SURVIVING AS A SINGLE PARENT

Balancing work life and parenthood is a challenge in itself and if you are doing it alone, you need a lot of courage and patience to keep yourself together.

Problems of a Single/Unsupported Parent:

A single/ unsupported parent not only has the responsibility of childcare and working hours but there is also the pressure of managing finance and keeping everything in balance. Single parents or unsupported moms have to handle so much and still, they want to be good parents and spend enough time with their kids. If you are dealing with the same problems, this will help you to keep everything under control. You should always remember that you are not alone in your journey. Here are a few strategies to help balance work life with parenthood as a single or unsupported parent.

1. Give Yourself Some Time:

Dealing with kids alone is not an easy task. If things are getting out of hand just take some time and get relaxed. Don’t expect so much from yourself in the early days. No matter what you are dealing with now, after some time things will get normal and you will manage everything. Talking to your close friends will help you heal faster.

2. Know Your Limits:

Analyze your situation and figure out where you need help and support. Some jobs require you to travel a lot so you might want help with childcare. You can ask for help from family, friends, or daycare and after-school care workers.

3. Look For The Companies That Meet Your Requirements:

Before looking for a job, you should know what the company has to offer you. You can visit the company’s website to see the benefits it provides to its employees. A company with access to daycare might be an ideal option for you. Furthermore, you can look for companies that allow work from home.

4. Be Kind To Yourself:

Nothing is more important than being kind to yourself in these hard times. If you are not going to take care of yourself, you cannot help or support your family. You have huge responsibilities but don’t let yourself down. You are doing great and you deserve self-compassion for your mental health and well-being. In the end, if you are good to yourself, you can give your child everything they need.

Instincts

“You don't take a class; you're thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”

Jennie Finch