Distinctively Southern Wedding Winter 2023

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Over the past century, The Hermitage Hotel has hosted countless wedding celebrations, becoming a rite of passage for generations of Nashvillians. With glamorous surroundings, meticulous attention to the finer details, and an award-winning culinary team led by world-renowned Chef Jean-Georges, our hotel is eager to help you author the next chapter of your love story.

Jenna Frawley models a stunning Kelly Faetanini gown, from The White Magnolia Nashville, in front of the iconic Hermitage Hotel. PHOTOGRAPHY

ISN'T SHE LOVELY

8 2023 Bridal Trends with Jennie Dickens of Adorn Bridal Shop

18 Glide Down the Aisle

32 Inspired By Accessories with Alice & Mae Bridal

I DO

6 Grace Penix & Blake Christian Smith

12 Samantha Lynn Wyman & Charles William McDowell IV

16 Katherine Anne Turnbull & Peyton Lee Willeman

34 Cassetty Elizabeth Parrish & Dakota Ray Mannino

38 Jessica Maclaire Kennedy & Kyle Phillip Blevens

42 Emma Caroline Williams & Elisha Alexander Loy

48 Alyssa Kristine Arnold & Chandler Dean Causey

56 Bailey Beaird & Jacob Neal Anderson

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Falling in Love

Please

Dear Readers,

I am overjoyed to share the 2023 Distinctively Southern Wedding Edition with you all. It was quite the project – each page being a true labor of love from our team and talented contributors. The most rewarding part for us was the bridal fashion, photographed at the iconic Hermitage Hotel. Seeing our bridal fashion vision come to life, while showcasing the Hotel’s bygone architecture with the recent refresh, was gratifying for each of us. As we moved throughout the hotel and conversations were had, I realized that The Hermitage Hotel has something borrowed, something blue…and something new! From the “Votes for Women” sashes, paying homage to the 19th Amendment, to the blue accents in the Veranda (whiskey tearoom) to the new faces that pass through the doors, lobby and restaurant each day, the hotel has been a gathering place for over a century. I am thankful we were given the opportunity to be a part of that.

As I looked through each of this edition’s wedding profiles, some being dear friends of mine, I realized I could not write this letter without sharing my parents and their love.

My parents, Margaret and Ed, wed on August 3, 1991 and have set a wonderful example of

love for me. They have always chosen to see the good in each other, with the wholehearted belief that love conquers all. Their acts of kindness to one another were normal for me growing up and, in the moment, went unnoticed. But, as I grow older, I see how a good morning note, a full tank of gas or a trip abroad pays dividends in a marriage and is a true testament to their generosity and loyalty to each other.

With that, I’ll admit, watching their love made me a hopeless romantic – but I wouldn’t change that. The gift of dreaming of a relationship like my parents is something I am thankful for. Even after thirty-one years of marriage, their love for each other just grows stronger and in different ways. So, before I go on and on about heart-gushing love, I invite you to enjoy this beautiful bridal magazine! Because who doesn’t love love?

Cheers to Love, Amelia – Still looking for Mr. Right!

Amelia Rose Smith | Managing Editor amelia@robertsonmediagroup.com

Grace Penix & Blake Christian Smith

SEPTEMBER 18, 2022

Ceremony: Whitman Chapel at Scarritt Bennett

Reception: The Noelle Hotel

Photography: Evan Davies

Planning: Self

Catering: The Noelle Hotel

Cake & Desserts: Dessert Designs

Ceremony Music: Samuel Cartin & Matt Mitchell

Reception Music: Daniel Jones

Rentals: The Noelle Hotel

Invitations: Minted

Florals: Faire Flower Ranch

Bride’s Gown: Sarah Seven

Bridesmaid Dresses: BHLDN

“Our engagement was quite the story. Blake had a fake photoshoot to clear my schedule. It was ‘canceled.’ Blake then surprised me with a day trip to Charleston where he proposed in the bell tower of the oldest church in the city!”

Bridal 2023

TRENDS

Angular Necklines

While soft, sweetheart necklines will always be a bridal staple; designers are taking a sharp turn this season with more angular, pointed bodices. Often strapless, we tell our brides not to fear! Packed with support, these necklines offer a modern twist to show off the collarbone.

BY JENNIE DICKENS, ADORN BRIDAL

At Adorn Nashville, we love to keep our brides up to date with the hottest, most beautiful bridal trends of the new year, fresh from the runway. Working closely with our designers at bridal markets across the globe, our team hand-selects a collection of wedding gowns curated specially for the Adorn Bride. From elaborate ballgowns to sleek and structured, minimal dresses, we have got the inside scoop on our top four trends, fresh for the stylish Tennessee bride!

Big Sleeves

The drama of the 80s is back in a very modern way. This season, our designers and brides are loving exaggerated sleeves to bring a bit extra drama,and coverage, to their bridal looks. Designers have finally taken the hint and made most sleeves detachable for extra mobility to dance the night away.

Over the Top Ballgowns

Want to feel like a royal on your wedding day? This season of ballgowns has you covered! From larger-than-life floral appliques to exquisitely textured fabrics, our designers are the epitome of indulgence. Fit to make you feel like a queen; these gowns make a statement.

At Adorn Nashville, we help over 1,000 brides on their journey to finding their dream dress every year. And while we are passionate about adorning our brides in the latest trends, what truly matters is how you feel in the dress. This is your day! We want you to feel comfortable, confident, and truly authentic. Empowered brides are the best brides.

Playful Slits

Subtly sultry, slitted wedding dresses are our top request for 2023! Not only do you have a little extra room for boogying down at the reception, but it might be the one opportunity for you to show off your shoes during your big day.

To request an appointment or learn more about our designers, visit our website at adornnashville.com. Brides can also find information about upcoming events, such as designer trunk shows, where you get an exclusive opportunity to see the latest releases from our renowned designers, like Berta and Rita Vinieris. We would love to help you find your dream dress at Adorn Nashville!

Say yes to an elevated bridal experience in Nashville with exclusive designers, customized wedding dresses, and expert bridal styling.

O wned by Jennie Dickens, a longtime resident of Franklin, Tennessee.

Seven Surprisingly Strict Wedding Etiquette Rules From Emily Post

BY JESS CATCHER, COURTESY OF LITTLETHINGS.COM

Emily Post was renowned for her advice for behaving properly in society, especially when it came to the sometimes tricky realm of wedding etiquette. Most of us know the basics when it comes to the usual rules and traditions couples follow on their big day, but you might be surprised by just how strict Emily was when it came to her expectations for perfectly planned nuptials.

Couples nowadays tend to buck pretty much all of these seemingly outdated rules — though they were as good as law back when Emily wrote them in 1922 in Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics and at Home. Take a look at the many surprisingly restrictive wedding rules she was famous for dishing out. You might even learn just how many of them you or your loved ones have broken on your own wedding days.

1. You Should Not Omit Inviting Friends Just Because They’re Poor:

Obviously, most modern couples aren’t so gift-oriented that they would stoop to such tactics, but apparently it was a big enough issue back in the day for Emily to issue this “word of warning.”

2. The Groom’s Family Should Never Pay A Single Cent For the Reception:

Couples today have no qualm sharing the financial load of the wedding day between them (though perhaps with some help from both sides of the family), but Emily was steadfastly against the idea. In fact, she lists

this as the “one unalterable rule,” saying further that “never under any circumstances should a wedding reception be given at the house of the groom’s family.”

3. The Bride Should Use A Stand-In at Rehearsal:

Although Emily explains that the bride is in charge of the whole ordeal, she also claims that the future missus should never actually take part in it herself. Instead, she should use a “pseudobride” to go through the motions in

4. The Best Man Should Have

She claims the best man’s role is the most difficult on the dayof, describing them as a “cross between trained nurse, valet, general manager and keeper.”

According to her, this means that his job entails keeping his “patient” (the groom) from getting too nervous by “jolly[ing] him along as best he can” while simultaneously delivering the bride and groom’s luggage to wherever they will be spending their first night as

5. Bridesmaids Are to Match Each Other Precisely:

Although the color between each of the ladies can vary, Emily’s rules state that the texture and model must be exact replicas of the same design. She also says that the bride makes the selection of dress “without considering or even consulting them as to their taste or preference.”

6. The Bride Should Arrive Late for The Ceremony:

For the “perfectly managed wedding,” Emily claims a bride should arrive one minute after the hour in order to give the latecomers a chance to find their place before her march begins.

7. Widows Should Not Have Bridesmaids When Remarrying:

They’re less necessary since, according to Emily, she won’t be bothered to wear a dress with a long train — and it of course most certainly won’t be white, or feature orange blossoms on it, as those are emblems of virginity. Instead, they should don a “traveling dress” or other more casual design. She should also keep the ceremony small since her bare procession will do little to impress any guests — that is, unless “she is beautiful enough to compensate for all that is missing.”

Samantha Lynn Wyman & Charles William McDowell IV

OCTOBER 29, 2022

Venue: The Walled Garden at Biltmore Estate

Photography: Kathy Thomas

Planning: DeDe Scheibe

Catering: Biltmore Estate Catering

Cake & Desserts: Biltmore Estate

Music: La Vie Quartet

Rentals: Biltmore and Reliable Rentals

Invitations: You’re Invited Nashville

Florals: The Bloom House TN

Bride’s Gown: Vera Wang Couture

Grooms Attire: Indochino

“Exactly two years prior to our wedding, we got engaged at Biltmore Estate –the same place we travel to every year! I walked her up to one of our favorite spots looking over the Estate and the forest, and asked her to marry me.”

FRANKLIN’S

Newest Neighbor

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA BRIDAL COLLECTION

oversees each store’s design and overall aesthetic, aiming to make each store unique to its market. The Atlanta store, for example, sits in a cozy 1930s cottage home, while The White Magnolia Palm Beach embraces an industrial vibe with sixteen-foot ceilings and exposed wooden rafters. Inventory is similar between stores, but not identical, as Kerrie and Mallory adjust gowns and designers based on exclusivity and market research. In October 2021, the seventh White Magnolia boutique opened in Nashville.

The year is 2010. Kerrie Hileman, a newly engaged accountant, has found herself frustrated with the wedding gown offerings in her hometown of Jacksonville, Florida. Lack of privacy and no personal touches made wedding dress shopping feel more like a chore than the special experience she hoped for. And in that moment, an idea was born. After pushing numbers around a spreadsheet paired with the dissatisfied feeling of her current career, Kerrie decided to start her own bridal boutique.

Several months later, The White Magnolia opened its doors for the first time in Jacksonville. Within a few years, the store experienced tremendous growth and opened its second Florida location in Tampa. During a girls’ getaway in 2014, Kerrie met fellow accountant Mallory Thorburn through mutual friends. After detailing her disappointing experiences shopping for a wedding dress, the two decided to join forces. Mallory and Kerrie became official co-owners of the business and, in the same year, opened The White Magnolia in Atlanta.

With Mallory by her side and a third store in the fold, Kerrie felt ready to grow The White Magnolia even more – confident she had the formula, tools and experience to branch out into additional markets. The Greenville, South Carolina, store opened in 2016, followed by Palm Beach and Savannah in 2019. Though each store has a similar overall feel, they are not simply duplicates of each other. Mallory

Located in historic downtown, The White Magnolia is one of Franklin’s newest neighbors. A cozy cottage feel with bright, open windows invites you to experience a warm and sentimental moment with loved ones. The sophisticated yet relaxed atmosphere allows brides to feel at home in a private suite, just for them. A unique element to each

store, including Nashville, is the ninety-minute bridal appointment – a personal one-on-one shopping experience with a dedicated bridal stylist. The light and airy gown room is where all bridal dreams come true, housing top designer names like Made With Love, Martina Liana, Kelly Faetanini, Zavana Bridal, Mikaella, Paloma Blanca, Watters and so many more. In January, Kerrie and Mallory launched The First Look Collection, an exclusive line of wedding gowns only available at White Magnolia boutiques. When a bride chooses The White Magnolia, they can not only expect a curated gown collection of unique silhouettes and styles, but an experience not found anywhere else.

To schedule your appointment, visit whitemagnoliabridal.com/nashville. To see offerings and find inspiration, visit their Instagram and TikTok, @whitemagnoliabridal.

The White Magnolia is a bridal boutique featuring a thoughtfully curated collection of designer wedding gowns. With seven locations across the United States, The White Magnolia offers a o neon-one gown shopping experience tailored to fit each individual bride. Raise a glass of champagne and toast to what will be one of the most memorable days of your life. Named ‘Best Bridal Shop’ by The Knot, Southern Living Brides Magazine, and WeddingWire.

Katherine Anne Turnbull & Peyton Lee Willeman

Ceremony: St. Phillips Catholic Church

Reception: Richland Country Club

Photography: Lisa Rowland

Catering: Richland Country Club

Cake & Desserts: Rach Cakes Nashville

Music: DJ Dan Buckley

Invitations: Prints of Love

Florals: Westerhouse Weddings

Bride’s Gown: Vow’d

Bridesmaid Dresses: Azazie

Grooms Attire: Street Tuxedo

“After the kiss, the ‘Hymn of Joy,’ also known as ‘Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee’ played. The same was played at my parent’s wedding in 1988.”

Glide Down the Aisle

2023 TRENDING HEELS

BY AMELIA ROSE SMITH

When it comes to wedding shoes, the options are endless! Some opt for comfort, some opt for style, some opt for simplicity, and many opt for the mindset that “beauty is pain.” Whichever it may be, here are trending top picks for every bride-to-be in 2023!

For the Something Blue Bride

For the Preppy Bride

For the Minimalist Bride

For the Flirty Bride

For the Sleek Bride

For the Dancing Bride

For the Cathedral Bride

Andrea Wazen Franca Double Glitz Ankle Strap Pumps

Loeffler Randall Reed Pleated Twist Sandals

Kate Spade Bridal Bow Sandals

Jimmy Choo Bailey Embellished Pointed Toe Flat

Manolo Blahnik Lurum Crystal Cocktail Mules

Lulus Ayanna Ivory Satin Bow Ankle Strap High Heel Sandals

Pashion Footwear The Pashionista Convertible White Leather Block to Flats

BEST BACHELORETTE DESTINATION

BY CLAIRE PAGE

Over the past few years, Nashville has become one of the most popular destinations to take a bachelorette trip. Two years ago, before I had moved to Nashville, my best friend decided to have her bachelorette trip here, and let me tell you, it was the most fun I have ever had! Nashville is known as NashVegas because it is called the Vegas of the South. So it is the perfect nickname to go along with all the fun activities to do here. Nashville is jam-packed with places to go from party buses, fun directive hotels with rooftops and Broadway bars. Here are a few of my favorite places and activities to do when I was attending a bachelorette party here!

WHERE TO STAY

There are so many places to stay in Nashville that it can be overwhelming, especially when you have never been to the city and are unfamiliar with the different neighborhoods. You want to be in a safe, walkable area, whether you are staying in a hotel or an Airbnb. Staying near downtown Nashville would be the best option, so you are close to all the fun! I suggest staying in the heart of actual downtown Nashville, or a close by neighborhood like the Gulch, 12 South or Midtown. If you have a larger party size, Airbnb is the way to go! It allows you to have tons of room for your guests. If your party is on the smaller side and you want to be all together, I suggest a fun hotel. Two of my favorite hotels in Nashville are The Graduate Hotel and The Virgin Hotel; both perfect for a bachelorette trip!

WHERE TO BAR HOP

When you think of Nashville, most likely your next thought is Broadway and live music. Of course, one of the main attractions in Nashville is Broadway itself. With so many bars to bar-hop from, and live music filling the air, you are bound to have a great time with your gals! Some of my favorite bars on Broadway are The Stage, Florida Georgia Line ( Luke Bryan’s bar) and The Valentine,

just to name a few. But, if Broadway isn’t your scene, do not worry! Midtown is a great alternative and is a little more laid back than the hustle and bustle of Broadway. One of my favorite Nashville bars is Loser’s Bar, located in Midtown. Every Friday night, Loser’s has their famous “Loser’s Band” that plays, which you do not want to miss! In the summer, they even have Whiskey Jam, a free live outdoor concert with an amazing lineup.

WHERE TO EAT

Nashville has a ton of places to eat, with different types of cuisine and for all meal types, whether it be breakfast, brunch, lunch or dinner. The must-haves that you will want to add to your list are The Hampton Social, The Listening Room, Liberty Common, Butchertown Hall and Bartaco. The Hampton Social and Liberty Common are near each other and just a few blocks from Broadway. Both overlook the river and have the best bachelorette and girly vibe you could want! The Listening Room is a live songwriter cafe where you can eat great food and listen to upcoming artists. Just make sure to buy your ticket beforehand on their website. Finally, if you are looking for good tacos and southwestern food, Butchertown Hall and Bartaco are your go-to places!

WHAT TO DO DURING THE DAY

There are so many things to choose from besides just going to a bar! The Nashville Tractor is one of my all-time favorite things to do; you get a tour of Nashville in a fun, unique way while having great music blaring! If you want to get away from the city life for the day, Arrington Vineyards is a great place to have a laid-back, fun day with your girls, and their wine is excellent. Go take those commemorative photos in front of the famous Nashville murals, 12 South or The Gulch – great areas to walk around and get quality tourist photos. Last but not least, the Dry Bar is the place to get pampered while getting the most amazing blowout.

For more planning ideas nashvilleguru.com and sipsandthecitynash.com are great resources. The Sips and the City girls will even make reservations for you and plan your itinerary if you do not know where to begin. Nashville Guru is a mega website with all the things to do in Nashville in one spot. And the best part is, it is free and easy to use.

I hope this guide gave you more insight on where to go when planning your most memorable bachelorette trip yet!

THE GRADUATE HOTEL

NASHVILLE TRACTOR

THE GULCH

THE VIRGIN HOTEL

HAMPTON SOCIAL

Thank you

A COMPLETE GUIDE TO WRITING THANK YOU NOTES

BY CHRISTIAN DIAN HEADDEN

Writing thank-you notes is probably not the first thing on your mind as you plan your wedding. However, writing thank-you notes is a very important part of the planning process. If you get organized now, writing thank-you notes after the honeymoon will be a breeze!

WHO RECEIVES A THANK YOU NOTE?

Anyone who gave you a wedding gift, whether tangible or intangible – such as a party – should receive a thank you note as a kind gesture from you and your spouse! This includes your parents and in-laws, your wedding party, wedding planners and vendors, shower and engagement party hosts and any guest who attended your wedding.

FOR MONEY

“Thank you so much for celebrating our special day with us! We are so grateful for your generous gift. Thanks to you, we were able to book the cooking class we have had our eye on for our honeymoon. Looking forward to seeing you over the holidays!”

“Thank you so much for your generous gift. (Insert significant other’s name) and I will be putting it towards our honeymoon fund to take our dream trip to Greece next year. We are very fortunate to have you both in our lives and to share our big day. It really wouldn’t have been the same without you at our wedding. We look forward to starting the next chapter of our lives together and sharing many more memories with you!”

FOR ATTENDING

“From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you for sharing our special day with us. We felt the love and sincerity all around us, making it the most memorable day of our lives. We look forward to starting the next chapter of our lives together and sharing many more memories with you!”

FOR THE OUT OF TOWN GUEST

“Seeing your bright smiling faces beaming at me as I walked down the aisle was so delightful! Thank you so much for traveling so far to attend our special day and making it the most memorable day of our lives. Thank you so much for the KitchenAid mixer. It fits perfectly with our kitchen decor, and we can’t wait to put it to good use. Next year we hope to have an opportunity to visit you in New York.”

FOR A GIFT

“Thank you so much for the lovely, engraved champagne glasses. They are now prominently displayed in our glassware cabinet. We plan to get them out each wedding anniversary for an annual toast to love, happiness, prosperity and continued marital bliss!”

From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you for sharing our special day with us. We are beyond grateful for your presence, warmest wishes and gift(s), and look forward to creating and celebrating many more memories with you!”

with love, DSW

LET’S

HEAR IT FOR

Dress The

2023 BRIDAL FASHION LOOK BOOK

BY AMELIA ROSE SMITH PHOTOGRAPHY BY ALLI CAMPBELL PHOTOGRAPHY

Our 2023’s Bridal Fashion is nothing short of breathtaking. From intricate beadwork and lace to shaped silhouettes and necklines, there is something for every bride-to-be. Distinctively Southern Wedding had the pleasure of partnering with Adorn Bridal and The White Magnolia to present exquisite, elegant and opulent gowns, while Nashville’s timeless icon, The Hermitage Hotel, served as the backdrop… And what a stunning back drop it was!

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA Park by Kelly Faetanini

Pleated tulle ballgown, draped crepe strapless bodice and tiered ruffle skirt with Beatrice Couture Satin Headband

Jeff Gloeb, Director of Sales and Catering, says, “Over a century, The Hermitage Hotel’s legendary service has set the stage for spectacular weddings and milestone celebrations. Whether hosting a black-tie gala in the timeless ballroom or reciting your vows in the Veranda, our venues are designed to inspire."

So, we cordially invite you to delve into our Bridal Look Book and not only notice the notable scenes of The Hermitage Hotel – the Gentlemen’s and Ladies’ Restrooms, Veranda and Lobby –but also the gorgeous gowns and accessories curated by the stylists of Adorn Bridal Shop and The White Magnolia Nashville.

“Over a century, The Hermitage Hotel’s legendary service has set the stage for spectacular weddings and celebrations.”milestone

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA Cameron by Made with Love Classic, deep plunging neckline, signature figure-hugging skirt and detachable long tulle bows with Beatrice Couture Floral Headband

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA

Martina Liana 1566

Draped, off-the-shoulder straps with pleated detailing, swooping cowl neckline and structured bodice

MODELS

Alexandra Rae and Sara Steadman with Tribe Talent Management tribetalentmanagement.com

Amelia Rose Smith, Hannah Boucher and Jenna Frawley

FLORALS

Always in Bloom, Inc. | alwaysinbloominc.com

DRESSES

Adorn Bridal Shop | adornbridal.com

The White Magnolia Nashville | whitemagnoliabridal.com

PHOTOGRAPHER

Alli Campbell Photography | allicampbellphotography.com

Adorn Bridal Shop, located in the heart of Nashville, specializes in couture customizations. Dedicated to quality, expert craftsmanship and authentic designs, Adorn works intimately with their designers and seamstresses.

The White Magnolia Nashville carries a curated collection of bridal gowns. Their team thoughtfully chooses each gown and accessory carried in the shop to make sure they have the best of the best, along with a variety of sizes and silhouettes to compliment your unique style.

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA

Martina Liana 1367

Classic sweetheart neckline, curve-hugging bustier, off-theshoulder detachable sleeves and floral lace detail

ADORN BRIDAL

Delanie by Rita Vinieris

Sweetheart ballgown in 3D laser cut beaded floral lace with Delanie Veil

ADORN BRIDAL

Regina by Rita Vinieris

Strapless satin ballgown, draped banded neckline and illusion tulle cut-outs, finished with buttons down back and a grand bow

ADORN BRIDAL

Amelia by Rita Vinieris

Strapless sweetheart flared crepe sheath with draped bust detail and illusion tulle back with Day Dream Veil

ADORN BRIDAL Turner by Pronovias

Timeless crepe gown with evocative row button detailing on the fitted cuffs and entire rear silhouette with Untamed Petals Fallon Headband

Elysian Bridal EB22456

An A-line skirt gown featuring a daring split, structured bodice and glamorous train with Beatrice Couture Satin Gloves

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA Sutton by Kelly Faetanini Crepe and tulle strapless fit to flare gown, draped elongated bodice and textured ombre skirt

THE WHITE MAGNOLIA Martina Liana 1510 3D floral embellishments, elegant beading and a demure scooped neckline

ADORN BRIDAL

Eloise by Rita Vinieris

Strapless sweetheart gown with gored fit and flare skirt in beaded tulle with 3D embroidered floral lace appliques

Bella Bridesmaids loves a wedding! With hundreds of dresses to choose from, your personal Bella stylist is ready for anything. You’ll have a personal shopping experience, combined with online convenience. If you’re girls live within 5 miles or are scattered across 5 states, there are 60 Bella locations to provide complementary fittings. We’ll guide you through the fabrics, colors and styles to find the perfect looks for your dream day.

INSPIRED BY ACCESSORIES

Thoughtfully named after Alyssa’s grandmother, who inspired her career path in design, Alice & Mae Bridal launched in early 2015. Alice & Mae offers handmade and bespoke bridal veils, hair adornments, sashes, wedding dress cover-ups and other custom pieces. Incorporating the finest materials such as French laces, silk ribbons, freshwater pearls, fine crystals and the softest tulles, every piece is meticulously curated and handmade upon order to each bride’s specifications in their Nashville design studio. Alice & Mae’s pieces are of heirloom quality and may be passed down and worn by generations to come.

Here is a glimpse of Alice & Mae Bridal’s 2023 Collection! To see all styles available, visit aliceandmaebridal.com.

BY JORDAN AND ALAINA

GEMMA STYLE 161

Not your typical glitter tulle veil, Gemma gives the most. For the bride who is not afraid to push the envelope, is girly and fun, and is unapologetically herself. This veil is encrusted in a luxe glitter embellishment and shimmers with every movement.

Colors: Light Ivory and Nude

PHOTOGRAPHY

GEORGIE

STYLE 164

Italian-made, 3D organza + silk florals cascade effortlessly down our standard tulle veil. With a straight cut and slight gather at the comb, Georgie offers playful + flirty reverie for any bride’s dream vision.

Color: Light Ivory

GRAYSON STYLE 530

Removable English tulle bridal sleeves. Sleeves are made using a double layer of English tulle and are ruched at the bicep for added texture and dimension. Style them loose and draped or as a fitted fingerless glove.

Colors: White, Light Ivory and Ivory

GEORGIA

STYLE 366

Dimensional and textural floral hair comb made up of a mix of clay flowers and metal flowers and leaves. The flowers are accented with beaded cluster centers and textural stamens. Slight variations will occur in each individual adornment due to the organic elements and the nature of a handmade piece.

Colors: Gold and Silver

GENEVIEVE

STYLE 157

Standard tulle veil with slight gather at the comb. Soft, floral lace frames the edge starting at the elbow and gives this piece an air of femininity.

Color: Light Ivory

GENEVA

STYLE 370

Textural hair comb comprised of freshwater pearl clusters and accented with small, gold metal flower buds. Slight variations will occur in each individual adornment due to the organic elements and the nature of a handmade piece.

Colors: Gold and Silver

Cassetty Elizabeth Parrish & Dakota Ray Mannino

SEPTEMBER 23, 2022

Venue: The Venue at Birchwood

Photography: The Hardcastle’s Planning: Sutlan + Co.

Catering: Dream Catering | With Love and Brie

Cake & Desserts: The Puffy Muffin

Ceremony Music: Viva La Strings

Reception Music: DJ Connection

Rentals: Please Be Seated

Invitations: DIY

Florals: Petal and Fields

Bride’s Gown: Made With Love from The White Magnolia

Bridesmaid Dresses: Revelry

Groom Attire: Indochino

Groomsmen Attire: The Suit Shop

“Not doing a first look was something I wouldn’t change as it made walking down the aisle to my favorite person 100x more special. Dakota’s reaction to seeing me walk down the aisle was priceless and one I will never forget!”

MORE than a dress

WITH MELANIE BROWN, OWNER OF BELLA BRIDESMAIDS

What would your wedding day be like without your squad surrounding you? Each of your bridesmaids have a special place in your life and their dresses should be no different. Their attire truly is a huge part of completing the vision for your wedding and you surely would not want a remake of 27 Dresses. We have all worn dresses that might have matched the bride’s vision but didn’t exactly make our dreams come true. But, what if you could do both?

With the busy wedding season upon us, I have curated three collections that go deeper than just matching styles and colors. Each collection shows examples of beautiful dresses that are on point with current wedding trends, and offer unique options for each bridesmaids personal style and shape.

Dresses:

Lazaro styles in cashmere crepe de chine, Jenny Yoo Aubrey in black knit crepe, Christina Wu Celebrations 22140 in black slipper satin, Watters Bianca in prosecco lucios charmeuse

Black tie weddings are resurging, and we are here for it! After wearing our pajamas on Zoom calls, it feels glamorous to dress to the nines! For black tie weddings, the cohesion of styles is essential. Maybe all your ladies will wear the same dress. Or maybe you will let them choose a style while keeping everyone in the same color and fabric. Champagne or black are often chosen colors, although the color options are abundant! Structured fabrics such as satin, faille and crepe are perfect for these polished and sophisticated looks.

Dresses:

Jenny Yoo Eloise in whisper blue satin, Lulakate Jacqueline in Lily of the Valley print, Alfred Sung D826FP in Cottage Rose Larkspur, Watters Lina in Smokey Blue stretch crepe

ENGLISH GARDEN BLUE

Maybe it is Bridgerton…maybe it is the hope of spring, but whatever the motivation, blue florals are everywhere! That mix-and-match look can be achieved by combining multiple prints, sprinkled in with a few solids. Coordinating color undertones, and balancing the fabrics chosen, are important factors to consider when putting together this look.

GORGEOUS GREENS

& styling expertise for your big day!

Dresses:

After Six 1551 in sage lux velvet, Jenny Yoo Clare in embroidered tulle, Jenny Yoo Maxine in moss burnout satin, Jenny Yoo Aeryn in eucalyptus tulle

Jessica Maclaire Kennedy & Kyle Phillip Blevens

JUNE 25, 2022

Venue: Mint Springs Farm

Photography: Kendall Parsons

Planning: Mint Springs Farm

Catering: G Catering

Cake & Desserts: Dessert Designs

Ceremony Music: College Grove Strings

Reception: Music: Snyder Entertainment

Rentals: Mint Springs Farm

Invitations: White Ink Calligraphy

Florals: Mint Springs Farm

Bride's Gown: Essence of Australia from The White Room Lebanon

Bridesmaid Dresses: Azazie Grooms Attire: Street Tuxedo

“We did a last dance with just the two of us while our guests lined up outside for the send-off – a great way to connect after the chaos. We had a lot of University of Tennessee Cheer and Dance alumni as guests, and it is tradition to do cheers to ‘Rocky Top’ during the wedding reception!”

TrendON

ACRYLIC CHAIRS FOR WEDDINGS & EVENTS

PHOTOGRAPHY BY JENNA HENDERSON

BY JOHN MYERS PHOTOGRAPHY

Associated with contemporary art, acrylic is making its way into modern event design. Now used in various furniture designs, it is a unique addition to any event. The most popular use, however, is in chairs! Typically referred to as “ghost chairs,” this style is a fun, modern twist that can be pulled off year-round. Keep reading to learn how to feature these pieces at your upcoming event!

On-Trend Ceremony Seating

Go with acrylic chairs if you want to wow guests when they enter your wedding event space! Acrylic seating is a simple way to elevate your event, regardless of style or theme. Our most popular chairs for wedding ceremonies are the Acrylic Ghost Arm Chair and Acrylic Ghost Armless Chair

The oval shape of the back of these chairs will lend a sophisticated look that will complement any venue, modern, urban or outdoor. This style is also easy to decorate with ribbon or vinyl appliques across the back.

Timeless Reception Tables

Our favorite way to feature acrylic chairs is at receptions – whether a wedding, corporate event or personal gathering. This style of chair will complement any table, such as our Fruitwood Farm Tables or linens. When choosing the type of seating, we recommend considering your event theme. Whether you are hosting

a minimalist or modern event, any Southern Events Ghost Chairs will do the job. For a romantic or whimsical theme, we prefer the Acrylic Carrigan Side Chair due to the intricate back. While the Acrylic Fantasma Side Chair is an easy choice if you want something otherworldly or ethereal.

Pro Tip: Planning to have designated tables for children? Be sure to grab a handful of our Acrylic Chiavari Children’s Chairs

Modern Cocktail Hours

We can’t forget the cocktail hour setup! Big or small, a memorable cocktail hour calls for stylish and comfortable seating, with ample space for guests to sit and mingle. If you are planning to feature a lounge, any of our acrylic chairs make for beautiful add-ons. And these chairs are extremely comfortable, too! For a lounge, we recommend seating with arms. Whereas at cocktail tables or bar tables, arms aren’t necessary. These areas will work well with our armless or backless styles, such as the Acrylic Ghost Barstool, Acrylic Casper Oval Back Barstool, or Acrylic Casper Square Back Barstool

Our acrylic chairs book up fast! To feature any of these pieces at an upcoming event, email us at info@southerneventsonline. com. For more event design inspiration, check out our blog on southerneventsonline.com.

Ila Bridal believes in an elevated bridal experience. That means high standards, intentionality, simplicity, and a little bit of magic.

We are here for the bride who values originality, high style, sustainability, and intentionality. Our Nashville wedding boutique ditched the stress of typical wedding dress shopping. Instead, we focus on a simplified approach to wedding dress shopping without compromising on fashion or comfort. Our expertise and experience help every bride find the dress that makes her look and feel like her truly captivating self.

Redefining the bridal experience one bride & one dress at a time

Ceremony: Saint Peters Episcopal Church

Reception: Memorial Building

Photography: AbbyBekah

Planning: Golden Weddings and Events

Catering: Dotted Line

Cake & Desserts: Dotted Lime

Music: Number One Party Band

Rentals: Liberty Rentals Nashville

Invitations: Wildflower Paper co.

Signage: Artisan Abode | Rowan

Sylvester

Florals: Bloomstall Flowers

Bride’s Gown: Allure from Britt’s Bridal

Bridesmaid Dresses: Birdy Grey

Grooms Attire: Jos. A. Banks

Emma Caroline Williams & Elisha Alexander Loy

“We made the decision that nothing was more important than us getting married and having fun together. A wedding does not make a marriage, and we are glad we focused on the love from our friends and family over little things that could’ve gone wrong.”

ONE JOURNEY

Many Stories

THE SHORE CLUB TURKS & CAICOS

efined by a spirit of relaxation and adventure, The Shore Club resort brings an exclusive Turks and Caicos resort experience to the most sought-after stretch of Providenciales: Long Bay Beach, a stunning, secluded beach minutes away from Provo’s town center. As the only development on Long Bay Beach, The Shore Club will make honeymooners feel like they’re vacationing on their own private island. Guests can expect large suites with sweeping ocean views, four expansive pool areas, the naturallyinspired Dune Spa and globally-inspired dining venues – all wrapped up in sea grape to create a feeling of exclusivity. Perfect for any type of couple, The Shore Club will promise a honeymoon filled with personalized touches, unforgettable culinary experiences, breathtaking waterfront surroundings and endless opportunities for romance.

SPA

The Dune Spa embraces a holistic approach that draws from the environment of Long Bay Beach. Centered on the elements of sand, sea, breeze and sun, the Dune Spa’s techniques, treatments and products are designed to restore, inspire insight, stimulate and ignite. In addition, the property converted two shipping containers into a Wellness Center, offering yet another hideaway for guests to be pampered or enjoy quiet time in private.

DINING

The Shore Club boasts three dining concepts, including a fine dining restaurant, Sui-Ren, offering Peruvian Japanese cuisine. Sui-Ren means “sleeping lotus” in Japanese and is named for the Chinese God of Cooking. Additional culinary venues include Sea Grapes and Colonnade, and poolside cocktails can be enjoyed at The Rope Bar or the Courtyard Bar. Brand new, the property unveiled a new culinary venue in January 2021, The Almond Tree, offering a Southern-style menu with the known island twist.

THE SUITES

Pamper yourself in an opulent suite or reserve a spacious Junior Suite for a romantic couples getaway. The Shore Club’s thoughtfully designed thirty-eight suites and 110 rooms boast hand-selected natural materials and furnishings inspired by their island environment. As stunning as its setting, The Shore Club invites you to an escape that is truly your own.

THE VILLAS

The Estate Villas offer unparalleled views of Long Bay’s vibrant turquoise waters and endless horizons. Located on 850 feet of beachfront on Long Bay Beach, each of the 8,800 square foot villas offer a completely private oceanfront setting framed by a secluded, white-sand beach with all the amenities of an exclusive luxury resort. With six bedrooms, five in the main house and one detached, each villa boasts a heated pool, private courtyard, expansive terraces, spacious guest rooms with large baths and a master suite with the most enchanting ocean views imaginable.

Book your dream honeymoon today by visiting theshoreclubtc.com or calling 649.339.8000.

WEDDING

Alyssa Kristine Arnold & Chandler Dean Causey

Venue: Ravenswood Mansion

Photography: Hopkins Co.

Planning: Dana Carroll Co.

Catering: Crave Catering

Cake & Desserts: Sugar Mama

Music: Cavo Entertainment

Rentals: EventWorks Nashville

Lighting: Nashville Lighting & Production

Florals: Phyllis Mayfield

Bride’s Gown: Pronovias from Fabulous Frocks

2022

time to be silly with each other. Life is too short to be serious all the time! Cherish the moments of laughter and playfulness –everything else serious in life will fall into place.”

A SHOPPING EXPERIENCE made for you

BY ILA BASTIEN, OWNER OF ILA BRIDAL

Maybe it is because I was born on Valentine’s Day that I truly do love, love! Femininity, romance and beauty have always held a special place in my heart. As a young girl, I watched in awe as my grandmother intricately sewed dresses for my two sisters and me. The skill and pride she had for her talent inspired my love of fashion and fabrics. It is the women in my life who have helped the most in shaping who I am today. From my grandma’s care in her craft of making dresses; to my mom’s constant love and support; to my twin sister and my older sister always being right there by my side; and the many other aunts, cousins, friends and mentors along the way – I am inspired daily to be there for other women, the same way the women in my life have been for me.

With almost twenty years of experience in the fashion and textile industry, my expertise and passion unite to serve brides. After a few years working in the bridal industry for other companies, I wanted to create something for brides that did not exist and simplify the wedding gown shopping experience. My goal was to bring a more organic, authentic experience to women and steer clear of mass-produced, mainstream bridal.

Your wedding dress shopping experience should be uniquely tailored to YOU...because you are anything but cookie-cutter!

Our Nashville bridal shop carries only ethical, sustainable wedding dresses that are hand-picked for their quality, style and originality.

As soon as you walk through our doors for your seventy-five-minute private wedding dress shopping experience, you can expect your stylist to listen and work with you to find the dress of your dreams.

The cherry on top? Once you find the dress made for you, it is yours. Our streamlined process allows you to walk out of the store that day with your ready-to-wear dress and all the resources needed for your next steps. Ila Bridal believes in an elevated bridal experience. And that means high standards, intentionality, simplicity and a little magic.

Since our doors opened in November 2018, Ila Bridal has been committed to providing original, high-fashion wedding gowns from some of the world’s most talented and sought-after designers. We work directly with many of them to offer a one-of-a-kind style. We partner with independent designers because of their craftsmanship, quality and ethical practices. All materials and labor are ethically sourced with love and care.

We are proud to offer off-the-rack wedding gowns available for immediate purchase. “Off-the-rack gowns” does not mean sacrificing quality. It means you fall in love with an intentionally sourced, thoughtfully selected, brand-new, ready-to-wear wedding dress you can purchase and take home that same day.

Our gowns range from size two to twenty-four, and prices range from $1,500 to $7,500, with most dresses falling between $2,500 to $4,000. Your budget matters to us, so we only show dresses within the range you give us.

From the sourcing of the dress to the bride who wears it down the aisle, Ila Bridal cares. And you can trust that we maintain only the highest standards every step of the way because a wedding gown should reflect not just a bride’s style but a celebration of who they are from the inside out.

The memories you make here will last a lifetime. With a wide array of gorgeous venues, from elegant ballrooms, terraces with jaw-dropping views, pool decks, lush lawns, golf greens, and of course, the beach, Sandestin® has the wedding venue of your dreams. A celebration of the love you share and the beginning of your new life together awaits. Make the most of it by booking your wedding at Sandestin Golf and Beach Resort®.

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OUQUET OF UTTERCREAMB

AN INTERVIEW WITH KATHERINE OF BLOOMING KUPCAKES

BY AMELIA ROSE SMITH

bouquet of buttercream? Say less. Katherine Halbeck, Founder & CEO of Blooming Kupcakes, has been creating cupcakes that are too pretty to eat since its opening in 2020. Before cupcake designing, Katherine worked in the medical and legal fields for nearly thirty years. While working as a legal assistant at a law firm in 2020, the pandemic resulted in a thirty-day furlough for Katherine. “One night when I was restless, I scrolled through Instagram and found a baker piping buttercream on some cupcakes,” Katherine shares. “I was so mesmerized that I clicked on one reel after another from various bakers and found myself ordering a set of piping nozzles and tools the very next morning. Within a few weeks, I realized I had a good grasp of piping and handcrafting beautiful florals on cupcakes.” Just months later, in June 2020, Blooming Kupcakes was born!

In less than two years of receiving business, Katherine designed cupcakes for celebrities such as Reese Witherspoon, Dolly Parton, Barbara Eden and Miranda Lambert. Keep reading to get a behind-the-scenes glimpse of Katherine and Blooming Kupcakes!

IS BLOOMING KUPCAKES A ONE-WOMAN SHOW?

The piping aspect of my work is a one-woman show, but I couldn’t do this without my husband, Andy. He has taken over the baking and making of our delicious buttercream to allow more time for me to design and handcraft these beautiful creations.

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE YOU TO DESIGN & DECORATE EACH CUPCAKE?

Each floral design is different. Rosettes can take up to a minute, but some of my more complex multi-flowered cupcakes can take several minutes. I need to consider the additional time required in switching out piping tips or creating a new color palette, color mixing and any other additions to the cupcake like making wafer eucalyptus leaves.

WHAT IS THE MOST CHALLENGING ASPECT OF CUPCAKE DECORATING?

The most challenging aspect of cupcake decorating is fine-tuning my piping tips to get the desired results. Sometimes I want the buttercream to flow out less to get a more realistic-looking petal. From time to time, I suggest adjusting your buttercream recipe to get the look of a more translucent-looking flower petal.

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE DECORATING TECHNIQUE YOU USE DAILY?

I love utilizing my flower nail, which allows me more creativity and movement in handcrafting my floral designs. In addition, one of my favorite hacks to share is “what to do when your piping bag bursts?” After months of struggling with this myself, I have found that if you are going to pipe a lot or use stiff buttercream, it is best to use scotch tape around your piping tip to adhere to the piping bag. This provides many hours of use without any complications.

WHY IS USING NATURAL INGREDIENTS AND OFFERING GLUTEN-FREE CUPCAKES VITAL TO YOU?

When we went to a local big box store bakery and saw all the ingredients listed on their cupcake products – some of which you cannot pronounce –, I vowed only to make cupcakes with the finest ingredients available to us. The foods and ingredients we put into our bodies are very important. So, with that in mind, we decided to import our flour from Europe to provide a very finely milled, softer and slightly sweeter flour for all to enjoy.

We also offer gluten-free cupcakes. My daughter and I are both gluten intolerant. For years, we have struggled to find delicious gluten-free desserts. Identifying the right flour combination has been key to the success of our delicious cupcakes, both regular and gluten-free.

WHAT ARE SOME TREASURED MILESTONES THUS FAR FOR YOUR BUSINESS?

The day I quit my full-time day job and became

an independent woman-owned business owner. But most importantly, the love and recognition from our community of supporters and local media.

WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR BEGINNERS WHO WANT TO START DECORATING CUPCAKES?

Anyone who wants to start decorating cupcakes or cakes should purchase a set of basic piping tips and the Americolor Soft Gel Paste Beginner Kit. Wilton sells a beginner’s nine-piece or twenty-two-piece Starter Decorating Piping Tip Set, which you can purchase at places like Target, Hobby Lobby, Michaels and Amazon. In addition, many free tutorials on YouTube can teach you how to make buttercream and pipe some basic flowers. Most importantly, have fun baking and being creative.

To sign up for a cupcake decorating workshop and one-on-one classes or schedule an order, visit bloomingkupcakes.com.

Katherine was a guests on WKRN News Local On 2.

Margie Church Dobler

FRANKLIN’S FAVORITE FLORIST

BY AMELIA ROSE SMITH

Margie Church Dobler is the owner of Always In Bloom, Inc., located on Franklin Road across from The Factory at Franklin. Margie opened her doors twenty-eight years ago and is ALWAYS known to go the extra mile for her customers; whether it be flowers for a wedding, birthday or passing of a loved one, Margie is there to give you real, local service.

How long have you lived in Williamson County?

I have lived in Williamson County all my life – seventy-two years. I love Williamson County and Franklin. The people here have always been so kind and loyal to the small mom-and-pop businesses. My mother had a hair salon on Main Street, and my stepfather owned the infamous Auction Barn in downtown Franklin. My father’s family goes back at least five generations, as he was born in the Cool Springs house.

What led you to choose your profession?

I am a professional Floral Artist and Designer. I love the beauty of flowers and how special they make people feel.

Three words that best describe you. Thoughtful, caring and stubborn.

What do you like to do in your spare time?

One of my favorite things about growing up in Williamson County is staying in touch with my friends that also grew up here. We try to go to lunch or dinner at least once a month, and our conversations always revert to how grateful we feel to have grown up in Franklin.

Where is your favorite place to go in Williamson County?

One of my favorite places to go is The Franklin Theatre. I have seen it go from sticky, bubble gum-covered floors to the fabulous theater it is today. My Franklin High School class of 1968 purchased one of the seats.

What keeps you motivated and inspired?

The smiles my profession puts on people’s faces when they receive their flowers make me want to continue my education and inspire my son Michael to continue to be a part of the changes in floristry.

What organizations are you involved with?

I am the President of Central Tennessee Professional Florists’ Association. Also, I am a Past President of the Tennessee State Florists’ Association.

What is the one thing you do not go a day without?

I try not to go a day without thanking the Lord for the angel that rides on my shoulder.

Finish this statement. I AM Williamson County because: Dynamite could not blast me away from here – something my late husband used to tell me. He was probably correct. My shop has been through two fires and a flood, but those were nothing like the current road construction the last three years! But, that is progress. I love talking to people about how special it was growing up in a wonderful county and town. My son and I are proud to call ourselves Williamson Countians.

DISTINCTIVELY SOUTHERN WEDDING | I Do

Bailey Beaird & Jacob Neal Anderson

JULY 8, 2022

Temple Ceremony: Nashville Tennessee Temple

Ring Ceremony: The Bell Carillon at Bicentennial Mall

Reception: Tennessee State Museum

Photography: Shannon Elizabeth

Planning: Jordan Beaird and Angela Wilkes

Catering: The Daily Dish

Cake & Desserts: Frothy Monkey Bakery

Ceremony Music: Harpist (bride’s sister)

Reception Music: Burning Las Vegas

Rentals: Liberty Party Rentals

Invitations: Midtown Printing

Signage: Father of the Groom

Florals: Gramercy Grace

Bride’s Gown: Custom made in Ukraine

Grooms Attire: Men’s Warehouse

“The dance party was one for the ages! Jake lifted me in the iconic dirty dancing lift. There was a Congo line, a tunnel to run through, dance battles, crowd surfing and people were getting tossed ten feet in the air! It was incredibly fun!”

HOW HUGH

See’s It

HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR WEDDING PLANNER’S SERVICES

BY HUGH HOWSER

can’t remember a day that goes by when someone doesn’t ask me a wedding question. Whether they are a friend, client or a dental assistant. They ask me everything from “Do I need flowers at the church?” or “Can I just pay for the band or the bar and not tell anyone?” to “Would you just marry my daughter, and come live with us, and help me pick out pillows for my sunroom?”

I have heard it all, and I look forward to hearing a lot more! Here are my takes on a few categories surrounding wedding planning, beginning with communication.

COMMUNICATION

I have always said event planners were created because a caterer said they would handle the party, and you can imagine what happened. Much like a subcontractor, our role was established – to confirm, finalize, execute and strike. Let’s begin with communication! Communicating with your planner is so basic, but it really is the only key to success! From the minute you begin, establish your budget, and then determine your roles. Think of your wedding planner as a favorite camp counselor, who will take you under their wing and guide you for the next few months.

TRUST

Trust is a huge factor in wedding planning, it is a huge investment and should be turned over to a professional to execute. Both planner and client must feel comfortable with each other, and you will know from the start if it is the right fit!

Jordan Cheshire & Jonathan Eudy wedding

Photography by Allan Zepeda

This goes for the client as well. Years ago, I identified the “Sneaky Mom” persona – a client who commits the worst crime, going behind a planner’s back and contacting a vendor without anyone knowing. These are moms who commit the ultimate NO NO…. Contacting a vendor without telling you.

“SNEAKY MOM” NO NO’S

1. Setting up a meeting without telling you – some sneaky moms will try and arrive early for an appointment to talk to the vendor before the planner arrives! I always arrive early when I’ve got a sneaky one…it just about does them in.

2. Creating their own timeline without telling you.

3. Throwing curve balls at you on the wedding day! “We forgot to tell you about a family heirloom, Uncle Carl can’t eat carrots, Aunt Bernice cannot be outside, and they require a back pillow for their dinner chair, the list goes on.

I make them laugh and keep them distracted the whole time with vodka. Or wad up extra linen and create a bolster pillow.

BOUNDARIES

I have none, but I really should get them. I drag fabric samples to clients’ offices, homes, etc., and take calls and emails all day and night. I never thought about it because I love to talk about design, so it’s always been a joy. However, you should probably understand office hours in the wild – ZOOM meetings – world we live in. We should set certain times to meet with each other!

This is just a sampling of issues that planners experience, and magically the client never knows, as we handle everything behind the scenes, the event day arrives, and no one has any idea that moments before, we almost ate in a horse stable that I pressure washed. Xoxo

FORGET

Formalities

WHY ELOPING MAY BE THE ANSWER FOR YOU

ne of the hardest things about weddings is that they can easily become overwhelming, expensive and less personal. Whether you’re feeling pressure to people please, or the tug to have a destination wedding or you are on a budget – eloping may be the answer for you.

DO IT FOR THE RIGHT REASONS

In 2018, my husband and I eloped to a dreamy destination. Having already booked a wedding venue, the guest list completed, and details upon details laid out, we suddenly felt a nudge in our gut saying, “Is this what we really want?” My husband and I sat at our kitchen table and discussed our wedding in detail, when he said to me, “I feel like we’re the type of people who would hop on a plane, take a handful of our loved ones and get married on a cliff overlooking the ocean!”

That was all I needed to hear, and within hours we canceled our pricey wedding plans. For us, this was the option that made us the most excited! Your wedding day should reflect both your and your partner’s vision, and the freedom that comes with eloping or having a smaller wedding is priceless. You can get as creative as you want and customize every detail to feel like a fairytale.

CHOOSE YOUR DREAM LOCATION

Some of the perks of eloping are choosing a unique and unforgettable location. You are not as limited geographically or creatively as with a traditional wedding, and it is fun to flee to your favorite city or grand destination. It is also a great way to save money, get a vacation out of it and worry about a huge party later. Plan as many details as possible before you leave but leave the smaller ones to decide once you arrive. For example, I picked my bouquet once I arrived at our wedding destination – I opted for a faux bouquet to preserve it forever. You can find amazing florists just about anywhere!

We chose to elope in our favorite place in the United States, Laguna Beach, California. Then, I found my dream photographer and videographer on

BY MADISON ROSE LOVELY

Instagram, and both worked within my budget. I called the city of Laguna Beach and purchased a permit to have private access to our cliff lookout. Our wedding view was worth millions, and I only paid three hundred; that’s one of the perks of eloping to a photogenic destination.

Our photos turned out otherworldly and made for an unforgettable memory of dramatic ocean cliffs and crashing waves. After the pictures were done, we met at an incredible restaurant where we had our private table, wedding cake and live band awaiting us.

DESTINATION DETAILS TO PLAN

• Choose a date Book a location (Research, reserve and purchase permits – with my experience, even outdoor locations have permits)

• Book a photographer/videographer

• Schedule flights/drive time

• Secure hotel accommodations

• Purchase wedding attire

• Invite love ones...or not

• Make reservations for a post-ceremony celebratory meal

Tip: Don’t forget to think of the time of year you want to get married because

the climate and weather of that location will be a factor in choosing your date and location!

REMEMBER THAT MARRIAGE LAWS ARE DIFFERENT ALL OVER

This is an important part of planning an elopement that will take some research! The last thing you want to do is travel to the other side of the world without the correct documents. Take note of any local laws that might affect your day as well. For example, if you want to elope on a Sunday in the gorgeous Smoky Mountains of Tennessee, buy the champagne or liquor you desire the day before since all the liquor stores will be closed on Sunday.

Another option is to consider a symbolic ceremony. This means that your ceremony on your elopement day will not be legally binding. Couples who go this route will get married legally where they live, so the paperwork is out of the way, and they do not have to deal with all the logistics. I recommend this route to anyone who is getting married in a country where they do not live and possibly if you are getting married in another state. The process of getting legally married in a different state is, of course, much easier, but there can still be some hurdles to jump, depending on the

state. So, do your research to determine the best option for you!

There are countless destination and elopement photographers all around the world that you can connect with via social media. If you are staying in the United States or traveling to another country, elopement photographers often make excellent tour guides. It is an even better investment if you choose to elope in the same place as your honeymoon.

You and your partner should feel like you are honoring each other’s wishes and love languages on your wedding day. For some this may mean choosing to have a more intimate ceremony, then heading to a huge after-party...compromise is key.

My tip for newlyweds is to have the same conversation my husband provoked at the kitchen table, “Are we really doing what feels most exciting and authentic for us?” If the answer is no, then get creative! My wedding was the most luxurious day –better than I could have ever imagined – and it did not break the bank! Most importantly, weddings are about having fun. It is a magical way to start your newlywed bliss, so regardless of what your dream wedding may look like, just remember that when you are intentional with your special day, it is rewarding and fosters a memory that holds zero regrets.

You are engaged! Now, it is time to start the planning and it is never too early to begin. If you have a year before you plan to tie the knot, here is a little guide to help you check things off your list leading up to the big day.

12 Months Out

F Determine your budget.

F Make a guest list.

F Hire a wedding planner.

F Decide formality and overall theme.

F Select the venue; while selecting your venue, throw out that pros and cons list and trust your gut— this decision is about how you feel when you’re there.

F Select the caterer.

11 Months Out

F Choose a color theme and start thinking of overall design.

F Hire vendors who book up quickly, including your photographer, band, DJ and videographer.

10 Months Out

F Start shopping for your wedding dress.

F Book hotel-room blocks for guests.

F Create your wedding website.

F Take engagement photos.

F Start looking at invitations.

9 Months Out

F Buy your wedding dress.

F Send save the dates.

8 Months Out

F Register for gifts.

F Select the bridesmaids’ dresses and schedule fittings within the month.

F Meet with potential florists.

7 Months Out

F Book the rehearsal dinner venue.

F Hire the ceremony musicians.

F Order rental items, such as specialty chairs, linens, draping, lounge furniture, white dance floor, etc.

F Hire an officiant.

6 Months Out

F Hire a lighting technician.

5 Months Out

F Book transportation for guests, if needed.

F Book the newlyweds’ transportation (limo, specialty car, etc.).

F Book the honeymoon.

F Buy or rent the groom’s tuxedo.

F Begin premarital counseling.

4 Months Out

F Have your final tasting with the caterer.

F Choose your cake.

F Buy wedding bands.

F Select the groomsmen’s attire and schedule fittings within the month.

F Do a hair and makeup trial.

3 Months Out

F Order the invitations and hire a calligrapher.

F Create or plan your menu.

F Brainstorm guest favors and gift bags.

F Write your vows.

F Select readings with the officiant.

F Start crafting any DIY items if you haven’t already.

2 Months Out

F Send the wedding invitations (with RSVPs due one month before the wedding).

F Send out rehearsal dinner invitations.

F Have your first dress fitting.

F Get your marriage license.

F Buy wedding-party gifts.

F Do a floral mock-up with your florist.

F Give the song selections to your band or DJ.

F Give the song selections to your ceremony musicians.

1 Month Out

F Assemble gift bags.

F Pay your vendors in full.

F Create a seating chart.

F Order or make your escort cards and place cards.

F Have a final venue walk-through.

F Put cash in tip envelopes for your planner/delegate to distribute.

F Break-in your wedding shoes.

YAY! Final Week!

F You made it! Make sure you’re breathing and power through.

F Practice your vows out loud.

F Chase any RSVP stragglers and deliver the final headcount.

F Get your eyebrows done.

F Have a manicure/pedicure.

F Pack your bags for the honeymoon; don’t forget your passport if you’re leaving the country and confirm all travel arrangements.

Night Before

F Can you believe it’s here?! It’s going to be a perfect and great day!

F Eat a healthy meal.

F Pack a clutch or small bag of personal items.

F Drink plenty of water!

F Get a good night’s sleep.

F Put any boxes, suitcases, bags and survival kits to bring to the ceremony or reception in the car! Prep for next day madness!

YOUR BIG DAY IS HERE!

F Eat breakfast

F Drink even more water.

F Take your dress and veil out of the bag early on and have someone steam them if needed.

F Lay out all the items that you want your photographer to capture.

F Exchange notes with your partner.

F Say thank you to everyone around you.

Memorable

and MagicalExperiences

Distinctive

Award Winning

All-Inclusive Venue in an amazing reclaimed rock quarry on the border of Thompson’s Station and Franklin.

#notabarn®

4520 Graystone Quarry Lane Franklin, TN info@graystonequarry.com graystonequarry.com

Marissa & Mitchell Potts

Photography: Janelle Elise Photo

Dress: Olia Zavozina, Nashville

Tuxedo: Men’s Warehouse

Hair & Makeup: Cheyenne Isbell, Revive Salon, Spring Hill

Venue: Graystone Quarry

PHOTO BY TOMAS BARRON