Phone: 318-397-0007 Web: http://www.pawsnela.org/viewevent.php?eventid=133 Holiday Outdoor Movie Time: 5:30 p.m.

Enjoy watching Disney’s “Frozen” under the Christmas lights in Downtown West Monroe's Antique Alley.

Venue: Antique Alley Address: Corner of Natchitoches and Trenton Streets West Monroe LA, 71292 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 800-843-1872 Web: www.antiquealleyshops.org

December 14: Sounds of the Season Time: 3:00p.m.

Be there for Monroe’s favorite holiday musical tradition as the Monroe Symphony Chorus and the Monroe Symphony Orchestra celebrate the holidays with Sounds of the Season. Share it with family and friends, and marvel in the season with conductor Clay Couturiaux and chorus director Deborah Chandler.

Venue: West Monroe Convention Center Address: 901 Ridge Avenue West Monroe LA, 71291 Admission Cost: Ticket Prices Vary Phone: 318-812-6761 Web: www.monroesymphonyorchestra.com December 16: Warhawk Basketball: ULM v. Central Baptist Time: 7:00p.m.

Show your school pride, and come to the ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum to watch your Warhawks play against the Mustangs.

Venue: ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum Address: 4099 Northeast Dr Monroe LA, 71209 Admission Cost: Ticket prices vary; Students get in free with I.D. Phone: 318- 342-1000 Web: www.ulmwarhawks.com Celtic Christmas in Antique Alley Time: 6:00-8:00p.m.

The Ed Miller Trio from Edinborough, Scotland will bring a Celtic touch to our Louisiana Christmas.

Presented by the West Monroe/ West Ouachita Chamber of Commerce and sponsored by Glenwood Regional Medical Center.

Venue: Hamilton House Address: 318 Trenton St West Monroe, LA, 71291 Admission Cost: Free Phone: 318-325-1961 December 19: Louisiana Delta Ballet Presents “The Frozen Kingdom” Time: 7:30p.m.

This all new ballet takes place in a “frozen” kingdom with all of your favorite icy characters that will bring this enchanting story to life. Based on the popular Hans Christian Anderson story, “The Snow Queen,” this ballet is sure to please all bringing love and Compassion to your hearts

this Christmas season. It’s must see!

Venue: W.L Jack Howard Theatre at the Monroe Civic Center Address: 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway Monroe, LA, 71210 Admission Cost: $20-$25 Phone: 318-329-2225 Warhawk Basketball: ULM v. LSUA Time: 7:00p.m.

Show your school pride and come to the ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum to watch your Warhawks play against the Generals.

Venue: ULM Fant-Ewing Coliseum Address: 4099 Northeast Dr Monroe LA, 71209 Admission Cost: Ticket prices vary; Students get in free with I.D. Phone: 318- 342-1000 Web: www.ulmwarhawks.com December 20: Christmas in Costume Time: 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Stroll down Trenton and Cotton Streets, stopping in your favorite stores to see the merchants dressed in costumes depicting their favorite movies. Feel free to come dressed as your favorite Christmas character.

This will be a fun way to get your last minute shopping done.

Venue: Antique Alley Address: 100 Trenton Street West Monroe LA, 71292 Admission Cost: Free to attend Phone: 318-388-3930 December 31: New Year’s Eve Bash Time: 8:00p.m.

The Downtown Monroe Alliance is again hosting a New Year’s Eve party. This event was created to give everyone a place to go and party in downtown Monroe. The dress code is “come as you are,” casual dress.

There will be food, spirits, entertainment and a lot of fun. Ticket sales and more information coming soon!

Venue: Ouachita Grand Plaza Address: 501 S Grand St Monroe LA, 71201

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