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Brain function is studied in a petri dish. Ya’ara Saad, a Ph.D. student at Tel Aviv University, has been growing neuron networks from fruit flies in the laboratory. By measuring electrical activity and synapse development, she is building a platform for testing potential treatments for neurodegenerative diseases such as Alzheimer’s.

organs, which were transplanted into six patients waiting for urgent operations. Gilad’s parents were praised due to their readiness to help others at a time of distress and terrible personal tragedy.

Depeche Mode will return. The concert is expected to form part of the group’s 2013 world tour; May is the target date and HaYarkon Park the venue. The UK’s monsters of synth pop last performed in Israel in 2009.

Israelis are also returning.

Among the hundreds of thousands of Jews who immigrated to Israel over the last two-and-a-half years were 22,470 Israelis previously living abroad. Most were aged 31 to 39, and among the returnees were 4,837 academics and researchers; 2,720 engineers, programmers and hi-tech workers; and 681 business managers.

Weizmann scientist wins U.S. groundwater prize. The U.S. National Ground Water Association has awarded Professor Brian Berkowitz the 2012 M. King Hubbert Award for major science contributions to the knowledge of groundwater. Professor Berkowitz is Weizmann Institute’s head of Environmental Sciences and Energy Research.

Computer exercises prove beneficial for Alzheimer’s sufferers. In Harvard’s clinical trial, the NeuroAD system from Israel’s Neuronix not only stopped patients’ symptoms from deteriorating; in some cases, it actually improved patients’ cognitive performance to a greater extent than what is currently available with approved medications.

Editor’s note: This list courtesy Michael Ordman and verygoodnewsisrael.blogspot.com.

“Settlers” save an electrocuted Arab boy. A six-year-old Palestinian Arab who was electrocuted was treated

by Jews from the Samarian village of Neve Tzuf. Among the responders was Baruch Ram, who said, “We are fulfilling our duty and helping a person in distress…this is not the first time, [and] we’ve never gotten a ‘thank you.’”

International law enforcement community recognizes an Israeli policewoman. The 450 delegates (from 67 countries) attending the International Police Association function in Eilat elected Superintendent Gal Sharon to the position of Vice President.

This is an unprecedented achievement for a woman – and an Israeli.

The Jewish State’s is the cleanest technology in the world…well, almost. The Cleantech Group has ranked Israel second in its 2012 Global Cleantech Innovation Index. Topranked Denmark has only two companies in the Global Cleantech 100 list, though, while Israel has six.

Israeli cardboard bike is to be mass-produced. Israeli inventor Izhar Gafni says that, after much trial and error, his latest prototype has now proven itself and mass production will begin in a few months at Ahituv, a farming village near Hadera.

A tragedy saves six lives. Promising Israeli teenage athlete Gilad Veturi collapsed and died during sprint practice last week. He donated nine

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Rob Schneider Rocks the Punchline COMEDIAN COMES TO TOWN, BRINGS HOUSE DOWN

By John McCurdy Managing Editor “You can do it!”

Rob Schneider opened his Oct. 20 performance at Sandy Springs’s The Punchline with his classic comedic catchphrase, sparking raucous laughter from the packed house at the evening’s early show. He didn’t let the laughs die down, repeating the goofy refrain ad nauseam and then finally and suddenly deadpanning: “What if that’s all I did for the rest of the night?”

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With a tremendous stand-up routine, the “Saturday Night Live” veteran and movie star proved that he’s much more than just Adam Sandler’s sidekick. He had the audience guffawing from start to finish, refuting once and for all that he’s “ever the bridesmaid, never the bride.”

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True enough, some of Schneider’s best-known appearances in feature films are in cameos or supporting roles (see “Surf Ninjas,” “The Waterboy,” “Big Daddy” and, most recently, “Grown-Ups”).

Then, his bit about Candidate Mitt Romney led to riotous observations on Mormonism:

But those naysayers who take that to mean he can’t carry his own weight as a funnyman need only see his solo act, which on this recent night included hilarious-but-poignant reflections on Rob Schneider performs at The Punchline in Sandy Springs. getting older and its effects on PHOTO/Lauren Volkerding one’s aptitude to have late-night fun.

With the presidential race nearing “People in their 40s are like, ‘If I party again tonight, I’ll die!’” he joked at one point in his routine. “They’re like, ‘I’ve had three glasses of wine last night – I can’t go to work this week! I stayed up to watch the 11 o’clock news, and now I can’t feel my face!’”

its finish, Schneider also incorporated some smart political humor. He poked fun first at our current president:

“Obama’s running on the idea of, ‘I know things suck now, but if it wasn’t for me, it would have been way worse!’”

“We don’t have to attack people because of their religion, but we also have the freedom to say, ‘Hey, that’s a weird religion. Not exactly scientology, but pretty close.’”

All in all, the man some sadly know only as “Deuce Bigalow” delivered a topical and uproarious evening of entertainment. What’s more, he showed true character, delaying his dinner break between shows to pose for photos with any inquiring fans and providing the Atlanta Jewish Times with a quote on his Jewish background.

“Well, my dad was Jewish, and my mom was Catholic, so I got all of the guilt,” he laughed. “But, luckily, I also got all of the goofy, and I’ve been fortunate enough to make a career out of it.”

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So he took her to Ponte Vedra, he knew she would love it, too.

They dropped their bags off at the inn, a sanctuary by the sea.

Then set out for a round of golf at the famous TPC. Off to St. Augustine’s Lighthouse, where they journeyed to the top.

Then caught a trolley into town to grab a bite and shop.

They wandered from place to place, collecting stories along the way.

Last, a trip to the winery, to end a perfect day.

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As a TOV volunteer, women may take part in one event or every event, and no Community Campaign participation is required for participation in this initiative. In order to accommodate as many participants as possible, TOV events will be scheduled on different days and times – morning, evening and weekend opportunities will allow working women, moms and everyone in-between to do good.

Please donate all of your lightly worn coats and scarves by dropping them off at Ali’s Cookies in East Cobb, Congregation Dor Tamid, the Marcus Jewish Community Center, Yeshiva Atlanta High School, Jewish Kids Groups at Anshi S’fard, Young Israel of Toco Hills, Jewish Family & Career Services or the JFGA offices.

Editor’s note: For more information, contact Marni Bronstein at Jewish Federation of Greater Atlanta at mbronstein@jfga.org.

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Among the initiative’s first efforts is the inaugural Coat Drive, chaired by H. Elisa Iteld, which runs through Nov. 15. As the winter months can be difficult for those without the means to stay warm, donating to this drive is another way community members can support Federation’s mission of caring for those in need. This project will benefit Jewish Family & Career Services, Yad L’Yad and Zaban Couples Night Shelter.

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Writing on Writing HOW I IMPROVED (AND YOU MIGHT, TOO) AJT Columnist

er to hurt anyone with my words, but rather communicate my observations.

ecently, a friend told me that she thought I was brave to have written my last column.

I was surprised and curious about her comment.

Sometimes I try to share knowledge in my columns; other times, I try to entertain by sharing my struggles and insights in a humorous way. I hope my point of view stimulates readers to think about things a little differently.

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“You expressed such a strong opinion and probably hurt some people’s feelings,” my friend explained.

By definition, columns express writer’s opinions. Like it or not, when people express how they feel about the choices others make or their beliefs, those words may be judgmental and critical. Feelings may get hurt.

Thus, my friend’s observation has validity.

But as an advocate of free speech, I believe I have the right to express myself authentically. My intention is nev-

As a reporter, I was trained to be accurate and always write “the truth.”

Early in my career, I learned that the truth is often subjective; people see the same event and describe it differently.

That’s why I always spoke to many sources, reported what they all said and allowed the reader to decide just what the reality was.

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The rule that she taught me which I think of most often is “go for the jugular.” She believes and teaches her students that, when you come upon something you don’t want to write about (perhaps because it scares you to put it down on paper), that’s just what you need to write about.

That’s the type of writing that is juicy and compelling; readers want that, and it’s the type of writing I like to do.

Before this calendar year ends, I’m going back to Taos, N.M., to participate in another weeklong writing seminar that Goldberg will be leading. I’ve lost count of how many weeks I’ve spent doing this – my best guess is this will probably be the 11th week.

The most unusual part of these writing workshops is that we are expected to remain silent for the week. And in addition to the silence, the structure of the seminar includes a lot of meditation, both sitting, meditation and walking meditation.

Meditating several times each day at first seemed excessive to me. I went to write – not to sit still on a pillow called a zafu, paying attention to my breathing. What became apparent to me early on, however, was that meditation changes my awareness and often brings me to an internal state that makes my writing come from a deeper place.

Natalie lectures, shares her rich experiences and also provides topics (which she calls prompts) for the participants to write about in timed writing exercises. We are then encouraged to share what we have written by reading it aloud.

Reading our work is much different than simply talking. I’ve become a big believer in how much I can improve my writing by taking the time to read it aloud, though surprisingly, our work is never critiqued during the workshops.

Three years ago, I signed up for an intensive series of silent workshops.

I was one of 25 participants who took part in the program, and we met for a week four times a year.

Naively, I believed if I committed my time and money to this type of study, I would learn everything I needed to know to complete all the writing projects on my “to-write” list.

What I discovered was a joy that comes from being in a writing community, and that was a new and soul-satisfying experience for me. I started facilitating writing practice groups shortly after my first workshop with Natalie.

It gives me lots of pleasure to pass on what I’ve learned. I’ve taught writing practice in many different venues, and the students are usually amazed when they hear the six rules of writing practice, which include: • Keep your hand moving. Don’t pause to reread the line you have just written; that’s stalling and trying to get control of what you’re saying. Don’t stop until the time is up.

• Don’t cross out. That is editing as you write. Even if you write something you didn’t mean to write, leave it. Don’t backspace.

• Don’t worry about spelling, punctuation or grammar. Don’t even care about staying within the margins and lines on the page.

• Lose control.

• Don’t think. Don’t get logical.

• Go for the jugular. If something comes up in your writing that is scary or naked, dive right into it. It probably has lots of energy.

If you are interested in improving your writing, get a pen and a spiral notebook (or use your computer). Your prompt is, “I remember.” Write for 10 minutes.

If you need someone to read it to, just give me a call.

Editor’s note: Arlene Appelrouth earned a degree in news-editorial journalism from the University of Florida and her career as a writer and journalist spans a 50-year period; she currently studies memoir writing while working on her first book.

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Leah and Paul Cygielman, their arms filled with pups, were enjoying themselves and were certain they were exactly where they needed to be on this splendid day.

“I want my babies to be blessed,” Leah, a member of Congregation Beth Shalom, said of Cinnabon the toy poodle and his canine brother and sister, Duncan and Lylah. “They are all part of my family.”

Nearby, Stan Shapiro, also a member of Congregation Beth Shalom, was sharing the moment with Ellie, his white labrador.

And then there was Lucky, a chocolate Labrador, and his humans, all thrilled to be part of this special event.

“He’s celebrating his bar mitzvah,” Jon Wise cracked wise. “We’re all kvelling!”

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• Who: Exactly who is the party for, and who will be attending? Is it primarily a party for children, teens or adults? Or perhaps it’s a family party and there will be guests of all ages attending.

Once you figure out who’s coming, you’ll also want to spend some time focusing on the personality and likes of the guest of honor. Obviously, how you go about your planning will depend on who you’re honoring.

• What: Next, you’ll want to focus on what the party is celebrating – a birthday, bar or bat mitzvah, perhaps a wedding. Each has its own set of considerations.

• Where: So where exactly is this party going to be? There are all sorts of options: inside or outside; in your home or a rented venue? And what about the amenities – is there a pool, a dance floor, loud speakers or an entertainment system?

Depending on your hopes and dreams for this event, you must consider how much space you will have for your decor to pull off the party you’re planning.

• Why: It might seem obvious, but ask yourself: Why exactly is this celebration important to you, your family and friends?

Once you’ve answered these questions, you’ll be in a much better position to prepare for the festivities. I’m currently at this stage with one of my clients in the process of planning her daughter’s bat mitzvah; I wanted to know what sort of mood and theme her daughter is focusing on for her party, but she told me her daughter doesn’t know exactly what she wants.

So, I met with the beautiful young lady and asked her to tell me (remove: a bit) about herself, her hopes and dreams. It turns out the girl cares deeply about others and has a real desire to make the world a better place.

After also spending some time with the girl’s parents, I learn that the majority of the guests will be other young teens accompanied by adult friends and family. I begin to form a fairly good idea of how to pull the event together, especially once we decided on a beautiful venue that has a fantastic dance floor.

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Based on the answers to the, who, what, where and why questions, I suggested a “Peace and Love” motif for the party. With love and peace signs, tie-dye décor and lava lamps. The parents are excited because the party will be a fun way to honor their traditions and celebrate their daughter, so I also suggest including a wall covered with a collage of photos of the bat mitzvah girl and her family.

Now we’re off and running, and with just a little more brainstorming, I’m certain we’ll be able to come up with additional ways to expand the festivities of this wonderful simcha.

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The Atlanta Jewish Times spoke with Spearin regarding what she and her studios can bring to your simcha, be it with lessons taken in preparation for the event or given in an introductory package as a gift.

Atlanta Jewish Times: Is there a most popular or most requested dance for celebrations?

Leslie Spearin: I’ve been doing this for a long time, and I’ve seen everything from Cha Cha to Tango to Waltz. People kind of pick the dances based on their personality.

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Leslie Spearin (right) and sister Juliana help Atlanta move to the rhythm at Arthur Murray Dance Studios. PHOTO/courtesy Mark Penstone

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hood. After years of competing, she now judges ballroom dance and runs three-Atlanta area dance studios with her sister Juliana for the Arthur Murray Franchise, the storied dance studio celebrating its 100th anniversary.

For proof, one need only check out YouTube, where videos of husbands and wives, fathers with daughters and Sweet Sixteens stealing the show with elaborate, choreographed numbers abound.

For Jewish community member Leslie Spearin, dance has been a part of life since childhood; after studying the art and competing for many years, she moved on to judging ballroom dance. Today, she and her sister Juliana own three Atlanta-area locations of the Arthur Murray franchise, a storied dance studio company this year celebrating its

If you’ve got a fun couple who’s getting married, they’re going to want something upbeat and fun, so maybe they’re going to pick swing. If it’s something more romantic, they’ll pick something slow, like a waltz.

People really do it based on their own personality, which is the great thing about what we do. We can work with each individual. It’s not just a factory where people come through and take class; we’re very personalized.

AJT: What can lessons bring to a celebration?

LS: It adds so much to those memories that you have forever. It just sets it apart from doing the usual things everyone does. continued on next page

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I think there are three parts to any event that you do: There’s the anticipation of the event, there’s the event, and then there’s the recollection of it. I think the dancing helps with the anticipation of it, because you’re building up, taking lessons, getting ready for it. Then you have the event, and [then] you have the good memories of the dance: You have the pictures; you also have something that you can take with you and always use.

People come in for any kind of celebration, from doing a very simple dance where they just look nice and they’re moving together to a very dramatic choreographed dance and everything in between. [But] it’s not just about doing a special dance or performance. If you learn to dance, you’ll be able to dance at every celebration you go to.

You can get out on the dance floor and enjoy your husband or wife. You can just enjoy the music and the evening instead of sitting at the table, watching everyone else’s purses while they’re out having a good time.

AJT: We teach on a private basis, so that’s probably what sets us apart.

You just learn a lot faster, and it’s a better investment.

We start of with an introductory private lesson. There are different packages that you can take [so that] everyone can work their own level, as fast as they can go and on the dances that suit them and suit their lifestyle.

We have [packages with] everything from four private lessons to 72 private lessons, so it just depends.

Some people do it for a few lessons, though for some people this becomes their hobby that they may fall in love with. They just love the challenge of learning and continue with it.

AJT: Describe the different levels that are offered at Arthur Murray Dance Studios.

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azel tov; the big day is almost here!

It’s your son’s bar mitzvah or your daughter’s wedding. You look in the mirror and think to yourself, “I wish I could lose 20 pounds or more; I really need to fit into that new dress I saw. It would be perfect for such an occasion.”

You’ve got six to eight weeks to make it happen. Don’t fret; it’s not going to take liposuction or something drastic; just a little discipline can make it happen. But you’ll need to set some goals.

First, you’ll need to think about what you’re eating. More than 33 percent of the adult population in America is obese and 17 percent of children. If this trend continues, more than 42 percent of Americans will be obese by 2030.

The cost for healthcare related to obesity was $147 billion dollars last year, and medical experts believe that this generation will have a shorter life span than the one before it. There are now more people in the world that are obese than those that are starving, and cardiovascular

disease, diabetes and cancer are all diseases that have tripled in the last 20 years because of our unhealthy diets.

What’s Going Wrong, and What Can I Do About It? So let’s explore a few healthy choices that might make a difference in your life: Are you on a roller-coaster dieter? Do you have problems losing weight even though you think you eat healthy and go to the gym a few days a week?

Sometimes the problem is a sluggish thyroid or hormone imbalance. Occasionally people can’t shed pounds because of food allergies and often certain foods can cause an inflammatory process in our bodies that we aren’t even aware of. The good news is that today there are diagnostic tests that can help us figure out which foods we aren’t digesting properly.

Of course, the biggest problem for most of us is simply eating too much; most people take in more calories daily than they will burn. These extra calories will become stored fat. It’s

important to not only be aware of the amount of calories you take in, but also what food source they are coming from. Empty calories from white food products turn into sugar in the body, which then becomes stored fat.

Speaking of, fats are another major problem. There are good fats and bad fats. It is saturated fats that make up the latter category.

They come mostly from meats

and dairy products and can clog up your arteries, leading to heart problems. Stay away from these types of fats.

Good fats – those unsaturated – are separated into mono and poly and can both have beneficial effects.

Polyunsaturated fats can be a source of essential omega-3 fatty acids.

They are found in cold-water fish, nuts, oils and seeds, some dark leafy greens, flaxseed and some vegetable oils.

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tients want to lose weight quickly, I tell them to start their day with a protein shake and fresh fruit. For lunch, have a piece of protein the size of your palm and two small servings of complex carbohydrates, one consisting of vegetables and the other of fruit. Do not eat fruit after 3 p.m.

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I tell my patients eating healthy is the key to losing weight. Eating foods out of a box or can is not healthy, as most of these foods are depleted of nutritional value. To lose weight and look great, increase protein intake by eating lean meat, fish and poultry, fresh vegetables, fruits and legumes.

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For dinner, eat another piece of protein the size of your palm and two portions of veggies. Don’t skip meals and eat snacks consisting of nuts, celery sticks and fruit.

People ask me which grains to eat and which to stay away from, and I remind them that anything processed is not good for us. Most grains we eat today are processed, such as oatmeal, wheat, rice and cornmeal.

Your best bet is to eat grains that are easy to digest. Quinoa is great; spelt, millet and brown rice are good and easy to digest. Stay away from breakfast cereals, instant oatmeal and products containing corn.

Drink lots of water every day.

The “eight-by-eight” rule is easy to follow: Eight glasses of eight ounces of fresh clean water each day. Stay away from soda of all kinds (including diet) and most fruit juices, which have way too much sugar.

Losing weight is not a “one-sizefits-all” sort of process. There are many different routes to take. A physician supervised program combining life coaching, proper nutrition, supplementation and weight loss prescriptions can get you started and keep you on the path of being healthier, happier and living longer.

Editor’s note: Dr. Jeff Semel represents the Atlanta Medical Institute.

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For the Atlanta Jewish Times hroughout recorded history, jewelry has been regarded as one of the most precious forms of symbolic exchange in special ceremonies. Dating back to our earliest records, men tied cords made of braided grass around his chosen mate’s wrists, ankles and waist.

Today it is just not quite so simple, is it?

At Jewelry Artisans, we have been blessed to be a part of thousands of special occasions throughout our 39-year history in Atlanta. In our experience, we have found that several key principles resonate with all those seeking the perfect jewelry gift for their loved one.

him, we often recommend that the diamond or gemstone chosen is set as a simple solitaire engagement ring. After she says “yes,” the couple can return in order to choose or personally design a setting together. We know that today’s woman loves and appreciates the opportunity to be a part of this very personal decision, and we know how much pressure this takes off the guys to “get it right”.

The third insight is that you must know your budget. Decide on a comfortable range ahead of time and remember that there are no right or wrong numbers. By determining this ahead of time, you ensure that the purchase fits your wallet just as well as it fits her finger.

The first insight is that you must know your jeweler. Of course, that does not necessarily mean memorizing his or her cell phone number and home address (though sometimes it does)! The point is that you need to find someone you can trust; we know that this may seem easier said than done, but it is Jamie Kresl and wife Cary of Jewelry Artisans can help you pick the perfect ring. PHOTO/courtesy Jewelry Artisans worth the effort.

The search may start with Google, Finally, everyone has heard about Yelp or a referral from your mother. “the four C’s”: color, clarity, cut and Look for jewelers that have a long his- carat. These are the criteria by which tory and a strong satisfaction-guaran- every diamond is evaluated. To give tee policy. No matter how you hear of you the inside scoop, the most importhe jeweler that you are interested in tant criteria is cut. Some jewelers do working with, check the jeweler’s web not want their clients to know this inreviews; these are typically very reli- formation, because it is harder to “sell” able. And just as in all fair judging, a diamond with a higher cut grade bethrow out the highest and the lowest, cause it is more expensive. as occasionally these reviews may be But the fact is, a well-cut stone ensubject to an unjust bias. hances both clarity and color. It actu Next, choose three jewelers to visit. ally makes the stone look bigger, too, You may need to visit more, but you and increases the value of the diamond will know you’ve found the right place by up to 50 percent. Plus, the cut is when you sense someone cares more what gives the diamonds the sparkle about providing the right service than and brilliance that she loves! making a sale. This is the beginning of With the right jeweler, you will feel a trusting relationship that will serve confident that you have been given all you well through the years. the pertinent information to make the The second insight is, you must best decision towards the piece that know the desire of your beloved. will adorn your loved one for any and Once you have found the right jewelry all of your special celebrations. store to work with, you can focus on Trust us; we know because we what you are looking for. So: have been privileged to be a part of the Have you been listening to her cues beginnings of so many “happily ever and clues? When seeking the most spe- afters.” cial ring of all, the engagement ring, men are understandably overwhelmed with all the choices. Has she told you Editor’s note: Jamie Kresl has been or given you hints about the shape with Jewelry Artisans for 20 years and has owned the store for the past 12. that she prefers?

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just heard that you have the perfect guy and a dazzling ring. I guess you know what’s next…

Time to get busy because there’s a wedding to plan!

Want to make your planning easier and maybe even fun? Start with a deep breath; it will all get done!

• First and foremost is your budgetplanning session: Determine who is paying for what, set your limit and stick to it!

• You may work crazy hours, so if a wedding planner is in the budget, hire one. Planning a wedding is stressful, but a good planner is worth his or her weight in gold by functioning as an organizer, calendar and friend.

If a planner isn’t for you, definitely invest in a good wedding organizing binder and a calendar. This is a must-have for every bride. Staying organized will be a stress buster.

• Setting the date is not always as easy as simply picking a day.

This is when that calendar you bought proves itself worthwhile.

Eliminate the dates that won’t work by simply crossing them off.

Narrow it down to two or three potential dates for your special day, keeping in mind that wedding season runs from May through August and that popular venues book quickly.

• Your venue is one of the biggest expenses. When considering cost, remember that some are a la carte, and some are all-inclusive.

Also: Do you want separate ceremony and reception venues, or are you the single-venue kind of

couple? Take into account that your reception will soon take on a life of its own, so a good relationship with your venue staff will help you as you choose everything you need from lighting, music, dinner and cocktails to that yummy cake.

Another important factor is that most venues will have a list of preferred vendors; consider these and their potential benefits.

• Don’t let your dress shopping become a headache. It’s important to remember that too many opinions make decisions difficult.

Allow a minimum of six months for delivery of your dress from discovery to final fitting and alterations. Know that dresses don’t come ready to bustle; this must be done by a seamstress once you’ve received your dress.

Focusing on your attendants, think about choosing the color of their dresses, and have each of

your maids choose the style that suits their body type.

• Don’t have a high flower IQ? Go with your style. There are no rules about color and theme. It’s your day, so make it personal.

Styles range from glam to country and everything in between for not only your chuppah but also all of the décor. All of this will complete the picture and turn a plain setting into a gorgeous backdrop for that fab photographer you hired.

• Your groom may not “get” flowers, but he will love the tastings, shopping for the bling and planning the honeymoon. The Internet is a great tool, but for international destinations, work with a good travel agent.

Our list is just a beginning; there is still so much more! Happy endings are just around the corner!

Editor’s note: Kaye Andrews owns and operates Atlanta Event and Design.

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By David S. Covell For the Atlanta Jewish Times

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ith a push – and maybe even a shove or two – from my dear friends Rabbi Ephraim Silverman and Chani Silverman, almost five years ago my company expanded our event catering operations into a new area:

elegant weddings, mitzvahs, upscale fundraisers and corporate events, there is no greater pleasure for me than to see a large group of people enjoying great food, friendly service and a well-produced special event, and when kosher is added to the mix, the guest experience transcends into a spiritual connection.

The event is no longer just a mix of techno music, elaborate designs and

Going the extra mile to have kosher cuisine at your next celebration will make the proceedings extra-special. PHOTO/courtesy David Covell

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We built a new kitchen facility and purchased a long list of commercial kitchen and event equipment. We invested in enough elegant dinnerware and European-sized flatware to produce a stylish affair for up to 500 people.

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We then said a few prayers and crossed our fingers, hoping we would generate attention and sales in a market that has not always supported kosher restaurants, grocery stores and specialty stores.

What we found along the way is that being kosher is very challenging and requires planning. Kosher is also a way of bringing people together.

But most of all, I found kosher to be magical. After years of producing

chef-staffed action stations, but a euphonic blend of traditions and customs that date back over 3,000 years. Now that’s a party!

Here are some tips that might prove helpful if you’re planning a kosher event: • Check your date carefully. There are lots of holidays on the calendar; some are obvious, and some are not. If in doubt, ask your rabbi, call the Atlanta Kashruth Commission or just call me.

• Think carefully about a Saturday night event. It’s all a matter of timing.

Remember the mashgiach (kosher supervisor) needs to be onsite before the caterer can do anything, which – especially when Shabbat ends later – does not allow the caterer much time to get ready. Thus, your caterer must have the muscle and manpower to pull it off. continued on next page

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• Be careful about outside food.

Don’t let your crazy aunt make her famous potato latkes and carry them into your event (probably in her purse with 50 packets of Sweet ‘n Low). At a kosher affair, no outside food will be allowed unless approved by the mashgiach. So tell your aunt that you love her latkes, but she should save them for Chanukah.

• Know how it works. Contrary to a common myth, a rabbi doesn’t “bless” food to render it kosher. To produce a kosher-certified product, all of the component ingredients must be koshercertified, including any equipment and utensils that contact the food.

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Remember, you don’t have to keep kosher to host a kosher event. The life of a great simcha begins at “kosherception.”

David S. Covell CEO, Saratoga Event Group Editor’s note: David S. Covell is the CEO of The Saratoga Event Group, which manages four special event facilities and operates an award-winning catering company, Avenue Catering Concepts.

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hoosing a venue for the reception is likely one of the very first steps you will take in your wedding planning process. Prior to making this important decision, there are a few things to consider.

First and foremost, you should take into account how many guests you expect to be in attendance. This will help to narrow the field considerably, as you will want a venue that comfortably accommodates your group. Also keep in mind that if you are having food stations or a buffet, you should inquire with the sales manager at the venue to ensure there is room for this in addition to your anticipated guest count.

Once you have narrowed your venue options based upon the size of your party, think about the proximity of the venues you are considering in

relation to the location of your ceremony (assuming you are not having your ceremony and reception at the same venue). Think about the convenience of guests traveling between the two sites and whether or not you plan to provide transportation for the guests.

Then, consider the style of venue – ballroom, garden, private home, etc. – that you prefer and how that fits into your budget.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, ask yourself (and the sales manager, if applicable) what features are included at the venues you might select. Many will have a rental fee – a flat rate that you pay to use their space for a set number of hours for the wedding reception – so try to find out what is included in this fee.

Will there be tables and chairs provided? And what about ample time for your vendors to set-up and breakdown – ideally, at least three hours before the event is set to begin and one hour after the reception ends?

Does this venue – like most that charge a flat fee – have a liquor license and therefore require you to use their bar versus bringing in your own alcohol? And will there be adequate guest parking?

pricing and your preference on how you want to pay for drinks (per drink or a set rate per guest for the number of hours of the reception) to ensure that you will not have any trouble meeting that minimum.

These are all important questions when choosing a reception venue, especially with regards to your total cost. You should also inquire with the renter about a preferred vendor list; most venues will have a list of caterers that they require you choose from, and selecting a caterer who is not on this list can result in an additional fee.

A pitfall to beware in this process is to sign a contract with a set budget in mind without realizing that the venue’s per-person pricing for food and alcohol will far exceed what would otherwise be the minimum.

Also keep in mind that, if you are hosting your reception at a hotel or full-service venue, you will be asked to meet a “food and beverage minimum” rather than paying a flat fee to use the space.

It is vital that you actually crunch the numbers before signing on the dotted line! Do your homework: Look at the venue’s pricing per person in terms of food and alcohol and factor that with your guest count. Finally, don’t forget about the roughly 30-percent service charge and taxes to come up with a realistic idea of what you will be paying.

The sales manager will let you know what their beverage (non-alcoholic and alcoholic) minimum is, and you should take that into account as you weigh the venue’s bar package

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here seems to be some confusion about what the term “consignment” really means.

Some people think that all items in a consignment store are used, but that’s not necessarily true.

An item sold on consignment is simply one owned by someone else but sold by a consignment store at lower than full retail price.

Thus, consignment items can be brand new or used, and a bride purchasing a wedding gown from a bridal consignment store is often getting more value for less money.

great option, as both buying on consignment and re-consigning can make the drain on your wallet less painful. The key is to think “outside the box” and remain open-minded when searching.

Finally, consignment shops also offer formal dresses for prom, homecoming and sorority formals. All these affairs can be very expensive for parents – the folks frequently footing the bills – as most girls would be horrified

Each gown accepted at a consignment store is carefully chosen in order to give a bride the widest selection of sizes and unique styles to choose from. All gowns are purchased “off the rack,” so a bride doesn’t have to place an order several months in advance, all the while hoping the correct dress shows up.

Another plus for a bride purchasing a wedding gown on At a top-notch consignment store like the Bridal Exchange consignment is that Boutique, brides can find the dress of their dreams at she can re-consign an affordable price. PHOTO/courtesy Bridal Exchange Boutique it after the wedding (as long as the gown is cleaned, in excellent condition and is still current) and at the idea of being seen in the same make some of her money back. What’s dress twice and thus may need two, more, accessories like veils and slips three, or even more dresses for each can also be bought at consignment year of high school (not to mention colstores at substantially lower prices lege). and later re-consigned.

Shopping on consignment defi There are drawbacks to shopping nitely deserves consideration in this consignment. For example, if a bride instance (as well as in that of a wedfinds a dress design she loves in a size ding). If you do it right, the effort can too small, the item can’t be altered; be fun – and financially rewarding. and if a bride has a particular designer in mind, a selection of those dresses may not be available in a consignment Editor’s note: Renee Perrelli is the ownstore. Also, some women don’t like the er of The Bridal Exchange Boutique. idea of wearing used clothing.

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hear time and time again that families are nervous and overwhelmed as they begin the invitation-ordering process. Clients delay as long as they can, and then the pressure is on us to get it done.

Folks feel that with the invitation comes finality; after you order, there’s “no turning back” on the event, and we’re forced to face the truth: “Wow, we are really doing this thing!”

Let’s face it, the invitation is the first part of your simcha made public, so it does set the tone for your event.

Remember that there are lots of considerations when it comes to picking the invitation, and even more decisions that come with that one: the envelope (and whether or not to line it), the reception card, the response card, the weekend card, the thankyou note…

trust, someone who will not try to sell you the farm. You can start this process before you hav e all the pieces in place.

• In terms of picking the invite and so forth, you don’t need the numbers or places until you are actually ready to place the order, but at least you can get a feel for what you like and even have something picked out. Just remember that you must have all the pieces in order and place your order four months in advance of your date.

• The first time you go to look at invites, do not take the bar or bat mitzvah. You don’t want them to fall in love with an invite that you can’t live with or is out of your budget.

Quite truthfully, a 12-yearold child may not have your vision. So go at it alone and walk away with five to ten choices of in-

vites that are within your budget and are within your parameters.

• Take those aforementioned candidate invitations home, mull them over and make a final decision as a family. Then, go back for a second meeting with all of your ducks in a row: places, times and quantities.

At that meeting, be prepared to finalize font, color and wording.

A good invitation person will be prepared to guide you through all of this.

• As far as who to invite: Don’t invite anyone you wouldn’t break bread with, pull up a blanket with at a school function or have to your home for a Shabbat dinner.

My friend Kathy always said, “I am not inviting anyone whose phone number is not saved in my cell phone,” and I always thought those were good boundaries to live by.

• Your invites should go out six to eight weeks before your simcha. Take them to the post office and hand-stamp them before handing them back directly to the postal clerk; this way your invitations won’t through a machine, giving them a greater chance of being delivered clean and unharmed.

This is just the tip of the iceberg.

There is so much more I could share with you in starting this process, but I am out of space.

Just remember: Work with someone you like and trust. In the end, it’s an invitation that is special for you and your family and no one else.

Embrace and enjoy the process, and you’ll be fine…

Actually, you will be great!

Editor’s note: Getting ready to order bar or bat mitzvah invitations? Call Stacy at (770) 352-9775 or email stacy531@bellsouth.net.

What’s more, you have to choose colors and wording; and all of this, of course, must be done with your budget in mind. This goes without mentioning the other pieces of the puzzle that must be put in place before you order, such as the time and place for each portion of your celebration and the number of guests you will be inviting.

• Let me just say up-front, e-vites are a no-no! How will dear old 92-year-old Aunt Millie get her invite if you go that route?

This is a much bigger event than your backyard BBQ! This is something that will go into a scrapbook, to have as a memory to reflect on for years to come. This is a day you have dreamt of since you held that baby in your arms.

Besides that, I can say from personal experience sending evites for lesser events: It is a true pain in the neck. Guests don’t take them as seriously as physical invitations and tend not to respond.

• With that point out of the way, let’s get to what’s most important: Find an invitation person you

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So, to help prepare the intimidated: Let’s get to some tips of the trade for you as you begin this process.

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very part of the kosher world has undergone dramatic changes over the last decade or so, but if any particular aspect of that world is evolving the

fastest, it would be kosher alcoholic beverages. As the overall selection of libations has grown, so too has the list of kosher options.

Wine was mentioned in the Book of Genesis, and beer made from dates goes back to the times of the Talmud.

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and rums), beer and liquors. As the processes for making these drinks have improved, it has become easier to offer these beverages in a kosher way.

Kosher alcoholic drinks today can be broken up into four basic groups: wine, hard alcohol (such as whiskeys

• Grape products have long been a controversial issue. Wine has been set aside as special since the first wine press was created, and the beverage is used in religious services of all types.

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• The same assumption applies to beers, as long as they are pure hops and barley (such as Coors or Miller) and no flavors have been added (as is the case with Bud Light Lime). As such, many beers are also kosher even when not bearing any certification.

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• Liquors are a completely different drink; most are flavors with some sort of alcohol added to complete the drink.

This leaves the ingredient list open to an unlimited amount of options, and therefore all liquors need to bear a reliable kosher certification on the label to ensure that they are kosher and reliable.

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• There are many different styles of photography that are used. Some photographers like to be more photojournalistic, while others stick to the more traditional style. These are important factors to consider.

• Another very important thing to think about are family pictures. Make sure to tell your family members to come for pictures at the designated times.

You want to be able to look back years later and remember all the people that came to share this joyous occasion with you.

• Regardless what kind of event yours will be, your photographer needs be familiar with the subject

bringing his or her own lighting or using available lights, the photographer has to have that know-how. Good lighting makes for a good photo or video.

at hand. Celebrations like bar or bat mitzvahs and weddings have an element of spontaneity, and someone who isn’t familiar with what’s going on might not be aware and thereby miss the moment.

• Another thing to consider is if you receive fast response time from your photographer. Planning an event can be very tedious, and a good photographer can really be a big help in that matter.

A bar/bat mitzvah in particular requires a lot of preparation work. Your photographer can help reduce that by taking your sign-in board to the framers and picking it up for you. Always ask if they offer this service.

• Also, a good photographer needs to be good with people. Feel him or her out and make sure you are comfortable with them (and vice versa).

• Make sure your photographer knows lighting. Whether it is

• Finally, ask about retouching. With today’s digital technology, a lot of really wonderful things can be accomplished with retouching; sometimes, a person can be made to look years or even decades younger with the click of a mouse.

A bar or bat mitzvah or a wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime occurrence, so it is very important to capture the memories of the event. You want to feel carefree and be able to enjoy your event while it’s happening. A good photographer will get the job done and be unobtrusive.

Remember, when it is all said and done, your photos and video are some of the few things you get to take with you from your simcha. Make sure they’re great by getting the right photographer and videographer!

Editor’s Note: Contact Ross Cohen of Cohen Photographic Art at (404) 7830808.

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Fagen and Atlanta Opera Bring “Carmen” to Town OPERA WITH JEWISH ROOTS OPENS NOV. 10

By Elizabeth Friedly Assistant Editor

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ith 35 years and over 75 operas in his repertoire, Jewish community member Maestro Arthur Fagen, music director of the Atlanta Opera, is no stranger to “Carmen.”

The iconic opera about a captivating gypsy who seduces two men simultaneously with dire consequences opens the Atlanta Opera’s 2012-2013 season next month.

“This is going to be an interesting season,” said Fagen. “It’s a year of transition; the former director is off the company, and we are waiting on a number of interviews to see who will be the next general director.”

With the move to the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre and new leadership, Fagen thinks the Atlanta Opera is on track to achieving great things.

“I truly think that the Atlanta Opera is poised to become a major American company,” he said. “I think that [our schedule is filled with] operas that have a great accessibility to the public. I think it’s a very attractive season for the public.”

The production of “Carmen,” directed by Jeffrey Marc Buchman, begins Nov. 10.

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Beginning with trips to New York City with his grandparents as a young boy and Metropolitan Opera radio matinees, Fagen followed his love for the arts to such renowned companies as the Tokyo Philharmonic, the Orchestre de la Suisse Romande and the New York City Opera.

This marks Fagen’s second year with the company and his first without former general director Dennis Hanthorn, who recently resigned.

Throughout his international career, Fagen’s relationship with Hanthorn led to invitations to guest conduct in both Milwaukee and Atlanta.

“I felt an immediate affinity with the company,” said Fagen of his visits to the Atlanta Opera.

About “Carmen” The opera’s upcoming performance of Georges Bizet’s classic “Carmen” proves especially personal for Fagen, considering the work’s ties to Juda-

ism.

A prominent Parisian Jewish family, the Halévys, had a large hand in the opera’s creation: Bizet co-wrote the libretto with Ludovic Halévy, studied under Jacques-Formental Halévy and later married Formental’s daughter Geneviève.

Fagen also cites a “Jewish femme fatale” from history as a possible influence for the character of Carmen.

She was reportedly a Marrano, one of many Jewish people forced to convert during the Spanish Inquisition, who met her end at the hands of a jealous suitor.

Editor’s note: The Atlanta Opera 20122013 season will also include performances of “La Traviata” and “The Italian Girls in Algiers.” Visit atlantaopera.org for ticketing information.

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“Stomping” for a Cause UGA SIGMA DELTA TAU RAISES MORE THAN $36,000 FOR PHILANTHROPY

By Jamie Gottlieb

all the sororities are able to support PCAA and their philanthropies too.”

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Singer said she wanted the entire campus to know Greek Grind was presented by SDT, so the sorority performed in the show for the first time in its history.

For the Atlanta Jewish Times PHOTOS/Julia McDonald eventeen Panhellenic sororities “Stomped the Grind” on Oct. 10 for University of Georgia’s Sigma Delta Tau’s annual philanthropy event, “Greek Grind.”

Through Greek Grind – a sororitywide dance competition and the largest Greek philanthropy event at the University of Georgia – the sisters of SDT raised more than $36,000 for Prevent Child Abuse America, the sorority’s national philanthropy.

“Our girls put in more work than we thought possible,” she said. “People came up after the show to tell us

Elyssa Singer, SDT vice president of philanthropy and panhellenic, said the event was more incredible than she could have imagined.

“We’ve raised more money than we’ve ever raised,” she said. “I’m just really proud and grateful for everyone – the sororities, the committees, the sponsors – all who helped us raise as much as we did for a great cause.”

Page Kelley, Sigma Kappa’s Greek Grind chair, said placing first was “indescribable.”

“All of the time we spent preparing and practicing paid off,” she said.

SDT President Alyson Fleet knows that these girls weren’t just dancing to win. They were dancing for a cause: to raise money and awareness for PCAA. “The cool thing about philanthropies on our campus is that they bring Greek life together,” she said. “Not only do we [SDT] support PCAA, but

how well we did, especially when the flash mob took over. That was a really great moment.”

This year, Monica Pearson hosted the event, and judges included Georgia quarterback Aaron Murray, wide receiver Tavarres King and running back Keith Marshall. Olympic gold medalists Allison Schmitt and Shannon Vreeland judged as well.

Fleet said the amount of money SDT raises for PCAA is both rewarding and tremendous.

“It’s just insane that we’re able to raise such a vast amount of money every year,” she said. “I was involved with a lot of philanthropy in high school, and it’s just so incredible that we, as a group of less than 200 girls, can raise this amount of money for such a great cause.”

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Fri., Oct. 26

Consecration, family service. Fri., Oct. 26, 6:30 p.m. Congregation Dor Tamid. religiousschool@dortamid.com.

Sat., Oct. 27

Havdallah and a Movie, “Fiddler on the Roof” with song sheets for sing-a-longs.

Please bring chairs, blankets ect. Sat., Oct. 27, 7:40 p.m. Free. Congregation Or VeShalom. (404) 633-1737.

Sun., Oct. 28

Aviva at Jewish Kids Groups, local artist and songwriter Aviva visits for singing, dancing, game with a concert at noon. Sun., Oct. 28, 9:30 a.m. Jewish Kids Group. (770) 9139554.

“Day of Discovery” Workshops, day of learning about our Jewish world and culture.

Sun., Oct. 28, 9:30 a.m. Registration fees apply. RSVP by Oct. 25 via etzchaim.net.

Training Wheels Atlanta, lets parents and children ages 3-5 become partners in discovering the joys of being Jewish (sponsored by Hadassah). Sun., Oct. 28, 10 a.m. The Carlton on Mt. Vernon Hwy. barids@bellsouth.net.

Live, Late Breaking and Home for Shabbat, a lecture with award winning journalist Rosh Lowe, presented by the Cobb Jewish Academy. Sun., Oct. 28, 10 a.m. $15/person.

Chabad of Cobb. office@chabadofcobb.com.

Jewish War Veterans Speaker & Lunch, meeting of the Jewish War Veterans Atlanta Bicentennial Post 112 with guest speaker Dr. William Wildstein. Sun., Oct. 28, 10 a.m.

Landmark Diner. (404) 252-5253 or jwvga. org.

Intown Eruv Hike, with Rabbi Chaim Lindenblatt. Sun., Oct. 28, 10 a.m. Free. Anshi S’Fard synagogue. (404) 786-7700 or mosaicga@aol.com Gan Tamid Garden Work Day. Sun., Oct. 28, 1 p.m. Congregation Dor Tamid. (770) 623-8860 PBS Showing of ‘Cinema’s Exiles’, From Hitler to Hollywood, documentary of the experiences of exiles who took refuge in 1930s Hollywood. Sun., Oct. 28, 1 p.m. Free. Anne Frank in the World. (770) 206-1558.

Ending Domestic Violence Program, “The Power of Collective Voices” with author Susan Murphy Milan, abuse survivor. Sun., Oct. 28, 2 p.m. Congregation B’nai Torah. RSVP (770) 677-9322 or wlpshutz@jfcs-atlanta.org Primetimers Program “Step Up for Israel”, two short documentaries followed by discussion. Appropriate for high school age and adults. Sun., Oct. 28, 3:30 p.m. Congregation Dor Tamid. (770) 623-8860.

B’Nai Birth’s Monte Carlo Gala, dinner, dancing, silent / live auction and casino tables to benefit Jewish Healthcare International and Sheltering Arms. Sun., Oct. 28, 5 p.m.

$75/person (includes dinner). Dunwoody Country Club. For tickets, (770) 512-8880 or hasma@earthlink.net.

Nashville Celebrates Israel, night of solidarity between the Christian and Jewish people. Sun., Oct. 28, 6 p.m. Free. Liberty Hall, The Factory at Franklin. For info, joeljames@ eagleswings.to Mens’ Night Out: Steak Night, steakscotch-schmoozing. Proceeds benefit Congregation Ariel’s Youth Programming. Sun., Oct. 28, time TBA. RSVP to shuloffice@congariel. org or contact Jay Rosenheck.

Mon., Oct. 29

Music on Main Street, featuring The Cohen Brothers Band. Mon., Oct. 15, 5 p.m. Free admission. MJCCA (lobby). lora.sommer@atlantajcc.org.

Tues., Oct. 30

Parenting a Child with Special Needs Class, first of a three-part class with Roseanne Lesack. Tues., Oct. 30, 7 p.m. $36/person or $50/couple. The Amit Office. RSVP by Oct. 19, info@amitatlanta.org or (404) 9619966.

Learning for Ladies, Bene Torah “Uplifting Ourselves Amidst the Suffering: Woman to Woman Inspiration” with Rebbetzin Tehilla Jaeger. Tues., Oct. 30, 8 p.m. $10/person.

Beth Jacob Conference Room. www.atlantakollel.org

Wed., Oct. 31

“The Jewish Question” Program, with Frankfurt School on race and anti-Semitism.

Wed., Oct. 31, 4 p.m. PAIS 290, Emory University. RSVP (404) 727-0896 or tames2@ emory.edu.

Guy Mendilow Concert, featuring Sofia Tosello. Wed., Oct. 31, 8 p.m. (doors 6:30 p.m.). $14/person at door, $10/person in advance. Steve’s Live Music. Tickets and info steveslivemusic.com.

‘The Kabbalah of You’, six-week course from the Rohr Jewish Learning Institute. First class Wed., Oct. 31, 7:30 p.m. $89/person, $160/couple discount. Various locations.

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Thurs., Nov. 1

Amit Gar’inim Open House, first of two, open to parents. School tours by appointment. Thurs., Nov. 1, 9:30 a.m. The Davis Academy. info@amitatlanta.org or (404) 9619966.

Guy Mendilow Songwriters in the Round, meet Ladino singer/songwriter. Thurs., Nov. 1, 7 p.m. Location TBD. RSVP to info@atlantajmf.com.

Book Launch, “Splash Into Calm” hosted

by Ellen Sichel. Thurs., Nov. 1, 7 p.m. Private residence. (770) 313-6162.

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Abraham and the Three Kinds of Jews PARASHAT LECH LECHA CONFIRMS: WE ARE ONE ’ve found that, among my friends, there seem to be three types of Jews: the “Jew-by-birth,” the “educated-but-distant Jew” and the “passionate Jew.” The Jew-by-birth title is fairly straightforward, and I’m sure everyone has met one: He’s the one who will say he’s Jewish if you ask about his Goldbergesque last name but doesn’t necessarily volunteer his religious affiliation on his own.

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such men are worthy of this Jewish title? And would I then begin to doubt G-d’s love for me, knowing I have never risked my life on His behalf?

Leaving out Abraham’s honorable beginnings makes him more relatable. G-d chose him, the husband of Sarah and the son of Terah, and told him:

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What I find to be most interesting about these three different Jews is how they think of themselves and how the rest of the Jewish community tends to categorize them. I’m sure you’ve heard someone described as at least one of the following: a “good

“…Behold My covenant is with you, and you shall become the father of a multitude of nations…and I will establish My covenant between Me and between you and between your seed after you throughout their generations as an everlasting covenant, to be to you for a G-d and to your seed after you (Genesis 17:4-7).”

described as at least one of the following: a ‘good Jew,’ a ‘bad Jew,’

a ‘non-practicing Jew,’ a ‘religious

Jew’ or a ‘traditional Jew.’ But what

It’s possible he’s never been able to read Hebrew, never read a Torah portion and doesn’t belong to a synagogue. He’s Jewish because his family (or, more specifically, his mother) is Jewish, and therefore he’s a member of the Tribe by default.

do any of those mean?”

Then there’s the educated-but-distant Jew – I would say I used to fall under this category. Here you have people that, either through Jewish day school, synagogue or family encounters, know a lot about their Judaic history and tradition. They can tell you why we celebrate Passover and the meanings of the objects on the Seder plate, they can recite Shabbas prayers when called upon, and they can often impress grandparents with at least a few sentences in Hebrew.

Clearly, they’re knowledgeable about their faith background, but they may lack the passion. Whether it’s the consequence of resenting Hebrew homework and waking up early for bar mitzvah services or just a lack of appetite for religious connection, they aren’t sure what they believe (or if they believe anything at all). The knowledge is there, but not the faith.

The final variety, the passionate Jew, is probably the most rare breed.

In my mind, this is he who seeks out Judaism in his daily life: He communicates with G-d, studies Torah and bases his decisions on the morals of Judaism. More likely than not, he has had some formal Jewish education, but I wouldn’t say that’s an absolute; regardless, the idea is that he is a practicing and devoted Jew.

Jew,” a “bad Jew,” a “non-practicing Jew,” a “religious Jew” or a “traditional Jew.” But what do any of those mean?

In this week’s Torah portion, Lech Lecha, G-d calls down to Abraham, “Go forth from your land and from your birthplace and from your father’s house, to the land that I will show you. And I will make you into a great nation, and I will bless you, and I will aggrandize your name, and you shall be a blessing (Genesis 12:1-2).”

and there is no good Jew, bad Jew, non-practicing Jew, religious Jew or traditional Jew. We are all Jewish. We are the descendants of Abraham; we were chosen by G-d. There is no “less religious” or “more religious.”

It matters not how you practice or what you know. It matters that you are Jewish, that I am Jewish and that we are proud to say it.

Editor’s note: Rachel LaVictoire is a graduate of the Davis Academy and Westminster High School, recipient of the prestigious Nemerov Writing and Thomas H. Elliott Merit scholarships at Washington University of St. Louis and an active member of Temple Emanu-El and the Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta.

Millennia later, we too are Jewish;

This was the first commandment given by G-d to Abraham, who became the very first Jew. Prior to this encounter, the only information the Torah gives about Abraham is his lineage and his marriage to Sarah; only those who read the Midrash know that Abraham was devoted to G-d early in his life.

So why would the Torah fail to include this biographical story of Abraham? Clearly, he is a righteous man, but why is this part of his life left out?

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In more simple terms, had I known that Abraham became the first Jew only after risking his life for G-d and devoting his life to spreading His word, would I have assumed that only

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88, OF SANDY SPRINGS Joe B. Arogeti, age 88, of Sandy Springs, died Oct. 18, 2012. Mr. Arogeti is survived by his loving wife, Betty Arogeti. Other survivors include his daughter, Jeannie and Walter Schroder, Scotch Plains, N.J.; daughter, Shelley and Lonnie Slone, Norfolk, Va.; son, Jack and Susan Arogeti, Roswell, Ga.; daughter, Gail and David Philipson, Alpharetta, Ga.; son, Mardy and Lashayne Arogeti, Suwanee, Ga.; brother, Raymond and Renee Arogeti, Atlanta; sister, Emily and Hermie Steinman, California; sister, Sylvia and Leon Capouano, Alabama; grandchildren: Harris and Nancy, Jon, Brooke and Chris, Michael, Jessica S., Joey, Danny, Zachery, Jessica A., Amanda and Jamie; and great-grandchild Lacey. Sign online guest book at edressler.com. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Congregation Or VeShalom, 1681 N Druid Hills Rd NE, Atlanta, GA 30319. A graveside service was held on Sun., Oct. 21, 2012 at 10:30 a.m. with Rabbi Hayyim Kassorla officiating. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care. fabulous mint condition ranch. Great close-In roswell location.

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Frederick (Fred) Allen Ellman, age 66, passed away on Fri., Oct. 12, 2012. Born on Dec. 31, 1945 in Atlanta, Fred was a talented entrepreneur and real estate expert who began his career at Ellman’s, the family business. Fred was a kind, dedicated and devoted husband and father. Among his many talents, Fred was a craftsman, a master gardener and volunteer at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens, a photographer, a brilliant cook and someone who was known for his incredibly witty sense of humor. Fred touched everyone he came in contact with and always “lit up” every room he walked into. He is preceded in death by his loving parents Harold Ellman and Peggy Copeloff Ellman Greenbaum. He is survived by his wife of 31 years, Yetta Stadium Ellman; his three children, Meggan, Michael and Haley; his sister Susan Ellman Zweig and his brother-in-law, Dr. Arnold Zweig; his mother-in-law, Della Stadium; his sisters-in-law, Linda Webster and Gail Craven; and his many nieces and nephews. Sign online guest book at edressler.com.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The Ellman Chapel at Ahavath Achim Synagogue or the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation in Fred’s memory. Graveside services were held at Greenwood Cemetery, 1173 Cascade Circle SW, Atlanta, GA on Sun., Oct. 14, 2012 at 1:30 p.m. with Rabbi Ron Segal officiating. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

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Harlean Hankin Mandel died peacefully Sept. 28, 2012 on her 80th birthday. She is survived by her beloved husband of 55 years, Frank Mandel; son, Mark Mandel, and his wife, Michele; daughter, Caryn Mandel Gartner, and her husband, Larry; grandchildren: Steven and Julie Gartner and Andrew and Samantha Mandel; sister, Natalie Feldman; and niece, Jana Kreisberg, and her husband Michael. The daughter of Morris and Sadie Hankin and a lifelong Atlanta resident, Harlean graduated from Grady High School and the University of Michigan. She worked for Rich’s Advertising Department, Wausau Insurance, Siegel & Dolt, D.D.S. and Harry Norman Realtors.

Harlean loved watching sports, and she was her children and grandchildren’s biggest fan. Sign online guestbook at edressler.com. Graveside service was held, Sept. 30 at Arlington Memorial Park with Rabbi Neil Sandler officiating. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Ahavath Achim Synagogue, Congregation Dor Tamid or Hospice Atlanta. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

Martin Seligmann 65, OF ATLANTA

Martin Seligmann, age 65, of Atlanta, died Oct. 12, 2012. He was a kibbitizing man with a big heart and never short for words. He cherished his family and valued his community involvement. Survivors include his wife Felice Seligmann; son and daughter-in-law, Ari Seligmann and Shimako Iwasaki, Australia; daughter and son-in-law, Danielle and Glenn Amdur, Atlanta; daughter and son-in-law, Rachelle and David Gerson, Newnan, Ga.; brother and sister-in-law, David Seligmann and Irene Vecchi, Panama; and grandchildren: Jared, Jacob, Zachary, Stella and Cameron. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Hebrew Order of David, Atlanta Chapter, 6400 Atlanta Blvd. Suite 220, Norcross, GA. 30071. Sign online guest book at edressler. com. A graveside service was held Mon., Oct. 15, 2012 at 10:30 a.m. at Arlington Memorial Park. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

MAY THEIR MEMORIES BE A BLESSING Ronnie Silver 88, OF ATLANTA

Ronnie Silver, age 88, of Atlanta, died on Oct. 13, 2012. Mrs. Silver was born in New York City and had lived in Atlanta since 1946. She was active in the Women’s Auxiliary at Northside Hospital and Saint Joseph’s Hospital. A devoted wife and mother, she is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Michael and Robin Silver, Johns Creek, Ga.; daughter, Susan Pickard, Novato, Calif.; sister, Norma Goldberg, New York; grandchildren: Mark, Mitch, Michael, Asha, and Josh; great-grandchild, Nate; and many extended family. She was preceded in death by her husband, Irving Silver.

Sign online guestbook at edressler.com. Graveside services were held today, Oct. 16 at 2:30 p.m. at Arlington Cemetery with Rabbi Scott Colbert and Rabbi Joseph Prass officiating. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to: Temple Emanu-El Caring Fund, 1580 Spalding Drive, Atlanta, GA 30350; or The Cohen Home, 10485 Jones Bridge Road, Johns Creek, GA 30022. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

Jill Meyer Suchke 63, OF ATLANTA

Jill Meyer Suchke was born on Nov. 7, 1948 in Miami Beach. She grew up in Bay Heights in the Coconut Grove section of Miami and graduated from Coral Gables Senior High School. She attended Wheelock College in Boston and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in early childhood education. She moved to Atlanta, where she was chosen to be one of the three managers at Rich’s Department Store’s “Secret Shop,” and was later promoted to a buyer. She met her husband Randy at Rich’s, where he was a divisional buyer. They left Rich’s and started their own business representing housewares manufacturers. They initially lived at the Clairmont North subdivision, where Jill served as PTA president for Montclair Elementary School. When they moved to Cobb County in the early ‘90s, they became active members of Temple Kol Emeth. In keeping with their love of Southwestern art, Jill and Randy looked forward to their annual trip to the Santa Fe Indian Market. They enjoyed their 25th visit to the market this past August. Jill’s generosity and kindnesses have led to a wealth of friends who will mourn her passing. She is survived by her husband, Randy; daughters, Dara and Dawn; her parents, Joel and Bunny Meyer; her sister, Ellen of Newton, Pennsylvania; and her brother, Dr. James Meyer (Wendy), Philadelphia. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Temple Kol Emeth Stained Glass Windows Fund in memory of Jill Suchke, 1415 Old Canton Road, Marietta, GA 30062. Sign online guest book at edressler.com. Funeral services were held at Temple Kol Emeth on Wed., Oct. 10, 2012 with Rabbi Steven Lebow officiating. Interment was at Arlington Memorial Park. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

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Jerry Taitz, 73, of Atlanta, passed away Fri., Oct. 12, 2012 after succumbing to complications arising from heart disease. Born in Atlanta, Jerry attended Grady High School and then graduated from the University of Georgia. For more than 40 years, Jerry was a highly successful uniform sales representative, making lifelong friends across the country in law enforcement and the armed forces. In addition to being one of the funniest men of his generation, Jerry was a dedicated fan of the Georgia Bulldogs, a great friend to all who knew him and a beloved husband, father and grandfather.

Jerry is survived by his loving wife of 45 years, Judy Taitz; daughter and son-in-law, Wendy and Jeff Cook, Chicago; son and daughter-in-law, Kevin and Nona Taitz; sister and brother-in-law, Barbara and Tommy May, Santa Rosa Beach, Fla.; sister, Betty Wagner, Santa Rosa Beach, Fla.; sisters-in law, Nancy Levitt and Betsy (Larry) Cohen, both of Atlanta; and grandchildren: Kayla, Rollin, Hannah, Alexander and Evan. Mr. Taitz was preceded in death by his parents, Lucy and Sidney Taitz, and his parents-in-law, Millie and Roland Sternthall, all of blessed memory. Sign online guest book at edressler.com. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Alzheimer’s Association, 1925 Century Boulevard, NE, Ste 10, Atlanta, GA 30345. A graveside service was held Sun., Oct. 14, 2012 at 3:00 p.m. at Arlington Memorial Park. Arrangements by Dressler’s Jewish Funeral Care.

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Across 1. Odessa writer 6. Isaac Mayer Wise 9. A Plain novelist 14. Martyred rabbi 15. Affirmative 16. Swift scribe 17. Last letter of Torah 18. Fiedler to friends 19. Medals sculptor 20. Louis Brandeis org?

21. Sabra 24. Rickles or Adams 25. JDL founder 27. Judah to Zebulun 28. Few 29. Tress 31. Knesset position 33. Isaac’s firstborn 36. Good: (Heb.) 38. Baywatch beauty 42. Town allotted to Asher 44. Sanctuary seat 46. Commandment site 47. Astronaut 49. Pierced as sign of bondsman 51. __ Year in Jerusalem!!!

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