Skip to main content

Acacia Connect - May 2026 - Issue 18

Page 1


Acacia

Adapting with confidence, not fear.

The theme for National Reconciliation Week 2026 is All In, a call for all Australians to commit wholeheartedly to reconciliation every single day.

THE RISE OF AI

From emails written by AI to automated meeting notes and chatbots handling customer service, artificial intelligence (AI) is quickly becoming part of everyday life.

MANAGING LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

In an increasingly global and mobile world, many people now find themselves navigating relationships across countries, cities, time zones, and continents

LEADER SPECIFIC SELF-CARE & WELLBEING HABITS

Workplace mental health challenges are costing Australian organisations an estimated $39 billion annually It’s crucial that leaders take care of themselves first, to then take care of their teams

FOOD NOISE

Feeling intrusive mental chatter about food and cravings? Even when your body is not physically hungry?

This is referred to as ‘food noise’, and does not mean you lack willpower or self control

ISOLATED WORK (ALL KINDS)

When isolation becomes prolonged, unsupported, or emotionally disconnecting, it can begin to affect wellbeing, motivation, communication, and job satisfaction.

FINANCIAL WELLBEING IN TIMES OF UNCERTAINTY

While financial uncertainty can feel confronting, there are practical and proactive steps individuals can take to regain a sense of control and reduce stress

FROM THE CEO

As we move further into the year, many workplaces are beginning to feel the pace and pressure that can quietly build over time Deadlines intensify, responsibilities grow, and for many people, the balance between staying informed, staying productive, and staying well can become increasingly difficult to maintain

In this edition of Acacia Connect, we explore some of the modern challenges shaping wellbeing both inside and outside the workplace. From the rise of artificial intelligence and the impact of constant doom scrolling, to the effects of isolation, financial stress, and digital overload, these conversations reflect the realities many people are navigating every day.

At the same time, this issue also highlights the importance of practical support, meaningful connection, and sustainable self-care We examine topics such as healthy wellbeing habits, managing long distance relationships, and supporting people experiencing alcohol-related challenges with empathy and understanding We also explore the critical importance of psychological safety in conversations surrounding domestic and family violence in the workplace

One message continues to emerge across all of these themes. Wellbeing is not built through one single action It is shaped through consistent moments of care, awareness, and support, both individually and collectively.

At Acacia, we remain committed to helping organisations and individuals navigate complexity with compassion, evidence-based support, and practical tools that make a meaningful difference

As we enter the middle of the year, I encourage you to take a moment to check in with yourself and those around you Small conversations, healthy boundaries, and intentional pauses can have a greater impact than we often realise Thank you for continuing to prioritise connection, wellbeing, and care

From 27 May to 3 June, we will mark National Reconciliation Week 2026, a time that encourages all Australians to learn about our shared histories, cultures and achievements, and to recommit to reconciliation and justice for First Nations peoples

The theme for National Reconciliation Week 2026 is ALL IN - a call for all Australians to commit to reconciliation wholeheartedly, every day, and to take meaningful action to create change.

ALL IN reminds us that reconciliation is not a spectator sport It calls on each of us to step away from the sidelines and actively contribute to a more inclusive and respectful future

The theme also recognises that reconciliation and the advancement of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples’ rights cannot rest solely on First Nations communities, who have carried the responsibility of championing, explaining and driving change for far too long.

Reconciliation will not happen by itself. It requires all of us

The #NRW2026 campaign was created in collaboration with Carbon Creative, a First Nations owned and operated marketing and creative agency

The artwork for this campaign was created by renowned Gumbaynggirr/Bundjalung artist Otis Hope Carey, whose distinctive style provides a colourful and optimistic representation of people from all walks of life being “all in” to make change

You can visit the official Reconciliation Australia NRW Week webpage here.

iation value

g r peoples, histories, cultures and futures.

At Acacia, reconciliation is not simply a value we speak about - it is something we actively embed within our culture through our Reflect Reconciliation Action Plan (RAP) and the leadership of our Working Group

DATES & EVENTS Mental Health Mental Health

ALL JUNE Pride Month

MAY 27 - JUNE 3

National Reconciliation Week

JUNE 1

Global Day of Parents

JUNE 5

World Environment Day

JUNE 8 - JUNE 14

Infant Mental Health Awareness Week

JUNE 10

First Responders Day

JUNE 14

World Blood Donor Day

JUNE 15 - JUNE 21

Men's Health Week

JUNE 15

World Elder Abuse Awareness Day

JUNE 18

Autistic Pride Day

JUNE 20

World Refugee Day

JUNE 27

PTSD Awareness Day

ALL JULY Dry July

ALL JULY

Plastic Free July

JULY 5 - JULY 12

NAIDOC Week

JULY 24

International Self-Care Day

JULY 30

International Day of Friendship

AUGUST 6

Jeans for Genes Day

AUGUST 3 - AUGUST 9

Loneliness Awareness Week AUS

AUGUST 12

International Youth Day

AUGUST 17 - AUGUST 21

Bullying No Way Week

AUGUST 19

World Humanitarian Day

AUGUST 20

Daffodil Day

AUGUST 27

Red Nose Day

AUGUST 28

Wear it Purple Day

THE RISE OF AI

ADAPTING WITH CONFIDENCE, NOT FEAR.

Are you feeling overwhelmed or unsure with all the new AI tools and updates appearing everywhere lately? From emails written by AI to automated meeting notes and chatbots handling customer service, artificial intelligence (AI) is quickly becoming part of everyday life. While these tools can improve efficiency and productivity, they are also creating uncertainty and pressure for many people.

The challenge is not only learning new technology but also understanding how AI is changing the world around us, what it could mean for the future, and how people can adapt while still protecting their wellbeing

What is Artificial Intelligence (AI)?

Artificial Intelligence (AI) refers to technology that can perform tasks that would normally require human intelligence This includes understanding language, recognising patterns, solving problems, learning from information, and making predictions or recommendations

Although AI may seem like a recent development, it has actually been around for many decades However, in more recent years, advances in technology, faster computers, and the huge amount of digital information online have caused AI to grow much more rapidly.

Today, AI systems are becoming more advanced and easier to access than ever before. Many people already use AI daily without even realising it. AI is used in search engines, streaming recommendations, navigation apps, online shopping suggestions, virtual assistants, and social media feeds.

In workplaces, AI is increasingly being used to:

Summarise emails and documents

Automate repetitive tasks

Analyse data and trends

Assist customer service through chatbots

Generate meeting notes and schedules

Support creativity and brainstorming

Help detect fraud and improve cybersecurity

Assist medical professionals with research and diagnostics

AI does not think or feel emotions like humans do. Instead, it works by analysing large amounts of information and identifying patterns to complete tasks or generate responses quickly. Even though some AI systems can appear very intelligent, they are still tools created and controlled by humans

Why AI is advancing so quickly

The growth of AI over the past few years has increased significantly New AI programs and tools are being released constantly, and they are becoming more powerful, cheaper, and easier to use. Several factors have contributed to this rapid growth, including:

Faster and more powerful computers

Access to massive amounts of digital data

Large investments from governments and technology companies

Improvements in machine learning and language processing

Greater public access to AI tools

As AI continues to improve, it is starting to influence almost every industry, including healthcare, education, finance, retail, construction, transport, media, and customer service. Because of this, AI is no longer just a technology topic It is becoming a social, economic, and workplace issue that affects everyone

What AI means for people & society

AI brings many exciting opportunities. It has the potential to improve productivity, reduce repetitive work, support innovation, and solve problems faster than humans alone.

However, AI also raises concerns and challenges.

Many people are worried about job security as automation and technology advances Some jobs may change significantly, while others may disappear completely At the same time, new jobs and industries are also likely to emerge.

There are also concerns around misinformation, privacy, cybersecurity, and ethical decision-making AI-generated images, videos, and written content can sometimes make it difficult to tell what is real and what is fake This creates risks around scams, fake news, and manipulated information online

Another challenge is the speed of change itself. Constant updates, new systems, and pressure to ‘keep up’ can contribute to stress, overwhelm, and burnout Even positive technological change can still feel difficult for people trying to adapt

This is where human skills (You) become more valuable

Although AI is advancing rapidly, there are still many human skills that technology cannot replace In fact, these skills are becoming even more valuable in modern workplaces as AI usage increases. These include:

Emotional intelligence

Communication

Adaptability

Critical thinking

Resilience

Leadership

Creativity and innovation

Human connection

Technical skills are still important, but human skills are becoming a major advantage AI may support productivity, but it cannot replace empathy, emotional awareness, meaningful relationships, or human judgement

The future workplace is likely to value people who can work alongside technology while still bringing human strengths into their roles

What could the future look like?

No one can predict the future of AI with complete certainty, but most experts agree that AI will continue to grow and become more integrated into everyday life.

Due to this, society will need to manage the risks that come with this technology carefully Governments, organisations, and communities are already discussing how AI should be regulated and used responsibly Questions around privacy, fairness, bias, job displacement, and ethical use are becoming increasingly important.

This is why public understanding of AI matters. Decisions about AI will affect everyone, not just people working in technology industries.

Why staying informed about AI is important

Staying informed does not mean becoming an AI expert It simply means having a basic understanding of how AI works, where it is being used, and what opportunities and risks it may create. Being informed can help people: Adapt more confidently to workplace changes

Make safer decisions online

Recognise misinformation and scams

Understand how technology may affect careers and industries

Use AI tools responsibly and effectively

Participate in discussions about the future of society

People who stay informed and open to learning are often better prepared to adapt to change rather than feel overwhelmed by it.

Tips to Help Adapt

1. Stay curious, not fearful

Try learning one new AI tool or concept at a time You do not need to understand everything immediately.

2. Focus on adaptability over expertise

Most people are not expected to become AI experts overnight. Being willing to learn and adapt is often more important

3. Protect your mental wellbeing during change

Continuous workplace and technological change can increase stress and burnout risk. Prioritising rest, boundaries, and support is still important.

AI will continue to grow and reshape society, workplaces, and everyday life. While the pace of change can feel intimidating, avoiding it completely may only increase uncertainty and stress.

Technology does not replace the value of human connection, judgement, and wellbeing The people and organisations that adapt best will likely be those that support both innovation and people, helping individuals build confidence, resilience, and awareness in a rapidly changing world

4. Strengthening your human skills

Communication, empathy, collaboration, creativity, and problem-solving continue to be highly valuable skills.

5. Verify information carefully

As AI-generated content increases online, it becomes more important to fact-check information and use reliable sources.

6. Use support services early

Accessing professional, confidential support through Acacia can help people manage workplace uncertainty and change before challenges become overwhelming.

Resources for Further Reading

World Economic Forum – Future of Jobs Report

PwC – Artificial Intelligence Insights

UNESCO – Artificial Intelligence and Ethics

Managing Managing LongDistance LongDistance Relationships Relationships

Long distance relationships can lead even the most securely attached people to feel vulnerable and exposed. Separation anxiety caused by a lack of proximity to significant others is common not only in romantic relationships, but also in friendships, family relationships, and even workplace connections.

In an increasingly global and mobile world, many people now find themselves navigating relationships across countries, cities, time zones, and continents.

Whether through necessity, opportunity, circumstance, or personal choice, physical separation has become a normal part of modern life. People experiencing long distance relationships often need to find intentional ways to stay authentically connected in order to reduce isolation, relationship anxiety, and emotional disconnection.

International relocation, career opportunities, FIFO and remote work, defence deployment, digital dating, study, travel, placements, and economic pressures are all factors that can separate individuals from their families, friendships, colleagues, and social networks.

At the same time, long distance relationships can also offer unique opportunities They may expose people to different cultures, lifestyles, foods, languages, landscapes, and ways of living Sometimes these experiences stretch people beyond what feels comfortable.

Less familiar routines and nightly comfort rituals, more intentional communication, travel, adaptability and personal growth

Often, it is the smaller things that are missed most deeply Daily rituals such as morning coffee with a partner, casual workplace conversations, regular family check ins, or small moments of shared routine These psychological needs for connection and belonging are often deeply felt, even when they are not openly expressed When those rituals disappear, .. absences can quickly grow into worry, . emotional distance, relationship strain, or workplace silos

Geographical distance is a pressure point that requires active management. So, what can help ease the difficult goodbyes, communication gaps, feelings of loneliness, and the sense of being outside the daily orbit of those who matter most?

Consistency&Expressed ExpectationsBuildTrust

Communication does not need to be constant, but having a predictable rhythm around contact helps foster trust and emotional security. In long distance relationships, reliability often becomes a form of intimacy.

Check ins, voice calls, video chats, and messages all signal active engagement in the relationship and a willingness to continue showing care, interest, and effort. Clearly expressing expectations around communication and scheduling is not about demanding that needs be met. Rather, it creates safety, predictability, and shared understanding. Life updates begin to replace the day to day connection that physical proximity once provided.

PromoteExperientialReality

Experiential reality refers to shifting from simply thinking or talking about life to actively experiencing it in a grounded and sensory way This concept is often used in mindfulness based therapies to help people reconnect with what is actually happening in the present moment, rather than becoming consumed by imagined scenarios, predictions, or fears

Separation anxiety can create many thinking traps People may catastrophise ambiguous text messages, overanalyse messages that seem emotionally distant, or imagine that others are moving on without them Technology can either intensify these fears or help soothe them.

Experiential reality may involve cooking together online, reading stories to children over video calls, travelling while talking on the phone, falling asleep during a call, or sharing ordinary daily experiences through Facetime or WhatsApp. These moments help people remain emotionally present in each other’s lives despite physical distance

At the same time, technology itself needs to be managed carefully Time lags, frozen screens, unreliable connections, and constant digital communication can sometimes create frustration or emotional strain if relied upon too heavily

CreateRituals&‘ToolboxChats’

Rituals help turn distance into structure rather than emptiness They are proactive, intentional, and reassuring.

A toolbox chat is traditionally an informal safety discussion held before beginning work In long distance relationships, the concept can be adapted into regular conversations focused on checking in emotionally and practically in real time

This might involve discussing current what is working well, enges, celebrating ng together for the onversations motional investment, bility within the

Long distance relationships may sound romantic in theory, filled with airport reunions and countdowns, but in reality they also require patience, organisation, and emotional resilience

reparationMatter

ificant strain on hen the reason for days, work trips, tions, and reunions all emotional d logistical pressure

When navigating geographical distance, everyday routines often need to become portable. Knowing where important items are, preparing backup plans, managing schedules, and reducing avoidable stressors can make transitions smoother and reduce unnecessary tension.

Long distance relationships are increasingly common and, for many people, unavoidable While they can be deeply meaningful and fulfilling, they also require emotional resilience, communication, and intentional effort to remain healthy and connected.

If you or someone you know is struggling with the isolation, stress, or emotional strain that long distance relationships can bring, Acacia’s confidential EAP services are available to provide support, tools, and strategies to help individuals and relationships thrive

Support Support Support for for for Alcohol Alcohol Alcohol Addiction Addiction Addiction

Alcohol is often embedded into social events, celebrations, and even ways of coping with stress. While many people consume alcohol occasionally without issue, there are times when drinking can begin to impact physical health, emotional wellbeing, relationships, work performance, and daily functioning Recognising when alcohol use is becoming harmful can be difficult, especially because the effects often develop gradually over time.

Alcohol addiction, or alcohol dependence, is not a sign of weakness or failure It is a complex health issue that can affect anyone, regardless of age, background, or lifestyle The positive news is that support and recovery are possible, and even small steps towards change can have a significant impact

responsibilities However, addiction ......does not always fit a particular stereotype If alcohol is regularly ........affecting your wellbeing or functioning, it may be worth exploring support

Recognising the Signs

Alcohol addiction can look different for everyone Some people may drink heavily every day, while others may binge drink during stressful periods or social situations

Practical Steps to Support Recovery

Recovery does not have to happen all at once. Small and manageable changes can help build momentum and confidence

Build Awareness

Start by noticing patterns in your drinking. Consider:

When do you drink most often?

What emotions or situations trigger drinking?

How do you feel afterwards?

Tracking alcohol use can help increase awareness and identify areas where change may be helpful.

Create Healthier Coping Strategies

Alcohol is often used to manage difficult emotions or stress Finding alternative coping tools can reduce reliance on drinking This might include:

Exercise or movement

Spending time outdoors

Journaling

Mindfulness or breathing exercises

Connecting with supportive people

Engaging in hobbies or creative activities

Change Your Environment

Social environments can strongly influence drinking habits. It may help to:

Reduce time in situations centred around alcohol

Plan alcohol-free activities

Remove alcohol from the home

Spend time with people who support your goals

Establish Routine and Structure

A structured routine can support recovery by reducing unplanned or impulsive drinking Focus on:

Consistent sleep routines

Regular meals

Physical activity

Scheduled social connection

Meaningful daily activities

Seek Professional Support

Recovery is often easier with support. Counsellors, psychologists, medical professionals, support groups, and EAP services can provide practical strategies, emotional support, and a safe space to talk openly without judgement. There is no “perfect time” to seek help Reaching out early can prevent concerns from escalating further.

Supporting Someone Experiencing Alcohol

Addiction

Watching someone struggle with alcohol addiction can feel overwhelming and emotionally exhausting You may feel worried, frustrated, helpless, or unsure of what to say

If you are supporting someone:

Approach conversations calmly and without judgement

Focus on expressing concern rather than criticism

Listen openly and avoid ultimatums where possible

Encourage professional support when they are ready

Maintain healthy boundaries for your own wellbeing

Recognise that recovery is a process and setbacks can occur

Importantly, supporting someone else does not mean carrying the responsibility alone Friends, family members, and colleagues can also benefit from accessing professional support for themselves.

Recovery is Possible

Recovery looks different for everyone For some, it may involve reducing alcohol use. For others, it may involve complete abstinence and ongoing support Progress is rarely linear, and setbacks do not erase the effort already made

What matters most is taking the first step and recognising that support is available

If alcohol use is impacting you or someone close to you, reaching out for support can be an important starting point Speaking with a trusted professional, GP, counsellor, or EAP service may help you explore strategies, build healthier coping mechanisms, and work towards improved wellbeing

Support is always available, and you do not have to navigate challenges alone If you or someone close to you would benefit from professional support, Acacia’s confidential EAP counselling services are available to help.

Reach out to us at 1300 364 273 or info@acaciaconnection.com

Safety at the Heart of Support

Managing Domestic and Family Violence in the Workplace

Domestic and Family Violence (DFV) is a pervasive community issue with significant implications for the workplace. DFV disproportionately affects women; on average, one woman every nine days is killed by a current or former partner, and one in four women has experienced violence by an intimate partner since age 15 Given that a large majority of those experiencing DFV are part of the workforce, it is not a matter of if a manager will confront this issue, but when For managers, supporting an affected employee is more than an act of leadership; it is a pivotal moment where genuine empathy must be integrated with a formal duty of care to ensure the safety of the individual and the broader team.

Under work health and safety laws employers have a duty to provide and maintain a safe and healthy work environment for employees (including contractors), so far as is reasonably practicable. When DFV impacts the workplace, whether through harassing communications, the physical presence of a high-risk individual, or the increased vulnerability of employees working from home, it becomes a critical health and safety issue that requires proactive risk management and support Adopting a health and safety perspective can be helpful for managers to move beyond personal concern toward a more structured and objective management of these risks

Managers are uniquely positioned to notice the subtle behavioural shifts that may indicate DFV. These indicators frequently manifest as uncharacteristic patterns of absenteeism or lateness in previously dependable staff, or as sudden performance fluctuations where high achievers begin struggling with routine tasks and deadlines

Such distress is often underscored by excessive personal communication, where the individual receives a high volume of calls or appears noticeably shaken after checking their phone. Beyond professional output, physical and social changes offer critical cues; managers may observe unexplained bruising, persistent fatigue, or a sudden withdrawal, as the employee becomes unusually quiet or avoids team events.

Managers must approach a conversation regarding suspected DFV with profound empathy and careful preparation. This begins with choosing a private setting where the meeting will not be interrupted, ensuring the employee feels physically and psychologically secure When initiating the discussion, it is most effective to use "I" statements, focusing on observable behaviours or shifts in wellbeing, and inviting the employee to share only what they feel comfortable disclosing.

The manager’s role is to listen without judgment, maintaining a clear focus on workplace-specific support rather than attempting to provide personal or therapeutic solutions. Central to this interaction is the assurance of confidentiality; managers must clearly communicate that information will remain private, with the only exceptions being instances of immediate risk to life or legal mandatory reporting requirements Once this foundation of trust is established and a disclosure is made, the focus must immediately shift toward implementing practical safety measures.

Following a disclosure, a tailored Workplace Safety Plan should be developed in consultation with the employee and supported by OHS and/or HR advisors. Practical changes might include communication screening, such as changing an employee’s work phone number or email address to block harassing messages or enhancing physical security by relocating the employee to a more secure, non-publicfacing area or a different work location

Security personnel should be briefed on a need-to-know basis to prevent unauthorised workplace access, while safe entry and exit protocols, including secure parking or a security escort to the employee’s vehicle may also be implemented. Emergency contact details should also be reviewed to ensure any high-risk individuals are removed and replaced with a trusted alternative. The plan should also incorporate an agreedupon "safe word" allowing the employee to discreetly signal immediate danger, enabling an emergency response without alerting an aggressor.

Employees navigating the impacts of DFV frequently require time away from work for essential activities, such as court appearances, medical appointments, and securing safe housing. In developing a Workplace Safety Plan reasonable adjustments should be considered as a proactive measure. This may include flexible start and finish times, the removal of the employee’s direct contact details from public-facing directories, or a temporary modification of duties to reduce public exposure

To facilitate this, all employees within the national workplace relations system are entitled to 10 days of paid family and domestic violence leave annually This leave is available in full immediately and does not need to be accrued. Importantly, to protect the employee, this leave should not be labelled as 'DFV Leave' on their payslip; it should appear under another generic designation, such as 'Special Leave' or 'Personal Leave'.

For the affected employee, Acacia can provide valuable, confidential EAP counselling and psychological support, while specialised DFV services, such as 1800RESPECT, offer expert crisis intervention and safety planning These external resources are often available 24/7, providing a continuous safety net beyond standard business hours

Encouraging the employee to utilise these services ensures they receive appropriate support that falls outside a manager's remit

Furthermore, these resources serve as a vital tool for managers; by contacting external specialists, managers can more effectively navigate the complexities of a disclosure while maintaining professional boundaries and preventing personal burnout.

Effectively managing DFV in the workplace is rarely simple or straightforward. Each situation is different, and the best approach must always be guided by the employee’s specific circumstances and safety needs By combining empathetic leadership with organisational and external supports, managers can establish a vital safety net that safeguards both the individual and the wider team Adopting a proactive, riskbased approach does more than satisfy legal duties; it provides the essential stability and security an employee needs to reclaim their life while maintaining their career A proactive, well-managed response ensures that the workplace remains a sanctuary of support rather than another site of risk

Practical Tips

Watch for uncharacteristic patterns such as sudden performance fluctuations, uncharacteristic lateness, or an employee appearing shaken after receiving a personal call or message.

Approach suspected cases with profound empathy in a private, secure setting, using "I" statements to focus on observable changes in their behaviour and wellbeing, treating any disclosure with the utmost sensitivity and respect

Work with the employee and OHS/HR to develop a workplace safety plan tailored to the individual’s specific needs, ensuring they remain in control of the process while identifying reasonable adjustments to mitigate risks

Review the employee's emergency contacts to remove any high-risk individuals and establish a discreet 'safe word' to facilitate a rapid workplace response in the event of immediate risk.

Consider reasonable adjustments as part of safety planning such as flexible start and finish times, removing direct contact details from public directories, and modifying duties to reduce publicfacing exposure

Ensure the employee knows they have access to 10 days of paid family and domestic violence leave annually that they can use for activities such as court appearances and medical appointments.

Encourage the employee to utilise Acacia (EAP) for psychological support and specialised services like 1800RESPECT for 24/7 crisis intervention and safety planning

These services are also available to managers seeking professional guidance on how to best support an affected staff member

Leader Specific Leader Specific Leader Specific

Self-Care

The Increasing Demand of Leadership

Leadership is increasingly demanding, with rising expectations around performance, availability, and emotional labour These roles require sustained cognitive effort, ongoing decision making and responsibility for others, all of which increase vulnerability to stress and burnout over time

With workplace mental health challenges costing Australian organisations an estimated $39 billion annually (Heads Up, a joint initiative of Beyond Blue and PwC Australia), leader wellbeing is not only an individual concern, but a critical driver of organisational performance.

From a psychological perspective, sustained self-sacrifice reduces emotional regulation, impairs decision-making and increases burnout risk. Sustainable leadership therefore requires a shift in mindset: self-care is not optional; it is a core leadership capability

Reframing Self-Care as Part of the Role Effective leadership begins with examining the beliefs that drive behaviour Many leaders operate with assumptions such as ‘I should always be available’ or ‘My needs come last.’ While these beliefs reflect commitment, they also contribute to overextension and reduced effectiveness over time.

Well-established psychological frameworks highlight the importance of identifying and adjusting unhelpful thinking patterns. Leaders who regularly question these assumptions are better able to adopt more sustainable ways of working A more adaptive position is recognising that maintaining wellbeing directly supports clarity, consistency, and leadership effectiveness

Practical Micro-Recovery Strategies

Given the pace of leadership, self-care must be practical and embedded into the workday Brief, intentional recovery moments, often referred to as microrecovery practices, support nervous system regulation and prevent stress accumulation.

Leaders can incorporate:

Brief periods of slow, diaphragmatic breathing between meetings

Short, device-free breaks to reset attention

A rapid grounding strategy such as the 5-4-3-2-1 technique to regain focus under pressure

These strategies act as immediate mental resets, supporting emotional regulation and improving response quality in highpressure situations.

Managing Cognitive Load & Decision

Fatigue

Leadership requires continuous decisionmaking, which increases the risk of cognitive fatigue As mental resources deplete, decision quality, concentration, and emotional tolerance decline

Structuring the workday to protect cognitive capacity, such as addressing complex tasks earlier, reducing unnecessary decisions and using structured frameworks supports more consistent, high-quality decision-making.

Strengthening Emotional Regulation

Leaders must manage both their own emotional responses and those of others

Ignoring or suppressing emotional states increases reactivity and reduces interpersonal effectiveness Developing awareness through brief emotional checkins, labelling emotional states, and pausing before responding improves regulation and supports ‘more considered’ communication

Acceptance-based approaches reinforce the ability to experience discomfort without allowing it to dictate behaviour, enabling leaders to remain aligned with professional values.

Psychological Detachment & Recovery

The inability to mentally disengage from work is a key contributor to burnout

Without adequate recovery, cognitive and emotional fatigue accumulate

Establishing a clear transition out of the workday, such as reviewing priorities and closing tasks, supports psychological detachment. Limiting after-hours engagement and engaging in restorative activities improves recovery, resilience, and sustained performance.

Reflective Practice

High-performing leaders incorporate reflection rather than operating in continuous action mode Structured reflection strengthens learning, improves decision-making, and enhances selfawareness

Leaders benefit from asking:

• What worked well?

• What was challenging?

• What would I do differently next time?

This process supports both immediate improvement and longer-term development

Maintaining Support & Connection

Leadership can be isolating, particularly in complex or high-stakes environments.

Regular consultation with peers, mentors or supervisors provides perspective, supports problem-solving, and reduces the burden of decision-making in isolation

Strong professional support networks are a key protective factor against burnout

Final Note

Sustainable leadership is not defined by output alone, but by the ability to perform consistently over time Leaders who prioritise their wellbeing strengthen decision-making, emotional regulation, and team effectiveness. In this context, self-care is not separate from leadershipit underpins it

Leaders are encouraged to connect for support in developing these skills further. Acacia can provide confidential, practical guidance to help strengthen wellbeing and support effective sustainable leadership

Why you might be thinking Why you might be thinking about food all day about food all day

1. You’re not eating enough overall

1. You’re not eating enough overall If you’re unintentionally under-eating due If you’re unintentionally under-eating due to a restrictive mindset around food, your to a restrictive mindset around food, your body will naturally try to compensate by body will naturally try to compensate by increasing hunger signals. This can show increasing hunger signals. This can show up as constant thoughts about food, up as constant thoughts about food, cravings, or feeling ‘snacky’ all day Your cravings, or feeling ‘snacky’ all day. Your body is simply trying to ensure it gets body is simply trying to ensure it gets enough energy enough energy

4. Low fibre intake 4. Low fibre intake

2. Labelling foods as ‘Good’ or ‘Bad’

2. Labelling foods as ‘Good’ or ‘Bad’

When foods are placed into rigid When foods are placed into rigid categories, it can actually increase categories, it can actually increase obsession around the ‘bad’ foods obsession around the ‘bad’ foods

Fibre is incredibly powerful for managing Fibre is incredibly powerful for managing hunger signals. It can help reduce levels of hunger signals. It can help reduce levels of ghrelin, often referred to as the ‘hunger ghrelin, often referred to as the ‘hunger hhormone.’ ormone ’

When fibre intake is low, you may find

Psychologically, when we’re told not to do

Psychologically, when we’re told not to do something, we tend to want it even more. something, we tend to want it even more. The same applies to food. Restriction can The same applies to food Restriction can make certain foods feel more desirable make certain foods feel more desirable and mentally consuming. and mentally consuming.

3. Not enough protein throughout 3. Not enough protein throughout the day the day

When fibre intake is low, you may find yourself feeling hungry more often or yourself feeling hungry more often or experiencing stronger cravings Foods rich experiencing stronger cravings. Foods rich in fibre include: in fibre include:

Vegetables

Vegetables

Fruits

Fruits

Whole grains

Whole grains

Beans and legumes

Beans and legumes

Seeds

Seeds

Protein helps keep you physically satisfied

Protein helps keep you physically satisfied and full. Ideally, aim to include a source of and full. Ideally, aim to include a source of protein in each meal and snack so your protein in each meal and snack so your body receives a steady supply throughout body receives a steady supply throughout the day. the day

Some easy protein options include: Some easy protein options include:

Protein yogurt

Protein yogurt

Low-fat cheese

Low-fat cheese

Chicken or turkey Chicken or turkey

Eggs, Tofu or tempeh

Eggs, Tofu or tempeh

Legumes such as lentils or chickpeas

Legumes such as lentils or chickpeas

5. Seeking a dopamine boost

5. Seeking a dopamine boost

Sometimes food noise isn’t just about

Sometimes food noise isn’t just about physical hunger Foods especially high in physical hunger. Foods especially high in sugar, fat, or salt, can trigger the release sugar, fat, or salt, can trigger the release of dopamine, the brain’s ‘feel-good’ of dopamine, the brain’s ‘feel-good’ cchemical hemical

During stressful workdays or emotional

During stressful workdays or emotional moments, your brain may seek that quick moments, your brain may seek that quick dopamine boost. Unfortunately, the effect dopamine boost. Unfortunately, the effect is temporary, which can lead to repeated is temporary, which can lead to repeated cravings for the same foods. cravings for the same foods.

What You Can Do What You Can Do

1. Focus on balanced meals

1. Focus on balanced meals

Aim for three main meals each day that Aim for three main meals each day that iinclude: nclude:

Complex carbohydrates

Complex carbohydrates

PProtein rotein

Vegetables or fibre-rich foods

Vegetables or fibre-rich foods

Some flavour or healthy fat (like

Some flavour or healthy fat (like cheese, dressing, nuts, or olive oil) cheese, dressing, nuts, or olive oil)

Balanced meals help stabilise energy

Balanced meals help stabilise energy levels and reduce excessive hunger levels and reduce excessive hunger ssignals ignals

2. Plan strategic snacks

2. Plan strategic snacks

Instead of avoiding snacks entirely, Instead of avoiding snacks entirely, consider planning them intentionally. consider planning them intentionally.

Choose snacks that combine protein and Choose snacks that combine protein and fibre, such as: fibre, such as:

Greek yogurt with berries Greek yogurt with berries

Apple with peanut butter Apple with peanut butter

Cottage cheese and crackers

Cottage cheese and crackers

Protein yogurt and fruit

Protein yogurt and fruit

These combinations help minimise These combinations help minimise physical hunger and keep you satisfied physical hunger and keep you satisfied between meals. between meals.

3. Create a “dopamine checklist”

3. Create a “dopamine checklist”

If you notice you’re reaching for food

If you notice you’re reaching for food mainly out of stress or boredom, try mainly out of stress or boredom, try introducing small dopamine boosting introducing small dopamine boosting habits before grabbing a snack. habits before grabbing a snack.

Examples include: Examples include: Making a cup of tea Making a cup of tea

Going for a short walk

Going for a short walk ooutside utside

Stretching or moving Stretching or moving your body your body

Talking to a friend or Talking to a friend or ccolleague olleague

Taking a short mental Taking a short mental break break

These activities can help delay the

These activities can help delay the automatic reaction and reduce reliance automatic reaction and reduce reliance on food for emotional relief on food for emotional relief

Summary Summary

If you experience food noise, it does not

If you experience food noise, it does not mean you lack discipline or willpower mean you lack discipline or willpower

More often, it is your body communicating More often, it is your body communicating important signals related to energy intake, important signals related to energy intake, nutrient balance, stress, or emotional nutrient balance, stress, or emotional nneeds. eeds.

By focusing on adequate nutrition,

By focusing on adequate nutrition, balanced meals, protein and fibre intake, balanced meals, protein and fibre intake, and alternative dopamine outlets, you can and alternative dopamine outlets, you can better support your body and reduce better support your body and reduce constant thoughts about food constant thoughts about food

The goal isn’t to silence your body, it’s to

The goal isn’t to silence your body, it’s to listen to what it might be telling you and listen to what it might be telling you and respond with care respond with care.

Scrolling The Importance

Of Keeping In Touch with the Real World

For many people, checking the phone has become almost automatic. A quick look at social media or the news can easily turn into thirty minutes of scrolling It is increasingly common for people to find themselves repeatedly consuming distressing news, emotionally charged content, and endless social media updates for extended periods of time This behaviour is often referred to as ‘doomscrolling ’

While staying informed is important, constant exposure to negative online content can affect mental wellbeing, increase stress, and gradually disconnect people from the world directly around them Over time, many individuals notice they feel mentally overloaded, emotionally drained, or unable to properly switch off.

Understanding the impact of doomscrolling can help people develop healthier digital habits and create a more

Doomscrolling refers to spending excessive amounts of time consuming online content, particularly distressing or emotionally triggering information. This may include scrolling through news updates, short-form videos, online commentary, or user-generated content across social media platforms and news apps.

It commonly occurs late at night, during work breaks, or during periods of stress, uncertainty, boredom, or emotional discomfort Many people continue scrolling even when the content is clearly making them feel anxious, overwhelmed, angry, or emotionally exhausted.

One of the challenges with doomscrolling is that it often feels productive or informative in the moment People may believe they are staying informed or regaining a sense of control, while actually becoming increasingly distressed and overstimulated.

Why Doomscrolling happens

Human beings are naturally wired to pay attention to threats and uncertainty

Negative information tends to capture attention more strongly than positive information because the brain interprets it as important to survival.

Social media platforms are also intentionally designed to encourage ongoing engagement. Endless scrolling, notifications, emotionally charged headlines, and algorithm-driven content can keep people online far longer than they intended

People who have experienced trauma may also find themselves repeatedly seeking information online in an attempt to regain a sense of certainty or safety

Unfortunately, this can have the opposite effect, reinforcing anxiety rather than relieving it.

Recognising personal vulnerability to doomscrolling is important, as some individuals may be more psychologically impacted by constant exposure to distressing content than others g

Excessive doomscrolling can contribute to:

Increased anxiety and stress

Feelings of helplessness or hopelessness

Difficulty concentrating

Sleep disruption

Over time, doomscrolling can become an automatic coping behaviour during stress, loneliness, fatigue, or emotional discomfort

Harvard Medical School notes that some groups may be particularly vulnerable to doomscrolling, including women and people with a history of trauma Violent or distressing media content can feel more personally threatening or emotionally activating for these individuals

Mental fatigue and emotional

exhaustion or overwhelm

Reduced motivation and productivity

Increased irritability

Disconnection from real life relationships and activities

When large amounts of time are spent online, people may also begin neglecting activities that support wellbeing, such as exercise, hobbies, social connection, rest, and time outdoors.

Key signs to watch for

Repeatedly checking your phone without intention

Feeling emotionally worse after scrolling

Difficulty stopping once you start

Spending less time engaged in real world activities

Scrolling late into the night

Feeling distracted or mentally overloaded during the day

The Importance of Staying Connected to the Real World

Digital connection should not replace real world connection

The nervous system benefits from experiences that are calming, physical, and socially grounding. Spending time outdoors, exercising, engaging in hobbies, sharing meals, laughing with others, and participating in meaningful conversations all support emotional regulation and psychological wellbeing.

These experiences help bring attention back to the present moment instead of remaining absorbed in an endless cycle of online information and emotional stimulation

Schedule screen free moments

Create regular periods during the day without screens Even short breaks from digital input can improve mental clarity and emotional regulation.

Create boundaries around screen time

Set limits around when and how often you access social media or news content. Consider keeping phones away from the bedroom or avoiding screens before sleep.

Curate your online environment and set clear limits

Unfollow accounts that increase stress or negativity. Choose content that is balanced, informative, and supportive of wellbeing. Consider setting time limits for social media or news apps. Turning off notifications can also reduce the urge to constantly check your phone.

Notice your triggers and practice intentional phone use

Pay attention to when you are most likely to scroll excessively. Stress, boredom, loneliness, and fatigue are common triggers.

Before opening an app, pause and ask yourself why you are reaching for your phone Awareness can interrupt automatic habits.

Replace scrolling with real world activities and staying connected

Reconnect with activities that ground you in the present moment. This may include walking, exercising, cooking, reading, creative hobbies, or spending time with others.

Meaningful conversations and face to face interactions help regulate stress and strengthen emotional wellbeing in ways online interaction often cannot fully replace

Seeking Support

Technology is part of modern life, but constant connection is not always healthy Staying informed matters, but so does protecting emotional wellbeing and maintaining connection to the people and experiences around us.

If you feel your phone use, social media habits, or doomscrolling are becoming difficult to manage, support is available

Acacia’s confidential EAP counselling services can assist individuals to better understand their habits, manage stress, and develop healthier coping strategies around technology and social media use.

ISOLATED

WORK WORK

All Kinds

Work has changed significantly in recent years While many people still work in busy offices or team environments, others now spend large portions of their working lives in isolation. For some, this means working remotely from home. For others, it may involve travelling alone, working night shifts, conducting field work, driving long distances, or working in physically isolated locations away from immediate support.

Not all isolated work looks the same, and importantly, not all isolation is negative. Many people value autonomy, flexibility, and quiet working environments. However, when isolation becomes prolonged, unsupported, or emotionally disconnecting, it can begin to affect wellbeing, motivation, communication, and job satisfaction.

Understanding the risks associated with isolated work can help both individuals and organisations create healthier and more sustainable ways of working.

What Is Isolated Work?

Isolated work refers to any work situation where a person has limited interaction, support, supervision, or connection with others while performing their role

This may include:

Remote or work from home arrangements

Fly in fly out or remote location work

Night shift or after hours work

Long distance driving or transport roles

Community or in home support work

Field work conducted alone

Solo business ownership or freelance work

Roles with minimal team interaction

According to Safe Work Australia, remote and isolated workers may face increased physical and psychological risks due to limited support, reduced supervision, and decreased access to assistance during stressful or challenging situations.

The Psychological Impact of Isolation

Human beings are naturally social Even people who enjoy independence still benefit from regular connection, shared experiences, and feeling part of something larger than themselves.

When isolated work continues over long periods, people may begin to experience:

Reduced motivation and engagement

Loneliness or disconnection

Increased stress and anxiety

Mental fatigue

Lower job satisfaction

Difficulty separating work and personal life

Reduced collaboration and communication

Increased risk of burnout

Research into remote work and loneliness has found that high levels of remote work can increase feelings of social isolation, particularly when people have limited meaningful interaction with colleagues

The Australian Institute of Health and Welfare also notes that social isolation and loneliness can negatively affect both physical and mental health, psychological wellbeing, and overall life satisfaction.

One of the challenges with isolated work is that the effects can develop gradually. People may initially enjoy the flexibility or independence, only to later notice reduced energy, emotional exhaustion, or a growing sense of disconnection from their team or workplace culture.

How Isolation Can Affect Teams and Organisations

The impact of isolated work extends beyond individuals. Teams can also experience challenges when connection and communication reduce over time Without regular interaction, teams may experience:

• Reduced collaboration and idea sharing

• Communication misunderstandings

• Lower trust and team cohesion

• Increased disengagement

• Less innovation and creativity

• Reduced psychological safety

Research from Harvard Business Review has highlighted that loneliness and isolation in remote teams can directly impact job performance, communication quality, and workplace connection

Importantly, isolation does not only occur in remote work settings Someone can feel isolated while physically surrounded by others if there is limited emotional connection, support, or inclusion within a workplace.

Promote Wellbeing

and Breaks

Encourage regular movement, breaks away from screens, and healthy work hours Isolation can sometimes lead to overworking or difficulty switching off.

Recognise Early Signs of Disconnection

Withdrawal, reduced communication, lower motivation, irritability, or emotional exhaustion may indicate someone is struggling with isolated work

Practical Strategies to Reduce Isolation at Work

Prioritise Meaningful Connection

Regular check ins, conversations, and shared team interactions help people feel connected and supported. Communication should not only focus on tasks and deadlines.

Create Structure and Routine

Maintaining clear boundaries between work and personal life can support motivation and reduce emotional fatigue, particularly when working from home

Encourage Collaboration

Opportunities for teamwork, brainstorming, and shared problem solving help strengthen relationships and reduce feelings of working alone

Schedule Regular Face to Face

Interaction

Where possible, in person connection remains valuable Even occasional team gatherings or shared workdays can strengthen trust and belonging.

Support Psychological Safety

People are more likely to stay engaged when they feel comfortable asking questions, sharing concerns, and contributing ideas without fear of judgement.

Staying Connected Matters

Flexibility and independence can be valuable parts of modern work, but connection still matters. Productivity and performance are strongest when people feel supported, included, and psychologically connected to others.

Creating healthier work environments does not require constant interaction

Often, small and consistent moments of communication, support, and inclusion make the greatest difference

If isolated work, loneliness, stress, or disconnection are beginning to affect wellbeing, support is available. Acacia’s confidential counselling and wellbeing services can help individuals and teams navigate workplace challenges, strengthen coping strategies, and maintain healthy connection in modern work environments

Periods of economic uncertainty, global instability, rising living costs, workforce changes, and unexpected life events can place significant pressure on financial wellbeing. Even people who are usually financially stable may experience increased stress, anxiety, or uncertainty during difficult periods.

Financial stress can affect far more than bank balances It often impacts sleep, emotional wellbeing, relationships, concentration, and overall quality of life. When people feel financially overwhelmed, it can become difficult to think clearly, make decisions, or plan ahead

While financial uncertainty can feel confronting, there are practical and proactive steps individuals can take to regain a sense of control and reduce stress. Importantly, support and guidance are available, and small actions taken early can make a meaningful difference over time

Gain control of your financial situation

1. Understand the Bigger Picture

One of the most important first steps is gaining a clear understanding of your current financial position. Begin by listing your income, expenses, debts, savings, and financial commitments. Having a realistic overview can help reduce avoidance and uncertainty.

Creating a simple budget can also provide valuable insight into where money is going each month and where adjustments may be possible Financial coaching or professional advice can assist in developing a realistic and manageable financial plan

2. Create an Action Plan

Once you understand your financial situation more clearly, it becomes easier to prioritise what needs immediate attention and what can wait.

An action plan may include:

Reviewing spending habits

Reducing discretionary expenses

Creating short term financial goals

Exploring additional income opportunities

Contacting lenders or service providers early

Building a small emergency buffer where possible

Financial stress often feels more overwhelming when there is no clear plan. Even small practical steps can help restore a sense of direction and stability

3. Take Control of Spending

During uncertain times, reviewing spending habits can help reduce financial pressure Focus first on essential expenses and consider where temporary adjustments can be made This does not mean eliminating all enjoyment or comfort. Rather, it involves making intentional decisions about spending priorities until circumstances become more stable Small changes made consistently over time can create meaningful financial relief and reduce stress levels

4. Address Financial Pressures Early

If you are struggling to meet repayments or financial obligations, it is important to seek support early rather than waiting until the situation becomes unmanageable. Many lenders, utility providers, landlords, and service organisations offer hardship support or flexible payment arrangements Open communication can often lead to practical solutions and reduce unnecessary stress Avoiding financial difficulties may temporarily reduce anxiety, but proactive conversations generally create better long term outcomes.

Staying connected to healthy coping strategies such as exercise, routine, social support, and professional guidance can help protect both financial and emotional wellbeing.

5. Avoid High Risk Coping Behaviours

Periods of financial stress can sometimes increase vulnerability to unhelpful coping strategies such as impulsive spending, online gambling, excessive gaming, or avoidance behaviours. While these activities may provide short term distraction, they can often worsen stress and financial strain over time.

6. Maintain Perspective and Emotional Wellbeing

Financial stress can create feelings of shame, fear, or hopelessness It is important to remember that financial challenges can affect anyone, particularly during periods of broader economic or global uncertainty Talking openly with trusted supports, financial professionals, or wellbeing services can reduce emotional pressure and help people feel less alone in navigating financial challenges

Seeking Support

Financial stress can affect emotional wellbeing, especially during periods of uncertainty and change If financial pressure is becoming difficult to manage, support is available

Acacia’s confidential financial coaching and counselling services can provide practical guidance and support to help individuals regain a sense of stability and control. Additional support and information can also be accessed through: MoneySmart National Debt Helpline Gambling Help Online Lifeline Beyond Blue

Turn static files into dynamic content formats.

Create a flipbook
Acacia Connect - May 2026 - Issue 18 by Acacia EAP - Issuu