ACC EMAG #4 (2023)

#4 2023

EMAG

quarterly publication for acc leaders

AI: 3 lessons for Church Leaders Staying Calm in the Storm 3 Ways to Build your Children's Ministry

The FAMILY Issue A House of Generations

5 Truths about Marriage

Parenting at a Baton Change 1

2

SIDE

IN

THE FAMILY ISSUE No-one is meant to do life alone. This edition celebrates the blessing of family, from marriage and parenting to the greater Church family, and how we can help and support all generations through tough, challenging times.

NEWS ACC Church Life

4

Church On Fire 5 A Life of Leadership & Servanthood: Andrew Evans

8

Tribute to Andrew Evans by Denis Smith

9

Up Close & Personal with Mark Zschech

10

New Prayer Leader: Wendy Megchelse

11

Global: One Million Churches By 2033

12

Ecumenical Dialogues 13 How Worship Shapes Us by Jacqueline Grey

14

National: Micah Delegation to Canberra

15

Darlene Zschech: A Testament Of Faith

17

FEATURES FAMILY GENERATIONS

18

by Wayne Alcorn FIVE TRUTHS ABOUT MARRIAGE 20

by Joel & Sharon Chelliah THE POWER OF BEING A PARENT AT A BATON CHANGE

24

by Kristy Mills WHO'S YOUR MOB 26

by Sandra Dumas 3 WAYS TO BUILD YOUR CHILDREN'S MINISTRY

28

by Andy Kirk SEX, SEXTING, PORNOGRAPHY & CONSENT

32

by David & Katie Kobler UNI SUMMIT FOR YOUNG ADULTS 34 FROM THE STREETS TO LOVING FAMILIES 35 PROJECT CHRISTMAS 36 INFLATIONS IMPACT ON FAMILIES

38

by Catherine Thambiratnum HELPING FAMILIES IN YOUR COMMUNITY 40

by Paul Bartlett HOW FAMILIES CAN FLOURISH 42

by Ralph Estherby RELIGIOUS FREEDOM AT THE CROSSROADS

45

by Mark Edwards AI IN CHURCHES 46

by Brett Randall NEW INFORMATION DISCLOSURES FOR CHARITIES COMMISSION

48

by Graeme Kirkwood STAYING CALM IN THE STORM 50

by Andrew Marsh RESOURCES FAITH IN THE HOME 52

54

IS IT TIME TO WRITE YOUR FIRST BOOK? by Matt Bird

56

NEW RELEASES

ALPHACRUCIS GRADUATION 58 3

ACC Church Life

Welcome

@riversedgechurch

Family

Youth Camps

@hopecentre

Selah

Kids

@lifechurchtsv

Anointing

@Rivieracc

@horizonchurch

@kingdomcityperth

New Credentials

Youth Rallies

@youthalivesa

Baby Dedications @lifeuc.home

FOLLOW ACC SNAPSHOT ON INSTAGRAM: @ACCSNAPSHOT #ACCSNAPSHOT 4

@accnswact

Church on Fire

Firefighters called to the Oasis Church in Rockhampton claimed it was 'one of the worst' they'd experienced in many years. Pastor Rachel Jones shares what happened when their church burnt down.

It was 2am on Sunday 27th August 2023, when we received a phone call to inform us that our church building was on fire. We arrived to find multiple fire engines, ambulances and police on site. We quickly realised this wasn’t just a little grass fire, like we’d been called out for in the past. Our team joined us on site, as well as Pastor Steve Kennedy (who was our guest minister for the weekend). We stood by and watched as firefighters worked hard to save the building. Unfortunately, the fire was one of the worst the fire teams had experienced in many years, and our building was unable to be saved. It’s those moments you never really feel prepared for, especially the shock and grief you experience as you stand in front of what was essentially your second home, watching it being destroyed by fire.

Support by ACC Family As the news went out in the early hours of the morning, we were so overwhelmed by the immediate response and support from the leaders in our ACC movement, both national and state. Our National President, Wayne Alcorn called Nathan with encouragement and advice on the morning of the fire, and State President Ben and Trish Naitoko flew in on the Monday just to be with us.

Not only that, but the countless prayers, offers of support, calls, messages and love extended by so many within our movement, region and community. This has meant so much to us as leaders, but also our church congregation as we navigate towards the future.

Proverbs 17:17 says 'A brother is born for times of adversity' or 'born to help in time of need', and that is exactly what we have experienced from our ACC family. Our experience has been that our movement is more than just a movement, but a family, that when crisis strikes, comes together. We are just so grateful for the relationships we’ve built within our ACC family and we encourage others to get connected, it’s invaluable!

Moving forward we are looking ahead in faith and excited for what God is going to do in the next season of our Church! From all our Oasis Church family. Thank you!

– Rachel & Nathan Jones, Oasis Church 5

FAMILY TIES IN UNPREDICTABLE TIMES In these turbulent moments, nothing holds us steady like the bond of family. At ACS, we don’t merely see policy numbers or business transactions; we see an ever-expanding family.

Each church, ministry, and Christian school across Australia is a vital branch of our family tree, and our commitment reflects the deep-seated objective of the resourcing and protecting of our collective mission.

WEATHERING STORMS TOGETHER Australia’s recent onslaught of natural disasters, from the fury of bushfires to the wrath of cyclones and unprecedented floods, has tested our collective strength.

Many of our clients were flood affected and were exceedingly grateful for the extensive flood cover ACS Mutual offers.

The aftermath was overwhelming, with a staggering 432,000 claims that

6

shook the insurance industry to its core, incurring costs of around $8 billion.

This unexpected turn of events triggered a global discussion, with many international markets contemplating the cessation of flood insurance or even excluding churches and ministries from their coverage altogether.

THE ACS PROMISE: STEPPING UP WHEN IT MATTERS MOST

Welcoming New Members: The Commercial Sector While our heart and soul are intricately woven with our church, ministry, and school clientele, our family is ever-growing. We’re elated to welcome the commercial sector into the ACS fold. With the same familial warmth, dedication, and unmatched expertise, we extend our supportive embrace to our commercial clients, ensuring they too benefit from the ACS touch with insurance and commercial lending for small to medium commercial businesses.

In the face of this adversity, the ACS family was galvanised into action. Fully aware of the invaluable roles our clients play both in society, and for God’s kingdom, we mobilised our resources and expertise. Our senior executive team, driven by dedication and a heart for our clients and their mission, embarked on connecting and engaging with our international reinsurance markets. With professionalism, our deep experience and tenacity, we presented our case, one after the other, advocating for the rights and needs of our movement, our clients, our family. Our mission was singular and clear: ensuring our churches, ministries, and schools got the cover they so desperately need to keep taking ground for the kingdom.

The fruits of our collective efforts were sweet.

A significant victory for ACS Financial and its family, especially considering the uncertainties of the global insurance landscape. Our ethos at ACS Financial transcends business metrics; it’s about fostering a family culture built on pillars of trust, understanding, and unwavering support.

ACS: Where Every Client is Family In this rapidly evolving world, it’s the reassuring embrace of family that gives us strength and hope. At ACS, you’re not just another client; you’re an integral part of our family, eternally. And for family, we pledge to move mountains, come rain or shine, as we know it’s all for His glory.

At ACS, we’re with you...

7

HONOUR

PASTOR ANDREW EVANS

A Life of Leadership & Servanthood The ACC Family celebrated the life of Pastor Andrew Evans who passed away on May 25th, 2023 at the age of 87, leaving a legacy of a life that touched countless individuals with the love of God. He was a beloved pastor, national church leader, politician, husband, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, and loving father.

Early Years Born in India on June 17th, 1935 to missionary parents, Thomas & Stella Evans, Andrew's story is a wonderful journey of faith that has shaped the lives of many.

After completing his schooling in Adelaide, and Commonwealth Bible College in Birsbane, he went to Papua New Guinea, where he dedicated seven years of his life to serving as a church leader, spreading love, and inspiring countless individuals.

Church Builder In 1970, Andrew returned to Adelaide and took over a small church in Klemzig. Over the next three decades, he nurtured it into the largest church in the state. His genuine care for others made him a trusted pastor, providing support and guidance to tens of thousands of people throughout his life.

National Leadership Andrew’s influence extended beyond the walls of the church. As the General Superintendent of the Australian Christian Churches, he exemplified authentic leadership, known for his humility and integrity. His leadership as General Superintendent of the Assemblies of God in Australia from 1977 to 1997, marked a time of great expansion, growth and church planting.

At age 65, he ventured into politics, serving as an MLC and co-founder for Family First, representing the people and advocating for their needs. His respectful and kind demeanor won him friends on both sides, making him a well-liked figure in South Australia’s political landscape. In recognition of his service to the community, Andrew was awarded an OAM in 2003.

8

Loving Family He was a devoted husband to Lorraine, who tragically lost her battle with cancer in 2011, and later to Del, whom he married in 2013. Andrew cherished his role as a brother, a grandfather, and a great-grandfather. His love for his family knew no bounds, and his presence left an indelible mark on their lives.

To his two sons, Ashley and Russell, Andrew was simply Dad – a source of unwavering love, kindness, and inspiration. He instilled courage and resilience in his sons, shaping them into the remarkable individuals they are today. Ashley and his wife Jane are the Global Senior Pastors of Futures Church, and Russell and Sam are the Senior Pastors of Planetshakers.

Andrew Evans was an exceptional leader and a pioneer, whose life is a testament to the incredible impact one individual can have on the world because of his heart to serve God.

Tribute to Andrew Evans

BY DENIS SMITH

Many stories have been written about Andrew – mine is from the human side. We met when we were in our early twenties in 1960 at the Yarramundi Christmas Camp in Sydney, and formed an instant friendship.

Andrew and I met up again in Adelaide at the end of 1961. He invited me to be his Best Man at his forthcoming wedding to Lorraine Smith in Queensland.

Andrew and Lorraine went on to serve as missionaries in Papua New Guinea in the Sepik District.

They were serving in Wewak when I arrived on the Malekula in 1964. For seven years, they ministered to the people, commencing several literacy schools, overseeing a fully accredited primary school and an aid post.

On their return to Australia, Andrew received an invitation to become the pastor of the Assemblies of God Church at Klemzig, South Australia.

Gwen and I had returned from Papua New Guinea, when Andrew shared this news with me, and we prayed together. He felt his inadequacy and doubted he could fulfil the call. However, God’s will was always the uppermost thought in his heart, and he accepted the invitation.

He later reported, 'We had a congregation of about two hundred people that declined in the first year of my leadership to about 150.

I wondered what I was going to do. I then began to grasp certain principles and felt that if I put them into practice, I would see the church grow. I saw the numbers begin to increase until we had to build a new church which seated 700 people.

That became too small as we filled that building four times on a Sunday.

People would be standing outside waiting to get in.'

The church moved from Klemzig to Paradise and built what was the largest auditorium of any kind in Adelaide. The church continued to grow and Andrew served as Senior Pastor for over 30 years. Today Futures Church, is pastored by his son, Ashley.

In 1977, Andrew was elected as the National Superintendent of the Assemblies of God in Australia.

During his twenty years tenure, one new church was opened every eleven days somewhere in Australia.

I served with Andrew on the National Executive, and for eight years on the Bible College Directorate and twenty years as a member of the World Missons Council. Not only as a personal friend, but a fellow colleague, I experienced his leadership style first-hand. His first love was Jesus Christ, and he was authentic and loving; encouraging and observant. He sought to be always biblical in his responses.

As he became known internationally, he was appointed the Secretary of the Assemblies of God Fellowship International, now with a membership of over 65 million.

At 65, Andrew 'retired' from church leadership and travelled to churches across Australia, encouraging them in church growth principles.

During this period, he told me how was invited to a small country church when the young pastor asked him

for background information so he could respectfully introduce him to the congregation. 'And have you done anything significant in Australia, Pastor Andrew?' was the innocent enquiry. It was just a young man who grew up during a later time.

Andrew commented to me, 'That is when I recalled the saying, "one day a rooster, the next day a feather duster!"’

How will Andrew be remembered?

People who knew him will have their own stories. There are so many to recall. As a respite foster parent for three little children whose mother was a drug addict? Founding and leading the Family First political party with passion to protect the welfare of families in South Australia?

Towards the end of his life, he and I stayed connected as often as possible. It was hard to see the decline in his health. On one occasion, he called me to apologise to me if he had done anything to hurt or disappoint me. I quickly responded that he has '70 times 7' opportunities, and he had plenty of credit. I soon realised he was serious. We resolved the matter of his apology quickly and he thanked me.

Was Andrew perfect? In his own admission, 'No!' His life was focussed on the words of Jesus when he would ultimately enter into His presence, 'Well done; good and faithful servant'. Christlike character and faithfulness to the opportunities God provided – the two main motivators of his life.

Denis V Smith has been and ACC Pastor and involved in national and international leadership for over 60 years.

9

LEADERSHIP

Up close & personal with

Mark Zschech

MARK ZSCHECH was elected to the ACC National Executive at the 2023 National Conference. Mark and his wife, Darlene, are the Senior Pastors of the multi-site Hope Unlimited Church. He is also a member of the ACC NSW+ACT State Executive. Mark has a background in engineering, music, youth work and business development, and has used his entrepreneurial skills to launch significant ministry initiatives, including Hope Global that impacts those living in poverty in Rwanda, Cambodia and India.

Likewise, 4B Media maximises TV media ministries that support developing nations.

He and Darlene have three daughters, three sons-in-law, and six grandchildren.

When I was a child, I wanted to be a… Mathematician, Architect or a Federal Police Agent.

I first knew God was real was … when my Dad prayed for healing of my broken arm (X-rays proved it was healed.)

The hardest thing I have ever done is … physically walking the Milford Track (Training might have helped).

My life’s passion is … progress, to make things better.

My favourite way to relax is… beach, boating and pretending to be a farmer.

A book I'd recommend reading is… The Marvellous Pigness of Pigs by Joel Salatin (its not what you think!)

My favourite food is …anything that Darlene cooks (I think that’s the right thing to say, right?)

My next big challenge is…to out lift my sons-in-law at the gym.

The scripture/s that keep me on track is ….Isaiah 58:11-12 What I enjoy doing …. is working, leading and learning.

10

New Prayer A Privilege to Pray Leader

BY WENDY MEGLCHESE

Prayer has always been central to everything the ACC does as a Movement, whether it’s winning souls, planting churches, or simply praying for those facing serious situations in life and ministry.

New ACC National Prayer Coordinator Pastor Wendy Megchelse has been appointed as the new ACC Prayer Network Coordinator. Wendy has held an ACC credential since 1987 and been involved in fulltime ministry all her adult life. As a former National Women’s Ministry director, Wendy is well known to many in the ACC Family.

She is also currently the Queensland/Northern Territory Pastoral Oversight for the State’s Emeritus pastors.

Wendy steps into the shoes of David & Ruth O'Keefe, who led the ACC Prayer Network for many years. We are immensely grateful to them and the team of intercessors who have waged war behind the scenes and prayed for our ACC Family members during times of great need.

Email your prayer request The ACC Prayer Network is for our pastors and their families, who may be facing a health situation, a church crisis or family challenge. All requests are assured of complete confidentiality by our intercessory team. To submit a prayer request, email Wendy at prayer@acc.org. au and she will rally the intercessors to pray.

'God answers our prayers, not because we are good, but because He is good.' - A.W. Tozer 'You are before the Lord, let your words be few, but let our heart be fervent.' – Charles Spurgeon

Today as I write my mind goes back to when I was a Kiwi girl in my 20s on a working holiday in the UK. It was the evening of November 10th 1975 when an incredible heaviness descended on my spirit. I really didn’t understand it and had no idea why or what it meant. So I prayed fervently and long (in tongues) for it to lift. When I could not bear it any longer, I took a sleeping tablet and went to bed, simply because I didn’t know what else to do.

The next morning I woke to the news of the absolute turmoil of the Australian Government and the the dramatic events surrounding Gough Whitlam. I knew this was the weight on my spirit and God had trusted me to pray. He had chosen me as a girl in her 20s who didn't have the slightest interest in Australian politics. Five years later, God called me to Australia. I know because of that experience He was gifting me an 'inheritance' in Australia. How faithful He has since been over these 40+ years.

I share this story not out of any sense of pride, but out of an absolute conviction that as C. Spurgeon quoted, 'Groaning that cannot be uttered are often prayers which cannot be refused.'

What a privilege for this Kiwi girl, now an Australian, and in her 70s, to be given the honour of stepping in as the National Co-ordinator of the ACC Prayer Network.

What a privilege and opportunity do we have as the ACC Family to pray for each other’s needs through the confidential Prayer Network for our pastors and their families.

Let us ever keep in mind these four things: • God hears prayer • God heeds prayer • God answers prayer • God delivers by prayer 11

GLOBAL

One million churches by 2033 The ACC is committed to the World Assemblies of God's initiative to grow to one million churches over the next ten years.

MM33 is the collaborative effort of the World Assemblies of God to engage in the greatest work of evangelism, discipleship, and church planting the world has ever seen. With full reliance on the Holy Spirit, the fellowship will collectively foster a growing revival, leading to Kingdom expansion as more people encounter the Gospel between now and 2033.

MM33 represents the commitment to The Great Commission: His mandate. Our mission.

The goal is to take steps to grow to one million churches by the 2000th anniversary of Jesus Christ’s resurrection and the Day of Pentecost in 2033, then continuing the mission!

More information: mm33.global

12

Ecumenical

Dialogues The ACC has been represented at two Ecumenical Dialogues in 2023. An Ecumenical Dialogue is a meeting of scholars from two different traditions. They discuss similarities and differences of the theology and practices of each group, as well as what we can learn from one other.

Rev Prof Jacqueline Grey, from Alphacrucis University College, participated in two events this year in the United Kingdom and Africa.

In June, Jacqui participated in a Dialogue with the Anglican Communion held in Canterbury, UK. The theme of this meeting was 'Worship, Liturgy, and Renewal'.

Similarly, in July, Jacqui was part of a Dialogue with the Roman Catholic tradition, held in Accra, Ghana.

Jacqui has also been appointed to the WCC Faith and Order Commission as a theological representative of global Pentecostalism.

To read more, a detailed report is available here.

Left: Jacqui Grey at the Dialogue with the Anglican Communion in Canterbury, UK. Above: Jacqui Grey in Accra, Ghana with the Dialogue with Roman Catholic tradition.

13

How Worship Shapes Us

BY JACQUELINE GREY Why do we worship? Most of us would be quick to respond: To express our adoration to and for God. Yes! Worship is our primary purpose as people. We were created to be worshippers. That’s why our Sunday gatherings almost always begin with praise and worship. As Pentecostals we are known for our exuberant singing and passionate worship.

But what happens to us (the worshipper) when we worship?

The prophet Jeremiah told his generation that in following worthless idols, they became worthless themselves (Jer 2:5). Ouch! That’s a sobering thought.

But the opposite is also true. As we worship a worthy God, we also learn that we are worthwhile. You become like what you worship.

Worship shapes us. We become like what or who we worship. But I also think how we worship also has an impact on how we are shaped.

Consider some of the features of Pentecostal worship: Passionate.

Participatory. Open to God. Expressive. Purposeful. This kind of worship tells us a lot about the God that we serve, and the people we are becoming.

Worship is not just preparation for the sermon (though it also does this). It teaches us about God and the type of people we are to be as made in God’s image. Our worship forms us into God-shaped disciples who are: • Passionate: God passionately reaches out to people in love and forgiveness to save them. So, we are being shaped into people who should also then reach out in love and forgiveness to others.

• Participatory: As people participate in worship, in one voice together, we are being shaped into the body of Christ. Each person is called to share their gifts and talents as a Spirit-empowered community.

• Open to God: God is relational. He desires to meet with us and speak with us. So, we are guided in our worship to meet with God. Through this, we are all encouraged to learn how to hear God’s voice and to see God work in us and through us.

• Expressive: In Jesus Christ, God became flesh and dwelt among us. Christ lived among us and taught us to “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). Therefore, in response to God we worship with all the strength of our bodies and will (from our hands to our feet). We worship with our minds (taking in the songs, sermons, and Scriptures we hear). We worship with all our heart and soul as we are stirred and warmed by the Spirit. So, we are being shaped into followers of Christ for the whole of our lives, not just on a Sunday.

• Purposeful: God loves the world. So, we are being shaped into a people who loves what God loves.

Let’s worship God afresh today, and be shaped by God to mirror Him in our churches and in the world.

Rev Prof Jacqueline Grey is Professor of Biblical Studies at Alphacrucis Univeristy College.

14

NATIONAL

A Safer World For All

BY BEK PROSSER

Micah 2023

Delegation CANBERRA – Micah Australia hosted their fifth annual Micah Women Leaders Delegation to Parliament House in August 2023. The group comprised of 45 women from 12 church denominations, including the ACC, who met with 43 politicians from all the major parties (ALP, Coalition, Greens and Independents).

The main focus of discussion was about how Australia can play a positive role in helping to create a safer world for all, by fighting to end extreme poverty, climate change and reducing inequality. Their meetings coincided with the release of the government's International Development Policy, and they made a compelling case for Australia to lift its aid budget and global leadership to meet these challenges.

The meetings received a positive and productive response.

Micah Australia is currently developing church toolkits for the launch of the Safer World for All campaign.

–Beck Wilesmith, Micah Australia More info: micahaustralia.org

The opportunity for the Church to give voice to the plight of the poorest in our world, is not one I ever want to miss. Despite the pain involved in getting 'involved in the mess' of poverty at a global scale, it is the words of Psalm 82 that echo loudest in my ears: 'Defend the poor and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and needy. Deliver the poor and needy; Free them from the hand of the wicked.'

It is an interesting idea, taking on the ‘defence’ of the poor and bringing it all the way to Parliament House.

There appears to be a revolving door of demand on each of our Members of Parliament; they are rarely thanked or encouraged; mostly rebuked and pressed.

However, each time we gather as the Church on mission and begin a conversation about the afflicted and needy around the world, we are welcomed, listened to and respected.

Along with prayer, and generosity, we have the opportunity to have dialogue with our leaders about the things that matter. What a privilege this is, and unique to only a few nations. The women of the ACC, were (of course) full of faith, and represented our fellowship well. Along with the missional aspect of the delegation, it was a joy to see what an outstanding group had come together with purpose.

In addition to the strength and unity displayed, I’m continually encouraged that the Holy Spirit is moving in the halls of Parliament House. Please continue to pray for our leaders, and perhaps reach out to care for them. Your local MP would love to hear from you so why not make a time to meet them, buy them a coffee and hear their heart?

Pastor Bek Prosser from Hope Centre was a part of Micah delegation.

ACC pastors at Canberra 15

16

Darlene Zschech

A Testament of Faith SHOUT TO THE LORD 30 years of impact It is arguably one of greatest songs written by an Australian, given the extent of its worldwide recognition and acclaim over the past thirty years.

'Shout To The Lord' was written by Darlene Zschech in 1993, during a time of great discouragement when circumstances looked so bleak.

Since then the song has received multiple Gold, Platinum and Multi Platinum awards in the USA, Canada, Great Britain and Australia, and had tens of millions of downloads, album, video and book purchases.

Dozens of major artists have recorded it, such as Chris Tomlin, Michael W. Smith, Matt Redman, Carmen and others. The worship song was honoured on American Idol in 2008 when the eight finalists performed it over two nights on the special charity 'Idol Gives Back' programs.

The song has been translated into multiple languages and sung by millions in church congregations around the world, including presidents of nations. Darlene also sang the song at the Vatican before Pope Francis in 2015 with Andrea Bocelli.

Thirty years since writing Shout To The Lord, DARLENE ZSCHECH is back in the studio working on a new project entitled 'Testament'. The worldrenowned worship leader, songwriter and pastor shares some insights on a brand new album to be released in 2024.

Its been many years since I have spent a long and dedicated period in a recording studio. Not for a lack of desire or of songs, but really time and focus.

I have done so many single songs over the last ten years, and a couple of album projects, but taking time out to put together this offering seems almost indulgent. Yet I have a sense in my spirit that I am doing exactly what God is asking me to do.

I was really stirred by friends and family who reminded me that Shout to the Lord turns 30 this year and that I should do something to mark this moment.

After chatting to my kids and asking them what songs I should include that mean something to them, my son-in-law Andrew suggested the title 'TESTAMENT'.

Testament means ‘a statement of belief or direction’, or in a legal term, something that serves as ‘evidence of truth, legally binding’, which so describes the character and goodness of our God. My heart's desire over my lifetime is to live in response to the great love of God and His unwavering faithfulness over my life. Really, this is the heart of worship, that the whole of our lives would be poured out for the glory of God. Its not always easy to choose this kind of life, but obedience when following Jesus is really the only way you’ll ever walk in true freedom, joy and peace.

This is my story and the foundation from which Testament is being woven together.

You will find this project gathers older and new songs (30 in total) , as well as Shout to the Lord, which has been played by the brand new Australian Christian Orchestra and arranged by its founder Ryan Gilpen.

I will always find it hard to wrap my head around the miracle of music and song, that there is no other vehicle available to us on earth that has the ability to bring to attention our mind, our auditory senses, arresting the heart and moving the soul and spirit to a point where your whole self is pointed in the one direction. Such is the power of worship – as the Holy Spirit leads our hearts heavenward through the magnificent sound of sacred song, giving humanity a vehicle of expression that continues eternally.

My prayer is that this collection of songs would play a part in your story, as you too are reminded of God's incredible faithfulness over every moment of your life.

'All the nations You have made will come and worship before You, Lord; they will bring glory to Your name.10 For You are great and do marvelous deeds; You alone are God.' (Psalm 86: 9) 17

A House of Generations

BY WAYNE ALCORN I love watching our congregation before and after

It is highly probable that the man who wrote that Psalm

church services – how the many generations gather at

is David, the shepherd boy who rose to become the king

the House of God, greeting each other with wide smiles

of his nation. We can be inspired and challenged by

and open arms. They may have once entered the church

the example of David. We have here a father that did

building as a stranger, yet over time, they find themselves

not squander his resources in his own lifetime; choosing

part of large, loving family – mums and dads, children,

instead to employ them to set up his son for success in

grandparents, and young adults – each having a valued

his generation. I wonder if Solomon was reflecting on his

place in a caring community.

father’s actions when he wrote: ‘A good man leaves an

A healthy church is like a healthy family , where the generations lean in and support each other. We were

Finances and material goods are only part of what we

never created to do life solo. God’s plan has always been

can pass on to our children. This was highlighted to me

that we do life together.

one evening when my father and I were both invited to

It reminds me of the time three generations of Alcorns

speak after a dinner, hosted by a men’s group.

stood on the stage together – my son, my father and

After having some fun, entertaining the crowd at my

myself – preparing to share at a men’s event. It was

expense, I heard my dad say something I never heard

not lost on me how far my family had travelled since

from him before. ‘Let me tell you about the toughest day

the moment Alex Alcorn knelt down in the gutter in a

in a man’s life. It’s the day it becomes apparent that your

small country town many decades before. That moment

son has overtaken you.’

of surrender had jack-knifed his life and changed the trajectory of our family line. From a drunk heckling the Christians in the street, he was now the head of a family of Christian pastors.

So there we were. I was in the middle. Looking to my left, I saw my son. Suddenly it dawned on me: Yesterday I was you. Then I looked to my right at my dad, and realised that, Tomorrow I’ll be you.

Since that moment, my father has gone to heaven and my son has become a father himself. Generations come and generations go, but the Biblical blueprint for family is that each generation is enabled, empowered and equipped by those that proceed them. It is honoured and blessed by the generation that follow them.

The psalmist wrote: ‘Blessed are those who fear the LORD, who find great delight in his commands. Their children will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed’ (Psalm 112:1–2).

18

inheritance to his children’s children’ (Proverbs 13:22).

He went on to make comparisons between his achievements and mine. I fully realise that each statistic he quoted was relative era by era, but he was setting out to make a point.

He continued. ‘It’s a bitter pill to swallow until you realise your son, and all his achievements, are the result of investments that you have made in his life, over the years.’

Then he delivered his final thought on this matter before walking off stage. ‘When you understand that, everything changes. You are no longer competing with the next generation. Instead, you step up to become their greatest cheerleader.’

Let’s commit to building healthy churches by building healthy families – by becoming cheerleaders for every generation.

Wayne Alcorn is the ACC National President.

Image: @hopecentre Article adapted from the book ‘My Father’s Son’ by Wayne Alcorn ©2023 Acorn Press.

For more articles or to purchase the book, visit www.waynealcorn.com 19

20

Keep Your Ox & Deal With Your Soul 5 TRUTHS ABOUT MARRIAGE

BY JOEL & SHARON CHELLIAH

Pastors Joel and Sharon Chelliah invest a lot of their time talking about marriage and relationships, because they believe marriage is the most important relationship we will have on earth. "If we build strong marriages, we will build strong families; and if we have strong families, we have pillars in the Church. If the Church is strong, it becomes a lighthouse to the nation", says Joel.

“Where there are no oxen the manger is clean but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox.” (Proverbs 14:4) JOEL: This scripture tells us that whenever you have an ox, you can expect there to be a mess. There is no such thing as a poop-less ox. Anyone expecting a poopless ox is going to be disappointed.

So if you want the manger clean and you want your life the way YOU want it, then you can, but you will have to settle with being ox-less. However, if you want an abundant harvest ,you are going to need an ox. You get to choose: clean stable or messy stable with an abundant harvest, but you can’t have both.

Disappointment is one of the leading causes of marital breakdowns. So often we like to blame our spouses for letting us down, but the Bible encourages us to do our part in setting more realistic expectations of our spouse. The gap between unrealistically, high expectations and reality is disappointment and so in order to deal with disappointment we have to make sure our expectations are right.

Here are five truths that will help us to set more realistic expectations.

1. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MARRIAGE SHARON: Every marriage is a work in progress. Perfection is the wrong measure of standard to judge any relationship. We are dealing with human beings. Every ox has poop. The things I love most about Joel are the very things that frustrate me the most. He is funny, spontaneous, energetic and loves God, and all of those can get on my nerves sometimes. Even the fact that he loves God can be frustrating because he can come up with wisdom and godliness when I don’t want to hear 21

it. So the truth of the matter is if you want the benefit of the ox, you have to recognise that there is also stuff that’s going to be smelly, inconvenient and uncomfortable.

So rather than looking for the perfect one, realise that you can actually pick from multiple and the day you decide to commit for life, then you become the one.

The fact is every marriage has conflict. Recently I listened to Jordan Peterson interview Stephanie Davies-Arai. They were talking about parenting and he said, “The issue is not whether you fight in front of your children or not, its whether you make up in front of them.” There are going to be difficult issues to talk through but relationships can withstand the full range of emotional events without breaking apart. So the issue isn’t whether we have conflict, the issue is what we need to do to grow through it.

7 Questions for Singles

According to Jordan Peterson, in order to maintain peace in a household you need two things: the first is that everybody has to be in agreement, and the second, there must be no difficulty or challenge. We live in a house of seven, so those two scenarios are impossible to achieve.

So rather than strive to live a conflict free life, embrace conflict when it happens and discover healthy practices to grow from it.

Matthew 5:23-24 says, “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

God wants real peace, not a surface level veneer of perfection. When conflict happens, go and deal with it.

If you are like me and you struggle to deal with conflict, remember you have an amazing God that is for you, that wants to resource you to engage in healthy relationships – one that is not pseudo but is deep and rich.

2. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS 'THE ONE' JOEL: Your spouse becomes the one when you commit your life to them. We have believed Disney’s lie for too long – “She found her perfect prince, her soulmate and they lived happily ever after.”

So many young people are desperate to find 'the one', the right person. They go out on dates and as soon as they find a flaw in their partner, they lose interest, move on and continue the search for the one. I hate to break it to you.

There is no 'the one'.

Genesis 2:24 says that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife and they become one flesh. They become one flesh after they commit themselves to each other for life. That’s when two become one.

22

Here are seven quick questions singles should answer in order to find a potential partner: 1.

Is this person of the opposite sex? (this will cut out 50% of the world of your list.)

2.

Are they currently single?

3.

Is this person a passionate follower of Jesus?

4.

Are you attracted to them?

5.

Do you like being around them for long periods of time?

6.

Do your family and close friends like them?

7.

Have you committed the relationship to the Lord?

If the answer is ‘yes’ to all seven, then they are a potential.

If you are married, then the one you are currently married to is “the one”. Stop wondering if you married the wrong one and choose to rise up and make this one, the one that will last for the rest of your life.

SHARON: There is an element of risk when committing to someone and we’ve got to be prepared to take that risk - to step out in faith. It can be scary but this is what love is - opening your heart to someone. Opening your life to someone is one of the biggest risks you’ll ever make in life and the beautiful thing is that we don’t make it alone. We have a good shepherd“ Proverbs 3:5-6 says "Trust in the Lord with all your heart lean not on your own understanding and in all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your path.”

There is no guarantee that your heart won’t be broken because you’re dealing with another human being. Even when you’re married, your heart can still break from time to time. You have to be able to take your heartbreak to the Lord when someone lets you down. You’ve got an anchor for your soul and His name is Jesus.

3. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A 50-50 IN A MARRIAGE JOEL: Marriages go through so many seasons. There was a season when I was recovering from my brain surgery that I couldn’t even function. I couldn’t bring my 50 to the table. I was doing five at best. This season lasted for nearly 18 months. In those painful and dark moments, Sharon had to do more than her share to just keep our

marriage going. Marriage is not 50-50. There are certain times when the other spouse actually needs to step up with the grace of God and carry the whole relationship.

SHARON: Paul’s command to the Church in Ephesians 5 is not 50/50. It’s actually everything and beyond. He says wives to submit to your husbands and husbands to love your wives. This is what true love looks like. It’s the call to lay down your life and live like Christ. Marriage is the greatest discipleship course you will ever undertake. You will get an honest progress report on how you are going with selfless love on a daily basis.

God is calling us to a higher way of living - our marriage is meant to be a showcase of Gods agape love on earth and we need the help of the Holy Spirit to do this.

4. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A HEALTHY MARRIAGE WITHOUT DEDICATING TIME TOGETHER JOEL: If you want to see an immediate improvement in your marriage relationship, it’s going to take carving out time to communicate and connect with each other.

Jordan Peterson talks about taking 90 minutes a week for a husband and wife to reconnect. By doing this you will maintain your relationship to the level it is right now.

But if your relationship is not healthy and you want to improve it, you are going to need to invest more. One way to kill your marriage is to starve it of time together. So many marriages are breaking down because of adultery because spouses aren’t spending time reconnecting with each other. They are spending more time with other people and their heart is being attached to those people rather than the one they have a lifelong commitment with.

SHARON: We live in such a fast paced world where we give our best to everything else, but often not to the relationships that matter the most. Maybe you’re at that point in your marriage where you don’t know how to reconnect because there’s hurt in that space and it has created a distance between the both of you. If that is the case then start with a few exercises like:

5. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN IRREPARABLE MARRIAGE JOEL: As long as both parties are willing to work on rebuilding there is no relationship too far gone that God cannot restore. If you both choose to make this work, He can make something beautiful come from the ashes that’s just the God that we serve.

Isaiah 61 says, 'The spirit is here to comfort all who mourn, to provide for those who grieve, to bestow a crown of beauty instead of ashes. He will give you an oil of joy instead of mourning and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.'

• Welcoming your spouse with joy when they come home.

He is a restorer of all things but it takes two people to say 'I am willing to lay my life down and work'. That might mean attending counselling, spending time rebuilding trust, changing your timetable, cutting off divisive relationships, investing money into the relationship and surrendering your lives fully to Christ. But if so, then God will do a miracle in your midst.

• Putting aside your phone when they talk and looking them in their eyes.

Getting your expectations right will reduce the disappointment you have to deal with in marriage.

• Asking them open ended questions about their day.

• Practice non-sexual contact to initiate connection.

Show your spouse that you are making an effort to connect.

Joel & Sharon Chelliah are the Senior Pastors of Centrepoint Church in Perth. Joel is a member of the ACC National Executive and WA State President.

23

The power of being a parent at a

Baton Change

BY KRISTY MILLS

Psalm 45:16 says, ‘...instead of your fathers shall be your sons.’

It is a clear statement that there comes a time in the life of every person and every leader where the gaze and focus of our attention must turn to the next generation.

Sons and daughters, rather than fathers and mothers. Generations exist together of course. But It’s a mark of maturity, a becoming, where we create a space for the next generation to rise and express their God-given destiny. Where we create walls of protection, not containment, for their flourishing. Where we create the environment for them to choose well in a new era.

Josiah rose to power as Israel’s king after 57 years of abject evil. His dad led the people astray and engaged in some of the most heinous forms of idolatry. His grandad continued the evil to a point where not even his own officials could stand him, dispatching him quickly in an assassination at the twoyear mark. Young Josiah chose a different path – which is curious. He only ever knew evil leadership models. He was very young when he ascended to the throne – eight years-of-age in fact. Yet he affected some of the most radical reforms in Israel’s history.

One might ask, where did the influence come from? Well, the answer is contained in one small, yet not coincidental scripture: 'His mother’s name was Jedidah, daughter of Adaiah; she was from Bozkath.' (2 Kings 22:1) His mother’s name was Jedidah, which means ‘beloved’. Right at the baton change, a beloved worshiper was positioned to influence the next generation. Right at the moment of transition, a mother took charge and engaged in the risky business of turning the tide on history and influencing a son destined for the throne. Of the son she influenced and the reformer he became, the scripture says: 'Neither before nor after Josiah was there a king like him who turned to the Lord as he did – with all his heart and with all his soul and with all his strength, in accordance with all the law of Moses.' (2 Kings 23:25) We are in the thick of a generational transition right now. Things are changing at a dizzying rate. The forces at work can seem overwhelming. Yet, the Spirit is moving and raising His ‘beloved’ at a baton change. Will you accept the invitation to courageously affect the outcome of a new era?

Kristy Mills is the Executive Pastor and Sutherland Shire Campus Pastor at Horizon Church..

24

25

INDIGENOUS

Who's Ya Mob? Australian Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander Kinship

BY SANDRA DUMAS

For Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people, Family or Kinship is a way of being. It’s how a person identifies themselves with Country (land, waterways and sky) and who they belong to.

Kinship is one of the five principles at the heart of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Culture and Community along with Land, Language, Law & Ceremony.

Kinship establishes where a person fits in their community and lays out their responsibilities to family and community and helps determine a person’s relationship to other people and country.

It can look differently across diverse communities. It’s how a person identifies themselves with Country (land, waterways, and sky) and who they belong to.

These five principles of Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander culture are so intertwined and are lived out or operate organically in connection with each other.

'Where are you from and who is your mob?'

You may have heard First Nations people ask other Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander people, “Where you from and who’s your mob?”

These are important questions because they demonstrate that kinship is a network of relationships and how they interconnect.

26

When First Nations people ask these questions, they can establish connections by blood lines, clan groups, Country or individuals. If a blood line connection can’t be made, there are other ways where kinship ties are created that are just as meaningful as family ties, eg kinship, care, adoption, etc.

When First Nations people talk about kinship, they’re referring to who they are by nation group, family and community/ies they have connection to. For example, I am a Bundjalung woman (which describes my nation) from the Coodjinburra clan (which describes my community) and my families are, etc.

Unlike family relations in Western Society, a key principle of kinship is that kinship responsibility is extended and is not just a nucellar family setup. For instance, a child will have many mothers and fathers. Therefore, if a woman was to have a child, her sisters are often considered to be the child’s mother as well and the same goes for a man and his brothers.

For more exploration on Reverend Uncle Graham Paulson’s question of what it means to be 'Authentically Aboriginal and Truly Christian' visit www.fivestones.org.au

Sandra Dumas and her husband William are the Senior Ministers of Ganggalah Ministry, and national leaders of the ACC Indigenous Initiative.

27

28

KIDS

3 ways

to build your Children's Ministry

BY ANDY KIRK

There are some simple adjustments that we can make in the area of Children's ministry that can bring massive change in future engagement and ultimately growth.

Here are three practical ways to build your Children’s Ministry through the Check-in process, Hang Time, and Connect Groups.

1. CHECK IN Of course we want to make the child check-in a secure and safe space, but the check-in process is more than just a function. This is an incredible opportunity to engage, connect and minister to all the families in your church.

We need to make every interaction count, even the small ones, as it is all relevant. i. Think Hotel Concierge Have you ever been checked into a hotel and awkwardly been standing there as the person behind the desk types away? Alternatively, have you experienced someone warmly greeting you and looking for ways to interact.

Check-in is more about engaging the parents and kids than just getting the children checked in.

Utilise Family Connect Group leaders or other team members that are not necessarily rostered on to Kids. This enables the right people to be engaging parents and the right people leading the program with the kids.

ii. Build an atmosphere that continues into the service Look through the eyes of that family walking towards you at Check-In. What do they see, hear and encounter?

Parents won’t ask you about your philosophy around curriculum, but they will notice and feel what type of atmosphere the Children’s Ministry is communicating.

Set up your Check-In area without cords everywhere.

Let families be greeted by a smiling face with a wellpresented team shirt with music playing to create an inviting space.

From time to time, consider theming the area to suit what’s inside but what you are mainly saying without speaking is that this place is safe, it’s fun and we are professional. iii. Practical Let's go a step further on how to make it an engaging experience. Here are a few suggestions: • Don’t sit behind the desk and close off space.

• Make sure you are prepared and ready to welcome families, rather than trying to log into a laptop and getting labels to work when people are lined up.

• Create atmosphere with music, balloons or something to add to space, smile and engage people.

This is a great role for people who have the gift of encouragement or exhortation as they naturally just want to see that people are welcomed.

• Make sure the Kids area is well staffed, so if needed, people can be walked to rooms and transitioned to the next step of engaging the families

Simply welcome them as they are walking up. Ask how their morning/evening is.

• Look at building an exclusive team that only does family Check-in. Family Connect Group leaders are a great way for wider church engagement.

Speak to the kids, high five them, and remember small aspects of their week or interests.

> 29

2. HANG TIME Why is Hang Time important you may ask? Hang Time is about making children feel welcome, connecting them with connect group leaders or simply making them feel at home. This is when we have the opportunity as leaders to connect with kids, to build those relationships and establish the tone of the service.

Hang Time is allocated at the beginning of the service, not just the pre-service time, when the rooms are open. If you think of it as the beginning of the service, it is a huge part of setting up the day for a win.

The atmosphere of the room starts with Hang Time and has impact right through the service. Get their attention early, set boundaries/expectations and create hooks for them to look forward to.

If your Hang Time is fun, safe, and inclusive, then kids know that this is a place that is enjoyable, safe, and everyone is included, whether they are new or been coming for years.

Being prepared for Hang Time is so important and it works when every team member is intentional in playing their part. i. The rhythm of of consistency Hang Time should have an identifiable rhythm, but not feel like same old program each week.

Consistency is so important for children who come each week because they feel safe, and are then ready to learn and open to the things of God. Creative doesn’t have to be different.

Behaviour management is really important but the children’s response will be a reflection of how prepared we are in establishing this space.

The biggest tool in behaviour management is a good runsheet. If Hang Time is boring, then the tone of your program can easily slip into this same pattern. ii. Speak the right language Learn to be bi-lingual. By that I mean speak the Love Languages of all the children. If you are speaking the wrong language to a child, you will run around in this time super busy but not affective.

During Hang Time learn how to: • Use words of affirmation ('Nice shirt').

• Physical Touch (High fives and hugs).

• Acts of service (Have them be a part of setting up).

• Reward those who love gifts with points or whatever your reward system is.

• For those who require time, sit and play a game.

30

Notice every individual child here, not just see a room or group of kids. iii. Pastoral Care Engage children as individuals and invite them to join a group activity.

Hang Time is when every child should be known and loved, so connect with them and have fun.

Set expectations for the day, by saying, “Hey guys, so this game is for everyone, so let’s all play and work together.

Cheer on the person next to you. Extra points for those showing teamwork and respect.” You can set expectations without boring kids with rules. Tell them what they can do and what we stand for, rather than all the things we don’t do.

While playing, be strategic and genuine with your conversation. You can find out if something special has happened that week and celebrate it in the Hang Time chat.

3. CONNECT GROUPS Children learn in circles, not rows, so the more we can engage and pastor kids in small groups the better. Design your program that doesn’t just add on Connect groups but rather it centres around them. You don’t have to get rid of BIG group games, worship and teaching but look for ways to aways integrate small groups into the program. i. Pastor the children, not just teach them Within the context of Connect groups, great relationships can be formed. You can utilise pastoral care in this space as you hear about their week or whats on their minds.

Often Connect group leaders sell themselves short but children learn in circles not rows so this part of a weekend service is crucial as you connect with the kids.

No matter how amazing your large group teacher may be, they are teaching to a LARGE group and they can’t have the relational impact that you can. Notice, Jesus amazed large crowds, but he poured his life into a small group called the disciples.

I Peter 5:2 tell us, “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them–not because you must, but because you are willing… eager to serve.” You are a shepherd to the kids in your small group! Wow. Think about what that means! It’s an important role that must be taken seriously.

difficulty with this. In those cases, it’s best to divide the group into half, even if it’s for a portion of the time. iii. Be Intentional Be intentional about choosing your words, actions and activities to accomplish your mission.

Using a small group guide, you know ahead of time what the one thing is that you are trying to drive home; it should be communicated through everything you say and do during your short time with the kids.

Whether it is a game with a point, looking up Bible verses, facilitating discussion questions, or doing an activity, constantly repeat the main point and illustrate it as many ways as you can.

When parents ask their kids, “What did you learn today?” the children should be quick with their answer because you repeated it so many times.

In summary, here are some BONUS practical ideas that will make you the most awesome small group leader ever!

• Learn your kids’ names.

• Ask them questions that get them talking about what interests them.

• Let them hear you pray for them – passionately!

• Use small gifts as a tangible expression of your love.

ii. Be Prepared

• Speak words of encouragement to them constantly.

Do you know what the lesson is about before you sit down? You need to be well prepared to continue the Big group lesson and help contextualise it into the Children’s world.

• Use your Bible – make it central to your time.

Here are a few things to consider as you prepare to lead your group this week.

• Don’t do all the talking. The best leaders facilitate conversations rather than dispensing information.

They strive to facilitate the conversation and keep it moving from member to member rather than talking to the members.

• Decide to be comfortable with silence. Embrace the 15 seconds of silence which seem to be like an eternity. Realise that through silence, the Holy Spirit is working.

• Be a good listener. Try to listen actively. James 1:19 says, “My dear brothers and sisters, always be willing to listen and slow to speak.” The point is to stop talking and listen instead. Great leaders listen with their eyes, ears, and heart.

• Involve everyone. If everyone isn’t comfortable sharing their thoughts, your group size might be too big. Groups of over eight members often experience

• Be funny, but be sincere.

• Send post cards in the mail.

• Bring cool show-and-tell items that relate to your lesson. (Be visual.)

• Learn pocket magic tricks, riddles, jokes and other things kids think are cool.

• Show them you care by the way you talk, pray and ask questions.

• Surprise them with unexpected treats.

• Master a skill that will impress only kids (an amazing paper airplane, yo-yo, etc.).

• Have your own funny things you do that no one else does.

These practical steps can be shared with your Kids Ministry Team. This is just some of the content taught in our monthly ACCkids Coaching Program. Register today for monthly ZOO calls, training and resources.

Andy Kirk is the National director of ACCKids.

31

YOUTH

Sex, Sexting, Pornography & Consent The Conversations Teens Are Desperate For

BY DAVID & KATIE KOBLER I recently had a powerful conversation with a young student. The first thing she wanted me to know was that she was a Christian.

“I love God. My faith is the most important thing to me.”

She shared how she was heavily involved in church life, as were her parents. She talked about her family, her faith and her values. Her passion for Jesus was evident in every word.

After a few minutes, she began to share about her boyfriend, who was also a Christian. Not only did he love and honor God, but he loved and honored her.

“We really want to put God first. It’s the most important thing to us.”

I often find myself talking to young people who are desperately wanting conversations around sex and relationships with a trusted person in their world. I was so grateful for this timely reminder of the key role that church communities can play in engaging in these discussions.

It’s important for us to acknowledge that content and information on sex, sexting, pornography and consent isn’t lacking.

Young people today can be exposed to a world of information on these topics. In a matter of seconds, teenagers can access social media, pop culture and online pornography, finding themselves bombarded by a range of beliefs and perspectives. Many of these are not only contrary to Christian values, but can be problematic and dangerous.

As she continued, it was clear that something was troubling her.

Now more than ever, the Church has an opportunity to intercept these conversations from an ethical, biblical and spiritual perspective. Youth ministries are uniquely positioned to teach young people how to keep Jesus at the center, whilst still acknowledging the research, the laws and the science. If communities of faith can lead this conversation through the lens of Christ, we believe young Christians will feel equipped to navigate the pressures with greater confidence.

“Everything is going really well. We want to do the right thing. But… it’s not exactly easy. Our relationship looks so different to other couples. It feels like most of them are already having sex or sending nudes and think it’s crazy that we’re not.

TeenFreedom is a resource designed to equip youth ministries to facilitate discussions that young people are so desperately needing. We believe that conversations today can change lives forever. Now is the time for the church to lead the young people in Australia to freedom in Christ.

I felt such pride for this girl and prayed a silent prayer that one day my own children would find themselves in a relationship like this with God at the center.

Sometimes I have moments where I think… maybe I should just be like everybody else.”

She paused; clearly feeling the tension between what she truly wanted & the pressure around her. She took a deep breath and added…

“Sometimes I think how nice it would be to be able to talk to my parents about this stuff. I just feel like I’m dealing with this pressure completely alone.”

32

This kind of conversation is not uncommon.

'Our youth have just worked through TeenFreedom and it has been powerful. Young people have been able to receive prayer and have expressed deep gratitude that we would openly talk to them about these topics. I am so very grateful for all the work done to produce such an invaluable tool for our churches, and for the commitment and finance from the National Executive team for investing into this.' – Allyson Parker, Generations Pastor, InChurch

Katie & David Kobler are the Directors of Your Choicez, creators of the TeenFreedom resources. www.teenfreedom.com.au

CHRIST-CENTRED + SCIENCE-BASED + RESEARCH-DRIVEN + BIBLE-FOCUSED

A RESOURCE FOR YOUTH MINISTRIES ARE THE YOUNG PEOPLE IN YOUR YOUTH MINISTRY STRUGGLING WITH PORNOGRAPHY? DO THEY HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT CONSENT? ARE THEY EQUIPPED TO NAVIGATE THE SOCIETAL PRESSURE AND NORMALISATION OF SEXTING? ARE THEY STRUGGLING TO LIVE A LIFE OF PURITY IN A HYPER-SEXUALISED SOCIETY?

N N TIO ER TECES EADS SSIO NG ENT O L I U R G C P A T T & OK DIS NS LD ELIN ENGO CON UPUESTIO DENORKBO CHI GUID O U E R T D S W G Q VI

CAN BE USED IN MID-WEEK BIBLE STUDY GROUPS OR AT YOUTH ON FRIDAY NIGHT!

ABOUT YOUR CHOICEZ HAVE SPOKEN TO OVER 300,000 YOUNG PEOPLE ACROSS AUSTRALIA & NZ OVER THE PAST DECADE PASSIONATE ABOUT EMPOWERING THE NEXT GENERATION OF YOUNG PEOPLE

EMPOWER YOUR YOUTH MINISTRY TODAY! visit www.teenfreedom.com.au CREATED BY

+

33

YOUNG ADULTS

Uni Summit

for young adult ministries The university years represent a critical phase in a young person's life, shaping their worldview and identity. It is so important during these transitional years into early adulthood, that uni students have positive peer influences and consistent discipleship which helps them stay true to their values and discover their inherent worth.

The Uni Summit is a gathering of senior pastors, young adults, and their teams together from across Australia for 48 hours of inspiration, connection and strategy to supercharge their university outreach programs.

Bringing together the strategy of Red Frogs and the experience of leaders who’ve built effective university programs, the Uni Summit is designed to help local churches strengthen their connection and influence with university campuses, colleges, and private student accommodation, and build thriving communities and lasting transformation in the lives of young people.

More info: www.unisummit.com.au

34

From the streets to loving families SEPHEO MODEL OF FAMILIES FOR STREET CHILDREN

In the decade since Josh and Belinda Groves founded Sepheo, children living on the streets of Maseru, Lesotho’s capital, have all but disappeared. Unlike traditional interventions, however, they won’t be found in hostels, shelters or orphanages. Sepheo’s unique model is one of the first in the world to successfully transition children directly from the streets into families – and keep them there.

Today, former street-connected children are in high school, working regular jobs or starting families of their own.

'When we began in 2012, one of our earliest realisations was that every child we met on the streets came from a family,' Belinda says. Often, these families had long histories of generational trauma, conflict and neglect that made them unsafe spaces for children. Instead of building facilities, Sepheo decided to direct its resources to helping families

heal. 'Sepheo’s social workers are experts at getting to the root of problems within the home,” Josh explains. “When carers learn new ways to solve conflicts, improve basic parenting and work through trauma, children receive the greatest gift possible: the chance to stay together.'

Despite Sepheo’s best effort, there are times when families are too unsafe or parents are unwilling to cooperate in the process. Here, Sepheo works within extended family networks to find safe homes for children amongst their aunts, uncles and grandparents. 'Basotho culture is incredibly tight knit,' Josh explains. 'Being cared for by extended family is a normal part of growing up, even with both parents alive.'

Belinda agrees, 'It is extremely rare to meet a child with no extended family willing to raise them. When this does happen, Sepheo has

trained volunteers who step up to ensure children can remain in their communities.'

As time on the streets can make it difficult for children to adjust to life in communities, Sepheo offers a tailored primary school alongside family supports to help children make this transition. 'Children come to us having been socialised for survival on the streets,' says Belinda. 'At Sepheo School, they are helped to process their trauma, re-learn community expectations and catch up on years of missed education.'

Although reintegrating children into families is anything but simple, the effort bears long-term results. “We know it works because years later, you’ll still find the same child still in the village,' Josh says. 'They become indistinguishable from other children; well and truly leaving their past behind.”'

More info: acci.org.au 35

MISSIONS

Project Christmas Bring the Christmas spirit to the nations ACCI is inviting churches to get involved with Project Christmas – a unique way to support missions work that aligns with your church’s heart, while encouraging a spirit of generosity this Christmas.

Your church simply chooses a category you’d like to support, then take up an offering in the lead-up to Christmas, and we’ll distribute it to people and projects working in that area.

PROJECT CATEGORIES • Support children and families: Help projects that are educating children and supporting families to thrive.

• Empower communities: Partner with projects that are teaching life skills and helping communities to improve their livelihoods.

• Minister to unreached people: Support field workers to share the gospel in difficult contexts and with people who’ve never heard about Jesus before.

• Support refugees and internally displaced people. Help field workers provide practical support to people who’ve lost their homes due to conflict or disaster.

Make Project Christmas a part of your church’s celebrations this year. Visit acci. org.au for more information, including promotional resources.

Sharing the joy of Christmas THERIVER.ASIA, THAILAND Christmas is a special time for TheRiver.Asia team and the communities they minister to throughout Thailand. The team hosts celebrations at each of its five locations and also lights up a towering Christmas tree in Chiang Mai. These outreach celebrations help share joy and hope, while creating opportunities for people in this largely Buddhist country to learn the true meaning of the season.

Mariaana Klar, who leads TheRiver.Asia with her husband Erik, says the events are well-attended (and looked forward to) by local people, who enjoy the Christmas songs, short dramas and games. Woven throughout each event is a Gospel message. Afterwards, the team will have opportunities to speak one-on-one and introduce people to the journey of knowing Christ.

'Life here is pretty tough for most people,' Mariaana reflects. 'We want to bring hope and tell them there is a future for those who put their faith in God. That is what Christmas is about!'

Mariaana says the events are a continuation of the work the team does year-round – walking alongside people in the community and showing them the love of Jesus in action.

'We do a lot of home visitation throughout the year; when December comes, nothing changes. We’re still running kids’ clubs and youth clubs; visiting the elderly, people with disabilities, business people. We’re on a journey with them. We can’t always say directly, ‘I’m a Christian’ but we show people love and they begin to see that we are different.'

The care TheRiver.Asia team provides throughout the year not only creates a foundation for community interest and participation in their events, but also leads to some unique and special opportunities for ministry.

'Come Christmas season, we can be invited into places that normally the Gospel would never be preached,' says Mariaana. 'For instance, we’ve been invited to do kids’ programs in different religious settings normally inaccessible to Christ-followers.

'And last Christmas, a bar owner in the red-light district asked us to do a celebration in front of his bar, and we shared a message of love with the bar girls, their employers, and their customers.

'Wherever we go, we carry an atmosphere of God’s love and presence in us!'

36

37

WorlD RELIEF

Inflation’s Impact on Families

BY CATHERINE THAMBIRATNAM Everyone is talking about the rising cost of living: the impact of increased interest rates, mortgage payments, grocery bills and the seemingly never-ending spiral of inflation. The greatest impact is felt on families, both in Australia and across the globe.

Pressure on Australians Food inflation in Australia is at 8%, which means that those for whom food is a larger percentage of their budget suffer the most – those on Jobseeker, single parents, students and pensioners, people who struggle to cover the basic necessities of life. However despite all of these pressures, we are lucky to live in a country where not only do we have a government safety net to help protect people, but as a nation only 10% of our consumer expenditure is spent on food (groceries) consumed at home.

In fact, only seven countries in the world spend 10% or less of consumer expenditure on food; and although there are obvious inequalities within those countries, on the whole we are well equipped to handle inflationary pressures on food and other items compared to the other 190 or so other countries around the world.

Global hunger In Kenya, 56.1% of consumer expenditure is on groceries.

So, if the price increases even 1%, that can send millions of people into further food insecurity. Kenyan food inflation has been over 10% every month for a year. This means more people are either cutting back on other essential expenses like sending their kids to school or they are eating less food which has knock on effects on child malnutrition among other serious problems. To cap all of this off there has been a drought in the horn of Africa which has affected Kenya dramatically.

I met farmers in Kenya in April that hadn’t been able to bring in a normal crop for more than three seasons. And it’s not just Kenya. This story is playing out across the world in countries from Afghanistan, Syria, Venezuala, Yemen, Sudan, Ethiopia and Somalia not to mention Sri Lanka.

These families can’t wait for a government hand out, they 38

can’t wait for the interest rates to drop, they need support now. They need us to do what Matthew 25 tells us to do: “For I was hungry and you fed me” (The Message).

In the face of all thes challenges, I met a family in Kenya this year who had just taken in two additional teenagers as foster children to ensure they had a safe home. They had just brought a box of produce from their garden to the community centre to share with people that had less than them. There are incredible families just like this one all over the world, who are stepping up and sharing what little they have with others. Surely, we can do likewise.

What we can do There is absolutely a need for us - as churches and as Christians - to talk about the rising cost of living and its impact on the most vulnerable in Australia but there is also a need for us as churches to be talking about the dire needs of people across the world who are suffering in the same way. We said about COVID that we were all in the same boat but that was not true. We were all facing the same storm but some of us lived in countries that were more like an ocean liner and some were hanging onto a raft. It’s the same situation today. As churches, we should be reaching our communities with support and helping those who are struggling, but that must be in addition to reaching out to those communities around the world doing it the toughest.

Let’s not be people who are so focused on our own needs and problems that we have blinkers on to the rest of the world. Let’s be the Church. Let’s remember we serve a God who fed 5,000 with five small loaves and two fish.

And let’s be like the family I met in Kenya and share what little we have with those who are hungry today.

‘I’m telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me—you did it to me.’ (The Message)

Catherine Thambiratnam is Head of International Programs ACCI Relief

39

COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT

Helping Families in your Community

BY PAUL BARTLETT There are so many pressures on families today and as pastors and leaders, we sometimes struggle to work out how we can help particularly when we feel stretched in our own churches.

Our role in Community Engagement is to continually look for ways in which our ACC churches can be involved in transforming people through the local church. I had the pleasure recently of spending time with a well established and proven Community organisation that is now starting to partner with churches in Australia.

This organisation will train people in your church at no cost to you and walk alongside each person to ensure success, the great news is your church will reap the benefits!

Safe Families for Children hosts vulnerable children and creates extended family-like supports for desperate families through a community of compassionate volunteers to keep children safe and ultimately together with their families.

Founded in Chicago in 2003, Safe Families for Children (SFFC) is a multi-site volunteer movement that gives hope and support to families in distress. SFFC reframes how families are supported during a crisis. Parents voluntarily place their children in safe, loving homes where they are cared for while (average of six weeks) while other volunteers wrap around and support the parent to help them get back on their feet and restore stability in their lives. SFFC is dedicated to family support, stabilisation and, most importantly, child abuse prevention.

Overview: When under-resourced families face personal or financial crises such as domestic violence, substance abuse, unemployment, or homelessness, children are impacted. Without support, these crises can spiral and seriously undermine the parent’s ability to meet their child’s needs, leading to the risk of abuse and neglect. Historically, extended family members, friends or neighbours provided help for children whose parents were dealing with parenting stress, mental or physical illness, substance abuse, or homelessness. But today, an alarming number of parents are socially isolated and lack external family support, often compounding problems, feelings of desperation, and the likelihood of child neglect or abuse and the need for foster care placement.

Safe Families expands the community safety net by providing parents in need – on their own or at the recommendation of a case worker – a loving sanctuary where they can safely place their children in times of crisis and caring 'neighbours (family friends)' to help them get on their feet. Host Families, prompted solely by compassion, are screened, trained and serve without compensation. Safe Families supports parents and prevents child abuse and the need for foster care. It directly addresses the most prominent cause of child abuse, social isolation.

We are looking for some pilot churches in each state who would be willing to engage in this ministry to see families and particularly children flourish. If you’d like to be involved, please email communityengagement@acc.org.au Let’s work together to make a difference!

Paul Bartlett is the National leader of ACC Community Engagement. acccommunityengagement.org.au

40

WHAT WE

Do

Values

Our mission is to host children and support families who have nowhere to turn when facing unmanageable circumstances. SFFC is motivated by faith to keep children safe and families together by providing a network of support while parents get back on their feet. The goal is to prevent children from unnecessarily entering the foster care system.

WHO WE

Serve

We build social support systems around families experiencing: Medical Emergencies Unemployment Domestic violence Homelessness Alcohol/drug rehabilitation Many other concerns

SAFE FAMILIES FOR CHILDREN PROVIDES A SECURE CIRCLE OF SUPPORT FOR PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN WHO ARE FACING A CRISIS IN ISOLATION.

INFO@SAFEFAMILIES.NET

SAFE-FAMILIES.ORG

41

42

CHAPLAINCY

How Families Can Flourish

BY RALPH ESTHERBY 'Family’ has become an immensely challenging thing to define. Families come in all forms and can range from being one of the greatest sources of support and care an individual can have, through to being a huge source of pain, disfunction and disappointment a person can carry.

Our opportunity to support families in all their forms is one of the biggest challenges churches, pastors and chaplains can face. Unless we are intentional, wise and agile we will tend to miss the boat in this area.

What do families need to flourish?

To think of a family as a garden is a useful metaphor. A place where people can be planted and find a life of fruitfulness. To achieve this, we need three things: Good Soil, Good Nourishment, Effective Tending

> Good Soil Jesus spoke plainly about the good soil in Luke 8:8. Families need to be that good soil. Soil that is not polluted nor contaminated, soil that has been set aside for important purpose rather than being considered as a piece of wasteland where nothing good can break through and no potential can be realised. As leaders, we have the opportunity to speak into the development and cultivation of the good soil of families. We have to be both intentional and aspirational. I have heard it said that there is no such thing as a ‘fully functional family’ and I believe that on one level all of us know ‘disfunction’ but we need to set our eyes on the goal of helping families set themselves up for success by dwelling on good soil. > Good Nourishment No plant can flourish without nourishment and families are no exception. What is watering our families and what are we calling on as food? Families need support in providing a balanced diet that is going to lead to effective and healthy outcomes for every member. Obviously we point them to the spiritual disciplines of relationship with Christ, Prayer, the Word and Worship but potentially there is more we should discuss and champion. Are they building cohesion, are they navigating issues, are they effective in their communication? Are questions allowed or is any variation squashed? Practical assistance and clear direction need to be provided because, as you already know, common sense is not to be that common! > Effective Tending No garden looks good when left on its own. Often people approach their families with a sort of ‘set and forget’ model. They may start strong with their first child but by the third, ‘all bets are off’ . People are lacking the skills required to tend to their family’s need and so they are craving the encouragement, strategies and training to do so. It is a huge opportunity to provide for felt needs but it is more than just providing a ‘now’ solution. If we teach and equip them to tend their own garden then they will grow progressively fruitful as they navigate the complex changes which are inevitably ahead.

Raising a family has never been easy but there are unique challenges which are new and complex to navigate. The Lord chose each one of you for such a time as this. Let’s take the opportunity to not only ensure that our families flourish but that all who are under our care develop and maintain the most effective family life available.

Ralph Estherby is the National Director of Chaplaincy Australia.

43

One chair can change a life.

100% of Alloyfold’s profits are invested into their ministry to help people make a fresh start the heart of the Gospel.

Alloyfold’s organisation is a ministry of Riccarton Community Church, and the gospel of Christ is central to their mission.

100% of Alloyfold’s profits are owned by Pathway Charitable Group, who provides prisoner reintegration services, affordable housing, drug and alcohol rehab and employment for those with barriers.

Over the past 25 years Alloyfold has made an impact on thousands of lives, creating stable futures and preventing the negative cycles of reoffending that are so common.

They have also joined with churches across Australia to provide amazing seating solutions. Replacing old pews with comfortable loose seating, or helping to create inspiring auditorium-style spaces of worship is Alloyfold’s bread and butter.

And each project has helped Alloyfold fund their mission.

So when they say “One chair can change a life”, they really mean it. You can learn more about Alloyfold and their mission online at: alloyfold.com.au

Viva Seat

Church Chair

Round 180 Table

XL180 Trestle Table

Our range of customisable church chairs online, with linking, stacking and auditorium options available: 44

www.alloyfold.com.au

sales@alloyfold.com

1 800 287 025

Nova Chair

LEGISLATION

Religious Freedom at the Crossroads

BY MARK EDWARDS Recently, at a consultation with lawyers about legislation to ban Conversion Practices in NSW, the representative of a leading advocacy organisation argued that the law should criminalise sermons that reflect traditional religious views on same-sex activity because hearing them is ‘psychological torture’. That representative was opposed to all religious exemptions.

The Guardian newspaper (22 August 2023) reported an unnamed woman was ‘shocked’ that the Catholic run Mercy Hospital for Women in Victoria, if complications arose in her pregnancy ‘would not assist in terminating a pregnancy due to its Catholic affiliation’.

Can these two examples represent the majority of public opinion in relation to religious freedom in our nation? I’m not sure to be honest, it could be a ‘long bow’ to draw. I am sure those comments do represent some public opinion. Therefore, am I crying ‘wolf’ to suggest that religious freedom is at the crossroads?

When did Article 18(1) of the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights which says, “Everyone shall have the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion. This right shall include freedom …. either individually or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest (one’s) religion or belief in worship, observance, practice and teaching” become a mere suggestion?

Australia is a party to this core international agreement. Surely a claim that communicating a core precept of the Christian religion is ‘psychological torture’ and should be prosecuted, is profoundly alarming.

Am I wrong to think that being ‘shocked’ that a Catholic Hospital would promote Catholic values, such values being unchanged for generations, is hard to fathom or understand?

None of us can afford to place our ‘head in the sand’. In changing times, public sentiment on the importance of religious freedom is now at its lowest ebb.

Yet despite this, human rights such as religious freedom must never be held captive to public opinion or the whim of a government. Religious freedom is an inalienable right and any healthy society is characterised by an individual’s freedom to manifest their religion or not manifest any religion at all.

Please continue to pray for the many representations that are currently being made, on your behalf, to State and Federal governments to enact legislation that reflect International Covenants.

Mark Edwards is the chairperson of the Freedom for Faith Board of Reference, and appointed by the National Executive as the ACC representative.

45

TECHNOLOGY

AI in Churches

Three Lessons For Church Leaders

BY BRETT RANDALL

Earlier this year, a US lawyer captured the world’s attention when he used ChatGPT to put together an argument for his case. The judge requested more information since the precedents referred to in the case were foreign to him. The lawyer assured the judge that everything he presented was true and accurate – after all, ChatGPT had told him so! Sadly, it turned out that AI had 'hallucinated' the precedents for his argument, leaving this lawyer’s reputation in tatters. This provides us with three key lessons for church leaders when it comes to using Artificial Intelligence (AI).

KNOWLEDGE-RELATED TASKS

CREATIVITY AND EFFECTIVENESS

AI can absolutely be used to expedite the writing process.

However, research is not ChatGPT’s strong point. Imagine writing the structure for a sermon or a blog post and asking AI to fill the gaps. It starts quoting scripture and other texts, making assertions that sound reasonable but, on deeper inspection, lack theological rigour and exhibit cultural biases. Some of the quotes end up being fictional, from non-existent translations and books! What would the impact be if that message were released to an audience?

The most valuable asset in any church is its people – individuals desiring genuine, human connection.

Connections take time, but time is finite. Used effectively, AI can help us reclaim valuable hours. In the blink of an eye, it can generate new ideas, devise novel frameworks, and create remarkable visuals. However, it’s essential that we use AI strategically.

>Takeaway 1: AI can be a massive help when we need assistance writing. However, we should see AI as our co-pilot – an assistant rather than an authority. We need to be explicit in our instructions and have a solid understanding of the subject matter, so we can critically assess and refine its output.

>Takeaway 3: AI can augment our creativity and increase our effectiveness. However, we must educate ourselves and our teams on its risks and benefits and engage with experts who understand how it works, what it’s doing, and where it can deliver tangible, beneficial outcomes.

NEXT STEPS FOR CHURCH LEADERS 1. Education. Learn about safe and effective AI usage.

PRIVACY-RELATED TASKS

2. Experiment. Each week, try something new!

Consider an email from a church member that needs a quick reply. We can have a fantastic written response in seconds by pasting it into an AI tool with a summary of what we need. However, that private information we were privy to... Is it now being read by people behindthe-scenes to fine-tune the AI? Or, worse yet, is that information now part of the model so that one day it will appear as the answer to someone else’s question?

3. Expertise. Seek informed people to help you on the journey.

>Takeaway 2: AI models are still learning. Right now, some of the T&Cs and ethics are a little grey. Without a doubt, AI can write fantastic emails and save us time.

However, we must de-identify any personal information we submit and assume that someone else may read our prompts.

46

AI is rapidly reshaping our landscape. By embracing it with a balance of optimism and caution, we’ll be able to amplify our teams’ and our own capabilities to accomplish more than we ever could before.

Brett Randall is a technology strategist and consultant. For more information www.brettrandall.com.au

47

GOVERNANCE

New Information Disclosures For Charities Commission

BY GRAEME KIRKWOOD In recent months, the ACNC advised there is new information to be collected and reported as part of the Annual Information Statement (AIS) for the 2023 year onwards, for the majority of Charities.

This means that when you report your AIS 2023 the via the ACNC portal (usually due date is six months after the end of your financial year) you must include this new information.

It is mandatory, not voluntary. So that means if your year end was 30th June 2023, then you need to backtrack records to the beginning of that 2023 financial year. (i.e 1 July 2022).

What new information do we need to keep and submit in the AIS.?

Information about transactions or relationships between related parties to the Board and Senior management. In the interests of transparency to the members, contributors and public (our congregations) we now need to disclose information that demonstrates that we are dealing with related party transactions appropriately, transparently, and that they are in the best interest of the charity.

Differing levels of disclosure apply to small, , medium and large charities. The details can be found on the ACNC website – type in ACNC Related Party transactions into your browser and it will direct you to the ACNC page.

Who is a related party?

In summary a related party is deemed to be someone that is connected to the charity and has significant influence over the Charity.

So, we are talking about conflicted or 48

beneficial interests from someone’s influence, role or someone related to them. The person must be able to exert significant or potential influence over the Churches strategic and financial decisions. It also includes organisations that have the ability to control the Charity such as Care Arms controlled by the Church.

In our churches it includes

member, to help out a short term cash flow deficient.

• The Pastor goes guarantor over a church loan.

• A senior staff members spouse, rents part of the building for their counselling practice.

• Salary / wages paid to a family member of the Pastor, Board member or Senior managers.

•

Responsible Persons (as per ACNC register) and their close family members

•

Senior Management and their close family members.

•

Small gifts of appreciation to the Pastor, Board or senior staff.

•

Other individuals and organisations who can influence the Charities decision making.

•

Donations received from Related Parties. (tithes and offerings)

•

A related party purchasing resources from the Church bookstore.

•

Reimbursements of expenses to volunteers who are related to a Pastor, Board cember or Senior management.

This means that any transactions with a person who is a close family member of your Board, your Senior Pastors and Executive will need to be listed.

What is a related party transaction?

It is described as a transfer of resources, services, or obligations between related parties, and it does not have to include financial payment. Commonly includes things like purchases, sales or donations of product, supplies or equipment, leases, loans, guarantees, providing employees, contractors or professional services.

Here are some common examples that will require disclosure.

• A Board member owns a commercial building that the church rents for church Services.

• The church borrows money or lends money to the Pastor, Board Member or senior staff

What is not a related Party Transaction

It is important that your treasurer reads the information on the ACNC register as soon as possible, and for those churches with external Auditors, you make contact with them to discuss this further. It may require some time to decide who is Senior management in the church and who is not.

Graeme Kirkwood is the founder and director of Global Church Solutions www.globalchurchsolutions.com

49

MEDIA

Staying calm in the storm How your church can respond well in a public crisis

BY ANDREW MARCH What would you do if you answered the phone to a hostile journalist, or got a ping on your social media with a serious allegation about your church?

Hopefully it’s never happened to you or the church you belong to – but the chances are, it will.

Whether it’s a small regional church dealing with a disgruntled member who has turned to social media to make their complaint or a global church under media scrutiny, facing a contest to your personal reputation or the reputation of your church is challenging for anyone to deal with.

Bad news sells. Tragically, churches can too often be a source of bad news, with stories of scandals, abuse or culture wars a devastating reality today. If a negative story about your church is published by the media or shared online, it can be seen by potentially thousands or millions of people, causing great damage.

It’s usually a very distressing experience both for the church leaders and for their congregations. Not only that, but when the media run a critical story about your church, it can cause significant damage to your reputation and your mission in the community you serve. Once public trust is lost, it’s hard to win back and can be very damaging to your relationships and your ability to reach people.

The instinct to protect ourselves and our witness can mean we act and respond to a crisis in a way that can hurt people in the process. It’s easy to respond out of fear or anger, but a wise, considered response to a crisis can actually be an opportunity to actively demonstrate your Christian values when the world’s attention is focused on you.

Being prepared can make all the difference to how well you respond.

Is your church ‘crisis ready’?

As more and more churches face different types of crises, Jersey Road PR is offering their online Crisis Communications course as a free resource to help church leaders do all they can to prevent a crisis in their church and be ready to respond well if one does hit, using Biblical principles of justice and integrity, grace and truth.

50

In the course, we examine some of the most common PR crisis stories that churches face – from the horrors of child abuse revelations to criticism involving clashes with the prevailing culture – and give guidance to help church leaders act and prepare them for how to respond in a healthy way.

We explore how church leaders can show accountability, humility and take action to repair the damage when the allegations turn out to be true – and how they can speak truth graciously in cases where they are being unfairly targeted or facing criticism for their faith.

Of course, the best PR crisis is one which never happens at all – so our crisis course not only explains how to respond if you are caught in a crisis, but also helps you identify where you might be at risk of a crisis and how you can take action to prevent it from happening.

The course takes your leadership team through an audit, giving you the chance to take a step back and assess the health of your church so that you can spot areas where you might be at risk and take steps now to prevent any issues or concerns from turning into a crisis.

As church leaders have a lot of demands on their time, the course is designed to be as flexible as possible, with 90 minutes of bite-sized videos to watch along with a workbook to help you apply the knowledge to your own church.

Responding well in a crisis matters - because our message matters. The message that Jesus offers salvation, hope and purpose is the most important message there is and one that needs protecting.

FREE ONLINE CRISIS COMMUNICATIONS COURSE by Jersey Road PR. Watch the course promo video. To access the free online course, visit confidentchurch.com and head to the resources page.

Andrew Marsh is the Regional Director of Jersey Road PR Australia, an agency which specialises in supporting churches and Christian organisations, for the crisis situations they may face. More information: www.jerseyroadpr.com

51

52

RESOURCES

Faith in the Home Andy Kirk, national leader of ACCKids, is passionate about equipping and resourcing parents in our church congregations. He sees this as an integral part of Kids Ministry in local churches today.

Andy cites research on Gen Z, where 32% of pre teens in Australia identified as Christian. However, when six specific marker points are added (including personal relationship, believing the Bible, prayer and bible reaidng at least weekly) it is reduced to only 3%.

'This staggering statistic shows the difference between nominal and committed Christians and highlights the importance of scripture,' says Andy. 'Further research from OneHope shows how reading the Bible makes a difference. Christians who engaged with scripture at least weekly were much less likely to be dealing with loneliness, high anxiety, or depression.

Local churches only have approximately two hours on Sundays that they can speak into the lives of families. Faith and growth is greatly impacted by what happens at home.

PARENTING RESOURCES FOR YOUR CHURCH Two great resources for famlies are available to all local churches to help equip parents. Family devotions is an effective way to helps build faith in the younger generations.

THE BITE SIZE BIBLE The Bite Size Bible is designed for all families, with short 'bite-sized' devotions and each featuring a QR code to access a devotion video.

The booklet consists of five sets of devotions, each exploring the Bible in a concise and manageable manner.

Additionally, it provides conversation starters for parents to facilitate meaningful discussions within the family.

To download printable booklets for your church families, go to thebitesizebible.com The online version is also available. More information: acckids.org.au

BORN TO BE AMAZING FAMILY DEVOTIONAL

By Jemima Varughese In a world where the enemy lies to children about their identity, it's becoming more crucial than ever that our children grow up knowing the truth who God made them to be.

HOT OFF THE PRE SS

Inspired by an encounter with the Holy Spirit, Jemima's devotions guide the whole family through foundational truths to establish God's belief systems.

It's time to build a generation that knows they were born with the identity of Christ.

To order: kingdomcity.com

53

New Releases

HELP YOUR CHILD CLEAN UP THEIR MENTAL MESS

A Guide to Building Resilience and Managing Mental Health

by Dr Caroline Leaf

Increasingly, children ages 3-10 are struggling with anxiety, depression, and mental health challenges. These can be brought on by many factors – stress at home, upheavals in society, breaks in routine, isolation from friends, bullying or social pressure. If left unaddressed, they follow kids into their teens and adulthood, causing mental, emotional, and relational problems that will steal their peace and joy.

But there is hope. Bestselling author Dr. Caroline Leaf latest release is based on up-to-date research, clearly illustrated with case studies, and practically applied to the problems kids are facing today. How to Help Your Child Clean Up Their Mental Mess includes a clear and effective fivestep plan to teach your child how to manage their mind so they can live a life with greater resilience, health, and happiness.

Click here to order

54

THE GENDER REVOLUTION

KILL THE SECOND MAN

A Biblical, Biological and Compassionate Response

by Armando Tocci

by Patricia Weerakoon, Robert M Smith, Kamal Weerakoon

Kill the Second Man by ACC pastor, Armando Tocci, is far from your ordinary autobiography.

No topic has generated as much heat in our culture wars, or as much pain and confusion in the lives of the real people affected, as our society’s transgender revolution.

Many Christians prefer to avoid issues of sex and gender altogether. If we’re not prepared in advance to show care and compassion to people questioning their gender identity or declaring a new one, we are unlikely to do it well.

The Gender Revolution offers a much-needed blend of clarity, conviction and compassion.

It provides a road map for Christians wishing to engage with their neighbours and a pathway to freedom and hope for those grappling with these issues on a personal level.

Click here to order

Join the author on a gripping voyage through the twists and turns of his remarkable life, filled with gripping personal anecdotes and profound insights.

Delve into the intricate tapestry of spiritual growth and personal development as the author fearlessly bares his soul with unwavering humility, vulnerability, and authenticity. It's an invitation to break free from the chains of mediocrity and embark on a path of true enlightenment.

Through mesmerising storytelling and practical advice, Armando shares the keys to conquering personal limitations and unlocking your true potential.

This transformative journey is a must-read for those who crave a deeper understanding of themselves and a burning desire to achieve greatness.

Click here to order

GOD NEVER GIVES UP ON YOU

ANCIENT STORY MODERN WISDOM

What Jacob's Story Teaches Us About Grace, Mercy, and God's Relentless Love

Queen Esther's Lessons For Success in Life, Love and Leadership

by Max Lucado

by Kris Thornton

Ever wonder if you’ve had one too many stumbles for God to use someone like you? If you could benefit from a tale of God’s unending, unbending, unswerving love and devotion, Max Lucado's new release is about how God’s grace will transform your life.

ACC Pastor Kris Thornton takes a deep dive into the life and story of Queen Esther, revealing principles and applications for those who want to create success in their life, love and leadership journey.

We can always use a refresher course on God’s perfect plan to use imperfect people to do great things. No one is more suited to the task than Jacob. He was less a prodigy and more a prodigal. Strong on savvy.

Low on conscience. Jacob took advantage of his famished brother and pulled the wool over the eyes of his dying father, yet God never turned his back on Jacob.

This ancient Queen's story of leading through adversity gives us modern insights and practical wisdom that can be applied to our life, love and leadership today.

In this real-life version of The Bachelor, this book unpacks the story and equips us to lead and succeed against impossible odds.

Esther needs to find out who she can trust and how to navigate the complexity of the unfolding crisis.

JESUS REVOLUTION DVD

Based on a true story

In the 1970s, young Greg Laurie (Joel Courtney) is searching for all the right things in all the wrong places: until he meets Lonnie Frisbee (Jonathan Roumie), a charismatic hippie-streetpreacher.

Together with Pastor Chuck Smith (Kelsey Grammer), they open the doors of Smith's languishing church to an unexpected revival of radical and newfound love, leading, leading to what TIME magazine dubbed a "Jesus Revolution."

Running time: 2 hours

Jacob’s story invites us to believe in a God who sticks beside the unworthy and underachievers and leads us safely home. If God can use Jacob to further his kingdom, He can use us too.

Click here to order

Click here to order

Click here to order

55

Every church leader has a bookshelf to a library within them! – Matt Bird

56

Is it time to write your first book?

BY MATT BIRD ‘Everyone has a book in them’. If you believe this, then church leaders have anything from a bookshelf to a library within them.

Besides God inviting us to and jogging our forgetful memories, there are many other reasons for writing books.

There are few people who are such prolific content generators as those who prepare to stand at the pulpit and speak to a congregations every Sunday.

As an expression of a leader’s ongoing commitment to personal development, it is often said, ‘leaders read’. I would also add that ‘leaders of leaders write’. Leaders of leaders are committed to influencing, developing and resourcing others. If you desire to be a leader of leaders, then put your words into print.

Week in week out, year on year out, church leaders prepare series of messages to encourage, inspire and resource others. So why not turn them into books?

During the pandemic lockdown I couldn’t hold the preacher within me down, so like most other leaders, I morphed into an online presenter. Each Sunday morning I’d pop my phone on a tripod, switch on live streaming, sit on the sofa and present my distilled thoughts to the world.

I almost felt like a TV star.

To make this sustainable I’d prepare a speaking series.

It was only afterwards that I thought I could turn each of the series of messages into a book. This is exactly what I did and before I knew it had published another handful of books.

As a public speaker, if you speak out 125 words per minute, then a 24 minute talk will generate 3,000 words. Do that ten times and you have a ten-chapter book totalling 30,000 words – the average length of a decent book.

Even if you only take your two best teaching series, you could be publishing two books a year. Everyone has a book in them and as a church leader, you have more than you might have first imagined.

You also have a biblical mandate to write down what God has said to you. The prophet Habakkuk (2:2) said: 'Write down the revelation!' If God has entrusted you with revelation, you have a responsibility to write it down and put it out there.

Just imagine for a moment what sort of Bible we would have if Moses had not written the Pentateuch; David the Psalms; King Solomon the Proverbs, Ecclesiastes and Song of Solomon; the apostle Paul the New Testament letters or John’s revelation on the island of Patmos.

So how can you write the first book on your bookshelf or in your library? PublishU has created a unique step-by-step methodology together with support and accountability to enable you to write your book.

A church leader recently said, 'Matt and the PublishU team not only gave me the tools to plot and write my book but also the road map to get it published. A friend emphatically stated, ‘Anyone can start writing a book but will you finish it?’ Yes, I did!'

Eight of ten PublishU students complete the manuscript for their book within 100 days. As people of faith know, just because something sounds hard to believe that doesn’t mean it isn’t true!

Matt Bird is the founder and CEO of social enterprise, PublishU www.PublishU.com

As we know, the stuff that gets written down gets remembered; stuff that doesn’t get written doesn’t get remembered. It’s as simple as that – so let’s write down what God has told us!

57

Short Courses for Pastors & Leaders

Strengthen yourself & your leaders f o r w h a t ’ s n e x t.

Be Equipped to Transform Lives

Rev Prof Jacqui Grey Specialises in hermeneutics, Old Testament/Hebrew Bible, and pentecostal theology. Previously

Undergraduate Certificate in Bible or Ministry

represented Pentecostals at the World Council of Churches 11th General Assembly in 2022.

With flexible study options to suit you, explore biblical and theological

Rev Assoc Prof Adam White

questions in a safe and inclusive

Specialises in Paul’s letters,

community, and develop a well-rounded

ordained minister with the ACC,

foundation and framework for ministry.

Start with one or two subjects this summer.

and Graeco-Roman culture. An previously was the associate pastor at Riverlands Christian Church in Penrith.

Multiply the impact of your experience.

Transformative Christ-centred Leadership.

Graduate Certificate of Professional Supervision

Graduate Certificate of Leadership

Since the Royal Commission into Institutional

Get the most from your leadership style and

Abuse, the demand for qualified professional

insight into your leadership context, so you

supervisors in every sector is rapidly

can transform your church, your organisation,

increasing.

your people and your community.

Commence in 2024.

Start with one subject this summer.

LEARN MORE 58

Celebrating AC graduates Congratulations to all the graduates of Alphacrucis University College.

The Graduation ceremony in Sydney on Saturday, 13th May 2023, saw over 1,000 graduates celebrated for their achievement and study.

View the slideshow of the AC Graduation

59

ACC EMAG #4 2023 Published by Australian Christian Churches.

Editor: Daryl-Anne Le Roux editor@acc.org.au Graphics & Media Assistant: Kieran Carlos Proofreader: Elba Broadhead Photography by: p. 1 iStock image p. 4 Instagram @accsnapshot p. 6 Oasis Church p. 10 Marcus Oostenbroek p. 14 ACC23 p. 15 Micah Australia p. 16 Hope UC p. 18 @hopecentre p. 28 Unsplash Taylor Heery p. 30 Glow p. 34 Red Frogs p. 39 Pexels Darkshade p. 42 Unsplash Orlando Allo p. 47 Midjourney - B Randall p. 49 Pexels p. 50 Pexels Edwin pérez p. 52 Pexels Tima Miroshnichenko p. 56 Pexels Ricky Esquivel p. 59 Alphacrucis ACC EMAG is published four times a year.

Visit www.acc.org.au/emag to read more editions.

ACC National PO Box 8093 Norwest NSW 2153 No part of this magazine may be reproduced with the written permission of the publisher.

All rights reserved. ©2023 Australian Christian Churches.

60