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BEST BOOKS 76

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The Dave and Amanda HEALTH & WELL-BEING Christopherson Home 24 Nature vs. Nurture:

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Presents the 2nd Annual

At the Sioux Falls Convention Center

Saturday, April 28th THREE SESSIONS FOR 2018!

3:30 Session: Geared for 3-5 year old girls, but any age may attend.

5:30 Session: Geared for 6-9 year old girls, but any age may attend.

7:30 Session: Geared for 10-13 year old girls, but any age may attend.

Ties & Tiaras will again be an evening of Royal Entertainment for young ladies and their father or special mentor in their life.

From the moment guests arrive at our splendid venue to their time enjoying princess-themed activities to even dancing with their favorite prince or princess character, they will feel like a member of the royal court.

Advance tickets available now at Sioux Falls CELLULAR ONLY Stores or at www.tiesandtiarassf.com

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BY MARY MICHAELS PHOTOS BY JULIE PRAIRIE PHOTOGRAPHY

at Air Madness Park Hours (Labor Day-Memorial Day) Monday: Toddler Jump 9am-12pm, Park 4-8pm Tuesday: Closed Wednesday: Toddler Jump 9am-12pm, Park 4-9pm Thursday: Park 4-8pm • Friday: Park 12pm-11pm Saturday: Park 10am-11pm • Sunday: Park 1-7pm

Air Madness Trampoline Park 310 W. Industrial Drive, Harrisburg 605-767-1600 www.airmadness.com Connect With Us @AirMadnessSD

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hen it’s cold and snowy in South Dakota, it can also be a challenge to stay active. But, Air Madness in Harrisburg is here to help!

The indoor trampoline park opened last September and offers a dozen different ways to be active, play, socialize…and just have a whole lot of fun.

“We really wanted to do something for kids,” says manager Tyler Pederson about the motivation behind Air Madness. “We wanted to give them a fun place to hang out with friends, to disconnect from technology and to have the opportunity to be active and play.”

One thing they have noticed, adds Pederson, is that while many parents were just watching their kids jump when Air Madness first opened, they are now getting in on the fun and jumping with their kids. And that’s exactly what they had hoped would happen.

So what can you do at Air Madness?

For starters, you can play on the Zero Gravity Main Court, which is a matrix of trampolines that includes a special run for gymnastics and tumbling. You can also jump into the extreme foam pits from a “high dive” or trapeze bar, perfect your slam dunk on the basketball hoops, or climb up a stack of Rubik’s cubes. Guests under 48 inches tall who don’t want to jump on the general courts can enjoy the Little Air trampoline area.

For guests who are looking for a little more challenge and adventure, Air Madness offers a mechanical bull, games like Wipeout, King of the Beam and Laser Maze, as well as a multi-station Ninja Course. Of course, there is also the everpopular Ultimate Dodgeball.

To ensure that everyone coming to

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Air Madness has a fun – and safe – experience, all participants are required to sign a liability waiver. For youth under age 18, a parent or legal guardian needs to sign the waiver. Guests over the age of 18 must show valid photo ID and complete a waiver. Once you turn in your completed waiver, it will be good for an entire year.

To make it easy, you can find the waiver

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online (www.airmadness.com).

And, while guests do participate in all of the activities voluntarily and at their own risk, there are Air Madness staff available through the facility, such as court monitors for Ultimate Dodgeball, to help ensure a safe experience for everyone.

Because Air Madness is a place for physical activity, Pederson recommends

that guests wear clothing that is comfortable and appropriate. Guests also need to wear non-skid Air Madness socks, which can be purchased when you arrive.

Air Madness offers a variety of pricing options for sessions ranging from 30 minutes all the way to 180 minutes (3 hours), along with a special jump pass for toddlers. Friday and Saturday

“We wanted to give them a fun place to hang out with friends, to disconnect from technology and to have the opportunity to be active and play.”

evenings offer “Cosmic Night” sessions, when the lights are off and everything glows in the dark.

Guests can purchase tickets at the park or online, and you then get a sticker that designates your jump session time.

Spectators are welcome to come to the park and watch at no charge. Air Madness offers a parent lounge, a nursing room, and

a food court with favorites like pretzels, nachos and Icees.

No outside food or drinks are permitted in the park, but if you book a party through Air Madness Events, you may bring a cake or cupcakes in a covered container for the party.

Pederson says they have hosted many parties over the past several months, from

kids’ birthdays to church youth groups and corporate events.

“Air Madness provides year-round fun,” says Pederson, “but our guests have been telling us that they are having fun coming here for a little winter escape.”

So, gather your family, friends or coworkers and go catch some air at Air Madness.

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Feed Your Inner Olympian

BY TANIA KOCMICK | PHOTOS OF SIOUX FALLS FIGURE SKATING CLUB COURTESY OF TODD STEEVER

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t may be an Olympic Year, but ice sports in Sioux Falls has never been more top of mind and February wraps up national skating-month.

All three rinks at the SCHEELS Iceplex are booming with curling, figure skating and hockey. This community facility became a reality four years ago thanks to the unified efforts of all ice user groups, countless private donors, Sanford Health, SCHEELS, the City of Sioux Falls, and the business community in the Sioux Falls area.

“The outpouring of enthusiasm for ice sports has been remarkable, says Brian Prisbe, General Manager for the SCHEELS Iceplex, we knew there was a need for our three -sheet ice facility, but couldn’t have asked for such a warm welcome. People have been super excited about it and keep coming back.”

The SCHEELS Iceplex sits on the far north corner of the Sanford Sports Complex and is open year round. Over the weekends and during holiday and school breaks, families can take advantage of “Culver’s Family Open Skate,” “Hockey

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Headquarters Stick-n-Puck and open hockey. A huge attraction is the Friday night “Cosmic Open Skate,” the lights go down, and the strobe lights and tunes go on. “It’s a hit for all ages,” says Prisbe.

In addition to the weekend open skating there is daytime skating nearly every day.

“The ice sports community is close knit, whether you are a figure skater, recreational skater or have been playing hockey for years. We look out for each other and the enthusiasm at every level is so alive,” says Prisbe.

The SCHEELS Iceplex has so many

opportunities to feed your inner Olympian.

The Sioux Falls Figure Skating Clubs Learn to Skate program that takes place on Monday, Wednesday and Saturdays is for all ages. “You can learn basic skating skills, take adult lessons or learn to twirl like a figure skater,” says Michelle Carlson, SFFSC president. The Learn to Skate program is the first step to becoming a competitive figure skater and avid hockey player. Sioux Falls Figure skaters compete throughout the upper Midwest and host a competition March 3-4 where skaters will compete for their own hardware. Another

opportunity to get a bird’s eye view of this beautiful sport is to attend the spring figure skating show in early May. Check out www.sffsc.com for more information.

To say hockey has grown in Sioux Falls is an understatement. With nearly 600 skaters, the Sioux Falls Youth Hockey Association (www.siouxfallsflyers.com) has leagues for ages 4-18 and any skill level. Hockey Day in South Dakota will be celebrated on February 10, the second day of the winter Olympics. In conjunction with the Sioux Falls Flyers Youth Hockey Program, the Sioux Falls Stampede and

the SCHEELS Iceplex. The Sioux Falls Flyers will play league games at the Denny Sanford Premiere Center and SCHEELS Iceplex. Even after the Olympics, hockey players can participate in camps all spring and summer to up their game and improve on skills, check it out at www. scheelsiceplex.com under our hockey tab.

Curling is another cold weather sport, and for our neighbors in North Dakota and Minnesota, it’s their go-to week night winter sport. It is now becoming a winter past time for many in Sioux Falls as well.

The North rink in the SCHEELS Iceplex

keeps curling ice year round.

“Curling is a social sport, and the competition is friendly says, Morgan Andenas, president of the Sioux Falls Curling Club. After curling each week, teams gather for traditional “broomstacking” and competing teams sit down together and socialize over a drink.

Tradition says that the winning team buys the first round for their competition. The Sioux Falls Curling Club kicks off their Spring League in March, and every skill level is welcome. For more information visit www.sfcurling.com

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February A Gentleman’s Guide to Love and Murder Thursday, February 1 • 7:30pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. Coming direct from New York, Gentleman’s Guide tells the uproarious story of Monty Navarro, a distant heir to a family fortune who sets out to jump the line of succession by – you guessed it – eliminating the eight pesky relatives (all played by one fearless man) who stand in his way. All the while, Monty has to juggle his mistress (she’s after more than just love), his fiancée (she’s his cousin but who’s keeping track?), and

the constant threat of landing behind bars! Of course, it will all be worth it if he can slay his way to his inheritance… and be done in time for tea. INFO (605) 367-6000.

Dakota Ragtime Trio at the Old Courthouse Museum Winter Concert Series Friday, February 2 12pm - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street The Dakota Ragtime Trio will perform old-time xylophone, sax, and tuba in the historic courtroom of the Old Courthouse Museum. Bring

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your lunch or purchase one from Roll N Pin. (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com Movie Night at the Museum: Moana Friday, February 2 6:30pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street The Old Courthouse Museum is once again bringing you Movie Night at the Museum. Bring a blanket or pillow and settle in the historic courtroom. Doors open at 6 p.m. Refreshments will be served. Admission is free. (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com

Mahler & Bartók Saturday, February 3 • 7:30pm Washington Pavilion • 301 S. Main Ave. Mahler’s unfinished Symphony No. 10 was a beacon, and a bridge, toward the 20th century.

Bartók’s was the first concerto for orchestra, a work that features the entire orchestra and its individual members as soloists. INFO (605) 335-7933.

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100% of Mall Walk proceeds will help provide therapy equipment, curriculum and other learning aids, social and community experiences, household basics, or medical treatment. LifeScape INFO (605) 444-9500.

Jim “Two Crows” Wallen Presents: Tipi Days at the Old Courthouse Museum Tuesday, February 6 9:30 a.m., 1 p.m., 6:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West 6th Street Historical performer and storyteller Jim “Two Crows” Wallen brings the story of the

American Indian tribes during the time of westward expansion.

Free admission. www. siouxlandmuseums.com Fifth Annual In Her Shoes Empowerment Breakfast Thursday, February 8 • 7:30am Sioux Falls Convention Center Join us for a morning of fellowship, inspiration and empowerment at the fifth annual In Her Shoes Empowerment Breakfast benefiting Dress for Success Sioux Falls! Hear powerful messages from International author, Psychologist and Founder of Women’s Impact

and FLAW Club, Cris Linnares, along with local women about what empowerment has meant in their lives. Ticket purchase includes breakfast and program!

INFO 605-336-3662 ext. 205 or sbucknell@embe.org Behind the Scenes Tour of the Old Courthouse Museum Thursday, February 8 5:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West 6th Street Take a look behind the closed doors of the Old Courthouse Museum and see the artifact storage and work areas. $3.

Call (605) 367-4210 to register. www.siouxlandmuseums.com Dakota String Quartet at the Old Courthouse Museum Winter Concert Series Friday, February 9 12pm - 1pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street The Dakota String Quartet will perform classical music in the historic courtroom of the Old Courthouse Museum from noon to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch or purchase one from The Pickle Barrel. (605) 367-4210 or www.siouxlandmuseums.com

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The bouquets are available in red velvet, pink champagne, pink chocolate and pink vanilla. Our bouquets include 7 cupcakes.

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On Golden Pond Saturday, February 10 • 7:30pm Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. An elderly couple enjoy their latest summer in a cottage on a Maine lake, as they come to terms with the husband’s advancing age and his ongoing estrangement from his newly engaged daughter. INFO (605) 367-6000.

VAC Stroller Tour Saturday, February 10 10:45am Washington Pavilion 301 S. Main Ave. For parents and caregivers with babies 0 - 18 months Join us for a casual and lively tour of our current exhibitions led by one of our knowledgeable docents - just for parents and caregivers and their pre-toddlerage children. Designed to allow you to be mindful of your young ones as you look at and talk about art with other adults, these guided tours are a special kind of outing where no one minds if a baby lends his or her opinion with a coo or cry. INFO (605) 367-6000.

Victorian Tea Party at the Pettigrew Home & Museum Wednesday, February 14 • 2pm Pettigrew Home & Museum 131 N. Duluth Avenue Enjoy a tea in true Victorian fashion at the historic Pettigrew Home & Museum. Learn about the history of tea while enjoying a delicious tea blend. Space is limited for this adult program.

Call (605) 367-7097 to register.

Free admission. INFO www. siouxlandmuseums.com Shopkins Live! Shop it up!

Thursday, February 15 • 6:30pm Washington Pavilion • 301 S. Main Ave. Shopkins Live! is finally here!

The #1 kids toy in North America is live and on stage in Shopkis Live! Shop It Up! Your beloved Shoppies make their

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theatrical debut in an original new live show featuring musical performances by Jessicake, Bubbleisha, Peppa-Mint, Rainbow Kate, Cocolette, Polli Polish and more! INFO (605) 367-6000.

Kid’s Activity Day Go for the Gold at the Old Courthouse Museum Thursday, February 15 9-11a.m. and 1-2 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn about history and make your own crafts to take home. 15 minute sessions run throughout morning and afternoon times. Call to reserve times. Free admission. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com The Tinder Box at the Old Courthouse Museum Winter Concert Series Friday, February 16 Noon to 1 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street The Tinder Box will perform folk, blues, and jazz in the historic courtroom of the Old Courthouse Museum from noon to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch or purchase one from Roll N Pin. (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com American Cancer Society’s Sioux Falls Relay For Life 2018 Kickoff Event!

Sunday, February 18 4pm - 6pm Skyzone • 5129 S. Solberg Ave. The Relay For Life kickoff ’s purpose is to begin raising funds and recruiting teams for the 2018 season in an efforts to finish the fight against cancer through prevention, detection, research and advocacy. Help us jump into the 2018 Relay For Life of Sioux Falls season with tons of Dr. Seuss-themed fun at Sky Zone Sioux Falls! $20 includes jump time, socks, Dr. Seuss-themed snack, & a small

Register for spring classes at the Community Learning Center at your Washington Pavilion!

We want to help you and your kiddos build skills in the areas of pottery and theatre. Youth ages 6-14 and adults over the age of 21 are invited to check out our multi-week workshops. These series-style workshops will ignite an interest in children and adults to investigate visual arts and theatre to cultivate lifelong hobbies. Our mission is to encourage everyone to develop a passion for creating. To learn more, visit www. washingtonpavilion.org

Relay For Life donation. Please arrive 20 minutes early to fill out liability waiver or visit https:// siouxfallsstore.skyzone.com/ waiver/ to fill out prior.

Starlab Inflatable Planetarium at the Old Courthouse Museum Monday, February 19 1:30 & 2:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Discover the night sky, explore the constellations! Starlab is a program for adults and children over the age of 5.

Not recommended for those not comfortable in the dark.

Tickets only $2, program begins promptly on the hour with no late entry. Groups of 8 or more, please call ahead.

INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com

Rosemaling Demonstration at the Old Courthouse Museum Tuesday, February 20 1pm - 4pm Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Eileen Halverson will be demonstrating the Norwegian folk art of Rosemaling (decorative painting) in the second floor hallway of the Old Courthouse Museum. Stop in any time for a demonstration or to ask questions. INFO (605) 367-4210 or www. siouxlandmuseums.com Necessary Targets Wed., February 21 • 7:30pm Thurs., February 22 • 7:30pm Fri., February 23 • 7:30pm Sat., February 24 • 7:30pm Sun., February 25 • 2pm 1101 W. 22nd St. Jeschke Fine Arts Center/

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USF Campus siouxlandmuseums.com Two American women travel to Bosnia to help women refugees History Happy Hour: confront their memories of Lutherie at the Pettigrew war. Though the two have Home & Museum little in common, they emerge Thursday, February 22 deeply changed as they 6:30 p.m. confront their own fears in Pettigrew Home & Museum the face of violence, resiliency 131 N. Duluth Avenue and war. Based on interviews The term lutherie refers to the conducted by Eve Ensler with making instruments. for of Yostringed ur Fam ily, numerous women who survived Local lutherie and musician he Your ActiveJoshLiReick fesywill andformer tle discuss the the T civil war in the Yugoslavia, Necessary Targets history of lutherie, his process is a groundbreaking play about of making stringed instruments, women and war- about the and stories of learning and violence of dark memories and sharing this unique craft. Learn the enduring resilience of the about area history while enjoying human spirit. $12 admission. drinks and refreshments.

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21 and over. $10 Admission includes program and drink The Sound of Music tickets. Space is limited, tickets Thurs., Feb. 22 • 7:30pm available at the Old Courthouse Fri. Feb. 23 • 2pm & 7:30pm Museum. Call (605) Sat. Feb. 24 • 2pm & 7:30pm 367-7097 for information.

Washington Pavilion www.siouxlandmuseums.com 301 S. Main Ave .

The Hills Are Alive! A brand Hank Harris at the Old new production of The Sound Courthouse Museum of Music is coming to your Winter Concert Series Washington Pavilion. The Friday, February 23 spirited, romantic and beloved Noon to 1 p.m. musical story of Maria and the Old Courthouse Museum von Trapp Family will once 200 West Sixth Street again thrill audiences with Diverse singer/songwriter Hank its Tony®, Grammy® and Harris will perform in the Academy Award® winning Best historic courtroom of the Old Score, including “My Favorite Courthouse Museum from noon Things,” “Do-Re-Mi,” “Climb to 1 p.m. Bring your lunch or Ev’ry Mountain,” “Edelweiss” purchase one from The Pickle and the title song. INFO (605) Barrel. (605) 367-4210 or www.

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Ceili Dance Program Thursday, February 22 6:30 p.m.

Old Courthouse Museum 200 West Sixth Street Learn the Irish social dance Ceili (pronounced KAY-lee) with the Sioux Falls Ceili Band. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced dancer, Ceili dancing is a fun and energetic way to spend an evening. Get ready to dance at the Old Courthouse Museum! Free admission.

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Sioux Empire Home Show™ February 23 - 25 Sioux Falls Convention Center & Arena 1201 N. West Avenue Building, decorating, financing, landscaping and much more will be featured at the annual 2017 Sioux Empire Home Show.

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FREE SPEECH: South Dakota Links

BY RON ROBINSON

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elieve it or not, there was a time when a paper could be sued for libel for criticizing a public official even if the criticism was absolutely true. That’s what happened in 1734 to John Peter Zenger, a New York journalist who criticized the colonial governor, William Cosby. Zenger was cleared by a jury, however, incidentally establishing the principle that a statement must be untrue to qualify as libel.

Last month in these pages we discussed the famous Cherry Sisters case, which took its place in the evolution of free speech by concluding that the press had the right to fair comment of entertainers who present themselves for public approval. The case is often cited in libel cases to this day.

Now we turn to a further development in defamation law established in the 1960s by the Times-Sullivan ruling and reflected by a story involving a famous investigative journalist; a distinguished South Dakota legislator, journalist, and educator; and cases involving a particularly litigious governor.

Libel has always been a matter for state law, but appeals to higher courts may eventually make it a matter of national concern, and a crucial ruling by the United States Supreme Court may in effect make state law moot. That was certainly the effect of the ruling made by the famous Warren Court in 1964 in response to a case in which the New York Times was sued by a Montgomery, Alabama, public official for running an advertisement soliciting money to defend Martin Luther King.

Several statements in the ad were in fact untrue. But when the case was heard

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The book that initiated a sevenyear libel battle by Governor William Janklow. After several defeats in lower courts, Janklow abandoned the effort.

by the Supreme Court, the ruling was that the plaintiff had to prove that the untruths were printed with “actual malice.” Not only did the ruling put the burden of proof on the plaintiff, but it made “actual malice” — that is, prior knowledge that By an odd twist of events, it offending statements was Seymour M. Hersh, who were untrue or with was later to receive a Pulitzer a “reckless disregard” Prize for his investigative for whether or not Ralph Hillgren. His reputation as reporting into the My Lai a reporter, editor, legislator, and massacre, who reported on the they were true — educator was hardly scathed by legislative fracas between Carl the touchstone for the defamation set-to with Carl Burgess and Ralph Hillgren. defamation suits.

Burgess. The incident did reflect, Hersh was a legislative The ruling was however, the Times-Sullivan ruling, correspondent for the S.D. hailed as a watershed which made it difficult for public bureau of United Press officials to win defamation cases.

International at the time. development in libel law. Together, these Smith) noted that the Times-Sullivan developments and rulings that followed principle was reflected in a South Dakota made it very difficult for anyone who dispute reported by Seymour Hersh, later deliberately placed himself or herself in to become famous for his investigative the public eye to collect on defamation reporting on the My Lai Massacre, for suits. The role of the press as the “fourth which he received a Pulitzer Prize, and estate,” whose news of the conduct of for many other stories. Moreover the the public’s business made it an essential story involved Ralph Hillgren, himself element in a democracy — as set forth in a respected Argus-Leader reporter and the first amendment to the constitution — editor, a state legislator, and a journalism was thereby strengthened. instructor at Augustana College. He was, In a later edition of his pamphlet “What in fact, (full disclosure) this writer’s first South Dakota Newspapermen Should journalism instructor.

Know About Libel,” Holton Davenport One of Hillgren’s pet pieces of legislation (of Davenport, Evans, Hurwitz, and

amended, passed in the House of Representatives by a vote of 54 to 20.

It is entirely understandable that Hillgren would want to make Burgess pay for his remarks, but, as Holton Davenport points out, it was the wrong time. As a legislator, Hillgren was fair game for criticism.

But one must wonder at this distance whether such innocuous names John Peter Zenger’s lawyer, Andrew Hamilton, holds forth during the 1734 trial that established the principle of truth is the as “fuddy-duddy” or ultimate defense against libel. In his closing statement, Hamilton unprovable figures of said that the press had “a liberty both of exposing and opposing speech such as “dry as tyrannical power by speaking and writing truth.” popcorn,” would rise to the level of defamation even in an earlier in the 1963 session was a bill to raise the age. In any case, Hillgren’s reputation as legal age from 18 to 21 for drinking beer a thoroughgoing reporter and editor, as a of 3.2 percent alcohol or more. There was, conscientious legislator, and as an effective at that time, a split in the state legislature educator was left unblemished. between “wets” and “drys” of both parties.

The evolution of libel law did not The Republican majority leader, Rep. Carl stop with Times-Sullivan, of course, and Burgess of Rapid City was definitely on the South Dakota’s involvement in libel law “wet” side. During an argument over the did not stop either. bill, Burgess said that he trusted the youth In 1983, Peter Matthiessen’s book, The of the state to handle their liquor and to Spirit of Crazy Horse, was published. The do the right thing. “The kids will be okay,” book related, among other things, Indian he told Hillgren, “if the old fuddy-duddies activist Dennis Banks’ account of Gov. such as you leave them alone.” He called William Janklow’s alleged rape of 15-year Hillgren “dry as popcorn in summertime.” old Jacinta Eagle Deer some ten years According to the UPI account by before. Janklow, one of the most litigious Seymour M. Hersh, Hillgren was “livid public figures in the state’s history, sued with rage.” Hersh said Hillgren shouted at not only the author and publisher, but also Burgess, “When you run for governor, I’ll Newsweek Magazine, which had reported remember this.” The legislation, heavily

on the book’s content, and stores that sold the book. The most notable result, of course, was vigorous sales of the work.

In 1983, Circuit Judge Gene Paul Kean denied the governor’s $24 million libel case against the book shortly after a federal judge had dismissed the $10 million suit against Newsweek. Kean cited the principle of “neutral reporting,” that “shields from liability those who republish certain known libels of public officials or public figures whenever these charges are made, provided certain criteria are met.”

Janklow appealed both decisions..

The United States Court of Appeals for the 8th Circuit dismissed the Newsweek suit, saying that Janklow had not been defamed by the article. The South Dakota Supreme Court ruled 4-1 to dismiss the book suits, citing “actual malice” principles. Janklow vowed to go on, but eventually, in 1990, after seven years of litigation, gave up the effort.

Now, in the 221st Century, public officials continue to rail against books, magazines, and newspapers that dig up embarrassing and sometimes disturbing details of the officials’ private and public lives. So far, at least, freedom of expression has won out, and the fourth estate remains an essential part of the democratic process.

Ron Robinson taught journalism at Augustana College for some 30 years. He is the author of several books, including, most recently, Kaboom: The True Story of the Powder House Blast. He may be contacted at ronaldrexmac@gmail.com.

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he better part of 2017 involved a house-building project for Amanda and Dave Christopherson, so they were happy to move into their new home last November. The nice thing was, they didn’t have to move very far – just across the street.

Their previous ranch-style home, which they also built, suited them fine until their family grew by two through adoption.

“When we were all on one level, it just felt like we were all on

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top of each other all the time,” says Amanda.

“The lot across from us was the last open one in this cul-desac,” she adds, “so we decided we better take advantage of that.”

Before they broke ground last April, the Christophersons did spend some time putting a list together of features they knew they wanted, such as a two-story home with separate dining room, rooms for all the kids and home office space.

They were acquainted with Matt Cerwick with Dakota Drafting Services in Brandon, so they first talked through their ideas with him. The next step was to bring the plans to builder John Koupal with Start to Finish Builders, also located in Brandon. Amanda says it’s important to also include Koupal’s wife, Karen, as part of the team since she went to appointments with the Christophersons and helped with other tasks like making paint charts.

While they did carry over a gray and white color palette from their previous home, they designed for more of a “farmhouse cottage” feel throughout the new house. In the living room, for example, they went with gray walls and white trim but added white shiplap boards on the ceiling along with two darker wooden beams as ceiling accents.

“At the other house, I was afraid of browns,” admits Amanda. “I

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just worried it would look outdated or dark since that house style was more modern. But now, I’m so glad we brought in some darker wood because it adds so much warmth and character.”

White faux barn doors flank each side of the flatscreen TV over the stone fireplace, and a big window looks out to the covered deck in natural wood and to the yard and fields behind the house.

The Christophersons also went with a light wood floor throughout the main level.

“We had a darker floor in the other house, but I really love the color and finish of this floor,” says Amanda.

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The creative floor plan uses interesting angles to separate the main floor rooms yet still keep a comfortable flow between all of them.

Just off the entryway is the one bathroom located on the main level. They wanted to have a little fun with it, so the sink base is a wooden barrel with a matching barrel-rim mirror hanging above it.

The builder used corrugated metal to create wainscoting, and the tile floor almost has a rusty metal appearance. What really catches your eye, though, is the faucet on the wall with a ring attached for a towel holder.

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Amanda credits Sarah Berghorst with Birch & Sable Interiors from Sioux Falls and Ellison Cutrer with Gypsy Trading Company in Brandon with much of the interior décor work.

“That really isn’t my strong suit,” says Amanda, who owns Beautique, a clothing boutique in Brandon. “I know what I like to buy when it comes to clothing, and I can help women create their fashion style, but I was glad to have help when it came to decorating our home.”

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She had seen pictures of kitchens with eat-in areas, and she had an image of a bench and bistro tables in her mind. All it took was relaying that to the designers, and they came up with a dark wood bench, two square bistro tables and two wicker chairs to create a cozy space for quick meals or snacks.

The rest of the kitchen is finished with white cabinets, white subway tile backsplash and a black, grey and white marble countertop. A large island provides additional seating with four

stools that tuck neatly underneath. Two industrial drop lights hang from a wooden beam over the island.

One of Amanda’s favorite features in the kitchen is the walk-in pantry, but mostly because it has a motion-sensor light.

“At the other house, I felt like I was always having to turn the light off every time someone went into the pantry, so I love this light that turns itself on and off!”

They are looking forward to the holidays now with their new

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dining room. They added a tray ceiling here with a barn wood inset.

The neutral colors throughout the home provide an opportunity to play around with accent colors. In the dining room, that is the fire engine red buffet that sits under the window.

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On the other side of the dining room is the home office space that Amanda wanted. A custom sliding barn door made by Tim Jorgenson with Splitrock Furniture in Brandon opens to the airy space with plenty of room for her desk and a cute rocking chair in

the corner with a bright multi-color print. An old Montgomery & Ward safe passed down through her husband’s family sits near the desk as a side table.

The angled staircase with custom-welded railing leads to the

upper level. Originally, the plans included four bedrooms upstairs but, when they realized the older boys would have rooms in the lower level, they did a little editing.

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our drafter reconfigured the master bedroom,” says Amanda.

Now, Amanda and Dave have a comfortable seating area with a small sectional looking out onto their own deck. They know when warmer weather arrives, this will be a favorite spot to sit and enjoy the

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To create open space on the nightstands, they chose wall sconces instead of table lamps. Amanda says she loves the fireplace in the room with its custom wood beam mantle and the

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tray ceiling with its wood inset.

“Downstairs we used real barn wood with the tray ceiling,” Amanda explains, “but up here we used flooring that we found at Menards. It gives a similar appearance but can be a cost-effective

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alternating black and white, and used black grout to really make the tile stand out. The tub is surrounded by white shiplap walls, and the tile floor has a linen look to it.

Amanda says she and Dave love their big walk in closet, especially since it includes the one essential element she wanted – a rack for shoes to keep them off the floor. When they looked at the plans for the house, they notice a small room behind the closet, which they assumed would be a small storage area.

But, when the finished room ended up more the size of a small bedroom, they decided it would be a good spot for a future workout room.

The laundry room on the upper floor is convenient, especially with the two young children also upstairs.

“When it came to the kids’ rooms, our builder, John, wanted to build something unique for each of them,” says Amanda.

For 18-month-old Ella, her coral and gray room was fitted with a built-in window seat with cut-out spots for toys and books. For a little extra flair, one wall was painted coral with gold polka-dots.

What young boy wouldn’t want a barn in his room?

That’s what the builder created for Micah (age 4), complete with bright red walls and a metal roof used with materials leftover from the outside soffits. They decided the room at the back of the house was perfect for Micah since he loves to look out the window and watch for deer in the fields behind their yard.

The two older boys have rooms downstairs.

A built-in entertainment center is perfect for video game fan Jackson (13). With cut-out spots for his TV and game station, his room provides a fun “hang out” spot. The oldest, Caden (16), didn’t want a built-in feature but instead just wanted a “cool paint job,” says Amanda. So his walls feature diagonal stripes of red, white and black, along with a shelf for his soccer trophies and medals.

The lower level has a finished family room, and the Christophersons have plans to finish other rooms as a bar area and a theater room. One of the unique features they built in right away was a set of stairs from the garage directly to the lower level, with accessible storage under the staircase.

The Christophersons are looking forward to warmer weather to enjoy their outside decks and roomy yard, but for now, they are happy in their new home that gives each person some individual space as well as cozy places to come together for family time.

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TAKE COMFORT

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hese are the days when the winters out here on the prairie grab you by the frozen nose hairs and make you want to hide away inside until sometime in April when the snow has given way to lilacs and tulips. Days like these were not made for delicate salads and lightly steamed vegetables. No, far from that, the lower temps and inconceivable wind chills call for hearty, stick-to-yourribs kind of foods. Comfort food.

As I sit in front of the window looking out on a frosty, single-

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digit day, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m thinking about that kind of meal. For me, comfort foods do more than fill you up, they warm your soul. A steaming bowl of chili on a frozen day can make you realize that it will get warm again. A pot roast simmering all day will fill your home with warm thoughts, even if Jack Frost is camped on the doorstep.

I know what I think of as comfort food; soups with grilled cheese sandwiches, bubbly bowls of macaroni and cheese, and pots of roast beef, carrots and potatoes. But what do others think

of? I asked friends on Facebook what they thought of as comfort food on cold days and reading the responses made me feel warm.

My favorites all made the lists of others; many specific types of soups, chicken pot pies, and lots of noodles, potatoes and gravies.

Each one on the list was a meal that warmed you from the inside, while feeling like a hug from your mom or grandmother. It’s often not just homemade chicken soup that people crave, but mom’s or grandma’s soup. The connection goes beyond food to the memory

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the meals bring back to life!

Tonight I’ll be making a meatloaf, large enough to feed my beloved and I for three or four nights. It reminds me of a hearty meatloaf my mom made when I was a kid. Nothing fancy, just the kind of food that she could afford to put out for three growing kids. Satisfying, and thanks to the caramelized crust of ketchup on the top, it was oddly exotic for a humble dish.

For many years, before my dad passed away, he would ask for a bowl of chicken noodle soup and a grilled cheese sandwich for lunch. Year ‘round, grilled cheese and soup was his go-to midday meal. And for me, a bowl of soup and grilled cheese is a favorite dish, too. But where he wanted Velveeta on white bread and

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Campbell’s Chicken Noodle from the can, I’m a bit more of a snob than he ever was. I like heartier bread with a combination of cheddar and Havarti, and I’ll pass on the soup with the red and white label. Give me a homemade chicken noodle, chicken corn chowder or good tomato soup with that sandwich and I’m a happy man. Tomorrow I’m making a big batch of chicken wild rice soup, enough for a couple of cold nights and a stack of grilled cheese sandwiches.

When my beloved was recovering from surgery a few years ago, I asked what I could make for her; the sky’s the limit, anything she wanted, I would make. Her request? The lobster bisque from Costco and a grilled cheese sandwich with the crusts cut off. Just

“I can hear the wheels of the automobiles so far away Just moving along through the drifting snow It’s times like these when the temperatures freeze I sit alone just looking at the world through a storm window” John Prine; “Storm Windows”

a fancy twist on a comfort food classic, it’s a meal we now make a couple times each winter.

Speaking of taking an upscale twist on classics, several years ago we decided to do a little potluck Christmas lunch at the office, and I asked what everyone wanted me to make. After some deliberation and quiet whispers from the back corner of the studio, the response was lobster mac and cheese. No problem, I was happy to oblige.

When we were checking out the new Swamp Daddy’s restaurant on North Phillips, we ran into some old friends. As the conversation turned to food, one said what she thought Sioux Falls needs is a Jewish-style deli; sandwiches with pastrami and corned

beef piled high and steaming bowls of matzo ball soup. That was the comfort food she longed for.

What is that one thing that can make a cold night seem a little warmer; the dish that takes you back in time? Is it time to dig out grandma’s cookbook and make her 7-bone pot roast? Or call your mom and invite yourself over for a slab of her meatloaf? Whatever warms your soul this February, find a dish where you can take comfort.

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Melt the chocolate and allow to cool for 5 minutes.

Beat the butter until soft and add the vanilla and sugar. Beat in the eggs one at a time and then add the melted chocolate and cocoa. On low speed add the sifted flour and beat only until incorporated. Stir in the chopped walnuts. Spread the mixture into the prepared pan and smooth the top. Bake at 325Ë&#x161; for 35 minutes or until it passes the toothpick test in the center of the pan.

While the brownies are baking, break the milk chocolate bars into pieces and lay out as much as needed to cover the 8 inch pan.

As soon as the brownies are done baking, place the candy on top and make sure to cover completely and put back in the oven for ONLY 30 seconds. Remove from the oven and quickly smooth the chocolate with the bottom of a spoon and top with the walnuts. With the bottom of a large spoon, press down on the nuts to embed them in the chocolate. Allow to cool for a couple hours and then place in the freezer for 30 minutes or until cold and firm.

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“I’ll tell you where. Someplace warm. A place where the beer flows like wine. Where beautiful women instinctively flock like the salmon of Capistrano. I’m talking about a little place called Aspen.”

Dumb and Dumber (1994) – Lloyd Christmas (Jim Carrey)

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his time of year I usually create some sort of Top Ten list delineating romantic gestures or wine gifts you can give your loved one for Valentine’s Day. This year I’m going old school: take your Valentine on a date and go to a movie! Pick a movie, pick a bottle (for the post-movie portion of the date,) and don’t forget to have fun.

One of our (my Valentine’s and my) favorite movies is French

Kiss. It’s funny, it’s romantic, and there are a ton of wine references! It’s the perfect movie for a wine writer. My wife’s favorite scene is when Meg Ryan’s character falls in love with the plethora of cheeses offered on a train ride to the south of France.

She eats and eats and eats…until she realizes that she’s lactose intolerant…comedy ensues.

My favorite scene is at Kevin Kline’s character’s vineyard in

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the heart of France. He is describing how to smell aromas in wine and then makes a statement about how wine is like people.

I love that line; I always think about how many times I say that a wine has great legs or lots of body or is complicated or lackluster. Every bottle of wine I encounter is like meeting someone new. Of course, just like people, there are some that you want to spend more time with than others.

So pick someone you like to spend time with, pick a wine you like to spend time with, and make it a special Valentine’s Day. Hit the movie theater and create your own memories. Here are some of my favorite wine quotes from some memorable movies.

Carpe Vino!

Riccardo is the VP of Sales & Marketing at Fernson Brewing Company in Sioux Falls. When he’s not writing about wine or talking about beer, Riccardo enjoys spending time with his valentine of 20 years (his wife Marybeth) and their three sons, Dante, Berent, and Jaxon. Contact Riccardo at riccardo@fernson.com.

“The grape waits for no man.”

Father Brown (1954) – Inspector Dubois (Gerard Oury)

Alfie (2004) – Alfie (Jude Law)

“Stick your nose in it. Don’t be shy, really get your nose in there. A little citrus, maybe some strawberry, passion fruit and there’s the faintest soupçon of like asparagus and just a flutter of a nutty Edam cheese.”

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French Kiss (1995) – Luc (Kevin Kline)

“It’s a bold wine with a hint of sophistication and lacking in pretension. Actually, I was just talking about myself.”

“A census taker once tried to test me. I ate his liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti.”

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Beautiful Bellingham Visit the Stone Center to see over 140 Cambria quartz countertop designs including beautiful Bellingham. Stone Center. 605-362-5853.

Valentine’s Day Gifts

Designer Brands

Treat your little dancer to an adorable dance figurine or a cozy sweater or leg warmers. So much to choose from at The Dance Line. 2115 S. Minnesota Ave. (605) 335-8242.

Hey, I Love You! It doesn’t get any clearer than that! This 10 X 12 wood sign is a perfect Valentine gift or a “just because” gift. Forget Me Not Gift Boutique. 57th & Western. (605) 335-9878.

Shop Style Encore’s large selection of gently used designer wallets and handbags.

Coach, Michael Kors, Kate Spade and more! 2608 S. Louise Avenue. (605) 275-5592.

Preserving Men’s Style Influenced by the local barbershop, Blind Barber curates a line of men’s grooming products to meet the needs of the contemporary man. Each product is formulated with nourishing, tried and true ingredients ideal for preserving men’s essence and style. Available at Rainn Salon & Spa. 57th & Western.

(605) 521-5099.

Brushies Make Brushing Fun! The world’s first finger puppet toothbrushes - available in all colors at Eddy Joy Baby Boutique. Made in the USA. BPA, latex, and phthalate-free, food-grade silicone, recycled packaging, dishwasher-safe. 57th & Western. (605) 275-0014

Lasting Flower Bouquets Local photographer Paul Schiller’s macro floral photography.

Order custom sizes as a gallery wrapped canvas or giclée prints. Rehfeld’s Art & Framing.

210 S. Phillips Ave. RehfeldsOnline.com 605-336-9737.

New Winter Menu Items Stop by Carnaval to try out our new winter menu items. You just have to taste them to believe how delicious they are! Carnaval Brazilian Grill. 2401 S. Carolyn Ave. (605) 361-6328.

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We’d love to tell you more about our incredible ModSquad Program.

A FREE styled photoshoot, group portrait sessions, hair and makeup, fashion consultations and Class of 2018 pricing! We have the BEST Senior Portrait Experience in the region. Send us an e-mail at jp@ julieprairie or check out our website to apply today. Julie Prairie Photography www.julieprairie.com.

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Be Mine What a cute top for February! Celebrate this romantic holiday and look great at the same time. Shop Beautique for the latest styles for every season. Beautique.

513 N. Splitrock Blvd., Brandon, SD. (605) 582-2882.

Fun Family Friendly Games What a great way to spend a cold winter night - playing games with your family! Tenzi is the world’s fastest dice game! Fast, fun, engaging, and surprisingly intricate, Tenzi is perfect for table top beginners and aficionados alike. Get yours at Heidi’s Décor & More. 2101 W. 41st St. (on the east side of Scheel’s). (605) 271-9339.

Celebrate Valentine’s Day Find everything you will need for Valentine’s Day wines and spirits and check out our hot deals on Flow stemware — a perfect gift for Valentine’s Day. Good Spirits Fine Wine & Liquor. 41st & Minnesota Ave. 339-1500.

Made by Kidpreneurs Gypsy Trading Co. features products made by talented local kids. There are several products to choose from — and these children put their hearts into everything they make! Gypsy Trading Co. 515 N. Splitrock Blvd.

Brandon. (605) 582-7889.

Comfort Food The Cookie Jar’s February special of the month is tator tot hotdish. Yum! Served with a side salad for just $6.00. The Cookie Jar. 230 S. Phillips Ave. (605) 978-0991.

Josephine’s Best Buds We are thrilled to invite you to be one of Josephine’s Best Buds!

You will receive your first Best Buds bouquet in a darling vase, then monthly we will fill it with the seasons “Best Buds”. We’ll arrange delivery with the person of your choice, or treat yourself to the BEST BUDS in the city!

(605) 338-9290. Two price points available $30 or $50 per month. Available in 3, 6 or 12 month packages.

Book Lovers Whether you are a book lover, history lover or just want some beautiful books on your shelf, these beauties are for you. Over 100 years old and in wonderful condition. Find them at the Nauti Nice booth at I-29 Antiques in Tea. Take I-29 south to the Tea exit and head 1/4 mike west.

Comfy Casuals Dress it down with our stylish McGuire denim and add a comfy, cozy sweatshirt. Pair the outfit off with a unique handbag.

Prices vary. Available at JuLiana’s Boutique La Femme. 196 E. 6th St. (605) 271-1824.

Check Out Our Pyrrha collection!

Hand stamped talismans available in sterling silver, bronze, and 14K gold!

Unique jewelry for men and women! Prices starting at $170 at You’ve Been Framed. 57th & Western.

361-9229.

Homemade Rumchata Cheesecake Treat yourself to a delicious homemade dessert from Sterling’s.

You deserve it! 105 E. Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 449-0220.

Part of the Family Grand Prairie Events in Luverne, Minnesota is family owned and operated. We will take care of you like you are part of our family. Call for information about hosting your next event with us. 105 S. Estey St., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-9664.

Sweets For The Sweet!

Make that someone special something they will always keep. Available at Athena Fibers, 3915 S. Hawthorne, 271-0741, www. athenafibers.com.

Classic 6” Cook’s Knife All cooks need this Wusthof knife in their kitchens! It’s the right size for all types of cutting and chopping and versatile enough for just about any task in your kitchen. Originally $152, on sale for $59.99 while supplies last! Shop this brand and more at Plum’s Cooking Company, East Bank, 401 E. 8th Street, 605335-1999, plumscooking.com

Zenon Dance Historic Palace Theatre, Friday, February 23 at 7:30pm. General Admission tickets $12 for adults, students are FREE. 104 E Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 283-4339.

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Sweet Deals Check out the sweet deals at Papik Motors. From factory incentives to internet specials, a sweet deal awaits at Papik Motors in Luverne, MN. 507283-9171.

Love the Life Luverne makes for a wonderful day trip — shopping, dining, theatre and so much more! You’ll love the life! www.luvernechamber.com

Love the Adventure!

Fuel up and set the cruise for a road trip to Luverne, Minnesota. You’ll get a hearty welcome from the locals, enjoy a taste of Midwest hospitality, and experience the charm of the specialty shops on Main.

Come see for yourself— you’ll love the life!

Dinner for Two Special Valentine’s night multi-course menu featuring wine, appetizer, entree and dessert. Join us to celebrate your special day. The Bluestem. 1202 S. Kniss Ave., Luverne, MN. (507) 449-2583.

To Have and To Hold If you’re looking for the perfect gift for wedding favors, event giveaways, save-the-dates, reunions or a fun way to display your personalized company logo, a custom koozie is the answer. Koozies are inexpensive and useful gift anyone would appreciate. They can be used during the event, and guests can take these favors home as a keepsake. Contact us for more information at Quality Printing – Paper, Signs and Promotional Items, 401 W. Hatting Street., Luverne, MN. (888) 933-4457 or (507) 283-1716. www.qualityprinting-luverne.com.

For Him and for Her Stop by Blue Mound Liquor and stock up on favorites for him and for her for Valentine’s Day! Blue Mound Liquor. 319 W. Main St., Luverne, MN. (507) 449-5052.

The Extra Details This gorgeous island features a painted and glazed custom finish.

The extra details like beaded openings and molding on the door and drawer fronts just add to the beauty!

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Left to right: Margie Anthony, Catherine Anthony, and Eileen Keefer are triplets who co-own Kosama, a group fitness center in Sioux Falls. They recently enrolled in the Avera Twin Register.

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Twins are invaluable in understanding how much of a specific trait or disease is related to genetics and where in the genetic landscape are those differences that are driving those traits and diseases.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Erik Ehli, PhD Research Scientist, Avera Institute for Human Genetics

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s wombmates, Margie, Catherine and Eileen have a lot in common. The triplets shared a car and phone in high school, friends and a love of sports. They even co-own a business in Sioux Falls called Kosama.

But where does genetics end and upbringing take over?

Avera is trying to answer this age-old question of nature vs. nurture through the Avera Twin Register. The register tracks and studies the DNA and traits of twins and multiples. Since the register launched, more than 700 people have joined, which

includes family members.

Over time these insights can lead to important behavioral and medical discoveries. The hope is to use the information for more accurate diagnosis, better treatments and prevention and cure of diseases.

Margie Anthony (oldest), Catherine Anthony (middle), and Eileen Keefer (youngest) recently signed up for the Avera Twin Register. They are the third set of triplets and the only adult set enrolled in the Avera Twin Register to date.

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“Twins are kind of the gold standard of looking at how our environment and genetics affect us,” said Julie Kittelsrud, PhD, CNP, with the Avera Institute for Human Genetics.

“Identical twins are almost 100 percent identical in DNA.” The DNA of fraternal twins and multiples is more like sibling DNA. Their shared fetal and family unit environment can still provide insight, however.

“It’s an awesome opportunity,” Margie said. “I want to give as much information as possible because I think it’s so interesting what they’re doing.”

The three went to the Avera Institute for Human Genetics to fill out a questionnaire and give a cheek swab of DNA. They will have to fill out the questionnaire every year. It asks about their family history, personality traits and health and wellness factors.

Because of their similar upbringing and DNA, twins and triples are in a unique position to help researchers.

“Twins are kind of the gold standard of looking at how our environment and genetics affect us,” said Julie Kittelsrud, PhD, CNP, with the Avera Institute for Human Genetics. “Identical twins are almost 100 percent identical in DNA.”

The DNA of fraternal twins and multiples is more like sibling DNA. Their shared fetal and family unit environment can still provide insight, however.

The Anthony triplets, for example are all health conscious in part because of their parents.

“We were raised together, how we make decisions is really similar,” Catherine said. “We were always all into sports and our parents always encouraged us to take care of ourselves. Owning Kosama is a prime example of that.”

Avera is partnering with the Netherlands Twin Register at Vrije Universiteit in Amsterdam. The Avera Twin Register will be a longterm research project, and sub-studies are possible. For instance, Kittelsrud said there is an opportunity to compare the two groups and how our daily activities vary.

You can learn more about the study at Avera.org/twin-register

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6 Tips for Reversing Your Shoulder Pain

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houlder pain—for many of us it’s just a fact of life. But when it’s keeping you from enjoying your daily activities, it may be time to try some useful remedies. Try out some of these options for reversing shoulder pain.

Stretch If you have soreness in your shoulder that you suspect was brought on from exercise or physical activity, an inflammation or swelling may have occurred. One way to reduce mild, exercise-related shoulder pain is through stretches. These may include chest expansions by meeting your hands behind your back or across-the-chest stretches, bringing your arm across your chest and pulling your elbow toward it with your spare hand. These are exercises that should be recommended by someone who specializes in functional assessment, such as a physical therapist or athletic trainer.

Sleep Differently One common cause of shoulder pain, particularly when it’s experienced first thing in the morning, is sleeping habits. A potential way to reduce this pain is to try out a new sleeping position. If you favor one side over the other, it might be an indication of where your pain is coming from.

Use pillows or remove pillows to determine the best amount of cushion to avoid pain if you favor sleeping on your back or stomach. According to our experts, it’s best to sleep on your back with your hands below chest height.

AVOID SLEEPING ON YOUR STOMACH. This can cause even more shoulder pain when you wake up.

Diversify Your Exercises Another frequent reason for shoulder pain is found in athletes or otherwise physically fit people—especially when they tend to exercise or engage in sports with highly repetitive shoulder movements. The best way to combat this is to keep your regimen diverse. Select a variety of exercises that don’t put undue strain on your shoulders as compared to the workout your other joints are receiving.

Try Massage Massage therapy can very often be beneficial for shoulder pain, because it can release muscle tension and increase range of motion in the joint - which in turn can improve function and help reduce pain. Best of all, you can give yourself a neck and shoulder massage almost anywhere and at anytime for temporary relief. If you still feel stiff and sore, talk to your doctor about other therapy options.

Apply Heat or Cold Just like when you’re nursing an injury, applying heat or cold can go a long way toward reversing your shoulder pain. Use heat to soothe stiff joints and relax muscles after a strain or when recovering from an injury.

Ice packs are typically used to numb sharp pain and reduce inflammation immediately following an injury. Whichever option you need, remember to protect your skin - and only apply the hot or cold therapy as directed.

Obtain Physical Therapy There’s perhaps no better way to reverse your shoulder pain, particularly when it’s ongoing or chronic, than being seen by a physical therapist or orthopedic physician. It’s the best way to determine if your condition is diagnosable and how best to treat it. Contacting Orthopedic Institute at 605-331-5890 for an appointment is a good place to start.

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BY JESSICA WEISCHEDEL

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hen you think of wine, you are likely to think of romance, which is what the month of February is all about. There are vineyards all over the United States, but some are not thought of right away. New York State’s Finger Lakes Wine Country is a region to discover, with a plethora of opportunities for relaxation, adventure, and romance. Be charmed by one of the many wineries and talk with the region’s best winemakers. It’s more than just wine, though. Shop several boutiques, browse one of the world-

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class museums, take a scenic drive, or enjoy a cross-country skiing or snowshoeing adventure. At the end of the day, cozy up by the fireplace at one of the many options for lodging.

Finger Lakes Wine Country is rich with history, and several world-class museums offer unique exhibits. Corning Museum of Glass tells the story of all things glass, and has the world’s best collection of more than 3,500 years of history displayed of art and historical glass in the Glass Collection Galleries. Learn about

the science and technology in glass through hands-on exhibits in the Innovation Center, and watch narrated glassmaking demonstrations offered all day long. There are also daily Make Your Own Glass sessions for beginners, and glassmaking school that offers courses in all levels of glassmaking year-round. Make a special glass souvenir with your significant other.

The Rockwell Museum in Corning uses its collections to stimulate and engage its visitors with an incredible collection of

art that speaks to the â&#x20AC;&#x153;American Experienceâ&#x20AC;?. Housed in the 1833 Neo-classical Arnot family mansion, The Arnot Art Museum in Elmira is one of the last remaining private art collections formed in the 19th century, still exhibited in its original showcase. The Glenn H. Curtiss Museum in Hammondsport is dedicated to the memory of pioneer aviator, Glenn Curtiss. The museumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s collection contains pieces telling the history of aviation and features a 75-seat theatre and a Restoration Shop where volunteer

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craftsmen work on historic aircraft. Finger Lakes Boating Museum celebrates the rich history of boating and boat building.

Offering week-long classes, you can construct a full scale Bevins skiff to take home with you. Black Sheep Inn and Spa offers a 30 minute spa session if you take the boat building class, and the VIP winery treatment at Hazlitt’s Red Cat Cellars.

There is an abundance of year-round entertainment in Finger Lakes Wine Country. Enjoy a broadway show or attend a concert at the Clemens Center in downtown Elmira, which offers two beautifully restored theaters including the 1,618 seat Powers

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Theatre. See a show at Tioga Downs Casino, one of the area’s premier entertainment and gaming destinations. Browse through the specialty stores, antique shops and boutiques in the region and find plenty of treasures and souvenirs to take home. There are premier shopping centers and local vendors in the villages of Elmira, Corning, Watkins Glen, Hammondsport, Penn Yan, and Owego, including the Early Owego Antique Center. Watkins Glen International is one of America’s most famous road courses and hosts GRAND-AM, NASCAR, and the historical Watkins Glen Grand Prix each year in September. Experience the Thunder

Road Tour in the comfort of your own car, and shop for racing memorabilia at The Shop.

Plenty of outdoor recreation opportunities are found in one of Finger Lakes Wine Country’s state parks. There are 19 waterfalls within Watkins Glen State Park, where you can sign up for the Drive the Glen experience. Finger Lakes National Forest offers Tanglewood Nature Center, with more than 10 miles of trails to explore just 10 minutes from downtown Elmira. During the warmer months, head to the waters of the Keuka Lake Outlet Trail, the Chemung River, or the surrounding lakes in the area.

There are many farms and vineyards in the area, so there is no wonder there are also several top-rated restaurants and an impressive culinary scene. Heron Hill Winery’s Blue Heron Café on Keuka Lake specializes in flatbread pizzas and wraps, Veraisons Restaurant at the Inn at Glenora Wine Cellars on Seneca Lake offers more upscale dining, and Corning’s Gaffer District is where you will find the self-guided Chocolate Trail with over 30 stops to discover handcrafted chocolates and more. The Radisson Hotel Corning offers a package catered to chocolate, with overnight accommodations, a chocolate treat in your guest

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room, two vouchers redeemable in Grill 1-2-5 or the Steuben Bar for a Chocolate Martini or the Pecan Ball, and a voucher for a locally-handcrafted glass kiss redeemable at the Corning Museum of Glass. You also donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to miss the 15-creamery Finger lakes Cheese Alliance.

Finger Lakes Premier Properties entices guests to book their vacation on Seneca Lake by offering 2 free Polar Passports to taste

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flights of wine at 15 select wineries along the Seneca Lake Wine Trail through the month of February. Hot tubs and lakeside views are just an example of many features offered in their vacation rentals. Stay at the historic Farmhouse at Fulkerson Winery in Dundee and have a hands-on experience learning about the pruning and grafting process of the vines. If you choose to stay at Savanna House Wine Country Inn and Cottages in Himrod

for 2 nights in the middle of the week, you will receive a half hour couples massage upon arrival, fresh ground gourmet coffee and tea each morning, and a 3rd nightâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s stay free of charge.

Along with the boat building package, Black Sheep Inn and Spa in Hammondsport offers a Winter Romance Retreat in Wine Country, including a private candlelit, organic Finger Lakes Farm

to Table breakfast and coffee flight, a visit to a Keuka Lake winery for a wine and chocolate pairing, a relaxing couples Swedish massage in their on-site spa, and a special handmade gift.

Whether you crave chocolate, love wine, enjoy scenic views, or like to tackle an adventure, your experience in New Yorkâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Finger Lakes Wine Country will not let you down.

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THINK HEART. THINK US.

Genetic testing confirmed Jessica’s inherited high cholesterol. She then partnered with the experts at Sanford Heart to take the right steps to keep her heart healthy and strong.

Call Sanford Heart at (605) 312-2278 to schedule your free consultation with our certified genetic counselor.

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Paper Roll Heart stamp Supplies needed: empty toilet paper or paper towel roll, craft paint, and paper.

Instructions: this craft is amazingly easy. Simply bend one side of the paper roll in towards the middle to create the top of the heart.

Help to shape it if you need to, creating a point for the bottom of the heart on the other side of the roll. Next, dip the paper roll into some paint, and let your child stamp it on paper, creating as many heart shapes as they want to. Create a personalized card or piece of art out of this easy craft.

Valentine Puppy Supplies needed: construction paper in white and two more colors of your choice, scissors, glue, and a black marker.

Instructions: cut out two big hearts from two different colors of construction paper. Next, cut one heart in half to make the puppyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s floppy ears. From another color of paper, cut out a smaller heart for the nose, and from white paper, two little hearts for the eyes. Turn the large heart upside down, then glue the ears to either side of the top point of the upside-down large heart, and glue the eyes and nose in place. Have your child add any more characteristics they want to the puppy, then display it for all to enjoy.

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Balloon Elephant Card Supplies needed: latex balloons, glue stick, tape, cardstock in white, the same color as your balloon, and one other color, and scissors.

Instructions: This makes a card and a party favor in one! Fold a single sheet of cardstock in half to create the shape of a greeting card. Secure your balloon (not inflated) to the front of the card using rolled tape. Cut out two hearts from cardstock in the same color of your balloon, then glue those on either side of the top of the balloon on the card, creating the elephant’s ears. Cut out two small white circles for eyes, then glue those to the front of the balloon. Add any more embellishments you see fit, and give the card to someone you love!

Valentine’s Day Hat Supplies needed: paper plate, scissors, and markers.

Instructions: fold a paper plate in half, then cut around the hole for the head, leaving a little part where the center is still attached to the brim. Be sure to estimate the hole size a little on the small side, so you have some wiggle room to trim the hole a little bigger if the hat doesn’t quite fit.

Keeping the plate folded in half, cut half a heart shape out of the middle of the plate, with the bottom part still attached to the brim. Now, open the plate up and decorate the heart and brim however you want to for Valentine’s Day! These work with pre-colored paper plates, or decorated with paint or markers. Some ideas for your decorations are making them into sweetheart candy or a message to a loved one so they can see a photo of your child wearing the hat. Make several of these for a party, or a matching set for your entire family to wear.

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omework battles are commonplace in many homes, but with a few tips and tricks – along with some parental encouragement – you can help calm the homework conflicts in your home.

One of the biggest keys to homework success is developing a routine. Having a consistent place and time to do homework helps prepare your child for homework on a daily basis. Even if the time isn’t exactly the same every evening, having a sense of predictability lets him know what to expect.

Consider these steps for a homework routine in your home.

Take care of the hunger.

When children are hungry, it’s hard for them to concentrate. The best after school snacks for learning readiness are protein snacks such as milk with half of a peanut butter sandwich or yogurt with a banana.

Take time to talk.

Spend 10 to 15 minutes talking to your child about how her day

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help your child find the answer.

The kitchen counter is often not the best place for homework time. Find a designated spot for your child’s homework that allows for minimal noise, distractions or interruptions. The bedroom may not be the best choice as the mind sees this room as a place to shut down and sleep. If there is a TV in the area, make sure it is turned off during homework time.

Communicate.

Teachers are a great source regarding how your child is doing and they may be able to offer some tips for how to help your child with homework. If you feel your child is getting behind or struggling, set up a time to talk with your child’s teacher about what the teacher is seeing in the classroom.

Offer help when needed.

At times, one of the hardest things about homework is knowing when to offer help and when to let your child figure it out. Helping too soon or too much can send a message that you don’t believe he can do it and his confidence in his ability to do the task is weakened. Some techniques for homework help include giving tips, asking leading questions or suggesting a resource that can

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Find the fun.

When you see your child needs a little help in a subject area such as subtraction or sentence structure, find a game that helps teach them these skills. Learning can be fun and there are many card and board games that help children learn with the added benefit of spending time playing with you.

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THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE WONDERFUL BOOKS FOR CHILDREN WE HAVE COME ACROSS THIS MONTH. WE HOPE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME YOU HAVE NOT SEEN BEFORE AND ALSO INTRODUCE OTHERS BEING RELEASED IN THE NEAR FUTURE. ENJOY.

Follow the Track All the Way Back

by Timothy Knapman Chooooo! Little Train is going out on the track all by himself for the first time. He runs through a field and rattles across a bridge.

Clickety-clack! Rattly-tat! Then he climbs a mountain and races by the river. Clumpetyclip! Zippety-zoom! Oh, no! Now he’s gone too far. Will Little Train recall what his mother and father said about finding his way home? With a nod to beloved classics such as The Little Engine That Could, here is a celebration of independence and parental reassurance that is sure to chug its way into the hearts of little readers everywhere.

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The Whopper

by Rebecca Ashdown This humorous, quirky story is about a little boy who tells a lie, only to be followed around by his guilt in the form of the Whopper, a hungry and persistent monster. As Percy’s guilt grows, so does the Whopper, until finally the Whopper EATS Percy! Percy at last realizes that he must tell the truth in order to keep the Whopper from growing any bigger. An appealing and warmhearted story about how a little lie can quickly grow out of control.

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Counting with Tiny Cat

by Viviane Schwarz At first Tiny Cat has none. Then, what’s that? One! Two! Three! And . . . four!

Oops, bonk, now there’s more! Soon Tiny Cat has as many red balls as you can get.

Then some extra. Is that too many? Will Tiny Cat ever have just enough?

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CHILDREN’S BOOKS

Can’t Catch Me!

by Timothy Knapman “I’m the fastest mouse in the world!” Jake claims. “I’m like the wind. I am faster than lightning!” But will speed alone keep boastful Jake from being caught by a cat, a fox, a wolf, or a bear? “Can’t catch me!” he shouts. Well, clever Old Tom Cat will just have to see about that. . . . Expressive and energetic illustrations pair with a fun cumulative text in a mischievous story that begs to be read aloud.

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Peppa Pig and the Library Visit Peppa and George are tired of all their regular bedtime stories. The only book they haven’t read is Daddy’s library book, The Wonderful World of Concrete . . . what a snooze! It’s overdue anyway, so the family sets out for Peppa’s very first visit to a library. With so many books to choose from, how will Peppa ever decide which ones to borrow? Bedtime will never be boring again!

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Beep, Beep, Maisy!

by Lucy Cousins Maisy is going for a ride in her car. Who will she meet as she goes? There’s Dotty driving her tractor (Chug, chug!), Peacock on his bicycle (Ding, ding!), Ostrich waving from his train (Choo, choo!), Eddie flying his helicopter (Chop, chop!), Tallulah in her fire engine (Nee-nah, neenah!), and Cyril driving his bus (Honk, honk!). But what’s hidden inside and around all these noisy vehicles? Lift more than fifty flaps to see!

Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrs Candlewickpress.com

The Lumberjack’s Beard

by Duncan Beedie Every day, lumberjack Jim Hickory heads into the forest with his trusty ax and chops down trees.

Unfortunately, all sorts of creatures, including a bird, a porcupine, and a beaver, lose their homes in the process, so Jim gives them a home in his beard — until one day it all gets to be too much.

Time for Jim to come up with a better solution!

This funny story carries a green message.

Ages 5 yrs - 8 yrs Candlewickpress.com

Find the Dots

by Andy Mansfield At a glance this may look like a basic counting book, but the clever paper engineering on every page makes it clear that there’s more here than meets the eye. Fold multiple flaps, slide a series of tabs, spin a few wheels, look through the windows, lift up a pop, or even peek in a mirror to find the dots. And it may take a few tries to get it right! Visually simple but offering varying levels of challenge, this irresistible concept book makes for a hands-on treat.

Ages 3 yrs - 7 yrs Candlewickpress.com

On the Night of the Shooting Star

by Amy Hest Bunny and Dog live on opposite sides of the fence.

Every morning, first thing, Bunny looks through the fence and the tall grass at Dog. And every morning, first thing, Dog looks through the fence and the tall grass at Bunny. Yet neither one says hello. Or hi. Or nice to see you today. But then, one night, Bunny and Dog both see a shooting star zip through the sky. Could this shared moment be the start of a friendship? From storyteller Amy Hest and artist Jenni Desmond comes a lyrical, touching, and timely picture book about finding the courage to say “I could be your friend.”

Ages 2 yrs - 5 yrs Candlewickpress.com

Guess How Much I Love You: A Book of Valentines

by Sam McBratney Open up this irresistible package and find three dozen mini valentines featuring the beloved Big and Little Nutbrown Hares from Guess How Much I Love You, just waiting to be colored, decorated with two pages’ worth of stickers, and delivered to someone special. Guess how much fans of all ages will love it!

Ages 4 yrs - 8 yrs Candlewickpress.com

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