November 2015

DINING ROOM DESIGN

Nailing the Specifics: INSIDE A DESIGNER HOME

2015 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE

CONTENTS NOVEMBER 2015

30 30 HOME NAILING THE SPECIFICS Artist and Interior Designer Leslie Murphy Cetingok draws from her professional expertise to create a beautiful home for her and her husband.

40 DESIGN DINING ROOMS A look at design ideas and trends for the dining room

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SECTION 2015 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE

Ideas for giving this holiday season ON THE COVER - HOME FEATURE | p.30 The home of Leslie and Alper Cetingok in Memphis FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! 6 | At Home Memphis & Mid South • November 2015

CONTENTS NOVEMBER 2015

F O R YO U 18 healthy you Eat Healthy During the Holidays 22 beauty “Falling” in Love with Beauty 98 on a good note West Tennessee Veterans’ Home

HOME & DESIGN 26 at home with Audrey Taylor Gonzalez 46 style marketplace Dining Room Decor 48 home trends Tech Apps for Your Home

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T R AV E L & C U L T U R E 58 visit this Graceland 62 getaway Gatlinburg & Pigeon Forge 66 travel Hawaii 72 social pages 80 arts GPAC Holiday Performances

FOOD & DRINK 82 entertaining Autumn Tablescape 90 in the kitchen Fall Comfort Food 92 dining out Staks Pancake Kitchen 94 happy hour Brandy Milk Punch

IN EVERY ISSUE 12 | EDITOR’S NOTE 14 | CONTRIBUTORS 97 | SOURCES

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NOVEMBER 2015 • VOL. 14 NO. 8 PUBLISHER/ EDITORIAL DIRECTOR MARGARET MONGER | mmonger@athomemms.com

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MARKETING AND CIRCULATION HARRIET W. DEATON | hdeaton@athomemms.com

CONTRIBUTORS CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS DARREN LYKES, STEVE ROBERTS AND RALPH CRAFTON

INTERNS TAYLOR GRACE AND RUTHIE HALL

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editor’s note

“Ironies of Life ”

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éjà vu, small world or irony—whatever you want to call it, we’ve all been there. I feel like I have many times!

The most recent in particular has to do with being editor of this magazine. I have had the pleasure of working again with a wonderful photographer, Steve Roberts, whom I met at RSVP magazine when I was editor back in 1998 (when photos weren’t emailed or drop boxed, but printed and scanned to run in a magazine.)

We covered many parties together and went on home shoots. When I got engaged I immediately called Steve to photograph my wedding in 2001, and so did all my siblings for their weddings over the years. Most recently, Steve has taken various family portraits for my family, including the one on this page. And now I get to work with Steve on our At Home Memphis & Mid South home shoots.

This month’s featured home on page 30 is absolutely stunning. The minimalistic, yet elegant, style is unique and refreshing. Our entertaining section features a breathtaking fall scene and tablescape that the talented Alexandra Lauren, interior designer and event stylist in Jackson, Tennessee, created. This picturesque scene was amid the corn maze in Donnell Century Farms in Jackson, Tennessee. The splendor of fall is beautifully captured in the photos.

As we enter the holiday season, there will be many opportunities in the Mid South to give back. Whether it is shopping at a store that participates in St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital’s Thanks & Giving campaign, donating money to the Salvation Army when you hear someone ringing their red bell, or donating outerwear to those in need, Mid Southerners are known for their generosity of spirit.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Lesley

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contributors Matt Gossett • Beauty is a professional makeup artist in Memphis. Sought out for his soft but glamorous bridal looks, Matt has made a name for himself throughout the Mid South. With eight years in the Memphis beauty scene, Matt has always made it his number one priority to make sure the women of the Mid South have their own kind of beauty.

April McKinney • In the Kitchen is an award-winning cook, food writer and recipe demonstrator. She has been featured on the Today show and Better TV, after her recipes won national cooking contests. You can also see her creating new healthy and simple dishes on her YouTube channel, “April McKinney Cooking,” where she demonstrates her recipes on camera.

Barbara May • Travel is the owner of Travel Leaders, which has proudly served Memphis and the surrounding areas for the past 29 years. Her staff of travel professionals handles all aspects of the industry and is certified in areas that include cruises, all-inclusive Sandals properties, Disney, destination weddings and honeymoons. Barbara's agencies have been recognized as Top Retail Agencies by Travel Leaders.

Jordana White • Home is a lifestyle writer and editor. In addition to contributing to At Home Memphis & Mid South magazine, she writes for nationally distributed Life & Style magazine and several online outlets. Once a resident of Nashville, she now lives in New York with her husband Ian and two young sons, Brayden and Cooper.

Kristi Edwards MS, RDN, LDN, CLC • Healthy You is a Registered Dietitian/Nutritionist as well as a Certified Lactation Counselor at Regional One Health. She was named Outstanding Dietetics Student her senior year at the University of Tennessee at Martin, and went on to obtain her Masters in Dietetics from the University of Memphis. Her interests include diabetes, chronic kidney disease, weight management and corporate wellness.

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He a lt hy Fo o d ch oic es f o r t h e H o l i d ay s e a s o n Text by Kristi Edwards, MS, RDN, LDN, CLC

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tudies show that the average American gains one to two pounds over the holiday season.

This may not sound like much, but in most cases this weight becomes permanent baggage.

Continued weight gain year after year can lead to obesity. The good news: with the right nutrition and health information as well as the right attitude, you can enjoy this and every holiday season without the worry of expanding your waistline. The following are tips to help you stay healthy and fit this holiday season.

1. Choose larger portions of fruits and vegetables and smaller portions of pasta, casseroles, breads, dressings and desserts.

A healthy diet is all about balance, variety and appropriate portion sizes. By no means does it require you to eliminate all of the foods you love. (Who sticks to that kind of diet for more than a week or two anyway?) Balancing macronutrients (carbohydrates, fat and protein) in each meal will likely keep you fuller longer. Be open to trying new foods. Eat the foods you love, but use self-control when portioning these foods onto your plate.

2. Don’t arrive to the holiday party starved!

Waiting too long to eat typically results in craving foods higher in sugar, fat and sodium. Don’t worry about starving yourself all day long to “save room” for dinner. Eat healthy

foods and drink water before arriving to the party, and you’re more likely to consume fewer calories and make healthier choices while you are there.

Remember not to let your eyes get bigger than your stomach!

Try this: start with smaller portions of food and tell yourself you can go back for seconds if you are still hungry. You might be surprised by how satisfied you are after just one plate. I used the word satisfied for a reason. There is a huge difference between being satisfied and stuffed. Eat slowly—allow your body time to digest the food and tell you when it is satisfied so that you do not overeat.

3. Scope out the food before making decisions.

This is especially true for the dessert table. Pick one or two of your favorites instead of filling your plate (or take just one bite of four or five different desserts; that way you can try a variety).

4. Remember to make time for you!

In all the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, remember to make time for you. Plan ahead. Don’t let your usual workout plan fall by the wayside. Cooking and shopping can feel like a workout, so making time for a quick 15 minutes of exercise at home before going to bed can be beneficial. Do what works for you. Regular physical activity is not only good for your physical and mental health, but it will leave you feeling more alert and awake throughout each day.

CHOOSE

INSTEAD OF

Skim milk, fat-free milk or unsweetened almond milk

Whole milk

Fat-free sour cream

Regular sour cream

Whole-grain rolls

White rolls

Fresh or frozen fruits and vegetables

Fruits and vegetables canned with heavy syrup or added sugars

Whole-wheat flour

White flour

Low-sodium canned soups and broths

Regular canned soups and broths

Olive oil or canola oil

Vegetable oil

Nuts, dried fruits, cocoa powder or dark chocolate

Milk chocolate or white chocolate

Fruit preserves

Frosting

Sweet potatoes

White potatoes

Frozen yogurt with berries

Slice of pie or slice of cake with ice cream

Baked or grilled chicken, turkey or fish

Fried/breaded chicken, turkey or fish

Lean meats (fish, turkey, chicken, etc.)

Fatty meats (sausage, bacon, ham, T-bone steak, etc.)

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healthy you HEALTHIER AVOCADO BROWNIES INGREDIENTS:

• 1 large avocado • 2 eggs • 2 tsp. vanilla • 2 Tbsp. water • 1 3.5-oz. bar dark chocolate • ¼ cup sugar • ½ tsp. salt • 1 cup cocoa powder • ½ tsp. baking soda DIRECTIONS:

1. Preheat oven to 355° 2. Grease/line an 8-inch square pan.

3. In a food processor or mixer, blend the avocado, eggs, vanilla and water until smooth.

4. Melt the dark chocolate and add to the avocado mix.

Here is one example of how making small changes can yield a healthier recipe. Typical brownie recipes yielding nine -10 servings include ingredients like vegetable oil, butter, sugar (1 cup or more in most recipes!), salt and flour, not to mention a separate ingredient list for the frosting.

These brownies are a delicious alternative to the norm. For an extra treat spread a little bit of peanut butter over the top as they cool.

5. Add in the cocoa, sugar, baking soda and salt and mix until combined.

6. If the mixture is too thick, add 1 Tbsp. water at a time until consistency is as desired.

7. Smooth the mixture into pan, spreading out to all of the edges.

8. Bake for 22-25 minutes until cooked through and a fork inserted removes clean.

9. Leave to cool, chill in fridge or serve warm. Enjoy!

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beauty

“Falling” in Love with Beauty Text & Photography by Matt Gossett

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As summer says goodbye and fall reveals itself, it’s time to transition into cooler weather products. Here are a few essentials that are must-haves for the fall season.

Ole Henriksen Truth Serum Vitamin C Collagen Booster: Brighten and nourish this fall with this vitamin C serum. With sodium hyaluronate and green tea it brightens and fights fine lines.

Beauty Counter Mimosa Hand Cream: They knew exactly what they were doing with this hand cream! Packed with shea butter and vitamin E, it also has a light citrus scent. Moisturizes without leaving hands sticky.

Phyto Phytojoba Mask: After a summer full of sun and pool fun repair hair with this moisturizing mask. Jojoba oil moisturizes hair while sweet orange oil revitalizes tresses, increasing softness and shine.

Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation: Creates a radiant complexion for the colder months ahead when skin tends to lose its luster. Provides a buildable coverage from sheer to medium.

Plum-hued lipsticks to fall for: Fall is the time of year to play up your pout.

Deep plums and jewel-toned purples are perfect choices for the season. Some of my favorites are Rouge Dior by Dior in Daisy Plum, Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick in Violet Frenzy and Bobbi Brown Luxe Lip Color in Plum Brandy.

Dr. Teal’s Body and Bath Oil: Give dry winter skin the boot with a bath and body oil. Pour a capful or two of the lavender one in a warm bath and drift away after a cold day at work. Can even be used outside of the bath as a daily body oil. I love how it doesn't leave a slick residue and seals in moisture.

Bobbi Brown Soothing Cleansing Oil: Even though I have oily skin I love to have a cleansing oil on hand for winter.

When the weather is cold and skin tends to get dry and chapped and this is a nice alternative to a facial cleanser. It’s also great at helping to melt makeup off after you do a pre-cleanse.

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Audrey Taylor Gonzalez INTERVIEW BY LESLEY HARRIS COLVETT PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOHN TERRY, FOREST HILL PHOTOGRAPHY

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emphian Audrey Taylor Gonzalez is a true inspiration and modern-day Renaissance woman. A seasoned traveler and award-winning journalist, she has dedicated her life to helping disadvantaged youth in Memphis.

Gonzalez has embarked on many worldwide adventures, including tracking a tiger from the back of an elephant in Chitwan National Park in Nepal, to spending a day as a volunteer in the Hospital for Destitute and Dying founded by Mother Teresa in Calcutta. She received many awards for her outstanding work, which was acknowledged by Mother Teresa in a personal letter.

Gonzalez’s most recent book, South of Everything, is inspired by her life. At Home Memphis & Mid South recently chatted with the author about the novel, her life and her passion for helping others.

At Home Memphis & Mid South: Congratulations on your new novel South of Everything. Tell us a little about it.

Audrey Taylor Gonzalez: I began South of Everything in the 1990s when I lived in South America and it took lots of work.

The book world is tough. But my friend Deanie Parker (former Stax recording artist and retired president of the Soulsville Foundation in Memphis), loved it and together we decided to resurrect it and hopefully turn it into a film. The book was written to remember how it used to be in the 40s and 50s in the deep South, and to tell about the wonderful people (African American) who were part of my life and made me who I am today, and who built my faith. Of course, it is a novel.

Though based on truths, it is mostly fiction. Barbecue becomes a religious experience, there is a magical tree where problems

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are solved, there is violence, craziness, romance and unusual horses. It is about racism at that time seen through the eyes of a young girl who just sees things with a different bent. This is part one. There is also a second book to come.

AHMMS: What inspires you to give back?

ATG: I believe those who have the most are the ones chosen to give the most. It’s from the Corinthians, because in the giving, God is glorified. I was just born giving. I don’t know why. Even as a kindergartner, they put me in charge of the Red Cross (that was the only charity we knew of ) and I would weep and weep whenever I saw poor people because, I guess, it was so unfair and I wanted to help.

at home with AHMMS: You have lived and traveled many places around the world, so why do you choose to live in Memphis?

ATG: My roots, my children. And there is so much to do here to improve the lives of the poor, the prisoners, juvenile delinquents, foster-care kids, and all the sadness and poverty in this county is atrocious. I’m also dedicated to our Memphis Police Department, because their lives matter too, and am chaplain at South Main Precinct where I pray for them at roll calls.

AHMMS: What advice would you give Mid Southerners who are interested in giving back and/or getting involved in a charity?

ATG: Just that—get involved. Don’t be afraid. People need people who care. Mostly the male youth, especially juvenile delinquents, in this town are desperate for someone to care about them since so many have never seen or known a father.

Men need to become mentors, to take a few hours a week through some program, and befriend a youngster. It will change your life, and it will certainly change the young man’s life. Kids are violent because that is all they have known. There are so many opportunities: JIFF, SMA, Big Brothers and Big

Sisters, Memphis Athletic Ministries and MARRS. Churches need to go outside their own congregations and help the kids who really are in trouble and need someone to acknowledge that they are human. We must listen to our kids and hear what they are telling us. There is always a truth in what they say, even when it seems they are conning you.

AHMMS: What are some of your hobbies?

ATG: Mostly sports (the Grizzlies and anywhere DeAngelo Williams is playing football), exercise like aerial yoga and gyrotonics, I needlepoint and knit, and try to duplicate the great food I have experienced in my travels.

AHMMS: Where’s your favorite place to travel?

ATG: Uruguay, where I lived 20 years. Bangkok, Beijing, anywhere I can ride elephants or take a challenge.

AHMMS: And your favorite thing to do in Memphis?

ATG: Grizzlies games, Delta Fest, the Riverwalk and (eating) BBQ ribs. But first of all is being with my grandkids.

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T HE S P ECIF ICS A YO U N G C O U P L E SO LVES TH EI R H O U SE- H U N TI NG C R I SI S W I T H A CU STO M- BUI LT H O ME

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or over a year, Leslie Murphy Cetingok and her husband Alper Cetingok had been searching for their perfect house, but they just couldn’t find a place that called out “home.” They knew that something had to give, so as Leslie recalls, “After realizing our tastes were very specific, (our realtor) introduced us to Carson Looney, who would ultimately become our architect.”

After just a few conversations, the couple realized this was how their search would end: with a home custom built by Ken Garland in Memphis. An artist and interior designer by profession, (she owns DesignArt in Memphis) Leslie reflects,

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“Building allowed me to draw from my professional abilities to create the environment that I wanted with my own personal touch in absolutely everything.” And to that end, the Cetingoks’ construction adventure began!

First came size considerations—the house-to-be would have approximately 6,800 square feet, with four bedrooms, five full baths, two powder rooms and a layout that was “functional and lives well,” thanks to Looney’s expert guidance.

Next, the mood of the home had to be set. “A light and open feeling, an update on traditional European style” was the

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A light and open feeling, an on traditional European style...”

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winner. To that end, the Cetingoks decided on a light marble tile, imported from Alper’s native Turkey, to cover the floors in the main areas of the home. “We feel like it keeps our home literally and figuratively clean,” Leslie enthuses over the selection. Upstairs, in the two offices and the bedrooms, the couple went with a dark stained hardwood to make things “cozy and a bit warmer,” as Leslie explains.

After the flooring came decisions about color. “My husband and I both wanted to get the feeling of an escape—our own little resort right here in Memphis.” In search of that vibe, Leslie tried out 15 different shades of white before making the final selection and pairing it with grays throughout the home.

The lightness and softness of the mix created the vacationlike atmosphere the couple wanted and the “gray seemed to be a neutral that is more modern than the warmer tones that were used so frequently in the past,” Leslie, ever the designer, explains. The right colors, and the right room plans, especially the “dream kitchen” design which Leslie and Karen Kassen of

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Kitchens Unlimited came up with, put the Cetingok house well on its way to the owners’ version of perfection.

With the backdrop squared away, it was time for furnishings, light fixtures and art, the details that gave the house the personal connection Leslie and Alper tirelessly sought after.

In fact, it seems that almost every object in the home has a story and a purpose. Take, for example, the desk in the home office. Begun as a sketch of Leslie’s, Jim Rawlings at Metalaire Louver transformed the piece from an idea to a real-life objet d’art, with the raw character of the finished metal piece playing perfectly against the traditional space in which it was placed.

Conversely, the 18th-century French antique chandelier in the master bedroom, acquired by Leslie with the intent to sell to a client, ended up remaining in place after she fell in love with the juxtaposition of its classic elegance against the more modern elements in the room, such as the acrylic-footed settee and the abstract art.

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And about that art? All of the large pieces in the home are Leslie’s original work. “I spent the better part of two years creating special pieces for the home,” she explains. “I love to focus on color, texture and scale to get the appropriate feeling to finish off the look for a space.”

Given Leslie’s strong presence in the design plan, the couple wanted to make sure Alper’s influence was also reflected in the décor, so they hung three Ottoman lanterns, purchased on a previous trip to his native country, right in the entry gallery.

“We loved bringing a little bit of my husband’s culture into the home in such a prominent way,” Leslie says.

Today, as the Cetingoks prepare to celebrate their one-year anniversary in the house, Leslie looks back fondly on what she admits was an occasionally painstaking process. “There is nothing quite as fulfilling as seeing something you can only imagine and dream about become a reality,” she reflects. “It is a tremendous gift and I would love to do it all over again in the future should the opportunity arise.”

See Sources (p.97) for more information.

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DESIGNING THE

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he dining room — a welcoming gathering spot for family and friends. While beautiful, this is a room that should be used for casual weeknight meals as well as elegant dinner parties. At Home Memphis & Mid South spoke with local designers about their decorating ideas and advice on this most special room in the home.

Jesse Nabers Alston

Designer/Resident Artist at Nabers Interiors At Home Memphis & Mid South: What is the look/ inspiration for this dining room?

Jesse Nabers Alston: This room has a laid-back yet elegant feel to it. I used some rustic and casual elements juxtaposed with more formal, traditional details to create a look that was inspired by the homeowners’ taste preferences.

AHMMS: Tell us about the color tones of this dining room.

JNA: I chose a rich taupe for the walls, which set the palette for the furnishings and décor. Using mainly neutrals such as varying hues of cream, gray and taupe with pops of calming blue, I was able to create the soothing space that the homeowners desired.

AHMMS: What key elements do you believe a beautiful and useful dining room should have?

JNA: Aside from the obvious furnishings such as a dining table and chairs, I strongly believe in functional storage pieces and great lighting. Buffets and sideboards allow for additional serving and decorating surface while also providing storage for dishes and serving pieces. A great pair of lamps provides soft lighting and loads of ambiance.

Designer: Jesse Nabers Alston, Photography: Steve Roberts

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AHMMS: What are your design tips for readers who may want to freshen up their dining room?

JNA: Simply recovering chair seats with an updated fabric and adding host and hostess chairs can breathe new life into an existing dining set. Also, don’t be afraid to try a new and dramatic wall color such as the deep taupe hue that I used in my design. If lighting is too harsh, add a dimmer to the light fixture and interesting buffet lamps at the sideboard.

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Designer: Jesse Nabers Alston, Photography: Steve Roberts

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AHMMS: With the holidays around the corner, any advice on how to make the most of a dining room for seating and serving food?

JNA: Create an interesting tablescape without being too fussy. Using a unique centerpiece that doesn’t take up too much room on the table leaves plenty of space for serving food. The table arrangement in my dining room design creates a lot of visual impact without overwhelming the surface of the table. An accent bar cart can also provide more serving space and can visually fill an otherwise empty corner of the room.

Ami Austin President, Ami Austin Interior Design

At Home Memphis & Mid South: What is the look/inspiration for this dining room?

Ami Austin: We wanted a cohesive, inviting environment that enhanced and united the newly designed living space with the dining space, and felt completely inviting. We used warm, rich colors and textures with a polished, yet comfortable stylishness.

AHMMS: Tell us about the colors of this dining room and the fabric on the chairs.

AA: The colors throughout the living and dining space are gold shades and dusty aqua blue. We chose Lee Jofa fabric, which is elegant yet heavy-duty to stand up to time and use. The rug complements both rooms and doesn’t distract from the fabric.

AHMMS: What key elements do you believe a beautiful and useful dining room should have?

AA: Functionality. In today’s world, it’s hard to usher the family to the dining room. A buffet large enough for food and dishware is always a plus. The host or hostess shouldn’t have to run to the kitchen throughout the meal. Chairs that are not too heavy and awkward to move in and away from the table are important.

Stain-resistant fabrics keep everyone comfortable.

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AHMMS: Any design tips for readers who may want to freshen up their dining room?

AA: New chair fabric achieves a gorgeous new look. Painting chairs with an interesting finish also offers panache.

For glass tabletops, thicker glass and a supportive base are must-haves. A beautiful chandelier dressed with a ceiling medallion creates depth and interest.

AHMMS: With the holidays around the corner, any advice about how to make the most of a dining room for seating and serving food?

AA: For dinner table service, include low-profile fresh flowers. For a buffet table, remove chairs so guests can easily reach the food. Tablecloths are not essential, but beautiful charger plates are perfect touches for seated dinners, or as appetizer serving platters on buffets. Sparkling glasses and silver show thoughtfulness.

AHMMS: The mirrored wall is pretty!

Tell us about that.

AA: I often design dining rooms with the reflections of crystal and candlelight in mind. This adds welcoming elegance and dimension. Thus, the view includes the room and adjoining rooms. In this case, I added a bespoke mirrored wall to create depth. To adorn the mirrored wall, the homeowner’s favorite sconces were electrified and hung in place.

See Sources (p.97) for more information.

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styleMARKETPLACE

With Love Gold Toasting Flutes (Set of 2) Vera Wang Wedgwood, $84.99, Bed, Bath & Beyond

Brandt Buffet $2,421.65, Ethan Allen

Dining Room DÉCOR

FURNITURE AND ACCESSORIES TO DECORATE YOUR DINING ROOM

Black Orchid Cheese Board Michael Aram, $200, Nieman Marcus

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Pumpkin Plate by Etta B Pottery $37 Dinner Plate by Good Earth Pottery $59.50 & Charger $60 by Arte Italica Two Doors Down in Germantown, TN

Natural Jute Placemats - Set Of 4 $25, www.greatusefulstuff.com

Custom Centerpiece with Luminary $384.80, Southern Avenue in Germantown, TN

Tribunali Wooden Panels by Uttermost $899, Something Special Home in Collierville,

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home trends

Keeping Track of

HOME MAINTENANCE Is Easier Than Ever

TEXT BY ROBIN TERRY, WEST TENNESSEE HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION PHOTOS COURTESY OF WEST TENNESSEE HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION

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inally, the leaves are changing, the days are becoming cooler and darkness falls at suppertime. Now that autumn is here, it’s time to look at your home maintenance checklist as you prepare for winter in the Mid South. While owning a home means that you become responsible for a variety of maintenance tasks, today’s technology makes it easier than ever to keep track of those extensive lists.

It’s important for a homeowner to plan, and budget, for home maintenance. According to the website HomeZada, establishing a schedule for home maintenance saves money over costs of early replacement for expensive items like heating and air conditioning systems, roofing and appliances.

HomeZada recommends budgeting one to four percent of the initial house purchase price for maintenance. And while some maintenance projects are best left to professionals, most homeowners can manage routine tasks like replacing filters, paint touch-ups and some yard work. Routine maintenance also pays off: an untended appearance can reduce a home’s

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value by as much as ten percent of its previous appraised value, especially important when you decide to sell the home.

Numerous apps and websites are available for organizing, scheduling and documenting everything about your home, and many of these are free or come at little cost. Doing some online research can help you find the app that’s right for you, or visit the App Store on your iPhone or your Android phone for other suggestions. Another source which provides rankings and reviews for home maintenance apps can be found at Appcrawlr.com.

BrightNest is one example of a free iPhone app that helps organize a schedule home maintenance and cleaning, but also provides practical tips and useful ideas. Consistently rated as four-star by online reviewers, this app is a “top choice” on Appcrawlr.com. It features loads of colorful photos to enhance its bevy of helpful tips and reminders. A free account on BrightNest.com allows you to build a custom calendar for your home, keeping track of maintenance tasks like air filter

changes, and delivers customized tips based on your needs and the unique aspects of your home.

HomeSpotHQ is another free website and app that helps you stay on top of routine maintenance tasks, and also allows you to organize and store information like appliance manuals and part numbers. For remodeling or renovation projects, it helps organize projects with printable “to-do” or shopping lists. The website operates as a control center, saving time for a busy homeowner who’s tired of searching through stacks of papers and files to locate home-related information.

For those of us who want information in short bursts, Demesne.info offers helpful checklists on home maintenance and other matters related to today’s lifestyles. With titles like “10 Essential Fall Tasks,” the site is easy to navigate and chock full of helpful tips. For those who want more in-depth information or reference materials, the Demesne Bookstore (powered by Amazon.com) provides a variety of new and used books on gardening, lifestyles, home trends and decorating.

As mentioned before, HomeZada facilitates another important task every homeowner should complete, making an inventory of your home’s contents.

There is no charge for HomeZada’s “Essentials,” an inventory tool that comes with news and recommendations, but for those who want to organize all information about their home in one cloud-based solution, HomeZada provides additional services like home maintenance, home improvements and home finances in its premium subscription for $5.95 per month, or a yearly fee of $59.

Whether you’ve just purchased your first home or you’re a longtime homeowner, using technology to help maintain and manage a home maintenance schedule is well worth the time and effort. If you find that you need professional help with larger projects or purchases, you can find the right contractor or supplier to meet your needs at the West Tennessee Home Builders website, www.yourhomebuilders.org.

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Cross Handmade in Israel by Ayala Bar $218.95, More Than Words, Germantown, TN www.morethanwords.com

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Custom Flask by Smathers & Branson $65, Dixie Pickers, Memphis & Collierville, TN www.dixiepickersstore.com

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Gift Set (bath bombs, soap and ceramic soap dish) $24.95, Bartlett Soap Co, Bartlett, TN

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The Future Belongs to Students in High Gear $15, Amazon.com

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Sterling Silver Snake Bracelet by William Henry $2,900, Doris McLendon's Fine Jewelry, Germantown, TN www.dorismclendon.com, 901.758.8605

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BluCalpyso Necklace $28, The Shop at The Racquet Club, Memphis, TN, 901.765.4400

Custom Bifold Wallet by Smathers & Branson $115, Dixie Pickers, Memphis & Collierville, TN www.dixiepickersstore.com

Freeze Cooling Wine Glasses by Host $24.95, Bazaar, Collierville, TN www.bazaaroliveoil.com

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Dorothy Art Oil Painting $98, About the South, Tupelo, MS

The Ellett Flannel Pullover $69, Down South, Corinth, MS

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Calligraphy by Lee Ann McGhee $48.95, More Than Words, Germantown, TN www.morethanwords.com

Peter Millar Italian Donegal Henley 100% Merino Wool $245, MLM Clothiers, Tupelo, MS www.mlmclothiers.com

Little Snoopy by Fisher Price Classic Toys $17, Medical Plaza on Harper in Corinth, MS medicalplazaonharper.com

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All Natural Dog Treats by St. Bernard's Biscuits $7.99, Bazaar, Collierville, TN www.bazaaroliveoil.com

Lenny & Eva Handcrafted Collection $16.95 and up, More Than Words, Germantown, TN www.morethanwords.com

Whiskey Freeze Cups by Host $25, The Shop at The Racquet Club, Memphis, TN

Gift Card $100, Baron's Man Cave Grooming Salon, Germantown, TN

Cheerleader Costume for Your Pup $27.95, Three Dog Bakery, Collierville, TN

Music Box Record Player by Fisher Price Classic Toys $40, Medical Plaza on Harper in Corinth, MS

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Hand Formed Clay Structure Raku $125, Caron Gallery Tupelo, MS thecarongallery.com

Dark Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar $12.99, $16.99, $24.99, Bazaar, Collierville, TN www.bazaaroliveoil.com

Man Soap $6, Bartlett Soap Co, Bartlett, TN www.bartlettsoap.com

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Graceland A PLACE FOR CHRISTMAS TRADITIONS TEXT BY RUTHIE HALL | PHOTOS COURTESY OF GRACELAND

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he holiday season is and always has been a special time of year at Graceland. While Elvis was alive, the arrival of the Christmas season heralded the beginning of a fun time. From decorating the house and grounds to Elvis’ annual New Year’s Eve party to his birthday on Jan. 8, winter was a time of anticipation.

This season of fun lives on decades after the king of rock and roll passed away, thanks to Graceland’s hard-working staff. Graceland continues to be a highly popular tourist destination, with approximately 600,000 visitors every year.

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In addition to transforming the estate into a winter wonderland, the staff at Graceland continues Elvis’ tradition of generosity. The Give Like the King Poinsettia Campaign allows fans to support the Elvis Presley Charitable Foundation and add to the beauty of Graceland during the holiday season. Donated poinsettias line the staircase at Graceland and are seen by anyone who tours the house during the Christmas season.

The official 2015 Graceland Christmas event on November 20 at 6 p.m. will kick off the holiday season with the annual Memphis Christmas Lights ceremony at Graceland, and is sure to be a memorable event.

This year the switch will be flipped

by Trisha Yearwood, who is a lifelong Elvis fan. Actor John Stamos, joined by Le Bonheur patients and a police escort, flipped the switch last year, illuminating the lights and officially kicking off the celebration.

Other attractions during the holiday season include the tour of Graceland decorated in holiday cheer, a life-size Nativity scene, Santa and his sleigh, Presley family Christmas artifacts and many more items originally displayed

by Elvis.

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here are as many reasons to visit Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge in winter as there are needles on a pine tree.

Here’s a big one — 6,593 feet to be exact: You can drive around Sevier County on a December morning, wearing only a light jacket and sipping a mug of steaming coffee, and off in the distance you’ll spot a majestic peak, sometimes glistening with high-elevation snowfall. That’s Mount LeConte. It’s not the highest point in the Great Smoky Mountains, or even in Sevier County, but the sight of snow from a relatively warm and cozy spot in the foothills is one to be savored.

Great Smoky Mountains National Park is the most visited national park in the country, with more than 10 million visitors in 2014. Gatlinburg, nestled in the foothills of the park, is less than 20 minutes away. Not everyone who visits the half-million acre national park visits Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, but everyone who visits Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge has a spectacular view of the Smokies. The mountains are certainly part of the draw to Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, but even if you never peek at a peak, there’s plenty to keep you busy in the foothills.

Fifty years ago, the area was bustling three seasons of the year. Come winter though, the restaurants closed and there was little to do. After the 1982 World’s Fair in nearby Knoxville, locals realized that if they built it, people would come.

Now, winter is as busy as the other seasons. The area’s Winterfest starts in early November when the entire county glows with millions of holiday lights.

More than five million light up Pigeon Forge, with Gatlinburg and Dollywood providing even more illumination. Visitors can view the light show through selfguided tours; maps are available at the Pigeon Forge Welcome Center and other locations.

For lights of a different kind, there’s a fireworks show, the largest in the area, at the Titanic Museum on Thanksgiving night. Want even more lights? The Pigeon Forge Fantasy of Lights Christmas Parade is Dec. 4.

Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge are popular destinations for Thanksgiving, says Tom Adkinson of the Pigeon Forge Department of Tourism. The area is easy to reach by interstate and a convenient place to gather for scattered families, so it’s a natural for family get-togethers and reunions, he adds. In addition to hotel rooms, there are many condos and cabins with full kitchens for rent, so lots of folks enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving feast and set out the next day for shopping and November 2015 • athomemms.com | 63

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entertainment. (And if you don’t want to cook your own, many restaurants are open on the holiday.)

Holiday shopping is a big part of the draw to Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge.

In Pigeon Forge, you’ll find shopping outlets galore, including Tanger, Pigeon Forge Factory Outlet Mall and Belz, provide thousands of square feet of retail opportunity. They’re spread out all over town, so having a vehicle is a must.

Gatlinburg has more of a walkable village vibe, with unique specialty stores such as the Old Mill General Store, a working gristmill built in 1830.

Shoppers can pick up cornmeal, rye and wheat flour, grits, and cornmeal and pancake mixes. The general store is part of the Old Mill Square, which contains other specialty shops and restaurants.

Pigeon River Pottery is a popular purveyor of local artisan pieces.

For those who appreciate handcrafted items, Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts in Gatlinburg offers a vast array of works for sale by artists-in-residence in wood, fibers, metals, glass and clay.

It’s open nearly year-round, but closed between Dec. 15 and early January.

When you’re ready to drop after shopping, it may be time for a show, and there are plenty of them in the area, with more than a dozen theaters that put on holiday-themed shows in November and December. Among the most spectacular is the Smoky Mountain Opry Christmas Show at Pigeon Forge Theater, which features singers, acrobats, skaters, angels, reindeer, Santa and a nativity. The show starts Nov. 2 and runs through Jan. 2.

If your idea of winter fun includes a ski slope, head to Ober Gatlinburg.

Starting in mid-December, you can ski and snowboard there. (Call ahead to confirm.) Ober Gatlinburg also has restaurants and shops for the less adventurous.

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WELCOM E TO HAWAI I TEXT BY BARBARA MAY, OWNER OF TRAVEL LEADERS PHOTOGRAPHY COURTESY OF TRAVEL LEADERS Waikiki Beach

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hat is the first thing or place that comes to mind when you think of Hawaii? Is it the volcanoes, Pearl Harbor, the waterfalls, the beautiful sunsets? Or maybe it’s the leis, luaus and hula dance, Diamond Head or King Kamehameha. Perhaps you like watching Hawaii Five-O since it’s actually filmed on Oahu and in the metropolis of Honolulu. Did you know Honolulu is not on the biggest island?

Hawaii is said to have been named for Hawai’iloa from the legendary Polynesian navigator who first discovered it. Other accounts attribute the name to the legendary realm of Hawaii, a place from which the Polynesian people are said to have originated, the place where they go in the afterlife, the realm of the gods and goddesses.

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Hawaii is the 50th and most recent state to join the United States, having achieved statehood on August 21, 1959. Hawaii is the only U.S. state that is entirely an island archipelago. Located in the central Pacific Ocean to the southwest of the continental U.S., southeast of Japan and northeast of Australia, Hawaii is made up of over 100 islands. However, of the eight main islands that make up Hawaii only seven are inhabited.

There are six major islands to visit in Hawaii: Kauai, Oahu, Molokai, Lanai, Maui and Hawaii, also known as the “Big Island.” You’ll find each has its own distinct personality and offers its own adventures, activities and sights. Mark Twain called Hawaii “that peaceful land, that beautiful land... the climate, one long delicious summer day, and the good that die experience no change, for they but fall asleep in one heaven and wake up in another.”

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One of the most common customs used in Hawaii today is the gift of the flower lei. A lei should be offered graciously with a kiss and only removed in private. Its most common purpose is to be presented as a special treat to those arriving by ship or by plane.

Hawaii is like no other place on earth. It is home to one of the most active volcanoes in the United States and the world’s tallest sea mountain. It is also the birthplace of modern surfing and the hula. Hawaii’s most unique feature is its aloha spirit: the warmth of the people that wonderfully complements the islands’ perfect temperatures.

THE “BIG ISLAND" The Big Island is home to three active volcanoes including Kilauea, one of the most active volcanoes in the world.

Hawai'i Volcanoes National Park Punaluu Beach

It’s easy to feel awed on Hawaii Island. From the molten magma flowing from Hawai’i Volcanoes National Park to the snow-capped heights of Maunakea; from the green rainforests of the Hamakua Coast to the jet-black sands of Punaluu Beach; Hawaii Island is an unrivaled expression of the power of nature. Nearly twice as big as all of the other Hawaiian islands combined, its sheer size can be inspiring.

The dramatic scope of the largest Hawaiian island offers so much—extravagant resorts, challenging golf courses, authentic local towns, sacred Hawaiian historical sites and the birthplace of King Kamehameha I. Hawaii’s first missionary church is located in Historic Kailua Village (Kailua-Kona). Just 15 minutes south of Kona International Airport, the village is a lively seaside town in the heart of the sunny Kona Coast. Once a sleepy fishing

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Punchbowl National Cemetery

Pearl Harbor Memorial

Punchbowl National Cemetery

community and a retreat for Hawaiian royalty, Kailua Village is now a destination for affordable accommodations, great shopping, dining and learning about Hawaii’s rich culture.

MOLOKAI Imagine the Hawaii of the past with its unspoiled landscape and untouched beaches. Molokai is just that destination. Only 38 miles long and 10 miles across at its widest point, Molokai is home to the highest sea cliffs in the world along its northeast coast (3,600-3,900 feet) and Hawaii’s longest continuous fringing reef (28 miles). With a high percentage of its population being of Native Hawaiian ancestry, Molokai is a place where Hawaiian culture thrives.

There are no skyscrapers or stoplights. Here you have the opportunity to truly live as the locals do. The people of Molokai continue to preserve their rural lifestyle thanks to

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Moo'ula Falls

their love of the land, or aloha aina, and you can feel this aloha from small town Kaunakakai to the sacred Halawa Valley. In the Halawa Valley is the double-tiered, 250-foot Moo’ula Falls. If you’re considering taking a dip into the pool, drop a ti leaf into the water first. Hawaiian legend says that a giant moo (lizard) lives at the bottom of the pool. If the ti leaf sinks, the moo is in no mood for visitors. If the ti leaf floats, it’s safe to enter. The hike in is moderate, and the only way to explore the area is with a guide. Hawaii’s past comes alive on Molokai.

KAUAI Kauai is sometimes called the “Garden Isle,” which is an entirely accurate description. It is the oldest and northernmost island in the Hawaiian chain and is draped in emerald valleys, sharp mountain spires and jagged cliffs, aged by time and the elements. Centuries of growth have

formed tropical rainforests, forking rivers and cascading waterfalls. Some parts of Kauai are only accessible by sea or air, revealing views beyond imagination.

Along with Kauai’s dramatic beauty, the island is home to a variety of outdoor activities. Kayak the Wailua River. Snorkel on Poipu Beach.

Hike the trails of Kokee State Park.

Even go zip lining above Kauai’s lush valleys. But it is the island’s laid-back atmosphere and rich culture found in its small towns and along its one-lane bridges that make it truly timeless.

Another must-do activity on Kauai is a tour to the North Shore and Princeville, site of the famous blowhole created from a lava tube.

Oahu Also known as “The Gathering Place,” Oahu certainly lives up to its name. The island is home to the majority of Hawaii’s diverse population, a fusion of eastern and western cultures rooted in the values and traditions of the Native Hawaiian people. This is probably the most visited island of them all.

The fundamental contrast between the ancient and the modern makes discovering Oahu so enjoyable. The clear blue waters of Kailua Beach meet the metropolitan cityscapes of Honolulu. The historic architecture of Iolani Palace melds with the timeless memorials of Pearl Harbor. Pearl Harbor is a must see and is one of the most visited tourist attractions in Hawaii. Here you will see the famous Battleship Row, the USS Arizona, the impressive Memorial and the Punchbowl National Cemetery.

The big city of Honolulu meets the small town of Haleiwa on the North Shore. Whether you’re hiking atop iconic Leahi (Diamond Head), enjoying some of Hawaii’s best shopping or simply unwinding on the sands of the island’s beautiful beaches, you’ll find variety at every turn on Oahu. A true Polynesian dinner and luau at the Polynesian Cultural Center on the North Shore is the perfect way to top off a visit to Oahu.

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Koele Golf Course

MAUI Maui is called “The Valley Isle.” Stand above a sea of clouds high atop Haleakala and watch whales breach off the coast of Lahaina. Witness some of the world’s most breathtaking sunsets. Lose count of the waterfalls along the road as you maneuver the hairpin turns of the Hana Highway. The memorable drive includes 54 bridges and numerous waterfalls. Maui’s Halekakala National Park is home to more endangered species than any other park in the National Park Service. You may even spot a Nene (Hawaiian goose) or a blooming ahinahina plant (silversword) on your visit.

Maui is popular with visitors who are looking for sophisticated diversions and amenities in the small towns and airy resorts spread throughout the island. The picturesque landscape includes the scenic slopes of fertile Upcountry Maui and beaches that have repeatedly been voted among the best in the world.

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Hawai'i Volcanoes National Park

LANAI Lanai is the smallest island but it offers big enticements to visitors, not the least of which is the stunning view atop the pine-lined Munro Trail. Acrobatic spinner dolphins delight visitors to romantic Hulopoe Bay, Another highlight of the bay is its large tide pools. Carved out of volcanic rock, the pools are well protected, with water calm enough for exploring. Tide pools are created when rocky shores are covered and then exposed by the fluctuating tide. Small organisms adapt to this changing landscape, and many hermit crabs, sea stars, opihi (limpet) and small fish dwell here.

Lanai is a special place for those seeking serenity, adventure and intimacy. There’s not a single traffic light here and that’s exactly how the people of Lanai like it. Only nine miles from Maui yet a world away, Lanai is a luxurious resort where visitors can indulge in world-class amenities and championship-level golf at the Manele Golf Course and Koele Golf Course.

the Best time to visit hawaii Anytime of year is a good time to visit Hawaii. The average temperature is between 75˚ and 85˚ F. Summer, from April to November is warmer and drier while winter, between December and March, is a bit cooler. Trade winds keep things comfortable year-round.

Whale watching season begins in late December and ends in early May. Peak months are between January and early April. November through February is bigwave surf season on Hawaii’s north shores. the main airport of hawaii Honolulu International Airport (HNL) on Oahu is Hawaii’s major airport, serving as the entry point for most of the state’s visitors. All major domestic carriers and many international airlines serve Oahu. There are also direct flights from the continental U.S. to Maui, Kauai and Hawaii Island.

Whether you want to stay on one island, island hop or take a tour or cruise around the islands, Hawaii should definitely be on your bucket list.

For more information on traveling to Hawaii or anywhere else, contact the travel professionals at Travel Leaders, 901.377.6600, 2765 Wolf Creek Parkway, Ste. 104 (next door to David’s Bridal).

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Debby Williams, Amanda Whittenberg & Michelle Cernak

Laura Vaughn & Gail Milner

Connie Lampen & Linda Dever

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Tiara Tea Society PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRISTINA TRASK

The Ballroom of the University Club in Memphis sparkled for Honey Scheidt as she was inducted as the 12th Grande Dame of the Tiara Tea Society. There was a very elegant silent auction featuring French flair, and a French mime playfully entertained as guests browsed. Guests enjoyed a delicious tea during the program which was emceed by Mearl Purvis of Fox 13 News. Prayer was offered by Rev. Audrey Taylor Gonzalez. Melodie Moore gathered a string ensemble from the Rudi Scheidt School of Music to honor Honey Scheidt with “Clair de Lune.” There was a lovely aside when Laura Vaughn of the Red

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Cross officially bestowed to the Society a silver tea service. It now belongs to the Tiara Tea Society with every Grande Dame and child’s name engraved on it. After Grande Dame Honey’s induction by President Eva Lynn Bishop, Parisian opera star Marie-Stephane Bernard and world-renowned pianist Angelo Rapan entertained with a medley of songs in French. The Society’s 2014-2015 five-year-old girl, Macy Gueldner, sang and danced to the music. Macy was born with Down Syndrome and has acute lymphoblastic leukemia, and has been taking chemo every day for two years. All were honored by a stand-

Sara Chiego, Kristy Rhodes, Melodie Moore, & Kameron Myers from Scheidt School of Music

Patricia Brown, Grande Dame Honey Scheidt & Pat Tigrett

Paula Wyatt & Sandra Schanult

Pianist Angelo Rapan & Opera Star Marie-Stephane Bernard

ing ovation and “Bravo!” Keynote speaker Patricia Brown is a cancer patient in remission and spoke of the many miracles that have blessed her fight against stage 4 malignancy. Her message of hope, strength and joy was a great inspiration. The program ended with little Macy taking the stage and singing at the top of her voice “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine.” She knew the first two verses and everyone sang with her on the final chorus. There was lots of applause mixed with a few tears for such a brave little girl. It was an exquisite moment in the midst of an already beautiful day. Florence Leffler was the member/ host for the special occasion.

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The St. Jude Gold Luncheon TEXT BY LESLEY HARRIS COLVETT

Tara Holder, Jenny Savage & Kendall Maykowski

It was a bright, beautiful sunny day in late September as hundreds of guests enjoyed being at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital’s Domino’s Event Center for the inaugural Gold Luncheon in honor of Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. The lovely luncheon featured a fabulous silent auction and a delicious catered meal. The highlight of the event was keynote speakers who took to the stage to share about their passions for their careers and giving back to the community, inspiring guests to embrace their own passions in life. The speakers included chef and author Jennifer Chandler, stationery designer Natalie Chang, StyleBlueprint sales manager Malise Culpepper, HGTV and DIY Network Star Peyton Lambton and lifestyle and entertainment expert JJ Keras. The luncheon served as a fundraiser to support the lifesaving work of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Snookie Newman,Susan Walker & Linda Coleman

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Dr. Bryan & Amanda Williams, CMDS Headmaster

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A grand celebration was held on September 11 at the historic Annesdale Mansion to kick off Christ Methodist Day School’s Spirit Fund. The event, hosted by CMDS Parents’ Association, provided parents, staff and faculty with a fabulous evening full of dining, dancing, and fellowship. This second annual event was completed with silent and live auctions, which raised over $18,000 for the school’s Arts and Sciences programs. CMDS is a Memphis-based, independent Christian school, with comprehensive early childhood and elementary grade programs, 2K through sixth grade.

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here’s no time better than the holiday season at Germantown Performing Arts Center for its resident music programs, orchestra and partners to present their work to friends, families and the greater community.

Though well-known for the diversity of its musical offerings that range from jazz to pop to folklorico, GPAC is also renowned for its Community Series programs for children and adults alike.

The center’s first offering in the Community Series this holiday season is the Germantown Symphony Orchestra’s Young Artists Concert on Sunday, November 8 at 7 p.m. GSO, GPAC’s resident community orchestra, is a diverse, self-governed, allvolunteer organization that is a microcosm of the community it serves. Marking its 40th anniversary this season, its 15th under the baton of Dr. Ronald Vernon, music director and conductor, the GSO is committed to promoting young artists and serving the community in many ways. Winners of the GSO’s 2015 Concerto Competition will take to the stage on Nov. 8 to perform a movement of a major work with the GSO. Marissa Liu will perform the first movement of Beethoven’s Piano Concerto No. 1 in C Major, Op. 15, Sarah Oh will play the Finale of Carl Reinecke’s Flute Concerto, Op. 283, and Tony Chen will perform Mendelssohn's Capriccio Brillante, Op. 22. The concert will begin with F. J. Herold’s Zampa Overture and conclude with Les Preludes by Franz Liszt.

Next is the GPAC Youth Symphony’s Winter Concert on Sunday, November 22 at 3 p.m. Now in its seventh season, the orchestra is made up of students ranging in age from seven to 18 representing five ensembles. Since 2009, the program has more than doubled in size, toured to China and Europe and was a finalist in the 2012 American Prize Youth Orchestra competition. This season brings two new associate conductors, Maestro Sütterlin (Germany) and Maestro Elmer (Switzerland), 80 | At Home Memphis & Mid South • November 2015

to the program through a partnership with the Rudi E. Scheidt School of Music at the University of Memphis. All ensembles will perform in the Winter Concert that features Dvorák’s Symphony no. 8 in G Major and Beethoven's Egmont Overture.

The holiday season continues with the popular Holiday Concert featuring the GSO and the Germantown Chorus on Saturday, December 12 at 7 p.m. The Germantown Chorus is a non-profit, non-auditioned group of singers from a wide variety of backgrounds who wish to foster their love of singing and share that joy with the greater Memphis area. They do just that in this festive concert of traditional and contemporary sounds in celebration of the holiday season. Gustav Holst’s "Christmas Day" will evoke the atmosphere of an English Christmas, and the music from Home Alone movies will provide a Hollywood flair.

Along with other seasonal favorites, the concert will close with a sing-along.

GPAC’s Community Series holiday season concludes with A Christmas Gift from the Madonna Learning Center Tuesday and Wednesday, December 15-16 at 7 p.m. Each year, the Madonna Learning Center’s Christmas program is a time of excitement, anticipation and joy. From the first scene to the final curtain, families and friends are entertained and enlightened by the pure, heartfelt joy of the students as their spirit shines forth in their performance. Everyone has special gifts to give during the holiday season, and this program is the students’ gift to the community for their continued support.

For ticket purchases and the complete schedule of performances and dates, visit www.GPACweb.com. For additional ticket information, personal assistance and questions, please contact the GPAC box office at 901.751.7500. GPAC is located at 1801 Exeter Road, Germantown.

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nterior designer and event stylist Alexandra Lauren created a festive fall scene amid the corn maze at Donnell Century Farms in Jackson, Tennessee. This rustic tablescape features décor and china in muted green, deep purple and blue to complement light orange and white pumpkins.

in the season, whether it’s a romantic table on your terrace or a picnic to watch one of our beautiful Tennessee sunsets. If you are going to dine indoors, there is absolutely nothing wrong with bringing some elements of the outdoors in!”

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Theme for This Tablescape The inspiration for this table is romance, tradition and fall. Says Lauren, “Fall is the most exquisite season! The colors are a visual symphony. Being abroad for 12 years, I truly missed the beautiful colors and smells that come with the change of seasons. I lavish in every detail of this season. My goal with this table is to inspire people to get outside and drink

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Inspired by the people for whom she designs, Lauren says usually her creative philosophy is to amplify each client’s personal style. This table is very much a representation of Lauren’s personal rustic and romantic style, and reflects the designer’s belief that fall is the perfect time to gather friends and loved ones around a table and give thanks.

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The

inspiration...

romance, TradiTion and fall”

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Host your own “I went pumpkin crazy! I used fantasy pumpkins (a beautiful muted orange), white pumpkins, pastel pumpkins and mini white pumpkins on each place setting. I love the gestures in the stems; this is always what I pay attention to at the patch,” Lauren says. The decor also includes fairy tale pumpkins in a romantic muted orange. The live garland on the table is a mixture of eucalyptus, sweet dumpling mini pumpkins and scabiosa pods placed throughout.

For the centerpiece, the designer chose a grapevine basket filled with antique deep purple and burgundy hydrangeas, and a pumpkin topiary.

Lauren’s passion for interior design has been lifelong. Her mother ran her own interior business out of her home, and Lauren always loved playing with swatches and colors with her in her office. Lauren’s design career started in Hong Kong in 2003 where she was designing dinnerware for Target, The Great Indoors and many other mid-tier retailers and department stores for export to North America, Europe and Australia. This is where her passion for setting a table began.

Lauren started doing interior design when she opened her studio in Hong Kong in 2008.

One of her first projects was redecorating a factory showroom in Shanghai, China.

From there Lauren moved into residential, restaurant and event design. Alexandra Lauren is taking Christmas home decor bookings at 480.622.2828 or by email at AlexandraLauren@me.com.

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symphony”

SOURCES Woven oval chargers available at www.AlexandraLauren.com Metal antiqued urn available at Kelly & Company in Jackson, Tennessee Flatware, made in England, sold in the U.S. by Pottery Barn Napkins available at One King’s Lane Plates are manufactured by Pfaltzgraff, and the pattern is Gazebo Blue The salad plates are an antique collection from Carriage House Antiques in Jackson, Tennessee Dinner plates, designed by Alexandra Lauren, available at the Great Indoors Picnic basket, available at Pottery Barn online The charcuterie board is available at Carriage House Antiques in Jackson, Tennessee The French blue ruffled seat cover is from Alexandra Lauren Design Linens, available at www.AlexandraLauren.com November 2015 • athomemms.com | 87

in the kitchen

A TWIST ON

FALL COMFORT FOOD

TEXT AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY APRIL MCKINNEY

BUTTERNUT SQUASH AND KALE SKILLET SERVES 6

INGREDIENTS:

1 butternut squash, peeled and diced 2 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil 1 tsp. salt, divided ½ tsp. black pepper, divided ¼ tsp. cinnamon 3 slices bacon ½ cup onion, chopped 6 cups kale, chopped and packed 2 Tbsp. lemon juice 2 Tbsp. raisins or dried cranberries DIRECTIONS:

1. Preheat the oven to 425˚.

2. Toss the diced squash with the oil, ½ tsp. salt, ¼ tsp. pepper and cinnamon. Place the coated squash on a baking sheet and bake for 20-25 minutes, tossing halfway through, until tender and golden.

3. Meanwhile, cook the bacon in a large skillet and reserve about 2 tsp. of the grease in the skillet. Add the onion to the skillet and cook for about 5-6 minutes, just until softened.

4. Add the kale, ½ tsp, salt, ¼ tsp. pepper and lemon juice to the skillet, and toss until kale begins to wilt.

Then add in the cooked squash and raisins and toss to coat. Serve warm.

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F

or me, November means comfort food.

Buttery aromas and casserole dishes coming out of the oven are what fall is all about. With that in mind, I am sharing two recipes that are full of comfort and might even be a unique addition to your Thanksgiving table.

Easy BakEd CauliflowEr Gratin serves 8-10

INGREDIENTS:

2 heads cauliflower, cut into florets 1 ½ cups half and half 3 Tbsp. all-purpose flour 1 tsp. salt ¾ tsp. black pepper ¼ tsp. nutmeg 1 ½ cups sharp cheddar cheese ¼ cup fresh parmesan cheese 2 Tbsp. butter DIREcTIoNS:

1. Preheat the oven to 375˚.

2. In a large bowl, toss together the cauliflower, half and half, flour, salt, pepper, nutmeg and cheddar cheese.

3. Place the mixture into a large casserole dish. Top with the parmesan cheese and pats of butter.

4. Cover dish with foil and bake for 30 minutes. Remove the covering and bake for another 15 minutes, until slightly golden on top. Garnish with fresh parsley if desired.

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dining out

STAKS

PANCAKE KITCHEN A NEW TWIST ON BREAKFAST & LUNCH TEXT BY RUTHIE HALL | PHOTOS COURTESY OF STAKS

T

he newest restaurant on the block started with a vision of a delicious stack of pancakes. When creating the menu, Staks Pancake Kitchen’s owners, Stephanie and Brice Bailey and Tressa and Bill Ogles, would throw out ideas and determine whether those ideas matched that vision.

The owners wanted Staks to be in a position to serve a multitude of people so they added a lunch menu, and they’re currently working on Grab-n-Go selections for those who want to pop in on the way to school or work.

Lead chef Zach Ogles has created a diverse menu with seasonal favorites including pumpkin pancakes and lattes as well as year-round crowd pleasers like the Cinnamon Roll Stak and Gouda Grits.

With its community tables, some of which have buildin griddles to allow diners to do their own cooking, Staks is not the traditional pancake house. The atmosphere is unique and modern, and the service is prompt, friendly and attentive. The restaurant’s open design provides diners a great view of the kitchen as their food is being prepared.

Staff baristas brew a broad selection of coffees.

Another unique aspect of Staks is their no-tipping policy. According to the owners, the restaurant pays employees well and wants the staff to feel valued. They understand that happy, engaged employees lead to high levels of customer service.

Located at 4615 Poplar Ave., Staks is open from 6:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. daily.

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happy hour

Brandy Milk Punch Recipe couRtesy of owen BRennan’s

Along with the Bloody MAry, this creamy cocktail is a New Orleans brunch mainstay. It features an aromatic cognac named for the French emperor Napoleon Bonaparte that’s aged at least five years.

Makes one cocktail INGREDIENTS: 2 oz. Napoleon brandy 2 oz. half and half 2 oz. heavy cream Splash of Bailey’s Irish Cream 1 oz. simple syrup ¼ oz. vanilla extract 1 Tbsp. confectioner’s sugar

DIREcTIoNS: 1. Put ingredients in a cocktail shaker filled with ice and shake vigorously.

2. Pour into a chilled old-fashioned glass and garnish with a strawberry and basil.

3. Sprinkle with nutmeg and enjoy.

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sources 18 | HealtHy you Special thanks to – Kristi Edwards, MS, RDN, LDN, CLC

22 | Beauty Matt Gossett, About Face Artistry on Facebook, aboutface_87 on Instagram

26 | at HoMe WItH Special thanks to – Audrey Taylor Gonzalez audreytaylorgonzalez.com

30 | HoMe Special thanks to – homeowners Leslie & Alper Cetingok Architect: Carson Looney - Looney Ricks Kiss Builder: Ken Garland Co. Inc Bath fixtures: Various sources - Zack Street Plumbing for install Kitchen & Appliances: Karen Kassen / Kitchens Unlimited Lighting: Various sources, Graham's and own trade sources Doors and Windows: Gates Lumber Flooring: hard woods, Cordova Floors; marble and travertine, Stoneman; installation of tile, Memphis Tile and Marble Interior Design: Leslie Cetingok, www.designartllc.com Furnishings: Leslie Cetingok, www.designartllc.com Home Technology: AVA - Audio Visual Artistry Landscape: Joe Baacsh Landscape Architect, Good Winds Landscaping installation

40 | DeSIGN amiaustininteriors.com nabersinteriors.com

48 | HoMe tReNDS Special thanks to – Robin Terry, West Tennessee Home Builders Association

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82 | eNteRtaINING Special thanks to – Alexandra Lauren, AlexandraLauren.com Darren Lykes, Photographer Special thanks to – Donnell Century Farms, Jackson, TN

92 | DINING out stakspancakes.com

94 | HaPPy HouR brennansmemphis.com

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on a good note

Example of veterans home already built in Alabama

The FuTure oF MeMphiS’ VeTeranS:

the West tennessee Veterans’ home TexT by Morgan PruiTT | PhoTos courTesy of The wesT Tennessee VeTerans' hoMe

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erving and assisting active-duty and retired military members is something that should be dear to Americans. United States military veterans are treated with dignity and respect in veterans’ facilities across the country; however, none of the three veterans’ homes in Tennessee is in the Memphis area. That will change in 2017, when the West Tennessee Veterans' Home will be constructed. This new facility will meet the needs of former military service members residing in Shelby, Tipton and Fayette counties.

“The WTVH, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) non-profit corporation founded for the purpose of obtaining the local resources needed to build a state veterans’ home to serve the nearly 70,000 veterans in our area,” Holly Swogger, president of the WTVH, says. While the federal government will provide 65 percent of the approximately $72 million needed to construct the 144-bed facility, the other 35 percent has to be obtained either publicly or privately. This does not include the cost of the land on which the home will be built in Arlington.

The veterans home will strive to provide the highest quality of care and life to the veterans who will be associated

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with the facility and to meet the individual needs of each resident to the greatest extent possible. The home will provide a range of services include nursing, rehabilitation, hospice, respite, restorative care, dementia care, spinal cord injury care, PTSD treatment and post-hospital treatment. Family members will be able to visit veterans being treated at the center easily without the hassle of having to travel over 100 miles to the nearest veterans’ facility.

To raise funds the WTVH recently launched Project 100, hoping to provide everyone living in the tri-county area an opportunity to help support this project by joining together and raising $100 for every veteran in their midst. The organization’s pre-construction fundraising goal is $25 million.

This Veterans Day, pledge your support to the WTVH’s mission to change veterans’ lives. Participate in Project 100 and help the organization achieve their goal of constructing a beautiful and highly functional veterans’ home in West Tennessee.

For more information on the WTVH visit their website, www.veterans-home.com, or visit their Facebook page at www. facebook.com/WestTNVeteransHome.