Dr Tom Smiley, the psychological benefits of Years 7 and 8 in prep school

From a developmental aspect, the ages of 11-13 are crucial. Most children will be in the beginning stages of puberty. During this stage of life, they will be going through a myriad of changes and will likely be experiencing feelings of doubt and insecurity. When you add in the change from being the eldest and most mature in the school, to the bottom of senior school, it can become a very daunting transition. Those who choose to stay until Year 8 are given the opportunity to bridge this gap and can go on to senior schools with more confidence in themselves and higher resilience to dealing with change.

We believe going through this uncertain time in their lives in an environment that is comfortable and familiar can be hugely beneficial. A senior school Head recently cited this period as a key time to be in a less pressured and familiar environment, so children can flourish at the top end of the school and transition to senior school as confident and happy learners.

We firmly believe having an extra two years allows for fantastic social and emotional development. The children truly get to benefit from being a ‘big fish in a small pond’, allowing them to flourish at their own rate without feeling they need to grow up so quickly. This rains particularly true for less self-assured pupils, staying in our intimate, nurturing environment can help dramatically with confidence building. We believe the children that leave us in Year 8, leave as well educated and happy young people, with great confidence to tackle anything thrown at them.

A final thought if you are a parent. When moving to senior school, part of childhood ends. Unfortunately, you will never feel the same sense of community and belonging as you do in a prep school. In senior schools, your input and involvement with the school diminishes. This is not due to the school, just the nature of the age group. Your child will want you to take a step away from their education as they grow more independent. By using the opportunity to stay in preparatory school, you and your child can savour those precious last years of childhood before embarking on their senior journey.