The Christmas Truce

During World War 1, an extraordinary event happened on Christmas Day, 1914. There was a pause in combat, and fighters from both sides emerged from their trenches to share stories, exchange gifts, and even play soccer. The war resumed a couple of days later, but the pause was a gift of respite at a time of heartache and despair.

Holiday celebrations at this time of year are meant to bring joy. However, in many cases, these times are filled with heartache and sorrow — loved ones are lost, friends are gone, or financial and health concerns are high, draining the joy of the season from our lives. For many seniors, the holidays are a challenging time because of all these reasons. Here are some ideas to help those around us who may be struggling to experience happiness and excitement this holiday season.

First, listen when they talk. Helping an older loved one remember even the pain of life helps them work through their sorrow. An empathetic ear, a kind word, and a gentle touch are always reassuring.

First, listen when they talk. Helping an older loved one remember even the pain of life helps them work through their sorrow. An empathetic ear, a kind word, and a gentle touch are always reassuring.

Visiting someone in an assisted living community or a nursing home is encouraging. Most communities have seasonal activities, and checking with the facility and joining in is also a joy.

Taking a loved one to a special seasonal activity, such as a church service, a Christmas performance, or a recital, is a special highlight that can brighten the season.

Engaging in seasonal activities like baking cookies, making special treats, or crafting together provides time to talk and enjoy your friend or loved one. Adding a few decorations to an apartment or a room can lift the spirits. Even going on a drive or walk to see the festive decorations around the city or neighborhood can lift a friend's spirits. (I always include hot chocolate with marshmallows, a holiday delight.)

The holidays are not a season of joy for everyone, but you never know when a miracle can happen. Who would have thought of a truce during the middle of a war?! May your holiday season be bright this year as you share your joy with others around you!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!