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LOQUACIOUS CONVERSATIONS WITH

THE GRANTS SPEAK ON IT...

DO OPPOSITES ATTRACT OR DO WE UNKNOWINGLY ATTRACT WHO WE ARE?

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Editor’s Note

As this year goes by, I am constantly reminded of how blessed I am. I’m grateful for each of you who support 9:36 Magazine every month. Staying encouraged is sometimes hard to do but we at 9:36 Magazine are committed to finishing 2024 in a mighty way. 9:36 Magazine is here to stay!

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01 EDITOR'S NOTE

04 EDUCATOR OF THE

MONTH: CORY MOORE

07 CREAM OF THE CROP: ZOE LASSITER

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LOQUACIOUS CONVERSATIONS WITH THE GRANTS

27 MODEL OF THE MONTH: SHARITA GAMBLE

by Romi Darling

31 SPOTLIGHT

by Jasmine Hollie

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THE RABBIT HOLE: MOSES FLEETWOOD WALKER

THE MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS OF RUNNING

by Kevil Tice

by Carmen Murray

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Educator of The Month

Cory Moore Where are you from?

I am from Holt, AL. What is your title?

I am an electives teacher at Davis-Emerson Middle School. I am also the head basketball coach.

How long have you been in this position?

I have taught at DEMS for the past 22 years.

Was this what you always wanted to do?

Believe it or not I actually grew up wanting to be a policeman or fireman.

What degrees have you earned?

I have a B.S. In Elementary Education and a Masters in Counseling. Both degrees were earned from the University of West Alabama.

What awards have you received?

I have received the Jacksonville State Teacher of the Year Award, the Hometown Hero Award, and several black history acknowledgments.

What's your ultimate goal as an educator?

My ultimate goal as an educator is to see each child succeed, regardless of gender, ethnic background, or skill level. My hope is that each child that I encounter values the need to be a productive citizen.

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What has been your most memorable experience? (Any "Aha" moments?)

While this may be odd, my most memorable moment as an educator, is when I became a parent of school age children. It made me more compassionate and understanding. I started to understand kids better and recognized tendencies in behavior and attitudes earlier, and the "why" behind it all.

That was definitely my most memorable moment.

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Zoe Lassiter

What’s your name?

Zoe Alise Lassiter How old are you?

I am 13 years old.

What school do you attend?

I attend Tuscaloosa Magnet SchoolsMiddle.

What grade are you in?

I’m in the 8th grade.

Name your most valued accomplishments.

Any time I win anything at a dance convention, whether it’s a group dance or a solo, I feel like a million bucks.

1. Being invited to join the ASH Dance Company at a National dance convention, Summer 2022.

2. Acceptance in to the Joffrey Ballet School’s Trainee Program in NYC. 3. Modeling for Ariel Jillian, a fashion designer in Atlanta, GA. 4. Being selected to attend STEM CAMP this summer at UAH. 5. Theatre Tuscaloosa’s “Ox in the Ditch” Award recipient for the musical, “Ragtime” 6. Best Supporting Actress Nominee for my role as Joetta Watson in Theatre Tuscaloosa’s production of “The Watson’s Go To Birmingham-1963.”

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Name any awards you have received.

At the end of the last school year, I received the following awards: 1. Honor Roll (all year) 2. Student Council (Vice President) 3. Debate Team 4. Theatre Award for Mermaid’s “Ariel” 5. SRO’s School Safety/Character Award 6. UA’s STEM Showcase 7. Tech Trek Acceptance 8. Superintendent’s Physical Education Award 9. FBLA (7/8 Fundraising Chair)

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At school, I am VP of Student Council and I participate in FBLA, TMS-M Debate team, and in the school musical for the last two years.

Outside of school, I perform in theater; i have performed in a variety of shows in Tuscaloosa. My first show was “A Christmas Carol” at Theatre Tuscaloosa. Executive Director, Tina Turley, really helped me find my voice, and then Alisha Jones and Joey Lay helped me really love the stage in “Hairspray.” After that, I was in “Seussical,” and Baby Kangaroo, and “Ragtime,” as Baby Coalhouse.

Finally, my FAVORITE extra curricular activity is doing the thing I love the ABSOLUTE most: dancing at 3D Dance Studio!!!! Dance is life!!!! I am a CORE Company Dancer at 3D and I love ALL that the studio stands for. We attend great conventions and competitions. The studio provides great opportunities to dance on many different levels and Tessa exposes us to many master creatives! We have master classes with amazing guest artists, and an apprentice program that helps us create relationships with the “littles!” It’s the best of the best. Anyone who is looking for a studio should come check it out!

What are your plans after high school?

After graduation, I plan to attend college, majoring in business, with a minor in dance. I also plan to do commercial dance abroad, and eventually own and run a dance studio much like the one I am a part of now. 3D is my happy place, and it has helped to shape me into who I am and who I want to be. Dancing is one of the greatest forms of self-expression, and I want own and run a space just like it for other kids to grow and be inspired.

Who or what inspires you to be who you are?

I am most inspired by my mom, Crystal Lassiter, and my dance studio owner, Ms. Tessa Zimomra Russell. They are both very driven individuals who encourage me -and everyone else they come in contact with- to be the best version of myself in every way. I am also inspired by Kendra Lynn Alexander, a master dancer/ choreographer and great role model for aspiring professional dancers like myself. Unlike most people my age, I am even inspired by peers, just above my age group, who are doing well in college, chasing their dreams, and living drama free lives.

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Please include anything else you want us to know.

I am very grateful for my family’s support of me. They are my biggest cheerleaders and I know that without them and God, I would never have the chance I have to pursue my dreams or to be who I am and want to be.

And……I am currently looking for more acting opportunities. I want to be a part of an agency that send me to act in shows like “Percy Jackson and the Olympians.”

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“Fleetwood”

by Kevil Time

This month’s “Rabbit Hole” is dedicated to the first sport I was introduced to, baseball.

I know, I know, none of you think I have an athletic bone in my body... and you are absolutely correct! But, since my dad played the sport (exceptionally well, I might add) and was a Little League coach, I learned the game pretty well and pretty early on in my life. Because of that, I will forever be excited to watch a good game of baseball.

Of course, when we think of African Americans and baseball, we immediately rattle off names like Jackie Robinson, Willie Mays, Hank Aaron, Derek Jeter, Ken Griffey Jr., and Barry Bonds, right? Well, what about Moses Fleetwood Walker or his brother Weldy Walker?

Moses and Weldy were the first two Black men to play in Major League Baseball. Moses joined the Toledo Blue Stockings in 1884 and his brother followed about a year later. Now, some people say that William Edward White was the first African American to play MLB, but he passed as and identified himself as a White man, so Fleetwood got the credit.

Fleetwood, a catcher, was well-known for catching balls barehanded most of the time. Although he was released after playing only one season in MLB, Moses Fleetwood Walker went down in history as one of the greats. His hits may not have been many, his active years may be few, but Fleetwood opened the door for African American baseball players for decades to come.

After his baseball career, Fleetwood went on to operate the Union Hotel in Steubenville, Ohio with his brother. He also managed the Opera House movie theater. Fleetwood later patented inventions that created improvement with film reels.

Fleetwood wasn’t just a ball player, he was also a businessman. I’ve enjoyed learning more about him this month. I am also glad that he was inducted into the Oberlin College Hall of Fame in 1990.

Moses Fleetwood Walker Photo credits: Wikipedia Congratulations, Fleetwood! You were a true pioneer!

Oh and, another thing I found while poking around in the Rabbit Hole .... August 1st is “Play Ball Day” in Williamsport, PA. The event is geared towards children who love baseball and softball and is held at the Little League International Complex. Just thought you all would like to know that.

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The Power of Commitment: Building a Life of Dedication

by RomiDarling

Commitment is more than just a word; it’s the foundation of a fulfilling life. It permeates every aspect of our existence, from personal endeavors to professional responsibilities, from our relationships to our spiritual practices. Commitment is the steadfast dedication to a person, place, thing, or idea. It requires discipline, perseverance, and a genuine passion for what we value.

In our homes, commitment means creating a sanctuary of peace and comfort. It involves maintaining a clean and orderly space, taking care of household tasks, and fostering an environment of love and tranquility. By showing up for our homes, we build a haven that nurtures our well-being and provides a refuge from the outside world. That safe space allows us to love on ourselves.

Similarly, commitment to material possessions, like our cars, involves regular maintenance and care. We must ensure that our vehicles are in good working order by getting oil changes, washing them, and refueling them as needed. This dedication ensures that they serve us well and remain reliable for our daily needs.

In relationships, commitment is the glue that holds connections together. Whether it’s friendships, partnerships, or marriages, showing up every day and valuing these bonds is essential. Importantly, commitment must be mutual. It can’t be one-sided; both partners need to have the same level of dedication. True commitment means working together as one, acknowledging that it’s hard work but worth every effort.

It’s about fighting for the relationship and not taking the bond lightly. When you truly love your partner, your marriage, your friendships, and your work relationships, you dedicate yourself to being fully committed. This dedication involves honoring vows taken before God and being mindful of your partner’s needs and struggles. Commitment means supporting each other through everyday challenges, nurturing the relationship, and ensuring that both individuals are equally invested in its success.

Even our thoughts and mindset require commitment. Maintaining a positive outlook and cultivating a disciplined mental attitude demands daily effort. By committing to personal growth and resilience, we empower ourselves to overcome challenges and achieve our goals.

Ultimately, commitment is a team effort, even for those who walk their path alone. For many, the ultimate partner in this journey is God. By committing to our spiritual beliefs and keeping faith at the forefront, we find that discipline and dedication come more naturally. Embracing commitment in all aspects of life—personal, material, relational, and spiritual—leads to a more meaningful and enriched existence.

Commitment is not merely a passive state; it is active, requiring ongoing effort and intentionality.

It takes work, prayer, courage, and resilience. By committing ourselves to growth, steadfastness, and faithfulness in everything we cherish, we build a life that reflects our deepest values and aspirations. We build a life where loving ourselves is a priority.

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by Carmen Murray I never considered myself a runner. In fact, the outside track at my elementary school haunted me for a long time because running seemed to continuously illuminate my inadequacies.

Whether it be for a presidential fitness test or relay racing for a field day, I was walking that track with conviction. My mind was made up early on; I was never going to be a runner. However, after taking on the weight of young adulthood, my mindset shifted. Movement transitioned from a chore that I loathed to a privilege I enjoyed because it helped me reach certain goals. I discovered that I loved dancing and weightlifting and walking, so I performed those activities for a short period each day. Thirty minutes turned into forty-five which stretched into an hour of movement as my endurance strengthened. When I looked in the mirror, that chubby little girl didn’t feel so trapped in her own skin. She could achieve whatever she desired, and now she stood face to face running around that same track.

Running is as much about your physical health as it is about mental health, which is where I struggled. I could run short distances, but eventually my lungs felt like they were collapsing, my legs turned to Jello and my mind would turn off out of self-preservation. Those feelings inhibited me, but consistency aided me in progressing. If I kept running for a half a mile, eventually I could make it to a mile without stopping. Then I made it to two. Then I was running 5ks consistently and could run the last half of a half marathon. I was running laps around that elementary school track in my mind. My mindset not only assisted my running, but my increase in exercise also benefited my mental health.

Exercise is therapeutic to mental health. It has been used to treat mental illnesses such as anxiety, depression, and schizophrenia. A study found that patients with major depressive disorder (MDD) who trained on the treadmill three times a week exhibited effects similar to antidepressants. Even just walking briskly for two and a half hours a week can lower the risk of depression. This effect is due to the increase in brain-derived neurotrophic factors (BDNF) after physical exercise (Koury & Nagy, 2023). BDNF is a protein that encourages the “growth and survival of neurons,” in turn, helping with memory and decreasing depression (Koury & Nagy, 2023, p.4). In a study of black female runners, eight out of twelve participants found that running enhanced their “emotional and mental state” (Cameron, 2024, p. 426). Running acted as a stress reliever and aided these participants in making difficult decisions. It “prompted them to take better care of themselves-holistically” (Cameron, 2024, p. 427).

Running can impact multiple facets of your life. It is known as an anchor practice, which is an activity that “prompts additional healthy behaviors” (Cameron, 2024, p. 418). I engaged in healthier eating, drank more water, and increased my stretching after running more frequently.

My body doesn’t perform as well if I don’t hydrate or eat a bag of gummy bears before running.

It can be difficult to identify as a runner, especially as a black woman. It is a sport that is notoriously marketed to the white middle and upper classes. Also, being concerned with pacing can lead to a sense of defeat, if you don’t run a ten-minute mile (Cameron, 2024).

Maybe you see a version of yourself that couldn’t possibly be a runner. If your body allows it, I encourage everyone to give running a try. It is one of the more accessible forms of exercise, and it can benefit your mental health and your mindset about movement. For most of my life I never considered myself a runner, but that little girl who used to walk the track can now run miles.

References Cameron, S. J. (2024). “We Out Here”: Black Women, Well-Being, and #blackgirlsrun on Instagram.

Journal of Black Studies, 55(5), 418-436. doi: 10.1177/00219347241244539.

Khoury, R., & Nagy, C. (2023). Running from stress: a perspective on the potential benefits of exercise-induced small extracellular vesicles for individuals with major depressive disorder. Frontiers in Molecular Biosciences. doi: 10.3389/fmolb.2023.1154872.

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9:36 So, we know your stories separately, but we don’t know your story together. When did this, that we now know as the Grants, start?

Erica: We started dating November 10, 2002 And when did y’all get married?

Erica: We got married on May 7, 2005.

So y’all can tell us some things about marriage.

DJ: Oh yeah…

Well, that would be another conversation. I know you have both run separate businesses for quite some time, but when did y’all decide to do business together?

Erica: We have always been in business together. Some ventures, like the Charm District and Catch-A-Taste, have been extremely successful. While others were a lesson learned.

Erica, you have had a passion for beautifying people since you were a teen. Maybe even before that. DJ, how did you get started in what is now known as Catch-A-Taste?

DJ: I started cooking and selling plates behind Erica’s salon. I went from that to a food truck, and from the food truck to an actual restaurant. Now I have two restaurants here in Tuscaloosa, Al. So, would you say you are headed towards becoming a franchise?

DJ: Catch-A-Taste is already a franchise.

Nice! So, the two of you have the Charm District which includes a salon (Charming Kreations), a boutique (The Thrifty Charm), and an event space (Eggie’s). You have the Charm Hub which houses unique businesses and then you have two Catch-ATaste locations in Tuscaloosa, Al. Correct?

Erica: And the Charm Academy is coming soon! It’s under construction as we speak.

The Charm Academy? Wow! Tell us about that. What can we expect?

Erica: The Charm Academy is a cosmetology school that will be accredited through the state of Alabama.

We will also teach entrepreneur development. Students will not only learn the skills needed to do hair, nails and make-up, but they will also learn how to properly manage their own businesses.

So, when students finish the program, will they be licensed the way you are licensed?

Erica: Yes. They will be licensed cosmetologists through the state of Alabama. If they move to another state, they will just need to do that state’s required paperwork and they will be licensed in that state too.

It’s a legit school.

That is so exciting!

Erica: Yes, it is! When we open, people will be able to pay out of pocket. However, we are in the process of getting the proper accreditation that will allow students to apply for and receive state funded financial aid.

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9:36 Now, I am super tired just listening to everything the two of you do. I can only imagine how tired you must be at the end of the day. Plus, you (Erica) are on the Tuscaloosa City Schools’ Board of Education, and you (David) drive a school bus every day for the same district. With that being said… you have five children and two grandchildren. How do you balance?

Erica: Well, we only have two children who are still in public school. Our oldest son has graduated college. Our second oldest son is a junior in college and our middle son is now a freshman in college. We have a son in the 10th grade and our baby girl is in the 6th grade. So, it is easier now because we don’t have small children. The struggle has been real over the years because they were heavily involved in sports. Especially baseball and basketball. I look back now, and I think, “How did we do it?” Folks don’t understand how important it has been to have a village. We had people who could get them to practice, and we would pick them up. One time, we had three children playing at the same time, in different locations. We would have to split up and pull on our village so they could all be supported. But now we have children with their own vehicles so that takes a lot of the hustle and bustle out of it.

That’s good.

Erica: Yeah, but sometimes, I don’t know how DJ (David) does it. Our daughter has choir and karate. He makes it look easy because with everything he has to do, he still picks her up and gets her where she needs to go. When my dad was alive, he helped, and my mom still helps too. If my kids have something going on, someone from our tribe will be in attendance.

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How do y’all get time for yourselves?

Erica: We both have great people on our staffs who can run our businesses in our absence. So, if we want to go somewhere or just take some time off, we can. Neither of us work on Mondays and I take Tuesdays off for school board meetings and to handle household business. The main thing is order. We communicate and we establish order. With everything we do, I am also currently working on another degree. If we didn’t have some order and a plan, we couldn’t do everything that we do.

So, DJ…How’s your order?

DJ: I just keep things simple. I have to know exactly what I gotta do and when I gotta do it. Then I just do it. I don’t like to procrastinate so I start early every morning. Especially because I have to drive the bus. I became an entrepreneur so that I wouldn’t have to miss things with my kids. I don’t want to have to choose between my family and a job. When I worked in the oil field, I made a lot of money. But I didn’t have time with my family. So, I basically map out what needs to be done during the day so that I can be with my wife and kids at any time. Of course, unplanned things may come up, but my days are not really that complicated because I try to always have a plan.

Do y’all encounter any personal hiccups?

DJ: Nah.. We have trust. If she says she is going to work early, I know that’s where she is. If I say I am at work, she knows that’s where I am and that’s what I’m doing. If we don’t work, we don’t eat. We have to go get it.

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I’ve noticed that you have included your older children in the business. They are employees. Coming from a culture where many before us did not teach and stress generational wealth, how are you changing that with your own children? Are you making them work or is this something they want for themselves?

DJ: They want to work. I can speak from experience. I had a great-uncle who I used to shine shoes for from the time I was a little boy all the way through high school. He taught me some aspects of business. I know that as long as my kids are getting paid, they are going to work. And my kids are paid just like every other employee. They make good money. If I want them to buy into what their mother and I have built, that have to have some type of interest in it. We see it too often in the black community where when the business owner dies, the business dies too. So, my thing is, I’m gonna give them all the knowledge I have. I’m gonna pay them well, too. But I told them the other day, “I’m training y’all to take over one day. If you want to take over, fine. But what I will not allow to happen is my business dying with me. Either y’all are gonna buy into it and take it to the next level or when I say I’m done, I’m gonna sell it to the highest bidder. That way, we will continue to get some percentage from the business until y’all die.” That’s how it is structured. If they want it, it’s theirs. But I will not force my dream on them.

Have any of them shown interest in running the business when you retire?

DJ: Yes. One of our boys has shown interest.

Have any of them shown an interest in cosmetology?

Erica: Our daughter has shown some interest in being a nail technician. She also likes to cook so only time will tell for her. But my middle son has expressed interest in becoming a barber. Just as my husband stated, neither of us are gonna force them into our dreams. The only requirement is college or learning a trade because I want them to have something to fall forward on. I say it like that because if our businesses were to fail, I can find a job in my degree field. DJ can work for a trucking company with his CDL license. We will always have options.

Unfortunately, husbands and wives can get jealous of each other. Has there ever been a clash of that nature between you two?

DJ: No. I support her, and she supports me. Now, if I think the timing is bad for her to do something, I will say so and she will do the same with me. But there is no room for jealousy. We ultimately have the same goals. To do better, to make more money, and to retire when we are ready.

And sometimes DJ may not agree but he has to let me go through the process and fail at it so I can see for myself.

According to the Oxford dictionary, power couple is a couple consisting of two people who are each influential or successful in their own rights. Do y’all consider yourselves a power couple?

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9:36 DJ: I hear people say it, but…I don’t care to have the title. I don’t have to be in the limelight. Do I like success? Of course! Do I need or want to be praised for success? No, I do not! So, when it comes to labeling us a “power couple,” I don’t want to be put on that pedestal in someone else’s eyes because the moment that’s flawed, then what? But if I’m not up there, where can you knock me to?

Erica: I just feel like we are blessed. We aren’t perfect but we love each other, and we work well together and separately. We have our village, our beautiful children and grandchildren…but mainly, we have God. Because of that, we can move how we need to without questioning our commitment to each other.

Like DJ said earlier, if I’m gone at 5:30 AM, I’m working, and he knows that.

DJ: And I be sleep.

Erica: Right. Because I have to travel with the TCS School Board. I travel with the Chamber of Commerce. We have no room for insecurities in this marriage and partnership. We don’t get in other folks’ business, and we don’t allow other people in ours.

Do y’all have a game plan for maintaining your household?

Erica: The kids have a chore schedule. Whatever that chore is, they do it for the whole month. Then they rotate. The boys are responsible for either cutting the grass or paying for it to get cut. We don’t worry about who is doing the cooking because we know that we are gonna eat. We established order so it usually just flows. We don’t really argue because if he gets on my nerves, I just go to bed. If I get on his…

DJ: Well, I’m very patient.

Erica: Yeah, he is very patient. I don’t think I could have prayed for a better partner.

The 9:36 Speak on It question is, “Do opposites attract?” Would you say y’all are opposite?

Erica: In some ways, yes. But we have a lot of similarities too.

Y’all balance each other out.

Both: Yes. DJ: Listen. I was a grown man when she met me. And she was a grown woman when I met her. I can’t change myself. How am I gonna change another grown person? You feel me? So, I think the key to marriage and happiness is let a person be who they are. Seriously, if you didn’t like me, why would you marry me? And vice versa. Of course, there are things we have to work on. But that’s life! But changing?

I’m gonna be who I am. I was born David C Grant, Jr. That’s who I will be when I die. As I get older, things won’t bother me as much.

Erica: Then you must already be old.

Because nothing bothers him?

Erica: Nothing.

DJ: The way I see it, if I can’t change it, why the hell would I lose sleep over it?

Erica: And he stands firm. So, when he speaks, the children and I listen. I went out with some friends a long time ago and I came in the house at 3 AM. DJ said, “Don’t come back in this house at 3 AM again.” I haven’t done it again. I don’t think to myself, “I’m gonna show him that I’m grown, and he doesn’t run me.” That’s now how this works. It was an easy fix. The only thing I might continue to do that could be a tiny issue is shop. But I shop cheap, so it isn’t too big of a deal. Oh, and I wear lipstick now. But at first, he couldn’t stand lipstick. The true differences we have, we discuss and then we are done with it.

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9:36 That’s good marriage advice.

Erica: Now he says I’m mean.

DJ: Yeah. She has a mean streak. She can be sweet and nice but it’s there. I can’t change that, and I don’t want to because sometimes, that is needed. Now I only get mad about it when she lets it out at the wrong time. Timing is important.

Erica: But I do really good with it now. Don’t I Babe?

DJ: She’s working on it. (We laughed) Let’s be clear. I’m not talking about with me. I’m talking about with certain situations. If you don’t have to go at it, leave it alone. Don’t let nobody take you out of your character. If they can get you that mad, they have control over you at that moment.

Erica: That has helped me with business too. I listen to DJ. I watch DJ. DJ: Cause I’ll get mad, but I know I have much more to lose if I choose to cuss you out at that moment. I’m not gonna do it.

Erica: And we work out.

DJ: Yeah. We try to keep in shape.

Erica: I have illnesses. I have Myasthenia Gravis and Graves’ Disease, but it didn’t get bad until after I had Covid. I developed other issues. DJ made sure I got to my appointments in Birmingham, Al. I take my vitamins, and I make sure I get proper rest. Our vows said through sickness and good health we are to stay together.

He has proven that to me. Like, I was losing my vison, and he took good care of me. I just feel like we have a blessed marriage because, he could’ve chosen to be mean about it, but he was so good.

Did it take you all a while to be this in sync? Or was it automatic?

Erica laughed: It happened early. He told me a long time ago that he didn’t have time for games.

DJ: I wouldn’t bring a toothbrush or a pair of socks to her apartment. I stayed with my parents, and she had her own place. I stayed over there a lot, but I would not bring any of my stuff to her house. I was like that because she had one time to put me out. I knew I wouldn’t do anything to make her put me out, but if I ever heard, “This my apartment. Get out.” I would have been done. So, I would just come and go. I would help with her bills, and I also helped my parents too.

Eventually, I decided that if I bought us a house, I would never have to worry about her putting me out. And if you get mad at me, turn over and go to sleep. But I’m not going in another bedroom. I’m not going on the couch. And I definitely am not going out that door. We set the guidelines early in our relationship.

Erica: He took me to different houses. I didn’t want to leave my Section 8 housing, but I did, and he eventually got on his knee one night and proposed. We had the babies and…

DJ: Twenty-two years later…

Erica: We are still going strong.

If a couple came to you, and they are struggling to agree on business or some marital issue, how would you advise? On a man to man/woman to woman basis.

DJ: Well…first thing I would advise him to do is to hear his wife out. If it makes sense, see how you can help make it happen. If it doesn’t make sense to you, but it makes perfect sense to her, have her explain it so you can understand it. Sometimes you can bring something to your partner and because it doesn’t sound right in the beginning of the conversation, you shut them down. But you have to hear her out completely before responding to it. So, from experience, I would say, learn to listen in totality. Hear the whole plan first. And that takes work. The average man thinks he has all the answers. However, God doesn’t just speak to me. He speaks to her too. So, if God spoke to your spouse and gave her this grand idea, have a listening ear.

And be willing to help because you never know if you are gonna make it if you don’t try.

Erica: Ummm…what I would tell a young lady is make it make sense and then make it make cents.

Talking to you made me realize how many businesses we have tried. Together we have nine successful businesses, but we tried and were unsuccessful at a total of six businesses.

Y’all have nine businesses? Wow! I was trying to count earlier but I couldn’t keep up.

Erica: Yes. But we couldn’t do it if we didn’t have order and if we weren’t willing to compromise sometimes. I would also tell her to do all the research you can before going into business and before going to your spouse.

DJ: And we have dependable employees. If we didn’t, we wouldn’t have time to sit with you for this interview.

Erica: That’s true. DJ went from cooking and selling chicken behind my salon to two locations and thirty-seven employees. I don’t have as many employees, but I employ people too. And they work well for us. When I first opened the boutique, DJ would finish his bus route then come run the boutique for me. I would leave work and go help him run the food truck. We don’t have to do those things now. If we are tired/sick or if we leave town, we don’t have to close our businesses. They still run as well as they would if we were there.

Will you need employees for The Charm Academy?

Erica: Yes. We will need a full staff to run it properly and smoothly. It needs to be run legally too. I have to stay in compliance with the state and I can’t half step with any of it. This school isn’t just for me. It’s for our community.

We know The Charm Academy is the next business step. Is there anything that is next for the Grants?

Erica: We have discussed a possibility or two but y’all will have to stay tuned for that. But I am doing more public speaking, and I have a few events already on my schedule. Including one in Washington, DC next year. I have published a book too.

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What’s the name of it and how can we get it?

Erica: Chapter 34: Life After Death and it’s on Amazon. I do plan to write another book in the future.

Is there anything else you want the 9:36 audience to know?

Erica: I don’t think so. You have been very thorough.

DJ: The other day someone stopped me to tell me how much of an inspiration my wife has been to them.

She asked me how it feels to see our visions and dreams in action. I told her that my wife is the driving force behind it. I will tell anyone that when I was out there driving for Uber, if I asked my wife for $10 just so I could have gas for that first pick-up, she never made me feel like I was less than a man. She never made me feel like I wasn’t the head of our house. She knew that I wasn’t out gambling, cheating, or doing things to get to the financial situation I was in. It was a sacrifice I made to make sure our kids were in a better position. It caused me to lose a lot, and she understood that. That humbled me as a man, a husband, and a father to know that I had a wife who wouldn’t look at me differently because I needed her to help for that moment. I decided then that if it’s in God’s will, whatever my wife wants or needs, I will make sure she has it. All people see is the success. They don’t know the things we endured to get here.

Erica: Due to some failed business choices, we faced foreclosure on my building. We even tried to file bankruptcy and were advised against it. So, from us to go from that situation to employee 40+ people is nothing but God. We are grateful.

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Model Month

SHARITA GAMBLE

by Romi Darling

Hey sis, I’m am so honored to be having this moment with you!!!!!! You so deserve it!!!! How long have you been in the modeling industry, and what has your journey been like so far?

Thank you so much, sis! Your support means the world to me. I have been in the modeling industry for 8 years now, and it has been quite the journey. There have been ups and downs, challenges and successes, but overall, it has been incredibly rewarding. I have had the opportunity to work with amazing photographers, designers, and other models, and I have learned so much about myself in the process. I am grateful for all the experiences that have shaped me into the person I am today, and I am excited to see where this journey will take me next. Thank you for being by my side every step of the way.

So a lot ppl don’t know be we have been in connection and supporting each other for quite some time now so I know a lot about you but what inspired you to become a model and eventually transition into a model coach?

I have always been passionate about fashion, beauty, and self-expression, so becoming a model felt like a natural fit for me. Ii was giving an opportunity that was presented by a friend who was looking for a plus size/curvy girl to model in her lingerie collection back in 2016. I was inspired by the idea of being able to use my body and image as a form of art and communication. Modeling allowed me to explore different styles, personas, and emotions, and I loved the creative freedom and expression it offered. As I continued to work in the industry, I realized that there was a lack of support and guidance for aspiring models, especially in terms of building confidence, developing skills, and navigating the competitive nature of the industry. This inspired me to transition into a model coach role, where I could use my experience and knowledge to help others pursue their modeling dreams in a positive and empowering way.

I am passionate about mentoring and empowering individuals to embrace their unique beauty and talents, and I believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to shine in front of the camera. Being able to support and guide aspiring models on their journey to success is incredibly fulfilling for me, and I am grateful to be able to make a positive impact in the lives of others through my work as a model coach

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9:36 I know that you are in school right now. Tell me about your studies at the University of Alabama. What degree are you pursuing, and what drew you to social work?

I am currently pursuing my Master's degree in Social Work at the University of Alabama, motivated by my family background of strong women who believed in giving back and help others. My mother and aunts have instilled in me the value of helping others, inspiring me to pursue a career in social work.

How do you balance your roles as a student, business owner, model coach, and mom?

Through careful time management and prioritization, I am able to juggle my responsibilities as a mother with my passions for business and modeling.

What motivated you to start your business, Bodied by Shea, and why did you choose this particular field?

On August 21, I will be celebrating three years in business. My journey towards weight loss and fitness inspired me to pursue this path. As a 2x cesarean mom, I found it challenging to shed weight, especially in my stomach area, despite trying various methods such as gym workouts, supplements, and dietary changes. With surgery being my next option, I discovered body contouring as a safer and more effective alternative. After two weeks of treatment, I was thrilled with the outcomes, and each session deepened my understanding of the treatments. This prompted me to become a body contouring specialist, and I am now entering my third year in this field.

How has your background in modeling influenced your approach to running Bodied by Shea?

My background in modeling has greatly influenced my approach to running Beautify Bodies by Shae. As a model, I have always been passionate about promoting self-confidence and body positivity. This has translated into my business, where I strive to create a safe and welcoming space for individuals to feel comfortable in their own skin. Additionally, my experience in the modeling industry has given me a unique perspective on beauty standards and the importance of diversity and inclusivity. I make it a priority to showcase a wide range of body types and skin tones in my work, and I am dedicated to helping my clients feel beautiful and empowered no matter their size or shape. Overall, my background in Photo by Memorable Moments Photography modeling has taught me the value of self-love and acceptance, and I strive to instill these principles in everything I do at Beautify Bodies by Shae.

Can you share some of your favorite moments or highlights from your modeling career?

Certainly! One of my favorite moments from my modeling career was when I had the opportunity to walk in a fashion show for a well-known designer. It was such a surreal experience to see my hard work pay off and to be able to showcase the designer's beautiful creations on the runway Another highlight was when I was featured on 3 book covers that sold on Amazon, magazine features to promote plus size and curvy models. It was incredibly rewarding to see my photos published and to receive positive feedback from readers. Overall, my modeling career has been filled with many unforgettable moments and highlights that have shaped me into the person I am today. Each experience has taught me valuable lessons and helped me grow both personally and professionally.

You are a hats girl and I love that about you!

Fashion is such a dynamic industry. How do you keep up with the latest trends, and what are some of your go-to styles?

I don't adhere to the latest fashion trends, instead, I dress in a way that makes me feel confident and comfortable. My style consists of active wears, blazers, nice top and denim jeans, leggings and oversized tops, dresses, of course my fedora hats, sneakers, boots and heels. I believe that fashion should be functional and make you feel good, rather than following fleeting trends.

So, Coach Shae, with all your experience I know you have so positive to share, what advice would you give to aspiring models and those looking to enter the fashion industry?

I advise you to approach this decision with a lot of thought and resist rushing into it. Building a successful modeling career requires significant research, investment in yourself, and understanding that you will be a physical embodiment of your brand. Protect your name because you are a walking build board. Maintain a professional demeanor and discerningly allocate your time and attention, as not everyone will deserve it.

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9:36 Is there anything else you would like us to know?

As a model coach and entrepreneur running Beautify Bodies by Shae, my goal is to continue empowering individuals to embrace their beauty and confidence, and to help them achieve their modeling dreams and fitness goals in a positive and supportive environment. I aspire to expand my business while reaching more aspiring models, providing them with the tools, resources, and mentorship they need to succeed in the industry. In my personal life, I strive to maintain a healthy work-life balance and prioritize family time, self-care and personal growth. I am committed to continuing my education and professional development as a social worker, and I hope to make a positive impact in the lives of those I work with by providing support, advocacy, and resources to help them overcome challenges and achieve their goals.

Overall, my goals and aspirations for both my career as a social worker and my personal life revolve around making a difference in the lives of others, promoting self-love and empowerment, and continuing to grow and evolve as a compassionate and dedicated professional.

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t h g i l t o p S e h T A FULL CIRCLE MOMENT: TUSCALOOSA NATIVE, KYNNEDI PORTER, STARS IN ‘HAIRSPRAY’ NATIONAL TOUR

By Jasmine Hollie

Tuscaloosa native, Kynnedi Porter, is one step closer to achieving her dream of becoming a Broadway star.

Porter, 26, was featured in the 2023-2024 Broadway National Tour of the musical “Hairspray.” She played the combined roles of Dynamite and Cindy Watkins.

The nine month tour stopped in about 45 cities across the U.S. and Canada .

As her first national tour, Porter said her time with the “Hairspray” cast was an unforgettable experience.

“It was something I will always remember for the rest of my life,” said Porter.

The production, led by director Jack O’Brien and choreographer Jerry Mitchell is an adaptation of the film written and directed by John Waters. It features the score of hit songs including “Welcome to the 60’s,” “Good Morning Baltimore” and “You Can’t Stop the Beat.”

“Hairspray” is set in 1960’s Baltimore and focuses on topics like integration, body image and social activism.

Kynnedi Porter

The production was a full circle moment for Porter. The musical theater fan has been in multiple productions of Hairspray throughout her career. Porter has also portrayed the Dynamite, Cindy Watkins, a total of three times.

“This show is pretty special to me,” said Porter.

Porter said she is looking forward to doing another tour in the future.

“It was just a great experience... meeting new people, seeing all the fans,” said Porter. “The experience was wonderful,” she said.

Porter is a graduate of Tuscaloosa County High School and the University of Alabama. She began her theater career at the age of 10 when she played an orphan in a production of Annie.

Since then, Porter has starred in numerous productions both locally and out of state.

Porter is also heavily involved in the community. She is involved in several organizations and often spends her time coaching community theater camps.

In the future, Porter said she hopes to make her mark on Broadway and also aspires to have a career in TV and film.

“I want to be on Broadway. I want to be a good Broadway star and then transfer to TV and film,” said Porter.

Perseverance is key for anyone who wishes to pursue a career in theater or any profession, said Porter.

“Just go for it. Whatever is supposed to be for you is going to get to you,” she said.

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Photo by: Jeremy Daniel

Realtor Alert I'm Aleccina Jackson, Realtor with RealtySouth-Tuscaloosa!

I have embarked on a career in real estate with a passion for helping people find their perfect home and building generational wealth!! Being a resident in Tuscaloosa County for 25+ years with intimate knowledge of the local neighborhoods, schools, and amenities, is a valuable resource for clients looking to buy or sell in the area.

While my interest in real estate gives an opportunity for me to be resourceful to helping families achieve their home purchasing and real estate desires! I chose a prestigious agency, RealtySouth-Tuscaloosa with quality training and a wealth of knowledge provided to further expand my dedication, integrity, and exceptional customer service to all that I encounter.

My ability to understand my clients' needs and preferences, ensuring a personalized and seamless experience from start to finish. Whether it's a first-time homebuyer, a growing family looking for more space, or an investor seeking new opportunities, I'm committed to providing expert guidance and support every step of the way through professionalism and actively networking with all community partners to ensure the best practices are achieved while navigating through the real estate market!

With Aleccina as your Realtor by your side, you can be confident that you're in good hands.

I look forward to working with you!!!

Aleccina

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Speak on It...

by You...for You...

Do opposites attract or do we unknowingly attract who we really are?

Emanuel

Opposites do not attract. Rather, I fill the void where you lack and vice versa, hence we Complete, fill up or Fulfill each other.

Carlton

It depends on my opinion … if you’re a thrill seeker/risk taker then opposites attract but someone that likes to keep it safe will typically attract who they are

Romi

I really don’t believe that opposites attract. I believe you attract you. as a Pisces, I operating both worlds light and dark. I am Ying and yang. I believe we attract. What we are operating in if you operating your light, you will attract light if you operate in the dark attract. I think that’s why it’s important that you always check your mindset. You always check your or your energy because that pays a big part and the person who you attract or the people who you attract the things that you attract.

Dee

We attract what we are. I just said this yesterday!

Jared

I think you attract who/what you are. The energy you give off, is the energy that returns to you. In a partner, you attract who you are, but it shows itself in very different ways sometimes. Your faith and your fears can be expressed through another human being and it can be an adverse reaction to who you are or the opposite.

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by Shawna D. Moore

WNBA Mania

What is going on in the world of the WNBA? This is the first year in a very long time that people are actually tuning in. With all the Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese hoopla, it’s no surprise that the views are at an all time high. Everybody wants to see which woman is breaking which record and how they are holding up to the hype behind their names. Let’s break it down. Caitlin just made WNBA history by scoring 300 career points, 100 rebounds, and 100 assists in only her 19th game. She also made history being the first rookie in WNBA history to record a triple double. Angel Reese made WNBA history by having 13 consecutive double doubles. If that’s not enough, Angel was also named the Eastern Conference player of the week for week seven which has never been held by a rookie. Both ladies were also named WNBA All-Stars. Both ladies are also battling for the esteemed award: Rookie of the Year and based on their current stats, it could go either way. Reese is averaging 13.8 points and 11.8 rebounds a game and Clark is averaging 16.8 points and 7.8 in assists. Although it’s a very close battle, there Is a lot of basketball left to be played. Either way it goes, both Reese and Clark have had a great start to their rookie seasons.

It’s A Legacy Never underestimate the power of King James! The fact that Bronny James was drafted number 55 by The Los Angeles Lakers in the second round, is a true testament that it pays to have a father with clout and power. This was an orchestrated plan to make the exact moves at the right time to be able to accomplish the ultimate goal. People have accused LeBron of nepotism and saying that Bronny didn’t deserve the spot. I’m confident that Bronny will do the work and prove his worth. As long as fans, commentators, and basketball lovers alike can remember that Bronny is not Lebron, and give him time to develop his game without the constant criticism and comparison, he’ll rise to the occasion and make the King proud and prove them all wrong.

Are You Ready For Some Football?

Starting Aug 31st: 39 days in counting and I can’t wait! ●Alabama vs WKU ●Auburn vs Alabama A&M ●Georgia vs Clemson ●LSU vs USC ●Tennessee vs Chattanooga ● Ole Miss vs Furman ● Mississippi St.. vs Eastern Ky ●Texas A&M vs Notre Dame

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