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all spectacular For a complete list of events, log on to louisianatravel.com and explore a map of Louisiana. It’s holiday time in Louisiana, where residents know how to celebrate.

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Celebrate the Holidays in Louisiana

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aton Rouge, LA - Holiday Louisiana-Style is unlike any other with bonfires on the levee, reveillon dinners, Papa Noel, and a Celebration in the Oaks all offering special holiday discounts to participants.

With more than 100 festivals and events taking place from now through

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January, Louisiana is a state that knows how to celebrate! All five regions of the state—Sportsman’s Paradise, Plantation Country, Crossroads, Cajun Country, and New Orleans are offering Louisiana celebrations that are as unique as the gumbo of cultures that make up the state.

“There is nowhere like Louisiana to celebrate the holidays,” said Lt. Governor Mitch Landrieu whose office supervises the Louisiana Department of Culture, Recreation and Tourism. “The unique cultural influences of Louisiana - French, Spanish, Haitian, African and Native American - have given us holiday traditions to celebrate that can’t be experienced anywhere else. With these economic times, we are offering discounts that allow visitors to experience a Louisiana-style holiday at affordable rates.”

Some of the events across the five regions that visitors will find include: Sportsman’s Paradise: Kick off the holiday season with a fireworks show at December on the Red in Shreveport-Bossier City, and celebrate Christmas on the Ouachita in Monroe-West Monroe Crossroads: Natchitoches’ Festival of Lights has been attracting crowds to the historic city for almost 100 years offering a “Steel Magnolias” style Christmas Cajun Country: Lafayette, Lake Charles, Houma, St. Landry, Vermillion and Jeff Davis Parishes offer the authentic celebration of Cajun and Creole Christmas traditions and feature the lighting of the village in Opelousas, Tasha Tudor’s Spirit of the Holidays and Christmas in Vermillion, “the most Cajun place on earth” Plantation Country: West Baton Rouge and the River Parishes light bonfires along the levees to guide Papa Noel along the rivers and bayous Greater New Orleans: Reveillon dinners, Celebration in the Oaks in City Park, and Holiday on the Boulevard are

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oliday festivities in The Big Easy are moving into high gear. Blowouts for Orlando's Society Page, 4 Seasons, Billy's, Double Play, Cafe Lafitte's, Good Friends Bar and Rawhide have already been held.

On Wednesday, December 17, Oz, 800 Bourbon Street, will host its annual Christmas Party from 8-10pm. Admittance is an unwrapped toy for a child in need. In addition to fabulous food and friends, the club will host its special Xmas Show on stage at 10:30pm.

Thursday, December 18th brings the first Christmas Party for 700 Club, 700 Burgundy at St. Peter. Hosted 79pm, the club offers complimentary drinks and a scrumptious buffet. Admittance here is a suggested $5 minimum donation to Project Lazarus.

On the same night, December 18th, The Corner Pocket (940 St. Louis at Burgundy) is hosting its annual Christmas Party from 8-10pm. It promises fun, food, prizes and lots of boys.

FourPlay hits the stage at JohnPaul's, 940 Elysian Fields, on Friday, December 19th, 9pm. Featuring Entertainer of the Year Elizabeth Bouvier, King Cake Queen XVI-Elect Tami Tarmac, Lauren Brown and Cathy Fox, the show is hosted by Gary Glitter.

Over in Slidell at Billy's, 2600 Hwy. 190 West, it's Princesse Stephaney's Christmas Show on December 19th as well at 10:30pm starring Bambi, Sherry and Tiffany Lashay.

Back in New Orleans at Voila, 300 Decatur Street, on December 19th is The Christmas Ball starring Force Feed Radio, DJ Kemistry and DJ Jive. Bring in a non perishable food item to benefit Second Harvest Food Bank, and receive a raffle ticket for each food product to win gift certificates, hotel stays and more.

Saturday, December 20th, brings the annual Toys For Tots show to Starlight By The Park, 834 N. Rampart

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Street at 9pm. It features an all star cast, and admission is a toy for a child who has none.

Over at 4 Seasons, 3229 N. Causeway in Metairie, you can catch their Christmas Show on December 20th as well at 10pm. It stars Big Mama, Rachael Monroe, Coca and other guests.

And then there's The Zoo Revue starring Rusty LaRoux on December 20th at Big Daddy's.

Voila brings Wild Bill Dykes presenting A Truly Tasteless Christmas featuring Rob Mungle of The Whiskey Brothers and members or Dash Rip Rock on December 20th.

Cutter's, 706 Franklin, serves its Christmas Dinner on Christmas Eve, December 24th at 5pm.

On Christmas Eve, Wednesday, December 24th, Christmas Dinner will be served at The Double Play, 439 Dauphine at 6pm.

Le Roundup, 819 St. Louis serves its Christmas Eve Dinner at 6pm on December 24th as well.

It's back to 4 Seasons on Christmas day, December 25th for the club's annual Christmas Dinner at 6pm.

Christmas night, December 25th, you can catch Marcy Marcell's Christmas in Chalmette Show at JohnPaul's.

It features The Golden Age Revue and many surprises.

It's the Post Christmas Show at Starlight By The Park on Friday, December 26, 12midnight. Hosted by Marcy Marcell, the show features surprise guests.

Saturday, December 27th, it's back to 700 Club to celebrate the "Golden Birthday" of bartender Paul who will be 27 on the 27th.

Also on the 27th is Billy's Drag Show in Slidell at 10:30pm starring Big Mama, Mercedes Ellis Loreal and Alexis.

Back in New Orleans on the 27th is the Jaded Jade My O My Revue starring Miss D and Passion Armani Cassidine at Starlight By The Park.

Sunday, December 28th, it's a return to The Corner Pocket for Miss Ashlee's fab Birthday Party form 79pm. It'll be great food, drink specials, boys and plenty of fun.

2nd Annual Charlene Schneider Toy Drive

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arm Hearts for Women second annual Charlene Schneider Toy Drive will benefit less fortunate children. Please bring toys for children ages 3-13 to the two drop-off sites. Cash donations will be accepted to purchase gift cards for older children.

On Thursday, December 18, Warm Hearts for Women will pick up toys from JohnPaul's at 940 Elysian Fields in New Orleans from 7-9pm. Come out and enjoy some Christmas Spirits.

On Friday, December 19, the group

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by Brad Benedict ilk has arrived, and I have to admit that it is one of the best movies I’ve ever seen. Maybe this is because it makes one want to stand up and cheer while bringing a tear or two now and then. It is something that one can be proud to be a part of but yet something that can make you angry at the same time. It is a movie that portrays quite accurately something of historic proportions. Perhaps it started at Stonewall, but I rather think what happened to Harvey Milk will go down as the moment when gays

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became openly militant yet secretly, for many, proud to be gay.

Personally, I never cared to see any movie in which Sean Penn starred. I’ve never particularly cared for his private life or his rather militant and arrogant attitude over time or in the way he came to rescue the masses after Hurricane Katrina. However, I cannot picture anyone who could have played this part more realistically or better, and I can only hope that he is noticed when the Oscar nominations come around. He is that good, but it will be an uphill battle

since the theme of the movie may turn off a lot of voters.

Along with an excellent supporting cast that included James Franco, Emile Hirsch, Diego Luna, Josh Brolin, Alison Pill, Victor Garber, and all the other main players, each one did such a fine job of recreating the people who were so much a part of this history, and Gus Van Sant has come up with his best effort, in my humble opinion, since My Own Private Idaho. It was especially nice at the end to see each star pictured with a photo to follow of the real people and what had happened to them since the assassinations of Mayor George Moscone and Harvey Milk.

By using news clips, the reality of the period really came alive, and the

acting was so flawless that you become immersed in the feeling of the period. Josh Brolin took on the roll of Dan White, and what he did can best be described as what put the gay movement on the map. It was a movie part that he really got into, but it was also one that made you want to tear him apart. To also see the hatred that was spewed from Anita Bryant was played to show how misunderstanding and hatred can cause so much damage to people who otherwise are thought to be sick. Van Sant has pictured everyone as human beings, and he has done so by showing all the positive initiatives and hopes of a body of people long thought to be sick but actually standing tall and so far above the bigots of yesterday and today.

You won’t particularly like what you see, but you realize it is absolutely the truth. When a gay man is stabbed to death while walking home and the police tend to cast aside any effort to find the perpetrator, you realize that this is not what life is all about. It is something that needs to be corrected, needs to be protested, and needs to be brought out in the open.

As a member of the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, Harvey Milk changed history by becoming the first openly gay man to be voted into a major public office in America. His victory was not just a victory for gay rights. He forged coalitions across the political spectrum – from senior citizens to union workers. He changed the very nature of what it means to be a fighter for human rights and became, before his untimely death in 1978, a hero for all Americans.

Castro became the place where gays could be proud of their heritage and their human rights. Even today, it is a privilege to be able to stand across from the Castro Theater in Harvey Milk Plaza and gaze down Castro and Market streets and see all the gay flags flying proudly for all to see. Harvey Milk made it all possible. He was in many respects a flawed individual, but that could be said for almost everyone. What he did was to inspire others, especially Cleve Jones, and this comes through perfectly in the movie. It is remarkable what he did. He was willing to take risks in order for gays to have equal rights, and it is this same fight that continues today. It was also nice to see how Anne Kronenberg helped the cause. It is an eye-opening experience to know everyone connected to this saga, and this movie does it well.

With a superior script by Dustin Lance Black, Harvey Milk’s legacy and the rights of gays throughout the world can be visualized as it happened. He started a movement, and the movement continues. This is a movie that everyone needs to see, gay or straight. It’s a story that needed to be told, and Focus Features has brought it to the screen as they did with Brokeback Mountain. [continued on Main-8]

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All donations to Warm Hearts for Women will support less fortunate women and children. For more information contact Sherran Thomas at 504.838.6151 or email warmhearts4women@yahoo.com or visit the group's website, www.warmhearts4women.org.

Looking For A Few Good Men

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arigny Theatre and To Do Productions are holding auditions to round out the cast for the Mardi Gras revival of Naked Boys Singing. As the show’s title states good singing voices and full nudity are a must. Age and race is not a factor, as long as the applicants are comfortable moving, dancing and singing in the buff.

All positions are paid.

To check out the reviews and pix from the original production please visit todoproductions.org, click on current and past productions and then click on the poster for Naked Boys Singing.

If you have a good sense of humor, come audition to join this wonderful cast. For further information and to schedule an audition please call Timm Holt at 504.319.7013 or Donnie Jay at

504.948.9608.

Louisiana Family Recovery Corps’ HEF Program a Resounding Success

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aton Rouge, LA – The most recent iteration of the House hold Establishment Funds (HEF) program by the Louisiana Family Recovery Corps proved to be an outstanding success. In a matter of days, the agency pre-screened thousands of applicants and set appointments for nearly 1,700 families and individuals to receive up to $1,500 in rent, utility, and household furnishings assistance via the Recovery Corps’ Household Establishments Funds (HEF) program.

The HEF benefits are intended to provide one-time help for families attempting to re-establish or maintain their household as part of their recovery process from hurricanes Katrina or Rita.

This disbursement of more than $3 million targeted residents living in six Acadiana parishes. To date, the HEF program has provided assistance to nearly 10,000 households and disbursed approximately $12 million statewide to those attempting to rebuild their lives in the wake of the hurricanes.

“Once again, the Louisiana Family Recovery Corps has proven itself as a leader in human recovery,” said Dr. Monteic A. Sizer, Chief of Staff of the Recovery Corps. “Through our outcome-

based programs, we will continue to provide opportunities to residents of Louisiana still struggling to reclaim their lives in the wake of Katrina and Rita.”

With appointments made, case managers began meeting with HEF clients today to begin disbursement of the benefits.

“The only regret,” admitted Sizer, “is that we could not do more. Based on the overwhelming response to this initiative, it confirmed what we already

knew – that there are many thousands of people just in the six parish area that we were able to serve who are still struggling to recover. The need statewide is only magnified.

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The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk”by Randy Shilts. This would be a great addition to also display prominently in your home.

Don’t miss it.

If you would like to follow up with a nice book about Harvey Milk, you can do this by obtaining a copy of the screenplay. It’s called Milk: The Shooting Script, published by Newmarket Press, with a 16-page color photo insert and priced at $19.95. It is enlightening and insightful not only in the story itself but in the way details are given concerning the behind-the-scenes story of such a significant film. The script, like the movie, captures the indomitable spirit of Harvey Milk. It is a great read with conversations with Dustin Lance Black, Gus Van Sant, and Cleve Jones, who worked closely with Milk.

It is a book you will want to keep and display with pride along with a future DVD when it becomes available.

For additional reading, find a copy of

“As we move forward, the Recovery Corps will continue to provide much needed programs and funds to people who want to help themselves, but it is clear that many more resources are needed and many more people and organizations will have to get involved to help bolster the state and aid in the recovery process.”

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700 Club’s Mike Cookmeyer (c) & his posse at Voila’s Grand Opening bash

In This Together Director Michael “Fish” Hickerson & Don Evans celebrate the season at Society Page’s Christmas Party

Rich, Carmine & Angle Frames’ Tim cocktailin’ at Tubby’s Golden Lantern

Cafe Lafitte’s Santas on duty, Aletha & Jeff

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Orlando Aloe kicks off the holiday season with the first club party in the Quarter at Society Page

Justin & Kyle having holiday cocktails at Starlight By The Park Spencer & Sammy serve up cocktails for Good Friends Homecoming blowout

Charmaine Neville & her band, live at Voila’s Grand Opening

Don, Walter, Joseph & Bryan join the Saints Tailgate Party at 700 Club Roger Copenhaver & Glenn O’Berry pop in for Voila’s Grand Opening

Bartender Gregory does the honors for Society Page’s Christmas Party

Manager Doc joins Buzzy’s Boys & Girls’ Marty & Koo at Double Play for holiday cocktails

Bill slingin’ holiday cocktails at Cowpokes

Paul & Mike sling cocktails for 700 Club’s Saints Tailgate Party

The Guide’s Matt & 700 Club’s Mike

Cutter’s Mac & Big Daddy’s Pitty Pat havin’ a holiday moment at Big Daddy’s

Paul joins bartender Marty & her reindeer at The Friendly Bar

Princesse Stephaney & Voila’s Queen Liz at the club’s grand opening

Plantation Florida socialite Tom Conners & Ambush’s Marsha join Voila’s Grand Opening bash

Matt serves up holiday cocktails at Oz

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New Orleans AIDS Memorial’s Susan Levingston & Jack Sullivan

NO/AIDS Task Force Exe. Dir. Noel Twilbeck, volunteer Randall Culpepper & Avita Drugs Pres. Jerry Purcell

Countess C. Alice & David Aranda

Live Auctioneer Sam Bell

Master of Ceremonies Bryan Batt

Food For Friends Program Director Glen Kahrman

The Rogets, Mr. Rhonda & David

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Prince Sam & Princesse Stephaney Ingrid Lucia & the Flying Neutrinos performed live

Performing Arts Award winning New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus

Keynote Speaker Rabbi Edward Cohn

Noel Twilbeck’s sister Angela Hurley, Food For Friends Program Manager Glen Kahrman & NO/AIDS Task Force Director of Finance Jeannette Beard

St. Charles Chiropractic’s Michael Lechleiter & Ken Marino New Orleans AIDS Memorial Founder Susan Levingston cuts the ribbon opening the memorial Freddy Lanzo’s Brass Band

Darwin Reed & Mr. Opal Masters (Queen Amon Ra

Ambush’s Marsha & Barbara Satterley

Gina Brown

MCC Rev. Clinton Crawshaw

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New Orleans AIDS Memorial Dedication @ Washington Square Park ~ New Orleans ~ Photos by Ambush

22nd Art Against AIDS Gala @ The Sugar Mill ~ New Orleans ~ Photos by Ambush

Athena Jewel & Amber Nicole Welch join other Art Against AIDS volunteers

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in the spotlight After 12 Long Years, the New Orleans AIDS Memorial Dedicated on the Eve of World AIDS Day

by Rip & Marsha Naquin-Delain he New Orleans AIDS Memorial dedication was an inspirational hour at Washington Square Park on Sunday, November 30. The afternoon sun was ablaze as Freddy Lanzo’s Brass Band played for the crowd of at least 200 people.

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It was dedicated on the eve of World AIDS Day 2008 “To remember, honor, and celebrate; To heal, educate, and empower; To provide hope, compassion, and dignity.”

Master of Ceremonies Bryan Batt welcomed and introduced the various speakers on stage in front of the newly installed memorial.

Rev. Derrin Harris gave the Invocation followed by a performance by Performing Arts Award winning New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus. The founder of the AIDS Memorial Project, Susan Levingston, gave a moving rendition of the last 12 years which went into making this memorial a reality.

Metropolitan Community Church’s Rev. Clinton Crawshaw addressed the crowd and introduced Gina Brown and Glen Kahrman representing the NO/ AIDS Task Force. Both Gina and Glen spoke on the realities of living with HIV for the long term, Gina for over 14 years and Glen over 22 years.

The Keynote Speaker was Rabbi Edward Cohn who shined light on the progress made with the AIDS crisis in New Orleans.

The Gay Men’s Chorus sang again ending with Somewhere Over the Rainbow. As they got to the last set of lyrics, “If happy little bluebirds fly,” all of the birds in the trees above the monument flew. You can imagine the elation of the crowd! Was someone or maybe a multitude of souls sending us a message from the heavens? MC Bryan Batt was hysterical when he told the chorus members he was just fine until they had to bring “Judy” into the picture. And yes, he admitted, he’d trained birds back in his college days, and yes, he had the Washington Square birds fly!

The Benediction was given by Lazarus House’s Fr. Paul Desrosiers followed by Cantorial Soloist Victoria May. Bryan invited all in attendance to Counseling and Psychotherapy Couples, individuals, communication skills, coming out, relationship issues, grief and substance abuse. Gay therapist for Lesbian and Gay Issues.

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witness the Ribbon Cutting Ceremony and then place the roses given each participate at the foot of the memorial as they each observed the beauty of the monument. As part of the memorial there are numerous memorial paving stones, and memorial benches and inscriptions in both metal and granite.

The artist and architects are to be congratulated on the great job they all did including Tim Tate - Design, Mitchell Gaudet - Glass, Brian Borrello and Erica Larkin - Metal, Mark Thomas Landscape Architect, and Sizeler Thompson Brown - Architect.

Washington Square is the Ideal Place for the AIDS Memorial

by Lloyd Sensat, Sun Oak in Faubourg Marigny he long delayed New Orleans AIDS Memorial was dedicated Sunday, November 30th at 2 pm in Washington Square Park.The memorial is a sculpture designed by Brian Borillo, and constructed

by Erica Larkin and Mitchell Gaudel with landscaping by Mark Thomas. It consists of a series of round glass discs depicting the cast faces of HIV infected individuals, who represent the many faces of AIDS in the region. Tragically, many of the individuals whose faces were cast for the memorial have since died of the disease. The memorial site will also be paved with granite paving stones containing the names of some of those who have died of the disease, or honoring individuals for their efforts in fighting AIDS. To purchase a stone or make a donation for the upkeep of the memorial or more information, contact Susan Levingston at 504.524.1421.

Since the mid 70s, Washington Square has been the site of the annual Pride Fest. Washington Square and Faubourg Marigny is the psychological, emotional, and even geographic heart of the long-time New Orleans gay community. The Monument is also a tribute to the talent and creativity of the gays pioneers who invested in a slum neighborhood and transformed it into one of New Orleans most fashionable and desirable places to live.

In the beginning AIDS was called the gay men’s disease. But we know now that the AIDS pandemic is the most nondiscriminatory virus ever known. So the Monument is not “the

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ood Friends presented its Homecoming Court including King Herman, Queen Rikki and Weenie Man during the home Saints game in New Orleans.

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he New Orleans AIDS Memorial was dedicated on the eve of World AIDS Day, November 30 at Washington Square Park in New Orleans.

The project, under the direction of founder Susan Levingston, was 12 years in the making, and the moving dedication was a tribute to its opening.

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O/AIDS Task Force Director of Development Heidi Chapman and Art Against AIDS Event Chair Toni Leggio celebrate at the 22nd annual Art Against AIDS Gala at The Sugar Mill in New Orleans.

As of press time, the event had raised some $30,000 for NO/AIDS Task Force and its many important programs. For more on this vital organization, visit noaidstaskforce.org.

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arla Jean Merman joins Voila’s Thomas Frese and Princesse Stephaney for the mega grand opening bash for Chateau Moanet Voila in New Orleans. The Charmaine Neville Band played while guests enjoyed an open bar and hors d’oeuvres followed by the Voila All Star Variety Show and DJ Kabrina Watson.

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rtist Steve Kiipper joins Cutter’s Mac McAll for his December Artist of the Month opening reception at Cutter’s in the Marigny area of New Orleans.

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he NEW Divas of B-Bob’s: Eileen Dover, Fonda Peters, Miss Siah Flux and Iwanabee Arthur, debuted for the Mobile club’s annual Turn-A-Bout fund-raiser. The show was a benefit for South Alabama CARES and also for Becky Harbison who is going through her third bout with breast cancer bringing in $300.

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New Year's Day Party

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n New Year’s Day, why not have a welcome in the New Year with a small comfortable gathering of a dozen friends or so.

Just don’t start too early in the day, after all we know just how hard it is getting out of bed that morning. Why not start it around noon.

RED ROOSTERS A bit of the hair from the dog of the night before.

4 cups cranberry juice cocktail 3 cups orange juice 2 cups vodka

Make up several pitchers of this not-to-sweet beverage, cover them, and chill before the party starts. Serve over ice and garnish with lemon slices.

HOT ROAST BEEF PARTY SANDWICHES ½ cup finely chopped walnuts 2 (9.25-ounce) packages dinner rolls ½ cup peach preserves (I use sugar free) ½ cup mustard-mayonnaise blend ¾ pound thinly sliced deli roast beef ½ pound thinly sliced Havarti cheese

Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Heat pecans in a small non-stick skillet over medium-high heat until lightly toasted.

Remove rolls from packages, do not separate. Cut rolls in half horizontally.

Spread peach preserves on cut sides of top of rolls. Sprinkle with pecans. Spread mustard-mayonnaise blend over cut side of bottom of the rolls: top with roast beef and cheese. Cover with top halves of rolls, preserves side down, and wrap in aluminum foil. Bake at 325 degrees for thirty minutes or until cheese is melted.

Slice into individual sandwiches and serve immediately.

FRUITY SALAD WITH SUGARED ALMONDS AND SWEET-HOT VINAIGRETTE 1 head Bibb lettuce, torn 2 five-ounce) packages mixed salad greens 1 fresh peeled and cored pineapple, cut into ½ inch cubes

4 kiwi fruit, peeled and sliced 2 (11-ounce) cans mandarin oranges, drained and chilled 1 cup red seedless grapes, cut in half Sugared Almonds (recipe follows) Sweet-Hot vinaigrette (recipe follows) Toss lettuce and salad greens together in a large bowl. Place lettuce on two serving platters. Top with fruit.

Sprinkle with Sugared Almonds and serve with Sweet-hot vinaigrette.

Sugared Almonds: 1 cup slivered Almonds ½ cup sugar Stir together both ingredients in large 3 1/2 quart saucepan over medium-high heat, and cook, stirring constantly, eight minutes or until golden and fragrant. Spread mixture in an even layer on lightly greased wax paper on a baking sheet, and let cool twenty minutes. Break into pieces and store in airtight container until ready to use.

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by AIDS can find comfort and consolation. It is the perfect place for contemplation and reflection on memories of our lost loved ones and friends. Bernard de Marigny would be pleased to know that it is in his Faubourg.

DNC Chairman Howard Dean Comments on World AIDS Day

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ashington, DC - Democratic National Committee Chairman Howard Dean issued the following statement commemorating World AIDS Day on its 20th Anniversary.

“It’s been 20 years since the first World AIDS Day, and while we have made strides, much work remains to be done to tackle this epidemic with both a national and global strategy. We must focus not only on preventing the spread of HIV/AIDS, but also continue to improve care for those who struggle with this illness. As President-Elect Obama reminds us, government alone cannot bring an end to this crisis, we must all do our part. Today, as we mark World AIDS Day, let’s pause to reflect on those we have lost, the toll it has taken on those who loved them, and recommit ourselves to finding a cure.”

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by Rip & Marsha Naquin-Delain www.ripandmarsha.com E-mail: info@ambushmag.com

New Orleans Restaurant Guide Bywater Restaurant, Deli & BBQ, 3162 Dauphine St., is noted for its gumbo, barbeque, pizza, sandwiches and specials serving breakfast, lunch and dinner. Hours are 9am-9pm Mon.Fri., and Sat. & Sun. Closed Wed. Call 944.4445 for additional info. MasterCard/ Visa accepted.

Cafe Amelie, 912 Royal St., offers romantic courtyard or indoor dining along with both eclectic culinary creations and drinks. Serving lunch and dinner, Wed.-Sun. 11am-9pm, and Sun., brunch 10am-3pm. Call 412.8965 for reservations or additional information.

Clover Grill, 900 Bourbon St., is open 7 days and features breakfast including build your own omelettes. But let’s not forget their fab burgers grilled right under a hub cap and then there’s all those sandwiches, sides, desserts and shakes. Call 598.1010 or visit CloverGrill.COM. Country Club Restaurant, 634 Louisa St. Under the new direction of Chef Sam Allen, he has taken attention to detail and ingredient, and focused on

a more contemporary menu at an even more affordable price point. Still the best food, but at even more unbelievable value! As always, the specials are available online, as is the entire menu. Serving 7 days 11am-10pm 7 days and Sunday Brunch 11am-3pm. Visit TheCountryClubNewOrleans.COM or call 945.0742 for more information.

Krystal, 116 Bourbon at Canal, Open 24 hours, it's one of the best stops for fast food with tasty burgers, hot dogs and breakfast. Call 523.4030 for more info.

Magazine Perks, 4332 Magazine, serves gourmet coffee, sandwiches, pastries, danish and cakes. Open 7 days 7am-10pm. Call 899.2911 or visit MagazinePerks.COM. Mardi Gras Zone Grocery & Deli, 2706 Royal St., is open for for full service catering and delivery not to mention everyday breakfast, lunch and dinner items.

Call 947.8787 for information. Open 48 hours a day, 8 days a week, Sunrise to Sunset.

Marigny Perks, 2401 Burgundy, serves gourmet coffee, sandwiches, pastries, danish and cakes. Open 7 days 7am-10pm. Call 948.7401 or visit

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he Eggplant Parmesan (13) is a menu must when dining at Mona Lisa, 1212 Royal Street. The lightly breaded eggplant is quite tender baked in red sauce and parmesan cheese served on a mound of linguini. www.marignyperks.com.

Mona Lisa Restaurant, 1212 Royal St., features Italian specialties including salads, pizzas, sandwiches and both lunch and dinner entrees.

Lunch 11am-5pm Thurs.-Mon., Dinner 5pm-10pm 7 days. Call 522.6746 for info.

NOLA Smoothies, 315 Decatur St., features smoothies, fresh juices, bubble tea, supplements and more.

Two of the most popular smoothies are the Raspberry Cheesecake with raspberries, fat free cream cheese, honey, graham cracker, soy milk and whey protein, and the Bananas Foster with banana, brown sugar, low fat vanilla ice cream, isopure protein and soy protein.

Open 7 days, Mon.-Sat. 10am-8pm and Sunday 10am-6pm. Call 302.1185 for delivery and information.

Orleans Grapevine, 720 Orleans, is located in a beautifully renovated 1809 building offering a pleasant atmosphere, extensive wine list with over 350 selections and delicious food in-

cluding prime steaks, lobster tails and rack of lamb. Serving dinner 5-11pm daily. Call 523.1930 for additional information.

Petunias, A Restaurant, 817 St. Louis, is open daily 8am-10pm serving breakfast, brunch, lunch, crepes, poboys, salads, gumbo, Cajun/Creole specialties and dinner. Call 522.6440 for more info.

Quartermaster: The Nellie Deli, 1100 Bourbon St., was voted Restaurant/Deli of the Year once again and is open 24 hours 7 days. Serving breakfast, lunch and dinner, the deli offers free delivery. Call 529.1416 to order.

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grees. Grill chicken covered with grill lid, over medium-high heat for twenty minutes or until done, serve with White Barbeque Sauce.

Whisk all ingredients together.

Cover and chill thirty minutes, GRILLED HERBED DRUMETTES WITH WHITE BARBECUE SAUCE 1 tablespoon dried thyme 1 tablespoon dried oregano 1 tablespoon ground cumin 1 tablespoon paprika 1 teaspoon onion powder 1 teaspoon salt ½ teaspoon pepper 5 pounds chicken drumettes White Barbeque Sauce (recipe follows) Combine first seven ingredients.

Rinse chicken and pat dry, rub mixture over chicken. Place chicken in a zip-top freezer bag. Seal bag and chill at least four hours. Remove chicken from bag.

Discard bag. Preheat grill to 400 de-

Tomatillo’s Restaurant, 437 Esplanade Ave., is open Tues., Wed. 11am10pm; Thurs.-Sun. 11am-11pm. The restaurant refers to itself as “A Mexican Joint” featuring appetizers, soups, salads, make your own combination plates, house specialties, burritos, desserts, and of course, specialty margaritas.

Call 945.9997 for reservations.

White Barbeque Sauce 1 ½ cups mayonnaise ¼ cup white wine vinegar 1 garlic clove, minced 1 tablespoon coarsely ground black pepper 1 tablespoon spicy brown mustard 2 teaspoon horseradish 1 teaspoon sugar 1 teaspoon salt Stir together all ingredients until well blended. Cover and chill until ready to serve DIXIE CAVIAR CUPS 1 (15.8-ounce) can black eyed peas, [continued on Main-23]

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book beat

by Brad Benedict E-mail: bradhottails@hotmail.com

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eing Written is a novel by William Conescu is one of those books that you find difficult to put down. This is a first novel from a new storyteller, and he is one to watch and collect. Conescu has a delightful flair for writing, and this book is truly a different way to tell a story.

America, the Deep South, and the East Coast. Each section begins with a short introduction of beliefs and taboos for that particular region of the U.S.and the stories that follow depict those taboos.

Sean Wolfe is the author of this nice little soft-cover book, and it is a nice diversion from the normal reading material that might be on your to-read list.

The stories are sensual and sophisticated, fearlessly controversial, and yet irresistibly erotic. Let’s just say that some parts of Wolfe’s writings really sizzle. What he does is show you that while confirming that the only way to get rid of temptation is to give in to it, you become in reality one of the characters.

In this book, he delves even deeper into his wicked imagination creating a collection of tales that spans the complete spectrum of forbidden desires. You first met this author in Close Contact and Aroused. Now you can enjoy him again in this wickedly nice book. (His Close Contact was a 2005 Lambda Literary Award nominee.)

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Daniel Fischer has a secret, and he knows he’s a character in a book that’s being written. He is the only one who knows and the only one who’s aware of the author’s presence. Even though Daniel knows this, he is still only a minor character. The author seems much more interested in other people’s lives. This alone should grab your attention.

Now Daniel is determined to win a bigger part, and he will do whatever it takes to get the author’s attention and make this story his own. It’s suspenseful, subversive, and hilarious. It is definitely an inventive literary turn that calls into question who we trust, what we believe, and how the stories of our lives are created.

When Daniel finds out about Delia, he is placed in the picture by meeting her in a bar. They introduce themselves, end up going back to her apartment, and the next morning the live-in boyfriend arrives on the scene. Daniel doesn’t realize that he is just a pawn in someone else’s plot. His involvement in other people’s lives continues, and so goes Conescu’s excellent novel.

Being Written is from Harper Perennial, is a paperback book, and priced at $13.95.

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aboo is another book that will hold your interest. It is divided into four sections: the West Coast, the Midwest/Middle

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enowned photographer Larry Graham, GrahamStudioOne.COM, just completed the photo shoot for King Cake Queen XVI-Elect of Gay Mardi Gras Tami Tarmac.

The coronation portrait will be unveiled at the by invitation only King Cake Queen Coronation Bash on January 24, 2009. Graham has been the official photographer for the King Cake Queen Royalty Club since 2002.

Taboo comes from Kensington and costs $15.

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he Archangel Project got put on my to-do list, and I didn’t forget it, but I do apologize for not reviewing it sooner. It’s a mass market paperback, priced at $7.99, and published by Harper. It deals with timely topics from the war on terrorism and tensions in the Middle East to the cynical manipulation of public opinion by political forces and the “Big Brother” tendencies of modern government. The setting of the book is in postKatrina New Orleans and written by C.S. Graham.

Graham is a pseudonym of writing team Steven Harris and Candice Proc-

tor. With their backgrounds, it is easy to understand how this book came about, and readers benefit from this. It’s a fascinating book even without knowing the background of the authors.

The authors tell of the struggling city of New Orleans through disgraced CIA agent Jax Alexander and a young Iraq War veteran Tobie Guinness. They

join forces to catch a killer and stop a plot that could plunge the world into an apocalyptic war. When the body of Henry Youngblood, a professor at Tulane University, is discovered, it sound alarms at Langley. During the period when the U.S. and Soviets were pursuing aggressive programs, along comes Youngblood onto the scene.

In the process of the investigation, Jax discovers that the killers have Tobie in their sights. She had seen something she shouldn’t have seen, and she has to run for her life. Thus the teaming up with Jax comes about to prevent the U.S. military from being tricked into using the ultimate weapon with all the consequences.

I’m not sure what I expected when I first saw this review copy, but once I got into it, it became another of those books that you find difficult to put down.

Even though I dislike the mass-market formats, this one is well worth obtaining. In fact, it would be nice to have this one in a hard-cover format, but since that isn’t going to happen, just settle for this version and enjoy the ride. It’s rather electrifying as author Steve Berry so noted on the back cover.

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Candidate for Mr. LSGRA Denny Sommers serving holiday cocktails at Rawhide

Playgirl Man of the Year Dominic joins the Christmas Gala at Good Friends

King Cake Queen-Elect Mr. Tami Tarmac & Rona Conners take in The Golden Age Revue at JohnPaul’s

Larry & his shy baby, Barnebus out at Rawhide Gary, Tom & Robert show off their finds at Buzzy’s Rummage Sale hosted at The Friendly Bar

Brothers Tommy & Michael Elias serving up their famous stuffed grape leaves at Corner Pocket’s Post Thanksgiving Feast

Chris slingin’ holiday cocktails at the Phoenix

Rikki Gee does her Christopher Crawford act live at Good Friends’ Christmas Gala

Justin hits the stage for Good Friends’ 13th Christmas Gala

Marcy Marcell hosts The Golden Age Revue at JohnPaul’s

Rhonda Roget & her “man” guest star in The Golden Age Revue at JohnPaul’s

Regina Adams back on stage again in The Golden Age Revue at JohnPaul’s

Ama Rosa emcees Good Friends’ 13th Christmas Gala benefiting Buzzy’s Boys & Girls

Santa Blake & Richie on stage at Good Friends’ Christmas Gala

Good Friends Beneatha “Sammy” Man takes to the Christmas Gala stage

Good Friends manager Cameron auctions off his leather pants for Buzzy’s Boys & Girls at Good Friends

Santa & dancer Will celebratin’ the season at Corner Pocket

Santa disciplines bad boy Josh at the Pocket

Al celebrates his b-day with Dominic & partner Dwain at JohnPaul’s during The Golden Age Revue

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Dancers Lee & Minx dancin’ together at The Corner Pocket

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30 Belgian endue leaves (three bunches) ¼ cup sour cream Combine first nine ingredients in a large zip-top freezer bag. Seal bag, chill twenty-four hours; drain. Spoon mixture into a bowl; stir in cilantro. Spoon about one rounded tablespoon of mixture into each endive leaf. Dollop with sour cream.

PEEL AND EAT SHRIMP WITH DIPPING SAUCES Set up a serving section for the shrimp and the sauces, and let the guests help themselves. ½ cup Old Bay seasoning 3 pounds, unpeeled large raw shrimp (26/30 count) Combine nine cups water and Old Bay seasoning in a Dutch oven. Bring to a boil; add shrimp. Cover, remove from heat, and let stand 15 minutes or just until the shrimp turn pink. Drain well.

Serve immediately with sauces.

Tangy Garlic Tartar Sauce: 2 cups mayonnaise 1 (3.5-ounce) jar of capers, drained 3 cloves garlic, pressed ¼ cup Dijon mustard Combine all ingredients in a food processor; process until smooth. Chill two hours before serving.

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Smoky Remoulade Sauce: 2 cups mayonnaise ¼ cup Creole mustard 2 large garlic cloves, pressed 2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juiced 2 ¼ teaspoons smoked paprika ¼ teaspoon cayenne Whisk together all ingredients until well blended. Chill two hours before serving.

Spicy Cocktail Sauce: ¾ cup bottle chili sauce

½ cup ketchup 6 tablespoons horseradish 2 tablespoons plus 2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice 2 ¼ teaspoons Worcestershire sauce 1 teaspoon hot sauce ¼ teaspoon salt 1 ¼ teaspoon pepper Whisk together all ingredients until blended. Chill at least thirty minutes before serving.

Serve bite sized brownies, petite fours and lemon bars for dessert and you are set to go indulging in your football games.

Have a great new Year, may you get all you want out of life.

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sappho psalm

by Toni J.P. Pizanie E-mail: Psalmwrite@aol.com

Merry Christmas

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t’s that special season of the year when parties abound and hearts are filled with joy and generosity. With the loss of my family, I had stopped celebrating with my former delight and gratitude. This year, however, I have been moved by Santa Trahan. He and Ray Bates raided my attic and brought down everything Christmas that has been stored and collected for over twenty years. He also brought me a new wreath for the front door even though there were three others in the attic and Poinsettias to brighten my attitude.

Ray put the tree up and wrapped it with lights. He then turned and said it was time for him to leave and I was instructed to complete the decorations. I sorted the dolls that Mom had made years ago and the bows and the other handmade ornaments. Two hours later, I was satisfied that the tree was as close to perfect as I could get it without Randy and Ray shouting out instructions or orders.

It was time to invite people over to see my achievement. Ray was on his way to Mesa, AZ to visit with Rex and Nicholas Romans so disappointedly I scratched him off my list. Randy was next. And, of course, I called Julie Thompson and my cousin-in-law Arvilla. You’ve got to have a holiday cocktail party, Arvilla insisted, now that the house looks so festive.

I’m trying to work that plan out now. It has been so long since I’ve had a holiday party that I’m not sure what to do first. While most people start with a guest list, I was concerned about what to serve. I am neither a cook nor do I do fancy party snacks. I realized it was time to talk to Matti and Randy. Matti did all the great snacks for the Day of Remembrance at the Community Center. Randy makes the best shrimp dip I have ever tasted and has the largest, most unusual collection of serving pieces in Gay existence.

Ah, at last, I am filled with Christmas spirit. It feels good. And it is time to make plans to enjoy all that our Community has to offer. Let’s see there is 12/12 at the Community Center and the Gay Men’s’ Chorus. There are private parties and Christmas with the Crawford’s is a must see. PFLAG is having their annual Christmas Party/Meeting. Wow, dates are running short for planning another party.

I hope to see all my readers during the holidays to wish you a merry, merry with lots of peace and good health and happiness in person. If I miss some of you, please know that I am grateful and very happy to be a small part of your holiday season.

come together for our openly Gay candidates. But that is a different rant for another time.

There are also lots of fun shots of drugs, sex and Puccini opera. If you never visited the Castro which is very changed today, this is your chance at a first hand view of Gayland in the 1970s.

I am not a fan of Sean Penn. I don’t like the sameness of his portrayals of the characters he has chosen. I find him physically unpleasant and limited. He still did not impress me as the lead in Milk but the story was of such great value that I was able to ignore Penn’s manic performance.

A real annoyance for me was that Gay organizations and groups were invited to the press screening and only 20 people outside the press group attended. I was saddened by this lack of response but it once again shows the lackadaisical attitude of the New Orleans community. Wake up, people, or there will be no Milk on our menu.

Seven Pounds is a strange story of payback by a man filled with remorse and guilt. His pain does not allow for forgiveness –

his own. This is another perfectly odd character for Will Smith who can pull these strange roles off convincingly.

A few of the other reviewers didn’t seem to like the story until I insisted, this is a fantasy and all things are possible. That is the attitude I go into every movie with – this is a story designed for entertainment not reality. So it is easy for me to enjoy most of the movies that I see.

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am recommending two movies that will be showing by the time this issue comes out. First is Milk and the second is Seven Pounds. I was asked to screen several others but they didn’t satisfy my fancy. Both the above mentioned films are serious and dramatic. There is nothing seasonal about either.

Milk is the story about the life and death of Harvey Milk, the first openly Gay politician in America. He was gunned down in his City Hall office by a homophobic San Francisco Board of Supervisors member who he tried to befriend and educate.

The importance of the film is the fight for equality and the unity of the Gay community to demand change. A demand that was successful. It strongly brought to my mind how the New Orleans Gay community has failed to

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the pink pastor

by Rev. Clinton Crawshaw, 504.214.4340 E-mail: pastor@bigeasymcc.com www.bigeasymcc.com www.thebigeasymccblog.blogspot.com

Putting Christ in Christmas?

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ith horrifying rapidity I am approaching my second Christmas in New Orleans! The changes in church have been extraordinary. Our main problem has been running to keep up with growth, and build the ministries, activities, outreach projects and everything else that will keep our new members engaged and active. When Leon and I arrived a year ago we had 11 members, for the last few weeks we have been getting 60 in church and we are on a pretty steep growth curve.

As we approach Christmas the usual question comes up – how do we celebrate uniquely something we are celebrating every Sunday of the year?

Just dressing the church up like Macy’s isn’t enough. Things like advent wreaths and trees are all very nice but they don’t summon the presence of God into the midst of the congregation. In The Big Easy MCC the one consistent factor in our recovery has been a very strong feeling of God’s presence and I see no need to replace that genuine, powerful sense of God with too many sickly sentiments invented by Victorian sappho psalm ...from Expose-2 sibility that is deeper than any we might encounter in our lives.

Oh, I wouldn’t be the true dog lover that I am without a mention of Duke the Great Dane that is one of the important characters. Duke is a Harlequin like the one I had when I lived on the Mississippi Gulf Coast.

I hope you enjoy these two films as much as I did. And I do hope you find time during these busy holiday weeks to catch a movie.

Drunk Driving

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ust learned that a friend was arrested for drunk driving. I’m feeling really sad about it because this is a usually responsible man with a good job and friends that love and respect him. But after doing some reading on AOL from the Forbes.com report, I learned that Louisiana is #5 in the ratings for states with drunk drivers.

Surprisingly, Montana was #1 – a dubious honor. South Carolina was #2 and Mississippi was #3. Southern states seem to rank high in this list of shame.

Please don’t drink and drive this holiday season. I’ll be out on the road and I don’t want to have to worry about my friends killing me when there are so many drunks I don’t know.

Stay safe, have a Happy Holiday and a Blessed New Year.

toymakers. It is important to make sure that whatever you add to the mix is meaningful and not just ‘Christmassy’!

There is a lot of bitching at this time of year about ‘keeping Christ in Christmas’, this is all very well and understandable, but isn’t it a Christian’s job to keep Christ in their own Christmas?

Surely they can’t moan about non Christians enjoying themselves at this time of year – it is not the non Christian’s job to prosper the spirituality of the Christian!

We live in a multi-cultural and multifaith country and world, and several different religious festivals fall at the same time of year. I understand therefore why some people insist on saying ‘Happy Holidays’ but I rather think they miss the point. ‘Happy Holidays’ makes nobody happy; I find no offence when friends wish me ‘Happy Hanukah’ and Jewish friends tell me that being wished ‘Happy Christmas’ is no great trauma either. Muslim leaders in the United Kingdom actually came out to support the celebration of Christmas partly because the undermining of the authenticity of Christmas casts a shadow over their own freedom to authentically celebrate Ramadan or Ede. In England many schoolchildren of all faiths celebrate the Hindu festival of Diwali, and I think many Hindus would feel threatened by an assault on Christmas because it would set a precedent that religious festivals must be all be subsumed into some artificial secular kitsch-fest in December.

Still, encouraging everyone to say Happy Christmas does not make them all Christians! One of the main horrors of religion in 21st century America is that a whole bunch of people think they are Christians simply because they have been born and brought up Southern Baptist, or because they live according to conservative social mores, or because they hate all the right groups of people.

Christians should be defined by love just as The Christ was defined by love. I understand that this cuts the number of practicing Christians in the world rather dramatically! I think my point would be that love – of self, neighbor, stranger and especially the outcast – is the defining characteristic of the Christian life. It is not an optional extra.

In this respect Christmas can be dangerous distraction, a time set aside when we do nice things to each other, what about the rest of the year? When did being nice to each other turn into spending a fortune at Dillards? When did warm fuzzy feelings, stoked by eggnog and booze replace authentic

spiritual experience?

Well, it is my business as a Christian to prosper my own spiritual journey, it is my job to ensure I don’t lose sight of Christ under a huge pile of glitter and house drag; for those who are not able, ready or willing to name themselves as Christians then knock yourselves out!

Life has few enough chances to forget problems - grasp and embrace the celebrations without worrying about a bunch of hand wringing Christians trying to keep focused on a small child born two thousand years ago.

Rev. Clinton Crawshaw is the Pastor of The Big Easy Metropolitan Community Church in New Orleans. They meet every Sunday at 5pm at 1333 S. Carrollton Ave. NOLA 70118. For details contact pastor@bigeasymcc.com,

www.bigeasymcc.com, 504.214.4340.

one last song

by Donnie "Jager" Jay, SDGM XXXII E-mail: donniejay@hotmail.com

Fund-Raisers, The Other Side of the Coin

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is the season to be jolly and it is the season to be joyous.

It is that time of the year, the season to reach into our pockets and help others, to give to the less fortunate and share the year’s bounty, to thank those who have been so generous to us and share that generosity with those less fortunate. In other words, it is time to rob our coffers, and give away what we can not necessarily afford darning this widening recession.

I am not speaking of those charities that spend their wealth throughout our own community, who are helping with medication, housing and substance for those who can not afford to fend for themselves. These organizations are above reproach, and certainly deserve to be supported to the best of our collective endeavors. I could begin a list here of hundreds of such organizations, and my hat goes off to those involved with them.

Of course each one of us has our favorite charities and the reasons that we support them and what I am about to say certainly is not directed with animosity to any one person, one group or any honorable charity. But rather I suspect it is directed to those among us whom claim to be supporting some of our dearest causes.

Are we all aware that in some cases only a small percentage of the monies we raise for them get to the very people we are trying to help. Sometimes the amount is down right embarrassing. Some of the more national fund-raising concerns actually have expenses that are jacked up beyond sensibilities and from each dollar donated as little as a nickel may reach to help with the cause. Somehow this makes

me cringe, so before you do select which groups to support, check them out thoroughly. Don’t be suckered in.

But I am more concerned about fund-raising on a more local level. I know that many of you have heard people from one charity or another mumble “not another drag show.” I have heard that comment from people you would never expect to mumble such things, but when it comes to fundraising who gets the calls first? THE DRAG QUEENS! That’s right capitalized and on purpose. As an entertainer I am constantly asked by some bar to help out raising monies for one cause or another, some of which I have never heard of and can find out nothing about. “It won’t take much of your time and you have everything you need to do it.” That is the logic they assail me with. And you know, for the most part they are right. It will only take five to ten minutes of my time. Of course they always advertise a starting time, for which I always arrive thirty minutes ahead of so as not to be late for the Overture. Thing is the Overture is never on time, it in many instances is twenty to thirty minutes late or in the case of one bar as much as an hour, the reason? They have two to four times the crowd they usually have and are ringing the register, more about this later. All this time the entertainers are trapped along with the customers and they expect you to drink at your own expense. Now in all fairness some bars do give the entertainers a coupon or two for a free drink. Now if I am getting paid for a show, I don’t mind paying my way.

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by Brad Benedict Email: bradhottails@hotmail.com

December Recollections

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007: I told you all about the new Spanish Town studs Robert and Brandon and all the restoration work they were doing on the home they purchased on Bungalow Lane in the Spanish Town section, with fabulous works of George Dureau occupying prime locations in the residence.

It was also when old times came forth with a chance meeting of Todd, Jules, and Donald at a local Mediterranean restaurant, and we had a lively discussion about Sam. I also told you about how David was such a nice guy and always welcomed me with great hugs when I went to Splash. It was also a time when I recalled the loved ones we had lost during the year.

2006: Some of the guys who are staunch Baton Rougeans were discussed in this column. They included Richard and Guy, TTT, Little John, Gerry, and lots of others. They are here because of their jobs, businesses, or just living with or near relatives. I also told you about all the Christmas decorations in the local bars, and I reminded

you of all the good times at the old Mirror Lounge and the Hide-A-Way. My handsome beauty Suzanne was mentioned as was Minette and Jennifer. I also told you about Joey, who came to Baton Rouge because of Hurricane Katrina, but then how he and his lover had returned to the Crescent City to live and work there.

2005: Christmas was stylishly celebrated at the home of Mark and Jimmy, and it was one of the loveliest parties of the season. The home was elaborately decorated, and the food was simply the best ever. Parties were also held at the home of Elmer and Kevin, Jerry and Joe, and also the big Possa event. It was also a time to complain that “Brokeback Mountain” hadn’t been added to the schedule to be shown in Baton Rouge, and plans were already under way to see it in New Orleans. (It did get added, and the first showing was to a packed house of very happy people that went away afterwards knowing they had seen a masterpiece of filmmaking.)

I also recalled that nice preacher’s boy I met in Washington, D.C. at the library

convention. (I still recall that remarkable experience – attending the convention, that is.) The end of an era came with the sale of the building and the closing of Hibiscus Bookstore on Main Street. Good times were many for the year, so all was not bad, and things moved along smoothly into the new year.

2004: Doubloons and L were new to the scene in Red Stick, and this added to the outlets available for gay people here. Drusilla Shopping Center became the new home for Larry’s Four Seasons Flowers and Gifts, which he opened with new partner Hal. The move came about because of all the work being done for the new interstate 20 entrance from Essen going east, and people could not get to the old location. I also told you about a friend from college and all the good times we had together.

With his birthday coming up on January 1, the memories of past birthdays were recalled fondly. It was another good year for all the gay businesses in the capital city, and everyone was looking forward to the big New Years Eve parties.

2003: Do you remember Daryl from George’s? I found him to be an exceptional young man, and I told you all about him. I also told you about another great dinner with my good buddy John D, or Little John as many of you know him. We met for another great Mexican dinner at El Rio Grande and drank a

margarita or two. This guy is a gem of humanity, and I love him dearly - then, now, and always. It was Christmas party time again, and, of course, there is always the excellent one given by our sexy lawyer Joseph. It was a time to also recall the wonderful memories of the great times I had as the sponsor of Mark Colley, who won the Mr. Louisiana Leather title. We traveled everywhere together, and it was a great experience for me and a time in my life that I will never forget. I never thought loving leather could be so great until I met this most remarkable and charming young man.

It was also a time when Richard, Guy, Dwayne, and so many other Red Stickers headed out to Atlanta to cheer the Tigers to victory. The only sad thing that was recalled for the year was the way the Lafayette school system had treated the child of gay parents. It was shameful.

2002: It was a time for dancing naked and loving it. I remember it so well, and it was a joy to experience this with the sexy owner of the Phoenix, Jamie. I had never done that before but it seemed so natural. My only concern at the time was wondering if Chuck, who was asleep in the front bedroom, would wake up and catch us. He didn’t, but it might have been nice if he had.

The Mystic Krewe of Royalty had a big show at George’s with Effie Marie, [continued on Expose-8]

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Monique Claiborne, Angelica Claiborne, Martini Cocktail (their new Miss Merry Christmas), and Mercedes Starr performing. And I recalled the good times at Icon too. I talked for a long time to Karen and Dallas, and it was a reunion of sorts with Victoria Valentine and Sophelia Groin. Victoria and Sophelia were performers in the show that night.

Kevin and Wayne were also there. Also in this column was my way of thanking so many dear friends including Leonard, who I miss so much since his passing.

I didn’t forget Colla either, and I was ever so proud of Gleeson and Bryan, Kenny and John over in Lafayette, my good friend Sam, and lovable Winstead, Rip and Marsha, Sharie, and so many others.

2001: Tommy was all excided about Vilnis being here from Latvia. The way Tommy explained it, this young man could just about put Ken Ryker to shame, and I think this was what drew our Acadiana friend to this stud. At any rate, it was an interesting time. I also went into detail about two Icon studs Buddy and Sammy. They were a great team then as they are to this day and now living in Las Vegas along with Tommy, Hair, and others. It was also a time to thank Scott for the experience of a lifetime. It was X-rated so not much was told, but it really was nice. Ken and Truman were honored as the new royalty of the Krewe of Apollo with an announcement party at the home of a former royalty member Bruce. Names like Waymon and Charlyn also were a part of the scene as was my good friend Michael and his Mark.

2000: The Possa party was spotlighted again, but so were the smaller ones at the homes of Jamie and Joe, Colla and Jay, and Leonard, who actually gave parties all year by way of fabulous dinner engagements. I also talked about several nice couples, but I won’t mention them here because some are no longer in the duo category. I can mention three because they are still going strong. Richard and Guy just seem to get better with age. Then you have James and Kyle (now of Hound Dogs) and formerly of Buddies, Time Zone, Mac’s, and some I can’t recall at the moment. Then there was Paul and Michael of Blue Parrot, Bogart’s, or The Cage. Just take your pick. Then there was George and Patrick at Evolution.

As to singles, I could never forget Charlie, a loving and caring man who is still missed in the gay community here.

1999: It was a nice time of the year especially when I was hanging out with my computer friend Gerry, or Mark of Back Street in Lafayette, and John G. of Sound Factory in Lafayette and Crystal’s in Lake Charles. It was also more fun at Evolution with ever-so-nice Dallas and a gorgeous little stud named Jeff, who warmed the cockles of my heart and other body parts. I recall Corey as being [continued on Expose-14]

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museum/arts Baton Rouge, LA [225] LOUISIANAARTS AND SCIENCE CENTER / RIVERSIDE MUSEUM, 100 S. River Road, 344.5272 LOUISIANA GOVERNOR'S MANSION, 1001 Capitol Access Rd., 342.5855 LOUISIANA STATEARCHIVES, 3851 Essen Ln. LOUISIANA STATE CAPITOL, State Capitol Dr. LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY HILLTOP ARBORETUM, 11855 Highland Rd., 767.6916 LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY RURAL LIFE MUSEUM, I-10 at Essen Lane, 765.2437 LSU MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE and

New Orleans [504] SKULLY'Z RECORDZ, 907 Bourbon St.

organizations Mobile, AL ALABAMA PRIDE FEST, MobileAlabamaPride.COM AQUA, THE PARTY, PO Box 145, Mobile, AL 36601, TheAquaParty.COM BAY AREA INCLUSION, BayAreaInclusion.ORG FUSION, MobileFusion.ORG GULF COAST BEARS & LEATHER ASSOCIATION, b-bobs.com/gcbla.htm Pensacola, FL [850] APPETITE FOR LIFE, INC., provides 2 nutritionally balanced meals a day-lunch & dinner, for some 60 men, women and children living with HIV/AIDS, 1842 West Cervantes St.; Mail: P.O. Box 308, 32592-0308; 470.9111, Fax: 470.0201, gaypensacola.com/appforlife GULF COAST TIDE, INC. w w w . G u l f C o a s t T I D E . o r g ; info@GulfCoastTIDE.org Alexandria, LA [318] CLASS [Central Louisiana AIDS Support Services], 103 Bolton Ave., 71301; 1.800.444.7993, 442. 1 0 1 0, FAX: 443.5216 Baton Rouge, LA [225] HAART (HIV/AIDS Alliance for Region Two), 4550 North Blvd., #250, 927.1269, Fax: 927.7367, haartinc.org, haartinc@aol.com GBLSU [Gays, Bisexuals, Lesbians & Supporters United], glsapres@unixl.sncc.

Isu.edu, Kristy Price, President, 388.5160 KREWE OF APOLLO / BATON ROUGE, PO Box 3591, 70821; kreweapollobr.org

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KREWE OF DIVAS, kreweofdivas.com, 343.0380 LAMBDA GROUP, 2937 Greenwood Dr., PO Box 82775, 70884-2775, 907.3665, www.lambdabr.org, info@lambdabr.org LEWIS HUMPHREY’S FOOD FOR FRIENDS, 387.9798

Perez Dr., Chalmette, LA 70043, 504.279.6312

photography New Orleans, LA [504] GRAHAM/STUDIO ONE NEW ORLEANS, by appointment, grahamstudioone.com, cafepress.com/grahamimages

METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH OF BATON ROUGE, 7747 Tom Drive, 70806, Worship Sunday, 11am, Bible Study Wednesday, 7pm, 225.248.0404, mccbr.org MYSTIC KREWE OF ROYALTY, PO Box 66571, 70896; 926.1698 PFLAG Baton Rouge, Harold L. Truax, 33370 Percy Young Rd., Walker, LA 70785; 225.218.8320, 225.288.2522 Lafayette, LA [337] ACADIANA CARES [Concern for AIDS Relief, Education, and Support], PO Box 386, Lafayette, LA 70502; 203 W. 3rd St., 70501; 233.2437, FAX: 235.4178; 800.354.2437 KREWE OFAPOLLO / LAFAYETTE, PO Box 53251, 70505 LEAGUE FOR EQUALITY, PO Box 53425, 70505 PFLAG/LAFAYETTE, PO Box 31078, 70503 ROYAL ORDER OF UNICORN, PO Box 3985, 70502 Monroe, LA [318] GO CARE 2121 Justice, 71201, 325.1092 New Orleans, LA [504] AIDS HOTLINE, 821.6050 in New Orleans, 1.800.99.AIDS[2437]-9 toll free statewide ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, 828.3399 BELLE REVE NEW ORLEANS, AIDS Residence for Families, PO Box 3305, 70177; 945.9455 BIG EASY M.C.C. (Metropolitan Community Church of Greater New Orleans), Sunday Worship at St Matthew’s UCC, 1333 S. Carrollton Ave. at Willow. Fellowship after service. Mailing address: 1333 S. Carrolllton Ave. New Orleans, LA, 70118; 213.4340, p a s t o r @ b i g e a s y m c c . c o m , www.bigeasymcc.com BROTHERHOOD, INC., To decrease the spread of AIDS and HIV among African Americans, 1661 Canal St., Suite 3230, 70112; 566.7955 CAVALIERS MOTORCYCLE CLUB: Gay motocycle group sponsors monthly day rides and other riding events in New Orleans area.

Visit www.cavaliersmc.comc or call 782.5625 or e-mail info@cavaliersmc.com.

CHURCH OF CHRIST THE LIBERATOR, Sun. 11am Service, 607 Marigny St. (behind The Friendly Bar), ChristTheLiberator.ORG COMING OUT SUPPORT GROUP, meets 1st Wed. of each month, 7:30-9pm, Info: Liz 482.4012; Lesbian & Gay Community Center, 2114 Decatur St., 70116; 945.1103 COMMUNITY ACTION NETWORK, a project of the NO/AIDS Task Force which works with the gay community to implement HIV prevention activities, 507 Frenchmen St., 945.4000, noaidstaskforce.com COPS 8 (Citizens' Organization for Police Support in the 8th District), 840 N. Rampart St., #51, 70116; 588.COPS (2677), cops8.org DRAMA! [A Gay & Lesbian Arts Organization], PO Box 52565, 70152; 948.9924, DramaNO.org, DRAMA@DramaNO.org FOOD FOR FRIENDS, 944.6028 FORUM FOR EQUALITY, 336 Lafayette, Suite 200, 70130; 947.2981, ForumForEquality@aol.com FOUNDATION FOR MACRO BIOTIC WAY, enjoy-life.com GAY APPRECIATION AWARDS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137; 522.8049; AmbushMag.COM/GAA GAY COUNSELING LINE, 833.1500 GLSEN [Gay Lesbian & Straight Education Network], 482.4081, Fax 595.8587, E-mail: glsenno@hotmail.com, glsenno.org GULF GENDER ALLIANCE [GGA], NonProfit Support Group for Transgender persons.

Monthly meetings, socials and political activism.

Privacy respected and expected. Interview required. Nondiscriminatory. Call 504. 324.4035 or write PO Box 56836, New Orleans, LA

printers New Orleans, LA [504] SIR SPEEDY, 343 Carondelet, 586.9812

real estate 70156-6836; gga.org, E-mail: info@gga.org HALLOWEEN IN NEW ORLEANS, INC., PO Box 52171, 70152-2171; halloween neworleans.com HATE CRIMES HOTLINE, c/o Family Service of Greater New Orleans, 504.202.2131.

The Hate Crimes Project offers to assist those who feel that they may have been a victim of a hate crime. The project provides advocacy for persons victimized due to race, religion, gender and gender identity, age, disability, and/or sexual orientation.

IN THIS TOGETHER, HIV/AIDS Case Management, 1661 Canal Street, Suite 3107, 70112; 962.3245, is www.inthistogetherinc.org, itt@accesscom.net KOCKTAIL BUNCH BOWLING LEAGUE, Contact Glenn Culp, 504.861.0233 KREWE OF ARMEINIUS, PO Box 56638, New Orleans, LA 70156-6638, cetubby@cox.net, KreweOfArmeinius.ORG KREWE OF AMON RA, PO Box 7033, Metairie, LA 70010, KreweOfAmonRa.COM KREWE OF MWINDO, PO Box 51031, 70156; 913.5791, KreweOfMwindo.ORG, krewe@kreweofmwindo.org KREWE OF PETRONIUS, PO Box 71665, 70172, Pres. Arthur Alarcon 451.9507, Capt. Bill McCarthy 430.6695, Sec. Mae Falgout 484.6045, http://kreweofpetronius.tripod.com KREWE OF QUEENATEENAS / KING CAKE QUEEN ROYALTY CLUB, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM/ KCQ LaCARP [Louisiana Community AIDS Research Program], 584.1971 LA-LIFT, Social Club for Lesbians, age 50+, who have fun together on weekends. Email: armyvet20@webtv.net LAMBDA CENTER, 831 Elysian Fields Ave., 70117 LEAGUE OF WOMEN VOTERS OF NEW ORLEANS, 234 Loyola, Suite 421, 70112; 581.9106 LESBIAN & GAY COMMUNITY CENTER OF NEW ORLEANS, 2114 Decatur St., 701162013; 945.1103, Fax 945.1102, Email: info@lgccno.net LORDS OF LEATHER, P.O. Box 770435, New Orleans, LA 70071-4035, LordsOfLeather.COM LOUISIANA STATE GAY RODEO ASSOCIATION (LSGRA), 915.3339, lance@lsgra.com, LSGRA.COM MCLNO HOP Clinic, 136 S. Roman Street, 4th Floor, New Orleans, LA 70112; Appts.: 504.903.6959, www.hopclinic.org METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH OF GREATER NEW ORLEANS, Sunday Friendship Hour 4:15pm, Worship/Celebration, 5pm at St Matthew’s UCC, 1333 Carrollton Ave. at Willow; Mailing Address: PO Box 71024, 70172; 945.5390, www.mccgno.com MYSTIC KNIGHTS OF ADONIS, 236.4530, Adonis-TLC.COM, MYSTIC KREWE OF SATYRICON, 1021 Gov. Nicholls St., 70116, 525.4498, MysticKreweOfSatyricon.COM NEW ORLEANS BEAR & BEAR TRAPPER SOCIAL CLUB, PO Box 740894, 70174-0894; 529.6975, www.neworleansbears.com NEW ORLEANS GAY MEN’S CHORUS, 948.6884, nogmc.com; nogmc@aol.com NEW ORLEANS JAZZ & HERITAGE FESTIVAL, nojazzfest.com NEW ORLEANS WOMEN’S MUSIC COL-

LECTIVE, 2903 Jefferson Ave., 70115; Ann 838.7918, Sydney 833.2834 NO/AIDS TASK FORCE, 2601 Tulane Ave., Suite 500, 70119; 821.2601; NOAIDSTaskForce.COM N'R Peace, 3201 Gen. DeGaulle Dr., Suite 201, 70114, 364.1950 MOC/NO [Men of Color/New Orleans], 482.5341 OFFICIAL GAY EASTER PARADE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, info@gayeasterparade.com, GayEasterParade.COM OFFICIAL GAY MARDI GRAS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM OFFICIAL GAY NEW ORLEANS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayNewOrleans.COM OFFICIAL SOUTHERN DECADENCE, 828A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, SouthernDecadence.COM PEOPLE OF SUBSTANCE, INC. (POS), 7210 Arbor Dr., 70126, 244.1920, posnola.com PFLAG/NO [Parents & Friends of Lesbians & Gays/ New Orleans], PO Box 15515, 70175; 895.3936, 392.0001, pflagno.org, info@pflagno.org PRIDEFEST NEW ORLEANS, presented

by New Orleans Alliance of Pride, 1000 Bourbon St., Box 365, New Orleans, LA 70116; pridefestneworleans@yahoo.com, www.nolapridefest.org PROJECT LAZARUS, A Residence for PWAs, PO Box 3906, 70177-3906; 949.3609 REGIONALAIDS INTERFAITH NETWORK [RAIN], 523.3755 TAU HOUSE MINISTRIES, 1029 Governor Nicholls, 70116, roddyssnd@aol.com, 529.3569. Mass on Sunday 4:15pm; Vespers on Monday, Wednesday, Friday 6pm. Everyone is welcome!

TO DO PRODUCTIONS, 948.9608, www.todoproductions.org VOLLEYBALL NEW ORLEANS, PO Box 13306, 70185-3306; volleyballneworleans.com, postmaster@volleyballneworleans.com WILLIAM J. FANNING FOUNDATION [Buzzy’s Boys & Girls], 2301 Chartres, 70117; 943.8929 Shreveport, LA [318] KREWE OF APOLLO/SHREVEPORT, PO Box 4918, 71134 PHILADELPHIA CENTER, PO Box 44454, 71134-4454; 222.6633 YWCAAIDS MINORITY COMMUNITY OUTREACH, 700 Pierre Ave., 71103; 226.8717 Dallas, TX [214] KREWE OF APOLLO-DALLAS, KreweofApollo-Dallas.com Houston, TX [713] PRIDE COMMITTEE OF HOUSTON, PO Box 66071, 77266-6071; 529.6979, Fax 529.6929, info@pridehouston.org, pride houston.org

pets CHI-WA-WA GA-GA, 37 French Market Place, 70116; 581.4242; chiwawagaga.com FRENCH QUARTER PET ASYLUM, 510 Dumaine St., 274.0810

New Orleans, LA [504] LATTER & BLUM, Agent Mary Lind, 948.3011, 539.9742, 581.2020 PRUDENTIAL GARDNER REALTORS, Agent Brett A. Rector, Cell: 453.2277, Office: 861.6400, brettinla@aol.com PRUDENTIAL GARDNER REALTORS, Agent Cathy Espenan, Cell: 344.2116, Office: 861.7575

restaurants New Orleans, LA [504] Bywater Restaurant, Deli & BBQ,3162 Dauphine St., 944.4445 Cafe Amelie, 912 Royal St., 412.8965 Clover Grill, 900 Bourbon St., 598.1010, CloverGrill.COM Country Club Restaurant, 634 Louisa St., TheCountryClubNewOrleans.COM, 945.0742 Krystal, 116 Bourbon at Canal, 523.4030 La Peniche, 1940 Dauphine St., 943.1460 Magazine Perks, 4332 Magazine, 899.2911, MagazinePerks.COM Marigny Perks, 2401 Burgundy, 948.7401, MarignyPerks.COM Mona Lisa Restaurant, 1212 Royal St., 522.6746

NOLA Smoothies, 315 Decatur St., 302.1185 Orleans Grapevine, 720 Orleans, 523.1930 Petunias, A Restaurant, Cajun, Creole, Crepes, Cocktails, 817 St. Louis, 70112; 522.6440 Quartermaster: The Nellie Deli, 1100 Bourbon St. , 529.1416 Tomatillo's Restaurant, 437 Esplanade Ave., 945.9997

retail/shopping New Orleans, LA [504] ALTERNATIVES, 907 Bourbon St., 70116; 524.5222 BEAR NECESSITIES, 940 Decatur, 598.2134, BearsAndHares.COM BOURBON-STRIP TEASE, 205 Bourbon St., 70130; 581.6633, bourbontease.com ESTATE TREASURES CONSIGNMENT SHOP, 2014 Magazine, 679.6600 THE HERB IMPORT COMPANY, 711 St. Peter [in French Quarter], 525.4372; 5055 Canal St. [near City Park Ave.], 488.4889 PANDA BEAR, 415 Bourbon St., 529.8064 QUEEN FASHIONS.COM, queenfashions.com, exoticfashionmall.com RAB DAB CLOTHING AND GIFTS, 918 Royal St., 525.6662 SERENDIPITOUS MASKS, 831 Decatur St., 522.9158 SECOND SKIN LEATHER, 521 St. Philip St., 561.8167 TOP DRAWER ANTIQUES, 4310/18 Magazine St., TopDrawerAntiques.NET WICKED ORLEANS, 1201 Decatur, 529.4384, WickedOrleans.COM

Austin, TX [512] TAPELENDERS VIDEO/OUTLINES MENSWEAR AUSTIN, 1114 West 5th St., 472.0844, www.tapelenders.com

pharmacy

spas

New Orleans, LA [504] MUMFREY'S PHARMACY, 1021 W. Judge

Ft. Lauderdale, FL [954] CLUB FT. LAUDERDALE, 400 W. Broward

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hot tails of red stick ...from Ex-8 a real live wire guy, and Tim was a sweetie. Big Dick and Trixxie were working the door, and Raymond and Karen were dishing out the music. David and Ken gave a fabulous party at their home in Spanish Town, and everyone really enjoyed it. The Louisiana Power ExchangeAssociation was going strong, and I believe there must have been 50 friends mentioned in this year-end column. In fact, I ran into one, namely Tom, while delivering Ambush this week. I hadn’t seen him for awhile, but he and other half Don were living in Atlanta when I knew them so long ago. And I mentioned Raquel who I predicted would someday be Miss Gay America, but I also noted all my Lords of Leather friends, those at Oz (Johnny, Cy, and Tommy), chef/hostess Jay, King Cake Queen Stephanie, and, of course, Rip and Marsha and so many, many more.

1998: Time came for the closing of the Blue Parrot with a big blowout put on my Don and Tom. Greg was one of the bartenders as was Delman at this time with George working security at this Oklahoma Street bar. Oh, the great times I had there. Bogart’s had a big

Blvd., 525.3344, www.the-clubs.com Atlanta, GA [404] FLEX ATLANTA, 76 Fourth St., 815.0456 New Orleans, LA [504] CLUB NEW ORLEANS, 515 Toulouse, 581.2402, www.the-clubs.com FLEX NEW ORLEANS, 700 Baronne St., 598.FLEX [3539] SPA ATLANTIS PROFESSIONAL SPA & SALON, 740 Gravier St., 566.8088, SpaAtlantis.NET Dallas, TX [214] CLUB DALLAS, 2616 Swiss Ave., 821.1990, www.the-clubs.com Houston, TX [713] CLUB HOUSTON, 2205 Fannin St., 659.4998, www.the-clubs.com

tattoos/piercings New Orleans, LA [504] AART ACCENT TATTOO & PIERCING, 1041 N. Rampart in French Quarter, 581.9812

theatres New Orleans, LA [504] LE PETIT THEATRE DU VIEUX CARE, 616 St. Peter, 522.2081 MARIGNY THEATRE, 1030 Marigny St., 947.0505 VOODOO MYSTERE LOUNGE THEATRE, 817 N. Rampart St., 304.1568

websites CRESCENT CITY, CrescentCity.COM GAY AMERICA, GayAmerica.COM GAY AUSTIN, GayAustin.NET GAY BARS, GayBars.COM GAY PENSACOLA, GayPensacola.COM OFFICIAL GAY EASTER PARADE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayEasterParade.COM OFFICIAL GAY MARDI GRAS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM OFFICIAL GAY NEW ORLEANS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayNewOrleans.COM OFFICIAL SOUTHERN DECADENCE, 828A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, SouthernDecadence.COM

Metropolitan Community Church bash, and James and Kyle had Sondra and Michelle performing for them. Marie wanted everyone to know she was a free woman and looking for connections at the Hide-A-Way, and DJ Darlene was spinning the records. George, Obry, and Jim had big plans for Evolution.

Kevin was doing a lot of work at the Capitol, and Damon was pleased to have the autographed picture from Keanu. Bill and Dean were on the scene, and Big Dick was taking a lot of printing orders. (He still does – take print orders.) I also ran into two Mr. Butt Beautifuls from 1998 and 1999, and one showed me his new apparatus. Don’t you just love apparatuses?

1997: Sam was the Apollo kingelect, and his co-workers gave him a fabulous party. There was a big Krewe of Hedon party this year, and lots of friends were in attendance. I recall Debbie being there but minus Claudette who was sick. Josie and Effie came with her. Stephanie, a former queen of the Krewe of Hedon, was very beautiful and looked so elegant in that black gown. Damon and Tommy represented the Krewe of Apollo, and Leonard was the rep for the Krewe of Sparta. There was a fundraiser at the Mirror Lounge for Bettina Sheets. Entertainment was by Marilyn Mills, Mariah Holiday, Sashincie, Yvette LeVeaux, Effie Marie, Alicia Summers, Stephanie Holiday, Rob Johnson, George Knight, Onnie, the Rev. Don Clarke, Courtney O’Neal, and Veronica Monrey. Kyle and Brian were operating Mystik Treasurers as well as the Mystik Coffee Shop on Government Street. Naiad Press of Florida was going strong as a major publisher of books by lesbian authors.

They were strong supporters of Hibiscus Bookstore in the early years. Allan’s FM Bookstore in New Orleans was also a wonderful place to be at any time of the year and was also supported by Naiad. I also told you about Mary Bess, a very beautiful human being.

And Time Moves On

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ell, it’s time to move on to what is going on in December of 2008, but I do hope you enjoyed a little look through past Decembers. They were glorious years, full of fun, full of sadness, but always full of great friendships. These continue today, and some have grown so much stronger over the years. We’ve lost many of our friends, but we have also gained a lot of new ones, so life goes on.

Once again, the Christmas season will be filled with wonderful parties at all the bars and in private homes. In fact, as I write this column, I’m looking forward to a big one tonight – well, a big party anyway.

When I delivered Ambush this week, I had to smile when I got to Splash. Corey was there painting his [continued on Expose-17]

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Kyle, Joy, James & Katie Richard & Little Corey

Danielle & Chansley

Guy & Richard at holiday dinner Dwayne & Joseph

Santa Baby

Luther again

Karaoke time again Jeffrey & Walt

Lady Rhonda rocks

Rocky & Chansley

Very nice foursome at George’s

Damon & David at Splash Michael & Graham Richard & Chansley smooching

Cody & Todd

Cory corners some cuties

Jason at Hound Dogs

Miss Jeanne & Damon at Hound Dogs

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Ready for the Holidays ~ Baton Rouge, Louisiana ~ Photos by Brad Benedict

Brad on duty at Splash

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by Patrick Clinton Email: BlondAtULL@aol.com

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raduation and Christmas are both less than a week away, and right afterward is New Year’s Eve. The season of celebration here in Lafayette has officially begun, and the parties won’t end until Mardi

Gras.

And everybody’s favorite pair of gay bars is already working hard to make sure this holiday season is better than ever before. The Sound Factory and Back Side are tirelessly preparing for the upcoming holidays. On Sunday, December 21st, John, Mark, and the rest of the crew are hosting their annual Christmas Party, and I know it will be a night to remember. So grab your sweaters and get ready for a night of food, fun and festivities.

And just one week afterward, The Sound Factory and Back Side will hold their unforgettable New Year’s Eve Extravaganza. There will be good friends and party one last song ...from Expose-4 Most of us do not use over the counter discount stuff. Personally I use professional stage make-up, all of which runs a pretty penny, a well stocked make-up kit with sable brushes, sponges, applicators, toners, bases, eye colors, liners, lip rouges, lip gloss, rouge, eye lashes, glues, highlighters will run upward of hundreds of dollars. Even more if the over the counter make-up is a name brand. Add to that the cost of wigs purchased ($35 to $400 dollars each) styled professionally, the hair spray and sheen applied backstage. The CD’s, I have spent hundreds of dollars each year buying obscure albums to find new comic material. Then there is the jewelry, go out and price some of the earrings, necklaces and baubles and try not to faint. Then there are the outfits, can we talk some cash here?

Price some of those better sequined gowns in sizes that will fit a drag.

Material, I sew a lot of my own things and have been known to pay upward of $50 a yard. The outfits for the most part have to be cleaned after two wearings, and I don’t mean with Fabreeze either, try dry cleaning. Now what was that?

The night won’t cost me that much right!

Then comes the matter of transportation, I don’t drive, so unless I can con a ride from some one it means I will have to get a cab to and from the club. Let me think this through. I imagine it would be fair considering, the wear and tear on my wardrobe, the use of my material and make-up it would probably be fair to say it costs me about $75 a show. Now here is the real kicker, I am required to turn over 100% of my stage tips. The question I pose here, the host bars doubles or triples its cash register ring or even more. Why aren’t they giving a percentage of the register to the charity and maybe let the entertainers keep half of their tips if they wish to cut their expenses or if not, just let them decide.

You know that in many cases there's not even a representative of the charity there to collect the money at the end of

the evening and more times than not ton even at the door.

Krewes and clubs for the most part raise funds like this to help with their expenses and for the most part their members are the ones doing the entertaining. This is what they do and the volunteers they use are doing it fully aware of where the monies are going.

The Gay Easter Parade raises money for Food for Friends and the Gay Appreciation Awards raises money for Buzzy’s Boys and Girls and their expenses are accounted for and published with-in thirty days. PrideFest basically dies or rather did the same thing. Has anyone seen an accounting of this year’s expense as yet?

Many people ask me why I am not at every fund-raiser like some others are. I am writing this to try and set the record straight. If I belong to a group or club, I am there. If I know for sure where the money is going, I am there. I cannot attend everything as I admit, I am growing old and my own health is not all that great.

To every Drag Artist and Entertainer who gives and gives and gives, my lashes are off to you, how often have you heard those words “not another drag show?” But when they need cash in their coffers who are the first people they call on? Right sisters! THE DRAG QUEENS! You may contact me at donniejay@hotmail.com.

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hot tails of red stick ...from Ex-14 balls, and I want you to know that they were huge balls. I’d never seen anything like them before. David was assisting him with the glitter, and Quentin and a real cutie (damn – I forgot his name – Chris maybe?) were putting up garlands around the bar. Well, since I failed

favors and champagne and anything else you can dream of. It’ll be one last blowout to celebrate 2008 and welcome in 2009. So make sure you get their early. You definitely don’t want to miss the last best party of the year.

Besides hosting the most fabulous parties and celebrations in town, the Sound Factory and Back Side always make sure that every night of the week is its own special party. They are open seven days a week and always have something incredible planned. Whether you’re looking for a quick drink after work or a wild night on the town, there separate weekly lineups make even the most uneventful night fresh and new.

From Show nights on Sunday and Karaoke on Tuesdays to their unforgettable Dance Parties every Friday and

Saturday, when you plan a night out at Sound Factory and Back Side, you know it’s going to be an adventure. And with ever changing drink specials, you’re sure to get a great deal. What more can you ask for? It’s two bars in one, and it won’t break you’re pocket book. So this holiday season, make sure you remember your friends at the Sound Factory and Back Side. The holidays wouldn’t be the same without them.

to get that cutie’s name, I guess I will have to go back and check him out. It’s always nice to be able to add new names and faces to the hot tails family of great ones.

Things were lively at George’s too.

Marvelous Michael greeted me at the door, and that is always a treat, but I also enjoyed my chat with Tom. I’ll have to get back over there soon to see Richard, Guy, Chansley, and that wonderful Luther. I haven’t met the new bartender Andy, and that is reason enough for heading back over there. I need to check back in at Splash too and see all my wonderful guys and gals there – Danny, Ty, Stephen, Brad, Wes, Karen, Scott, Landon, Jeff, and, of course, Lance, the most gorgeous of all the Mr. Butt Beautiful winners. I think of them often, but I just don’t care to keep late-night hours that much. I’m usually up at 4am having my first cup of coffee and planning my schedule for the day.

Every now and then I surprise everyone with my late-night visits, but I’m an early bird and really enjoy the happy hour periods. I’ve spent many of those at George’s and the old Mirror Lounge, and I have fond memories of all those I spent when in New Orleans at Lafitte’s usually with Brian who now lives in Tampa.

I also made it over to Hound Dogs for my latest visit with Miss Jeanne. I didn’t get to stay as long as I would have liked, but I had lots of other errands to run before getting home. Johnny was outstandingly friendly as usual, and the bar was rather crowded for so early in the evening. I’m sure some of the guys were downtown workers who just stopped in for a drink before heading home. I know this is Miss Jeanne’s regular routine. We are still planning to hit New Orleans one of these days. I look forward to that. I have to also get back to Hound Dogs to see Joy and give her my best wishes for a great holiday, and perhaps I’ll run into James and Kyle too.

The lights are on in the downtown area, and it is really a festive sight.

North Boulevard is always covered in lights from the Old State Capitol all the way to the interstate. One block breaks the theme this year with the new governmental building still in the process of going up, but it will be nice when it is completed. The skyline has changed so much in recent years. Actually, Baton Rouge had finally realized that progress is the only way to fly, and the city has taken wings. Now if the proper funding can be found, the riverfront will be completed all the way up to the Capitol, with a park being planned across from the Pentagon Barracks.

The Capitol grounds look different after Gustav spread his wrath across the city. The historic Boyd Oak is gone, and so many of the trees were heavily damaged. It will take a while for them to recover, but things just don’t look the same without that beautiful old oak. I’m so happy I have lots of pictures of it. I have enjoyed walking under its spreading branches so many times, and now there is just an open space where it once stood so gracefully. Hopefully, it can be replaced with an offspring like the other one that was destroyed several years ago. A young tree started from one of her acorns is growing there now. That tree was a part of the elaborate decorations the year all the Copeland lights were at the State Capitol. I forget why it was removed, but I believe it split in half and couldn’t be saved.

Trees and lights are all over the city.

That time of the year is here again, so quickly it seems, but that happens as you grow older. The days slip away, but the changes keep coming. It’s about time for me to get back to the Shaw Center and dine at Tsunami and watch the sun set over the Atchafalaya Basin.

It’s such a beautiful view from there. As this year comes to an end, let me wish you all the very best of the season and a very special wish goes out to Splash’s David for a speedy recovery. We all love you, my friend.

It’s always nice chatting with you.

Let’s do it some more in 2009.

With so many celebrations going on, it’s easy to forget to be responsible.

Make sure you always have a designated driver, and if that doesn’t work out, you can always take a cab. It’s better to spend a few extra dollars than become another holiday statistic. Until next time, have fun and be safe. I’ll see you around the Downtown.

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Robin & Jessica having drinks at Sound Factory

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Matt & Amanda at Sound Factory Reggie relaxing at Back Side

Steve working the door at Sound Factory

Blake & Jeffrey partying at Sound Factory

Mallory & Amy enjoying a night at Sound Factory

Thomas cutting up at Sound Factory

Chris taking a quick break at Back Side

Whitney is all smiles at Sound Factory Travis out & about at Sound Factory

Trey & Kennedy at Sound Factory

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Erin bartending at Sound Factory

Stephanie looking fabulous at Sound Factory

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Saints, Trash Disco & Grape Leaves

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ollowing the moving dedica-tion of the New Orleans AIDS Memorial in Washington Square Park, it was over to JohnPaul’s to catch the end of the Saints game. By the time we got there, it was over, and our boys, the Saints, had lost once again. Oh well, there’s always next week for a win! Paul and John were in as was John’s sister. Eva was there along with Elizabeth and Stephen, Cathy and Barry, and several others. They were in a jolly mood enjoying the Tailgate eats and left overs of Marcy birthday cake from the show from the night before. Red popped in from the Phoenix for a few snacks. She mentioned the Corner Pocket. Thank goodness! We almost forgot about Micheal’s PostThanksgiving Feast at 5pm. After another cocktail or two, we headed back to Bourbon Street.

We popped into Lafitte’s for a couple of Trash Disco tunes and a couple more vodkas. Both Aletha and Jeff were slingin’ cocktails and the festive crowd was moving into high gear. DJ Johnny Love was showcasing the club’s traditional Sunday videos which fans come back for more and more each week.

A short cab ride brought us to The Corner Pocket. As we opened the door to enter, the smells of holiday cooking drifted right to us. Heading to the bar, we got a couple of drinks, before taking a seat. Michael and Tommy were putting out the finishing touches on the the Pocket’s Post-Thanksgiving buffet along with the help of Jerry. Bruce came in about that time. Let’s see ...the last time we ran into him was when he was trying to sneak out of the digs of Miss Ashlee early one morning on St. Ann Street. Can y’all imagine, an early morning tryst between Bruce and Ashlee. Husband hunting must really be bad these days. But enough thinking about that. We certainly didn’t want to ruin our appetites. After all, the Elias brothers had whipped up a batch of their famous stuffed grape leaves. These were the biggest, longest ones they’ve ever done. And did we say delicious?!? Yes, and of course there was turkey, Miss Ashlee’s holiday dressing, potatoes, desserts and so much more. But those grape leaves were our favorites and we had to go back for a few more. It was time to head home for a good nights rest after a delightful action packed day in old N’awlins.

Visits, Cocktails, Red Beans & Butter

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t’s now World AIDS Day, December 1st. After getting all of our pre-delivery day chores done, it was off to the bank. We love to do a little window shopping on the way to and returning from there. The jewelry and antiques are always stunning. But we are on a budget and can’t afford any big ticket items. So it was off to the Double Play to take advantage of Happy Hour. John was slingin’ cocktails and had a bevy of colorful locals. This is one stop that is always a scream! And John’s sense of humor gives us the giggles!

A short walk down Dauphine taking a left on St. Peter landed us at 700 Club on the corner of Burgundy. Proprietor Mike was behind the bar, and we had to thank him once again for the marvelous culinary treats we took advantage of on Thanksgiving. His mom and godmother were such a pleasure chatting with. We had a little excitement when this young straight couple who had crossed over came in. Mike wouldn’t serve them so they threw a fit, and broke his sidewalk board sign on the way out of the door.

They went down the street a couple of doors and banged on the shutters of the home there. The police were called and arrived just as the couple walked right

into their arms. There was some more hollering and finally, they were taken away. These youngsters learned a lesson the hard way.

Two more blocks down Burgundy we went stopping in at Rawhide. Denny Sommers was serving cocktails here.

He’s one of the candidates for the upcoming Mr. LSGRA (Louisiana State Gay Rodeo Association) competition set for Saturday, March 7, 2009. Larry and his baby, Barnebus were in the house. Catch their pics in this edition.

A short cab ride to Cutter’s brought us in for Monday’s Bean Night with bartender Chris. After a couple of cocktails we tried the red beans, sausage and rice. As usual, Mac had whipped up a good batch. Here the guys serve a big restaurant size block of butter for the French bread accompanying the beans.

When you put the bread on top of the hot beans, the butter just melts. It’s definitely a Paula Dean moment!

Delivery, Construction & LSGRA

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fter last delivery day came to a close, it was definitely time for a cocktail or two since we start around 5am and don’t get done till 4:30 or 5pm. That is definitely a long day. The lovely Donnie Jay was slingin’ cocktails at Tubby's Golden

Lantern. Miss Petit was there along with Chester and several other locals.

We ran into Matt from The Guide out of Boston and bar baron Rick. Things are really shaping up at the Lantern. The two old bathrooms have been torn out in the reorganization of the space. There’s even a new gas fire place to keep us warm in this bout of cold weather. We couldn’t drink to much since we were off to a meeting.

Yes, it was off to Cowpokes for the Royalty Committee meeting followed by the general monthly membership meeting for LSGRA (Louisiana State Gay Rodeo Association). Bill was behind the bar so cocktails were available to those who wanted them. The LSGRA Royalty competition will be held on Saturday, March 7, 2009 at Cowpokes.

The group has decided to do the Royalty competition the second Saturday after Mardi Gras each year. Did y’all know that LSGRA did such a great job on the 24th International Gay Rodeo Association Convention that the group has been asked to consider doing the convention each year in New Orleans. It is a lot of hard work and those members who worked so hard on convention should be congratulated. The whole rodeo experience could turn into another mega GLBT weekend for New Orleans and all of Louisiana, ranking up there with Southern Decadence, Mardi Gras and Halloween.

agenda. Miss Pitty Pat was behind the bar and after getting us a couple of cocktails we had a chance to chat. Mac was in from next door so we snagged a pic of he and Pitty. Wayne came in a short time later. We wanted to make sure he thanked his mom, Ms. Bobbie, for her delicious chicken and dumplings recipe. We tried it and it came out just like her’s. If y’all ever see chicken and dumplings at Big Daddy’s, make sure and try it. It is sure to be Ms. Bobbie’s!

A few steps down Franklin landed us a Cutter’s. It was the first Friday of the month, so y’all know that means it was the night for the December Artist of the Month opening reception. The featured artist was Steve Kiipper. In addition to his talents on canvas, he can give a mean shoulder or back rub. One piece caught our attention. It was a big ole beefy boy showing off his back side in black and white with a pair of red high heels on. Make sure and check out his work at Cutter’s through December.

It was back to the Quarter heading for the Land of Oz. We’d missed Dingo with Princesse and Sable, but were in time for those hot Men of Manwatch. DJ Jason Lanoux was spinnin’ crowd favorites making this one of those festive nights for party central. It’s easy to see why Oz keeps on winning Dance Club of the Year voted on by the Gulf South readership of Ambush Mag in the annual Gay Appreciation Awards.

Marcy, Aletha/Jeff, Rubyfruit, Pitty Pat & Mac

Art Against AIDS

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ome days it turns into a roller coaster ride when stepping out our front door for cocktails. First up was to catch Marcy over at Starlight By The Park. Javier and CW were getting in holiday mold beginning their mega decorating endeavor.

Marcy was working the bar and the machines. Y’all know Miss Marcy loves those machines. Kyle and Justin popped in and had a few cocktails with us before we had to move on.

It was off to Cafe Lafitte in Exile where both Aletha and Jeff were slingin’ cocktails. And did they have a crowd of happy patrons. You just never know who you’ll run into at the oldest gay bar in the country. Chris was in from Metairie and told us he was getting Pride Specialties under way once again. His first new creation is a Pride flag with a fleur de lis in the center. Well, y’all know we had to order one. After a little chit chat, we had Aletha phone us a cab for our next destination.

A short cab ride brought us to 1135 Decatur Street for the Grand Re-opening of Rubyfruit Jungle. It was 6:30pm and unfortunately the club was running a little behind and was not opening until 8pm. Being on a tight schedule, we’d have to catch up with the Jungle another time. However, later we heard fromAletha about the opening going into high gear with standing room only.

Big Daddy’s was next up on our

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he 22nd Art Against AIDS Gala was hosted this year at The Sugar Mill on Convention Center Boulevard kicking off the holiday season for us. Event Chair Tony Leggio transformed the space into a shopping, dining and dance venue. It was spread out with bars on two different sides, a center stage with live music (and live auction), two silent auction areas, a sales area and popular restaurants set up throughout.

Opal Masters and Darwin Reed, and David and Rhonda Roget joined us for the affair. We ran into Countess C. Alice and David Aranda, Princesse Stephaney and Sam, Athena Jewel, Amber Nicole Welch, St. Charles Chiropractic’s Michael Lechleiter and Ken Marino, New Orleans AIDS Memorial Founder Susan Levingston, Jack Sullivan, Barbara Satterley, NO/AIDS Task Force Executive Director Noel Twilbeck and Food For Friends Program Director Glen Kahrman, NO/AIDS Directer of Development Heidi Chapman and NO/AIDS PR/Media Coordinator TJ Rogers.

There was something here for everyone. And this year had to be one of the best Art Against AIDS ever held. We picked up a couple of ornaments and bid on several silent auction items.

Since we left before the end times of the auction, we don’t know if we ended up with anything or not. But, we’re sure we will find out shortly if we did.

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