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SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $12,950,000 NEW LISTING

LITTLE RIVER ROAD COMPOUND. Extraordinary oceanfront South Dartmouth estate includes a beautifully appointed main residence, two bedroom pool house, carriage house, spectacular separately deeded four bedroom guest house, deep water dock. The offering also includes two adorable cottages with dock on the Little River inlet as well as a three bedroom ranch style home, all separately deeded. Enjoy exquisite ocean views of Buzzards Bay and the Islands from this amazing, landmark estate. Offered at $12,995,000. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200.

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Enjoy spectacular ocean views from this mid-century modern home on a private acre lot. Property includes shared ownership of abutting seven-acre trust land with rolling meadows and ocean access. Home features a cathedral ceilinged living room with a massive fireplace and wall of glass overlooking meadows, stone walls and the ocean beyond. Hardwood floors, three plus bedrooms, dining room, den, ocean facing terrace and tennis court. A one of a kind offering. $1,895,000. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200 or Sarah Meehan 508.685.8926.

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EST. SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $1,395,000

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Set on high, this custom built home was meticulously crafted for today’s discerning buyer.

This 3 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom residence on nearly an acre, features an open floor plan, spacious first floor master, a kitchen fit for a chef and an oversized 3 car garage. Contact Sarah Korolnek 774.644.9156 SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $995,000

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Rarely available, 1+/- acre buildable lot with ocean views over shared private trust property affording access to rolling meadows and oceanfront. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200 or Sarah Meehen 508.685.8926 WESTPORT | $649,900

NEW BEDFORD | $384,900

Renovated bungalow located on desirable Clarks Point offers distant water views and is just minutes away from Fort Tabor, the ocean and New Bedford Harborwalk. This 4 bedroom, 2 bathroom home features an open floor plan and spacious master suite that could also be used as an in-law set-up. Contact Sarah Korolnek 774.644.9156.

SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $2,650,000

Versatile quintessential cape located just miles away from the ocean, local beaches, Demarest Lloyd State park and so much more! This home features great in-law potential with many recent upgrades including a new roof, windows, heating system, siding, and renovated main living quarters.

Please contact Sarah Korolnek 774.644.9156.

SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $1,395,000

Newly built, five-six bedroom, 3.5 bath custom Colonial set on 1.26 acres close to the beaches and all Padanaram Village has to offer. Contact Sarah Meehan 508.685.8926.

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Sophisticated summer living at Birchfield Farms. Five bedroom, 3.5 bath set on nearly two acres with spectacular water views. Contact Sarah Meehan 508.695.8926

SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $925,000 NEW LISTING

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Walk to the Village shops from this unique two-family with an additional accessory apartment. Townhouse units offer 4 beds/2 baths and 2 beds/2 baths. All have separate utilities, entrances and laundry. Contact Collette Lester 508.287.2075 or Chris Hiller at 508.965.8409 SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $595,000

Fantastic location in Padanaram. Spacious, threebedroom raised ranch, located just one house from the water. Contact Patricia Hottel 508.542.2030.

SOUTH DARTMOUTH UNDER AGREEMENT

Stunning…contemporary Cape set on 8 acres overlooking the vineyard at Pardon Hill. Ultimate summer getaway.

Contact Will Milbury 508525.5200 or Sarah Meehan 508.685.8926.

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Waterfront on a private beach with stunning views of Buzzards Bay and the ocean beyond. This house is located at a dead-end street offering beach-style comfort inside and plenty of outdoor space. Contact Patricia Hottel 508.542.2030.

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Stunning views in Crescent Beach Mattapoisett $975,000

First floor living & versatile floor plan Marion $895,000

Beautifully crafted home in Indian Cove | Marion $1,995,000

Historic city mixed-use landmark New Bedford $875,000

Gorgeous corner unit, panoramic water views | Weymouth $909,000

Waterfront with private dock on Hamblin Pond Mashpee $2,595,000

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Storybook setting for this Georgian Cape Yarmouth $1,195,000

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WELCOME Lead, follow or get out of the way

TRAVEL Destination: Portland, Maine, it rocks!

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IMPRESSIONS Peace and freedom for Ukraine

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HOME South Dartmouth real estate continues to impress

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STAY The Portland Harbor Hotel is a beacon of luxury

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TABLE I BlueFin—any fresher, and it deserves a slap

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TABLE I I Sichuan Kitchen is fiery, intense, and worthy of a visit; over and over again

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CHORDS Dropkick Murphys; The bad boys of Celtic rock kick off their European Tour

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LITERATURE Sweet memories of the ‘Village’

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PROFILE What lurks in the minds of authors? We invite you to find out

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FILM Inventing Anna—Love her or hate her, Anna Sorokin, aka German heiress Anna Delvey’s story is a hit; that’s if you believe it

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PERSONAL BEST Becoming the person you want to be

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HEALTH The elderly and hospitalization, what you don’t know could hurt them

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LIVING WELL “I can drink myself sober!”

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WELL DONE The magic of Museum Concerts of Rhode Island is enchanting

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INTIMACY Investigating the many forms of love

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Welcome

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We Are Resilient

o one can say we aren’t built for the long haul.

During the last few years, as a country, we made it through the most unimaginable challenges; and due to our ability to predict trouble on the horizon, it was shocking to see the invasion of Russian troops and weapons into Ukraine.

More startling is we must intervene in an all-out battle between two countries, each having the ability to drag us into a conflict that will have an unpleasant and horrific ending—if ever.

Odd is the public response to the war; it appears many are going about their business and focusing on the future; of course, they complain about the financial issues affecting them, but for the most part, they are taking the terrible news in stride.

Late winter weather has been a disappointment, especially for those residing in the mid-section of New England and other areas of the northeast. What looked to be a mild season quickly evaporated. Unless you planned your weekends in the mountains or a get-away to the tropics, you might not have noticed the treacherous driving the rest of us faced; it seems some found silver linings in adverse situations.

As we are experiencing significant rises in food, fuel, and energy costs, demand for entertainment and travel grows.

In conversations heard during the last month, it’s clear thoughts of tearing off masks and getting outdoors for relief have become priorities.

Positive signs are around us; this month, we share an adventure to Portland, Maine. A lovely oceanside community rich in history, you’ll be delighted to learn about its accommodations, art and entertainment venues, and unique dining options; it is one of the many reasons Portland’s popularity grows as we lift out of recent health concerns.

Real estate, a driver of the economy, remains strong, with many homes selling in hours, if not days, of coming onto the market, be sure to take a close look at our April Home Review; we have a winner this month!

We’ve faced heartaches and headaches for the last few years, and there is more to come, but in reality, we can endure, navigate, and switch to “Plan-B” with ease. Americans are intelligent, dynamic, and are willing to be diligent in achieving their goals; in short, we are resilient, and we are not going to lets obstacles get in our way—great days are ahead! H

AMERICANS ARE INTELLIGENT, DYNAMIC, AND ARE WILLING TO BE DILIGENT IN ACHIEVING THEIR GOALS; IN SHORT, WE ARE RESILIENT, AND WE ARE NOT GOING TO LETS OBSTACLES GET IN OUR WAY—GREAT DAYS ARE AHEAD! NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | APRIL 2022 | 11

Impressions

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fter decades of political chaos—with no end in sight, two-plus years of COVID and the misery, pain, and unbearable isolation it delivered, fears of record-breaking inflation which hammer those least insulated from its damaging effects, accompanied by nose-bleeding energy prices; we now face the idiocy of invading Ukraine and the potential for World War lll.

If these events were not playing in media, most would swipe it left in their minds and attribute it to a bad dream— but it’s not, and so we face a tidal wave of trouble ahead.

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Interestingly, while fury blazes, the public appears to be taking the news and pressure in stride. We are not witnessing panic but rather concern. Many are confused, and because they are on the receiving end of inaccurate information, they hesitate to take a firm position; it is probably better, but there is a cost involved.

Of all the problems we face, the vicious attacks on the people of Ukraine are the most horrific. Women, children, and civilian infrastructure are targeted for forced evacuation under the threat of death and destruction.

The sights and sounds of Putin’s incomprehensible actions pierce hearts with compassion and strike at others’ mindfulness, knowing that an invasion of a sovereign country must be

people but around the globe. He closely watches the game as he plays his hand in the current crisis. And while eyes are on the potential of a new Soviet Union forming, the US should be watchful of actions taking place in the unification of Taiwan, which President Xi Jinping has said will happen and has indicated force is not out of the question.

Most people worldwide want peace; they have grown weary of battles and casualties. US citizens have given up the lives of their soldiers and sustained horrific attacks on its soil and in the air.

Today, we face a more significant threat because it is beginning as a war of yesteryear—an old-fashioned ground battle, with the threat of nuclear intervention. Oddly, the conductor is a madman who is hell-bent on creating a legend for future generations. It’s disturbing to watch a paranoid and isolated leader disconnect on the world stage, forcing millions of people and thousands of leaders to exert financial, social, electronic, militaristic, and adverse public opinion upon him; and him alone.

It’s a new world, people are assimilating not as isolationists within their borders, but instead, they see their lives interconnecting with those in other lands. The internet, travel, and trade have been the catalyst for this change of heart, and regardless of the outcome of “Putin’s Folly,” the strength of society will force a win with more remarkable successes to follow.

We are conscious of those with the belief that this may not be a conflict worthy of our collective interests, but, to that, we ask, what would it take for you to support a pushback against tyranny and a man willing to commit war crimes against humanity?

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approached with the full force of all peaceful nations.

We are in the early stages of what looks like a terrible play with incompetent actors. We were warned about two leaders taking advantage of others for political and financial rewards; we now see the chessboard rearranged and positions fortified.

Putin’s Russia appears unstable; he hasn’t the hearts and minds of his people; thousands have been jailed for protesting, and the oligarchs—well, think about it, when do they realize his actions will cause them incalculable harm?

And, what will they do about it?

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s quickly as homes are listed, interested families immediately flock to the finest offerings; without exception, the same reaction will prevail now that 10 Elise Lane in Dartmouth is available.

Set within the peaceful confines of what was once farmland, this custom-built Colonial home was meticulously crafted for today’s discerning buyer. Adding to its prestige is the thoughtful curb appeal that went into the home’s design.

The 3,000+ square-foot, three bedroom, 2.5 bathroom residence, on nearly an acre of professionally manicured grounds, is located at the end of a quiet cul-de-sac in a refined

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and established neighborhood that emulates feelings of country, while only minutes from shopping, entertainment, and the interstate.

As you enter the home, you are greeted by an elegant, two story foyer and an adjacent formal dining room. At the heart of this open concept design is a kitchen fit for a chef with custom cabinetry, quartz countertops, and Wolf & Sub-Zero appliances. Meticulously maintained, it appears there are absolutely no signs of wear and tear, meaning an immediate move-in is possible.

An expansive master suite anchors the main level with cathedral ceilings, a walk-in closet, and a spa-like en suite bathroom with double vanities, a soaking tub, and a marble shower; amenities that engulf the soul.

The fireplace living room, glorious sunroom, convenient laundry room, and half bath complete the first floor and add

The 3,000+ square-foot, three bedroom, 2.5 bathroom residence, on nearly an acre of professionally manicured grounds, is located at the end of a quiet cul-de-sac in a refined and established neighborhood that emulates feelings of country, while only minutes from shopping, entertainment, and the interstate.

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Meticulously maintained, it appears there are absolutely no signs of wear and tear, meaning an immediate move-in is possible.

significant ambiance to the elegance of this spectacular residence.

Making your way upstairs are two oversized guest rooms and a full bathroom.

Additional features of this fine home include an oversized three car garage, 4 1/4" hardwood floors, custom mahogany millwork, and an irrigation system.

10 Elise Lane, Dartmouth, Massachusetts, was built in 2016 and presented by Milbury & Company for $1,395,000. Additional information is available at milburyre.com. H To arrange a showing, contact Sarah Korolneck at 774-644-9156, or schedule an appointment at sarahk@milburyre.com.

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t’s not the Hamptons, Cape Cod, or the Islands of Nantucket and Martha’s Vineyard; still, Portland, Maine, holds equal ranking with these luxury destinations because it is easy to fall in love with its rich history and citywide amenities.

We recently visited Portland—the first time in a long time—and had difficulty referencing it as a city since there’s a seductive ambiance throughout; such influence plays with perception by creating a mood or at least feelings aligned more with a village or town.

Portland is charming, visually exciting, and amazingly clean and safe. The combination of period architecture, cobblestones, street art, hundreds of small businesses that understand the importance of curb appeal, ocean views, seafood markets, new buildings under construction, and a positive vibe shows Portland is enjoying a well-deserved renaissance.

A pleasant ride from anywhere in New England and beyond, you’ll notice the importance of shipping in Portland as you pass over the Casco Bridge toward

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The combination of period architecture, cobblestones, street art, hundreds of small businesses that understand the importance of curb appeal, ocean views, seafood markets, new buildings under construction, and a positive vibe shows Portland is enjoying a well-deserved renaissance.

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the Waterfront District. The sight of barges and container ships off-loading, signifies the port plays a significant role in the local economy.

Minutes away is Commercial Street; you can’t help but notice tourists, hotels, parking lots, restaurants, galleries, and retailers alongside the sea harvesting, processing, and transportation industries.

It’s quite apparent efforts to integrate traditional forms of economic viability—those dependent on the sea—have reconciled the need to create an upscale, modern-day resort community.

Other delights found along the Waterfront District are the gourmet markets and harborside fish houses open to the public. Nothing compares to fresh-off-the-boat Fruit de Mer displayed on ice, exotic caviars from around the

world, and every oyster imaginable. I found great willingness to ship my fresh seafood purchases, so they arrive the same day I return home.

As for thirst-quenching, you’ll find plenty of shops offering expert advice and innumerable selections of Champagnes, fine wines, and craft beers throughout the Portland Downtown area.

Opposite the waterfront begins the Old Port District. An impressive row of renovated mills and buildings, housing more chic restaurants, hotels, retailers, galleries, and offices, run as far as you can see. One block up is Fore Street; it’s the area’s focal point, offering pedestrian-

friendly sidewalks, cafes, and opportunities for people-watching, food-tasting, and fabulous shopping.

As for excitement, I was told eating and drinking are the rages for everyone who visits Portland. With choices ranging from clam shacks to fine dining, each day is viewed as a gastronomic tour of flavors and invention. According to my sources, Portland boasts more restaurants per capita than New York City or Los Angeles; anecdotally, I can’t challenge such a claim.

The more colorful and creative neighborhood in Portland is referred to as the Arts District; it’s where numerous museums, galleries, more restaurants, and hotels are found. It is also where the Art-Deco State Theater is located. The historic venue hosts a wide range of live

Parking can be problematic in the Old Port District; I found the best rates at the Portland Fish Pier, which is centrally located. entertainment throughout the year, often selling out early. It’s best to visit their website (statetheatreportland.com) and reserve tickets early.

The Art District is also home to a more eclectic crowd offering tips to alternative fashion, styles, and creativity.

Referred to as ‘funky,’ instead, it’s a mix of generational periods with everyone

enjoying the mood. Worth a walk or Uber ride to take it in and see the transition between neighborhoods; the area shows the diversity of Portland and why it is a desirable destination.

Portland was once the gem overlooked, but today, it’s a player in the travel industry due to its brilliant revival. Without question, its formula will be a model used by communities striving to draw tourism to their communities, especially those facing similar challenges.

I am impressed with Portland; it’s dynamic, inviting, and delicious. The best advice is to book soon and not be disappointed; we are on the cusp of a traveling boom, and it is never too early to plan your next vacation. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | APRIL 2022 | 27

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The Portland Harbor Hotel’s Luxury & Style Is The Crown Jewel Of Maine Accommodations.

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he Portland Harbor Hotel sets the highest standards for pleasure and business travelers alike; I know this well because my recent visit to Maine was a little bit of both.

Located in the Old Port District, the Portland Harbor Hotel is anchored at the top of Fore Street, where restaurants, galleries, and boutiques are nestled in historic brick buildings. Noticeably, new development is progressing and can be described as attractive and complementary to the streets old-world charm.

As the result of careful planning, creativity, and preservation, visitors are pouring into the exciting seaside community seeking adventures only Portland offers.

The Portland Harbor Hotel fills an interesting genre; first, it meets the lofty demands of its guests, who are likely seasoned travelers and have predetermined expectations of suitable accommodation and amenities. Secondly, the resort exemplifies commitment to their mission; their service is impeccable, the rooms and common areas are immaculate, and the hotel’s design is stunning!

The 103 guest rooms and newly designed special event areas have been freshly renovated to reflect the essence of coastal Maine. However, I believe they went a step further in anticipation of pent-up demand and have created an experience not found in any property I stayed.

What I enjoyed most about the Portland Harbor Hotel— in all seriousness, I sensed feelings of being aboard a luxury yacht or lavish liner.

The grand stairway with an opulent Geoff Herguth kinetic sculpture of fish swimming due to airflow movement engulfs perception. Reaching the upper level, I was elated to find a two salon-type open-air seating area. The first, facing Fore Street, has an impressive bank of floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking people and traffic, creating an imaginary visual of watching schools of fish or dolphins frolicking as you sail by.

The second lounging area offers a refined experience for relaxing or gathering with friends and family. Quiet and comfortable, it resembles an owner’s executive suite.

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“What I enjoyed most about the Portland Harbor Hotel—in all seriousness, I sensed feelings of being aboard a luxury yacht or lavish liner.” deep rich marine blue upholstery with white piping, coral-colored accessories, canvas-type window coverings, Angela Adams rugs that imitate the flow of ocean waves, joined by her handcrafted nautical flags hanging above each bed that spell ‘D R E A M,’ even details such as nightstand knobs reminiscent of a sailors knot went into creating an atmosphere of cruising.

Other pleasantries include spacious bathrooms with marble and glass enclosed showers and separate baths, granite counters, and steel-gray colored wave wallpaper that instill calm.

Impressive is the ocean-themed galleries of local artwork and photography throughout the property; their themes establish a sense of adventure and pride in the state’s motto, “I lead.”

In retrospect, the details necessary to form an unmatched guest experience surround and captivate all the senses, are beyond comprehension. As I found and am pleased to share, every moment I spent at the Portland Harbor Hotel was immensely satisfying. H For more information or to make a reservation for your upcoming trip or vacation, contact the hotel directly at portlandharborhotel.com.

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Table I

BlueFin Restaurant + Bar IMPRESSES IN ALL CATEGORIES

BY STEVEN CHAN

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f you open a kitchen and dining room in a city recognized for its epicurean prowess, you had better be par excellence with every meal you serve; otherwise, you’ll end up in the eye of the storm, with a calamity of business surrounding you—but not at your place.

From my experience, BlueFin, located in the Portland Harbor Hotel, need not worry; their menu, service, and execution are consistent and flawless.

The concept behind BlueFin is to expend the time and effort to use oceanfresh seafood from docks minutes away, locally sourced beef and poultry, and farm-to table-produce. When amassed, the kitchen can release their passions for creating delicious enjoyment, followed by gracious accolades and positive reviews they deserve for a job well done.

BREAKFAST

As someone who never has time to enjoy a morning meal, one glance at the menu had me wishing I could stay the whole week so I might enjoy their artisan cheeses and breads, fresh eggs, housemade granola, or decadent waffles. Also of interest is the Smoked Salmon, with dill and lemon, toasted Naan, finished with whipped cream cheese and capers each day.

Some favorites I recommend are the Fresh Fruit Board, served with maple yogurt and granola, a delicious Avocado Toast with sliced Jalapeno, heirloom tomatoes, poached eggs, cilantro, and chili oil. And of course, if the classic Eggs Benedict is on the menu, I’m all in; this one does not disappoint.

I would be remiss if I didn’t recognize my morning server, Sarah-Jane. Origi-

The concept behind BlueFin is to expend the time and effort to use ocean-fresh seafood from docks minutes away, locally sourced beef and poultry, and farm-to table-produce.

nally from Massachusetts—Mattapoisett, to be specific, she is the most patient and kind person you’ll ever meet; she understands customer service and is an asset to the business.

DINNER

It was the beginning of the week, and the dining room was peaceful, giving me the chance to speak at length with Rachel, who was also attentive and enjoyable. We discussed wine and food, guest favorites, and why other clientele chooses to make reservations at BlueFin over hundreds of other fine restaurants in reasonable proximity.

The wine list is narrow, but I was impressed with a Justin, Paso Robles, Cabernet Sauvignon from California; it perfectly paired with my meal. Reasonably priced and satisfying, I plan to purchase a few bottles when I return home.

The menu is enticing; I started with a Tuna Poke atop two large wonton crisps.

Fresh and full of flavor, the sriracha mayo, scallions, sesame soy tuna, cilantro, and lime slaw, are a perfect match. The portion is significant for a small plate and worthy of a trip back to Portland to enjoy it again.

I followed with a Caesars Salad made with romaine, dressing, brioche croutons, pecorino, and anchovies; also outstanding.

As an entrée, the Beef Tenderloin, resting on red bliss mashed potatoes, joined with asparagus and oyster mushrooms and complimented with a rich Au Poivre sauce, was perfect.

I could not have been more pleased with all aspects of my culinary adventure and come to understand that BlueFin is raising the stakes in a race to become recognized as one of Portland’s Top 10 favorite restaurants. H For reservations, visit bluefinportland.com.

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Sichuan Kitchen — Amazingly Authentic

BY STEVEN CHAN

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ot since memorable days in old Providence, Rhode Island, around Smith Hill, have I found genuine Sichuan cuisine; you know the type, fiery and intense.

Those Friday nights before heading to the Hot Club—when it was fun and attracted a yuppie crowd, we would invite guests to join us because we knew the people cooking ate the same food we would drive an hour to enjoy.

It was real food; maybe butchered in the back—we didn’t ask. And, it wasn’t the Americanized Asian food that seems to have

taken over food courts and strip malls in the last couple of decades.

The two places we coveted weren’t fancy; one operated out of an old garage, the other; a log cabin—can you believe it? Still, the patrons were well-heeled; East Side types, business people, and a ton of RISD students who seemed to enjoy the rustic— no-frills environment.

It happened across the street from the Sichuan Kitchen, at the State Theater, getting ready for an evening shoot, when I noticed a small storefront with a Ukrainian flag in the window. Seeing they were in support of the people being forced into

a mindless war, I decided to visit.

My first impression was enough to realize I had made a good choice. I walked into the brightly designed restaurant with paper lanterns hanging from the ceiling (what you would expect to find in NYC) and a table of six, 20-somethings feasting on a banquet.

In a second, a delightful woman named Eve greeted me; very hip, attractive, and laid back, welcomed me, and immediately began a conversation. It started with cameras and soon turned to her living in Providence 10 years ago—It was a bit weird, but there was good Karma.

Back to the restaurant; for those unfamiliar, Sichuan, also referred to as Szechwan or Szechuan, is the cuisine that is known for bold flavors and spiciness; chefs use large amounts of garlic and chili peppers in recipes handed down within their families. The most guarded secrets are the sauces; this is what validates the authenticity of the cooking.

Short on time, I had to move fast, so I ordered Zhong Dumplings, which are house-made, and served with garlic, aromatic chili sauce, sweet, with a slight kick.

This small plate is one of their best sellers, but notice that the secret is in the sauce, and nowhere can you find any indication of what else is added.

I followed the dumplings with Dry Fried Chicken, caramelized with dry red chilis, Sichuan peppercorns, and red and green peppers; it was heavenly.

My dilemma was that I wanted to eat more; everything sounded great, but time passed quickly, and I had to leave. But, I did have a great time talking with Eve and the manager; I could see how appreciative they were when I told them of my impressions and let them know I would write about them.

My time in Portland has been tremendous, primarily because of the people I’ve met and the delicious food found everywhere.

I’ll be back because you don’t want to continue searching once you find the best. H Sichuan Kitchen is at 612 Congress Street, Portland, Maine. Visit them at sichuankitchenportland.com.

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Chords

It isn’t St. Patrick’s Day without the company of the

Dropkick Murphys

BY STEVEN CHAN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY LUCKI SCHOTZ

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Boston’s favorite sons, rock ‘n’ roll underdogs, turned champions, and the bad boys of Celtic Punk Rock, known to excite crowds into a frenzy, are packing concert halls and arenas as they have since 1996.

oston’s favorite sons, rock ‘n’ roll underdogs, turned champions, and the bad boys of Celtic Punk Rock, known to excite crowds into a frenzy, are packing concert halls and arenas as they have since 1996.

And while everyone has heard of them, there are a few hideouts still wondering what it is they are missing.

We traveled to Portland, Maine, to cover the outrageous and courageous boys who have credit for four consecutive Billboard Top 10 album debuts (2021s Turn Up That Dial, 11 Short Stories Of Pain & Glory, Signed and Sealed in Blood, Going Out In Style), along with 2005s gold-selling The Warrior’s Code, featuring the near double-platinum

classic “I’m Shipping Up To Boston.”

The Dropkick Murphys, recognized around the globe, has generated half-a-billion streams and are legendary for their soldout gigs on multiple continents.

For 2022, the band kicked off their traditional St. Patrick’s Day Tour on February 21 in Reading, P.A. The trek features support acts, The Bombpops and The Rumjacks, on most dates.

For their show in Portland, Maine, they added the Hellbound Hitman to start the night.

As expected, each show sold-out; but, this year—for the first time—fans worldwide came together to share the experience; an exceptional performance and celebration via the Dropkick Murphys FREE live stream event presented at House Of Blues Boston.

As previously announced, vocalist Al Barr decided not to join Dropkick Murphys on the road for this run of dates to help care for his mom, who was recently diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia.

Attendance at the State Theater in Portland Art District brought crowds of fans and the curious, but most surprising was the multi-generational experience. Grandparents, their adult children, and grandchildren lined around the block for the chance to see Tim Brennan (guitars, accordion, mellotron, whistles, vocals), Ken Casey (lead vocals), Jeff DaRosa (banjo, bouzouki, mandolin, harmonica, acoustic guitars, vocals), Matt Kelly (drums, percussion, vocals), James Lynch (guitar, vocals), Kevin Rheault (touring bassist) and Lee Forshner (touring bagpipe player), put on a show that can never be duplicated.

The sell-out crowd rocked, howled, and fist-pumped as the boys belted out classic sounds and messages about keeping up the fight and holding your head high.

Following the band’s US dates, they will embark on their 2022 Summer European Tour starting June 3, at Leeds, West Yorkshire, England, at the Slam Dunk Festival North and play until they arrive in Wels, Austria, July 31, for the SBAM Festival.

The Portland show was packed with talent to the delight of fans, with the action and music making it a night to recall forever. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | APRIL 2022 | 37

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We’re Buzzards Baying at the moon Lamenting growing old so soon Content to raise a glass of wine Sharing stories right off the vine

Past Dumpling Rock and Nonquitt beach A wet five knots on a broad reach Summer houses on Bay View shore Bass boat wake, outboard engines roar

Butter burgers right off the grille Flipped by her son, jovial Bill Bottle of Orange Crush to go Stroll by Singleton’s Sunoco

It’s always summer in my head When I’m back to the life I led Across our road an ivy gate Secret path through a large estate

Breakwater’s rippled reflection Yachts all aimed in one direction Like art by Norman Fortier We tied up at Concordia

Giffords Market’s fishy odors Davis & Tripp’s outboard motors Across Bridge Street Ashworth’s Diner Dugdale’s menu a little finer

Beyond, a beach baked by the sun The sand so hot you had to run Salters Point comes into view Familiar faces that I knew

Pad’naram Village mid-July Yacht Club burgee snaps in the sky Packet windows dressed in pastels Past the Sail Loft to savory smells

The Budget Mart and Browne’s Drugstore Marty Sullivan’s madras du jour Squirt guns bought at Yankee Trader Life was good for that sixth grader.

A Beetle Cat ours for the day Steering a course three miles away Offshore breeze kicked up a chop Sail filled like a bikini top

Julia’s Lunch where we waited For a stool to be vacated Julia stirring a giant pot Famous chowder served piping hot

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Profile A L I F E ’ S W O R K I N V O LV I N G

BY JAMES HOLDEN

ccording to a release written by SouthCoast author Brian Lebeau, details surrounding his life prove pretty interesting. Born in Fall River, Massachusetts, the same city made famous by the alleged killer Lizzie Borden, he shares “being awarded an ‘A’ in high school English once; only to be denied a career in music due to ‘lack of talent’ repeatedly.”

Having taught economics at several colleges and universities in Massachusetts and Rhode Island before moving to Fauquier County, Virginia, to work as a defense contractor for two decades, to his credit, is the soon to be released (May 10, 2022) psychological thriller A Disturbing Nature.

His new book has allowed Lebeau to merge three of his fundamental interests: a fascination with everything World War II, a morbid curiosity surrounding the motivations and mayhem of notorious serial killers, and a lifelong obsession with the Red Sox. Labeau’s childhood in the mill city was like many others, but unlike his peers, he clung to experiences most allow to dissipate due to a lack of interest or poor memories.

According to Labeau, “After not seeing the city’s South End for more

His new book has allowed Lebeau to merge three of his fundamental interests: a fascination with everything World War II, a morbid curiosity surrounding the motivations and mayhem of notorious serial killers, and a lifelong obsession with the Red Sox.

than two decades, I visited in 2018 as part of a research trip for my upcoming psychological thriller A Disturbing Nature…Saint Patrick’s Elementary was gone and replaced by a drive-thru pharmacy. Salvo’s [potato chip factory] became a McDonald’s, and King Philip Mills, where I spent many late afternoons and weekends playing football in the grass patch along Kilburn Street, was being demolished to make way for single-family homes…but the rest of the South End––with its side-by-side three-family houses, orange-and-red brick storefronts, and corner bakeries––looked much the same as when I was 11.”

Perhaps, part curiosity-part motivational, the author has both visited the Lizzie Borden House; and slept in the ‘murder room.’ As odd as it might be, other guests in attendance stayed awake

while he dozed off at around 3 a.m.

The essence of the new novel came by way of a dream. Thoughts and recollections of his youth flooded the author’s mind, resulting in a lifetime of notes creating an outline that would take around 29 years to develop.

Intriguing, is that the story is closely tied to the SouthCoast, adding suspense and chilling references to other unsolved crimes the area is known to have experienced.

From details surrounding the new release, many are looking forward to stepping back to a place familiar on the one hand and frightening at the same time.

Advanced press and the culmination of interviews Lebeau has given lead us to conclude that this is one of many books he has in the depths of his soul and the recesses of his mind.

Good reading is soon to come. H

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Film

“THIS WHOLE STORY IS COMPLETELY TRUE. EXCEPT FOR ALL THE PARTS THAT ARE TOTALLY MADE UP.”

BY STEVEN CHAN

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ave you been out of touch with the new pop culture icon? In that case, we recommend repositioning your television viewing habits and binge the latest Netflix miniseries Inventing Anna, released in early February 2022.

Based on an article, “How Anna Delvey Tricked New York’s Party People,” penned by Jessica Pressler of New York magazine, the story recounts the questionable actions of a young Russian immigrant Anna Sorokin (on a visa), and her nearly successful attempts to create a fictitious German heiress with an imaginary trust fund of $60,000,000.

The attractive arrival, armed with fabulous taste, impeccable style, a delightfully personality disorder, unbridled ambition, and exquisite charm, has what it takes to talk New York elites off their wagons of power and influence. Our beloved character is taken seriously by many who would exploit her, while the table is continuously turned in her favor, keeping viewers in suspense.

The story reveals Anna lived the life that mirrors a generation that views, “Fake it, till you make it,” as sound advice. And, as sympathetic as the main character can be, we learn why social media is a questionable source for exemplifying personal identity and self-reported values.

The rights to the film were acquired by Netflix and Shondaland and were created and produced by Shonda Rhimes.

Interestingly, and giving pause to the literary license granted, each episode opens with an unusual disclaimer, “This whole story is completely true. Except for all the parts that are totally made up,” which pops up in unique locations.

The question in many minds is why the newly released flick is attracting so much attention?

After a quick survey of fans, we’ve learned Julia Garner, famous for her work as Ruth Langmore in the crime drama series Ozark (currently playing on Netflix), is superb in the role of Anna Sorokin aka, Anna Delvey.

The only complaint we’ve heard is that the actress may have overplayed Anna’s accent, while others marvel at her skill in creating authenticity. One must question the critics, how do they know what Anna sounds like? Garner met with Anna, and it’s doubtful she would want anything less than perfection.

Viewers witness Garner’s uncanny ability to dive into character and relate to an audience; she pulls empathy from viewers, even when being the object of deception.

At first, Garner is unrecognizable; her hair, makeup, and poise demonstrate her capacity to portray a young woman with an unquestionably high IQ, deceitful tactics, and a bag of calculating social skills, pulling the audience into the toxicity of her scam. Nearly successful, Anna rises to the status she has always dreamed of; all the while, we have our emotions plucked by moments of laughter, sadness, and disappointment.

The production and actors are first-rate, allowing viewers insight into the gullibility of the people the New Lolita of New York City harvested and duped in 2014.

It’s clear Anna Sorokin is not ordinary—and as for Ruth Langmore, she is extraordinary. In any case, we’ll likely see more of them in the future—each offer great entertainment. H Wannabe socialite Anna Sorokin was reported to be released from ICE custody on March 15 from the County Correctional Facility in Goshen, New York, bound for Germany later that evening.

According to Sorokin’s attorney, Manny Arora, a motion was filed to prevent her deportation; at press time, Sorokin remains held at the Correctional Facility.

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Personal Best

Stop The Blame-Game, Head Into A New Direction

BY NATALIE SIMMONS

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t is too easy to look to the past when a problem or difficult situation arises and think a previously failed attempt to resolve the same or a similar issue might work this time. You can be confident that choosing an old path will not provide the desired outcome and instead keep you trapped in repetitive and useless problemsolving techniques. For this reason, people complain they don’t feel like they are getting ahead or their lives and are at a standstill.

In the words of motivational speaker and personal development mentor of millions, Tony Robbins is clear about changing your life when he says to his followers, “I can tell you the secret to happiness in one word: progress.” And, to think about it, what better advice can be shared? If you are at a standstill, then get up and get moving!

Before we get started, a few things need to be put into focus; first, you are not at fault for the haze blocking your view—it happens to everyone. Secondly, the last couple of years have been nothing short of hell on earth; the pain of restrictions, social isolation, and ill-health took a toll on many but will hopefully subside, and long-term solutions will be discovered.

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Once accomplished, we’ll reinvent, redirect, and meet our objectives head-on.

The first step in personal development is doing an inventory of self-awareness and an assessment of satisfaction. Questions regarding romantic relationships, career, family interactions, and finance are a great start. Each is an essential component for building a secure future and plays a role in influencing others.

Upon identifying and listing what makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s time to dig down and learn why they are repetitive in your identity, it’s also the time to take action.

STEPS IN CREATING THE PERSON YOU BELIEVE IN: CONFIDENCE

Moving through life is principally about confidence, and the more you have, the better you’ll feel. People mistake shadowing or mirroring others as a solution, believing they will absorb positive personality traits through infusion. Sorry, but it’s a fool’s errand, which is the cause feelings of emptiness.

When a person’s anchor releases its hold, it leaves their buoyant persona adrift, resulting in self-doubt and insecurity.

Action, persistence, and assessment will follow your decisions until one day you realize you own these traits, and they are who you have become.

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To overcome confidence issues is to develop interpersonal attractiveness; it can be accomplished by becoming the person you want to be inside while projecting it to the world. It is about becoming the person you want others to see and respect. You will determine how you are viewed—it’s that simple.

For example, first impressions are made in minutes of meeting someone.

You must demonstrate your style and level of comfort; whether you are welldressed or casual, you must feel good and exemplify your presentation— as you believe it—regardless of what others think.

When speaking, be assertive but kind, and a good listener. Communication skills are the keys to opening up opportunities. When established rules of good behavior are lacking, your effort to fill the void won’t go unnoticed; playing host to those you meet will get the attention you deserve and reinforce your efforts to become whole.

EXPECTATION

We all have them, and they can be disappointing. It’s a gamble about how others will react or receive you when you look outside of yourself for reward, status, or gratification.

The only person you can be assured of pleasing is in the mirror each morning. You’re aware of your gifts, responsibilities, and goals; because you have the perfect opportunity to set the agenda and influence it as you progress; satisfaction isn’t guaranteed but will become a close approximation over time.

Another issue surrounding the concept of expecting an outcome is to plan and execute a reliable strategy (both in business and personal relationships). It can be comforting to consider different scenarios that could alter a result. It is not to say you can’t predict objections or challenges, but at best, preparing for an unlikely response will allow internal satisfaction that you did all you could to persuade and invoke a favorable reaction.

OLD HABITS

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nize you’re crazy? Have you been reacting the same way repeatedly but expecting a different result? Sorry, this paints you into a box; and there is nowhere left to go without changing your responses.

Shopping the same stores, traveling or vacationing at known locations, or adhering to an over-structured schedule without deviation are examples of experiences set like traps; they keep you from seeing the trees from the forest.

Humans thrive on the familiar, the predictable, but is it healthy or allow change to occur in a person’s life? And, while you know the answer, think about your evening or weekend plans; will they be a repeat of the past? Or will you dive into a new adventure?

These same social addictions play a role in how we approach problemsolving. We’ve all heard statements like, “I was born a (fill in the blank), and I’m going to die (fill in the blank).” Or, “It was good enough for (whoever), and it’s good enough for me.” Please, look at these people, learn from them; they are stuck in granite shoes, unable to make decisions, and when they do, they’re cast into exile, with little chance of living a whole life.

PROGRESS

The difference between success, repetitiveness, and feeling nothing is changing in your life has a great deal to do with taking calculated risks and seeking rewards. Each day that passes offers an opportunity that wasn’t presented previously. Those with an eye on prospecting rather than accepting the status quo can find unexpected chances of creating change in their lives.

An example of how progression can become part of your life is found within your circle of friends and acquaintances.

Have they remained the same for most of your life? Does the circle close with each new introduction? It’s a known fact that a square doesn’t fit well into an old round, but who is being cut short?

In a social society consisting of continuous movement, extending our reach and creating personal connections beyond the neighborhood has become necessary. A

new generation, the result of technology, shows us the importance of connecting with others at a distance—it is so true; the world is getting smaller while offering magnificent opportunities.

Taking this same idea, it’s wise to consider where you want to be, not where you are, that is, unless you wish to remain stagnant and disappointed.

DISAPPOINTMENT & SUCCESS

Sorry, it comes with the territory; gains and setbacks are nothing new and can’t be avoided; what you can control is your reaction to them. Too often, feelings are hurt, and withdrawal overcomes the genuine emotions we should be feeling.

It is okay to feel sad when you don’t win or fall short of your goal, but what should be happening is self-reflection.

When you don’t meet the challenge, or disappoint someone, rather than dwell on the hurt, allow the feelings to exist and begin to deconstruct the injury. Be honest with yourself.

Getting in touch with the many emotions we possess, rather than blanket them under the category of anger, is the work necessary for growth. Better interactions result from a realistic understanding of the experience.

As for success, humility is always best.

There is nothing wrong about celebrating like a rock star, in private, engulf the sensation of achievement; you deserve the emotional high. But, it is always better to attribute victories to those who also played a role in solving problems or attaining rewards or accommodations.

Remember, captains are leaders, but lacking a crew, they are alone and will not find success or admiration, no matter the effort.

Change is never easy, and it isn’t a prescription for everyone. It takes motivation, discipline, and thick skin to face one’s shortcomings and flaws. But, the satisfaction that comes from improving each day can’t be duplicated by pretending. Action, persistence, and assessment will follow your decisions until one day you realize you own these traits, and they are who you have become.

Success is one step away. H

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Living Well

Alcohol and your Health WHAT’S THE CURRENT CONSENSUS?

BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED.

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pril is Alcohol Awareness Month, and Americans are drinking more.

According to the most recent data from the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA), the good news is that alcohol use among youth has steadily and significantly decreased over the past 35 years. Trends in the past have shown 2-week binge drinking by 12th graders declining from their peak in the early 80s. At the time, over 50 percent of boys and over 30 percent of girls had a history of past 2-week binge drinking. But, by 2019, this number had dropped to below 20 percent for both sexes.1 Unfortunately, the NIAAA states that adult alcohol consumption and binge drinking has risen. Between 2000 and 2016, six national surveys showed an increase of about 7.5 percent per decade, with—importantly—most of the rise found in women.

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born in the early 80s are at particularly higher risk for consuming alcohol and binge drinking throughout life.

Whereas people born before the 1940s tended to prefer spirits, and those born in the 1940s through the 1970s gravitated toward beer (especially men), people are now moving toward wine marketed more as a symbol of prosperity.

WHAT IS HEALTHFUL ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION?

The Mayo Clinic writes that confusion around any health benefits of moderate alcohol intake is understandable because we don’t yet know for certain about any benefits. Studies may show a link between moderate alcohol consumption and improved health, but the effect may be caused by something else.2 Furthermore, if alcohol has any benefits, they are “relatively small and may not apply to all individuals,” says Mayo staff. Current nutritional guidelines state that people who do not currently drink should not start drinking since potential risks could outweigh any benefits. However, people who drink moderately and

are in good health may continue to responsibly.

Moderate drinking is generally defined as up to one drink daily for women and two drinks for men. One drink could be, for example, 12 fluid ounces of beer, five fluid ounces of wine, or 1.5 fluid ounces of 80 proof distilled spirits.

The benefits of moderate alcohol intake may include a lower risk of heart disease, ischemic stroke, and diabetes.

However, the Mayo Clinic notes that healthy eating and physical activity have “much greater health benefits” than alcohol with more supportive research.

J-SHAPED CURVE IN QUESTION

Alcohol’s possible benefits have been observed in research. In what’s called a J-shaped curve, people who do not consume any alcohol have been observed to have a slightly increased risk of early death or coronary heart disease (CHD).

The risk decreases when people engage in light/moderate alcohol consumption and then rises sharply when drinking beyond moderation to form a “J” graph.

Skovenborg et al. confirmed this

Unfortunately, the NIAAA states that adult alcohol consumption and binge drinking has risen. Between 2000 and 2016, six national surveys showed an increase of about 7.5 percent per decade, with—importantly— most of the rise found in women.

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relationship in a 2021 systematic review in the journal Drugs and Alcohol Today, examining evidence from the first appearance of the J-shaped curve in 1926 to recent studies regarding moderate alcohol intake and reduced risk of cardiovascular disease (CVD), cancer, and Type 2 diabetes. The team found viable J-shaped associations between light-moderate alcohol and CHD, CVD, and death from all causes in many strong public health studies. The protective effect could be due to higher levels of HDL cholesterol without apolipoprotein C3 (a protein that can cause inflammation), reduced blood clotting ability, increased fibrin breakdown, better insulin sensitivity, and lower inflammation.3 However, the authors say that because these studies are based on observation, some public health experts still question the J-shaped curve and conclude “there is no safe level of alcohol consumption.”

The skeptics now have more evidence.

A sizeable epidemiological analysis was published in 2022 in the journal Clinical Nutrition by Schutte et al. to see whether biases exist that might lead to underestimating CVD risk with alcohol consumption. Using patient data from the UK Biobank study, they looked at 333,359 alcohol consumers and 21,710 people who never drank alcohol. Over a median of roughly seven years, fatal and non-fatal cardiovascular event rates were examined, such as ischemic heart disease and cerebrovascular disease.

The researchers initially found that all beer, spirits, and wine were associated with a lower risk of cardiovascular issues.

But when they went deeper in their analysis, they found an increase in risk for all drink types combined and for beer and spirits combined. Wine was associated with a decrease in risk for overall cardiovascular disease and ischemic heart disease. Yet, when the authors factored out ischemic heart disease, wine’s protective effect became insignificant, while beer and spirits’ combined increase on disease risk remained strong. This increase was seen even in alcohol consumption of less than the UK National Health Service’s 52 | APRIL 2022 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA

The signs of alcoholism are often overt: hangovers, accidents, mood swings, impaired work ability, and other adverse effects, and the telltale signs of intoxication (slurred speech, bloodshot eyes, agitation, struggling to walk, behaving or speaking inappropriately, etc.)

recommended limit of 14 units of alcohol per week—equal to roughly 96 fluid ounces of average-strength beer and 10 small glasses of low-strength wine.

Schutte’s team concluded that biases lead to underestimating cardiovascular disease risk. In this case, using neverdrinkers because of health issues, determining population alcohol intake by combining all drink types, and not separating wine’s CHD-lowering benefit to avoid distorting the drink’s overall effect on cardiovascular risk. Moreover, the UK’s recommended limit of 14 units of alcohol per week was still linked to increased CVD risk in the general population. In their view, “The so-called J-shaped curve of the cardiovascular disease-alcohol consumption relationship suggesting health benefit from low to moderate alcohol consumption is the biggest myth since we were told smoking was good for us.” The

authors would like to see the UK’s current alcohol guidelines reduced.4, 5 Skovenborg and colleagues advise that J-shaped curve discussion should focus on moderate alcohol’s potential benefits for the general public and be individually adjusted for age, sex, medical history, and family and personal drinking history.

Meanwhile, new research from Tulane University, using the same Biobank data, supports that diabetes risk may be reduced from moderate wine consumption with meals, though drinking more beer and spirits seems to increase risk. The study has yet to be peer-reviewed.6 OVER THE LIMIT

Explains Mayo Clinic, excessive drinking can be broken down into heavy/ high-risk drinking and binge drinking, with the difference being volume over time. Heavy drinking is “more than three drinks on any day or more than seven drinks a week for women and men older than age 65, and more than four drinks on any day or more than 14 drinks a week for men age 65 and younger.” Binge drinking is “four or more drinks within two hours for women and five or more drinks within two hours for men.”2 The NIAAA describes which bodily organs and systems are at risk from consuming too much alcohol, whether all at once or over time.7 Your mind. Too much alcohol impacts how the brain communicates and looks, disrupting mood, behavior, thinking ability, and bodily coordination.

Your heart. Excessive alcohol can cause heart problems, including cardiomyopathy (stretching of the heart muscle), arrhythmias, stroke, and high blood pressure.

Your liver. Drinking too much can lead to heavy liver damage and inflammation, resulting in fatty liver, alcoholic hepatitis, and cirrhosis.

Your pancreas. The pancreas can become toxic from excessive alcohol that can lead to pancreatitis, a dangerous condition in which blood vessels in the pancreas become inflamed and prevent proper digestion.

Your immune system. Excessive drinking weakens immunity, making chronic drinkers more vulnerable to infection than lighter drinkers. Especially important considering COVID-19, research shows weakened immunity even after 24 hours of excessive drinking.

Cancer is also a concern. The National Cancer Institute states that “[t]here is strong scientific consensus that alcohol drinking can cause several types of can-

cer,” and alcohol consumption is listed as a carcinogen by the National Toxicology Program. Cancer risk increases the more a person drinks over time, even if one drink a day or binge drinking.

Risk increases in cancers of the head and neck, esophagus, liver, breast, and colorectal area.

And then there are the equally impactful non-medical effects of alcohol abuse: financial loss, wrecked home life, job loss, etc.

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Starting in 1987, Alcoholism Awareness Month is a campaign generally aimed at spreading information about one of America’s most significant public health problems to generate awareness and spark change. The National Council formerly sponsored the initiative for Alcoholism and Drug Dependence.

In 2019, more than 60 percent of people in the US reported drinking alcohol over the past year, yet most would not admit to problem behavior. Right now, over 65 million Americans drink heavily in one month, as over 14.5 million Americans aged 12 and up struggle with alcoholism.8 The signs of alcoholism are often overt: hangovers, accidents, mood swings, impaired work ability, and other adverse effects, and the telltale signs of intoxication (slurred speech, bloodshot eyes, agitation, struggling to walk, behaving or speaking inappropriately, etc.).9 Only 10 percent of people with an alcohol use disorder ever receive treatment, but inpatient programs have up to 50 percent better recovery rates through a combination of behavioral therapy and careful medical management.8, 10 For more information on alcoholism, treatment, and rehabilitation, visit Recovered.org. H 1. Keyes, K.M. (2022, January 13). Age, Period, and Cohort Effects in Alcohol Use in the United States in the 20th and 21st Centuries: Implications for the Coming Decades. Alcohol Research Current Reviews, 42(1).

2. Mayo Clinic. (2021, December 11). Alcohol Use: Weighing Risks and Benefits.

3. Skovenborg, E., Grønbæk, M. & Ellison, R.C. (2021, February 4). Benefits and hazards of alcohol-the J-shaped curve and public health. Drugs and Alcohol Today, 21(1), 54-69.

4. Schutte, R., Smith, L., & Wannamethee, G. (2021, December 13). Alcohol—The myth of cardiovascular protection. Clinical Nutrition, 41(2), 348-55.

5. Henderson, E. (2022, January 29). Weekly alcohol intake of less than 14 units still increases the risk of cardiovascular events. News-Medical Life Sciences.

6. Whitehead, J. (2022, March 3). Drinking wine with meals may reduce risk of type 2 diabetes, new study suggests. Yahoo! News.

7. National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. (n.d.). Alcohol’s Effects on the Body.

8. Murphy, E. (2022, February 18). Alcoholism and Alcohol Abuse. Recovered.

9. Ibid. (2021, November 18). Warning Signs of Alcoholism.

Ibid.

10. Ibid. (2022, February 28). Alcoholism Treatment and Rehab. Ibid.

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Health

Hospitalization and the

BY LINDA BERTRUM

his feature provides healthcare recommendations for adults, and their children, as advised by the National Institute on Aging (NIA).

Going to the hospital at a point in one’s life is rarely an “if ” but rather a “when” type of event. And while some patients breeze through the process experiencing average stress— often related to their age and ability to understand the process and procedures typically faced during their young lives, the change in routine can be devastating for those in their later years.

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confusing to the elderly but much worse when they are admitted for an extended stay. As for those suffering memory loss, dementia, or Alzheimer’s, the disorientation of a new environment can be debilitating, with some experiencing significant setbacks to their cognitive ability and physical health.

For those facing the unknown, and there are many of them, these helpful tips and guidelines can assist in resolving issues that can disrupt a family and confuse seniors.

Whether your loved one or the person you are charged with assisting with a hospitalization has memory issues, full dementia, or Alzheimer’s disease, or they

rely on help for their daily activities, many of these actions will be essential to keep in mind when faced with the inevitable.

Much has changed in the health care industry; fewer nursing staff, more patients, wonderful advances in technology, but less bedside manner.

Today, the focus is on keeping treatments quick, encouraging fast recoveries, while all eyes remain focused on reducing costs.

Hospitals are no different than other businesses; “get em in…get em out.”

And for the most vulnerable patients, their success can sometimes be at odds with typical medical interventions.

PREPARATION FOR ADMISSION

– Discuss a hospitalization in advance and build a collective of family, friends, and professional caregivers to support the person during the hospital stay—avoid doing it alone.

– Ask the doctor if the procedure can be done during an outpatient visit.

If not, ask if tests can be done before admission to the hospital to shorten the hospital stay.

– Ask questions about anesthesia, catheters, and IVs. General anesthesia can have side effects, so see if local anesthesia is an option.

– List all medications and ask if

they may be continued during the hospital stay.

– Request a private room with a reclining chair or bed, if insurance will cover it. And also, inquire about a room close to the nursing station for easy observation.

two of you will spend a short time in the hospital.

HOSPITAL EMERGENCIES: WHAT YOU CAN DO

– Involve the person with dementia in the planning process as much as possible.

– A trip to the emergency room (ER) can tire and frighten an older adult, and much more if they have impaired cognitive functioning. Here are some suggestions.

– Do not talk about the hospital stay in front of the person as if they are not present; it is upsetting and embarrassing.

– Ask a friend or family member to go with you or meet you in the ER. They will comfort the patient while you go through the admitting process.

– Shortly before leaving home, tell the person to be admitted that the

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behaviors of concern; how the person communicates needs and expresses emotions; and living situation – Snacks and bottles of water – Incontinence briefs, if usually worn, moist wipes, and plastic bags – A change of clothing, toiletries, and personal medications for yourself – Pain medicine, such as ibuprofen, acetaminophen, or aspirin (for yourself)—a trip to the emergency room may take longer than you think, and stress can lead to a headache or other symptoms

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– A pad of paper and pen to write down information and directions given to you by hospital staff – A small amount of cash DURING THE HOSPITAL STAY

patient is taking leading up to the ER visit—possibly more than once to different staff members.

– If the patient must stay overnight, try to arrange for a friend or family member to stay with them.

– If the patient is cognitively impaired, it is important to tell hospital staff and record it upon admission. Explain how best to talk with the person and communicate their level of understanding.

– Do not leave the emergency room without a plan. If you are sent home, make sure you understand all instructions for follow-up care.

– Stay calm and cheerful; how you project emotions will get absorbed by others. Be patient; it will be a very long wait.

– Emergency room staff have limited training in Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias, and they are usually overwhelmed. Assist them in understanding the patient’s special needs. And alert them if they are known to wander.

– Encourage hospital staff to see the person as an individual and not just another patient with dementia who is confused and disoriented from the disease.

– Do not assume the person will be admitted to the hospital.

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WHAT TO PACK

It may be nearly impossible to arrange, but if you can pack an emergency bag with the following items, packed ahead of time: – Health insurance cards – Lists of current medical conditions, medications, and known allergies – Healthcare providers’ names and phone numbers – Copies of healthcare advance directives (documents that spell out a patient’s wishes for end-of-life care) – “Personal information sheet” stating the person’s preferred name and language; contact information for key family members and friends; the need for glasses, dentures, or hearing aids;

While the person with dementia is in the hospital: – Ask doctors to limit questions to the person who may not answer accurately. Instead, discuss matters in private, outside the patient’s room.

– Help hospital staff understand the person’s normal functioning and behavior. Ask them to avoid using physical restraints or medications to control behaviors.

– Have a family member, trusted friend, or hired caregiver, stay with a patient facing cognitive challenges at all times if possible—even during medical tests. The reassurance will help keep the person calm and less frightened while maintaining a level of familiarity with the caretaker.

– Immediately notify medical staff if the patient’s condition changes significantly or worsens. Issues such as fever, infection, medication side effects, and dehydration can cause delirium, a state of extreme confusion, and disorientation.

– Stay connected with other caregivers,

friends, and family through phone calls, emails, or texts regarding problems and progress.

– Assist the patient with menu requests, opening food containers, and removing trays. Be sure the trays arrive and aren’t taken if the patient hasn’t touched the meal.

– Encourage the patient to drink fluids; offer them regularly. Also, keep track of trips made to the bathroom.

– Assume the patient will experience difficulty finding the bathroom or using a call button, bed adjustment buttons, or the phone.

– Recognize that an unfamiliar place, medicines, invasive tests, and surgery will confuse a person with dementia.

They will likely need more assistance with personal care.

– Take deep breaths and schedule breaks for yourself!

– Expect the patient not to recognize the location and reference somewhere else. They will likely ask to go home repeatedly and attempt to leave while unsupervised.

– To relax the confused patient, consider listening to soothing music, reading, praying, singing, or reminiscing.

in those instances.

WORKING WITH HOSPITAL STAFF

– Be sure to ask questions when you do not understand specific hospital procedures and tests, and do not be afraid to be an advocate.

– Not everyone in the hospital knows the same basic facts about memory loss, Alzheimer’s disease, and related dementias. You may need to help teach hospital staff what approach works best with the patient.

– Help staff by providing them with a personal information sheet that includes their routine and how they prefer to be addressed. Include personal habits, likes and dislikes, possible behaviors that might trigger them, and how best to respond.

MORE INFORMATION—THE BETTER

– Inform the staff about any hearing difficulties or other communication difficulties and what works best

– Ensure safety; tell the staff about any previous issues with wandering, getting lost, falls, suspiciousness, or delusional behavior.

DISCHARGE

– In many cases, discharge planning begins at admission; plan for it as soon as possible. Think about the next step in the patient’s care and whether they are eligible for home health services, equipment, or longterm care options.

– Be prepared for an increased level of caregiving H For more information about hospitalization and Alzheimer’s, visit adear@nia.nih.gov, or nia.nih.gov/ alzheimers.

– Remove personal clothes from sight; they may remind the person of getting dressed and going home.

– Turn off the television, telephone ringer, and intercom. Minimize background noise to prevent overstimulation.

– Talk in a calm voice and offer reassurance. Repeat answers to questions when needed.

– Provide a comforting touch or distract the person with snacks and beverages.

– Be observant for unexpressed pain, such as a furrowed brow, agitation, clenching of teeth or fists, or kicking. Ask staff to conduct a fourhour pain evaluation if you see it not being done.

In many cases, discharge planning begins at admission; plan for it as soon as possible. Think about the next step in the patient’s care and whether they are eligible for home health services, equipment, or long-term care options.

Be prepared for an increased level of caregiving.

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n March 12, under the direction of Frederick L. Jodry, co-founder and President of the musical organization, musicians and chorus members performed “Passion secundum Joannem,” also known as “Saint John Passion,” as written and performed by Johann Sebastian Bach, in 1724.

Described as captivating by an audience member, the late afternoon event featured the Schola Cantorum of Boston, members of the Brown University Chorus, and the Providence Baroque Orchestra.

From the first note to the angelic voices that resonated with pitch-perfect acoustics of the Grace Episcopal Church on Westminster Street in Providence, hearts and minds could not resist the intimacy created by the Baroque oratorios.

While the collaboration context is solemn, the concert delivered exhilaration and compassion to the tribute and story. Musicians, chorus members, and soloists raised the bar of what might be considered a regional event to a world-class presentation during the two-plus hour performance in the Downcity area.

The artists shared their passions and gifts; they held nothing back, causing riveting attention to be fixed at the front of the altar, against a mesmerizing stained-glass backdrop and beautiful architectural carvings from the mid 19th century.

The nearly full-capacity audience focused on a superb rendition of a complex work;

they followed instinctively, demonstrating their appreciation to the dedicated performers. The concert left no questions to the genius of Bach.

Two remaining concerts are scheduled for the season; the first is Trio Maresienne—Return of the King: Music of the English Restoration/Music of Purcell, Finger, Locke, Simpson, Young, and Jenkins, on Sunday, April 3, at the First Unitarian Church, at 1 Benevolent Street, in Providence at 3:30 p.m.

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The French-Inspired Boivin Center at UMass Dartmouth Announces Free Concert he Boivin Center for French Language and Culture at UMass Dartmouth announces its spring concert featuring the celebrated French chanteuse, Mathilde Mauguière, on Thursday, April 24, at 4 p.m., in the College of Visual and Performing Arts Center auditorium at the Dartmouth campus.

Mathilde Mauguière is a prominent vocalist, author, and composer from Lyon, France. Born in Haute-Marne, she began her career in the department of Haute-Marne, devoting the first part of her career to jazz, performing in several Parisian institutions.

Mauguière is known for her unique repertoire, “Du Roman au Refrain,” where she challenged French writers, particularly novelists, to write approximately one page rather than an entire book, telling a story that would in turn be interpreted in song.

Writers rose to the challenge; a third album with Eric Teruel took an intimate spin, combining voice and jazz piano. H The community is invited, and parking will be available in lot 9.

For further information, contact Maria Sanguinetti at msanguinetti@umassd.edu.

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This season’s venue has moved to a larger center, the United Congregational Church in Little Compton, Rhode Island, offering greater social distancing.

On April 3, at 3 p.m., the Muir String Quartet will be featured, winner of the 1981 Naumburg Chamber Music Award and the 1980 Evian International String Quartet Competition; the Muir String Quartet first appeared on the scene in 1980 and was greeted with rave reviews. The quartet has also been featured on the internationally acclaimed PBS broadcast, In Performance at the White House for President and Mrs. Reagan.

On May 15, 2022, at 3 p.m., guests are invited to enjoy the Neave Trio.

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Veselov, and pianist Eri Nakamura—have earned enormous praise for their engaging, cutting edge performances.

The group’s 2019 album Her Voice, on Chandos Records, was named one of the best recordings of the year by both The New York Times and BBC Radio 3. The Boston Musical Intelligencer reports, “it is inconceivable that they will not soon be among the busiest chamber ensembles going,” and “their unanimity, communication, variety of touch, and expressive sensibility rate first tier.” H To order tickets for these concerts, visit concertsatthepoint.org.

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SUN

FRI

FRI

MON

9 AM

9 AM

SAT

FRI

SAT

9 AM

9 AM

9 AM

9 AM

9 AM

9 AM

Depart Cuttyhunk

Depart Cuttyhunk SUN MON

MON

FRI2 PM

2 PM 2 PM * CALL FOR ADDITIONAL HOLIDAY TRIPS * CALL FOR ADDITIONAL HOLIDAY TRIPS

TUE

WED Depart Cuttyhunk THU

FRI

SAT

SUN

MON 2 PM

FRI

SAT

3 PM

3 PM

3 PM

3 PM