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Back to School Shopping

community snapshots what’s briefly happening new kids on the block calendar — compiled by Chloe Rothchild

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ONLINE Exclusives Childcare & Preschool Guide

The area’s most promising child care facilities and learning centers, with fun facts about each ranging from their temper tantrum remedy to favorite breakfast ideas!

21 Questions

to Jump-Start Conversation with your Kids

Findlay’s Ninja Warrior: Jim Steffen

Inspiring parents and children while bringing awareness to cystic fibrosis — by Jessica Kempf

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Adams Street Publishing Co. What after school activity did you get most excited about?

Publisher/Editor in Chief

Collette Jacobs (cjacobs@toledoparent.com) The tennis team

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KIDS HOROSCOPE Aug 23-Sept 22

By Sue Lovett They usually come into the world crying until they are carefully cleansed and wrapped in a warm dry blanket. They always need wrinkle-free clothing and sheets. They cannot stand messes and when you feed them, you need to wipe their faces after almost every bite. They like to pick out their own clothes and may even resent your suggestions.

When the little Virgos are bored, just give them a squirt bottle of water and paper towels and they will clean their toys and your furniture. They love helping with dishes. They eagerly play nurse and doctor which may be an indication of their adult career choice.

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Editorial

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Suter’s Corn Maze

Saturday, September 20

Y-Guides At the Findlay Family YMCA’s Y-Guides kick-off event, dads and their children can check out a program where memories that last a lifetime are ready to be made. Dads with sons or daughters ages 5 to 11 can participate in monthly activities that include a fall, winter and spring campout, ice skating, pinewood derby, bowling, and swimming. The kick-off event is slated for the afternoon of September 20 at Camp Mosshart, where tentatively planned activities include a climbing tower with certified belayers, pond swimming, fishing, canoeing, hiking trails and a game of capture the flag. Jim Clarke, leader of Y-Guides, suggests to monitor Facebook, keywords “Y-Guides Findlay YMCA,” for more details on the event.

Saturday, September 20. The kick-off event is free. Contact Clarke at 419-348-3813 or Kallie Hitchings at the YMCA at khitchings@findlayymca.com with any questions. Cost is $20 per person for YMCA members and $25 per person for nonmembers for the whole year, running from September to June. Sign up is at the YMCA, and financial assistance is available.

Saturday, September 27 Suter’s Produce in Pandora offers unique farm experiences so that families can get outside and enjoy time together in the fall weather. Each year their corn maze has a new design and theme, bringing people from all over the state. Tom Suter, who runs the farm with his family, points out one of the many reasons families enjoy coming to Suter’s year after year. “People like real experiences and this is a real experience. You can take a hayride to the pumpkin patch and pick the pumpkin that you want from the field it was grown in.” Many of the activities at Suter’s are free for all to enjoy including a zip-line, tube slides and a large corn box for the little kids to play in. Do you think you can conquer this year’s circus-themed corn maze? Grab your sweatshirts and fall jackets and head to Suter’s for an afternoon of family fun!

Open Saturdays and Sundays September 20 through October 26 from 1-8pm. $6/adults and $4.50/students.

Hayrides are offered from 1-6pm, cost is $2.50 (kids 2 and under are free). 12200 Pandora Rd., Pandora.

419-384-3331. www.suterproduce.com

September at the Library

Reading with your children during their preschool years is very important for lifelong learning, and the experts at the Findlay-Hancock County Library are here to help. According to Cindy Romick, Children’s Services Manager, the library environment provides a space for families to spend time together. New this fall, a Sensory-Friendly Story Time on September 10 will provide inclusive, interactive programming for children with sensory integration issues. Beginning the week of September 15, the regular story times start back up for the school year. Story Time for ages 3-6 takes place on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 10:30am and Baby Story Time for ages 0-3 is offered on Wednesdays and Fridays at 9:45am. While there is plenty going on for the little ones, school-age children don’t have to miss out on the fun! On September 23, children in grades 1-6 can compete in fun physical challenges in a program called “60 Second Showdown,” while teens in grades 6-12 can enjoy Teen Tuesdays on September 16, 23 and 30.

206 Broadway St., Findlay. For more events for children, tweens and teens go to www.findlay.lib.oh.us or call the library at 419-422-1712.

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Bluffton Fall Festival

Bluffton will host its annual fall festival and the town will rally together to make it a day full of activities for people to enjoy. Mennonite Memorial Home will host many kid-friendly activities including face painting, a petting zoo, and a kiddie train, while Maple Crest will host live music, food for purchase and an antique tractor show. Those in the mood for a little bit of shopping can attend the Craft and Home Business Expo, located at Bluffton Family Recreation (BFR), and Bluffton Scrap Artist Quilters will have quilts on display at Bluffton Middle School. Several other activities will be offered by local businesses and organizations, including a Farmer’s Market through downtown Bluffton and an American Girl Doll Breakfast at the Bluffton Senior Citizen’s Center. “I am excited for another great event this year. It is awesome to see the Bluffton community come together for such a special day with a wide variety of fun and activities for all ages,” says Daren Lee, coordinator for the Bluffton Fall Festival.

Saturday, September 27. 410 West Elm St., Bluffton. Check facebook.com/BlufftonFallFest for up-to-date information and additional activities or contact Daren Lee at 419-358-7654. Free

Who Said It Can’t be Fixed?

Did you crack your phone screen? Is your laptop lagging? Consider an appointment with Findlay’s Mr. Fix IT, a tech treatment center that recently opened a storefront across from Ace Hardware.

The business has been word of mouth and Facebook-only for about two years. In recent weeks, owners Brandy Keeter and Steve Durain moved into a storefront where they offer free estimates and repairs on most every make and model of everything tech. Cell phones, computers and other techie toys are looked at free of charge and in most cases can be fixed in a day or two.

“Pretty much if it’s a gadget in today’s world, we fix it,” says Keeter. “Our business began by realizing a need in the community for an affordable repair shop for all sorts of items. They cost enough to purchase, let alone to spend another high dollar amount to repair once they break.”

Most items have a set charge amount. For example, replacing an iPhone 5 screen costs $79 while a basic computer cleanup is $25. -RB Mr. Fixit, 123 S. Main St. Hours are generally 11am to 6pm Monday through Saturday, but it is best to call or contact them on Facebook first. 419-619-8841 or 419-619-7393. www.facebook.com/groups/FindlaysMrFixIt/

The Need for More Bread Kneads The beloved Bread Kneads Bakery & Deli will be opening their second location in Findlay. In addition to their original Blanchard Street shop, customers will soon be able to smell the rising dough downtown.

The same menu consisting of fresh bread, pastries and other flavorful foods will be available at the new location, but delivery will not be available from the new store. -NH 540 S. Main St. Suite E, Findlay. www.breadkneads.com and www.facebook.com/breadkneads

Gabe’s Fashion Retailer Gabriel Brothers, Inc., a fashion retailer and destination for money-savvy shoppers, has opened its sixteenth location at the Eastown Plaza Shopping Center across from the Findlay Village Mall. The 55,000 square foot location has replaced what used to be Home Depot.

“Before moving to Findlay, we had 15 stores located in Ohio, and felt that we knew the customer base pretty well,” said Findlay store manager, Kressie Jeffrey. “All the stores are doing very well, and we knew that Findlay had a vibrant community with strong economics.”

The new retailer will bring name-brand women’s, men’s and children’s clothing at significantly discounted prices, as well as 150 employment opportunities, to Findlay residents. Footwear, handbags, accessories, cosmetic items and home decor will also line their shelves.

The third-generation discount retailer, based out of West Virginia, receives shipments of new merchandise at least twice a week, making it easy for shoppers to get the latest trends on apparel and home goods. -NH 1981 Tiffin Ave., Findlay. www.mygabes.com or facebook.com/GabrielBrothers

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After School Keep brains and bodies moving after the school day Is oveR Compiled by Staff

Who says the learning has to stop when the school day is over?

Findlay Area Family is here to reassure parents that there are a wealth of afterschool activities to keep kids engaged and active. All that’s left to do is check out our list and sign up!

Hancock Park District 1424 E. Main Cross St., Findlay 419-425-7275 hancockparks.com The Humane Society & SPCA of Hancock County and the Hancock Park District invite you to their Ultimate Dogpawlooza event on Saturday, September 13 from 9am-6pm and Sunday, September 14 from 10:30am-4pm at Riverbend Recreation Area in Findlay. Our mission is to host a family-friendly, fun-filled event that will feature the 6th annual Dog Walk and the Ultimate Air Dogs. There will be activities, numerous vendors, good food, and all kinds of fun for the entire family and their pets!

Funday Sunday at Mazza Museum 201 College St., Findlay 419-434-4560 mazzamuseum.org Funday Sunday at Mazza Museum is a day of fun, art and literature, all for free! Once a month, families can enjoy arts and crafts, face painting, storytelling, snacks, shopping and more. Funday Sunday is from 1:30-3pm at Mazza Museum located on the campus of The University of Findlay. See the schedule of events online.

Children’s Mentoring Connection 305 E. Lincoln St., Findlay 419-424-9752 hancockmentors.org Children’s Mentoring Connection is looking for volunteers to participate in the new school-based mentoring programs. Group and one-on-one mentoring will be offered at Jacobs Primary, Bigelow Hill Intermediate, Glenwood Middle School and Cory Rawson School. There are times available at lunch and after school. These programs will kick-off in midSeptember and we need volunteers excited to spend time with youth. For more information, contact Becky Baratta at becky@hancockmentors.org.

TRENDS! on Main 501 S. Main St., Findlay 419-420-1582 trendsonmain.com It is back to school time! At TRENDS! on Main it means homecoming season! Over 400 dresses to choose from and a wide selection of jewelry. Open 10am-6pm Monday through Saturday and Sunday from 1-4pm. Let one of our fashion specialists help you find the right fit.

Dresses also available for bridesmaids and flower girls, military balls, destination weddings, and other formal events. Coming soon: Tuxedo Rentals for the men in your life!

Camp Fire Northwest Ohio 305 W. Hardin St., Findlay 419-422-5415 campfirenwohio.com Camp Fire’s clubs connect youth with caring, trained adults in a small group atmosphere. Clubs meet regularly and include a variety of fun, educational activities and projects.

Join us on Thursday, September 11 from 5:30–7pm at Rolling Thunder Skating (an adult must accompany a child) at 2225 Keith Parkway in Findlay for information and to sign your child up for Camp Fire’s club programs.

Music Together 208 Broadway St., Findlay 419-957-4868 musictogetherfindlay.com Music together is an internationally recognized early childhood music program for infants, toddlers, preschoolers, kindergarteners, and the adults who love them. Children enjoy sharing songs, instrument play, rhythm chants, and movement activities in a relaxed, playful, non-performance-oriented setting. Registration is now open for their fall session running from Monday, September 15 to Friday, November 21.

1 Amazing Place 207 E. Foulke Ave., Findlay 419-420-0424 This child care center and preschool lives up to its name! Children explore and learn in a safe and happy environment, and every teacher and staff member’s goal is to make each day a positive learning experience for every child. Preschoolers are engaged in a unique curriculum, and after school activities are fun and educational! Call today to enroll your child.

Findlay Family YMCA Downtown Branch: 300 E. Lincoln St., Findlay East Branch: 1400 Manor Hill Rd., Findlay 419-422-4424 findlayymca.org The YMCA is full of after school activities to keep kids busy! There is something for everyone this fall with programming for children of all ages. Classes offered include swimming, dance, cheerleading, tumbling, gymnastics, racquetball, tennis, judo, and a basketball league. Once per month, there will be a Family Movie Night featuring a popular and appropriate flick for everyone to enjoy. There will also be Family Pool Nights, where swimming, snacks, games and crafts will be offered.

Kids in 7th through 12th grade can join the Leaders Club by volunteering at the YMCA and community events such as the Special Olympics. They will learn leadership skills, responsibility, respect and communication at this bi-weekly club. Fall session programs begin the first week of September so be sure to register soon!

Contact Richie VanHoose for more information.

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d l e i F p i r t Where to go for guaranteed fun

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The Findlay area is full of places to go and things to do!

We put together a list of places to take a family “field trip” this fall, so choose your favorites and take the family for a day they won’t forget!

Jones Building Artist Studios The Jones Building is on the second floor of a charming downtown building where artists gather to create works of art ranging from watercolor, photography and oil paintings. Since 1960, people have been visiting to see the unique pieces put together. They are also open during ArtWalks held in May and November. Tour the studios, meet the artists and even purchase artwork!

400 1/2 S. Main St. 2nd floor, Findlay.

Hancock Historical Museum School-aged children as well as the whole family will enjoy learning about history with hands-on workshops and reenactment groups that participate in Civil War activities. They house permanent exhibits portraying the Gas and Oil Boom in the 1880s, Findlay Glass and World War II. There are also rotating exhibits relating to social life in Hancock County and other various topics of local and regional interest.

422 W. Sandusky St., Findlay. 419-423-4433. hancockhistoricalmuseum.org

Swan House Tea Room The perfect place for a taste of tea and truly something to see in the Victorian atmosphere of downtown Findlay, the Swan House serves as Findlay’s vintage wonder. With more than 13 blends of tea, sandwiches, pastries and cakes, and their gift shop full of local crafts, this is a staple that students will enjoy visiting.

225 W. Sandusky St., Findlay.

419-429-7926. facebook.com/swanhousetearoom

Ali’s Bowling Alley For a fun treat, take students to Ali’s Bowling Alley where 12 retro lanes, black lights and a glowing carpet will greet them.

Fundraising and team building activities are welcomed and the entire facility can be reserved by the hour.

132 E. Crawford St., Findlay.

419-424-5750. alexandriasfindlay.com

Little Red School House The Little Red School House was once home to children of local farmers in Hancock County.

Now, students can relive their experience for a day to learn more about the history of the 19th century school. Third-graders regularly visit to experience the traditional one-room school while wearing appropriate clothing!

8884 County Road 236, Findlay.

419-423-4433.

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Fussy baby/teething Great Grandma: I would massage their teeth with my finger, and use baby medicine for the pain if available.

Grandma: It was common practice at that time to rub whiskey on their gums, but I chose a cold, wet washcloth to rub.

Mom: I used Tylenol and Baby Orajel.

Sleeping through the Night Great Grandma: Always fed and changed them before bed, then rocked them. I tried to put them to bed before they were totally asleep.

Grandma: Binky and favorite blanket. I always rocked her to sleep, and if she got up, I rocked her some more. We didn’t do “cry it out.”

Mom: I tried “swaddle, swing and shush.” I wrapped them in a swaddle blanket with a binky, then swung them in my arms while making “shushing” sounds.

Potty Training Great Grandma: Had a training seat and stool. We took our time and didn’t have much trouble.

Grandma: Used a potty chair and she picked out some pretty little ruffle-y panties.

We used a plastic predecessor to Pull-Ups over the underwear.

Mom: Potty chair, the kids got to pick out some special underwear, rewarded them with stickers and candy.

Tantrums Great grandma: Didn’t have many, but would let them get through it, then have them sit and think about what they did.

Grandma: Daughter only had them when she was frustrated or fearful, so I would figure out the reason for it, then address it.

Mom: I don’t have many, but I use time outs, and never give in to what they want.

It’s also important to be consistent.

Breastfeeding/getting them to latch on Great Grandma: Had a cesarean section and an emergency surgery for the first delivery, so I fed them both formula.

Grandma: Breast feeding wasn’t really encouraged at that time. My doctor wanted me to formula feed – for a whole year if possible with no food - and I didn’t know of any friends or family breastfeeding.

Mom: A lot of my friends utilized a lactation consultant to get going. I tried to breastfeed, but it didn’t work out.

Time Spent in the Hospital after Birth Great Grandma: Ten days, due to appendicitis surgery along with giving birth.

Grandma: Four days.

Mother: Two days.

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The Bommarito/Warner Family Sleeping through the Night Great Grandma-in-law: I used to walk the floor with them until they fell asleep.

Grandma-in-law: Not too long after getting back from the hospital I would give them a rice cereal called Pablum. You would cut a hole in the nipple of their bottle to feed it to them, and then they would sleep with their stomach full.

Mom: I did what Stef told me – I cut the nipple and gave them rice cereal. It seemed to work. We also gave them a Binky. If they woke up, my husband would rock them.

Tantrums Great grandma-in-law: I never had any children who threw tantrums.

Grandma-in-law: My (kids) never had tantrums. The tantrums come when they’re teenagers.

Mom: One effective method was that I would video tape a tantrum and then show it to them at a later date when they were calm. When they saw it, they would kind of go, “Ohhh…”

How to get them away from their favorite blankie, toy, etc.

Great Grandma-in-law: My daughter had a blanket until she was at least 10.

We would try to take the blanket or pillows from her but she would get so upset. We ended up just letting her wean herself off of those things, and she did in time.

Grandma-in-law: We would just set limits, like you can’t take it to the grocery store, or you can’t take it to grandma’s. Eventually, they just forget about it.

Mom: Our kids really liked Binkies. I took scissors to the nipple and deflated it. They would suck on it and soon say that they didn’t want it anymore. I do remember it being a hard time, and that we almost went to buy more, but we stuck to our guns.

Breastfeeding/getting them to latch on Great Grandma-in-law: I breastfed all of them for three months, because when they would start teething, they would bite.

Grandma-in-law: I did not breast feed. At that time, it was just starting to come back as a suggestion, but I don’t remember any of my friends doing it.

Mom: It was highly encouraged by the lactation consultant (at the hospital). I remember being very determined and tried very hard. I gave it 110 percent. But my best advice is let go of the guilt if you have to transition out of it.

Diapering Tips Great Grandma-in-law: I had cloth diapers. I made my own, also flannel ones.

When they were dirty, you would soak them in a pail, then wash them with your other clothes. I had a ringer washer that I used.

Grandma in-law: I remember with my oldest child, they put a disposable diaper on him at the hospital. I brought him home and thought, “I can’t believe they put a paper diaper on this baby.” I used a diaper service for cloth diapers. They would come once a week and you’d set out your pail of dirty diapers and they would leave you clean ones.

Mom: Pampers and A&D ointment daily. Desitin for a rash.

Time Spent in Hospital after Birth Great Grandma-in-law: Ten days.

Grandma-in-law: Four days. You were not allowed to unwrap the baby from their blanket and they brought the baby to your room three times a day. Dads had visiting hours.

Mom: Two days. Dad and baby spent the night in my room.

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Back to School Shopping Giving the credit card some time off

by Rose Roccisano Barto

I am exhausted, and so is my credit card.

I didn’t take an exotic vacation anywhere, or redecorate my house. Instead, I participated in the summer tradition that parents everywhere dread: Back To $chool $hopping.

In my day – ahem – we would show up with a couple notebooks, pencils and high hopes. Now most lower grades have very specific lists, and the upper grades have very expensive lists. I am not even sure what a graphing calculator does, but I know it is ten times more expensive than the one my freshman used for the last three years.

Complicating matters is my freshman who needed clothes. Certainly she has enough to clothe her body, but that’s not the point. After nine years in school uniforms, she needs CLOTHES. Jeans,

shirts and sneakers top the list. Oh, and black dress pants and a white shirt for concerts, as well as a homecoming dress and shoes.

We’ve done pretty well shopping sales and clearance racks. She said yes to a homecoming dress that was a screaming deal – my favorite kind. Several pairs of jeans were found on deep discount. After examining her closet, and consulting the school dress code, we bought a few pairs of longer shorts that were on sale. I think I spent more on her sneakers than the rest of the items combined. After many years of not having to pay attention, I was shocked at the prices – and, frankly, how inappropriate – a lot of junior clothing is.

When even your 14-year-old says something is too tight or too short, it’s time to shop somewhere else.

Shopping for school supplies used to

be easier. In my family we have “summits” on important situations so we can get pro/con lists, supply lists, etc., before venturing out. That’s the kind of Type A, hyper-organized gal I am. Our school supply summit came up with a list that was basic yet specific for her first year of high school. Subjects were color-coded and binders were sized accordingly. I swallowed hard and bought that calculator, but at least she can use it through college.

School supplies were easier for my sixth grader. We worked off a very specific list that allowed for some variations in color and style. She is still in uniforms and thankfully is wearing her older sister’s. But anyone who thinks uniforms save a lot of money apparently doesn’t have children. Sure, they wear uniforms eight hours a day – but unless they stay in uniforms until bedtime and wear them on

weekends, they still need other clothes.

Off to the store we went to get a few things she could wear during her downtime and for church.

I thought about adding it all up when I was done, but I was too scared. August has turned out to be the ugly month for expenses and I’m sure it will just get worse from here. I think the economies of Findlay, Toledo, Perrysburg, Cincinnati and New York State owe me thank you notes.

Now, in September, the tags are off and the supplies are labeled. Both girls are in school, and the house is quiet. I am staying out of stores, and my credit card is taking some time off.

We both can use a break.

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Findlay’s Ninja Warrior: Jim Steffen

Inspiring both parents and children while bringing awareness to cystic fibrosis

By Jessica Kempf

Findlay native, Jim Steffen, competed on the sixth season of NBC’s American Ninja Warrior and the nation got to know him when his impressive attempt at the course aired on June 9. For those who have not seen the show, American Ninja Warrior is an obstacle course competition requiring incredible strength, stamina and speed. Jim used his television air time to bring awareness to Jim, his wife, and four children are dedicated to fitness and cystic fibrosis, a rare bringing awareness to cystic fibrosis disease that his youngYou brought awareness to cystic fibrosis est daughter, Maddie, was born with. Jim on national television and spoke about owns a local gym, XT fitness, and speaks your experience with your daughter, to schools and other organizations about Maddie. Can you describe a day in the the importance of a healthy lifestyle. He life of caring for a child with CF? lives in Findlay with his wife of twelve Maddie does breathing treatments years, Dyan, and their four children; Eltwice a day (more often if she’s sick) and lie (10), Jimmy (9), Lexie (5) and Maddie also uses a vest twice a day for 30 minutes (almost 2). Below, he discusses two of his each time, which breaks up the mucous passions, fitness and helping his daughin her airways. She takes enzymes every ter, Maddie. time she eats to help her digest food and eats a high fat, high calorie diet due to maWhat inspires you to be an advocate for labsorption issues common in CF. As she children and educate them on the imporgets older, Maddie will take upwards of tance of a healthy lifestyle?

45 pills a day. It’s a spectrum disease and It’s tough seeing a kid lacking confievery patient is different. (You can find dence because they can’t do something more info at cff.org) physically, and it is amazing when you see the same kid start to do some of those How do you hope to make an impact in things and get stronger and more conawareness and research efforts for CF? fident. We’ve had kids with disabilities, We would like more people to know self-esteem issues, bullying problems, about this disease and the challenges CFers etc., and when they gain confidence at face. The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation is an the gym it carries over to other areas. We amazing resource for the families with CF have a childhood obesity epidemic in this and they have made a tremendous impact country, so I really enjoy talking to kids at with getting new medicines developed schools about the importance of healthy to treat CF. So, if telling our story leads eating and exercise. someone to send a donation to CFF, say a prayer for a cure, or just understand MadWhat motivated you to try out for die’s experience we think that’s great.

American Ninja Warrior?

Two years ago on a family vacation Will you be trying out for the seventh we were watching the show together. We season of American Ninja Warrior? were all really into it and, for years, we’ve Definitely! made obstacle courses for our kids in the backyard. It just seemed to be a natural fit for everything I do.

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Punjabi Kitchen

Indian cuisine pleases the appetite for adventure

By Rose Roccisano Barto

15085 Flag City Drive Findlay, OH 45840 419-424-9700 Hours: 11am to 2:30pm Tuesday through Saturday for both the lunch buffet and menu ordering, and 5 to 10pm Monday through Saturday for dinner. Closed Sunday.

My 12-year-old shares my appetite for adventure – literally.

I first noticed it when we were together in China. As a baby with no teeth, I figured she would be happy with yogurt, rice cereal and other mushy things. I had ordered a tomato and cheese sandwich. She eyed that sandwich and reached for it, so I gave her a tiny piece. And another, and another. Pretty soon it wasn’t my sandwich anymore.

In the years since we have been two peas in a culinary pod. We both eat tomatoes like apples, and we never met a vegetable we didn’t like. She will give anything a try, and spices don’t bother her. I can’t say the same for the rest of the family. So it was only natural that she would be my sole dining companion at Punjabi Kitchen, an Indian restaurant located near Menards.

Sometimes, as parents, we get locked into a vicious cycle of only going to restaurants that offer chicken strips, fries and a drink. You won’t find that at Punjabi Kitchen – in fact, there is no children’s menu at all. Don’t let that dissuade you from exposing your children to one of Findlay’s finest ethnic restaurants.

We walked in expecting to order off the menu, but the choices were daunting. Most entrees were in the $8-$10 range. A dozen chicken dishes

Kid-friendly Yes

To avoid wait Consider off peak hours Noise level Fine Bathroom amenities Changing tables in the men’s and women’s restrooms High Chairs Yes Got Milk No, but lemonade available Kid’s menu? No, but spiciness can be adjusted on most menu items Food allergy concerns?

Punjabi Kitchen suggests asking before ordering since many of the dishes contain multiple ingredients done a dozen different – yet intriguing – ways. Lamb and seafood were also included. There was a full page of tempting vegetarian options. We threw ourselves at the mercy of our waiter, who suggested the lunchtime buffet ($8.99, with half off for children ages 5 through 10).

The buffet, with slight daily changes, offers a nice selection of what, to us, was unfamiliar cuisine and most of it was meatless. The aloo gazar mata, a spicy vegetable blend featuring potatoes and carrots, had enough of a kick to make me sweat. The chana masala, a chickpea blend, was nice when scooped up by bread pakada, a type of fried bread. My daughter ate nearly everything, including the butter chicken, and we both went back for seconds. The buffet also included a small dessert section, and my daughter said the kheer, an Indian rice pudding, was her favorite.

Some of the items on the buffet had some heat, but we Spice Girls enjoyed it. Worried about too much kick? Try ordering off the menu instead. Most menu items can be adjusted for mild, medium and spicy preferences.

So far we have been to Punjabi Kitchen twice for the lunch buffet, and look forward to our future lunch dates. After all, a full menu – that includes chicken vindaloo, matar paneer and lamb passanda – awaits our intrepid tastebuds.

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1st Annual Reineke Classic Car Show

Saturday, September 20/Reineke Ford Lincoln Bring the entire family for a fun-filled day and enjoy the Charity Car & Truck Show, where cars will be admired and food vendors will be providing lunch. There will be door prizes, a 50/50 raffle, free T-shirts for the first 100 registrants and free dash plaques for the first 200 registrants. The event will take place rain or shine and music will be provided by Time Warp Mobile DJ Service. Proceeds will be donated to the Northwest Ohio Railroad Preservation, Inc. Registration at 9am, show from 10am-4pm and awards at 3pm.

Reineke Ford Lincoln, 12000 CR 99. 419-425-2584. hancockparks.com

5 FRIDAY Black Swamp Arts Festival - Check out over 100 fine artists, exhibitions, arts and crafts for sale, demonstrations, food, and beverages. Free admission and parking. Through September 7. Downtown, Wooster and Main Streets (Rt. 25), Bowling Green. 419-354-2723.blackswamparts.org

6 SATURDAY Yoga in the Park - Join Open Circle Yoga and Wellness Center for a free one hour yoga class in the beauty of nature. All skill levels are welcome. Dress for comfort and bring water and a yoga mat or towel.

If there is inclement weather, the program will be cancelled. 9-10am. Riverside Park, 16618 Township Road 208. 419-4257275. hancockparks.com Free Kids in the Park Series: I Spy in the Park Hike - Join Program Assistant Chris Allen, to enjoy a game of “I Spy”. Can you see something that I can’t see? Come out and search for numerous hidden treasures in the park. 1-3pm. Blue Rock Nature Preserve, Edgar Avenue and Bank St. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

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Ohio’s Greatest Astronomer - Dave Ferguson of the Millstream Astronomy Club will talk about Ohio’s Greatest Astronomer.

This will be a story about a Hancock County boy who became one of Ohio’s greatest astronomers! After the presentation, they will be stargazing and viewing celestial objects in the sky, including Saturn. 8pm. Riverbend Recreation Area Shelter 3, 16618 Township Road 208.

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7 SUNDAY Hancock Horizontal Hundred Bicycle Tour - Come be a part of the flattest rides in Ohio. There will be certificates of completion and ice cream at the end of the ride for everyone. 8am. Findlay Family YMCA, 300 E. Lincoln St. hancockhorizontalhundred.com 20th Anniversary of the Doc Phillips Discovery Center - Come join the Hancock Park District’s program staff to celebrate the 20th anniversary of the opening of the Richard S. “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center. Participants will look at how it all got started and future plans for the Discovery Center. There will be activities, hikes and more for the entire family.

1-4pm. Oakwood Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free Day of Honor & Grandparents Day - Pay tribute to the men and women who keep us safe all year long and get up close to a real fire truck, police car and ambulance. The Zoo is also offering free admission for all police, firefighters, EMTs and military personnel when they show their professional ID, as well as all grandparents who visit with their grandchildren.

10am-5pm. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org Vintage Afternoon Tea - Enjoy tasty treats at this vintage afternoon tea while raising money for Grace Speaks, a non profit that helps provide speech therapy for those in Hancock County. 2-4pm. $10 in advance or $15 at the door (space limited to 80 people). Jones House, 313 E. Sandusky St.

13 SATURDAY A Developmentally Different Resource Fair - Discover the many different local organizations that can benefit you and your child with special needs. There will be food, lots of raffle prizes, and tons of great information. Limited childcare will be provided from 1-5pm. Blanchard Valley Center, 1700 E. Sandusky St. friendsofbvs.org Free

17 WEDNESDAY Nature Journaling Workshop Explore nature journaling techniques including observation skills, sketching, painting and writing. Nature’s variety provided by our ever changing seasons will offer an enriching experience and opportunity to expand your horizons. Recommended for teens and adults of all skill levels.

Participants should bring their own sketch book and drawing supplies. 7-8:30pm.

Oakwood Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

18 THURSDAY Twice Blessed Children’s Fall Consignment Sale - Over 100 sellers offering high-quality, affordable items with everything you need for kids ages birth through teen. Clothing, furniture, toys, books, baby gear, you name it....you’ll find it here. Saturday is 1/2 price day.

Cash, local check, and all credit/debit are accepted. Thursday, noon-4pm & Friday, 9am. Findlay First Church of the Nazarene, 2501 Broad Ave. 419-422-8660. twiceblesssedsale.org Free

19 FRIDAY “Fall In Love With Our Community” Table Exhibit - Table exhibits will showcase information on Findlay area nonprofits, organizations and helpful services.

Learn how you can become involvedperhaps as a volunteer or youth mentoror explore how the community can help serve the needs of your family. Through September 28. Findlay Village Mall: Mall Commons Area, 1800 Tiffin Ave. 4 19-423-8732. shopfindlayvillagemall.com Family Movie Night: Spirit Bring the family to the YMCA to watch Spirit: Stallion of the Cimaron. Bring your Blanket and pillow. Get comfortable and enjoy the movie. The YMCA will provide the popcorn and drinks. Nonmembers, 18

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$1/members, free. Findlay Family YMCA, 300 E. Lincoln St. 419-423-8732. findlayymca.org

20 SATURDAY 2014 Camp Berry Arts and Craft Festival - Come have some fun, while supporting The Black Swamp Area Council at the same time. There will be arts and craft vendors, food vendors, live demonstrations, kids activities, shopping, and more.

This event will happen rain or shine. 9am. $2/Kids under 12 are free. Camp Berry, 11716 CR 40. 419-422-4356.

Historic Barn Tour - Come to the Hancock Historical Museum for a selfguided tour of six century-old barns in Hancock County. This family-friendly event includes activities at each stop celebrating our agricultural heritage, including handson demonstrations, live music, and food vendors. 10am-4pm. $10 for members and all presale, $15 day-of. Hancock Historical Museum, 422 W. Sandusky St. 419-423-4433. hancockhistoricalmuseum.org Geocaching 101 - Litzenberg Memorial Woods (Meet at the Activity Barn) - Come to the park for a modern day treasure hunt as members of the NW Ohio Geocachers will assist you in searching for a hidden cache and offer advice on how to begin geocaching. No prior experience or equipment is required. Be prepared to dress for weather and trail conditions. 1pm.

Litzenberg Memorial Woods, 6100 U.S. Route 224. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free

21 SUNDAY Fossil Fest - Dig for fossils and ask geologists for information about them. There will be a dino run, children’s games and more.

11am-4pm. Sylvania Historical Village, 5717 N. Main St. 419-882-4976. sylvaniahistory.org Free

22 MONDAY Family Music Night - Have fun with songs, movement, finger plays, musical instruments and children’s books. For children birth to age 5 with an adult. 6:307:30pm. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org Free

26 FRIDAY The University of Findlay Homecoming and Family Weekend Friday there will be a homecoming parade at 7pm, followed by a pep rally and fireworks. Saturday enjoy an Oiler football game with a homecoming party and dance. Sunday celebrate Funday Sunday at the Mazza Museum from 1:30-3:30pm.

The University of Findlay, 1000 N. Main St.

27 SATURDAY Family Fun Day - This fundraising event will honor local children with apraxia of speech and will include a 1 mile walk, children’s activities, vendors, live & silent auctions, and raffles. 10am-2pm. Kids, $10/ Adults, $20. Bowling Green City Park, 417 City Park Dr., Bowling Green. nwoapraxiasupport.org

National Dachshund Races - The best of the best face off in this fun and hilarious racing event. 9am-5pm.

Hancock County Agency on Aging, 339 E. Melrose. nationaldachshundraces.org Free

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Fall Festival - Tour the house, barn, and garden. Visit the historical demonstrators, have lunch and listen to musical entertainment. The event is family friendly with a farm animal petting area, fishing hole, lawn games, a straw maze and lots more. 10am-4pm. Schumacher Homestead, 8350 Bixel Rd., Bluffton.

419-358-1049. facebook.swisscommunityhistoricalsociety Free Music in Nature - Have you ever noticed the sounds of nature? Nature creates music all around us, day and night.

Come and listen to the different symphonies and recreate all of the sounds that we can hear. 11am-1pm. Oakwood Nature Preserve, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. hancockparks.com Free 2nd Annual Findlay Race for the Cure - Take part in the 2nd Annual Findlay Race for the Cure to celebrate breast cancer survivors, their families and supporters and help end breast cancer forever. Registration required. 8:30am. $30. Downtown Findlay. komennwohio.org

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Animal Demonstrations, Experience animal-feeding demonstrations and enrichment throughout the zoo. Through September 1. 10am. Free with zoo admission. Toledo Zoo, 2 Hippo Way. 419-385-4040. toledozoo.org

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Mom & Tot Skate, Bring the little ones to The Cube for open ice skating. 10-11am. $3, skates included. The CUBE, 3430 N. Main St. 419-424-7176. findlayohio.com

Wednesdays

Painting Class, Individuals of all ages and abilities will enjoy making beautiful paintings. No registration required.

10-11am & 5-6pm. $10/ $5 for additional siblings. Awakening Minds Art, 515 S. Main St. 419-302-3892. awakeningmindsart.org

Wednesdays and Fridays

Baby Story Time, Songs, stories, rhymes and other fun for babies and toddlers up to 36 months. 9:45-10:15am.

Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. findlaylibrary.org

Saturdays

Moms and Babies Yoga Class, Enjoy time together as you tone your body, relax and do poses with your baby in a fun environment. For moms and pre-mobile babies aged 4 weeks+.

10:30-11:15am. $60 for 6 classes/$12 drop in. 10:30-11:15am. Harmony Yoga, 1100 Suite C Croy Dr. 419-306-6136. findlayharmonyyoga.com Crawford Street Market, Enjoy a wide selection of locally grown and produced foods, art vendors, live music, children’s activities and more. 9am-1pm.

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