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From Page 9 obscure our identities. If people see us, then they see us,” he said.

But still, they don’t want to attract unnecessary attention.

“Right now, we just want to enjoy our time together without other people sticking their noses in. The reason I try to be private about my love life is that other people start meddling and scrutinizing you when they find out you’re dating someone—I don’t want that. I want a happy and quiet life,” he said.

“We’re both single. We’re not stepping on other people. It’s just better to keep things private.”

What attracted him to Cristine? She’s “girlfriend- or wife-material,” for one. “She’s very kind. Walang arte. She’s fun to be with wherever you go. She’s loving and caring,” said Marco, who doesn’t mind the fact that Cristine already has a daughter from a past relationship.

“She’s not the first woman to be a single parent. And there’s nothing wrong with being one,” he stressed.

Reason for bullying

Meanwhile, because bullying is one of the themes “Kurdapya” touches on, Marco looked back on his childhood and how he was teased and mocked by his classmates when his father, Dennis Roldan, was sent to jail for kidnapping in 2005.

“When I was in Grade 4, my father went to jail. That was the time when everyone in the school who wanted to bully me finally found a reason to do so. I wasn’t a bully and I wasn’t about to let myself get bullied. If I allowed that, then everyone would do it, too. My batch knew it was a sensitive topic. I also made sure to show that just because my father got jailed, didn’t mean they had the right to bully me,” he said.

There was a time, though, when he felt isolated. “I was young and I think that’s how I felt… But now that I’m older, I just think that everything happens for a reason,” he said.

In a way, that experience prepared Marco for the constant scrutiny celebrities experience on social media.

“As a public personality, your every move is being watched. And they can comment about whatever you do. But try not to let that get to you. Pasok sa isang tenga, labas sa kabila. Kill them with kindness. I laugh off their comments. And sometimes, if I have free time, I engage with them, just for fun. Sayang naman ang effort nila!

“Social media has opened up new venues for bullying. So let’s always think about what we say. Think before you click and speak,” he said.

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The solution for this type of problem is filing nullity or legal separation petition

Unlike a divorce, there is no residency requirement to filing an Annulment or a legal separation.

The advantage of this strategy is you would immediately have access to the courts and can ask the court for immediate temporary orders needed to maintain the status quo or preserve the marital assets. If domestic violence is involved in the case, the domestic violence issue can be heard in the same court room by the same judge that would be hearing the divorce case. In addition, service on the legal separation petition (to be amended later to a divorce) will also start the clock on the six-month “waiting period” for finality of a judgment terminating marital status, optimizing the time-frame within which the parties will be legally restored to “single” status. As far as the county where to file the legal separation or nullity, venue is proper in the county where either party resided at the time the petition was filed pursuant to CCP 395(a).

Once the parties have satisfied the residency requirements, the Petition may be amended from legal separation to Dissolution without permission from the Court as long as notice is provided the opposing party under Marriage of Dick. The Petitioner would also be in a safer position if the intent to amend from legal separation/ nullity to a divorce is stated in the initial Petition.

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