Merkado Kultura pop-up takes centerstage at Kalayaan Hall, May 5-7

A UNIQUE pop-up will take place at the Kalayaan Center in the Philippine Center Building (447 Sutter Street) in San Francisco on May 5-7 called Merkado Kultura.

From home décor to lifestyle brands to clothing and accessories as well as Philippineinspired food brands, there will be more than 20 vendors in total from the Philippines and the United States who will participate in this popup.

Among the companies who are expected to show their wares and products at the Merkado Kultura are Angkan, Anthill, Bago, Bagong Barkada, Chunky Butt Ice Cream, Filiflavors, Gaenz, Hara, Hulma, Kokak Chocolates, Kubo California, La Kalidad, Lacson Ravello, Lu France Interiors, Mackbox Desserts, Malngkat, Narra, Narra Studio, Oodaalolly, Pampasaya, Pili and Blu, Sarap Now, Sewn Sandals, Studio Zedsie, Stuyle Ana, and Ube Galore Breads & More.

The Merkado Cultura pop-up is curated by Lu France Interiors in San Diego, and organized together with ShipIt and 1Export in the Philippines, Filiflavors and Pili & Blu in San Francisco, and in partnership with the Philippine Consulate General in San Francisco and the Philippine Trade Investment Center-Silicon

Valley. Organizers France, Mel, and Bianca grew up in the Philippines, frequenting local curated bazaars and markets –something that they have aimed to bring to the U.S. Working with artisan communities and small businesses, their aim is to highlight and amplify the amazing skills, artistry, and talents of Filipino makers, connecting them to an audience beyond Filipino communities. Together with Filipino American owned brands in the U.S., Merkado Kultura hopes to be a way for discovering Philippine-based and U.S.-based brands that celebrate all things Philippines – its culture, traditions, food, and products through handcrafted, artisanal, and sustainably made pieces, one city at a time.

The first Merkado Kultura took place in October of 2022.

For more information about Merkado Kultura, visit the website at www.merkadokultura. com. Inquiries can be sent via email to merkadokultura@gmail.com. Follow Merkado Kultura on Instagram: @merkadokultura.

ABOUT 33 percent of men have experienced premature ejaculation at one time or another. If it occurs rarely or occasionally, it is not a permanent issue to be seriously concerned about. If persistent, this condition could be devastating to the couple. What is premature ejaculation? The most satisfying lovemaking is when orgasm of the partners occurs exactly at the same time. Normally, the timing does not have to be perfect for a couple to have an enjoyable sex, but if the male ejaculates before penetration or just one minute or less after penetration, it is called premature ejaculation. In some cases, premature ejaculation could also happen during masturbation. When male climax occurs too soon, the man feels inadequate and the woman, unfulfilled and disappointed. But there is hope.

How long should intercourse last? There is no set rule for this. In a survey of 4,400 heterosexual partners, the act lasts for an average of 19 minutes, 10 minutes of foreplay, and 9 minutes of actual penetrating intercourse. Other studies show the average vaginal sex lasts about 5 minutes. Some women want longer foreplay before orgasm is possible. Certain positions make some men ejaculate later or sooner. Being candid with each other and exploring various techniques will help the couple find the best strategy.

What causes prejaculation?

The exact cause is not known.

It was previously thought to be psychological, but science now knows the cause is a complex interaction between psychological and biological factors. The psychological role includes sexual abuse, early sexual experiences, depression, poor body image and selfesteem, the guilt of rushing through sexual encounters, and the actual worry about premature ejaculation itself. The other factors are stress, anxiety, problem in the relationship, and erectile dysfunction. The biological factors are inherited traits, abnormal levels of the hormones, infection of the prostate or urethra, abnormal levels of brain chemicals (the neurotransmitters).

When should a physician be consulted?

If premature ejaculation happens most of the time, it is time to see a physician, no matter how embarrassing. In some cases, talking to a physician could be so reassuring it could help. Some men think ejaculation after 5 minutes of sex is premature. Actually, as I have stated above, 5 minutes is, on average, normal for most people; occasional prejaculation is not a problem. Ejaculation outside the vagina, results in no pregnancy.

How is prejaculation diagnosed?

Premature ejaculation is confirmed if the man always or nearly always discharges his semen within 60 seconds of penetration; unable to delay ejaculation during the sex act all the time or most of the time; when he feels frustrated and depressed over it and usually avoids sex because of it. The two types of prejaculation are:

Primary (life-long), when the man experiences premature ejaculation his whole life, from the very first sexual encounter; Secondary (Acquired), when it develops after having no ejaculatory problems in the past.

Besides asking about the details of your sexual life, the physician will also ask about your personal, medical, and family history, and some info about your partner. This is followed by a complete physical examination. If erectile dysfunction is also present, a male hormone (testosterone) level and other tests might be ordered. A referral to a urologist might be needed.

What is the treatment for prejaculation?

The management for this condition includes behavioral modification, medications, topical anesthetics, and counseling. Each man varies in response to the treatment.

Behavioral therapy combined with a drug could be a most effective option. Masturbation an hour or two before sexual intercourse to delay ejaculation sometimes helps. Another is abstinence from intercourse for a period of time and performing other modes of sexual play with the woman to reduce anxiety and pressure before the actual intercourse.

Doing Kegel pelvic floor exercise to strengthen weak pelvic floor muscles that can cause prejaculation helps. When one holds back on passing gas (sort of puckering, tightening the anus), the muscles involved are the pelvic muscles. To do the Kegel exercise, hold the contraction for 3 seconds and then relax for 3 seconds, repeating this same cycle (3 sets of ten) a day. This can be done while sitting, standing, or even walking.

What is the pause-squeeze technique?

This is another maneuver that can help treat prejaculation. Start the sexual encounter the usual way until the urge to ejaculate starts. Have the woman squeeze the end of the penis at the area between the head of the penis and the shaft, maintaining the vaginal squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate wanes or stops. Repeat as often as needed. Make this your routine strategy with your sex partner. After repeated use, the man eventually feels he is in control of his ejaculation better. Another option is to stop sexual stimulation or withdraw the penis out of the vagina, and wait until the arousal has declined, and then start again, a technique called start-stop-start. Available in the drug stores are special condoms that could help delay ejaculation, with benzocaine or lidocaine numbing anesthetic agent in them. Some of them are Lifestyles Everlast Intense, Trojan Extended, and Durex Performax Instense. The anesthetic agent (like EMLA, a prescription drug, or Licdocaine spray) could be applied to the penis 10 minutes before sex to minimize sensitivity and aid in delaying ejaculation. Sometimes these could reduce arousal in either partner.

How about pills?

Although these drugs have not been approved by the FDA specifically for premature ejaculation, the following have been tried by physicians: antidepressants (Paroxitine), analgesics (tramadol), clomipramine, phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra); and the following which are still being tested: modafinil, dapoxetine, and silodosin. Counseling combined with medication has also been found effective among many patients.

The most important first step is to openly acknowledge the problem, and then seeking medical consultation. Premature ejaculation is treatable. The more candid, positive, and open-minded the man is, the more effective the therapy is.

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The opinions, beliefs and viewpoints expressed by the author do not necessarily reflect the opinions, beliefs and viewpoints of the Asian Journal, its management, editorial board and staff.

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The main objective of this column is to educate and inspire people live a healthier lifestyle to prevent illnesses and disabilities and achieve a happier and more productive life. Any diagnosis, recommendation or treatment in our article are general medical information and not intended to be applicable or appropriate for anyone. This column is not a substitute for your physician, who knows your condition well and who is your best ally when it comes to your health.

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Philip S. Chua, MD, FACS, FPCS, a Cardiac Surgeon Emeritus based in Northwest Indiana and Las Vegas, Nevada, is an international medical lecturer/author, Health Advocate, newspaper columnist, and Chairman of the Filipino United NetworkUSA, a 501(c)3 humanitarian foundation in the United States. He was a recipient of the Indiana Sagamore of the Wabash Award in 1995. Other Sagamore past awardees include President Harry Truman, President George HW Bush, Muhammad Ali and Astronaut Gus Grissom (Wikipedia). Websites: FUN8888. com, Today.SPSAtoday.com, and philipSchua. com; Email: scalpelpen@gmail.com.

nag-iimbento ng portions. ‘Pag may icle-clear na portions, all the way, from 1979 to the present, ‘pag merong icle-clear na portions, so pinag-uusapan they clear it with Tito, Vic and Joey and Tony Tuviera. No one else. And then all of a sudden… they’re saying it has always been clear with them (TAPE).”

TAPE never actively managed the show’s production, Sotto said, so he was surprised why the company is all of a sudden allegedly “credit-grabbing.”

“It was always Tony and the three of us. And we would always consult production heads, more particularly (Head Writer and Creative Director) Jenny Ferre, Poochie Rivera, the director.”

Sotto revealed that TAPE wanted Ferre and Rivera to also retire.

Bakit? May gusto silang ipasok na iba,” Sotto said.

Bakit? Are they (Ferre and Rivera) doing something wrong?

Are they doing something bad for the program? No! Ang ganda ng takbo ng programa dahil sa kanila saka kapa nila ‘yun. Bakit ka kukuha ng bagito? Why, ‘di ba? All because you want certain portions or two portions to change? Because gusto mo ikaw ang pumasok sa portion na ‘yun? I don’t know.” Fortunately, according to Sotto, TAPE agreed to retain their production staff.

Hindi naman sila naging active sa production itself kasi sa usapan namin, ‘wag na nila pakiki-alaman ‘yun kasi nga ‘yun ay doing well.”

Sotto, nevertheless, admitted that TAPE has been actively talking to the employees.

“We had two or three meetings before the program… It was never been that way,” Sotto said.

“With Tony Tuviera, wala kaming problema. With the new officers, we’re trying to get along. That’s why ang pinagusapan naming nitong huli sa mga pinag-usapang status quo, let’s give it a try. ‘Yun ang ending namin. Nothing is written in stone.”

According to him, Atty. Felipe Gozon, Chief Executive Officer of GMA Network that carries the show, knows that the show addresses everyone as “Dabarkads” because the show has evolved into “a public service program masquerading as an entertainment show” and therefore, now belongs to the people.