CHAMBER CONNECT
Michael V. Grandi President, Matawan Aberdeen Chamber of Commerce
As the President of the Matawan-Aberdeen Chamber of Commerce, I am thrilled to announce and welcome our newest members: The Aesthetic Bar and Red Bank Center for Rehabilitation & Healing, and Patrizia’s of Matawan . Our November calendar featured an exciting lineup of events. On November 15th, we hosted a Networking Luncheon at the Court Jester in Aberdeen. Mike Giasi from New York Life was our guest speaker. Please join us for our annual Holiday Gathering on Thursday, December 5th, at Maloney’s on Main Street in Matawan. We celebrated 3 recent ribbon cuttings in our community. On November 2nd, we were at The Aesthetic Bar, located in the Bellazio Collective in Matawan, Peaceful Pines on November 7th, and Patrizia’s on November 13th. We look forward to seeing you at our events this month and throughout season.
LAST FEW WEEKS TO DONATE TO TOYS FOR TOTS
Now, we are in our Holiday season again, All Around Publications with the Matawan & Aberdeen PBA wants to give back to our most prized community members, our children, this season with a goal of 2,500 toys to donate, we can reach that goal this year with your help. Just think the smiles we will bring to the children this year. With the support of the residents and businesses of Matawan & Aberdeen by participating in our Annual Giving Event “Toys
for Tots”, we will begin collecting donations through December 14h to help provide the much-needed joy the children deserve for the holidays. Over the last few years, All Around Old Bridge collected 10,000 toys and watched as residents both from and outside Old Bridge lent a helping- hand. With a donation from each of our businesses and residents, we can help provide toys for many children this holiday season, together we can make a difference. To make your donation, you can drop off
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A LOOK BACK AT 2024 – A YEAR OF COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
By Cathy Zavorskas, Director of Community Engagement, Borough of Matawan
As 2024 draws to a close, it provides the opportunity to look back and reflect upon the year. For the Matawan Borough Recreation Commission, it was a busy, yet satisfying year as we gathered to discuss, plan, and implement the summer recreation camp and fifteen or so events throughout 2024. From the first event, the Easter Egg Hunt to our last event, Winter Festival of Lights, our goal has been to build upon these annual offerings and improve upon the way in which we advertise and engage with the community. To that end, we printed more banners with multiple events per set and included other Matawan Borough Commission events whenever possible. We also expanded the number of posts
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LAST FEW WEEKS TO DONATE TO TOYS FOR TOTS
In addition to All Around Publications Toys for Tots, KP Edgestone is kicking of their 6th Annual Toy Drive in both their Matawan and Jamesburg offices. The brokerage is continuing their long-running tradition to be part of this festive event as they encourage people to give back to their community by donating a new, unwrapped toy to the drive. Matt Lewellen, Branch Manager of the KP Edgestone Matawan office loves helping with the drive every year. “It’s always a pleasure getting our collection box set up and putting up the holiday decorations around the office to bring in the holiday spirit. We appreciate our agents, friends and neighbors who help out every year by bringing in toys!” This year KP Edgestone Realty has teamed up with All Around Matawan-Aberdeen to get
the word out. The more people know about the drive, the more successful it will be.
The Toys for Tots program is run by the United States Marine Corps Reserve and has been helping bring smiles to the faces of children since 1947. The mission of the program is to provide disadvantaged children with a sense of hope and recognition, building self-esteem and helping the children to become responsible citizens and caring members of their community.
The program relies on the generosity of donors and the support of local communities. When you’re out buying gifts for your loved ones, pick one up for the donation box. Donations accepted at 76 Main Street in Matawan from November 22nd through December 17th.
MATAWAN MAYOR ALTOMONTE MESSAGE
Matawan Mayor Joseph Altomonte
I am thrilled to announce that the Borough of Matawan has been awarded a $299,000 grant from the New Jersey Department of Transportation (NJDOT) under the FY 2025 Municipal Aid Program. This funding will enable us to make significant roadway improvements on MacArthur Drive and Eisenhower Court, ensuring safer and more accessible streets for our residents.
Securing grants like this is a top priority for my administration. It is essential for municipalities to aggressively pursue every available opportunity to fund critical infrastructure projects. Grants such as this one allow us to address vital needs without placing additional financial burdens on our taxpayers. Our success reflects the hard work and dedication of our team, who remain committed to advancing Matawan’s future. This project will address pavement
deterioration, improve drainage systems, and enhance safety for both drivers and pedestrians. MacArthur Drive and Eisenhower Court are key residential streets, and these upgrades will make a meaningful difference for our community.
Roadway improvements are more than just a matter of convenience—they are investments in safety, sustainability, and the quality of life for our residents. I look forward to seeing the impact this grant will have on our Borough, and I remain committed to seeking further funding opportunities that support Matawan’s growth and success. As plans are finalized, we will keep residents informed every step of the way. Together, we are building a stronger, safer Matawan for generations to come.
A MESSAGE FROM THE MATAWAN ABERDEEN BOARD OF EDUCATION
At holiday time, we are all flooded with requests for donations. Yet one place where your contributions can make a direct impact in our own community is through our school district’s charity: MARSD Cares. Its objective is to give assistance to those facing hardships, including students, their families, and our staff. In the past, MARSD Cares has helped victims of fires, sudden deaths, and serious illnesses. Funds are raised directly through donations and fundraisers
You can make a significant difference by donating to its newest event, the Winter Wonderland Holiday Feast for 80+ MARSD families who are most in need.
This magical celebration on December 17th will include delicious food, exciting events, and gifts for the children. To be successful, donations of money, gifts, and services from our community and local businesses are needed. Volunteers are also appreciated. To contribute or help, contact Darlene Gallagher, Confidential Executive Secretary, at dgallagher@marsd.org.
Also on the Board’s mind at this time of year is helping the school district prepare for a mandatory oversight initiative called QSAC (Quality Single Accountability Con-
tinuum). The NJ Department of Education mandates QSAC accountability in each district every three years to ensure that it is operating effectively and in compliance with all applicable state laws and requirements. There are five key components: Instruction & Program, Fiscal, Governance, Operations, and Personnel. Each review consists of a self-evaluation backed by documentation, a “desk audit” review of files, and an extensive site visit. The Board will be reviewing and approving the self-evaluation before submission, and afterwards, planning and approving budgets to support any items where the district may not have met state required standards. As always, we are thankful to be serving you and wish you happiness throughout the holiday season!
DEANA GUNN, MATAWAN COUNCIL PRESIDENT
As another year closes out, this has been incredible for Matawan, thanks to the hard work and dedication of so many individuals who care deeply about our community. Successful events like the Shark 5K— bringing residents and visitors together, and the unforgettable Matawan Day at its new location, filled with vibrant festivities, are a testament to our collective spirit. And the excitement isn’t over yet, with a few more events on the horizon! As we move Matawan to the future, we have enhanced our senior services and continue to be proud of our history with an active Historical Society and Sites Commission, remembering our past while we move forward. Behind the scenes, so much effort goes into ensuring Matawan functions smoothly, and these accomplishments are only possible with the combined dedication of the Matawan Police Department, Department of Public Works, Fire Department,
Borough Administrator, and all our employees. Your commitment to keeping our community safe, thriving, and vibrant does not go unnoticed—thank you for all you do. We also celebrated new developments, like the beautiful dock at Lake Lefferts, now a beloved spot for relaxation and recreation. We upgraded Penniple and Clinton Street Parks. To our commission volunteers and the Matawan Borough Council, who work so hard, your time, energy, and passion truly make Matawan a place we can all be proud to call home. We appreciate your contributions to the Recreation, Economic Business Development, Shade Tree Commissions! As we close out one and head into another year, let’s continue prioritizing what’s best for Matawan, building on the momentum of this year’s successes. Together, we can ensure our community grows even stronger, safer, and more vibrant every year. Thank you for everything you do to make Matawan a wonderful place to live, work, and enjoy! Hope you and yours have a wonderful holiday season!
Deana Gunn Matawan Council President
FINDING HOPE AND LOVE IN TIMES OF GRIEF AND LOSS DURING THE HOLIDAYS
L. Hernandez, Jr Funeral Director/
The holidays, typically filled with joy, laughter, and familial gatherings, can amplify feelings of absence and sorrow. Each ornament hung on the tree, every carol sung, and each tradition observed can evoke memories of the person
who is no longer present. It is in these moments that the reality of the forever bond becomes starkly apparent; the love we shared does not dissipate with their absence, but rather transforms into a bittersweet reminder of what once was.
In navigating this complex landscape of grief, it is essential to recognize that coping does not equate to moving on or getting over the loss. Instead, coping involves finding ways to honor the memory of our loved ones while allowing ourselves to feel the pain of their absence. This might include lighting a candle in their memory, sharing stories that evoke their spirit, or participating in charitable acts that reflect their values.
Ultimately, the process of coping through the holidays is about finding a way to coexist with our grief, embracing the love that remains while acknowledging the sorrow. It is a testament to the bond that endures, reminding us that while loss is profound, love is lasting and can provide comfort even in the most challenging times.
MAYOR TAGLIARINI MESSAGE
On Sun Nov 10th, Aberdeen Township honored our veteran heros with a Free breakfast, certificates of appreciation and a Car Show at Matawan High School. Guest speakers included Vincent Solomeno,State Commissioner of Veterans Affairs, Jeff Cantor, founder of NJ Veterans Chamber of Commerce and special guest Jack Furnari , ambassador from Tunnel to Towers. This event was made possible by a do-
nation from The Addison Park Banquet Hall and catered Free by Town Square Diner. I would also like to thank Jamm Pops and Mommy’s Little Sugar Cookies. The Car Show was presented by Kroozin Productions. Entertainment was provided by the Matawan HS Marching Band.
Thank you Aberdeen Veteran Heros for your service.
Fred Tagliarini
Mayor Aberdeen,NJ
Once again, MAPL will be celebrating The Festival of Giving – we collect items throughout the month of December to then give to individuals in need.
This year, along with our ongoing collection of nonperishable items for the Matawan Food Pantry, we are again requesting donations of new mittens, gloves, hats, and scarves for our Mitten Tree. We are continuing our partnership with the Woman’s Club of Matawan and their lovely Giving Tree, where those who donate books for children and teens in need may take a handcrafted ornament. New this year: we are serving as a drop-off point for TOYS FOR TOTS! We’re accepting new, unwrapped toys through mid-December. Don’t forget about all of our special holiday programs for patrons of all ages!
For kids: Special Craft-on-the-Go each Friday, two Gingerbread Parties, Family Cookie Baking, and Holiday Shorts & Hot Cocoa! Don’t forget about the New Year Fun Packs!!
For teens: Teen Volunteer Night, and Teen Cupcake Decorating!
For adults: After-Hours Music: Holiday
Lights with Francine and Joel, Cooking with Nick: Holiday Desserts, Holiday Ornament Craft, and Crochet/Knit for a Cause! Registration is required for many of our programs due to space limitations. For more details about our December events and to register, make sure to visit our website at www.mapl.org, stop by, or give us a call at 732-583-9100. Additionally, MAPL is partnering with two organizations this winter to assist those in need. Volunteers from the Tzu Chi Foundation will be at the library one Wednesday morning per month starting on December 18th to assist individuals in applying for NJ SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program). Please call (732) 518-8405 for more information. We will continue our partnership with AARP for free tax assistance in 2025. Volunteers will be at the library on Tuesdays and Fridays starting on February 4th. Appointments are required and can be made starting in mid-January. Wishing you and yours a very happy holiday season! Kimberly Paone, Library Director Matawan Aberdeen Public Library
PREPARING KIDS FOR COLLEGE
By Paul Pscolka
Sending a child off to college is a proud yet daunting time for families. Preparing early can help both parents and students navigate this transition with confidence.
Fostering Independence
Encourage independence long before move-in day. Teaching children to handle challenges on their own during high school can ease their adjustment to college life and bring parents peace of mind.
Balancing Support and Space
At university, students need to feel supported yet independent. Regular but non-intrusive communication reassures them that they are loved while giving them space to grow.
Teaching Self-Advocacy
Students who know how to advocate for themselves—whether by seeking help from professors or addressing personal issues—tend to thrive. Parents who instill this skill worry less.
Building Responsibility
Time management and academic discipline are key to success in college. Reinforcing responsibility during the teenage years helps prepare students to juggle deadlines, classes, and social life effectively.
Discussing Finances
Open conversations about budgeting and
spending ensure both students and parents avoid financial strain. Setting boundaries on expenses prevents surprises down the road.
Encouraging Exploration
College is a time for discovery. Students flourish when they explore new interests, whether through courses or extracurricular activities. Parents should encourage curiosity, knowing growth often comes from stepping outside one’s comfort zone.
Celebrating Achievements
Only 7% of the world’s population holds a bachelor’s degree, making this milestone worth celebrating. Parents can take pride in their child’s journey and accomplishments.
The Bottom Line
Sending a child to college is transformative for any family. By fostering independence, teaching responsibility, and celebrating milestones, parents can guide their children to thrive in this new chapter while embracing the journey themselves. Suggestion for a topic? You can reach me at info@ivymasters.com
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A LOOK BACK AT 2024 – A YEAR OF COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
By Cathy Zavorskas, Director of Community Engagement, Borough of Matawan
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on FB and Instagram which resulted in a considerable increase of followers at both sites who shared and disseminated the information to friends and family. Articles and advertisements in this paper and on the Patch also contributed, as did the use of the town marquees, and the Borough website.
As a result, the Recreation Commission saw an increase in overall attendance at the events throughout the year. We were pleased to see such consistency and more than that, a wonderful sense of community spirit and enthusiasm by all who came. We were delighted to receive much positive feedback and even ideas for improvements in the future. We appreciated all the comments and know that they will help us create even better events the next time around.
Once the new year begins, the Recreation Commission will be hard at work reviewing, discussing and planning the all events and activities for 2025. Up for consideration are modifying the summer rec camp program, the expansion of senior programs and the space to have weekly, bi-monthly, and monthly senior activities and events,
the continuation of our senior exercise programs, and trips to shows and other places of interest. We hope as well to consider plans for teens and make some improvements to the parks and downtown area with the money raised from the Turkey Trot 5k.
We hope to build upon the strides that were made by all the commissions in offering quality programs and with improving the overall level of community engagement this year. As 2024 winds down, the Matawan Borough Recreation Commission wishes each of you a wonderful holiday season, and a happy and healthy new year! See you in 2025!
