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Looking for Life Skills classes for your child with Autism, Down syndrome, or other developmental disability? Interested in learning how to advocate for yourself as a person with a developmental disability? Struggling to find someone who understands what it’s like to be a parent of a child with Asperger’s or Autism? Are you part of a church or youth group looking for volunteer opportunities?

Call Camp Courageous & The Arc of Northwest Ohio!! We offer a variety of programs and services for individuals of ALL ages and ability levels. From Parent Support to Cooking & Nutrition classes to weeklong or weekend respite camps – we are here for you and your family!

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Tips to ensure gratitude isn’t lost in the hustle and bustle of the season

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Connected Caregivers

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Raising Thankful Children

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From My Perspective

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New LEGO exhibit opens at Imagination Station

A first-hand account of living with autism

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Working together when you don’t see eye-to-eye — by Sam Melden

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By Sue Lovett Parents should keep their running shoes handy as soon as these kids are big enough to open the doors. It’s not that they will deliberately disobey you, it is because their theme song is “Don’t Fence Me In.” They are independent, curious, friendly explorers and Adelight to everyone they meet. There is no limit to their talents which you will see when they are very young. They enjoy putting puzzles together, painting, and building things They are thrilled with challenges but get bored easily – doing the same thing over and over. Once the family gets used to this, it can be a lot of fun. When they are old enough to go to someone else’s house to visit, and you want them to be home at 5:00, just tell them to be home at 4:00. This saves you some worry and they enjoy being late.

They will do well in preschool and school. Give them a globe and show them where the other countries are located.

They will want to travel and they use their imagination more than most children – that will be true as they grow older. They can be writers, musicians, actors – almost any career where they can be free spirits.

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Parents of special needs students in Ohio now have a valuable scholarship opportunity to aid with supplies, education costs and services. The Jon Peterson Special Needs Scholarship is available to Ohio special needs students. Scholarships will be awarded depending on a child’s special education category, as identified on their Individualized Education Program (IEP). Any student with an IEP is eligible to apply.

Choose the private school and/or provider(s) for the child’s unique learning needs and ask the primary provider to apply for the scholarship on the student’s behalf. There are over 300 registered schools and private providers statewide.

The deadline to apply is November 15, 2016. Eligible students who apply during this application window, if selected, will receive a prorated scholarship that begins in January 2017.

For more information about the Jon Peterson Special Needs Scholarship Program, visit www.scohio.org.

Homework Helpers

School work doesn’t end when the bell rings, and sometimes all of that homework can be daunting for your student. But help is here….and it’s free! The Toledo Lucas County Public Library offers Homework Helper Help Centers at various branch locations across the area. Homework Helpers are available to offer assistance with school assignments for students in kindergarten through grade 8. Each help center has varying hours this fall.

Find a full list of times and locations online at toledolibrary.org/homework-helpers.

Bowling for Trust

To help foster trust and positive relationships, The Toledo Bowling Senate Junior Bowling League is sponsoring a Build-A-Trust-Bowl-AThon event Saturday, November 19 at Toledo Sports Center. Kids, teens, police officers, firefighters and military will share the lanes for fun and games.

Toledo Sports Center, 1516 Starr Ave, Toledo.

For more information call 419-693-0687.

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Scholarships Now Available To Ohio’s Special Needs Students

Spoken: Parenting The First Tee ADAPTED Golf Program

A new partnership between Awakening Minds Art and The First Tee is making golf achievable for kids with special needs. The First Tee ADAPTED Golf Program provides quality youth programs offering one-on-one coaching in a sensory friendly environment. In addition to basic skills, the ADAPTED program curriculum also focuses on life skills such as how to manage emotions, set goals, resolve conflicts and communicate with others. awakeningmindsart.org/thefirsttee Find a full list of times and locations online at toledolibrary.org/homework-helpers.

Everyone’s got a story to tell. And parents have many. Join Toledo Area Parent and the Ohio Theatre for the upcoming event Spoken: Parenting 2-Legged or Otherwise. This night of interactive storytelling will include featured speakers as well as an open mic where audience members can share a tale or two about their own parenting adventures. Mark your calendar for Thursday, November 10 at 7 pm at the Ohio Theatre.

Find more details at ohiotheatretoledo.org.

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Free Parenting Class

Children’s Resource Center will offer another session of ACT: Raising Safe Kids starting November 1. This free, eight-week course teaches positive parenting skills to families with children eight and under. Free childcare , along with a light meal, is provided at each class.

Children’s Resource Center, 1045 Klotz Road, Bowling Green. To reserve your spot, call 419-352-7588

Bittersweet Opens Community Center In Sylvania

Bittersweet Day Program now has an additional facility in Sylvania. The Bittersweet Center for the Community opened its doors at the end of October and will offer care to individuals with autism Monday through Friday from 10 am - 2pm. -JK The new center will be open Monday through Friday from 10am to 2pm. Sylvania Historical Village, 5723 N. Main St., Sylvania

Conway Tutoring

Is the thought of taking the ACTs stressing out your teen? Help is here thanks to Conway Tutoring, a new family-run ACT prep tutoring center. A mother-daughter duo (with more than 54 years of combined teaching experience) cover all four of the main ACT subjects: reading, English, science and math.

The sessions focus on the review of the subject matter, creation of a student’s own study/formula sheet and discussion of the best test-taking strategies. Sessions are held each Sunday from 12:30-4:30 pm on the campus of BGSU. You can find more information, including pricing and schedules at conwaytutoring.com.

Join the Bittersweet Bowling League! The Thursday night league is for teens with autism and runs for six weeks, starting November 3 at Bowlero Lanes on Monroe Street. Call 419-206-7803 for info or to register.

Baby Bulldog Center Offers Child Care At Adrian College

Parents with young kids - you know how hard it can be to find reliable, affordable child care. Now you’ve got a new option, thanks to the Baby Bulldog Center on the campus of Adrian College.

Licensed for up to 12 infants/ toddlers at a time, the new center serves children age birth through three.The center will be open Monday through Friday, 7am to 6pm, every day except for major holidays. -JK Baby Bulldog Center, Adrian College, 110 S. Madison Street Adrian 517-264-3989 ext. 3989. babybulldogs@adrian.edu

Mommy and Me Ride for Free

A new transportation program got the green light, thanks to a $133,000 federal grant. Mommy and Me Ride for Free will provide pregnant women and mothers with young children free transportation with TARPS and TARTA to doctor’s visits, trips to the grocery store or other appointments. The Mommy and Me Ride for Free program aims to increase access to healthcare, leading to better birth outcomes and improved health status.

For more details visit healthylucascounty.org.

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Measuring Success Everywhere Toledo’s Autism Model School

By Kat Tomasewki

The Autism Model School (AMS) is in dents who live in Lucas County.

The incidence of autism, currently a class all its own. AMS was established by parents of students with autism, and estimated at 1 child in 68, continues to remains governed by people who have rise according to the Centers for Disease been personally touched by autism. Control and Prevention. It is important Those who direct the school have walked that families have options for their child’s unique educational, behavin the parents’ shoes. ioral, and functional needs.

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

By Christine A. Holliday

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Science super stars: SUA STEM team in two contests STEM stands for Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math. At St. Ursula Academy, it also stands for hard work and creativity as STEM students enter projects in two competitions. One, a robotics contest at BGSU, requires students to design and build a robot to modernize farming, then present their work to a panel of judges. The other, the Lexus Eco Challenge, is a national contest for 6th-12th graders to examine a local environmental issue and use their critical St. Ursula senior Nuurah Parsons is the project thinking and research skills leader of the STEM team’s environmental group. to pose a solution. The SUA team is looking at the possibility of repurposing Lake Erie and Maumee River sediment for agricultural purposes, working with the Toledo Lucas County Port Authority, the University of Toledo, and Hull & Associates, a Toledo engineering firm.

Elizabeth Bostleman, senior from The Toledo School for the Arts has plenty of reason to celebrate after taking the ACT. She got a perfect score of 36. Only .06% of those who take the exam score this high.

“I think Toledo School for the Art’s family atmosphere really allowed me to learn,” said Elizabeth. She is involved in the Glass City Steel drum band and costuming. While she remains unsure where she’ll continue her education, Elizabeth plans to major in computer science and wants to become a software designer.

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Early Signs of ASD:

What to Look Out For

Living and Loving on the Spectrum Autism in Area Families

By Heidi Borst

You probably know someone, or maybe you are the someone, who has a child diagnosed with autism. One in every 68 American children is currently diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), a neurological developmental disorder affecting the brain. Symptoms include difficulties with social interaction, verbal and nonverbal communication, and repetitive behaviors. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), most cases of autism appear to be caused by a combination of autism risk genes and environmental risk factors that affect brain development.

Autism can range from mild to severe, and every case of Autism is unique, which can seem daunting. Typically the younger a child is treated, the better the prognosis will be. A range of helpful behavioral, educational, and family treatments are available depending on each child’s specific case. While the diagnosis of autism might be hard, there is hope.

Dr. Cherilyn M. Shurtz, M.D., FAAP of PediatriCare Associates in Sylvania urges parents not to be intimidated by an ASD diagnosis. “Always stay positive and never lose heart,” she said. “Early detection is so important in getting the services and therapies your child needs to improve long-term outcomes and allow your child to lead a wonderful, happy, and productive life.”

“Early detection is so important in getting the services and therapies your child needs to improve long-term outcomes and allow your child to lead a wonderful, happy, and productive life.”

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Josh and Jackie Droughon with their six children: (clockwise from left) Kade 12, Brayden 13, Jaxcon 9, Josh 11, Sommer 8, and Chloe, 5.

The Faces and Families of Autism

Jackie Draughon, a mother of six, knew early on something was different with her youngest son Jaxcon, but it became most obvious when Jaxcon began preschool at age three. “He threw objects in class, never stayed in his seat, was unaware of dangers, was easily frightened, barely made eye contact, had a hard time in social settings, became frustrated and overwhelmed with large groups of people, and had frequent potty accidents,” Jackie recalled. By age four, Jaxcon received his official diagnosis: High Functioning Autism.

that High Functioning does not mean easier. I have learned that deep pressure (like a bear hug) helps him come out of a meltdown. I have learned patience and long suffering. I know that when he says hurtful words he does not mean them. I love him unconditionally,” Draughon explained.

Jackie Droughon with son Jaxcon

Catie’s resources

For mom Mary Pat Gebers, the warning signs came early. Gebers noticed her fourth child, a daughter, Catie, wasn’t talking and would not respond when her name was called by her first birthday. Nothing conclusive was determined about Catie’s behavior until just before Kindergarten. After being evaluated by her school psychologist, the autism diagnosis was made. “Catie scored very high on the Autism Diagnostic Ob-

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Jackie Draughton with son Jaxcon.

servation Schedule (ADOS) testing, the gold standard of testing for autism. The higher you score the higher the chance of autism or the more severe it is,” Mary Pat said. ADOS assesses communication, social interaction, and play in suspected cases of autism. She followed up the diagnosis with a visit to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, where the diagnosis was confirmed. Mary Pat and Catie returned to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital often to utilize the resources there at the Center for Autism Spectrum Disorders.

Keeping it Inclusive

Working It Out as a Family

Because Jaxcon has a hard time expressing himself, he can easily become frustrated and upset. The sensory overload from a simple trip to the grocery store is often too much for the boy, and family outings are challenging, as he can be unpredictable. Jaxcon’s five siblings (ranging in age from two -13) sometimes have difficulty understanding their mother’s different approach to managing Jaxcon’s behavior. “They get frustrated a lot, but we keep talking about it… they are much more aware of his triggers, and when we are in a stressful situation they all try to help the best they can. Some days are better than others.”

Today Jaxcon is nine and Jackie has learned that his meltdowns must run their course. “I am never very far away in case Jaxcon gets frustrated or overwhelmed. I am his calm. I have learned

“Early signs center on lack of social interaction and ‘joint attention’… actions like pointing at things to show others, or looking at things together, such as enjoying a book with a parent. Children with Autism will not look others in the eye for more than a brief moment.” Dr. Cherilyn M. Shurtz, M.D., FAAP of Pediatracare Associates in Sylvania.

Mary Pat believes Catie was able to grow being in the presence of her peers at school. “Because I work, Catie picked up a lot from her friends in her daycare class. Routines and schedules provide a sense of security to kids with autism. There are not a lot of options outside of the public schools for children with special needs but I have been very happy with the services Kate gets at school. At age 10, Catie learned to read- she now works very hard at that and can read at a 4th grade level. We are so proud of the work she’s done and how far she’s come,” Mary Pat shared.

“Some people think kids with autism just want to be alone all the time. While Catie does at times want to be alone, she also wants to participate in social activities and have friends,” Mary Pat said.

Now a Freshman at Sylvania Southview High School, Catie recently attended the Homecoming Dance with her friends.

For Catie, family’s support is key.

The noise level was overwhelming, and she left about halfway through, but Mary Pat is confident that by senior year she will be able to stay through the whole event.

With a Little Help From Family and Friends

For parents with a child on the autism spectrum, having a support system and taking time for yourself are crucial.

“Remember to take care of your health,” Jackie said. “I have found great strength and stress relief by following a daily workout program. There are so many high-stress moments and having a healthy outlet is key to keeping you in balance.”

Mary Pat relies heavily on family support. “I’m very fortunate to have three older children (Ryan, 27, Mallory,24, and Evan, 21) who help with Catie, and our families live close enough to come help if we need them.”

Mary Pat encourages parents to keep at it; raising a child on the ASD spectrum is a day to day process. “It is very daunting and overwhelming at first.

Keep reminding yourself that at the end of the day it’s your child. The love that you give them is just so important in the whole process. It does get easier, but it’s slow in coming so you just keep at it. Because it’s your child, you will learn to do what you need to do just like you did with your other children. You have that capacity. They grow up. They still mature, and they have typical teenager moments. It is wonderful.”

“There will always be a ton of opposing opinions, but only you know how to love your sweet child and only you know what it is like to raise them,” Jackie said. “Hold tight, stay strong, and be kind to you.”

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This was before James was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, when he was an extremely fussy, unpredictable, hard-to-read infant. My main worry was that a babysitter wouldn’t be able to withstand James’ crying, which was long and loud. That he was vulnerable to abuse.

Only someone who loved him could do the job.Thankfully, James became less fussy and much more fun to be around.

But I remained wary of sitters.

Wanted: Babysitter

With James, the stakes were higher.

What was I supposed to do? Hire a “special needs babysitter,� if such a person existed? And how much would that cost? I wasn’t going to call up the teenager down the street, but I thought I could make do with someone experienced, someone older.

I wondered, was an explanation of the diagnostic label— to which I was still adjusting— really necessary for the 60-year-old lady across the street to put James to bed while my husband and I went out to dinner? Autism Spectrum Disorder can be a hidden disability, not always apparent at a first meeting. A parent has a choice about whether or not to identify their child.

How would you like being introduced to new people with your worst qualities highlighted?

Turns out I probably should have said something. When we got home at 10:30pm, Ms. Veronica was sitting beside James’ crib, overhead light on, singing “Polly Wolly Doodle.� “Does this baby ever sleep?� she asked. “He won’t close his eyes!�

James gave me a desperate look, as if to say, “Doesn’t this lady know how to turn out the light and leave the room?�

He was tired of entertaining her Although less fussy, James still had trouble reading people and being read.

Because of his autism, he didn’t communicate typically about really important household topics: sleepiness, hunger, thirst, discomfort, anxiety, illness, basic requests.

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You know how most kids yawn when they’re tired?

Well, this one runs around the house like a greyhound,�

I explained.

So this became my tactic. Instead of using the A-word, I’d deliver a clear, focused message about what made James different. Like ad copy: “You know how most kids yawn when they’re tired?

Well, this one runs around the house like a greyhound.� In this way I graduated from Ph.D.-level babysitters to preschool assistant teachers, Teach for America people, and budding speech / language therapists. That’s where I remain today, when my mom’s unavailable. Most importantly, I troll for sitters at James’ school, looking for people with whom he already feels comfortable, and who know him without my having to explain much.

High Stakes

But no matter how well James does with babysitters, and he does very well nowadays, the stakes are higher because of his autism. Even higher than they are for his younger sister, though she benefits from his higher stakes.

That’s because, for children with autism and other special needs, major routines are all-important. I’m not talking about which book you read before bed, or how many times you say goodnight. I’m talking about how much and when they eat and drink, when they use the bathroom, when and if they take any medication, and when they fall asleep.

A slight variation in any of these can result in such ills as: bedwetting, night

waking, early morning waking, stomach upset, and fussiness for days afterward.

None of which are a good follow-up to my wild night on the town.

So that’s it. You don’t need an expert, but you do need someone who will keep major routines consistent. Someone who understands how important that is. And that person is most likely to be someone you already know, or someone who has experience with special needs kids. No Ph.D. required.

Once you’ve met the potty / food / bedtime requirement, anything else is extra. At our house, the extras are the best part. When we get home from our wild night out, the kids are in bed, bellies full and bladders empty. The next morning, they wake up happy, ready to share stories of the night’s adventures.

Just like we are.

Lynn Adams is a child psychologist turned parenting writer. Find more of her writing at www.lynnadamsphd.com.

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language or difficulty managing their emotions which can result in behavioral concerns. It is important to use that â&#x20AC;&#x153;Early Birdâ&#x20AC;? instinct and follow up with further evaluation. Talk with your pediatrician or call a developmental and behavioral pediatric specialist who can help sort it out.

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And, the good news is that we are able to evaluate and treat children even before 12 months of age.

If your child is not babbling or using gestures, such as waving, by 12 months of age, or if they do not have short two-word sentences by 24 months, they may require evaluation. Additionally, children who do not seem to respond to those around them, as well as those who have tantrums that do not respond to attempts at correction may benefit from evaluation and treatment.

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RESOURCES This whole adventure known as parenthood is wonderful, exhausting and often quite difficult. With additional challenges like behavioral problems, physical disabilities or medical conditions, it can be even harder. Here in Northwest Ohio there are abundant resources available to make the most of every day.

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The Autism Academy of Learning 110 Arco Dr., 419-865-7487, theautismacademy.org This publically-funded charter school provides year-round educational services to students with autism in an environment that fosters acceptance, trust and success. The Autism Academy of Learning takes a whole-child approach to learning, with all staff working together to meet the unique needs of each child.

Bright Horizon Advocacy and Consulting 205 Farnsworth Rd., Waterville 419-441-1011 brighthorizonsadvcon.com Bright Horizons is owned and operated by people with disabilities and their family members. They specialize in assisting with special education concerns, such as getting a Individualized Education Plan (IEP) or 504 Plan, modified to meet a student’s needs and helping to ensure it is followed. They can also assist with advocating for ADA accommodations at college, on the job or in the community and getting disability-related services and benefits. Services are available on a sliding fee scale.

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Sensational Kids Daycare and Learning Center 6060 Merger Dr., Holland 419-724-5434 sensationalkidsdaycare.com Sensational Kids offers an alternative schooling option for children with special needs. The school’s experienced therapists and special education teachers work with parents to design a program that will help with each child’s educational and developmental goals. They offer weekly speech, occupational, and physical therapy along with their education to ensure success within their program. Sensational Kids strives to make a difference in the lives of students and their families.

Lucas County Board of Developmental Disabilities 1154 Larc Ln. 419-380-4000, lucasdd.info With a mission of improving life so individuals with developmental disabilities can reach their full potential, the Lucas County Board of Developmental Disabilities advocates so everyone can live, work, learn, play and worship as equal citizens.

They help develop plans for individualized services and support for children, adults and families.

The ARC of Lucas County 3450 W Central Ave., Suite 354 419-882-0941, arclucas.org For more than 50 years, the ARC of Lucas County has been helping people with developmental disabilities find meaningful places in the community. The ARC of Lucas County helps people with life skills training, self advocacy training, monthly caregiver meetings, community resource referrals and more.

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)/ NAMI of Greater Toledo 2753 W. Central Ave. 419-243-1119, namitoledo.org The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) is an association with hundreds of local affiliates, state organizations and volunteers who work to raise awareness and provide support and education to those affected by mental illness through dedicated support, education and advocacy in the greater Toledo area. Currently, NAMI of Greater Toledo has close to 500 members and offers a variety of support groups and education classes for individuals, and their families, living with mental illness.

Harbor Behavioral Health 6629 W. Central Ave., 5151 Monroe St., 4334 Secor Rd. 419-475-4449, harbor.org Harbor Behavioral Health, an affiliate of ProMedica, is the leading mental health provider in Northwest Ohio. The mission to improve the health and well being of individuals and families by providing the highest quality compassionate care

possible has been Harbor’s purpose for over 100 years. Services include partial hospitalization and day treatment for individuals with developmental disabilities, vocational programs for those with barriers to employment, Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics, Applied Behavioral Analysis, counseling, psychiatric services and care coordination.

The Autism Society of Northwest Ohio 6629 W. Central Ave., Suite 1, 419-578-2766, asno.org The Autism Society of Northwest Ohio provides support, resources, referrals, education and training and advocacy to individuals, parents, and families affected by autism. They serve 12 counties in Northwest Ohio and are an affiliate of the Autism Society of America.

Double ARC 5800 Monroe St., Sylvania 419-479-3060, doublearc.org Sponsored by the Sisters of Notre Dame, Double ARC serves children and their families who are affected by prenatal alcohol exposure. Double ARC provides diagnosis, education, intervention, advocacy and support.

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OPEN2 HOUSE GUIDE This month you’re again invited to tour local schools as they open their doors to families looking for the best educational options. Meet the teachers, tour the schools, and find the best fit for your child.

Notre Dame Academy 3535 W. Sylvania Avenue, Toledo 419-475-9359 www.nda.org

Open house: Sunday, November 6, 11 am - 2 pm Notre Dame Academy is an all-girls Catholic school for young women in grades 7 through 12. The only school in Northwest Ohio to offer the prestigious International Baccalaureate (IB) Program, Notre Dame Academy has the largest, all-girls’ fine arts program, more than 30 clubs and sports, and many spiritual and service opportunities.

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4234 Monroe Street, Toledo 419-297-6313 hopelearningacademy.org

St. Ursula Academy 4025 Indian Road, Toledo 419-531-1683 www.toledosua.org

Open house: Sunday, November 13 from noon to 3 pm At St. Ursula Academy every hero has a story. Academic Excellence, All-Girls, Faith Formation, Individual Attention, and Leadership are just some of the chapters in SUA’s book. This Catholic college prep school serves grades 6 through 12. At the Open House families can take a student-guided tour and learn why SUA is where your daughter’s story should begin.

Open house: Coming Spring of 2017 HOPE Learning Academy of Toledo is committed to providing an excellent and accommodating education for children with special needs in grades kindergarten to grade 8. HOPE Learning Academy is a great choice for children who need to learn in a non-traditional classroom setting. Here the researchbased curriculum is infused with social growth, sensory integration and art enrichment to cultivate students’ critical thinking, self-reliance and problem solving skills.

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West Side Montessori

7115 W. Bancroft Street, Toledo www.montessoritoledo.org

Maumee Valley Country Day School

Open house: Thursday, November 3, 9 - 10:30 am For 40 years, West Side Montessori has been inspiring the development of individual children in a safe and supportive environment that gives them the freedom to explore, create and become independent learners. One of only five accredited Montessori schools in Ohio, West Side Montessori offers programs for toddlers through eighth grade.

1715 S. Reynolds Road, Toledo 419-381-1313 www.mvcds.org

Open house: Sunday, November 13, 1 - 3 pm MVCDS is an independent, co-educational school for preschool through grade 12 that challenges, supports and prepares students for success academically and in life. Tour the 75-acre campus, meet teachers and talk to current students to discover why MVCDS is a first choice for many families.

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Tips for Connected Caregivers

By Carolyn Jabs

It’s no secret that cell phones are distracting—and irresistible. One survey by researchers at the University of Washington found that, among caregivers surveyed on a playground, 28% felt it was perfectly OK to engage in cellphone activities like checking e-mail or reading while supervising children. Another 24% chose to curtail phone use when they were responsible for kids. The largest group--44%--thought they should restrict phone use but found that they often couldn’t resist the temptations of the tiny screen.

All of this means parents need to think carefully about what they expect from caregivers—and then have a frank conversation about how and when it’s OK to use a cellphone. Rules may vary depending upon the experience and maturity of the caregiver, but here are some things to consider: 1. Clarify expectations. The first responsibility of a caregiver is to keep kids safe, and it’s all too easy to lose track of what kids are doing if you’re focused on a phone. Using a cell phone should

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be totally off-limits during any kind of risky activity—driving, swimming, bathing, bicycling, walking on the street or, for that matter, climbing on playground equipment. If you expect the caregiver to be interacting with your child—playing, talking, having fun—it makes sense to adopt the policy of most employers: no personal cell phone use during business hours. Be specific about what’s exclud-

ed--social media in all forms, calls and texts that aren’t related to caregiving, watching videos or listening to music with headphones.

2. What About phone fun?

Smartphones are very entertaining. Depending on the age of your child and the good judgment of the caregiver, it may be perfectly acceptable for them to

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bond over an amusing game or a funny video. Just be sure your caregiver knows what you consider acceptable. Is it OK for your child to watch YouTube? Which apps meet your standards? What kind of music is acceptable in your house? If you have any doubts about your caregiver’s judgment, point them toward a site like commonsense.org that identifies apps, games and other media that are fun and age-appropriate.

3. Sharing is not caring. Your kids are cute. Nobody knows that better than you. A cell phone makes it way too easy to take and share adorable photos and videos. Decide in advance about what is permitted. Even if you allow your caregiver to snap a picture or record something fun, make it clear that nothing gets posted without your permission. Also, ask your caregiver not to post status updates while working for you. There’s no reason for anyone to know that you’re not at home.

4. Anticipate emergencies. A cellphone can be a lifesaver in an emergency, so encourage your caregiver to keep one close and functional. Program 911 and other emergency numbers into the phone and talk about what constitutes a crisis. How should your care-

giver handle an injury or illness, a storm or power failure, an intruder? (The Red Cross has a very thorough guide for caregivers at tinyurl.com/nsvtdux.) Remember that the camera on the phone can be invaluable if the caregiver has a question about the seriousness of something like an insect bite or a scraped knee.

5. Appropriate contact. Ask your caregiver to add your contact information to his or her phone rather than leaving it on a piece of paper that might get misplaced. Be specific about the circumstances under they should contact you.

If a caregiver is new or inexperienced, you may encourage questions about basics like house rules. Let your sitter know whether you prefer a call or text message. And be clear about times when you will be unavailable because you’ll be driving or in a meeting. Provide a backup number for a spouse, a neighbor or a close friend.

6. Kiddy calls. Talk with your caregiver about whether and when it’s OK for your child to call you. Some children settle down for bed more easily if they get a quick good night from a parent. For others, knowing that Mom is a phone call away makes it harder to feel comfortable with a caregiver. If your child is old enough to have a phone of his or her own, explain that the caregiver is in charge, so you won’t be fielding questions about routine problems or complaints about siblings.

7. Be realistic. Nobody, including you, can be attentive every single minute. Talk to your caregiver about acceptable breaks. Is it OK to check in on the cellphone when a child goes down for a nap or when the kids watch a favorite show in the afternoon? Be respectful of your caregiver’s needs. Maybe he or she needs to touch base with their own children or a parent.

8. Don’t be a distraction. Yes, it’s tempting to check in on your kids, especially if you don’t leave them very often.

Just remember that your caregiver can’t focus on your kids if they’re constantly being interrupted by calls and texts from you. Limit yourself to pre-set check-in times or if you have to make a change in plans. Finally, don’t be afraid to use social media to do a little screening. A quick search for your sitter’s name may alert you to other situations you’ll want to anticipate or other rules you’ll want to institute. Just be sure your cell phone policies are crystal clear before you walk out the door.

Carolyn Jabs, M.A.,has been writing Growing Up Online for ten years. She is also the author of Cooperative Wisdom: Bringing People Together When Things Fall Apart. Visit cooperativewisdom.org for more information.

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healthy families

The Low-Down on Shots, Soaps, and Sports Timely Parenting Research

by Lisa A. Beach

Just when you think you’ve got this parenting thing figured out, new research comes along that refutes everything you’ve been doing since Day One. If you’ve been debating the merits of flu mists, antibacterial soaps and whether or not your kids should specialize in a singular sport, here’s the scoop on the latest research to help you make the best choices for your family.

Flu Shots

Hoping to save your kids the pain of a flu shot this fall, opting instead for the painless nasal spray vaccine? Think again. According to a policy statement update in the October 2016 Pediatrics, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that all children ages six months and older receive a seasonal flu shot (rather than the nasal spray vaccine) during the upcoming 2016-17 season. Because new research showed poor effectiveness of the flu mist compared with the traditional flu shot in recent flu seasons, the AAP recommends the flu shot as the best available preventive measure against influenza.

“We want to provide children with the best protection possible against flu,” explains Henry H. Bernstein, DO, MHCM, FAAP, who co-authored the statement, “and these recent studies show the flu shot is likely to provide a higher level of protection.”

Antibacterial Soaps

You can skip the expensive antibacterial soap the next time you’re stocking up on supermarket essentials and instead buy less expensive, plain ol’ soap. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration recently issued a statement that manufacturers can no longer market consumer antibacterial washes containing certain active ingredients, including the most commonly used ingredients---triclosan and triclocarban. Why? Because the manufacturers failed to demonstrate that the ingredients are both safe for long-term daily use and more effec22

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tive than plain soap and water to avoid getting sick and to prevent spreading germs to others.

“Consumers may think antibacterial washes are more effective at preventing the spread of germs, but we have no scientific evidence that they are any better than plain soap and water,” said Janet Woodcock, M.D., director of the FDA’s Center for Drug Evaluation and Research (CDER). “In fact, some data that suggests antibacterial ingredients may do more harm than good over the long-term.”

What to do if soap and water aren’t available? The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends using an alcohol-based hand sanitizer that contains at least 60 percent alcohol.

Specializing in Sports

Even though you’ve been grooming your soccer star since she was three with the hopes of her someday snagging a college scholarship, you might be doing her more harm than good.

According to a new report from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), young athletes who specialize in just one sport face an increased risk of overuse injuries from their highly focused training. Plus they’re more likely to experience stress and burnout from the singular focus and the pressure of performing.

In the report published in the September 2016 Pediatrics, lead author Joel S. Brenner, MD, FAAP, explains that “more kids are participating in adult-led organized sports today, and sometimes the goals of the parents and coaches may be different than the young athletes.”

The best advice? To minimize risk of overuse injury and boost the likelihood of being physically active into adulthood, the AAP encourages children to participate in multiple sports and delay specialization until at least 15 or 16.

Lisa Beach is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in print and online, including Parents, Brain,Child, Orlando Family, Scary Mommy, Purple Clover, Sassy, Better After 50, Good Life Family, Boom, YourTango, and more. Check out her writer’s website at LisaBeachWrites.com.

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Preparing for the Day After Election Day

By Sam Melden

My daughter dropped her head as she walked back to the house. She just realized that one of the neighbor kids wasn’t rooting for the same Presidential candidate that she was. She told me the story.

One of the kids repeated a line they heard from their parents and then my kid repeated a few things she has heard in our house. And of course in our neighborhood, where the signs in our yard stand in protest of the large parade of the other candidate’s signs, we knew she might run into this situation. Kids say the darndest things, don’t they? Or when it comes to politics perhaps we could say, “kids repeat the darnedest things.”

Soaking it all in

When my oldest told me about what had happened with her friend, I had to reassure her. “First, honey, it’s okay - your friend can’t vote.” Now, that may have been more for the benefit of my wife who was listening in. It was funny. But then

I started to reinforce what we believe about this time of year, and what we believe about politics and even more fundamentally, what we believe about disagreement. “It’s okay when we disagree with our friends. It just means we have a chance to learn or to grow. Or we have a chance to try to get better at listening than we are at talking,” I said.

By now, she wasn’t that interested, but I was reminded of something central to parenting: kids are going to repeat what they hear. This situation was partly about how to handle the infrequent bi-partisan playground discord and it was also about our kids repeating what they hear. Our children soak up all of these words and sighs and eye rolls and commercials and tense moments talking with Grandma about how she can’t believe it’s gotten this far. They see it, they hear it, they breathe it in. And then they repeat it to their friends while swinging. But, you know what else they hear? They hear the questions we

ask in the tone we ask them. They know what it means when we respect each other and they are capable of repeating that tone and showing that respect back to their friends. So, how can we best prepare our children for these interactions? And how can we best prepare our children for all of the interactions they will have after the immediacy and heat of the election passes?

What happens next

While it is important for adults to prepare for November 8th and to consider who they will vote for, I believe it is important for us to prepare our children for November 9th. The day after the election.

When the results are in, a winner is declared and yard signs and bumper stickers transform from signs of hope to souvenirs. That is the day that we really want our kids to be prepared for, right? After all, they always need to be ready to treat all people with the dignity and respect they deserve.

The way we do that, is by behaving in such a way that the reality of November 9th is front and center in our family life.

That is the day we are all reminded that we are all in this together. Despite the past year of separation and line-drawing, once the votes are tallied, we remember that we are all on the same team again. Isn’t that what we want for our children? Isn’t that what we want for ourselves? This grand experiment called democracy is predicated upon this hope and dream.

We the people, we are all in this together.

And when we can teach this to our kids - that we are all in this together- we all win, no matter what is the outcome of the election.

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The Real Seafood Co. 22 Main St. Toledo, OH 1-888-456-3463 Mon-Thur: 11a.m.-10p.m.

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Real Seafood Co. Will Have You “Hooked” Sunset views on the river are free

The Short Course

By Karen L. Zickes

The kids and I were far from ready for summer to come to a close. So when the opportunity came for us to squeeze in one more dinner al fresco, we were all about it. (The sunset views were just an added bonus!) Two of my children have September birthdays. Because you don’t always know what the September weather will bring, we decided to take advantage of a beautiful fall afternoon and headed to celebrate the birthdays on the river. We hopped in the car and made the short jaunt downtown to The Docks.

atmosphere. Though the décor and the food are a bit upscale from your average restaurant, it still feels comfortable, not stuffy and pretentious. You’ll feel right at home in your Sunday best, or your shorts and topsiders, if you stop in by

Bringing the east coast to the Midwest

The Real Seafood Company is part of Main Street Ventures (MSV) which began in Ann Arbor and now boasts 20 restaurants; four of which are Real Seafood restaurants located in three states. Their mission is simple: “To consistently exceed guest expectations by providing memorable dining experiences in creative and distinctive restaurants.”

General Manager Kelly Becker who has been with MSV for 22 years said the restaurants are not a chain. “They may share the same name…but all are independent and have their own identity.” At Real Seafood they say “Quite simply, seafood as it should be.” Shipments from Boston every other day ensures that only the freshest seafood is served. Before I lose all of the “non-seafood-loving” readers, rest assured you will find something delectable on the menu should shells and fins not be at the top of your list.

boat. The unique lighting, artwork, and the grandiose lobster on the wall will give the children as well as adults plenty of eye candy.

If you’re fortunate enough to dine when the weather’s nice, the patio offers wonderful views of the Maumee River and overlooks downtown. Views are FREE! Should the weather not be in your favor, the window view seats along the wall still offer fabulous views or maybe you would prefer to cozy up by the fireplace?

One thing is for sure; your children will be stimulated by the environment, which Feast for the eyes, too!

Without a doubt, Real Seafood has will hopefully keep them happy campers a welcoming and aesthetically pleasing while you dine.

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Come celebrate with Real Seafood!

Your younger set will enjoy choosing off the extensive kids’ menu. They offer popcorn shrimp, cheeseburgers, chicken tenders, linguine with red sauce, or grilled chicken. Entrees include rice or fries, a beverage of their choice including milk, and sides such as fruit or veggies and dip. Kid meals begin at $5.95, a bargain considering the caliber of restaurant we were dining in that evening.

My daughter and I enjoyed the gazpacho and clam chowder for starters. I tempted my palate with the crab and shrimp stuffed salmon with grilled asparagus. It was a wonderful choice since I couldn’t decide which seafood I was craving most that evening.

I got it all! The fettucine, served with a rich cream sauce and an abundant amount of shrimp, got ahold of my older two hook, line, and sinker. No doggy bag needed!

At Real Seafood they believe that birthdays are special days, and the meal, memorable. They offer a unique birthday special with a meal discount on the day of your birthday. Details can be found online, but know you must present a valid ID, or birth certificate for the younger set. As Ms. Becker pointed out, you may not remember the things you did on the days around your birthday, but you will always remember the day; so they think it should be memorable.

Maybe I need to return for my birthday and try the crab legs!

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Kid-friendly: Yes

To avoid wait: Reservations recommended for large crowds and weekends Noise-level: Moderate

Bathroom amenities: Changing stations in men’s and women’s restrooms High-chairs? Yes Got milk? Yes

Kids’ menu? Yes

Allergy info: Guests need to notify their server who then notifies the front house manager and the head chef. Recipes are reviewed and they are very careful about no cross contamination. Gluten free and whole wheat pasta is available.

Bottom Line: Real Seafood offers some of the best and freshest seafood you can find in T-Town. Though the décor and food are a bit upscale, the attentive service and atmosphere still lend itself to family friendliness. Your children will enjoy the various things to look at all around them and the ample menu choices will be sure to fill their little bellies. If you’re worried you might be missing the live music in the bar (available Thursday through Sunday) - don’t! They pipe the music throughout the restaurant for all diners to enjoy.

Karen Zickes is a mom of three active children and freelance writer who resides in Holland, OH. She can be reached in c/o editor@toledoarent.com .

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1 TUESDAY Too Much Noise - Children will have the opportunity to play their very own musical instruments and make a lot of noise at the Too Much Noise event by Ann McGovern. $11/ages 13-64, $9/ ages 3-12, $10/ ages 65+, Free/ages 2 and under. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org Parenting Book Club - Parents will have the opportunity to read about the important lessons that parenting and relationship focused books have to offer at this book club. 7-8pm. Gathering Volumes, 196 E. South Boundary St. 567-336-6188. gatheringvolumes.com Free

2 WEDNESDAY Dino-Vember Drop-In - Children can go on scavenger hunts, participate in contests and celebrate day of dino-sized fun at the library. 4-5pm. Lagrange Branch Library, 3422 Lagrange St. 419-259-5280. toledolibrary.org Free Let’s Code - Students in grades 3-6 will have the opportunity to learn computer coding with Scratch and put their knowledge to the test by coding their very own game. Register online. 6:30-7:30pm.

Heatherdowns Branch Library, 3265 Glanzman Rd. 419-259-5270. toledolibrary.org Free

1 THURSDAY Boy Scout Wolves Paws on the Path - Boy Scouts can learn the basics of hiking, safety and how to use and gather resources in this one mile nature experience set in the wild. Register online. $3. 5:30-7pm. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Hurray for Homeschoolers: Where did all the green go? : The Chemistry of Color Changes - Explore the mysteries of autumn and learn the answers to the questions - why do leaves change colors and why do some trees lose their leaves?

For ages 8-12. Register children online. $4. 10-11:30pm. Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

4 FRIDAY The Fall Skies Over Toledo - Explore the night sky and gaze at the stars, constellations and planets visible from Toledo, all the while learning about constellations and the myths surrounding them in this live interactive program. This program runs until November 18. $7/adults, $5/ UT members, children and seniors, children under 3 free. 7:30pm. University of Toledo Ritter Planetarium, 2855 W. Bancroft St. 419-530-2650. utoledo.edu

Leaf it to Art - Autumn is full of color, so learn the ins and outs of the season.

Explore the beauty behind the change in color every year and create an artistic media masterpiece inspired by the great outdoors. Register online. $5/person.

4-5:30pm. Sidecut Metropark, 1025 W. River Rd., Maumee.

419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

5 SATURDAY Honeybees and Brownies - Come find out fun bee facts and do the waggle dance on the Botanical Garden’s Farm Campus for this Girl Scout Workshop hosted by Toledo GROWS. Email or call to register. 35 girls per workshop. $5/girl.

9:30-11am. Toledo Botanical Garden’s Farm Campus, 900 Oneida St. 419-720-8714. hannah.halfhill@toledogarden.org Free

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Illustrator and Paper Designer Merrill Rainey - Illustrator and Paper Designer Merrill Rainey will be at Gathering Volumes to show off his stylistic art work. Gathering Volumes 196 E. South Boundary St., Perrysburg. 567-336-6188.

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gatheringvolumes.com MONDAY Free Family Storytime - Children ages 2-5, along with their favorite grown-ups, are invited to talk, sing, read, write and play as stories, rhymes, music and movement are shared. Register online. 7pm.

Maumee Branch Library, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free

8 TUESDAY Garden Sprouts - Preschool Program children have the opportunity to enjoy a story, song, and a take home craft project. November’s theme is Pilgrims in the Pioneer Cabin. Meetings are the second Tuesday of every month. Ages 2-5 and an adult. $2/child. 9:30-10:30am. Toledo Botanical Garden, 5403 Elmer Dr. 419536-5566. toledogarden.org Fingerprint Fall Trees - Kids are invited to use colorful fingerprints to create a fun fall tree at the Fall Mixed Up event by Bob Raczka. $11/ages 13-64, $9/ ages 3-12, $10/ ages 65+, Free/ages 2 and under. Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

9 WEDNESDAY Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Double Down! - Dress up as your favorite wimpy kid character and win some “Mom Bucks” at this party featuring games like the “Cheese Touch.” 4pm. Toledo Heights Library Branch, 423 Shasta Dr. 419-2595220. toledolibrary.org Free

Breakfast with Santa Oregon/Northwood Rotary Club presents Breakfast with Santa, breakfast of pancakes, eggs & sausage. Saturday, December 3rd, 8-10 a.m., at Clay High School Cafeteria, 5665 Seaman Rd., Oregon. Cost $3 per person.

419-693-0665 oregoncityschools.org Lego Block Party - All are welcome to have fun and design their very own LEGO creation with the bricks provided.

6:30pm. Washington Branch Library, 5560 Harvest Ln. 419-259-5330. toledolibrary.org Free

10 THURSDAY NEEDLE FELTED ACORNS - Make colorful, little acorns while learning needle felting techniques. Feel free to take home the needle, foam pad & fanciful wool colors. Register online. Grades 5-12. $20/ person. The 577 Foundation, 577 East Front St., Perrysburg. 419-874-4174.

577foundation.org Calling All Scouts: Cadette Girl Scouts, Trees - Branch out and head outside to discover an appreciation for trees. Become a naturalist and find out why trees are so important to people, animals, and the earth. Register online. 6pm.

Secor Metropark, 10001 W. Central Ave., Berkey. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com

11 FRIDAY National Sundae Day - Tweens and teens can come to the library for National Sundae Day! The sundae typically consists of several scoops of vanilla ice cream topped with syrup or sweet sauce, toppings included. 4-5pm. Lagrange-Central Branch Library, 3422 Lagrange St. 419-259-5280. Toledo Heights Library Branch, 423 Shasta Dr. 419-259-5220. toledolibrary.org

12 SATURDAY Brush Up Your Shakespeare Workshop - All workshop sessions explore the greatest playwright’s works and gives students the chance to bring them to life. November 12 and 19.

Registration required. Ages 12-18. 9amnoon. $60. Toledo Repertoire Theater.

16 W. 10th St. 419-243-9277. toledorep.org Harry Potter Zumba Party Celebrate the movie release of Fantastic Beasts & Where to Find Them with a Zumba Party. Participants will exercise to Harry Potter tunes and cool down with activities and snacks. 2-3:30pm. Toledo Lucas County Main Library Branch, 325 N. Michigan St. 419-259-5231. toledolibrary.com Free

13 SUNDAY Archery 101: For Families - Families have the opportunity to learn from USA Archery Certified Instructors who will cover range safety, equipment introduction and shooting cycle fundamentals.

Ages 8+. Register online. 1-2:30pm. $45.

Westwinds Metropark, 9918 Geiser Rd., Holland. 419-407-9700. metroparkstoledo.com Cycle Circle: Family Bike Ride: Color Tour - All families are welcome to ride along the river habitat focused 3-mile bike ride. Basic bike repair and a safety course will be offered. A helmet and bike are required. Register online. 1-2:30pm.

Swan Creek Metropark, 4659 Airport Hwy. 419-277-6276. metroparkstoledo.com Free

14 MONDAY Create Your Own Fantastic Beast Everyone, including muggles and wizards, can stop by the library to create a fantastic beast and tell the library where to find it, or take part in taxi trivia. Register online. 6:30-7:30pm. Heatherdowns Library Branch, 3265 Glanzman Rd. 419-259-5270. Waterville Branch Library, 800 Michigan Ave., Waterville.

419-878-3055. toledolibrary.org Free Afternoon Adventures: Color Homeschooled children can explore colors in this scientific story time with experiments and painting. Ages 5-7. 1:30pm.

Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg. 419-874-3135. waylibrary.info Free

15 TUESDAY 3D Open Tinker - Everyone 13 or older has the opportunity to create a 3D object with TinkerCad. Register online.

4-5pm. Oregon Branch Library, 3340 Dustin Rd., Oregon. 419-259-5250. toledolibrary.org Free Teen Dream Interpretation - Teens and tweens can discover different ways to interpret dreams as participants discuss dream journals and learn different methods of interacting with the dream mind.

4-5pm. Locke Library Branch, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

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Dancing Through the Decades Elaina Hernandez will instruct children on how to dance like they did back in the 50’s. 60’s, 70’s, and 80’s. 4:15-5pm. Kent Public Library Branch, 3101 Collingwood Blvd. 419-259-5340. toledolibrary.org Free Tales and Trails: Turkey Talk Preschoolers, toddlers and their guardians are welcome to enjoy storytime, a walk and create a nature craft to take home.

Ages 3-5 Register online. $3/person.

10-11:30am. Side Cut Metropark, 1025 W. River Rd., Maumee. 419-467-8301. metroparkstoledo.com

17 THURSDAY Authors! Authors! - Bill Nye, “The Science Guy” - At each program, authors speak for about an hour, followed by a short question and answer session. Books will be available for purchase at the program from the Friends of the Library. $8-10/person. 7-10pm. Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Toddler Sensory Exploration - Come to the library for a morning of stories and sensory exploration. Your child will have the opportunity to visit sensory boxes, walk on bubble wrap and jump in a pool of shredded paper! Register online. 10-11am.

Maumee Library Branch, 501 River Rd., Maumee. 419-259-5360. toledolibrary.org Free

Birds of Woodlawn - Join us each week as we document the Birds of Woodlawn. From migrating to nesting birds, we will explore the many natural habitats of Woodlawn. Bring binoculars and bird guides, if you have them. Note that inclement weather may cancel a walk. 8:30-10:30am. Historic Woodlawn Cemetery, 1502 W Central Ave. 419-472-2186. historic-woodland.com Free Turkey Time - Make tracks to Olander Park for a gobbling fun morning with Mary Leugers, and her mascot, Rags. Stories, songs and a craft. This program is for preschoolers and their caregivers. See the website for more information. This program is for residents of Sylvania Township and the City of Sylvania. 10am. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Avenue, Sylvania, OH.

19 SATURDAY American Girl Tea Party - Bring your Mom or Grandma and your favorite doll to enjoy an old fashioned tea party with food, a craft, and entertainment. Grades K-5. Register online. 2-3:30pm. Point Place Branch Library, 2727 117th St. 419-259-5390. toledolibrary.org Free International Games Day: Video Game Tournament - The library will pit competitors against each other for some competitive play in Madden 25. All ages are welcome. 10am-noon. Main Library Branch, 325 N Michigan St. 419-259-5285. toledolibrary.org Free

20 SUNDAY Detectives - Grab your magnifying glass and dive into the science of detecting!

Kids will have the opportunity learn the secrets from the worlds of forensic science and criminal psychology. $11/ages 13-64, $9/ ages 3-12, $10/ ages 65+, Free/ages 2 and under. 12:30-2:30pm.

Imagination Station, 1 Discovery Way, Toledo. 419-244-2674. imaginationstationtoledo.org

21 MONDAY Homeschoolers’ Movie Makers Use a combination of imagination, teamwork and technology to create short movies with the library’s LEGOs and the free LEGO Movie Maker app. Ages 8-12.

1:30-2:30pm. Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg.

419-874-3135. waylibrary.info Free Paws to Read - Children will have the opportunity to practice their reading and make a new friend. Certified therapy dogs and their owners are available for 15-minute reading sessions. Register online.

4-5pm. Locke Library Branch, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

22 TUESDAY Game Day - Come to the library for fun, competitive games and delicious snacks.

Grades 6-12. 4-5pm. Lagrange Branch Library, 3422 Lagrange St. 419-259-5280. toledolibrary.org Free Thanks for What? - Join ECO Discovery for a look back at what people were thankful for on Thanksgiving. Try some old fashioned treats and see what you think. This program is for preschoolers and their caregivers. 10-11am. Olander Park, 6930 Sylvania Ave., Sylvania.

419-882-8313. olanderpark.com Free

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23 Wednesday TUESDAY Thanksgiving Feast - It’s a cornucopia of fun as participants celebrate the harvest season with stories, crafts and a full Thanksgiving dinner! 4pm. Kent Public Library Branch, 3101 Collingwood Blvd.

419-259-5340. toledolibrary.org Free

24 THURSDAY NO Soup and Scripture - All are welcome to enjoy a Happy Thanksgiving full of scripture and soup. Lourdes College, 6832 Convent Blvd., Sylvania. bvano@ lourdes.edu. 419-824-3861. lourdes.edu.

Free

25 FRIDAY The Nutcracker - Ballet Theatre of Toledo presents Nigel Burgoine’s holiday classic, The Nutcracker, Thanksgiving weekend at the Valentine Theatre. BTT offers a special performance for people with special needs, assisted living seniors and home schooled children on November 25th at 2pm. Call or buy tickets at the boxoffice.

7pm. Valentine Theatre, 410 N. Superior St. 419-861-0895. ballettheatreoftoledo.org

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Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer Everyone is welcome to enjoy the play based on the classic animated television special “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.” $28-58/person. 1pm and 4pm. Stranahan Theater, 4645 Heatherdowns Blvd.

419-381-0121. toledo-theater.com

26 SATURDAY Get up and Play the Nature Way - Come play out in nature and explore the wonders of the Metroparks with your children. Please be dressed for the outdoors and be ready to get dirty. Register online. $2/person. 1-3pm. Wildwood Preserve Metropark, 5100 W. Central Ave. 419-407-9789. metroparkstoledo.com

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28 MONDAY Shrink your Holiday Gift - Using shrinky dink film, design your favorite holiday symbol and shrink it to make the perfect gift for someone you love. 4-5pm.

Locke Library Branch, 703 Miami St. 419-259-5310. toledolibrary.org Free

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-Preschoolers, toddlers, and their guardians enjoy story time, a walk and create a nature craft to take home. There is a different theme each week and several locations to choose from. Register children only.

Ages 3-5. $3/person. 10-11:30am. Oak Openings, 4139 Girdham Rd., Swanton.

30 WEDNESDAY Marvelous Mammals - The Toledo Zoo will show participants how mammals are truly amazing! 4-5pm. Kent Public Library Branch, 3101 Collingwood Blvd.

419-259-5340. toledolibrary.org Free “Every Child An Artist” Exhibition St. Paul’s Lutheran Church, 428 N. Erie Street, Downtown Toledo, Heart Gallery opening. Saturday, Nov. 12 from 4-7:30 p.m.

Wednesdays Storytime - Join Gathering Volumes for storytime every Thursday at 10am.

Gathering Volumes, 196 E. South Boundary., Perrysburg. 567-336-6188. gatheringvolumes.com Free

Saturdays

Saturday Chess Players - Stop by the Children’s Library on Saturday mornings for a game of chess. Practice the basics and learn the strategies used by experts. All skill levels welcome. 9:30am.

Toledo Lucas County Public Library, 325 N. Michigan St. 419-259-5200. toledolibrary.org Free

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