May 2025 by At Home Memphis & Mid South

26 | HOME FEATURE

Designer Kim Loudenbeck and builder Ken Garland create a traditional, effortless masterpiece for this year’s Vesta Home Show.

55 | 2025 VESTA HOME SHOW PREVIEW

A first look at the six inspiring homes for this year's Vesta Home Show.

MAY 2025 • VOL. 24 NO. 2

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Welcome to the busy month of May! This month, in particular, is one of the most event-filled of the year. Besides the numerous festivals and outdoor music events, we celebrate our moms and graduates. Some of us will be planning summer vacations or packing kids for camp. Speaking of camps, it seems like yesterday I was packing my children up for camps and Vacation Bible School. This summer, two of my grandchildren will be attending their first day camp and VBS! Those were great days and the time is going so fast. I do not miss packing my kids for college and getting them all moved in. That was torture. For those of you who are new to that phase, prayers for you!

A MUST fit into your hectic May schedule is a visit to the Spring VESTA Home Show! This event is always a treat and the West Tennessee Homebuilders Association has truly taken it to another level. Not only can you tour six magnificent homes, planned, built and designed by the Mid South’s finest, you can also enjoy several fantastic ticketed events. This year’s Spring VESTA is not to be missed. Maybe the best news is that there will be a VESTA encore in 2025— a Holiday show coming this November!

We love and celebrate our moms, graduates, and moms of graduates this May!

- Margaret Monger, PUBLISHER

ELEGANT

STORY BY TERRI GLAZER | PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANNABELLA CHARLES

BUILT BY KEN GARLAND CUSTOM HOMES | DESIGN BY WAREHOUSE 67

"Wewanted to create a home that would be perfect for someone who really appreciates traditional elements, but craves a space that feels effortless and has an enduring style.” Designer Kim Loudenbeck sums up the goal of her collaboration with builder Ken Garland for this year’s Vesta Home Show.

Located in the new Wilder at Forest Hill development in Germantown, the home dubbed “the Stallion” was conceived by architect Ed Yendrick of Classic Home Designs. Garland previously built the floorplan for his personal home and loved it so much he wanted to share the design with the public.

Rather than labeling the project with a specific style, Loudenbeck says it merges several aesthetics. “It’s a blend between

timeless traditional, English charm and fresh, tailored attention to detail,” says the owner of Warehouse 67. The result is a home with a sophisticated, yet comfortable, lived-in vibe. “I always want people to walk into their space and feel comfortable, like it’s their sanctuary, their refuge and their space that just feels right,” she explains.

The nod to Old World style begins on the exterior, where Garland employed both stone and painted brick treatments. Says Loudenbeck, “The mixed materials immediately let you know you’re going to see play with textures and patterns throughout the home. It’s that stately look that you’d expect in an English home, but updated. The color palette, both outside and in, is cohesive; neutral and muted to create an elevated feel.”

Today's home buyers appreciate fine craftsmanship, she adds, and this home represents artisanlevel handiwork and exemplary attention to detail. Nowhere is this more evident than in the expansive entryway, where impressive elements are visible from floor to ceiling. Installers hand cut tiles to form the unique basketweave pattern on the floor. Geometric pattern play continues up the walls in windowpane millwork. The custom railing up the staircase exemplifies simple elegance. Loudenbeck says it represents balance. “You want to show the beauty of the structure, but not overdo it.” Overhead, a graceful, tripletiered chandelier adds another classic touch.

“The dining room was the launching point for the whole home,” says the designer. Taking into consideration the grandeur of the space, she chose a saturated paint hue to create an inviting and intimate feel. Exposed white oak ceiling beams add to the cozy ambiance, while antique mirror panes lining a niche provide an understated elan. Color and pattern come by way of drapes tailored in Fairbanks fabric from Thibaut. A reproduction of a 1926 original, the textile checks the boxes of three design elements currently trending: color, florals and chinoiserie. Twin beaded chandeliers provide texture and symmetry, scaled perfectly to fill the space above the massive dining table.

Garland continued the focus on diverse textures in the living room, reprising exposed beams, this time painted crisp white and placed on a tongue-and-groove vaulted ceiling. Loudenbeck raves about these and a myriad of other architectural details throughout the space. “This home itself was absolutely stunning even before we put any furnishings in it.” From the angles of the ceiling to the wall of windows to the grand fireplace covered in the same stone used on the home’s exterior, so many pieces work together to create a beautiful environment in the living room.

The furnishings speak to the aura of casual elegance. A hand-knotted rug in traditional Oushak pattern establishes a traditional English feel. Its muted palette sets the tone for upholstered pieces in moody-colored velvets and other rich fabrics. A scallop-shaped chandelier wrapped in rattan brings a hint of the casual and introduces another natural element.

Theliving room opens to the kitchen, where Loudenbeck took the reins to fully customize the layout. She partnered with kitchen specialist Meagan Millican to define the essence of the space and discover ways to push the design envelope while maintaining timeless beauty. “We started with what I call the hearth,” says Loudenbeck, referring to the wide vent hood area above the range. Its graceful arched construction calls to mind classic Tudor architecture. More of the detailed millwork found in the foyer graces the cabinetry, while durable Dekton countertops add the warm, earthy feel of travertine.

The star of the kitchen show, however, is the dining vignette in front of the island, complete with an upholstered banquette that runs the full length. “I love reimagining spaces,” admits the designer. “The kitchen was so expansive we were able to situate the eat-in area in front of the island. Because of that, we could repurpose the area meant as the breakfast nook into a lounge/bar area that is cozy and functional.'

Loudenbeck color drenched the lounge’s cabinets, walls and trim in a moody sage hue to create intimacy. Full-length windows allow views of the stunning screen porch and pool areas that lie just outside.

Honed

marble flooring extends beyond the outdoor room to the hardscaping of the pool surround for a modern and clean effect that blends seamlessly with both the turf and the natural elements of this outdoor retreat. “The landscaping is so perfect. Looking out at it through the expansive windows on the back of the home gives you the feel of being at an oasis or a resort,” Loudenbeck says.

“Ken thought of everything!” she adds, noting the half bath Garland included next to the outdoor kitchen. “He was intentional about the details and quality of construction in every part of the home, thinking through everything that anyone could possibly want and making it happen.”

Even more utilitarian areas like the scullery, pantry and laundry room received the master’s touch from builder, designer and craftsmen. In each space practicality combines with beauty and extra detail. Case in point is the “landing spot” in the laundry area. Where there could have been a nondescript cubby, the trim carpenter created a built-in oak deacon’s bench with a decidedly English flair.

The beautiful vaulted hip ceiling returns in the downstairs primary bedroom, drawing the eye up. “What else could we do here but a fabulous chandelier?” asks Loudenbeck, referring to the stunning beaded quatrefoil fixture. Color comes from the lamps, drapes and custom button-tufted headboard that up the mostly neutral palette’s airy feel.

The attached bath is a study in details, including a double shower with all the bells and whistles behind a wall of glass, and custom-built stained vanities with reeded treatment. The piece de resistance, though, covers the entire wall behind the freestanding soaking tub—an opulent marble mosaic of vines and magnolia blossoms with gold accents. Loudenbeck says the feature became a symbol of the synergy she and Garland shared in their collaboration. “His appreciation for my attention to detail and my appreciation for his craftsmanship and willingness to be as thoughtful as I was have been the best part of this project.”

The pair put the same effort into the home’s three other bedroom suites, starting with the downstairs guest retreat. “We wanted to keep the space neutral, but it needed to have its own character and unique style,” says Loudenbeck. The cherry blossom wallpaper mural caught her eye some time ago, and she kept it in mind, waiting for the perfect room in which to place it.

Aprime example of the juxtaposition between clean-lined modern and traditional elements that are woven throughout the home, the feature wall sets the tone for the suite. The pendant light fixture’s linen covering and geometric angles create a subtle nod to the Eastern feel. The en suite bath features the custom cabinetry and elevated tile treatments found throughout the home.

“Upstairs has the feel of downstairs, but a little more casual and relaxed,” says the designer. At the top of the staircase, a large multipurpose room is ready for fun. Whether the family wants to view a favorite movie, play a game of billiards or host a kids’ sleepover, this space will deliver beautifully. Loudenbeck’s furnishing choices are luxe yet practical. A huge velvet sectional in saturated gray, plus a pair of swivel chairs ensure there’s a spot for the whole crowd to watch the big game. To the side, a dedicated bunk room can sleep four friends comfortably. Whimsical brass animal wall mounts add an eclectic touch.

Keeping in mind that Vesta attendees often come to the show hoping to discover trends and ideas they can use in their own homes, Loudenbeck and her team staged one of the two secondfloor bedrooms with a more feminine mood and the other with masculinity in mind. The girl’s room is a tribute to “grandmillenial” style, with a hand-knotted rug, a gallery wall of vintage art and an eye-catching upholstered bed in orchid velvet. Above it all, a goldtoned chandelier sits like an ethereal crown of butterflies and leaves. Even the fixtures in the attached bath exhibit delicate touches like graceful curves and subtle flower accents.

Large enough to serve as a second master, the other upstairs bedroom features a more earthy feel. “The terracotta of these slipcovered beds was the launching point for this palette,” says Loudenbeck. She merged in blues and neutrals from the home’s overall design scheme, along with rugged woods and a unique cowhide-covered dresser. The antiqued glass on the overhead light fixture reiterates the motif found on the first floor. Stained cabinetry and a handsome marble mosaic shower floor make the adjacent bath anything but cookie-cutter.

Those exceptional details, along with countless others throughout the house, are the result of much thought and collaboration between like-minded professionals who sought to create a unique, elevated home that would function for today’s living while paying homage to time-honored beauty and classic elegance.

WELCOME TO PORTUGAL

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COURTESY OF BARBARA MAY, OWNER OF TRAVEL LEADERS

From its spectacular stretches of scenic coastline to the sweeping valley vistas throughout the inland, Portugal’s panorama of colorful landscapes has solidified it amongst Europe’s top tier of incredible locales. Full of picturesque beaches, historic architecture inspired by a myriad of cultural influences, and some of the world’s top vineyards, you can experience all the essence of Europe within an extremely intimate atmosphere. Bursting with charm around every corner, the lively cities and quaint towns throughout the country are full of welcoming people and warm hospitality, creating Portugal’s irresistible soul. The most popular places to visit in Portugal include: Lisbon, Sintra, Algarve, Porto and the Douro Valley.

LISBON , the dynamic capital of Portugal, is a city that seamlessly marries history and modernity. Through centuries of changes and expansion the city has developed its own unique culture and panache. Known for its charming neighborhoods like Alfama and Bairro Alto, Lisbon captivates visitors with its vibrant street life and rich cultural heritage. Wander through its cobblestone streets and encounter landmarks like the majestic Jerónimos Monastery and the iconic Belém Tower. Take a river cruise on the Tagus to fully appreciate the variety of landscapes and monuments.

Food enthusiasts can indulge in delectable Portuguese cuisine at the bustling Time Out Market or savor the famous Pastéis de Belém, a delicious custard tart. Art lovers will find a treasure trove of exhibitions in places like the Calouste Gulbenkian Museum and the MAAT. The city’s nightlife is electric, with Fado music resonating from local taverns and a myriad of bars and clubs for every taste.

Accessible by its famous yellow trams, Lisbon is also perfectly situated for scenic day trips to places like Sintra or the beautiful beaches of Cascais, making it an irresistible destination for travelers seeking a mix of adventure, relaxation and cultural enrichment.

Lisbon

Just a 30-minute drive from Lisbon is SINTRA , a picturesque town nestled in the foothills of the Sintra Mountains and renowned for its fairytale-like ambiance, rich cultural heritage, stunning landscapes and architectural wonders. The vibrant Pena Palace, with its technicolor facades and lush gardens, draws visitors yearround. Nearby is the mysterious Quinta da Regaleira estate, known for its hidden tunnels and ornate architecture. Sintra’s hilltop Moorish Castle provides spectacular views and a window into medieval times.

Nature lovers are drawn to Sintra’s breathtaking landscapes, particularly the Sintra-Cascais Natural Park. It is a sanctuary for lush mountains and craggy cliffs with picturesque walking trails.

Built as a retreat for writers, Monserrate Palace and Gardens’ botanical diversity and stunning architecture continue to bewitch visitors today. The Sintra National Palace, with its distinctive chimneys and rich tile collection, is a must-see for art lovers. Such a unique blend of natural beauty and cultural splendor makes Sintra an irresistible escape, perfect for a magical day trip from Lisbon.

When in Sintra, be sure and sample the local pastries like travesseiros and queijadas, best enjoyed at quaint cafes such as the iconic Piriquita.

In the southernmost region of Portugal, the ALGARVE lies about 170 miles from Lisbon. The travel distance and time can vary depending on the mode of transportation; the easiest way to get there is by train. The region is renowned for its picturesque coastline, dotted with stunning beaches such as Praia da Marinha, Praia da Rocha and Praia da Dona Ana. The Algarve's Mediterranean climate gives the area long summers and mild winters, making it an ideal yearround destination for sun seekers. It’s also a haven for outdoor adventure enthusiasts, offering surfing, kayaking and hiking opportunities in places like Ria Formosa Natural Park. The region is dotted with charming towns and villages such as Lagos, Tavira and Silves, each showcasing cobblestone streets and historic architecture. Golfers will find paradise here with over 30 world-class courses set against stunning backdrops.

Water parks, zoos and family-friendly resorts make Algarve an excellent choice for family vacations. With a unique blend of natural beauty, adventure and cultural richness, Algarve offers something for every traveler, whether lounging on a beach, indulging in local cuisine or exploring scenic landscapes.

The northern region of the country produces the wines for which Portugal is famous. The breathtaking hillsides and vineyards of the Douro Valley have been the source of the country’s finest varietals since the beginnings of its wine trade, and its UNESCO World Heritage designation makes it even more of a must-visit destination for any true wine lover.

PORTO is approximately 194 miles north of Lisbon. The travel time by car or train is typically around 2.5 to 3 hours. This second largest city in Portugal is located along the hills overlooking Spain’s Douro River estuary. The city dates to the Roman occupation in the fourth century and is designated a UNESCO World Heritage Site.

Lagos Algarve

Travelers are captivated by Porto’s charming Ribeira District, where narrow cobblestone streets are lined with colorful buildings and lively cafes. The iconic Dom Luís I Bridge offers spectacular views over the river, connecting Porto to Vila Nova de Gaia. Architectural marvels abound, from the ornate Clerigos Tower to the stunning azulejos adorning São Bento Railway Station, one of the most beautiful train stations in the world.

Porto is famed as the birthplace of port wine, and no visit is complete without a tour of the port cellars in Vila Nova de Gaia. Here visitors can learn about wine production and indulge in tastings. The city’s culinary scene is vibrant, offering everything from traditional Portuguese dishes to contemporary cuisine. Must-try experiences include savoring Francesinha, a hearty sandwich, and enjoying fresh seafood at riverside restaurants.

Porto also boasts a dynamic arts scene, with attractions like the Serralves Museum of Contemporary Art and the Casa da Música concert hall. Literature enthusiasts will appreciate a visit to the Livraria Lello, often cited as one of the world’s most beautiful bookstores.

The Douro Valley is known for its terraced vineyards and wine production and is located east of Porto. It takes about 1.5 to 2 hours to drive or take a train from Porto.

The Douro Valley is famed for its striking terraced vineyards that cascade down hillsides alongside the meandering Douro River. The picturesque landscape is especially captivating during the harvest season, when the vineyards are lush and vibrant. Travelers often take scenic river cruises to experience the valley’s beauty from the water. The region has several small family-run wineries and guesthouses that can offer a personal touch, allowing visitors to connect with the local culture and people, making every visit memorable.

As one of the world’s oldest wine regions, the Douro Valley is synonymous with wine production, especially the famous port wine. Visitors can tour historic wine estates, enjoy wine tastings and learn about the traditional winemaking processes. Alongside exceptional wines, the local cuisine offers hearty, traditional dishes that reflect the region’s rich culinary heritage. This area is also recognized as a UNESCO World Heritage Site, highlighting its cultural significance and unique landscape shaped by centuries of viticulture.

Beyond wine and scenery, the valley offers plenty of opportunities for outdoor adventure. Hiking and cycling through vineyard trails provide an active way to explore the stunning terrain. For those who prefer a leisurely pace, boat trips and train journeys through the region offer relaxing experiences with beautiful views.

Azulejos, exquisite ceramic tiles, richly embellish Portugal’s landscapes. These tiles date back to the 15th century, and are more than just stunning decorative art; they tell stories etched in ceramic. Their beautiful blend of intricate patterns and vivid imagery portrays Portugal’s historical narratives, religious tales and everyday life. Whether arrayed across a church façade or lining the walls of a historic train station such as Lisbon’s São Bento, these tiles are a walking canvas of the country’s identity and cultural heritage. With each tile, a piece of Portugal’s past comes to life, offering a glimpse into its storied journey through time.

Numerous shops throughout Portugal, especially in cities like Lisbon and Porto, sell handcrafted azulejos. These

Duoro Valley Winery Tour Azulejos Tiles

shops often offer unique designs that reflect traditional patterns and modern interpretations. Local craft centers offer workshops where participants can create their own tile, making for a very personal souvenir.

FESTIVALS IN PORTUGAL

Portugal brims with cultural traditions and vibrant festivals that reflect its diverse heritage. Carnival, celebrated in February or March, dazzles in cities like Lisbon and Loulé with parades and costumes. Easter’s significance shines in Braga’s Semana Santa processions. June sees lively celebrations like the Festas de São João in Porto and Santo António in Lisbon, featuring music, dancing and grilled sardines. In August, the Festival do Sudoeste in Zambujeira do Mar is a summer highlight for music lovers. Madeira’s Festa das Flores in spring showcases floral beauty, while September’s Avante! Festival near Lisbon combines music, dance and politics. The biannual Boom Festival near Idanha-a-Nova draws an international crowd with psychedelic music and sustainable themes. These events offer travelers a vibrant taste of Portugal’s rich culture and traditions.

BEST TIMES TO TRAVEL TO PORTUGAL

Spring (March to May): This is one of the best times to visit Portugal, as the weather is pleasantly mild, flowers are in bloom, and visitors can enjoy the colorful scenery without the peak tourist crowds. It’s ideal for sightseeing and exploring outdoor attractions.

Fall (September to November): Similar to spring, fall offers comfortable temperatures and smaller crowds. The harvest season is a great time to visit the Douro Valley and enjoy wine festivals and tastings.

Winter (December to February):

While the weather is cooler and wetter, especially in the north, winter is generally mild compared to other European countries. It’s a good time to explore indoor attractions and enjoy the festive atmosphere, especially in cities like Lisbon and Porto.

TRAVEL TIPS:

Transportation: Portugal has an efficient network of trains and buses that connect major cities and regions. Renting a car is a great option if you wish to explore rural areas or the scenic landscapes of the Douro Valley and Algarve.

Flights: Visitors to Portugal usually fly in and out of Lisbon or Porto.

Language: Portuguese is the official language, but English is widely spoken in tourist areas. Learning a few basic Portuguese phrases can enhance the travel experience.

Cuisine: Don’t miss trying local specialties like pastéis de nata (custard tarts), bacalhau (salt cod) and port wine. Dining at local markets and tasquinhas (small taverns) offers an authentic culinary experience.

Cultural Etiquette: Portuguese people are known for their hospitality. It’s customary to greet friends with a handshake or a kiss on both cheeks. Tipping around 5-10% in restaurants is appreciated but not obligatory.

Packing: Bring comfortable walking shoes for exploring cobblestone streets and a light jacket or sweater for cooler evenings, even in summer. Sunscreen and a hat are essential for sunny days.

Jeronimos Monastery

Praia da Marinha

A journey through Portugal, from the vibrant streets of Lisbon to the enchanting landscapes of the Douro Valley and the sun-kissed shores of the Algarve, will uncover a country steeped in history, culture and breathtaking beauty. Each region offers a unique tapestry of experiences: Lisbon dazzles with its historic charm and modern vibrancy, Sintra enchants with its fairytale palaces, and Porto invites exploration with its rich traditions and riverside allure. Meanwhile, the Douro Valley captivates with its terraced vineyards and renowned wines, while the Algarve beckons with golden beaches and outdoor adventures.

Portugal’s warm hospitality, delectable cuisine and lively festivals welcome travelers seeking both relaxation and adventure. Whether sampling local delicacies, exploring scenic landscapes or immersing in cultural heritage, Portugal promises an unforgettable journey. Memories of Portugal’s vibrant cities, gracious people and stunning vistas will linger, inviting you to return and discover even more of this captivating country.

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Step inside and experience the Stallion, a home that redefines modern classic living and a visionary collaboration between seasoned professionals architect Ed Yendrek of Classic Home Designs, builder Ken Garland of Ken Garland Custom Homes, and designer Kim Loudenbeck of Warehouse 67. This meticulously planned and beautifully executed show home stands as a testament to the power of thoughtful design.

The home welcomes guests into a spacious entry that sets the stage for the harmonious creativity and craftsmanship that await beyond. The inviting foyer is a refreshing modern take on Old World charm. Vast in size but cozy in feel, the dining room balances the entry with cohesive details that enhance the concept of European heritage.

Straight through the entry awaits the elegant main living space with a symmetrically framed view of the outdoor space beyond. Its open concept of grand proportions

includes four designated spaces that flow as one, creating a dream space for entertaining. Light floods the cozy living room, enhancing its elegant features. The gourmet kitchen balances modern amenities with historical design, and includes a scullery and pantry tucked just out of sight.

An oasis awaits in the outdoor living area. The stone fireplace is surrounded by retractable screens for flexibility of use. From cozy gatherings around the fireplace to al fresco dining beside the outdoor grilling nook, this featured space will surely be a favorite.

The primary suite stands superior with vaulted beamed ceilings and a refined bathroom space that embodies both masculine and feminine appeal. Modern function meets timeless luxury with multiple shower fixtures, dual reeded vanities, and a free-standing tub that sits beneath a stunning floor- to- ceiling floral marble mosaic wall.

Three additional bedrooms, each with an en suite bath, provide plenty of space for the growing family. A charming guest room on the lower level is perfect for visiting parents,

The Stallion

3235 CADDIS LANE GERMANTOWN, TN 38139

while the upper level is perfect for children. In the girl’s room, whimsical and eclectic furnishings and decor add layers of personality, while the boy’s room features a pair of queen beds and tailored decor. The large bonus space promises fun ahead with a built-in media center, seating area, billiard table and built-in bunk nook.

The home is a master class in collaborative design, showcasing details and finishes that create a warm, cohesive aesthetic Kim Loudenbeck, Cassy Hunt and the team of Warehouse 67 planned thoughtful interiors that flow from room to room. Designed to stand the test of time, the Stallion is a testament to elegant living and custom craftsmanship at its finest.

ARCHITECT:

CLASSIC HOME DESIGNS

DESIGNER: WAREHOUSE 67

BUILDER: KEN AND WILLIAM GARLAND, KEN GARLAND CUSTOM HOMES

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The Churchill

3247 CADDIS LANE GERMANTOWN, TN 38139

Murphy Custom Homes is proud to present the Churchill, an exceptional showcase of craftsmanship, design and architectural elegance, at this year’s Vesta Home Show. Named in tribute to the strength and timeless character of Winston Churchill himself, the home is the result of a collaboration with architect Ed Yendrek of Classic Home Designs and interior designer Genevieve Hamblen of GNH Designs.

This Modern Tudor residence maximizes every inch of its approximately 6,000 square feet with intentional, livable spaces. From the first step through the robust custom iron doors from Pickle Iron, guests are welcomed into a breathtaking foyer that functions

as an additional living space and a central connector within the home. One side opens to expansive family and living areas, while the other leads to private retreats including bedrooms, a home office with a custom pivot iron door, and a dedicated gym on the main floor.

Flooded with natural light from floorto-ceiling Pella windows, the Churchill is designed to capture stunning sightlines and promote seamless indoor-outdoor living. Oversized multi-slide doors open to an extraordinary outdoor oasis, featuring an architectural pool by Serenity Pools with dramatic fire and water features. The layout offers the perfect balance of openness and distinct spaces, creating a grand yet intimate

feel throughout. Upstairs, additional bedrooms, a media room and an unforgettable double bunk room create a perfect blend of luxury and livability for family and guests alike.

ARCHITECT: CLASSIC HOME DESIGNS

DESIGNER: GNH DESIGNS

BUILDER: MICHAEL MURPHY, MURPHY CUSTOM HOMES

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LUMBER & MILLWORK: 84 LUMBER, MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901-861-8433, 901-8532200

MASONRY/BRICK MATERIALS: CHRISTIE CUT STONE CO. | 901-274-0883

OUTDOOR KITCHEN: FERGUSON | 901-759-3820

OUTDOOR LIVING: GRAHAM'S LIGHTING | 901274-6780

PAINTING: S&R PAINTING & DRYWALL | 901331-1392

PLUMBING INSTALL: WILBURN PLUMBING | 901-870-4675

PLUMBING FIXTURES: FERGUSON | 901-7593820

POOL: SERENITY HARDSCAPES | 901-800-1638

ROOFING MATERIALS:SUPERIOR DISTRIBUTION 901-800-1638

SIDING: 84 LUMBER | 901-861-8433

TOILETS & FREESTANDING TUBS: FERGUSON 901-759-3820

WINDOWS: PELLA WINDOWS & DOORS | 901316-0166

Dave Moore has drawn from his almost 40 years of experience to offer one of his most singular homes for the 2025 Vesta Home Show. The Saddlewood is the culmination of a fourdecade-long career of fine homebuilding in Memphis. Moore’s experience has led him to develop a building program that focuses on details. The Saddlewood exhibits unsurpassed attention to the fine points, exuding a sense of organization and harmony that is worthy of a truly custom home.

Moore’s Vesta entry radiates the feeling of home from the moment you enter the door off its quintessential Southern wrap-around front porch. The classic open floor plan, featuring five bedrooms, five full baths, a half bath, a study/exercise room, a huge recreation and

media area, and more captures the imagination as you move through the house. In addition to the free-flowing indoor living space, Moore created the perfect outdoor living area with a complete kitchen, stone patio with fireplace and an artistic pool and backyard that affords room to entertain or have a luxury staycation. Moore partnered with Ed Yendrek of Classic Home Designs on the Saddlewood to create a home that blends warm Memphis traditional stylings with the needs and wants of the modern family.

He is pleased to offer the Saddlewood for the 2025 Vesta Home Show.

The Saddlewood

3214 CADDIS LANE GERMANTOWN, TN 38139

ARCHITECT: CLASSIC HOME DESIGNS

DESIGNER: FIRST FRUIT COLLECTION

BUILDER:

SUPPLIERS LIST

APPLIANCES: CENWOOD APPLIANCES | 901737-4343

ARTIFICIAL TURF: BLUFF CITY TURF | 901-2388149

CABINETS: SOUTHERN CABINETS | 662-850-0128

COUNTER FABRICATOR: GRANITE & MARBLE PRODUCTS | 901-386-6167

CLOSETS: BROOKSTONE CONSTRUCTION | 901937-9380

D RYWALL: MW CONSTRUCTION | 901-233-5142

EXERCISE EQUIPMENT: TITAN FITNESS | 901-4092832

EXTERIOR DOORS: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY 901-853-2200

FENCING: RIVER CITY FENCING | 901-508-5630

FINISH/TRIM CARPENTRY: BROOKSTONE CONSTRUCTION | 901-937-9380

FIREPLA CES: BISHOP HEARTH & HOME | 901-3840070

FLOORING-HARDWOOD MATERIAL: REAL WOOD FLOORS | 901-598-0463

FLOORING-HARDWOOD LABOR: APEX FLOORING | 901-633-5550

FLOORING-TILE: AMERICA'S FLOOR SOURCE 901-295-4620

FOUNDATION & CONCRETE: ALL ABOUT CONSTRUCTION | 901-490-9038

FRAMING CARPENTRY: STEPHEN JUDD FRAMING | 731-610-6366

GARAGE DOORS: PRECISION GARAGE DOORS 901-363-4999

GARAGE FLOOR COATING: DEAS GARAGE FLOORS 901-430-2921

HOME AUTOMATION & SECURITY, ENTERTAINMENT & TECHNOLOGY SYSTEM: SECURITY CONTROL SYSTEMS | 901-461-4849

HVAC: ABSOLUTE COMFORT | 901-375-0998

INSULATION: ATTIC INSULATION OF THE MID SOUTH | 901-461-1933

IRON RAILINGS & GATES: PICKLE IRON INC. | 901452-3754

IRRIGATION: BCL SERVICES | 901-482-2293

LANDSCAPE: JERRY SMAHAY LANDSCAPE | 901262-1212

LIGHTING: SETH'S LIGHTING | 901-377-5222

LUMBER & MILLWORK: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901-853-2200

MASONRY/BRICK MATERIALS: CHRISTIE CUT STONE CO.| 901-382-6242

OUTDOOR KITCHEN: CENWOOD APPLIANCES 901-737-4343

OUTDOOR LIVING: ASH & EMBER OUTDOORS 901-409-2832

PAINTING: SKILLPRO PAINTING | 901-461-8205

PLUMBING INSTALL: ALL ABOUT PLUMBING 901-461-3346

PLUMBING FIXTURES: MOEN

POOL: ARTESIAN CUSTOM POOLS | 901-379-6292

ROOFING MATERIALS:SUPERIOR DISTRIBUTION 901-800-1638

SHOWER DOORS & MIRRORS: QUALITY INSULATION | 901-367-3141

SIDING & WINDOWS: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 662-874-8307

TOILETS & FREESTANDING TUBS: MOEN

The Secretariat

The Secretariat: A Timeless Blend of Tradition and Innovation at the 2025 Vesta Home Show.

Inspired by the legendary Secretariat, a name synonymous with strength, elegance and unmatched legacy, this home embodies the same spirit—a masterpiece of craftsmanship, design and timeless beauty.

Built by Derek Eller of Eller Construction, designed by Conway Design Group and featuring exquisite interior and exterior finishes by Alexandra Quinn and Malarie Vincent of Sensational Sofas and Interiors, the Secretariat is where old meets new, tradition meets modernity and every detail is executed with precision and care.

From the first step through the front door, the Secretariat makes a statement. The grand entryway welcomes guests with striking blackand-white tile floors contrasted against the warmth of rich wood accents. The foyer sets the tone for a home that balances classic elegance with modern design.

The exterior commands attention, much like the legendary racehorse for which the home is named, while the interior seamlessly blends timeless beauty with contemporary comfort. Spaces flow one to the next in a layout that is both inviting and awe-inspiring. Rich materials, sophisticated details and a thoughtfully designed layout create an atmosphere of refined luxury, a reflection of Secretariat’s effortless dominance on the track.

With Eller Construction’s dedication to superior craftsmanship and Sensational Sofas and Interiors’ artful selection of finishes, every aspect of the Secretariat exudes power, grace and an enduring legacy—just like the champion for which the home is named.

Experience the Secretariat at the 2025 Vesta Home Show. Like its namesake, it will leave a lasting impression.

ARCHITECT: CONWAY DESIGN GROUP

DESIGNER:

BUILDER: DEREK ELLER, ELLER CONSTRUCTION

SUPPLIERS LIST

APPLIANCES: FERGUSON | 901-7593820

CABINETS: SOUTHERN CABINETS OF MISSISSIPPI | 901-351-0641

COUNTERS: SOUTHERN STONE AND CABINETS | 662-895-4795

DR YWALL: MW CONSTRUCTION | 901233-5142

EXTERIOR DOORS: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901-853-2200

FENCING: RIVER CITY FENCING | 901508-5630

FIREPLA CES: WELLS BUILDING SUPPLY, CHRISTIE CUT STONE | 901-861-1728, 901-382-6242

FLOORING-HARDWOOD: RW SUPPLY GROUP | 901-598-0463

FLOORING-TILE: J&D TILE | 901-2217951

FOUNDATION & CONCRETE: ALL ABOUT CONSTRUCTION | 901-490-9038

GARAGE DOORS: PRECISION DOOR OF MEMPHIS | 901-363-4999

GARAGE FLOOR COATING: CTD PAINTING | 662-404-6767

GUTTERS: MASON DIXON GUTTERS 901-870-5006

HOME AUTOMATION & SECURITY, ENTERTAINMENT/TECHNOLOGY SYSTEM: SECURITY CONTROLS | 901853-4849

HVAC: ABSOLUTE COMFORT | 901-3750998

INSULATION: COUNTY LINE INSULATION & GARAGE DOORS | 901-870-5006

IRON DOORS: TUSCAN ENTRIES | 901854-7130

IRON RAILINGS & GATES: ABSOLUTE IRON | 901-258-6871

IRRIGATION & LANDSCAPE: RYAN'S LAWNCARE | 901-288-6372

LIGHTING: FERGUSON | 901-759-3820

LUMBER & MILLWORK: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901-853-2200

MASONRY/BRICK MATERIALS: CHRISTIE CUT STONE CO. | 901-382-6242

OUTDOOR SCREEN: SOUTHERN SCREENS 901-758-2121

POOL : MALONE CONSTRUCTION | 901361-2394

ROOFING MATERIALS: SRS BUILDING PRODUCTS | 901-229-6093

SHOWER DOORS: RALEIGH GLASS | 901317-4913

MIRRORS: VILLAGE FRAME AND ART 901-767-8882

SIDING & WINDOWS: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 662-874-8307

TOILETS & FREESTANDING TUBS: FERGUSON | 901-759.3820

Introducing The Oaklawn, a stunning creation by Darin Halford of DKH Builder, showcased at the 2025 VESTA Home Show. This exquisite five-bedroom, five-and-a-halfbath residence promises to captivate all who step inside.

To enhance the home’s elegance and timeless appeal, Meredith Fernandez Interiors has curated a serene color palette featuring rich, calming greens paired with warm whites and stone accents. The sophisticated design seamlessly combines modern and traditional elements, showcasing meticulous attention to detail throughout.

The Oaklawn boasts an array of high-end features, including custom slim-line white oak cabinetry, top-ofthe-line Sub-Zero and Wolf appliances and luxurious hardwood flooring. The trim work is a masterpiece in itself, highlighted by floor-to-ceiling reeded wood details in the entry hall. The element reappears on select cabinet fronts, the kitchen island and the stunning primary shower tile

walls. The large scullery features a wine cooler, ice maker, sink and second dishwasher, along with enough storage to accommodate the most avid entertainer or chef.

True luxury is best realized when it is thoughtfully integrated with a well-designed floor plan. Upon entering the Oaklawn, the sense of opulence and meticulous craftsmanship is palpable. This home is designed for family living, featuring a sumptuous primary suite with a spalike bathroom, a cozy family room, a spacious dining room and a welcoming living room at the front. The kitchen and breakfast room flow effortlessly together, while a versatile second bedroom can serve as a private office depending on individual needs. The family room also showcases an impressive cooled whiskey or wine vault behind a beautiful glass door. The second floor includes three additional bedrooms, each with its own bath, plus a bonus room with charming built-in beds. Completing this remarkable home is a triple garage that leads to a convenient mudroom and laundry room, along with a unique sports storage area with

The Oaklawn

3226 CADDIS LANE GERMANTOWN, TN 38139

dedicated space for golf clubs as well as hunting gear.

The backyard is an entertainer’s paradise, featuring a stunning pool and a generous porch with a gas fireplace and a built-in grill.

The size and scale of the Oaklawn are truly noteworthy. Its striking rooflines, expansive windows, elegant exterior lighting and inviting front porch create a sense of welcome before you even step inside. Everything about this home feels perfectly right.

ARCHITECT:

BUILDER: DARIN HALFORD, DKH BUILDER

SUPPLIERS LIST

APPLIANCES: FERGUSON | 901-743-5511

CABINETS: BATESVILLE CABINET CO. 901-484-5003

COUNTER FABRICATOR: SOUTHERN STONE & CABINETS | 662-895-4795

DRYWALL: MW CONSTRUCTION | 901-4127270

ELECTRIC: PAR ELECTRIC | 901-828-0017

EXTERIOR DOORS: CENTRAL WOODWORK 901-468-8003

FENCING: RIVER CITY FENCE | 901-508-5630

FINISH/TRIM CARPENTRY: AVILES CONSTRUCTION | 901-364-6805

FIREPLACES: CHRISTIE CUT STONE | 901382-6242

FIREPLACE STONE CHASE: MEMPHIS STONE & STUCCO | 901-737-1235

FLOORING- HARDWOOD & TILE: BRIDGEWATER FLOORING | 901-607-5114

FOUNDATION & CONCRETE: ALL ABOUT CONSTRUCTION | 901-317-5377

FRAMING: STEPHEN JUDD FRAMING 731-610-6366

FRONT DOORS: CENTRAL WOODWORK 901-363-4141

GARAGE DOORS: COUNTY LINE GARAGE DOORS | 901-843-0187

GARAGE CABINETS: MEMPHIS GARAGE & CLOSETS | 901-446-1832

GARAGE FLOOR: DEAS GARAGE FLOORS 901-786-4477

GUTTERS: MASON DIXON GUTTERS | 901843-0187

HARDSCAPE & LANDSCAPE: GREENVIEW LANDSCAPE | 901-485-9728

HOME AUTOMATION & SECURITY: SECURITY CONTROL SYSTEMS | 901-853-4849

HVAC: LANDRUM HEATING & AC | 901-4946285

INSULATION: COUNTY LINE INSULATION 901-843-0187

IRON RAILINGS & GATES: ABSOLUTE IRON 901-258-6871

LIGHTING (EXTERIOR): MID SOUTH OUTDOOR LIGHTING & AUDIO | 901-3716031

LIGHTING (INTERIOR): FERGUSON | 901-7593820

LUMBER: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY 901-853-2200

MASONRY/BRICK MATERIALS & LIMESTONE MANTEL: CHRISTIE CUT STONE | 901-3826242

MILLWORK: CENTRAL WOODWORK | 901468-8003

PAINTING: CTD PAINTING | 662-404-6767

PLUMBING FIXTURES: FERGUSON | 901-7593820

POOL: DUVALL CUSTOM POOLS | 901-5037069

ROOFING MATERIALS: SUPERIOR DISTRIBUTION | 901-229-6093

SIDING: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901853-2200

SHOWER GLASS: RALEIGH GLASS CO. 901-317-4911

Aristedes

Atimeless classic home with a modern twist.

Nestled in the Wilder Subdivision in the heart of Germantown is a masterful blend of classic architecture and modern innovation. This stunning new build is the result of a visionary collaboration between Johnny Williams Builders, Shapiro and Company, Architects and Karen Conlan of Ktopia Home Designs, who worked seamlessly to create a home that is as grand as it is inviting.

Marrying tradition and modernity, Aristedes exudes a timeless elegance, enhanced by contemporary touches that make it both stylish and functional. The home’s architectural design pays homage to classic influences with its grand façade and stately proportions. However, modern elements such as expansive windows, sleek finishes and open-concept living spaces bring a fresh perspective, making the home feel effortlessly current.

Thoughtfully designed for comfort and warmth despite its impressive scale, the home is warm and welcoming. Karen Conlan carefully selected a palette of rich textures and neutral hues to create a sense of coziness throughout. Natural materials like warm woods, stone accents and soft textiles add depth and comfort, making every room feel like a retreat. The heart of the home is the expansive kitchen, where modern amenities blend seamlessly with timeless design. Custom cabinetry, a large statement island and high-end appliances make this space both beautiful and highly functional. A cozy breakfast nook bathed in natural light provides the perfect spot for morning coffee, while the adjacent living area features a grand fireplace, inviting relaxation and conversation.

Williams ensured that luxury meets livability by offering the latest comforts and conveniences. Smart home technology, energy-efficient systems and thoughtful layouts cater to modern lifestyles without compromising the home’s classic charm. Spacious bedrooms, spa-like

bathrooms and intimate sitting areas create a sense of retreat, while large windows frame picturesque views, further enhancing the home’s serene ambiance.

A true masterpiece, Aristedes stands as a testament to exceptional craftsmanship, innovative design, and a commitment to creating a home that is both luxurious and livable. With Williams overseeing construction and Conlan bringing the vision to life, curating every exquisite detail, this home is a shining example of how classic and contemporary styles can harmoniously coexist.

A timeless home with modern comforts, Aristedes is nothing short of perfection.

ARCHITECT:

SHAPIRO & COMPANY

DESIGNER:

KTOPIA HOME DESIGNS

BUILDER:

JOHNNY WILLIAMS, JOHNNY WILLIAMS CONSTRUCTION

SUPPLIERS LIST

APPLIANCES: FERGUSON | 901-7593820

COUNTERS: COSENTINO | 615-4540991

C OUNTER FABRICATOR: GRANITE & MARBLE PRODUCTS | 901-386-6167

CLOSETS: INSPIRED CLOESTS | 901387-4523

DRYWALL: ECONOMY DRYWALL | 901335-2624

EXTERIOR DOORS: PELLA WINDOWS & DOORS | 901-316-0166

FENCING: RIVER CITY FENCE | 901508-5630

FIREPLACES: BISHOP HEARTH & HOME | 901-384-0070

FLOORING- HARDWOOD MATERIAL: REAL WOOD FLOORS | 901-598-0463

FLOORING- HARDWOOD LABOR: APEX FLOORING | 901-633-5550

FLOORING-TILE: ALAN'S CARPET 901-850-2202

FRAMING CARPENTRY: STEPHEN JUDD FRAMING | 731-610-6366

GARAGE DOORS: COUNTY LINE INSULATION & GARAGE DOORS | 901870-5006

GARAGE FLOOR COATING: DEAS GARAGE FLOORS | 901-430-2921

HOME AUTOMATION & SECURITY, ENTERTAINMENT/TECHNOLOGY SYSTEM: MIESTRO | 901-412-0810

HVAC: HENSLEY HVAC | 901-794-3074

INSULATION: COUNTY LINE INSULATION & GARAGE DOORS | 901870-5006

IRON RAILINGS & GATES: PICKLE IRON INC. | 901-452-3754

LANDSCAPE: GURLEY'S AZALEA GARDEN | 901-794-7370

LIGHTING: GRAHAM'S LIGHTING 901-274-6780

LUMBER & MILLWORK: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY | 901-853-2200

OUTDOOR KITCHEN: FERGUSON 901-759-3820

R OOFING MATERIALS: SRS BUILDING SUPPLIES | 901-800-1638

SIDING: MAXIMUS BUILDING SUPPLY 901-853-2200

WINDO WS: PELLA WINDOWS & DOORS | 901-316-0166

Raisin Bran Fridge Muffins

When I was growing up in the late 70s, you could always find a few items in our refrigerator: Tab, Fresca and this muffin mix! I recently discovered this recipe again and it brought back so many memories. My grandkids loved them, so the mix will now be a staple in our fridge, next to the Fresca! I have added protein granola and flax seed to them, along with shredded carrots. Topping them with a bit of jelly or apple butter before baking is a great variation, as well.

RAISIN BRAN FRIDGE MUFFINS

1 15-oz. box Raisin Bran

2 cups sugar

5 cups flour

5 tsps. baking soda

2 tsps. salt

4 eggs, beaten

1 cup vegetable oil

1 quart buttermilk

Mix all the ingredients and bake in increments as you wish in a 400˚, preheated oven for 12-14 minutes. Store unused batter in the refrigerator for up to 6 weeks. .

Staying Connected Navigating the Adult Parent-Child Relationship

I am blessed with three adult children and four grandchildren between the ages of infancy and six years. Parenting my children to adulthood has been one of life’s greatest joys, and it went by so fast. Though I saw the shift happening, I wasn’t ready to feel the letting go that came with it. And now, here we are, fully in the season of being the parents of grown children.

Recently, while I was visiting with my daughter, her children asked her a couple of times why she called me “Mom.” It was as if they were just starting to grasp the connection between me and her—not just me to them and her to them. When they asked, it struck me that my baby girl is now the mother to her own babies.

I now share Mother’s Day with my adult daughter who is also a mom. A day that once belonged solely to me is now shared with her as a peer, as is so much of life. That experience—sharing space, letting go, making room—is a thread that runs through every stage of parenting, but when our children become adults it carries a different energy and new kind of life.

Parenting doesn’t stop when children reach a certain age. It shifts. As I have reflected on that I’ve recognized the difference between guiding out of love and holding on out of fear.

That reflection gave me the courage to begin supporting my children as they emerged into adulthood, rather than unintentionally hindering them in an effort to protect or preserve the familiar.

My daughter and I had a pretty easy

STORY BY MICHELLE JOHNS MA, LPC-MHSP (TEMP), NCC, 200 HR E-RTY, 500 HR RYT

relationship until she went to college. Surrounded by new experiences and external influences, she began developing a deeper sense of her own identity. There was a stretch of time when we weren’t getting along very well. One day, with such clarity, she said, “Mom, I think you’re having a hard time with me becoming my own person.”

I immediately felt a sinking sensation in my gut coupled with an overwhelming emotion of guilt. She was right. I was!

My little girl, who had always followed my advice and often shared my perspectives, was changing. And she was doing exactly what I had modeled for her; just what I had taught her to do. But I wasn’t prepared to navigate the space between who she had been with me and who she was becoming on her own.

We often get so wrapped in parenting that our identity in protecting, shaping and teaching our children becomes our badge of honor. And sometimes, as they begin to emerge into a version of their own, we’re still holding on tightly; not out of control, but out of fear that we’ll no longer be needed and will lose our sense of purpose. After all, we’re the ones who worked so hard to keep them safe, to steer them away from failure. We set rules and structure to help them grow up strong and successful. But in doing so, it’s easy to lose sight of something just as important—making space for them to be uniquely themselves.

As our children emerge into adulthood, we may find ourselves feeling unsettled or even threatened by the subtle ways they begin to diverge from the traditions or values

with which we raised them. In an effort to hold on, we offer unsolicited advice, question their choices and sometimes overwhelm them with opinions or judgments. We may even interpret their differences as a kind of rejection.

We forget that the relationship we truly want is built on connection, not control.

As a professional counselor, I realize my experiences are shared by my clients, both those who are parents and those who are adult children. With that bit of clarity, I feel confident writing this piece for both sides of that relationship.

Parenting adult children isn’t about letting go, it’s about shifting how we show up. It’s about walking with them, not in front of them. It’s recognizing that the relationship changes, and so must we. When we honor their independence while staying emotionally available, we create space for deeper connection. And if we’re willing to embrace that shift, we may discover a new season of parenting that is just as meaningful as the ones that came before.

I encourage the adult children reading this to recognize that the shift is hard for your parents. What may feel like resistance comes from a mix of fear and love. Help them by responding with honesty and gentle clarity about how you want to be supported, while also honoring the ways they helped shape the goodness in you.