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‘Home’ for the Holidays BY APRIL ZIEMER EDITOR@THEAMERYFREEPRESS.COM
People tend to look forward to the holidays. A grand time of celebration with loved ones, an opportunity for family togetherness and a time for recreating long standing family traditions. What if even while you stood within the walls of a loving home, you never really felt “home” for the holidays? For anyone who is adopted, young or old, this time of year can be complicated.
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Aubrielle Harris and Maycee Harris were angels for the Congregational Church Christmas program December 15.
Prepping for a program BY APRIL ZIEMER EDITOR@THEAMERYFREEPRESS.COM
Bing Crosby once said, “Unless we make Christmas an occasion to share our blessings, all the snow in Alaska won't make it white.” Over the past several weeks, area churches have had their little parish blessings share the reason for the season in area church Christmas programs. The youngsters have SEE PREPPING, PAGE 16A
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Michael Clark Jr. (left) sits in the Kent County Circuit Court during his adoption ceremony on Thursday, Dec. 5, 2019. His kindergarten classmates are seated behind him and watched the ceremony.
A recent story in the news about Michael Clark Jr., a kindergartner who invited his entire class to his adoption hearing, captured the hearts of viewers. Clark Jr.’s classmates were in the courtroom showing support for him on an annual Adoption Day in Kent County, Michigan. They held paper hearts in their hands as the young man sat at a table in front of a judge.
His parents, Andrea Melvin and Dave Eaton, legally adopted him Dec. 5. There were 36 other children adopted during the adoption day at the Kent County courthouse during a finalization hearing that lasted about 30 minutes for each family. More than 12 million people on Facebook have seen his adoption day story. He has been featured on several major television news shows, as well. Adoption is many times featured in television and film. Movies such as 2018’s “Instant Family” and the 2014 “Annie” remake take a fictional depiction of the topic. Hit television shows such as TLC’c “Long Lost Family” give a real life look at those who have experienced both sides of adoption themselves. The adoption experience is clearly different for all those who have had involvement with it. The holidays though, seem to be a time when some tend to have mixed emotions. “What I do know is that many adopted children will be thinking of their birth families during the holidays this year. They may feel alone and not know what to do with their pain and their loss. They might not even be able to recognize that what they’re feeling is pain and loss. These can be very private feelings and children are unsure who would even understand then,” said Jennifer Eckert of Boston Post Adoption Resources. While there is no single source that covers all adoption statistics, ChildWelfare.gov said in a report (published in 2016) that nearly 120,000 children were adopted in 2012, but adoption rates appear to be declining as there was a 14% decrease that year and the downward trend was a continuation from 2001 figures. Adoption agencies report they get a higher than average amount of requests for information from adult adoptees in November and December. It is certainly a time of year when family seems to be on SEE ADOPTION, PAGE 2A
The Christmas Story–St. Luke 2: 1-20 And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed. And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria. And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city. And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; because he was of the
house and lineage of David. To be taxed with Mary, his espoused wife, being great with child. And so it was, that, while they went there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn. And there were in the same country
shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them; and they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, Fear not; for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the SEE CHRISTMAS, PAGE 2A
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