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THE INTERVIEW Jacqueline Vergez found solace through dance during a rough patch in her life. Today, her JV Outreach non-profit works to help area teens

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JV Outreach promotes life skills for teens through dance

BY CANDY WAYLOCK

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o put words to the life Jacqueline Vergez has lived — and is living — is to describe a journey with constantly changing narratives, heartbreaks and triumphs, but above all, a life lived with purpose.

The path that took her from a childhood spent in New York City and France to North Fulton, where she now lives, has led to her life’s calling. Her nonprofit, JV Outreach, has brought the love of dance to thousands of children in Fulton County over the past 10 years, helping them cope with the issues that face many young people today.

“I think I always liked to dance even though I never took lessons when I was a kid,” said Vergez. “I remember dancing in the cafeteria in college and going out dancing on weekends in the city. After watching the movie ‘Salsa,’ I fell in love with Latin music and salsa dancing, and had a pull to start taking lessons.”

But dancing was a pastime, something she shared with thenhusband, Fabrice, whom she married in 1987 when they both worked at Le Bernardin restaurant in New York City. Daughter Claudine was born in 1990, and four years later the family moved to Roswell, where Fabrice took a job as the general manager at Brasserie La Coze at Lenox Mall.

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A second child followed, a son born in 1995, but the marriage ended and Vergez found herself a single mom working full time to support her small family.

She turned to dance to get her through the rough times.

“While I was going through my divorce in 1998, dancing for me was a great escape,” said Vergez, 53, who now lives in Johns Creek. “When I’m dancing I forget about everything else. It was a great way to meet new people and make new friends.”

The idea of sharing her love of dance with others never crossed her mind, until Vergez found herself looking for a community project to tackle as part of a college course. She landed upon the idea of a dance event at Scottish Rite Children’s Hospital to raise money to buy gift cards for patients at the hospital.

“In 2002, Claudine was hospitalized there to have surgery, and seeing what she went through emotionally and physically made me want to find a way to help other children who were in the hospital,” said Vergez, of the start of what would eventually be JV Outreach.

The dance event included performances by salsa instructors and students, including Claudine, and Vergez worked to secure food donations, raffle items and everything else she needed on a budget of "zero dollars," she recalls.

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theinterview ▼ INTERVIEW, Continued from Page 6 The success of that first event made Vergez realize she could do a lot more than she gave herself credit for, and also that she had a need to make a difference in the world. A plan started taking shape of ways she could help young people during the most tumultuous time in their lives.

“I knew I would want to [reach out] to middle and high school kids,” she said. “It’s the most difficult time in their lives with so many negative influences such as peer pressure, bullying, alcohol, drugs, hormones, everything.”

She had a passion for dance, so why not combine the two – and JV Outreach was formed.

Vergez started with finding volunteers to teach dance classes at Waller Park Recreation Center in Roswell, then became a nonprofit organization in 2004 so she could grow the programs and reach more students.

Although JV Outreach found its niche fairly quickly, Vergez said behind the scenes were daily struggles and obstacles to remove.

She had her own doubts whether she had what it took to run a nonprofit, had others questioning her decisions, worried over the financial implications, and juggled getting JV Outreach off the ground while working full time as a bookkeeper and raising two young children on her own. But Vergez moved forward.

“I overcame these by not letting others dissuade me from going after my dream,” she said. “I basically just started talking to people-- even those I didn’t think would be at all interested-- and learned along the way one step at a time.”

Today, a decade later, JV Outreach is a fixture in some Fulton County middle and high schools where students learn the basics of dance.

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“Most of our participants come through the physical education programs where we introduce students to different styles of dance, including hip hop, ballroom, salsa, and bachata, over a period of 10 days,” said Vergez of the school programs. “In these classes they are not only learning something new, they are discovering something which enhances their confidence and social skills.”

Beyond the school programs, JV Outreach invites students to participate in Saturday and summer programs, all at no cost to the participants, where they learn choreographed routines and have opportunities to perform.

Parents love the program, said Vergez, because it provides a safe space for children and an outlet for physical and mental activity.

“I realized how much dancing helped me through my hard time in life and the benefits of it, and I know how dance can impact kids in their lives as well,” said Vergez.

She has more “success stories” than she can count as a result of JV Outreach, noting that, this year alone, her programs have reached more than 10,000

JV Outreach dancers (left to right) Hailey Broyles, Austin Smith, Syavin Brown-Taylor, Gandharv Sharma, Cierra Brown and Rohit Jivangikar, invited to perform at the Tolbert Yilmaz School of Dance, dance recital at Roswell Cultural Arts Center. Perfomed a mix of Tango, Salsa, Rumba & Hiphop to the song "Fire" by Gavin Degraw.

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students. But she relates the story of Royal Ford who found a passion for dance after his mom dragged him “kicking and screaming” to a summer program.

Royal’s skills improved every year and he went on to compete in the Atlanta Classic Ballroom competition in 2013, where he placed first in the youth ballroom category. Now living in Texas, Vergez said Royal now dances with an exclusive dance crew at his school.

“I always say our programs are more than teaching dance steps. They are about building self-esteem, confidence, teamwork, discipline, social and leadership skills,” said Vergez, who witnesses the changes every day within her students.

“Our mission is to make a positive difference in the lives of children through

dance.”

JV Outreach is supported primarily through fundraisers, donations and grants, with nearly all funds used to pay instructors who work with the children.

Vergez said the program has received funding from the Fulton County Board of Commissioners for the past several years, for which she is grateful.

“It’s been a lot of hard work but what keeps me going are the kids,” she said. “It touches my heart when a 14-year-old boy thanks me for the opportunities he has through JV Outreach, or when a parent thanks me because our programs has helped their child build their self-esteem and confidence.”

For more information on JV Outreach, visit www.jvoutreach.com ■

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An d e z i n a Org Life women in business

Katherine Trezise creates order among chaos

BY CANDY WAYLOCK

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atherine Trezise was drawn to the idea of helping people declutter their lives and organize their living spaces long before the idea of “professional organizer” became a popular career choice. She remembers going into a library in the late 1990s and having a librarian laugh at her when she asked for books on the subject.

“I have always been fascinated with organization and how organization, or its absence, affects people’s lives,” said Trezise, a native of Maryland who recently moved to Johns Creek. “My mission has always been to help other people, so becoming a professional organizer seemed to be the ideal step for me.”

She founded her company, Absolutely Organized, in Baltimore after graduating with degrees in psychology and business administration from Western Maryland College and Loyola University Maryland, and has now helped thousands of people organize everything from office desks to entire homes

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Trezise’s first clients were primarily friends who needed help with personal organization, such as getting bills paid on time, organizing paperwork to make filing taxes more efficient and creating a system to track spending.

And as her client list grew, Trezise began seeing behavioral patterns that extended beyond a cluttered workspace.

“I quickly realized Katherine Trezise that people who had difficulty managing their own finances and paperwork also had problems with other household clutter and disorganization,” she noted. “Often their disorganization undermined their relationships, job performance, finances, and even put them in physical danger.”

In some cases, underlying medical issues, such as depression, physical challenges and attention disorders, were part of the problem, and went beyond her skill set.

“My fascination with organization wasn’t enough for me to help these clients,” Trezise concluded. “I needed more education, and I needed colleagues with whom I could learn and share best practices.”

She became active in professional associations, including the National Association of Professional Organizers, the Institute for Challenging Disorganization, and the American Association of Daily Money Managers, and trained to become both a Certified Professional Organizer and a Certified Professional Organizer in Chronic Disorganization.

Trezise is mainly hired to tackle disorganized paperwork, with the need to organize rooms within the home a close second. But interspersed within the routine jobs are the challenges that task even the most seasoned organizer.

Every so often, she is called upon to address a “hoarding” situation, including a client who had 18 years

I quickly realized that people who had difficulty managing their own finances and paperwork also had problems with other household clutter and disorganization...Often their disorganization undermined their relationships, job performance, finances, and even put them in physical danger.”

of household items, such as clothes, paper and trash, piled throughout the home.

“The clutter in every room was about 2 feet high, with no clear pathways, so my head almost hit the ceiling [as I walked] on top of the clutter,” recalled Trezise of her most challenging assignment.

While Trezise made limited progress, she was stymied by a reluctance from the family to fully address the issues that were apparent. When that happens, she is left with few options.

“Yes, from my perspective, there have been situations in which I could not fully help my clients,” she says. “I have terminated the relationship with only a few clients over the years because I didn’t think I was the right person to help them.”

On the lighter side, Trezise remembers a more

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women in business ▼ WOMEN IN BUSINESS, Continued from Page 10 humorous situation.

“My oddest request for organizing was when I was helping a client organize her bedroom. We came across a bunch of sex toys under her bed. Without a flinch, she told me to put them in a container and label it,” Trezise said with a laugh.

By far, most of her clients are women, and many of them are going through, or getting ready for, a major life transition, such as downsizing, divorce or retirement. She finds her psychology degree comes in handy when she deals with the emotional attachments people have to their “things” during a needed decluttering. “[These items] remind them of people and events from their past … or they have difficulty parting with gifts from others because it feels like they are disposing of the person along with the gift,” explains Trezise.

Others may assign an unrealistic value to collections, thinking they’ll garner top dollar if sold (like Beanie Babies). A more recent theme is the reluctance to throw out items for environmental reasons – not wanting to add to a landfill.

“That’s admirable,” says Trezise. “Until their own house becomes a landfill!”

To facilitate the “parting process,” Trezise has strategies including focusing on goals, listening to concerns and working to reduce or eliminate them, or photographing the item to hold onto the sentiment, but not the item.

But letting go of something is always the client’s decision, stresses Trezise.

Since starting Absolutely Organized on her own in 1999, Trezise has added three more professional organizers to the team and expanded it beyond its Maryland base to Georgia. Trezise and her husband, Tom, moved to Johns Creek in the fall of 2015 with his new job, and she is building a client list in Georgia. ++++++++ For more information about Absolutely Organized visit www.absolutely-organized.com. ■

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nderstand what being organized will do for you. What will you be able to do when you’re organized that you can’t do now? How will being organized make you feel?

Answering these questions will give you the motivation to keep going.

• Know your priorities. Over the course of a week, plan to spend some time on each of your priorities.

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The “30 Dares in 30 Days” tour took Lu Ann Cahn to 30 cities, including Atlanta, in January 2015.

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u Ann Cahn may have written the perfect user’s manual for re-energizing your life.

For anyone resolving to have some sort of transformation come January first – and it’s estimated that half of us will – “I Dare Me: How I Rebooted and Recharged My Life by Doing Something New Every Day” is filled with fresh ideas.

Make that 365 of them.

You won’t find much in the way of big, standard New Year’s resolutions here, no weight loss tips or get-out-ofdebt strategies. Instead, Cahn, who grew up in Atlanta, graduated from the University of Georgia and went on to a 40-year broadcast journalism career that earned her eight Emmys, has filled her book with workable suggestions anyone can manage.

Her message is simple: It’s the smallest changes that eventually change everything. Small as in organizing your pantry, driving the speed limit or going a day without cursing. Granted, she also tackled bigger challenges,

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The journey of doing one new First a day completely opened up my world and presented dozens of new opportunities to me. That’s what happens with First.” such as zip-lining across a lake filled with alligators and swinging on a trapeze. But, generally, Cahn’s Firsts (the

capital F is hers, for emphasis) spotlight the straightforward: Smiling all day, yo-yoing, watching “Jersey Shore.” Her often hilarious, always frank and occasionally heart-wrenching tales of a year that turned her life around have the power to do that for anyone similarly in search of a new, and easy, start.

“I feel like big goals like weight loss as a resolution can feel overwhelming and so big that we don’t do it,” she said. “The beauty of Firsts is that they can be extremely simple, they start us on a better path where we feel better and lighter and, once that happens, and we face some smaller challenges and even some physical fears, we gain enough courage and confidence to tackle the big things in our life.”

For Cahn, the idea of doing one new thing a day had its beginnings in 2009. At 53, she had enjoyed decades of TV news success in Philadelphia and had every reason to feel on top of the world. After all, she had suffered from ulcerative colitis and had her large intestine removed at 33. She had survived breast cancer at 35 and kidney cancer at 45. And, while she was healthy and happily married in her 50s, the economy was collapsing, her job was changing and Cahn felt “lost, angry and frustrated.”

Her then 23-year-old daughter, Alexa Houser, suggested she get unstuck by doing something different every day and blogging about the experiences. So Cahn began her “Year of Firsts” blog Jan. 1, 2010, with a polar bear plunge in the Atlantic. For the rest of that year, she did things big and small and detailed each, often replete

with video, on her website luanncahn. com. In 2013, the blog became a hardback version of “I Dare Me.” The paperback came out a year later and, in January 2015, Cahn embarked on a “30 Dares in 30 Days to 30 Cities” book tour, which brought her back home to Georgia for a bike ride.

“Of course, I had to make Atlanta one of my stops,” she said. “I have two sisters in Atlanta. I was just so proud of my one sister, Linda, for getting back on a bike for a tour on city streets.”

After the ride, Cahn headed to Johns Creek where her other sister, photographer Terri Dinardo, hosted a book party/speaking engagement at her Falls of Autry Mill subdivision.

“Terri really dared herself to pull together all of her friends and neighbors to come celebrate their lives and encourage each other to take on new daring experiences,” Cahn said.

The blog-turned-book that Cahn was discussing is an inspiration on multiple levels. In addition to one- or two-page stories about some of the Firsts, divided into 10 chapters of loosely connected challenges, there are inspirational quotes from a who’s who of famous folks. (“Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the dessert cart.” – Erma Bombeck.)

There are scientific explanations bolstering many of her tips. (A Princeton researcher, in a study on rats, found positive social interaction can buffer the physiological effects of stress.) For anyone short on time and/or ideas, all 365 of Cahn’s Firsts are listed. And if you’re really pressed for time, check out the blogs and videos on her website.

It’s a concept Cahn has discussed everywhere from “The Today Show” and “CNN Headline News” to the Huffington Post and Woman’s Day magazine.

“The journey of doing one new First a day completely opened up my world and presented dozens of new opportunities to me. That’s what happens with Firsts,” she

goodbooks said, noting she routinely hears from readers who have taken her tips to heart and embarked on their own Firsts.

Yes, she has fans with extreme ideas for change, such as jumping out of planes. “You REALLY DON’T have to risk your life to dare yourself,” she cautions. But she also hears from people like a woman at a recent conference who was terrified to just drive beyond her neighborhood.

Thanks to “I Dare Me,” that reader is now working on facing the fear that was limiting her life.

“I have had a number of people dare themselves to learn to swim.

That’s a big one. I loved the dare of a breast cancer survivor who had tickets to a concert with a friend but her friend backed out. She was just not going to go and then decided to dare herself to go by herself and had an amazing time.” One of the first readers who reached out to Cahn was a realtor from Joplin, Missouri. “She told me, when she started doing first-time experiences, business picked up in January; usually her worst month,” Cahn said. “She believes it wasn’t a coincidence. She was relating to the world in a different way.”

Likewise, Cahn has also experienced firsthand what can happen when One of Lu Ann Cahn’s many guest appearances included Lu Ann Cahn with her daughter Alexa Cahn “The Today Show,” with Kathy Lee and Hoda Kotb. She Firsts pave the way for major life changes. She recently went back to Houser at the Color Run. was accompanied by her daughter, Alexa Cahn Houser. school for her master’s degree and started teaching, which she loved.

After four decades in TV news, the last 27 of which were at NBC10 in Philadelphia, she left a year ago. She is now Temple University’s director of career services for the School of Media and Communication in Philadelphia.

She also continues to dare audiences around the country to get their lives unstuck by takings risks large and small. “After 40 years staring into a camera, it’s wonderful to reach out and connect in person,” Cahn said. “We blow bubbles, laugh, cry, share dares and talk about ways to make sure we are not living in ‘Groundhog Day,’” the Bill Murray movie about reliving the same day over and over again.

“If you are stuck, really stuck, any new thing is a good thing to try,” she said. “Turn left instead of right. Choose something different on the menu. Talk to the neighbor you never talk to.

Say yes to the next invitation to do anything new even if every fiber in your being is saying NO NO NO. When we’re stuck, we say ‘no’ a lot and we don’t even know it.

“Tell your friends and family, ‘I’m doing new things.’ Let them give you ideas. Take them with you to try something new. Take a class. Document your Firsts. You will find these little experiences start to give you joy and confidence to start tackling some of the bigger Firsts in your life.”

Cahn continues to take her own advice. “I’m always doing something new. I made my Thanksgiving turkey upside down this year,” a First she called delicious but ugly. “I recently climbed a power pole. Don’t need to do that again. I’m working on some new hula-hoop tricks.”

As she said, “New challenges and dares are part of my life now. No day is ever the same.” ■ The author, left, with her mother, Carol Berman, and sisters Terri Dinardo and Linda Evans.

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Couple helps disabled orphans across the globe through Mustard Seed Communities

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erry Newton never thought of herself as the type of person who travels to other countries to help disabled orphans.

In 2003, Newton was invited by a friend to join a mission trip to Nicaragua to help a group called Mustard Seed Communities minister to children with an array of disabilities and issues.

She had three children and was a stay-at-home mom in Johns Creek. She didn’t think too much about traveling to other countries, or helping children with disabilities.

“I said I didn’t do well with kids like that,” Newton said. “It’s not my deal.”

Convinced that all she would have to do is help rebuild the roof of a shelter, she decided to give it a shot. She started by researching Mustard Seed, an international, 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that cares for children and adults with disabilities, children with HIV/ AIDS, pregnant teenagers and impoverished families and communities. Each year, Mustard Seed sends over 900 mission volunteers to communities in Jamaica, Nicaragua, the Dominican Republic and Zimbabwe.

Newton’s church, St. Brigid Catholic Church in Johns Creek, was one of the big supporters of Mustard Seed, with fundraisers and mission trips.

So she traveled to Nicaragua to help rebuild the roof of a shelter. A few Terry and daughter Mackenzie Newton, on a mother/daughter trip to Jamaica, pose years later, she was with students in Little Angels preschool in Kingston. helping to rebuild a child’s life when she materialistic here. It’s a simpler existence down and her husband adopted a 2-year-old Newton there [in Nicaragua]. Those children don’t know met in Nicaragua. they don’t have the things we have. So if you can “Well it turns out I actually do well with make them smile and make them comfortable, kids like that and it is my deal as I’m now a then you’ve made their day.” mother of one of those kids,” Newton said. “It’s It’s safe to say that, when Newton first saw just different when you’re in the presence of Joey, she wanted to make him smile. He was those children and some of them can’t move a 2 years old and at Mustard Seed’s Nicaraguan muscle in their body other than a jerky spasm. orphanage, having been found at 3 days old in Then you make eye contact and they smile.” You a hole in the ground. By the time Newton met know you’ve made a difference in that child’s him, he had already spent time in a hospital and life even if only for that moment, she said. another orphanage, where he hadn’t received People have different gifts and different the care he needed. things they feel comfortable doing, she said.

“He did not thrive at all because he has “Sometimes they don’t know they have a gift, I special needs,” Newton said. “So he ended didn’t know I had one,” Newton said. up back in the hospital and was able to get Volunteering for a group like Mustard to Mustard Seed when he was 18 months old.

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he menu at ‘cue Barbecue is an array of meats and sides for every hankering, but here, according to owner Paul Doster, pork rules supreme.

“Our barbecue is what we consider ‘Georgia style’ as that’s where I’m from and the style I grew up with,” says Doster, who hails from LaGrange. “Pork is the main attraction whether it be chopped smoked butts or those delicious baby back ribs or the homemade pork sausage.”

And pairing it up with in-season vegetables and bread made from scratch has kept the lines long at ‘cue since it opened in 2008 off Highway 9 in Milton.

“We believe in homemaking everything and putting forth the effort it takes to make great food,” said Doster, noting most items are made in house, from the sauces to the pickles to the hand-cut fries.

Doster has been in the restaurant business for 35 years, opening his first restaurants in Hilton Head and Columbia, South Carolina, after graduating from Auburn University with a degree in food service management.

He and wife, Doreen, whom he met in Hilton Head and who works alongside him at ‘cue, moved to Alpharetta in 1999 to start a family “somewhere other than a resort community.” Their family now includes daughter Abby, a freshman at Milton High School, and Jake, a seventhgrader at Northwestern Middle.

Back in Georgia, Doster opened his first barbecue restaurant, The Swallow at the Hollow, in Roswell with a partner and left in 2007. He soon partnered with Beth Gray, a longtime friend with a business background, to open ‘cue Barbecue in Milton primarily as a catering venture.

“But, last minute, we saw a chance to put 40 to 50 seats in the location we had picked out and open a storefront as well,” said Doster of the decision to move from catering only to a fullservice restaurant.

The timing for the new restaurant coincided with the financial meltdown across the country, but Doster knew he had a winning concept.

“We did open during the crux of the economic downturn but had a great following and were thankfully on a wait on day three,” he said. “The main issue was getting folks to know where we had landed, but after a few months the word spread and more and more people came out to give us a shot.”

The recipes are a mix of Doster’s own creations, some from previous partnerships and

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“Most recipes were just gathered from many years of doing this,” he said of his three decades in the food business.

When asked to describe the “perfect meal” Doster quickly rattles off his top choices.

“Easy. Chopped pork platter, yummy coleslaw and hand-cut fries. Wait, maybe a full rack of baby back ribs and a cold beer? Or the Southwest chicken salad?” he says, laughing.

Doster surveys a bustling dining room and knows he has defied the odds in an industry which sees more than 50 percent of new restaurants close in the first year. But he points out there are no magic formulas for success, just the basics.

“There is no secret. Make good food, serve it by good people and charge a fair price.

Your staff must work with you … not for you,” says the industry veteran.

Doster also recognizes the need for ‘cue to be a part of the community, and participates regularly in school activities, fundraisers, hospital events and city-sponsored events.

“You can’t sponsor every softball or baseball team, but you can certainly donate some pork to their banquets or a gift certificate to their fundraiser,” said Doster. “To quote a songwriter friend of mine, ‘Help somebody if you can.’”

In addition to the Milton location, Doster has since opened two more ‘cue Barbecue restaurants – the first franchise location in Cumming in 2010, followed by a third location in Peachtree Corners in 2014—and is looking for a fourth site. Also in the works is a “commissary” which will allow a central location to make some menu items for the restaurants, improving consistency and lightening the load on the kitchens.

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she gives back ▼ SHE GIVES BACK, Continued from Page 16 husband Bill have three other children, Zack, Colby and Mackenzie. And, despite a busy household, the couple continues to help with Mustard Seed. Her husband serves on the group’s national board and Newton still takes mission trips with the organization, often accompanied by her daughter. They also have become instrumental in fundraising for Mustard Seed.

For the past nine years, the Newtons have held a yearly fundraiser at their home to raise money for the charity. That event has become one of the biggest moneymakers for Mustard Seed, with this past year’s affair drawing about 200 supporters and raising $174,000. Over the years, Newton said, she and her husband have raised over $1 million for the cause.

“People have different gifts and some want to support by writing a check and

that’s fine because, without that money, we can’t feed these kids,” Newton said. “But I want as many people as possible to actually experience it and see where their money is going.” Her goal is to recruit as many mission volunteers for Jamaica, Nicaragua, the Dominican Republic and Zimbabwe. “I try to get people to go down with me and see it. Once people go, they really do feel like they’re a different person when they come back and they want to continue going.”

The best part is being able to touch a child in need, make eye contact and see them smile, she said.

“That smile says it all,” Newton said.

“It says none of the other stuff in our lives matter. It’s bringing a smile to the face of a child who otherwise wouldn’t have one. If Mustard Seed hadn’t taken these children in, they might have died or never felt a hug or loving embrace. To know you’re able to make that child’s life better, if only for a moment, is absolutely worth everything.”

To learn about Mustard Seed, visit mustardseed.com. ■

Pictured, from left, the Newton family, from left, Bill, Zach, Joey, Terry, Colby and Mackenzie at their home for the Dare to Care 2015 fundraiser for Mustard Seed Communities, where they raised $174,000.

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Why you should be doing it … often

asturbation. Admitting to it or even saying it out loud seems to have so much baggage and shame attached to it, but why? This oftenunmentionable topic tends to be something only men are expected to do on a regular basis. But, ladies, listen up: Don’t miss out on this pleasure party you literally have right at your own hands.

Aside from discovering more about your body and educating yourself on what you like or don’t like sexually, this natural and healthy activity has many other health benefits you may not be aware of.

Better sleep

Herbal teas, oils and over-the-counter sleep aids not cutting it anymore? Are you desperate for some quality sleep? After reaching a climax, your body automatically becomes very relaxed and calm, leading to a much more restful night of slumber.

Stress and tension release

Trying to unwind and relax is not easy, but it is necessary.

Our bodies were designed to be relieved of stress in natural ways, and it doesn’t get any more natural than this.

It feels really good, of course

I hate to point out the obvious, but who doesn’t enjoy a great orgasm – especially one brought on exactly the way you like it done. If you are happy and satisfied, let’s face it, your world is a much better place.

If masturbation is not something you have ever been super active with, there of course will be some awkwardness and uncertainly at first. But venture into that unfamiliar territory and your body will love you for it, you will love your body more, and you really have nothing to lose. Make time for this new and healthy habit. It won’t disappoint.

Please always remember that, in all sexual activity, to practice responsibly and safely.

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rowing up just north of New York City, Dr. Joe McNamara was the eighth of 11 kids, and the son of a nurse who regularly took her children to a chiropractor to keep them healthy. Today, he is a chiropractor neurologist, as well as a volunteer firefighter for the Forsyth County Fire Department — a combination he says is “only natural” given his inclination toward healing and helping.

“With eight boys, we got into our share of mischief and adventure, which often led to the need for stitches, bandages and often more extreme measures,” NcNamara said. “From these rather regular occurrences, we learned pretty quickly how to attend to minor injuries and, most importantly, how to stay calm and focused in emergency situations.”

Dr. Joe McNamara with family, from left, daughter Shealyn, wife Karen, and sons Liam and Reilly.

You’ve lived in Forsyth County for nearly 20 years. What drew you to the area?

My wife and I fell in love with Forsyth County while driving through it one day house hunting. We were drawn to the country feel that still had plenty of modern amenities. We wanted to be a good distance from Atlanta but not so far that traveling to the city or the airport would be a burden. Boy, has Forsyth changed in 20 years!

How does a chiropractic neurologist differ from other doctors?

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My four older brothers were volunteer firefighters, and knew I wanted to be one, too. I joined our local station when I was 16 years old and volunteered until I went to college. When we moved to Forsyth in 1996, I became involved with Station 10. My wife and kids patiently put up with my pager going off at all hours of the day and night because they knew this was something I was put here to do. I don’t respond to as many calls as I used to, because of business and family commitments, but I will continue to be a volunteer for as long as the Forsyth County Fire Department will allow me.

Between running two businesses, and volunteering as A firefighter, what do you do in your rare moments of free time?

When I have down time I enjoy spending it with my wife and kids. We’re in that busy season of life that is also very fulfilling as we witness our kids blossoming into their own people. Weekends and often weekdays are spent at flag football games, volleyball matches and robotics competitions.

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Northside Man: Dr. Joe McNamara City of residence: Cumming Hometown: Mahopac, New York Family: Wife, Karen (married 20 years); Children, Liam (18), Shealyn (16) and Reilly (11).

Company, title: Owner, McNamara Chiropractic since 1996; Owner, NutriMost Cumming weight loss program since May 2015.

College and major: Bachelor of Science from the State University at Albany; Doctor of Chiropractic from Life University in 1994; Diplomat in Chiropractic Neurology in 2003 from the Carrick Institute of Neurological Studies.

It’s January have you made any resolutions for 2016?

My New Year’s resolution is to continue to work on being a more compassionate, loving and understanding husband, father and human being. As my oldest son marches toward graduation from high school this year, I am reminded that these traits are what really matter. ■

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growing number of people today are going Paleo – following a lifestyle that is based on the concept of eating like our Paleolithic ancestors. They believe if a caveman did not eat it, you should not either.

While many nutritionists praise the idea of eating less sugar and processed foods, some are concerned the diet plan lacks essential nutrients – especially calcium and vitamin D. For more balance, some are opting for a Lacto-Paleo diet, which incorporates dairy products. This variation of the original plan adds essential nutrients and flexibility for dieters who want dairy back in their diet.

“I’m happy to see this trend because the addition of dairy helps make the Paleo plan significantly more nutritious,” said registered dietitian Holley Grainger. “Milk is the primary source of calcium and vitamin D, and when you completely eliminate milk it’s hard to make up for the nutrients you miss out on.”

If you are considering a Paleo lifestyle, or are already following one and miss the milk, Grainger offers this advice: Find the milk that’s right for you. The dairy case offers a wide range of milk products, so check out the varieties that appeal to you – including organic or lactose-free.

Try plain Greek yogurt. You may be skipping the flavored yogurts with added sugar, but it’s easy to add your own fruit or other ingredients to plain varieties, or try making your own yogurt with milk.

Make a Paleo pudding with milk. Create a Paleo-approved dessert, such as a chia pudding or other puddings made with milk without added sugar.

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any of my clients say, “I will hire you when I lose those last 15 pounds.” It is important to dress the body you have today. When you look better, you feel better and are more inclined to take better care of yourself.

In turn, you will have more success in reaching your weight-loss goals. Positive reminders (a new blouse that doesn’t threaten to burst at the buttonholes) is better than a negative reminder (those too-tight jeans you keep forcing yourself to wear.) Here are my tips for styles to wear while losing weight that will fit nicely now and can be styled for use when you reach your goal weight:

Wrap dress in packable jersey fabric

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Wide belt

Use a wide belt to give shape to your looser items such as long cardigans, kimono jackets, or long open sweater vests.

A-line skirt

This silhouette accommodates shrinking hips and will still look good when you reach your goal weight. It may fit lower on your waist, which isn’t a bad thing, either.

Maxi skirt

A camouflaging silhouette for curvy hips and thighs. The human eye automatically draws a perfect figure under this flowing silhouette. Best of all it will still fit nicely over your new slimmer self. Looks great with a leather jacket in the winter or tank in the summer.

Super Stretch denim jeans from Lucky Brand will not bag … .ever!

Unlike other jeans that will stretch out, this fabric will not stretch and will fit you as you whittle off those last few pounds. Choose a midrise, dark denim in boot cut or straight leg for a long leggy effect.

Dress pants in a wide or straight leg in easy-care fabric with stretch My recommendation for my budgetconscious clients is the Style & Co. brand by Macy’s. Less than $40, these pants can be thrown in the washer, feel as comfy as yoga pants and are appropriate for the workplace. Get them in the wide comfort waist.

Final tip

If you have gained or lost at least 10 pounds or more, it is imperative that you update your bras. Get a professional bra fitting at Nordstrom, Dillard’s, Soma or Intimacy. A bra’s lifespan is only one year. Like a great pair of running shoes, invest in proper fitting bras for the best overall silhouette and posture. . ■ As a personal wardrobe consultant and owner of Alpharetta-based Fashion With Flair, Lori Wynne helps people look their best.

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1. Eliminate credit card debt

You already know that the money you spend on interest is wasted, and that some sacrifice will be required to become debt free. Once your balances are gone, continue your austerity measures and begin to save for the things you really enjoy, and never charge more than you can afford to pay off at the end of each month.

2. Save more for retirement

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effort, you can start saving for retirement today. If your company has a 401[k] plan, be sure to at least contribute any portion matched.

Every dollar saved in taxes truly is a dollar earned, and also another dollar you can devote toward your retirement.

3. Reduce monthly bills

Break out your monthly billing statements and review them for fees you didn’t know you were paying. Contact your provider to find out why they’re there, and do whatever you can to get them eliminated. Don’t hesitate to mention switching companies — it just might do the trick. See if you can scale back your cell phone plan or cable

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5. Improve your health

A heather lifestyle means fewer medical bills. Plus, the better you feel into your later years, the easier it will be for you to keep working. Eating healthier and

Even if you develop feasible financial resolutions, you’ll have a hard time achieving them if you don’t map out a plan. Write your resolutions down and set 30-, 60- and 90-day goals to ensure that you stay on track. Also consider rewarding yourself for staying on track and achieving your resolutions. Setting financial resolutions is a great idea, but it will be an exercise in futility if you don’t make a commitment and set a plan to achieve them. ■

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Ask the Vet

New Years Resolutions for happy, healthy pets

BY DR. BEATRIZ SEGARRA

The VILLAGE ANIMAL Hospital – JOHNS CREEK www.thevillageanimalhospital.com

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t’s a New Year and having New Year’s resolutions for our pets is important. Here are some ideas for your furry friends to keep them safe, happy and healthy all year long.

Get an annual exam. A yearly physical exam with vaccinations is great preventive medicine for your pet.

Protecting our pets from getting infectious diseases by vaccinating them is smart and easy to do. It is also required by law to have our pets vaccinated against rabies. Schedule a yearly exam with your veterinarian and be sure to ask which vaccines and exams are needed, such as the fecal exam and heartworm test.

Identify your pet. Getting collars and tags for your pets makes it easier to find out who their owners are if they get lost, and that they have up-to-date vaccinations. On the tags, include your name, phone number and address to help your pet find his/her way back home. Getting a rabies tag on the collar is also important to show your pet is vaccinated and current with the law.

Consider a microchip. Having your veterinarian implant a microchip is a simple and noninvasive procedure that can be lifesaving for your pet. A small chip with a unique identification number is placed via a syringe underneath the pet’s skin. This chip is easily scanned. If your pet has a microchip, the scanner

ME ADOPT detects the chip immediately and, in the event that your pet gets lost, veterinary clinics and shelters will have a way to contact you and reunite you with your pet.

Spay or neuter. If your pet is not yet spayed or neutered, schedule an appointment and get it done.

Spaying or neutering your pet will not only prevent overpopulation of unwanted pets but it will also prevent cancer and other potentially life-threatening conditions. Neutering can also help prevent your pet from marking and roaming behaviors, as well as aggressive behaviors.

Work on best behavior. If your pet is in need of behavior training to make your life (and maybe your neighbor’s) a bit better, consider enrolling your pet in an obedience school. There are many quality dog trainers and obedience schools in the area, so contact your veterinarian for recommendations.

Prevent common ailments. Last but not least, give your pet monthly heartworm and flea/ tick prevention. Heartworm infection and flea/tick infestation are easily preventable, and medication is important if your pets spend any amount of time outdoors. Making sure that your pet is protected against these parasites will help keep your pet healthy and happy in the New Year. ■

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Christmas Tree Recycling 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. Milton Grows Green presents “Bring One for the Chipper,” a Christmas tree recycling event. Bring your tree to Scottsdale Farms, Milton High School or Home Depot. Or, for a $15 fee, Boy Scout Troop 841 will pick up your tree. Email treepickup841@yahoo.com. For more information, contact MGG@cityofmiltonga.us Friends of the Alpharetta Library Book Sale 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Come support the library and library programs by shopping at the Friends’ book sale on the library porch and in the Friends Bookstore (upper level, lobby area). Alpharetta Library, 10 Park Plaza, Alpharetta 30009. For information, call 404-613-6735

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Beginner’s Genealogy Class 6 p.m. Bob Volz will teach attendees how to begin a search for their ancestors.

The class will focus on research skills needed to discover your own family history. Registration required. Milton Library, 855 Mayfield Road, Milton 30009.

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Evening in Italy with Colletta Restaurant 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. Whole Foods’ Salud!

Cooking School presents Executive Chef Michael Perez showing off the flavors of Avalon’s flagship Italian restaurant, Colletta. Students will enjoy a relaxing evening sampling Perez’s handcrafted creations as well as delightful Italian wines. The menu will include: clams in white wine with prosciutto and focaccia; fresh tagliatelle with egg yolk and bacon; whole salt-packed bronzino with winter vegetables; and affogato with Whole Foods gelato and biscotti. $45. Whole Foods Market, Avalon, 2800 Old Milton Parkway, Alpharetta. www.wholefoodsmarket.com/service/ salud-cooking-school-4

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“Charley’s Aunt” by Georgia Ensemble Theatre 8 p.m. Shows continue through Jan. 24. The ideal cure for the post-holiday doldrums. Jack loves Kitty, and Charley loves Amy. But things are about to get complicated, and it involves a young fellow donning bloomers and a corset. You'll laugh yourself silly at this outrageous romp filled with comic confusion and mistaken identities. Georgia Ensemble Theatre at the Roswell Cultural Arts Center, 950 Forrest St., Roswell. www.get.org

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Organ Concert “Tales from Vienna” with the High Museum of Art 2-4 p.m. Enjoy an afternoon organ concert as well as famous masterworks from Vienna and the Habsburgs. Concert organist Dr. Jens Korndörfer has curated a program including Strauss' “Radetzky March” and “Blue Danube Waltz,” Brahms'

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“Hungarian Dance No. 5,” and excerpts from Beethoven's “Fifth Symphony.”

The music will be in First Presbyterian Church's sanctuary, next door to the museum. After the concert, visitors are invited to the High Museum to explore “Habsburg Splendor: Masterpieces from Vienna's Imperial Collections,” the artwork that inspired the concert. A champagne toast will herald the final weeks of the exhibition. High Museum of Art, 1280 Peachtree St., NE, Atlanta. www.high.org “Mark Twain and Samuel Clements Together 2016” at Cumming Playhouse 8 p.m. Kurt H. Sutton portrays both the man and the myth by having Mark Twain and Samuel L. Clemens on stage at the same time in an entertaining, interactive show featuring Twain’s hilarious tall tales and witty humor as well as music from Clemens’ time period. Cumming Playhouse, within the Historic Cumming Public School, 101 School St., Cumming. www.playhousecumming.com “Couples Cooking” at Publix Aprons Cooking School 7 p.m. In this hands-on class, couples will learn how to lighten up favorite winter comfort foods such as Turkish turkey meatballs with zesty yogurt sauce, pressure-cooked chicken pot roast with quinoa and vegetables, young green pea and parmesan barley risotto and no-bake light New York-style cheesecake. $90 per couple. Publix Aprons Cooking School, 4305 State Bridge Road, Alpharetta. 770751-8560. ww2.publix.com/aprons/schools/ Alpharetta/Calendar.do?childId=201600

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“The Book of Mormon” at Fox Theatre 7:30 p.m. Shows run through Jan. 24. The Book of Mormon” is a religious satire musical with book, lyrics and music

by Trey Parker, Robert Lopez and Matt Stone. Parker and Stone, best known for creating the animated comedy “South Park,” co-created the music with Lopez, a co-composer/co-lyricist of “Avenue Q” and “Frozen.” “The Book of Mormon” tells the story of two young Mormon missionaries sent to a remote village in northern Uganda, where a brutal warlord is threatening the local population. www.foxtheatre.org

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Author Charles Belfoure 6:30 p.m. Charles Belfoure, the New York Times best-selling author of “The Paris Architect,” returns to FoxTale Book Shoppe with his best-selling “House of Thieves.” FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 East Main St., #138, Woodstock. www.foxtalebookshoppe.com/events/

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“Shen Yun” at Cobb Energy Centre 7:30 p.m. Performances also Jan. 16-17.

Take an extraordinary journey across 5,000 years of Chinese civilization. With classical dance, a live orchestra featuring

expressive Chinese instruments, dazzling costumes and animated backdrops, “Shen Yun” will transport you to another world.

Classical Chinese dance is one of the most demanding and expressive art forms in the world. Tickets range from $65 to $205, plus applicable fees. Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre, 2800 Cobb Galleria Parkway, Atlanta. www.cobbenergycentre.com

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Understanding Your Credit 2 p.m. Amy Terry, branch manager of Renasant Bank, will explain how credit works and discuss various credit cards as well as answer questions.

Milton Library, 855 Mayfield Road, Milton 30009. For information, call 404-613-4402

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Slitherin' into the New Year with Reptiles Noon-4 p.m. The Chattahoochee Nature Center kicks off their 40th anniversary year and celebrates with a day devoted to reptiles. Jason Clark with Southeastern Reptile Rescue will bring his dynamic live reptile shows and the amazing “Reptile Wagon,” a traveling reptile exhibit including venomous and nonvenomous snakes. Chattahoochee Nature Center, 9135 Willeo Road, Roswell. www.chattnaturecenter.org

used since antiquity to treat a variety of ailments. $35. Registration required by Jan. 27. Chattahoochee Nature Center, 9135 Willeo Road, Roswell, 770-992-2055. www.chattnaturecenter.org “In the Mood: A 1940s Musical Review” at Cobb Energy Centre 2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Fans of the American big bands and the big band era will enjoy the brassy, all-singing, all-dancing, allAmerican 1940s musical revue, “In The Mood,” which is coming to Atlanta to celebrate 23 years on tour. The 13-piece String of Pearls Big Band Orchestra and the In The Mood Singers and Dancers will be performing over 50 unforgettable hits, such as, “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy,” “Well Get It,” “Sing, Sing, Sing,” “On The Sunny Side of the Street” and many more. Tickets range from $22 to $62, plus applicable fees.

Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre, 2800 Cobb Galleria Parkway, Atlanta. www.cobbenergycentre.com Wedding Planning 3 p.m. There’s a lot of work to do for the newly engaged. This workshop will help brides-to-be plan that special day. Milton Library, 855 Mayfield Road, Milton 30009.

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Roswell Restaurant Week Through Jan. 31. Enjoy this citywide event that encourages locals to try new dining options and invites new customers to the Roswell restaurant scene.

Roswell Restaurant Week highlights the diverse culinary experiences Roswell has to offer. Details at roswellrw.com/participationform

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Friends of Northeast/Spruill Oaks Library Book Sale 1-4 p.m.; Jan. 30, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; Jan. 31, 2-4 p.m. A wide range of books and media will be for sale at great prices. Donations welcome. Northeast/Spruill Oaks Library, 9560 Spruill Road, Johns Creek 30022. For information, call 770-360-8820 Winter Bird Seed Sale Prepurchase Jan. 29-Feb. 7 with pickup Feb. 12-14. Just in time for the Great Backyard Bird Count, fill your feeders with Cole’s premium bird see and benefit the Chattahoochee Nature Center.

CNC members save 15 percent. Place orders online or at the Natural Store.

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Medicinal Plants and Aromatherapy Workshop 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. Get a holistic start to the new year with a fun and interactive look at what Mother Nature has to offer to any health regimen. Join Lisa Cole, CNC horticulturist, for this introduction into the amazing world of healing plants. This beginners’ class focuses on herbs and oils

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Blind Boys of Alabama Live! in Roswell 8 p.m. The Blind Boys of Alabama, recognized worldwide as living legends of gospel music, have won five Grammys.

Celebrated by the National Endowment for the Arts and the National Academy of Recording Arts and Sciences with Lifetime Achievement Awards, they also have been inducted into the Gospel Music Hall of Fame. Tickets $40. Roswell Cultural Arts Center, 950 Forrest St., Roswell. www.roswellgov.com

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‘Flying into the Future’ at CNC Noon-4 p.m. “Flying into the Future” is a STEM-focused event that will introduce visitors to flight. Whether it’s a bird flying through the air, a plane gliding in the sky or a rocket soaring to the moon, the mechanics of flight start with the basics. Chattahoochee Nature Center, 9135 Willeo Road, Roswell. www.chattnaturecenter.org■

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