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AFFINITY LUXURY LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE

OCTOBER 2014 ISSUE 41

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October 2014

Calling all Beauty Fans!

A FREE Murad Skincare gift for every reader

Concours of Elegance Fashion Edit Cars to take your breath away

This season's outerwear edit

BEAUTY - FOOD - DRINK - HEALTH - FITNESS - STYLE - INTERIORS - MOTORS - WHAT’S ON

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Forget the SALES hype just give us a try, You WILL be pleasantly surprised

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Welcome...

H Everyone This month the Affinity office has been crazy, we have been working on this issue, our A/W Wedding magazine (which is out the middle of October) to coincide with our Wedding Showcase at Bedford Corn Exchange on Sunday 2nd November and our annual Charity Ball this year in aid of Breakthrough Breast Cancer which coincides nicely with October and Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Each month 1,000 women in the UK die from breast cancer, so we thought we would do our bit to raise much needed funds for Breakthrough Breast Cancer's work so that one day this figure say ZERO! A couple of visits to our nations capital took us to The Langham Hotel in London for the European Luxury Lifestyle Awards page 34 and Hampton Court Palace for the Concours of Elegance where we were surrounded by hundreds of the rarest vintage cars from all over the world page 65.

With all our regular features, including a review on the Marco Pierre White Steakhouse at the Doubletree Hilton in Cambridge (page 48) Haloween treats (page 71), a bit of Kelloggs nostalgia (page 14) and so much more, this is an issue not to be missed!

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Have a Spooktacular Halloween.

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CONTENTS 12 Bathtime bliss 16 Salon science 20 Treatment of the Month

26 Revitalise your workout 28 Hot picks 40 Learning to receive

42 Think PINK 48 Marco Pierre dining 54 Bohemia chic

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Love happens Fry’s footie corner Hampton Court Concours Timeless elegance Dirty dancing

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Bathtime Bliss Try some spa time pampering at home with our pick of the best products

Lime & Ginger Salt Glow £36.50 Elemis

Champneys Distant Shores Body Scrub £10

Voya Lazy Days Seaweed Bath

Blackcurrant Body Polish £7.99 Bomb Cosmetics

Bathina Just Confess You're Obsessed £26.50 Benefit copy

Indulging Shower & Bath Foam £18 Green & Spring

Espa Restorative Bath Oil £28 John Lewis MK

Jo Malone Orange Blosson Bath Oil £40

Neom Organics Real Luxury Scented Candle £30

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Mad About Kelloggs!

MAD Beauty Unveil Exclusive Collaboration with Kellogg's The new collaboration between MAD Beauty and Kellogs is bound to have every woman adding a little nostalgia to their makeup bag!

Juia Cash MAD Beauty's creative director told us “We have all grown up with Kellogg's Frosties, Rice Krispies and so many of their images evoke a strong feeling of nostalgia – even with some that were in circulation before many of us were born. They just seem to have the ability to trigger a sense of instant recognition. MAD Beauty's mission statement is 'serious about making cosmetics fun', and this just hit the right note.”

The company has named its first selections 'Decades' which Julia says simply describes how MAD Beauty will be bringing products to the market. “We have taken images from the 50's and 70's and applied them to a range of cosmetic related products.” Whether you're after Fifties Vintage or Seventies Retro, the collection offers a range of beauty products from flavoured lip balms, beauty bags, manicure sets and bath essentials.

“Kellogg proudly state that they provide families with 'better breakfasts that lead to better days', and, at MAD Beauty, we're happy to offer products that aim to continue that 'better day' feeling with our exclusive range of cosmetics and bath products that are decorated with the Vintage Kellogg's imagery. Our aim, after all, has always been to create products that make people smile!”

They’ve certainly made us smile! www.madbeauty.com

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Salon Science

Skincare for your Hair

Salon Science has arrived and it’s going to change the way we look at our hair. It has the look and feel of a skin care range using actives which have, until now, only been used in premium skin care.

The brand is made up of four collections, each focusing on one power ingredient, so now it’s time to take the same care of your hair as you do your skin……

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Swiss Apple – Anti-ageing and restored volume Rich in phytonutrients, proteins and long living cells, protects, rejuvenates and restores youth to hair.

AnaGain – Targeting Hair Loss Based on the sprouts of an Organic Pea packed with phytonutrients, AnaGain extends the lifecycle of hair to reduce hair loss and restore vitality

Swiss Grape – Repair and Radiance The Swiss Grape, a powerful antioxidant complex that binds to the hair's surface to instantly repair, revitalise and strengthen damaged, over-processed hair and reduce breakage

Aquacacteen – Scalp Relief Restores hydration to hair and scalp.

AquaCacteen is an ultra-refined elixir from a rare organic cactus Opuntia Ficus-Indica renowned for its highly effective moisturising and soothing properties. Relieves and soothes a distressed scalp.

Prices start at £15 - £39 available from Boots

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Midlife

Madness

Bedroom Blues

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hen you are in a long standing relationship it’s easy to think that you know everything about your other ‘half’ and it can be a bit disconcerting when you realise there may in fact be some serious incompatibilities – especially when these are related to the bedroom.

when indulging in a bit of bedtime reading.

Also I must confess to a frisson of pleasure when I look at the bed – all neatly made and inviting. An inviting bed is one of the many reasons that I just love staying in hotels but it is clearly unreasonable at my income level to have someone come into the house just to make my bed look inviting!

Now before you all either stop reading for fear of being shocked OR continue reading hoping for something that resembles a few pages of fifty shades – I’m actually talking the physical rather than metaphorical bedroom.

Ok, so I know there are all sorts of ways a bed can look inviting but I was leaving aside uniformed hunks in favour of interior design type ideas. As you can imagine the tasteful throw at the bottom of the bed hasn’t gone down a storm either. There also seems to be a bit of an issue with the lights, which of course match and add a real ambience, a kind of subtle glow. But apparently they are not bright enough to read a book by. My response was that you don’t really need a bright light when you have a kindle or another kind of device (I am talking reading devices!)

The central problem is actually some rather innocent looking cushions. You know the sort, co-ordinating colours and you pile them on your bed after making it, to give your room, or more precisely your bed, that inviting, well dressed look that you see in show homes, hotels or magazines.

Which I suppose is exactly the point, no one actually lives in those places. I would hazard a guess that among womenfolk, I am not alone in having an aversion to climbing into an unmade bed? I suspect not. But certainly most of the males I have known well enough to understand a little of their bedroom habits ( I’m not talking about lovers but sons, lodgers, students, and numerous other male relatives and guests) have absolutely no problem clambering into a bed that is not only unmade but could actually have something living in it without batting an eyelid.

The other thing I always appreciate about hotels is the lovely smell in the room so I bought a few of those scented candles and a nice incense burner. He made some sort of comment the first night but later that week he accused me of trying to re-invent my slightly hippy youth by smoking plant products. Really! He kept opening the windows and it was all a bit chilly, so I must confess I jettisoned those.

But I do think the bedroom should be a haven of peace and tranquillity so I invested in some of that spa type music that you listen to when you have a massage. Now I didn’t expect he would like that but it was for me, so on a ‘Match of the Day’ night I took myself off to bed with said music playing on iphone docking station but ran out of plugs, so carefully positioned it so that I could reach to turn it off.

And although this is a slight digression – how long would men go before they thought about washing sheets and quilt covers - or is that just the men in my house!!

But back to cushions – this has certainly made things get rougher in the bedroom – strictly no handcuffs or whips – but cushions do get launched to the furthest corner of the room on a nightly basis.

Why? I remain mystified – I like the cushions! Not only are they decorative but they are great to prop yourself up with

It was remarkably effective, so much so I was asleep before I could turn it off and some while later I was awoken by unhappy expletives as he tripped over the wire I had trailed to position it so that I could turn it off.

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I wonder what he would think about a water bed??

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Treatment of the Month

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Murads Resurgence Renewal Facial The Rapid Exfoliator is then used, this offers intense, instant and long-lasting hydration, it also helps to clear pores and improve skin texture.

ot only has my favourite product house Murad opened their very own space within John Lewis in Cambridge, last month they opened one just up the road in John Lewis at Milton Keynes.

The face, neck, décolleté is then massaged and a special rejuvenating treatment is carried out on the décolleté.

The Murad counter within John Lewis stocks every single product Murad produces, allowing you to try before you buy thus, ensuring your skin gets the exact product it needs.

A firming mask is applied, and whilst this was taking effect I enjoyed a relaxing hand and arm massage.

Finally, the skin is hydrated and protected with Sheer Lustre Day Moisture, Soothing Lip Care to the lips and Essential-C Eye Cream SPF 15 around the eye area.

The Murad therapist has her very own treatment room away from the hustle and bustle of shoppers and I went along to try it out. All facials begin with a skin analysis from the new Youth Cam Skin Scanner camera that looks deep into the surface layers of the skin to detect hidden skin concerns which will eventually appear at the surface of the skin, this then helps the therapist decide which facial will best suit you.

My skin was glowing and looked visibly smoother and more youthful looking (this is a facial I will definitely be repeating).

Murad Resurgence Renewal Facial £65 for 60mins John Lewis, Milton Keynes 01908 325389

The Resurgence Renewal Facial was what I was going to experience, it started with my skin and eyes being deeply cleansed with Murad’s Renewing Cleansing Cream and Eye Makeup Remover.

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They’ve launched two fantastic NEW Beauty Counters in John Lewis, Cambridge and Milton Keynes, and are celebrating by offering a FREE Skincare Gift for every reader.

Visit them today to experience a complimentary YouthCam skin consultation and collect your Gift!

Hurry – offer ends Saturday 25th October.

Your Complimentary Murad Skincare Gift: Name: Telephone: E-mail:

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Indulgence

A Day of

With the nights drawing in and days becoming cooler it is a well known fact that we spend longer working in the A/W months than we do in the S/S ones.

Which is why The Day Spa at Whittlebury Hall is even more appealing having added some seasonal treatments to their spa day package to make sure you get away and give yourself some proper ME time, easing you out of your everyday routine, taking you on a journey to rejuvenate and refresh your body and mind.

After a particularly busy couple of weeks I was certainly in need of a little bit of relaxation and pampering, so off I went with my husband to indulge in this new Day Spa Package. Set amongst acres of fields in the Northampton countryside you feel yourself already relaxing as you wind your way down the long drive towards the grand Georgian country house that is Whittlebury Hall.

Our day began by us enjoying the stimulating Heat and Ice experiences which are set around a hydrotherapy pool. Housed around this is a salt steam room, sauna, an ice cave - where you can cool your steaming skin off with little chunks of ice - the caldarium (which radiates heat from walls, floors, seats and reclining areas), and the sanarium. It is all designed to build your body temperature up gradually and then quickly cool it back down, allowing your body to experience sensations brought on by dramatic changes in temperature.

The first of our treatments then followed. I had chosen The Day Spa Nectarine Burst & Sweet Honey Glaze, this is a truly indulgent skin exfoliation with a burst of Nectarine and Sweet Honey, once the exfoliator had been showered off the therapist continued with a soothing back, neck and scalp massage which hit every button in the relaxation corner. My husband enjoyed The Day Spa Well-Being Massage which he said was heavenly, the pressure was exactly how he liked it, the treatment time for both these were 50 minutes which as always goes too quickly.

A little lounge by the pool before heading for our two course buffet lunch.

Spa Holistic Experience, a mini Reflexology and mini Indian Head Massage, this is just a taster of reflexology - it was calming and soothing and the ambience of the treatment room just added to the whole tranquil experience.

To finish our day off we relaxed around the pool sipping the lemon and ginger herbal tea that is freely on offer and enjoyed the last few hours of rejuvenating, unwinding and escaping from everyday life.

The Day Spa Package with seasonal treatments is priced from just ÂŁ109 per person and something I highly recommend.

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www.whittleburyhall.co.uk

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REVITALISE YOUR WINTER WORKOUT Do you need a little motivation to keep training up through the winter months?

We caught up with top tennis player Belinda Bencic to find out how she keeps up with training during the off season and what we can do to revitalise our own winter workouts.

Belinda says; “Winter training in the off season is important for me and many other athletes because it gives us more time to work on building a strong foundation and also the chance to change any technical aspects of my game. I wouldn’t be able to do either of these during the season as I’m generally maintaining fitness levels, motivation and trying to stay injury free!”

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Here are my tips for the off-season training:

1: Set yourself goals - You need a plan for exactly where you want to go and what you want to improve. For example, last season I wanted to improve my serve. I wanted more power so I could better make the transition from the Junior’s tennis circuit to the Pros. I changed my grip slightly and hit hundreds of serves every day. It definitely helped me to have a strong season in 2014.

Revitalise Your Workout: Why not enter an event or race for February/March to have your own goal to aim for.

2: Warm up and cool down properly - This is so important in the colder months. Even athletes can get a bit lazy with warming up but it’s what gets your muscles loose and your body ready for a tough work out. I like dynamic stretching to warm up – holding each stretch for at least 6 seconds and then release and stretch again.

Cooling down is just as important, I spend 10 minutes doing a light jog and then cycle for 15 minutes on the stationary bike.

Revitalise Your Workout: Have Nelsons arnicare Arnica Cooling Gel to rub in post-workout or relax in the bath with Nelsons arnicare Arnica Bath & Massage Balm after a cold day.

3: Interval Training - For tennis players, I think interval training is important because you work intensely for short bursts but then have 15 seconds to recover between points and a bit longer in between games. To build my fitness levels, I go on the track and do several sets of sprints up the straights and then slowly jog round the corners. I do 5 laps of this a day. I also run two miles three times a week.

Revitalise Your Workout: Incorporate 20 minutes of interval training into your exercise, try sprinting between the trees in the park or the lampposts on your street.

4: Muscle Building - I work on building muscle strength during the off season. My tip for this would be to choose the time of day that suits you best. For example, I never do heavy weight lifting in the morning if I am playing tennis in the afternoon. I always start with tennis and then keep lifting for the afternoon. Otherwise, my body becomes stiff from lifting weights and I am more likely to get an injury playing tennis.

Revitalise Your Workout: Do squats and weight when you get inside from a run. Try using cans of beans as weights!

5: Have fun. Most importantly, try and make the training sessions fun. I do them with a hitting partner, which is usually my dad or my brother. Yes, you have to be a serious professional but you also have to enjoy what you do. Lifting weights by yourself is boring so I like to do things with my team.

Revitalise Your Workout: Ask a friend to join you after work for some support and get fit together!

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Silver Filigree Blush Journal £12.99 paperblanks.co.uk

Diet Chef £1.29 Tesco

Mello Melon Drink £

Sky Vase £39 BoConcept

Fake Bake 5 Minute Mousse £19.99 www.fakebake.co.uk

LUSH Cupcake Face Mask £6.25 lush.co.uk

This month’s must have gifts and accessories

Murad Instant Radiance Eye Cream £49.50 John Lewis MK

Sorel Country Attire Boot £140 www.sorelfootware.co.uk

MitoQ Crème Serum £79, www.mitoq.com.uk

Light & Dark Perfume £43.50 www.LD-Scent.com

AFFINITY HOT PICKS

Red Herring Dress £35 Debenhams

Spiced Pomander Signature Candle £35 www.lilouetloic.com

Envelope Pink Clutch £145 Leminea’

Makeup Brows be Wow Eyebrow Gel £13 www.push-makeup.com

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The Region’s Brightest Girls’ School Bedford Girls' School is a forward thinking, dynamic school, well regarded as a contemporary centre of excellence in all girls’ education.

An expert understanding of the way girls think and learn lies at the heart of a Bedford Girls’ School education. Dedicated to preparing girls for life, as well as for examination success, the school supports and challenges every pupil to achieve her best; academically, culturally, socially, physically, personally and morally.

Fizzing with energy and unselfconscious enthusiasm, the school is an environment where enquiring minds are nurtured and girls learn to feel proud of their achievements, enabling them to challenge limited expectations and gender stereotypes.

Educating day pupils aged between 7 and 18, the school boasts outstanding facilities alongside excellent results in GCSE, A level and the globally renowned, International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme. A must see for parents looking for an exceptional education, Bedford Girls’ School welcomes families to their next Open Morning on Saturday 11th October at 10am.

To find out more visit: www.bedfordgirlsschool.co.uk or call 01234 361918 to book an appointment.

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Is Stress a Trigger to Developing

Alzheimer’s Early?

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ast month according to The Daily Mail a report by the Alzheimer's Society warns that twice as many adults are developing dementia in mid-life than previously thought.

Your brain needs regular, restful sleep in order to function at optimum capacity. Sleep deprivation not only leaves you cranky and tired, but impairs your ability to think, problem-solve, and process, store, and recall information. Deep, dreamy sleep is critical for memory formation and retention. If nightly sleep deprivation is slowing your thinking and affecting your mood, you may be at greater risk of developing symptoms of Alzheimer's disease.

The vast majority of adults need at least 8 hours of sleep per night. Any less, and productivity and creativity suffers.

There are now 42,325 cases of early onset dementia in the UK – which occurs before the age of 65 – previously there were only thought to be 17,000 cases.

This includes 2,010 in their 40s, 7,700 cases in their 50s, 32,000 in their 60s and 707 cases in their 30s.

For many years, we've been told that there's little we can do to prevent Alzheimer's disease, and other types of dementia, but hope for the best and wait for a pharmaceutical cure. But the truth is you can reduce your risk by eating right, exercising, staying mentally and socially active, and keeping stress in check. By leading a brain-healthy lifestyle, you may be able to prevent Alzheimer's symptoms and slow down, or even reverse, the process of deterioration.

Stress that is chronic or severe takes a heavy toll on the brain, leading to shrinkage in a key memory area of the brain known as the hippocampus, hampering nerve cell growth, and increasing your risk of Alzheimer's disease and dementia. Yet simple daily tools can minimize its harmful effects.

Get your stress levels in check with these proven techniques • Breathe! Stress alters your breathing rate and impacts oxygen levels in the brain. Quiet your stress response with deep, abdominal breathing.

Restorative breathing is powerful, simple, and free!

Quick thinking. Fast recall. Sharp memory. When you're at the top of your mental game, you don't worry about getting older. Because you still have the focused brain power of your youth.

• Schedule daily relaxation activities. Keeping stress under control requires regular effort. Make relaxation a priority, whether it's a walk in the park, playtime with your dog, yoga, or a soothing bath.

But to stay on top, you need a steady supply of oxygen to your brain. Then your brain can think creatively... solve problems... and stay fog-free.

So as the ages lower for those of us that are suseptable to Alzeimers what can we do to help ourselves? Luckily, there are a number of ways to get plenty of oxygen to your brain.

• Nourish inner peace. Most scientists acknowledge a strong mind-body connection, and various studies associate spirituality with better brain health.

Regular meditation, prayer, reflection, and religious practice may immunize you against the damaging effects of stress.

The six pillars of a brain-healthy lifestyle are: 1: Regular Exercise 2: Healthy Diet 4: Mental Stimulation 4: Quality Sleep 5: Stress Management 6: An Active Social Life

An active social life Human beings are highly social creatures. We don't thrive in isolation, and neither does our brain.

Studies show that the more connected we are, the better we fare on tests of memory and cognition.

Staying socially active may even protect against Alzheimer's disease and dementia, so make your social life a priority.

The first is physical exertion. This gets the blood flowing and provides more oxygen to the blood vessels in your brain so you can have clear recall.

Will Supplements Help?

A Healthy diet is vital and a Mediterranean diet is often recommended. In our mind, eating healthily comes naturally when you listen to your body but there are also supplements that are worth considering to supplement your diet. Folic acid, vitamin B12, vitamin D, magnesium, and fish oil are believed to preserve and improve brain health.

Studies of vitamin E, ginkgo biloba, coenzyme Q10, and turmeric have yielded less conclusive results, but may also be beneficial in the prevention or delay of Alzheimer's and dementia symptoms.

Those who continue learning new things throughout life and challenging their brains are less likely to develop 'Brain Fog' and then be susceptible to more serious diseases like Alzheimer's and dementia, so make it a point to stay mentally active.

In essence, you need to “use it or lose it.”

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A Little Luxury On 29th August, we joined guests from all over Europe at The Langham Hotel in London for the European Luxury Lifestyle Awards Ceromomy 2014.

Ladies in elegant dresses and gentlemen in immaculate suits gathered to congratulate the winners, whilst enjoying champagne, a gala dinner and cabaret. The highlight of the evening being the after party with an amazing performance from the awesome jazz band Ronnie Scott Rejects.

Poker chips and the numbers on the tables in the form of playing cards created an atmosphere of Casino Royale style.

After all the excitement and expectations, the winners were announced, each receiveing a certificate and a beautiful unique Golden Crown, made specifically for the awards by the official jewellery partner Faraone Mennella.

Best of the best were congratulated by guests such as : Emma Miller, model and luxury blogger; Richard Crawford, luxury lifestyle interviewer, video producer and host, representative of Eat Love Savor; Chere Di Bosco, Editor in Chief at Eluxe Magazine; Ray Witter, the representative of Just Luxe journal; Grace Kennedy, founder of Grace Kennedy events and Mayfair Luxury Weddings, Britain’s first Original and most successful Celebrity London Wedding Planner; Rebeсca Robins – a honorary judge of Luxury Lifestyle Awards, representative of Interbrand company and others.

The evening was full of smiles, laughter and flashes of cameras! We can't wait until next year!

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Jacket £85 Miss Selfridge

Fur & Frolics Coat £50 F&F Tesco

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Collection £89 Marks & Spencer

Jacket £40 F&F Tesco

Dalmation Coat £120 Miss Selfridge Plum Jacket Dorothy Perkins

Red Herring £60 Debenhams

John Rocha £125 Debenhams

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Biba Leather Jacket £350 House of Fraser

Autograph £249 Marks & Spencer

Biker Chic Jacket £145 Lipsy Puffa

Borg Biker Jacket £65 Next Puffa x Harris £320 puffa.com

Per Una £129 Marks & Spencer

Mono Biker Jacket £55 Next

Jacket £45 Dorothy Perkins H by Henry Holland £85 Debenhams

Tweed Biker £69 Marks & Spencer

Leather Biker Jacket £160 Next

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Shearling Cape £950 East

Definitions Cape £89 Very

Red Herring £75 Debenhams

Tartan Cape £15.99 New Look

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Aotograph Cape £110 Marks & Spencer

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Learning to Receive 40

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remember growing up with the idea that it was somehow better to give than to receive. It is true that I had a religious upbringing and the sentiment that it is good to give resonates with a lot of different faiths. But in my work with clients it is apparent that a lot of people love to give - in terms of their time, their expertise, their support, their friendship, their love and their acceptance.

In fact many give and go on giving until they find themselves exhausted, yet very often those same people find it very hard to receive.

reciprocate in some way. But think about when YOU give, is your first thought what you will get back? If it is, then you maybe need to question your own motives for giving.

Because most people when they give, do so because they really want to, sometimes they may do things from a sense of duty, but not usually for what they will get back - as humans we do things for others simply because we like to give. So it is also logical to receive without feeling that we need to ‘match’ every gift or good deed we happen to receive.

We Don’t Deserve It It sounds a bit heavy but the bottom line is often we find it hard to receive because there is a little voice inside telling us that we don’t deserve it. Why should someone want to do something for us? How can that person want to be our friend, spend time with us or whatever. That is something that does need addressing because YOU are worth it! YOU do deserve it. If the voice inside is saying otherwise then there are probably some real self- esteem issues lurking there and it would be wise to deal with them.

The same is true in terms of physical gifts, often we worry that a gift may not seem generous enough, and if someone gives us a gift and we haven’t reciprocated, we can get ourselves in a right state.

Just the other day I commented on some nice headphones and the owner said that he had two identical pairs and I could have one and instead of simply being gracious and saying “Thanks, that’d be lovely.” I found 101 reasons why I couldn’t possibly accept them.

Why is that, I wondered. In many ways receiving is an innate state. Babies and small children quite literally have to ‘take’ to survive and we could learn a lot from them.

As we grow we become conditioned to NOT receiving, or at least to receive when we deem it is appropriate, accepting presents when it is an occasion for example. But apart from that our mind set is often more about giving.

How many times have you heard someone say “oh no I couldn’t” or “don’t put yourself out on my account”.

I think that the most difficult thing is allowing yourself to be loved, so receiving the love and feeling like you deserve it is a pretty big struggle.

I suppose that's what I've learnt recently, to allow myself to be loved.

Nicole Kidman

The Impact The real problem lies in the fact that if we are unable to accept ‘things’ we might also find it hard to accept ‘emotions’. Working for many years with children who have experienced trauma and rejection, it was apparent that one thing they all had in common was difficulty in accepting or receiving any kind of award or prize or even praise. Which seems strange at first but, of course, comes from a belief that they are not ‘deserving’, in essence their self-worth is so low that they can’t accept anything from others. Understandable for people who have been hurt or rejected – it’s the safe approach, building walls to protect oneself from further hurt or rejection. But we all know that while walls, whether physical or emotional, help us feel more secure they also keep out lots of good stuff.

In fact there are many reasons why we might find it hard to receive but to live life to the full we need to deal with those reasons, or they will impede and restrict us in other areas of life as well.

Misplaced Pride It sounds strange but if we struggle to say yes when people offer us things, sometimes, the reason is a misplaced pride. The ‘I don’t need help’ attitude, which is understandable and something that we probably all feel from time to time. But if we look at this more deeply and start to question it, we can see that actually that is a bit arrogant. There is someone, wanting to give you something and we rack our brains for reasons to say ‘NO’.

It’s not only ungrateful, it’s actually quite rude and possibly uncaring. The giver has feelings too, as we all know because often the people who find it tough to receive, excel at giving. It’s okay to feel proud about things we have done or achieved but to feel unable to accept the help, support, gifts, praise or love of others often comes from a misplaced pride.

An Alternative Being open to receive is an attitude that can help us in every walk of life, relationships, jobs, family and friends and if we are secure enough to be able to accept graciously the chances are we will also be confident as individuals, accepting of ourselves and others.

I’m not what happened to me – I am what I choose to become Carl Jung

A compliment is a gift not to be thrown away carelessly, unless you want to hurt the giver Eleanor Hamilton

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All About...

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Jennie Bayliss

“We caught up with Jennie Bayliss the founder of Office Wings your one stop PA and Concierge Service” Age: 36

Occupation: Virtual PA and Founder of Office Wings Ltd What would you do if you had a time machine?

Go into the future and get the lottery numbers of the biggest draw of 2015 – gives me time to prepare!

Describe yourself in three words?

Courageous, Thoughtful, Busy!

What makes you stand out in a crowd?

Great shoes

You can’t leave the house without?

My iphone

Your top three movies?

Dirty Dancing, The Holiday and Grown Ups – at the moment!

If I take a look in your fridge what would I find?

Whatever the children have left

If you could meet anyone in the world dead or alive who would it be and what would you say to them?

The Queen – she is amazing

What do you do to relax?

Usually something involving food or alcohol

Your most extravagant purchase and why?

I have been known to book expensive holidays after a few glasses of wine – sometimes booking multiple times by mistake!

If you were a biscuit what would you be?

Chocolate Finger

Who is your inspiration/role model?

People who change the world for the better

If you could be anyone or anything what would it be?

18 again - although knowing what I know now!

What is the one gadget you couldn't live without?

My iphone

Describe your ideal man?

Thoughtful, funny, down to earth – and well off would be nice!

Where do you see yourself in ten years?

Owner of a multi-million pound business

If you were stranded on a desert island, what three items would you take with you?

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Marco Pierre White’s

Steakhouse Bar & Grill

at DoubleTree by Hilton in Cambridge

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We went along to sample the delights of this hotel and restaurant and certainly weren’t disappointed, after checking into our room which was light, airy and modern with our own private balcony, we spent a little time relaxing on the balcony with a glass of wine before getting ready for dinner

ituated on the banks of the River Cam is the DoubleTree by Hilton Cambridge offering views of the Cam (complete with ducks, swans, geese and, of course, punters), only a few minutes walk to the town the DoubleTree is an excellent base for exploring the city’s historic attractions, its varied shopping, as well as its lively music and theatre scene.

Set within this enviable hotel is Marco Pierre White’s Steakhouse Bar & Grill Restaurant. Renowned for his nofrills food philosophy, this restaurant is steadily becoming one of Cambridge's most popular venues for dining. With wonderful views of the River Cam, the restaurant is perfect for romantic dinners, business lunches or family celebrations.

The restaurant is perfect for romantic dinners, business lunches or family celebrations. The welcome was warm and friendly, and our table overlooking the river, was just perfect. The menu is modern European and complemented by an excellent wine list. Offering a relaxed yet elegant atmosphere, this restaurant is an exquisite Cambridge luxury hotel dining experience.

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Whilst waiting for our starters we were brought appetisers of pork scratchings and marinated mixed olives which certainly whetted out appetites.

My choice of starter was a cocktail of prawns which were juicy and succulent, crispy fried calamari, tender, fresh and light.

Lemon and rosemary free-range chicken, truffle chips, rocket and parmesan salad followed. This was delicious; the chicken was moist and tender with an assortment of flavours provided from the lemon, rosemary and truffle chips - the whole dish was delightful. Of course one of us had to sample the steak, so the 16oz T Bone Steak and an extra side of four king prawns was my husbands choice, it was clear the beef was going to be fab, but he was unprepared for just how finely done it was. The meat was cooked just so: seared on the outside and practically brimming with juices inside, the king prawns were meaty and fresh.

I love desserts but I really didn’t have any room left, so I left it to my husband who chose the sticky toffee pudding, it certainly didn’t disappoint. It was a moist, homemade, sticky toffee pudding truly delightful.

After an impeccable dining experience we retired to the bar for a couple of cocktails made by the hotels resident mixologist, before enjoying a restful nights sleep. The service and food at breakfast the next morning, was just as perfect. A little punting after breakfast was the perfect end to our stay.

Our overall verdict: Service in the hotel and restaurant was impeccable, presentation perfect and food delicious, but don’t just take my word for it go and experience it for yourself.

Doubletree by Hilton Cambridge Granta Place, Mill Lane Cambridge CB2 1RT 01223 259988 www.doubletreecambridge.com

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A delicious Chicken dish that has just the right amount of flavours that are just perfect with asparagus.

Ingredients 8oz asparagus, trimmed and cut into1-inch pieces 2/3 cup reduced-sodium chicken broth 1/4 cup all-purpose flour 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts 1/4 tsp salt 1/2 tsp ground pepper 1 tbs canola oil 1 shallot, thinly sliced 1/2 cup white wine 1/3 cup reduced-fat sour cream 1 tsp dried tarragon 2 tsp lemon juice 2/3 cup grated Gruyere cheese

Method Place a steamer basket in a large saucepan, add 1 inch of water and bring to the boil. Add asparagus, cover and steam for 3 minutes. Remove from the heat and set aside.

Whisk broth and 2 teaspoons flour in a small bowl until smooth. Set aside.

Place the remaining flour in a shallow dish. Sprinkle chicken with salt and pepper and dredge both sides in the flour, shaking off any excess.

Heat oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the chicken and cook until golden brown, 3 to 4 minutes per side, adjust heat as needed to prevent scorching. Transfer to a plate and cover to keep warm.

Add shallot, wine and the reserved broth mixture to the pan; cook over medium heat, stirring, until thickened for about 2 minutes. Reduce heat to medium-low; stir in sour cream, tarragon, lemon juice and the reserved asparagus until combined. Return the chicken to the pan and turn to coat with the sauce. Sprinkle cheese on top of each piece of chicken, cover and continue cooking until the cheese is melted, approx 2 minutes.

Rich fruity flavours balanced by warm spice and low levels of tannins, Pinot Noir is one of the wine world’s most versatile and food friendly wine.

Villa Maria Reserve Pinot Noir, Marlborough 2012 It is medium bodied with beautifully poised red fruit and very well integrated oak flavours. The crisp acidity and fine grained tannins provide a delightfully clean long finish of considerable finesse £19.99 Tesco, Hailsham Cellars

Joseph Mellot Sancerre Le Rabault Rouge 2012 Notes of black cherry and blackberry on the nose, whilst the palate is a wonderful expression of Pinot Noir with gorgeous mouth-feel and silky smooth tannins. £16.99 Victor Hugo Wines Ltd

Domaine Carneros Avant Garde Pinot Noir 2012 Extremely aromatic, the wine features red fruit notes including cherry, raspberry and pomegranate along with additional hints of rose petal and spice. £20.49 The Wine Reserve, Portland Wine Co

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Key lime Pie Ingredients

Method

1 packet Oreos 75g melted butter 125g sugar 50g butter 2 large eggs, beaten Juice and zest of 2 limes

Start by making your base. For this, blend your Oreos with the melted butter and press into a pastry tin. Place this into the fridge whilst you make your lime curd.

For the curd, heat the butter, sugar, lime juice and zest in a pan over a low heat. Once this has begun to boil, remove from the heat and slowly pour over the eggs, whisking constantly.

Return the mixture to the heat, whisking constantly until the mixture is thick enough to coat the back of a spoon.

Remove from the heat and pour over the Oreo base. Leave this to set in the fridge for at least 2 hours.

Portion and serve with a dollop of fresh whipped cream. *To get a more vibrant green colour, add a few drops of green food colouring

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Steak Night Wednesdays Selection of prime cut steaks available from £18.95. Price to include a free dessert from our a la carte menu and a glass of house wine We are still doing “Buy 1 get 1 free” on main courses every Tuesday all day, 12pm- 9pm!

Join us for our monthly pudding nights! £16.00 for a main course and as many delicious desserts as you can squeeze in!

3rd October 7th November

Afternoon Teas We are now doing traditional afternoon teas by the river! Served 2.00pm til 5.00pm daily.

Full afternoon tea, including pot of tea/coffee, a selection of finger sandwiches, homemade scones with cream and jam, selection of cakes and macaroons, £9.95

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visit to the Idyllic island of Jersey wouldn’t be complete without some fine dining and this is exactly what we did when we visited the islands Bohemia Restaurant set within The Club Hotel and Spa in St Helier.

Chef Steve Smith has worked with the best in the UK and Australia and won his first Michelin star aged just 24 – an accolade Bohemia has held

since 2005. It is the highest rated restaurant in Jersey according to The Good Food Guide 2014, so I was really looking forward to an evening of my taste buds being tested to their limits.

pre dinner drink accompanied by some delicious appetisers including barbecued pork with apple purée which was utterly delicious, if this was a start of things to come we were in for a real treat.

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The main focus of dining is primarily based on Bohemia’s tasting menus.

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Bread that was brought to the table in a Hessian sack, where it had just been removed from the oven having been made from scratch and the seaweed butter - yes seaweed was literally the icing on the cake!

The Tasting menus both consisted of dishes that were fresh, succulent and an absolute treat. The mouthful of smoked haddock served with an egg yolk and mustard ice cream, onto which was poured a smoked haddock velouté, was unforgettable - You mix the egg yolk with the sauce yourself and the result is a smoky, smooth delight.

Turbot was served with cauliflower cream, capers, pickled cauliflower, shrimps and oxalis leaves, on a bed of cauliflower couscous. The turbot was fresh and perfectly cooked, the flavours of the cauliflower combined with the cream and turbot was a combination of wonderful tastes.

The Asparagus Risotto & Salad was another favourite but that may well be because I love asparagus – there are far too many tastes to describe suffice to say each course was as varied as the other.

The succession of outstandingly executed modern ideas and vivid new takes on the classics was a dining experience which was truly divine, innovative and balanced it was fine dining at its absolute best.

The wine list was just as impressive with its choice of over 250 fine vintages, as was the extensive cheese selection and the fatally alluring ‘coffee and treats’ This has to be one of the best gastronomic experiences of your life, something that if you are visiting Jersey you certainly shouldn’t miss! www.bohemiajersey.com

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Ambience Nessa Chair & Kiki Side Table by Koket

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Brilliance Sconce

by Koket

Rêve Mirror

Gem Table Lamp

by Koket

Ignite Bench

by Koket

Geisha Sofa

by Koket

Geisha Chair

by Koket

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spending £60 million for Angel Di Maria and they haven’t exactly set the world alight in the early weeks of the campaign!

he European Championship qualifying fixtures got underway earlier this month and I believe I witnessed a miracle with Northern Ireland, the Republic of Ireland and Wales all winning away from home. That must be the first time that has occurred for many a year.

Of course, Chelsea did all their transfer business quite early in the window with Diego Costa arriving on the back of a disappointing World Cup. He has hit the ground running in the Premier League and for me, Chelsea are the team to beat this year.

Of course, it was also a wonderful away win for England too, beating Switzerland 2-0 thanks to a double from Danny Welbeck. The only Home Nation not to come away with a positive result was Scotland, however Gordon Strachan’s men put in a superb performance against the World Champions Germany in their own backyard and deserved more than the 2-1 loss they suffered.

I think Manchester City will run them close, but I can’t see anyone pipping Chelsea to the title and that is down to the fact they have a goalscorer who will net 20 goals or more in the season. Outside of the Premier League, I expect that the Championship, League One and League Two will be tight affairs with everyone believing they have a chance of success.

Even though I am passionate about England, I always want to see the other Home Nations do well and it would be great to see them all qualify for the tournament in two years time. Away from the international fold and moving closer to home, the transfer window is now shut, thank God!

With all of the restricted financial implications coming into place this year, it will be interesting to see how many break the rules and how they are dealt with. I expect a few clubs will be thinking about cutting their cloth accordingly.

Another record amount of obscene money was spent by the World’s elite and none more so than in this country with over £800 million changing hands.

Manchester United broke the British record by

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Concours of Elegance

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magine going to one of the most impressive historic estates in the UK and being surrounded by over hundreds of the rarest vintage cars from all over the world and this is exactly what we did last month, when we attended the 2014 Concours of Elegance which took place within the stunning Fountain Gardens of Hampton Court Palace - in its third year it has already set a new global benchmark for classic car concours events, winning a number of prestigious awards and accolades.

It is unique in the fact that the setting changes from year to year but with the consistent theme of always being held on the lawns of a Royal palace. Only the highest calibre of cars are invited to the Concours of Elegance, with the rarest cars in the world painstakingly selected by the Concours’ team of respected and authoritative experts.

Just like in the last two events, those who attended Concours of Elegance were able to see and hear cars such as the 1933 24 litre Napier-Railton Special, the Le Mans winning 1969 Porsche 917 Kurzheck Coup, the first Monaco Grand Prix winning 1928 Bugatti Type 35B, two world speed record holders: the NapierRailton and the 1923 Delage Type DH V12, the rarest of rare Ferraris, from a one-off 1954 375 MM Scaglietti to a straight out of restoration 1953 166MM Barchetta, the 1937 Horch 853 Voll & Ruhrbeck Sport Cabriolet, the 1914 Rolls-Royce Silver Ghost Vanden Plas Torpedo Grande Luxe, a giant from the Mullin Collection, the deco masterpiece 1937 Delahaye 135M Figoni et Falaschi Torpedo Cabriolet, the 1930 Bentley Speed-Six Gurney Nutting Sportsman CoupĂŠ, Bugattis including a 1939 Bugatti Type 57C Voll & Ruhrbeck Roadster amongst other jewells.

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his year Disney on Ice celebrates 100 Years of Magic and you can join the celebration as 65 of Disney's unforgettable characters from 18 beloved stories come to life!

You'll be captivated by the one and only Mickey Mouse, the irresistible Minnie Mouse, Goofy, Donald Duck, Jiminy Cricket, Pinocchio and all the Disney Princesses.

Be thrilled by exciting moments from The Lion King, Mulan, and Disney/Pixar's Finding Nemo, The Incredibles, and Toy Story films; in a skating spectacular filled with magical Disney moments, you'll remember forever The tour kicked off last month (September) in Glasgow and will tour the country before it's grand finale at the London 02 over the Christmas period.

A staggering 102 costumes are used in the show and made out of 1,300 yards of fabric!

The dazzling designs range from Mickey’s Marching Band, to the “It’s a Small World” dolls, to the stars of Mulan and Finding Nemo.

Renowned designer Bob Mackie also lends his talents to a red sequined evening gown worn by Minnie.

Scenic Designer David Potts, who has worked on numerous Broadway productions, creates a theatrical atmosphere on ice. Skaters weave around and enliven the “It’s a Small World” sequence amidst sparkling floats that turn into a radiant light parade; a blanket of snow and an avalanche fall as Mulan battles the Huns; and a giant present is opened to reveal Buzz Lightyear as he’s first introduced to that favourite toy cowboy, Woody and his pal Jessie.

Don’t miss this purely magical skating spectacular.

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Welcome to the musings of Yummy Mummy. Living in Bedford she is married to ‘The Husband’ and together they have 4 children - Rafferty 9, Violet 7, Roman 6 and Clementine 2 All my views are my own and are not intended to offend anyone but alas I may frustrate you as I certainly do myself and no doubt those around me at times. I would love to hear from you, your views, questions or indeed just to share your experiences of trying to be a Yummy Mummy. Email me at info@affinitymag.co.uk

Not Just the Big, but Massive, Four-Oh!

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n my mind I am still in my twenties however with the realisation that an important birthday was looming I spent the month leading up to it swinging wildly from complete denial to absolute panic and with some really down moments! And mixed in with all this is annoyance for allowing myself to get wound up by it, as I wanted to be all blasé and claim that age is just a number!

minded, however there are some things you don’t need to share including, shall we say, the physical side of relationships. If anyone has been unfortunate enough to hear their parents partaking in that activity, surely won’t want to put their children through that? Plus it works both ways as I won’t want to hear my children either! The Husband and I have already discussed this and we will allow their partners to stay over, as it is best under our roof than in some park, however ground rules will be made and of course they are agreed with everyone including the ‘in-laws’!

A lot of the month was spent reflecting and I don’t mean looking at myself in the mirror either, especially not at my age now! I would see programmes advertised on Dave then realise that some of my favourites, and from when I was officially an adult, were over twenty years old when they felt like only five years ago! Now that is a sign of age!

Mind you at least there is one remaining actor still alive from Dad’s Army (kids – Google it!).

In the weeks leading up to the big day I spent a lot of time re-playing various parts of my life, including what I could remember from my childhood, (well it was a long time ago now!!) through every decade until now. I marvelled at how a split second decision can sometimes alter your entire future and wondered where I would be now should I had made different decisions. I got morbid at times when I realised, all being well and no awful illnesses, that I could possibly be halfway or more through my life. And then I gave myself an almighty kick up the rear end with the instructions to sort myself out and to enjoy life and I decided that my forties will be the decade of ‘it’s now or never’. I am still young enough to do whatever it is but old enough not to put it off any longer!

Now don’t get me started on music....too late, I’ve started, I don’t need an excuse at my age to say what I want! I still listen to Radio 1 but do panic that one day I will wake up soon and change the dial (another age reference!) to Radio 2. But so far, two weeks into my forties, I have managed to resist. And I have yet to utter the line ‘that’s not music, it’s just a noise’ as our parents did when watching Top of the Pops. Mind you as TOTP ended in 2006 I won’t get to utter it, and it doesn’t seem as long as eight years ago that it ended! Thankfully at least I am too young to remember Pans People (again kids use Google!) and the dodgy looking presenters from the 1970’s!

The decade didn’t get off to the best start though, as I spent my actual 40th birthday celebrating with a vomiting bug. However in the words from my teenage years, from Yazoo – The Only Way is Up (again kids – another Google search!)

Talking of parents disapproval and turning into them – I will not, I repeat WILL NOT go down that road! I aim to be a cool(ish!) parent but create enough distance to not cramp their style, plus there needs to be boundaries and respect so you can’t be their best friend. I am open70

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Swizzels Halloween £1.49 partydelights.co.uk

Cake Stand £3 Tiger Stores

Tiddly Vampires £6 Hotel Chocolat

Witch Headband £3 Tiger Stores

Chalkboard Sigh £6 Marks & Spencer

Coffin Box Jelly Sweets £5 Marks & Spencer

Dancing Pumpkin £12 Sainsburys Home

Skeletons £0.65 Wilkinson

Pumpkin Hat Mothercare

Pumpkin Pinata £10 Marks & Spencer Fabric Bag £1 Sainsburys Home

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Timeless Elegance I

recently stayed at’East Winds Inn on the northwest coast of the beautiful island of St Lucia. Described as ‘timeless seaside elegance’ it’s easy to see why.

The most spectacular sunsets can be seen from the beachfront bar where a chilled glass of champagne is almost obligatory! The pretty pool hosts a swim up bar where you can help yourself to whatever you fancy and there is even a helpful cocktail menu if you want to try your hand at mixing your own. Complimentary water sports include hobie-cats, pedaloes & Kayaks.

A small All Inclusive boutique Hotel, East Winds has semidetached chic cottages scattered about incredible tropical gardens leading to a Palm shaded beach.

The open air beach front Restaurant offers gourmet dining with fine wine pairings. Beach barbecues, theme nights, steel bands and even piano music accompaniment makes each meal a different experience whilst being relaxed and informal too. Well run for over 20 years by Gareth Leach the General Manager you will meet some of the happiest & friendliest staff who are genuinely pleased to be there.

The Resort oozes peace & quiet and low key luxury.

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introduced us to the flora and fauna to be found there.

Thomas the Cat and Eric the Parrott are long term residents and Humming Birds were regular visitors

The iconic ‘must see’ for any visitor are the twin volcanic Pitons in the South of the Island and for stunning views from the Sea take a Catamaran trip from Rodney Bay. The full day cruise includes commentary about the dramatic coastline as you Sail South to Soufriere for your first glimpse of the Pitons. It is possible to hike them, but we took a trip into the world’s only ‘drive in’ volcano with its bubbling sulphur pools. A visit to a working Chocolate Plantation for lunch includes a demonstration on how the beans are ground by foot! A stop in a small bay for snorkelling a welcome chance to cool down and see some brightly coloured tropical fish.

around our veranda. We were intrigued by the bright orange crabs which bask on the grass and scatter into their burrows as you approach. We watched the local fishermen haul their brightly coloured catch onto the beach as the giant prehistoric looking Frigate Birds circle for titbits, magical. The brown sand beach is reasonably secluded, although all beaches in St Lucia are public, it is also possible to arrange for deep sea fishing or diving trips to the plentiful reefs at an extra cost.

This Hotel is perfect for those looking for unpretentious luxury & relaxation, perfect for couples & honeymooners.

There are limited resources for young children although I understand they are welcome.

There is plenty to do outside of the Hotel, just a few minutes taxi ride will take you to Rodney Bay with its Marina and ample restaurants. Equally a taxi to the beautiful Margot Bay, one of the locations for the original Dr Doolittle Film, will reward you with the waterfront setting of ‘Doolittle’s Restaurant’ .There are renowned

We were lucky enough to stay there in August for a few nights, which is out of season, the weather was hot, quite humid and a bit rainy but it didn’t dampen our spirits for this beautiful piece of paradise. We will return and stay for longer next time!

For details of when best to go and to find out costs please call: Sue Alexander Eagle Travel Goldington Road, Bedford 01234 348882

‘Friday night Fish Fries’ to equal those in Barbados & ‘Jump Up’ Friday night Street Parties - if you are in need of excitement. Try Zip-lining across the rainforest canopy for the real adrenalin junky.

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n unprecedented live experience, exploding with heartpounding music, passionate romance and sensationally sexy dancing.

Seen by millions across the globe this worldwide smash-hit tells the classic story of Baby and Johnny.

On holiday in New York’s Catskill Mountains with her older sister and parents, ‘Baby’ shows little interest in the resort activities, and instead discovers her own entertainment when she stumbles upon the staff quarters where an all-night dance party is in full swing. Mesmerised by the raunchy dance moves and the pounding rhythms, ‘Baby’ can’t wait to be part of the scene, especially when she catches sight of Johnny Castle the resort dance instructor. Two fiercely independent young spirits from different worlds, who come together in what will be the most challenging and triumphant summer of their lives.

Dirty Dancing is a fabulous musical journey with some incredible dance routines. It has no less than 35 songs, including “Hungry Eyes”, “Hey Baby”, “Do You Love Me?” and the classic “I’ve Had The Time Of My Life.”

Don't miss your chance to see this truly spectacular musical theatre event - You'll have the time of your life.

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What’s on October 2014 Weds 1st – Sat 18th October Cat on a Hot Tin Roof The Royal and Derngate, Northampton The stifling heat of the plantation. A relationship on the brink. A night of bourbon-soaked confrontations and a family dynasty in crisis. Tennessee Williams’ Pulitzer prize-winning Cat On A Hot Tin Roof remains one of the stage’s most seductive evocations of the Deep South.

Brimming with emotional intensity, this powerful family drama sees Maggie the Cat and her husband Brick return to his home on the night of patriarch and cotton tycoon Big Daddy’s 65th birthday. Keeping from him the news that he is dying, the evening spirals into disaster as the family scramble to secure their part of his inheritance.

Life-altering secrets are revealed and tensions explode as Artistic Director James Dacre’s exciting new staging, with original music

by MOJO and Q Award-winning band White Lies brings a scorching intensity to Williams’ classic tale. www.royalandderngate.co.uk

Mon 6th – Sat 11th October Dreamboats and Miniskirts Milton Keynes Theatre The sequel to Dreamboats and Petticoats What happened to ‘Bobby & Laura’ and ‘Norman & Sue’…?

It’s 1963, and the world is changing. Bobby and Laura’s single Dreamboats and Petticoats has not taken off. Norman and Sue have settled down to non-marital bliss – and a baby! But Ray and Donna seem blissfully happy…

All will be revealed in a follow up with the same wit, charm, and great songs as Dreamboats and Petticoats. Many of the songs are from the next period in pop history www.atgtickets.com Mon 6th October An Evening with Sir Roger Moore The Royal and Derngate, Northampton Following the release of his new book, Last Man Standing: Tales From Tinseltown, the legendary film star chats with biographer Gareth Owen about his astonishing life and career.

Featuring inside stories and exclusive anecdotes from an extraordinary career that has included the iconic TV series The Saint and The Persuaders, plus Hollywood blockbusters and, of course, the James Bond films.

There will also be a unique opportunity to put your own question to the Hollywood legend at the end of the show. www.royalandderngate.co.uk

Fri 3rd October Night at The Movies 7.30pm – 12.30am Whittlebury Hall Hotel & Spa A date at the movies has never been so exciting…

Come along to our musical tribute and have fun with an all singing, all dancing movie extravaganza featuring songs from some of the greatest movies ever made.

With songs from all your favourites including Mamma Mia, Dirty Dancing, Grease, Saturday Night Fever and more.

Enjoy an evening of great music, dancing and food with a threecourse dinner and a half bottle of house wine per person. £49 per person 0845 400 1406 www.whittleburyhall.co.uk

Fri 8th – Sun 11th October Bedford Beer Festival The Corn Exchange, Bedford This three date event returns with well over 100 Real Ales and around 40 traditional Ciders & Perries www.northbedscamra.org.uk

Fri 3rd October Jackson Live in Concert The Grove Theatre, Dunstable Jackson Live in Concert sees long-time fan and hugely talented Ben recreate the Michael Jackson experience with a mesmerising, energetic and dynamic performance that captures the essence and magic of the “King of Pop” live on stage. Ben’s portrayal of Michael Jackson has to be the most vocally and visually accurate tribute to the King of Pop to have ever toured UK theatres. Ben is joined on the stage by his incredible live band and amazing dancers, who work their way through all of MJs hits with impeccable precision.

Tickets £17 - £19.00 01582 60 20 80 www.grovetheatre.co.uk

Thurs 9th October Get your Game On The Embankment, Bedford It’s finally the game season and Sam the chef has created a 4 course dinner showcasing the best in local game for you to enjoy. £40pp including Wine 01234 261332 www.embankmentbedford.co.uk

Fri 10th – Sun 12th October Milton Keynes Food Festival The CentreMK Middleton Hall will play host to another fab Milton Keynes Food Festival, an exciting event featuring recipe demonstrations, children's cookery school sessions and more

Fri 3rd – Sun 5th October Milton Keynes Wedding Show The CentreMK Don't miss the biggest wedding show in the region, in Middleton Hall. Approximately 130 wedding experts will be on hand to guide you through your special day. You name it, we have it! See the fantastic catwalk shows on the Saturday and Sunday at midday, 2pm and 4pm.

Thurs 16th October An Evening of Burlesque Milton Keynes Theatre Come and enjoy Britain’s biggest burlesque extravaganza – we dare you!

Arriving direct from London’s West End, a fresh cast of burlesque all-stars are unveiled for 2014. It’s flushed with success –

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following a thrilling 100-date UK tour combined with overseas adventures in Milan, Zurich, St Petersburg, Minsk, Leipzig, Verona, Dresden, Riga, Padova, Dessau.

Sashaying Royal Academy-trained burlesque bombshells slip into exotic character as smoothly as they slip out of the most exotic couture costumes ever to grace the stage.

It’s the slickest, wickedly wittiest, most delightfully choreographed cabaret spectacular of the year. www.atgtickets.com

be glamorous, Las Vegas style! £49 per person including a three-course dinner, half a bottle of house wine and entertainment 0845 400 1406 www.whittleburyhall.co.uk

Sun 2nd November Affinity Wedding Showcase 11am – 3pm The Bedford Corn Exchange, St Paul’s Square, Bedford Visitors will be greeted with fizz and canapes on arrival together with a goody bag that will also have the bi-annual Affinity Wedding Magazine in it!

The showcase is free entry and will feature an exclusive bridal fashion show by Estilo Moda.

Affinity Weddings is coming to life, with everything a bride needs to plan her perfect day all under one roof 01234 215523 / affinityweddingmag@gmail.com

Thurs 23rd October Steak and Wine Evening 7.00pm The Embankment, Bedford Enjoy a evening of fantastic wine and award winning Steak. Stanthe-main-wine-man will be here to guide you through the evening events along side General Manager Jonathan. This is sure to be a sell out so book your place £45 per person 01234 261332 www.embankmentbedford.co.uk

Sun 26th October Wyboston Lakes Wedding Fayre 11am – 3.30pm This event is set in the lovely Willows Centre which is a beautiful, venue for a stunning wedding with lots of space, on site accommodation for all, as well as a beautiful courtyard garden!

There will be a whole host of exhibitors from photographers to florists, cakemakers to jewellers, Fashion shows at 12pm & 2pm by Shades of White from St Ives Free admission & parking Thurs 30th October Kid’s Halloween Disco Marston Vale Forest Centre Kids party and fancy dress - with games, disco, food box and drink included. Prizes for best costumes! Must be supervised by an adult. Suitable for up to age 10 (approx) Booking essential! £8 per child www.marstonvale.org Thurs 30th October – Sunday 2nd November Beer Festival The Swan Hotel, Bedford Join us and enjoy a range of fantastic beers from around the world. £3.00 per person | Includes branded pint glass and beer guide FREE entrance for CAMRA Members 01234 346 565 www.bedfordswanhotel.co.uk Fri 31st October Michael Jackson Tribute for Halloween 7.30pm – 1.00am Wyboston Lakes Entertainment from Tribute Act Forever Jackson £39.50 per person (includes event ticket, a three course dinner and 1/2 bottle of wine) 0333 7007 667 (option 4) www.wybostonlakesbookings.co.uk

Fri 31st October Las Vegas Show Night 7.30pm – 12.30am Whittlebury Hall Hotel & Spa Viva Las Vegas!!!!

Enjoy an evening of Vegas swing with our Swing singer, accompanied by the Las Vegas Showgirls and performing all your 'Rat Pack' favourites and every song a classic - Come Fly with Me, Under My Skin, Mr Bojangles, Mack The Knife, and many more.

Join us as The Show Girls bringing their glitz, glamour and true entertainment to a show night with a difference. The Girls are undoubtedly the UK’s leading show girls and create the Wow factor with their spectacular costumes and sparkling choreography.

So, it's time to let your hair down, put on your dancing shoes and

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A quiet night in...

Angels Come in Strange Disguises

by Mavis Thompson

This book is a delightful and charming collection of anecdotal experiences reflecting on how angels have touched the author and her family’s lives unexpectedly over the years. A mustread for those who love real-life stories and those inspired to connect with a more spiritual realm. Even the more cynical readers will find enjoyment in Thompson’s moving accounts, some lighthearted and amusing, others more dramatic and poignant—but all unforgettable.

Gone Girl

Maleficent In this new take on the classic Sleeping Beauty story, Maleficent, a beautiful winged fairy falls in love with a human who ultimately betrays Maleficent's love and trust of him by cutting off her wings while she is asleep so that he may present them to a dying King in order to be named successor to the throne. Scorned by love, Maleficent seeks revenge by casting an irreversible evil spell on the newly crowned King's first born child, Aurora. In fear that the spell will come true, the new King sends his newborn child away to a secret country cottage hidden deep within the woods to be watched over by a trio of three hummingbird sized fairies, Flittle, Knotgrass and Thistletwit. As Aurora grows in age, the now scorned fairy Maleficent becomes very fond of the adorable little girl and decides to reverse the curse. However the curse is irreversible. Destined to prick her finger on a spindle wheel needle and fall into a deep sleep forevermore Aurora prematurely returns to her father and his castle. Pricking her finger on the spindle wheel, Aurora fall into her deep sleep awaiting her "prince charming". Eventually awaken by a kiss of love, Aurora helps to usher in a new day of peace in the fantasy land.

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Ben Affleck is suspected of murdering his wife in this dark, complex thriller from 'Se7en' director David Fincher. When Amy Dunne (Rosamund Pike) disappears on her fifth wedding anniversary, her adoring husband Nick (Ben Affleck) is naturally distraught. Adopting a high public profile, he launches a massive search for his 'Amazing Amy'. But under intense media and police scrutiny, cracks begin to appear in Nick's portrayal of his perfect marriage. As his lies unravel, he finds himself cast as the prime suspect! Adapted from her own bestseller by Gillian Flynn, this is a gripping, twisty-turny psychological thriller for an age in which such cases are played out in the unforgiving glare of the media spotlight.

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