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April 2020 Volume 19 • Issue 5

Easter Crafts for Kids Delicious Oreo Dessert Fig Tales: A Sweet Business Story

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Embe Tribute to Women 8

Fig Tales: A Sweet Business Story 10

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FOR KIDS

Easter Crafts for Kids 56

BEST BOOKS 60

CUTE KIDS Submit Your Child’s Photo 62

BEST FRIENDS

Submit Your Pet’s Photo 64

AT HOME

The Joys of Building A Home 22

Sherri’s Oreo Dessert 34

RECIPES MAN IN THE KITCHEN

Stop Complaining.

Start Criticizing. 36

How to Open a Bottle of Wine Without a Corkscrew 38

mind–body–spirit

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KNICK KNACKS OF LIFE Nesting Season 40

HEALTH & WELL-BEING

What Does Breast Cancer Feel Like? 50

HEALTH & WELL-BEING

As Sioux Empire Grows, So Does Sanford Health 52

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mBe’s Tribute to Women has roots in the Leaders Luncheon.

More than 300 women, men and organizations have been honored for their achievements in creating the Sioux Falls culture that helps us all to thrive.

Today, celebration and connection are at the heart of the event that draws over 800 people together to cheer on our colleagues.

We raise up all of the amazing nominees and give awards in nine categories, mingle during a silent auction, share dinner and raise funds to support EmBe’s mission of empowerment.

Over the years, our nominees have included many names that resonate with the community. They include: • Sylvia Henkin, the woman who served so many others as a

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mentor as well as founding the Leaders Luncheon.

• Candy Hanson, who today leads Thrive in changing the lives in children in our community.

• Stephanie Herseth Sandlin, now President of Augustana University.

• The Argus Leader and Avera McKennan, organizations that themselves highlight those who make a difference in Sioux Falls.

• Mary Sommervold was one of the earliest winners, in 1976.

• Bill Townsend, recently retired from Howalt-McDowell Insurance Inc., was one of the first men to be honored.

For a complete list of past winners and this year’s nominees, visit embe.org.

Just as important as those who walk across the stage are the pool of nominees, hand-in-hand with their achievements, the people who worked to share their stories through their nominations.

Finally, the mentors, the teachers, the parents, friends and family who helped shape those we lift up publicly as examples of the way our day to day activities accumulate to create the close-knit community that we all call home.

As EmBe starts our countdown to our 100th anniversary in 2021, it becomes even more meaningful to recognize those who have contributed their time, talent and treasure to make our mission to empower women and families a reality. Inside our doors downtown there are many memories of the women who lived there when it was the YWCA, the people who learned to swim and to

safeguard swimmers as life guards. Those who attended the Santa House, who learned Tae Kwan Do. And the women who through the Refugee and Immigrant Women’s Association (RIWA), became an active part of the community. And so many of us have simply connected with others, learning to lead, volunteering time to help others live full and healthy lives.

In our hearts, we give Tribute to all of you. For every time you, opened a door for someone with full hands, showed up to sandbag in the face of a flood, mentored a colleague, volunteered as a coach, donated a dollar, or coaxed a smile out of a child.

We look forward to celebrating all of you at Tribute to Women 2020 on Thursday, April 23.

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Fig Tales: A Sweet Business Story

BY MARY MICHAELS

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tacie Suedkamp describes herself as a “Catholic, brunch lovin’, girly girl who still writes paper thank you notes.” She’s also a well-known baker as the owner of Fig Tales, a custom sugar cookie company based in Flandreau, SD. While Suedkamp says she can rock a mean snickerdoodle, sugar cookies are her jam. She has tried other bakery creations like cakes, macarons and truffles, but it’s quite apparent that she has mastered the craft as a sugar cookie artist. Fig Tales operates out of a rented commercial kitchen space, and customers can call or go online to

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place orders for delicious, made-to-order cookies. Basically, if you can dream it, chances are Suedkamp can decorate it.

What began as a hobby turned into a business several years ago or, as she says, “thousands of cookies ago.” The inspiration for the business name, Fig Tales, came from the fake pigtails on the helmet she wore while riding a pink scooter around the Twin Cities. Her creations have evolved quite a bit from the decorated circles she started years ago for a friend’s daughter’s birthday. Now everyone from local residents and businesses to customers around

(612) 424-1276 figtales@gmail.com www.figtales.com the world are hooked on the sophisticated shapes and decorations of Fig Tales cookies.

The best compliment to her edible art is when someone declares how delicious they taste. Suedkamp has mastered the art of pretty cookies combined with an amazing taste. New customers are sometimes surprised and ask, “That’s a cookie?”

You only have to go to her website, figtales.com, or follow her social media accounts to see the range of her creativity. However, be warned that it won’t take long before you want to order some for yourself.

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For sports fans, there are baseballs, footballs, basketballs and jerseys for every team, from the local high schools to the pros.

Planning a birthday party? You can get an assortment of cookies that are shaped like cakes, candles and presents, along with decorative shapes with beautifully written messages. Baby shower? Check out designs featuring adorable onesies, bottles and more.

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The captions on social media are as clever as the designs.

Celebrating an angler? She just decorated a fisherman and reeling in a good catch with a simple title, “Nice bass!”

Another unique collection was a set she did for parents surprising their kids with a Disney trip. Suedkamp wrote the kids’ names with “Surprise! We’re going to Disney!” on two cookies and surrounded

those with treats featuring images from favorite Frozen and Star Wars characters.

Occasionally, Suedkamp posts videos of her decorating process.

Last month it was all about St. Patrick’s Day with a live look at the magically-delicious Lucky Charms cookie. Starting with a hexagon shape, Suedkamp draws a bowl in pearlescent green, followed by a

silver spoon and white icing for the milk. Then, she sprinkled Lucky Charms marshmallows on the white icing. And, voila! A breakfast cookie!

Suedkamp also hosts cookie decorating parties and teaches decorating classes. Be sure to sign up for Fig Tales e-mail marketing and follow all the latest on social media @FigTales.

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April College Day at Color Me Mine Thursdays, April 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 All college students with a valid student ID will receive 20% off their purchase. All Day! Color Me Mine. 3709 W. 41st S. (605) 362-6055.

McCrossan Banquet Auction featuring Bonner Bolton Thursday, April 2 5:30pm Sioux Falls Arena Join us for “The Wildest Banquet Auction in the Midwest” featuring Bonner Bolton, cowboy contestant on Dancing with the Stars along with our friends from the PBR (Professional Bull Riders).Dust

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off those cowboy boots and join us for music, photo opportunities, auction items and a chance to meet with PBR cowboys (and bulls) for a night of entertainment you won’t forget! Tickets $75.

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Pizza and Fun (Autism Awareness Event) Thursday, April 2 5pm - 7pm USD Health Science Center Center for Disabilities 1400 W 22nd Street Celebrate Autism Awareness Month. There will be carnival games, prizes, resources, clowns, a balloon artist, food and fun! Free event! INFO (605) 357-1420.

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Behind the Scenes Tour of the Irene Hall Museum Resource Center Friday, April 3 • 12:15 p.m.

Irene Hall Museum Resource Center 4300 N. Westport Avenue Take a look behind the closed doors of the new Irene Hall Museum Resource Center and see the artifact storage and work areas.

Call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com Sioux Falls Jazz and Blues Society presents: Slim Man Friday, April 3 • 8pm Orpheum Theater 315 N. Phillips Avenue.

Winner for Best Jazz Vocals at the 2019 Coachella Music Awards, Slim Man will take the stage at the Orpheum Theater on April 3. Slim Man’s style has been touted as “…a near perfect example of how jazz and soul can be combined as pop.” The show is suitable for all ages, but may be best enjoyed by those 12 and older. INFO (605) 367-6000.

Dig Into Spring at Oakridge Nursery April 3, 4 & 5 Bareroot cellar is open. Fully stocked greenhouse. 20% off all potted trees and shrubs. 2217 S. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. oakridgenurseryinc.com

Augustana Orchestra Presents Swan Lake Saturday, April 4 • 4pm Lorang Auditorium - O’Gorman High School 3201 S. Kiwanis Avenue The Augustana Orchestra and LiRa Dance Company present Tchaikovsky’s Swan Lake Suite.

INFO (605) 274-5053.

South Dakota Symphony: Mozart Requiem Saturday, April 4 • 7:30pm Sunday, April 5 • 2:30 p.m.

Mary W. Sommervold Hall of the Washington Pavilion Mozart’s choral masterpiece is paired with the gripping Stabat Mater from Arvo Pärt – the perfect way to honor Palm Sunday.

INFO (605) 367-6000.

Stacey’s Vintage Art Boutique Spring Into Spring Event Saturday, April 4 • 11am–4pm 27102 Albers Ave Sioux Falls, SD.

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An Evening with Paula Poundstone Saturday, April 4 • 7:30 p.m.

Orpheum Theater 315 N. Phillips Ave. Paula Poundstone is a humorist, author and comedian known for her clever, observational humor and spontaneous wit. When she isn’t collecting hotel soaps while on tour or panel-ing on NPR’s #1 show, Wait, Wait...Don’t Tell Me!, Paula hosts the popular Maximum Fun podcast, Nobody Listens to Paula Poundstone.

Nobody is a comedy field guide to life complete with taste tests, cats of the weeks and leading experts in everything from beekeeping to ping pong to prosopagnosia (say that 3 times fast). INFO (605) 367-6000.

Greater Sioux Falls Model Railroad Tour Saturday, April 4 • 10am - 5pm 1704 S. Cleveland Avenue The Dakota Southeastern Division (DSED) model railroad club in collaboration with The Compass Center (thecompasscenter.org) is hosting a Model Railroad Tour of model railroads in the Sioux Falls area. There will be 8 model railroads to tour. Proceeds to benefit The Compass Center (TCC) in providing support for victims of domestic and sexual abuse. Tickets can be purchased on the TCC website: thecompasscenter.org, at Donovan’s Hobbies by 49th & Western in Sioux Falls, or from DSED members directly. A family ticket is $20, and individual ticket $10. INFO (605) 595-2634.

MasterChef Junior Live!

Tuesday, April 7 • 7–10pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave.

Something tasty is heading to your hometown! Don’t miss this year’s newest hit tour – MasterChef Junior Live! MasterChef Junior Live! is coming to Sioux Falls on April 7. Due to popular demand, this high-energy, interactive stage production is extending its debut tour to 40 new U.S markets in 2020 bringing the culinary hit TV show “MasterChef Junior” directly to fans and foodies alike ... LIVE on stage! INFO (605) 367-6000.

Ceili Dance Thursday, April 9 • 6:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Ceili (pronounced KAY-lee) is an Irish social dance. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced dancer, Ceili dancing is a fun and energetic way to spend an evening. Get ready to dance to live Irish music at the Old Courthouse Museum! Free admission.

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

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Indoor Plant Party at Oakridge Nursery April 9, 10 & 11 Succulents and house lants 20% off. Pottery 20% off. Succulent bar — build your own succulent planter. DIY planting station.

Oakridge team will be handing out care sheets and talk about the benefits of houseplants with indoor air quality. 2217 S. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. Oakridgenurseryinc.com Starlab Inflatable Planetarium at the Old Courthouse Museum Saturday, April 11 1:30, 2:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Discover the night sky, explore the constellations! Starlab is a program for adults and children over the age of 5. Not recommended for those not comfortable in the dark. Tickets only $2, program begins promptly on the hour with no late entry.

Groups of 8 or more, please call ahead. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com Screen Printing Heirloom Towels Thursday, April 16 • 6:30pm Stained Glass Craftsman 3211 S. Prairie Avenue Learn the screen printing process designed with the home hobbyist in mind! Bring a collection of family recipes, pictures, poems, or stories to screen print onto hand towels. Utilize new screen printing techniques to apply your individualized project with print ink onto fabric! These skills can be applied to screen printing t-shirts, woodwork stenciling, and many other artistic projects.

Materials included for five towels.

If time allows, create additional towels alacarte. Retail Asst.

Manager Brody (of the feline type) will be at the studio.2 Sessions/ class INFO (605) 367-7999.

Scenes of Sioux Falls: A Photographic Journey Exhibit Opening Reception Thursday, April 16 • 5pm - 7pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street

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We take photographs to remember. They preserve what once was and allow us to view the important events in our lives. Get the first look at the new exhibit and enjoy refreshments with museum staff and volunteers.

Free Admission.

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com Kid’s Activity Day Picture This! at the Old Courthouse Museum Thursday, April 16 9-11am and 1-2pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission.

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com 18th Annual Books & More Sale Friday, April 17 • 8am - 5pm Saturday, April 18 • 9am - noon Fantle Building, Center for Western Studies Augustana University Campus The Augustana Library Associates will present their 18th annual Books and More Sale. The sale will be held in the Center for Western Studies, located adjacent to the Mikkelsen Library on the Augustana University campus.

A large selection of books, CDs, DVDs, and more will be available, including books for children.

INFO (605) 274-5053.

Earth Day at Oakridge Nursery April 17, 18 & 19 Potted fruit trees and shrubs 20% off. Free butterfly plant or tomato seedling with purchase, while supplies last. 2217 S. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. Oakridgenurseryinc.com South Dakota Symphony: Beethoven’s Ninth Saturday, April 18 • 7:30 p.m.

Sunday, April 19 • 2:30 p.m.

Mary W. Sommervold Hall Washington Pavilion In celebration of Beethoven’s 250th anniversary year, the SDSO

Menopause The Musical June 12 – 14, 2020 Orpheum Theater COME JOIN OUR SISTERHOOD! Four women at a lingerie sale have nothing in common but a black lace bra AND memory loss, hot flashes, night sweats, not enough sex, too much sex and more! This hilarious musical parody set to classic tunes from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s will have you cheering and dancing in the aisles! See what more than 15 million women and fans worldwide have been laughing about for 18 years!

With everyone’s safety in mind, the organizers of CAPES! and Ties & Tiaras have postponed both events until further notice.

We plan on hosting both events as soon as gatherings are permitted and deemed safe for everyone involved.

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www.tiesandtiarassf.com season finale is his glorious Symphony No. 9—best known for its culminating “Ode to Joy.” This entire concert is a globetrotting program including music from Indian, Arab, and Mexican composers, and featuring a multicultural quartet of singers for the Ninth! INFO (605) 367-6000.

Design Challenge Saturday, April 18 • 8am - 4pm Washington Pavilion Design Challenge is an annual Washington Pavilion program that aims to motivate and inspire innovation in students through a hands-on engineering challenge.

The theme changes every year and requires students to tap into the worlds of science, technology, engineering and math to channel their inner Einstein.

Registration deadline: April 6, 2020 If you have questions, contact us at 605-731-2348 or education@ washingtonpavilion.org.

for updates.

Paws to Celebrate Saturday, April 18 • 6pm The premier fundraiser for the Sioux Falls Area Humane Society. Tickets and information: SFHumaneSociety.com/paws Mary Jo Wegner Arboretum Qi Gong & Tai Chi Sat, April 18 • 1:30 - 2:30 pm Come explore the relaxing practice of Qi Gong & Tai Chi. This practice is gentle on the joints and considered nonimpact, helps improve balance and relieves stress. Beginners are welcome. Cost is $20.00. INFO (605) 367-4414.

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For Heaven’s Sake — A Silent Movie Sunday, April 19 Historic Palace Theatre, Luverne, MN. Turn back the clock and experience a silent movie at the Palace Theatre. Organist, Leona Hoek will accompany “For Heaven’s Sake” on the historic, 1926 Smith-Geneva pipe organ.

For Heaven’s Sake is a 1926 comedy silent film directed by Sam Taylor and starring Harold Lloyd. Commercially, it was one of Lloyd’s most successful films and the 12th highest-grossing film of the silent era. You won’t want to miss the unique experience. $7 admission. Call the box office at 507-283-4339 for more information.

Making Memories Tuesday, April 21 6:30 - 8:30pm Instructional Planning Center 201 E. 38th St. What’s in the cards? You’ll start with 12 kits and either create the cards from the instructions that

are included or get artsy and create your own version. You will go home with 12 new custom created cards and all the extras from the kit to create other cards as you like.

INFO (605) 367-7999.

Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse Museum Tuesday, April 21 • 1pm - 4pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Eileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second floor hallway of the Old Courthouse Museum. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions.

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com The Texas Tenors Wednesday, April 22 • 7:30 p.m.

Mary W. Sommervold Hall Washington Pavilion You will not want to miss out on this one night performance.

The Texas Tenors are the most successful music group and third highest selling artist in the

history of “America’s Got Talent”!

Since appearing on the show in 2009, JC, Marcus and John have released 4 studio albums, 2 PBS Specials, 4 DVDs, multiple singles and a children’s book that have earned them impressive recognition including 3 Emmy Awards®, The Gelett Burgess Award for Excellence in Children’s Literature and the distinction of being Billboard Magazine’s 2019 #10 Classical Artist in the World.

Their most recent albums “Rise” and “A Collection of Broadway and American Classics” both debuted at #1 on the Billboard Classical Chart. INFO (605) 367-6000.

DAPA presents: Roald Dahl’s Willy Wonka Jr. Wednesday, April 22 • 7pm Thursday, April 23 • 7pm Friday, April 24 • 7pm Saturday, April 25 • 2pm Sunday, April 26 • 2pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Roald Dahl’s Willy Wonka Jr. follows enigmatic candy

with special thanks to

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manufacturer Willy Wonka as he stages a contest by hiding golden tickets in five of his scrumptious candy bars. Whomever comes up with these tickets will win a free tour of the Wonka factory, as well as a lifetime supply of candy. Four of the five winning children are insufferable brats, but the fifth is a likeable young lad named Charlie Bucket, who takes the tour in the company of his equally amiable grandfather. The children must learn to follow Mr. Wonka’s rules in the factory — or suffer the consequences. INFO (605) 367-6000.

America – 50th Anniversary Tour Thursday, April 23 • 7pm Mary W. Sommervold Hall Washington Pavilion The year 2020 marks the 50th Anniversary of perennial classicrock favorite, America. Founding members, Gerry Beckley and Dewey Bunnell (along with former band mate Dan Peek) met in high school in London in the late 1960s and quickly

harmonized their way to the top of the charts on the strength of their signature song “A Horse With No Name.” America became a global household name and paved the way with an impressive string of hits following the success of their first #1 single. Forty plus years later, these friends are still making music together, touring the world and thrilling audiences with their timeless sound. INFO (605) 367-6000.

Sioux Empire Community Theatre presents Disney’s Beauty and the Beast April 23 & 24 • 7pm April 25 • 2pm & 7pm April 26 • 2pm April 30 & May 1 • 7pm May 2 • 2pm & 7pm May 3 • 2pm Orpheum Theater The classic story tells of Belle, a young woman in a provincial town, and the Beast, who is really a young prince trapped under the spell of an enchantress. If the Beast can learn to love and be loved, the curse will end and

he will be transformed into his former self. But time is running out. If the Beast does not learn his lesson soon, he and his household will be doomed for all eternity.

(605) 367-6000.

Mary Jo Wegner Arboretum Arbor Day Celebration Friday, April 24 • 1pm - 3pm Join us in a celebration of trees!

Trees provide us with beauty, shelter, shade and so many other wonderful things. In the afternoon, we will be planting a new tree at the Arboretum in honor of Arbor Day. Everyone welcome! INFO (605) 367-4414.

Arbor Day at Oakridge Nursery April 24, 25 & 26 30% off of one bare root tree.

20% off one potted tree. 2217 S. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. Oakridgenurseryinc.com Party with a Purpose Saturday, April 25 5pm - 7pm The Coliseum

515 N. Main Ave. The inaugural spring gala fundraiser for The Multi-Cultural Center of Sioux Falls (MCC), “Party with a Purpose” will be a sophisticated evening with dining, entertainment, a silent auction and keynote speaker David Jal, one of the “Lost Boys of Sudan”.

Cocktail Attire. All proceeds go towards supporting MCC’s 21 programs and services. For more information visit www.sfmcc.org or call (605) 367-7401.

Beautiful — The Carole King Musical Thursday, April 30 • 7:30pm Friday, May 1 • 7:30pm Saturday, May 2 • 2pm & 7:30pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. The Tony® and Grammy® Award-Winning inspiring true story of King’s remarkable rise to stardom, from being part of a hit songwriting team with her husband Gerry Goffin, to her relationship with fellow writers and best friends Cynthia Weil and Barry Mann, to becoming one

of the most successful solo acts in popular music history. Along the way, she made more than beautiful music, she wrote the soundtrack to a generation.

INFO (605) 367-6000.

Luverne, MN City-Wide Garage Sales Thursday, April 30 – Saturday, May 2 Listings available April 24.

Available at www.luvernechamber.com Oak Ridge Nursery Spring Open House Friday, May 1 – Sunday, May 3 The ultimate weekend plan for the whole family! Join us for a variety of greenhouse sales, a food truck, vendors, treats, refreshments and a bounce house! Visit with our experienced team to answer all your plant, tree or landscaping questions! 10% off all perennials, 20 % off potted flowering crabs, 20% off packages spring bulbs and seeds. 2217 S. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. (605) 582-6565.

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uilding a home is a huge undertaking, but, as one local family discovered, it’s certainly much easier when you have a good team of professionals at your side.

For these homeowners, the team included Complete Contracting, Houndstooth House, Earthscapes Inc. and Save Our Space.

After being away from the area for about 12 years, they came back to Sioux Falls because they have family here. They bought a house at the southern edge of Sioux Falls, but with a family of

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six – the two of them and four kids – it wasn’t long before they realized they would be happier in a bigger space. A lot nearby had been in their sights for a while, and eventually, they bought it. It was close enough that they could watch the construction happen.

The family moved into their new home in the fall of 2018.

Having previously lived in Des Moines and Omaha, they had attended events like Sioux Falls’ own Parade of Homes and saw ideas they liked and tucked them away in a folder for “someday.”

While Complete Contracting was responsible for much of the

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design, the homeowners definitely had influence on some of the key features. For example, with four teenagers in the family, the couple wanted their two girls to have their space upstairs and the two boys to be able to spread out downstairs. All four kids were able to help pick the dĂŠcor for their rooms, each of which was built with its own walk-in closet and bathroom. The girls have a loft area at the top of the stairs for lounging, and there is an additional room that sits over the garage that was finished with extra furniture and a bed, which is perfect when the girls have

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friends stay over. Downstairs, the guys have a little game cove of their own with comfy seating for intense video game sessions.

Another feature that was at the top of the homeowners’ list was a space big enough for their large, rustic dining table.

“We wanted a space big enough where we could all sit around the table and still be able to walk all the way around the table as well, which we couldn’t really do in our other house.”

The open floor plan really started with the design around that

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table. The neutral palette, tall ceilings and abundance of windows creates a space that is bright and airy. But, then the use of wood – from the floors to the dark fireplace mantel and ceiling beams – along with other elements of nature like the stacked stone

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Although it took a few years to get from the ideas in the folder to a completed project, the family couldn’t be happier that their home vision became a reality.

every purpose from food prep to a place for snacks or homework.

Although they wondered if they were crazy at the time, the couple installed two dishwashers in the island, and they say both get filled and emptied every week.

The enviable walk-in pantry was designed with the help of Save Our Space, with a counter for the coffee maker and toaster and shelves in varying heights to accommodate everything from cereal to cookie sheets.

Working with the contractor, the family made use of every possible space within the floor plan, such as the combination office and laundry room that wraps around the back side of the kitchen. And while Mom does the laundry, there are shelves with big baskets for each kid.

“I’ll wash the clothes, but if they want them, they have to come here and get them,” she laughs.

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Double glass-inset doors off the entryway open to a rustic study with a full wall of built-in shelves and storage, dark shiplap accents on the ceiling, a wagon wheel chandelier with Edison bulbs and natural fabric shades.

The master suite is the perfect place for the busy mom and dad of four to unwind. Big windows with remote control blinds provide a view of the backyard, and they added unique lighting on either side of the bed by hanging chandeliers with dimmer switches low over each nightstand. The tray ceiling adds dimension to the room and calls attention to the unique three-blade ceiling fan that looks like it could have been made out of pieces of dark driftwood.

A pocket door opens to the elegant master bath with a marbled tile floor and gold accents in hardware and shimmers in the small tiled accents on the wall. A large tub sits in the center with vanities complete with underlighting on each side. A supersized

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In addition to the boys’ rooms, the lower level includes a great entertaining space with a pool table, shuffleboard table and custom bar area that was inspired by a place they had seen in Estes Park, Colorado. Wood planks accent the wall behind the bar and behind the television and entertainment center. The bar itself has panels with LED lights so they can change the colors…red being for the days they are cheering on the Nebraska Cornhuskers.

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picking out just a few options – from fixtures to wallpaper – and then they could make their final choices.

Features like the square gold light fixtures above the island, wallpaper with abstract lines or made from shredded wood and

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STOP COMPLAINING. START CRITICIZING.

BY JIM MATHIS

I

would like to issue a complaint. I’m not happy with the way people are complaining these days. I’m upset with reviews on Yelp, Facebook, Instagram and Urbanspoon. But what really gets under my skin are the “reviewers” who complain while hiding behind a screen, or worse yet, an anonymous username.

Now to be fair, most online reviews for Sioux Falls restaurants are positive. Sometimes they are so good that I question how they can be true. I’ve also seen 2 out of 5 stars followed by “but I’ll definitely come back!” If it’s only worth 2 stars, why would

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you go back? And I saw a post about one Sioux Falls fine dining establishment that started with the words “I haven’t eaten here yet...” What? If you haven’t eaten at a restaurant, why and how are you writing a review?

As I see it, the biggest problem with reviews is too often customers use them just to complain online, while not saying anything in real life. Restaurants aren’t given a chance to learn from mistakes or fix the problems if the only thing an unhappy customer does is pull out their smartphone and go straight to Yelp.

If you have a problem with a meal, put down the phone and tell the server what’s wrong. If they don’t fix the issue, talk to the manager. But if the server asks how your meal is and you reply, “Everything’s great!” don’t expect anything to change. They have given you a chance to provide feedback, and you declined.

What’s the right way to complain about a restaurant meal? Offer constructive criticism live and in person, while you’re still there.

“This sucks” is not constructive; “My steak is well-done and I asked for medium-rare” or “the soup is cold” offers the restaurant

a chance to make it right. If the manager stops by the table during your meal, let them know how they could make your night better.

If you feel a draft, let them know. If the server was inattentive, the manager deserves to hear that from you. Anything that you would say on Facebook, Yelp or Twitter, you should be willing say to the manager. Let them hear it straight from your mouth. They may offer to replace your meal, take some cost off your check or offer free dessert. A good manager will want to make things right. But your chance to fix the meal ends when you walk out the door. After that, the options for the restaurant are very limited.

At a recent meal here in Sioux Falls, I was served a cocktail that seemed to be missing a key ingredient. I brought this to the attention of our server. He immediately alerted one of the manager/owners who personally oversaw the mixing of my replacement cocktail. That same manager and his business partner checked in with our table later in the meal to apologize, offer free dessert and apologize a second time.

The issue was fixed, and they went out of their way to make sure I knew my criticism was not only heard but appreciated.

Yes, it’s less confrontational to suffer in silence and complain online, but that does nothing for you or the restaurant. You still feel like you’ve suffered; now the business has to suffer as well. No one wins. If you bring the problem to their attention and they still ignore it, now you have every right to complain online to your friends and anyone else who sees your review. I still don’t like anonymous screennames, but that’s not an issue I’ll fix in this column.

One more thing, before you complain, make sure your expectations of the restaurant are realistic. If you’re at a drive-thru taco stand, don’t expect 5-Star service. If you’ve ordered a 14-course tasting menu, don’t expect to be done with your meal in 30 minutes.

Are there exceptions to every rule? Yes! A lunch-counter style sandwich shop downtown only has seating for a couple of handfuls of people, but they make every one of them feel like the most important customer to walk through the door, whether the shop is empty or packed to the gills. They give five-star service in the kind of shop where most people expect far less. Outstanding!

With the immediacy and reach of the Internet, every person can be a critic. That doesn’t mean we should turn online reviews into a platform just to bully and vent. When you post a review, identify yourself, make sure you have reasonable expectations and be honest and objective with your criticism. And, most importantly, if you do have an unpleasant experience at a restaurant, or any business for that matter, make your criticism known at the moment the situation arises and make it to someone who has the ability to correct it immediately. I’m sure I’ll get some flak from people who post and read online reviews religiously, but if you have a complaint, please just tell me to my face.

Do yourself a favor, eat something good today.

When he’s not checking out restaurants, Jim spends his days creating marketing campaigns at ADwërks, an advertising agency in Downtown Sioux Falls.

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title How to Open a Bottle of Wine

Without a Corkscrew

BY RICCARDO TARABELSI

I

know what you’re thinking: “No way. There’s no possible way of doing it. He’s just using this title to get me to read a cute story about some wine I’ve never heard of.” Now, some of you may be thinking outside the box: “OK, I got it! No corkscrew, no problem. All you need is needle-nose pliers, a monkey wrench, a compass, a spool of thread, some baking soda, and a stick of gum.”

Creative, yes, but aside from any MacGyver-like contraptions, the only “tool” you need can be found in any household bathroom…

But first, you have to read my cute story.

I was 22-years-old, young and in love. I was heading to my girlfriend’s one bedroom studio apartment in Somerville (pronounced with a Boston accent, SUH-MUH-VILLE) just 10 minutes outside of Boston. She had just graduated from nursing school, and I wanted to celebrate her achievement with one of the finest bottles of Italian wine: Ruffino Chianti Classico Riserva Ducale. As I was driving through Arlington (AHLINGTON) I had visions of my girlfriend’s face as the delicate wine poured into her glass, me looking into her eyes, raising our glasses in a toast to her achievement. She was making dinner for us, and I was eager to impress her with this remarkable bottle of wine.

Since I am from Florence, I was especially looking forward to introducing her to a distinguished representative of Tuscan

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wines. Traditionally, Chianti producers are more concerned with quantity rather than quality. I’m sure most of you remember drinking Chianti from a straw-covered fiasco that Italy became famous for, and that still haunts the Italian wine industry today.

The wine from those flasks was typically light, flat, and so bitter that it would make your mouth pucker. In an effort to increase quality and to make the world recognize the depth of the Chianti and Chianti Classico zones in the heart of Tuscany, these regions were upgraded to D.O.C.G status in 1984. This Italian wine regulation system allows only certain geographical areas of Italy to have the designation of being “controlled and guaranteed” by the government. Chianti now follows those rules by submitting samples annually and must abide by criteria that limit wine makers to things like which grapes can be used, where the grapes can be grown, and how long it can be aged. Ruffino, a pioneer in the hills of Chianti, got its start in 1887.

As I was turning off of a rotary in Meford (MED-FED), I went over the finer points of the wine in my mind so I could really impress her. Ruffino Chianti Ducale was first produced in 1927. Made from blending 90% Sangiovese, 10% Colorino, Cabernet Sauvignon, and Merlot, this wine undergoes malolactic fermentation (a process that is used to reduce the acidity in red wines,) and is then aged in oak casks for approximately 24 months.

The wine is a pretty ruby red in color and has red fruit aromas with a hint of spice. Upon taste, this Chianti Classico is full-bodied and velvety with some nice mature fruit tones. Pairing is a cinch: Tuscan salami or prosciutto is its soul mate, but any pasta with a rich red sauce is also ideal. Knowing that my girlfriend was a making a spaghetti dish with a fresh tomato sauce, I knew this wine would make our special evening exquisite.

I arrived promptly, with bottle in hand, and rang the doorbell.

She answered with a smile, and we both went upstairs to her scenic third floor studio. Inhaling the sweet aroma of fresh tomatoes and seeing her kitchen table decorated with folded cloth napkins, crystal wine glasses, and candles, I was certain this was going to be the perfect evening with perfect food and the perfect wine. Then it dawned on me… what good was my wine going to do if I couldn’t get it open? I had forgotten the most invaluable tool to a wine lover: the corkscrew! I knew that she didn’t have one in her apartment because she wasn’t much of a wine drinker, and she was on a nursing school budget (“Let’s see, should I buy a stethoscope or a corkscrew?”) So, there I was, trying to impress a beautiful girl with a bottle of beautiful wine, and I had screwed up the evening beautifully.

“Beautiful,” I thought to myself in a sarcastic tone. “Now what am I going to do?” If there’s one thing I’m not, it’s a quitter. I

knew there had to be a way of getting the bottle open without having to act in desperation and break the bottle. I prefer my wine without shards of glass. Then a thought struck me: if there’s one person who would know if it was even possible to open a bottle of wine without a corkscrew, it would be my Dad. My Dad grew up in Aleppo, Syria, a place where resources were limited, and so he often had to fend for himself and rely on his creativity. I had to get a hold of him, so I excused myself by telling my girlfriend that I had to get my corkscrew out of my car.

She said, “Hurry, I can’t wait to taste this wine with our dinner.” I responded nervously, “Neither can I.” As I shut her door behind me I whispered to myself, “If I can only get this bottle open.”

Descending the stairs, I hit the speed-dial button and called my Dad on my cell phone. I quickly explained the situation, and he calmly answered, “Get a towel.” I said, “What?” He repeated, “Get a towel… and make sure you find a wall with a stud.”

When I got back upstairs to the apartment, I explained to my girlfriend that I had forgotten my corkscrew. Disappointed, she picked up the bottle and stared blankly at the detailed label.

Then I heroically said, “But I think I can get it open.” She looked at me incredulously. I grabbed a towel out of her bathroom, folded it in half, then half again, and again until it was nice and thick. I cut the foil off of the top of the bottle with a knife, and then I located a sturdy wall. Facing the wall, I planted my feet, held the folded towel against the wall with my left hand, and held the body of the bottle with my right hand. Then, I did just as my Dad had instructed; I lifted the bottle so that the bottom of the bottle was aiming towards the towel on the wall. And then I did the unthinkable: I closed my eyes and swung, striking the base of the bottle against the fluffy towel. I opened my eyes to see that the bottle was still intact and that my girlfriend’s jaw had dropped in amazement. I looked at the cork, and it was still snuggled tight in the bottle. So, I lifted the bottle and repeated the firm blows. After about 8 or 9 times, the unimaginable happened: the cork was actually sliding out! It works!

I forget how many times I had to whack that bottle, but eventually enough of the cork slid out so that I could grab it with my fingers and twist the cork out. “Unbelievable,” I thought.

I didn’t believe it either as it was happening, but it is a true story. So, if you’re ever caught without a corkscrew (and are conveniently locked in your bathroom with a bottle of wine) you now have the knowledge to impress friends at a party or just try it to see if it really works. By the way, my girlfriend in this cute story has now been married to me for almost 23 years. I guess that bottle trick won her over.

Riccardo and Marybeth are the owners of R Wine Bar & Kitchen on the East Bank of Downtown Sioux Falls. They love entertaining guests at the restaurant along with their talented team. They will spend Easter with their three sons Dante, Berent, and Jaxon.

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Nesting Season

BY LURA ROTI

M

y favorite kind of spring cleaning happens outdoors. It’s invigorating to don garden gloves and clear away soggy, brown leaves and other vegetation to reveal spring’s vibrant green sprouts.

Based on their song, the birds agree. On a recent 50-plus degree Saturday, I heard, then saw, my first robins of 2020. They were busy starting their brood and gathering supplies for their nest.

Typically, our front and back porch lights each host a nest.

Built by smart mommas intent on taking advantage of protection provided by porch roofs, these nests are easy to observe. With help from a kitchen stool, our family enjoys following their progression — from nest building and egg laying to hatching, and watching momma load up on worms to feed her baby birds.

It’s an up-close-and-personal look at a mother’s devotion and love.

A few springs back, we counted as a momma robin caught eight worms, then burdened by the extra weight, slowly hoisted herself up to the nest. After feeding her babies, she cleaned the waste from the nest. Then, flew up to our neighbor’s gutter and washed her beak.

That spring, my mom and I created a cottage garden in our front

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yard. So, there was a lot of digging going on, making it pretty easy to find worms. When worms aren’t exposed by gardening or rain, my husband enjoys watching robins hunt – tipping their heads to the earth as if listening for their next meal.

Birds are fascinating and beautiful. Visit our home and it becomes obvious that my interest in them extends to our home décor. The only piece of art we’ve ever commissioned is by Ceca Cooper and features a nest and three birds (one for each of us). It hangs in our dining room and makes me think of spring even on below zero days.

I also have a few nests displayed - a benefit to hosting two families of robins each year. Although I do have several glass birds roosting throughout our home, I am careful they are not too matchy-matchy. Among my favorites is one of a Meadowlark I found at an estate sale. Growing up on a small ranch in western South Dakota, I will never tire of their song. Each time I’m out west interviewing a ranch family, I see them roosting on barbed wire. I have yet to be quick enough to capture one on film. But I keep trying.

Parker enjoys watching birds and helping me uncover spring

bulbs. When she was a baby, I’d bundle her up and she’d play close by while I cleaned out flower beds. The other day, she sat in the sunshine reading Diary of a Wimpy Kid and giggling.

Occasionally, she’d read a funny passage to me. She is growing up.

I try to embrace each stage. But it’s bittersweet.

This spring, Parker and I are converting her playhouse into

a clubhouse. I had to swallow a lump and blink back tears as I helped our 9-year-old move the sink, oven and refrigerator out. We moved in art supplies, fun throw pillows and made plans for where beanbag chairs will go.

After a quick search revealed bean bag chairs are quite the investment – the least expensive being $30. We decided I would

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make them. She is going to pick out the fabric. I’m going to sew the form. Then, we’re going to use her many stuffed animals as the filling.

This genius storage idea was discovered during our online search. Until now, more than half of her stuffies have gone to “summer camp” (actually tubs in our basement.) Although Shon and I have not purchased a single stuffed animal for her, somehow, she has enough to fill five storage bins. It doesn’t take long to learn as a parent…you CAN have too many stuffed animals. And they are ALL Parker’s favorite!

Last spring, Parker’s best friend’s dad and I were visiting about stuffed animals’ ability to multiply. The topic came about after he purchased a giant bunny from HyVee. Maren had asked for it and he thought he was safe in saying she could have it as long as it was less than $10. Guess what? An Easter rabbit, as tall as his

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8-year-old, was only $8!

Parker’s friends are the reason we are sewing two bean-bag chairs.

She wants her clubhouse to be a place where they can hang out, do crafts, have sleepovers and maybe even hold a few meetings.

Meetings are a “thing” for third graders. She and her friends hold meetings before and after school. When I asked her what they talk about during the meetings she said, “we talk about what we are going to talk about during our next meeting.”

Sound familiar?

It shouldn’t surprise me. Parker tags along with us to all our neighborhood meetings – and pre-meeting, planning meetings. It never ceases to amaze me how what we are interested in, interests our girl. For now, I’m grateful she is interested in creating a fun space in our backyard. Where this momma bird can keep a close eye on her.

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Stacey’s Vintage Art has something for everyone looking for a new look for their home — or just to refresh for spring. Art by local artists & artisans, furniture, photography, reclaimed pieces and so much more! I-29, Exit 73, then 2 blocks east.

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What Does Breast Cancer Feel Like?

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t’s alarming to feel a lump in your breast. Should you get it checked out or wait? Is it something or just no big deal? The way that lump feels can provide plenty of information.

Breast cancer tumors are rigid with firm, angular edges. They feel more like rocks than grapes.

“A tumor won’t be smooth like a cyst. It might be tiny – they’re often felt by a doctor during an exam when they are as small as a half-inch in diameter,” said Tricia Merrigan, MD, breast surgeon with Avera Medical Group Comprehensive Breast Care. “Women often do not find them on their own when they are this small.”

When that lump is new to you, doesn’t feel soft or move around

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when you feel it, it’s time to make an appointment. Annual mammograms, clinical breast exams and most importantly, regular self-exams, all help patients. Self-exams let women know their breasts’ usual look and feel.

“Some women have lumpier breast tissue,” Merrigan said. “Women who get screening mammograms often have their cancers found before they can be felt. It’s common to have tumors that are 2 to 3 centimeters in diameter by the time a woman can feel it in a self-exam.”

All women should self-examine. Yearly clinical exams and screening mammograms are also vital. Mammography can miss things, and that’s why a combination works best.

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Self-exams, along with provider exams and yearly mammograms, all work together to give women the earliest possible detection of a tumor.

When women do self-exams, they should lie down, so gravity can flatten and spread out the breast tissue over the chest muscles.

“Normal, lumpy breast tissue evens out, but tumors remain rigid,” Merrigan said. “It’s important to remember that tumors can sometimes be found in or among the natural fibrous tissue. Selfexams done lying down let gravity help to spread the tissue out.”

You may feel a lump even when imaging was normal. Consider getting a second opinion or following up with your provider if you feel a rigid bump. Don’t assume a recent negative mammogram means “everything’s fine.”

While lying flat, stretch your arm up over your head. “You’ll spread the tissue over the muscle,” she said. “Don’t use your fingertips. Use middle portion of your fingers, brought together.”

When you squish the tissue between your fingers and chest wall, you are more likely to pass over normal bumps, yet still feel unusual bumps.

“You should also stand in front of a mirror. Visually examine your breasts,” said Merrigan. “Look for dimples or puckering, and look for lumps where you felt them when you were lying down.”

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“Screening mammograms still miss 10% of cancers you can feel,” Merrigan said. “You should always report any new lump and get a clinical exam.”

Merrigan said more imaging such as contrast-enhanced spectral mammography (CESM), breast ultrasound and MRI might be needed. It’s better to confirm “not cancer” with a trip to the clinic than think “no big deal” and allow a tumor to continue growing.

“We’d much rather reassure and find, through imaging, that the lump you felt was not cancer,” she said. “We’ll use all the tools to find your cancer, but the earlier we start, the more treatable it will be, if what you felt turns out to be cancer.”

The tumor’s biology, more than its size, is the defining factor in severity of breast cancer. Some half-inch tumors are more aggressive those that are four times as big.

“Self-monitor for a week or two, and if it’s still there, get in for an appointment. But don’t let it go until your next annual exam,” Merrigan said. “In 85% of cases, breast cancer is diagnosed in women without family history. Don’t assume a lack of history means you’re OK.” Learn more about breast cancer care at Avera.org/breast.

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he city of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, is growing at a rapid pace.

Since 2015, over 20,000 people have moved to the city, according to the mayor’s office. Those moves have put the population just over 190,000.

As the city continues to grow, so does the need for access to health care.

With the announcement of several construction projects, Sanford Health is responding in a big way.

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edge health care. The 42,000 square foot clinic will house family medicine, pediatrics and obstetrics, and include 3-D mammography.

Given the increase of those who call eastern Sioux Falls home, there is a big need for the clinic.

“The time has come, and we’re ready to roll on that side of town.

Those individuals on the east side, they’ve had to travel a long way across the city to access healthcare. That should change,” said Dr. Scott Boyens.

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The need for more access to healthcare isn’t contained to Sioux Falls alone. City officials in Harrisburg say they’ve had more than

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1,500 people move to the area in the last five years.

Because of this, construction is soon beginning on the Harrisburg Clinic.

“We’ve watched these areas flourish with new developments in infrastructure and our organization is ready to support the health needs of patients in these communities and now into the future. When we build and develop a clinic, we want to the be the cornerstone within the community for expert health care,” said Paul Hanson, president and CEO of Sanford Health Sioux Falls.

Easier Access Across the Board Needing access to healthcare is an issue the community as a whole faces, especially given the growth. Officials with Sanford Health saw this coming, and wanted to tackle the problem head-on.

“The population of Sioux Falls is growing. We’re starting to expand our service zone. You might say people are coming from bigger distances for medical care. I think medical care in Sioux Falls is at a high level, but it can continue to get better and better, and better,” said Dr. Aamlid.

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Egg Wreath Materials: Scrapbook paper in a variety of patterns, a cardboard or cardstock cutout in the shape of an egg, glue, scissors, a black marker, ribbon, and a paper plate.

Cut the middle out from a paper plate, leaving the outside edges in tact. Using your egg-shaped cutout, trace an egg onto all of the patterned paper you would like to use, cutting each shape out as you go. Place them around the paper plate edge, layering them a little bit, until they cover the entire plate. Make sure to do this before you start to glue them, to ensure they will be evenly placed around the entire circle. Once you know you have a good amount of eggs and they are evenly placed, start to glue them on. Let them dry for awhile, then add a piece of ribbon to hang your wreath for Easter.

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Funny Bunny Bookmark Materials: Two colors of construction paper, with one piece cut down to a square shape, white paper, googly eyes, glue, and scissors.

First, fold a piece of square paper diagonally, then unfold. Do the same thing to the opposite side, as well, creating an X shape with the folds. Fold into a triangle, then fold the top of the top layer of the triangle toward the bottom. Fold the left and right corner towards the bottom middle of the triangle. Crease and unfold. Next, take the corner and fold it towards the top of the triangle, creasing it well. Do the same thing to the other side. Tuck both tops into the pocket. You now have the shape of your bookmark. Time to turn it into a funny bunny. Cut out some ears, teeth, and a nose from some construction paper, then glue them into place.

Add two googly eyes, or draw some on. Once dry, find a book to start reading, and put your corner bookmark on the page you want to save.

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Hold three pipe cleaners of the same color. Twist the middle of them, so they are held together, then fan out the ends to create your bunny’s whiskers. Glue these onto the middle of a paper plate. Next, glue a large pom pom onto the middle of the pipe cleaner whiskers, creating a nose. While the glue dries, cut out two bunny ears from your choice of colored construction paper. Choose another color of paper, and cut two bunny ear shapes slightly smaller than the ones you previously cut out. Glue the smaller ones onto the larger ones, to create the insides of your bunny ears. Glue the ears onto the inside of the top of your plate. Once all of the glue is dry, draw some eyes and a mouth and you have yourself an Easter Bunny.

Craft Stick Characters Materials: Yellow, white, and orange paint, small paint brush, black marker, two craft sticks, one yellow and one white pipe cleaner, a pom pom, glue, scissors, and yellow and white construction paper.

Paint one craft stick yellow and one white, then set aside to dry. While those are drying, cut a circle from yellow paper, and another circle and some bunny ears from white paper. Glue the ears onto the white circle, then add some googly eyes to each of your circles. Paint on your bunny nose and insides of the ears with some orange paint. Draw the smile with a black marker. Paint an orange beak under the eyes on the yellow circle. Allow these to dry. When the craft sticks are dry, start to wrap your pipe cleaners around the sticks. Wrap the yellow one around the yellow stick, stopping after you’ve done this a couple of times. Take one side and create a loop, then wrap the remaining pipe cleaner around the stick. Do the same thing on the other side. Glue the yellow circle on top of the stick, above the pipe cleaner. You now have an adorable chick stick! Do the same with the white one, and you’ll have a bunny, too!

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THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

Press Out and Color: Unicorns Kate McLelland Each press-out design is intricately decorated with turquoise foil and perfect for all ages to decorate. Featuring twenty unique designs, the press-out pieces can be slotted together to create super-cool three-dimensional ornaments or threaded together to make a hanging garland.

From cool llamas to tropical flamingos to cacti and pineapples, these press-out pieces are outstanding in white and turquoise, but look even better as a colorful collection.

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Douglas

by Randy Cecil When Iris Espinosa goes to the cinema, she doesn’t expect to meet a small mouse. And she certainly doesn’t expect that mouse to stow away in her sweater pocket. At home, Iris is delighted by the mouse’s daring, which reminds her of the actor Douglas Fairbanks. And so begin the adventures of a sweet, plucky mouse named Douglas, who must overcome obstacles aplenty, from hungry cats to broom-wielding humans, as she journeys across the tall rooftops of Bloomville to return to her movie-theater home. Full of high-stakes chases, clever escapes, and valiant rescues, Randy Cecil’s story is a cinematic and meticulously crafted celebration of courage and friendship.

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by Karen Hesse When the sun sets, Dad’s job as a school custodian is just beginning. What is it like to work on a Friday night while the rest of the city is asleep? There’s the smell of lilacs in the night air, the dusky highway in the moonlight, and glimpses of shy nighttime animals to make the dark magical. Shooting baskets in the half-lit gym, sweeping the stage with the game on the radio, and reading out loud to his father in the library all help the boy’s time pass quickly. But what makes the night really special is being with Dad. Newbery Medalist Karen Hesse’s quietly powerful story of a boy and his father is tenderly brought to life by G. Brian Karas in this luminous tribute to an enduring, everyday sort of love.

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Double or Nothing with the Two and Only Kelly Twins

by Johanna Hurwitz Arlene and Ilene love so many things about being identical twins. They like sharing a room, sharing friends, and wearing matching outfits. But they’re in different classes at school, and one twin has a scar that the other one doesn’t. One morning, their friends Monty and Joey point out a new difference that takes the sisters by surprise and gets them thinking: if they are identical twins, why are there differences between them at all?

Their tongues must be the same, so why do they like different kinds of ice cream? Why does Arlene wear pink nail polish while Ilene thinks it’s silly? Why is Ilene sleeping soundly when Arlene is awake, wondering how she can be sure that she is Arlene, not Ilene? Revisit the funny, lovable characters from The Two and Only Kelly Twins and take a peek at the wonders — and puzzles — of being an identical twin.

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Secrets of the Sea

by Kate Baker This book takes you on a journey to discover an incredible and rarely seen world. From the rock pools along the shoreline to the deepest, darkest depths of the ocean, breathtaking illustrations reveal the sea’s creatures—from the microscopic and the bizarre to the fragile and the deadly—in all their startling beauty.

Welcome to the secrets of the sea.

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Flights of Fancy Creative Inspiration from Ten Award-Winning Authors and Illustrators Have you ever sparked the start of a story by playing a game of What if? Is there any value to all that doodling you do? What does being “a sponge” have to do with facing down a blank page? Did you know that pictures can sometimes inspire stories, rather than the other way around?

From Quentin Blake’s drawings of fantastical vehicles to Michael Rosen’s inside look at his poetry, from Anthony Browne’s shape game (no need to be an artist to play) to Lauren Child’s look at her creative process, this anthology — whose contributors were all British Children’s Laureates — aims to encourage budding writers and artists to let their imaginations soar. The final spread is a collection of prompts from all the contributors, passing the creative torch to the next generation.

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Leading the Way: Women in Power

by Janet Howell; Theresa Howell Meet some of the most influential leaders in America, including Jeannette Rankin, who, in 1916, became the first woman elected to Congress; Shirley Chisholm, the first AfricanAmerican woman elected to Congress; Sandra Day O’Connor, the first woman to sit on the Supreme Court; and Bella Abzug, who famously declared, “This woman’s place is in the House . . . the House of Representatives!” This engaging and wide-ranging collection of biographies highlights the actions, struggles, and accomplishments of more than fifty of the most influential leaders in American political history — leaders who have stood up, blazed trails, and led the way.

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For All the Stars Across the Sky

by Karl Newson “I wish that we could fly like birds!” says Luna when Mama asks her for her nightly wish. So off they go on an imaginary flight together, past mountaintops and fields and over the deep blue sea. Then Luna wishes they could swim like fish through the corals, shrink as small as ants on the vines, and grow as big as giants, stomping down the lane that leads to Luna’s very own bed. In a quintessential bedtime story, gentle art and a lyrical text take listeners on lighthearted flights of fancy and offer an ode to the unconditional love between parent and child.

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Leaf It to Dot

by Andrea Cascardi Dot and her dad are on a Rangeroo Scavenger Hunt with her best friend, Hal, and her dog, Scratch. Dad loves being outdoors with the trees, birds, and fresh air. Dot loves looking things up on her tablet. When Dad sees an owl flying by or spots moose tracks, Dot has her eyes on her screen and misses them. But she’s a wiz at using photo recognition to ID them and check them off on her scavenger hunt list! Maybe old-school hunting plus tech-savvy skills make a winning team?

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Birds

by Carme Lemniscates Birds are like thoughts.

They come, stay awhile . . . and then fly away.

Birds come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. They like to chat with one another as they fly high and low in the sky. Birds make music, with songs that are like the loving words of a friend, and we are lucky enough to enjoy those sweet melodies. But best of all, birds are capable of flying wherever they please — they just let their hearts guide them. And we can do that, too, if we use our imaginations. In a lyrical ode to our winged friends, the creator of Trees turns her eye to a diverse class of creatures that has much to teach about transcending the barriers that lie between us.

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