Ambush Magazine Volume 36 Issue 18 by Ambush Publishing

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A Biweekly Publication Celebrating LGBTQ Life, Music & Culture Since 1982 VOLUME 36 ISSUE 18

TUESDAY, August 28, 2018

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Official Southern Decadence Guide™

THE “OFFICIAL” DISH by TJ ACOSTA, PUBLISHER

Dear Ambush Nation, SOUTHERN DECADENCE, New Orleans’ largest LGBT+ holiday is finally here and we couldn’t be more excited! Once again Ambush Magazine, as The Official Southern Decadence Guide, is the ONLY place to find all things Southern Decadence. Inside this issue of Ambush we have a listing of events, restaurants and other attractions along with entertainer profiles. Over 100 events cover the gamut of LGBT+ life, music and culture for this 47th Annual Southern Decadence Celebration. We hope everyone has an amazing time in New Orleans this Labor Day weekend. If you live here in New Orleans or have been to Southern Decadence before you know what to expect. If this is your first time - Welcome to the BIG EASY! My advice to all newbies is to simply grab a cocktail or 10 and enjoy the ride, literally! Decadence is unlike any other gay event you’ve ever seen and we hope you enjoy every moment! There are so many events to enjoy during Decadence but the highlight is always the Southern Decadence Parade led by the Grand Marshals. The parade is on Sunday, September 2nd at 2 pm. The parade starts at The Golden Lantern bar, the official home of Southern Decadence, located at

1239 Royal Street and will follow the traditional parade route through the French Quarter. This year’s parade is expected to be the biggest in the history of Southern Decadence with well over 1,000 people marching. For more information check out the official Southern Decadence website at www. southerndecadence.com On behalf of myself and the entire Ambush Nation, we would like to offer our sincere congratulations to this year’s Grand Marshals Frank Perez and Adikus Sulpizi. Being a GM is a great honor but it also entails much work. Since they were announced as SDGM’s on May 10, both men along with their entourages have been busy raising funds for this year’s parade and the Official Southern Decadence charities, Mr. Friendly and the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana. There have been well over 20 fundraisers and more than $25,000 raised so far. Again, congratulations Frank and Adikus and enjoy your reign! On a personal note, this is my first Southern Decadence as the owner of Ambush. It has been a wonderful and eye-opening experience to see all the behind-the-scenes work that goes into all the Southern Decadence events and the South Decadence Parade. So many people are responsible for mak-

Inside this Issue of Ambush Southern Decadence Grand Marshals' Welcome

Commentary: Reflections on Grand Marshaldom

Chop Chop: Dining in the Big Easy for Southern Decadence

Moments in Gay New Orleans History: A Southern Decadence Timeline

Southern Decadence Events

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Southern Decadence Performer Spotlights

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The 2018 Oracle Gala Honors The Founders of Southern Decadence

Snap Paparazzi The Oracle Gala

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Snap Paparazzi Oz New Orleans

Snap Paparazzi Out & About with TJ

Snap Paparazzi The Corner Pocket

The 60th Anniversary of the Fernando Rios Murder

Book Review: The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke

Party Down

Trodding the Boards

When You Want to Be Seen

A Community within Communities: Truth!

LGBT Owned & Friendly Business Directory

How to Make the Most of Your Side Business

Business Spotlight: Bourbon Pride

Big Freedia to headline Chevron New Orleans Walk to End HIV

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Sports An Interview with Andrew Palermo, Commissioner of Stonewall Sports New Orleans

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ing Southern Decadence a success, and I want to thank each and every one of you! It has been amazing to see the pride all the former Grand Marshals have in each other and in Southern Decadence. It’s also a privilege to follow in the footsteps of Rip & Marsha Naquin-Delain and provide you, the readers of Ambush Magazine, with comprehensive coverage of all the events. I can only hope Rip & Marsha, as they look down upon us, are proud of this year’s Official Southern Decadence Guide. Happy Decadence! MARK YOUR CALENDARS Mayhem Miller from RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 10 will be performing at B-Bobs on Saturday, September 22. Showtime is at midnight and tickets are available on Eventbrite with Early Bird tickets available at a reduced price until September 19. B-Bobs is located at 213 Conti Street in Mobile, Alabama. The Chevron New Orleans Walk to End HIV with presenting sponsor Avita Pharmacy will beheld in Crescent Park. The walk is on Sunday, September 30, with registration beginning at 8 am and the WALK starting at 10 am. The WALK benefits CrescentCare and its NO/AIDS Task Force Division along with other AIDS Service Organizations around the state through the Walk Share Grant Program. You can sign up at www.noaidswalk.com to raise funds online. If you’re interested in being a volunteer you can sign up online or call 504-821-2601 ext. 215. Forum for Equality’s Acclaim Awards Gala is being held on Saturday, October 13, at the InterContinental New Orleans. Louisiana Governor John Bel Edwards will be the recipient of the 2018 Acclaim Award. The Gala will feature a silent auction, open bar, dinner and entertainment and is the largest annual fundraiser for the Forum for Equality. For more information go to www.forumforequality.org/2018-acclaim-awards-gala

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Grand Marshals XLIV Welcome You to Southern Decadence

This year marks the 47th anniversary of the Labor Day extravaganza. As Grand Marshals XLIV, we have worked hard all summer to ensure that this Southern Decadence is the biggest and best ever. If you’re a returning visitor, you already know the drill (pun intended!). If you’re a Decadence virgin, prepare your orifices for many depraved adventures! Throughout the weekend, bars in the French Quarter and Marigny neighborhoods have scheduled a series of events to cater to a wide variety of tastes and fetishes. Whatever you are into, you can find it in New Orleans during Southern Decadence. Most of the individual bar events are listed here in the pages of Ambush. Two events not to be missed are the Former Grand Marshals Show at the AllWays Lounge on Friday night at 9:00pm and the Grand Marshals’ Walking Parade on Sunday afternoon at 2:00pm. The Parade begins at the Golden Lantern and winds its way through the French Quarter. According to registration numbers, this year’s parade will be the largest ever. This year’s theme is “House of Bourbon: Unleash Your Beast,” a reference to the Royal Family (the Bourbons) that founded New Orleans 300 years ago as well as to the nature of Southern Decadence, a festival that celebrates unbridled indulgence. So eat more than you should, get wall-licking drunk, f*ck and suck to your heart’s content. If you don’t black out and wake up in a strange hotel room, you’re probably doing something wrong. This is not Southern Restraint, this is Southern Decadence. Be Decadent!

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COMMENTARY

Reflections on Grand Marshaldom Frank Perez frankearlperez@gmail.com Four years ago, Howard P. Smith and I were sitting at Lafitte’s discussing gay Carnival. Howard was in town researching his book Unveiling the Muse. As we chatted, I mentioned that gay Carnival was one of the things that made New Orleans gay history distinctive, the other being Southern Decadence. At the mention of Southern Decadence, nerve endings in each our minds connected, and the idea struck us to write a book on the history of Southern Decadence. At the time, I could never have guessed I would be Grand Marshal of Southern Decadence when the book was published. I suppose my first Decadence was in 1985 or so. I was in college at the time at LSU and my buddies and I would come to New Orleans almost every weekend. Back then I had no idea what Southern Decadence was and I certainly had no idea of its rich history—how it originated, the colorful Grand Marshals, the parade—all of that was lost on me. Come to think of it, I probably didn’t even know there was a parade. Of course, in the 1980s, you could come to New Orleans on Labor

Day weekend and not even know there was a Southern Decadence. Decadence really didn’t become a huge thing until the late 1990s. The older I got, I began to understand and appreciate the history behind Southern Decadence. I first became acquainted with that history in 2008. Frederick Wright, one of the founders of Southern Decadence and the first Southern Decadence Grand Marshal (1974), had retired from Academia and returned to New Orleans and was working as a bartender at the Corner Pocket. He worked the afternoon shift, before the dancing boys started, which was a quiet shift—conducive to bartender/patron bonding. Listening to Frederick tell stories are some of the fondest memories I have. For someone fascinated by history, it was pure bliss. Sadly, Frederick died in 2014. In 2016, my good friend Jeffrey Palmquist was selected as SDGM XLVII and chose me to serve as one of his lieutenants. That experience gave me an up close and personal view of Southern Decadence, behind the scenes, so

to speak. And when Jeffrey chose his partner Coca to succeed him, I served as a lieutenant again. Those two years were not only filled with unforgettable memories, they were also valuable experience for my reign as GM. Some people don’t believe me when I tell them I never asked Jeffrey or Coca to name me a GM, but it’s true. One thing I’ve learned is that the best way to not be picked Grand Marshal is to want it too much. Nevertheless, I was thrilled when Coca asked me if I would be willing to serve. As a history nerd, I was, and am, excited and humbled to be a small part of such a huge tradition. Thus far, being Grand Marshal has been a great experience, but not without its challenges. Here’s what I’ve learned: Grand Marshaling is not easy. It’s not a ceremonial title; in fact, it’s essentially a part-time job. A lot of money has to be raised in a very short amount of time. That means asking for money, seeking out sponsors, and planning fundraisers. I’ve discovered some people and business are glad to give, others not so much. Some businesses reached out to me with checks before I got around to asking them for money. Some are even offended if you don’t ask. Grand Marshaling is an excellent opportunity to study the human psyche. After I was named GM, I discovered friends I never knew I had. People who never spoke to me before were suddenly thrilled to see me and couldn’t wait to chat. Ass-kissing has always been easy to see through for me and since I was named GM, there has been a lot to see. Grand Marshaling is an excellent opportunity to check the human ego. Some people let titles go their heads.

I have made an earnest effort to not be one of those people. I am well aware that most people don’t give a damn who the GM is or that such a position even exists. Hell, most of the people who come to town for Decadence probably don’t even know there is a parade. I’ve also learned there is a lot of misunderstanding about Southern Decadence. Southern Decadence is not New Orleans’ version of Pride. We have Pride in June just like most other cities. Pride grew out of a very specific need—to be able to live without self-loathing—and has grown into a political statement. Southern Decadence has no political agenda. It grew out of a celebration of friendship. Southern Decadence is not a charity event. While it is true that in recent years the Grand Marshals have donated some of the money they raise to local charities, charitable giving is not the focus of Southern Decadence. Of all the things I’ve learned, the following is the perhaps the most profound. Southern Decadence is about traditions and friendship. At its deepest core is the tradition of the Grand Marshal’s Walking Parade. Without that, Southern Decadence would be just another circuit party that could be held in any city. In the course of writing a book about Southern Decadence and serving as Grand Marshal, I have become friends with the founders of Southern Decadence and many of its former Grand Marshals. The one thing these guardians of tradition agree on is that the customs associated with Southern Decadence be jealously guarded, even as the Labor Day extravaganza evolves further into something the Founders never could have imagined.

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Dining in the Big Easy for Southern Decadence There are so many wonderful festivities to enjoy this Southern Decadence in New Orleans. But don’t forget the increadicle culinary array available to you not only in the French Quarter, but the Marigny and Bywater, and out in Metairie, as well. Ambush recommends these great eateries to curb any hunger desires you may have, and of course, many serve up cocktails, a must have in The Big Easy. Metairie Restaurant Guide Chef Ron’s Gumbo Stop & Pub, 2309 N. Causeway Blvd, 504-8352022, Gumbostop.com. The Gumbo Stop is a quaint eatery serving five different types of gumbo plus New Orleans favorites, house specials, specialty sandwiches, daily specials, appetizers and desserts all prepared by award-winning chef Ron Iafrate. Open Mon - Sat 11 am to 9 pm. Closed Sundays New Orleans Restaurant Guide The Bombay Club, 830 Conti Street, 504-577-2237, Bombayclubneworleans.com. The Bombay Club serves up British fare with a Cajun twist along

with handcrafted cocktails and specialty martinis. Enjoy live music showcasing the most talented jazz musicians in New Orleans. Dinner Mon - Thur 4:00 - 9:30 pm. Fri 4 pm - 11 pm Sat 3 pm 11 pm Sun 3 pm - 9:30 pm Brunch Sat & Sun 10 am - 9:30 pm Broussard’s Restaurant & Courtyard, 819 Rue Conti, 504-581-3866, Broussards.com. A favorite fixture in New Orleans for nearly 100 years, Broussard’s is located in the heart of the French Quarter, featuring classic French & Creole food, old architecture, and tradition. Dinner Sun - Thur 5:30 9:30 pm. Fri & Sat until 10 pm.; Brunch Fri - Mon 10 am - 2:30 pm. Cafe Amelie, 912 Royal Street, 504412-8965, Cafeamelie.com. Cafe Amelie is known for having one of the most beautiful courtyards in the entire French Quarter. The menu consists of Louisiana fare, and their shrimp & grits is simply delicious! Dinner Wed, Thur & Sun 5 - 9 pm. Fri & Sat 5 - 10 pm; Lunch Wed - Fri 11 am - 3 pm; Brunch Sat & Sun 11 am - 3 pm

Cafe Maspero, 601 Decatur Street, 504-523-6250, Cafemaspero.com. Located near Jackson Square, Cafe Maspero has sandwiches, seafood, Cajun & Creole classics in a casual dining atmosphere. Serves breakfast, lunch and dinner. Open daily 8 am - 10 pm, 11 pm on Fri & Sat The Clover Grill, 900 Bourbon St., 504.598.1010, www.CloverGrill.com. Since 1939, our quirky, cozy, unique diner has been home to the best breakfasts & burgers on Bourbon Street– maybe even the whole French Quarter! The Country Club, 634 Louisa Street, 504-945-0742, Thecountryclubneworleans.com. Located in the heart of the historic Bywater neighborhood, The Country Club offers an elegant space and specializes in modern creole cuisine. Open 7 days a week from 10 am - 9 pm. 10 pm on Fri & Sat; Brunch Sat & Sun 10 am - 3 pm Creole House Restaurant & Oyster Bar, 509 Canal Street, 504-323-2109, Creolehouserestaurant.com. Creole House serves New Orleans classic Cajun and Creole dishes in a casual atmosphere. You can find everything from gumbo to shrimp & grits, chargrilled oysters to po-boys and more. Open 7 am daily serving breakfast, lunch & dinner. EAT New Orleans, 900 Dumain Street, (504) 522-7222. At EAT, you’ll find a wide array of Cajun, Creole, and other New Orleans favorites on the menu. Felix’s Restaurant & Oyster Bar, 208 Bourbon Street, 739 Iberville Street, felixs.com. The Felix’s story is the story of the New Orleans Oyster Bar. Ask any New Orleanian where their PawPaw (or Grandpa or Poppy or Auntie) went for oysters and the answer you’ll

get is Felix’s. Gene’s Po-Boys, 1040 Elysian Fields Ave, 504-943-3861. Gene’s is famous for its New Orleans style po-boy sandwiches chock full of ingredients. Open 24 hours. Ily’s Bistro, 2128 St. Claude Ave, 504947-8341. Ily’s offers home cooking and friendly service, serving breakfast, lunch and dinner featuring plates, poboys, and daily specials. Louisiana Pizza Kitchen Uptown, 615 S. Carrollton Ave, 504-866-5900, Louisianapizzakitchenuptown.com. LPK Uptown is a comfortable Italian eatery serving wood-fired pizzas, salads, pastas and wine in a family atmosphere. Open 7 days a week from 11 am to 9:30 pm. Open until 10 pm on Fri & Sat. Mona Lisa Restaurant, 1212 Royal Street, 504-522-6746, monalisaneworleans.com. Features Italian specialties including salads, pizzas, sandwiches and dinner entrees. Open Mon-Sun 5 pm to 10ish. Closed Tuesdays. Port St. Peter, 727 St Peter Street, 504-510-5556, www.portstpeter.com. Port St. Peter is a full service bar featuring some of New Orleans finest craft cocktails local beer and mouth watering hamburgers. Santa Fe Restaurant & Bar, 3201 Esplanade Ave, 504-948-0077, Santafenola.com. Santa Fe is a family friendly southwestern eatery known for strong margaritas and a large covered patio on Esplanade. Open 11 am - 10 pm daily except Mondays; Sunday Brunch 11 am - 3 pm $1 mimosas $3 Sangrias & Bloody Marys

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MOMENTS IN GAY NEW ORLEANS HISTORY

A Southern Decadence Timeline Frank Perez frankearlperez@gmail.com 1972 A group of friends nicknamed the Decadents celebrate the end of summer with a costume party and two weeks later have a going away party for Michael Evers. 1973 The first SD “Parade” begins at Matassa’s Bar. 1974 Frederick Wright is selected as the first Grand Marshal. 1975 GM Jerome Williams (Pickle) leads the parade in drag costumed as legendary Bourbon Street entertainer Chris Owens. 1976 GM Preston Hemmings leads the parade into Funky Butts, commandeers the piano and sings Huey Long’s theme song “Every Man a King.” 1977 GM Robert Laurent carries a sign that reads, “The Original Belle Reve Southern Decadents Have Arrived.” 1978 Parade is led for the first time by two GMs, Robert King and Kathleen Kavanaugh. 1979 GM Bruce Harris leads the parade on roller skates. 1980 GM Tom Tippin and Pair-ODice Tumblers band leader get into an argument during the parade over the

Southern Decadence is much more than a massive street party that spans the French Quarter and Marigny. At its core is a parade with a long and storied history. route. Tippin goes one way, the band another. 1981 GM Tommy Stephan (Miss Cakie-Tee) starts the parade at the Golden Lantern. 1982 GM Donnie Ezell almost misses the parade by passing out 30 minutes before the start after a daylong bender. Friend Ed “Blanche” Norton throws him in a cold shower and serves him hot coffee before dragging him to the Golden Lantern to kick off the parade. 1983 GM Danny Wilson, owner of

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the Golden Lantern and a strong advocate of better living through chemistry, leads the parade dressed as Wonder Woman. The parade was later described as “The Decadence to end all Decadences.” 1984 Adolphus “Mumbo” Spires is named GM at a ceremony at Lucille’s & Friend, thus inaugurating the tradition of the Announcement Party. 1985 GM Michael “Fish” Hickerson leads the parade past Canal Street. 1986 GM Kathleen Conlon leads the parade to the Riverwalk where she and other revelers shock unsuspecting tourists by jumping in the fountain. 1987 GM “Olive” Melton leads the parade through the French Quarter. 1988 GM Jerome Legume designates the first official theme: “Plagues, Pests, Parasites.” 1989 GM George Goode, longtime bartender at Lucille’s, leads the parade in a stunning one-piece bathing suit. 1990 GM Miss Ruby introduces the first official color of SD. 1991 GM Jamie Temple leads a parade that terrorizes cars with tourist families on Decatur Street. 1992 GM “Rhie” Sherman leads the parade. 1993 SD gains national recognition when GM Ms. Fly parties with RuPaul at the House of Blues. 1994 Local drag legend Miss Alain leads the parade as GM. 1995 GM Miss Blanche begins the tradition of the Former GMs Luncheon. 1996 GM Wayne White, who worked at Lafitte’s, leads the parade to the Bourbon Street gay bars. 1997 GM Miss Love secures the first parade permit. 1998 Beloved Lafitte’s bartender GM Robin Malta leads the parade dressed as Barbara Eden from I Dream of Jeannie. 1999 GM Errol Rizzuto leads the parade as Cher’s “Half Breed” from his limo’s sunroof. 2000 For the first time since 1978,

two GMs lead the parade—Tony Langlinais and “Smurf.” 2001 For the first time, three GMs lead the parade: Bianca Del Rio, “Estelle,” & “Big Rick.” 2002 City recognizes SD by giving GM “Irish” Mike a Mayoral Proclamation. 2003 The Roman Catholic Archdiocese asks the city to deny a parade permit to GM Rusty LaRoux. 2004 Reminiscent of SD in the early 1990s, GM Donnie Jay raises money for HIV / AIDS charities. 2005 Hurricane Katrina hits New Orleans a few days before the parade; about 30 revelers march anyway from the Golden Lantern to Johnny White’s. 2006 GMs Lisa Beaumann & Regina Adams select “Rebirth” as their theme. 2007 GMs Electra City, Marcus Martinez, & Guadalupe lead a parade through 100,000 revelers. 2008 Hurricane Gustav necessitates a mandatory evacuation the day before the parade. 2009 GMs Tittie Toulouse & Paloma select “Hurricane: This Year They Blow Back” as their theme. 2010 GMs Julien Artressia & Toby Lefort select the first official charity. 2011 GMs Tiffany Alexander & Misael Rubio select “Viva New Orleans: What Happens in New Orleans Stays in New Orleans.” 2012 GM Pat McArdle is left to lead the parade alone after her co-GM skipped town with $3,000 2013 In order to restore financial accountability, GMs Tami Tarmac & Venus Santiago create a “Board” to operate a checking account and look after the money. 2014 GMs Reba Douglas, Aubrey Synclaire, and Chad Boutte lead the parade through a crowd of 160,000. 2015 First time five GMs reign over SD: Steven Mora, Franky Fierce, Misti Ates, and Rip & Marsha Naquin-Delain. 2016 First time 4 GMs reign over SD: Jeffrey Palmquist, Felicia Philips, Tony Leggio, and Derek Penton-Robichaux.; GM Palmquist leads the parade riding a horse. 2017 GMs Coca Mesa, Princess Stephaney, and Persana Shoulders choose as their theme “Electrified: Let Them Eat Cake.” 2018 As a nod to New Orleans tricentennial, GMs Frank Perez and Adikus Sulpizi select “House of Bourbon: Unleash Your Beast” as their theme.

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New Orleans & SD Hot Happenings

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Southern Decadence is here and New Orleans has never been gayer! It’s time to celebrate our community, individuality and, most of all, our decadence! From its historical beginnings in the 70’s as a group of friends getting together, dressing in costume and starting a bar crawl to the blowout long weekend of parties, events, and fundraisers that it’s morphed into today, Southern Decadence is a crazy, hot, sticky, festive, over-the-top and, yes, naughty holiday. Here are just a few of the hot happenings coming up to help in your weekend planning. (If you have a fundraiser, party, show or event coming up and would like to be listed in the calendar, please email me at ledgemgp@gmail.com). Tuesday, August 28, 2018 Kocktail Karaoke: Good Friends Bar; 740 Dauphine St.; 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. Join us at Good Friends Bar for Kocktail Karaoke with the winner gets a $25.00 bar tab. $5 Fireball. Country Dance Lessons: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 8 p.m. Tuesdays are Country Dance lessons with dancing from 8 - 11 p.m. Bourbon Boylesque: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 8:00 p.m. See the Men of Oz like you have never seen them before. The show stars Atomyc Adonis, Bobby B, Franky, Phathoms Deep and other special guests. Hosted

by Trixie Minx. Tacos, Tequila and Tiaras: Buffa’s Bar and Restaurant; 1001 Esplanade Ave.; 8 p.m. Tacos, Tequila, and Tiaras is one of New Orleans’ only family friendly drag shows! Join hostess Vanessa Carr Kennedy every Tuesday, have a taco or two, and learn a little bit about the art of drag. Twofer Tuesdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drinks special is two for one drinks until 10 p.m. Tequila Tuesdays: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; Open to close. Features $5 Tequila Sunrises, $6 house margaritas, $7 peach or strawberry margaritas and $7 Patron shots. Southern Decadence New Orleans Book Signing; 1850 House; 523 St. Ann Street; 2 - 4 p.m. Join authors Howard Philips Smith and Frank Perez (2018 Southern Decadence Grand Marshal) for this book signing on the first comprehensive book about Southern Decadence. Howard Philips Smith and Frank Perez’s Southern Decadence in New Orleans brings together an astounding array of materials to provide the first comprehensive, historical look at Southern Decadence. In an engaging account spanning five decades, the authors combine a trove of rare memorabilia from the event’s founders, early photographs and film stills, newspaper and magazine articles, interviews with

longtime participants, a list of all the parades and grand marshals, as well as reproductions of early Southern Decadence invitations. NOAGE Potluck: Community Church Unitarian Universalist; 6690 Fleur de Lis Drive; 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Join the New Orleans Advocates for GLBT Elders for their monthly potluck! Come to eat, come to meet new folks, come to network, come to enjoy a summer night. Bringing a dish is encouraged, but not required. Church Dinner Fundraiser: Chef Ron’s Gumbo Shop; 2309 N. Causeway Blvd.; 6 – 9 p.m. Join the Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans for their annual fundraiser at Chef Ron’s Gumbo Stop. We will be in the side dining hall providing music, door prizes, and just having a really great time. Proceeds from the day will go to support the ministries of Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans. If you have any questions, you can message us through our Facebook page & event, as well as www.mccneworleans.com. Extra: The Political Drag Cabaret: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; 9 p.m. – midnight. In these confusing political times, it’s very difficult to figure out exactly what you should do in order to be politically active. More than just a drag show, Extra is a space where drag artists and fans can come together to get empowered, get connected, laugh, and even occasionally bawl their eyes out. The show features Mammary Lane. Luna Rei, Gayle King Kong, Slenderella and host and producer Quinn Laroux. Doors at 9:00 show at 9:30 p.m.; Cover: $10. Wednesday, August 29, 2018 WednesGays at LPK Uptown: Louisiana Pizza Kitchen; 615 South Carrollton Ave.; 5 p.m. Join us every Wednesday to celebrate diversity. See old friends or make some new ones and find out what’s happening in the Nola community. All this while enjoying 1/2 price drinks from the bar. Invite your friends. You Better Sing Karaoke; Cafe Lafitte in Exile; 901 Bourbon St.; 9 p.m. - 1:00 a.m. Join DJ Kory and DJ Derek as they play Karaoke at Cafe Lafitte in Exile. Behind the bar slinging your drinks for you are Jeremy, Ryan, and Tim. $5 Fireball, $25 Gift Certificate for GFB, plus Free Tatertots Gift Card for Clover Grill. Oz Show Night: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 10:30 p.m. This popular drag show is hosted by Persana Shoulders and features Lisa Beau-

mann, Connie Hung, Anastascia Davenport; Chichi Rodriguez and Dominique DeLorean. Game Night: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Wednesdays are Game Night with Honey Bee at 7 p.m. with free jello shots and Bar Tabs. Half-Price Hump Days (Wednesdays): Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is all drinks are half price until 10 p.m. Hump Day: Rawhide 2010; 740 Burgundy St.; 4 - 9 p.m. 2 for $4 wells, draft, and domestic beers. Wine Night: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; 5 p.m. close. $15 bottles of wine. Winter Wonderland VII Sponsorship/Royalty Announcement Party; Kajuns Pub; 2256 St. Claude Avenue; 6 - 8 p.m. Come out to Kajuns Pub for the crowning of Winter Queen II Desirée Marie Chevalier and Winter King II Rodney Thoulion. They will also be announcing their charity selections. NOAGE Movie Night: Chalmette Movies: 8700 Judge Perez; 7 p.m. Admission is free for NOAGE attendees, but RSVP IS REQUIRED. RSVP at the Eventbrite link (See NOAGE website Event page.). With The Ritz, Terrence McNally’s hit Broadway play is captured on film by director Richard Lester. When Gaetano Proclo (Jack Weston), a minor mob flunky who’s been targeted for elimination by his brother-in-law, Carmine Vespucci (Jerry Stiller). Gaetano takes refuge in what he thinks is a Turkish bath. But turns out to be a (pre-AIDS) gay bathhouse, an old-fashioned door-slamming farce ensues. The supporting cast includes Rita Moreno (reprising her Tony-winning performance), Kaye Ballard, Treat Williams, F. Murray Abraham, and (as one of the patrons) a pre-Cheers John Ratzenberger. Wet Jockey Shorts Contest: The Corner Pocket; 940 St. Louis Street; starting at 10 p.m. Come out and see the boys get wet at this annual Southern Decadence event. Video Game Night: GrandPre’s; 834 N. rampart Street; 8:30 – 10 p.m. It’s Video Game Night! Every Wednesday at Grand Pre’s! Hosted by Eureeka Starfish and a very Special Co-Host ! Come early to sign up for limited spots for three mini tournaments of the video game we provide! Thursday, August 30, 2018 Honey Bee Trivia: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Thursday is Honey Bee Trivia at 7 p.m. Four rounds with jello shots to the winner of each round and a Bar Tab to top per-

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UPDATED ONLINE www.SouthernDecadence.com son/team of the night. Girl | Crush: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 9 p.m. Girl | Crush is brings you a weekly event for girls who like girls, and their friends! This flavor of CRUSH entitled DTF is exclusive to New Orleans’ #1 Dance Club, Oz and happens every Thursday night. The Jeff D Comedy Cabaret; Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 10 p.m. The Comedy Cabaret stars Jeff D. featuring Gia Giavanni. Enjoy hilarious comedians, amazing talent and the Ladies of Oz. Strip Off: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; midnight Persana Shoulders hosts the Strip Off every Thursday night. Sign up begins at 11 p.m. and the show features a spotlight performance by Miss Gay Louisiana America 2013 Mercedes Ellis Loreal. Winners receive 1st PLACE - $100 Cash • 2nd PLACE - $50 Bar tab Three-Dollar Thursdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is $3 Fireball and Jagermeister shots all day and night. Bring Your Own Meat Night: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; 6 - 8 p.m. Bring your own meat for the grill and the bar will have all the

sides. From Exile to Decadence - An LGBT+ History of the French Quarter: Beauregard-Keyes House; 1113 Chartres Street; 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. Come out to a late summer event in our Tricentennial Lecture Series! Author Frank Perez will present, From Exile to Decadence: An LGBT+ History of the French Quarter. Reception at 5:30 | Lecture at 6 pm. Members of the gay community in New Orleans helped preserve the history and architecture of the French Quarter in the early 20th century while simultaneously fighting personal battles against discrimination and oppression. Perez will discuss the evolution and progress of the LGBT+ experience in New Orleans through four of its most compelling pillars: Cafe Lafitte in Exile, the UpStairs Lounge, Gay Carnival, and Southern Decadence. Nasty Pig: The Phoenix; 941 Elysian Fields; starts at 9 p.m. The Phoenix kicks off the big holiday weekend with our Underwear Night, hosted by Nasty Pig starting at 9 p.m. Get 20% off Nasty Pig underwear (Thursday only) in the store. Beer bust from 9 p.m. to midnight. Jaegermeister give-

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aways from 10 p.m. to midnight. And Atlas Grant and Bennett Anthony on stage from 10 p.m. to 1 a.m. Creep Cuts (Baby One More Time): Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; 8 – 11 p.m. Cost is $10-20 sliding scale, Coming from the twisted minds of local theatermakers Dylan Hunter and Evan Spigelman, CREEP CUTS is a cartoon cloud of dada and drag. CREEP CUTS stars chaos demons Mz. Asa Metric (Spigelman) and Mqr. En Between (Hunter) as New Orleans’ premier electro-cabaret-dada-freakdrag-extra-hyphenated-caffeinatedduo-from-out-of-the-blue-o. Together they combine sketch comedy, lip synch and original electronic music to create a wholly new form of drag cabaret to confound the senses. Another F*cking Decadence Show: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; starts at 11 p.m. Every year brings a new Decadence with masses of body harnesses, fan pops, and drag shows you’ll kinda remember. Starring Bella Blue, Candy Snatch, Cherry Bombshell, Franky, Gayle King Kong, Gogo McGregor, Izzy Femme, Neon Burgundy, Phathoms Deep, Ross Ransom, Sir Ren Dipity, and Slederella.

DOORS 10pm | SHOW 11pm. TICKETS $10 cash. Tricentennial Exhibition Opening: The Cabildo: 701 Chartres Street; 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. As part of New Orleans’s tricentennial activities, the Cabildo is opening a new exhibition, We Love You, New Orleans. Celebrating the people, places and things that make New Orleans one of the nation’s most unique cities, the exhibition plays as a love letter from the Louisiana State Museum. Visitors will see more than one hundred artifacts and images highlighting uniquely New Orleanian architecture, food and drink, music, nightlife and more. This event is free and open to the public. Friday, August 31, 2018 Music of Senator Ken: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. Enjoy live music with Senator Ken playing all your favorites. Play Girlz: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 10 - 11:30 p.m. Drag show featuring Gia GiaVanni and special guests. New Meat Amateur Dance Contest: Corner Pocket; 640 St. Louis St.; 6:30 p.m. Hosted by Lisa Beaumann,

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anyone can enter - $100 cash prize. Long Island Fridays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is $5 Long Island Iced Teas all day and night. 25th Annual Empowerment Conference - Marching United to End HIV: New Orleans Marriott Convention Center; 859 Convention Center Blvd.: 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. The 25th Annual Empowerment Conference: Marching United to End HIV, will focus on the critical goal of achieving an HIV-free generation by ensuring that HIV is non-transmittable by reducing HIV-related disparities and ensuring equal access to HIV treatment. Empowerment is an annual one-day conference that provides current HIV treatment information with a focus on supporting individuals living with HIV in making evidence-informed treatment decisions. There is no charge to attend the Empowerment Conference. Bearracuda New Orleans - Decadence 2018: One Eyed Jacks; 615 Toulouse Street; 9 p.m. - 3 a.m. $10 advance tix at http://Bearracuda.com/ southern-decadence/. DJ Ryan Jones (LA), hot go-go’s! Bearracuda welcomes 100’s of furry guys to dance the

night away in the middle of the French Quarter. Bearracuda is the largest attended bear dance party and most prolific gay dance event in the U.S. Fever - Southern Decadence New Orleans: House of Blues; 225 Decatur Street; 10 p.m. - 2 a.m. Krewe Party presents “FEVER”. For more information, go to www.kreweparty.com. DJ’s - Hector Fonseca, DJ Ana Paula, Felipe Lira. Performance by Nikki Valentine. Hosted by Boomer Banks. Tickets: Presale - $15; GA $20. Acid Dungeon - A Rave Raw Experience for SRN Decadence; Poor Boys Bar; 1328 St. Bernard Avenue; 10 p.m. - 6 a.m. FUNCTION presents: ACID DUNGEON - A Raw Rave Experience featuring: FATHER FIGURE (TRAX ONLY) Mark Louque + FUNCTION Residents: DJ ASICS; XIVIX David Yaconi; QUICK WEAVE. Hosted By: Ross Ransom and MISS HOT GIRL BIJOUX Aun T Sandy. For more information, go to https://www.instagram.com/function504. GrrlFest Wet! - Decadence and Southern Decadence 2018; The Drifter Hotel; 3522 Tulane Avenue; 8 p.m. 2 a.m. Join Grrlspot for WET! A non-bi-

nary queer pool/dance party to kick off Southern Decadence & Dykeadence Weekend! With DJ’s, Dancing, lots of wet fun in the pool, dancers, food pop-ups, and so much more! Night 1 of GrrlFest: Dykeadence & Southern Decadence Weekend 2018! We will be outside from 8pm-12am, and from 12am-2am we’ll move the dance party inside. Lube Wrestling: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart Street; starts at 9 p.m. NOLA PAHS (The Pups) will get wild and wet wrestling each other and then showering in our world famous shower. Queen B Drag Brunch: Broussard’s Restaurant; 819 Conti Street; First seating at 11:30 a.m. There will be two shows 11am and 1:30pm. Reservations can be made on OpenTable. The show will feature The Southern Barbitchuates. Decadence Edition: Greetings from Queer Mountain NOLA Ep. 32: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; Starts at 7:30 p.m. Greetings, From Queer Mountain is a monthly LGBTQ storytelling showcase started in Austin and now featured every second Friday of the month at The Theatre at Allways. This month we have a special Decadence edition of our show for you! Theme is life of the party! Line up: Genevieve Rheams, Frederick Mead, Hann Cowger, Camille Roane, Greg Nacozy, Beckett, Candy Snatch. Hosted by Amanda G. Show is $5 you can get tickets via Eventbrite (small service fee) or at the door (no service fee). Southern Decadence Former Grand Marshals Kickoff Show: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; starts at 9 p.m. Join current SDGMs Frank Perez and Adikus Sulpizi and several of your favorite former SDGM as we “Unleash The Beast” and kick off Southern Decadence Weekend.. NO Cover. High Profile: Dollzmania: The Santos Bar; 1135 Decatur Street; 10 p.m. – 3 a.m. Come dressed PIXEL PERFECT. DJ EDGESLAYER. Performances by Garlic Junoir, Visqueen, Jassy, Lagniappe, Ariana Amour, Slenderella, Luna Rei and Tifa Cockhart. $5 COVER. Cake 2018: Crescendo featuring Cakes da Killa, Rimarkable Pr*ck: Ace Hotel; 600 Carondelet Street; 10 p.m. – 3 a.m. BLAZELIKEFYRE presents CRESCENDO: CAKE 2018 Edition; A series created and hosted by Blaze Edwards through the use of sound and visuals, the CLIMAX or “crescendo” is thoughtfully designed, making every CRESCENDO a unique event, not just a party. CRESCENDO places the spectrum of Black and Brown LGBTIA+ identities at the center, and strives to

create a safe space for Femme identified folx and folx of Femme expression. CRESCENDO is a two-part experience: The Groove (The warm-up): DJs spin Afro-beat, Funk, Soul, and your favorite Classic R&B hits and remixes for you to two-step and sing-a-long to. The Turn Up: Get ready to sweat to Disco, Techno, Afro-House, Afro-Trap, Club music +more! Admission is $8 Advance online or $10 at the Door. 21+ Flamboyant: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; 11 p.m. – 2 a.m. AtomycWolf presents a special Southern Decadence edition of FlamBOYant. This month features flamBOYs Phathoms Deep, Danny Girl and Expecta Patrone. Hosted by Atomyc Adonis. Show starts at 11pm. $10 cover. Lingerie and Boxers Party: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; 9 p.m. - 3 a.m. Lingerie or Boxers Party - 8-9 p.m. Uber/Lyft Show your receipt for one free well cocktail. 10PM-Midnight - $15 Drink & Drown (Well Cocktails or Outlaw Punch). Justin Betweener will be spinning the best beats in Metairie from 9PM-1AM

Saturday. September 1, 2018 Music of Vanessa Carr Kennedy; Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. Enjoy songstress Vanessa as she sings some of the tops hits of yesterday and today. Divas R Us; Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 10 - 11:30 p.m. This wonderful drag show directed by Monica Sinclaire Kennedy includes a special guests stars. Piano Bar with Trey Ming; Good Friends Bar; 740 Dauphine St.; 4 – 7 p.m. Sing along with your favorite songs with talented piano player Trey Ming. CAT 5 Hurricane Saturdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink specials are $5 Hurricanes all day and night and from 8 - 10 p.m. Doubles for the price of a Single on all alcohol. Drag Dingo: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 6 - 8 p.m. Catch ChiChi Rodriquez, persana Shoulders or Lisa Beaumann for Drag Bingo! 11 games of Bingo, 11 chances to win prizes! All the fun starts at 6 pm till 8 pm in their upstairs bar with your favorite bottom, Jake, slinging drinks for you all night long! New Orleans Pride Run/Walk: Crescent Park; 30 N. Peters Street; 9 a.m. - noon. Come out to the inaugural New Orleans Pride Run & Walk. The 5K event will start and finish along the Mississippi River at The Crescent Park, blocks from the New Orleans French Quarter. Members, friends, and allies of the LGBTQ+ community are encour-

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aged to show their pride and join us for the run and walk. Further event details and sponsorship opportunities are now available at runNOTC.org. Bourbon Street Extravaganza: Napoleon’s Itch; 734 Bourbon Street; 6 - 9 p.m. Chuck Robinson and Ron Julian, owners of Napoleon’s Itch present the 14th Annual Bourbon Street Extravaganza. This free concert is open to the public on Bourbon Street in the 700 block. The line-up includes Jeanie Tracy; Jennifer Holiday, Deborah Cox and the Prancing Rockets. Mr. Louisiana Leather: The Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; 7:30 p.m. - 10 p.m. The Lords of Leather present: MR LOUISIANA LEATHER 2019. $15 VIP guaranteed front section seats ; $5 general admission. Tickets can be found at: https://mystic-krewe-of-lords-of-leather.ticketleap.com/mr-louisiana-leather-contest-vip-seating/. Contestant applications can be found at www.lordsofleather.org. Horse Meat Disco: Ace Hotel; 600 Carondelet Street; 9 p.m. - 3 a.m. TRAX ONLY presents HORSE MEAT DISCO - Southern Decadence. The UK’s finest disco operators, Horse Meat Disco are back for the 3rd year with tried and tested underground disco rarities that have been rocking crowds from their base in Vauxhall, London, to dancefloors worldwide since 2009. THREE KEYS stage by House of KENZO; THE DARK ROOM by TRAX ONLY + surprise guests. Hosted by NEON Burgundy; Petty Mayonnaise; Aun T Sandy and Ross Ransom. For tickets go to Eventbrite. GrrlFest Risque - Dykadence & Southern Decadence 2018: Eiffel Society; 2040 St. Charles Avenue; 8 p.m. - 3 a.m. The party of the year is here!! Join us for Risq, the largest, sexiest indoor party of Southern Decadence! Night 2 of GrrlFest: Dykeadence & Southern Decadence Weekend 2018, Presented by GrrlSpot and Love Shack Entertainment! Girl | Crush Decadence Blow Party: Coyote Ugly; 225 N. Peters Street; starting at noon. Lez get drrrty for Southern Decadence! girl | CRUSH is teaming up with our squad from Coyote Ugly again to bring you the only girl party in the Quarter during Southern Decadence. Drink Specials, Dancers on the Bar, and FREE stuff from Miller Light all day long. Come play with the girls for SoDec at the largest woman owned bar in the country. Glamarama Live - A Southern Decadence Fundraiser: Cafe Istanbul; 2372 St. Claude Avenue; 7 - 10 p.m. Glam it up for Southern Decadence by catching Glamarama, New Orleans’

Premier Glam Rock Band, live as they perform the classic glam hits you know and love. Doors open at 7:00 pm. Show starts at 8:00 pm. General Admission is $15. Reserved Seating is $25.Proceeds benefit Southern Decadence and its official charities--Team Friendly and the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana. Bette, Bathhouse & Beyond: Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; 10 p.m - 4 a.m. DANIEL NARDICIO brings BETTE BATHHOUSE AND BEYOND for one night only during SOUTHERN DECADENCE to the Allways Lounge. Powerhouse singer and comedienne AMBER MARTIN recreates one of BETTE MIDLER’s iconic shows at NYC’s infamous gay bathhouse the CONTINENTAL BATHS from 1971. The audience at the Allways Lounge will be required to don only towels to recreate the vibe of the famed bathhouse. JOHNNY DYNELL will be playing “Bathhouse Disco” from the era. He has been a part-time resident of NOLA for several years and is eager to return for this special night. Expect the unexpected, too, at “B,B and B” as surprise musical guests will also drop by. BYOT (bring your own towel or pay $2.00 to rent one from the Dworld Nola crew) Showtime on Rampart: Grandpre’s; 834 N. Rampart Street; starts at 10 p.m. The Southern Barbitchuates will be performing their award winning special Southern Decadence Revue. They were voted the best drag show on the Gulf Coast. Southern Decadence Drag Brunch: Brennan’s Restaurant; 417 Royal Street; First seating at 9:30 a.m. Kick Up Your Heels. Sprinkle on the Glitter, and Brunch at Brennan’s which is delighted to host the 1st annual Southern Decadence Drag Brunch featuring Coca Mesa & DJ Tim Pflueger on Saturday, September 1st, with 2 seatings of 8 live performances - 9:30 am and 12:30 pm. Enjoy a 3 Course Menu starring iconic dishes like Baked Apple, Eggs Hussarde, Creole Shrimp Salad and Vanilla Scented French Toast. Tickets are $95 inclusive and each table will receive a bottle of sparkling wine accompanied by fresh. watermelon, peach and orange juices. Reservations and advance payment required by contacting Ashley Hill Monday - Friday, 9am - 5pm, 504-9343376 or email ahill@neworleans-food. com. Reservations available for tables of 4, 6 and 8. Must purchase entire table at time of reservation. Attendees must be 18 or older. Drag Brunch with Vanessa Carr: Pythian Market; 234 Loyola Avenue; 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. Saturday Brunch is

getting extra fabulous on September 1st! The Pythina Market will be featuring amazing food and drink offerings AND a drag performance by Vanessa Carr Kennedy + Company! Treat yourself to a variety of brunch offerings from our 13 different vendors while sippin’ on $5 mimosas and $6 bloody marys from Bar 1908. While you eat and drink, you’ll also enjoy the eclectic sounds of a New Orleans-based live Jazz band from 11AM-2PM! Big Queer Pod Fest: Three Keys in the Ace Hotel; 600 Carondelet Street; 6 – 8 p.m. Big Queer Pod Fest is a one-night-only audio extravaganza putting together the best of your favorite queer podcasts with game shows, interviews, special guests, and a live taping of all sorts of shenanigans, co-hosted by Jeffrey Masters of LGBTQ&A and Fran Tirado of Food 4 Thot. Surprise guests to be revealed. Proceeds to benefit Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund. FIU: The Southern Decadence Edition: The Goat; 1301 St. Bernard Avenue; 11 p.m. – 2 a.m. Who’s ready to F*@K It Up for Southern Decadence? That’s right! F*@K It Up: A Lit AF Black Drag Experience is back for Southern Decadence at Midnight! On the ros-

ter, they have Jessica Champagne, Xia Maddix, Millie Meringue and Kara Mel D’Ville with special guest Raciella Martinez. DJ Edgeslayer will be laying down the music and the evening is hosted by Laveau Contraire. Doors at 11 p.m.; Show at Midnight! $10 Cover. Showtime on Rampart Street: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 10p.m. we have Showtime on Rampart Street with the Southern Barbitchuates.

Sunday, September 2, 2018 Bottomless Sundays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St.. The drink special is $15 Bottomless Bloody Marys and Mimosas from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Bottomless Mimosas: Cafe Lafitte in Exile; 901 Bourbon St.; 1 - 4 p.m. Bottomless Mimosas are offered upstairs from 1 - 4 p.m. for $12. You Better Sing Karaoke; GrandPre’s; 834 North Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Join DJ Kory and DJ Derek as they play Karaoke. Jubilee: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 5 p.m. This Sunday Funday show stars Reba Douglas and special guests. Zingo: Corner Pocket; 640 St. Louis St.; 6:30 p.m. Play Bingo fol-

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lowed by the Barry BareAss Dancer of the Week Contest. Oz Show Night: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 9:30 p.m. This popular drag show is hosted by Persana Shoulders and features Lisa Beaumann, Connie Hung, Anastascia Davenport; Chichi Rodriguez and Dominique DeLorean. Drink Drown and Drag: The Bourbon Pub; 801 Bourbon St.; 6 - 9 p.m. Sunday Funday upstairs at The Parade. $15 Drink and Drown from 6 – 9 p.m. with a star studded drag show starting at 8 p.m. Sunday Worship: Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans (MCCNO); 5401 S. Claiborne Ave; 10:00 a.m. New Orleans first LGBTQ church welcomes you to join us for our Sunday worship service where they celebrate God’s Love for everyone. Drag Dingo: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 6 - 8 p.m. Catch ChiChi Rodriquez, persana Shoulders or Lisa Beaumann for Drag Bingo! 11 games of Bingo, 11 chances to win prizes! All the fun starts at 6 pm till 8 pm in their upstairs bar with your favorite bottom, Jake, slinging drinks for you all night long! 46th Annual Southern Decadence

Grand Marshal Parade; French Quarter; 2 p.m. Come celebrate the 46th Annual Southern Decadence Grand Marshal Parade. The parade begins at 2pm starting at the Golden Lantern Bar, the official home of Southern Decadence, and will follow the traditional parade route through the Quarter. Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLIV Frank Perez and Adikus Sulpizi invite you to the Tricentennial celebration of the year. All are welcome! A Labor Day Rose Soiree: House of Blues; 225 Decatur Street; starting at 3 p.m. The events features a Donna Summer Tribute starring Anais St. John. Doors / Show: 3:00PM / 3:00PM. This is an ages 18+ show. For more information about Pass the Line or Foundation Room access, please call the Box Office at 504.310.4999. For VIP seating, please contact NOLAVIP@ livenation.com. Kitten N Lou’s Cream: Civic Theatre; 510 O Keefe Avenue; 8 p.m. The Bowery Presents South: Kitten N’ Lou’s CREAM starring RuPaul’s Drag Race glamazon Vivacious at Civic Theatre. This is a Night Of Decadent Burlesque, Drag, and Queer as F*ck Cabaret at the Civic Theatre! Starring: Vivacious (with special guest appearance by Ornacia);

Kitten N’ Lou; Jett Adore; Sweetpea; Vinsantos; Apostrophe; Bella Blue and many more. For tickets, go to www. ticketfly.com. Sabertooth Swing: The Allways Lounge; 2240 St. Claude Avenue; starts at 9 p.m. Weekly Sunday Swing dance & CD release party! New Orleans-based jazz band Sabertooth Swing just released their debut album Extinct Possibilities pack-full of lively swing music with crossover appeal and a breath of fresh air in an otherwise venerable genre. In the spirit of a music made with and for people, with an organic connection between music, dance and fun, we sure hope that you’ll enjoy the Sabertooth Swing’s debut album and, who knows, might find yourself irresistibly tapping a toe or shuffling a foot while you listen. Free admission. XXL The Party: The Phoenix; 941 Elysian Fields; 2 - 5 p.m. Get ready for some fun in the hot, steamy swamp. What adventures await you on the bayou? The Phoenix will close the entire bar for the most exclusive private party of Southern Decadence. They are proud to welcome Atlas Grant and Bennett Anthony (NSFW) for XXL: The Party. Only a limited number of tickets will be available. Enjoy an open bar for well cocktails and domestic beers. A coat check will be available. Go to Eventbrite for tickets. Golden Lantern Outdoor Drag Show: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal Street; 11 a.m. - 8 p.m. Show will begin on Sunday 3rd of September at 11:00 am. Live music followed by outdoor drag show until 2 pm when the Grand marshals will make their toast and the parade will begin. Stick around for more live music and drag throughout the evening. Cynthia Lee Fontaine Drag Brunch: Harrah’s New Orleans; 228 Poydras Street; 11:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Don’t miss a bubbly brunch with “Miss CuCu” herself, Cynthia Lee Fontaine, along with local drag queen stars live at Harrah’s New Orleans on Sunday, September 2. Brunch, unlimited mimosas and a performance by this show stopping queen from season 8 and season 9 of RuPaul’s Drag Race will be the perfect way to start your parade day! 11 am-- Doors Open and Brunch Begins; 11:45 am--Show Starts 1:00 pm- Show Ends just in time to make it to the parade! Brunch and unlimited mimosas and champagne included in ticket price. A cash bar will also available if you need something stronger to start your day. There will be no reserved seating so arrive with your group or be social and make new

friends. Must be 21 to enter casino and attend, please bring valid I.D. Absolutely no exceptions. Tickets are purchased on Eventbrite.

Monday, September 3, 2018 Survivor’s Pub Crawl Buffet: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 4 p.m. Karaoke Monday: The Bourbon Pub; 801 Bourbon St.; 7 - 9 p.m. Enjoy happy hour prices all night long. Hosted by Denny with VJ Dollabill. S.I.N. Night: The Corner Pocket; 940 St. Louis St.; Starting at 9 p.m. Come drink with Ashlee. Get your SIN card and receive $2.50 canned beer Margarita Mondays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is $3 margaritas all day and night. Pool Tournament: Rawhide 2010; 740 Burgundy St.; 9:45 p.m. $2 PBR and $50 gift certificate for Rawhide Lazy Susan Karaoke: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 9 p.m. – 1 a.m. Join bartender Mark and a revolving cast of drag queen hostesses for LAZY SUSAN KARAOKE with Music by DJ Lucius Riley. Mondays are a drag, so make them fabulous and sing the night away. Southern Decadence Leftovers Survivors Bar Crawl: French Quarter; Starts at noon. Check their Facebook page for the route this year. A time honored tradition celebrating the life of one of the original organizers Ted Mahaffey. The bar crawl begins at the Corner Pocket and ends at GrandPre’s of a scrumptious buffet. Tuesday, September 4, 2018 Kocktail Karaoke: Good Friends Bar; 740 Dauphine St.; 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. Join us at Good Friends Bar for Kocktail Karaoke with the winner gets a $25.00 bar tab. $5 Fireball. Tequila Tuesdays: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; Open to close. Features $5 Tequila Sunrises, $6 house margaritas, $7 peach or strawberry margaritas and $7 Patron shots. Country Dance lessons: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 8 p.m. Tuesdays are Country Dance lessons with dancing from 8 - 11 p.m. Bourbon Boylesque: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 8:00 p.m. See the Men of Oz like you have never seen them before. The show stars Atomyc Adonis, Bobby B, Franky, Phathoms Deep and other special guests.Hosted by Trixie Minx. Tacos, Tequila and Tiaras: Buffa’s Bar and Restaurant; 1001 Esplanade Ave.; 8 p.m. Tacos, Tequila, and Tiaras is a one of New Orleans’ only family friendly drag shows! Join hostess Va-

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nessa Carr Kennedy every Tuesday, have a taco or two, and learn a little bit about the art of drag. Twofer Tuesdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drinks special is two-for-one drinks until 10 p.m. Join the New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus: New Orleans Performing Arts Center; 420 Tchoupitoulas Street; 7:30 – 9:30 p.m. Do you enjoy singing? Come join this group. There is no audition; all are welcome.

Wednesday, September 5, 2018 WednesGays at LPK Uptown: Louisiana Pizza Kitchen; 615 South Carrollton Ave.; 5 p.m. Join us every Wednesday to celebrate diversity. See old friends or make some new ones and find out what’s happening in the Nola community. All this while enjoying 1/2 price drinks from the bar. Invite your friends. You Better Sing Karaoke; Cafe Lafitte in Exile; 901 Bourbon St.; 9 p.m. - 1:00 a.m. Join DJ Kory and DJ Derek as they play Karaoke. Behind the bar slinging your drinks for you are Jeremy, Ryan, and Tim. $5 Fireball, $25 Gift Certificate for GFB, plus Free Tatertots Gift Card for Clover Grill. Oz Show Night: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 10:30 p.m. This popular drag show is hosted by Persana Shoulders and features Lisa Beaumann, Connie Hung, Anastascia Davenport; Chichi Rodriguez and Dominique DeLorean. Game Night: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Wednesdays are Game Night with Honey Bee at 7 p.m. and free jello shots and Bar Tabs. Half-Price Hump Days (Wednesdays): Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is all drinks are half price until 10 p.m. Hump Day: Rawhide 2010; 740 Burgundy St.; 4 - 9 p.m. 2 for $4 wells, draft, and domestic beers. Wine Night: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; 5 p.m. close. $15 bottles of wine. Video Game Night: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart Street; 8:30 p.m. midnight; The bar is doing Video Game Night starting at 9 p.m. Come and compete for prizes and Grab some Drinks.

Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 9 p.m. Girl | Crush brings you a weekly event for girls who like girls, and their friends! This flavor of CRUSH entitled DTF is exclusive to New Orleans’ #1 Dance Club, Oz and happens every Thursday night. The Jeff D Comedy Cabaret; Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 10 p.m. The Comedy Cabaret stars Jeff D. featuring Gia Giavanni. Enjoy hilarious comedians, amazing talent and the Ladies of Oz. Strip Off:Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; midnight Persana Shoulders hosts the Strip Off every Thursday night. Sign up begins at 11 p.m. and the show features a spotlight performance by Miss Gay Louisiana America 2013 Mercedes Ellis Loreal. Winners receive 1st PLACE - $100 Cash • 2nd PLACE - $50 Bar tab Three-Dollar Thursdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is $3 Fireball and Jagermeister shots all day and night. Bring Your Own Meat Night: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; 6 - 8 p.m. Bring your own meat for the grill and the bar will have all the sides. Dragula Viewing Party: Kajuns Pub; 2256 St. Claude Avenue; 7 p.m. Do you like Glamour, Horror, Filth and all things spooky? Had enough of RuPaul’s Drag Race but still obsessed with drag queens? Dragula is a web show, created by The Boulet Brothers

to find the world’s next drag supermonster! Each Thursday, Laveau Contraire will be bringing in local drag talent to kiki about the show and perform real-life drag performances for your viewing and tipping pleasure! They will also be giving away lots of FREE swag with the purchase of one of our weekly drink specials!

Friday, September 7, 2018 Music of Senator Ken: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. Enjoy live music with Senator Ken playing all your favorites. Play Girlz: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 10 - 11:30 p.m. Drag show featuring Gia GiaVanni and special guests. New Meat Amateur Dance Contest: Corner Pocket; 640 St. Louis St.; 6:30 p.m. Hosted by Lisa Beaumann, anyone can enter - $100 cash prize. Long Island Fridays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink special is $5 Long Island Iced Teas all day and night. War on the Catwalk: Jefferson Performing Arts Center; 6400 Airline Drive; 8:30 – 10:30 p.m. War On The Catwalk – The Queens from Season 10. An evening of high energy drag starring some of the contestants from the reality television show on VH1. All ages welcome. Doors at 7pm, show at 8pm. There will be a 20-minute intermission. Presented by Murray & Peter. Get our info at www.DragFans.com For

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Saturday, September 8, 2018 Music of Vanessa Carr Kennedy; Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. Enjoy songstress Vanessa as she sings some of the tops hits of yesterday and today. Divas R Us; Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 10 - 11:30 p.m. This wonderful drag show directed by Monica Sinclaire Kennedy includes a special guests stars. Piano Bar with Trey Ming; Good Friends Bar; 740 Dauphine St.; 4 – 7 p.m. Sing along with your favorite songs with talented piano player Trey Ming. CAT 5 Hurricane Saturdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink specials are $5 Hurricanes all day and night and from 8 - 10 p.m. Doubles for the price of a Single on all alcohol. Drag Dingo: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 6 - 8 p.m. Catch ChiChi Rodriquez, persana Shoulders or Lisa Beaumann for Drag Bingo! 11 games of Bingo, 11 chances to win prizes! All the fun starts at 6 pm till 8 pm in their upstairs bar with your favorite bottom, Jake, slinging drinks for you all night long! Sunday, September 9, 2018 Bottomless Sundays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St.. The drink special is $15 Bottomless Bloody Marys

Thursday, September 6, 2018 Honey Bee Trivia: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Thursday is Honey Bee Trivia at 7 p.m. Four rounds with jello shots to the winner of each round and a Bar Tab to top person/team of the night. Girl | Crush: Oz New Orleans New www.GayMardiGras.com · www.GayEasterParade.com · August 28 - September 10, 2018 · The Official Gay Magazine of the Gulf South: www.AmbushMag.com · 25

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and Mimosas from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Bottomless Mimosas:Cafe Lafitte in Exile; 901 Bourbon St.; 1 - 4 p.m. Bottomless Mimosas are offered upstairs from 1 - 4 p.m. for $12. You Better Sing Karaoke; GrandPre’s; 834 North Rampart St.; 7 p.m. Join DJ Kory and DJ Derek as they play Karaoke at Good Friends Bar. Behind the bar slinging your drinks for you are Jeremy, Ryan, and Tim. Jubilee: Golden Lantern; 1239 Royal St.; 5 p.m. This Sunday Funday show stars Reba Douglas and special guests. Zingo: Corner Pocket; 640 St. Louis St.; 6:30 p.m. Play Bingo followed by the Barry BareAss Dancer of the Week Contest. Oz Show Night: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 9:30 p.m. This popular drag show is hosted by Persana Shoulders and features Lisa Beaumann, Connie Hung, Anastascia Davenport; Chichi Rodriguez and Dominique DeLorean. Drink Drown and Drag: The Bourbon Pub; 801 Bourbon St.; 6 - 9 p.m. Sunday Funday upstairs at The Parade. $15 Drink and Drown from 6 –

9 p.m. with a star studded drag show starting at 8 p.m. Sunday Worship: Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans (MCCNO); 5401 S. Claiborne Ave; 10:00 a.m. New Orleans first LGBTQ church welcomes you to join us for our Sunday worship service where we celebrate God’s Love for everyone. Drag Dingo: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 6 - 8 p.m. Catch ChiChi Rodriquez, persana Shoulders or Lisa Beaumann for Drag Bingo! 11 games of Bingo, 11 chances to win prizes! All the fun starts at 6 pm till 8 pm in their upstairs bar with your favorite bottom, Jake, slinging drinks for you all night long! Monday, September 10, 2018 Karaoke Monday: The Bourbon Pub; 801 Bourbon St.; 7 - 9 p.m. Enjoy happy hour prices all night long. Hosted by Denny with VJ Dollabill. S.I.N. Night: The Corner Pocket; 940 St. Louis St.; Starting at 9 p.m Come drink with Ashlee. Get your SIN card and receive $2.50 canned beer or well drinks and $1.50 draft. Margarita Mondays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drink spe-

cial is $3 margaritas all day and night. Pool Tournament: Rawhide 2010; 740 Burgundy St.; 9:45 p.m. $2 PBR and $50 Gift Certificate for Rawhide Lazy Susan Karaoke: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon Street; 9 p.m. – 1 a.m. Join bartender Mark and a revolving cast of drag queen hostesses (Shocktavia) for LAZY SUSAN KARAOKE with Music by DJ Lucius Riley. Mondays are a drag, so make them fabulous and sing the night away. Tuesday, September 11, 2018 Kocktail Karaoke: Good Friends Bar; 740 Dauphine St.; 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. Join us at Good Friends Bar for Kocktail Karaoke. The winner gets a $25.00 bar tab. $5 Fireball. Country Dance lessons: GrandPre’s; 834 N. Rampart St.; 8 p.m. Tuesdays are Country Dance lessons with dancing from 8 - 11 p.m. Bourbon Boylesque: Oz New Orleans; 800 Bourbon St.; 8:00 p.m. See the Men of Oz like you have never seen them before. The show stars Atomyc Adonis, Bobby B, Franky, Phathoms Deep and other special guests. Hosted by Trixie Minx. Tacos, Tequila and Tiaras: Buffa’s

Bar and Restaurant; 1001 Esplanade Ave.; 8 p.m. Tacos, Tequila, and Tiaras is one of New Orleans’ only family friendly drag shows! Join hostess Vanessa Carr Kennedy every Tuesday, have a taco or two, and learn a little bit about the art of drag. Twofer Tuesdays: Double Play Bar; 439 Dauphine St. The drinks special is two for one drinks until 10 p.m. Tequila Tuesdays: Four Seasons Bar; 3229 N. Causeway Blvd.; Open to close. Features $5 Tequila Sunrises, $6 house margaritas, $7 peach or strawberry margaritas and $7 Patron shots. Dine Out With The Krewe of Stars: Louisiana Pizza Kitchen; 615 S. Carrollton Avenue; 6 – 9 p.m. Y’ALL COME OUT TO DINE WITH THE KREWE OF STARS. They’re requesting you wear a Hat to show your “STAR SPIRIT.” Tell your server you’re out with the Stars and they will donate 25% of your tab to the Krewe of Stars. All are Welcome!

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Amanda G. (New Orleans) Greetings, from Queer Mountain at Allways Theatre 8/31/2018 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? Amanda G. is a standup comedian based in ‪New Orleans. She has been featured around New Orleans including House of Blues, Howlin’ Wolf, Tipitina’s, and Dragon’s Den. She has performed all over the country most recently at The Comedy Store in Los Angeles. She opened for Michael Che during the New Orleans leg of his tour and has been part of Beast Village, Lady Laughs, Mutiny Radio (San Francisco), Midwest Queer and Memphis comedy festivals. What are you most excited about? The debauchery What’s something interesting about you? I can out drink pirates Why should everyone come to see you? Greetings, from Queer Mountain is a monthly LGBTQ storytelling showcase. Our Decadence edition has a superstar line up full of fabulous storytellers. Amber Martin (New York) Bette, Bathhouse & Beyond at Allways Lounge 9/1/2018 10:00 PM - 4:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #1 Who are you? Cabaret SINGER in NYC. I co-created this party with Daniel Nardicio. I’m serving early Bette. What are you most excited about? Singing at this party is one of my favorite things on earth. It’s intimate and sexy. And the guests get lifted!!! What’s something interesting about you? I’m a biological woman who cohosts a sex party! I’ve been a flight attendant, a sex worker, a school teacher, a pageant queen and a cabaret queen in NYC. I’ve been on Broadway, sang at the Sydney Opera House, and toured the world. Why should everyone come to see you? I’m sprinkled in 3 times throughout the evening. It’s a tribute to the legendary Continental Bathhouse in NYC which served as a gay sex bathhouse in the late 60s and 70s. It also served as a launching pad for the career of the great Bette Midler and her then pianist, Barry Manilow. Her now-legendary performance run in the bathhouse is recreated at this simulated bathhouse party. Guests check their clothes at the door in exchange for a towel. The DJ plays the bathhouse era disco. Sexiness ensues. Atlas Grant (Brooklyn)

xl party at Phoenix bar 9/2/2018 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? Yes Who are you? I’m a marine corps veteran that became a porn performer. I’m a pretty open book most of the time I just want to eat and sleep and watch adventure time. What are you most excited about? This will be my first decadence and I’ve always wanted to go and see the debauchery that takes place. I’m also excited to meet the guys coming to Phoenix Bar to pet my fur and possibly spank me. What’s something interesting about you? You’ll have to come to Phoenix bar and find out. Why should everyone come to see you? I think if you are into hairy guys or gingers you should stop by and see Bennett and me, I think we are both unique and offer very different flavors. AUX Colorguard (New Orleans) Southern Decadence Parade at 9/2/2018 Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? AUX Colorguard is a group of talented individuals who love to perform in parades and special events locally. What are you most excited about? The Parade What’s something interesting about you? Our technique Why should everyone come to see you? AUX puts on a fun-filled and exciting performance. Bennett Anthony (Conway, SC) XXL: The Party at The Pheonix 8/30/2018 10:00 PM - 1:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #1 Who are you? Porn Actor, gogo, sex-positive sex worker. Natural red hair, southern charm, conscious of my surroundings, just trying to make the world a better place one blow job at a time. What are you most excited about? I’m mostly excited to see my coworkers outside of work. Usually, when we get together its, pop a pill and bust a nut, during trips like this there is a chance to grab a coffee and chat about things other than douches. What’s something interesting about you? When I’m not making porn, I’m studying wine. I’ve completed level 1 of Court of Master Sommeliers, and live for a 10-course tasting menu with pairings.

Why should everyone come to see you? Because only 2% of the population has red hair and you should see it, in all its glory before its too late. Also, how can you not have a good time when Atlas Grant and I are dick dancing the night away. Boners and Bears all night.

BLAZELIKEFYRE (New Orleans) CRESCENDO: SOUTHERN DECADENCE ‘18 EDITION at Three Keys 8/31/2018 10:00 PM - 3:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #5 Who are you? I am a Creative. A Curator. A servant. I have several talents, that I use to be of service to others. What are you most excited about? Creating an Event for people to enjoy. What’s something interesting about you? Idk Why should everyone come to see you? People should support my event to ensure that it remains an option. Events which center around people of color, especially during Decadence are necessary, however without support, the venues lose faith in the potential of its success, and necessity/validity in

the community.

Boomer Banks (New York) FEVER at House of Blues 8/31/2018 10:00 PM - 2:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #3 Who are you? I’m the Producer of BoomBoXXX, and a brand rep of Fleshjack Man and Pure for Men. I’m also a CockyBoys Model and all-around Porn Champ. What are you most excited about? I’m always excited for Southern Decadence. Men. Fun. Men. What’s something interesting about you? I stay ready. Why should everyone come to see you? I want to show everyone a good time. I’ll make sure of it. Chris Harder (New York City) Porn to be a Star at Allways Lounge and Cabaret 9/3/2018 9:00 PM - 11:30 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #1 Who are you? My name is Chris Harder and I’m a writer/actor, burlesque

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performer and essentially a “naked freelancer.” I’m also a former adult film performer and I’ll be bringing my solo show, PORN TO BE A STAR to New Orleans Sept 3rd! What are you most excited about? The parade! I love the energy in New Orleans. There’s always something to celebrate. To me, New Orleans feels like the perfect mix of metropolitan life and small-town kindness--I’m originally from North Dakota. I’m also REALLY looking forward to some late night food at the Clover Grill. Bring on the butter! What’s something interesting about you? If I told you that, people would stop paying to see my shows...! I’m left-handed which seems to impress some people and as mentioned, I’m originally from North Dakota--which usually mystifies people. Why should everyone come to see you? Porn to be a Star is a sexy, satirical and definitely unexpected look at a life lived in front of the camera. The play is loosely based off why own experiences in the industry but the show centers around the fictional “Dirty Dish Porn Awards.” I play a range of characters from my porn “nemesis,” to... my mom (yes, she knows.) There’s even a cameo on-screen appearance from Movie Star Barbie. So again, it’s an atypical look at gay porn. Nevertheless, you’ll definitely see a few “eggplants”! Cynthia Lee Fontaine (Austin, TX)

Drag Brunch featuring Cynthia Lee Fontaine at Harrah’s New Orleans Theatre 9/2/2018 10:00 AM - 1:30 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? Yes Who are you? Cynthia Lee Fontaine is the stage name of Carlos Hernandez, a drag performer from Austin, Texas. She is one of 12 contestants to compete on the eighth season of RuPaul’s Drag Race, where she finished in tenth place and was awarded the title of Miss Congeniality. Cynthia returned to the competition on the second episode of Season 9 as the “fourteenth queen” of the season and finished in tenth place. What are you most excited about? I am excited to visit the magical city of New Orleans. Its been a dream of mine to perform in New Orleans and I am honored to have the chance. What’s something interesting about you? I can sing Opera. A lot of people do not know that about me and I love singing. I am working on my first single now about to be released. Why should everyone come to see you? Don’t miss a bubbly brunch with “Miss CuCu” herself, Cynthia Lee Fontaine, hosted by Lola Van Ella with performances by local drag queens Vinsantos, Madonnathan, Neon Burgundy and Nicole Lynn Foxx. Produced in conjunction with Bella Blue Entertainment live at Harrah’s New Orleans on Sunday, September 2. Brunch, unlimited mimosas and a performance by this

show-stopping queen from season 8 and season 9 of RuPaul’s Drag Race will be the perfect way to start your parade day! DJ Ana Paula (Madrid, Spain) FEVER at House of Blues 8/31/2018 10:00 PM - 2:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? Yes Who are you? I’m an official Resident DJ at THE WEEK Brazil. I’ve been Featured DJ at Work! w/ Peter Rauhofer, White Party Palm Springs (performed there again this past year), WE Party Madrid, Circuit Festival Barcelona, Pier Dance NYC, Divers/Cité Montréal What are you most excited about? Performing with Hector, Nikki, Felipe, and Boomer. We will bring the heat! I’m also excited to see beautiful New Orleans. What’s something interesting about you? You’ll have to meet me to find out. Why should everyone come to see you? New Orleans is famous for throwing parties. Southern Decadence is one of its biggest parties each year. But Southern Decadence and New Orleans haven’t experienced an allstar lineup of international circuit DJs for one event. Not something anyone would want to miss. DJ Orlando Ricardo (Germany & New Orleans) The Sunday T-Dance at Bourbon Pub and Parade (Upstairs) 9/2/2018 3:00 PM - 8:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? Yes Who are you? I am from Germany where I started DJing with 16. I moved to the US in 2013 and have been DJing across the South. My style is Dance and the best in hip-hop in the Mix. What are you most excited about? Seeing all those happy people partying together and celebrating “US the community”. What’s something interesting about you? I’m the Versatile german ;-) Why should everyone come to see you? My style is not streamlined but it is a good mix of everything for everybody. DJ Tim Pflueger (New Orleans) Southern decadence 2018 at Oz 8/31/2018 10:29 PM - 12:03 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? I think they already know What are you most excited about?

Another one to do What’s something interesting about you? My Music and DJ in Why should everyone come to see you? Great Music Dolf Dietrich Sexual Decadence at Rawhide2010 at Rawhide2010 9/1/2018 9:30 PM - 2:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #3 Who are you? Hi New Orleans! My name is Dolf Dietrich and I am a 6 foot 6 220 lb giant with size 14 shoe! When people meet me they are often surprised about how kind and approachable I am, as I must give off a rather intimidating vibe from my physical stature, and in my films, I often portray an aggressive Alpha-male, but that is only part of what makes up ‘Dolf Dietrich.’ I’m married to my beautiful husband, Hugh Hunter with whom we performed the last tear together at the Bourbon Pub. We live in NYC and love it! What are you most excited about? I am so excited to come back to Southern Decadence and perform at Rawhide2010! This year, I will be performing with up and coming newcomer Silver Steele who is destined to be a porn legend. We have a meet and greet on Friday, September 31 and it will be a great way to kick off the weekend and say hi to our fans! We have tons of giveaways from our sponsors: Treasure Island Media, Skyn Men, and Nasty Daddy, plus we will be signing an autographed poster and taking photos with our fans. What’s something interesting about you? Many people do not know that I own my own graphic design firm specializing in marketing and advertising... in fact, this year’s poster for our event was designed by yours truly. I did not start porn until I turned 40 and before that, I was working in corporate, but when the economy tanked, I decided to follow my dreams and Dolf was born! I am fortunate enough to be known as one of the leading Daddies of Porn and am so grateful to my fans. Why should everyone come to see you? Definitely come for the meet and greet 7-10 pm on Friday, September 31 to meet Silver Steele and myself.. we have tons of giveaways and we will be priming the crowd for our Live Show Saturday night. I can’t give you many details about that, however, I can guarantee it will be THE show that people will be talking about the next day! Felipe Lira (Sao Paulo, Brazil) Fever at House of Blues 8/31/2018

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10:00 PM - 2:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? Yes Who are you? I’m the Resident DJ at THE WEEK Brazil, one of the most prestigious and famous LGBTQ party venues in the world. I’m also the Resident DJ at San Island Festival Brazil-the single largest LGBTQ festival in S. America. I’ve been featured DJ at Xlsior Mykonos, WE World Pride Madrid, I:M Festival Seoul, Matinée Vegas, and Winter Party Miami What are you most excited about? To see the men, and be in a city so infamous for food, culture and a good time! What’s something interesting about you? I’m passionate -- passionate about life. It drives my energy. Fuels me. Why should everyone come to see you? Because they will experience world sound, high energy, and the love and passion that Brazilians deliver. New Orleans is similar to my home city of Sao Paulo with its celebratory culture. The dance party will be an incredible moment where worlds collide. Gia GiaVanni (Metairie)

Southern Decadence Pre Parade Show at The Golden Lantern 9/2/2018 12:00 PM - 2:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? Performer in New Orleans. Miss Capital City Pride 2018, Miss Apollo Baton Rouge 2018, 3x GAA Entertainer Of The Year And 1X GAA Cheridon Comedy Award Winner. What are you most excited about? The costumes and the Parade. What’s something interesting about you? I am a creative queen with My music mixes and costumes. Why should everyone come to see you? I am an outside the box queen and you never know what your gonna get. Hector Fonseca (NYC) Fever at House of Blues New Orleans 8/31/2018 10:00 PM - 2:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #3 Who are you? NYC born DJ/Producer/Remixer/Audio4Play Records label owner. Charted over 20 Official Billboard #1 Remixes for artists such as

Beyoncé, Lady Gaga, Rihanna, Sia, Katy Perry, Cher, Pet shop boys & more! DJ Headliner Of almost every major dance music festival including Ultra Miami, White Party Palm Springs, Circuit Festival Spain, The Week Brazil & Lifeball Vienna. Over 200,000 combined followers on Social Media. Out Magazine & Edge Online DJ of the year. What are you most excited about? The freedom everyone gets to express at Southern Decadence. It’s one of the most fun weekends in the US & I look forward to partaking in the Decadence! What’s something interesting about you? Probably the diversity & size of my music catalog. I’ve worked with a lot of different kinds of artists from all over the world & I’ve created in many different sub-genres of dance music. Why should everyone come to see you? With so many DJs these days, experience & a catalog of music have once again become important. I bring my own signature sound through my music production & remixes. I also bring a lot of energy into my live sets and feed off the crowd. You will definitely remember the night!

LGBTQLOL (New Orleans) LGBTQLOL Comedy Night at Parleaux Beer Lab 9/2/2018 8:00 PM - 9:30 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #3 Who are you? Come and enjoy a night of stand up, improv, and beer! Your ticket to the show gets you a $1 off pints for the entire night! Tickets are “pay what you like”. This show will feature local LGBTQ stand up comedians and improvisers. Featuring: Xander Bilyk, Kevin Atkinson, Camille Roane, Amanda Golob, LGBTQLOL Improv Mashup What are you most excited about? All the events What’s something interesting about you? This event is to support local LGBTQ comedians in Nola Why should everyone come to see you? It’s a variety show of comedians from New Orleans Monique Michaels-Alexander (New Orleans) Kasha Davis Kickoff Party at Mag’s 940 8/30/2018 8:00 PM - 12:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #8

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Who are you? I am the Special Function Lieutenant for the Krewe of Petronius, the sponsors of this event, and a drag entertainer all over New Orleans and the South. What are you most excited about? The chance to increase visibility for my Krewe and my community, and make new friends and reconnect with old friends. What’s something interesting about you? I am a California native. I moved to New Orleans almost ten years ago and fell in love with the city. Why should everyone come to see you? It’s a great chance to catch Kasha Davis and start Southern Decadence right. It’s also a fundraiser for the Krewe of Petronius. Nicole DuBois The Big Cock Contest at The Bourbon Pub/Parade 8/30/2018 12:00 AM - 1:30 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #6 Who are you? 3 time National Titleholder -Miss Gay Universe 2000, Miss Gay National 2001, Miss Gay America 2006, New Orleans Pride Grand Marshal 2017, GAA Entertainer of the Year 2018. Show Director @ Sipps in Gulfport , MS and Cast Member of Lipstixx Ladies on Parade @ The Bourbon Pub What are you most excited about? Having the opportunity to meet people from all across the country , recon-

necting with friends both old and new . Of course the Official Southern Decadence Parade , and all the hot half-naked men , what’s not to love? What’s something interesting about you? That I come from a very religious background , and I’m basically a very shy person , but yet my stage persona allows me to be a completely different person . Quite witty and very passionate about the art form of female impersonation. Why should everyone come to see you? This event kicks off Southern Decadence @ The Bourbon Pub / Parade. Proudly sponsored by Manhunt / The Big Dick Contest lets the winner have bragging rights of the biggest. There will be a glory hole set up on stage , no one will see your face , just the, winner is chosen by the audience , it’s always nice to have some liquid encouragement , of course I get to see it up close and fondle the merchandise -sssshhh. The highlight of my evening will be proclaiming the Dick of Decadence !! Nikki Valentine (Sao Paulo, Brazil) FEVER at House of Blues 8/31/2018 10:00 PM - 2:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? Yes Who are you? I’m an international Dance Chart #1 Artist. I was a finalist on The Voice Brazil. I am the resident songstress for PAPA Party and this year was a featured performer at White

Party Palm Springs, L.A. Pride, and Puerto Vallarta Pride What are you most excited about? I’ve heard all my life how New Orleans was a “must-see” city if I traveled to the US. Coming for Southern Decadence means I finally get to experience one of America’s finest cities, and can party and dance with people who clearly know how to party and dance! What’s something interesting about you? I don’t stop. I constantly do. Why should everyone come to see you? I’m gonna throw down. You’ll want to witness that. Persana Shoulders DICK IN A CUP / SOUTHERN DECADENCE Weekend Hostess at Oz 8/30/2018 12:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Qween Amor (NEW ORLEANS) Viva La Queer Dance Party at Bourbon and St Anne 8/31/2018 3:00 PM - 9:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #4 Who are you? Qween Amor is a trans queer performance artist that uses various forms of dance to portray an immaculate image of Mary Magdalene. S/he travels the states of America and utilizes public space for her performances. S/he very bravely projects gender nonconformity in her performances and aims to spread the love with her dance. S/he also uses her performance art as a form of activism and demonstrates at protests around the country. What are you most excited about? This southern decadence I’m most excited about the opportunity to unify the most marginalized of our community with the larger demographic. By using music and dance as the medium, we can bring together the whole of our communities. Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, and Queer must be acknowledged as a unified collective. The entirety of the LGBTQ spectrum is a very diverse and eclectic community. The unification of our community is imperative to reaching full equality and liberation in America. What’s something interesting about you? For the last 6 years, I’ve been dancing from city to city with the aim of unifying our community. To do this, I use music and dance to bring the spectrum together. As an activist, I aim to increase visibility in mainstream society so that we can overcome the oppression we have faced as a unified whole.

Why should everyone come to see you? This performance at Decadence will be done in the street and will serve to integrate the trans/queer spectrum with everyone else. This is so important. We must stand together as a unified collective if we stand any chance of overcoming the oppression that this current administration is imposing on our community. WE MUST STAND TOGETHER! SDGM XLIV Frank Perez (French Quarter) A Gay Sashay Through History at Walking Tour 8/31/2018 10:00 AM 12:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? Southern Decadence Grand Marshal. Lord of Misrule of the Krewe du le Rue Royale Revelers. Raconteur Extraordinaire. Flaneur. Historian. Author. Tour Guide. Educator. President, LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana. What are you most excited about? Leading the Grand Marshals’ Walking Parade. Seeing old friends. What’s something interesting about you? In the words of Ignatius J. Reilly, “My being has many facets.” Why should everyone come to see you? My walking tour is a fascinating stroll through local LGBT+ history. Highlights include insights from my newly published book on the history of Southern Decadence. Those who take this tour will have a new appreciation for Southern Decadence, the French Quarter, and New Orleans in general. Silver Steele Sexual Decadence - Live Show with Dolf Dietrich and Silver Steele at Rawhide 2010 9/1/2018 11:59 PM - 1:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #6 Who are you? I’m an adult film model newcomer, who’s made their debut in March 2018 with Treasure Island Media, and has filmed with 6 studios total since then (filming with my 7th at decadence: SkynMen). I’m a Houston native and have lived there my whole life. I love New Orleans like a second home, and visit as often as I can! What are you most excited about? I have been to Southern Decadence many times but this will be my first time as a performer! I feel very fortunate because I’m new to the industry and I know there are only a few live performance spots each year. What’s something interesting about

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you? I think people are usually surprised to find out that I’m actually a bit of a cerebral person. My degree is in Biology, and I’m a former educator. I enjoy documentaries, spend an inordinate amount of time on Wikipedia, and play trivia and puzzle games. Also, people ask about the country flags tattooed on my back; they are countries I’ve visited. I’m at 8 tattoos and have 14 more to go. Why should everyone come to see you? Dolf Dietrich and I have filmed together and had a great relationship both on and off camera. We’re very like-minded professionals and want to give our fans a show they’ll remember! Not to mention the Rawhide is a great place to have fun! Additionally, our event is sponsored by Treasure Island Media, Nasty Daddy, and SkynMen, and we will be passing out free merchandise on Friday the 30th during our Meet and Greet from 7 PM to 10 PM! Sister Roma (San Francisco) Dick In A Cup Strip Off! at Oz Nightclub 8/30/2018 8:00 PM - 12:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+

Who are you? I’m best known as one of the most outspoken and widely recognized Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. I’m an activist, fundraiser, actor, entertainer, emcee, and “The Most Photographed Nun In The World.™” I have raised millions of dollars for charity as well as appeared on stage, screen and television. I’m also the Creative Director for Falcon/NakedSword, the world’s leading gay porn studios which explains why I always have the hottest men on my arm - but don’t worry - I like to share! What are you most excited about? I wasn’t able to come to Decadence last year so I’m most excited to return to host the Dick in a Cup Strip Off with my girl Persana Shoulders at Oz Nightclub. Oz really is the heart of the Quarter with the best music and hottest guys shaking their junk on the bar. It’s always my home base the entire time I’m in NOLA. I’m also excited to be an ambassador for Swiss Navy Lube, which means I will be in both parades, flanked by hot porn stars, handing out free swag. It’s always so much fun! What’s something interesting about you? It’s hard to say what is the most interesting thing about me. Some peo-

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ple may be interested to know about my political activism and charitable work while others may be more interested in hearing about my list of television and movie credits. Some people may be interested to know that I have my gag reflex surgically removed and travel with my own personalized knee pads. If you’re one of those people, call me! Why should everyone come to see you? New Orleans is one of my favorite places in the world. The culture, the people, the food, the music, the art, the French Quarter - there’s no place on earth quite like it. But let’s be honest we come to Decadence for the DICK. And to party. So you will want to come to Oz where there is always a party and plenty of dick - I mean our event is literally called DICK IN A CUP. The guys who enter are some of the hottest in town and trust me, their cups runneth over! THE SOUTHERN BARBITCHUATES QUEEN B DRAG BRUNCH FEATURING THE SOUTHERN BARBITCHUATES at Broussard’s Restaurant and Courtyard 8/31/2018 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #7 Who are you? I AM THE SHOW DIRECTOR CREATOR OF THE SOUTHERN BARBITCHUATES. WE ARE A GROUP OF PERFORMERS CONSISTING OF MOANALOT FONTAINE, SHEEYA MANN, COCA MESA, GIA GIANVANNI, SABLE NICOLE STAR WHO HAVE DOING DRAG BRUNCH AT THE COUNTRY CLUB NEW ORLEANS IN THE BYWATER FOR THE PAST 7 YRS. THE LONGEST RUNNING DRAG BRUNCH SINCE 2010 HERE IN THIS GREAT CITY. What are you most excited about? THIS IS OUR FIRST TIME DOING A DRAG BRUNCH AT THE VENUE FOR SOUTHERN DECADENCE. What’s something interesting about you? WE ARE A GROUP OF DIFFERENT TALENTS THAT WE BRING TO THE STAGE TO ENTERTAIN ALL. Why should everyone come to see you? OUR DRAG BRUNCHES HAVE BEEN THE TALK OF THE CITY WE HAVE BEEN FEATURE ON WGNO NEWS WITH A TWIST AS ONE OF THE BEST SHOWS AT A BRUNCH TO BE SEEN. WE ARE BOOKED UP AT THE COUNTRY CLUB IN THE BY WATER TILL MID-JANUARY of 2019 IS NEXT OPENING RESERVATION. SO DOING AND COMING TO SEE THESE SHOW IN THE FRENCH QUARTER AT BROUSSARD’S

RESTAURANT AND COURTYARD IS MUST SEE. Tiffany Alexander (New Orleans) Southern decadence farmers show at Always lounge 8/31/2018 9:00 PM 11:59 PM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? Former Miss gay Louisiana America 91/93 Former miss gay Louisiana US of A 1995… member at the Bourbon Pub… Former Southern decadence grand marshal 2011 !! What are you most excited about? See new people What’s something interesting about you? Meeting new people Why should everyone come to see you? Because I am fabulous… LOL VJ Brendan (Lisbon, Iowa) Sing-A-Long Sundays at Bourbon Pub 9/2/2018 9:00 PM - 3:00 AM Is this your first time in New Orleans? No Is this your first SD? No #10+ Who are you? I’m VJ Brendan Thompson, Senior VJ/DJ at the Bourbon Pub where I have worked since 2000. What are you most excited about? I’m most excited about the whole community coming together and showcasing the great city of New Orleans to my out of town Friends and the gay community from around the world. What’s something interesting about you? I love to meet celebrities and have met Princess Diana, Janet Jackson, Aretha Franklin, Justin Timberlake, Britney Spears and Whitney Houston just to name a few. Why should everyone come to see you? Sunday Night Sing-A-Long has become legendary in New Orleans. For almost 20 years, friends have been meeting at the Bourbon Pub and singing along to their favorite videos. It’s family night for Gay New Orleans. It’s the one night you don’t want to miss while you’re in town.

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from the 1970s. Decadence founders in attendance at the Gala included Robert Laurent, Maureen and Charlie Block, Tom Tippin, Preston Hemmings, Kathleen Kavanaugh, and Bruce Harris. Other former Southern Decadence Grand Marshals were also recognized as well as current SDGMs Frank Perez and Adikus Sulpizi.

A highlight of the Oracle Gala was the premiere screening of rare, recently restored film footage of the first several Southern Decadence parties/parades. Guests had the opportunity to purchase Southern Decadence in New Orleans, the first book ever published about the annual extravaganza, written by Perez and Howard P. Smith. Smith, author of Unveiling the

Muse: The Lost History of Gay Carnival in New Orleans, presided over the Gala as Master of Ceremonies. Perez serves as President of the Archives Project which each year honors an individual or organization that has made a substantial donation of LGBT+ materials to a local library or museum.

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The 60th Anniversary of the Fernando Rios Murder Clayton Delery claytondelery@yahoo.com With Mayor LaToya Cantrell’s office so vocally in support of the city’s queer population, and the acceptance of LGBT people in New Orleans arguably at a record high, it’s easy to forget how recent today’s level of acceptance is, and how different things used to be. Sixty years ago, New Orleans had a large gay population, but the city itself was not particularly gay-friendly. In fact, the Mayor, de Lesseps “Chep” Morrison, aided by his brother, Jacob, and by city councilman, Fred Cassibry, were actively involved in an effort to eliminate homosexuality from the city. Their goal was to create a “frigid climate of hostility” which would cause gay men and lesbians to “disperse and either conduct themselves on a moral plane or depart for places unknown.” The effort became known as the “drive against the deviates.” In the middle of this municipal effort, on September 28, 1958, three Tulane students decided to entertain themselves one night by “rolling [beating up] a queer.” Today this would be

selves from this advance. The facts classified as a hate crime, though that that they outnumbered Rios, and that terminology did not exist sixty years one of them had gone into the bar soago. One of the young men went into liciting such an advance were not seriCafé Lafitte, pretending to be gay, and ously questioned. offered himself as bait. He flirted with During the week that the trial doma man named Fernando Rios and left inated the headlines, Fred Cassibry the bar with him on the pretense of submitted to the City offering Rios a ride Council a package of back to his hotel. It’s possible—even prob- The other two students six ordinances designed to eliminate able—that he offered were lying in wait out- “deviates” from the something more. The other two side. The beating Rios city. His ordinances been authored students were lying received at their hands had by the Mayor’s brothin wait outside. The was so severe that er, Jacob Morrison. beating Rios received at their hands was so he died sixteen hours The timing of Cassibsevere that he died ry’s proposal made later. sixteen hours later. it clear that he and In the months the Mayor were takleading up the trial, ing advantage of the much was made in the newspapers publicity generated by the Rios murder about how the assailants only beat trial in order to create an image of a city Rios after he made “an indecent adunder siege by “deviates.” The results were all too predictvance.” During the trial itself, defense able. The Rios killers were acquitted, attorneys argued that their clients had and when the verdict was announced, to beat Rios in order to defend them-

the courtroom erupted into loud and sustained applause. A week later the package of six anti-gay ordinances was passed unanimously by the City Council and signed into law by the Mayor whose brother had authored them. If you’re reading this, you know that the drive against the deviates was almost comically unsuccessful. That said, hate crimes have not gone away by any means, and politicians at the local, state, and national levels are still writing laws which might logically be classified as ones designed to create a “frigid climate of hostility.” We are fortunate that our current Mayor, her predecessor Mitch Landrieu, and Governor John Bel Edwards are all openly supportive of their LGBT constituents. But we should never fool ourselves into thinking that the pendulum can’t swing back the other way. Clayton Delery is the author of Out for Queer Blood: The Murder of Fernando Rios and the Failure of New Orleans Justice.

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BOOK REVIEW

The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke

Frank Perez frankearlperez@gmail.com The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke. Jeffrey C. Stewart. Oxford UP, 2018. 932 pages. $39.95.

The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke comes in at 932 pages. Books this size can scare casual readers away but those who brave Jeffrey C. Stewart’s new release will be not be disappointed. This massive biography of Alain Locke is well worth the read. Classically educated and raised in the late 19th Century, Locke believed that art was essential to Black Liberation. The title is from Locke’s seminal 1925 work, The New Negro, which, unlike other Black Liberation voices of the time, argued that the onus of black empowerment rested with black peo-

ple themselves and not the white establishment. The nuances of Locke’s argument established him as one of the most significant philosophers of the early 20th Century. Any biographer of Locke would be tempted to focus solely on his role as the architect of the Harlem Renaissance, but Stewart does not fall into this trap. In The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke, Stewart offers the definitive biography of the father of the Harlem Renaissance, based on extant primary sources of his life and on interviews with those who knew him personally. He narrates the education

Party Down Tony Leggio ledgemgp@gmail.com

As Southern Decadence edges its way closer, the events are picking up speed. Literally there is something to do almost every night of the week and we all know I am the king of making the most out of a calendar. Actually these two weeks were pretty crazy at work and then I went out of town again (see “Ambush on the Road”), but I still managed to attend some networking events, a Tequila party, a gala, a birthday party, a theatrical performance and even got my linen dirty. Let’s begin with my first weekend. On Friday, I attended the play Vieux Carre at the Marigny Opera House. The Tennessee Williams Theater Company kicked off its fourth season with this amazing show. Set at 722 Toulouse Street, Vieux Carre follows a young writer who arrives in the Crescent City for the first time and falls in love with the fabled French Quarter. It’s a dangerous affair, though, and one that involves ambiguous love triangles, desperate longing, and heartbreak. The starry cast included Tracey Collins who was hysterical along with Kyle Daigrepont; they stole every scene they were in. Jake Bartush did a noteworthy job as the writer as did Megan Whittle as his housemate at the boardinghouse. There was also lots of eye candy besides Jake such as Levi Hood, Nathaniel Trawog and Torey Haywood. The play was excellently directed by Beau Bratcher. Congratulations to this fledgling theatre company on another well-done production. On Saturday, I got dirty by attending Dirty Linen Night. I met up with some friends who participated in the

Red Dress Run and we started on our evening of fun. There were some great cocktails being served in the galleries and I actually bought some amazing art and gifts. I got a great piece of art from The Funeral Gallery owned and operated by none other than talented artist and entertainer Vinsantos. FiFi Mahoney had some great gifts on sale, so I started my holiday shopping early. Other galleries that were fun included Lucky Rise and Gallery Rinard. It was a nice crowd and a more laid back (which I love) scene than its White Linen counterpart. And what was even more entertaining was watching the leftovers from the Red Dress Run walking around the streets like Drunken Zombies. Why is it that when a straight couple drinks all day they always end up in a fight? The girl ends up crying and the guy stumbles off drunk, angry and horny. Not a good combination in the vicinity of the gay bars. On Sunday, I attended the Oracle Gala at the Ace Hotel in which the proceeds from the night benefitted the LGBT Archives. Authors Frank Perez and Howard Smith debuted their new novel Southern Decadence in New Orleans. The book chronicles the history of this holiday from its humble roots as a going away party to the huge LGBT weekend of events. At the soiree, they also showed films taken from several of the first Southern Decadence celebrations. They had many former Grand Marshals on hand to celebrate along with current Grand Marshals Adikus Sulpizi and Frank Perez. There was also an impressive array of posters and other collectibles from past years on display. It was a wonder-

of Locke, including his becoming the first African American Rhodes Scholar and earning a PhD in philosophy at Harvard University, and his long career as a professor at Howard University. Locke also received a cosmopolitan, aesthetic education through his travels in continental Europe, where he came to appreciate the beauty of art and experienced a freedom unknown to him in the United States. And yet he became most closely associated with the flowering of Black culture in Jazz Age America and his promotion of the literary and artistic work of African Americans as the quintessential creations of American

modernism. In the process he looked to Africa to find the proud and beautiful roots of the race. Shifting the discussion of race from politics and economics to the arts, he helped establish the idea that Black urban communities could be crucibles of creativity. Stewart explores both Locke’s professional and private life, including his relationships with his mother, his friends, and his white patrons, as well as his lifelong search for love as a gay man; his insights into the gay subcultures of Harvard and Oxford Universities make for especially interesting reading, if not during Decadence, than certainly after the festivities are over.

ful night of camaraderie with the other Grand Marshals as well as supporters of the LGBT Archives. Congratulations on all involved who made this event a huge success. The following week I attended two parties on Thursday. The first was at Morton’s Steakhouse, hosted by Patron Tequila with several cocktails that were unique twists on old classics, like a Mint Julep, all made with Patron. I love it when you walk into a party and you’re offered a chilled shot of Patron smooth. Now that is how you kick off a night. And the food at Morton’s is always delicious with one of the best crab cakes in the city. After that I hopped over to New Orleans Social House (or NOSH) for the National Association of Caterers and Events (NACE) networking event with more good food as well as libations. If you are in the hospitality community or want to reach them as your customers, being a part of organizations like NACE (or MPI and ILEA) are great ways to meet people. Between the education and networking, these are worthwhile groups to be a part of. My second weekend was all about birthdays. On Friday, a group of my friends celebrated their birthdays at Charlie’s Steakhouse, one of my favorite steakhouses here. The restaurant opened in 1932 and, except for a brief time after Katrina, has been running smoothly since then. What I love about Charlie’s is the laid back and unassuming atmosphere. You get a mouth-watering steak served on a sizzling plate for an affordable price. They don’t have menus unless it’s your first time. Sunday was another birthday party for the fabulous Marvin Andrade. Marvin has been my friend for too many years to count and one of the funniest and hardest working people in the hospitality industry. He threw an all-day

movable fete that began with an incredible brunch at Arnaud’s Restaurant. Our city is made up of so many wonderful restaurants and I am always excited about a new one opening up, but nothing beats the classics. Arnaud’s is one of a handful of fine dining establishments in the city where it is almost impossible to have a bad meal. You do not eat at Arnaud’s, you experience it. This is a multi-sense experience with all the wonderful smells and tastes as well as the jazz music playing in the background tho they’re now branching out with music from Toto to Lady Gaga. Of course, the dining room was gorgeous and the service was impeccable. After the scrumptious meal, we moved to the fruit loop area and started at The Pub for cocktails. Still nothing like hanging out at the Pub on a Sunday. I do not go as much as I used to, but it is always festive. My friends called it an early night but then I ran into Adikus Sulpizi and his husband David and my night took a new and unexpected turn. We started at Lafitte’s in Exile hanging out with fabulous bartender Jeff Palmquist and listening to a little trash disco before moving onto upstairs at Oz for a few hands of Bingo called by the ever-vibrant ChiChi Rodriguez. After trying my hand (and losing) at a few games, we next went to a Southern Decadence fundraiser at Rawhide where some sort of beer bust/raffle was going on and it was a blast! They had a boots to balls raffle that always screws short people, so I hopped up on the pool table (no easy feat) and garnered some more tickets. I love the Rawhide because it reminds me of a very naughty locals bar. It was the perfect way to end the day and the weekend. I hope everyone has an enjoyable Southern Decadence and stay (and play) safe!

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Trodding the Boards Brian Sands bsnola2@hotmail.com

New York, New York– Broadway is Up and the Battery’s Down

When you think of museum locations in New York City, you tend to imagine the Upper East and West Sides, Midtown and, with the Whitney’s move south, the Meatpacking District or, more broadly speaking, the Village. As for theaters, they’re in and around Broadway (natch) plus midtown, the East Village and a few other places generally above Houston Street. But during a recent trip to NYC, a visit waaaay downtown allowed me to take in both a unique museum and a reinvigorating revival of a beloved musical, before heading back uptown for a kicky new show. The 9/11 Memorial & Museum (180 Greenwich Street) occupies an expanse underneath what had been the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center (WTC). Opened in 2014, its mission is to “Remember and honor the thousands of innocent men, women, and children murdered by terrorists in the horrific attacks of February 26, 1993 and September 11, 2001.” It serves this mission well. The sprawling space is divided into two main areas. I started in the South Tower Gallery which houses a display about the building of the Towers (probably more interesting to architects and engineers than to most lay people, though, to the Museum’s credit, it here acknowledges the mixed architectural reviews the Towers initially received); In Memoriam, a contemplative space filled with photos that invites you to learn more about all the victims; and an exhibit of the many New Yorker covers that featured the WTC Towers before 9/11 and, afterwards, somber commemorations of the catastrophe. From there I headed to the heart of the Museum, the historical exhibition September 11, 2001, comprised of three sequential parts: the Events of the Day, what led up to the attacks (“Before 9/11”), and the immediate aftermath (“After 9/11”). The amount of detail herein, including that about the terrorists, mesmerizes. Its dramatic photographs, covering all aspects of 9/11, and recordings from the Towers and the hijacked airplanes will captivate your attention. Throughout the Museum, one can see a vast array of 9/11-related artifacts from steel beams, including “The Last Column” which was ceremoniously removed from the site on May 30, 2002 to mark the end of the recovery effort, to victims’ small ID cards to a

communication antenna that crowned one of the Towers. Also on display are artworks of all sorts from around the world, some incorporating remnants of the Towers, that pay tribute to the victims and first responders including, as seen in the compact Dogs of 9/11 exhibit in the South Tower Gallery, search and rescue canines. I’m sure each visitor will respond differently, but unquestionably the section showing people falling from the upper floors of the Towers is devastating. On a much more positive note, one aspect that comes through strongly is the sense of people helping others throughout that tragic day. Simply put, the experience can be overwhelming. I had allocated three hours to tour the Museum. There is such a wealth of material, however, that I wound up staying nearly four hours and probably could’ve remained even longer had I wanted to read every display tag and watch all the gripping videos of that unforgettable moment in history. That said, given that the same horrific thing happened virtually three times (twice in NYC along with the Pentagon attack; United Airlines Flight 93’s crash near Shanksville, PA is of a slightly different nature), the exhibit, while transfixing moment-to-moment, can get a bit repetitions. Still, overall, the installation has been done with intelligence, a keen critical eye and extraordinary good taste. As one takes it all in, it is fascinating to observe how things so quotidian, like a concrete subway staircase, take on massive symbolic and emotional significance in the aftermath of such a tragedy. In the case of the staircase, which I’m sure no one had ever given much thought to, it served as one of the few escape routes before the Towers collapsed. Though the appropriate somber atmosphere was always maintained, I was somewhat surprised by how crowded the Museum was on a recent Monday afternoon and how many different languages I heard spoken by the various visitors. But when I learned that 2 billion people or 1/3 of the world’s population witnessed the attack and/ or subsequent collapse of the Towers, it made sense. Departing the solemnity of the 9/11 Memorial & Museum, I headed a short way south toward the streamlined lushness of Battery Park City and the Museum of Jewish Heritage (36 Battery Pl.) for the National Yiddish Theatre Folksbiene’s production of Fiddler on the Roof (through October 25). Fiddler on the Roof? Haven’t

Jackie Hoffman in Fiddler on the Roof we seen that a hundred times? Well, maybe, but this production is giving the Tony-winning musical its premiere American run in Yiddish, using a translation originally done in the 1960s for an Israeli production. All I can ask is “What took so long?” For to hear Sholem Aleichem’s characters speaking in their mother tongue makes for a sublime moment in musical theater history. Or, to put it another way, I kvelled and kvelled, as my grandparents came from a Ukrainian village, or shtetl, not so different from Anatevka. Or to put it still another way, they had me at “Meshugana, no?” (instead of the opening’s usual “Sounds crazy, no?”). All this wouldn’t matter, of course, if the production itself didn’t fulfill the demands of Joseph Stein’s warmth-infused book and the legendary score by Jerry Bock and Sheldon Harnick. But it does, beautifully. Directed assuredly by Tony and Oscar winner Joel Grey, this somewhat stylized Fiddler uses chairs and tables, and not much else, to create homes, taverns, and the rest of the village. Ann Hould-Ward’s simple but evocative costumes come in shades of black, white and gray though she adds crimson red for the Russian Cossacks’ outfits. Upstage on Beowulf Boritt’s set hangs a large piece of brown paper with, in big black Hebrew characters, the Yiddish word for “Torah” printed on it. This makes clear what guides the people of Fiddler, even if their world hovers on the cusp of change. Leading the cast, Steven Skybell creates a magnificent, earthy Tevye, the put-upon paterfamilias, who retains

a youthful menschiness. More than most other Tevyes, Skybell makes the milkman’s good-heartedness and playful spirit apparent from the beginning, causing his more sober moments to stand out in even greater relief. As Yente, the priceless Jackie Hoffman tears into the part with not only comic shtik, but a perfect delivery of every line, relishing the angular sounds of Yiddish and, in so doing, adding another layer of expressiveness to the role. Bruce Sabath aptly humanizes the butcher Layzer Volf, almost son-in-law to Tevye, and like Hoffman, reminded me of relatives from the Old Country. Jennifer Babiak, Rachel Zatcoff and Stephanie Lynne Mason as Golde and her two oldest daughters, Tsatyl and Hodl, respectively, all sing with lovely voices even if their acting is more New World than Old. The rest of the cast are all fine though this may be the first time you can hardly blame Daughter #3 Khave for running off with the Russian Fyedke and his bulging pecs. You might feel that the Museum’s auditorium, a very nicely designed, 350-seat affair, is almost too modern for this tale from the early 1900s and wish the production had been done in, say, one of those underutilized synagogues on the Lower East Side, without even the helpful subtitles that appear on either side of the stage, for a fully immersive experience. Or you may not. Just a thought. But, regardless of that, you can revel in the marvelous, bone-deep feeling of authenticity that envelopes this production. In a world of fake news and manufactured reality, knowing that these people actually sounded this way

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back then, even if they didn’t regularly break out singing show tunes, makes for a thrilling theatergoing experience. Still, you might wonder “Brian, why should I see this? My grandparents didn’t come from an Eastern European shtetl.” Well, in addition to the sheer brilliance of the production, two things. One, you never know whom you might be sitting next to as recent audience members at this unexpected hit have included Mandy Patinkin, Bernadette Peters, Bebe Neuwirth and Isabella Rossellini. And, two, the chorus boys are really cute, especially if you’re into beards. More cuteness can be found back on Broadway at the Hudson Theatre (141 W. 44 St.) where Head Over Heels opened in July. Based on Sir Philip Sidney’s 16th century prose drama The Arcadia, this new musical involves various love triangles, mistaken identities, sexual awakenings, and the protection of a kingdom from Fate. Reminiscent of Something Rotten and Lysistrata Jones, two fun musicals yet to be presented here, Head Over Heels features cute boyz, cute gurls, a cute story (that does turn dark before a happy ending), cute sheep, and Peppermint, a RuPaul’s Drag Race alumna and the first transwoman to originate a principal role on Broadway, who’s cute, fierce and charismatic as The Oracle of Delphi.

Most noteworthy, Head Over Heels’ score consists of songs by The Go-Go’s, that 1980s all-female band that occupied a prime place in MTV’s video rotations 30+ years ago. We Got the Beat is a savvy choice for the opening and gets things off to a fun start. Our Lips Are Sealed, Heaven Is A Place On Earth (actually, a later hit for the group’s lead, Belinda Carlisle), and the title tune are all in the mix with Vacation working best courtesy of a more reflective interpretation. These and the rest of The Go-Go’s catalog are remarkably well-suited to and well-integrated into the show in a manner that calls to mind Mamma Mia! In fact, Head Over Heels may even be more sophisticated in plot, style and its underlying message than that ABBA jukebox mega-hit (which admittedly ain’t saying much). Unfortunately, unless you’re a huge Go-Go’s fan, Head Over Heels does not provide quite as much visceral fizz as Mamma Mia! for the simple reason that it can’t offer as many #1 hits. And if you’re unfamiliar with the songs, it can be a challenge making out the lyrics which actually do add to Head Over Heels’ plot and characterizations. Still, Head Over Heels, as I noted again and again in my program, is “fun” with “MTVish but fun” choreography by Spencer Liff and Michael Mayer’s “very broad but fun” direction and a “funny, diverse” cast led by the innately regal

“The Last Column” in the 9/11 Museum’s Foundation Hall yet knowingly comic Rachel York. And in these troubled times, two hours and fifteen minutes of “FUN” ain’t such a bad thing.

Coming Up

With Southern Decadence upon us, one can be entertained in many ways. Here are a few that offer decadence in a most artistic manner. Daniel Nardicio presents The 2nd Annual Bette, Bathhouse & Beyond on Saturday, September 1, at The AllWays Lounge (2240 St Claude Ave.). Not only will singer Amber Martin (DJ for John Cameron Mitchell’s Mattachine) recreate one of Bette Midler’s

iconic 1970s Continental Baths shows, but you’ll be able to help bring back the vibe of the famed bathhouse as audience members will be required to don towels only (available for $2 or BYOT). DJ Johnny Dynell will be playing “Bathhouse Disco” from the era, and as is known to happen at B, B & B, a surprise musical guest or two may drop by. AllWays is clothing optional for the night. Doors open at 10pm and close at 4am. Clothing may or may not be optional for the audience at The AllWays on Monday, September 3, but burlesque performer, actor and former gay porn star Chris Harder is certain to shed most (all?) of his during his one-man

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show Porn to be a Star. Loosely based on Harder’s own experiences, Porn to be a Star offers social commentary as it gives a behindthe-scenes look at the gay adult industry. Set during a porn awards show, Harder plays various characters from a twinky socialite to a fresh-off-the-farm boy. Not sure how he’s gonna work her in but this North Dakota native (and former Cocky Boys star) even plays his own mother at one point! Obie Award winner David (The Night Larry Kramer Kissed Me) Drake directs this 70-minute satire that has been described as “campy antics [combined] with genuine heart and vulnerability.” Doors open at 9pm for the 10pm show. After seeing Porn to be a Star, head over to The Phoenix Bar (941 Elysian Fields Ave.) for “Brief Encounters: An Underwear Party,” a new weekly shindig on Monday nights upstairs at The Eagle from 9pm-2am.

The ever-charming Andrew hosts this comfortable, judgement-free, supportive environment where, if you’re in your underwear (or less) prices are $3 wells/$2 beers ($4 wells/$3 domestics for those not participating). There’s no cover and clothing check is available behind the bar with camera surveillance at all times. And while Decadence should certainly bring in a large crowd, even on a regular Monday you’re likely to see a healthy mix of visitors, neighborhood folks, and a local luminary or two. Decadence will be over but that rock’n’theater performance art/concert Hedwig and the Angry Inch arrives at Café Istanbul (2372 St. Claude Ave.) on September 6 for a production in honor of its 20th anniversary. Edward Carter Simon will play the title role and Kimberly Kaye will be featured as Yitzhak. Two-time Tony Award winner and Treme resident Michael Cerveris (Fun Home, Assassins)

shepherds the production as creative consultant. Cerveris played the role of Hedwig in the original off-Broadway production, as well as in Los Angeles and London, so this promises to be more than just a local production. Hedwig plays through Sept. 23. Wonder if its creator John Cameron Mitchell will stop by? Or if Hedwig might indulge in some of Southern Decadence’s festivities? One could say that anything involving Marie Antoinette hints at decadence, but you’ll have to find out for yourself when The NOLA Project presents the regional premiere of Lauren Gunderson’s The Revolutionists in the New Orleans Museum of Art’s Great Hall, September 4-16. Director Joanna Russo leads the all-female production featuring a feminist playwright, an anti-slavery activist from the Caribbean, the assassin Charlotte Corday, as well as the

French Queen herself. Billed oxymoronically as a “comedy set during the French Revolution’s Reign of Terror” it’s also said to be about “art and activism, feminism and terrorism, compatriots and chosen sisters, violence and legacy, and how we actually go about changing the world.” Which could be very instructive right now. And if you’ve had your fill of decadence (or “Decadence”) head to the WWII Museum’s Stage Door Canteen where Pump Boys and Dinettes will play September 7-30. I saw this evening of country’n’western songs set in a roadside diner, in which the ensemble plays guitars, piano, bass, and even kitchen utensils, on Broadway many years ago and can assure you there’s nothing decadent about it at all. Please send press releases and notices of your upcoming shows to Brian Sands at bsnola2@hotmail.com.

When You Want to Be Seen Pastor Allie Rowland Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans alisan.rowloand@gmail.com

Everybody likes to be seen for who they are. In fact, it’s one of the benefits of the celebration of Southern Deca-

dence, that we queer folk can go out in public and strut our stuff. It might appear to be all about the physical, about

showing skin or hooking up, but I believe that it’s the desire to connect that really drives Southern Decadence. In fact, those of us folks who identify as transgender, gay, lesbian, bisexual--or those who have thrown out labels entirely--still have a need to connect in community. We have that same deep desire for intimacy, love, and companionship, as our heterosexual cisgender friends, but we sometimes have fewer places where we feel free to fully be ourselves and to be seen. But to truly be seen, we often have to battle with the fear that we will be judged or rejected. And our desire to be loved can cause us to really struggle to be honest with ourselves and with others. Has there been a time in your life in which you’ve struggled with the truth? The truth of who you are. The desire to be how others want you to be? We talk about how teens are vulnerable to peer pressure, but the truth is that all adults want to be accepted too. We want to find the groups of people with whom we share common traits or ideals, and the places where we can fit in. We want to be liked and to be loved, and we are very influenced by those desires, sometimes to such an extent that we build our whole lives around other people’s expectations. We might pursue a job or career that our parents approve of or marry a spouse our parents or family deem proper. Sometimes we even pursue hobbies or activities that our friends are interested in. When we are not true to ourselves, we feel it, and it’s difficult for us to find fulfillment and be happy.

We can seek love everywhere else, but until we learn to accept and love ourselves; or until we open ourselves to the possibility that we might be loved by something larger than ourselves, love can appear to be just out of our reach. Yet, when we become honest with ourselves and others, then people can see us and love us for who we really are. The truth sets us free. When we start to get honest with ourselves, then we can see the ways that we are controlled by our own brokenness, by our depression, or addictions, or desires to such an extent that we lose track of what is really true. Sometimes we even lose track of who we are. But seeking more honesty and truth in our lives can help to free us from many of the “lies” that we tell ourselves: the lie that nothing will get better, the lie that no one cares, the lie that we are powerless, the lie that we are victims, the lie that we are unworthy or unlovable, or the lie that if we share we will not have enough. Once we begin to see truth, I believe we find that love is the most powerful and enduring force. Even when we get caught up in our own self-deceptions, love can bring us to a place of truth. And that place of truth is often where we find the hope that we have lost. When you want to give up, when you have lost your way, when you’re not certain what comes next or how to move forward, know this: love will find you. So be safe, but also allow yourself to be seen as the incredible and fabulous person you truly are! Happy Southern Decadence my friends!

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A COMMUNITY WITHIN COMMUNITIES

Truth!

The Very Rev. Bill Terry+ fr.bill@stannanola.org Well, friends, Rudy Giuliani did it again, “Truth isn’t truth.” We are scandalized. The pundits are atwitter. Outrage! But this is nothing new: “I came into the world to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.” “What is truth?” Pilate asked. Then the crowds roared at the Governor (The Gospel of John). Mucking up the works is nothing new. Have our sensibilities become so self-centered that the simple concept of truth is no longer in good standing? Do we have to always make it about “me?” I know “me” is important. “Me” is how I manifest in the world (with all due respect to the Big Easy Sisters who Manifest with brilliance). My concern is that there is a line to be drawn that moves us perhaps grudgingly to a center. That center recognizes that our individuality and uniqueness is precious and important, and expresses who and what we are. Yet, that center also recognizes the “other” as having inestimable value and significance as well. I sat on my porch recently chatting with a person whom I have known for almost ten years now. Yet I did not know her really deeply or that well. She is transgender. She has always been sweet and kind to me and my family. Not knowing much about the transgender world and not having many filters, I started to ask her a series of questions. Some of the questions were as simple as, “When you are in hormone therapy does your voice change or do you lose your hair?” (She is transitioning male to female.) I wanted to know what challenges this presented. I learned a lot and I am grateful for it. I suppose my first real interest in the Transgender community was when I became aware of the difficulties, even in the LGB community, that the “T” had. I became aware of this in stories told to me by Stewart Butler. He, along with others, had to fight for the inclusion of “Transgender” in those marginalized by sexual preference or predilection. As an outsider, I found it somewhat sur-

prising and a bit puzzling. But then that was a few years and a few degrees of naiveté ago. I find it to be a conundrum when I encounter any disenfranchised group that is shunned by a greater, more powerful community, may also experience the same antipathy from a smaller, more cohesive community from “within” their own. I would also think that Civil Rights based on the color of a person’s skin should find solidarity with Civil Rights based on a person’s sexual orientation. I quickly learned that, in general, this is not true. Changing, yes, but still problematic. I suppose we can blame (if we must) bad religion in some measure for that division as well as historic cultural fear and bias. Yet it remains disappointing. It is also contrary to the faith - honestly worked out - that I and still a minority of other faith groups profess. The “me” thing continues to raise its ugly head. I’m also aware that Lesbians are sometimes not supported by Gay men. Perhaps a broad and likely unfair generalization, yet there is some “truth” to it, isn’t there? Why? A whole set of generalizations can be trotted out that may explain this yet at the end of the day such behaviors dehumanize those who shun others. So, what shall we say? That this “Community within Communities” must broaden its net. Must learn to be more inclusive while demanding inclusivity. If we use as a mantra “free to love,” we must mean, within reasoned bounds, “free to love for all.” Bears will be bears. Leather boys will be leather boys. Drag Queens will do drag...and the litany goes on. Yet, what is the least common denominator? These times are murky because truth is now subjective. These are mucky times where we slog the mire of each others’ blame game. We are more energized by a foolish and rancorous twitter feed than we are by a

timeless act of generosity. Yet, I think so well of this Community within Communities. Even when we seem to fight and shun within our own little space, something is still present that the larger community has lost. When a member of the community is ill or in a bad place I have, time and again, seen a small group gather to give help to that suffering member. There is still compassion. When a bitter old queen passes, at least some of the community will shed a tear and mourn. So, there is hope. The idea is to move beyond the self-inflicted hurts that our community perpetrates upon ourselves and to rise far above that. Because if we do not, how much better than “they” are we? I hope and pray that you do as well. Because how can any community proclaim “Free to love” as its anthem and not have the capacity to rise above

self-centered self-interest? I have hope and so should you because the legacy of this community is the capacity to find love in the most unlikely of places. The legacy of conspiring to be who God intended us to be - Gay, Straight, Lesbian, Transgender, on the spectrum - is a powerful legacy. That legacy needs to be shared with others who are on the margins irrespective of sexuality. Truth: We are created human. We have no subspecies. Truth: We have the capacity to love. Truth: We have the capacity to create. Truth: We have the capacity to show compassion. These truths alongside my own faith creates in me a sense of possibility. “What is truth?” Let us agree that going forward within this community “all are welcomed and none are shunned.”

Truth: We are created human. We have no subspecies.

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bookstores

New Orleans, LA [504] FAB - Faubourg Marigny Art & Books, 600 Frenchmen St., 947.3700

circuit/events

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costumes

New Orleans, LA [504] QT PIE BOUTIQUE - 241 Dauphine St., 581. 6633

galleries

New Orleans, LA [504] CASSELL-BERGEN GALLERY, 1305 Decatur St., cassellbergengallery.com, 504.524.0671

guides

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groceries/delis

New Orleans, LA [504] QUARTERMASTER DELI, THE NELLIE DELI, 1100 Bourbon, 529.1416

hair salons

New Orleans, LA [504] Two Guys Cutting Hair, 2372 St. Claude Ave., Suite 125, appointments: Adikus 215.519.5030, Trent 504.239.2397

hardware

New Orleans, LA [504] MARY’S FRENCH QUARTER HARDWARE, 732 N. Rampart, 529.4465. More than just a hardware store, Mary’s Ace French Quarter Hardware also features an extensive selection of kitchen and bath items upstairs.

accommodations

New Orleans [504] AARON INGRAM HAUS, 1012 Elysian Fields, New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE: 504.949.3110, www.ingramhaus.com/xqey, e-mail us at ingramhaus@yahoo.com. Condos with queen-size beds, private entrances; located only six blocks from Bourbon Street and walking distance to most New Orleans attractions. Several favorite bars are within one block. [0118] BLUES60 GUEST HOUSE, 1008 Elysian Fields Ave. New Orleans, LA 70117, Phone: 1.504.324.4311, www.blues60guesthouse.com, info@blues60guesthouse.com. The Blue60 Guest House with 5 suites provides a peaceful retreat in the center of the Faubourg Marigny, just blocks from the French Quarter and Frenchman St. [1115] BURGUNDY BED AND BREAKFAST, 2513 Burgundy St., New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE/FAX: 504.942.1463, Toll Free (Continental US only): 1.800.970.2153, www.theburgundy.com, E-mail us at theburgundy@cox.net. Gay owned and operated in newly renovated 1890’s double. Four guest rooms with private baths, guests’ parlor and “half-kitchen”, courtyard and half-open tubhouse with spa (hot tub/ whirlpool). Clothing optional in sunbathing and hot tub area. Walking distance to French Quarter. Immediate vicinity of gay and lesbian bars/venues. [0815] The french quarter guest houses, 1005

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organizations

FOOD FOR FRIENDS, 504.821.2601 ext. 254 FRIDAY NIGHT BEFORE MARDI GRAS (FNBMG), 504.319.8261, www.fridaynightbeforemardigras.com GAY APPRECIATION AWARDS, 828A Bourbon St., 70116-3137; 522.8049; AmbushMag.COM/GAA GAY EASTER PARADE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, info@ gayeasterparade.com, GayEasterParade. COM GAY MARDI GRAS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM GAY NEW ORLEANS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayNewOrleans.COM HAART (HIV/AIDS Alliance Region Two, Inc.), 4550 North Blvd. Ste. 250, Baton Rouge, LA 70806, 225.927.1269, www. haartinc.org, offers a complete continuum of care to people living with HIV/AIDS including housing, primary care, medications, case management, and an array of supportive services. In addition HAART provides HIV prevention education and FREE testing to the Baton Rouge area. HALLOWEEN IN NEW ORLEANS, INC., PO Box 52171, 70152-2171; HalloweenNewOrleans.COM KREWE OF AMON-RA, PO Box 7033, Metairie, LA 70010, KreweOfAmonRa. COM KREWE OF ARMEINIUS, PO Box 56638, New Orleans, LA 70156-6638, KreweOfArmeinius.ORG KREWE OF MWINDO, PO Box 51031, 70156; 913.5791, KreweOfMwindo.ORG, krewe@kreweofmwindo.org KREWE OF NARCISSUS, PO Box 3832, New Orleans, LA 70177. Contact: 504.228.9441 KREWE OF PETRONIUS, PO Box 1102, Kenner, LA. 70063-1102, www. kreweofpetroius.net KREWE OF QUEENATEENAS / KING CAKE QUEEN ROYALTY CLUB, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM/KCQ LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana,

1308 Esplanade Ave., New Orleans, LA 70116, 504.475.7911, www.lgbtarchivesla.org MYSTIC KREWE OF LORDS OF LEATHER, 1000 Bourbon St #B415, New Orleans, LA 70116, www.lordsofleather.org MYSTIC KREWE OF SATYRICON, 2443 Halsey Ave., New Orleans, LA 70114, 504.906.7990 Todd J. Blauvelt / Secretary, krewe.of.satyricon@gmail.com, MysticKreweOfSatyricon.COM NO/AIDS TASK FORCE, 2601 Tulane Ave., Suite 500, 70119; 504.821.2601; NOAIDSTaskForce.COM NEW ORLEANS PRIDE, info@neworleanspridefestival.com; 504.321.6006; NewOrleansPrideFestival.COM; NOLAPride. ORG; New Orleans Pride fully embraces the message of “One CommUNITY” as we celebrate our history and promote the future prosperity of New Orleans and the Gulf Coast Region. We use public awareness and education about the LGBT+ community as a way to combat “phobias” and discrimination. Our programs, seminars and events leading up to, and during Pride weekend, are meant to include individuals from all walks of life. RENEGADE BEARS OF LOUISIANA, PO Box 3083, New Orleans, LA 70177; renegadebearsoflouisiana@gmail.com SOUTHERN DECADENCE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, SouthernDecadence.COM ST. ANNA’S EPISCOPAL CHURCH, 1313 Esplanade Avenue New Orleans, LA 70116 504.947.2121, stannanola.org Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans (MCCNO), 5401 S. Claiborne Ave — Pastor Alisan Rowland: New Orleans first LGBTQ church welcomes you to join us for our weekly Sunday worship services at 10:00 AM, where we celebrate God’s Love for everyone.

819 Rue Conti, 581.3866, http://broussards.com Cafe Sbisa, 1011 Decatur St., 522.5565, www.cafesbisanola.com Cheezy Cajun, 3325 St. Claude Ave., 265.0045, www.TheCheezyCajun.com Clover Grill, 900 Bourbon St., 598.1010, www.CloverGrill.com. Since 1939, our quirky, cozy, unique diner has been home to the best breakfasts & burgers on Bourbon Street–maybe even the whole French Quarter! Country Club Restaurant, 634 Louisa St., www.TheCountryClubNewOrleans. com, 945.0742 Gene’s Po-Boys & Daquiris, 1040 Elysian Fields Ave., 943.3861, www.genespoboys.com Ilys Bistro, 1040 Elysian Fields Ave., 947.8341, www.Facebook.com/ILYSBistro Kingfish Kitchen & Cocktails, 337 Chartres St. 598.5005, www.KinfishNewOrleans.com Mona Lisa Restaurant, 1212 Royal St., 522.6746 Orleans Grapevine Wine Bar & Bistro, 720 Orleans, 523.1930, www.OrleansGrapevine.com Quartermaster: The Nellie Deli, 1100 Bourbon St. , 529.1416, www.QuartermasterDeli.net Royal House Oyster Bar, 441 Royal St., 528.2601, www.RoyalHouseRestaurant.com

real estate

New Orleans, LA [504] Engel & Völkers New Orleans, Michael Styles, Realtor — Michael specializes in

helping first-time homebuyers and real estate investors find the perfect New Orleans properties. 504.777.1773, NolaStyles.com Latter & Blum, Steven Richards Realtor, 504.258.1800, SteveRichardsProperties.com

retail/shopping

New Orleans, LA [504] BOURBON PRIDE, 909 Bourbon, 566.1570 COK (Clothing or Kinkl), 941 Elysian Fields, 945.9264 MARY’S FRENCH QUARTER KITCHEN & BATH, 732 N. Rampart, 529.4465 QT PIE BOUTIQUE - 241 Dauphine St., 581. 6633 XXXSHOP, 1835 N. Rampart St., 504.232.3063

services

New Orleans, LA [504] Formal Connection, 299 Belle Terre Blvd. LaPlace, LA, 985.652.1195

theatres

New Orleans, LA [504] CAFE ISTANBUL, 2372 St. Claude Ave., #140, 504.974.0786, CafeIstanbulNOLA.COM

tours

New Orleans, LA [504] Gay New Orleans Walking Tour, Crescent City Tour Booking Agency, (LGBT Business of the Year) 638 St. Ann St., 568.0717. follow Gay New Orleans Walking Tour @ Facebook.COM

pharmacy

Mumfrey’s Pharmacy, 1021 W. Judge Perez Dr., Chalmette, LA 70043, 504.279.6312, www.MumfreysPharmacy.COM. Supporting & serving the LGBT Community for over 20 years. Local pharmacy offering personalized family-like service, automatic refills & free metro wide confidential pickup & delivery. Also offering shipping for out-side our delivery area. When you call us you speak to a person, not a machine. See our ad.

photography

New Orleans, LA [504] GRAHAM/STUDIO ONE NEW ORLEANS, by appointment, grahamstudioone. com

restaurants

Metairie, LA [504] Chef Ron’s Gumbo Stop & Pub, 2309 N. Causeway Blvd., 835.2022, GumboStop.com New Orleans, LA [504] The Bombay Club, 830 Rue Conti, 577.2237, www.bombayclubneworleans. com Broussard’s Restaurant & Courtyard,

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FINANCIAL & BUSINESS

How to Make the Most of Your Side Business Scot I. Billeaudeau, JD, LL.M. ADPA® s.billeaudeau@ampf.com It can be personally and financially rewarding to earn extra cash doing something you enjoy. If you are one of the many Americans supplementing your paycheck by running a small business, here are some tips to help you profitably manage your side gig: Make your business official. Consider running your side job like a real business, even if you have no intention of turning it into something big. Open a separate checking account. Get an Employer Identification Number (EIN), a federal identifier, for tax purposes. Apply for a state tax ID, if your state requires one. And, consider working with a tax professional who specializes in helping small business owners. Track your earnings and expenses. Store your receipts and use a spreadsheet or app to keep tabs on how much you earn and spend. If expenses are high and income is low, you may want to scale back your efforts or look for ways to reduce costs. As your earnings grow, eligible expenses can help offset a potential tax bill. Find your sweet spot. Look for

ways to increase revenues efficiently. Set prices to ensure your costs are covered and focus on your most profitable products or services. Target your best customers and build a repeat business. Market your side business through social media to grow a following. Be realistic. As your business grows, you may be tempted to quit your day job. Before you turn your efforts into a full-blown career, ask yourself: Is it scalable? It will likely take additional resources to turn your hobby into a full-time moneymaker. Will you need to invest more of your money in the business? If so, how much? Also, evaluate your ability to obtain more supplies and whether you’ll need to hire an employee or two. Is it sustainable? Consider the size of your market and demand for your product or service. Who is your competition, and where do you fit into the mix? Will your offering still be relevant in five years? Ten? Trust the numbers over your instincts. Can you afford to give up the

benefits that come with your regular job? Going solo often means purchasing health and disability insurance on the open market. You’ll also be responsible for establishing your own retirement savings, federal tax withholding (called FICA) and estimated quarterly taxes. Are you ready to become an entrepreneur? Think carefully about whether you’ll earn enough income to support yourself. Going out on your own is exciting, yet it can also mean a change in lifestyle. You will need to be ready to put in the time and effort to grow the business, while being mindful of how the career change could affect your personal finances.

Get professional help. Tap someone with financial acumen to help you assess your business. And consider consulting a financial advisor to discuss the financial implications of running and potentially expanding your business venture. Scot I. Billeaudeau, JD, LL.M. ADPA®, is a Financial Advisor with Waterfront Wealth Management, a private wealth advisory practice of Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. He specializes in addressing the unique needs of the diverse LGBTQ community, fee-based financial planning and asset management strategies, and has been in practice for 11 years.

BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT

Bourbon Pride Shane Womack shane@ambushpublishing.com If you’ve ever been near the intersection of Bourbon and Dumaine Streets, chances are you’ve been to or seen the LGBTQ Pride store, Bourbon Pride. Conveniently located at 909 Bourbon Street, Bourbon Pride is one of the few Pride merchandise stores left in the United States. Owners Joseph and Josh Duffy opened Bourbon Pride in October 2011. The local couple met while out at OZ New Orleans back in 2004 and never looked back. At the time, Josh was working on a career in the music industry and Joseph was a working stage actor. Not long after the couple met, Josh released his first record and began opening for famous touring acts across the country. Josh’s album Artificial and his hard work earned him four Top 10 hits on the Sirius OutQ LGBT radio charts. In 2011, Josh and Joseph traveled to Los Angeles where Josh was selected as a contestant on Wheel of Fortune. Josh won the show and walked away with $45,650. That year, Josh made the decision to step away from his music career and use the prize money to open Bourbon Pride in the French Quarter. The inspiration to open Bourbon Pride came from the couple wanting to create a voice for the LGBTQ community. “The country was in a war for marriage equality, and although there were a lot of voices on our side, there weren’t many places you could shop

for LGBTQ Pride merchandise,” explain Josh and Joseph. “There really aren’t many Pride-specific shops left in the country to this day. We really need them more now than ever.” Since the opening of their store, Bourbon Pride has won the GAA Business of the Year awards in 2012, 2013, 2015, and 2017. Their biggest accomplishment, however, would be in their relationships with their customers. Joseph and Josh would become LGBTQ ambassadors for the community. “Our store has been a safe place for people to come, no matter who they are, no matter their race or sexual preference, and to feel like they can be themselves. We want our customers to feel loved and accepted from the second they walk in.” Bourbon Pride carries a variety of LGBTQ products from rainbow merchandise, custom-designed shirts, greeting cards, clothing, jewelry, and gifts. They personally design each t-shirt and hat that’s sold. Their products vary depending on which festival the city is hosting at the time, but most of the merchandise is Pride-oriented and humorous. Tongue-in-cheek phrases on various items will have you shaking your head. They also carry men’s boutique underwear and personal care products. “Women and heterosexual couples are actually our largest customer base, by far,” say Joseph and Josh. The store has become more than

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Big Freedia to headline Chevron New Orleans Walk to End HIV

Chevron NO/AIDS Walk has changed its name to the Chevron New Orleans Walk to End HIV. And if you don’t want to walk, maybe you’d like to bounce on over to the event that is being headlined by Big Freedia on Sunday, September 30th at Crescent Park. “Big Freedia is symbolic of the big advances we have made in the fight to control HIV in our community,” said Rodney Thoulion, Director of Development for CrescentCare. “We have a lot to cautiously celebrate. While we’ve made great advances, a cure has been elusive. As far as the name change, stigma and fear keep people from seeking care and the word AIDS is a huge deterrent. The march to end HIV is on in New Orleans and we don’t want anyone to be afraid to be tested or seek care.” CrescentCare’s programs, such as the CrescentCare Start Initiative (CCSI) which seeks to get the newly diagnosed into care within 72 hours and virally suppressed in 30 days coupled with Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis, better known as PrEP, are two of the tools in the arsenal to bring HIV under control. Programs such as these benefit directly from the Walk. The funds raised from the Walk will be used by CrescentCare’s NO/AIDS Task Force division to provide vital prevention and treatment services for people in the community affected by HIV. Last year CrescentCare administered over 12,000 HIV tests and in-

creased its PrEP patient population to 1,200. The walk is one of Chevron’s flagship efforts in the New Orleans market to curb the spread of HIV and improve health outcomes for those affected by the disease. Seeing many improvements in HIV treatment and testing technology, Chevron Vice President Leah Brown says, “Chevron is proud of the working being done by members of the health care community for Southeast Louisiana and is excited to be a part of their incredible efforts.” “If the advances made in recent years are any indication,” she continued, “we are hopeful that this will be the last generation that HIV impacts.” Avita Pharmacy is a co-sponsor of the event along with Capital One Bank, Goldring Family Foundation, French Market Corporation, Baptist Community Ministries, Blue Cube Promotions, Louisiana Pizza Kitchen Uptown, Ochsner, Dow, Macy’s, Gambit, Napo Pharmaceuticals, Lucid, Coca-Cola, Kentwood, NOLA Media Group and Ambush Magazine. New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus and the Big 6 Brass Band will also perform. To sign up for the Chevron New Orleans Walk to End HIV or for more information, go to www.noaidswalk. com. If you would like to see Big Freedia without signing up as a walker, there will be a $10 suggested donation at the gate.

just a place to shop. Josh and Joseph explain that they’ve had countless parents call and visit the store desperate for help with not knowing what to say or do when their children want to come out. “Sometimes we just give them some rainbow beads or a sticker and tell them to give this to your child and tell them you are with them. We have received so many e-mails from parents that have said that simple gesture broke the ice and opened the door to better conversations. It’s our duty as Pride shop employees to listen - even if they aren’t buying,” explain Josh and Joseph. But with victories, come the challenges. Josh and Joseph explain that the major challenge of owning an LGBTQ business in the French Quarter is the various forms of hate that they endure on a daily basis. They observe that people feel it’s okay to walk into the store and bully, threaten or swear at them. “The ‘Jesus freaks’ have even used mace on people who were simply trying to enter our store.” The Duffy’s begin their preparation for Southern Decadence in April. The store works with more than 40 vendors, so it takes a lot of planning to decide what to carry in the store.

Once the Southern Decadence official theme and colors are announced, they begin designing the graphics for their shirts and then choose the charity for that year. For each holiday, starting with Mardi Gras, and on to Easter, St. Pat’s, Pride, Red Dress Run, Southern Decadence and Christmas, the staff at Bourbon Pride designs a limited edition holiday shirt and then donates the profits from it to a different charity. Owning a store means long hours, so Josh and Joseph don’t get a ton of downtime outside of the store, which opens daily at 10 am and doesn’t close until 11 pm on most nights. When time allows, the couple explains that they try to get to as many festivals and events as they can. They also love to spend time with their friends checking out the many restaurants and bars that NOLA has to offer. Their favorite spot to visit is Maui, which is where they were married. The couple enjoys traveling but when they are home, they spend their time with their three fur babies. Josh also has plans to begin recording his sophomore album. “When that’s done,” explains Joseph Duffy. “He’ll be back on the road, leaving me with double the workload!”

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LSU releases full men’s basketball schedule for 2018-19 Kent Lowe, Crescent City Sports BATON ROUGE – The Southeasthome-away schedule to make up the ern Conference announced its 2019 18-game conference schedule. LSU’s 126-game men’s basketball league permanent home-away opponents are schedule Friday and the Tigers will Arkansas, Alabama and Texas A&M, open their 18-game league schedule with Georgia and Florida the two rotaton Tuesday, Jan. 8, against Alabama. ing opponents in 2019. After a bye on the opening league LSU may have on paper a favorplaying date of Jan. 5, LSU will play two able schedule in the beginning and end games each week with contests either of the conference season, playing three on Tuesday or Wednesday early in the of its first five league games at home week with another game on Saturday. (Alabama, Jan. 8, South Carolina, Jan. There are four play19, Georgia, Jan. ing dates on Tuesday 23) and four-of-theThe Southeastern (2 home, 2 away), last-six in the Pete five on Wednesday Maravich AssemConference an(2 home, 3 away) bly Center including nounced its 2019 126- three-straight in late and nine on Saturday game men’s basket(5 home, 4 away). February (Florida, Season tickFeb. 20; Tennessee, ball league schedule et requests for the Feb. 23; Texas A&M, Friday and the Tigers Feb. 26). The Tigers 2018-19 campaign, including the eight close the regular will open their 18non-conference with a March game league schedule season games in Baton 9 finale against Vanon Tuesday, Jan. 8, Rouge already anderbilt. nounced, are being The Southeastagainst Alabama. taken online at www. ern Conference TourLSUtix.net or at the nament is again set LSU Athletics Ticket Office at 225-578for Bridgestone Arena in Nashville, 2184. March 13-17, 2019. Teams in the SEC will play eight LSU ranked fourth in the 247sports teams one time, three permanent opcomposite recruiting rankings for the ponents home and away, along with upcoming 2018-19 season with Kentwo yearly rotating teams also on a tucky the only team in the league

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ranked higher (2). Also ranked in the composite top 25 from the SEC were: Vanderbilt (13), Mississippi State (16), Florida (19) and Alabama (24). The SEC had 10 teams advance to postseason play in 2018, including a league-record eight teams that received NCAA Tournament bids. The Tigers, in Coach Will Wade’s first season as head coach, posted 18 wins and advanced to the second round of the NIT in LSU’s first post-season trip since 2015. LSU posted its first post-season victory in the opening round of the NIT since 2014. The Tigers open the regular season as part of a season-opening doubleheader with the LSU women’s basketball team on Tuesday, Nov. 6. LSU will face Southeastern Louisiana in the 7:30 p.m. nightcap with the Lady Tigers hosting Sam Houston at 5:30 p.m. The television and streaming broadcast schedule is still to be announced by the SEC Network, ESPN and CBS. Game times will be announced at that time. Here is the now completed schedule for LSU Basketball for the 2018-19 season: NOVEMBER Day, Date/Opponent/Location Tues. 6/SOUTHEASTERN LA./Baton Rouge Fri. 9/UNC GREENSBORO/Baton Rouge Tues. 13/MEMPHIS/Baton Rouge Fri. 16/LOUISIANA TECH/Baton Rouge AdvoCare Invitational Thur. 22/vs. Charleston/Orlando, Florida Fri. 23/ vs. Florida St. or UAB/Orlando, Florida Sun. 25/TBD/Orlando, Florida DECEMBER Day, Date/Opponent/Location Sat. 1/GRAMBLING/Baton Rouge Sun. 9/INCARNATE WORD/Baton Rouge

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Former Saints RB Adrian Peterson seeks to make history yet again Ken Trahan, Crescent City Sports By all accounts, Adrian Peterson is one of the top running backs in NFL history. His numbers suggest this and when he was in his prime, he was simply superb, despite having fumbling issues. I am sure Saints fans remember the NFC championship game in 2010 against the Vikings. Peterson is to be admired for his career and for his diligence. He is pressing on at 33, determined to keep the train of his career, entering its 12th year, rolling. Peterson has kept himself in great shape. No one questions his work ethic. It is part of what has made him so good. He has made first team All-Pro four times and has been to seven Pro Bowls. With a rash of injuries at running

back, including to Derrius Guice, the Washington Redskins are the latest to try to catch lightning in a bottle with Peterson. Last year, it was the New Orleans Saints and the Arizona Cardinals. With the Saints, he was never a fit and never had a role, thanks to the consistent play of Mark Ingram and the brilliance of rookie Alvin Kamara. Peterson rushed 27 times for 81 yards, averaging three yards per carry with New Orleans. With the Cardinals, he had a couple of good games, finished with 129 carries for 448 yards and two touchdowns, averaging a modest 3.4 yards per carry. Peterson wants us not to focus on yards-per-carry, basically saying it is relative to conditions and the offensive line you are playing behind.

Former LSU QB Justin McMillan transfers to Tulane Lenny Vangilder, Crescent City Sports Justin McMillan’s new college home is in the Crescent City. McMillan said Friday morning he will transfer from LSU to Tulane, confirming reports that surfaced earlier this week. Tulane confirmed the move in a release Saturday afternoon (see below). As a graduate transfer, McMillan is eligible immediately and has two years of eligibility remaining. “I’ll be going to finish off my career and my master’s (degree) program (at Tulane),” McMillan said Friday morning on the “Off the Bench” show on ESPN 104.5 in Baton Rouge. “Trying to pick the right school that fit … there were a lot of great schools that contacted me. Tulane’s coaching staff, they showed me how it feels to be loved. “Talking with Coach Fritz … we had a good conversation, talking about the offense and the direction Tulane is going. I like the direction Tulane is going and I’m happy to be there with them.” McMillan had nothing bad to say about his experience in Baton Rouge. “My time at LSU was great,” McMillan said. “I love that school. The connections I made there, you can’t re-do that anywhere else. I’m ready to see what the next chapter is as far as football and the master’s program.” McMillan has two years of eligibility remaining. Senior Jonathan Banks is entrenched as the starter at Tulane, which opens Thursday at home against Wake Forest. But the battle for the No. 2 spot has been wide open, and McMillan – once he gets acclimated to Tulane’s system – would appear to be the favorite to move into that spot. TULANE RELEASE: The Tulane University football team announced today the addition of

former LSU quarterback Justin McMillan to its roster as a graduate transfer. McMillan, who graduated from LSU earlier this month, comes to Tulane following three seasons on the Tigers roster. The Cedar Hill, Texas product saw limited action during his three years in Baton Rouge but entered fall camp as a strong candidate to take over the team’s starter in 2018. McMillian arrived at LSU after a successful high school career at Cedar Hill High School where he led the team to consecutive state titles in 2013 and 2014. As a dual-threat quarterback, he finished his senior season with 2,854 yards 37 touchdowns, while rushing for 656 yards and six scores as he earned a three-star rating by 247Sports, Scout and ESPN. The Green Wave open the 2018 season on Thursday, August 30 at home against Wake Forest. The game will broadcast live on the CBS Sports Network. For season ticket information, please call 504-861-WAVE (9283), log onto TulaneTix.com or visit the ticket office at the James W. Wilson Jr. Center. Download the official mobile app of Tulane Athletics. Now, you can stay in touch with the Green Wave anytime and anywhere on your Android or iOS mobile device. Follow Tulane football on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Fans can also follow Tulane Athletics on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram.

In a feature with ESPN writer John Klein, Peterson stated his case. “It shows me people don’t really know about football,” Peterson said. “People that know the game of football know different situations a player might be in. So when people go back and say, ‘Oh, 2.4 yards per carry, there’s a lot that contributes to that as well. I just brush it off.” If you concede that Peterson has a point on this, his next thought was a bit interesting. “I’ve always talked about playing behind a good offensive line,” Peterson told Klein. “I know my last couple of years, kind of struggled in that department.” While Arizona ranked 31st (second worst) in offensive lines according to Pro Football Focus in 2017, someone forgot to tell Ingram and Kamara that the Saints “struggled” up front in 2017. The Saints rushed for 2,070 yards and 23 touchdowns, averaging 4.7 yards per carry last season. New Orleans led the NFL in rushing touchdowns and the Saints were fifth in the league in rushing. Ingram rushed for a career-high 1,124 yards and a career best 12 touchdowns, averaging 4.9 yards-per-carry. Kamara rushed for 728 yards and eight touchdowns, aver-

aging 6.1 yards-per-carry. Despite injuries to Terron Armstead and Zach Strief, the Saints were ranked as the ninth-best offensive line in the NFL by Pro Football Focus last season. Of course, we must remember that yards-per-carry don’t mean much. Naturally, we have to understand that the Saints “struggled” as an offensive line a year ago. Perhaps Peterson was referring to Arizona and not New Orleans so you can certainly give him the benefit of the doubt. While Peterson clearly had no role with the emergence of Kamara, perhaps he could have stuck around longer had he not been a distraction or expressed dissatisfaction. Ironically, Peterson could have been a nice replacement for Ingram to start the 2018 season if he was still around. That said, here is wishing him the best in Washington. Perhaps he will have a chance to show the Saints he has a lot left in the tank on Oct. 8 in the Mercedes-Benz Superdome. This article was originally published by Crescent City Sports. For the most comprehensive sports coverage in the Big Easy, visit crescentcitysports.com.

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Frank Scelfo enters first season at Southeastern confident in bonds forming Rene Nadeau, Crescent City Sports The Southeastern Lions are rapidly approaching their season opener against the ULM Warhawks, a FBS program expected to have their best team in years. However, first-year SLU head coach Frank Scelfo embraces the opportunity to face them and build a championship program in Hammond eventually. Scelfo, a 30-year coaching veteran wth experience on the prep, college and NFL levels, has only been a head coach one other time. That experience came in the prep ranks at River Oaks in 1985-’86. One of his proudest moments in his coaching journey was as an assistant at Tulane during the perfect 12-0 campaign in 1998. Iron sharpens iron in the Louisiana coaching circles, and the state has produced a multitude of head coaches now at universities around the Pelican state. Current head coaches Brad Laird (Northwestern State), Lance Guidry (McNeese), Tim Rebowe (Nicholls), Matt Viator (ULM) and Ed Orgeron (LSU) played and coached high school football in this state. “What a tribute to this state to have produced these type of men and coaches,” Scelfo noted. “It’s a culture of the state. How special is that?” The Lions have a roster stocked with many JUCO transfers recruited during the previous regime, but Scelfo places a premium on talent raised on local soil. The Hammond campus sits within an hours drive in several directions of some of the best talent in the entire south. “That’s where we need to make a living. There is no reason to go anywhere else,” Scelfo declared. “We might get out and go to other states sometimes to find guys from somewhere else, but we want guys who want to be here. We want a presence in New Orleans, Baton Rouge, Lafayette and the River Parishes (but) especially on the north shore.” Wins and losses are important al-

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ways but Scelfo is trying to keep everything in proper perspective. Setting certain goals sometimes can set limits. “We don’t put up goals like (wins and losses) because I don’t want a glass ceiling that would limit us. It’s understood we want to be Southland Conference champions. We want to go undefeated. We’ll be the best possible that we can be each week. If we do that, then we’ll see where that takes us. That’s what our goal is.” Scelfo has tutored numerous NFL signal callers as a quarterbacks coach. Some of the prominent names are Blake Bortles, Nick Foles, Tom Savage, Patrick Ramsey, Shaun King and Lester Ricard. He knows what special qualities it takes to be top notch at the game’s most crucial position. “All of these guys hold a special place in my heart,” Scelfo explained while making the analogy to his current mission. “We are looking for leadership, that’s the first thing, whether they lead your team in good times and in bad. Then you look for the physical traits, the leadership qualities, plus being a good person on and off the field. That’s what we’re looking for.” The Lions return junior quarterback Lorenzo Nunez, who made nine starts in 2017 and accounted for 16 total touchdowns. New arrival Chasen Virgil comes aboard from Fresno State where he had 14 starts in two seasons. The competition between the two juniors has been tight throughout camp. The offense has demonstrated some explosiveness during recent scrimmages. Indiana import Devonte Williams, a 5-foot-10, 180-pound junior who left the Hoosiers as the school’s sixth best all time kick returner, can make a difference. In 2017, he accu-

mulated 761 all purpose yards, including 130 yards against powerhouse Ohio State. “I like the skill level of our guys on offense,” Scelfo said. “This summer I saw some really special things. I’m looking forward as we approach the season opener what they are capable of. We have to put these guys in situations yo make plays.” Despite losing three starters on the offensive line, the Lions enjoy solid depth at that spot. Alfred Beverly (6-4, 345), a junior road grader, has appeared in 20 games the past two seasons. Returning center Shaq McClain (6-2, 310), a junior out of Independence, has started the past two season. Senior right tackle Kyle Strickland (6-5, 320) made nine starts last fall. Among the newcomers who should contribute is Pat Allen, a junior transfer from Georgia who made nine appearances for the Bulldogs with a pair of starts. Right guard Jarius Gooch (6-2, 290) arrived from Holmes Community College and grabbed attention. Two sophomores, Tavares Tate (6-2, 295) from Atlanta and center Drew Jones (6-1, 286) from Hahnville, have been competing for snaps along with a couple of former St. Augustine Purple Knights, sophomore tackle Rendon Miles-Character (6-3, 280) and guard Tyree Rhodes (6-1, 310). Defensively, the entire starting linebacking trio is new. Most of the players expected to make an impact lack significant experience but do have athleticism and skill. Former Riverside Academy and Pope John Paul II head coach Chris Lachney is in his first season handling the ‘backers. “Somebody makes a great play, and it’s motivation for the other guys to up their performance. Nobody is putting their personal needs above those of the team,” Lachney noted. Senior Tamarcus Russell (5-10, 210) played some at middle linebacker in ’17. His calling card is bone-jarring collisions. Mike Mason (5-11, 215), a newcmomer from El Camino JUCO, is game ready. ULM transfer Kyle Nevels (6-2, 235) is an intriguing prospect. The junior from Walker was a tight end during his time with the Warhawks.

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Seniors provide SLU’s linebacker depth. Hahnville product Dwaine Thomas (6-2, 225) played 22 games for the Texas A&M Aggies. Sean Clavelle (6-2, 220), a Landry-Walker alum, has gotten stronger. Ja’Hmal Macklin (6-3, 225) from Block could be a key reserve. The secondary is sprinkled with talent starting with senior Shamar Busby, who has special cover skills. Brayleon Thorns brings 4.5 speed to the cornerback spot as well. Three newcomers in the secondary have drawn attention. Freshman Donnel Ward-Magee (6-1, 165), yet another St. Aug product, has been all over the field in recent workouts. Matthew Wright (5-11, 190) is a tackling machine at safety our of Navarro College. Xavier Lewis, a junior who prepped at East St. John and played in 15 games for LSU, is hungry for a chance to make a difference. Any new coach steps into a situation where there is more unknown than he would like. It takes on a little give and take on both sides, like any new relationship, to establish trust and understanding. Scelfo feels he has a group of players who have demonstrated that they are willing to put in time and commitment. “I like our guys. I like them as people, which means I like their work eyhic. I like their passion for the game. I like the things they stand for. They want structure, they want discipline. They want to win. They are not rebelling against any rule or change. They’re embracing the culture we are installing. When I see that, it’s exciting for me. They haven’t been afraid to do anything that we’ve asked them to do,” said Scelfo. Plus, what surrounds the program is a community at Southeastern than embraces their team. People wear their hearts on their sleeves, showing their pride in their school. “We’re the third largest university in the state, only 500 (students) behind UL. We’re going to try to catch ’em,” he stated with a chuckle. “There’s loyalty here. There is passion in the town for (SLU). That is truly a university town. When you drive through town, you see SLU flags, stickers, posters all over the place. You don’t see that in a lot of big town teams. You see that in Hammond, America, which is pretty special.”

“Somebody makes a great play, and it’s motivation for the other guys to up their performance.”

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Andrew Palermo, Commissioner of Stonewall Sports New Orleans, struts his stuff on St. Charles Ave while leading the 5th Annual Stonewall Sports National Tournament via a second line parade to the French Quarter. Randy P Schmidt

An Interview with Andrew Palermo, Commissioner of Stonewall Sports New Orleans

Jim Meadows Executive Director, NOAGE info@noagenola.org Until last year, I had not dared to step onto a playing field of any sort since sometime in the mid-to-late 1990s, and the idea of my running for any reason other than having somehow become an object of prey seemed patently absurd. For those who might be curious, I was a high school junior, and it was on the last day that I took the trouble of dressing for P.E. (shudder). I had just attempted to propel a baseball toward some fellow who presumably would have done one thing or another with it related to the scoring of points. Looking back, I reckon that my form must have lacked a certain level of proficiency, because the entire field erupted into hysterical guffaws. I don’t know what in particular was different about that day for me, as I had never spent any previous hour of physical education that didn’t involve one form of humiliation or another. But whatever the reason, I decided that I’d finally had enough. I never “dressed out” again. I was lucky, as the instructor seemed to have had something of a soft spot in his heart for me, and gave me a passing C for that term, which was the last that my school required any manner of physical exertion from me. Then last year, a friend of mine managed to talk me into joining Stonewall Sports’ kickball league. He’d played in its inaugural season, he explained, and had managed to have fun

and make new friends in the process. His enthusiasm won me over. I joined for the second season, and had a wonderful experience. (Thanks, Alex!) There can be no question but that I was the weakest link, but none of my teammates ever treated me as anything but a welcome friend. And by the end of the season, we’d come in second in the league. More extraordinary than that, I’d actually enjoyed playing in a sport. I began to actually use my gym membership, and by this past spring I was able to run for two miles without stopping, a first for me. I joined Stonewall’s running club, and made even more new friends. I can’t say that I’ve become an Olympian, but I can definitely say that I am now in the best physical shape of my life. If you’re looking for a way to meet friends and get healthier, I really can’t recommend joining a Stonewall league enough. I recently spoke with Andrew Palermo, Stonewall Sports New Orleans’ Commissioner, to find out what brought this great organization to our city, and to hear what he had to say to folks who are thinking of getting involved. JM: Hi, Andy. As I understand it, Stonewall Sports got started around eight years ago in Washington, D.C. How did it come to New Orleans? AP: I got involved with Stonewall Sports when I lived in Philadelphia in 2014. I didn’t know many people, and the people I did hang out with regular-

ly didn’t want to play in the league. I joined as a free agent, and was placed on a random team, and had a wonderful time! We enjoyed the games, but really enjoyed the social events after and on the weekends. After I moved back to Louisiana in the summer of 2015, I contacted Stonewall nationals to see what the process was for starting a chapter here in New Orleans. Planning started in July of 2016, and our first season of kickball started in September 2016. Part of our mission is to raise money for local non-profits. Since our creation, we have raised close to $9,000. JM: What do you think has driven the amazing growth of Stonewall Sports in New Orleans? AP: To be honest, the growth has even surprised me. I know that I and the local board work really hard to put together great programming, but I’m constantly worried about players coming back season after season. To me, Stonewall is much more than sports, it’s about building a stronger, more inclusive community. We leave our competitiveness on the field. Keeping our community strong is more important than winning or losing. JM: What would you say to someone who’s interested in joining Stonewall but is new to a fitness practice? And what would you say to someone with less than happy memories of P.E. class, or lack of confidence in their physical abilities?

AP: Stonewall is for everyone! We have stories from numerous people who were hesitant to play, but gave it a try and had a blast. We have some sports that are less strenuous than others. We have certain teams that form that just want to have fun, not just win all the time. It’s important to find your group. If you don’t see a group for you, form your own! We know we don’t have enough women, people from diverse backgrounds, or older people in our league. We want everyone, and we want to hear from you on how we can better support you and build programming that supports you and your group. We need players of all fitness levels to join our community. We are more than just a sports league; we are a family. JM: What an inspiring story! Thank you for being instrumental in bringing such an amazing sports league to the New Orleans LGBT community, and thanks for taking the time to share your story with me. Registration for Stonewall Kickball’s fall season is open until September 2, and registration for Stonewall Dodgeball’s fall season is open until September 3. The Stonewall 5K Run Club (aka the Stonewall Prancers) meets each Monday, and has open registration. Visit stonewallneworleans. leagueapps.com to get started. And stay tuned because there are more opportunities coming soon!

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