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TRI-STATE BRIDE | TABLE OF CONTENTS

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THEY CALL IT PUPPY LOVE

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INVITATION TRENDS

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NEWLY WED COOKING

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NEWLY WED TRAVEL GUIDE

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PUBLISHER Brian Bennett info@evansvillemediagroup.com

Fun Ways to Include Furry Friends in Your Ceremony

MUSICIANS & MARRIAGE

OPERATIONS MANAGER Joshua Adams billing@evansvillemediagroup.com

Top Area Performers Wed Their Partners

WHY YOU SHOULD HIRE A WEDDING PLANNER Great Advice from Vida Events

THE ULTIMATE WEDDING CHECKLIST Stay on the Right Track from Day One

PLANNING AT THE TOUCH OF YOUR FINGERTIPS Using Technology to Minimize the Stress

ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Jonathan Gluff jonathan@evansvillemediagroup.com

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TJ Tanoos tj@evansvillemediagroup.com DESIGNER & LAYOUT ARTIST Kelsey Halbig kelsey@sociallifemarketing.com

Keep Up with the Latest Designs & More

CHOOSING THE RIGHT NEWBORN PHOTOGRAPHER

Bailey Rideout bailey@sociallifemarketing.com

Tips from Area Expert Christy Lively

A Delicious Recipe from Chef Amanda Hancock

MANAGING EDITOR & WRITER Thomas Ellis tommy@evansvillemediagroup.com

GRAPHIC DESIGNER, DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL MEDIA Jen McKee jenniferm@sociallifemarketing.com

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Honeymoon Hotspots & Destination Weddings

STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER Rajiv KC

LAST FLING BEFORE THE RING

CONTRIBUTORS Amanda Hancock, Christy Lively, Vida Events

Make Your Bachelorette Party Memorable

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | NOTE FROM THE EDITOR

a quick note from the editor If you're paging through the 2020 edition of Tri-State Bride then chances are that a wedding is in the cards. So, congratulations, first and foremost. Second, we hope that you'll find some useful info inside to help make the whole process a bit easier - and more fun. For instance, including animals in your ceremony can really take things to the next level, so be sure to check out our Pet Project feature to get some ideas. But if you're simply starting at ground zero and need guidance, the owners of Vida Events have kindly compiled a ton of great advice culled from years of experience in the wedding planning industry, so dig in; we guarantee you'll come away with a whole new perspective and feel much more ready to face such a daunting task.

And hey, once you get through the ceremony, it's all cake after that. In fact, you might even be thinking about starting a family with your one true love, so we checked in with newborn photography expert Christy Lively for some tips on capturing those indelible moments that make sharing a life together so special. Speaking of sharing a life together, we always like to highlight local weddings both in pictures and words. Throughout this year's magazine, you'll find great photos of happy tri-state couples tying the knot as well as the stories of two popular Evansville musicians who made it official with their significant others in late 2019. Want to find out more? Just say "I do!" and start looking through the pages ahead... - TE

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | COVER STORY

Puppy Love THEY CALL IT

SEE PICS OF THE COVER W EDDING ON PAGE 9

Inclu ding f u r ry frien ds in you r w edding ca n m a k e you r Big Day th at m uch sw eet er

In these polarizing times with seemingly no room for compromise, there's at least one thing that everyone can agree on - one thing that unites us all: the love for our pets. Our devotion to our furry friends knows no bounds and, frankly, often dwarfs the affection we show significant others and family members (don't even act like you're innocent). At the end of the day, this is what truly defines us as Americans and separates us from other cultures, right?

Now that we've established some simple facts, let's get right to the heart of the matter: How can you include your beloved pet in the

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most important moment of your life? Naturally, it only makes sense to share your wedding day with the whole family - not just the humans.

And your furry friend or friends will

Pose for pics together Want to know how to make your wedding pics even more perfect?

Pose with your pets! The cute factor will be off the charts.

surely pay you back in spades with no shortage of wet kisses and adorable tail-wagging. (This is assuming you are making Fido or Rover a part of the proceedings. In reality, couples have been known to bring all sorts of animals to the ceremony - from birds to cats and beyond. Some of you might even recall an episode of the King of Queens that featured a monkey walking down the aisle when Doug and Carrie renewed their vows. Just a thought.)

Dress your pet in festive or formal attire When you make your pets part of your big day, why not make them match the wedding party! From bow ties to flower collars, there are tons of ways to make your pet look the part.

So for those of you wanting to include animals in your ceremony, here are some ideas that will make your wedding day even more special.

WALK DOWN THE AISLE WITH YOUR PET​ Make them part of your special day by letting them join in on the fun!

Bring your pet to the getting ready suite Nothing calms your nerves more than kisses from your favorite furry friends!

Bring them with you while you get ready and your stress will melt away.

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Add illustrations of your pet to invitations, stationery, napkins, bar menus, pillows Custom made invitations add just the right amount of elegance to your day, but incorporating your pets into them will make for some pretty spectacular wow factor! Don't stop at invitations, get creative and have special drink menus made, pillows and even napkins!

Have ring holders or a cake topper made in the image of your pet

Have your pet accompany you at the altar

Want to make your pets part of your day without having them be present?

Getting custom cake toppers made is the perfect way to do just that.

When your pet is an important part of your life, having them up at the alter with you when you say your 'I Do's' could be something special that you will cherish forever.

Dance together with your pet

Make your pet the ring bearer

If the church or venue where you hold your ceremony doesn't allow pets, you can always bring them to the reception!

And what would be better than sharing a first dance with your furbaby?

What's cuter than a pooch carrying a ring down the aisle? Nothing! If your pet is trained well enough to carry a cute pillow down the aisle, this could make for a big moment that will have your guests talking for days!

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IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN WATERCOLOR PET PORTRAITS FOR YOUR BIG DAY CONTACT BAILEYMARIESTUDIO.COM

TAKE ENGAGMENT PHOTOS WITH YOUR PETS Having your pets with you at your engagment photos is another great way to incorporate them. Display the pictures at your reception for all of your guests.

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CH ECK OU T MOR E FU N PICS FROM TH EIR BIG DAY

K AYL A + CHRISTIAN

A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING AT THE CORNER HOUSE

vendors VENUE: THE CORNER HOUSE

PHOTOGRAPHERS: BRET AND BRANDIE PHOTOGRAPHY

MAKEUP ARTIST: KIRSTEN MENY HAIR ST YLIST: SHELBY JONES CAKE ARTIST: LILLY PAD BAKESHOP CATERER: DOUBLE D’S RESTAURANT FLORIST: I DO FLORAL DESIGNS BRIDAL GOWN BOUTIQUE: HOUSE OF WHITE MUSICIAN/DJ: DJ TAN THE MAN VIDEOGRAPHER: HUNTER EZELL OFFICIANT: MARK SILEN RINGS: DAVID SPICER JEWELER INVITATIONS: K AYL A MILLS BRIDESMAID DRESSES: ELL A PARK BRIDAL SUITS:ELL A PARK BRIDAL

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | SPECIAL FEATURE

MUSICIANS

&

Marriage TOTALLY IN TUNE WITH LIFE:

TWO TOP AREA PERFORMERS WED THEIR PARTNERS IN LATE 2019

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he tri-state music scene has been humming right along over the last few years, gaining momentum with every strum of a guitar and

every emphatic vocal. Seemingly out of thin air, a number of talented new artists and bands have appeared to ensure the future looks bright, while veterans like Angel WilderRhodes and Steve Tyner continue to show everyone how it's done - the former as an in-demand, primarily solo performer (occasionally backed by the Traveling Gents) who gigs tirelessly at area bars and restaurants and the latter as both an in-demand producer via Black Cat Recording and the frontman for popular cover band Jenny's Bad Hair Day. And there's kismet at work here, because not only did Tyner produce Wilder-Rhodes' 2019 debut EP Phoenix - 4K downloads and counting, by the way - but these two musical maestros both said "I do" just weeks apart as 2020 was fast approaching, tying the knot with their partners and finding that life is now totally in tune.

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SHE LOOKED AT IT AND OF COURSE, SHE WASN'T SURE IT

ANGEL & ZACH WILDER

Wilder-Rhodes finished

Angel first caught the eye of future husband Zach Wilder in

playing the Little Big Town

2015 while she was performing at the Old Fox in Lynnville,

hit "Girl Crush," Zach

IN. But it would be another two years before the pair

seized the moment, texting

actually spoke. As the story goes, Zach, who works in

"I think I have a girl crush"

orthopedics at St. Vincent on Evansville's east side, never

- and that was pretty

stopped thinking about that fateful night when he first saw

much it. But while the pair

the raven-haired, guitar-slinging woman with the thousand-

notes that music brought

watt smile and big voice to match. Just one problem: he

them together, it's the ability to laugh and joke around that

didn't know how to get a hold of her. But in the age of

keeps them together. "I'm 90% sense of humor," Zach says.

social media and dating apps, tracking a love interest down

"I don't like to be too serious - I've had too much go wrong

has become a bit simpler. It took a while, but eventually

in my life, so at this point, I'm just like the hell with it." Still,

Tinder came to the rescue. "I was on there because my

when it came time to propose, he was all business - sort of.

WAS FOR HER, BUT WHEN SHE TURNED AROUND, I WAS DOWN ON ONE KNEE.

girlfriends said you work all time and don't have time to meet anybody," Angel explains. "Zach found me on there

With a birthday on October 30, Angel's favorite time

and sent a message asking if I had ever sung at the Old

of the year has always been Halloween. So Zach - who

Fox - and then he ended up coming out to one of my open

reportedly hates doing anything clichĂŠ - put a unique

mic nights that I was hosting at Stoner's Grill in Boonville."

proposal plan into action that centered around a trip to the annual Jack O'Lantern Spectacular in Louisville, KY.

Of course, it's never quite that easy, is it? Angel was

"Angel didn't know where we were going until we actually

reportedly anti-boyfriend at the time, still recovering

got down there," he recalls. "I had carved a pumpkin that

emotionally from a previous long-term relationship - or as she

said 'Marry Me' and managed to hide it in a gazebo outside

bluntly states, "I didn't want nothing to do with dudes." But

of the trail heading to Iroquois Park - it was all lit up. She

at that open mic night in Boonville, something clicked. After

looked at it and of course, she wasn't sure it was for her,

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but when she turned around, I was down on one knee."

Spoiler alert, Angel accepted said proposal and the wedding planning commenced. A date was chosen - November 23, 2019 - along with a beautiful venue up in New Harmony, the RappOwen Granary. Catering, always a challenge, turned out to be a breeze since Angel bartends at Stoner's Grill; they handled everything. But that doesn't mean it was all smooth sailing - far from it. "Planning was way more than I thought it was going to be - it was a nightmare," Angel laments. "I thought that running my music business for five years would have prepared me, but it was very strenuous. Look at the photos - before the wedding I like look I'm ready to shoot people; afterwards, I'm all happy." Of course, the whole wedding party had downed numerous mimosas by then so that certainly didn't hurt.

By all accounts, the ceremony went off relatively hitch-free, but Zach made sure it was memorable by both knocking over a wedding cake and providing some comic relief during the ceremonial garter removal & toss. As far as the latter hijinks are concerned, we'll let Zach do the honors. "I went and got a pair of men's 6XL tighty whities and then got a chocolate chip and put a brown streak on the back of it," he explains with a mischievous grin on his face. "I pretended to take that off instead of the garter. Angel knew something was up because I was under there for a long time." Oh, and Zach kindly wrote her name on the back of the over-sized underwear with a sharpie to avoid any confusion of ownership.

Post-ceremony, a DJ revved things up before both the Traveling Gents and Angel's longtime blues rock project Deja Blu 5 jammed together. She even dedicated a Shania Twain song to Zach since he's a bit of a country guy - classic country, mind you. Simply put, the whole day was a huge success so we'll end there and spare you the unfortunate circumstances surrounding the happy couple's honeymoon to the Dominican Republic E. coli, anyone? Yikes.

Best of luck to Angel and Zach in 2020!

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ANDREA & STEVE TYNER Appropriately enough, the Tyners met through a mutual musician friend back in 2011 not too long after Steve returned from a stint in Nashville. He was starting from scratch again, socially speaking, and reconnected with said friend for a hangout session - and guess who just happened to show up? That would be Andrea, of course. Both sides felt an immediate connection and as the Tyners tell it, "we were inseparable after that." Even when Steve decided to up and move again - this time to Boston where an opportunity to live cheaply in an up and coming neighborhood proved too tempting. Without much hesitation, Andrea signed on, content to leave Evansville behind and start anew up north. "I was 23 or 24 and was waiting tables at the time, so I was like, 'sure, let's go,'" she says.

Three years later, the Tyners made their way back to Evansville and eventually over a "speed bump" that derailed the relationship for a stretch. In 2015, Steve purchased a home with the two sharing in the renovation - which ultimately led to cohabitation in the finished living space.

As it turned out, Andrea had effectively moved into a recording studio - and an increasingly popular one as Black Cat was established and quickly became the goto for local music production. Never fazed her, though. "I was born into noise," she recounts with laughter. "I grew up with musicians - my dad played drums.

Literally, I would go to sleep with a drum set under my bedroom. Music's been a part of my life my whole life, so I was obviously going to support him 100%."

That unwavering support of not only Steve's music production aspirations but also his frequent live performances with

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Jenny's Bad Hair Day was reciprocated

Andrea notes, she's thrilled that they

in full when Andrea was granted the

waited for the stars to align because,

opportunity to open an in-home

well, "I got a bad ass ring!" No

daycare out of the house she grew up

argument there. And especially not

in. The big career move, spurred by

about their vision for the wedding

the successful completion of a degree

which eschewed the traditional

in early childhood education, met with

trappings of a big ceremony in favor

total approval and encouragement

of a honeymoon to die for in Antigua.

from Steve. That's love, folks. Fully

"We went all out - so for the wedding

licensed by the state of Indiana, Little

itself we went as bare bones as we

Dar's Daycare (120 W. Mt. Pleasant Rd.

could," Steve explains. "Our biggest

in Evansville) began providing quality

expense was the food and alcohol."

childcare for children ranging from six

(FYI, for catering, the couple hired

weeks to six years in age in late 2017.

Just Rennie's who were reportedly "fantastic" and worth every penny.)

The couple's careers continued to

Admittedly, Steve was MIA for most of

flourish in 2018; money was much

the Big Day planning but his bride-

less of a concern so it seemed the

to-be received invaluable help from

perfect time to make it official. In

close friend Ariel Herzog. "She was

September of that year, Andrea and

here every weekend for six months

Steve finally got engaged - and, as

straight," Andrea says. "She knew that

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I DANCED WITH MY HUSBAND AND MY FATHER AND THAT WAS IT. THEN WE WANTED TO PARTY.

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between my business and the wedding

mini booze bottles, plastic saxophones

frills, no bouquet toss, no garter toss,"

planning, I was losing my mind." In a neat

and kazoos. Totally rock & roll.

Andrea recalls with zero regrets. "I

coincidence, the date that was chosen

danced with my husband and my father

for the ceremony - October 12, 2019 -

70 guests shared in the minimal ceremony

and that was it. Then we wanted to

doubled as Steve's birthday, providing

augmented by a beautiful handmade

party." And party they did, pretty much

another reason to celebrate at the

arbor courtesy of Ariel's boyfriend.

right up until the honeymoon flight to

Burdette Park Clubhouse. Reportedly,

And in a sign of good things to come,

Antigua - which came awfully early on

the chalet that served as the "get ready

the weather cooperated in full, making

the following Monday morning. Best

for the wedding" location was later

for a sunlit outdoor wedding both

of luck to Andrea and Steve in 2020!

decorated and transformed into party

classy and elegant. But having fun was

central complete with a piĂąata filled with

ultimately the end game. "There was no

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | PLANNING

WHY YOU SHOULD HIRE A

WEDDING PLANNER Tips & A d vice C ou r t e s y of V IDA E V E N TS

It finally happened. They asked and you said, “Yes!” You’ve waited for this day since you were young, but you never imagined all the little details you would need to iron-out before the day actually came (or heaven forbid putting out fires the day of). Who knew you would be responsible for picking out even the tiniest of details?

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KEEPING BUDGETS ON TRACK​ Planners can stretch your budget and help you decide

what is the least important to the most important, and what options or ideas you might have thought were too expensive

And what happens if the caterers have a last-minute question and

to fit in there, but might actually work with some experienced

you’re two mimosas into getting your hair and makeup done?

industry connections and good old-fashioned elbow grease. As

Preparing yourself to get married is hard enough on its own, but

planners, we have access to financial and creative software to help

planning a whole day for dozens - if not hundreds - of people can

keep you on track. We have inside relationships with preferred

be downright daunting. Has the thought of hiring someone to

vendors to get you priority scheduling and even discounts to

help ever crossed your mind? We are planners Megan Lentz and

help you lock-in that extra detail you took off your list earlier

Maria Barrale with Vida Events, and we’re here to carry the load

because you thought you couldn’t afford it. You’ll quickly find that

for you so you can skip the stress and enjoy your wedding day

small decisions, packaged deals, and single-digit discounts can

and those wonderful months, weeks, and days leading up to it.

add up to a ton of savings. Most brides think hiring a wedding planner is a luxury cost, but in reality, most planners are there to work with your budget and are excited to offer custom packages to fit your needs.

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KEEPING YOU IN LINE WITH YOUR VISION ​

At Vida Events, we love to get to know you and your fiancé, friends, and family throughout the planning process. Since we’re here to help you make your wedding dreams a reality, we try to get to know you by learning your likes, dislikes, personality, tastes, and every bride’s favorite - Pinterest boards! You shouldn’t have to stress about making all those dreams, decisions, and details fit in your big picture. By allowing us to get to know you, you can trust us to go the extra mile to make those tedious details fit together just the way you want, and make those dreaded last-minute, problemsolving decisions for you so you can soak in the big day with your friends and family.

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effortless, and a wedding planner is your insurance policy guaranteeing all the dreams, preparation, and financial investments you’ve poured into it.

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VENDOR CONNECTIONS ​ It’s amazing the difference having a top-notch

vendor team makes even without a top-notch budget. A good wedding planner can take any wedding to the next level by getting all the different vendors working on the same page. Experienced planners work with all different types of vendors across the spectrum of prices and styles, and knowing how to accommodate their needs and encourage them to bring their 'A' game on the big day can make the difference between a value-based wedding feeling low-budget, and a value-based wedding making you feel like you just won the lottery and all your friends and family got to collect the winnings with you. Knowing who consistently brings their 'A' game to make the most of every wedding they serve, and knowing which vendors are just there to collect a paycheck can save you from buyer's remorse when you write those final checks. We also have a good feel for whether or not a vendor’s prices match their reputation, so we can keep you on-budget, on-time, and away from would-be party-poopers.

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END OF THE NIGHT WRANGLERS ​ This is huge! At the end of the night,

we’re there after the lights come back on making sure clean-up is taken care of. We keep track of all your gifts

MANAGING ALL THE SCHEDULES ​

and personal belongings to keep them safe from inebriated

Like a good comedian, weddings are all about

up after everyone’s left is on your shoulders, and that’s the

guests and would-be party crashers. Without a planner, clean-

timing, and trust us, it’s easy to get distracted - time has a way

last thing you’ll want to do after dining and dancing the night

of getting away from you when your dad is telling the crowd

away. At the end of the night, we pack up, help direct clean-

an embarrassing story about your childhood in front of your

up, and coordinate with the venue to make sure after the doors

newly-minted in-laws while the caterers peak around the corner

are locked in the wee hours of the night, nothing of value is

checking to see if it’s time to serve dinner yet. Some people think

left behind or stolen. We want the end of your evening and

the best weddings are care-free and the schedule of events just

following morning to be just as stress-free as your big day.

went with the flow of the wedding party or the f​ eel ​of the night, but they only seem that way because timelines are prepared down to the minute and all the vendors know their places and who to ask when the inevitable hiccups arise. But when the dust settles, the sparklers have died, and the after-party is over, you and your guests will wake up the next morning wishing you could do it all over again. Having a well-planned wedding should feel

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WE’VE SEEN IT ALL! ​ Our brides are constantly bringing us new ideas and designs they are wanting to try. If you’re not

really the DIY type of bride, hiring a planner can help bring in new ideas and trends to your vision board. From classic to

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as planners is to iron out all the last minute details for you so everyone is on the same page - that includes your dad’s oldest fishing buddy who volunteered to play the bagpipes but doesn’t know where he has space to change into his kilt.

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WEDDING PLANNERS CAN FLIP ROOMS LIKE NO ONE’S BUSINESS ​ Especially in southern Indiana, where all four seasons can make an appearance in the matter of one afternoon, you need a rainy-day plan.

If last minute you need to flip a space, we’ll have already planned out how to move your guests into an impromptu cocktail hour so we can flip the room. It’s often a difficult process, but planning ahead for the effort, even if it’s not needed in the end, is worth its weight in

rustic chic, to modern designs, good planners will have seen it, studied it, and worked with it all. We will find a way to make your

umbrellas, towels, and ruined makeup. Hiring a planner who is

style come to life, even if you’re not sure what that style is yet!

quick on their feet is a must, especially in moments such as those.

No matter how hard you try, planning a wedding on your own,

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even with the ​help ​of friends, family, and … in-laws… can feel

appointments with hair and makeup, dress fittings, wedding

like a months-long marathon. By the end of it, it’s no wonder so

showers, hotel room blocks, limos, wedding party snacks,

many couples feel like they should have just eloped. Allowing

champagne in the changing rooms, handicap accommodations

friends and family to help carry some of the load on your big day

for guests in need, etc. A lot more than meets the eye goes

isn’t necessarily a bad thing, and sometimes assigning that one

into the day’s events, but a good planner makes it feel like it

special task to your future mother-in-law can be all it takes to keep

all just happened on its own. The most memorable weddings

her happy. But putting too much on them gives the important

go off without a hitch, except for the two getting hitched!

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A STRESS-FREE DAY IS PRICELESS FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ​

COORDINATION BEYOND YOUR WEDDING DAY Not only will your planner help with your wedding,

but they are also available to help with rehearsal dinners, trial

people in your lives less time to enjoy the day with you. Our job

ABOUT VIDA EVENTS Vida Events is a boutique style event planning company run by myself and Maria Barrale. I, Megan, was born and raised in Evansville, Indiana, and though marriage has moved my mailing address to Virginia, you can still find me throughout the year rummaging through wedding boutiques in Newburgh, catching a drive-in movie in Rockport, or scoping out venues in Evansville. I started working in wedding catering and floral work with my business partner, Maria, four years ago, and we eventually branched off on our own and moved into wedding and event planning as we learned more about the industry. It’s a dream of mine to increase the visibility and utilization of wedding planning services in southern Indiana. For more info, visit vidaevents.net & theknot.com or follow Vida Events on Facebook & Instagram.

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CHECKLIST

the

ULTIMATE WEDDING CHECKLIST

A guide to planning the perf ect wedding ( while keeping the bride sane )

The initial excitement of wearing a beautiful ring can turn into stressful to-do lists in order to put together a gorgeous wedding.

If you haven’t planned a party before, then a wedding can feel like an intimidating task. But when the event planning is broken up into a series of smaller and more manageable lists, it becomes less overwhelming and a fun process to enjoy with your fiancé and family!

IN THE CHECKLIST FIND COLOR SCHEMES AND DECOR INSPIRATION FOR YOUR BIG DAY

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This easy to follow checklist offers a countdown to your big day, listing the most important duties to tackle before you tie the knot.

Quickie engagement? Simply bump up your timeline and take care of the most important details first. This ultimate guide will make sure your wedding goes off without a hitch. Happy planning! Make sure to check out the tips and tools within the checklist too!

CHECK OUT THE HELPFUL TIPS AND USE THE EXTRA SPACE TO JOT DOWN NOTES

OPPOSITE THE CHECKLIST, FIND PHOTOS FROM LOCAL WEDDINGS AROUND THE TRI-STATE

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the ULTIMATE WEDDING CHECKLIST

Y O U R W E D D I N G P L A N N I N G G U I D E

12 months before

Discuss your initial budget. Make sure you are both on the same page.

Draw up your guest list.

Consider hiring a wedding planner.

Decide on a wedding date.

Book ceremony and reception venues.

TIP: TRY NOT TO STRESS. ( EVEN WHEN IT SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE.)

Remember why you are getting married, and try to truly make it be an event about (and for) the both of you.

Trust your vendors and photographer.

Book your officiant.

Research vendors.

11 months before Ask chosen friends and family members to be your attendants.

Reserve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.

Hire a wedding photographer and videographer.

Begin making bridal appointments to find your perfect dress.

If the catering is not provided in house, begin researching caterers.

10 months before

Set up your wedding registry or donation account online if you prefer.

Finalize guest list with families.

Begin planning the honeymoon.

Get music samples from bands or start researching DJs.

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FLORIST: POMP AND BLOOM

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9 months before Order your wedding dress.

Look for bridesmaid dresses.

Hire a band or DJ. Book caterer if you still need one.

Hire a graphic designer or company to print your invitations and save the date cards.

8 months before

Schedule an engagement photo session in time to have photos taken by month 6.

Order bridesmaid dresses.

Begin planning the rehearsal dinner.

Meet with your florist to start ideas.

Consider attire options for the groom and groomsmen.

TIP: ACCEPT THAT YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYONE. You cannot make everyone happy, and trying to accommodate others will just make the whole process more daunting.

7 months before

Hire your hair and makeup artist for the wedding day.

Discuss bridal shower with mothers and maid of honor.

Select music for the ceremony and reception. Hire an AV team to oversee sound for the ceremony.

Book all transportation.

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PHOTOGRAPHER: ROSE + OAK STUDIOS VIDEOGRAPHER: NORA ALCAL A ENGINEERING BAND: THE HIDING HAIR & MAKE UP: OLIVIA WAMPLER, SOUTHERN ROOTS SALON

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6 months before Send out save the dates.

Send engagement announcements to the newspaper.

Meet with your baker to choose the wedding cake and groom’s cake.

Talk with maid of honor and best man about bachelor/bachelorette parties.

TIP: KISS YOUR HUSBAND AS MANY TIMES AS YOU CAN.

All the stress you had before the big day...just let it go. It is what it is, and stressing will only dampen your big day.

5 months before

Finalize details with the florist and place the order.

Order all decorations not covered by the florist, including rental items.

Order napkins and other reception necessities not covered by the caterer.

Shop for bride and groom gifts to give each other the morning of the wedding.

Continue to fill your gift registry.

4 months before

Purchase your wedding day accessories including shoes, jewelry etc.

Make an appointment at your nail salon to begin prepping nails.

Finalize your honeymoon plans, make all the reservations and order tickets.

Finalize rehearsal dinner plans.

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vendors

GOWN: HOUSE OF WHITE TUX: PAUL’S MENSWEAR

HAIR: ASHELY MARIA BEAUT Y MAKEUP: ASHLEY MARIA BEAUT Y COORDINATOR: JANE ELPERS DECOR: OBJ DESIGN

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3 months before Order your wedding bands.

Purchase gifts for all of the attendants.

Plan the seating arrangements if you are doing assigned seating.

Address invitations or send them to a calligrapher.

Order wedding programs.

TIP: DON’T SWEAT THE LITTLE THINGS.

Plan ahead, don’t procrastinate, don’t sweat the little things, only do things that you can afford, try not to do anything wedding related two weeks before the wedding.

Finalize wedding favors if you are doing them.

2 months before Mail the wedding invitations.

Write or decide on wedding vows.

Choose readings for the ceremony.

Finalize the shot list for the photographer.

Attend dance lessons with your fiancé if you plan to dance to impress.

Prepare all the necessary forms for name and address changes.

1 month before Pick up wedding rings.

Have all of the final fittings for your bridal gown.

Have your bridal portrait taken.

Send announcement info into the newspaper.

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Contact wedding guests who have not responded to RSVPs.

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MAKEUP ARTIST: MENTION HAIR & NAIL SALON HAIR ST YLIST: LEES — JULIE KEMPF CAKE ARTIST: PACETRE CATERER: CATERING BY MEYER FLORIST & DECOR: CORNER HOUSE B&B, LLC AND EVENT BARNS — JENNY WILKERSON MUSICIAN/DJ: SONGBIRD DJ BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES: ELL A PARK, DAVID’S BRIDAL, ADRIANNA PAPPELL

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CORNER HOUSE B&B BRET & BRANDIE PHOTOGRAPHY

GOWN BOUTIQUE: HOUSE OF WHITE GROOM BOUTIQUE: PAUL’S MENSWEAR VIDEOGRAPHER: 3 TREE FILMS OFFICIANT: ST. JOSEPH CATHOLIC CHURCH — FATHER GENE SCHROEDER RINGS: CAMELOT JEWELERS

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2 weeks before Get your marriage license.

Make sure you have all clothes for before, after and during the reception.

Reconfirm honeymoon reservations.

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Touch base with all caterers and vendors for the big day.

TIP: BE A TEAM THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE PROCESS.

Create a wedding day schedule to hand out at the rehearsal.

Pick up the wedding dress if it is still being altered.

No matter how well-intentioned, friends and family will undoubtedly lend advice, opinions, and even objections to your decisions. Focus on what matters most and go with your heart.

1 week before

Provide caterer with a final guest count.

Appoint someone that is not in the wedding to handle last minute tasks.

Try on everything you plan to wear the day of the wedding and organize it.

Go for a final manicure.

Pack for the honeymoon.

Pick up programs, menus and all other day-of paper materials from the printer.

The day before Prepare gratuity and final payment envelopes for vendors.

Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

RELAX! Enjoy the company of friends and family members.

Give gifts to the wedding party, your fiancĂŠ and family members.

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Wedbox has an amazing feature which automatically organizes your pictures into categories, such as church, reception, dinner, party and so on.

TRELLO The Trello app is not neccessarily a wedding app, but it does offer great tools for staying organized, and for planning tasks which is really what you need for staying on track for your big day!

With the Trello app you can tackle to-do lists, minimize the mental load, stay organized no matter where you are and so much more!

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RATING JOY WEDDING APP & WEBSITE Joy is a user-friendly app that you can manage guests, RSVPs and create a beautiful website in one easy convenient place. You can collect and share photos and even create your own private social network with wedding party and guest profiles so that everyone can connect and get to know each other before your big day!

MOR E F U N T E C H Y T R E N D S T H AT W E T H I N K YOU S HOU L D T RY !

1. WEARABLE TECHNOLOGY THAT TRACKS YOUR HEARTBEAT

2. DRONES FOR IMPOSSIBLY COOL PHOTOS

2. ADD A HIDDEN GOPRO TO YOUR BOUQUET FOR AWESOME FOOTAGE

FitBits and apple watches can track your heartbeat all day on your wedding. You will be able to look back and see when your heartbeat spikes from your first look and more!

How cool would it be to make artwork out of the data!

Photographers are using all kinds of technology to create breathtaking photos of your amazing day. Why not take it to a new level with a drone which can get cool overhead shots of the wedding party and even a great venue shot that would be cool artwork for you home.

How cool would it be to get an up close and personal view of the groom as you are walking up the aisle? Add a GoPro to your wedding bouquet and capture great moments that no one else would be able to. When you rewatch you will feel like you are getting married all over again!

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BREAKING THE RULES IN

invitation etiquette W I T H BA I L E Y K LO C OW N ER O F BA I L E Y M A R I E S T U D I O

Everyday you see more weddings embracing a modern day approach. Whether it's placing your brother as a bridesmaid or seeing the groom before a ceremony, times are changing. Your wedding stationery doesn't have to follow all the etiquette rules from the past in order to inform your guests. Let’s break some rules!

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INCLUDING PARENTS' NAMES

Traditionally, a couple will include their parents' names on wedding invitations based on who is hosting. It is an acknowledgment to the parents, an “honor” of sorts. However, you can provide the same acknowledgment without listing every name. “Together with their families” or “along with their parents” can help cut out the confusion that comes from diverse families and not wanting to leave anyone out. It is best to talk this one over with everyone involved to make sure toes are not stepped on.

SPELLING EVERYTHING OUT

It has always been considered proper etiquette to spell out numbers, dates and times. But if you’re feeling like this is just too formal for your big day, don’t hesitate to mix it up. Go with your gut, and just make sure the who, what, when, and where is covered.

REGISTRY INFORMATION

Although it is thought to be in poor taste to include your wedding registry on invitations, it is still something guests like to know. By creating a wedding website, you are able to inform guests of all the extra questions they may still have. Just include your website address on an information card within your invitation.

ADDRESSING ENVELOPES

Does hand addressing all those envelopes seem slightly scary? One option could be to hire a calligrapher if your budget allows it. Another option is to talk with your stationery designer about addressing the envelopes for you. Having your addresses printed on your envelopes with a coordinating font from your invitations looks fantastic and really helps bring together the entire invitation suite.

Just remember it is your special day, and it is always up to you which traditions you choose to follow or kick to the curb.

IN VITATION QUESTIONS ANSW ERED WHEN SHOULD WE SEND THEM OUT?

HOW TO POLITELY SAY “NO KIDS” AT THE WEDDING?

SHOULD WE GIVE EVERY GUEST A “PLUS-ONE?”

HOW DO I CALCULATE THE DUE DATE FOR RSVP'S?

Plan to send them out eight to ten weeks before the big day.

This gives guests enough time to make travel plans and clear their schedules if they live out of town.

If you are sending out Save-theDate cards, they should go out six to eight months in advance.

Make sure to address the invitations by guest name, and not “and guest.” If the RSVP comes back with children’s names, make sure to give them a call and explain that the wedding is for adults only and you hope that they will still be able to make it to celebrate.

No, it is perfectly acceptable to invite friends or family members solo if they are not married or in a serious relationship. Make sure the invitation only has their name on it, and they will understand that bringing a “plus-one” is not appropriate.

Usually this date is decided based on when your caterer needs to know a final head count. With most catering companies they will need a two weeks heads up. So it is recommended to have RSVP's returned 3-4 weeks before the big day.

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e t i v n i e n i l e tim 6-12 MONTHS BEFORE

Confirm all wedding details

Finalize guest list & guest addresses Order your wedding stationery

4-6 MONTHS BEFORE Mail save the dates

2-4 MONTHS BEFORE Give envelopes to calligrapher, if professionally addressing invitations

8-10 WEEKS BEFORE Mail invitations

2-4 WEEKS BEFORE Finalize Seating Chart and "Day-of" items

1 WEEK BEFORE Hand off "Day-of" items to wedding planner or event coordinator

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CHOOSING THE RIGHT

NEWBORN

PHOTOGRAPHER CO U R T E S Y O F CH R IS T Y L I V ELY PH OTO GR A PH Y

The wedding is over and the honeymoon is behind you. The next chapter in your journey awaits you.

For many couples, that means starting a family, or adding to it. Whatever your unique story is, it's important to invest in these memories and milestones just as you did with your wedding.

With my professional experience in maternity, birth and newborn photography, I'm here to help eliminate the stress involved when searching for that right photographer. It may seem like the choices are overwhelming, but with a little guidance, you can make the process much easier and even have fun!

PLAN AHEAD After the first trimester, start looking.

DO YOUR RESEARCH You want someone who specializes in this type of photography; someone who invests in their education and is certified and trained to handle and pose newborns; someone who is up-to-date on all vaccines

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NEWBORN PHOTOGR APH Y TIMELINE and flu shots. Most importantly, note the photographer's style. What sets their work apart from all the other maternity/ newborn photographers in your area?

BE PREPARED TO INVEST You’re not just going to display these images all over social media; you want quality products and prints in your home to preserve your legacy. Chances are that a cheap photographer is not insured, doesn't know what they’re doing and won’t have your best interests in mind.

BUILD A TRUSTWORTHY RELATIONSHIP The photographer is going to be documenting your most intimate moments. You want to feel safe and know you trust them and their skills.

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Mom’s safety during her maternity session is of the utmost importance and especially during the newborn session.

DON’T ASK FACEBOOK GARAGE SALE SITES or SEND PINTEREST ALL YOUR IDEAS

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You want something original for your unique story. Trust your photographer's artistic instincts - but do share ideas and your photographer should be able to create something special for you.

Christy Lively was recently named one of the tri-state's top 10 newborn photographers

by Expertise.com.

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In need of something to entertain the kids at your wedding? The best way to make kids (and their parents) happy is to keep them entertained! A few simple additions to the kids’ table can not only be an adorable accent to your wedding decor, but also keep the kiddos smiling and occupied.

Here are some creative ways to keep those sweet faces from turning into little disasters. Happy kids, happy parents and happy ever after!

HIRE A BABYSITTER When it comes to keeping them safe, occupied, and under control during the reception, hiring big-day babysitters to keep track of little guests can alleviate the stress on parents and keep the party going strong.

KID FRIENDLY SNACKS Goldfish and juice boxes make the perfect treat to keep little ones from getting "hangry" or eating too many sweets from the cake table.

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"I SPY" PHOTOSHOOT Kids have a different perspective of the Wedding Day. Leave disposible cameras at each of their place settings with an "I Spy" checklist. We're sure you will end up with some interesting shots by the end of the night!

"I Spy" Printable: ETSY / HeyLovelyCo

COLORING ACTIVITIES Ditch your fancy centerpiece and opt for one filled with coloring crayons and coloring books to keep those little ones occupied after dinner. It's an inexspensive way to entertain any kiddo, and will leave you with adorable artwork from the big day.

PRINT YOUR OWN Cut out the next page to make copies and print your own coloring sheets for your big day!

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NEWLYWED COOKING with Chef Amanda Hancock Amanda Hancock is the former owner of Vecchio's Italian Market in Newburgh and a published author.

So, you've tied the knot and now it's time to start experiencing life together on a whole other level. One of the best ways to forge a more perfect union is to spend some QT in the kitchen - there's just something about cooking in tandem that's very special and can lead to a greater understanding of each other. It can also lead to a lot of laughs, of course, and that's just as good. Here's a recipe that takes a little work but the results are clearly worth it. You're definitely guaranteed to feel a sense of togetherness at the end of this culinary adventure (for the best possible effect, pair it with a nice white wine).

Lobster Mac & Cheese INGREDIENTS: 1 pound of cavatappi or other hearty pasta ¼ cup butter 2 ½ cups of WHOLE milk (don’t skimp) Pinch of nutmeg Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper 1 ½ cups of shredded white Cheddar cheese 1 cup shredded Fontina ¾ cup of freshly grated Parmesan cheese, divided (Do not use the stuff in the green can!)

1 pound cooked lobster, roughly chopped ½ cup Panko breadcrumbs 1TBS extra virgin olive oil ¼ cup chopped parsley or chives, for garnish

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DIRECTIONS: • Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. In a large pot of salted, boiling water, cook the pasta until al dente. Drain and set aside.

(Quick tip - if you lightly coat your pasta it won’t stick together) • In a large saucepan over medium heat, melt butter, sprinkle the flour and cook until slightly golden - don’t forget to stir! Season with nutmeg, salt and pepper and let simmer until thickened.

• Remove the pan from the heat and stir in the Cheddar, Fontina, and ½ cup of the Parmesan and whisk until smooth. Fold in the lobster and pasta and transfer into a 9x13 inch baking dish.

• In a medium bowl, combine the Panko, the remaining Parmesan, and oil. Season with salt and pepper and sprinkle over the pasta. Bake until bubbly and golden, 20-25 minutes!

• Top with either the fresh chopped flat-leaf parsley or chives. I know this sounds like a lot, but the flavors are WAY better than if you order it out somewhere. Cook it with your partner and make this a romantic experience!

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Cake Bakery at 812-424-2253 to arrange for

you with the logistics of setting up and

your wedding cake consultation. Located in

coordinating a delivery time for your cake.

downtown Evansville, the culinary artists at Piece of Cake will help you design the perfect cake

Whether you absolutely love one of their designs

for your special day. Before the consultation

as is or have your own unique vision, locally

we encourage you to check out the internet

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your dream wedding cake. Their cake artists

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have spent years perfecting their craft. They

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specialize in cakes that look fondant covered,

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but are actually decorated in their signature,

prepared with an estimate of how many guests

made from scratch buttercream. Whether you

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more modern design, from delicate piping to bold graphics the artists at Piece of Cake have

When you arrive at Piece of Cake for

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complimentary cake tasting. You'll receive a

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sample of their delicious vanilla, rich butter,

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS

Honeymoon

hotspots 1. SAVANNAH, GEORGIA Looking to stay in the States for the honeymoon of your dreams? The southern charm of Savannah is irresistible for

3. SCOTL AND

newlywed couples looking to unwind after

Where to begin? Scotland is like few places on Earth with its rolling

the ceremony. This popular city draws

countryside, bustling cities, icy mountain peaks, charming villages, imposing

millions each year thanks to its cobblestone

castles, national parks and enchanted forests. And of course, the weather

streets, parks, and historic buildings. Not

is notoriously unpredictable, giving travelers the full range of feels.

to mention the local accent is divine.

4. WESTERN CANADA Oh, Canada! Our neighbor to the north is beckoning you to

2. TURKS & CAICOS ISL ANDS Southeast of Mayaguana in the Bahamas island chain, this major tourist attraction is a tropical paradise that's full of white, sandy beaches and incredible snorkeling opportunities. Everywhere you turn, the scenery is stunning - enjoy bird watching and whale sightings, for instance - and the skies are crystal blue.

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come explore the beauty of its country. Western Canada, in particular, features some truly natural wonders, sporting clear blue lakes and snow-capped mountains that inspire pure awe.

Get away and discover the beauty of the area's four provinces: Alberta, British Columbia, Manitoba and Saskatchewan.

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | DESTINATION WEDDINGS

1. JAMAICA

Destination weddings

It's not rocket science; there's a good reason why so many couples flock to Jamaica to tie the knot. Actually, plenty of reasons, including some of the most beautiful scenery (think spectacular beaches and palm trees) and fascinating culture in the world.

And the weather is amazing to boot.

3. IREL AND Ever considered getting married in a castle or manor house? Those are just two of the many unique wedding destination possibilities Ireland offers - including some of the most beautiful, historical churches to be found. And of course, the landscape is simply breathtaking with eyepopping hills, mountains and greenery as far as the eye can see.

4. JACKSON HOLE, W YOMING For a complete change of pace -

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TRI-STATE BRIDE | WEDDING PLANNING

LAST FLING before the ring!

Vegas is wonderful, but Bachelorette Parties can come in all shapes and sizes. Each brideto-be has different interests, so grab your girls and plan a party she will enjoy. Here are a few ideas to get the party planning started.

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Here are a few tips to make sure your BFF gets hitched without a glitch!

Invite the mother of the bride to this one!

WINE TASTING

Find a vineyard close to home, or make plans to travel for a wine-filled weekend away. Rent a limo and plan out your stops for a fun day of sipping with the girls!

CAMPING

With a bunch of ladies, this may be more like "glamping." Pack up and head out for a weekend off the grid. Those campfire stories will definitely tighten your girl squad bond.

BE THE BRIDE'S GO-TO GAL Reassure her that you're there for the fun moments but also the stressful ones, too.

TRY TO ATTEND EVERYTHING Make yourself available to attend pre-wedding activities, especially bridal showers and bachelorette parties!

KEEP TRACK OF GIFTS When the bride opens her gifts, you can jot down who got her what so she can write her thankyou notes later on.

SPA DAY

Schedule a group session with your favorite spa and have all the ladies join in maximum relaxation. The bride isn't the only one that needs some pampering!

SLEEPOVER

Have a throwback sleepover, just like you did in gradeschool. Bring all your cheezy chick-flicks plus popcorn and wine. Plot out a master-plan to "TP" the best man's house.

Turn this one into a couples party!

MUSIC FESTIVAL

Does the bride love music? There are so many music festivals throughout the year not far from the tri-state. Take a trip to Pilgrimage in Nashville, TN or Forecastle in Louisville, KY!

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COOKING CLASS

Find a local cooking class and register for a private party. Not only will you learn something useful, but you won't even have to do the dishes when it's over!

KEEP EVERYONE ON TRACK Help to make sure that everything is running smoothly and on time, including hair and make up appointments for the bridal party.

HOLD THE BOUQUET Hold on to the bride's bouquet during the ceremony. While you're at it, fluff that dress so her pictures turn out fab!

MAKE SURE THE BRIDE EATS AND DRINKS With all the hustle and bustle, it will be easy to skip eating or get dehydrated. Make sure to check in and offer snacks to keep her going through the night.

BE A PERSONAL RESTROOM ATTENDANT That dress may be beautiful, but she'll definitely need a helping hand when lifting it to use the restroom!

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You don’t want your bride to plan the bachelorette party, but you do want her insights. Does she want a night out in the club, a weekend away or something low key at someone’s home? After the destination has been decided, next set your date, a theme and budget. Make sure that you ask for help from the other bridesmaids - planning this party doesn’t have to put a strain on your life or wallet! The party guest list should also come from the bride and you’ll want to send ‘Save the Dates’ out two-months in advance and the invitation one-month out. On to the fun stuff…

Whether you’re staying in or hitting the town, make sure your bride stands out from the crowd. A sparkly tiara, bride sash and veil will do the trick. Don’t leave out the bridal party and guests - try cute badges, buttons or broaches for each attendee.

Don’t forget to add some crazy fun games like Bride-to-Be Flip, Sip Truth or Dare, the Bride-to-Be Ultimate Roll Dice game or take it on the road with the Bachelorette’s Bar Challenge card game!

If staying in, make the most of your space with banners, balloons, napkins & plates. And don’t forget those drinking straws and Jello-shot/ice cube trays, cookie cutters, candy and cake molds (of that certain male anatomy)!

And while the party doesn’t have to be about presents, the bride would surely love a few sexy pieces of lingerie or a surprise bag full of goodies to kick her honeymoon off!

Boudoir Noir’s Exotica is your Bachelorette Headquarters - here to make party planning easy. Stop in today at 4605 Washington Ave., or shop online at BoudoirNoir.com.

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