bmonthly October 2015

The Arts

THE BEST OF THE BEST

Business

PRECISION SPINAL

Profile

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KALEB POTTER

BREWING HOPE THIS MONTH: PAUL BENJAMAN N DOWNTOWN GHOST WALK N COMPREHENSIVE OCTOBER EVENTS

Tim Shinabarger (b. 1966), On the Barren Lands 2003, bronze, 23 x 24 x 11 in. Private Collection

Seven of the Premier Wildlife Artists in America will present a

retrospective and sale of their work at Woolaroc Museum. Featured artists include:

Painters: Ken Carlson, Bob Kuhn, James Morgan, and Tucker Smith Sculptors: Ken Bunn, Walter Matia, and Tim Shinabarger Exhibit will run from October 3rd through December 31st

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Publisher’s Letter

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Music: Lord Benjaman

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Tulsa guitarist and bandleader’s New Album

Downtown: Ghost Walk

A ghastly tour of downtown

Feature: Brewing for a Cause Hops for Hope Annual Event

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Out & About: Photos from Around Town

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October Events Calendar

Find out What’s Happening This Month!

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Profile: Kaleb Potter

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The Arts: Woolaroc THE BEST OF THE BEST

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Community: Bigs of the Year

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Business: Precision Spinal

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Last Call:

Contemporary Wildlife Exhibition and Sale

Oklahoma Big Brother and Big Sister of the Year A wellness center, different on many levels Paths to Independence: Autism Heroes 2015

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publisher’s letter

Publisher’s Letter

Volume 5 Issue 8 P.O. Box 44 / Bartlesville, OK 74005

www.bartlesvillemonthly.com facebook.com/bartlesvillemonthly Publisher/Owner

I feel like every month I just have to make something from nothing with this publisher’s letter.

I suppose making something from nothing is what happens each month with the entire magazine, but I don’t like the idea of using this space just to rehash what you are about to experience! Luckily, as I stated in my very first letter this past April, we live in a place where there is no shortage of interesting people, places or things to explore.

Stories are always flowing; we just have to catch them! There is a statement by Kaleb Potter in his Profile story this month that rings so true, he said, “If you don’t get plugged into your community, you really don’t know it.”

I am so grateful to have taken ownership of b Monthly earlier this year and thankful that my life delivered me to the place where my mom grew up. I remember one time she told me Bartlesville was different from other towns of its size and I was like, yeah, that’s great, I’ll be in NYC or anywhere but the middle of nowhere. I’m sure she remembers trying to get through to me, and probably on more subjects than just Bartlesville!

Month after month b Monthly enables us to learn about the history and people of our amazing town that gives us opportunity to feel a sense of place. Recently I was in the Chicago area for a little over a week. On the return, we approached Tulsa from the north

on a beautiful late September afternoon, and just like all the other times I’ve flown back home from everywhere over the past 13 years, I was filled with an undeniable connection to the energy here.

Most certainly I’m where I’m supposed to be, at some point I wish for all to have the same experience.

Each month we fit all we can into the pages of b Monthly, and we are always looking for stories on local artists, humanitarians, and programs that may just be happily, silently going about their business doing amazing work in the background. I am open to all editorial ideas and sometimes the only reason we don’t highlight an event or an incredible person of our community, is because we don’t know about them. Imagine that. If you know someone or something that should be highlighted but you’ve been frustrated that nobody takes notice, think on this note from Josh Billings, “I hate to be a kicker, I always long for peace, But the wheel that does the squeaking, Is the one that gets the grease.”

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LORD BENJAMAN

music

Staying One Step Ahead

by Stacy Lewallen

A lot can happen in five years – just ask Paul Benjaman, Tulsa guitarist and bandleader.

In 2010 his debut album “Something” was released.

In the ensuing five years, he has shared his music at festivals and honky tonks all over the country, toured with The Secret Sisters, and played on the Tonight Show stage. Now, he can be found hosting “Paul Benjaman’s Sunday Nite Thing” at the Colony in Tulsa.

Benjaman’s style has evolved over the years, influenced by veterans of the Tulsa Sound (a musical style that originated in Tulsa and combines rockabilly, country, rock ‘n’ roll, and blues) and by the emerging talent that sits in on his unrehearsed weekly jam sessions. “Everyone in the tribe finds their own special role.” says Benjaman.

In Oklahoma music circles, Benjaman’s mastery of blending different styles of music has become epic – leading his friend and music promotor Brian Horton to coin the title “Lord Benjaman”. Says Horton: “Lord Benjaman has a deep respect and admiration for the old guard, and is a role model and mentor to so many of the current crop of musicians.”

Benjaman not only mentors up-and-coming musicians at his gigs, he has also learned from his students, by providing lessons at Tulsa’s Guitar House for more than 15 years. “It became a process of signing up a student and them telling me what they wanted. So on all those other styles; I just have to stay one lesson ahead.”

Staying true to his creed, Benjaman is staying one step ahead of his students with his upcoming release “Sneaker”.

So many believed in Benjaman’s latest project that they helped fund it on Kickstarter. “I didn’t sleep a lot that whole month,” says Benjaman, “I come from a working class family – I’m not good at asking people for money. I didn’t think we were gonna make it.” Not only did they meet their goal, they exceeded it.

Horton hopes the record “blows up” on a national level for the band. “He’s always thinking of stuff to push things forward. I can’t wait for people to hear the new album.”

Benjaman’s electric bassist, Jo Wayne Hallford, says the album is “really diverse and really old fashioned,” adding “it straddles a lot of different genres and influences without really taking too much from any one or the other.”

Benjaman’s music, which can be sampled on his Facebook page, highlights his funky 70’s vibe guitar sound. The upbeat Ball And Chain features Benjaman’s guitar wailing behind his laid back vocals. The semiautobiographical Them Tulsa Boys tells of local musicians “doing it right”.

Not everyone gets what they’re doing, but when they do, they really get it. Bartians will have the chance to get it, when the Paul Benjaman Band comes to Frank and Lola’s for their official “Sneaker” release party, says Hallford, “Once you hear it, you’ll know.” v

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Downtown

Ghost Walk

by Tyler Barlass

A Ghastly Tour of Downtown “Rivaling the authentic significance of the stories that the “ghosts” will reenact is the rich history of the six unique stops...”

The gruesome murder of a wealthy businessman. The untimely death of a young factory worker. The story of revenge gone horribly wrong. These are just a few of the stories the spirits will tell during October’s historic downtown Ghost Walk.

For the sixth consecutive year, some of the best actors and actresses Bartlesville has to offer will perform stories based on real events that have taken place in and around our historic downtown.

Rivaling the authentic significance of the stories that the “ghosts” will reenact is the rich history of the six unique stops on this year’s tour.

Starting at the United Linen building on Frank Phillips Boulevard, the guided tour will travel to the 107-year-old Atchison, Topeka & Santa Fe Depot on Keeler Avenue, and will finally venture down Bartlesville’s old “red light district” on 2nd Street.

One of the stops on this street is the former location of the grand Almeda Hotel, on the corner of 2nd Street and Johnstone Avenue. The hotel was constructed to wrap around the old First National Bank, built in 1900.

While neither the hotel nor the bank still stands, a macabre guest of the building still haunts the spot where it once stood.

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Like every year, this year’s Ghost Walk features entirely new locations and stories. More than just a spooky good time, the event showcases the heritage of Bartlesville’s beautiful downtown.

MAIN STREET BARTLESVILLE

GHOST WALK STARTING AT THE HILTON GARDEN INN

WEDNESDAY

OCT 21

THURSDAY

OCT 22

ADMISSION : $10

The tour will continue on to the Citizen’s Bank and Trust Building on Frank Phillips Boulevard. This building is famous for housing the “beginning of [the] Phillips Petroleum” company, as stated by a plaque on the facade. The Phillips brothers began their business from an office on the second floor. This special location will house the story of one of the most notorious murders in the history of the region.

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Continuing on Frank Phillips Boulevard, the Johnstone and Keeler buildings will both host wayward spirits who are dying to tell their stories. Both of these structures were built over 100 years ago and are teeming with fascinating stories and historical significance.

The Ghost walk is one of Main Street Bartlesville’s premiere fundraising events. Main Street Bartlesville (formerly known as Downtown Bartlesville Incorporated), is a nonprofit organization that works tirelessly to promote the continued revitalization of downtown Bartlesville.

Don’t be alarmed to see a few ghastly sights on the tour. As in years past, there will be a healthy amount of ghouls and zombies roaming the streets downtown. So while the Ghost Walk may be more geared toward the historical side of Bartlesville rather than the bone-chilling side, it’s not unusual to hear a few screams echoing against the old downtown buildings. It is Halloween season, after all. v

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BREWING FOR A CAUSE hops for hope | by Lori Esser

Hope. It’s such an impactful word which is significant to children in our community after they have suffered from abuse. This is what Ray of Hope offers on a daily basis.

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Ray of Hope Advocacy Center is a child-focused program comprising representatives from many disciplines (law enforcement, child protection, prosecution, medical and mental health, and victim advocacy) that work together conducting joint forensic interviews. Collectively, they make decisions contingent on the investigation, treatment, management and prosecution of child abuse cases in Northeast Oklahoma and Southeast Kansas.

The ultimate goal is to ensure that children are not further victimized by the intervention system designed to protect them.

“At Ray of Hope, our mission is to facilitate a coordinated, community response and to provide hope and support to children and families impacted by abuse,” said Rhonda

Hudson, director. “We put children and families at the center of everything we do.”

The Washington County Child Abuse Multidisciplinary Team was founded in 1977 by a group of professionals that recognized a need for collaboration when intervening in cases of child abuse and neglect. In 2003, Ray of Hope was incorporated to begin the work of establishing a Child Advocacy Center to serve Washington County and the surrounding communities. Their services include a multidisciplinary approach to child abuse intervention, childfriendly forensic interviews, medical and mental health intervention, referrals to local resources and service providers, victim advocacy and support, court preparation assistance, child abuse prevention

Team Oh Ale No’s Kaci Fouts and Julie Pranger will bring their brew called the Cherry Valance Outsider Stout.

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services and professional and community training.

“This is one of the few jobs where you would like to work yourself out of a job,” said Hudson.

“Unfortunately, we are continuing to see more families that need services. We are at the tipping point of looking at expanding our facility or continuing to maintain the status quo.”

In 2014, Ray of Hope provided services to 200 children and has already surpassed last year’s number this year.

“That number represents the serious abuse cases,” explained Hudson. “We are dealing with abuse that warrants criminal investigations and are always happy when they turn out unfounded. We are here to understand a child’s story and find the truth in allegations.”

The advocacy center offers a welcoming environment adored with stuffed teddy bears, children’s books, overflowing candy bowls and colorful decorations adorn the walls.

“We want the kids to feel comfortable when they are here,” said Hudson. “We are also creating a space for the investigators to do their job well.

We serve two clients here.”

Ray of Hope recognizes the value of work that DHS and law enforcement do while they are here. It offers co-sponsorship to ongoing training and the ability for them to attend conferences.

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possible,” said Hudson.

A success story that came to Hudson’s mind was of a family of four boys that were brought into the center late one evening.

The caseworker explained that the kids expressed no interest in talking to anyone. After arriving, the boys quickly became settled with resources provided from the center. Eventually, each child felt comfortable sharing their story with the investigator. A bag with a change of clothes and toiletries was given to each boy. Upon leaving, one of the older boys stated that he didn’t want to come to this place out of fear, but he ended up really liking it and was glad he came.

Ray of Hope is gearing up for its sixth annual Hops for Hope fundraiser on Saturday, November 7 at 6:30 p.m. This fun and casual affair will feature a home beerbrewing competition with tastings where attendees will be the judge, pub grub by Sodexho, live music by a Dean Martin impersonator, raffle and silent auction items.

“Patrons enjoy this event because of the relaxed atmosphere,” said Hudson. “When you arrive everything is open so you can go between tasting and snacking.”

Ray of Hope board member and Hops for Hope event President, Lindsey Pickering, had a passion for this organization since she first toured the center with Leadership Bartlesville.

“When I toured the facility and learned about their mission and the unfortunate need for this

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center, I instantly felt compelled to help in some way,” Pickering said.

“I have children of my own and my heart goes out to the children and the families that have to go through such a traumatic time.

I’ve been involved with Hops for Hope since its inception and have enjoyed watching this amazing event grow into what it is today.

We are absolutely thrilled of how the community has embraced our event.”

With a $40 ticket price, Hops for Hope is a fundraiser that dismisses all barriers for anyone to participate. The first fundraising event had a humble beginning with a turnout of a few hundred people at Prairie Song. It was apparent that future events would need to be hosted in a larger venue. Hops for Hope is now hosted at Hanger 5 at Bartlesville Municipal Airport which in itself, adds another depth to the festivities, and can accommodate the anticipated 800 patrons.

“Anyone in the community can enjoy this event, even for the non-beer enthusiasts,” explained Hudson. “There’s something

for everyone. It’s a very fun and relaxed setting. Plus everyone loves snagging one of our coveted long-sleeve t-shirts. We enjoy seeing them worn around town months after the event is over. We want to thank Sutterfield Financial Group for being a fantastic supporter to help make this night possible.”

Hudson said she was initially surprised when this event was conceived that craft beers were such a huge hobby in this area.

At the time of print, 19 brewers have signed up to go head-tohead in categories such as “best of show,” most creative name and first through third place in light and dark beer categories. Ray of Hope was thrilled to have their first female brewers enter the competition last year.

the Ray of Hope purpose.”

Fouts, a committee member for the event, has wanted to compete for a long time. She feels excited about trying all the different beers this year. She and Pranger are most excited for tasters to try their Cherry Valance Outsider. “I feel very fortunate to have had Tim Simmons from the Frank Phillips Club teach us a few things about brewing,” Fouts added.

Come celebrate six years of craft brew and quality in-flight entertainment while, raising funds for child advocacy and support for Ray of Hope’s mission in our community. Your first-class ticket to fly away with Ray of Hope is now on sale by calling (918) 3376177 or online at rayofhopeac.org. v

“The competition is fun and it’s definitely fun to be on an allfemale team,” said Julie Pranger, Hops for Hope brew competitor.

“Kaci (Fouts) and I hope we will represent the female population well this year by kicking some butt! At the end of the day, we are all brewing for the love of it and

The Frank Phillips Club team will offer their dark Frank’s Gusher Ale and a light called Frank’s Holy Frack! Frank Phillips Club photos by Tony Lehmer.

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Thursday, Oct. 1 10:00 AM

Oklahoma Expressions exhibit @Price Tower A mixed media show that looks into the many wonders of Oklahoma. Looking at the culture, landscapes, wildlife and beautiful architecture, this show celebrates the many incredible aspects about Oklahoma. It will feature 15 local and regional artists. Visit www.pricetower.org for more information

6:00 PM

Carlson, Bob Kuhn, James Morgan and Tucker Smith and sculptors, Ken Bunn,

Essential Oils 101

Walter Matia and Tim Shinabarger. Visit

@Tri County Tech

www.woolaroc.org for more info

Learn about the amazing and powerful benefits of essential oils. Program cost $9.

Sauces Series: Hollandaise

4:00 PM Super K

KLIFE House - 1815 Hillcrest Dr

Students will learn to make a delicious

Super K is a fun filled, jam packed hour

Hollandaise sauce. Program cost $39.

every first Friday of the month. All 3rd-5th graders are invited!

10:00 AM

BioBlitz Weekend @ Osage Hills State Park

@ Price Tower

Bioblitz is a fun and exciting event to

A mixed media show that looks into the

educate people about the natural diversity

many wonders of Oklahoma. Looking at the

“in their back yard.” BioBlitz offers a hands-

culture, landscapes, wildlife and beautiful

on scientific experience and a chance to

architecture, this show celebrates the many

learn more about the diversity of life where

incredible aspects about Oklahoma. It will

people live.

feature 15 local and regional artists. Visit

“The Best of the Best” art show of wildlife artists @Woolaroc contemporary wildlife artists: painters, Ken Carlson, Bob Kuhn, James Morgan and Tucker Smith and sculptors, Ken Bunn, Walter Matia and Tim Shinabarger. Visit www.woolaroc.org for more info

7:30 PM

@ Woolaroc Authentic 1840’s trader camps set up at our

Washington County Fairgrounds – Dewey

Mountain Man Camp. The public is welcome

“Borrowed Time” will be an evening you

at no additional charge to view the customs

will never forget. Your fear will be delivered

and lifestyles of the early day trader’s.

starting October 2nd and finishing out the season on November 1st for “One Last

View the wonderful works of 7 of the best

Ride” (Our main attraction at only 1/2 the

“The Best of the Best” art show of wildlife artists @ Woolaroc View the wonderful works of 7 of the best contemporary wildlife artists: painters, Ken

Frank Phillips Park to improve access to locally grown specialty crops & homemade crafts, promote the economic well-being of area farmers & growers, while supporting the nutritional wellness of our community.

9:00 AM

All About Apple Butter Looking for something fantastic to do with all those extra apples? Let’s work on making apple butter! Program cost $49.

10:00 AM

Oklahoma Expressions exhibit @ Price Tower A mixed media show that looks into the many wonders of Oklahoma. Looking at the culture, landscapes, wildlife and beautiful

“Borrowed Time” presented

by Killing Frost Productions – Opening Night

Fall Traders Encampment

Farmer’s Market

Tri County Tech

Oklahoma Expressions exhibit

www.pricetower.org for more information

8:00 AM

Bartlesville Farmer’s Market has a mission

@Tri County Tech

Friday, Oct. 2

Saturday, Oct. 3

price!!). Visit www.killingfrostproductions. com for more info

architecture, this show celebrates the many incredible aspects about Oklahoma. It will feature 15 local and regional artists. Visit www.pricetower.org for more information

Fall Traders Encampment @ Woolaroc Authentic 1840’s trader camps set up at our Mountain Man Camp. The public is welcome at no additional charge to view the customs and lifestyles of the early day trader’s.

11th Annual National Indian Taco Championship Downtown Pawhuska This popular event not only features

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aromas of freshly cooked Indian tacos, but interesting vendors and traders, competitions, music, American Indian dancing, drum contests and a variety of entertainment.

4:00 PM

BioBlitz Weekend @ Osage Hills State Park Bioblitz is a fun and exciting event to educate people about the natural diversity “in their back yard.” BioBlitz offers a handson scientific experience and a chance to learn more about the diversity of life where people live.

8:30 PM

Live Music with the Hi-Fi Hippies Painted Horse Bar & Grille

10:30 AM

Bruin Jr. Pom Clinic Bartlesville High School CLINIC TIMES: PreK-2nd graders:10am12:30pm, 3rd – 5th graders:1-4pm PERFORMANCE: Friday, October 9th (Halftime) of Bruin game. $40 per student

Tuesday, October 6

Tri County Tech

crops & homemade crafts, promote the

Veloute is a cross between a stock and a

economic well-being of area farmers &

Flu Shot Clinic

bechamel. Students will have hands-on

growers, while supporting the nutritional

experience preparing this delicious sauce.

wellness of our community.

9:00 AM

Elder Care - Bartlesville

Program cost $39.

Flu Shots will be given from 9a-noon and 1p-4p every Tuesday in October. No Payment due for Medicare Qualified Part B Participants. $50 High Dose, $30 Regular

4:00 PM

Annual Pumpkin Patch Kick Off Bartlesville First Church – Price Road The Pumpkin Patch will be entirely staffed by volunteers, and the Church hopes to coordinate with local youth and corporations

10:00 AM

Oklahoma Expressions exhibit @ Price Tower A mixed media show that looks into the many wonders of Oklahoma. Looking at the culture, landscapes, wildlife and beautiful architecture, this show celebrates the many incredible aspects about Oklahoma. It will feature 15 local and regional artists. Visit www.pricetower.org for more information

4:00 PM

BioBlitz Weekend @ Osage Hills State Park Bioblitz is a fun and exciting event to educate people about the natural diversity “in their back yard.” BioBlitz offers a handson scientific experience and a chance to learn more about the diversity of life where people live.

Monday, October 5 10:00 AM

Open House Elder Care - Bartlesville Come take a behind-the-scenes tour and learn about all the programs Elder Care has to offer. Enjoy coffee and a pastry while getting your questions answered.

Family Life Symposium and Dr. Josh McDowell present “Relationships that Transform”

experience for everyone involved. Proceeds from this year’s Patch will be distributed among the church youth, food pantries and area charities.

6:00 PM

Those quirky Cajuns do have some mighty tasty food, don’t they? Come on down and learn how to make some simple and Program cost $39.

Tournament winners will receive distinctive awards and door prizes will be drawn at

internationally known speaker, Dr. Josh

random.

McDowell.

October 7 10:00 AM

Join us at Milk and Honey Medical Spa! Bring a friend new to Milk & Honey who purchases $100 of product or services, and receive complimentary 10u of Botox or Latisse. Purchase 30u of Botox; get your Crow’s feet treated for free! Raffle prizes and more! Limited Space available call today to RSVP 918-333-0500 Located at 2232 SE Washington Blvd.

Wednesday, Oct. 7 6:00 PM

Tri County Tech Come join us and learn how to crank out pork that will make you the envy of your friends or the hero of the family reunion!

Sauces Series: Veloute

1:00 PM

Acting Auditions – “I’ll Be Home For Christmas” Theater Bartlesville will hold open auditions for actors to perform in its upcoming performance of “I’ll Be Home For Christmas” directed by Joe Sears.

6:00 PM

professionals, parents, and counselors.

Fitness Bootcamp

Ends at 4pm. Cost is $55. CEUs available.

Tri County Tech

To register, visit familylifesymposium.org

Participants will execute a variety of

5:30 PM

exercises, including body weight, free weights and cardio that will be based on each individual’s fitness level. Program cost $39.

7:00 PM

December 13. Join us at the artist reception

The Comedy Clinic

from 5:30pm- 8pm. You can see Carolyn’s

Dewey Community Center

work at www.carolynmockart.com

Your Prescription for laughs! The Comedy

OK Mozart’s annual Oktoberfest – Wolfgang’s “Wurst” Event Bartlesville Community Center

Clinic, Tulsa’s Comedy Troupe. Tickets are $10 each. Visit www.thecomedyclinic.com for info

7:30 PM

beers & German food catered by Shortie’s

Symphonic Cinema by the Bartlesville Symphony

Grill. $50/person or $500/table of 8. 918-

Bartlesville Community Center

336-9800 or www.okmozart.com.

From Mozart to Mancini, from Waxman to

Music, games, fun, auctions, raffle, local

9:00 PM

Williams! Enjoy an assortment of classic movie soundtracks such as Psycho and Star

The OT

Wars side by side with more modern

KLife Club House – 1815 Hillcrest

favorites like Frozen and Pirates of the

Join us after the football game at the KLIFE

Caribbean. Visit www.bartlesvillesymphony.

House for s’mores, bonfire, games and

org for info

hanging out with all your friends & KLIFE staff & leaders. All middle school & high

BBQ 101: Pulled Pork

6:00 PM

Family Life Symposium Workshop with Dr. Josh McDowell “Relationships that Transform”

6:00 PM

“Friends Don’t Let Friends Get Wrinkles”

Thursday, Oct. 8

8:30 AM

This one-woman show runs through

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

Program cost $69.

Friday, October 9

Opening at Price Tower Art Gallery.

Tuesday Night Trivia

50-Target Tournament that benefits

this free, 2-hour event by author and

Local wildlife and nature artist Carolyn Mock exhibition.

7:30 PM

Foster Ranch-31501 U.S. 75, Bartlesville Bartlesville Regional United Way.

Designed for educators, ministers,

Tri County Tech

7th Annual Sperry Zervas Memorial Sporting Clays Tournament

Adults and teens are encouraged to attend

Tri County Tech Event Center

Creating Cajun Cuisine

9:00 AM

Tri County Tech Event Center

to ensure a successful and enjoyable

delicious meals straight from Louisiana.

Sunday, October 4

6:30 PM

8:30 PM

school students are welcome (6th-12th).

KARAOKE

GO BARTLESVILLE BRUINS! We’re your

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

#1 fans!

Saturday, Oct. 10 8:00 AM

10:00 PM

A Love Electric Frank & Lola’s

Farmer’s Market

An explosive trio of three nationalities, A

Frank Phillips Park

Love Electric (featuring Todd Clouser),

Bartlesville Farmer’s Market has a mission

hailed as “the tomorrow of creative rock” by

to improve access to locally grown specialty

Mexico City’s leading newspaper.

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Bartlesville Kiddie Park

Sunday, October 11

The 2015, 9th Annual Spook-A-Rama at the

10:00 PM

Classic Cake Series: Velvet Cake Tri County Tech

Kiddie Park will be as big and wonderful a

Smokey & The Mirror

Halloween extravaganza as ever.

Frank & Lola’s

chocolate cake dyed to perfection for your

Vocalist Auditions

Smokey & The Mirror is the powerfully

guests and family. You’ll never make it from

Theater Bartlesville

beautiful voice of bassist Bernice Hembree

a mix again! Cost $39.

1:00 PM

Theater Bartlesville will hold auditions for singers to perform in their upcoming

Friday, October 16 7:00 PM

production of “I’ll Be Home For Christmas”

9th Annual Spook-A-Rama

musical direction by Marcia Hansen.

Bartlesville Kiddie Park

1:30 PM

Constantine Theatre

The 2015, 9th Annual Spook-A-Rama at the Kiddie Park will be as big and wonderful a Halloween extravaganza as ever.

and the well-written songs of husband Bryan. Smart, cool and never pretentious.

Monday, October 19 12:00 PM Yoga

Tri County Tech

Broadway and Show Tunes performed by

This class will include an energizing vinyasa

Saturday, Oct. 17

6:00 PM

Farmer’s Market

Colossal “Great Hymns of Faith” Concert

8:00 AM

Frank Phillips Park Bartlesville Farmer’s Market has a mission

6:30 PM

Mah Jongg

– Pawhuska Everett Music Studio. $5 at the door!

Velvet cake is a moist and delicious

flow sequence that will build strength, flexibility, and body awareness. Cost $39, Drop-ins $5/class.

5:00 PM

Tri County Tech Mah Jongg is an ancient Asian game played with decorative tiles and dice. Come and learn this challenging and exotic game of strategy and chance. Cost $59.

Thursday, Oct. 22 5:30 PM

Golden Hour Elder Care - Bartlesville

First Baptist of Bartlesville

to improve access to locally grown specialty

Gentle Yoga

This dramatic concert, which will be free

crops & homemade crafts, promote the

Tri County Tech

food and giveaways. Open to anyone 60 or

and open to the public, will be presented in

economic well-being of area farmers &

This slower-paced class is ideal for

older. No RSVP required.

the newly refurbished Main Worship Center.

growers, while supporting the nutritional

beginners, expectant mothers, and those

We hope that you will come and enjoy

wellness of our community.

working with injuries. Program cost $39.

this energetic enterprise that will feature a 100-plus voice choir augmented with a full orchestra.

9:00 AM

Transitions of Care Health Fair Bartlesville Community Center

Tuesday, Oct. 20 5:15 PM

Meditation

Monday, October 12

10:00 AM

A variety of meditation styles, including

Basic Sewing

2015 Family Arts Festival Price Tower

mindfulness, walking, and guided

Tri County Tech

The festival is free for all to attend. The

visualization will be explored. Cost 39, Drop-

Students will construct a simple garment.

day-long event includes hands-on crafts and

ins $5/class.

The first session will include instructions for

games for kids of all ages to enjoy with their

determining amount of fabric and notions

families. Each year the Family Arts Festival

needed. Program cost $49.

includes a youth art show.

Tuesday, Oct. 13

6:00 PM

6:00 PM

6:00 PM

Classic Cake Series: Hummingbird Cake

Tri County Tech

6:30 PM

Restorative Yoga Tri County Tech This class will include a vigorous and

Afghan We Can Fundraiser for Razia’s Ray of Hope Foundation

energizing vinyasa flow sequence that

Hillcrest Country Club

awareness. Cost $39, Drop-ins $5/class.

will build strength, flexibility, and body

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Featuring exotic food, a Middle Eastern

Hummingbird cake is a classic southern

Bazaar and gypsy jazz by Josh and Kyle.

cake that is moist and beautiful. It’s a cross

Presented by Daybreak Rotary and Rotary

Tuesday Night Trivia

between a spice cake and a pineapple

Bartlesville. $50 per person.

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

cake with cream cheese frosting. Program cost $39.

7:30 PM

7:00 PM

9th Annual Spook-A-Rama Bartlesville Kiddie Park

7:30 PM

Wednesday, Oct. 21 6:00 PM

Tuesday Night Trivia

The 2015, 9th Annual Spook-A-Rama at the

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

Kiddie Park will be as big and wonderful a

6th Annual Bartlesville Downtown Award Winning Ghost Walk

Halloween extravaganza as ever.

Hilton Garden Inn

Thursday, Oct. 15 7:00 PM

9th Annual Spook-A-Rama

8:30 PM

Free social night with live entertainment,

6:00 PM

6th Annual Bartlesville Downtown Award Winning Ghost Walk Hilton Garden Inn 6 historic downtown locations will feature fact-based stories of the characters and events of Bartlesville’s colorful history.

Tickets $10 - Pay at event.

6 historic downtown locations will feature fact-based stories of the characters and

Live Music with Ol’School

Halloween Cupcake Session

events of Bartlesville’s colorful history.

Tri County Tech

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

Tickets $10 - Pay at event.

Impress your friends with these Halloween-

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b Monthly | EVENTS CALENDAR themed cupcakes at your next Halloween party. Guests are guaranteed to swoon over these edible decorations! Cost $39

7:00 PM Dracula

8:30 PM

Live Music with Stephanie Oliver Painted Horse Bar & Grille

7:00 PM

Theater Bartlesville

Dracula

Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with

Theater Bartlesville

New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as

Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with

she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production

New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as

of Dracula.

she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production of Dracula.

gets cooked and is hot (or cold, if it needs to

Theater Bartlesville

be) at the same time. $39

Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with

7:30 PM

Tuesday Night Trivia

New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production of Dracula.

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

Wednesday, Oct. 28 6:00 PM

Classic Cake Series: Italian Cream Cheese Cake

Saturday, Oct. 31 8:00 AM

Farmer’s Market Frank Phillips Park Bartlesville Farmer’s Market has a mission

Tri County Tech

to improve access to locally grown specialty

Learn to make a delicious Italian cream

crops & homemade crafts, promote the

cheese cake. This classic cake is moist and

economic well-being of area farmers &

Kid’s Night Out

delicious with tangy cream cheese frosting,

growers, while supporting the nutritional

Stage Art Dance – 308 S Dewey Ave

walnuts, and coconut. Cost $39.

wellness of our community.

Friday, October 23 6:30 PM

Dress up as your favorite character and join

7:00 PM

us for: pizza, dance and tumbling classes,

10:00 AM

games, and a movie. Ages walking-12.

Fall Festival

RSVP is required to 918-333-7270.

Humble Road Church – 304 Seminole

Uncle Franks Birthday Celebration

Festivities for all ages! This year’s festival

Frank Phillips Home – Bartlesville

will have all kinds of games and candy for

Bring a birthday card addressed to Uncle

Dracula

the kiddos. Halloween costumes welcome,

Frank and you will receive a free tour of the

Theater Bartlesville

so come join the fun!

Home!

Thursday, Oct. 29

7:00 PM

Halloween Cookies

Theater Bartlesville

7:00 PM Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production

6:00 PM

of Dracula.

PICON & FLANAGAN

Dracula

Tri County Tech

Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with

OK Mozart’s Abler Hall

Let’s make some spooktacular treats!

New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as

Jeffrey Picón, tenor, and Leslie Flanagan,

Students will learn to decorate Halloween

she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production

Australian baritone perform! Tickets $25 in

sugar cookies with spooky and fun designs.

of Dracula.

advance or $30 at the door. Call 918-336-

Cost $39.

9800 or www.okmozart.com.

10:00 PM

Paul Benjaman Band Album Release

7:00 PM

Frank & Lola’s

Theater Bartlesville

Live Music with Jake Hemphill Band

KLife Club House – 1815 Hillcrest

PBB’s “Sneaker” Bartlesville release as

Enjoy a dramatically frightening evening with

Painted Horse Bar & Grille

Join us after the football game at the KLIFE

featured in the music section of this issue!

New York theatre veteran, Carol Lynn Fry as

House for s’mores, bonfire, games and

Check that out and celebrate a great new

she directs Theater Bartlesville’s production

hanging out with all your friends & KLIFE

record with The Paul Benjaman Band.

of Dracula.

9:00 PM The OT

Dracula

staff & leaders. All middle school & high school students are welcome (6th-12th).

GO BARTLESVILLE BRUINS! We’re your #1 fans!

Monday, October 26

Friday, October 30

Ghoul’s Night Out

Cottage door will have special deals, drinks,

“COUNTRY WOMEN: An Interesting Bunch of Gals” CONCERT Benefit Dinner & Show featuring Megon McDonough

5:30 PM

No tricks just treats! The 3rd annual Ghoul’s

Saturday, Oct. 24 8:00 AM

Night Out at Curbside Closet and the

6:00 PM

snacks for all. Invite your friends out for a get

St. Luke’s Episcopal Church Hall - 210 SE

Farmer’s Market

together on us! 5:30pm-8pm 304 S. Dewey,

Ninth Street

Frank Phillips Park

Downtown Bartlesville.

Chicago Singer Megon McDonough returns performing songs of Patsy

Bartlesville Farmer’s Market has a mission to improve access to locally grown specialty crops & homemade crafts, promote the economic well-being of area farmers &

Tuesday, Oct. 27 6:00 PM

growers, while supporting the nutritional

Cooking for a Crowd

wellness of our community.

Tri County Tech Learn how to plan a meal for a large group and how to time things so that everything

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Cline, Reba and many more. Dinner and show to benefit CONCERN $80/pp.

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7:00 PM Dracula

8:30 PM

10:00 PM

Kyle Reid & The Low Swingin’ Chariots 6th Annual Halloween Extravaganza with Kyle Reid and his ghoulish chariots!

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KALEB POTTER

by Damon Isaacs

Kaleb Potter, who serves as the vice president of Bartlesville Radio, talks about lessons he learned from his parents and grandparents that taught him to be active in the community where he lives.

“I was raised that if you can help, you should,” he said, “My parents taught me about having a good work ethic. I give credit to my Mom and Dad for how I live my life today.”

When this Bartlesville High School graduate attended the University of Oklahoma, Norman campus, he was quick to look for opportunities to help; he found them in student government and community service. He credits his community service for introducing his wife, Taylor, to him. They met while serving on the executive committee for a fundraiser aptly named “The Big Event”. While at OU Norman, Potter was recognized for his outstanding service to the OU community, and received the J. R. Morris Campus Life Award. His heart for service began beating while attending the university and has continued to this day.

“Giving back to the community is truly one of the highlights of my life,” he said, “I am fortunate to work in our family radio business that affords me the time, and encourages me to do that.”

Kaleb and his wife are involved in their local church, Grace Community, and he serves on the committee for the Woolaroc Cow Thieves and Outlaws Reunion, along with the Bartlesville United Way board. He works closely with the Bartlesville Sports Commission which brings first class sporting events to Bartlesville. This has resulted in thousands of tourism dollars being spent in 26

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the community. “I hope that the citizens of Bartlesville understand the wonderful things that the sports commission does for our community,” Potter explains, “The commission supports local athletes and local business in such a powerful and honorable way. It really contributes to our local economy.”

You can see the excitement in Kaleb’s eyes when he talks about his work with the Big Brothers and Big Sisters organization, where he is currently the board president. “I was a ‘big’ for three years when I was in college. I enjoyed working with my assigned little brother and watching him gain self-confidence and grow as an individual,” he shared, “Sometimes the work of Big Brothers and Big Sisters goes unnoticed. The work that we do is such a one-on-one experience. I learned a lot from it.”

Kaleb describes himself as a focused and community-driven man. He explained that he and Taylor are at a place in their lives where they can serve the community and keep a good work-life balance. “Taylor and I are both very similar. We have similar values and a passion to help others,” he states.

The Potter family has owned the local radio business for 20 years, a broadcast group that includes KYFM, KWON, KRIG and KPGM and employs 20 people.

The 28 year-old started with a career in accounting, but then realized that his passion was in the family business. “Our stations are very community-driven. We report local news and events. Reporting local hasn’t really gone out of style. As a matter of fact, being local is more in style now than it has been in years,” Potter

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“Giving back to the community is truly one of the highlights of my life...” “...I am fortunate to work in our family radio business that affords me the time, and encourages me to do that.”

says. You can tell that he has no regrets for joining the family business. “It was good decision for me.” Potter reminisces, “My father-in-law once told me that when you are faced with a decision, make a decision and be confident about it.”

Kaleb continues, “Bartlesville is a special place, a unique place. It offers so many opportunities to serve others here in our community and beyond, to our extended communities.” He will tell you that an individual can move to Bartlesville, and quickly begin to build relationships and connections. He will also remind you that getting plugged in to a community is important. “I have had friends who live in other cities complain about where they live,” Potter explains, “I always remind them to get involved in their community. If you don’t get plugged in to your community, you really don’t know it.”

Potter is a good representation of a Bartian. If you talk with him, even briefly, you will hear his compassion for others, and the community. “We are all called to it,” he makes clear, “We are called to serve. We are all called to give back to the community that gives us so much.” v Photo by: Tony Lehmer OCTOBER 2015 | b Monthly

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the arts

THE BEST OF THE BEST

Woolaroc Hosts Contemporary Wildlife Exhibition and Sale For more than ten years, Bartlesville couple Dean and Kathy Zervas have had a dream. Their passion for art and their love of Woolaroc led them to believe that the museum should host a major art show, one that would attract collectors and gallery owners from all over the country. Their hope was by doing so, the historic treasure of Woolaroc would be exposed to a much broader audience.

Woolaroc’s gallery has been described as “one of the finest collections of southwest art in the world”

by Christie’s Auction House of New York. Despite the praise, Woolaroc—nestled in the Osage Hills of Oklahoma—remained relatively unknown to much of the national art world. “Dean and I felt like it was time for that to change,” said Kathy Zervas. In 2013, the first part of their dream started to take shape when Woolaroc hosted the “Lewis & Clark – Corps of Discovery” Show and Exhibit. The overwhelming success of the show provided the energy for the next big step for Woolaroc.

This year, Woolaroc Museum & Wildlife Preserve hosts a national art show from October 3rd to December 31st. The Zervas family, volunteers, and the late John Geraghty have helped to put together a world-class show, “The Best of the Best.” The gallery features seven of the world’s finest wildlife artists, showing together for the first time. Four painters and three sculptors will each have more than 20 pieces to show, and some new and featured pieces will be available to the public for purchase.

The painters presented in the show are Ken Carlson, the late Bob Kuhn, James Morgan and Tucker Smith.

The show also features the sculpture of Ken Bunn, Walter Matia and Tim Shinabarger.

The weekend will open with a magnificent Artist and Patron Dinner on Friday, October 2nd. Sponsors and special guests will be invited to preview the exhibition and greet the artists at a reception in the Museum, followed by an elegant dinner on the grounds of Woolaroc. Saturday, October 3rd will feature two lecture presentations by the artists at the Events Center of Woolaroc, one at 10:00 am and one at 2:00 pm. A buffet luncheon will be served in the historic Lodge home and will feature live entertainment and tours of the Lodge.

Tickets are currently available for the luncheon. On Saturday, October 3rd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm, Woolaroc Museum and Wildlife Preserve will host the “Best of the Best” Retrospective Exhibit and Sale. This incredible show will be open to the general public starting Sunday, October 4th. There is no additional fee to view this “once in a lifetime” art show beyond the regular cost of admission to Woolaroc.

To purchase individual tickets or tickets for the entire weekend of the “Best of the Best” go to woolaroc.org or call the Woolaroc office Monday – Friday at 918-3360307, ext. 10. v

October 3rd, 6:00 PM The Best of the Best Exhibition and Sale To purchase tickets call 918.336.0307.

The Best of the Best Exhibition will be on display October 4th through December 31st, 2015.

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Oklahoma Big Brother and Big Sister of the Year Recently Big Brothers Big Sisters of Bartlesville hosted what was billed as a BIG event. The fundraiser, a dinner plus silent and live auctions, at the Hilton Garden Inn generated bucks that help fund important connections. The BBBS, one of just five others in the state, is also celebrating another BIG event-recognition of the Oklahoma Big Brother and Big Sister of the Year. What makes it a really “big deal” is that both honorees are from Bartlesville.

With 1,420 active big and little brother and sister matches in the state, just being nominated for the award is significant. But to be selected as Oklahoma’s Big Brother or Big Sister of the Year is truly a important recognition.

The award is based on the impact the Big has had on his or her Little’s life.

Sara Stayton’s story as a Big Sister began in 2005 when she was matched with Little Sister Shay. An energetic 7-year-old, Shay had limited direction.

Over the next three years, Sara and Shay shared family-style dinners and fun activities in Sara’s backyard. Then, Sara received a call that changed both their lives forever. The Department of Human Services called with serious news; Shay was being removed from her birth mother’s home. Sara and her husband, Randy, did not hesitate for a moment.

They welcomed Shay into their home where she already felt safe and loved.

Shay was adopted on Dec. 17, 2008.

But Sara’s journey as a Big Sister wasn’t quite over yet. In 2009, she signed up again at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma. Soon after, she was matched with Audri, a shy 8-year-old who struggled with school, which deeply affected her self-esteem. Over time, they formed a strong bond where Audri felt comfortable sharing her struggles with Sara. Now they enjoy riding bikes, baking cookies, shopping and visiting the library together.

Audri is grateful for her Big Sister.

“Before, I felt like nobody wanted to hang out with me. Once Sara came into

my life, everything turned around. She’s made life fun for me.”

Audri’s insecurities have transformed into a new self-confidence. She’s become an excellent listener and communicator, improving her performance in school. Audri’s mother is appreciative. “Sara was able to help Audri break out of her shell when we, as parents, weren’t able to.”

Sara’s story is a testament to the difference being a Big can make in a Little’s life. She notes, “There is joy in the little things in life and having a friend to share it with is a special blessing.”

Sometimes, simply having fun can create lifelong bonds and change the life of a child for the better, forever.

Big sister Sara Stayton with her little sisters Shay and Audri.

Norm Lavoie had been a Big Brother in Pennsylvania before moving to Bartlesville. But it wasn’t until hearing his wife, Connie, a school counselor, talk about all the boys who needed mentors that Norm decided to be a Big Brother again.

Norm and Austin have been matched for nearly 10 years. Their friendship began as a School Based match in Austin’s second grade year. He was being raised by his grandmother because his dad passed away. He loved to read and enjoyed doing “guy things.”

Norm and Austin began reading together, playing catch, shooting hoops and playing board games. After three years, they transitioned to a Community Based match and expanded their activities to include bike riding on Pathfinder, hiking, movies, playing basketball at the YMCA, miniature golf, sharing meals, just talking, attending sports and community events, and visiting museums as they share an interest in history.

After being matched in that program for several years, they started taking trips to points of interest including St. Louis, Dallas, and most recently to Colorado for five days where they hiked in Rocky Mountain National Park and visited

Austin and Norm Lavoie.

Pikes Peak. Because of their trips, Norm has broadened Austin’s world. Austin’s grandmother says, “Norm was the best thing to happen to Austin.”

Norm even talked Austin into entering debate. Now he can talk easier and has lost his shyness. “Austin has become more and more outgoing. We discuss current events, his interests, and his thoughts about college.”

Graduation from Bartlesville High School means their match is now officially coming to an end, but they’ll stay in contact and remain friends. “It’s been a very rewarding experience to see my Little Brother grow up to become a confident, caring and capable young man,” Norm says proudly. v Becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister is open to anyone with a desire to help a young person and willing to spend time having fun together. An adult friend can make all the difference in a child’s life. For more information, visit Big Brothers Big Sisters at 320 SE Delaware or call (918) 336-5437.

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Business

PRECISION SPINAL Precision Spinal Healthcare is a wellness center different from other physicians’ offices on many levels.

Beginning with a warm ambiance that feels more like walking into someone’s home, you’re treated like family. Filled with cushiony leather chairs, a loveseat and an inviting fireplace, even the waiting room underscores Dr. Rikki Sydebotham’s statement.

“We’re family friendly,” she adds as her three year old scampers by on his way to an adjoining kitchenette where patients are invited to help themselves to a soda, juice or snack.

Precision Spinal is different in a lot of other ways too.

The husband and wife team of Dr. Rikki and Dr. T.C. Sydebotham provide NUCCA method chiropractic services. This is a non-invasive technique that focuses on two small bones at the top of your spine.

As rodeo rider who was injured as a teenager, Dr. Rikki was familiar with the technique and its effectiveness long before she began training in that field. Her personal experience led her down this particular career path where she eventually married love of career with the love of her life— business partner and spouse, Dr. T. C.—an outdoorsy guy who loves hunting, fishing and curing animals.

High school sweethearts, Rikki graduated from Dewey High and continued onto Connors State College with a rodeo scholarship.

T.C. grew up in Ochelata and graduated from Caney Valley School.

Both continued their education at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, then Palmer College of Chiropractic with T.C. opting to add Options College of Animal Chiropractic. That makes him one of few to treat animals in the northeast Oklahoma, Kansas, southern Missouri and western Arkansas territory.

The human treatment they have in common is the NUCCA method.

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A Wellness Center, Different on Many Levels.

by Linda Keller

cervical technique that involves the atlas, axis and first two vertebras in the neck.” Dr. T.C. adds, “A person may be hurting in the lower back, but the brain stem is where it all starts. We don’t turn, twist or pop any bones. It’s very underwhelming for our patients. Instead, we take measurements, find, analyze and correct sub-luxation. Then we let the body have a chance to heal from above, all the way down, inside and out.” Dr. T.C. maintains that healing is a process, not an event.

The method begins with an X-ray to see what’s going on, then a treatment plan is designed. Once the problem is remedied the patient moves to a maintenance plan. “It’s just like having your teeth cleaned on a regular schedule,” says Dr. Rikki.

Human symptoms that indicate treatment is needed vary from acid reflux to allergies, cardiac function to chronic fatigue, gastrointestinal dysfunction to migraine headaches, shoulder pain and vertigo. Dr. Rikki even treats babies and small children ranging in age from three days old and up. “With babies, symptoms include colic and ear infections, and often babies born cesarean section.

We want to make sure they get a good start in life.”

Dr. T.C.’s four-legged patients can’t tell him where they hurt, but he can diagnose problems visually.

Working mostly with show and performance animals, he can tell by the shape of their back, their gait, inability to pick up the correct lead, lameness, decreased ability to turn the head, losing time in events such as barrels, roping, racing, cutting, or having a smooth canter. With smaller friends like dogs and cats, it can be a tail tucked between the legs, decreased energy level, or bladder incontinence.

His youngest patients have been three-day-old piglets that couldn’t walk. He has also treated a fireman’s service dog after the Joplin tornado, where the dog had to crawl under

heavy piles of debris trying to locate injured people. Obviously, his specialty calls for often working outside the office—at show events, Vinita Cross-7 Veterinarian Clinic and individual farms.

But both doctors are quick to emphasize that they truly have fun at their vocation. “We spent a whole lot of time in school,” says Dr. T.C. “And this is the reward. We enjoy it so much, it’s not work. We really look forward to coming to work each day.” v

Dr. Rikki’s treatment on children involves lots of play to make kids comfortable with what’s being done.

When Dr. Rikki treats infants, they’re held against her body so it’s akin to being held by mommy.

Dr. T.C. shows the two bones at the base of the spine which hold the key to the NUCCA scientific approach to wellness.

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PATHS+ TO INDEPENDENCE:AUTISM HEROES GALA A Dream A Community = Their Success

by Michel Duncan

Paths To Independence is growing, and with this increase to their current campus off Swan Drive, they will also be making important changes to their annual Gala Event. “This year the 2015 Autism Heroes! Progressive Dinner will be held entirely in our new digs,” says Executive Director, Clair Bartley.

Paths To Independence (PTI) is an accredited school with a mission to empower those living with autism spectrum disorders. Founded in 2011 with just one student, the school now has nearly 45 full-time students in all grade levels, a student-to-staff ratio of 1.5/1, plus a summer program, she explains.

PTI helps place their students in a variety of jobs in the Bartlesville community as well as providing assistance with life and working skills. Some of the students have also gone on to enroll in classes at Tri County Technological Center. In addition to helping develop education and communication skills, the nonprofit provides support and services to the families.

In July of 2015 PTI was awarded a grant to allow the purchase of the former Life Church building across from its current school and offices. This new building has opened up many new opportunities for active spaces and has expanded classroom sizes providing more room for the fun areas staffed by an Occupational Therapist and Speech Pathologist.

The excitement is infectious as the director and teachers conduct a tour through the new building. It’s quite clear how much the people of PTI love their work, their students and the vision of the school.

Now, it’s possible for those who are interested to come explore the new space and see first-hand this incredible school and its dedicated staff. PTI will host the Autism Heroes! 2015 Gala in both buildings of their campus in November. The event will feature a band, DJ, a progressive dinner and dessert auction. Honorary Chairs are David and Carrie Stire.

This is definitely a don’t miss event in Bartlesville as PTI grows and continues to provide support and independence to the children and adults of our community who have autism spectrum disorders.

The Autism Heroes! Progressive dinner will take place November 14 at 6:30 p.m. at the PTI campus.

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Paths to Independence 4041 SE Sheridan Drive.

For more information about the event and to purchase tickets, contact PTIparty2015@pathstoindependence. org or by calling (918) 333-5334.