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Weddings Planning edition Contents The wedding party: It’s good to understand their roles....... 3 The new rules of wedding etiquette........................................ 5 Choosing a wedding venue sets the tone for the event............ 6 Floral 411 for brides............................................................. 8 Floral terminology................................................................. 8 Complete guide to wedding vendor contracts......................... 9 What to expect at a religious wedding ceremony................. 10
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The wedding party: For smooth sailing, it’s good for all to understand their roles (MS) — As weddings have become less regimented and more expensive, the traditional bridal party is often pared down to a best man and a bridesmaid or two. Their roles, however, have remained constant through the years. Whether the wedding you’ve got in mind is large or small, formal or casual, conventional or original, it’s helpful to have a sense of the roles that bridal party members have played through the years. • Maid of Honor — Usually the closest friend of the bride and sometimes a relative. A married, divorced, widowed, or older woman might be called the matron of honor. She assists with the details of the wedding plans, like shopping for the bridal gown, addressing
invitations and choosing flowers. She arranges the bridal shower in conjunction with the bride’s family, is in charge of coordinating the bridesmaids and organizing fittings, and typically signs the couple’s certificate of marriage or wedding license as a legal witness. At the reception, she should stand immediately after the groom in the receiving line. • Best Man — Commonly the groom’s best friend, relative or not, the best man is in charge of instructing the ushers and coordinating the groom’s transportation to the ceremony. He usually holds the rings until the ceremony and will also sign the marriage certificate as a legal witness. At the reception, he holds a place of honor, escorting the maid of honor
• Flower Girl and Ring Bearer — The flower girl carries a basket of flower petals to sprinkle down the aisle, or flowers to be passed out to the women seated near the aisle. The ring bearer may either escort the flower girl down the aisle, or follow her, with the rings on a pillow.
in the receiving line and in all other wedding party activities. He’s also the toastmaster, offering the first toast to the couple. • Bridesmaids and Ushers — Typically friends or relatives of the bride, bridesmaids may be asked to coordinate special details during the ceremony preparations or at the reception, and assist the bride and the maid of honor. Ushers (sometimes also known as groomsmen) should be prepared for an early arrival at the ceremony to escort female guests to their seats. During the ceremony, they will escort the bridesmaids down the aisle. They may also be asked to coordinate the guests’ trip from the ceremony to the reception as well as assist the groom and the best man.
• Father of the Bride — His most conspicuous duty is giving away the bride at the ceremony. He might also fulfill numerous roles, such as coordinating transportation, dancing and toasting. Traditionally, he and the mother of the bride have paid for the wedding and reception but today it is common for expenses to be shared by both families along with the bride and groom themselves.
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The new rules of wedding etiquette in our modern age
By SIMONE HILL, theknot.com With the rise of social media and its influence on all aspects of our lives, wedding etiquette is changing to keep up with the times. Here are some tips to get couples — and their friends and families — from the engagement through the reception. WHEN PLANNING YOUR WEDDING • Call your parents before pressing “post” or “tweet” to announce your engagement. Your close friends and family will want to hear it straight from you first. A Facebook status or tweet might be the most efficient way to get the news out, but it’s not the most personal. You know which friends and family members would appreciate hearing the news directly from you. Plus, it’s likely that older family members (like your grandparents) don’t have Facebook or Snapchat accounts and could miss the message altogether. • Change your relationship status in minutes or months — it’s up to you. There’s no wrong or right time — some couples even do it at the altar! Once you tie the knot, it’s up to you and your new spouse to decide when to change your relationship status or last name on your social media sites. For some couples, this can be a very important moment; for others, it’s no big deal. So if and when you’re ready to make the change, go for it. • Post pictures of your engagement ring, but keep the nitty-gritty details like cost and carat to yourself. After you post your “engaged” status, your friends and family will be dying to find out what the ring looks like, so indulge them with a photo. It’s not bragging to share a picture with the exciting news. Leave out the other details, because how much it cost isn’t anyone else’s business. Everyone’s going to be checking out your hand for the first few months anyway, so make it easy for friends and family to admire from afar. • Designate a “tweeter of honor.” Enjoy your day and stay off your phone while still keeping everyone updated. Your wedding day will fly by, and if you’re on your phone the whole time, you’ll miss out on what’s important. Focus on the guests who have come to celebrate with you, instead of everyone in your social media circles. You can always designate a “tweeter of honor” to keep your social networks updated throughout the day so you won’t have to. Another option is to schedule tweets beforehand, so they’re ready to go without the hassle.
• Send out traditional paper invites for the main event. Paper invites are the way to go for the actual wedding day. In today’s technology-based world, where your guests receive hundreds of emails a day, a physical invite has become so much more special. That doesn’t mean you have to go overthe-top with an invite that sings and shoots confetti. Simple card stock and laser printing will do the trick. A paperless invite for the rehearsal dinner or morning-after brunch is a great option (especially if you want to cut down on stationery costs). Just because the invites are electronic doesn’t mean they won’t have style or be personal to you. There are plenty of sites that let you customize e-invites so they look beautiful and unique. • Keep your public posts positive. Confront issues directly and privately via phone or in person. We know wedding planning can be stressful at times. But before you post that status venting about all the guests who RSVP’d for too many people or complain about your future mother-in-law-zilla, pause for a second and think. Posting something negative about your wedding will only lead to hurt feelings. Instead, politely address each situation directly as it comes your way. That means picking up the phone and explaining to your guest that you don’t have enough room for all the extras, and asking your fiancé to have a conversation with his mom. Trust us, the other route will only create animosity around your wedding. • Spread the word about your hashtag. Tie it into your invitations and wedding website in a creative way. We’ve gotten to the point where almost everyone is familiar with hashtags and know how to use them, so you shouldn’t feel weird about putting it out there. Think of ways you can tie it into your paper elements in a pretty or witty way, like asking guests to share photos of themselves wearing custom temporary tattoos you send along with the save-the-dates. Letting your guests know ahead of time is crucial to having a successful feed of photos. IF YOU’RE GOING TO A WEDDING • Wait to publicly post your congratulations. If the couple hasn’t made the announcement, then you shouldn’t spill the big news for them. It’s exciting when you’re the first to find out your best friend or sister is getting married, but hold off on the public congrats until they’re ready to share the news themselves. They might be waiting for an important reason and there could be hard feelings involved if others find out they weren’t in the
know first. • Private message any wedding planning questions. It can be awkward for the couple’s other social media friends who weren’t invited. If you want to discuss wedding plans with the bride or groom, it’s polite to do it in a private way. The couple may have hundreds of Facebook friends who aren’t on the invite list, and it’s not fair if each and every detail comes up on their news feed. Brides especially love to share wedding planning details, and she’ll appreciate a friendly ear to listen if you call to find out how it’s going. This is a busy time for the couple too, so don’t be offended if they don’t keep you up to date on every single detail. • Share pictures of the bride and groom, but respect their request if they ask you not to post photos before they do. It’s great that you want to show what an amazing wedding the couple threw and Instagram the cake and the flowers. But some couples may want to wait to share photographic details of the wedding until they have photos from their professional photographer, or might opt for an unplugged wedding, so you should respect their choice. If you’re worried about whether you’re in the clear with posting photos, then wait until a close friend or family member of the couple does so first. Then you’ll know it’s okay to post away. • Leave the phone in your purse or pocket. Posting occasionally is okay, but the couple invited you to celebrate their day, not sit there on your phone. The couple spent a lot of time planning an event that you would enjoy, so don’t spend the entire time on your phone documenting the wedding — go have some fun! It’s okay to share the love a few times, but you shouldn’t opt out of hitting the dance floor in favor of tweeting a play-by-play. Plus, having a phone or tablet out all the time can get in the way of photos, and no one wants to look back on their wedding day to see a guest more engaged with a device than their reception. • Follow directions for the RSVP. The couple’s inboxes are already full of wedding-related details; a text, email or private message
is likely to get lost in the mix. Most paper invitations will include an RSVP card with an addressed envelope to send it back in, and couples will look for and expect responses by mail (before the deadline). If you lose the card, then it’s okay to call and find out how the couple would prefer you to RSVP once you know whether you’ll be attending. • Stay clear of the professional wedding photographer. Take as many photos as you please, but don’t get in the photographer’s way. Be mindful of the photographer and videographer the couple has hired to take photos of their wedding, especially during the ceremony. A good rule of thumb is to stay seated during the ceremony (and no leaning into the aisle or raising your phone way over your head either). Standing up or moving around can be distracting to the officiant, get in the way of the pros and ruin the view for other guests. Our advice? If you must have that amazing shot of the bride’s entrance, get to the ceremony early and sit in an aisle seat to get great photos without having to pull acrobatic stunts. • Actually use that wedding hashtag. The couple created a wedding hashtag for good reason. If the couple has a hashtag, use it as much as possible on every photo and tweet. They’re excited to have all of their photos in one place. Make as much effort as possible to use it and encourage others to as well.
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Choosing a wedding venue sets the tone for the event By CHRISTY LYNN Seemed idyllic and inexpensive … until we time. MIDDLEBURY — Of all the decisions to realized that we maybe aren’t the hippies we So we fixed our gaze on a place that’s been make when embarking on the wedding plan- used to be; we would need some kind of rain special to us for many years, despite the tough ning process, the venue has seemed to me like plan, porta-potties, and electricity for the RVs, reality that it’s not a wedding venue, it’s a the most profound. In what setting do we want not to mention some way to keep a bunch of summer camp. Everything felt right — it’s a to state this supreme promise, witnessed by the people entertained in the middle of a giant field beautiful setting that has historical relevance to people in our lives who mean the most? Why? for a weekend (other than alcohol, which is our relationship and it could accommodate the My partner Sam and I got engaged on Feb. not cheap). All of a sudden that middle-of-the- whole guest list. We didn’t really mean to, but 6, in the middle of a casual walk in the woods. field vision started looking a lot more like Field we started dreaming about how we could play After dating for almost 13 years, having trav- Days, which wasn’t exactly what we were in the lake and dance in the dining hall and hold eled thousands of miles together, exploring imagining. the ceremony looking out to the Green Mounmountaintops, seasides and Another thought was to tains in a scene that brings us back to our very cityscapes, we landed back in have the ceremony on the salt beginnings almost 18 years ago. quiet Middlebury and have setmarsh in Cape Cod, where That process led us to consider other camps tled into a life worth officially The thought of Sam’s family has a house we that do host weddings and consider more carerequiring people committing to. frequently visit. It is a remark- fully the logistics of that kind of affair. Some While we may have had to travel far from able vacation place for us that camps come with a full kitchen and cleaning plenty of time to talk about it, reliably leaves us feeling re- crew, fully outfitted cabins with beds and sheets we haven’t been one of those home, then keep stored and revitalized, ready and towels and the whole nine yards. Those are couples working on planning moving here, there to head back into the reali- the expensive ones. their wedding for years before and everywhere ties of work and life with our Other camps are more basic with canvas even the proposal happened. heads high. We have shared tents and minimal luxuries. But they tend to So, shortly after Sam popped for the various the Cape House with a large be pretty small. Almost invariably, however, the question, a thousand more wedding events family and many friends over we found that camps tend to be very popular questions started flowing the years, who hold a simi- choices for Vermont weddings. just didn’t feel through my head. lar reverence for the gentle Despite the fact that we will have waited 13 What kind of ceremony do right to us. beauty of the salt marsh. To years to get married, we didn’t really want to we want to have? How many be married there in the gold- drag it out to 14. But finding a great camp venpeople do we want to share it en light of the fall could be a ue that could accommodate 150 or 200 people with? Where do we want to host such an epic spectacularly poignant memory to hold onto this fall just wasn’t looking like it was in the gathering? And how on earth are we going to for the rest of our lives. cards. pay for all of this!? But as we started talking this option through Next we migrated to the idea of renting out Fortunately for us, four days after our en- it started to reveal massive logistical challeng- a whole campground. This could be a blend gagement we left on a planned trip to India for es of transportation, lodging and budget. Not of the field idea and the camp idea; we could another wedding. It was brilliant timing (unbe- to mention that getting even 100 people out find a cute campground on a lake or a river knownst to me), as it gave us a little breathing onto the spit of land where we and everyone could get a spot. room and space to think about the questions would want to host a ceremony They could come with their that often bombard newly engaged couples — would be a serious challenge Despite the fact RV or camper or tent and the all the wheres and whens, and what the wed- — even if you didn’t have to that we will have amenities would all be there. ding party is wearing; wedding colors and worry about tides coming in waited 13 years It might not be the most specname changing and all of those things couples and out. We would have to cotacular setting for a wedding, haven’t had time to think about. ordinate a separate venue for to get married, we but what we cared most about The time abroad enabled us to toss around any reception or dinner, and didn’t really want was getting people together some of these questions privately and play limited lodging options would to drag it out to and having a good time. through scenarios in our minds about what a probably require people stayBut after a quick Internet wedding would look like in different settings. ing in several different inns, 14. But finding search it became clear that As it turned out, there seemed to be pros and motels and B&Bs. most campgrounds host seaa great camp cons with every setting. The thought of requir- venue that could sonal campers through midFor many, a church, chapel or other religious ing people to travel far from October. That would mean we house offers a quick solution that is meaning- home, then keep moving here, accommodate 150 were either pushing our event ful for couples that honor a religious practice in there and everywhere for the or 200 people this back to the end of October their lives and their relationship is founded on a various wedding events just (which gets pretty chilly for fall just wasn’t faith in God. For us, that’s not the case. didn’t feel right to us. There camping), or cozying up next Our first inclination was to find a giant field are many wonderfully roman- looking like it was to other random people and far off the beaten track and ask (or pay) a farm- tic aspects of weddings; park- in the cards. adhering to the quiet rules of er to leave a big swath of the field feral for the ing and transportation logisthe site… no go. season. A few days prior to the event we would tics are not among them. It was then we realized that mow a narrow path leading to a giant circle in We realized that what we really wanted was the venue would have to come to us. When it the center of the field, tall grasses around us on a place where everyone could stay in one place was right, we would know. We couldn’t force it all sides. In this vision guests would come in and hang — like we want to — with a bunch and couldn’t try to make something work that RVs and tents and we would set up a little wed- of other wonderful people. We didn’t want to wasn’t perfect. It’ll be our nod to faith, we said. ding carnival for the weekend. We would dance have to force the party to end just so folks could Fingers crossed. to a fiddle band under a full moon; realizing the catch the last bus, and also didn’t want to force Editor’s note: Christy Lynn is associate pubfield party of our dreams. the sleepy kid or parent to stay past his bed- lisher at the Addison Independent.
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Floral 411 for brides (MS) — Leading up to their big day, couples have lots to worry about before they finally get to walk down the aisle as husband and wife. Planning a wedding is no small task, as even the most minor details must be accounted for. Such is the case with the floral arrangements. Though not a minor detail in any way, preparing a wedding day floral arrangement does have its minor details, particularly when it comes to the more individual aspects of a floral plan. For instance, the following components should be considered when devising a floral plan. • The bridal bouquet. It’s tradition for bridal bouquets to contain white or cream-colored flowers such as stephanotis, roses, orchids, or lilies. Many bridal bouquets also include fillers like baby’s breath as well as some green or ivy, as well as ribbons or additional accessories. • Bouquets for attendants. Attendants’ bouquets should be identical, and it’s best to coordinate these bouquets with the attendants’ gowns. Only the maid of honor traditionally receives a slightly
different bouquet, as it’s customary to give her one apart from the rest, though not significantly so. • Boutonnieres for groomsmen and ushers. The guy’s side of the wedding also needs to take part in the floral plan. Worn in a buttonhole or lapel, a boutonniere should be worn on the left lapel and match a flower from the bridesmaids’ bouquets. The groom should also wear a boutonniere, though his should match a flower from the bride’s bouquet. When wearing boutonnieres, men should not wear additional accessories such as pocket squares. • Flowers for special guests. Certain special guests, such as grandmothers and mothers, should receive corsages. While the corsages do not need to be identical, they should match the bridesmaids’ bouquets. It’s best to consult with a florist for a corsage color that matches all dresses, as typically the corsages must be ordered before the bride and groom know what their mothers, grandmothers and other special guests will be wearing. A corsage that goes with anything, therefore, is ideal.
Floral Terminology
Bouquet: A dense bunch of blooms that are kept together in a bouquet holder, wired or tied with ribbon. Crescent: One full flower and a flowering stem wired together to form a slender handle that is held in one hand. Nosegay: Small, round bouquets composed of densely packed round flowers and fill. Pomander:A flower-covered ball that is suspended from a ribbon. It is often carried by child attendants. Posies: Smaller than nosegays but similar in design. Tossing: A smaller copy of the bride’s bouquet to use in the bouquet toss.
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Here’s the complete guide to wedding vendor contracts These are our five top tips for what every contract must include By HEIDI TANDY and IVY JACOBSON, theknot.com Let’s get something straight: Every time you hire a photographer, caterer, videographer, musician, florist or hairdresser; book a chapel, park or hotel ballroom; or order something from a dress shop, dressmaker or formalwear store, you must get your agreement in writing. Until you sign a contract and put down a deposit, you have no guarantees that vendors will hold the date of your wedding. Read everything in your contracts and receipts, and be sure to document every single wedding arrangement you make. 1. Flexibility You might not want to think about an April snowstorm’s effect on your lovely garden ceremony, but if you want to ensure that the catering hall’s ballroom will be available, write that into the contract. Don’t be afraid to alter the stock contract that the vendor or manager offers. If your request is reasonable — for example, you want the supplier to be liable for potential negligence or willful misconduct — and the vendor won’t agree, look elsewhere. 2. Details Forthcoming What should you do if you’ve made some decisions but haven’t finalized details? (For example, you know you want lots of roses, but you don’t know the exact cost of the centerpieces.) You can make a contract when you book the service and include a general amount or maximum cost for services, but add a sentence that says details will be confirmed in writing by a certain date. But even with that, it’s good to be clear with your visions and ideas from the beginning to ensure that your vendor is the best match. “For example, if you’re at the point where you’re ready to book your florist, you should make sure that you and the florist are on the same page with expectations,” says attorney and wedding lawyer Christie M. Asselin, Esq. “If you put down a deposit, but haven’t figured out what the centerpieces will look like, there may be some problems down the line. It’s important to communicate your expectations before agreeing to hire a vendor.”
3. What Goes Into It • On every contract, write: • Dates and times of all services (including the time the vendor should arrive) • Date of the wedding • Names of all parties involved in the agreement • The deposit and final payment amounts (plus the payment schedule) • Contingency plans and substitutions (if white peonies aren’t available, white garden roses will be used instead) • Detailed description of services • Some venues might also require a wedding insurance clause for liability insurance Note: When dealing with vendors that are providing a service on the wedding day itself, make sure the contract includes the name and number of the person the vendor should call if anything goes wrong or gets delayed.
4. Refunds Along with the basics, every contract should include a cancellation and refund policy on both ends that discusses what refund you will receive if you cancel and what penalty the vendor will pay if they cancel. With a refund clause, you should be able to get back a certain percentage of any deposits you made if the party is canceled by a certain date. But the closer it is to the actual wedding date, the less likely you are to get your money back — establishments and other wedding professionals are simply protecting their own business. That said, your contracts are legally binding documents, so if your vendors fail to provide what your contract states, you could take them to court — but if you don’t hold up your end of the deal, they could take you to court as well. “Usually a refund policy will be for failing to perform entirely, or for a major issue,” says As-
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selin. “Make absolutely sure that you completely understand the refund policy. Sometimes these clauses are so complex that it takes time to read through them and fully understand them.” 5. Receipts When you order something, such as a dress, a tuxedo, invitations or favors, the contract can be as brief as a store receipt. That said, it should still include: • Wedding date • Style (a number, a detailed description, or the full invitation text, for example) • Date item will be picked up • Price and payment schedule • Outline of what the price includes (such as alterations, accessories, delivery, and envelopes) And remember — don’t sign the contract unless you’re 100 percent comfortable with it, and both you and the vendor should sign and date two copies so you can each have one.
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What to expect at a religious wedding ceremony (MS) — Weddings can be as unique and varied as the couples tying the knot. Quite often couples like to include certain twists on the ceremony and celebration to personalize their big days. But just as there are surprises at weddings, there also are many traditions that will be adhered to during ceremonies. Couples who opt for religious wedding ceremonies often adhere to certain rules and traditions fostered by their faiths. Guests who may be unfamiliar with traditions outside of their own beliefs may not know what to expect during certain ceremonies. JEWISH CELEBRATIONS The world’s Jewish population is divided among many distinctive denominations and further classifications. Although there may be subtle differences in wedding ceremonies between the sects, Jewish wedding traditions tend to be consistent across the groups. Conservative and Orthodox Jews may not hold weddings on the Sabbath or other holi-
days. Couples will sign the Ketuba, which is a marriage document affirming their connection to each other and to God. The ceremony starts with grandparents seated first, followed by a procession of the rabbi, cantor and groomsmen. The groom and bride will be escorted by their parents. The wedding party will gather beneath the chuppah, which is a canopy that signifies a house and represents the couple’s future together. A solid gold ring is given only to the bride according to Jewish law, although more liberal rabbis may allow a ring for the groom as a gift. The bridegroom smashes a wineglass with his foot after the vows have been exchanged.
the various denominations. Such ceremonies typically involve a processional, though the groom is typically not included, instead standing at the altar. Christians typically hear various scripture readings, and the officiant will explain the significance of marriage in this faith. Many Catholic weddings feature a full Mass during wedding ceremonies, and this Mass includes the transubstantiation of the Holy Eucharist. After vows and rings are exchanged, the couple kisses and is pronounced husband and wife in the eyes of God. The bride and groom will go on to sign the marriage document with two witnesses on hand.
CHRISTIAN CELEBRATIONS Christian celebrations are similar among
HINDU CELEBRATIONS A Hindu wedding celebration is an
elaborate affair that includes extended family and community members. The wedding ceremony is called vivaah sanskar and can be a very colorful celebration that lasts for days. The couple and guests will be wearing traditional dress. The bride usually wears body art produced with a mixture of henna and turmeric. Hindu rituals may vary widely, but some key things are shared. According to the “Encyclopedia of Hinduism,” many will include the Kanyadaan, or giving away of the daughter by her father; Panigrahana, or holding one’s hands by a fire to signify the union; and Saptapadi, which is taking seven steps and making seven promises to each other before the fire. The couple may have their clothing tied together during the seven promises ritual to represent their lifelong bond. Wedding ceremonies may vary depending on culture and religion, but they all share the joy of two people pledging their love and devotion to each other.
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PAGE 12 — Addison County Weddings ~Planning~ A special section of the Addison Independent, Monday, March 31, 2016
We make a couple of promises to all brides and grooms, they are: ~ Throughout your planning process at the Waybury we will give you individual attention and guidance that is so important to the assurance that your visions for this important day are realized. ~ On your wedding day you and your party will be the complete focus of the Waybury Inn and all of our staff. There will be no other weddings or other business that will divert our attention from our service to you. ~ Menu tastings are a part of every wedding, this is to ensure that menus and the plate presentation have your blessing and that you are confident that your selection will be one that you will be proud to serve at your celebration. ~ We are sensitive to your budget, with a goal to provide you the maximum celebration for a sensible investment.
Glorious Weddings in a Beautiful Tranquil Setting 802-388-4015
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Rt. 125, East Middlebury
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info@wayburyinn.com
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wayburyinn.com
INN & BARN The Old Lantern is an 1800’s barn with the largest maple floor space in Vermont for dancing! Our Inn has 8 guest rooms with private baths and a dining area for smaller parties. Only 25 minutes from Middlebury with beautiful views of Lake Champlain, we are available all year.
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Inn • Weddings • Special Events Bar Service & Catering Capacity up to 350 people PHOTOS BY STINA BOOTH
Charlotte, Vermont • 802.425.2120 www.oldlantern.com